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{ "description": "wanting to donate to my boyfriends coworker", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to donate to my boyfriends coworker?
I hope this doesn’t come across as a post looking for validation if my actions were inappropriate, I’m genuinely curious if I went about things the wrong way. My boyfriend told me last week about a friend and coworker of his whose dog got badly injured and would be needing a costly surgery totaling over 3k. He mention...
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{ "description": "not tipping", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping?
For starters, we always tip, even for very mediocre service. I know wait staff depends on tips, but last night was frustrating enough to make me not want to tip at all. But I still feel like TA. Help me out here: We went out to a family friendly restaurant with our two children, relatively early in the evening. The re...
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{ "description": "denying someone my free craigslist stuff", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for denying someone my free Craigslist stuff?
My girlfriend and I recently moved into an apartment in Manhattan, and it is fairly smaller than our last place. So we've been finding various ways to get rid of a lot of our stuff, and one of the larger items we have is a big box of art supplies. As much as we'd like to sell it, there's a lot to go through and it woul...
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{ "description": "playing Smash Bros at an unofficial recital", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for playing Smash Bros at an unofficial recital?
So, for context, on Wednesdays at our school, we have this thing called 8th hour. School lets out 1 hour early, and we have about 1 hour until buses arrive. That one hour is called 8th hour and we can use it to do homework, basically do whatever. In the morning, my friend asks me if he can play Smash Ultimate against ...
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{ "description": "not telling my colleague his fiancée cheated on her with my ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not telling my colleague his fiancée cheated on her with my ex?
I will try and give as much info as I can on this messy situation. Me and my ex were colleagues, and after we split up, he slept with another colleague multiple times, went on dates and were flirting a lot via text. This colleague has a fiancé, who works for the same company as well, and they have a two year old toget...
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{ "description": "asking security to get a girl off the seats at a concert", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking security to get a girl off the seats at a concert?
I won't say what show I was at but we had floor seats in the very back row. They were $80 dollar tickets. I'm a pretty tall girl, so I can usually step on my toes or move over a little to get a line of sight to the stage. I still have to look through the heads of the very tall men ahead of me but it's floor seats...I ...
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{ "description": "reporting a girl for cheating and making her potentially lose her scholarship", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA if I report a girl for cheating and make her potentially lose her scholarship
There's this girl I used to be friends with. We met halfway through our freshman year of college, and had been friends up until the beginning of our sophomore year. We had a falling our when I finally snapped at her because she kept subtly calling me stupid and trying to one up me all the time. One example is when we...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to stop talking to a girl", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop talking to a girl?
So me (20M) and my girlfriend (21F) have been together for about 8 months. I knew since the beggining or our relationship that she is attracted to girls, which I didn’t really mind, because it has never previously been an issue for me. To give this story some background, she was on anti-depressants for almost a year (s...
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{ "description": "not texting her something cute on Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not texting her something cute on Valentine’s Day
So I just woke up not that long ago and I have a project due today, I don’t even have school, but I have to turn in this project that I have not gotten too far in by 7 and the rest of my day is going to consist of events with her and my family, I had to do it when I woke up and in the process I forgot to check my phone...
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{ "description": "stopping being friends with someone who keeps coming onto me", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stopping being friends with someone who keeps coming onto me?
So my old coworker and I were great friends when we worked together. We were pals for years and nothing was wrong with it we were just decent friends that saw a good superhero movie together every once in a while. This summer her came out to me as gay and I told him idc at all not a big deal you’re still my pal. But ...
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{ "description": "not taking out the garbage", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not taking out the garbage?
I make close to 0 amounts of garbage and when I do I put it in the garbage can that’s in my room, and take it out when it’s full. I live with roommates and they want me to take out the kitchen garbage. The way I see it is everyone should clean up after themselves. If I didn’t contribute anything to the main garbage can...
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{ "description": "not paying for someone's Metro Card", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for someone’s Metro Card?
I was at the train station in line to refill my subway card, and someone tapped me on the shoulder. They smiled and said, “hi, I don’t have a card on me, but would I be able to Venmo you and you can pay to add $20 to my metro card?” Now u understand where this person was coming from, but I had to catch a train and fran...
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{ "description": "cursing out my former high school bullies", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cursing out my former high school bullies?
It has been 20 years since I graduated from high school. In high school, I bullied everyday by a particular group of boys. They were very tall/large, popular, and played baseball. It was the 90's and I was a kid who dressed all in black - nothing way too over the top. Some black lipstick and pretty standard black cloth...
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{ "description": "saying \"ur moms retarded\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for saying “ur moms retarded”
I was sitting down with a couple of friends and I jokingly said to one of them “heck you”. She then said “you’re retarded”. I was not offended by this and was fine. I then said “ur moms retarded” (I’m sure we all know the ur mom joke by now and I don’t need to explain it). She then got super pissed at me and said her m...
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{ "description": "not letting them overtake me on the road", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
WIBTA if i don’t let them overtake me on the road.
As title says E.G I’m doing 40 on a 35 speed limit and a car behind me tries to overtake, I speed up and don’t let them get in the lane.
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{ "description": "not liking my roomate's gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking my roomate's gf
My roomate and best friend in college started dating a new (to our uni) transfer student last semester. She is the sweetest and most caring person i have ever met. Or so it seemed. As the semester went on, i realized she is actually very manipulative. She has secret intentions about everything, and has my roomie wr...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to replace an item she broke a year ago", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my friend to replace an item she broke a year ago?
I have an 11x9 ceramic baking dish/casserole tray that I use fairly often when I cook. It's my only deeper bakeware (I have several baking sheets but this one is about 4 inches deep) so it's good for things like brownies or baked mac n cheese. About a year ago, my roommate at the time used it to cook something herself....
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{ "description": "not getting my girlfriend anything for her birthday when I went to visit her", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For not getting my girlfriend anything for her birthday when I went to visit her?
Throwaway bc my mom will occasionally go on reddit and not log out of mine. This was about a week ago. Tl;dr at bottom So some context. My girlfriend lives in Germany and I live in the United States. We have been dating for about a year and a half. Anyway, so I decided to stay for her birthday. I stayed there for abo...
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{ "description": "cutting out an old friend I had issues with", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For cutting out an old friend I had issues with
I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm about to finish my first semester of college. Since about my freshman year of high school I have been in this friend group that has had a few guys come in and out of but it's mostly been Myself and 2 other guys, for their security ill call them Randy and Tyler. Randy and I have always b...
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{ "description": "being incredulous/annoyed with my bf for this", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being incredulous/annoyed with my BF for this?
This is such a silly thing and yet I haven’t really been able to shake it off, so I’m curious if I’m just over-reacting and being TA. Basically, my SO and I are huge Bojack Horseman fans and one night we were discussing who our favorite characters are. He said his was Mr Peanutbutter so I asked him to expand, if he saw...
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{ "description": "sharing my personal stories and opinions regarding the homeless population to my church group", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for sharing my personal stories and opinions regarding the homeless population to my church group?
So i meet with a church group a few times a month and each meeting there is a different public speaker that talks and answers questions before we break up into small groups for prayer and discussion about the points the Speaker makes. This week cops came in and talked about public saftey and whatnot, but their disc...
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{ "description": "submitting 8 movies to one subreddit in less than 24 hours where the rules say \"you may submit no more than 10 movies in 24 hours\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for submitting 8 movies to one subreddit in less than 24 hours where the rules say "you may submit no more than 10 movies in 24 hours"?
The rules literally said, "You may submit no more than 10 posts in a 24 hour period as to prevent spamming". This subreddit shares the same iconic movies over and over again so I decided to share 8 different movies. Not 10. Not 15. But 8 movies from the 1910's and 1920's in a couple of hours. I didn't share any more m...
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{ "description": "getting involved in others' business", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting involved in others' business?
Work retail. Heard a child crying. And I don't mean normal child crying. Like, this kid sounded so distraught. Like someone who wasn't his parent was taking him home. And I usually don't do this. I don't like to be passive, but everyone parents differently and I know I'm not the end all be all, so if I see some paren...
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{ "description": "being upset/angry when my boyfriend ditched my game for another girl", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset/angry when my boyfriend ditched my game for another girl?
Yesterday I had a couple games, and I had asked my boyfriend throughout the week to make sure he could come. We’re both almost done with high school and have been together for a year. He had plans with a childhood friend, who happens to be a girl, to go out on Thursday and then hangout at her house. For some reason s...
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{ "description": "keeping a stay cat we adopted after the owner reached out to us", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for keeping a stay cat we adopted after the owner reached out to us?
I really never thought I'd have something to post here. TL;DR at the end since I might as well just explain the entire event. So, my girlfriend moved in with me almost 2 years ago. About 6 months in she kept looking at cats on her phone and asking if I wanted one. We all know how this goes. One day, I came home and m...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because of her tattoos", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for breaking up with my GF because of her tattoos?
So I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years and in these 3 years we've had many fights because she decided to make a bunch of piercings and tattoos in which some of them I only knew did. Some of those piercings I liked and others I didn't which is normal. The problem is that every time I say that ...
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{ "description": "not letting a friend and his GF crash on my couch for over a week", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a friend and his GF crash on my couch for over a week?
My old roommate who recently moved out of state for a job was supposed to visit, and stay with me and my 2 roommates for a few days. This was totally fine by us and had been planned ahead of time. Now fast forward to a day before he is set to visit. He asks if it would be okay for him and his GF to stay anothe...
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{ "description": "charging my roommate money regarding utilities", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I charged my roommate money regarding utilities?
I live with two other females. One has been keeping up with paying utilities, even two weks behind is fine. Around December, my third roomate failed to pay me for utilities for over 2 months, causing our utility account to be canceled. Since cancellation, a $50 service fee is charged per person. We have repeatedly aske...
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{ "description": "assuming she was dating other men", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for assuming she was dating other men?
I (29m) have been dating this woman (30f) for a little under a year. She has some issues with self-esteem but has plenty of male friends that she talks to. A few months in to dating I asked her if she wanted to be official and she said she wasn't ready to be my girlfriend, which I took to mean she wasn't ready to be ...
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{ "description": "being rude to my father about his cleaning manners", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being rude to my father about his cleaning manners?
Hi, I wanted to start off by saying that me and my wife are expecting a child. She is 37 weeks pregnant right now. We bought the house from my father and are currently renovating and cleaning it. He's still living here for another 2 years as part of the agreement. It's been his house since it was built in 1992. He...
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{ "description": "wanting to get repaid for some hamburgers I made", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to get repaid for some hamburgers I made?
This was a while ago while I was a senior in high school when I had friends over for July 4th. (about 15 people) the plan was to grill and play some drinking games. So I bought around 40 dollars worth of food (mostly hamburgers and chips) beforehand by myself and afterwards I asked everyone to pitch in a few bucks each...
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{ "description": "not sharing a pretzel with a classmate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing a pretzel with a classmate?
Basically,pretzels are like 4 a dollar and I think everyone in the class has like 3-5 dollars for food per day,so they can buy pretzels too AITA for not sharing one with a toxic girl?like she is mean to me for no reason,she even told me to the teacher despite having 0 reasons to do that,I tried being nice to her,but s...
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{ "description": "leaning on her hair in the train", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaning on her hair in the train?
Today [I took a spot on the train](https://i.imgur.com/I00VjAO.jpg). (That's me in red, hello!) There was a woman sitting in the seat I was leaning against. She had large curly hair which had a lot of volume, her hair was entwined with the handle on the seat. I leaned back slowly as if to say 'Please move your hair a...
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{ "description": "booking a holiday for myself, against my parents wishes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for booking a holiday for myself, against my parents wishes?
Hi, bit of context. Next weekend, a few of my friends are coming down from a country town about 5 hours from me. I'm pretty close with both of them, and we all came up with the idea that I'd catch a train up (no room in their car, they're driving), and hang out up there with them for a few days. Initially, we did hav...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for only helping me minimally", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for only helping me minimally?
Me and my friend live in the countryside of Thailand for work. We both make only enough to eat, live, and go out sometimes as this is purely for gaining international experience, so we try to pay for things as minimal as possible. In Thailand, whenever we go to Bangkok, we use a ride hailing app to call rickshaws as th...
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{ "description": "asking boyfriend why he packed condoms for a trip he's taking without me", "pronormative_score": 707, "contranormative_score": 56 }
AITA for asking boyfriend why he packed condoms for a trip he's taking without me?
Sadly this is a serious question. In an exclusive (not open) relationship for 8 months. BF [30s] is leaving abroad for 3 weeks and invited me [also 30s] over last night since it was the last time we'd see each other for a while. He wasn't done packing for the trip, so there was stuff everywhere. I saw the condoms in...
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{ "description": "not telling my teacher that I'm not going to be his TA next semester", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I don’t tell my teacher that I’m not going to be his TA next semester?
Some background: I didn’t choose to be his TA in the first place, but my counselor put me into his class. I’ve never had him as a teacher before, and we hardly ever talked while I was his TA. We’re not friends, and I would go so far as to say we don’t even really have a strong working relationship. But next semester ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed about this", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed about this
Lemme start off by saying that I’m not a materialistic person. My bf and I have been together for 4 years, and for most of it, I’ve been the one to pay for everything. We don’t really get each other Christmas, anniversary, or Valentine’s Day presents. He recently got a job, so this year he insisted that we actually bu...
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{ "description": "attacking a girl who attacked my birthday present for my husband", "pronormative_score": 97, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for attacking a girl who attacked my birthday present for my husband?
Pretty short story. My husband turned 26 yesterday and I bought him a PS4 Pro and a game he enjoyed as a kid. I posted the pictures on my Facebook of what I’d bought him and his cousins girlfriend responded “oh, I bought that for (the cousin) on Christmas, you’re not special.” I immediately was pissed as fuck becaus...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "drawing an overweight girl as overweight", "pronormative_score": 360, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for drawing an overweight girl as overweight?
So me and my coworkers did a secret santa exchange this year. I don't know my giftee that well, but I knew she was a big cat person so I drew her on shrinking paper holding her cat and shrunk it down into an ornament. Now my giftee is a rather large girl and I drew her body type to represent that.. nothing super unflat...
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AITA Ex friend womt leave me alone and I'm considering going to the police
First time posting but I need to vent and get this off my chest. My ex best friend had become so problematic and toxic I had to walk away. Backstory: We were friends from about year seven up until the last few months. She started working and I eventually heard nothing from her. I understood she had work and still tri...
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{ "description": "talking on the phone during agreed upon quiet hours (after 10pm) and for kissing my bf during the day", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for talking on the phone during agreed upon quiet hours (after 10pm) and for kissing my bf during the day?
My roommate and I live in a suite-style double room and have been having some conflict since the beginning of the school year. Apparently the walls are super thin and she can hear everything, including whispering. She goes to bed really early and wakes up early as well. I don’t have as much of a structured schedule so ...
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "using emojis that don't directly reflect the tint of skin I have in real life", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for using emojis that don’t directly reflect the tint of skin I have in real life.
Some girl I’m friends with is calling me weird and kinda racist for using emojis with a darker reflection then I have. I in no way use the emojis as a way to ridicule or denigrate other races. Just to confirm that I read and acknowledged their message. 👍🏾. There isn’t a tint of emoji that matches my natural reflectio...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "telling my gf only I can joke about her ex's penis", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my gf only I can joke about her ex’s penis?
So, I know you guys will think I’m shit posting but I’m not I promise. A little backstory: Me and my gf got to talking about our exes and one way or another got to talking about who had the biggest penis of all of her exes. Spoiler it wasn’t me. Turns out to be this guy named, Riley. Well after learning about his la...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "snaping at a coworker for theit attitude", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for snaping at a coworker for theit attitude?
Backstory: I work at a pizza place as a delivery driver. I've been their the longest but don't hold any power over my coworkers. The job is not hard in any way but there is an amount of work we are each expected to do each day. Mainly prep. Wings, sauce, pastas, dishes, boxes, etc. I work morning shift and there are...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not letting my ex step brother stay over at my house for a week", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my ex step brother stay over at my house for a week?
I know I probably am an asshole but I just want it confirmed. Backstory: So my mum was married to a guy for 12 years, he was my 'dad' for that time ages 5 to 17 until they broke up and me and my mum and brothers moved out. So the step dad had a son from a previous marriage that broke down he was 3 years older than me...
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{ "description": "not wanting someone to come over", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting someone to come over
Throwaway account because said person knows my account. I recently moved in to an apartment a few months ago with my close friend from high school that I haven't seen in 5 years. My friend has an outgoing personality that loves hanging out with others and socializing. I like to be alone after a long day at work. ...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "uninviting my 'best friend' to a concert we bought tickets for together and taking someone else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for uninviting my ‘best friend’ to a concert we bought tickets for together and taking someone else?
I’ve only know this girl (Sara) for a little over a year, but in the beginning of our friendship we got really close really fast and hung out multiple times a week. She is so sweet and I genuinely do like her, but ever since she got with her boyfriend ~7 months ago she has been extremely flakey. Suddenly ‘had homework’...
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{ "description": "wanting my friend to aknowledge that he's romantically involved with someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my friend to aknowledge that he's romantically involved with someone?
I 33f have a friend 37m. We worked together for 6 years and since he left the company a year ago we've kept in touch and will occasionally grab lunch. He's a very open person, we read each other well and nothing we talk about ever seems awkward even when it's something I wouldn't feel comfortable discussing with other ...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to Australia without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For wanting to go to Australia without my Girlfriend?
So basically my friends and I enjoy travelling a lot. We’ve been many places together, both domestically and abroad. They recently found some cheap tickets to Australia and pulled the trigger to go there at the end of 2019. Here is the issue. My girlfriend and I spend a lot of time together. Probably 5-6 days a week. ...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "telling the husband of a friend that she is cheating on him", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I told the husband of a friend that she is cheating on him?
I got this friend, lets call her Cindy, that I know since elemntary school. We are both in our late 20ies now. She is now married to «John» and they have a son. Her family moved away so we lost touch. When I was 18 y/o, I've made some new friends and there was also John. One day John told us, that he met a girl and th...
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{ "description": "leaving the room once my wife falls asleep on the couch", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I leave the room once my wife falls asleep on the couch?
My wife loves to cuddle up on the couch with me fo watch TV. She doesn't usually last much longer than 9:30 or 10, and will fall asleep, usually using me as a glorified teddy bear. Which I dont mind at all. But on evenings that I dont work the next day, I often stay up very late. I'm very much a night owl. So on...
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{ "RIGHT": 17, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "tipping a man in quarters", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for tipping a man in quarters
I was on a ski camp with my ski team and went out to a German restaurant. Our waiter was mediocre and was really slow. We had to hours to spare and about an hour and a half in we asked for our bill. It totaled to $50 so I put a fifty dollar bill in and was going to ask for change. However, we waited another 20 minutes ...
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{ "description": "leaving my dad out when me and my mom go on vacation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my dad out when me and my mom go on vacation?
As a college graduation gift, my mom and I are going on a cruise. My dad and sister will not be be invited to go. My sister isn't going because she will get a gift as well when she graduates. There are a few reason why we aren't bringing my dad with. 1. We would need to get two cabins instead of one 2. It's a lot eas...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "cutting off a relationship of 6 years", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a relationship of 6 years?
I’ll try and keep this as short as possible I really just need some opinions here. So my first girlfriend ever, I’ll call her Kay had a really close and intense relationship for a year. A she was in a terrible spot when we dated as she lost a couple family members in the time we were dating and we ended up breaking th...
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{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "getting upset that new roommate brought her bf and bf's brother over at 4:30 am", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that new roommate brought her bf and bf's brother over at 4:30 AM
Recently got a new roommate(wife's longtime friend)because we wanted to help her out. She has pretty strict parents so I figured it would be nice to help her develop outside of her parent's control. Shes 23, is usually polite, and helps around the house. Well not even a month in and she brings her drunk bf and his brot...
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{ "description": "inviting someone who my friend doesn't like to the boxing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for inviting someone who my friend doesn't like to the boxing?
Throwaway account So in my friendship group there are 5 of us, one of them who we shall call "N" has slipped away and has become the odd one out of our group since he moved away. He isn't involved in our group chats on facebook and I have a feeling that the other 3 in my friend group don't really like him either. One ...
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{ "description": "confronting my coworker and asking them how they can be late every single day, after having them confront me about taking a 1.5 hour break a couple weeks ago", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For confronting my coworker and asking them how they can be late every single day, after having them confront me about taking a 1.5 hour break a couple weeks ago.
So we're going to call the person I am talking about B. Backstory: One time last month a couple co-workers asked me if I wanted to go to Whole Foods (or a similar place, that sells lunch.. I can't remember the name) so I decided to go, it was a holiday so it was closed and we ended up eating at some random Asian pl...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my niece is telling me everything about Tik Tok", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being annoyed that my niece is telling me everything about Tik Tok?
Hey. Let me explain, my niece is heavily addicted to Tik Tok, she tells me everything about it, I really didn't care too much. But nowadays she tells me everything. Later I told her i'm being annoyed by her telling me everything about Tik Tok. She didnt overreact, nor did I. She still didn't stop but she STILL tells me...
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aita (post about my auntie)
so I suffer from quite severe anxiety and have constant panic attacks. my dad never really believed I had anxiety even after mum showed him the doctors note that said I had it. he always told me to get over my panic attacks and that i was being silly. A few months ago we went on a cruise and the rocking triggered qu...
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AITA? If so, what could I have done differently?
I work at a grocery store as a "drug gm" (general merchandiser). A customer walked up to me and mentioned that how she heard something about a special deal of some sort (one that wasn't part of my department and that I wasn't aware of). She then pointed at a piece of paper that had some text on it (shopping list perhap...
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{ "description": "getting a drink after a final and not telling my so", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting a drink after a final and not telling my SO
This just happened, so I had a final (quarter system) that ended at 930PM when I usually end at 9PM. It was more rough then usual. I’m pursuing a doctorate in engineering, and wanted a drink. I knew my SO would question it since I havent spent much time with her since I’ve been studying so much and I work full time. I ...
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{ "description": "giving my d&d group cooking wine", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA If I give my d&d group cooking wine?
I've been hosting my d&d group at my home once a week for almost a year now. At the beginning of this group I generally bought a $10 bottle of wine and others would bring snacks. The problem is that I have bought wine every week, there have been about 3 times I remember not being in charge of the alcohol. Someone b...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not offering friends my leftovers", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not offering friends my leftovers?
My boyfriend, two of his friends, and I were out at a diner. We all ordered (intending to pay separately, as usual) and I ultimately wasn't that hungry so halfway through I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to finish my plate. This is pretty common and the two friends would've almost certainly seen me do this before. He ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 17, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "having sex with a girl that was about to end her relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For having sex with a girl that was about to end her relationship?
Just the day after I (19yo m) came back home from a trip abroad, me and two housemates decided to go out that night. One of my housemates had already invited two of her friends (f) (they had dinner with us) and me and my other housemate invited some of ours too (they arrived around 10pm). Anyways, we drank a lot and p...
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{ "description": "being unable to quiet my 2 year old's footsteps", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being unable to quiet my 2 year old's footsteps?
I live on the top floor of an apartment building with my 2 and 5 year old kids. Our downstairs neighbor complained that the 2 year old's footsteps are too loud. I spent $1000 on area rugs and padding, downstairs neighbor is still complaining and threatening to sue. He says I should just ask the 2 year old to walk more ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 20, "WRONG": 1 }
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AITA - Family vacation with kids, Inlaws, Brother In Law's family, and my single brother in law...
We just recently went on vacation. We all had a fantastic time. One of the things we agreed to do very early on in the trip was to split costs equally. This was mostly to help out my single brother in law since the rest of us were going as couples. Anyways, long story short, the trip was great. No issues whatsoever. F...
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{ "description": "being upset that my brother in-law cleaned our house", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for being upset that my brother in-law cleaned our house?
Throwaway because my husband Reddits. Neither my husband or I are neat freaks but I wouldn’t say we are total slobs either. There’s usually a bit of clutter on our dining room table and the bathroom may not be sparkling clean at all times, but it’s far from old food laying around or visible grime. I try to deep clean ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 13 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my friends over a video game", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my friends over a video game
I feel so babyish and stupid for this but I’m really in my feeling over this. So the background is I’ve been playing this game(NBA 2K) for about 4 years now with some friends. We play a 5v5 game mode. It’s just basketball if you asked someone who’s never played basketball how to play. So we got to this year we’ve all...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "sending an angry email to my lazy group members", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending an angry email to my lazy group members
It basically said that I'm pissed at losing about 80 points on the ONE THING I asked them to do. With multiple mentions that this was literally the only thing I asked from them. I'm worried because there's a small peer review section and now I fear they will mark me with zeroes because of this message.
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "asking my roommate not to bring his gf over all the time", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my roommate not to bring his gf over all the time?
My housemate and I (both guys) are both in our mid 20s and share a house together. There is a small kitchen/living room and two bedrooms upstairs. Ever since my roommate started dating his GF they are inseparable. They are always at our house and never hang out or sleep at her place. They cook together, eat together an...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "settling for a girl, only to leave her if I find somebody that is more like my preference", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA If I settle for a girl, only to leave her if I find somebody that is more like my preference?
I have not been in a relationship for over 8 years now. I'm 30 and I don't exactly feel desperate to be in a relationship, although I will admit that it would be nice to have a significant other. I've been talking to my therapist about my loneliness and various other issues and I told her that my reason for still bein...
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{ "description": "still playing music moderately loud after my neighbor complained about my noise level", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for still playing music moderately loud after my neighbor complained about my noise level?
The other day my neighbor complained about me playing music too loud which I totally understand I am a complete asshole for doing that. I REALLY don't want to be THAT neighbor. Still super embarrassed about it. I haven't played music for about a week after he warned me. Today I decided to play have a go at it again. I'...
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{ "description": "being wary of my girlfriend's lack of romance", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being wary of my (22M) girlfriend’s (18F) lack of romance?
I started dating my (18F) girlfriend just before the new year. Things have been excellent. Before I met her I had a tough mental health patch but I have gotten better with her help. Basically, things have been going quite well. We see eachother often, we laugh, we love eachother, and things are good. However, she’s not...
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{ "description": "returning the book that the author herself gave me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for returning the book that the author herself gave me?
Today at my university, 2 people were giving out copies of their books to anyone who was passing by. It was their first project apparently and, me being me, just accepted up a copy. I've been more conscious of the paper I've been wasting and also of the many books that I've bought but haven't read. So I thought I sho...
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{ "description": "being angry with my brother for planning a trip the same weekend as mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry with my brother for planning a trip the same weekend as mine?
So months ago me and my buddies planed a trip for our winter break . I was really excited to go since during the semester I stick to the books and really don’t go out much . I told my brother months ago about this trip and that he needs to cover for me at our family store since one of us has to be around to help our f...
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{ "description": "evading being in the army", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for evading being in the army?
In my country, conscription to the millitary is mandatory for all 18 year old men and women who're deemed fit, mentally and physically wise (and fit another couple of criteria). I have diagnosed depression, so naturally, they've let me go. I exaggerated the condition because I don't want to serve. Yesterday a kid in my...
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AITA:friend sold me a Nintendo Wii with broken game.
He returned the money for the game and I threw it away. I was short on money for another game so I took it out of the trash and soaked it in alcohol and got trade in credit at GameStop. I know I'm an asshole for trading it in scratched. But am I the asshole because my friend wanted it back to do the same? P.s. he didn'...
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{ "description": "ghosting my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my friend?
This all started a few years ago, when I moved to a new city and made friends with Debbie. Debbie had a "everyone who loves me, leaves" narrative, and eventually confided that she had a personality disorder. We became very close very fast, and while most of our hangouts included getting very drunk, we always had a good...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship after said friend posted pictures of my apartment online", "pronormative_score": 106, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ending a friendship after said friend posted pictures of my apartment online?
I’ve been dealing with some serious depression and my place is a mess- dishes piled up, food rotting, the works. It was legitimately disgusting, and I’m ashamed to admit how bad it was. After admitting how bad the situation was to two of my oldest friends (one friend of 10 years, another friend of 12), they volunteer...
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AITA- Girlfriend's child died...
My gf [30F] and I [26M] recently went through an extremely difficult time a few months ago. Jan 2019, her 7 year old son passed away (epilepsy). She also has her daughter (10) and I have my son (5). We have been dating for nearly 2 years now, and have an extremely healthy relationship. Amazing communication, trust, a...
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{ "description": "shutting my pregnant friend out during my miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for shutting my pregnant friend out during my miscarriage?
I found via text that my friend F wanted to end our 18 year friendship. It completely blindsided me. I made F talk to me on the phone the next day and found out she had been harbouring resentment on me for the last 1.5 yrs. She said that what caused it all was when I didn’t visit her at the hospital when she gave birth...
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AITA - I told my best friend that they might have BPD and after showing symptoms they agreed, they told their therapist, and their therapist doesn't want us to be friends anymore.
Throwaway for reasons that might be apparent later on, and some family knows my main. ​ So a little background, me and my best friend have known each other for about 4 years now and we met and primarily know each other online as we live on opposite sides of the US. We bonded at the time over playing a cou...
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{ "description": "asking my father not to tell people about my autism", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my father not to tell people about my autism?
Throw away because some people I know in real life know about my real reddit account. ​ When I was 16 I got diagnosed with PDD-NOS (a form of autism). If I say so myself (and what I hear from many others as well), you usually don't really notice that I have a form of autism aside from some social difficult...
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{ "description": "taking action against my neighbor and his dog", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking action against my neighbor and his dog?
So this has been going on for a while now, but I finally want to share it. For months now, my neighbor has been walking his dog WITHOUT a leash throughout the neighborhood, which is not allowed. We have some family in our neighborhood, so when we had Thanksgiving we also invited our neighbors, just to be kind. Our nei...
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{ "description": "picking up a girl that my friend refused to go for", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for picking up a girl that my friend refused to go for?
Very classic setting. We're in the library studying for our exam and we see two very cute looking girls at the copier, giggling away and making us smile in the distance. He told me "You see those two at the copier?" I literally answered "Say no more fam. I had the same thought." And he had his eye on the girl with a ye...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend is using sex as a power play", "pronormative_score": 64, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for thinking my girlfriend is using sex as a power play?
So I earlier today I was trying to make plans with my girlfriend for later tonight. She asked me if we could not have sex tonight since we do it pretty much every time we hang out and she just wants so time to chill and do other things. I told her no problem as I know we do it often so it doesn't really make a differen...
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{ "description": "insisting my girlfriend not drive illegally", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insisting my girlfriend not drive illegally?
TL;DR at the bottom. For context: My girlfriend and I live in a southern state known for racial profiling in traffic citations. She is black, and owns a luxury brand used car. This is important later. ​ My girlfriend currently does not have her driver's license. She also doesn't have a valid permit. This...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for having a lower sex drive", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I broke up with my girlfriend for having a lower sex drive?
I know this title sounds pretty bad but hear me out. We're both 19. I have a pretty high sex drive and I'm up for sex pretty much anytime of the day (obviously there are some times I don't feel it). It seemed like my girlfriend was pretty similar at the start of the relationship, but now (7 months later), her sex dri...
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{ "description": "telling a girl I didn't share feelings for her after she (apparently) jokingly said she loved me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl I didn't share feelings for her after she (apparently) jokingly said she loved me?
Ok, so out of the blue today I got some weird texts from a girl I was friends with through middle school before she moved at the start of high school. I am a senior now so it's been about 3 years since I've seen her. She is still good friends with one of my good friends and took her phone today to text me that she lo...
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{ "description": "cutting Ties with this individual", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Cutting Ties With This Individual?
So, back in 2016 I met an internet friend in a Facebook group I adminned. This internet friend has always been sort of sketchy and has refused to show me his face or send a recording of his voice (he says this is because his English skills are poor, he lives in an Eastern European country). Anyway, despite this I have ...
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{ "description": "asking artists/preformers to sign material that isnt theirs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For asking artists/preformers to sign material that isnt theirs
I Have the Willam Belli book, I had originally got the book just for her to sign at a meet and greet with 6 queens from Rupauls drag race. I had intendent buying merch at the event but the merch table was never put put. So I asked the queens there to sign my Willam book They all did it and were reaaly nice about it O ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my husband did not celebrate my birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting upset that my husband did not celebrate my birthday?
It was my birthday a while back, my husband was on work trip. He messaged me a sweet birthday wish at 12 am on my birthday. Just to be clear on his birthday I hand picked many items I knew he'd love, and wrapped everything in a very cute way for him. Every birthday I do something nice/thoughtful for him. I put a lot of...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to my girlfriend anymore", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being attracted to my girlfriend anymore?
We got together when we were 20 but soon turned to long distance relationship. I was a small guy to begin and she was bigger than me but we never minded then. Four years passed and she gained 20 kgs to become around 85kgs with 152cms and I gained 10 to around 66kg with 173cms. She also became quite sick in this time wi...
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AITA
So in 6th grade our combined classroom (two connected classrooms) had a "2 days until school is over" day. Basically we spent the whole day outside and played activities like dodgeball and an obstacle course. Both classrooms would compete for the better overall score. About one third of the way through the day, I noti...
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{ "description": "lying to my bf and letting him believe his ex cheated on him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for lying to my bf and letting him believe his ex cheated on him?
I know this sounds really bad but just hear me out. it's been eating me up inside so I'd like some feedback. We're currently college seniors and we started dating only 4 months ago. For his first two years he was dating another girl that I somewhat knew since we're in the same sorority but I wasn't close to. I had a ...
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{ "description": "Yelling at my roommates for being Loud", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Yelling at My Roommates for Being Loud
Context. I live with 5 other people in a two story house. So recently the social area has moved to the upstairs living room for whatever reason and I typically go to bed before everyone else. The issue however is that everyone now congregates right outside my room and are usually laughing and screaming until the odd h...
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{ "description": "not wanting my grandmother's truck", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my grandmother’s truck?
Unfortunately my year has been off to a rough start, my grandmother that I was very near and dear to passed away suddenly. My mother (an only child) was especially hurt by this but gets better by the day. We’re slowly going through her assets and what not and one of those is her truck. It’s a 2006 model truck but she t...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for taking someone's gas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my friend for taking someone’s gas.
I have a friend who said she pulled up to a gas pump was prepaid enough to fill her empty tanks. She began thanking the lord on social media for her blessing explaining how he knew she was struggling and bestowed a gift to her etc etc. I pointed out that she stole someone else’s gas and maybe that person themselves are...
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{ "description": "not forgiving my dad for his abuse", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not forgiving my dad for his abuse?
So to give some context about the situation. My dad and I are not on speaking terms for a variety of reasons. The most important one being, that through out middle school he physically abused me. It started around the time I was going into middle school. He started getting into meth and drinking alcohol more. When h...
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