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{ "description": "telling my opinion on the Swastika symbol towards a Roma girl", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my opinion on the Swastika symbol towards a Roma girl
It all started with a Jewish girl on Twitter being hurt by her fave being incredibly ignorant a few years ago and wearing a hat where a small skeleton head + some swastika was printed. Somehow there is a weird fascination of nazi culture in Asia I‘ve heard? Anyway my mutual (the Roma girl; also being a fan of that pe...
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{ "description": "secretly being happy when the local NFL franchise gets beaten", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for secretly being happy when the local NFL franchise gets beaten.
Most of my family and friends love the team, but in my defense I am talking about the Eagles. I don’t even like football but Eagles fans are so obnoxious and can’t comprehend someone not being blindly loyal their mediocre hit and miss team that I love it when they lose and everybody shuts up about it!
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{ "description": "reaching out to my ex-best friend and confronting her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for reaching out to my ex-best friend and confronting her?
My ex-bff and I had been friends for 15 years. In that time we have been roommates, party girls, closer than sisters, and in love with our relationship. Like sisters, we have had our share of fights and disagreements, but we always made it out the other end. Last summer she had become very abusive. I won’t get into t...
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{ "description": "calling security on my long distance, military girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For calling security on my long distance, military girlfriend?
Possible trigger warning, references sexual assault. Long story short, my GF and I met online. She was supposed to be stationed near me but then got reassigned last minute to the opposite side of the world. I liked her enough to try and make things work. She was there for about a week before she was raped. I won't ...
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{ "description": "asking my brother's gf to only be at our apartment when he's there", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my brother’s gf to only be at our apartment when he’s there?
So my brother recently started dating this girl he’s been trying to get for four years. It’s been a month and they are already in love...I’m happy for him, he’s not depressed anymore and that’s great, but we live in a two br apartment and we share a lot of space. Recently his gf has starting spending the night and co...
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{ "description": "telling my parents they're selfish for not saving for retirement", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my parents they’re selfish for not saving for retirement ?
My parents refuse to save for retirement. They insist that things will just “work out”. They are both in their early 40s and don’t have a dime saved. I try to explain that they should put aside a little each month for housing and medical expenses in the future but they don’t care, it will all “work out”. I explained th...
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{ "description": "getting a group of old people kicked out of the gym", "pronormative_score": 120, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting a group of old people kicked out of the gym
On mobile so sorry about formatting So I go to the gym regularly. I usually go in around 6 or 7 and I'm out by 9ish. With the new time change and my fiancee getting a new job it has thrown me off a bit so I have been going to the gym later. My gym pretty much consists of the elderly (I'm 25 myself) with a few othe...
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{ "description": "having enough and storming off? and not inviting them back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having enough and storming off? And not inviting them back?
Yesterday was my husband and my anniversary. He planned a whole thing and I had been looking forward for weeks. Last minute we had some friends from college, they live like 2 hours a way, roll into town. So after our wonderful date we take a cab to the party our "friends" are at because we are both drunk. The party...
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{ "description": "not liking one of my so's friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not liking one of my so’s friend
My so has a female friend who tends to rub me the wrong way. She generally just gives me bad vibes but I do have actually reasoning to not like her. My first reason is this; my so drove to my house while being under the influence and I was really upset about it. I borderline yelled at him because I was shocked he’d do...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my brother every time we go out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my brother every time we go out?
I work remotely while also studying in college and honestly it's a lot to do but I gotta because I come from a pretty backward family and I'm a lil afraid they won't pay for me to do a Masters or leave the country cause I'm a girl. So I know I have to be twice as good as everyone else to get a job abroad or study at a ...
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{ "description": "deadbolting our door", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for deadbolting our door?
Today, I had a random man show up at my apartment asking for money after mistakenly opening the door thinking it was the matienance man. He looked inside the apartment and comment on our nice decorations. I gave him some change and sent him on his way. I'm a young woman and my roommate is often off working 90% of the...
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AITA? Whose in the wrong here??
AITA So am I the asshole here? My fiance and I have been together a while now. A few days before new years, I told her I had something planned for midnight on the first. So it comes around and it's almost midnight, I'm going to get her from work in a sec and I get a \*ding\* from my phone. She says she's going to her...
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{ "description": "lurking on dating apps", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lurking on dating apps?
I (18M) rarely reply to messages from interested people. I'm online pretty regularly, I just am not very active in messaging guys back. Some people have noticed. I've gotten strings of repetitive messages asking why I'm not replying multiple times. I get a lot of dick pics which aren't my favorite thing in the world, b...
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{ "description": "wanting to be repaid for a $70 \"vape\" oil cartridge", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to be repaid for a $70 "vape" oil cartridge.
Hi all. Pretty short most, but I've had mixed responses and so I'm just looking for an objective opinion. For reference, if you couldn't guess, we are all in our 20s. A week ago I was at a friends house. We were all relaxing, passing around various bongs and my vape pen. A friend of a friend shows up, and while I was...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay for the cremation of an animal I accidentally killed", "pronormative_score": 122, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I refused to pay for the cremation of an animal I accidentally killed?
Please read this because I know the title is wild and seems clickbaity but idk how else to shortly describe the situation? Monday driving home from work on a country road just a mile from home, a dog suddenly popped out of a cornfield a few feet from the road chasing something and I hit it. I tried so hard to break, ...
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{ "description": "being angry that my ex didn't like that he was the most important person to me, and that he didn't like saying \"I love you?\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry that my ex didn’t like that he was the most important person to me, and that he didn’t like saying “I love you?”
Title kinda says it all. This happened while we were still together. **He is no longer the most important person to me.** We were together for almost three years. I had an argument with him and I told him that he was the most important person to me. That made him INCREDIBLY uncomfortable, and he told me that he should...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on these kids", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on these kids?
Context: I live in a house on a corner, it's quite secluded and gets very dark at night because there's no street lighting. There's no houses in front of our house, so it's a fairly popular place for kids to hang out and drink or smoke or whatever during the night. There are several incidents theft and I've noticed s...
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{ "description": "ghosting a girl who I think maybe a gold digger", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For ghosting a girl who I think maybe a gold digger?
Over two years ago in Sept 2016 I basically confessed my love for this girl that I met at Uni that I was friends with and I felt like she liked me back because I bought her like 1k worth of gifts and she took them an we always flirted. When I revealed to her that I really liked her she said she always thought of me as ...
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{ "description": "resenting my sil and mil for treating my husband like the surrogate husband/father for their blended family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for resenting my sil and mil for treating my husband like the surrogate husband/father for their blended family?
Let me preface this by saying - I am struggling with what my own feelings are about this situation, and maybe this actually belongs on relationship advice but because i think think it's entirely possible that i'm being a selfish asshole in this situation (and in the brief arguments i've had with my DH about it, its pre...
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{ "description": "wanting all of my money back", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting ALL of my money back?
So *quite* a while back I hired a small group of like 2 guys to 3D print me an epic diorama of the Mygeeto fight scene in Revenge of the Sith, what with the galactic marines and all. It's stupidly expensive and in hindsight I somewhat regret having it commissioned (slightly more than 1,500$). It's been over a year in t...
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{ "description": "meeting my friends before finishing work for my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For meeting my friends before finishing work for my mom?
So this happened today I am 18 and still live at home with my mom, i do a lot of chores at home (like laundry, cooking, dishwasher stuff) and today she planned on cleaning the windows and putting new blinds on them. I got up early and spent a bit more than 2 hours getting all the windows extra clean for her. I ask her...
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{ "description": "being upset I was invited to wedding but not reception but wasn't told this until after gifting a wedding present", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For being upset I was invited to wedding but not reception but wasn't told this until after gifting a wedding present.
Two friends of mine were married today, I am friend with him and my long time girlfriend is even closer with her. The two of them had an engagement party, which we were invited to and was told by them this was an acceptable (and expected) time to bring gifts, we spent ~$100 on something and had a great time. My girlf...
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{ "description": "jumping the queue", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for jumping the queue.
The weather was okay and I was second in line (of about four) for the taxi queue. As one taxi pulls into the queue an older lady comes up. The man who is first in line says "I'm going to let her through because she's old". He helps her into the taxi and it leaves. A few minutes later a woman with a trolley and a todd...
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{ "description": "not being cuddly with a kid who tried to steal a purse", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not being cuddly with a kid who tried to steal a purse?
So me and my family + friends went to a restaurant to celebrate Yalda night (longest night of the year). While one of our friends had gone to the bathroom and most of the others were dancing, a little kid (5-6yo I think) walked up and just grabbed my friend’s purse from her chair. When he started walking away i dashed ...
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{ "description": "telling friends to stop bothering me with their relationship BS", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling friends to stop bothering me with their relationship BS?
So first off: I've (m, 23) never been in a relationship, and I probably never will be. I get the theory and all, but I don't think I'm able to love anyone that way. I don't mind, I believe this grants me a lot more time for what I like to do and I don't have to worry about crappy drama. For whatever reason many of my ...
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{ "description": "asking him to stop making moves when I'm intoxicated", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I asked him to stop making moves when I’m intoxicated?
I’m an alcoholic. When I drink, I can get handsy, but generally don’t unless someone makes the move first. He doesn’t drink when I do, usually. I’ve slept with him sober maybe less than 6 or 7 times. My problem is that I wake up w/ marks, or something telling me that I slept with him, but I’m rarely coherent enough t...
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{ "description": "not following a friend's girlfriend's wishes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not following a friend's girlfriend's wishes?
To clarify up front: I am female and my friend is male. We also have hooked up in the past, but have been completely platonic for about 2 1/2 years now, and both understand and agree a relationship is NOT a possibility Anyway my best male friend recently got a girlfriend (yay!). We are both in univeristy and she goes ...
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{ "description": "giving a scathing review of my boss during an exit interview", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I gave a scathing review of my boss during an exit interview?
My boss makes my life absolute hell, but he’s a good person. He doesn’t know what he’s doing, he wastes company money and time going after bullshit, and he works my coworkers and me to the bone. For context, I’m one of three Graphic Designers at my company. I am hired full-time with exempted status, meaning I don’t g...
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{ "description": "bringing up my BF's weight during conversations about his health/style", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing up my BF's weight during conversations about his health/style?
We've been together for almost a year and my BF lives a **very** sedentary life. He games all day, drinks tea/sweets, and does eat somewhat healthy (veggies, meat, etc.) but I think it's mainly his portion control/inactivity. I have no problem with his weight; I love him the way he is, but I think I may have been lacki...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with someone for being insecure", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with someone for being insecure?
My friend V, she’s has some really really bad mental problems. Most people in our friend group do but she has it the worst I care about her, but it’s so exhausting comforting her because she just refuses to ever listen to anything I or anybody says She also is kind of,, I don’t know, for lack of a better word, selfis...
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{ "description": "aggressively yelling at my wife, and more importantly, is our child being abused", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for aggressively yelling at my wife, and more importantly, is our child being abused?
I very aggressively yelled at my wife. I do not yell much, hardly ever, but when I do it's intense. My middle-school child is applying to a new school. He is deep in the (rushed) application process and was setup to take an at-home version of the test so we could simulate real-world test conditions and give him a fe...
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{ "description": "wanting him to trust me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting him to trust me?
this is my alt and my boyfriend is blocked on this account so he won’t see this post. english is also not my first language, so i’m sorry if there are grammatical errors. i am also on mobile. my boyfriend (19M) dated a girl (19F) i (18F) went to high school with (we weren’t friends) and she cheated on him using every ...
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{ "description": "doing a group project on my own forcing my partner to do it alone", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for doing a group project on my own forcing my partner to do it alone?
LTL FTP on mobile. I recently got assigned to do a group project in which you make a piece of food on video and show the recipe for Spanish class. Since I was a freshman in a higher level class, I picked the only kid I really knew in the class. We organized to do the project this Sunday as it was the only day I was fre...
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{ "description": "confronting my own mom about her bingo habits", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my own mom about her bingo habits?
I want to preface this post by first saying that along with all of you here, i love my mom. I want to know AITA and if so how i could help her better. My mom is the sweetest person i have ever met, and a phenomenal woman. I am proud of her in so many ways. She is loving, and is always one to hold everyone together. S...
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AITA; my partner accidentally forwarded me my Christmas gift and he found out that I hated it.
Hey Reddit. Throwaway for obvious reasons. ​ My partner and I have been together for 1.5 years. We get along really well and have had a really good month, until last night. I was working afternoon shift at work when I got an email, and it was from him. He has accidentally sent me my xmas gift, which is a ...
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{ "description": "pranking my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for pranking my friends?
AITA for pulling a prank on my friends? So myself and 7 coworkers are all friends. We hang out a lot after work and on the weekends, etc. A few of us are new this year, I’ve been working here for less than a year. The way our workplace runs, our manager changes every April. Our new manager is very nice and we get a...
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{ "description": "thinking my boss is horrible", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my boss is horrible?
I could go on and on, but I feel like this is the straw that breaks the camel's back. We are two people short due to someone leaving and another being out for workplace injury. It is left to my boss and I to run the store. She consistently changes the schedule to fit her needs. I had a day scheduled off on Sunday and...
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{ "description": "being tired of your mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being tired of your mental health issues?
Am I the asshole? Gonna keep it short and sweet, my (25M) girlfriend(27F) of 3 years says I stress her out. She says she's dealing with mental health issues anxiety, stress, depression, she's also gained weight to the point where she was clinically declared morbidly obese. I'm tired of hearing excuses when I'm working...
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AITA lost a friend
So a while go I had a friend who I'll just call 5, we had a falling out. (This is all happening in a groupchat cause I had just moved away around 3 weeks ago and we couldn't meet anymore since I was so far away.) So this guy, I met all my friends through him (I'm still friends with everyone but him) and originally he ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay 50/50 on rent", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay 50/50 on rent?
First, some context. My partner and I were temporarily living in her mother’s home. Her mother was not living there at the time as she wanted to live with her current partner. She ended up selling the house, and so my partner and I began looking for places to rent. Her mother made it very clear that she would be cover...
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{ "description": "having a nosebleed and not cleaning it up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for having a nosebleed and not cleaning it up?
I'm sorry for bad formatting if it occurs, I'm on mobile. Some names for the story: me [14], and J [brother, 16]. We're sharing a hotel room with our parents (half term break) on holiday. I wake up and he's at the shelf that we kept our phones charging on overnight and I ask him if he can get mine. He gets it, and I s...
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{ "description": "getting rides from my friend and drinking his beer", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting rides from my friend and drinking his beer?
Title probably makes it sound like I'm just a bum, but I couldn't figure out how else to word it without being too longwinded. Right now, I'm a junior in college. Last year I had my car with me because my apartment had plenty of parking spaces on site. This year however, I'm living in an apartment complex which doesn'...
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{ "description": "not being excited someone was asking parents for permission to marry their daughter", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA-for not being excited someone was asking parents for permission to marry their daughter?
My coworker and I were talking about how after work she was going to go cut a friends hair because he was going to propose and he wanted to look sharp. I'm laughing and smiling along, happy for the guy, marrying someone is a big thing after all, when she drops the bomb that hes going to go ask the parents for permissio...
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AITA for my gf and I keeping our income low to apply for lower income housing.
Ok so this is weird. My girlfriend and I have been looking to move in together so we’ve been searching for apartments. My parents recently onformed me that they’d be moving to Phoenix, AZ in August so I would need to find my own place. A lot of the apartments were too expensive for our budget but we found 1 that we’...
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{ "description": "calling out my gf's sleep farting", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for calling out my gf’s sleep farting?
The gf really embarrassed me earlier in the week by telling our group of friends an embarrassing story about me and an unfortunate erection I got at her parents. I wasn’t mad about it, but I did figure the gloves were off and made some jokes about the monster farts she rips in her sleep. According to her I crossed a l...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend of 9 months because I felt things for another girl", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend of 9 months because I felt things for another girl?
I was with my girlfriend for 9 months and she was always great and super affectionate. She would send me those Instagram “relationship memes” and I truly felt appreciated. But there was something missing, I did have some problems with her. About 2 months ago I started to feel things for another girl but nothing happene...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go through with sexual encounter", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go through with sexual encounter
My girlfriend wants me to have sex with her in weird places in public. She says its something we have to work on to make sure we are compatable. Like in a car, in a park, in a classroom. This sort of stuff thrill her. I dont want to. She said I had to work with her thats what couples do in disagreements and said l...
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{ "description": "bailing on my friends while going through a rough time", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bailing on my friends while going through a rough time?
TL;DR at bottom So for about a month or two, me and 3 other people (best friend, close friend and her boyfriend) were planning on taking a few days off of work and stay in a hotel in a little town not too far from here. We were planning on going to a casino, going out and seeing the town, some drinks, maybe the...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed that some of my family won't call me by my chosen name", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting annoyed that some of my family won’t call me by my chosen name?
I (22f) was given a formal name at birth but my parents chose to call me by a nickname for most of my childhood. This nickname is not a shortened version of my given name but a different name altogether. When I was 15 I started going by my given name and have repeatedly asked my family members to call me this name. Sp...
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{ "description": "getting in touch with my friends soon to be fiancé and tell her that he uses her to free his family off their debt", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for getting in touch with my friends soon to be fiancé and tell her that he uses her to free his family off their debt?
So this happened a few days. My friend is dating a girl which he said he didn't enjoy anything other than the luxury of having a gf whose father is rich thus getting access to some luxury holidays and presents. So we were just sitting there talking about our future and what would happen to us to which he replied that h...
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{ "description": "bailing on a family vacation because they told me I had to suddenly plan all the logistics a week before we all fly out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bailing on a family vacation because they told me I had to suddenly plan all the logistics a week before we all fly out?
I haven’t seen my family in a while. My dad proposed a nice vacation spot. He mentioned he has friends in the area and he told me he’s been looking at brochures, etc. Awesome, I agree and book my flight and so does my dad, mom and brother. This was about a month ago. Today, a week before we fly out - my parents tell m...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate that his long-term gf is cheating on him", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I told my roommate (26m) that his long-term gf (25f) is cheating on him?
Need some brutal honesty about what I consider to be a morally grey area. My boyfriend is really good friends with John (26m), and has been for years. They've been roommates for a long time, during which time John started dating Jane (25f). They became pretty serious and Jane moved in with them about two years ago. I...
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{ "description": "not apologizing about a video", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For not apologizing about a video
I work for a church where my job is to make videos. One of the videos I have to make weekly are announcements about stuff going on in the church. A year & a half ago I began making them funny, grabbing onto any gimmick that I thought was humorous & it has been well received, even the ones that I thought were ri...
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{ "description": "speaking up about my niece's speech delays to the in-laws because SIL seems to not see the impact", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for speaking up about my niece’s speech delays to the in-laws because SIL seems to not see the impact?
My SIL/BIL are wonderful parents who love their children. They have 3 children with one more on the way. They prescribe to more of the free range parenting style then my husband and I with our kids, but so what, to each their own. However, there is this one area that we feel should be address in a more direct way as th...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my long-distance gf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my long-distance gf?
We dated for a year and then I got into my first pick school and moved away, we decided we would try and make it work by visiting each other as much as possible but we live on opposite sides of the country and neither of us can afford to travel often enough. I really like her but I'm realizing more and more that this i...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to stay with my girlfriend
I'm \[Asian American M 20\] currently a second year college student. ​ I met my girlfriend \[21\] last year. To me, she's perfect; she's loving, caring, and helped me so much with getting through a rough patch of my life. ​ My parents think otherwise. See, she's from a poorer economic backgrou...
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{ "description": "telling my pre-med friend to push through his depression", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my pre-med friend to push through his depression?
So we're both junior pre-meds and my friend hasn't been coming to classes (where attendance is unfortunately required). He's expecting me to give him the clicker answers and give him homework answers because he's depressed. Look, I get it, apathy is a symptom of depression but the reality is, no one's going to hold you...
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{ "description": "criticizing my best friend of 3 years for not talking to me or including me in her life", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for criticizing my best friend of 3 years for not talking to me or including me in her life?
So, this story is a little complicated and will take a bit of exposition to give you the full picture. My best friend [18 F] and I [19 M] have been friends for about 6 years now, but it wasn’t until about 3 years ago that she and I started getting really close. Sure, we’ve had our ups and downs in our relationship; pe...
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{ "description": "cancelling the trip to see my gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for cancelling the trip to see my GF ?
Repost without the whole conversation and added a TLDR. So, background. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. We both have difficult personalities due to difficult past, difficult previous relationships and upbringings. We're both oversensitive. During these 7 months together, we broke up more times th...
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{ "description": "cutting out my best friend of my life", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out my best friend of my life?
Alright here is a quick TL;DR of my life the past few months. You can read more in my post history, but basically I met this girl, we fell in love, we both have mental issues, she keeps on pulling me close to her to the point where I would do anything for her, even die, and every time she pushes me away. Last night I c...
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{ "description": "not sitting through my dad's hip replacement surgery", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not sitting through my dad’s hip replacement surgery?
This morning I brought my dad to the hospital at 5 am for his hip replacement. I hugged him, told him I loved him, and said I’d be there later to visit with my older sister. He’s had his other hip replaced by the same surgeon years prior, and he did great. I left and went home to sleep and eat. Though I did not do eith...
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{ "description": "parking in the reserved space for \"parents with Toddlers\" when I'm not a parent", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for parking in the reserved space for “Parents with Toddlers” when I’m not a parent?
Our area supermarket expanded last year and now it’s a big warehouse store. There’s like 300 parking spaces, but one of these spaces is reserved for parents with toddlers. I drive an hour and half to work one way each day. On Wednesday night I was getting back to into town around 9:45pm. I had to go grocery shopping w...
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{ "description": "saving animals", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for saving animals?
I’m a vegan and I like to talk to people about veganism to try to get them to at least use less animal products, but they say I’m an asshole for trying to shame them for using animal products. Yeah, they’re terrible people for it but I don’t try to shame them.
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{ "description": "correcting the record about sex with my gf", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for correcting the record about sex with my gf?
Gf had some silly ideas about men and sex. She thought it was the most important thing in my life and kinda a get out of jail free card. Also she would use it to talk me into doing stuff I didn’t want to do. I’m at fault here for letting it go on as long as I did. Sex with her is pretty great and I would go alon...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad walking me down the aisle at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I don't want my dad walking me down the aisle at my wedding?
TL;DR: My dad wants to walk me down the aisle and my sister thinks I'm a dick because I don't want to. Don't get me wrong. My dad and I have a great friendship. He is kind and generous and sweet. But I don't want to walk down the aisle with anyone but my fiancee. When I told my family this my dad seemed a bit hurt an...
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{ "description": "refusing to leave shared apartment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to leave shared apartment?
I (26m) and my girlfriend (25f) have been in a relationship for a little over two years. We moved in together after a year, both of our names are on the lease. I thought we had a real connection but I guess she thought differently. Two days ago she sat me down in tears telling me she had to confess something to me. She...
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{ "description": "going to my local Healthcare Center and making a complaint about my family doctor", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I went to my local Healthcare Center and made a complaint about my family doctor?
Afew days ago I went to my local Healthcare Center and had an appointment with my family doctor. I went there because I have Tonsillitis and it reached the point where I have a sore throat and high fevers. I talked about it and asked if I could take any medication to help or if I had to have my tonsils removed. After t...
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{ "description": "reusing to say \"christmas\" in front of my christian family even though I left the \"faith\" (roflmao) years ago", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for reusing to say "christmas" in front of my christian family even though I left the "faith" (roflmao) years ago.
Posting from a throwaway since I use my regular account on craft subs where the sister I just had the huge blow up with is also active. So I was at our family's annual superbowl/womenbeatingday party which is usually pretty fun because for the most part it's the only day I see all of my brothers and sisters in one pl...
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WIBTA if I kind of purposefully messed up my girlfriends sisters life?
So the situation requires quite a hefty chunk of context, I'll do my best to explain, fair warning I'm not the worlds best writer. My girlfriend is one of the the nicest people I've met in my life, and honestly it'll regularly be to her own detriment unfortunately (she's by no means a sucker but the people that do the...
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{ "description": "asking grilfriend to see a doctor to improve our sex life", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking grilfriend to see a doctor to improve our sex life?
Some context here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over a year, and things have been going really great. My girlfriend suffers with fibromyalgia, and as a result of this also has to deal with vaginismus. The vaginismus has caused our sex life to deteriorate over the past six months, and we haven't even...
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{ "description": "not conserving/hide my poop and fart sounds at the university bathroom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I don’t conserve/hide my poop and fart sounds at the university bathroom?
I tend to fart and make loud shits when I use the bathroom. It’s pretty gross actually. You can hear me poop and go “ahhhh” sometimes. AITA? I’ve heard people mumble “gross” when I do this. This isn’t a shit post. I’m being completely serious. I just want to rip it all out
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{ "description": "announcing a fake pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 35 }
AITA for announcing a fake pregnancy?
Yesterday, on April Fool’s day(this being the critical tidbit here), I announced on social media that my wife and I were expecting our second child. April Fools! We’re not. Specifically I posted “[Birth Announcement] 2: Electric Boogaloo, Due Fall 2019”. Of course there were some people who took it at face value and li...
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AITA - for not wanting my 4 year old son to have a relationship with his grandmother?
So, there is a lot of backstory here but I will try to keep it brief. I am 29 and a single father, my sons mother has him on the weekends. My mother lives in the area (about 30 miles away) and I do not have contact with her and have not in many years. To put it simply she was a horrible mother. I moved out at 16 (junio...
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WIBTA - If don't hold my dog while she is being euthanized?
Our dog is 16. For many reasons, we have determined it is time to euthanize her rather than let her suffer. She is blind and deaf with a host of other issues. Neither my wife (who is really the dog's owner as she had the dog before we were married), nor I really want to hold the dog or even be in the same room while ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife that ending every sentence with \"yeah\" is annoying", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my wife that ending every sentence with "yeah" is annoying?
This particular use of the word is something of heard from other areas of the world for years, but not in my area of the US. As an example she might say, "We should do something this weekend, yeah?" or "I bet you'd like some carrot cake, yeah?". We've lived in the same area for years and this is a new thing that she ...
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{ "description": "not telling close friends of mine my real name", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling close friends of mine my real name.
As a child I always went by a nickname, this nickname persisted throughout my teenage years and childhood. Add to that I am not fond of my legal name so, I go by my nickname even in professional settings. My nickname is not something outlandish it's a very common name in the states. Some of my closest friends don't kno...
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{ "description": "not getting out to pump gas for my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not getting out to pump gas for my mother?
On mobile- sorry My mother and I are on a 500+ mile round trip. I drove the entire day yesterday and spent the day before getting the car prepped for the trip (oil change, new engine air filter, etc). Earlier today we had to stop for gas on the way back and my mother thought it was a bit rude that I didn’t offer to fi...
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{ "description": "being indecisive about my relationship", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being indecisive about my relationship
Going to make this 3 year long roller coaster as short as possible but still give context. Of course, this is just my side of the story. I wasnt the best either. her name is "Jade" We were together for 2 years and she and after a huge fight and she tried to kick me out. After the dust settled we calmed down and I to...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wife to get another job and take a 50% pay cut", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for not wanting my wife to get another job and take a 50% pay cut?
For years she has been unhappy and I have encouraged her many times to move to another position or company. She had never wanted to quit for a variety of reasons but now has had just about enough and is willing to move on. She has a masters degree and a long career that would give her the ability to find another dece...
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{ "description": "being angry that MY balls got hammer downed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA FOR BEING ANGRY THAT MY BALLS GOT HAMMER DOWNED?
Basically a good friend and I were chilling in a classroom and while we were there I was sitting on top of a table, she wanted me to move. Since we’re friends and all I wanted to mess with her before moving, but I guess she must’ve gotten a bit miffed so she wanted to hit my leg but she missed and ended up hitting my b...
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{ "description": "willing to take payment for grandpas funeral", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for willing to take payment for grandpas funeral
TL;DR at bottom Please excuse all the grammatical errors as I am on mobile. So I was never close with a lot of people on my mothers side of the family but my grandpa recently died and as I just said I wasn’t close to him so I didn’t go visit him at the hospital, I didn’t go see him often when he was alive, I honestly ...
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AITA for not wanting to be around my boyfriend's roommate?
My (22/F) boyfriend (22/M) and I have been together for a year, and his roommate (his friend since high school) has made pointed comments toward me about my race almost every time he has seen me. It's almost like he needs to bring up my race every time I come over. Or, if he says something about black people he always ...
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{ "description": "piping and ghosting this pregnant girl", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if i piped and ghosted this pregnant girl?
Throwaway account Hello, I recently met this girl on tinder and everything was going well, but she mentioned that she was pregnant. I don't really want to keep this going anywhere because i think it might come back to bite me in the ass in the future. WIBTA if i had sex with her and then ghosted?
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister & sister's boyfriend to see my therapist", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my sister & sister's boyfriend to see my therapist?
While I was on vacation, my dad texted me and asked me the name of the therapist I was seeing. I gave him the name and left it at that since I was busy at the time and could only text on Wi-Fi so I didn't follow up and forgot about it. Today I received a text from my therapist asking if I knew someone by the name of Ku...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with people I'd date", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with people I'd date
I've casually dated this girl some time back. I was 17 she was 19, she lived a 45 minute drive from me/1 hour train. We went out for half a year, but i was gone all summer, so we maybe saw each other 9 times in total. Recently we argued more and more because i was always pushing for affection, like for her to be sweete...
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{ "description": "cutting off charity", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off charity?
So there's this person I know, lets call them Ronny. I used to know Ronny a long time ago (but even then only a little) when Ronny was a different gender. Ronny is also not white. I'm both white and cis. I'd be lying if I said those factors didn't contribute in my decision to help them. See they are in a bad way - ...
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{ "description": "asking my partner if I had done something wrong", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my partner if i had done something wrong?
Ok, so my (on/off) partner had sent me a text message which i felt was a bit off for him. It just said 'sound' no kisses, nothing. I asked him if i had done something wrong and he said no, im busy at work, some of us have to work you know. I also work full time, have a 2 year old and im currently pregnant, so this ob...
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AITA if at the movie theater I didn't move my legs when the person in front of me hit them every time he leaned back?
For context, I'm 6'4" and the movie theater I was at is pretty old and so it has slightly smaller seats than what you find at a newer chain like AMC. The movie was also almost four hours long. Sitting in a comfortable position (slightly slouched with my butt on the front half of my seat), my knees were maybe 2 or 3 inc...
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{ "description": "not letting my older brother borrow my car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not letting my older brother borrow my car?
So, I'm (20/m) currently enrolled at my local community college studying carpentry. I worked all of this past summer with a small local contractor who had work going on all around our municipality, and would frequently have us all driving for well over an hour to get to job sites. I didn't have my license at the time s...
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{ "description": "wanting to rehome my mom's cat", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to rehome my mom's cat?
My mom has 5 dogs and 2 cats in her small surbuban home. Let's just say the house smells like 10 dogs live there. Its disgusting but thats another story... Anyway, I came home to visit and my heart broke for my sister's childhood cat (she did not take the cat after moving out and has no plans to take her). The cat, Ti...
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AITA in their eyes? Neighbor's dog got ran over, I went to tell them.
We live in a very rural area, I was driving home when I saw a dog on the side of the road (not uncommon), and swung wide to avoid it, the vehicle behind me didn't. I spun around to check on it, and it's not going to make it. I didn't want to carry it home (50 yds or so) because it didn't know me, and it's in pain; I f...
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{ "description": "playing music and singing in public in the middle of the day", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for playing music and singing in public in the middle of the day?
Another post has me wondering. Lately the only way my kid will stay quiet and still for diaper changes is if I let him hold my phone playing kids’ music and sing along. This is fine at home, and if I’m sick to death of Victor Vito and Freddie Vasco eating their burritos up and down the west coast, I can change him on t...
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{ "description": "telling one friend he broke up with another friend for a stupid reason", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling one friend he broke up with another friend for a stupid reason?
So first of all I’m a bit emotional/upset right now so sorry if there’s any grammar mistakes or I forget something. So two of my friends just broke up. We’re all teenagers and I’ve known the girl since kindergarten and the guy for about a year. The guy called me up to explain everything and tell me what he had to...
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{ "description": "not going to my friends 21st because of medical expenses", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my friends 21st because of medical expenses?
I made a throw away account for this. I’ve been in and out of hospital and doctors for the past 3 weeks and the doctor is sending me for a scan that’s isn’t covered by healthcare. So it’s going to cost us (my partner and I) $300 and I can’t work due to my health problems so money is tight. My friend for her 21st has bo...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend go on a trip overseas with male friends/coworkers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for not letting my girlfriend go on a trip overseas with male friends/coworkers?
For a bit of background, I'm 25M and work in IT, my girlfriend of 2 years is 24F and works at a museum. We have lived together for the past year-ish and since I make more than her, we split shared bills proportionately by income, which comes out to about 70-30. We have been living below our means and both putting aside...
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{ "description": "invading my roommate's privacy to take back an item I owned", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for invading my roommate's privacy to take back an item I owned?
In the spirit of the sub, I'm writing this to get some new perspectives on a small roommate argument that's been consuming my attention. Partially also to sort it in my own head. Here goes: ​ Recently, a low value item (\~$5) was traded between myself and my roommate, or rather, I gave it to him with the ...
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{ "description": "making my GF leave", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my GF leave?
Throwaway as I'm half expecting to get flamed & also sorry if there are parts that don't make sense, I had to condense. ​ ​ Context: my(22M) gf (21F) and I have been together for over 2 and a half years. I'll admit I'm not saint and for the most part she has just been putting up with me. W...
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AITA: neighbour bitched me out for smoking near her kids, but I'm on my own property.
My husband and I have been living here 4 years, neighbour moved in with her kids about 2 years ago. Since we moved in, we've had two smoking spots, one upstairs on our back deck and another downstairs in the yard which happens to be near the fence. The downstairs spot is a concerete seat built into the garden bed/reta...
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AITA I wanted to help my mom by washing one dish and I ended up in tears
I’m crying as I type this. I have a lot of things going on and no one to turn to so I thought I would just ask you guys about this. I asked my mom why my cats dish was in the sink, as he might get thirsty. She said she has to wash his bowl before she put it back for him. Honestly I’m in my mid 20’s I live at home and I...
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{ "description": "accusing my boyfriend of cheating", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for accusing my boyfriend of cheating?
My boyfriend and I, both in our mid 20s are together for four years. There has been an issue with a female co worker of his for over two years. He hang out at her house in secret 1.5 yrs ago, I found out much later. He claims nothing happens. They still work together and text sometimes, but less frequent. He swears he ...
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