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{ "description": "posting about how uncomfortable a photographer made me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for posting about how uncomfortable a photographer made me?
So this happened sophomore year of HS (I’m 18). There are a few student photographers at my school who really flourish during dance season, but need “models” to photograph to create a portfolio for potential customers to refer to. I didn’t personally know this guy (we can call Steve), but I knew of him and we shared ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex-girlfriend/former possible baby momma off and then putting her on \"blast\" online", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex-girlfriend/former possible baby momma off and then putting her on "blast" online?
So about a year ago, I went home for 3 months during my graduate schooling to assist my family with some funeral and estate dealings after one of my family members passed away. I left the northeast, fly back to the Pacific NW, and spent some time grieving and being in a really depressed mood while we buried one of my g...
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{ "description": "turning in a group of acquaintances to the IRS", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for turning in a group of acquaintances to the IRS?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. I'll try to keep this short; At my workplace, unless you are explicitly in a tipped position, you are not too accept tips. You can accept gifts with a value of up to $100 but it cannot be considered currency in any way. I know with almost 100% certainty that most of an entire departm...
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{ "description": "saying this to my waiter last night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had said this to my waiter last night?
Last night my dad and I ate at a local Mexican restaurant we like. They were a little more crowded than usual. I ordered one type of quesadilla (steak) and when they brought out our food, they gave me something different than what I ordered. It was something like a cheeseburger quesadilla (hamburger patty with two type...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to take his anti anxiety/ depression medicine", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to take his anti anxiety/ depression medicine
So my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. Well call him T. T struggles with depression and anxiety. So his doctor gave him medicine (way too fast imo but that’s a different story). This medicine makes him a literal zombie . I’m talking nauseous, dilated pupils, spaced out, he says he feels zaps in his...
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{ "description": "\"making\" the food delivery drivers come upstairs to my apartment", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for “making” the food delivery drivers come upstairs to my apartment?
I live in a food desert neighborhood so I order out kinda regularly. Usually, the drivers would automatically come upstairs to my apartment, which is California/motel style, so there’s no “indoor” it’s just a flight of stairs. For the past couple of weeks drivers have called me and told me that they are outside so I te...
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AITA Do I owe her?
I work 6 days a week at a crap job, and make just under 500 bi-weekly. Approx ~$1000 a month, (not a lot at all) and at 20, I still live with my mom. I pay her the $640 she asks, (leaving me 360 a month to live off) and give her any money she asks for if I have it (She's constantly asking, but I rarely have it) I get ...
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{ "description": "forgetting my friend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for forgetting my friend's birthday?
So, I have a serious problem with birthdays, I can't memorize dates since always, the only birthday that I remember is my brother's one because its like some days apart (If you ask me now my mother's birthday, I would say you "I don't know") It's not that I don't care, I just CAN'T remember, I simply can't So, one da...
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{ "description": "not wanting a friend to tag along on an event", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a friend to tag along on an event
My best friend and I are attending a formal valentines ball together to commemorate our friendship. Sounds silly I know but I’m kind of single (as in dating but no serious prospects for this event that is for Valentine’s Day) and we found out the ball was on the same day we met last year so it’s super important and we ...
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{ "description": "dropping her on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For dropping her on her birthday?
This girl and I have been a “couple” for a while now. We took a little break for a month or two, but during that break she had a thing with some other guys. I didn’t have anything (which I’m okay with). Once we got back together, she seemed perfectly normal. She told me about her experience while on the break, which d...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommates friends to come over", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommates friends to come over?
Sorry for any formatting mistakes, I’m mobile. For context, I live with my brother and we’ve gotten in multiple arguments about boundaries of being roommates vs siblings. My brother has admitted that he’s oblivious to the point of being inconsiderate, and I tend to get annoyed easily. I also get chronic headaches that...
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{ "description": "telling my neighbor to stop snow blowing my driveway", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my neighbor to stop snow blowing my driveway?
Neighbor (let’s call him Steve) is retired. I work from home. Steve has designated himself as the neighborhood watch. I’ve always been civil and have just wrote him off as a harmless, bored retiree. Steve has been nice enough to snow blow our driveway a few times over the last few years. Yesterday he did our driveway...
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{ "description": "ghosting a guy because of his taste in films", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for ghosting a guy because of his taste in films?
I'll keep this short. I met a guy on a dating app, seemed nice enough and also pretty good looking so I agreed to go on a date with him. We had drinks and got talking, I mentioned how I was really into film because it naturally came up and he said that he was too, we just talked about current movies a bit like Captain ...
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{ "description": "wanting some money back from my boyfriend after he broke up with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for wanting some money back from my boyfriend after he broke up with me?
I (17F) was dumped a couple days ago by my (18M) boyfriend. Things are obviously quite fresh and his reason for breaking up was ‘to work on himself’ I spoke to him yesterday and he said he still loves me and if he didn’t have his mental health issues he would still be with me, which I can accept. But during the course ...
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AITA if I cancel?
Got really drunk last night and am pretty hung over, but I asked my mom if she wanted to hang out today and I feel bad cancelling. Should I suck it up and go, even tho I might throw up walking up the stairs to her house, or can I tell her I'm hungover and I dont wanna go out anymore?
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{ "description": "telling my roommate that I can't afford for our heat to be turned on to 75 degrees", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate that I can’t afford for our heat to be turned on to 75 degrees (Fahrenheit)?
My roommate and I live in a small apartment. Shared bathroom, two bedroom, open kitchen/living area. We’re in northeast Georgia (the us state) and so temps are getting low. Our apartment hasn’t gotten below 69 deg with heating and air off but yesterday she turned the heat up to 75 deg. I find this really high but more ...
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{ "description": "never doing anything with no reward attached", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for never doing anything with no reward attached?
So backstory, I try my best not too be malicious. Anyway, ever since I was a kid people have complained that I only do things when I get something out of it. When I was little I only behaved if I knew we were gonna go to McDonalds that night, I've only really opened up to girls when I see sex in the future, I go eat wi...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend shouldn't get another pet", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friend shouldn't get another pet?
So my friend loves having pets. She currently has two dogs and two cats. Her frog died two days ago and she's looking to replace it with either another frog or a lizard. I'm not sure she knows the cause of death for the frog and plans to reuse its container for her new pet, which I'm not sure is a great idea if the cau...
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{ "description": "moving on too soon", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving on too soon?
My girlfriend (18) and I (f18) broke up after being together for 3 years. She broke up with me after distancing herself and pushing me away. She told me she had to work on herself and couldn’t do so with us together. I was heartbroken, sobbing, couldn’t eat or sleep for days. Finally after about a week I jokingly downl...
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{ "description": "not breaking up with my boyfriend although it makes my best friend feel really bad", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not breaking up with my boyfriend although it makes my best friend feel really bad?
BF: boyfriend BFF: best friend (hO this might be confusing) to make things short both me, BF and BFF are part of a close-knit friend group where everyone cares deeply about each other. i started going out with BF a month ago knowing that BFF had feelings for me; BF knew too and BFF knew that i didn't love him back ro...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she was wrong to host a party in our apartment", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my roommate she was wrong to host a party in our apartment?
I’m a college student living in an off-campus apartment with three other roommates. Last week, during midterms, one of my roommates texted our roommate group chat saying “I’m hosting a pregame at our place in two days on Thursday.” I responded by letting her know that I was okay with it only if they did not plan to b...
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{ "description": "going to bed when future mother-in-law irritated me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to bed when future mother-in-law irritated me?
My fiancee is no longer really speaking to her mother for unrelated reasons, but her mother recently texted her saying I was a "psycho bitch" for this particular incident. I'm wondering if maybe I was in the wrong. My fiancee and I are a same sex couple and have been together going on three years. We've lived together...
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{ "description": "taking my 10lb dog to the dog park", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my 10lb dog to the dog park?
So I live in a small city that doesn’t have a lot of dog parks. One just opened near me, and I was ecstatic. My dog is super friendly, hyper, and great with other dogs. But here’s the thing: he’s a 10lb toy poodle. He always plays great with other dogs, is never aggressive, and some of his best friends are an 80lb Be...
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{ "description": "messing up with Crush", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Messing Up With Crush?
TL;DR: Girl loses interest after ex stops by. I act like an ass then apologize. She "wants to be friends" then disappears. I started talking this girl (online) and we really hit out off. We texted for a few days and had a "maybe" to meet. She bailed the day of, because her cousins birthday party ran long. I said I wou...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I should shoot his dying dog", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for telling my friend I should shoot his dying dog
My friend was telling me how he is going to put down his dog soon. I think that being injected by poison is a pretty bad way to go, especially as a dog in a room that is unfamiliar. I told my friend instead of having your dogs last memories be spent being poisoned, I would shoot his dog with a shotgun to get it over qu...
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{ "description": "wanting to have sex with someone who was recently discharged from a mental hospital", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA to want to have sex with someone who was recently discharged from a mental hospital
So there’s this girl I’ve been seeing for a few weeks. We’ve messed around before but (tmi) we don’t get very far because she breaks down crying (turns out she’s a virgin and hasn’t given a blowjob etc). She does this thing where sometimes she’s hypersexual and sometimes she breaks down crying, panic attacks, etc. She ...
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{ "description": "selling my little brothers computer", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for selling my little brothers computer?
this computer was mine before i purchased and built a new one, i5 1050 ti 250 ssd etc. Didn't need money or anything just wanted to teach him a lesson. ​ He is my little brother, 14 years old (me 22), i love him to bits but he has gotten to this edgy phase in his life, he has become extremely disrespectful...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "rating this delivery driver poorly", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I rated this delivery driver poorly?
Okay so normally I'm not the "complain to the manager" type... but when I use apps and they ask me to rate things, I try to do so honestly. In this case I'm using an app which you order food for delivery, and afterward it asks about the food, the app experience and the delivery. It also automatically adds a 15 or 20% ...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving my friend?
This was last year,around August or July. I went to a summer camp for a week with some other kids in my school.That year,my brother left this school so i had one close friend.Let's call her Anne.Anne was always by my side,helping me when the other kids in my class bullied me constantly.Usually i'd go to my brother and...
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{ "description": "refusing to wash the dishes for my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For refusing to wash the dishes for my mom?
I've been helping out my family a bit more recently and I've been doing chores like washing the dishes as well. Recently my sisters have been using the internet on every device possible and they keep telling me that they want me to wash the dishes or clean the house for them. Now, I've been trying to watch this show (i...
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{ "description": "making a girl cry because of a project", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a girl cry because of a project
Our project got a bad grade because it wasn't finished. This girl, lets call her sue doesn't have an email so she couldn't help us since we were working on google drive but this other girl lets call tonya, has an email but havnt helped over the time we had to work on it which was 1 week, so sue doesn't help at all bec...
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{ "description": "dating the girl that my best friend chose to stop seeing after a few dates", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dating the girl that my best friend chose to stop seeing after a few dates?
Hi all, I’m 34/M, my friend is 35/M and the girl is 32/F. Long story short, he met this girl on tinder a month ago. They went on a few dates and he brought me along on one, which is where I met her. We had a great conversation and all three of us have the same interests. After a few dates he told her there was no c...
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship due to the possibility of cheating", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship due to the possibility of cheating?
Kind of a bait-y title, I'll admit...but if I have your attention... Some background info, I am a guy in his mid-20s and never have had been in a relationship. Yes, I've recently upgraded to having an exclusive, VIP Black V-card. So here's the thing, there was once a time when I wanted to be in a relationship with s...
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{ "description": "not taking my friend to the ER", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my friend to the ER?
Me and my friend (let's call him "Rob") are males in our mid/late 30s. He's been a close friend of mine for almost 20 years now. I'm married with two kids, but Rob is single and lives alone. He's a bit of a hypochondriac, and suffers from crazy anxiety. Last summer he recently moved to my neighborhood after living out ...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick my son's mom out of my house", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to kick my son's mom out of my house?
My son's mom and I broke up a year or two ago and she moved out, took the kid (her name is not karen). We had a time sharing agreement and I had him on weekends. She wasn't working so I took more days during the week and paid for child care so she can go out and find a job and do other things with her life besides stay...
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{ "description": "feeling like a second choice", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling like a second choice?
I started dating my boyfriend a while ago. After we went on our first date, he let me know that another girl he had been talking to was interested in him again, and he'd like to give it another shot with her. I had no problems with that, and I let him know as much. A week later, he texted me, and told me that he let ...
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{ "description": "taking away friends sleeping arrangements", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: Taking away friends sleeping arrangements.
So my buddies are staying at my house for the night as tomorrow we have a road trip, they are angry at me for taking my blankets (of which I offered for them to use) away, the reason I took them away is because they decided that they should sleep nude. I have rules that when using my blankets they can’t sleep nude, as ...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to spend time with me and my friends on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my gf to spend time with me and my friends on my birthday?
I recently acquired a girlfriend who has yet to meet any of my friends aside from a couple here and there. And so today is my birthday, and so naturally I wanted to spend this day with those closest to me- my friends and my SO. She however feels like her presence at a get together for my bday will distract the attentio...
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{ "description": "not letting my preteen fly across the country on her own", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my preteen fly across the country on her own?
Trigger warning: some domestic violence/ mental health issues My father-in-law (FIL) is crap. Physically, verbally & emotionally abusive & regularly cheated on his wife (MIL). The physical abuse stopped when HB had a growth spurt in college. The verbal & emotional abuse mellowed w/ age & health proble...
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{ "description": "not helping this girl", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not helping this girl?
I worked with a girl, L, on a uni project. Throughout the project we had a weird relationship where sometimes we'd be friendly, but at other times she would be rude to me. For example, she would tell me that I was working really slow, everyday she would hover over me when I was working and remind me to do everything I ...
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{ "description": "going home on my scheduled flight home", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I go home on my scheduled flight home?
This is from a phone so sorry for the format. I live out of state with my wife. And we both took personal time off to go to both our home towns for my cousins wedding/her family (only because we’re near by/her home town is 2 states away (and we live on the opposite coast)). My wife went home on Monday and I was suppo...
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{ "description": "going to south Carolina without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going to south Carolina without my girlfriend?
So long story short, I moved to South Carolina for a few months to get out of my home town for some time. I had been dating this girl for 3 years and sadly she couldn't come down south with me, so I had to leave her behind for some time. I talked to her every day while I was down there, calling her first thing in the m...
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{ "description": "being upset that my husband didn't do anything for Valentine's day", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being upset that my husband didn’t do anything for Valentine’s Day?
Obviously, the title makes this sound lame, and it probably is. Today is Valentine’s Day and my husband (29M) and I (22F) typically just do something really small like dinner and small candy gifts. My husband has a history of not getting me any gift at all for things (Christmas, my birthday, our anniversary etc.) bec...
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AITA or a NiceGuy™?
Idk if this is the right sub, so if there's a better one, let me know. This goes back a few months. I'm in high school and there's this girl I have a couple classes with. I sat next to her for a whole semester. Ended up developing a crush. I found her ig (I swear I'm not a stalker) and tried hitting her up. I sent a c...
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{ "description": "being mad at my fiancée for trying on my deceased wife's clothing", "pronormative_score": 67, "contranormative_score": 119 }
AITA for being mad at my fiancée for trying on my deceased wife's clothing?
I am a 36 and engaged to my girlfriend, 24, of 1 year. We have been engaged for 2 weeks now. I am a widower. I was married to my first wife for 11 years, from age 23 to 34. She died almost exactly 2 years ago from a car accident. I was in a really bad place after her death. We also have 4 kids (currently aged 4 to ...
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{ "description": "not paying it forward", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Not Paying It Forward?
I was in the drive-through about to pay for my food when the cashier let me know that the driver in front of me had paid for my meal. Awesome, I though! The cashier then asked me if I wanted to pay for the driver’s meal behind me. I hesitated and thought, with my luck, it’d be a huge order much more than my meal was....
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{ "description": "complaining about/calling the cops on my neighbor's barking dog", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for complaining about/calling the cops on my neighbor’s barking dog?
My downstairs neighbor’s dog barks basically any time they leave, for hours - for example, they must be leaving around 7 am now, because I can hear the dog bark from 7 am until when I leave at 7:45. It’s starting to interfere with my sleep and it’s hard to relax in my apartment in the evening when there is constant bar...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with a toxic martial arts school", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting ties with a toxic martial arts school?
Tl;dr: Cut ties with my old martial arts academy, parents are upset because they waived my tuition. I've been practicing tae kwon do for almost ten years now and it's like a religion to me. For those who don't know, there is a certain code of conduct that is expected of tae kwon do practitioners. I won't list all the...
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{ "description": "ending a long term friendship due to their stagnated adulthood", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA? Ending a long term friendship due to their stagnated adulthood.
I have a close friend from college who I've known for 10 years. He's always been a very non judgemental & fun person to be around because we enjoy many of the same activities that my other friends don't - and his family treats me like I'm one of them. I've had a very close one on one friendship with this person fo...
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AITA Me vs a loudly yawning coworker
So, I have a coworker who sits in the cubicle behind me...and he yawns. Frequently. And loudly. And does not cover his mouth when he does so. Most of the office is pretty chill about it. I have known him for a few years, and he's an okay guy, but the yawning gets on my nerves. It's infuriating. But I have never once c...
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{ "description": "wanting my brother's girlfriend to watch her kid more", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my brother's girlfriend to watch her kid more?
Ok Reddit, for this you'll need some backstory. I'm a 16yo girl who's lived alone with my mom and cat for the last 4ish years after my mom kicked my brother out. About a year and a half ago, my brother(21) announced that he got his girlfriend(35), pregnant and that he was bringing her, their kid, and her older kid down...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my camp-area at a festival with my girlfriend but took in some random guys even though she asked first", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not wanting to share my camp-area at a festival with my girlfriend but took in some random guys even though she asked first?
So every July there is a huge festival where I live with artists like Eminem, Bruno Mars, Dua Lipa, Macklemore etc. It's ongoing for a week and as young people (18-20) my friends and I often go to have a great time, get hammered and listen to a couple of artists, but the festival it's know for being one week of partyin...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge against my girlfriend still in contact with one of her former lover", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for holding a grudge against my girlfriend still in contact with one of her former lover (not in a lover's way, but there are messages)
My girl's parents divorced when she is young, she lived with her mom, & her mom was quite abusive, so she had some rebellious time & some farther figure issue. During her teenage years, she had some quite complicated love and sex life w/ some much older men. One of which is an Australian gentleman, whom accordi...
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{ "description": "creating a fake gmail pretending to be my wife's ex to give her some closure from a bad relationship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for creating a fake gmail pretending to be my wife's ex to give her some closure from a bad relationship?
I hope the need for a tosser account is obvious, but anyways here goes: Wife and I are both on our second marriages and carry a lot of baggage into this relationship. I love her very much and we've had long talks that it was our fucked up pasts that led us to each other. Her relationship with her ex husband is actuall...
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{ "description": "making my mother cry over some texts she sent my father", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my mother cry over some texts she sent my father?
My parents have always been overprotective - at times it feels like they just want to be in charge and don't think I'm smart enough to take care of myself. Last year, I took a year off from college because of depression, I'm fine now and back at school, and they know I'm feeling much better. My only real concern rn is ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wifes 19 year old sister living with us", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my wifes 19 year old sister living with us.
So my wifes sister is your typical 19 year old drama queen, everything in her life pretty much turns into a big catastrophe and everyone around her is wrong, she loves to talk about how shit other people are and how shes perfect. She has also stolen items from me in the past but been caught out so is very light fingere...
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{ "description": "leaving someone looking for me after only waiting 7 minutes for them", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving someone looking for me after only waiting 7 minutes for them?
So for a while I've been wanting to join a school club, but after the resignation of the club's former leader, It's been a nightmare to find it. Luckily I have a club with someone who goes there. So he mentions MUN in said club and so afterwards I go talk to him about it. after a few minutes we decide to meet up at th...
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{ "description": "never wanting to forgive her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Never Wanting to Forgive Her?
So this has been a story that's been bugging me for a while. I had a friend in elementary school, let's call her A, that was basically my best friend for a good two years. I'd transferred into the elementary in 2nd grade because my family had moved (we changed houses a fair bit cause my parents were good at gauging the...
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{ "description": "working part time and going to school full time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for working part time and going to school full time?
To add a little perspective on this, I’ve grown up in Texas and there’s a huge stigma against men not being the bread winners or at least pulling the same income as females. My wife is in the military and we’ve been married about 10 years. Our entire relationship I’ve always had a full time job in Corrections in diffe...
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AITA on this plane
Flying from Atlanta this morning I am about to give the flight attendant my boarding pass when a man cuts in front of me (he is in a boarding class above me), no bid deal but he does knock my shoulder in the passing process. Upon swiping his phone he is assigned a new seat. As I hand my pass to the flight attendant he ...
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{ "description": "trying to collect data for a scientific experiment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for trying to collect data for a scientific experiment?
Once again I've accidentally annoyed my colleagues. Earlier I decided to experiment with a theory that I've been thinking about for the past couple days. I had the afternoon off and I was trying to keep my mind off some things so I decided to approach some of my fellow employees about helping me with some tests. I do...
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{ "description": "calling out sick on Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For calling out sick on Thanksgiving
To preface: I am a highschooler, and I picked up this job because of its flexiblity towards my busy schedule as I play sports, and perform im other extracurriculars. I work at a Starbucks in my town, and my store has pretty poor management. We have had 7 people quit and ot resign at our store, and now we are pretty sho...
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{ "description": "being selfish for choosing for myself over his life", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I'm selfish for choosing for myself over his life?
We (F31, M33) have been together for the last 1,5 year and his negativity increased along the way. He has a very negative view on basically everyone and everything around him except himself. But he finds himself useless in the society. This increased to the point that my self esteem lowered and it was holding me back i...
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{ "description": "pushing my daycare to notify parents of pinworms", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for pushing my daycare to notify parents of pinworms?
Last Friday we got the 1:30 yell of: “my butt is itchy” from our toddler. Any parent dreads that yell and we are no different. A flashlight check later and yup, confirmed our kid has pinworms. The kicker? It’s the second time in 2 months. Spent the weekend dosing the household with medicine, intense cleaning and a frus...
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AITA - Haven't spoken to my Grandma in 4 years.
Long story, TL;DR at the bottom. So, I'm 28m and I went to my sisters place for Christmas eve and somehow we got on the topic of our crazy grandma. Just to give you an idea, she's a hippy from a small town, constantly speaking baby talk, used to give us "dog licks" instead of kisses, seems to have the mentality of an ...
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{ "description": "telling my boss her MANDATORY meeting was offensive and undervalues her employees", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For telling my boss her MANDATORY meeting was offensive and undervalues her employees?
TL;DR: My boss scheduled a mandatory meeting for all employees, that was an hour long. I tried explaining to her; that's bullshit. ​ So I'm a manager at my office and my boss, Operations manager for the entire business, sent out an e-mail earlier in the week that all employee's (aprox 15) MUST attend a han...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do a going away party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to do a going away party?
I will be deploying on a routine, low risk military deployment in the future (it’s less than a year long). My wife’s family wants to fly me and her in from halfway across the country and host a going away with family and friends. I think it’s over the top. I am going to go on deployments somewhat regularly, I feel like...
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AITA for the way I removed a friend from a groupchat?
This probably isn't the best sub for this, but it's the closest sub I can think of for it. Two friends of mine got into an argument about Spiderman: Homecoming. I told them to take it to PMs because a bunch of people were sick of the argument, but they refused so I removed them both. Removing some people for...
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{ "description": "getting distracted in class", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting distracted in class?
During AP chemistry, I often get really tired and bored and sometimes doze off or ocassionally use my phone and discretely browse reddit (phone under table.) My teacher usually doesn’t mind since I get really good grades on tests and do my homework. However my classmate who sits across from me gets extremely frustrated...
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{ "description": "cuddling with my gf till she falls asleep and then get up to go play video games", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i cuddle with my gf till she falls asleep and then get up to go play video games?
So I'm 20 and my gf is 18. We've been living together almost 10 months and we both work often. I work nights while she mostly works during the day or evenings. However my schedule consists of 3 days off in a row. I have 2 friends who also happen to be my only friends at this point and they also work and have their own ...
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{ "description": "not driving over to visit my friend while he is home from college on NYE when I already have plans", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: I won’t drive over to visit my friend while he is home from college on NYE when I already have plans
This exchange happened through text. Below is a mix of dialogue and action. I contacted him multiple times throughout the semester and he did not contact me back. I can see when he has read messages so I know he got them. Me: multiple attempts at contact throughout semester Him: did not reply to literally any. He co...
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{ "description": "telling my Fiancé I need a night to sleep on it", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my Fiancé I need a night to sleep on it.
A bit of backstory: I'm deployed to a foreign country for the Army. I have a fiancé back home. My fiancé has a friend, we'll call him John. John has been her friend for awhile and he seemed like a good friend until recently. About two weeks ago he tried to kiss my fiancé. Dick move. But she reacted the way she should h...
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{ "description": "not going to two weddings the same weekend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If i didnt go to two weddings the same weekend.
I have two very good friends that are getting married the same weekend, but in different states. One is where I live in the Midwest. The other is near Washington DC. I am the best man in the wedding in the Midwest. The wedding in the Midwest is on Saturday and the one in Washington is on Monday. (Labor Day weekend) Bo...
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AITA for telling my friend his crush is out of his league?
My friend has a big crush on a girl. While he's a nice guy and all, I think there isn't the slightest chance of them getting together. He's shy, inexperienced and awkward with girls. She's outgoing, popular, and let's face it, much more attractive than he is. It would be a disaster if he tried anything and I'd hate if ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend for flirting with another guy", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend for flirting with another guy?
My girlfriend has a bit of a flirtatious personality, but she may have crossed a line. Last night we were at a party and met this new guy. My girlfriend kept playfully calling him different names instead of his real name the whole night. Nothing super overt so far. But when the party winds down she comments on a desse...
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{ "description": "not paying my friend to build my pc", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA If I Didn't Pay My Friend To Build My PC
I had two friends help build a PC back in May, with one being the subject of the post. He had helped me pick parts, and repeatedly said that he’d be more than happy to help me build it. Important thing to note here is that it was never a point of discussion pre-build that I would be paying him to help. As we start o...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed that my coworker came to work sick and was wearing a face mask", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting annoyed that my coworker came to work sick and was wearing a face mask.
I work at a spa as a massage therapist. When I walked into work early this morning I saw one of my coworkers who works as a receptionist at the front desk wearing a surgical mask and looking like absolute shit and immediately found myself annoyed that he deemed it necessary to come into work and put everyone at risk. ...
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{ "description": "never making time for people", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for never making time for people
Hello everyone, so I'll try to keep this concise. ​ I'm in my early 20s and work two jobs: one full time director position and my own business which is bit of a passion project for me. I tend to be pretty busy. I always feel guilty taking time for myself and whenever I do I just want to spend it by myself ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to call my abortion clinic", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to call my abortion clinic
So long story short I recently had an abortion fathered by a friend of mine. He was supportive during, he came down to see me for the two days I went through it and, though it was kind of painful, we managed quite well just eating chocolate in bed and watching movies. Now however, it’s taken a bit of a turn. Basically ...
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{ "description": "wanting some reciprocal verbal sympathy for being sick from my pregnant wife, who is also sick", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting some reciprocal verbal sympathy for being sick from my pregnant wife, who is also sick?
**TL;DR - Pregnant wife and I both sick, I try to be verbally sympathetic, the sympathy is not reciprocated, wife does pregnancy announcement photo with her sister without me and attempted to upload to Facebook tonight, didn't upload upon my request.** My guess is a loud and resounding "yes," but let me walk through s...
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{ "description": "criticizing the way my mom homeschooled me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for criticizing the way my mom homeschooled me?
When I was in third grade, my mom started homeschooling me at my request. I was a sensitive kid, and, while I wasn’t being bullied, I felt like all the other kids hated me and I’d come home crying most days. I’d also tested at a 6th grade reading level in the first grade, and the school wasn’t doing anything to help ...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend use my car anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend use my car anymore?
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. And living together for the last 2.5. About 2 years ago I had bad luck with cars. I had 2 cars get totaled within 7 months of each other. Neither accident was my fault, and the only reason both cars were totaled was because they were not worth enough. One car...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed when my girlfriend tells me her problems", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting annoyed when my girlfriend tells me her problems?
My girlfriend complains a lot (about life, school) because of her depression and anxiety. At the beginning of our relationship, I could tolerate it no matter what and it was completely fine, but as time went on, I started to get more and more annoyed by it. Every time she’d complain to me about something, it would im...
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{ "description": "going through my BF's things", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Going Through My BF's Things?
I'm F20, My BF is M22 and we've been together for over a year now. He just bought a condo and moved in on friday, I came over today to help him unpack as he had to go into work for an emergency. I was unpacking his clothes to put into his closet and drawers when I came across a pretty heavy box with just boxers in them...
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{ "description": "telling him I wasn't interested anymore after he stood me up", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling him I wasn't interested anymore after he stood me up?
I re-activated my OKC account and started talking to some people that seemed interested and wanted to meet to do something fun, like bowling or drinks and movie, etc. This dude was funny and quick to respond, and we made a plan for last Thursday at 9:15pm for drinks and potentially dancing. He later mentions that he o...
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{ "description": "not \"returning the favor\" by sending nudes to a so", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not “returning the favor” by sending nudes to a SO?
Throwaway for personal reasons- some details omitted for anonymity reasons. I’ve been seeing someone for about 5 months at this point- LDR. Started as friends and almost immediately hit it off on a deeper level. We began spending HOURS every day texting back and forth and talking about our lives. I’ve shared personal ...
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{ "description": "purposely grossing out my girlfriend to stop her from doing something", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Purposely Grossing Out My Girlfriend to Stop her from doing Something?
What I am about to describe is extremely odd and pretty gross so you've been warned. My girlfriend is an amazing girl, and we get a long super well. We rarely fight and have been together for ages. However, she has this one really strange habit that disturbs me. Every single time she goes to take a shit she feels the ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my sister's engagement", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to attend my sister's engagement
Not an engagement dinner, not a bachelorette party, not a bridal shower. But the actual marriage proposal. My soon to be brother-in-law has invited me and my family to watch him propose. We were not asked to be used in the proposal. The location is not yet set, but will be anywhere from 2-4 hours away. Me, my husband...
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{ "description": "being \"too loud\" in my dorm room", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being "too loud" in my dorm room?
I'm a freshman in college and live in a single dorm room that's part of a larger suite. I've gotten many many noise complaints from one particular suite above me to the point where I've faced some fees. Here's the thing: I honestly don't think I'm that loud. Yes, I'm a night owl (I stay awake until early morning) an...
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{ "description": "agreeing with my wife", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Agreeing with my Wife
So, here's some context.  I was previously married.  My wife passed away leaving me with 3 boys.  I tried staying in touch with my mother-in-law (nana) and sister-in-law (aunt), and I didn't do a good job.  Fast forward, and I'm re-married.  My current wife was mad at me my piss poor job.  She takes over and started co...
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{ "description": "wanting to sell a game I bought but my saying I can't", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I want to sell a game I bought but my brother is saying i can't
I bought Red dead redemption 2 for the PS4 with my money and I finished it and it was cool. My brother finished it too. I tried the online and I hated it. I wasn't going to sell it still but I'm now seeing that my store is offering €50 for the game and that's a pretty sweet deal. So I want to bring it to the store tomo...
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{ "description": "not being as attracted to my boyfriend anymore since he lost weight", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being as attracted to my boyfriend anymore since he lost weight?
Not new to Reddit, just using a throwaway because he knows my personal account. ​ The past few months, my boyfriend has been losing a ton of weight and he's putting a lot of work and effort into his weight loss. He was NEVER fat, he was just a little chubby and had a bit of a belly but that's who I fell in...
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AITA. Denied elderly man from a seat on the bus.
I take the bus fairly regularly on a rather busy route. Yesterday I got on and every seat was taken except one of the easy access seats designed with in-need people in mind. I do what I normally do on the bus, put my earphones in and start airdropping Star Wars prequels memes to random people. It’s a 20 minute trip f...
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{ "description": "confronting a neighbor after he ordered me to take down my missing cat poster", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for confronting a neighbor after he ordered me to take down my missing cat poster
My cat went missing on January 6th and a few days later I told my 6 year old we could put up some missing posters around our neighborhood after school on our way home. I pick her up on my bicycle, and we took a different route home that day. The first place I thought would be ok was a telephone pole about a block away ...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friends over videogames", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being angry at my friends over videogames?
Perhaps the title is a bit (purposefully) misleading but Ill try to make this short. I am a girl and I live with boys. I live with my boyfriend and a long time mutual friend. In the unit below us is my bf's twin brother and one of their lifelong friends. These boys spend ALL of their free time playing video games. Al...
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{ "description": "\"breaking up\" with my toxic best friend on the day before her wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for “breaking up” with my toxic best friend on the day before her wedding?
I’m on mobile so sorry for formatting. TL;DR: My best friend of 18 years was really toxic. I was supposed to be the maid of honor in her wedding. The day before her wedding she had pushed me to my breaking point and I “broke up” with her. AITA? Extended version: I grew up in a small town with only one other kid in t...
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{ "description": "telling my friends not to buy each other sex toys", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends not to buy each other sex toys?
I’m hosting a late secret santa for my friend group of about 12 people. It first started off as a friend joking that he wanted a dildo from his secret santa to which the others hopped onto the joke saying they wanted the same thing. Now it’s getting to the point that some of them are actually considering getting their ...
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{ "description": "not deleting my Ex's Nudes until she asked", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: For Not Deleting my Ex's Nudes Until She Asked?
Recently me and my girlfriend broke up. Primary due to her infidelity. It's been 2 months since we broke up now and she's messaged me asking if I still have her nudes. I told her that I still have them backed up on my PC but not on my phone. They were on my PC encrypted and password protected with an extremely secure ...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend how to consume the groceries", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend how to consume the groceries?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for years and we’ve been living together for the better part of 3 years. We’re having a baby in two months so we’ve decided to cut back on eating out, which we did often. We eat almost all of our meals at home now. We’re both usually gone all day and make our own meals. The way my boyfriend ...
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{ "description": "drawing the line with my gf because she might be infertile", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for drawing the line with my GF because she might be infertile
A little context, I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years now and we always discuss about when we’re gonna get married among other serious plans. We’re just waiting for a better point in our lives but we know it’s going to happen when we are more financially stable and ready. She’s always been there for me and vic...
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