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"description": "essentially trying to make a person do their job without me doing it for them",
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} | AITA For essentially trying to make a person do their job without me doing it for them? | Hey everyone, I mostly need to vent, but please smite me with your judgement if you feel like it.
​
**Let's start with some background.**
I am a freelance game developer with multiple years of experience, and I work full-time on my own projects. I have a friend, who currently studies VR and UX design in u... | HISTORICAL | {
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​
There are a few questions of whether or not I'm the asshole in this story, but I'm relatively assured I was mostly in the right regarding most the questions. The last question is the one I'm having trouble validating. Here you go.
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"description": "telling my girlfriend not to bring anything while meeting my family",
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend not to bring anything while meeting my family? | My girlfriend tries to cook, she can't. She looks up recipes on websites, pinterest, and various different cooking outlets. I'm not really a picky eater, and there are some dishes by her that have been straight up awful or there's no way I'm eating this for dinner.
She takes the criticism sometimes bad, but has said ... | HISTORICAL | {
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So, me and my girlfriend are pretty secure and sometimes we’ll send pics of random people and be like, “isn’t thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my supervisor what a colleague said about her behind her back",
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} | WIBTA if I told my supervisor what a colleague said about her behind her back? | So, I work in a field where many people from the same field know each other. There’s this new guy, let’s call him Tim, who’s been transferred to our team a few months ago. He’s been in the field for a few years, and has worked in other teams and departments.
My supervisor, let’s call her Amy, is a very nice single l... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "not asking if I should go to my boyfriend's mother's funeral",
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} | AITA for not asking if I should go to my boyfriend's mother's funeral? | Long story short my boyfriend's mother just died of cancer. He took a one way flight home last night(it's a 10 hour drive away) because he was told to come home to say goodbye. Unfortunately when he got there he literally found her not breathing when he went to go greet her.
I stayed here for a number of reasons. He ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OAiw7Rj65rUSUcuf27pg8vmHcJ8OHEXW | ah4d6l | null | AITA My friend refuses to play a game with me that i bought for him... | So it all began when i met this guy around early 2017 he was pretty nice and we played a lot of PS4 together. about September 2017 we start fighting about something and we lost contact for a while. pretty much a year later he messages me on a new account asking if we can talk, i say yes and we agreed to stop fighting a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being upset with husband for telling me he has it worse when I'm upset",
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} | AITA for being upset with husband for telling me he has it worse when I'm upset? | Trying to keep this consise. Doesn't really matter about the circumstances, but we're a bit skint and it's my birthday soon. I was a bit upset that we probably wouldn't be able to afford dinner out for the family or some such, and was venting to him (TO him, not at him and I made that clear several times)
He turned aro... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to play a club sport anymore due to the fact I didn't get picked to goto nationals in another state",
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} | AITA for not wanting to play a club sport anymore due to the fact I didn’t get picked to goto nationals in another state | Joined a club sport for my university and the whole season was a build up to see if we make it to nationals in another state. The captain told us she only has enough money from the university to take 14 people which sucks since there is about 19 of us. I thought I did pretty well since I put my heart and soul into ever... | HISTORICAL | {
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xGZ4LNrFPf5NEgIRDyevDqCxDOJ2nVNK | b68mcf | {
"description": "expecting my roommate to do her own dishes",
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} | AITA for expecting my roommate to do her own dishes? | Okay so my roommate (f21) and I(f19) share a 2 bed 2 bath apartment about half a mile south of the local university. We have separate bedrooms and bathrooms but share the kitchen and living room as would be expected. I moved in almost a year ago when her previous roommate moved out to live with her boyfriend and over t... | HISTORICAL | {
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YgOKoiSgIsruVfPgAuEMPAmsWHdyzpRf | agme3z | null | AITA for my dislike of smoking? | Every time someone near me likes a smoke, I tend to make excessive nonverbal cues of my judgements on second hand smoke, such as grunting, face scrunching, or walking away ASAP. When I'm in a conversation with them, I can keep it a bit more under control (no gagging or asking them to stop, because smoking is their choi... | HISTORICAL | {
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sjdosLyokcmV2uBmffe9Lvf4te7DR9V0 | aznrmf | {
"description": "ending it with my fiancé because he's terrible with money",
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} | WIBTA if I ended it with my fiancé because he’s terrible with money? | Hi guys! So me (23f) and my fiancé (33m) have been together for two years. He’s honestly amazing and I’d do anything for him, hence what I did a couple months ago:
So he’s terrible with his money. He had a lot of debt and had no idea how to manage his finances. So he let me take over and become his accountant.
I hav... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Ks2LjdWSMnWgx0ILZguDIa4srRcQIsJ2 | b63bea | {
"description": "not playing the games my friend wants to play",
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} | Aita for not playing the games my friend wants to play ? | So first off, im. A huge Xbox nerd and most of my free time is spent on it. And i have of course a friend group on Xbox which includes, lets give him a fake name, FN: Fortnite nerd.
Now FN as you would expect, plays a ton if fortnite and gloats about his wins and about how his family has “money” (for context his family... | HISTORICAL | {
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zzSC7o1qXIvRGQ9ZCBjp1S9jfL9PzGxk | b6s5az | {
"description": "staying friends with someone who hurt a good friend",
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} | AITA for staying friends with someone who hurt a good friend? | I am a teenage girl, and as it usually ends up going for teenage girls, there happens to be some drama between two friends of mine. Sorry if this is boring to read and very cliche, and I hate typing this out because of how stupidly high school it is, but I genuinely would like some advice! :-(
For the sake of privacy... | HISTORICAL | {
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Xqi6DBKlKR9JBKoN3USppCILicNloBQQ | al5utn | {
"description": "being rude to a guy trying to talk to me on the street",
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} | AITA for being rude to a guy trying to talk to me on the street? | I want to preface this with some context - I'm an early 20s guy living in an American city where it's not uncommon to be approached on the street, usually by people that either want to sell you something or ask you for money or just generally do something weird. It's not a constant occurrence, but it's not out of the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Zopb5i3bcCufoIcF2dcUiVL7prF8QWhT | av41fd | null | AITA - Boyfriend wants to visit the gym with a pretty female. Am I bad for refusing this? | Since a short while my boyfriend has this new gym buddy(?). She is a young attractive single female. From looks she is definitely my boyfriends type. I don't know the lady.
He wants to hit the gym with her 2 hours a week. Should I be okay with this?
Is this normal? I cannot join a gym since I have severe muscle iss... | HISTORICAL | {
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bQcYsTDS0p9lRkn0elLMmC9Js2lQ7W5F | ay4la8 | {
"description": "being upset at my boyfriend for letting his mother be a control freak",
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} | AITA for being upset at my boyfriend for letting his mother be a control freak? | so, i (f19) have been dating ‘marcus’ (m21) for some time now.
things have been going pretty well, we get along extremely well, but there’s this huge stressor: his mom.
marcus and i make plans, right? usually after i finish class or after he’s done at work. but his mother always ruins these plans.
for example: valenti... | HISTORICAL | {
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4VRisjzMt19LnzZkwTOQiLVYYKRGOqCa | b775ty | {
"description": "subletting my rent controlled apartment to a new roommate instead of an ex who moved out 2+ years ago",
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} | AITA for subletting my rent controlled apartment to a new roommate instead of an ex who moved out 2+ years ago? | I've known my ex for 13 years, we dated for 8, lived together 7. He still comes by maybe 3 times a week. When I ended our relationship I gave him the option to keep our apartment and I'd move out, but he couldn't afford it. I was the one covering 60% - 100% of the bills each month. So instead, I took over the apartment... | HISTORICAL | {
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ed5IAcx1N757ROPUQLw8tIYMIfib9Frz | aaea76 | {
"description": "ditching my friends last minute and lying to one of them",
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} | AITA for ditching my friends last minute and lying to one of them? | I was supposed to go to this cafe in the next state over with them, but I stayed up until 6 am. I have insomnia and I’ve been struggling with anxiety and depression, and I was having a lot of issues sleeping that night. I woke up at 1 pm and we were supposed to leave around 3.
I told them that I was gonna go, I just n... | HISTORICAL | {
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1kEm1MvLQqDgpU4pQaG8XyRe6OvP3jq1 | aukwz1 | {
"description": "being mad at my greedy friend",
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} | AITA for being mad at my greedy friend | So I struggle to walk on Monday’s due to an injury that gets worse over the weekend due to a work injury. I can’t usually wait in line for breakfast though it is free but you can only get one. So I wait for the line to die down to get some cause of my ankle but when I get there ther is no sausage biscuits so I have to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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haOqemBH0ccPqWK0Ke7VraiHPukvRB3F | aslgzt | {
"description": "pointing out how dysfunctional my family is during a visit",
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} | AITA for pointing out how dysfunctional my family is during a visit? | My mom has always gotten under my skin and easily annoys me. She interrupts meaningful conversation with inane questions (like about food or gossip). She talks really loud too, and sort of parrots people when she's amused. She'll also talk at you about inane and painfully basic stuff, and you have to tell her eventuall... | HISTORICAL | {
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D7GwRQ0iw9PH0ChGNxIkt4wFfrOHORpX | b4lb5v | {
"description": "not having compassion for the homeless even though I just got out of homelessness 4 months ago",
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} | AITA for not having compassion for the homeless even though I just got out of homelessness 4 months ago? | I'm coming up on 18 months clean from meth and I spent the first year of my sobriety in a homeless shelter.
Last weekend, I had to go back to get my mail and when I walked into the building, I was disgusted. Even though I recognized a lot of the men, some of them I even considered friends, all I could see was the wo... | HISTORICAL | {
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fGqiAdKMMgkwM3hsAWbT3ikH2y74HzeO | at9thw | {
"description": "cutting ties with a ex gf who keeps telling me about and sending me pics of and with new bf",
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} | AITA for cutting ties with a ex gf who keeps telling me about and sending me pics of and with new bf | So when her and I were together, she didn't want any pictures of us on SC, FB, and Insta. Found out later the reason was because she didn't want her ex to find out we were dating. In her words, she didn't want to "hurt him." So anyway, my gf moved out of my place, then ended it thru a voicemail. After a couple months ... | HISTORICAL | {
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otktr9cGdBnq25KvtIfnIjrMiy3fhFKK | b5jucw | {
"description": "telling my spouse that I don't want people over at our house",
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} | AITA for telling my spouse that I don't want people over at our house? | Pretty much how it sounds. I am a full time student in med school with my board exams coming up in less than two months. I spend most of my time studying for school these days. I told my spouse that I didn't want guests coming over until after I take my exam in May. I do most of the cleaning/housework, so when company ... | HISTORICAL | {
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SqdV32ps7b8hVKIuqgqNDLPYkNqKFy7w | azrqkx | {
"description": "telling my 7 year old sister to \"fuck off\" in front of my entire family",
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} | AITA for telling my 7 year old sister to “fuck off” in front of my entire family? | Great start to my Spring Break. I’m 21 years old and go to school far away from my hometown so I only come back home during extended breaks.
At college I curse like a sailor and admittedly may have a slight problem with it but I’m usually on top of only using it in the right situations.
So I got back on Saturday and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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XbILmtoC3Y2ZlbtY20JM7Zu5dHUPQjoB | a7numc | {
"description": "refusing to play along for Christmas",
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} | AITA for refusing to play along for Christmas? | I don’t think I am, but my family acts like I’m ruining everything for the rest of them.
I come from a super mormon family and all our Christmas traditions revolve around church and Jesus themes. This includes acting out a nativity scene and reading the Bible birth of Jesus story on Christmas Eve, attending church if... | HISTORICAL | {
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QjioNJ70zNjow03ypAq6CDyMtY5STGXd | axvdn7 | {
"description": "cutting ties with a girl at work who told me she was in love with me",
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} | AITA for cutting ties with a girl at work who told me she was in love with me? | First time posting.
Getting right into it, about a year ago I met this girl at work. Let's call her Sam. Sam and I became friends pretty quickly as most people at our job are older. Sam deals with anxiety/ depression and doesn't have a lot of friends, so I made an effort to invite her to outtings with my friends outsi... | HISTORICAL | {
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wH55TIPZGTeGqRoFLXoOKTO5obxu7hKa | 9xd6h2 | {
"description": "not giving my ex a chance to be in our daughters life",
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} | AITA for not giving my ex a chance to be in our daughters life? | I’m pregnant. My ex was abusive and I had to get a restraining order. He’s broken it multiple times. I’ve pressed charges.
He still sends me messages. Most are about wanting to be in our child’s life and I have a lot of guilt about keeping him away from our daughter. (Don’t get me wrong there are a lot of mean messa... | HISTORICAL | {
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HkbShQj0gp6JMb5bJrdmLgu74HbOvMeH | b03x9w | {
"description": "breaking up with my asexual girlfriend",
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} | WIBTA if I broke up with my asexual girlfriend? | So I'm going to be using the names Bob for me and Susan for my girlfriend. I apologize if this post seems to be in shambles, it's late and this question has been tearing me up inside lately.
So I, Bob, am a bisexual man. I came out while at college, and during this time I got really involved in my college's Queer Stud... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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TnQNlODAbdpCeaLV3Ns8vnoiRJL1mn5G | avepti | {
"description": "not telling everyone that my birthday is today",
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} | AITA for not telling everyone that my birthday is today | yep my birthday is today and I didn't tell anyone. My sister told me that my friends should at least know because it's unfair and she would feel bad if she didn't knew. I don't want to let everyone know its my birthday, because its nothing special for me. I told her that and she did seem hurt about it. The look she gav... | HISTORICAL | {
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EXxYvdaorsobfz52q3dAChNvaUwgA0WG | a1ail8 | {
"description": "not telling him to stop",
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} | AITA for not telling him to stop? | A few months ago my friends and I (F) had a d&d game where we did several Tequilla shots.
Things escalated from there and after two people left the remaining four of us put on a movie.
We were with 2 guys and two girls.
I'll call them Simon, Randy and Elisa.
Simon had a lovely girlfriend for over 3 years they had... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not visiting my grandfather who's in ICU",
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He's currently 10 hours North and my family is already there with him with the exception of myself and a few cousins who are preparing to make the drive as I'm writing this. My mother gave me a call not long ago with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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BqX4aYjkpnOtaqQaxSGR8ubBZoSdYVdm | b0w894 | {
"description": "stealing my friend's girlfriend",
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About a year ago I broke up with my ex (ltr) and moved to the city, around this time I also started a new job. The first few months I was trying to get my life together when I made a new friend at work, let's call him Bill. Bill is an interesting guy to say the least, I'll leave some details out, but I will say that... | HISTORICAL | {
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p25bE68sNTUZ6ucbNHxYU2Fn3vUljP2B | b4z73n | {
"description": "refusing to go to my grandfathers memorial service",
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} | AITA for refusing to go to my grandfathers memorial service? | Little back story, I (34m/divorced)have a 5 year old son who I have primary custody of. I got a rather good paying job in the Bay Area but it requires me to work graveyard. As a result I had to move back home.
My mother has lived in our family house for the 15 years. Done all the maintenance and up keep herself.
I’v... | HISTORICAL | {
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bAhN9ZxCi2jSePW4bZ2JHt82GJzALz5e | amcqch | {
"description": "embarrassing a pair of horny teenagers",
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} | AITA for embarrassing a pair of horny teenagers? | Ok so today I took my 3 little ones (6,4,1) to our local park. On the slide was a teenage couple about 16/17 kissing and on top of one another.. I kindv walked down the other end but made eye contact n felt pretty uncomfortable. Lol
They stopped and moved to the swings wher they started cuddling etc so this time I sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "resenting my roommate",
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} | AITA for resenting my roommate? | Disclaimer: I'm a first time poster so bare with me. Also this is a long one.
​
I'm currently in college and last year I went through some tough times. All I did was sit in my room and sulk. A friend of mine would often hang in my room with me, she would often play movies or we'd play board games, but we w... | HISTORICAL | {
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NNgaZsVLvzTbWDxHErrWi0zCw7iI0BqO | ax1scn | {
"description": "hating on my dad",
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} | AITA for hating on my dad? | Okay, this question may seem obvious, but I'm really confused right now.
My dad and I never had a good relationship. He is always rude to me and my mother, sometimes spanks me and cheats on my mom with different women very often. When he isn't at home, he is with some friends drinking at the bar (he gets home drunk alm... | HISTORICAL | {
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13Jg9jjykQ0rmmmZ1B26g5mD2jYbzlYi | 9ue5gp | {
"description": "hating my brother with a deep passion",
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} | AITA? I hate my brother with a deep passion | Me and my brother have really never been friends, for as long as I can remember he has been teasing me, kicking me, scaring me around every corner, he even jumps on top of me and he’s probably about 150 LBS. Idk and idc if this sounds a bit petty, but I can’t stand him, sometimes he and my other brother will “team up” ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gd7646Ec01nYmxFNPsUuUlodgq1D7rD4 | 9wazri | {
"description": "leaving without a 30 day notice",
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} | AITA for leaving without a 30 day notice | So I've been living with a pain in my ankle for about a year now. Some months are easier than others, but with the weight I am currently at, it's been a struggle.
The job I am currently at uses me for about 55 hours a week and it is quite abit of walking around. Ive been there for about 6 months. As you can ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "giving a homeless man food instead of money? tl;dr at bottom",
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} | AITA for giving a homeless man food instead of money? TL;DR at bottom | So this just happened not 30 minutes ago.
Just for context I have a job that I work at till 12:30 am and because I have to rely on public transport I don't get home till 3 am. I only work 3 days out of the week so I don't mind the commute. I also live in between a pretty upscale gentrified neighborhood and a pretty s... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Eo5UuN9rs85Tofbgx8FhIoiPVOsbArx | asldl9 | {
"description": "not wanting to be friends with an ex because she makes me think of my dead best friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be friends with an ex because she makes me think of my dead best friend? | Sorry if formatting is a bit weird or if there is spelling mistakes, I’m on mobile.
So I couple months ago right before thanksgiving, me and this girl I had liked started going out. We had hit it off and it seemed to be going pretty well until one day late January where she broke up with me out of the blue saying... | HISTORICAL | {
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M8NoPjbLzIrHbv7O9aBXjNtFHGVcECQ4 | apocd0 | {
"description": "getting annoying when my friends/bf joke about my speech impediment",
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} | AITA for getting annoying when my friends/bf joke about my speech impediment? (in this situation) | Sorry for the long post, I just have a lot to unpack and I'm trying to explain both sides to the best of my ability. TLDR at bottom.
Since kindergarten I've been in Speech Therapy, for about 2/3's of the Alphabet, and a slew of problems such as talking too fast, volume control, etc. It isn't anything mentally wrong, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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c3RmcOIdSY0GNBD6U3rtSSgK8udAongQ | atc2no | {
"description": "ruining my Boyfriends Friendships",
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} | AITA For Ruining my Boyfriends Friendships | So this happened like three years ago, but I still feel guilty about it. My boyfriend (24M) and I (20F) met and started dating. After a month or so, everything is good so I start to meet his friends. Initially, it was all fine. He had six friends, a little group, and lived with two of them.
Well, as time went on we g... | HISTORICAL | {
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mZ6DoXIAlCJhh50sLJ6oaOAeOJmQFp7n | angbfo | {
"description": "calling out a classmate",
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} | AITA for calling out a classmate? | So, here it is, after commenting on a bunch of dumb posts on her, I finally had an asshole moment. Perhaps it's karma.
I'm an a Small Group Communications class at my college. We all had to make groups and give ourselves team posters and names. Well, this one group named themselves "The Yellow Jackets." Their mascot ... | HISTORICAL | {
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B314OjbGRMK6ufURKXTnFt5jZ5z4bgWs | afibua | {
"description": "not wanting my grandma to treat me like I'm a kid",
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} | AITA if i don’t want my grandma to treat me like i’m a kid ? |
A little background info , my dad originally lived with his family in the northern part of the county but when he married my mom moved with her to the south, so the only times my family visited my grandparents were during easter or summer.
Right now I have moved to the city my grandparents live because I’m attendin... | HISTORICAL | {
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eSfU1yOzOM50NnsWu6qZ0Zo5GCdO6fSb | a0ycxd | {
"description": "breaking up with girlfriend for getting plastic surgery",
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} | AITA for breaking up with girlfriend for getting plastic surgery? | This happened 2 weeks ago, but I just discovered this sub.
I was with my girlfriend for 6 months and everything was great. We didn't fight much since it was pretty early on into the relationship, and I'm not really a contentious guy. Then, she told me that she got plastic surgery... We're both Korean and Koreans ar... | HISTORICAL | {
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didIpX4AJe5q7KKxjfshMparUki8LkIZ | 9uf992 | {
"description": "cancelling a date",
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} | AITA for cancelling a date | So 2 weeks ago I met a girl on Tinder, and we hit it off pretty quickly. We had similar taste in music which was a big plus. Here's the thing though, she lives about 200 miles from me. She told me her location was set to where I was because she didn't want her clients to see her on tinder. She's in the mental health fi... | HISTORICAL | {
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TObYQVpGijJ9fctXYKHj32NJcMTplsK5 | 9zk8dw | {
"description": "not talking to my sister",
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} | AITA for not talking to my sister | A little history here. My older sister has always been troublesome, like pulled a knife on me and my brother more than once troublesome. Most my life she has been verbally and physically violent so for awhile I just kinda fell out of touch with her. A few years back she started medication for her anger issues (diagnose... | HISTORICAL | {
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e5MFsFuv8uLnqa8K9fWztI1dhwcsoq2z | axv88y | {
"description": "not giving my friends a ride home",
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} | WIBTA for not giving my friends a ride home? | So my two friends don't have cars and I feel like they expect me to give them a ride home for spring break. We are from the same city and go to college 4 hours away. One of them has a dog that they brought from home for a bit, and I know that it will be hard for her to transport it otherwise.
They haven't asked me y... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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RSm4k9HNNJ8uss0MY5mntEJRzTFE9UyL | aizr00 | {
"description": "being extremely pissed at my husband for saving his game file over my game file and now I dont even want to play anymore",
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} | AITA for being extremely pissed at my husband for saving his game file over my game file and now I dont even want to play anymore. | Pretty straightforward.
My husband and I are gamers. He recently bought me God of War for the PS4. YASS! I've grown up with GoW so having this was a must. I had finished the main storyline and was working on finishing up the side quests so I can build up my stats and start defeating the Valkories. I also needed one mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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eHwt23Y1Lzw5PlH72j7WxaaYvVtwcYeh | aidpi9 | {
"description": "breaking my roommates bottle of booze",
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} | AITA for breaking my roommates bottle of booze | my roommate owned a bottle of whiskey he was given for his birthday and placed it on top of the fridge. over the course of a few months somehow it ended up resting on the door of the fridge. i got up one morning and when to grab some food out of the freezer, and the bottle fell onto the ground, shattering and getting w... | HISTORICAL | {
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nia66gNBIUueC4V0ysvztJ6WI7fa2cs1 | b2q20i | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend her obsession with Joan Crawford is weird",
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend her obsession with Joan Crawford is weird? | My girlfriend is obsessed with Crawford. She watches her movies all of time, even if they're not "talkies". Her best friend is just as obsessed. They love classic Hollywood, not just Crawford, Garbo and Monroe as well, but especially Crawford. It would be one thing if they just liked her as an actress, but they ideali... | HISTORICAL | {
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kGFfRHTamLRxpuGsQiG5ybr2safdPO0W | b2jz6e | {
"description": "ignoring a stranger's kid wanting to talk to me about video games",
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} | AITA for ignoring a stranger's kid wanting to talk to me about video games | It was a normal ride on a bus on the way back home. Out of nowhere, a kid, about 11 years old, came to me and wants to have a conversation with me about his mobile games. I glanced at his phone and I could see that it was some sort of "Clash of clan" clone type of game. I was uninterested and proceed to ignore the kid,... | HISTORICAL | {
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wbISfiKvJpzyVM3pdiVb204mKzkMHTNN | b2nvx8 | {
"description": "saying that my friend shouldn't be put in jail",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for saying that my friend shouldn't be put in jail? | So bit of a backstory, my friend has a history of lying about things to get her own way. She's a good person generally but her word is not.. trustworthy.
The other day he was with one of our friends and after a bit of alcohol, he pushed himself against her and she defended herself and screamed at him to leave.
He was... | HISTORICAL | {
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u8Ud3USoAtXKXSsZ2vYkzX7l8OQJ3PaP | b1yf4u | {
"description": "getting angry at my co-workers",
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} | AITA for getting angry at my co-workers | Gimme some help here reddit.
I have been working in my new job for about a month now and so far i think I've been getting on quite well with my colleagues. I haven't had any issues yet, haven't had a fight with anyone and we enjoy a bit of banter as well on our everyday cohabitation on our workplace.
For the past we... | HISTORICAL | {
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DvRIdYyoDRnXZFngdh0mqzDYmfnAsOJq | a4kdtq | {
"description": "wanting to spend the money on myself",
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} | AITA for wanting to spend the money on myself? | So I quit smoking and decided that as a treat I would put the money aside until I had £500 to buy myself a pair of Louboutins (I've wanted these for years but have never wanted to part with that much cash for some shoes).
So, the money is there now. I'm still not smoking. I can go buy my shoes!! However. I'm leaving m... | HISTORICAL | {
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NAooFHBOgtSccWYGzTfo7v6EyETL2CNF | 9zce3k | {
"description": "responding to my exes text when I dunno if I want to re date him? what should I do or think about my ex randomly reaching out to me",
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} | AITA for responding to my exes text when I dunno if I wanna re date him? What should I do or think about my ex randomly reaching out to me? | Here’s how our convo went. He started it out of no where
Him: Hope you had fun visiting home. I went and watched Malik again my coworker had death in the fam and had to leave short notice for the weekend
Me: Thanks!! Aw. I bet you and Malik was stoked had such a great time with you two dudes just chilling
Hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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jNaGNb79VAEJUiE5yxpWFu3CxqMTlYnN | at8gww | {
"description": "asking my best friend to define the boundaries of our relationship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for asking my best friend to define the boundaries of our relationship? | Backstory:
Me and her (let's call her "X") grew up in the same neighborhood but only become close and subsequently best friends about 4ish years ago. About April last year she moved upstate (about 7 hours away) to live with her boyfriend. Since then, whenever we've been able we've met up and hung out and it's alway... | HISTORICAL | {
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d0uLCHzuqvBenTCSncPW9I75u54hpO2T | adlrsf | {
"description": "not going to wedding",
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} | Aita for not going to wedding. | Hello this is a follow up from a post yesterday. My sister was mad that I didnt give her a gift despite the fact that I was the only immediate family not invited to save space. I'm in my 20s and have a good but limited relationship with my sister. She know says I should've came despite the fact that I wasnt invited ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KNrZq5NZrSUU22dgqOXYLXT6Gq1YFTY7 | aioiyi | {
"description": "not paying the dog sitter for their table that my dog broke",
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} | AITA for not paying the dog sitter for their table that my dog broke? | My SO and I had travel plans for 2 weeks and his coworker offered to board our 2 dogs for $200 at his place. We gave him $300 because we were originally planning on having them stay at professional boarding for about $700 and we wanted to show our gratitude for his kind offer.
Our dogs are generally easy going as lo... | HISTORICAL | {
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s3HoPJaluzel4sUC5Pbp8Hv9pje963Hs | a9ajip | {
"description": "looking at my sisters reddit comments",
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} | AITA for looking at my sisters reddit comments? | She gave me her reddit so I looked at her profile, she only has 3 posts so I looked at her comments. I noticed they're mostly downvoted so I asked her why and she got angry and told me "god, this is why I didn't want to give you my reddit".
AITA for looking at my sisters reddit comments?? | HISTORICAL | {
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EHEhGKV43tga03GERmHyysTaaQk7KmXG | b8ln53 | {
"description": "skipping my roommate's birthday party because she's been pissing me off lately",
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} | WIBTA if I skip my roommate’s birthday party because she’s been pissing me off lately? | I’ve been living in this house for a couple of months with six total people. One of my roommates is a lot to handle—gets mad if anybody is talking about anything that doesn’t personally interest her (aka if anybody talks about anything other than romantic comedies), massively passive aggressive, late on her rent every ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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YMBP87N9LJNajxOTrOYZWibiqXi2txLP | b7gzm2 | {
"description": "unwittingly revealing my cousin is adopted",
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} | AITA for unwittingly revealing my cousin is adopted? | Long story short, my dad has history of issues (addition based mostly) and has been distant from his relatives for a long time. After my parents divorce they stopped communicating with my sister and I (age 11 at the time) and I haven't really seen them since.
​
Fast forward to recently and my dad is in re... | HISTORICAL | {
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rpnbCJ0pCiL0H29lRjYODV8mrriZnxGY | azb0sx | null | AITA about my boyfriend and my cat? | (Throwaway) i recently moved in with my boyfriend after getting kicked out. I dont have much, just about two outfits, two sketchbooks, a bag and my cat. The outfits ive received have been donated to me. My boyfriend makes posts online and often refers to my cat as his cat, since he lives here now, and i dont blame him,... | HISTORICAL | {
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bD0Us7AX07HaxfO5DXkeZ95s0PZ9oarG | azsfpc | {
"description": "being mad at my friend for this",
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} | AITA for being mad at my friend for this? | This happened about two months ago and no I'm not still mad about it but it keeps popping up in my mind that he still hasn't apologized and i don't plan on bringing it up to him but i just want other options.
So about two months ago i did something that i was really excited about and wanted to tell about it to a spec... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being upset with my partner over gaming",
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His hobbies are gaming and making games. I admire that he knows what he wants to do with his life and I love the passion he has for making games.
But since both of his hobbies involve the pc,... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being angry about being denied an empty seat on the bus",
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} | AITA for being angry about being denied an empty seat on the bus? | This one wasn't actually me, or even anyone I know, but an interaction I witnessed on the bus a couple days ago, that left me a bit bewildered.
The bus was packed with people standing in the aisle, yet there were still two empty seats in the back (one had a lady's purse in it, but I still count that as 'empty' as the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not being very excited about my Valentine's day gift",
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We opened our Valentine’s Day cards and gifts before the kids went to school. The kids got chocolate or cookies, balloons, and cards. Hubby got chocolate, a card, and a 4 foot folding camp table (he has been complaining at every camp out for the last year that he needed a table). I got no... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to re adopt my twins back",
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"description": "being angry and disappointed about my girlfriend's gift for our anniversary",
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Tomorrow me and my girlfriend will celebrate our first anniversary. That means gifts, or at least for us it is that way. Unfortunately I am really picky when it comes to receiving gifts, whereas my girlfriend is more reasonable. For what concerns th... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to wear a suit jacket to my brother's wedding before his fiancé dies",
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} | AITA for not wanting to wear a suit jacket to my brother’s wedding before his fiancé dies? | My brother is getting married to his fiancé, who has terminal brain cancer. He’s already been married once and is freshly divorced (privately I think he’s getting the marriage purely because she’s dying but I wouldn’t dream of saying that to anybody involved).
They’re planning for a summer wedding, and my problem is t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting a friend smoke in my car",
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} | AITA for not letting a friend smoke in my car? | Last weekend I spent a few days in the mountains with my friends. We arranged to meet in a certain place and leave all with the same car to spare money and I offered to drive. A friend of mine, let’s call her Emily, was really upset because her dad’s car (she still lives with her parents and hasn’t got her own car, so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "keeping a video of somebody up on youtube",
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} | AITA for keeping a video of somebody up on youtube? | A while ago I went to a concert and in the pre-sound check for VIP's a fan was called up and played the guitar while the singer sung. He contacted me after and was very understanding and just asked me to link his channel in which I did. Now my video has about 400,000 views while his as about 10,000. He is now contactin... | HISTORICAL | {
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ndqYotu3yuUPYDXN1CznG87Mg7OLpqlv | aeci0w | {
"description": "not wanting to talk about where I went to school",
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk about where I went to school? | My friend wants to know where I went to school. I went to a private school for 6 years because I didn’t wanna go through the hell of public school. But I can’t tell anyone this, because people judge private schoolers. So she asked me where I went to school, and I told her I don’t like talking about it, but she will not... | HISTORICAL | {
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oy2tdgVeMn3X9D81rIRN4NeDv6M0u6qR | amcfzs | {
"description": "telling my sister Im not going to put my phone on vibrate at work",
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} | AITA for telling my sister im not going to put my phone on vibrate at work. | Tdlr: at bottom. It's a bit of a long post. Let's start you off with some background. I work in customer service and at my job the rules for cellphones are if they are on you then they have to be on silent and stay in your pocket. I have been at this job for three years and have never had a problem with my phone being ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "calling their religious beliefs ridiculous",
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} | AITA for calling their religious beliefs ridiculous? | This probably gonna be a long one, sorry in advance.
I have a friend who I used to be close to when we were younger. Ever since, he has progressively gotten worse with his problems. He has a pretty bad drug problem and uses marijuana so much that it has become a crutch. (I don’t mind casual smoking but it becomes harm... | HISTORICAL | {
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aJv1nWf3cTi39Jt4NcEQ5mynrWyPl4oT | aeb6vd | {
"description": "\"copying\" my friend",
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} | AITA for "copying" my friend? | This happened a very long time ago, but the "friend" is still mad about it. Sorry for the cluster fuck of a story, I can't remember it well as it happened years ago.
Back in middle school I had this friend (we'll call him Matt) and he is interested in dubstep. Back then I was listening to pop songs and etc. Sometimes ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "demanding more money for extra work",
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} | AITA for demanding more money for extra work? | I'm in second year of a technical university and I started giving private lessons for high school students and highschool entrance exams (math, German, French, accounting, java programming and law). I took a teaching class at another uni for a while to improve my teaching skills. I usually get only good feedback from p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not giving a seat to a pregnant woman on a crowded bus with 8-10 people standing",
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} | AITA for not giving a seat to a pregnant woman on a crowded bus with 8-10 people standing | Hi first time posting here. Hope i’m not the AHole
So just another casual day at the bus with a lot people standing( i live in a third-world country where buses are always crowded).
So on my mid way to trip there’s this woman who got in the bus and stand as there’s no seat to sit. I was looking down as I was tired a... | HISTORICAL | {
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hWZg8K7WM45Vp8O8siawX6Ac4HFvyHt5 | b2avnz | {
"description": "wanting to take a break from a friendship without telling anyone about it",
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} | AITA for wanting to take a break from a friendship without telling anyone about it? | First off, this is less of a "Am I the asshole" and more of a "would I be an asshole if."
For a bit of context, I have depression, and I have anxiety. I started seeing a therapist about four weeks ago, and started medications about two weeks ago. Lately it has gotten bad enough to where I cannot find any joy in anythi... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZJnC2hw9XoLI6QJDYKWGRZORV8t6N2H1 | a8cynu | {
"description": "making a coworker feel so uncomfortable, he quit his job",
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} | AITA for making a coworker feel so uncomfortable, he quit his job? | A while ago I was moving a cart at work across a hallway to a storage room, and at one point had to open a swing door. I opened it, grabbed the cart and backed in through the door, with my face away from the door (to check equipment on the cart) and bumped with my back into a coworker.
This is not a close colleague, b... | HISTORICAL | {
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EhzVrzcj6LsD7nPeHePKAB3Bs2iFQFnB | askrwq | {
"description": "not getting cheap food when others pay for my meal",
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} | AITA Not getting cheap food when others pay for my meal. | So this isn’t so much a story more of a philosophy that a lot of people have called me an asshole for. So anytime a friend or anyone buys me food, I get what I want, I get the same thing I’d get if I was paying for myself. I don’t get more than I need, I don’t get more than I’d normally eat. Whenever I pay for my frien... | HISTORICAL | {
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osKWL506c0gQNZIrIjCvTvaNF4ig0zcB | b9g1qt | {
"description": "not wanting to be there when my GF tries MDMA",
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} | AITA for not wanting to be there when my GF tries MDMA? | So a little context to start with me (24M) and my GF (23F) have been together for just under a year. We met on tinder but really hit it off in our first date so started to see each other pretty regularly for a couple of months before deciding to commit to a relationship. At the time we lived pretty close to each other ... | HISTORICAL | {
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RET3L2fGt4msmkpbGMTpQtvQ78vV7PhK | ba3q9j | {
"description": "(accidentally) humblebragging to my less wealthy friends",
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} | AITA for (accidentally) humblebragging to my less wealthy friends | So I was very fortunate to be born to wealthy parents, who do business in west Africa. I thusly go to a very expensive private school. Some of my friend's parents are not so rich (although by most standards still wealthy), and some can go as the companies that their parents work for pays their tuition ($ 32k). Now when... | HISTORICAL | {
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5NdaPOIZU0mSyY6UxR5ZKTQ4csfMvwN0 | b890wq | {
"description": "accusing an up and coming business of capitalizing off of another's hardships",
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} | AITA for accusing an up and coming business of capitalizing off of another’s hardships. | Around a month-and-a-half ago, our local rock gym was forced out of their location. They didn’t go out of business, but we’re essentially evicted from they building they were in for 20+ years so a developer could build some apartments and restaurants. They have made it clear that they are not going out of business, but... | HISTORICAL | {
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F3DQaoe6Knw1K8gtaqrUFZEuSOvDL3ur | a8ilo5 | {
"description": "not deleting nude photos of a girl I legally own the rights to until she paid me back for all the rent she was supposed to pay",
"pronormative_score": 166,
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} | AITA for not deleting nude photos of a girl I legally own the rights to until she paid me back for all the rent she was supposed to pay. | To sum up the entire story as quickly as possible. I worked for a photography company for a while. During this time I met a girl (we'll call B) and we started dating.
B and I took a bunch of nude photos of her several times throughout our relationship. She paid me for these photos and signed the rats to me. Eventually... | HISTORICAL | {
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​
Details: I'm a twin (18) living in Australia with me mum and twin. I got my P's just a few weeks ago, my sister on the other hand has done zero effort to get her license (for non aussie... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting my bf to side with me against his friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting my BF to side with me against his friend? | This will be a long one. Sorry for any mistakes, I'm on mobile and not a native. This happened on Friday.
T= team mate
G= our friend (more her friend)
F = bf's friend
BF = boyfriend
Me= me
Let me start by saying F is (was?) a good friend of mine, too. At 6 am, I noticed that we were missing an important part o... | HISTORICAL | {
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iTEFl7qfWkU88dPPs5xTez4mjMZVdjaV | ahi6pi | {
"description": "asking my mom to take her feet off my car dashboard",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for asking my mom to take her feet off my car dashboard. | We are currently waiting to pick up my little sister. My mom decided as we waited to put her feet on the dashboard of my car. I told her to put it down because I think it is gross she is placing her feet there. But she keeps claiming that she will be uncomfortable. I reminded her that whenever I am in her car, that I n... | HISTORICAL | {
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4dVTfltIqXnxvnz0TyGLovhNR8x2or45 | acygfv | {
"description": "trying to buy an item with $100 in coins",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for trying to buy an item with $100 in coins? | I counted up my piggy banks today. It took me about half an hour and it came out to just over $100.
It's Saturday so my bank isn't open so I decided to go to a local head shop and try and get a new bong.
(DISCLAIMER: many of you may think im an asshole stoner, being a total chump for doing this but I'll just say it'... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ak23K3aPgJfiBClVkEvtQCu70mBShIz7 | b5c7nl | {
"description": "not being too quick or skilled at my job",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not being too quick or skilled at my job? | Hello. Im 16 and have been at my Subway job for only 3 weeks, part time. Last and this week have been my spring break from school, so ive been in during daytime shifts to make some extra cash.
My general manager (H) has been the only person working with me while on spring break. He’s almost 50 years old, and pretty sk... | HISTORICAL | {
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EStwMYoTuRPcfaxyB3aTtuROWGGtAqIh | ba7waf | {
"description": "making a dumb joke as a child",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for making a dumb joke as a child? | Not too long but still a TL;DR at the end for the inpatient readers
C = Cousin
Rf1= random friend 1
Rf2 = random friend 2
Me = me
First of all I'm on mobile, its my first time posting and English isn't my first language. So go easy on me.
A couple of years ago it was my cousins birthday. I was around 9 at the time a... | HISTORICAL | {
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TNOlKILld49BMd4KPrUYL0lC4Mob0FAo | ag1knx | {
"description": "exposing my cheating ex in work",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For exposing my cheating ex in work? | So a bit of backstory. My ex and i work together and i noticed she had been chatting to another guy in work quite often. She assured me that this guy was just a friend and there was nothing going on. This guy is married and has a young child.
Fast forward a couple of months, my ex and i had been on holiday to Egypt w... | HISTORICAL | {
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eQjXIacRBpNQiUX2pFXyEvYTERZiklCw | b7uyy5 | {
"description": "censoring the n-word in a Snapchat post",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For censoring the n-word in a Snapchat post? | First time poster, on a throwaway because I don’t know how controversial this might be. I’m also on mobile So I apologize if anything is incorrect.
I need to start with some context so apologies in advance if it’s a tad bit lengthy.
On Snapchat today I posted a story about a neighbor who threatened and used racial sl... | HISTORICAL | {
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WDwl7BDgWJRWUT4X5cphZPATjvr8e2Zq | abt3yh | {
"description": "not caring if this girl is alive or dead anymore",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not caring if this girl is alive or dead anymore? | Ok so basically some back story is me and this girl used to date somewhere around the begining of the year and I had to break up because I needed to prioritize my studies than anything ,but she didn't want to accept it. After a few months pass by we start talking for a few. During our conversation i considered her as f... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ej0rwqCCdA35IWnTeo39oVj0h0mdDTXn | annl1t | {
"description": "not showing up",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not showing up? | My friend recently had to give up her two dogs which is a very devastating thing for our friend group because we love those dogs with all of our heart. Unfortunately, after years of having them her allergies just kept getting worse and worse and she was having issues breathing even with regular treatments.
They invited... | HISTORICAL | {
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5uX6sHWcVEA9jj3CQ7qNglMhDMk4H2Nw | anatql | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my best friends wedding",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to go to my best friends wedding? | I need the unbiased Reddit users of this sub to tell me whether I'm being an asshole in this situation because I've received mixed feedback from the people in my life.
​
My best friend got engaged to a guy who over the course of their 10-month relationship has cheated on her multiple times with multiple wo... | HISTORICAL | {
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8MgDuhDyyLRqoX3cEZs0waGJAUL44Dvn | at6pcw | {
"description": "not being able to get past our \"engagement\"",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for not being able to get past our "engagement" | Throwaway for this post. Backstory
Dec 2017, my bf\[27M\] and I talked about getting engaged. I gave him a link to my pinterest with ring styles i liked, and left it at that, expecting him to propose.
for context, a lot of my bf's friends were getting engaged and he was helping them plan and execute their propos... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
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