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yourself to stop worrying about how others will perceive you will be an accomplishment
in itself
Your routines eg walking cannot be efficient unless their component subroutines
eg extending the ankle knee and hip are optimal themselves You might feel uncoordinated
when you start to slow things down and focus on the individual parts of each action Thats
totally normal You have thousands of steps to take every day likely for the rest of your life
so you want to reengineer them to be as efficient as possible Relearn how to complete the
smallest motor movements in ways that dont use anxiety for propulsion Insteadglide
This goes for writing speaking typing opening a door handing an object to someone
and everything else imaginable
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
Conserve Your Momentum While Walking
Whenever you are walking you should be taking full advantage of your bodys forward energy
Most people walk without conserving their momentum They break the inertia they have going
with each indecisive stride Poorly timed foot falls eat up their speed slow them down
and create a bumpy ride Take some time to analyze how you lose momentum in your default
walking pattern
Each foot plant should not be a collision but rather a brief foothold to push off against
Rolling down your foot from heel to toes will help with this Also use the proprioceptive
sensors throughout your knees and ankles to help you determine how much momentum from
the last step can be reused in the next surefooted step Placing your foot too far in front of the
body known as overstriding is one of the most common mistakes people make when walking
It breaks up your glide Understriding is also common So pay careful attention to the fluidity
created by stride length and try to optimize it
Dont second guess a single step Conserving your momentum will turn your stride into a
buoyant saunter and override any hesitancies deriving from submissive signaling Done right
you should feel like a freight train Allay any worries that people will think that you are walking
in an aggressive angry way It is not angry at all It is merely efficient
Dont hobble Coast Set sail on your own momentum and ride like the wind
Conclusion
Walk as if you are kissing the earth with your feet Thich Nhat Hanh
It is worth mentioning that there are many ways to multitask while walking Walking with other
people is a great way to bond You can help each other to develop mutually assertive outof
doors powerwalking body language Instead of taking your phone calls in bed or on the couch
take them as you parade around your neighborhood A headset with a microphone or a
Bluetooth earphone can make this easier You can also turn your time walking into an
opportunity for learning if you decide to listen to audiobooks using headphones Additionally
you can use the act of walking to create a breathing metronome For instance often inhale
for five steps and then exhale for eight Otherwise walking can be an opportune time to take
in nature meditate live in the moment practice mindfulness and create a new
improved persona
Chapter Use Optimal Posture and Antirigidity While Walking
Chapter Bullet Points
e Walking is highly health promoting
e Maintain the five tenets of optimal posture while walking
e Strut and swagger while you walk to build confidence
e Walk with exaggerated soliderlike posture for two minutes until the muscles involved
reach a healthy fatigue Then allow the muscles at least a minute to rest completely
before repeating
e Perform upperbody antirigidity while you walk by moving your arms shoulders and
back through different unfamiliar configurations
e Walking regularly with your hands in the air and the neck retracted will help put your
cervical and thoracic spine into optimal configuration
When you walk for prolonged periods take breaks to allow your muscles to regenerate
When you break from walking refresh your muscles by squatting lunging and touching
your toes This will bring fresh blood to spinal sections that have become stale
e Practice glidewalking where the glute calf and toes of the back leg are fully deployed
with every step
e Walk with both feet pointing straight ahead
e Capture the remaining momentum from each stride so that it can be applied to
the next
PROGRAM PEACE Self Care Exercises to Reprogram Your Mind and Body
Chapter Endnotes
Lee M Shiroma E J Kamada M Association of step volume and intensity
with allcause mortality in older women JAMA Internal Medicine
Ritchiea M B Blais J Forth A Evil intentions Examining the relationship
between the Dark Tetrad and victim selection based on nonverbal gait cues Personality and
Individual Differences
Michalak J Troje N F Fischer J Vollmar P Heidenreich T Schulte D
Embodiment of sadness and depression Gait patterns associated with dysphoric mood
Psychosomatic Medicine
Van Edwards V Captivate The science of succeeding with people
Penguin Random House
Gokhale E Steps to a painfree back Pendo Press
Chapter Stop Sexually Submissive Behavior
The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural The desire cannot and should not be submerged
or eliminated But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression which enrich the body mind
and spirit Napoleon Hill
Sexual Competition and Submission
Aside from humans chimpanzees are often considered the most violent and abusive species
on the planet despite competing for just one resource Ordinarily they do not compete for
food because the fruit and leaves they forage are evenly scattered They compete for sex
and the competition is often violent In most primates dominant males restrict sexual access
to females Nondominant males are thus forced to inhibit their sexuality They are usually
attacked if seen approaching a female for sex and are often forced to either be sneaky or
abstain from sex completely Many primate females are similarly traumatized by sexual
competition
Access to sex is determined by rank in many animals that live in groups This inevitably
leads to stress Status probably also dictated sexual privileges to varying degrees throughout
human history Because our instincts were wired in the past even in modern humans this age
old competition leads to unconscious sexual selfhandicapping By employing the same
rationale and some of the same tools we have discussed thus far this chapter will explain how
to detraumatize your sexuality and pull your genitals out of this melee
Sexual Subordination in Animals
The sexual subordination response isnt just found in primates or mammals There are many
examples in the animal kingdom from vertebrates to invertebrates of dominant individuals
causing the atrophy of reproductive organs in subordinates For example the resident queens
in honeybees termites cockroaches and many other species suppress the ovaries of their
workers In animals from insects to fish the less dominant males create fewer sperm that move
slower If given the opportunity to become dominant many fish can reverse this by increasing