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{ "description": "thinking that Emo culture is insensate to those with Depression", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking that Emo culture is insensate to those with Depression?
Before I start this, I just want to say that I'm honestly not too knowledgeable on Depression; and that people currently battling Depression have nothing but my upmost support. That being said though, I guess I know the basics and how it effects people. Which is why it makes me angry when these emos constantly bring up...
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AITA that my dog died while I was out of town!
A few weeks ago my beloved dog was diagnosed with a condition which made her protein levels drop. She was being treated by the bet and medication. Last weekend info-hosted a 60th birthday party for my Mom ( it was planned before dog got sick). She lives about 3 hours away from me. I was a little concerned about my do...
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{ "description": "insisting on money I was promised", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insisting on money I was promised
So here's the whole story: My grandparents live in another country than me and my parents do, but they have an bank account here. Most of the time when I have birthday or get my school report etc. my grandpa (R.I.P.) said on the phone, that my father (his son) should take some money from said bank account and give me a...
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{ "description": "cursing out a dude I hate at a party", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cursing out a dude I hate at a party?
Let me give you context and then the incident. My friend and I were bridesmaids in another friend's wedding. Besides their family, it was the first time I met my friends' other friends. The wedding took about a year to plan with lots of various parties along the way. We all got along fine until the actual wedding, whe...
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{ "description": "not paying for half of the towing charges for my friend's car", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not paying for half of the towing charges for my friend’s car?
This happened last night. Both my friend and I are college students. We decided to go out for a couple of beers, and since it was only a couple of beers, my friend decided to take his car, and pick me up along the way. We got to the bars, and there wasn’t a lot of parking available. I saw one spot kind of in a corner,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for something my roommates FWB broke", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for something my roommates FWB broke?
My roommate had her FWB over one day while I wasn’t home. While he was there he smashed a lampshade by accident. I told my roommate countless times to fix it, or tell the real estate as our lease was about to end. She didn’t do anything and when it came time to move out we had $150 taken from our bond. A ridiculous...
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{ "description": "trying to get my friend out of a relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA For trying to get my friend out of a relationship
I know how that sounds but just wait. Sorry if the formatting sucks this is my first post on this sub and I'm on mobile So my close friend (13M) is going out with a 16 year old and everyone in my friend group thinks its absolutely disgusting. She is said to have 2-3 other boyfriends which he knows but doesn't care a...
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{ "description": "refusing to go on an expensive trip my grandmother's planned", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I refused to go on an expensive trip my grandmother's planned?
Honestly, it should be more 'How much of an asshole' but still. Anyway, my nanna has planned for in July, 14 or so members of our family to go to Canada for two weeks. Which on one hand, does sound kinda nice, but I do have a few reasons for \*really\* not wanting to go. \-My dad is a prick who I really hate seeing an...
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{ "description": "confronting my crush for lying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I confronted my crush for lying?
I told my crush almost two years ago that I have had feelings for her, and asked if she felt the same way. She said she has to think about it. Two months later she answered and said that no, and that she doesn't want to risk our friendship. Note that we had only talked a couple of times, so we didn't really have a frie...
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{ "description": "making out with this girl at a party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making out with this girl at a party?
This happened years ago, but the incident kinda left a bad taste in my mouth (no pun intended) so figured I'd see reddit's take on it, especially with a lot of people talking about "toxic masculinity" standards. So, straight male here. Back in college I used to go to a lot of parties. I was somewhat of an awkward kid,...
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{ "description": "being super annoyed with people that give Christmas cards", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being super annoyed with people that give Christmas cards?
I don't know what it is but I find getting Christmas cards really annoying. The people (or type of person) that give them out almost always annoy me. I'm not a scrooge or anything. I do work retail (sort of) but I'm adaptive. Am I the only one like this and does it make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "taking a seat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking a seat
So this happened a few weeks back. We have this giant building on my campus where most of the student come to spend their time between classes. There are several floors, and the main floor filled with tables and desk which allowed the students to eat and study. Usually, this place is packed. On this day, I was roamin...
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{ "description": "standing with my bigoted grandfather", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for standing with my bigoted grandfather?
So my grandpa is a bigot. He's a homophobe, he's got issues with women and can come across as innocently racist. To basically everyone in my family, including my dad and aunt, his own kids, he's a an argumentative asshole. I've never felt that way about him, I've always had this connection with him. We look alike, our ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex?
Nearly a year ago I had a very short relationship with an ex boyfriend. It lasted maybe 3 or 4 months. We ended up breaking up because I discovered that I am a lesbian. I had a thorough talk with him and assured him that I had no hard feelings and the split was not his fault, it was just my self discovery. We were abl...
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{ "description": "calling it off without meeting up with her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling it off without meeting up with her?
was I right to break it off with this Tinder woman or should I give her another chance? I'm new to dating so nothing's a deal breaker. Yet. This woman, like everyone has pros and cons. The pros are she’s beautiful- she has a very unique beauty to her, she’s really fun to talk to, very caring and funny and we share the...
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{ "description": "bringing up my jealousy to my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bring up my jealousy to my SO?
Me (22F) and my SO (23M) have been together for four years, before we were a couple he had been head-over-heels in love with a high school friend (we'll call her Karen) a long time, I also know her and although we're not friends I acknowledge she's a nice person, Karen was always clear telling my SO she was not interes...
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{ "description": "asking for a divorce while my wife is in a psych ward", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking for a divorce while my wife is in a psych ward
About a week ago my wife intentionally overdosed. She lived. She was committed 5 days later after she received a clean bill of health from the ER/ICU. I knew at that point I could take no more of this in our 10 year marriage and I was done. This has not been her first attempt due to serious mental illness. Nothing has ...
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{ "description": "telling wife I want a divorce when I don't", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA for telling wife I want a divorce when i don't
Little bit of background here. I married my wife in May. I live in the US, she is in Europe. We are going through the immigration process and it's been a bit of a strain. She is currently living in Europe and I'm on the west coast. I've gotten frustrated with her and told her I wanted a divorce, going as far as sendin...
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{ "description": "insulting my mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for insulting my mother?
Hear me out here. So, for context, I'm 17, and live with my grandmother (whose 77) and my family that used to live in Jersey. (Brother, sister in law, and 2 nieces.) I see my Mother occasionally on weekends and some weekdays. (My legal guardian is my grandma, my mom used to be a bad alcoholic, been sober for years.) ...
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AITA for how I shovel the snow in front of my house?
Throwaway since my main is easy to identify where I live and work. So I didnt grow up in a very snowy area - I have never had to shovel snow until I moved to the Midwest US a couple years ago. The last couple weeks we have been dumped on with snow. I just got lectured by my elderly neighbor this afternoon and I want ...
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{ "description": "doing a bit of damage to a \"memorial\" of someone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for doing a bit of damage to a "memorial" of someone?
Using a throwaway for obv reasons Okay, so earlier this year, there was this old homeless guy who was well known in the community. He hangs around, chats up people, occasionally others will give him food. Stuff like that. People even let their kids and pets play around with him. Some of them even buy him some food....
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AITA BF says i've hurt & disappointed him
Back Story: I volunteer for a charity approximately 2-6 hours a week depending on how and when they need me. I've been there about 4 months but my boyfriend (BF) has been there for 10+ years, volunteers significantly more hours and has a leadership position. BF and I have been dating for about 5 years. The charity ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex-girlfriend she shouldn't be drinking while pregnant with our child even though we both agreed to terminate", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 75 }
AITA for telling my EX-girlfriend she shouldn't be drinking while pregnant with our child even though we both agreed to terminate?
So, about 4 weeks ago my now ex girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn't messy but we both agreed we weren't right for each other. The entire time we were dating she said she was on the pill. Now about 2 weeks ago she told me she was pregnant. And that she must've forgotten the pill once or it was during a cross over p...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my wife surprises anymore", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to give my wife surprises anymore?
Throwaway, because my wife knows my reddit account. ​ Let me start off by saying I love my wife. She's the best thing that ever happened to me. She also loves surprises. The problem is that she has the patience of a small child on a sugar high. She will go through any lengths necessary to find her gift. If...
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{ "description": "expecting a birthday present from my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for expecting a birthday present from my friend?
So this is about a co-worker of mine. I believe she and I are pretty close as we sometimes spend time together outside of work and I genuinely enjoy her company to the point where I get thrilled to work a job that I hate when I see that I have a shift with her. I've always had a hard time engaging in conversations and ...
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{ "description": "asking if a girl was pregnant or just fat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking if a girl was pregnant or just fat?
The story. My friends and I were at this party. Everyone had plenty to drink because of the keg. After a number of beers, I was standing off to the side looking into the crowd aimlessly until I saw a girl that I based on her figure, I assumed she was pregnant. The last thing I remember of the evening was pointing with...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my pregnant sister after she gives birth", "pronormative_score": 99, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to help my pregnant sister after she gives birth?
So sorry for the long post! **Me**: 26 years old, working full-time to put myself through school, in school almost full-time. I work 12-hour shifts, and on my days off I typically study for 5-9 hours. The only time I have an actual day off to myself comes once a year around my university’s holiday break. I take my stu...
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{ "description": "telling my partner he can hang out with my friends when he gets his own", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my partner he can hang out with my friends when he gets his own?
My partner and I have been together for about 5 years and over the last 3 he has slowly stopped talking to all his friends in favor of being alone. No falling outs, just not keeping in touch. I think it stems mostly from a complete lack of motivation to talk to people. Anyway, I’ve always been something of a social b...
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{ "description": "wanting my best friend to be my best man instead of my brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my best friend to be my best man instead of my brother?
My brother is only about a year older than me, and we are pretty close, but not nearly as close as I am with my best friend, Random Fake Name. I don't have to actually make this decision any time soon as I am not even dating anyone right now, but the subject came up in conversation in my friend group (different group o...
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AITA for nagging?
Hi, so I am in a bit of a tricky situation with my fwb/bf (I'm not sure yet, we're working stuff out). So we live together and I am pregnant (with his kid). We get on absolutely great and we are pretty much best mates who fuck. Great! Except for a few things; 1. His hygiene. He barely ever washes and I have to basica...
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{ "description": "being black and liking white ppl more", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being black and liking white ppl more?
I recently took the Implicit Association Test and its data suggest that I have a, “moderate automatic preference” for white people compared to black people. As the title states, I am a black guy. On that basis alone I feel like should be rooting for us more given that racism is a real thing in the US. I’m also taking ...
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{ "description": "delivering flowers to a girl's house without her knowing", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for delivering flowers to a girl's house without her knowing?
So, I've recently moved back to my hometown after dropping out of college. I was pretty embarrassed so I didn't really tell anybody that I was moving back (it has been about a month now.) So anyway, there are definitely a few people that I've been meaning to hang out with, but haven't been able to work up the courage...
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{ "description": "breaking up w/ my gf for her 'jokes'", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I broke up w/ my gf for her ‘jokes’
So basically I was dating this girl for about 5 months and she would always.p make rude jokes that really hurt, i asked her to stop but she never did. And I really liked her so I kinda just dealt with it. I was getting really depressed from it and a bunch of other issues, and I gained the nerve to break up with her. Sh...
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{ "description": "confronting a guy who was using FaceTime in the locker room", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for confronting a guy who was using FaceTime in the locker room?
I really feel like I was justified in this, but I don't often confront people and often just stay quiet, so I have some uneasiness that I approached this situation wrong. There's a guy I see sometimes at the gym who is always on his phone, whether he's working out or in the locker room. He usually has his headphones o...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex?
Side note: this is long as hell because I needed to give as much as info as possible. Also, he's now 19 and I'm 17 (I know we're pretty young but yeah) I and my ex met through a video game during the new year 2017. We started to chat a bit and he soon invited me to his discord chat. I made new friends there (I'm still...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to a depressed, self-harming attention seeker", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to a depressed, self-harming attention seeker?
Never used Reddit before, so sorry if I fuck up. Read about this community and figure'd it'd be interesting. So, at my school, I get on with the majority of people. I don't really care what they're like otherwise, as long as they're fine with me. But there's someone - we'll call them Alex - who's just so *annoying*. ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend the girl he's talking to cheated on her last boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i told a friend the girl he’s talking to cheated on her last boyfriend?
My friend, Josh, started talking to this girl, Anna, recently. I dislike Anna because of a lot of reasons — Anna used to be best friends with another one of my close friends, Sarah. Sarah cut off Anna eventually because she had a boyfriend and introduced Anna to him as friends, and they started hanging out behind her b...
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{ "description": "telling her she's lucky she has a fiance, not a fiancee", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling her she's lucky she has a fiance, not a fiancee?
So I'm friends with this person online and she has homophobic relatives. I am gay and also have homophobic relatives, so for years I have had to lie to them about crushes/relationships/etc. She is bisexual but has never been on a date/hooked up with a woman and she is engaged to a man. She is still bi. I don't think h...
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{ "description": "wanting my money back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my money back
2 months ago, my pals and I were deciding whether to set up a game server 24/7 because previously, we had been home hosting it and it was not up 24/7 (No one really had an issue with it being home hosted except one person, we can call him "Humphrey.") So my friend (we can call him "Chad") and I ("Dylan") decided we wou...
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{ "description": "taking a comment from my sister personally", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a comment from my sister personally?
Hi all. As well as this being an AITA, I also wonder if I was too sensitive or weak in this situation. A day ago, my sister and I were talking while she put on her makeup, and she talked about how she felt her nose was too wide and hated it. I told her that it's a perfectly fine nose, and that I couldn't see the widen...
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AITA: My friend stood me up for a birthday drink.
I have this Aspie friend whom I have a big crush on. We hang out semi-regularly and attend the same fitness class. The day before his bday several months ago I gave him a book and we saw a movie and had a nice time. This week I said I'd really love to celebrate my birthday with him and would he like to grab a drink the...
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{ "description": "being scared by comments people in my class make about my skin", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being scared by comments people in my class make about my skin?
I (male) have just started at a new school and I am the only white person in my class. Ordinarily this wouldn't be a problem but my classmates keep making comments about my skin color. I sat down where I was told to and when the teacher went out for something. The girl next to me told me I had 'pretty pale skin' and...
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AITA: my dad thinks me having to use the bathroom at a bad time is me coming up with an excuse to not do work.
I’ve been rather sick to my stomach today, and stuck in the bathroom a lot. My dad seems to think I’m just making excuses to not have to do work. AITA for this?
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{ "description": "asking for my House key back from a friend who won't talk to us anymore", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for my (24F) House key back from a friend (24 M) who won’t talk to us anymore?
Some friends of ours (24M and 25F) went through a nasty breakup. We went through rounds of the male friend ignoring us, telling us he love us and wants us in his life, then ignoring us again. I’m getting frustrated, and he actually saw us at a bar and ignored us and left. My boyfriend (25M) texted him and was once agai...
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{ "description": "calling my good friend a fucking idiot", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my good friend a fucking idiot?
My close friend (25F) is in a relationship with a guy (27m) and have been on and off in the past year. The guy is head over heels in love with her, and she could honestly care less. She says she loves him, but does not see a forever with him. She is hung up on one of our other mutual friends and we will call him Max. W...
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{ "description": "objecting to \"Female Employee only\" parking spaces at my workplace", "pronormative_score": 421, "contranormative_score": 103 }
AITA for Objecting to "Female Employee Only" Parking Spaces at My Workplace?
So theres not too much to say, I guess I'm more curious in others opinions on this. I am an approx 22.5 year old man, I recently snagged a really really good job. I work as a corporate level administrator in the trucking industry. It's been a pretty sweet gig so far and have no complaints as of yet (2 months in). I ...
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{ "description": "doing what my girl says", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For doing what my girl says
Keeping it short as I can. Me and my girl are into memes. Obviously that's a big yes in my book. Anyways my girlfriend sent me a song, she said it reminds her of me, the music was called "Big-Juice wrld because I am a bit big on the weight and she expressed the word BIG on text.My girl thought which music I thought r...
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{ "description": "not overpaying, or paying back my father for a vehicle", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not overpaying, or paying back my father for a vehicle?
My dad gave me his car to drive for awhile. I want to purchase that car from him at a retail price. He needs 6000 for a loan, but retail value for the car is 4500. At most, it was around 6000 for a really low mileage excellent car. It's not excellent, but it has 60k miles for a 2006 which is pretty low. He wants 6...
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AITA If my wife’s traveling bothers me.
Context: I am a Mexican National, met my wife in the states while at university in Pennsylvania. When my student visa was up and I did not have a job lined up, I moved back to Mexico. She always said that if that happened she would move to Mexico with me while I waited for another visa. I begged her to stay and ensure...
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WIBTA if everytime I get a netflix new sign in email I ask one of my friends if it was him?
I gave one of my friends my netflix account password. The thing is he’s not the only one using it besides me, but I have a hard time believing my dad(he’s the other person who uses it) is constantly signing in on new devices. I just have this strange gut feeling that my friend has given out my password to someone els...
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AITA: GF (19F) wants me (19M) to stop talking to female friend and I'm refusing.
I am currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of two years, let’s call her Katie, as we are currently at different universities about five hours apart. I am transferring to another school in home state, closer to Katie (not the reason for transferring). Now, I have friends with a girl in my high s...
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{ "description": "expecting people to eat each piece of bread as it appears in the loaf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for expecting people to eat each piece of bread as it appears in the loaf?
I don't mind sharing the groceries with my roommates. We're all pretty good about making it equal. But there is one slight problem. A loaf of bread comes with 22 slices. 1 end slice, 20 regular slices, and another end slice. I came home from doing laundry and was preparing to make a sandwich but there are only twenty s...
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{ "description": "blowing my horn at cars in the intersection", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for blowing my horn at cars in the intersection?
This happened in a 4 way intersection. Im at a red light at an intersection. There was a minor accident and traffic was backed up. Traffic was getting heavy and there was no more room or else cars would get caught in the middle of the intersection. Three cars decided to try and make it through. The light changed and 3...
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{ "description": "saying someone was a bitch for acting like a bitch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying someone was a bitch for acting like a bitch..? (Trying this again with more context)
So the people involved in this story are: Red Jen Hannah (Not their real names) I walk into school, and sit with red (as I do every morning) red tells me that over the weekend something went down at their youth group, telling me that she usually tells Jen about stuff that happens with her and Hannah. At that youth g...
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{ "description": "hoping my sister's dog dies in her sleep", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hoping my sister's dog dies in her sleep.
TLDR Dog is 14 slightly deaf, has cataracts and occasional joint pain. I have been forced to be her primary caregiver now that I live with my mom again. 10 years ago my mom got a four year old black lab mix for my sister who was 16. Two years later my sister moved out and mom kept her dog. Mom worked and lived alone...
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{ "description": "not wanting to send a thank you text to my grandparents for my birthday present", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting to send a thank you text to my Grandparents for my birthday present?
Alright this is my first post on reddit, but I would really like to know if I am in the wrong in this situation. ​ This situation happened two years ago on my birthday. I was opening presents from family and most were things I enjoy or asked for. Then there were things that I got that I didn't like so much...
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{ "description": "deciding I might have a problem with that", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for deciding I might have a problem with that...
So my best friend has got 2 kids, both of whom call me Auntie Anonyikos, and my ex-fiance was Uncle Asshat. He decided last month (6 months til we were meant to be getting married, everything booked and ready to go) that he didn't love me anymore and left me. He's in the army, he then went away with work for 6 weeks. C...
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{ "description": "not going with my gf to her dad's funeral", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not going with my gf to her dad’s funeral?
I know it sounds bad, but gf is not close to her dad at all. Like we both know him and have joked about him all the time. He had a stroke. She didn’t even know if she was going to go down. A three hour drive away. I need 48 hours ahead time to get time off work. I didn’t request it because it sounded like she...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because hes christian", "pronormative_score": 128, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because hes Christian
My ex and I met a year ago, and he was my dream guy. We had the same interests and values, and we were super open with each other and always made sure to communicate, which is something I care about a lot in a relationship. All throughout the relationship, he told me he was agnostic, which I am too. Last week, out of...
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AITA My co-worker got my office moved over a bitter argument?
I apologize in advance for my grammar, and also i already feel like a major asshole after this incident so judge me lightly please For some context, we work in a small office building with 10 or so other co-workers and a supervisor that sit on the side and look at memes all day, there is a long table divide between us...
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{ "description": "wanting 5 days kid free, and to take a solo trip using credit card points", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for wanting 5 days kid free, and to take a solo trip using credit card points.
TLDR at bottom. Feeling gaslit, hoping I’m not the asshole but I sure feel like one now. The father of my kids and I separated 6 months ago. Legal process has not been started yet, but we have been acting separated with joint custody. Kids are 2 and 4 years old. I keep them for 10 days at a time and then he has th...
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{ "description": "being so mad at this", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for being so mad at this?
So I'm currently at a small family thing for super bowl Sunday. Its just me, mom, sister, grandma, aunt, and uncle. I also brought my dog with me. She's a small but energetic terrier puppy of 5 months old. She's not yet well trained, we've only had her since Xmas. My dog is always happy to see my family, and often ...
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{ "description": "calling my BF's friend racist", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my BF’s friend racist?
For some background, I am Korean, and both my boyfriend and his friend are white. My current boyfriend just finished his masters, and is about to live independently for the first time. As he just finished university, funds are quite low and arranged to move out with a classmate of his who got a job in the same compan...
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{ "description": "telling an annoying guy that I don't want him to get food with my friends and I", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling an annoying guy that I don't want him to get food with my friends and I?
To cut to the chase there is this awkward guy in my college that constantly follows me and my friends around much to our annoyance. My friends also clearly don't like him and just don't talk to him. He is really not fun to be around with or talk to and just ruins the vibe. He is really difficult to hold a conversatio...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mother for putting me on speakerphone with my boss", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my mother for putting me on speakerphone with my boss
I’m a graduate student and I hardly have any time to hold down a stable job. I tutor here and there for some little spending money but that’s it while I’m at school. Im INCREDIBLY lucky and forever thankful that my parents help support my studies and my dreams and I love and care for them very much. I have a part tim...
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{ "description": "planning on not paying rent to my roommates for April", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for planning on not paying rent to my roommates for April?
I'm getting married in May and will be moving out shortly on April 12. I moved in 3 years ago with my two original roommates J & P. P is the oldest and handles the bills (all accounts are in his name) and J is his brother. Because they are brothers, I feel I am nothing but a glorified guest having no say in anyth...
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{ "description": "asking my ex wife to take on more responsibility with our daughter", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for asking my ex wife to take on more responsibility with our daughter?
My ex and I have been separated/divorced for just over a year now. Our daughter is 6 and our son is 3. We have shared custody (I get the kids from Saturday to Tuesday, they stay with her Tuesday-Saturday) but I have expressed to her that I think she should either take the kids more often or at least spend more time wit...
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{ "description": "thinking I was to busy to help out a coworker who \"I perceived\" to be rude and to some degree lazy/indifferent", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking I was to busy to help out a coworker who "I perceived" to be rude and to some degree lazy/indifferent.
So I work in a retail/pharmacy chain which I will refrain from naming. I am a supervisor... essentially for the retail side of things. (A step below assistant manager let's say) It's actually kind of unclear if I have any authority over RX employees, so I mostly just play nice and help as needed/avoid trying to tell th...
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{ "description": "hating my autistic sister-in-law", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for hating my autistic sister-in-law?
(Cross-posted from r/relationships) Some background: my partner (43F) and I (34F) have an excellent, mutually supportive relationship. Her parents are great as well, and have really embraced me as family, which is nice as I'm estranged from my homophobic, controlling parents. Partner and I have been together for four ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex I don't want his girlfriend around our children", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my ex I don’t want his girlfriend around our children?
My ex and I split two years ago. We go a week on week off. We’ve managed to remain civil and work through problems reasonably, but now we’ve come to a head on something and he doesn’t think I’m being reasonable, but I feel like I’m just looking out for the safety of my children. He’s started dating someone. I don...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend for trying to bail on our plans to trip sit his friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for trying to bail on our plans to trip sit his friend?
We are in our early 20s (20-21). My boyfriend works night shift, from 10pm - 3am. Because of this, I’ve had to poorly adjust my schedule to accomodate and spend enough time with him. Tonight, we made plans hours and hours in advance that he would come to my place after work, sleep over, and then go with me tomorrow...
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{ "description": "refusing to split rent with soon-to-be-ex", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to split rent with soon-to-be-ex?
Three-ish years ago I got pregnant due to BC failure, but and we decided to keep the baby. However, husband basically stopped doing any childcare a few months into her life. In addition, despite knowing how hard childcare is to get into, he was somehow surprised that I ended up having to stay at home. He made up an imp...
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{ "description": "not telling a secret that wasn't my own", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling a secret that wasn't my own.
Hey, so first time posting. One of my best friends started dating my best online friend. We'll call best friend Miranda and the online friend Dane. Miranda asked permission before starting to see Dane. I was apprehensive but had no reason to say no. They were basically fwb until he started to feel all the feels. He wou...
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{ "description": "flipping a teammate and fighting with my team", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flipping a teammate and fighting with my team?
May be a bit long, but this take place over a few months. (Tldr: teammate freaks out for me CATCHING something. I had enough of my teams shit, flipped him off and nearly left, saying that I'm not pay off the team. So I'm at Uni and I recently went to a competition with my fencing team (I'm an epeeist for those who ar...
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{ "description": "body-shaming my boyfriend when he broke up with me? it's lengthy so tldr at the bottom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for body-shaming my boyfriend when he broke up with me? It's lengthy so TLDR at the bottom
Hey guys, and this is a tough one for me as everything is still very fresh and painful. So for some context: I am a 28 yo large and tall woman, have been in what I assumed to be a serious relationship with the 35 yo man for the past year. My ex has been obese most of his life. When we met (online), and added each othe...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend might be badly self-entitled", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friend might be badly self-entitled?
I don't know why I feel like this. It feels stupid of me ... but here goes. I met someone months ago ans we've hit it off pretty well. We'd crack jokes, help each other in serious problems and talk everyday. We've gotten close to the point that I might have even had a crush on her. That admiring dies down on my chest...
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{ "description": "dictating where my brothers children go to school", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I dictate where my brothers children go to school (I'm paying for it)?
I am going to be paying for my brothers children's education we luckily are close and have very similar opinions on education. I am prepared to write an education trust fund for his children however I am worried about 3 possible issues that could arise if I don't include a specific institution in the clause. potential ...
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{ "description": "telling my date that I slept with two others before we had the \"talk\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my date that I slept with two others before we had the "talk"
So, I met this girl in some 3 weeks training and we had a fling there. Now, I liked the thing b/w us but wasn't sure where do I want this to go and neither did we had the "talk" before we separated. Back in our towns and I invite this girl to spend new year with me and she tells me she can only come if I hope that th...
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{ "description": "banning my roommate from bringing overnight guests", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for banning my roommate from bringing overnight guests?
Before I begin with the reason as to why, here's some context: we live in a twin room. This means that our beds are in the same area in the same room, facing each other in an L shape. We are both female. Yesterday, my roommate and her female friend were preparing to go for a party in our room. I had been feeling sick ...
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{ "description": "telling my parents they should get rid of their dog", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents they should get rid of their dog?
My parents have had this dog for the past couple years and in the last year they have really let the dog go. I have told them repeatedly that they are in need to take care of her and take her on walks as well as monitoring her eating. She isn't a heavy set dog and has gained so much weight due to them never taking her ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for drinks", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for drinks?
About two years ago I had a nice business idea with a friend (both of us are students) and after some beers we were drunk enough to try to get it started. It worked out quite well and last week we decided to accept a bigger company's offer after some negotiation and sell (both of us want to complete our studies and are...
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{ "description": "being content with my current job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being content with my current job?
Don't think I've made a post before, hi Reddit :) tldr at the bottom. I'm (25) a LSA (Learning Support Assistant) in a school, the money is terrible but I really enjoy helping children learn. Honestly I've had a lot of jobs in the past and this is the only one I feel like I'm making a difference in. My SO (36) gets i...
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{ "description": "leaving the day my contract expires", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving the day my contract expires?
Some context, I was hired by NGO as an intern with the understanding that once the internship period ends (3 months) that I would be given a new contract to sign with a fixed position and an increased salary rather than the internship 'allowance' which was provided. My contract expires this week and I had yet to he...
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{ "description": "slightly blaming my dad for my bad grades", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for slightly blaming my dad for my bad grades.
I'm 17 and live with my dad, my grades are abysmal and have been since I was a 10. The main things harming my grades are homework and classwork that I don't finish. I don't get homework done because I'm horrible at procrasting and I don't get classwork done because I lose focus a lot, so my classwork becomes homework...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she needs to do a better job potty training her dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate she needs to do a better job potty training her dog?
So my roommate got a new dog about 2 months ago (let's call my roommate Sara), and the dog still hasn't been potty trained. Her and her boyfriend (let's call him Jesse) have been letting her roam the house during the day when they're both gone, with the expectation that the dog will use the doggie door to go potty (the...
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{ "description": "using my open relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for using my open relationship?
We (both m) had a fight a month ago and his glorious idea was to open our relationship. I didn't think doing that was a good idea, I thought we should first have a harmonious relationship before opening it. With me having been a real asshole during our fight I didn't dare to push back though and agreed. As far as I kn...
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{ "description": "playing music in my living room on friday night", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for playing music in my living room on friday night
You guys, long story short I'm with bruises on my lips, broken tooth & bleeding from my ear and asking this. My younger brother is staying at my place (over a month now, he's going abroad to study) and sharing the room, which is a little small room for 2 people and TV gaming setup. As typical Friday night, I'm havi...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with this", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being Uncomfortable with this?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We both have different out looks on sex (neither of us are actively religious. He was brought up Jewish but doesn’t practice). He believes it is totally fine to remain “good friends” with your “friends” you’ve fucked. Even when your partner is not comfortable with it. I bel...
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{ "description": "telling my professor about my mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my professor about my mental health issues?
So I recently got into an overseas university, and since attending my mental health has pretty much tanked. As such, my grades are absolutely dismal right now and it's not really helping my mental state. I've recently started antidepressants and while they help, they kinda fuck with me in other ways. On top of that, du...
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{ "description": "being reluctant to buy more booze during my own birthday party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being reluctant to buy more booze during my own birthday party ?
Obligatory, sorry for likely mistakes, English is not my first language. Quite a soft AITA compared to the nasty stuff you see here. ​ Back in 2016, I was an exchange student in Poland living with other exchange students (Erasmus+ for my fellow Europeans here. It was my birthday so we threw quite a big p...
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{ "description": "leaving her on read then arguing with her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving her on read then arguing with her?
AITA for leaving her on read? This is long Aight so me and this girl have been friends since freshman year, and we’re seniors now. She’s extremely manipulative and gets mad at me for everything I don’t do that she expects me to do. For example, a while ago I was walking down the hall with a friend and me and him were ...
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{ "description": "potentially ruining my relationship with my brother by choosing to live in a dorm", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for potentially ruining my relationship with my brother by choosing to live in a dorm
So, some back story here. I’m a first year college student and had already been staying in the dorm for my first semester. Unfortunately me being dumb went to a concert and took something I shouldn’t have which nearly killed me and left me in a coma for few days. So I had to medically withdrawal and move back home. Th...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my parents about this", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed at my parents about this?
TL;DR I asked my parents for an instrument for years but I get rejected for years and instead buys something more expensive and ignores my wants. It happened around a couple months ago and I found this subreddit today. Ever since the 8th or 9th grade, I've always wanted to have an instrument (piano/keyboard, guitar...
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{ "description": "\"ghosting\" a tinder date after meeting in person and finding out she is wheelchair bound", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 98 }
AITA for “ghosting” a tinder date after meeting in person and finding out she is wheelchair bound?
This was over a year and a half ago, and tonight my buddies and I are drinking and discussing old relationships/tinder dates. I met a girl over tinder, we exchanged numbers, chatted for a few days and agreed to meet for drinks at a bar. I got to the bar and ordered 9 or 10 shots before she got there to loosen up a bit ...
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{ "description": "calling to report a gas station employee", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for calling to report a gas station employee?
So I go in to a speedway to get five dollars in gas, a black & mild, and a slushie like I have at least once a week for the past five years. Everyone in this gas station knows me and my order, I have shown my ID there on multiple occasions to the point were no one cards me anymore. Besides this one lady we'll ca...
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{ "description": "avoiding my childhood \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding my childhood "friend"?
This girl, we'll call her Ruby is my classmate and a girl i knew since childhood. My mom was friends with her mom and me and Ruby got along pretty well. ​ Growing up i realised that her mom didn't like me. She always had something bad to say about me, criticize my behavior, my clothes, everything i said or...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a family gathering and storming out cause they didn't get my niece a birthday cake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at a family gathering and storming out cause they didn’t get my niece a birthday cake ?
Hi well this is a long story. So I have a family, I have seven brothers and sisters. To say it’s dysfuncfional or has had problems over the years is a little bit of ah understatement. It’s always been about the women of the family too. The sister in laws, my sisters etc. I feel like everyone is kind of isolated, ev...
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{ "description": "not inviting Dad to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not inviting Dad to my wedding?
Alright so a little bit of a backstory here. Coming from an Asian background, my father always was a strict individual. He is also known to have a short temper, having random outburst over the littlest things you can imagine.(One incident that I will never forget is he had a mental breakdown when I made a small mistake...
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AITA? Terrified and chased charity workers
Allow me to open with a little disclaimer here; I am totally the arsehole in this story, but was it my fault? At the time this happened I had just moved to a lovely little flat in Mississauga, right on Lakeview. One morning (I think it was a Sunday) there was a knock at the door, a little bemused as I wasn't exp...
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AITA Father getting kicked out and leaving tomorrow and I'm happy
My father is a meth addict and he's well a junkie, he's been leaching off us for years. In every way, we've tried getting him help. We've tried getting him methadone anything that might help, he's always tries to rationalize it, and it's just a big fucking no. He and my mother argue a lot, he's got his money and is ...
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