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Cgf2I7T0qpUQFdlG9ScWUkKUvBs0i9pm | b0uvak | {
"description": "paying a homeless guy 5 dollars a day to write my Instagram handle on his panhandling sign",
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} | WIBTA if I pay a homeless guy 5 dollars a day to write my Instagram handle on his panhandling sign? | There's a bunch of homeless people in my area. They stand at intersections and busy areas with a sign asking for money or beer. So my thought was to find a couple dedicated ones and pay them 5 bucks a day to advertise my instagram (insert free real estate meme). What do you think? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Bae7yuhKfW5hGNZv1A1peVcz7nCVSraP | ak7ngp | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend that I don't want guests in our 1 bedroom apartment",
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} | AITA for telling my boyfriend that I don't want guests in our 1 bedroom apartment? | I (24 F) live with my boyfriend (24 M) in an 800 square foot one bedroom apartment. The apartment has a kitchen/living room (one big studio space), a bedroom, and one bathroom. We live in a city that's about 5 hours away from our families, high school friends, and college friends, so when we have visitors, they tend to... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
edbOtQiBY15a0j1jALyLUFNCE1fRmdVT | aez8u2 | {
"description": "refusing to trust anyone, even girlfriends and family",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for refusing to trust anyone, even girlfriends and family? | So I don't trust anyone. I guess I'm paranoid, but I'm super strict about what poeple know about me. There's no reason, but I'm generally very open with not trusting people. It's affected relationships, and I've lost amazing girls because of that. I just don't trust anyone, not even my own family. Am I the asshole here... | HISTORICAL | {
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j3tFgCPrc9vjb0B58dxO0h2I0uBhK1LT | a27j0b | {
"description": "being concerned with how much my girlfriend and best friend talk",
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} | AITA for being concerned with how much my girlfriend and best friend talk? | So I had a work buddy at my old job who I became best friends with over the course of a few months. After I lost my job, we kinda drifted apart and only really talk on Facebook every couple of days.
I introduced my gf of 2 years and him to each other via Facebook a few weeks ago and they got to talking, which didn't b... | HISTORICAL | {
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bFF3s6uqAgMHg8MhWCamZ0U3SZvfhf6A | 9vow87 | null | AITA | Am I the asshole for ordering a burger a McDonald's and when they screw it up, I take it back and ask them to redo it?
Ps: I ordered it incorrectly | HISTORICAL | {
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gtdVwrWAp0dCtnPHToyVWlZ4QgOVpJ3M | a340gk | {
"description": "not wanting anything to do with my sister",
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} | AITA For not wanting anything to do with my sister | First, sorry for formatting cuz mobile.
So 4 months ago my (M23) 18 year old sister up and moved out with about 6-7 hours notice, to another state, with her ex who she “still loves” that caused our family hell when they dated previously.
Background: this kid is a bottom of the barrel human, barely graduated high scho... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "anonymously turning in an underage drinker purely by rumor",
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} | WIBTA if I anonymously turn in an underage drinker purely by rumor? | This is something I've been really debating in my head for the past few days. I really would like to know if I'd be in the wrong if I do this. (Tell me if this would fit better in r/Advice and I'll move it)
There has been this rumor I've been told by two trusted friends and confirmed by another that a girl at my scho... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
3OBMKjnO9pcqEPXYinbiVhlDbSeWureU | aye9ta | {
"description": "telling my mom to stop bringing her friend over to have sex with him and have sex with him again in the morning",
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} | WIBTA if I tell my mom to stop bringing her friend over to have sex with him and have sex with him again in the morning? | My bedroom door always is open because I have the cats litter box in my room, and my mom's room is exactly next to mine. When she goes out to keroke with her friends, I force myself to fall asleep early because I know she's bringing over her friend to fuck. If I don't fall asleep fast enough, I'm lucky to have headphon... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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uyCwspwggBEAVSttBnN7EJq8BggF2OGq | aqu3iw | null | AITA as a musician to ask the booker for the money for my CD and not splitting it? | Hi,
Long time lurker.. Certainly less dramatic than most posts on here, so whoever is looking for drama, please skip this ;)
So, I'm a small stage musician in Berlin and last night I had a gig that didn't go too well, audience and hat money wise.
I did sell one CD (5€) though.
So when I asked the "booker" (in qu... | HISTORICAL | {
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AVQn5OMFPvnqgJUSnjMMmcz8eaqnSZj4 | avfv0s | {
"description": "saying I'd do one thing with my friend but do another with someone I'm talking to, then proceeds to f**k my chances with said person",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA if I said I’d do one thing with my friend but do another with someone I’m talking to, then proceeds to f**k my chances with said person. | Hi guys, this is a semi-throwaway account because the girl in this post has my reddit account.
Also, this is a “petty” teen thing, but I still need advice. (Also in English “High School”)
So it was in Spanish, second period and coming up to break, and my friend (M) asks if would go up with him to speak to a teacher... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | RIGHT |
aoQDsmaRLCqJuf2PkkO8t1rZSpoKQKoN | arr3fu | {
"description": "dating someone else when my friend says he's in love with me",
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} | AITA for dating someone else when my friend says he's in love with me? | Sorry if this is long, but it's weighing in my mind a lot. The last paragraph is the main point, but the paragraphs before are some background information that lead up to these events.
I have this friend, who was at one point my best friend. Let's call him Larry. I met him when I was with my ex boyfriend (which he kn... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
FhAeKaNAxLmSenOO2j9xl60PVAHv2GcY | amyxlx | {
"description": "evicting my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for evicting my girlfriend | A little back story. Sorry, you're only going to get my half of the story but I'll try to give her a fair shake.
A few years ago she moved in with me and the agreement was that she would pay 200/month rent. She was in school and working a high number of hours for having a part-time job. So, to alleviate her burdens I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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CL5LPwL93QV1TGe7Dh7lj3ZbwAvYOfqc | ajs5zt | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my girlfriends birthday dinner with her family after she insulted me",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to my girlfriends birthday dinner with her family after she insulted me. | Bit of background. Going out 3 years and for her 30th birthday coming up i bought her a round trip ticket to Japan with me for a holiday (far). We go to her hometown in for her 30th weekend she was in a bad mood and told me that she thinks it’s a crap present and wanted something else. She has since apologised. And I f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
pWvhjkeurBVt15G1wH2h729ExsKqVGSX | b2q83d | {
"description": "refusing to get rid of my cat when my bfs daughter is allergic",
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} | AITA for refusing to get rid of my cat when my bfs daughter is allergic? | My boyfriend and me want to move in together. He has a 7 year old daughter who is allergic to cats. Not deathly allergic just sneezes and gets hives sometimes. He has her every other week so she’d be living with us then. He’s asked me to get rid of my cat, I said absolutely not. I’ve said she can take anti allergy tabl... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 49,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 22,
"INFO": 6
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 71,
"WRONG": 38
} | RIGHT |
Wa6yutdK3KFhNXaIJy4SS7E46huuPds2 | aqs14o | {
"description": "calling my hair \"jew hair\" when I am ethnically jewish",
"pronormative_score": 32,
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} | AITA for calling my hair "jew hair" when I am ethnically Jewish? | I was talking to some people at work about hair and I mentioned that I have jew hair, a little bit curly a lot unruly. They all stopped and looked at me like I was a crazy person. I am so use to using the phrase it didn't occur that anyone could ever find it offensive but they kept telling me that the phrase I used wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 32,
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} | RIGHT |
uBsK6mgQMEGQh8mGW52vEfv4rCBsm9jL | a0y184 | {
"description": "asking my friend not to be on his phone when I host",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for asking my friend not to be on his phone when I host? | I like to host friends at my house, I've got a lot of games and I enjoy coming up with things for our friend group to do. It's always awesome when everyone can come over to play games.
Usually when everyone comes over, they're all engaged and have fun, but one of my friends always seems to be on his phone. Now techn... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
yrr834vNo2fDcboMOTSLywbUxN5ogBHZ | azmssc | {
"description": "finding \"punishments\" humorous",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for finding “punishments” humorous | So I’m on a throw I’m on the younger side (14) and I can see both reasons but I’m mainly on NTA but I won’t be surprised if YTA
So I’m good I have good intentions but as teachers and parents say “I am a bad kid”. like I mean in the principals office every year like once a month maybe more, but I went to the movies ye... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
Nemo2B9Y4JN3ExfQWj9H82M0zqa7Z9OH | axmk7q | {
"description": "expecting my stay-at-home husband to have our house be immaculate when I get home",
"pronormative_score": 29,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for expecting my stay-at-home husband to have our house be immaculate when I get home? | I am the full-time breadwinner and my husband was laid off. He occasionally sells stuff online now to have extra spending cash. We do not have children and he is a part-time student. The deal is that I cook and work, he cleans.
My expectations are as follows:
Daily chores: Dishes done, kitchen counters wiped down.
... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 13,
"OTHER": 24,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 10
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 29,
"WRONG": 15
} | RIGHT |
jCbrwhZPgpODWzAHTyEyLVHg4Kz69qE6 | are979 | {
"description": "asking my friend to leave his wife out of some stuff",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for asking my friend to leave his wife out of some stuff? | Usual situation applies - I don't think I'm being an asshole here, but someone else does so I'm turning to the internet for a verdict.
I have been friends with Simon for a decade. We went to university together and are part of a group who meet once or twice a year for a weekend somewhere and we often congregate for w... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
NEzFtmQUKY6SXpikZkjR1MsZpkk6q651 | a02gei | {
"description": "sleeping through THANKSGIVING dinner also ordering a pizza after thanksgiving dinner",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For sleeping through THANKSGIVING dinner also ordering a pizza after thanksgiving dinner | me and my mothers side of the family all come over to have THANKSGIVING dinner together but last year there was a huge fight between my mom and her mom, there was big drama ever since then so this year I just slept through THANKSGIVING dinner which I was surprised nobody attempted to wake me up . Anyways back to the po... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
LNSgkcM7AR7H4dOBjMQ5Vq4fzCN5QumA | af9tr1 | {
"description": "expecting my gf to cook supper",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for expecting my gf to cook supper? | I work between 13-15 hours a day. She is unemployed. We have no children. | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
vEJldaxdqe7lJY1lexEtCaMtCIAl1WJr | 9wwccl | {
"description": "getting super offended at my friend for looking at my medical records",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for getting super offended at my friend for looking at my Medical records? | So this happened a while back but I had a friend who worked for a small local pharmacy at the time, they worked at a small local pharmacy that I happen to use. Before she moved, she had noticed a file that apparently had my name on it. Without knowing it was me, or acting in an official capacity, she told me about it i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
OksCfixLZkkrPcovuhniwxrog9HEPJmd | b2b9dr | {
"description": "moving in with my cousin instead of my mother and step-father",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for moving in with my cousin instead of my mother and step-father? | Forgive me for I am on mobile so please excuse the grammar mistakes that may happen or random auto corrects.
For Context: My mother and real father have lost custody of my little brother and I when I was 5 and he was 3, my grandparents gained custody of us and I have been living with them since. My mother divorced my... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
OFTITFirFnZhRK5AQPTLynm0Xg4nBbvA | abxtr3 | {
"description": "not paying my share for the hotel myself, my best friend and his girlfriend stayed in",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not paying my share for the hotel myself, my best friend and his girlfriend stayed in? | So it was a destination wedding, his brothers in fact, and we’re both a part of the wedding. He was stressing a bit about the hotel (the place him and his girlfriend booked ended up being around 400$ for the weekend) and I had my place booked as well. My family has a time share type of thing, they have points that have... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
1XSCg9DKKvIlRy0L0o7yHD2TGSzcK5DP | a5sd5q | {
"description": "wanting a dog, knowing I might have to ttansport him as air cargo during his lifetime",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting a dog, knowing I might have to ttansport him as air cargo during his lifetime? | I'm in my mid 20s, a student at university and married to a non-student (aka my husband has good income, money is not the issue when it comes to getting a dog).
We are an international couple. Our families live approx. 5000 miles/8000km away from each other. For now we live in my home country for at least the next 3 y... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MaSfgPl6N7UBd9G9supGDPRJP7p6LZMu | abpj6q | {
"description": "threatening to call the police on my brother in law",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for threatening to call the police on my brother in law? | A few weeks ago my MIL called my husband to warn him that his brother was upset and may come over to our home. They’ve been arguing off and on for a few months. Nothing was done to provoke this episode, we had just returned from being out of town with 0 contact for at least a week. Fast forward an hour or so and brothe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
8PCre8BlfQcFGjCRvn9TBma4OIJmdzom | ayw9m2 | {
"description": "not giving money back on a purchase",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not giving money back on a purchase? | Hey all, I recently sold a thing on craigslist and the person I sold it to is reporting an issue with it that I had no idea about.
During the sale I demoed it to him as well as made sure he was alright with it. He paid and he went on his way, and there didnt seem to be an issue.
There is a manufacturer warranty for ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
T7En1luQ9s87aE3N5IKy3ZBNfpBGXbu1 | ang553 | null | AITA my roomate wakes me up and is mad when i accidently wake her up. | Ok so I have to share a dorm with this girl who comes into the dorm at 1am 2 am and finnaly goes to bed at 3am. I try to go to bed at 10pm every week day because I have morning classes at 10am MWTF and 8:30 am on tuesday. I also have work to work from 6pm - 12:15 am on tuesday, 5pm-9pm on wensday, and 5pm-10pm on sate... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2Qfigf2b4nyZbtEnrSUIV9CGptoLnivE | ap0ree | {
"description": "ordering a lyft when I'm 4 blocks away from the destination",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ordering a lyft when i’m 4 blocks away from the destination. | I mean it’s cold af, i’ve had a couple of drinks, and there’s been some shootings around this area... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
nxYGZdjXYFNyzaFkXFeh3n4yvKq1arTg | ay4hyu | {
"description": "making my stepmom pay for repairs",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA for making my stepmom pay for repairs | I(20M) live with my dad (61) and stepmom (40). My dad doesn't have a steady income and gets paid per job. My stepmom meanwhile is on disability and therefore gets a fixed income from social security. I am a student working part time, and I plan to pay off a truck I am buying from a friend. I started making payments in ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
okb1BobSfkhAmVzDQVtnzZmIBqTUqvOC | apd0q0 | {
"description": "being upset at my best friend of seven years",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset at my best friend of seven years? | This is my first post, I’m on mobile, sorry if the formatting is bad. I’m a college student about to turn nineteen, and my best friend is also a college student — however, he goes to a different university that’s literally five hours away. We dated when we were 14-15, and then decided we would be better off as friends.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
4GUCvOKUCpF6QOjjTQs4hIQ2b7HH3Vhi | ajbe1s | {
"description": "not telling my friend the girl he liked didn't like him back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not telling my friend the girl he liked didn't like him back? | So, my friend (let's call him Bob) was obsessing over this girl Alice for like ages. In high school, they'd hang out all the time and he'd like randomly walk to her house to hang out with her. The thing is he's really bad at starting any type of relationship so he kind of gets stuck in the weird limbo where it seems li... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
FKiBTZqmC2dVufhANSPiX1Af2EHiJ0b8 | b8xzhu | {
"description": "not wanting to split my credit card points with my partner",
"pronormative_score": 64,
"contranormative_score": 11
} | AITA for not wanting to split my credit card points with my partner? | I (29F) and my boyfriend (32M) have been together for almost three years. When we met, I had a travel credit card that I did a lot of research for and get pretty good rewards. I try to put everything I can on this card and I always pay it off at the end of the month. I'm careful about keeping track of spending and I ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 60,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Xb68oyqNXseTYRzH0d9ZZ5P2sVtxtBD4 | ar2p4c | {
"description": "asking a woman not to play music out of her phone at work",
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} | AITA for asking a woman not to play music out of her phone at work? | I work in a large office where we are constantly talking on the phone to clients and attorneys and allegedly focusing on important tasks. A new woman started recently and she likes to keep her phone in her pocket playing adult soft rock radio at a low level. It’s just loud enough to make out what sound it is and I doub... | HISTORICAL | {
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p1edR5edyTUZnyLyrTF2xKcsFbwRLz8h | b548hp | null | AITA? | Met someone who I gelled with the other week. It was all going fine until she told me she wasn’t mentally ready for a relationship yet, and asked me if I was fine with being friends. I was fine with this as she was good company and we clicked. This was fine and we met up on Tuesday. We kept speaking throughout the week... | HISTORICAL | {
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BpUBWLUwrdvl5iRA4UMYNUl1YN2LpAuh | b4fh87 | {
"description": "making a boxing trainee angry by correcting her moves but she thought I was grilling her",
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} | AITA for making a boxing trainee angry by correcting her moves but she thought I was grilling her? | I help out as a trainer in my father's boxing gym. Each trainer is assigned a number of trainees ranging from 3 to 5 in a training session. For this session, I had to take care of four women trainees. I would like to mention that these are all amateur trainees; most are to here for fitness, not to learn boxing.
Fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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yrUsM1koSwSBonXyLvppqHWI7YuEtT5N | 9ugwfn | {
"description": "wanting to leave my roommate to move home, after I've been helping her cover her bills and covering over 80% of rent",
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} | AITA for wanting to leave my roommate to move home, after I've been helping her cover her bills and covering over 80% of rent? | The title kinda says what's up, and it's gone on for several months now, of me dumping all my money into rent and her bills, and shes spending all of her financial aid on art supplies.
She does cover the electric bill, but I cover internet and utilities. We did start off as a relationship, after 1 1/2 years moved in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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U9zzmtod04k6dgteCfprl53A4N24PRVg | a084kw | {
"description": "using tinder with the intent of only chatting while still in a relationship",
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} | AITA for using tinder with the intent of only chatting while still in a relationship | I'm (22M) and my gf (21F) are in a long distance relationship. She lives where i do but shes studying. Our relationship has gone down lately and after she last visited me i decided that we should break up. I didn't tell her this yet because shes very emotional so i wanted her to come home to family first. In my head we... | HISTORICAL | {
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CizFMOtujgymtuGbAkIUgLYIB29yXwmi | axe356 | null | AITA for not support my ex financially and not putting her name on my business. | I've just broken up with my partner. We have a young child together. Honestly, I can say that I did many things wrong in the relationship, made a few mistakes. Never cheated or assaulted her at all, just some fuckups that became clear to my with time. All in all the relationship ended last September, but only just real... | HISTORICAL | {
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sY3fMEqbRJKjPSm0Ol0oqT8b0yhJ2bey | anmfij | {
"description": "ignoring my friend after her comment about my dead uncle",
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} | AITA for ignoring my friend after her comment about my dead uncle? | Alright, the title looks like I’m innocent, and no.
The day when XXXTentacion died, there was a period of time when I thought it was fake news. It was very early in the day and some places were saying it was false and I just figured he got shot but he was okay.
He wasn’t, no disrespect.
He had been a meme within me a... | HISTORICAL | {
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qVl3k2vOLqlFVWPrLapRvp5Qan1KWskl | anry53 | {
"description": "refusing to attend my graduation ceremony",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for refusing to attend my graduation ceremony? | This backstory is going to be important:
I was born to a substance dependent mother so I had to be raised by a grandparent. Said grandparent is a nice person but is overprotective. Grandparent was in abusive marriage but never left the abuser due to financial reasons. The abuser eventually died due to health complicat... | HISTORICAL | {
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WHt7BCQgL2GcAPHIIsyr43PjwwZTjUGm | a2um60 | {
"description": "telling my project teammate that her quality of work is shit",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my project teammate that her quality of work is shit? | 2 of us were supposed to write a 10 page paper on Tesla and it's influence. I take my work very seriously but this person had told me she's good at writing therefore I obliged to be her project partner.
Turns out she never wants to meet up and wants to do everyone on doc. I'm not cool with it but I comply. She finish... | HISTORICAL | {
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2fHbRFZmC4U1OSxHO52751U2X9eoFFAl | aiuwx5 | {
"description": "still hating my parents for kicking me out when I was 18",
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} | AITA For still hating my parents for kicking me out when I was 18? | TLDR Below
So, I'm 23 now but this happened when I was 18 just 3 months after I graduated highschool, and I still think about this a lot.
Little back story: My parents were very verbally abusive to me growing up. They would just yell so loud at me constantly for even the smallest mistakes I made, did I get a B- in E... | HISTORICAL | {
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vEoj2qa81odtiE28xYcJgqNaqcAyPYO7 | b2rr1l | {
"description": "confronting my sisters/family of how awful they been to me throughout my life",
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} | WIBTA If I confront my sisters/family of how awful they been to me throughout my life | So some context. I'm the oldest out of 4 sisters. I'm a male 26. However its my Full sister (23) and Half sister (19) the other two are not an issue. For years I have always been isolated with my family because my Step father basically made me feel unloved and unwanted through abuse in my own home for years. But m... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Am1Ds9Yr8L6emTrZB9VGpK3STLNUk5YH | aux5k9 | {
"description": "being mad at this girl",
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} | AITA for being mad at this girl? | I like her. She is beautiful. Thin. Dark brown hair. Pale skin. Great sense of humour, wonderful personality. And even though I know she struggles with anxiety and insecurities, I was willing to spend time to help her. she never said anything to me until just a week ago. she says:
*"i used to like you, u/equinox_games... | HISTORICAL | {
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6XntjPb7HgEFh3NfaOU56GPUcHIU82qC | afr186 | {
"description": "not spending enough time with my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for not spending enough time with my girlfriend? | It started back about a year and a half ago when I got together with this girl I’m gonna call Anna. Things started out great and we were super in love with each other, but as the relationship went on her love for me turned into what I’d almost call obsession. Anna began to become very controlling of me and wanted me to... | HISTORICAL | {
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UiG7IvmAcYbmbKDDIZ4lWYvUzsU6QTES | b2s5km | {
"description": "dating someone mainly because they gave me stability",
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} | WIBTA if I dated someone mainly because they gave me stability. | I don’t actually have anyone in my mind right now I’m just trying to figure out things.
All the relationships I’ve had in the past have been unstable messes for one reason or another. At this point I just want someone who can give me a stable relationship. To me it doesn’t matter if I’m actually deeply in love with t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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kuLUSJRk1QqyowRDjWMDe93Y2Mkswygp | ahs5kk | null | AITA for a snarky remark about my kid eating? | AITA? I was eating with a friend (who doesn’t have kids, so I am honored that she would dare to hang out with a newborn and a toddler during food time), and I gave my 2.5 year old “snowman noses” (carrots) and broccoli with a little ranch and hummus to dip. My friend said, “You know, using that ranch dip pretty much ne... | HISTORICAL | {
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yNrWGjOcRDSTh1epluJuJfjhNMog4QSR | ac4t8x | {
"description": "ruining the relationship between my sister, my parents and I by being on my phone too much",
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} | AITA for ruining the relationship between my sister, my parents and I by being on my phone too much? | We never talk anymore, since half a decade as far as I can remember, since I discovered how interesting the internet is. I feel really guilty but I don't know if it's the right feeling. | HISTORICAL | {
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qW4dk9b60iz4jO8B40K8WvZwHXyx4XNB | aggt96 | {
"description": "automatically assuming I was being watched at a store and giving someone the stink eye for potentially no reason",
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} | AITA for automatically assuming I was being watched at a store and giving someone the stink eye for potentially no reason? | Just happened today. First time it's happened that I've noticed.
I was looking at some t-shirts in a hidden corner of the store.
Woman maybe 30-40 years old in plain clothing suddenly appears not more than a few feet away, also looking at the same shirts I was just looking at (Red flag #1)
Immediately once I spot he... | HISTORICAL | {
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Wr1VSAakWSBAaz0EAgAJgMw1dYtoJjwk | alkjap | {
"description": "asking my dad's girlfriend to take down our wedding photos from her website/social media",
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} | AITA For asking my dad's girlfriend to take down our wedding photos from her website/social media? | Background: My mom passed away 5 years ago. It was extremely hard on the family...to no surprise probably hit my dad the hardest. He spent the next couple years depressed. Then he met a woman, let's call her Sally. Sally is an interesting character. She's had two prior marriages which both ended in unfortunate circumst... | HISTORICAL | {
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aG3oR5aWXSd0R05jsIuTBtBszaQJ4o67 | asfzmw | null | AITA Get into a discusion on a Sub for one of my favorite works of fiction, start to tear apart a guy after he gets rude to me. | Link to the thread below ( I scanned the rules, didn't see anyhting saying I can't share a link, hope I didn't miss that!)
[https://www.reddit.com/r/dresdenfiles/comments/arqdxy/murphonic\_field\_questions/](https://www.reddit.com/r/dresdenfiles/comments/arqdxy/murphonic_field_questions/)
Basically, once the guy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ILVLxi5pN80tIoZveMLUdYX8y21UhTKV | arz4da | {
"description": "ending this friendship",
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} | WIBTA if I end this friendship | So, I've been friends with this guy for about 11 years. That's over half of our lives, and I'd say 9 of those years were great fun and I loved having him around.
Now onto the reason for this post, over the last 2 or 3 years he's been going through stuff, parent troubles, money troubles, the works. And I've always stoo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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lGuQovbWNurjnS75JnZe6aV2yTT4oPV0 | ajcr05 | {
"description": "openly passing gas at work",
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} | AITA for openly passing gas at work? | I work in a confined space. Majority of my coworkers smoke. I don't and find the stench of cigarettes pretty awful. They will take a smoke break and return reeking. I have no escape from it. So now when I have one brewing, instead of holding it in I just let er rip. If they can stink I can stink. ITA right?? | HISTORICAL | {
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kGxEIdoO46PalrEW0y2triTbDe78tqUx | aryrpz | null | AITA for this massive fight with my fiance about our wedding? | My fiance and I are getting married next year and are planning the wedding. She was choosing her bridesmaids and included her brother.
I don't have a problem with her brother, I just think it's weird to have a guy in the bride's party. I pointed out that he wouldn't be able to walk in with a girl, he'd have to come i... | HISTORICAL | {
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5cF1NWOHcZrpc2lyMklSqkI5pC9Yg0PL | aik7zc | null | AITA. Subject:My Family Predicament | First Y'all need a little bit of back story. My mother and father got divorced when I was 12 and my younger sister was 7. They were on good terms after the divorce and still considered each other friends until this arose. My dad is Indian but most of my dad's family except for my dad lives in the US.
Well let me star... | HISTORICAL | {
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fQv4pGJ5AWFSAKBHCCJa1dZVglpKEnlS | b1ty56 | {
"description": "only giving 50% of the donation at a job",
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} | AITA for only giving 50% of the donation at a job | At the time this happened I worked as a music journalist. On a weekly basis, I wrote the local music column (pretty good pay for the work involved tbh), gig reviews which featured in he national supplements of the weekly paper (£25 a pop) & freelance pieces as and when I produced them (pay varied).
I'd email my ed... | HISTORICAL | {
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c8K2Fb78MTWBl6LiO5sqRXB5GxhipF80 | ba7zbi | {
"description": "not loaning my friend $300",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not loaning my friend $300? | One of my good friends from high school recently reached out to me for money. He told me he needs to pay $300 to his mom every month and he wasn’t going to be able to come up with the money in time. (There deal was he pays $300 and she pays for school).
My friend and I haven’t spoken in months before this. Our mutual... | HISTORICAL | {
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hhNA9zHm14BW5y0Fao0Ns32kpjFWMxRI | b00lyj | {
"description": "wanting to leave my bi-polar wife who sleeps 24/7",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for wanting to leave my bi-polar wife who sleeps 24/7? | I still love her but I am incredibly lonely, bored and depressed because the only thing she ever wants to do is see a movie, or take a nap. She gets home from work everyday, goes upstairs and goes to bed leaving me to make sure our son does his homework, practices drums, and cook dinner
Every weekend, either I fix b... | HISTORICAL | {
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PHuWyXNAvhKkJuIKBOosswexyLry64D7 | b7hzie | {
"description": "potentially letting my boss' work get lost",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA - For potentially letting my boss' work get lost | So the place I work for has been using a very old, majorly outdated computer system and on Friday we were upgraded.
So my boss knew about the change and I've talked to her about saving her work on the C drive when she should be saving it in the network in case our system crashed.
Friday, IT came to set up our new c... | HISTORICAL | {
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H1MpQcU9OpNLyGgE7Ww1sbilKADNt2TV | b1ox14 | {
"description": "making my girlfriend go to therapy",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA For making my Girlfriend go to therapy? | Title is basically the TL;DR.
We've been dating for about two years now, we're doing long distance so it has its challenges but we're making it work. In the past two months or so, she's been in this malaise. She cries a lot, she's constantly putting herself down, she frequently doubts herself and constantly states tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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0VMIeFnNRuVMDWc3Jn2znFKMgjua3Mbo | auoyoo | {
"description": "possibly contributing to a classmate developing severe social anxiety and dropping out of school",
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} | AITA for possibly contributing to a classmate developing severe social anxiety and dropping out of school? | This happened about a couple years ago when we were around 14 and I've changed any names included.
So, the guy in question I'm calling Jake. He was a super quiet and nerdy guy, the type who wanted to be a librarian as a job, and while he definitely wasn't popular he had a small group of close friends. I sat beside him... | HISTORICAL | {
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hCXlyly5HqdfFH6yxmomChm5vvEQpAYW | ag3v6o | {
"description": "pulling out of a family holiday I planned because it'll be too expensive",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for pulling out of a family holiday I planned because it'll be too expensive? | My family have a tradition where we go on a family holiday (6-8 people) to celebrate milestone birthdays, and this year it's my 30th and my Mum's 60th in the same month. As soon as we started planning last year my fiancé and I said we wouldn't be able to afford an expensive holiday because we're saving for our wedding... | HISTORICAL | {
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E2kqMQtdei572tgS6xoCzXh81yOLkMYO | b09m8k | {
"description": "saying a football player deserved to lose his scholarship for smoking weed",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for saying a football player deserved to lose his scholarship for smoking weed? | So my school is considered kind of a sports powerhouse, ranking at least top 15 in every sport (football, soccer, track, swimming, golf, baseball, basketball, wrestling). A decent amount of people get recruited and/or get scholarships every year. The two in question here is Jack, let's call him, who got a full ride to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GuJsTjgYnRNeFuTaCm6tOZhwBwrLFp5t | avhx2g | {
"description": "not filling my friends name on an Important School task",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA For not filling my friends name on an Important School task | Have to fill this in quick because i'll have to make it within 2 Hours and Send it to the Teacher. Me and My friend both being pretty lazy decided to make this together. We postponed it multiple times and today is the deadline. I wanted to make the Task together on school multiple times, but he either had to "go somewh... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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emK03znd5GwKcntEFoGvSND9tltzM4AI | apn0va | {
"description": "going off on my gf because she's not careful when she cooks",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA (23M) for going off on my (20F) GF because she’s not careful when she cooks?? | So my GF has started to cook more (usually I cook everything) and every time she cooks there is an open flame. I mean literally something in the kitchen catches on fire. When cooking she tends to set the burners to the highest setting. To the point where they are glowing bright red. Well tonight she left a paper towel ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KGblUQOpZLjqHOfe4t0VeVtK5DedCd3D | b75m1t | {
"description": "freaking out because the wife didnt clean",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for freaking out because the wife didnt clean |
So for a little context I work 23 hours from the town my wife refuses to leave. 4 weeks working 2 weeks off. We have two kids 10 and 8 plus one on the way.
I make pretty good money, so when I took this job we sat down and talked about her staying at home because she would have to Cook, clean, care for the kids. All... | HISTORICAL | {
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HuHfBUulNZTnMdWf8mYf9xSLhjb9tcro | ak8isj | {
"description": "cutting ties with a friend that asked me out",
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} | AITA for cutting ties with a friend that asked me out? | A few months ago, I (F16) became friends with a guy at my school. I’ll call him A. I go to an all-girls school but A has been questioning his gender for some time now, and prefers male pronouns. A also has a pretty obvious crush on me that became apparent fairly quickly- he would stare at me in class, come back with me... | HISTORICAL | {
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iJ6EzxPZpagu3WVofq1wUfdNf8BE9cEg | aqfhg9 | {
"description": "remaining friends with someone my brother claims is a \"backstabber\"",
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} | AITA for remaining friends with someone my brother claims is a "backstabber" | Growing up a lot of my older brother's friends became my friends, since they were more family friends, I consider a few of them my brothers from another mother. The friend in question got me my first job, was always there to help us out of a jam, but most importantly he was my brother's best friend for many years. They... | HISTORICAL | {
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oyI6UH4QRILs4ROIpgPJ8BgdIZkLFrpR | ax3nwq | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to come with me to an event",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to come with me to an event? | Heres the story, my girlfriend does this thing where she'll say she doesnt want to go if I ask her to go somewhere with me,especially if it involves my friends. So I asked her to go to an event a week prior, she says no. I ask her again two days before the event, no again. I ask her the morning of, shockingly, she say... | HISTORICAL | {
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G2ChIWe3KiAEcdPv8IURoXohVUGHkTze | 9z0unc | null | AITA for what I said to my friend about her promise ring? | I'm 26 and just got engaged to my boyfriend of 4 years. My friend is 25 and has worn a promise ring given to her by her bf for as long as I have known her. She has specifically said that it is a promise ring.
Ever since I got engaged my friend has been weirdly competitive. A couple of people have asked to see my ring,... | HISTORICAL | {
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kCf1krpDPHwvrGTROMoIDv59MapQmz4Q | abjgyo | {
"description": "not waiting for my girlfriend to pay attention on our twitch stream and attacking her character",
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} | AITA For not waiting for my girlfriend to pay attention on our Twitch stream and attacking her character. | So last night we were streaming us playing fighting games. She kept doing other stuff like texting on her phone or vaping on the loading screens. She got really angry that I would start attacking if the match started because she wasn't ready. She said a real gamer would wait for the other person to be ready. My side is... | HISTORICAL | {
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95tSzaxkXccwPU2nlCmxZwP9WimV3VBf | b17x08 | {
"description": "not telling someone they have a potentially fatal illness",
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} | WIBTA If I don’t tell someone they have a potentially fatal illness? | For background, my family immigrated from China and now my mom is now helping her college friend (Cathy) from China by letting them stay at our house for a while. She also brought her son (Sean) over but the dad is not in the picture at all. Apparently she got fanatical about Buddhism and lived in the middle of nowhere... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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fUwoZBE565tYJgcdYs1HgpueWKOiGbrz | aipa59 | {
"description": "not agreeing with my gf to get a vasectomy in 10 years",
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} | AITA For not agreeing with my GF to get a vasectomy in 10 years |
My GF and I have been dating for almost a year now and tings have been going great, we've talked about getting married in passing and I'm pretty sure that I'll propose to her at some point in the future. We're also on the same page about having kids, both of us are pretty sure we don't want them and because of this... | HISTORICAL | {
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ouQi9gO3RqmRBvkPtlAKfCwks9rfGhZ5 | avt81b | {
"description": "not texting my girlfriend while with my friends",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not texting my girlfriend while with my friends? | I’ve recently been in a new relationship of about a month and a half. I live in a different state than her due to her being in school, and me not being in school. I text her all the time, we FaceTime every so often, we are trying to make it work.
Anyways last night I had work. I had not texted her during work because,... | HISTORICAL | {
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CyBAWLZI8mqmEYudAEfemamjHD670opQ | b5v6ha | {
"description": "expecting someone to pick me up even though their plans changed",
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} | AITA For expecting someone to pick me up even though their plans changed? | [https://imgur.com/a/yQftqTo](https://imgur.com/a/yQftqTo) I havnt seen anyone post a link so I'm not sure if it's allowed, but the story goes as follows.
I'm 28 and don't drive. I wanted to go see one of my best friends in Tampa, Fl (35 minutes from where I live). I wanted to be the least inconvenience as possible,... | HISTORICAL | {
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8kSzLGBvsBBx6PQBN21i1i5gyYGWJgNc | ba55fw | {
"description": "cat fishing a friend to make her breakup with her emotionally abusive boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for cat fishing a friend to make her breakup with her emotionally abusive boyfriend? | yeah ok so where do we begin? my very close friend started dating this guy who was fine at first, kinda on the dorky side. after a few months i noticed he started being VERY overprotective. he wouldn’t let her hang out with me and he told her that she was no longer able to spend the night at my house without staying on... | HISTORICAL | {
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ssM0N4Wm1BZREfjnyYYLlHVAAD9NKvFt | anc9ej | {
"description": "suing my best friend when he shut down our business he built",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for Suing My Best Friend When He Shut Down Our Business He Built? | 2015
Best friend approaches me, asks if I’d invest in his idea (a skincare business). He needs money, an advisor, and was attracted to my 15+ years of business experience and history of building 7-figure businesses. I agree, and fund the company.
2016
Best friend agreed to have 10 products by end of year. He produces ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OHZt3kjklZwiT6yPYcDZWl02Ydhr3JKC | an3l2f | {
"description": "telling my spouse that girls belong in the GIRL Scouts and boys belong in the BOY Scouts",
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} | AITA for telling my spouse that girls belong in the GIRL Scouts and boys belong in the BOY Scouts? | M(49) military veteran reared in the south asked my spouse F(35) reared in upstate NY her thoughts on the recent ruling that girls could participate in the boy scouts. For clarification purposes, she was in the girl scouts. I was not in the boy scouts. I tried to explain to her last night after hearing the news of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nN1vQYjeMIWxZBZSjtZHQv8RcsJFhm9p | 9ux67w | null | AITA - overnight aide making noise | So I just discovered this sub tonight and literally just had this experience and was feeling conflicted about it. Perfect! Wondering if y’all could weigh in.
My dad is on hospice care and tonight is our first night with an overnight aide. She’s sitting in an adjacent room and expected to stay up to help him adjust, go... | HISTORICAL | {
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olymNooThhUQBuJOiSQ0zPzoRiGcDP6b | b6a2ms | {
"description": "not using my sister as my realtor when she only got her license 6-8 mos. ago and husband and I have been working with our realtor for many years",
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} | AITA for not using my sister as my realtor when she only got her license 6-8 mos. ago and husband and I have been working with our realtor for many years? | We planned to sell our house and our realtor is a long time friend who came to our home and helped us stage it to sell and introduced us to several builders. Our realtor has many high end clients and gave us a price point that we could likely sell our house for. My sister's price point was about $15,000 to $20,000 les... | HISTORICAL | {
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TeUdHSxEwONK8mQS71b3mgFSc2I7N8O6 | aoh560 | {
"description": "being frustrated with my so over lack of sleep",
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} | AITA For Being Frustrated With my SO Over Lack of Sleep? | Long story short, I work a job with regular hours and my SO works a job with rotating shifts. Sometimes they get off work at 7am, 7pm, 11pm, etc. This is only an issue because we live together. I wake up at 6am every day for work, so it's important that I go to bed early and get quality sleep. Most of the time it's gre... | HISTORICAL | {
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YPYae1oEZXxybimeVS5KZlT7z89qkUf3 | az5e3t | {
"description": "asking a customer to order online because we can't understand her over the phone",
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} | AITA for asking a customer to order online because we can't understand her over the phone? | (IDK if it's against the rules but technically my manager did this, not me. So the question is am I the asshole for thinking he's in the right, but that's a little wordy for a title)
​
So I work at a fast-casual restaurant chain and we have a frequent "problem" customer named Mary\*. Most of us have a stor... | HISTORICAL | {
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kej5dtroBszLpkTAc0Tn5DuKmSNRdpDn | axy7ec | {
"description": "wanting to use a surrogate",
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} | AITA for wanting to use a surrogate? | I see nothing but positives for using a surrogate but my girlfriend can't see it
1. More control over the pregnancy; I won't have to hope and pray my girlfriend is doing things correctly I can just pay someone and make them sign a contract and legally force them to follow instructions such as diet related things etc
2... | HISTORICAL | {
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Nu2ioQjERsmdMUkoRDF6bn9NGij83sBG | a987eq | {
"description": "calling my friend \"Pathetic\"and a \"Loser\" after his Wife CHEATED on him",
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} | AITA for calling my friend "Pathetic"and a "Loser" after his Wife CHEATED on Him? | Some backstory.
I've been friends with this person (let's call him Jim) since we were kids and he comes from a very wealthy family, he's not a douche about it either, Jim has always been a meek person.
About 6 years ago, he met this girl (let's call her Evil Bitch, EB for short) We were shocked at first that he was d... | HISTORICAL | {
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GwmMJB9vxJoPZXo1ETXmb5oE1ZnLq8gt | 9z4vri | {
"description": "not replying back to a former friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA if I don't reply back to a former friend? | About a year ago, I stopped responding to a former friend of mine.
We had been friends for about 4 or 5 months and one of the first friends I made moving to a new city. We hung out pretty frequently and we would go out for drinks on the occasion. For a little bit, I considered him a really good friend.
Things started... | HISTORICAL | {
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302GxbaBbdvlMvCfzC2oLXO9r4FQZpQG | adzr34 | {
"description": "telling this lady to grab her kid",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling this lady to grab her kid? | Hi,
I live in New YorK, I also use the gross, unclean, unreliable yet convenient subway system.
I was just in the train station going down an escalator and this woman is in front of me with her kid, No older than 4 or 5. The moment we step onto the escalator her kid starts licking the wall of the escalator. Like full... | HISTORICAL | {
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6o0Khwj11otoDv6i085o6nRxUsLzCCit | 9zc8r0 | {
"description": "lying that I am \"playing it by ear\" when asked by a date for what I am looking for",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA For lying that I am "playing it by ear" when asked by a date for what I am looking for (e.g. a hookup, long-term, etc)? | First, let me preface this question by saying my dating situation. I am 20 years old, but I am very career focused and mostly work and go to school at the same time. This has lead to dates around my age saying I'm too career focused and serious, and when I try to date older women (around 22-25 years old), they get hung... | HISTORICAL | {
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"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
hxVArXjuLYCbFPDvoxbgKC0fLvyAwgRo | b0eqq8 | {
"description": "messing up dinner service",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for messing up dinner service? (Cross post on r/cooking) | So, I agreed to help a local business with a dinner party. Party of 20, prime rib.
When I get to the kitchen, they have a small, organic strip loin. I expressed that the strip loin wouldn't be enough to serve 20, and was sent to the store. Picked up a half of a prime there.
Back at the kitchen, I throw both the prim... | HISTORICAL | {
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dX2NljCqv3lFNfadb5n3GaKHedoqY6vW | 9zkw5r | {
"description": "telling my 92 year old Grandma her life investment is essentially worthless",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for telling my 92 year old Grandma her life investment is essentially worthless? | Backstory: I’m 24 yr old male taking care of my grandma because I’m all the family she has. My tiny, innocent grandmother (92yr) has been taken advantage of by people on the internet many times. One of the worst and consequently final straws was about 2 years ago, when I gave her $500 to help pay for her utilities and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 18,
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} | RIGHT |
yAsb3GNZdX0WfSYbpu2uyDfFXkC9UJvh | b5ydor | {
"description": "being oversensitive",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for being oversensitive? | Been petsitting for a guy's cat, birds, and fish. Was talking to my boyfriend in text when I walk in to find the guy's cat had knocked over the birdcage, and presumably ate both parakeets. No bodies, but lots of feathers scattered everywhere, dead-silent apartment (no chirps or flapping wings of a hiding bird)
While w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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n63G64x7hR38nucOIf7VaOtScY64KeKi | akdejs | {
"description": "telling my sister not to take a loan",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my sister not to take a loan? | First of all I want to apologise, I'm shit at grammar, formatting, and more or less writing in general so bear with me.
My grandfather passed away this fall and as the last of nine siblings he owned all of the family land and the farm he grew up on, it is not worth a huge amount of money but it's a fair amount and my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gdTT0fT7HxjLoFeOJRtRx6l9SjZCQTev | 9vs7vy | {
"description": "getting my mom evicted/kicked out on purpose",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for getting my mom evicted/kicked out on purpose? | I (F18) have a very shitty and narcissistic mom. nothing to dwell about, im over it. she also comes with a very shitty boyfriend. i have always lived with my grandparents, but when i was 10, they moved in with us.
when i turned 15, her boyfriend got us evicted out of a very nice and cheap home because he was selling ... | HISTORICAL | {
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VFx3IiQY75nouhhyxL9dwCT8sCeoCtsv | adplkz | {
"description": "blocking a girl after she started to cry when I didn't send her private information",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for blocking a girl after she started to cry when I didn't send her private information? |
So this happened a few weeks ago and this girl has just now started to text me on a number I didn't block.
So for some backstory, I am currently a Freshmen and I know this girl through school and we have only known each other for a few months (Maybe 3-4 months). It all started out with my friend giving her my numb... | HISTORICAL | {
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nfNVPd8LMhAy9mn0Ss5a3GCNyUg9LVsx | aiqq33 | {
"description": "not wanting to pay towards the birthday gift",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay towards the birthday gift? | So for a bit of backstory, I have a friend, let's call her D, who I have known since high school. We used to be quite close but haven't really spoke recently due to D making some extremely rude comments to both my girlfriend and sister (We're all from the same hometown) around 6 months ago.
Anyway Me and D go to the s... | HISTORICAL | {
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32NpOX3O6i0V03VOHeYmpcwbT7uUxe8y | b8qdvb | {
"description": "telling off a sales person",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling off a sales person? | I got a text message this morning from a number I did not recognize, and it was letting me know that they had a missed call from me. He said he was an internet sales manager at a Hyundai dealership in a town three hours away. When I checked my call log on my phone, I hadn’t made a call since yesterday. When I explained... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZsARhq7gpASoQpLUqFMQU3M8HLhnfMqu | b1vntc | {
"description": "hating playing with an autistic kid",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA because I hated playing with an autistic kid? | When I was little, I befriended a kid with autism. We had a lot of the same interests, superheroes, nerf, Lego and bionicles, and we liked video games. He was and is a nice kid. We're still friends 13 or 14 years later.
I didn't mind playing most games with him. However, video games with him were the worst. If he di... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
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bbNLQqjerCcACjpJn6TMT0ExGgScMy5B | 9vjm79 | {
"description": "ending a relationship/conspiring to cheat because she wouldn't have sex",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for ending a relationship/conspiring to cheat because she wouldn't have sex? | I was in a relationship for three years until I couldn't take it anymore and almost thought about cheating on her because she wouldn't have sex.
We made out a lot, had a lot of fun and was probably the best relationship I've ever had but the lack of sex was frustrating and she was very evasive everytime I'd try to tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"RIGHT": 7,
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WS8Wfu3gKaOTZ3cCPipoO0Z3FuKGK7IP | 9tvpbs | {
"description": "wanting to live in another country",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to live in another country | I have a 5 year old who does not live with me, me and his mom are not married, and I see my child every Friday (every other weekend stays the entire weekend with me) I am on decent terms with mom but we never talk unless it’s about said child.
I am currently dating a woman who lives in Brazil and I am in the U.S. I wa... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
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nTEczTKwJIOhGbW5Y3Pm0lKDEZTeUPPE | b63dj4 | {
"description": "getting mad at my classmates",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for getting mad at my classmates? | Okay, so for our final project for our Music class, we have to do a production of a musical. We were given at least 2 or 3 months for preparation (basically perform songs from the musical until it lasts around 50 minutes) but for the first 3 weeks we bullshitted the practices until our Music teacher got mad at us. We o... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 6,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
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