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{ "description": "dumping my addict ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for dumping my addict ex?
My ex \[18M\] and I \[20F\] were friends for about 2.5 years before we started dating in February. It was one of those "will they, won't they" friendships, and our whole friend group approved of it when we made it official. We seemed compatible in terms of future wants and needs. We talked about getting married after c...
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{ "description": "calling out my work to use more inclusive terms", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for calling out my work to use more inclusive terms?
So here this, I have several disabilties resulting in me being able to only work parttime. Because of this, my boss doesn't want me on field work because they deem that I cannot deliver "continuity". I totally do not agree with that reasoning, but that is an entirely different story. This is important to know though. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to speak to extended family", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to speak to extended family?
I'm going to try to keep this concise as its not too big of a situation, but I like writing so no promises. Also, sorry about mobile formatting. I'm a 19 year old guy, that might be relevant to some of you when making your judgement. So my family is pretty traditionalist, especially my dad. I value tradition and am co...
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{ "description": "not taking down my wind-chime", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I don’t take down my wind-chime?
I received a letter in our mailbox from our new next door neighbor today. The letter politely asks us to take down a wind-chime we have on our back porch that has been there for 2/3 years because it “disturbs” their sleep since they decided to use the bedroom closest to our back porch as their bedroom (~30/35ft distanc...
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{ "description": "expressing my opinions", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for expressing my opinions?
I am an atheist and my mother-in-law is a hardcore Christian. She spent years trying to convert me to "save" me and I always kept my mouth shut. I never spoke about religion or politics as a sign of respect. This woman has done many evils to me. To get her mad, I made a book of faces post about being pro-choice and th...
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{ "description": "taking a lunch break", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for taking a lunch break?
So last night my grandmother (92) was brought to the hospital with chest pain, blue lips & very low oxygen levels. At about 3:30am she was rushed to another hospital as her lung collapsed. I was scheduled to work from 6am to 6pm. When I got to work, I asked my supervisor if I could go to the hospital to see her...
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{ "description": "not inviting my Sister-in-Law's Scummy Boyfriend to Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Inviting My Sister-in-Law's Scummy Boyfriend to Christmas?
My husband and I offered to host family Christmas because my sister-in-law, let's call her Jane, usually hosts it but doesn't cook, insists my mother-in-law cook, and overwhelms my MIL with her self-absorbed behaviour. Jane has two children, but neither of their fathers are in the picture. Instead, two weeks ago, Jan...
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{ "description": "wanting to know about my fiancé's past before we get married", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to know about my fiancé’s past before we get married?
My fiancé has told me, in not so many words, that a family member sexually abused him as a child. He claims he’s never really told anyone and he wouldn’t tell me who it was. I got the impression that it’s someone I know, or have met. The way he talked about it gave me the idea that he didn’t want to stir the family pot...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to shave her toes and fingers", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to shave her toes and fingers?
Girlfriend and I have been dating like 4 months. She’s a beautiful woman and I’m very attracted to her. The thing is, she’s a bit hairy. She shaves or using cream on most things to deal with this. But for whatever reason, she doesn’t remove the hair on her toes and fingers. Oddly enough, I noticed the toes first. I w...
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{ "description": "being disappointed in not recieving a gift from my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being disappointed in not recieving a gift from my boyfriend?
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. He's great in most regards but sometimes I feel like he takes me for granted. Come Christmas time, without fail, I will get him a gift of some kind but he won't get me anything. He'll get gifts for his parents, his 6 siblings, just not me. It's the same for birthdays,...
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{ "description": "not being supportive of BF's mom's engagement", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being supportive of BF's mom's engagement?
My boyfriend (early30sM) and I (mid20sF) have been together for around 3 years and have lived almost that whole time. Let's call him Cory. Cory and I moved in with his mother (late50s) in June last year. Let's call her Carol. We did it so we could save some money and we knew it was just until she retired in about 3 yea...
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{ "description": "embarrassing my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for embarrassing my friend?
My friend Jesse and I who knew eachother for about 6 years prior to working in the same dealership have recently had a "falling out" and she has been giving me the cold shoulder and basically speaking to me like a stranger since this occurred. Jesse is kind of qwerky and likes to say weird things to amuse others, such...
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{ "description": "confronting my gf abt her being rude", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my gf abt her being rude
So this past week Emily has been having a bad week. She’s been doing a lot and has had a lot on her plate according to her. Emily has been very moody this week. One second she’s dying to get my attention the next she’s ignoring me. I understand and didn’t say anything about it and kept a positive attitude. So E...
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{ "description": "not wanting a third child", "pronormative_score": 150, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting a third child?
AITA for not wanting a third child? My SO and I have two beautiful, smart, and wonderful children. I had very difficult pregnancies and postpartum was an even bigger nightmare. I was diagnosed with PPD after our first child was born and then PPD+anxiety after the birth of our second. I was a SAHM and my husband works...
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{ "description": "telling an adult about my friend's problems", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling an adult about my friend's problems
My friend is a beautiful girl, but she is depressed. She cuts herself and keeps talking about wanting to die. Me and the rest of my group of friends got tired of living on the constant pressure that she might really kill herself. She has problems at home: Her parents are divorced, she lives with her dad (Wich got her p...
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{ "description": "refusing to talk with extended family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to talk with extended family?
So this happened years ago. My parents occasionally plan to go to their origin country for vacation. I've been there about 3-4 times now and I despise being there. I won't say the country's name because I don't want people pointing out the few "pros" or defending it because that's not what it's about. Don't get me w...
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{ "description": "trying to give a friend brutally honest college advise", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to give a friend brutally honest college advise?
I’m currently a senior in high school ready for college. I’ve done a ton of research over tons of school and have applied to multiple colleges so I feel I know a bit more than some of my classmates. A friend of mine was telling me about how she was planning to apply to a pretty prestigious college. This college reall...
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{ "description": "hitting a kid in my school after he verbally bullied me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For hitting a kid in my school after he verbally bullied me?
So basically, the kid was just annoying the hell out of me but he never touched me and I got mad and punched him. AITA?
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{ "description": "hating my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For hating my grandmother
First time posting, just started reading some of the posts here, and seeing as ya'll have solid judgement, I'll tell my story. For ease of reading my mother is M, grandmother is GM, Grandfather is GF, and father is D. GM was raised in Mexico and is extremely racist, to the degree that when M was younger GM would bera...
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{ "description": "arguing with a pregnant woman who was serving me at a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for arguing with a pregnant woman who was serving me at a restaurant?
My friends and I ordered takeout to pick up at a restaurant near our campus. We asked for the lunch special on the phone when we called and placed the order. When we arrived to pick up the order, instead of making us the lunch special, which is a smaller size of the regular, they had made the regular instead. The fol...
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{ "description": "refusing to change my mother-in-law's diaper", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for refusing to change my mother-in-law's diaper?
My wife's mother recently went into hospice due to end stage dementia. Yesterday my wife, who's been trading shifts watching her mother with her sister, decided that she wanted to go out to lunch with her friend and told me to watch her mother and keep her comfortable. I'm the worst at taking care of people but I said ...
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{ "description": "wanting to see Endgame opening night vs going to an award dinner/party for my wife's work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for wanting to see Endgame opening night vs going to an award dinner/party for my wife's work?
Background: my wife works for a major radio station in the front office. They had a absolutely stellar ratings book for the last period. The CEO and chief of programming are hosting a major event for the success. It's the same night as the endgame opening. I want to go to Endgame. I'm proud of my wife but I feel like...
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{ "description": "wanting \"friends with benefits\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting "friends with benefits"?
I became friend with a girl from my same class in college about 6-7 months ago. But our friendship really took off when she had a breakup with her boyfriend and she needed someone with her. We use to just talk with each other but after sometime we started holding hands and slowly we did some other simple stuff too. But...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that I was called out on my mess", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that I was called out on my mess?
I share a house with 3 other people. Our shared areas don't have a lot of storage, and our kitchen is small. So small that probably no more than 2 people can be in there at once. Having such a small area means that it gets messy very quickly. Now lately I've been having a guest over that likes to cook when we hang out....
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AITA because it pisses me off when my mum sings in the car?
So I'm 15M, and first off my mum is great and I could not speak highly enough of her. Now, every time I'm in the car with her she always just sings in the car pretty loud while I'm just on social media and I don't know what it is but it just simply really annoys the shit out of me. So this morning I asked her to stop b...
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{ "description": "making a friend feel poor", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making a friend feel poor
I was raised by a wealthy family, not obnoxiously wealth but comfortable and have been able to have nice things and holidays etc. this weekend was a trip out of town, funded by my mother for my birthday. She paid about $1500 for two nights away in a rural town. We rented a beautiful Airbnb with a pool, rain showers an...
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{ "description": "arguing with my boyfriend for drinking", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my boyfriend for drinking?
The thing is, I barely drink alcohol. Twice a month at max. When I drank for the first time, he didn't say anything. He was cool with it. But one day he got upset with me when I told him I drank twice in the span of two weeks. He said, "Oh! So this is becoming a habit, I guess?" And I told him I'm an adult, I can mak...
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{ "description": "making fun of my friends music taste", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for making fun of my friends music taste ?
So my friend Enrique and I are pretty close. But one thing that always causes an argument betwen us is our different music tastes. I LOVE old school rock and roll like kiss, led zeppelin, the rolling stomes, green day, greta van fleet, and queen. My friend however likes hip hop music like twopoc, biggie, kanue west, sn...
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{ "description": "inviting my friend to sleep over", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for inviting my friend to sleep over?
I study a couple of hours away from where I was born/lived all my life, I have a room there but I come home more or less every other weekend to see friends-family. I met this girl at uni and we became quite close friends, and coincidentally she had this classes for her job in my birth town. We are talking about someb...
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{ "description": "making a joke", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a joke?
https://imgur.com/a/d2MIbiC Met "P" in Grindr and we switched to text after a while... Surprisingly he's 39, it seems like he has some issues....
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{ "description": "not allowing my daughters girlfriend stay the night", "pronormative_score": 167, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for not allowing my daughters girlfriend stay the night?
This incident happened Friday night and I’ve been thinking it over all weekend, I made an account just to ask. I have twins, a son and a daughter, age 16 (17 in March) My son has been dating his girlfriend for over a year now, and very rarely do I allow her to stay over at our house for a night. On the rare occasion ...
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{ "description": "being rude to my friends dad because of his past job", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being rude to my friends dad because of his past job?
My friend had quite rich parents (her mother recently passed), they owned 2 houses and have lived all over the world and out of curiosity I asked her how they had made their money, she told me her dad used to breed kittens and puppies to sell as one of his side businesses and thinking this was interesting I asked her m...
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{ "description": "not congratulating pregnant sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not congratulating pregnant sister?
Sister has 2 kids already. Neither her nor her man have had a job in 5 years. They survive off government payments and the odd donation from me to get by. They fell pregnant with the third kid intentionally. She can't afford the kids she has and now she's having another, and I haven't been able to talk to her since her...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have sex with y 6 month pregnant girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting to have sex with y 6 month pregnant girlfriend?
My GF is 6 months pregnant. Before she got pregnant we had sex like at east 5 or 6 times a week, I usually initiated. When she first got pregnant we still maintained our sex life but since she started showing I've kind of been put off having sex for many reasons. 1 is that I kind of feel like awkward having sex with he...
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{ "description": "saying I wouldn't go to a party if a certain person who happened to be close friends with the host was attending", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying I wouldn’t go to a party if a certain person who happened to be close friends with the host was attending?
Ok...background first then we’ll get to the meat. There’s also a TLDR at the bottom for those who don’t want to read all of this. For those who do...sorry. There’s a lot. So I just started my second year in college. My first year I met this guy (we’ll call him Chad) who was finishing up his fourth year. He was cool to...
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{ "description": "cringing at someone confessing their feelings to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cringing at someone confessing their feelings to me?
So I recently started my second year of college and my best friend has left for a foundation year at a university further away from where I live. I was struggling really badly with making connections with other people except for this one guy who has been a friend/acquaintance. I'm quite shy and find it difficult to tal...
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{ "description": "replacing the computer I recieved as a gift a year ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I replace the computer I recieved as a gift a year ago?
Okay, so my mom got me a cheap computer for Christmas last year for school and while I'm super grateful, she's not the greatest with technology. It had barely enough storage to run windows so I couldn't save anything to it. I've since sunk about $150 (probably half of what this thing was originally worth) into it to tr...
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{ "description": "not telling the teacher I put on lotion", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling the teacher I put on lotion?
It's as fucking absurd as it sounds. TLDR at the end. So for some context, I'm in a women's choir class. I transferred to this school two months ago and so you'd think all of the rules would have been clearly laid out for me by now, but nope. Apparently there's a rule against putting on lotion (which is strange to me ...
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AITA: family feud.
My parents have aged and developed a soft spot when it comes to parenting. My younger brother(of 13 years, only us two for siblings) is borderline out-of-control. He has punched holes in most of the doors in my parents house, has pushed my mom to the ground, and has been in and out of school as he pleases. My parents, ...
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{ "description": "talking about my online gaming friend's cheats on group chat, making his friends talk shit about him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking about my online gaming friend's cheats on group chat, making his friends talk shit about him?
I play this game called Far Cry 5 on my PC. It's made by Ubisoft, came out in early 2018 so almost an entire year ago, and is mostly solo-player and co-op with some player-vs-player, too. Through the game and UPlay, Ubi's own client similar to Valve's Steam, I made this friend, "Mr. Z", who's from the other side of the...
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{ "description": "not wanting my Dads side of the family coming to my graduation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my Dads side of the family coming to my graduation?
On mobile so please forgive formatting. A little bit of background. My high school graduation is coming up. My dad wants to invite his mom and dad (my grandparents) to my graduation. Now my mom and myself aren’t exactly on good terms with them. They (my grandparents) have repeatedly disrespected my mother and I. Hell ...
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{ "description": "not helping my friend get a job alongside me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my friend get a job alongside me? (Long expl. + TL;DR)
A little bit of background: I (F19) have a friend (F18) who we'll call W. So W and I have known one another for six months. We went to school together as kids but never really talked, but hit it off when we met again at work. Our job is hell and the whole place is filled with problems that I won't even begin to unpack...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to smoke weed", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to smoke weed?
I am anti-drug. I was raised by a single father who was a police officer who drilled the anti-drug sentiment into me. My mother was a drug dealer and addict who started out with weed, but moved to major drugs. I am dating a lovely girl, and we want to have a future together. She recently let it slip that she smokes we...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to cancel her flights because of an April Fool's prank", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my friend to cancel her flights because of an April Fool's prank?
Throwaway because I think my friend knows about my main Reddit account. Also, sorry for formatting if it's weird, I am writing this on my phone. TL;DR at the end. And, sorry for crappy english, it's not my first language. I have a friend I have known for a couple of years now, she lives in another country but we have...
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{ "description": "not wanting to make food for someone even if they pay", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to make food for someone even if they pay?
So as a hobby I started making beef jerky. One batch is usually more than I can eat so I share with people. Everyone who tried it really seems to like it. I've even had a few people offer to pay me for it. I always decline because I feel weird accepting money because then I feel like I owe them something. What if I me...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to not dye her hair", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to not dye her hair?
Ive been dating my girlfriend for 4 months and its getting pretty serious. Last night she asked me what colour she should dye her hair, at first i was trying to be polite and told her that her hair looks great now but she insisted on a bright pink dye. After some disagreement i told her that itd look awful and that she...
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{ "description": "making fun of how someone I know faked cutting herself for attention", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for making fun of how someone I know faked cutting herself for attention.
How I know the person (I’ll just call her K) was faking cutting themselves is a somewhat long story so I’ll sum it up. Basically I was in a discord call with a group of friends talking about random stories while playing video games. After a while one of my friends mentioned that K sent a message about 5 minutes before ...
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{ "description": "calling cops", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling cops?
AITA for calling the cops? Ill call her O. O had an ex that ill call X. O and X were on/off for yrs. One night X was arrested for dom assualt. So now a no-contact order. X continued to harass O for weeks by text after that. All the while claiming he didn't blame O for getting him arrested. But sumtimes would yell ove...
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{ "description": "kicking a dog", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for kicking a dog
Sounds bad I know but hear me out! I work as a dog sitter/walker and one of the dogs, called Mulle, who I take on regular walks is terrible with other dogs. Like if a dog gets too close he will bark and growl and bite. He had a bad upbringing so it’s hard to unlearn this behavior as it is so ingrained in him (this is b...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my nephew on a trip with me and my kids to visit my in-laws", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take my nephew on a trip with me and my kids to visit my in-laws?
This actually happened awhile ago - but I've been feeling kind of guilty about it, so I still think about it. I have two kids (2 and 4), and sister-in-law(SIL) has 2 kids (5 and 9). We both live in the same city. Her parents (my husbands parents) live in a small town about a 5 hour drive away. I'm very close with ...
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{ "description": "not showering for a month", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for not showering for a month
My girlfriend and i live together with my friend Danny. Danny and me made a bet: who takes a shower first, has to invite the other one for a dinner in a very expensive restaurant. I thought the bet would be over after a week or so and it would be an easy way for me to get some good food without paying money (i’m rea...
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{ "description": "not feeling sorry for my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not feeling sorry for my friend?
The situation is that I had a crush and as I finally was 100% sure we'll never be together cuz she said it clearly. I said it to my friend and he felt that a bit amusing. Now the same shit happened to him with a bit more salt. She (his crush) dumped him via whatsapp. He told me what happened, and of course I feel sorry...
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{ "description": "not inviting my cousins to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn’t invite my cousins to my wedding?
So, this is gonna be long, but I’ll include a TL;DR here: WIBTA if I didn’t invite the cousins who bullied me growing up to my wedding? Growing up for me was hard. I have Neurofibromatosis 1, so I’ve always looked a bit off growing up. Always bullied by other kids around my age for it. Never really had anyone c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone for kind of a dumb reason", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone for kind of a dumb reason
so, basically, I don't like kpop. I find the music confusing and cheesy. I have found no kpop, whatsoever, that I enjoy. And I used to be friends with someone who was obsessed with kpop. She said that she was "in love" with random kpop stars, and that she is sure that, despite the fact that most information about them ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to be home when he has guests over, particularly strange men", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my roommate to be home when he has guests over, particularly strange men?
So I like the spot I live in and like my roommate alright, but this situation sort of has me feeling disrespected and a little nervous tbh. My roommate is a 40 yo man, and not small. I’m a 125 lbs 28 yo woman, and carry my own just fine but unfortunately we move through the world a little differently. Mainly, I don’t...
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{ "description": "trying to get my older brother with tourretes to quiet it down", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for trying to get my older brother with tourretes to quiet it down?
His vocal tic is this really loud fucking noise that sounds like someone is clearing their throat. I can’t explain it perfectly. It’s like “UMMPH”. But it’s *loud*. You will hear it all across the house behind locked doors. It wakes me up every god damn morning. And he does it constantly—I’ve counted and I’d aver...
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{ "description": "wanting to bring my rabbits indoors for the winter when my boyfriend doesnt want me to", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to bring my rabbits indoors for the winter when my boyfriend doesnt want me to
So long story short. My boyfriend and I have moved to a new city together so he can start his PhD. We've moved into a 2 bedroom house with just ourselves. We share one bedroom and he's converted the spare room into his office. I have 2 rabbits that I love unconditionally and now winter is setting in in the UK, darker ...
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{ "description": "trying to talk my boyfriend out of getting a dog", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i try to talk my boyfriend out of getting a dog?
English isn't my first language so sorry in advance. My boyfriend and I have been talking about moving in together, he has an apartment and I live at home. We have been looking for big apartments since his is a one room. He has recently started talking about wanting to get a dog when we move together, don't get me wr...
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{ "description": "pretending to be in therapy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pretending to be in therapy?
First off, I understand that mental illness is serious. I suffer from anxiety and depression. I would never make light of therapy. That said, my mother is a narcissist. And I do mean a god damn fucking narcissist. To the point where in this book which I read, https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2133999.Will_I_Ever_Be_...
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{ "description": "dumping GF because she is bi", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for dumping GF because she is bi?
Throwaway here... So I've been seeing this girl "Jade" for about 5 months now. She's really fun and we have the same interests. I don't know that much about her personal life, since I don't like talking about personal stuff. It was shaping up to be potentially serious when she mentioned in passing that she is bisexual ...
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{ "description": "asking my mom to change the decorations in the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For asking my mom to change the decorations in the kitchen?
So a little background: I am absolutely 100% terrified of chickens and I have no idea why. I couldn't tell you a single thing about chickens that is scary or creepy, but every time I see or think about them I am filled with overwhelming fear and paranoia...for seemingly no reason at all. I've never had any sort of tra...
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{ "description": "suggesting an engagement ring with a $2300 price tag", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for suggesting an engagement ring with a $2300 price tag?
We've been together 4 years, living together for about 3 years. He has to medically retire from the military, which can happen as soon as February. So we decided we'd like to do a courthouse wedding before then and do a small (30-40 people) wedding in Vegas later on so that our families can attend. I am so excited and ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my sister during her party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for yelling at my sister during her party?
Context: I'm twenty four and my sister is twenty and we live in our parents house. My sister has had parties in the past that have been mellow, and a couple that have made me extremely uncomfortable with how many people are there(my sister is aware of how uncomfortable these parties make me). Recently, my sister told m...
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{ "description": "being upset that boyfriend is gifting $20 state tax credit to his brother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being upset that boyfriend is gifting $20 state tax credit to his brother
Ok. Maybe super boring thing to bring up. Boyfriend and I have been living together for over 5 years. Over a year ago we moved into his family home with his sister and uncle after his mother died. He has been baring the brunt of all the household decisions (fixing old ass plumbing, etc). He is also addressing challenge...
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{ "description": "touching my ex's baby belly", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 79 }
AITA for touching my ex's baby belly
My ex and I split when she was 10 weeks pregnant. We have been on very good terms and have met up several times to work out issues of custody and how we want to raise our child. The last time I saw her, she was really showing (34 weeks). As we were leaving, we hugged and I felt a pretty strong desire to bond with my ...
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{ "description": "going to church with my Ex's mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to church with my Ex’s mom?
My ex and I have been broken since July of 2018 and it ended quite poorly, she’s not allowed to talk to me because her boyfriend (she’s now dating the guy she was dating before me again) doesn’t allowed her to talk to me unless she wants to yell at me. We had no closure and that bothered me quite badly but with time I ...
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AITA Guy wants refund on eBay two and a half months after purchase
So a while ago my parents had a dishwasher still in the box, they were given it as a gift a while before that. They asked me to list it on eBay so I did. The model sold for around $900 so I figured, it's been in a box, sitting here, it's still new and all but I'll mark it cheap. So I put it up for $250. I should note...
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{ "description": "not pitching in on my boss' birthday gift", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I didnt pitch in on my boss' birthday gift?
So I just started working at a new job, Ive made some friends but I dont really consider them all that close because we all just met around the beginning of this year. This includes my boss'. Ive got like three, two of which happens to be mother/daughter. They are nice, and I like them however its painfully apparent ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my \"guy friend's\" house alone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my "guy friend's" house alone?
Context: I went to my friend's birthday party around 2-3 weeks ago, and I met one of her lifelong friends. At the party, we played truth or dare, so we ended up kissing. I ended up developing a tiny crush on him (we'll call him Javier). We all went out again two days later and we bumped into each other. Nothing really ...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend about the snow", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For not telling my boyfriend about the snow?
I usually take my daughter to school in the truck, and he usually walks his boys because their school is close (a block away). Either way I am home before the boys even walk to school. So last night my boyfriend and I were arguing and he out of spite told me that he was taking the boys to school in the truck, then go...
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{ "description": "asking my neighbor to make sure their kids do not shoot fireworks so close to the car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my neighbor to make sure their kids do not shoot fireworks so close to the car?
It was New Year’s Eve. I live in a small apartment complex that has 2 separate apartments. One on top and one on bottom. I live in the top and my neighbors on the bottom. I notice that my neighbors are celebrating the new year and have guests over including a lot of kids. They begin shooting fireworks so I take a loo...
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{ "description": "quiting painting with friends because I suck and don't enjoy it anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quiting painting with friends because I suck and don't enjoy it anymore?
About 4 months ago me and 2 other friends signed up for painting lessons. We were all interested back then wanted to give it a try. 4 months later everyone except me seems to have booked progress. I'm talking about people painting Bob Ross style of paintings versus me who's paintings still look the same as when I start...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend at school", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving my friend at school?
Brief background: my friend has to pay for his own gas and my parents pay for it so about 1-2 times a week I’ll drive him to school (he lives like 6 minutes away from me so it’s not a big deal). Him and I were hanging out yesterday and I asked him if he wanted a ride to school today, and he said yes because he was pl...
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{ "description": "getting upset with someone wanting to pet my dog while I was cleaning up after him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with someone wanting to pet my dog while I was cleaning up after him?
My husband and I typically walk our dog every evening in order to get his energy out. To give some background on our dog: He is a gorgeous dog--when I say that I'm not just being biased; he's from a line of showdogs that just didn't meet the standards of the breeder, and given that we train therapy dogs (NOT service do...
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{ "description": "wanting to Decline a Family gathering", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Wanting to Decline a Family Gathering?
My niece's birthday party is approaching. Many in-laws, friends of the family, and children (a large percentage of which I have no real relationship with) will be attending. As someone who suffers from both social anxiety and a stutter, these types of situations make me very uncomfortable. It's incredibly difficult f...
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{ "description": "feeling like this was rude even if my boyfriend was technically \"right\"", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling like this was rude even if my boyfriend was technically "right"?
Disclaimer: This situation in particular is really resolved I guess in that we argued and then stopped arguing and moved on and I'm not really holding a grudge. I just really.. don't know if I was right in my feelings on the matter. Last week me and my boyfriend went to dinner before a large event in town. My boyfrien...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend drive after smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my friend drive after smoking weed?
Last night my friends and I met up for a bit of a party. Everyone had a good time and it was going pretty well. Towards the end of the night one of my friends got up to leave and drive home.   Now full disclosure during the night we were all smoking some weed.   My friend starting saying it was ...
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{ "description": "not thanking my husband for taking care of our son", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not thanking my husband for taking care of our son?
Long story short: I’ve been at work early, late, and sometimes both this week for client meetings. This is not an every-week kind of occurrence. Typically I’ll work roughly 9-5:30 M-F with occasional travel. 90% of the time I pick up the kiddo because his day care is on the way home from my office. Most mornings I ge...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay my Son's grandmother to watch him", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Pay My Son’s Grandmother to Watch Him?
Currently deployed, have a son who will be a year old here this month. Stateside his mother lived with me because she doesn’t work and her family lives far away so it’s the only way I get to see my son every day. I provide for them financially in every way. I am sending her money while I’m gone. I left fairly recentl...
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{ "description": "asking what happened when a fight breaks out in my public discord server", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking what happened when a fight breaks out in my public discord server?
Recently, my friends have been getting into petty argumemts, but big but still arugmemts. When I had popped on the server 1 week ago, I see +500 messages from 3 of my friends, which it looked like they were bitching all about some game. When I had asked, what happened, two had responsed with, "You don't need to know." ...
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{ "description": "wanting to remain friends with someone in a relationship when asked not to", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to remain friends with someone in a relationship when asked not to?
I (19F) met one of my really good friends who we'll call Rachel (20F) during our first week of freshman year of college. In the second semester of our second year, we're still really close. Last semester, Rachel met and started dating a girl (19F) that we'll call Morgan. I wouldn't say that Morgan and I are friends, ...
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{ "description": "asking the girl I'm dating to change her bra", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 126 }
WIBTA if I asked the girl I'm dating to change her bra?
Long story short I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks and things have been going pretty good. I've even met her family and the whole 9 yards. The thing is she stayed at my place 3 nights in a row this week (mon,tues,wed) and while she did shower and change clothes, I noticed she's worn the same bra for THREE DA...
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AITA - My best friend cut me off after an incident, since then we've barely talked and had no closure
For some context, this was my best friend for about 10 months by the time she cut me off. We basically spent all of last summer together and back then I couldn't imagine we would go our separate ways this soon. Basically, the issue started when she would always talked bad about my other close friend because she was my...
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{ "description": "not being very sympathetic to my wife for her self inflicted problem", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for not being very sympathetic to my wife for her self inflicted problem?
I used to think I wanted children, but after we had the first I discovered that setting myself on fire would be the preferred option, if I had the choice. Unfortunately, my wife disagreed. Eventually she persuaded me to have a second child. You do not need to tell me that this is the stupidest thing I have ever done. ...
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{ "description": "breaking my sisters vape", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking my sisters vape?
Typing on mobile ignore formatting So basically our apartment doesn't allow tenants to smoke or vape in the apartments going so far to evict tenants and were facing the main office with a big window view into our living room. So I laid out 1 rule for my sister which is to not vape inside the house or I'd break her vap...
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{ "description": "letting my friend unknowingly drink from my water glass", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my friend unknowingly drink from my water glass?
We were at a networking event with presenters and dinner, and once the presentations started I guess she just kind of zoned out and started using my water glass. I didn't notice until she was a few sips in, but I still didn't tell her that it was my glass. I dunno, I thought it would make her uncomfortable? And I'd hav...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with a recently divorced old semi-friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with a recently divorced old semi-friend?
I've always had a low-tier friendship with this person. Not a close friendship, but the kind of friendship with somebody where you catch up with them from time to time, realise you have very little in common with them, and then don't see them again for six months. For the record I don't have many of these kinds of frie...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to clean up after herself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my roommate to clean up after herself?
Some backstory, I've lived with my current roommate for 2 years now, and I'm moving out in about a month because of the location and the fact that I'm no longer enjoying our living situation due to many factors and tensions over the course of living together. We currently aren't really talking, not due to a big fallout...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to hocky practice a day before 2 finals", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to hocky practice a day before 2 finals?
TLDR: My mom was angery ant a employ that quit with no notice, so she decided to yell at me and embarrass me in front on my hockey coaches. And wasted one hour of my possible study time. My mom wanted me to go to my hockey practice, I would have gone but I had 2 finals the next day and I need to study for them. When ...
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{ "description": "being mad my bf lied about being a virgin", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad my bf lied about being a virgin
Throwaway account I've been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. When we first met he told me he was a virgin, in his mid twenties. He knew I was not as I've been open about past relationships. Ours is the only "real relationship" he has been in. The other day it somehow came up and he made a comment like "yeah that's w...
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{ "description": "putting an \"autistic\" person back in is place", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
WIBTA if i put an "autistic" person back in is place?
First, i have all the respect for autistic person. throwaway account ​ so there is this girl in my classes for student who changes studies mid-year we'll call her hannah, she had some kind of ,i'd say autism (i'm not a doctor, she didn't take all the test) with severe attention disorder. on the day where e...
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{ "description": "saying I didn't like active feminism in a game", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying I didn’t like active feminism in a game?
Hey my dudes. I recently finished an amazing game, and bought the DLC for it. The main character for this game is a woman. Throughout the base game, there are plenty of female fighters and hunters and yada yada, but after finishing a specific side quest, you hear mutterings of “Can you believe a *WOMAN* is blah blah ...
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{ "description": "wanting to have my wedding at a plantation", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for wanting to have my wedding at a plantation?
I was born, raised and went to college in Philadelphia but my fiance is from the south. Last year his cousin got married at this plantation and it was really beautiful and had a nice aesthetic and since we were getting married in the South I wanted to have a plantation wedding as well. Obviously I don't support slavery...
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{ "description": "being upset with my so over vodka", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For being upset with my SO over vodka
When I was living with my SO, now my ex when ever one of us was working late the other would cook. He was French so he would put wine in everything. One day there was no wine available so he opened a brand new bottle of Vodka which I got as a present from my cousin when he visited Russia. I was mad because he opened it...
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AITA for complainingn to family about travelling
I was asked to fly out of Southern California to visit my in-laws in Australia. I did not want to, but with the uncle (who i do not know at all) dying of brain cancer, I did not want to be rude and say no, so I agreed to visit for about 7 days. Since they insisted on using their airline miles to pay for the ticket, I w...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my girlfriend didn't let me get us a dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 44 }
AITA for getting mad that my girlfriend didn’t let me get us a dog?
So some backstory. Me and my GF have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 6 months. I suggested one night that we should get a dog. And she says to me “no we shouldn’t.” I ask why because I thought she liked dogs and she said “I thought you hated dogs though?” This turned into an argument because I h...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my girlfriend following her reaction to me not having a full erection during a long period of foreplay", "pronormative_score": 164, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed at my girlfriend following her reaction to me not having a full erection during a long period of foreplay?
Hey, My recent girlfriend of 2 months was round last night. We had already had sex twice, it was late, and I decided to go down on her. To begin with when we were kissing and I started giving her head I was fully hard. Thing is, I was giving her head for about 20 minutes, and I was lying down so my body weight was on ...
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{ "description": "having a hysterical fit after blocking my bf's friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having a hysterical fit after blocking my bf's friends?
Context goes a little far back but within 2018: things started to go awry when I left the DnD group for being sensitive to sound and that I got mad at his friends for laughing at the mic even when I asked the DM to lower their voices (and yes, I also lowered my volume to the minimum). When I learned that my bf was ...
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{ "description": "dropping a girl I was dating (turned friend zone) right as her grandpa died, because I found out she overlapped me with an ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a girl I was dating (turned friend zone) right as her grandpa died, because I found out she overlapped me with an ex?
I'll try to make this concise. Started dating this girl for about two weeks, she love bombed me and told me she doesn't like guys usually but knew I was different. we were supposed to have sex (she planned it, weird) but then get a text from her saying her grandpa is dying. I was as supportive as possible without being...
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AITA for the way I handle my GFs eating disorder?
A lot of backstory, but I feel it#s necessary. My GF and me have been a couple for some years now but we have never lived together for more than one or two months as we study in different cities. She has an eating disorder in that she is extremely picky about her food and afraid of eating things she hasn't eaten be...
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