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{ "description": "not wanting to fix my roommate's papers all the time", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to fix my roommate's papers all the time?
So we're both freshman in college, but she's from China, and we've become pretty good friends but there is one serious issue. She ALWAYS wants me to fix her stuff, or read her stuff because she's not that good in English. Shes gone so far as to ask me to fix a friend's paper. I honeslty believe she only likes me so muc...
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{ "description": "not supporting my husband", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not supporting my husband
TL;DR at the bottom. My husband (43M) graduated college with a degree in journalism many years ago. He worked at the same paper as a reporter for over ten years, and was fired without warning or explanation about a year and a half ago. Originally I was supportive, but six months after he was fired he still hadn’t foun...
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{ "description": "ruining the company I work, by quiting my job", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ruin the company I work, by quiting my job
So I have a predicament, I work in a small business (2 owners and in total 3 employees including me). I have been working here for about 8 years now. And I recently found out that I can make more money and have double the time of I have now. Easy decision,,except that they have trouble finding new employees and they n...
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AITA Parents try to use my bathroom
So earlier today I had an EEG today. And my parents drove me because I had to only sleep four hours last night. So afterwards, I had some left over paste in my hair for the electrodes and I repeatedly stated my intention to shower when we got home. So we go out for dinner because we're close to my brother and his wif...
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AITA?
Am I a asshole for telling my girlfriend that we are absolutely not getting another aquarium set up and she needs to either get a refund for the aquarium she ordered or sell it. We already have a 20 gallon long in our room with shrimp and some tetras and we are currently cycling a 100 gallon in the living room. She jus...
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{ "description": "telling my husband that he needs to stop snapchatting his coworker", "pronormative_score": 126, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for telling my (27F) husband (30M) that he needs to stop Snapchatting his coworker (18F)
On mobile, blah blah blah, etc. TLDR: Husband started snapping coworker when she was 17 (now 18) and allegedly removed her from his snap list when my SIL, her husband, and I told him it was inappropriate. Thought that was that. Two days ago, I found that they’re friends again and they’ve been exchanging conversation....
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{ "description": "reporting an ex-friend for neglecting her child", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for reporting an ex-friend for neglecting her child?
**Back story** I used to be friends with (let's call her) Sandra, then she became controlling and manipulative (and now that I think of it, fairly emotionally abusive). I fairly much stopped talking to her because of this behavior. ​ After this, one of Sandra's kids bullied my eldest kid for about a year...
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{ "description": "coming out to my conservative family", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I came out to my conservative family?
Sorry, I’m on mobile. So I’m a bi girl, and while not in the cards at the moment I’d like to have a relationship at some point. There’s a pretty good chance that relationship could be with a girl, and I’d like to be able to treat my hypothetical s/o the same way the rest of my cousins treat theirs. My mom’s side of ...
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{ "description": "shaming my sister-in-law because she was mean to me", "pronormative_score": 92, "contranormative_score": 186 }
AITA for shaming my sister-in-law because she was mean to me.
I never understood why but my SIL always hated me. She always makes snide remarks about my boyfriend or anything related to me. We dont get along well. She knows that I had many boyfriend's before my current boyfriend and she paints me as a slut. Last month at a dinner she told my boyfriend that he should not get his ...
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{ "description": "wanting to separate from my wife because I know that I don't make her happy anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to separate from my wife because I know that I don’t make her happy anymore?
My wife and I have been together for 7 years and 2 years married, we have a 7 month old baby girl that I love to death and will do anything to keep them happy. I am bad luck. All my dreams have been crushed and I feel like I’m in a rollercoaster that only goes down. Every time that life seems to go steady, I go 10 ste...
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{ "description": "telling my mom off for mistreating her pets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I Tell My Mom Off For Mistreating Her Pets?
Hey everyone, so I (28F) have been out of my parents' house for a while now, but visit frequently (once a week or more) and stayed there for about 6 months while I was moving back into the area. They have a lot of pets - a bird, 2 goats, 3 cats, and 3 dogs (one which they plan to breed this year once she is old enough)...
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{ "description": "spending money on my gf's ticket to a concert", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I spent money on my gf's ticket to a concert?
She's dying to see a band but she doesn't have the money to buy a ticket herself. So I decided that for Valentine's day I'd gift her the ticket (around $60USD). The problem is she doesn't want me to "spend on her" and she'd get mad at me if I did so. WIBTA if I bought her the ticket anyways?
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend for not showing up to an event", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend for not showing up to an event
Ok, firstly before you call me an immediate asshole i do have remorse but i need to explain the situation. Me and my friends were planning to go to the park, just four people. Ive planned this for about a month and It consisted of 2 Girls and 2 Boys. Now the catch here is that if not more than one girl went. The other ...
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{ "description": "asking my twitch viewers to use pronouns that don't match my voice", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my Twitch viewers to use pronouns that don't match my voice?
I've been streaming on Twitch for a while, and despite being a trans woman, I still speak in my "natural" voice when I stream - I just can't maintain my usual voice when I broadcast. My description asks people to refer to me as she (or just by my name), but I'm worried that it's too much to ask when I still use such a...
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{ "description": "secretly planning on leaving my husband during a drinking crisis and taking the kids with me", "pronormative_score": 57, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for secretly planning on leaving my husband during a drinking crisis and taking the kids with me?
Husband and I have been together for ten years. We have a beautiful daughter and I’m pregnant with our second due in May. My first pregnancy was unplanned and after several years of sobriety, my husband relapsed and got a DWI. We have since built a respectable life with stable jobs, a house, live in a good area, a...
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{ "description": "not knowing my wife well enough", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing my wife well enough
My wife and I have been having difficulties lately. We have been married for 5 years. She was sick with a cold and I stayed home to help her and with our young son who didn’t have school that day. I was about to take our son out to run some errands because she said she wanted to rest. As I was leaving, I asked he...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend more time with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to spend more time with my boyfriend?
Long Story (TLDR at the end) Ok so we're both Juniors in high school. He goes to an online school while I go to a normal school. We've been together for 4 and a half years now. This year I'm not doing so bad grade wise, he's not. And he's always trying to get his grades up. Which I understand, but sometimes I just wa...
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{ "description": "exchanging wrist watch birthday present from fiancee family to the one I liked", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for exchanging wrist watch birthday present from fiancee family to the one I liked?
I am not using wrist watches at all, but if I decide to wear it, I would definitely use analog, old school type of wrist watch. I had a little talk about this with my fiancee and her brother one week before my birthday, because my fiancee's brother got wrist watch as a present on his birthday and he showed me. I didn't...
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{ "description": "getting in the middle of a relationship that was on its way out anyway", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting in the middle of a relationship that was on its way out anyway?
So I met my current boyfriend while I was an intern while in school. He was a seasonal employee who was sort of my supervisor. He’d give me work to do and stuff, and I had a crush on him from the moment I met him, but he had a girlfriend. i didn’t know her, but we were in similar graduate programs and I know some of he...
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{ "description": "not attending a child's event with my ex-wife", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 68 }
AITA for not attending a child's event with my ex-wife?
I have a 50-50 custody arrangement of my 8 year old daughter (Lisa) with my ex-wife/her mother (Ariana). For the past few years I have been making it a point to not attend events that Ariana is attending, and she has not been attending events that I attended. If it were up to Ariana, we would be chums - I, however, do ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex-bestfriends parents about his debt to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i told my ex-bestfriends parents about his debt to me?
Hello everyone. First post so sry for errors in advance. My now ex-bestfriend and me made a loan a few month ago for about 1500 dollars, we split that 50/50. Now he does no longer want to be my friend and has completly cut me off. im afraid he wont pay the monthly payments to me. So Would i be the asshole if i told his...
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{ "description": "telling my girl she's fat", "pronormative_score": 52, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for telling my girl she’s fat?
Gf has alway had a lot of confidence. I liked it about her. But sometimes she gets mean. I have a chubby friend. I think he’s sensitive about it. He’s never outright said. He’s male. He made a joke about never getting girl. My gf who knows he’s sensitive about his weight made a joke about his fat. She’s no lig...
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{ "description": "not paying for a sandwich that I ate", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying for a sandwich that I ate?
My friends enjoy home hangouts. Every other weekend we would pick a location, typically my apartment or Liz’s (my close friend) apartment, and we'd all bring stuff for group entertainment. Being good friends, everyone brings food or drinks to share. Sometimes I would bring some nice alcohol or a meal, sometimes only ch...
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{ "description": "not canceling plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not canceling plans?
Throwaway account and posting from mobile, yada yada.... For some background, about 3 weeks ago my wife was supposed to go on a work trip for about a month. After she was set to go, i made some plans to have a small weekend roadtrip to see some friends in my hometown. Her trip was canceled the day before she was supp...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to mix", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my friends to mix??
I’m a high school junior, and I recently got into theatre. I’ve done two plays- one at my public high school and one at a local private all girls school. Because I’m a guy, I was able to get a good role with little experience (they need as many males as they can get to fill the roles). Now I’m auditioning for the pla...
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{ "description": "changing my girlfriend's oil in her car, but messed it up and destroyed her engine", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for changing my girlfriend’s oil in her car, but messed it up and destroyed her engine?
So I learned how to change my own car’s oil a few weeks ago and was super proud of myself. You know, researched it and watched a video and got my own tools and did it all myself. No problems. I was feeling pretty confident. My girlfriend mentioned that she hadn’t changed her oil in about a year, had not even topped ...
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{ "description": "refusing my family money so I may save up for college", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing my family money so I may save up for college?
Long story short, my family tries to get money out of me to buy them things. I'll gladly pay for anything important such as medicine or groceries, but when it's something useless like a toy, an uneducational book, or new electronics, I get hesitant and try to get out of it, only for my family to accuse me of being gree...
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{ "description": "taking a close friend's spot on a trip with her so after she was just dumped", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I Took A Close Friend’s Spot On A Trip With Her SO After She Was Just Dumped?
So I’m Randall and I have a friend group and we are all close and have all been hanging out for a long time now. For the past few years we all hang out together at least once a week. The group consists of me, my friend James, and two sisters, Sarah and Megan. James and Sarah have also been in a relationship for three y...
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{ "description": "complaining to my girlfriend about something she did", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I complained to my girlfriend about something she did?
My girlfriend has a public event coming up soon. Think something like a dance competition. Anyhow, her and her friends went out to dinner and discussed the upcoming event. Apparently her server asked several questions about it, and so she told him that he should show up to support them. So far no big deal. App...
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{ "description": "tossing an acquaintance a charity donation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for tossing an acquaintance a charity donation?
Backstory is needed. Don’t take the title at face value. It’s also worth noting everyone in this scenario are college students, i.e., not particularly wealthy. Two days ago, an acquaintance of mine was asking around for donations for a charity drive he’s participating in. Very actively asking around. He’d send Venmo ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my cat", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being annoyed with my cat?
...or is my cat the asshole? His name is PJ (Patrick Jr., after my husband) but mainly we call him Pidgey. He’s always been a real 10 of a guy; a real cat to brag about. He greets me at the door when I get home from work every day, he is always down for a cuddle and he doesn’t seem to know that his claws and teeth co...
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{ "description": "hitting a women", "pronormative_score": 147, "contranormative_score": 51 }
AITA for hitting a women?
Little brother died because a drug dealer sold him Fentanyl instead of heroine. I’ve been looking for this guy for ages, with the intent to seriously hurt him. It wasn’t a guy the entire time, but a GIRL WHO SOLD IT TO HIM. She was aware it was Fentanyl, but said that she doesn’t care who dies if she gets her money. ...
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{ "description": "telling a bullied kid to improve himself before trying to find friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a bullied kid to improve himself before trying to find friends?
I'm a junior. There's a freshman, let's call him Mason, who is unpopular and bullied. As a freshman, I was pretty unpopular as a freshman, although not bullied, just a loner. But sophomore year, I became popular. Mason's parents and my parents are friends, and Saturday they came over for dinner. Mason asked to talk to ...
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{ "description": "selling someone a truck that died 20 minutes after the sale", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for selling someone a truck that died 20 minutes after the sale?
I had a truck that had 200+k miles on it and some transmission issues. I took it to 3 mechanics to try to fix the issues and found out it probably needed a new transmission but it still drove okay. I then decided I didnt want to put anymore money into it and decided to sell it. I posted it online and was totally transp...
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{ "description": "asking for the profit when my brother sold my tv", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for asking for the profit when my brother sold my TV?
My brother (30) and I (32) live in different towns. He has moved around a lot lately. He needed a TV for his new place, and I offered him my old one for $100. He negotiated the price down to $70, and I agreed. Soon after, he decided he no longer wanted the TV, and instead sold it on for $150. He told me later, and sai...
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{ "description": "not opening the door for someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- Not opening the door for someone ?
I was in a rush to take a shuttle to a train station that goes to New York City. I live in an apartment complex and I didn’t open the door for the lady who was on her way to getting out as well. But she was so far away ( not even close to the door) that I didn’t bother to open the door for her. Then she would annoy th...
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{ "description": "trying to help my roommate and defending myself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to help my roommate and defending myself? (Woke her up in the middle of the night)
Hello Reddit, I need some advice. So my roommate and I get along just fine besides sometimes she's a little bit messy and I will ask her to clean up every once in a while, no big deal. However, we've had this issue only one time before where I go to bed late and accidentally wake her up. (Obviously, this is NOT inten...
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{ "description": "smoking weed in front of kids", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for smoking weed in front of kids?
I live in CA weed is legal, house is nearby a middle and high school. I usually get home from work at 3pm when kids are getting out, and I smoke in the front yard where they are walking by. I see them coming so I usually dont smoke until they pass but was wondering if IATA for smoking in general at that time when they ...
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{ "description": "not helping an old schoolmate pay for gas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not helping an old schoolmate pay for gas?
I just graduated last year and I remember this guy from the grade below me. I went down to the gas station to get snacks. He was there and he had $40 in gas but his debit card wasn't working and he didn't have any cash. When I got to the counter they let me checkout. He recognized me and he asked if I could help out. H...
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AITA, drivers of Reddit?
Apologies as this isn’t the typical AITA story but I have to know. So first a little backstory- I, (21F) have a clean driving record. No accidents or tickets ever. I drive a tiny little beater. I live in the US. So I have an hour commute to work each way- usually before sunrise and after sunset, so very dark (this is...
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{ "description": "not eating my stepdads food", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not eating my stepdads food
My stepdad made food for dinner. And it was something I didn't like, so I made myself a bowl of cereal instead. Later he came down and yelled at me about it. Now he's stomping around our house calling me ungrateful, wasteful, and selfish, when I thought i was being smart not wasting food. Am I in the wrong?
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to comment on my instagram account", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my dad to comment on my instagram account?
First off I'm not implying that my dad is being an asshole for commenting on my instagram. He's definitely not, and he's just supporting me. Here's the thing though, it was supposed to be an account only for art without anyone that I actually know following and without revealing my identity because I like to keep mys...
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{ "description": "breaking up an engagement", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For breaking up an engagement?
TL;DR: I slept with an ex, found out that a month after the event she got engaged to her (long term) boyfriend, was guilted into telling her fiancé, receiving verbal abuse from multiple sources. AITA? Full Story: many years ago I broke up with my ex because she cheated on me. Over the years, we've met up a few times f...
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{ "description": "giving my daughter meat when she's with me even though her dad raises her as a pescatarian", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for giving my daughter meat when she’s with me even though her dad raises her as a pescatarian?
My daughter’s dad and I aren’t together and he has her on the weekends. I don’t eat meat often because I’m not a fan of it but I make sure to include it in her diet here and there since number one, she’s only three and developing and number two, unless it’s bad for her or it triggers an allergy, I won’t restrict her fo...
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{ "description": "walking out of a store without paying", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking out of a store without paying?
So this happened yesterday. I was at a stationary shop near my house to buy some quick-dry glue(It is super cheap btw). When I checked the packet after coming home, it had spilled all over so I went to return it. I showed it to a girl sitting at the front desk. i also had the money for the replacement and had decided...
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{ "description": "staying silent", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for staying silent?
Me (14M) and my girlfriend (14F and now my ex) broke up because we didn't have any romantic feelings towards one another and got into a relationship because our friends said we had the same interests, and that we were made for each other (I guess not after what happened). She said she wanted to be a friend of mine and ...
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{ "description": "not using the money that my uncle gave me (for me) to buy a gift for my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not using the money that my uncle gave me (for me) to buy a gift for my mom
Hey this is my first post so im not really good at this but here we go i have 4 siblings and im the middle child. If you are a middle child you would understand that some times you feel like you're getting left out. But anyways we went to Montreal for a vaca. (which we barely go there maybe 2 or 3 times a year) ov...
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{ "description": "not changing dinner to accommodate an allergy", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not changing dinner to accommodate an allergy?
Hello all, My family often does a crawfish boil for St. Patty’s. We live in the South and it’s sort of a fun, off-beat tradition. We don’t necessarily always do it, sometimes we do corned beef and cabbage instead (or nothing), but we often do if the weather is okay. My sister started dating a new guy a few months ago...
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{ "description": "holding the wrist of a 13 year old girl", "pronormative_score": 168, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for holding the wrist of a 13 year old girl?
Back story, wife is friends with a “bullish” woman whom I have repeatedly asked to stop being “tom boyish” or physical with me, basically invading my ‘bubble’. Nothing really sexual about it, just makes me uncomfortable and I feel it disrespects my wife, as if a male was to act like that around her and me, it would ir...
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{ "description": "asking for repayment for something I bought my brother when I owe him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for repayment for something I bought my brother when I owe him?
Ok, so here's the thing. My brother wanted me to buy something for him as I have Amazon Prime and he doesn't (he wanted it shipped faster). I bought it. I already owe him a decent amount of money for a shared phone bill, and he's been kind enough to let it go on, although recently he's been more on me about it. After I...
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{ "description": "not avoiding a girl after she flirted with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not avoiding a girl after she flirted with me?
Hey all, My girlfriend [25F] and I[24M] had a small argument about this situation. We resolved it, we just wanted to hear some other people's takes on it. Also, the girl in question turned out to be gay anyways, but neither of us knew that at the time of the argument. Ok, here's the story: Girl in question (let's cal...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hear about my friend getting a $2900 paycheck", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hear about my friend getting a $2900 paycheck
So this friend that I have has been bragging to me about these BIG purchases that he makes on shoes, video games, and just things he doesn’t need. Me and my boyfriend have been struggling horribly and right atm we can’t switch jobs or we will be in trouble. My friend is very well aware of this and knows it’s been add...
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{ "description": "being pissed after I found out my girlfriend stayed over at her ex-boyfriends house the night before Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being pissed after I found out my girlfriend stayed over at her ex-boyfriends house the night before Thanksgiving?
Girlfriend & I have known each other ~10 years, dating off & on throughout. Been a couple for ~2 years now, and living together for 15 months. She goes out of town last Wednesday for Thanksgiving and encourages me to hang back and spend time w/my mother that evening, (because we’re doing Thanksgiving with h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to \"be apart of the wedding\" when I didnt make it into the BRIDAL PARTY", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 63 }
AITA FOR NOT WANTING TO "BE APART OF THE WEDDING" WHEN I DIDNT MAKE IT INTO THE BRIDAL PARTY?
So my best friend is getting married, her sister and my sister are best friends also, so its the 4 of us. We've been bf's for years, we aren't really close with other girls, so its always been just us. Her now-fiance asked my sister and I to help set up the proposal and of course we were ecstatic to help out, shes t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to so spend all day with my family during spring break", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to so spend all day with my family during spring break?
Long story short: I (23F) live in South Austin and go to UT, while my mom and step dad (42M) have bought a vacation house in Lakeway. We have a large family, he had 3 children from previous relationships, the youngest two are still living with their mom and going to school. They don’t live with him, so they only see hi...
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{ "description": "cancelling a therapy appointment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling a therapy appointment
I go to psychosexual therapy every week but I cancelled my appointment today because I wasn't feeling to good about it. I called up several hours before to cancel and the place where I go to said that it was OK. However come the time where the appointment was due I get an angry phone call from my therapist who chewed m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be a part of my dad's \"new family\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be a part of my dad's "new family"?
Buckle up, y'all, there's a lot of shit to unpack here. ​ So this all started when I came home for winter break from college to find that my dad's girlfriend, who I've only known about six months, and her 6 and 9 year old kids had moved in. No one told me this information beforehand, so it was a surprise t...
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{ "description": "getting my dad the wrong gift", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting my dad the wrong gift?
This issue came up again this Christmas and I’m really wondering about it. I still feel a bit guilty. Basically I am a young adult. I wasn’t very close with my dad growing up and after he divorced my mom he moved away quite far and we didn’t have much contact. He sort of tried to stay in my life but I saw him at most ...
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{ "description": "\"taking things too lightly\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for “taking things too lightly”?
For context: A dumbass person in my school decided to create a insta page called “confessions”. Basically, it’s anonymous and anyone can say whatever they want. Then, I don’t know what the fuck happened but someone started to frame my best friend for “something” (I didn’t get anything from the explanation someone else ...
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{ "description": "being pissed after I went to a wedding and was treated as a server and kitchen personel", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being pissed after I went to a wedding and was treated as a server and kitchen personel?
First post here, so I'm sorry in advance if I've broken any rules. I am also sorry if the formatting is bad, since I'm on mobile and if I make any spelling or grammatical errors (English isn't my first language). Okay as the title might suggest I was recently invited to the wedding of my dads girlfriends niece. I know...
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AITA My "freind" who has depression
Okay so freind is f me is me F comes in crying Me are you okay F do I look okay Me sorry stupid question F yeah Me what's wrong F everything This is where I caught on she was being dramatic Me explain F my dog is ill my mom I stuck in bed and my dad is gone (on a business trip) Me so you dog has a cold you m...
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AITA An argue about stretch marks
(First of all, if you don't understand something is because i don't speak english, so if I have some grammatical errors... sorry for that :c. ) Well, recently I invited my gf to my appartment because mi family is out of town for the month, so i thought that we could watch some movies, eat, and... you know. She arrived ...
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{ "description": "giving my number to another guy", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for giving my number to another guy?
I was just at the gym working out and minding my own business. I noticed this guy on a machine next to me but I didn’t think much of it. As I was leaving and walking through the parking lot, a car with tinted windows rolled one down and it was the guy from inside the gym. He asked me my name and if I had a boyfriend, t...
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{ "description": "telling a Walmart employee to keep the receipt", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling a Walmart employee to keep the receipt?
I hate getting receipts when I don’t need them. I’d rather not waste the paper just to have it end up being more trash in my car door. Usually I’ll decline them if the cashier asks me, otherwise I ball them up and throw them away. I went to Walmart with my girlfriend to get groceries. We only needed a couple of things...
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{ "description": "not paying my alcoholic ex-girlfriend's bills", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying my alcoholic ex-girlfriend's bills?
My (25 M) ex-girlfriend (31 F) and I were living together for about 4 months and were pretty serious. She has always had a drinking problem and I've tried to help her with it but she had been through some pretty traumatic stuff so I never expected her to curb her problem overnight. She seemed like she genuinely wanted ...
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{ "description": "not giving money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Giving Money?
So it began snowing today and I had to go to the gas station to fill up my dads truck but the one nearest to my house was closed. I drove to one that was farther down the area. My mom said that I could use her card to fill up but it wouldn't work so I had to use my own credit card to fill up. As I was finishing up a ma...
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{ "description": "kicking my friend from my D&D group", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for kicking my friend from my D&D group?
Alright so this is a D&D game that myself and five of my friends sit down to play online. Alright so awhile back my group had kicked another player out for rude behavior. The group decided we still wanted five players so my best friend (Will now be referred to as BF) and I were in another game on another day of...
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{ "description": "not wanting to DD for our friend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to DD for our friend's birthday?
My husband I planned to take our friend out for his 21st birthday. I was really looking forward to it even though I don't drink I still like to hang out with our friends. After plans had been made mt husband invited another person that we are pretty good friends with. No problem, itll still be fun and I know him well...
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AITA if I am upset a date didn't go how I expected it to?
Context --- Me: 20 M Her: 18 F Met a girl in a bar and we hit it off. She had to leave because she had work the next day, nothing happened then apart from getting her number. Text a little bit that night and over the next couple days. The text conversation seemed to be going alright. I do not like talking over te...
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{ "description": "shutting down a question about my relationship status", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for shutting down a question about my relationship status?
**Some background information:** I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and we enjoy a relationship more on the private side. We attend parties and events together, have met each other's families, and our friends know we're together, but we don't do social media posts--just a preference for us. In no way do w...
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{ "description": "being honest with my sister when she believes I'm kicking her when she's down", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest with my sister when she believes I’m kicking her when she’s down
So my sister has gone through a lot of shit. She’s currently living on her own cause she got kicked out of our parents house . My sister has tendencies to ask hundreds and hundreds of favours from people which is understandable however it can be pretty draining at times. Some of these are not easy favours and sometimes...
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{ "description": "refusing to buy my close friend shells", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to buy my close friend shells?
I have a buddy at work who I text pretty often. She's one of the three people I talk to outside work, and she's the person I talk to most often. She smokes a lot of weed, and she mostly smokes shells. For those who don't know, shells are very cheap cigars that you replace the tabaco with weed. You gotta be 19 to buy ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I didn't like his brother's guitar playing", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend I didn't like his brother's guitar playing?
I'm hanging out with a couple friends at one's house, and we're chatting smoking, and listening to some light jazz. My friend asks me what I think of the guitar in the track he's currently playing. I'm not really feeling it, so I tell him so. I wasn't scathing, just said it wasn't really for me. He tells me it's his b...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have sex with my gf for 1 month", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Wanting to Have Sex With My GF For 1 Month?
I'm M22 and she's F20, been together for about 1.5 yrs now and she has a very high sex drive. I do as well but oh boy hers is crazy lol. I have finals coming up and I need to focus 100% on studying everyday for the next month in order to graduate. Because of this I told my gf that I wanted a break from sex for 1 mon...
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{ "description": "refusing to leave my r6 game", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to leave my R6 game?
I have a pretty scrappy of from 2011 that can run games pretty well, but loads like hell. I was in an R6 casual lobby and I was the only one not loading most of the people in the lobby just started screwing around, but soon some people started to try to figure kick me and things got pretty heated. Should I have just le...
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{ "description": "having my food spilled all over the floor", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for having my food spilled all over the floor?
Yesterday, there was an incident where I think that I'm 100% blameless. Me and a friend were driving out to this place called Stewart's Drive in. For those who don't know, it's a 1950's style drive-in restaurant where you order from the car and the carhops bring your food to you so that you can eat in the car. I ordere...
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{ "description": "not sharing my food with other people in my house", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sharing my food with other people in my house?
Quick backstory: It's been just me and my mom for the past 4 years. About a year ago she let my dumbass brother (24) and 4 other people (F: 35, 16, 13) move in with us. Out of all of us, I (F16) am the only vegetarian. For this reason I prepare my own food for myself and my mom (48, works 2 jobs as a nurse.) No one els...
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{ "description": "fostering a child against my daughter's and ex wife's wishes", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 49 }
AITA for fostering a child against my daughter's and ex wife's wishes?
I'm a 52 year old male with a 23 year old daughter. Our relationship has always had its ups and downs. Mainly because I did not get to see her and speak to her for a big part of her childhood. I left to go back to my home country when she was 3 due to DV issues with her mom at the time. This is completely my fault. I w...
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{ "description": "disliking my mil", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for disliking my MIL?
I appreciate that my husband has a good relationship with his mom. And she has always been kind to me... but... MIL is a bit touchy feely. Caresses her son/my husband’s hair, rubs his face, holds his forearm. It’s a total turn off for me and I’m building a lot of frustration and resentment about it. Told my husband ...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend in her time of need", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I leave my girlfriend in her time of need?
Strap in for a wild ride and a whole lot of text. For context, we are both currently 22, and have been together for almost 3 months. I met my girlfriend summer of 2014, when we were in our second year of uni. We've been good friends since, and really close in 2018. Eventually, that closeness gave way to feelings and w...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to lose weight if she wants to keep dating me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to lose weight if she wants to keep dating me?
I'll keep this as short as I can. My friend that I've known for 5+ years tells me that she has fallen in love with me. I tell upfront that her being 400+ pounds is a huge turn-off. She started working out and I mean REALLY working out. A few years later she has dropped from 400+ to around 280 - 290, and she said she ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my brother birthday or Christmas presents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my brother birthday or Christmas presents?
For a lot of people, gift-giving can be stressful and an unfortunate factor of the holidays that they simply have to put up with. For other people, Christmas becomes the Gift Olympics and they spend more than half the year prepping for it. I am definitely part of the latter group. I revel in the hunt for the perfect gi...
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{ "description": "wanting to include my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to include my friend?
So I'm (F) and in high school. My friend (let's call her Jess) reached out to me and confessed she doesn't feel like she has any close friends, despite starting to hang out with my very tight-knit friend group. We have a meme group-chat on instagram and I thought it might be a good idea to add her to it, since the bant...
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{ "description": "giving up on church", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving up on church?
A little backstory: I live in a VERY tight knit town, heavily Christian. So in about 7th grade I was asked over and over to go to church by some church-y friends and i eventually did and I became all into the church thing. I was a full blown Christian, except there was one thing: I wasn't. I couldn't believe in god or...
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{ "description": "getting upset for my roommate's lack of cleanliness when I haven't in the past", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset for my roommate's lack of cleanliness when I haven't in the past?
So, in the past, I used to be someone who would just accept things for how they were. If someone wanted something, I would be happy to provide. If someone was upset about something, I would take the fault. If something weren't how I wanted it, I would deal with it. But my new years resolution was essentially to stop h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get my drivers license", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I don't want to get my drivers license?
My parents have been continuously calling me out daily because I don't have a drivers license, and therefore apparently have a lack of independence. I don't see a reason to get a drivers license considering the shops are within walking distance and I hardly ever go any where to begin with. I am also terrified of drivi...
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{ "description": "wanting my mom to respect my house rules while she is visiting", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mom to respect my house rules while she is visiting?
We moved to another country 7 months ago (husband & daughter) while in my home town, my daughter was in my mom’s care while I was at work all day and she was spoiled and she would do whatever she wanted. I managed to have her behave and follow our rules and basically educated manners wise even to socialise (i didn...
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{ "description": "hating and actively avoiding a mentally challenged guy at my college", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating and actively avoiding a mentally challenged guy at my college?
I live on a small college campus. This guy lives two doors down from me. When you talk to him, he's a pretty smart dude but his social skills are garbage (coming from someone who doesn't have the best social skills), and it's obvious that he's somewhat autistic, the severity can be debated. I've tried (albeit, not very...
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{ "description": "shouting at my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for shouting at my mom?
This happened a while ago. My mom has the habit of ordering me to do tasks for her a lot. They're simple tasks, like charging her phone for her, getting her a snack, getting her a drink, etc. Sometimes, if she's sitting in the room where her phone charger is, and I'm outside, she'll call me into the room just to charge...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to not do anything with his girlfriend in my bed", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my brother to not do anything with his girlfriend in my bed?
Some context. I'm 23 years old and a college student. Most of the time, I live on campus but as next week is Spring Break, I came home to my parents' tonight. My brother (21) is home and his girlfriend is staying the night, as tomorrow they plan to leave early and go to Boston. I assumed that the girlfriend would get m...
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{ "description": "being 'controlling'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being ‘controlling’?
Me and my girlfriend have been together for well over two years now yet she seems to often develop new friendships with guys who always end up liking her. The latest guy she has been hanging out with likes her, of course, but is also emotionally abusive to her. We are in a long distance relationship and she said she h...
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{ "description": "refusing to take my Son to a memorial service for his friend", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For refusing to take my Son to a memorial service for his friend?
First let me say my Son is not involved in this argument and has no clue about the conflict between my wife and I. I want to provide as much background as I can so sorry if it’s long. My Son is in 6th grade and recently a friend from his class very unexpectedly passed away. My Son was friends with the child but from ...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship with a female friend because she was worried her fiancé wouldn't like her going on an overnight trip with a (gay) man", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ending a friendship with a female friend because she was worried her fiancé wouldn’t like her going on an overnight trip with a (gay) man?
So this has been gnawing at me for years, so I thought I’d seek the catharsis of the ever-wise redditors of r/AmItheAsshole. I had a female friend who I was very close to. We met in college and both ended up moving to Japan afterwards(we’re both American). She’s very neurotic and always thinking about how others will ...
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{ "description": "accidentally shouting at my mother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I accidentally shouted at my mother?
My relationship with my mom has been going downhill. Im suffering from dysphoria and i told my mother about this and shes like "no i want a daughter" and i guess thats where it started. Everytime i accidentally shout at my mother because she was being forceful and guilt tripping me, she would act upset and not talk t...
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{ "description": "avoiding my stinky niece", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for avoiding my stinky niece?
My husband and I have different opinions about this and I’d like you to settle the score. My 7-year-old niece (my husband’s sister’s child) really likes to sit on my knee. She’s always been this way. Up until she turned 7 I was fine with it, but as she ages she gets...well...stinkier and stinkier. How can I put th...
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AITA - Stay off the diesel pump
So this happened to me awhile ago but was reminded of it when it happened to my friend. So just for back ground knowledge I'll let you guys know why it infuriates me so much. The majority of diesel pumps are located on the outsides of the gas stations. Chiefly for the ease of large diesel trucks. It is a whole lot eas...
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{ "description": "washing animal bedding in shared, community washers", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for washing animal bedding in shared, community washers?
I have pet rats. I also live in a complex with shared washing machines. My rats live on fleece bedding. Although they are mostly potty-trained, they do urinate and defecate on the fleece, which I wash in the shared machines. ​ I've seen others on animal forums suggest that this is a major asshole thing ...
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{ "description": "taking 2-3 minutes to leave my girlfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking 2-3 minutes to leave my girlfriend's house?
Okay, so I had been over my gf's house for a few hours and it was just about time for me to leave. My mother had called me and told me she was twenty minutes away, I was cool with that. But barely 10 minutes after she's pulling up to the house and she called me telling me that she was pulling up and she mentioned that ...
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{ "description": "rejecting a guy in front of the whole school and telling him ''you stink''", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for rejecting a guy in front of the whole school and telling him ''you stink''?
So, I am 15, there Is a guy I went on a date with days ago, lets call him A. A is a nice guy. There is also a guy, a big bully in our class, lets call him Z. Z and his friends are all bullies, they bully all the guys they dislike, even in our neighbours and in other schools. They are a big group. ​ Anywa...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad that my girlfriend's brother recently took his life", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not feeling bad that my girlfriend’s brother recently took his life?
Hi all, My girlfriend’s brother took his own life this Thursday and my girlfriend is dealing with a lot of pain and sadness right now. We’ve been dating for just a little over six months now but things are pretty serious between us just to give some background info. I’m obviously supporting her through this very diff...
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