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{ "description": "not rooming with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Not Rooming with my Friend
\*names have been changed\* , TL;DR at bottom **Background:** I am a sophomore, almost junior, in college. During my first semester of freshman year, my good friend from high school, Veronica, (we attend the same university) and I became good friends with two girls, Rose and Tara, who are roommates. We all decided ...
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AITA ~ Fight On The Bus
So I was on the bus a few years ago and I wen't to a special-ed school, i'm in high school now. I was sitting there and I get hit with something and its a seat belt so i'm like please don't throw shit at me I don't like that. So he says "fuck you and go fuck yourself". I'm like ok. So I sit for a while and this is whe...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that a photo was of poor quality", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling a girl that a photo was of poor quality
So I was talking with a girl, we’ve been talking for about two weeks over text, and we’ve been sharing a few photos back and forth. I’m an amateur photographer, which means I enjoy getting photos right, I work hard at what I do, and it shows in my work. So tonight she sends me a photo, it’s of her in a pretty drab ar...
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{ "description": "not cooking for my family when they all left", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not cooking for my family when they all left?
Long story short, Ive been staying w my parents for 6 weeks and its been.. tense. Its my last night here, and Im moving into my new apartment tomorrow. Well i was told to make dinner tonight, I suggested something light, and was told no. I asked what everyone else wanted. Literally no one answered, then they all just l...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut ties with my dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut ties with my dad
Hold tight lads, it's gonna be a wild ride. And probably confusing af. There will be 2 TL;DR - one at the end of the backstory, and one at the end of the actual story. Let me know if you need more info. Backstory: my parents (Irish mother, Australian father) split up 20 years ago, and my mam moved back to Ireland wit...
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{ "description": "ignoring people who are trying to lecture me", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring people who are trying to lecture me?
This morning, I was in my building's laundry room doing my laundry before classes, and I hadn't showered yet so I was wearing a tea shirt and sweat pants. While I was putting my clothes into the washer an old lady told me that I should be more respectful and not wear sweat pants and "such a ratty shirt" when I'm outsid...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend because she has brain cancer", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend because she has brain cancer?
We're both 21 and have been dating for a little less than 4 months. ​ I had a huge wall of text backstory but decided it was all unnecessary so to make a long story short, my girlfriend was diagnosed with Glioblastoma. It's a very aggressive brain tumor. From my limited understanding, most people diagnosed...
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{ "description": "telling one of my coworkers to stop talking on the register", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling one of my coworkers to stop talking on the register?
So I work at a retail location, and I am a trainer there, in the past we have had issues with customers getting angry about employees having personal talk while on register, so trainers are told to stop that, The person that was doing that was a friend, I pulled him over when it was a break in the lines and told him t...
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{ "description": "'politically charging' my 2 year old by dressing them in a t-shirt that references climate change", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ‘politically charging’ my 2 year old by dressing them in a t-shirt that references climate change?
I bought my 2 year old son a t-shirt that has a catchy slogan on it about preserving the Arctic. I’m a pretty eco-conscious person and the money I spent on the shirt went to an organisation that raises awareness for the topic, not just a random amazon seller or whatever. Today, he was wearing it and we bumped into an ...
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{ "description": "trying to quickly talk to my friend who was near my recent ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to quickly talk to my friend who was near my recent ex?
I'm not on mobile but I still don't know how to format so I have no excuses. ​ So to provide some pre-story context everyone involved is in high school and around the 15/16 age range and this occurred during school at the end of the day before boarding buses. I recently, about a month ago, broke of with m...
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{ "description": "cutting off parents", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off parents
I have two older brothers and one younger sister, my eldest sibling still lives with my parents. My second eldest brother moved over 200 miles away to the bottom of the country (England), my parents will regularly go down to visit him (even though, as northerners, we detest the south). We aren’t close, but we’re there ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my manager and reporting her to the GM for the way she treated me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my manager and reporting her to the GM for the way she treated me?
I've been working at a fast food restaurant in my town for the past five months and I've never had an issue with anybody else who works there, until last night. I was in the kitchen with one of my managers and a coworker, when the manager asked me to mop the floor. As I was mopping, she and the coworker were in my way...
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{ "description": "taking my kids to church", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA- taking my kids to church?
My husband believes in God but hates organized religion. I did for a while too, but stated feeling like I need to go to church. He doesn’t want our three kids to be forced to go to church. Church services are Saturday night or Sunday morning. He golfs most Sundays and always has. For a few months, I have been trying to...
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{ "description": "not liking my \"friends\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Not liking my “friends”
Note: I am Av My “friends” are David, Connor, We’re all hanging out right? I join the vc and I hear David say “Ava is so toxic” ( Note: Toxic is thrown around like a beach ball here at my school,so yeah ) “Huh?” I say because they were clearly talking about me “Ava is so toxic on discord” “What?” I say trying to def...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with my fiancé after discovering some Facebook Pictures kissing another girl on the cheek and pecking another on the lips", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking things off with my fiancé after discovering some Facebook Pictures kissing another girl on the cheek and pecking another on the lips?
Okay, so I hope you can help me, because this dude is either really good in manipulating or I really was The Asshole in this scenario. If I actually was and I overreacted, I need to apologize to him and live with the consequences of my actions. So, advice is appreciated, because I think I am losing my mind. This will ...
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Wibta
There is this girl who has ruined my life for the last two years.He took over everything I liked because it was in her interest and I have no way to get rid of her and I finally cut her loose and she still makes me feel terrible randomly. Would itMake me an a hole to post a picture of her on our/roast me. No one else w...
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{ "description": "ditching my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ditching my friend
I'm a high schooler who is currently participating in a business competition. Recently I managed to get second place in the state-level round and will be moving on to the international competition. Since I competed solo, and the event I'm competing in allows teams of up to three, I had the opportunity to add two people...
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{ "description": "putting my hair up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting my hair up?
Weird title I know. Basically I got in an argument with my mum this morning about my hair. It’s long so I’ve put it in a ponytail like normal people do. Anyway my mum was angry when she saw, she claims I put my hair up too tight and I’m starting to loose some. I’ve been to the doctors in the past about loosing some hai...
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{ "description": "not wanting to date people with mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to date people with mental health issues
I posted this before with details, but got removed because I guess it was too detailed. So basically what the title asks. I’m a caring and supportive person by nature. My last two relationships have had a lot of difficult moments. Not because of our connection or relationship issues, but because of my SO issues which...
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{ "description": "not lying to my wife about weight loss", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not lying to my wife about weight loss?
(A little lengthy backstory, but you can skip down to the fourth paragraph if you're only interested in the here and now aspect.) So, my wife and I have been together for almost 7 years. When we first met, she was what most guys call "thick". Very small waisted, bigger thighs, big butt, and very big breasts. She was a...
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{ "description": "making my roommate look racist causing teachers and higher-ups to really dislike him so I could change rooms", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my roommate look racist causing teachers and higher-ups to really dislike him so I could change rooms?
My roommate and I as people were not compatible, we had very different standards, morals, interests, and political views, this caused us to argue incessantly. We both felt very uncomfortable in our own rooms. He threw trash and his clothes on the floor and was very messy in general, when I asked him to clean up he wou...
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{ "description": "\"sugar coating\" a religious practice", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for "sugar coating" a religious practice?
Background: I have a friend from Asia, Jan, that I met through an online class and her (American's) husband's Jack work just happened to bring her to my area last spring. We are the same age and have kids of the same age. She grew up without much "religion" but an incredibly different culture. Jan knows almost nothin...
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{ "description": "expecting people to talk to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting people to talk to me?
I'm a new kid at a certain high school in grade 11. Every day right before lunch, we go to our homeroom/advisory classroom. For the uninitiated, this is a 20 minute period for announcements, but if there's none you can chat or do homework. The people in my advisory aren't mean to me or anything, they just ignore me. I...
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{ "description": "telling a neighbour to f*** off over noise complaints", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling a neighbour to f*** off over noise complaints?
My new neighbour has only moved in a week and hes already been over about noise complaints. He's complained about the dog barking non stop. My dog does bark when people are passing or when someone is at the door but we have never had complaints about constant barking and the time frames he's giving just don't allow fo...
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{ "description": "not listening to my mum", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not listening to my mum?
!!!TW: MENTIONS OF SELF-HARM, SUICIDAL THOUGHTS, AND EATING DISORDERS!!! Okay so, I'm in middle school and I have really bad anxiety and kinda bad depression, I also have really really low self esteem and have an ED (please hear me out I'm not just saying this). I've been cutting for around a year now and I've mostly ...
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{ "description": "using the opposite gender's bathroom for an emergency", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the opposite gender's bathroom for an emergency.
I went to a family-owned Indian buffet with a friend tonight, and although the food was good, the spices and 4 cups of mango lassi pretty much went right through me. My stomach started grumbling and I knew I would not be able to hold it in until I got home. I ran to the men's bathroom but it was locked. I tried to be p...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I quit my job?
I work a really nondescript office job, most of the time is spent cleaning up excel speadsheets and answering calls and e-mails. It’s really boring, pays little and I have a lot of trouble sitting at a desk for 8h each day. I’ve worked there for like 6 months now. The problem is I told them at the interview that I’m l...
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{ "description": "continuously reminding my friend to close the door to the bathroom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for continuously reminding my friend to close the door to the bathroom?
My best friend (M25) and I(M24) have known each other for close to 10 years now, we've always lived in different ends of the country so when we see each other it's usually for a few days. This time he was staying with me for a few days. I started to notice that he never closed the bathroom door after he was done in th...
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{ "description": "not being the perfect housewife", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not being the perfect housewife?
Let me preface this with I'm on mobile and I have fat thumbs. Please keep that in mind. Okay so I'm 19 (F) and I have a ten month old and live in a two bedroom apartment with my baby's father 22(M). We moved in about a month ago and it's a fairly nice apartment. Ever since my daughter has been born I've been expected...
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{ "description": "hitting and quiting this girl", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for hitting and quiting this girl?
So I went on a tinder date last week with this girl and we fucked after as a one night stand sort of deal. But after we had finished, she started rambling on about how she LOVES me (after this ONE date). Obviously, this is a total red flag but I still had some stamina in me and she said I didn’t have to use protection ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Getting Mad At My Friend?
Throwaway (or an account I might keep. This username is cool tbh) So I have this friend, we met at the beginning of the semester because we have two classes and a major in common (I'm doubled up in two). He's gay, I'm a lesbian. We sorta bonded over this, since we've both grown up and come from places where who we are...
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{ "description": "not saying hello", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not saying hello?
This morning I was on my way to my first class of the day when I someone who walked past me said “Good morning”. I didn’t really react and just nodded to him, then he said, “Or just don’t respond to me” seeming pretty annoyed. I feel like his passive aggressive remark was more rude than what I did, but maybe I’m the ...
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{ "description": "calling in on Thanksgiving", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling in on Thanksgiving?
(Backstory): I work as a Detention Officer for a county jail. Over time is very high. I am the most senior Deputy, giving me seniority or first pick to choose what pod/unit to work in. Alright so lately with my job there has been a lot of over time. I have worked the last 2 to 3 paychecks with 24-40 hours of overtime...
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{ "description": "getting mad when someone went through my belongings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad when someone went through my belongings?
I’m in high school and have the ability to repair iPhones. Some kid gave me his phone and money to repair it, and when I told him it could be a week or so, he was okay with that since he had an extra phone. He handed me his money and his phone and that was that. I’ll admit that I forgot about it, and hadn’t fixed his...
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AITA for not want to support my mentally ill roommate?
TL;DR at the end My roommate and I (both 19F) have been friends since high school and have now been living with each other for over a year. At first people told me she was a little "off" but I didn't think anything of it because we were in high school, but I realize now she's seriously ill. In that year she's tried to...
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{ "description": "encouraging an employee that my boss/father had taken advantage of to quit", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for encouraging an employee that my boss/father had taken advantage of to quit?
One of my coworkers was the longest serving person other than myself at my family's restaurant and has looged the most hours by far out of any employee at the place. That was until they quit today. My father had both become reliant on and been taking advantage of the fact that they were willing to work a lot no matter ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to reconcile with my previously alcoholic and abusive father", "pronormative_score": 130, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to reconcile with my previously alcoholic and abusive father?
I was born in the mid 90s. My mother died when I was born due to health complications that came from my birth. My father didn’t take this very well. He took to alcohol and substance abuse. He turned my home life into hell and terrorised me until I left his house. His abuse was so severe that I had to repeat several gra...
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{ "description": "being friends with someone my sister hates", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being friends with someone my sister hates?
Heya, this is a bit long sorry. This is my first time posting so im really sorry if its hard to read or breaks a rule or anything. Okay so one of my best friends, we'll call her S, is my sisters boyfriends ex. My sister and her boyfriend have been going out for nearly two years and her bf and S arent beefing ...
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{ "description": "telling them to stop making us do their dad's job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling them to stop making us do their dad's job?
We have some kids that moved into the country to live with their dad. So to help him out, we offered to do their laundry for a short time until he got the hang of things. It's been a few years now and they are still bringing their laundry for us to do. Sometimes they even bring weeks worth of it. A few months ago we t...
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{ "description": "making advances", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for making advances?
I (25M) have been talking to this girl (19F) for about a month on facebook messenger and havent met until recently. For the sake of this post we will call her Chabby. At first I was reluctant of getting into a relationship because of my current situation, but she however kept insisting that she was interested in me an...
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{ "description": "not inviting groomsman's girlfriend to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for not inviting groomsman’s girlfriend to my wedding
Backstory: FH and GM (groomsman) we’re roommates before we met and are pretty much best friends. GM and his GF got together around the same time as me and FH. GF and I knew each other before these relationships and we just flat out don’t like each other. Our personalities just don’t mesh. Also, we all work at the same ...
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{ "description": "refusing my friend's mom's request to visit her daughter in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing my friend's mom's request to visit her daughter in the hospital
I have asked similar questions on this subreddit concerning the same friend I am gonna talk about today. She (let's call her A), I and my two other classmates live together. Last year during a particularly bad sem one day A was hospitalised due to an Infection that went on to affect her nerves leading to weakness in he...
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{ "description": "not giving/selling my mom an item", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving/selling my mom an item?
I have a small self-run business that I started when I was 12, and I've purchased some fairly expensive items to keep it running. My mom and dad supported my business because my mom didnt want me to leave home to work, and so helped pay for electricity and a couple other things. I'm now getting close to finishing high...
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{ "description": "complaining about being tired to my pregnant wife", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for complaining about being tired to my pregnant wife?
So my wife and I have a 2 year old son and are expecting another child in January. The first pregnancy went fabulous for my wife. She was always comfortable, looked great, and loved the experience...Well this time around it is the opposite...she is hating being pregnant, constant heartburn, always uncomfortable and not...
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{ "description": "not doing anything for my sos birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't do anything for my SOs birthday
I'll keep this short because I'm just confused and not sure if I'm reading too much into stuff or not. My SO is turning 28 tomorrow and in the past month/months I've suggested many activities we could do and asked just as many times what he would like from me or how he wanted to spend his special day. All my idea...
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{ "description": "dating the girl that my friend likes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for dating the girl that my friend likes?
So the girl in question has said that she does not love my friend multiple times but he still hasn't given up. But then last week me and the girl started dating, and now my friend is mad at me should I break up with her or should I keep going? (BTW she is really hot that's why this hole argument started)
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{ "description": "responding to my longtime on again, off again GF in this manner", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for responding to my longtime on again, off again GF in this manner?
Obligatory Throwaway account issue, Longtime lurker but I wanted to do this anonymously because Its seriously affecting me. Long story short, we've been seeing eachother on and off for almost 15 years, its OBVIOUSLY gotten us into problems with one another but I've recently come out of a very bad breakup with my longti...
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AITA My Ex broke up with my because I didn't want to sleep with her as much and because I drank too much.
So background story - I just started working at a bar with an insane selection of spirits and I can try a good amount of them throughout my shift. Also as a bartender I enjoy taking shots with our regulars. Anyways when we first met she knew I loved drinking, it was kind of an issue in the beginning because of a lot ...
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{ "description": "backing out of my best friend's birthday trip in Vegas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for backing out of my best friend's birthday trip in Vegas?
So my best friend, Walter was talking about quitting drinking after his 42nd birthday. I suggested we go to Vegas and do it right. He loves Vegas and agrees, and we buy plane tickets and book a hotel. We invite two of our other best friends in our group text and they decline, and I invite two other friends that were ...
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{ "description": "not emotionally supporting my boyfriend when he's upset about continuing school", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not emotionally supporting my boyfriend when he’s upset about continuing school?
On mobile so apologies in advance [disclaimer: I’m in no way looking for validation that I did the right thing, but honestly trying to see if I’m the asshole in this scenario] Me and my boyfriend have been dating for going on three years. We met freshman year and are now seniors in highschool (both 18 if that’s releva...
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{ "description": "not paying for gas", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not paying for gas?
I’m 18M and in my first semester of college with two jobs (important). Mr brother, 23M has graduated college and is living at home while he searches for a job in his field (he is not being a bum or mooching off my parents, he’s sent out dozens of applications all over the country). He does have an internship that is ...
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{ "description": "talking to my friends parent without him knowing", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I talk to my friends parent without him knowing?
My friends and I ( all 20) decided to go on a vacation this summer and after everything was booked and planned he lets call him Dave messages us that he was not allowed to go with us on vacation because his parents decided it was not safe. We are renting a house near the coast in Croatia, a land which his parents d...
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{ "description": "trying to steer away friend from specific type of relationship/point out toxic family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for trying to steer away friend from specific type of relationship/point out toxic family?
25M here, friend is the same. We've been very close over the years where we've confided personal matters to each other. A common subject in talks has been his various woes with dating women. The longest relationship he had ended two years ago and lasted for two years - a relationship that essentially involved him adopt...
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{ "description": "declining my coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for declining my coworker?
So my coworker showed up at 6 AM to work, and me 8 AM. She left at 3 PM, me 2 PM. She requested to switch leave times- me stay til 3, her leave at 2. I declined, and she got angry at everyone for letting people leave before her even though she showed up really early. I declined because I wanted to relax and spend time ...
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{ "description": "calling a work buddy out for constantly saying he has money, even though he didnt do anything for it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called a work buddy out for constantly saying he has money, even though he didnt do anything for it?
I work with a guy, who we will call L, whose head has gotten a little too big ever since he came into some money. The way he came onto this money, is his mother tragically was killed in a motor accident. He never explained how it happened understandably, but in the months leading up to the day he got his money, all he ...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friendship, and she still thinks we are friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off a friendship, and she still thinks we are friends?
so AM i the asshole? i met this girl when we were 10 and was friends with her for around 9 years before i said ENOUGH. this girl has: lied to me and *about* me cheated off of me for *YEARS* even after i asked, told and demanded she stop (school and tests) 'dibbie dobbed' (told on me) to my parents for numerous thi...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf because she has slept with over 70 men", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA if I [27/M] break up with my GF [28/F] because she has slept with over 70 men?
So yeah I am 27 and i have only slept with 4 other girls, 3 of them being in a relationship. I have been going out with my Girlfriend for 8 months and i really do love her. I was aware she slept about a bit from the start of the relationship due to hearing it through open conversation, but i had no idea how bad it actu...
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{ "description": "wanting to distance myself from my best friend who begged me to go out only to go hang out with her boy friend an hour after being there", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for wanting to distance myself from my best friend who begged me to go out only to go hang out with her boy friend an hour after being there?
My best friend is a very type A personality person. She hates being cancelled on, she hates when others are late, and she hates plans that aren’t concrete. I have ADHD and depression so I try my best to always meet her on time, etc. Today she calls me (I had full intents of staying home and doing laundry/ napping / w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a stranger", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with a stranger?
Before I start, I have to apologize for any grammar mistakes. I am not American. Last week my car’s battery died and I was in the middle of a highway with few cars passing around, I was 30 minutes far from home, and I was alone. It was noon so the sun was at its highest point, and since we are currently in summer the ...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my dad for scolding me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my dad for scolding me?
I already posted this on r/advice so read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/ayrjyg/im_21_and_i_am_sick_of_my_dad_talking_down_to_me/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) first if you can. To summarize, first while waiting for a table at a restaurant (my mom was sitting, my dad was fine standing),...
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{ "description": "being angry at my mother for not giving me a part of the estate that my grandpa left her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my mother for not giving me a part of the estate that my grandpa left her?
TL;DR on bottom. So I have only really talked to my partner about this whole ordeal, and while she is extremely helpful she is biased and has admitted it. Although I think she brings up really important points. My mom is in a tough situation first of all. She lives in a motel with two kids and her husband. I have bee...
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{ "description": "leaving my pregnant gf after a fake \"miscarriage\"", "pronormative_score": 774, "contranormative_score": 62 }
AITA for leaving my pregnant gf after a fake "miscarriage"?
Basically my parents, her parents, and nearly all my friends are calling me the asshole for breaking up with my pregnant girlfriend (it's my kid) so Just looking for perspective here. I'll keep things as objective as possible and happily accept my final judgement. ​ 3 months ago we found out that my gf (or...
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{ "description": "cutting off the girl who used my mental health against me in breakup", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting off the girl who used my mental health against me in breakup?
To start, I (22m) had been seeing this girl for about a year. We met at a job over the summer and we went on a few dates, she introduced me to weed, and we generally got along all things considered. I eventually asked her if we would ever get serious and she told me that she wanted to wait until she was done with sc...
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{ "description": "telling my ex to screw off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex to screw off
Sorry for the wall of text, and the late post. I’m on mobile, and this happened tonight. I can give further details in the comments. Me and my Ex met through classes, and she had gone through a tough nasty break up. We started talking to each other, and started to develop feelings for each other. After going through ...
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{ "description": "not telling someone that his fiance cheated on him with me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling someone that his fiance cheated on him with me?
So for some background, about 3 years ago I had a brief fling with a girl I had gone to school with (we will call her Kate). We slept together for about 6 weeks or so and just left it at that. I ended up in a LTR after that and upon meeting my new partner's friends I met a guy (let's call him Mitch.) I soon find out Mi...
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{ "description": "not leaving the table after my father caughed really hard across the entire table", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not leaving the table after my father caughed really hard across the entire table?
Happened 20 minutes ago. My family (M,D, and me) have been sick for about a week and we're all at the point of almost beeing healthy again. We all still caugh ocassionally but my dad does it the most by far. Prob because he insisted on going to work through the week while my mom and I stayed at home. He just caughed r...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my disabled cousin's trip to Disneyland", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for disagreeing with my disabled cousin's trip to Disneyland
Okay, so hear me out. And before I start, let me just say that I (30F) also have the same disability (yay genetics). ​ So my cousin (14M) is going on a $5k trip to Disneyland with his (50s) parents and (12F) sister. Because of his disability, they've crowdfunded the entire amount because he's always wanted...
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{ "description": "saying 'actual indians' to a native girl", "pronormative_score": 72, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for saying ‘actual indians’ to a native girl?
So the other day i was in school and my friend said something about India (he’s Indian) that was a racist joke about Indian beliefs. Another class mate looked offended after she overheard the phrase ‘Indians are just weird’, by my friend. So then she said ‘Im native and that’s offensive’ and i said ‘no, he means actual...
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{ "description": "not wanting to quit my job over a family vacation", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to quit my job over a family vacation?
So for backstory, im a 20 year old who works at a fast food restaurant that pays quite a bit more than other places in the area. Most of the money helps pay the bills for the house that me and my mom co-own and I use what little left for small things like food and video games A couple weeks ago i found out that the fa...
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{ "description": "putting my career before my girlfriend of 4 years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting my career before my girlfriend of 4 years?
Sorry for the somewhat misleading title. I just started a new *career* and part of my job description requires me to act as a first responder for disasters and to provide relief whenever one may occur. My girlfriend got upset when I told her this and didn't like the fact that we would be separated if/when a disaster o...
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{ "description": "just wanting to watch some good gaming", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for just wanting to watch some good gaming?
I need some answers, please help... so my (24) girlfriend (25) (Who mind you used to sell her body for drugs and other bad things I don’t feel like disclosing, just feel like it is relevant info here) has a severe issue when I look at/ happen to see anything female related. Whether it be if I’m watching tv and a female...
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{ "description": "not having time 24/7", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not having time 24/7?
Hey guys ao this is bothering me for some time now. My gf and I are together for 2 years now, through that time I always cared for her, after she had surgery I did pretty much everything for a good 2-3 weeks. Now since I am in a bad mental place and unable to go to work (in therapy and all) and try to care more for ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for something my girlfriend offered to pay for", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for something my Girlfriend offered to pay for?
My girlfriend is going to an event with an entry fee. She wanted me to accompany her, which wasn't particularly exited about, but told her I would think about it. The issue was she wanted to buy tickets now, so we had a quick discussion. She said if I decide not to go, she would pay for the tickets (they are non-refund...
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{ "description": "being short-tempered to one of the most popular students", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being short-tempered to one of the most popular students?
Almost every day after 7th period, before the final bell, we have an Advisory period where we can do make-up quizzes, study hall, etc. Today I decide to go the art room for this period. I notice that there is a group of kids sitting near me, and take into consideration that these are the popular jocks who aren't gettin...
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{ "description": "not giving my parents money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not giving my parents money?
My parents have never really been great with money. There's a lot that we could do to lower the bills that we don't do, and my parents prefer that I not bring these things up as "it's too stressful to discuss." They have the premium cable package and rarely watch the premium channels. They subscribe to Hulu and don'...
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{ "description": "being disappointed that my husband didn't do anything for valentines", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being disappointed that my husband didn't do anything for valentines
I spent the day cleaning the house and getting it set up for a romantic surprise for my husband when he got home from work. I had tea lights and candles going, I wrote him a thoughtful card and got him and gift and waited eagerly to come home. I dressed up and put on makeup which I rarely do, I was so ready to seduce h...
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{ "description": "bringing up not volunteering to little league coach", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bring up not volunteering to little league coach?
The couch keeps signing the whole team up for volunteer work. While I greatly respect the notion of volunteering I just cannot be two places at once. Each of my children play a sport. My other son has a soccer game that conflicts with this volunteering. I do not think it’s fair to constantly sacrifice one child’s sport...
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{ "description": "wanting answers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting answers?
So there's this friend of mine that I met at a party back in April 2017. We've known each other a while now and grew really close in around 6 months. We'd be there for each other when needed in the early months of our relationship and towards October, we'd grown really close. I'd seen her every weekend from October 12t...
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{ "description": "telling on a coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told on a coworker
So I (18M) work at a call center for a medical clinic. Today, I was sitting with two of my coworkers discussing work and the topic shifted to some other business ventures the company has made. The woman said “these Jews just want to make money”, in reference to the two owners, who are both Jewish and pretty well renown...
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{ "description": "not cleaning the house if I pay bills", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA if I won’t clean the house if I pay bills?
Hey I’m 18 years old and me and my mom got into it over me cleaning the house. She says I should wash the dishes or clean the bathroom since I’m still a “kid” but half my check literally goes to her or the house at least once a month sometimes more. I have two little sisters and a little brother who are all capable of ...
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{ "description": "wanting to masturbate instead of having sex with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for wanting to masturbate instead of having sex with my girlfriend?
I am probably going to sound like an idiot but please hear me out. So we are both 20 years old. Our relationship is still great all around but for me, sex with her is just dull. We only do missionary and she always just lie down, except for kissing she doesn't do blowjobs or any other positions. I get really tired afte...
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{ "description": "telling my coworker to stop talking to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I tell my coworker to stop talking to me?
I work in a small office, there were only four of us for a long time. We sit in cubicles so you can't see each other, but because it's a small room you can hear everyone perfectly. We've always had an unspoken rule that work comes first. We do chat a few times a day, but it's always been understood that if you say some...
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{ "description": "refusing to give money to an desperate/aggressive beggar", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to give money to an desperate/aggressive beggar?
So I know this might sounds obvious, but for some reason I still feel guilty over it. So I’ve been raised in a upper middle class family, but always have been taught to appreciate what I have a give back when I could. So usually on the subway, you get your usual fare of beggars who at begging for money, food etc. W...
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AITA in this argument?
Am I being too edgy about this? I feel like I'm exaggerating because it hits close to home or am I right in this? [argument](https://www.reddit.com/r/IsItBullshit/comments/a581a8/comment/ebktlmm?st=JQILZ854&sh=7db3937d) I don't want this to create a discussion about vaccines, just to know if I'm making it too big ...
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{ "description": "removing a 'friend' off all my social media because they've completely ghosted me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for removing a ‘friend’ off all my social media because they’ve completely ghosted me?
Long story short, I’ve made a new friend about a month ago and we seemingly get along really well. Suddenly, this friend slowly started to fade me out. Messages go unanswered, except when only this ‘friend’ has something to get off their chest. We used to play Xbox together, but this friend has resorted to hiding offli...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my mother with a menial task", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to help my mother with a menial task
I don’t have the best self-confidence in many things, my image and especially using my voice in anything from presentations to karaoke. In fact a video failed to play during a presentation but I was dead set on not acting it out again. Ever. Just today I refused to go for karaoke with my friends because I didn’t want t...
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{ "description": "not wanting the brother who molested me home for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting the brother who molested me home for Christmas ?
AITA. Some back story Last December my family found out that my brother has been acting inappropriately at his university. He had been videotaping his dorm mates in the shower and messaging some of our mutual male friends some inappropriate messages. He was kicked out of school but still living in Minnesota (6 hours...
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{ "description": "cutting off a weirdly two-faced friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a weirdly two-faced friend?
So I made friends with two people (let’s call them Amy and Jack) and it was going great, we all had a lot in common. I began to notice that Amy would badmouth Jack to me and complain about him, such as his sexuality or lack of money. I thought she just needed to vent but thought they were unfair comments. Then it go...
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{ "description": "not wanting to split a sandwich with my then-gf even though we had agreed to go halfsies", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not wanting to split a sandwich with my then-gf even though we had agreed to go halfsies?
This happened almost 10 years ago with my then gf and now wife. We joke about it now and adamantly maintain that the other was wrong. We were getting lunch at a sandwich place and could not decide which sandwiches we wanted, so we both agreed to get a different sandwich and share each half. We get our sandwiches and...
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AITA for infidelity
AMTA for seeking intimate companionship after my wife cut me off from affection over a year ago?
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{ "description": "not calling a girl back after she showed me her bondage devices", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not calling a girl back after she showed me her bondage devices?
I went on a date with a girl I met at a bar. Although I liked her very much she took me back to her apartment and what I saw scared me. There was a huge amount of bondage devices and sex toys. She made a joke about using them on me and I laughed nervously but was quite afraid to be honest. I got the hell out of there a...
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{ "description": "refusing to let my landlord's yard workers into my rental house yard at 9:30 a.m. on a Sunday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for refusing to let my landlord's yard workers into my rental house yard at 9:30 a.m. on a Sunday?
The came with leaf blowers and weed-eaters, ready for the 20 minute *let's use loud power tools to clean the yard* thing. Flatly wouldn't let them access the property. Turned into a big shouting match, but I prevailed. I said: "Come back anytime between Monday and Saturday." This was the second time the issue ca...
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{ "description": "warning on Discord", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA Warning on Discord
So the other day I was on discord in the #general section of the server when we started talking about Big Chungus (the meme). So I posted the big chungus anthem as a joke. It was just four lines of the work CHUNGA over and over again. I then got a warning from one of the mods. If you don’t know the Chungus anthem origi...
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{ "description": "yelling at my so over dishes", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at my SO over dishes?
We both work, live together, spend most of our time together. There was about ten different items of crockery in our bedroom, some with mold growing on them. SO told me a few days ago he would take care of them. He didn't. We have guests coming this weekend. Last night I asked him. This morning I asked him. I moved ...
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{ "description": "feeling bad for my ex f of 6 years, even though she cheated on me multiple times", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling bad for my(f23) ex f(25) of 6 years, even though she cheated on me multiple times?
To give a little background, we met when I was 16 and she ended up moving about 2,000 miles to live with my mother and I about 4 months into the relationship (we were the epitome of the stereotypical lesbian “u-hailing”). Things were pretty great the first year and a half of our relationship, until deciding to get...
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{ "description": "telling my so she can no longer be friends with her Ex", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my SO she can no longer be friends with her Ex?
My current girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. She’s a very fun person to be around, so naturally she has a lot of friends. A few of her friends are her former partners (yes, I said “few”). Her being friends with her exes has never bothered me up until now. I’ve always been confident in her and in us. A...
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{ "description": "being upset my girlfriend chose hunting over visting me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset my girlfriend chose hunting over visting me?
My gf and I live 2.5 hours apart. We used to live together but she moved to a different city for an opportunity to chase her dream. I fully support her and am trying myself to find a new job down there so we can be together again. Since she left, I have drove down every weekend but 1 or 2 because she cannot take time o...
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{ "description": "skipping the line for an order", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for skipping the line for an order?
I go to a high school near a very busy wings bar. Me and my squad were going to go, so I ordered in advance to skip the line. Sure enough, when we got there the line must’ve been 10 minutes long. Sure enough, I walked past the line and went right up to the cash register. I waited for the guy to finish with a customer a...
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{ "description": "wanting my mother to think things through", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my mother to think things through?
Note - This, among a lot of blow outs, happened last year. This one stuck out the most in my mind and I still look back and wonder if I was in the wrong. Please note that I am a female. So, last year after gradding from college, I decided to move in with my mom for a bit in a different state so I could: 1.) Get on my...
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{ "description": "waking roommate up to take care of her dog", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for waking roommate up to take care of her dog?
On the weekends my (M23) roommate (F23) doesn’t have, and she has a strange sleep schedule (4:00AM-4:00PM). She recently bought a puppy, without giving me very much heads up. She keeps it in a kennel while they sleep. So often I will let the dog out so she will stop yelping , this way I can focus on my work, as I am a ...
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