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{ "description": "bugging my roommate to clean a little more", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bugging my roommate to clean a little more?
So my roomie is....a complete slob to put it nicely. She leaves food/tissues/dirty clothes everywhere, never washes dishes etc. I will clean up our place and then the next day there will be mountains of trash, all from her including spilled soda. When I bring it up, her and her friend get on me because "she is too si...
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{ "description": "expecting my housemate to be ok with us using her boardgames at a boardgames night that she couldn't attend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for expecting my housemate to be ok with us using her boardgames at a boardgames night that she couldn't attend?
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{ "description": "being mad my boyfriend and friends hang out without me because I had a baby", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad my boyfriend and friends hang out without me because I had a baby?
Hey. This is my first post on reddit so bare with me. Me and my boyfriend just welcomed a new baby boy to our home. He’s a month old at this point and spent the first three weeks of his life in the Nicu. He came home about 2 weeks ago. I do a majority of the parental duties. Like 90%. We have these two friends who w...
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{ "description": "pointing out small disagreements or mistakes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for pointing out small disagreements or mistakes?
Sometimes, for example when I’m talking with my family and they say something and I agree with what they are saying except for one thing which seems wrong/ or factually wrong. I don’t like to keep quiet on these things, and I usually correct them to make sure they get my point, or just to make sure they realize somethi...
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{ "description": "calling my friend out for racism even though we're not from USA", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friend out for racism even though we're not from USA
Throwaway because friends know my reddit account. If she finds this, I'm killing myself. ESL. So I (24F) have a friend (23F) that I've know for years now. I'd like to think we know each other pretty well, but you know, people change, especially in this age. I, same as many of my peers, spend too much time on the inte...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend alone drunk in Berlin", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for leaving my friend alone drunk in Berlin?
So a few days ago now me and my friend were in Berlin traveling for a small music festival that was held in central Berlin. We are both from English speaking countries, but I have some ability to speak German and he does not. We were both very excited for the festival and had been casually drinking in the hours leading...
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{ "description": "reporting a sexual harrasment on a guy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for reporting a sexual harrasment on a guy?
So my friend had been dating a guy from her work. I immediately told her she shouldnt be dating him (she's 19, he's 28) and that he shouldnt be dating somone with that large of an age gap. She breaks up with him before christmas break, we get off school, come back, and i notice she's acting different. I ask her what...
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AITA for my wife and I being hesitant to spend money to send my wife on a trip with her twin sister and a friend?
This is my first time here so please let me know if I have done anything wrong! # Background information My wife (let's call her Wendy) is graduated from college and works an hourly job (that doesn't use her degree) to support us while I finish undergraduate studies before starting medical school this fall. We got m...
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{ "description": "cutting someone off after they broke my tv while drunk and refused to pay for it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for cutting someone off after they broke my tv while drunk and refused to pay for it ?
She said she was gonna give me her tv but then changed her mind when I said I was going to give it to my girlfriend as a Christmas gift, even though I was going to give my old tv to her before my friend broke it. Worst part was that she was rude about it and said shit like “you’re funny for thinking I was gonna give it...
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{ "description": "copying in an exam when everyone was doing so", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for copying in an exam when everyone was doing so?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. I was giving chemistry paper of std 12th hsc exam. The MCQs were really hard this time and I could get only 3 out of 8 correct. The rest of the paper was mostly easy. The invigilator was really lax and was sipping tea and looking into his phone. Now, in the last 30 mins the guy sitting be...
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{ "description": "asking for help around the home", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I ask for help around the home
I (24f) live with my boyfriend(29m) of a year. We have been living together for most of the relationship and it's fairly easy living because we are very similar. He is very loving and supportive and I absolutely adore the hell out of him. He is helping me get on my feet because due to some mental health issues I am sta...
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{ "description": "refusing to attend my late father's family reunion", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to attend my late father's family reunion
My late father's side of the family is having a family reunion tomorrow and I don't want to go. My mother says this is disrespectful to them. She says that since he is dead, it is my duty to keep in touch with his family and I am part of their memory of him. But this story is more complicated. My father was a drunk. H...
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{ "description": "reducing contact with friends who excluded some of our group from a trip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for reducing contact with friends who excluded some of our group from a trip?
At my school, it's a tradition for seniors to take a beach trip right before graduation. My group of friends all seemed pretty excited about it, and we had been talking about it for a while, but nobody had made concrete plans. However, a number of us have been explicit in our intent to go on a trip. In my group of 8 f...
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{ "description": "accusing my parents of being abusive and breaking several of their rules", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accusing my parents of being abusive and breaking several of their rules?
A bit of context: I am a teenager, and my parents have separated a few years ago. This all started during Sunday, where I was using my phone in the bathroom and my parent shouted at me to stop. I didn’t comply and when I replied with a shout, he told me to not shout, that people were sleeping (napping). I told him to ...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend is over exaggerating my bad memory", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for thinking my girlfriend is over exaggerating my bad memory?
Throwaway for reasons. Some background: I suffer from bad memory, sometimes I don't even remember what I had for breakfast the day before or the likes, and I've already talked about this with her. We've been dating for half a year and we'd never had a strong discussion before. So, my girlfriend (24F) and I (25M) had ...
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{ "description": "calling out my fiance's very intense opposite sex friendships", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for calling out my fiance's very intense opposite sex friendships?
WIBTA for calling out my fiance's very intense opposite sex friendships? Here's as much information as possible: * My fiance works from home. * We've been together about 4 years. I am 33, she is 27. * She has always enjoyed a lot of male friends. * All indications tell me that she is very faithful to me romance-wi...
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{ "description": "selling to someone who offered a higher price", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for selling to someone who offered a higher price?
So a while ago I was selling am xbox controller ok n the Facebook marketplace. After a few days of nothing I got a lowball offer and decided to begrudgingly take it after some unsuccessful negotiating and the guy saying that's all the money he had. I gave the guy my address for him to pick it up (my mistake) and he sa...
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{ "description": "seeing my son and his father while my bf was at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for seeing my son and his father while my bf was at work?
I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant with my bf’s child. We have been together a little over a year and it’s like an unstated fact that he doesn’t like my ex and our relationship. Like we’re all good happy blah blah blah but when it comes to matters of my ex husband he gets... touchy to say the least. Well this morning I ...
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{ "description": "backing out of a party I was voluntold to plan", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for backing out of a party I was voluntold to plan?
Reposting on a throwaway account. I was building rapport with a new coworker and he told me that he and his significant other (who also works for my company) are moving in together. I told him that they should have a housewarming party. He thought that was a great idea, and mentioned that maybe I would be able to hel...
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{ "description": "reporting a restaurant manager about the treatment my family and I received", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for reporting a restaurant manager about the treatment my family and I received?
This happened on my cousin's 21st birthday a couple of weeks ago, she goes to college up in Maryland and my brother and about 45 mins away in Virginia. We wanted to go out and treat her to some drinks after we got some dinner. So we went to a local bar restaurant to start the night and we wanted to grab some drinks, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my little sister to wear my clothes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting my little sister to wear my clothes?
I am 21F and live in an African country with traditional African parents. I still live with them because I am in med school and it is cost effective. My sister is 17 and a bit of a golden child. She can do no wrong, and even if she does it's because I drove her to it. I was quite mean to her when we were younger becaus...
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{ "description": "keeping this speaker", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I kept this speaker?
This speaker was left out by a stairwell and brought to me earlier today. I'm on a 24 hour watch of the area. It's 3am and its easily been 8 hours, maybe more. The dude in charge of this area said if no one claims it by 7:30am (the end of my shift) I can keep it. Would I be the asshole if I took it or should I leave it...
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AITA for the confusion over milkshake semantics?
I know this looks like an April fool's post but I'm totally serious. I frequently get custard at Culver's, and have recently started getting milkshakes. I like my milkshakes in **vanilla** custard with chocolate syrup. The first few times I ordered it this way, it was perfect, but now they say "ok, so a chocolate shak...
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{ "description": "having a messy space", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a messy space?
I’m currently a freshman living in the dorms with two other girls, F and R. Because I’m a bit of a hermit, I spend most of my time not in class in the room, playing video games on my TV. F barely spends any time in the room anymore because R asked that she stop having her boyfriend sleep over so often. R is rarely in, ...
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{ "description": "consciously ignoring my mother starting random conversations in the middle of other conversations", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for consciously ignoring my mother starting random conversations in the middle of other conversations?
I'll explain! ​ My mom may have a bit of ADD. She can't really stick to a topic for too long, unless it's one she personally finds relevant. Personally I think it's a bit of lack of refinement/etiquette on her part. It's like she has a one track mind, or a hidden agenda. ​ Often, when we are t...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move out?
I'm 20 and I live with my parents, so I commute to college. It takes up to 4 hours everyday and it's so exhausting. But now.. A little backstory.. My parents have abused me, both physically and emotionally, up to this day. The physical abuse stopped around 2 years ago, but the emotional abuse is ongoing. I've ran away...
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{ "description": "blocking sons father on sons phone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for blocking sons father on sons phone
Long story short, my son was living with his dad full time because his dad was a stay at home parent so I paid child support, insurance, and anything else my son wanted/needed outside of child support. A few months ago my sons dad pretty much abandoned my son at school (meaning he never went to pick him up and left out...
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{ "description": "being worried that my girlfriend gave her number out at the gym", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being worried that my girlfriend gave her number out at the gym?
She was telling me about guys that hit on her at the gym and she mentioned she gave one her number. She said she was under the impression he was just trying to make friends. That is, until he texted her asking for lunch. She didn’t think this would bother me (and honestly that hurts the most). She never told him about...
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{ "description": "getting mad at an autistic guy for telling me what I can do with my body", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at an autistic guy for telling me what I can do with my body?
Ok so, I'm not a feminist, I am doing a school project on woman's rights in islam in 600 ad to 1600 ad. I am a woman, and for woman rights, and I'm an atheist (It'll be semi-important in the story later on), high school, all that fun stuff. I was asking my friend to hold something like you would a child, and then thi...
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{ "description": "living with my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for living with my grandmother?
Since January, I’ve been living with my grandparents and my aunt. I as with my dad for a couple months, but it ended in a choking incident and CPS so I opted to leave. Before that I lived with my mom and stepdad. My mom was emotionally and physically abusive as well even if we had some good moments. My grandma is not...
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{ "description": "not giving a guy a ride", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a guy a ride?
Last night at around 1am I went to a fast food place to get some dinner because I was up studying all night. I’m a 20 year old college student. While in line a guy knocked on my window I rolled it down and he asked for a ride to somewhere about 15min away. He was an older guy probably 50s and around 5’10ish maybe, I’m ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife's new boyfriend's girlfriend she is being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my wife's new boyfriend's girlfriend she is being cheated on?
Recently my wife told me she wants a Divorce. In the state I am living in it take 90 days to complete. Well, I found out she was emotionally involved with another man, and he has a girlfriend. Well after a few weeks of debating and throwing the idea around, I decided to tell this girlfriend that her 4 year long...
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{ "description": "going through my girlfriend's phone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for going through my girlfriend's phone?
Long story short since I'm on mobile, my girlfriend and I have live together and have been together for about 6 months - about 3 months ago she started spending a hell of a lot of time with one of our mutual friends, who happened to be a close friend of mine I've known even before I met her. Being the laid-back and chi...
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{ "description": "telling my so she's making excuses to skip gym", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my SO she's making excuses to skip gym?
So me and my SO have been together for just over a year, but we have known eachother for several years. 2 weeks ago, we were talking about our hobbies and what we could do, everyday and not get bored. I said video games, comics and conspiracy theories have always been my go to, and also making music. She said she's not...
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{ "description": "not moving out of the plane aisle for someone to get past", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not moving out of the plane aisle for someone to get past?
So this happened a few months ago and I keep thinking back to it thinking I was an asshole, partner thinks I done nothing wrong so I want to know what you guys think. It was the end of my holiday and I was pretty tired and quite sick of the whole travelling thing, flights/people/waiting/etc. Once we landed, people st...
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AITA for smoking?
Alright so as the title suggests, smoking has made me (f21) a liar. This is all regarding my relationship of 3 years with my boyfriend (m21). We have an amazing relationship, we are both each other’s firsts. The entire existence of this relationship has been wonderful all but the last three months when my smoking hab...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave our 8 year old with my parents for 2 hrs to attend a Kickboxing class my wife and I pay for (a bit on the expensive side) that we can only attend 2 times a week and today is one of those days. more in comments", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to leave our 8 year old with my parents for 2 hrs to attend a Kickboxing class my wife and I pay for (a bit on the expensive side) that we can only attend 2 times a week and today is one of those days. More in comments.
Key is that my daughter (8) threw up a bit around 11 pm last night and this morning said she was nauseous and her tummy hurt. So she stayed home. Now my wife says my daughter said she’s better and is playing with her toys but wants to stay home and not go to my parents house. These classes are a bit expensive and ...
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{ "description": "refusing to re-join the what'sapp group my father create for his side of the family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I refuse to re-join the what'sapp group my father create for his side of the family?
​ Bckg to this (TL;DR at the bottom): I'm Brazilian, my parents are divorced since I was five. My mom got full custody of me cause dad had a fase in which he was extra irresponsible, and when I was little, I used to visit him regularly, but as HS and College started to become more exigent and I wanted to ke...
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{ "description": "not wanting to continue playing a game while I was logging out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to continue playing a game while I was logging out?
So, this happened just a few minutes ago. I was playing Warframe with another player, and we teamed up to do some missions. Throughout the game, he sat around and messaged me while I was doing all the hard work. When I told him I was going off for a while to handle some business, he started up a mission. I kept pressin...
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{ "description": "refusing to not allow my girlfriend over to my place", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to not allow my girlfriend over to my place.
So let me give some background, my friend of 10 years who lived in another state is going to be kicked out of the house he lives in, I invited him and his wife to come live with me as a roommate and I would get him a job. Skip 2 months and we are now renting a house together, at first everything was great but then I g...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sing in front of my church", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sing in front of my church?
So my church makes us do these dances every sunday. I have always hated them, but i still do them because they're required. They sent home a video that was full of singing and actions, and my mom asked to watch me do it..... I said okay, and she kept criticizing everything i did. Things like "you're not moving enough e...
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{ "description": "keeping some of my roommates money when she moves", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I kept some of my roommates money when she moves?
I live with three other roommates. One of them hasn't lived here as long as the other two, and is moving out in next week. (She wants to live closer to her school, which is fair) Also sorry for my bad English in advance. When she moved in she paid a security deposit, which I think is fairly normal, and of course she's...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that his wife is ruining his life", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA since I told my best friend that his wife is ruining his life?
Doing this from Mobile, sorry in advance for horrible grammar or layout. Some background, my best friend (we'll call him Jack) and I have known each other going on 9 years now. We always hung out in high school and got into all sorts of shenanigans and even to this day we always keep in contact with each other and one...
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{ "description": "not donating to my friends' fundraisers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not donating to my friends' fundraisers?
You know the type. The friend who runs a 5k for the children's hospital. The friend who bikes 50 miles for breast cancer research. The friend who is part of some volunteering social club. I work hard for every dollar. AITA for not wanting to part with any of it?
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{ "description": "not helping the telecom guy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not helping the telecom guy?
The biggest telecom company in my area contracts out repair work to small firms whose workers identify themselves as working on behalf of the main company. It had snowed 12 inches over a couple of weeks and a neighbour had problems with their phone line so one of these workers came to fix it. The nearest box where the ...
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{ "description": "using the handicapped stall when the bathroom was empty", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using the handicapped stall when the bathroom was empty?
This has bugged me for years. I worked in a corporate office. One of the paralegals there had some health issues (used a cane). She was also enormous. Bottom line, she needed to use the handicapped stall. Fair enough - - bathroom is 4 stalls, I never used it. Except that one day. I was alone in the bathroom, in my reg...
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{ "description": "greifing the server owners base", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for greifing the server owners base?
First post here by the way, and I rarely use reddit, so here comes a crappy post. So our little discord group has a minecraft realm that the discord owner pays for and plays on. I usually play minecraft with a hacked client for some features vanilla doesnt have. The owner doesnt like this. This is where the problem...
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{ "description": "quitting my group", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I quit my group?
So I’m in a quartet of high schoolers that formed spring of last year. I was actually invited to join them, as a former member had just quit and they needed another for some competitions they were planning. I was never supposed to be a permanent member, but because we won all the competitions, parents decided to keep...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that she smells really bad", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for not telling my friend that she smells really bad?
I met my friend 6 months ago and we’ve been hanging everyday day at school since then, i didn’t notice her smell at first, but she has a really strong BO odor. I have heard people talking bad about her because of that and i haven’t told my friend because it’s really embarrasing. Aita for not telling her that she smel...
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{ "description": "convincing my husband to move an hour away from his parents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for convincing my husband to move an hour away from his parents?
We moved back in to help with their health issues and to take care of them. They own a good bit of property they want us to move a trailer beside their house. None of us want that including the kids. Their health is great now and were going on two years of living with them. We want to buy a house closer to his work. Hi...
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{ "description": "considering breaking up with my girlfriend for considering having sex with others for financial benefit", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for considering breaking up with my girlfriend for considering having sex with others for financial benefit?
My girlfriend and I haven’t been together very long. We’ve probably been pursuing our relationship for about 3 months now. Recently, I lost my job, (I was never necessarily financially supporting my gf anyways) & she works at the job that I once did. They are cutting back on hours and due to my girlfriend’s expen...
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{ "description": "playing Devils advocate with my grandfather", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for playing Devils advocate with my grandfather?
To give some background, I'm from Texas. The majority of my family was born and raised southern Baptist. In other words, judgemental, entitled assholes. I, on the other hand, was raised to believe it is God's job to judge, not mine, and to love and treat all people equally. Even the days I hate people, I hate them all ...
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{ "description": "cutting off my old friend from high school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off my old friend from high school?
Backstory: Her and I just graduated in June. We were best friends all throughout high school, but definitely got in our fair share of fights that would prevent us from speaking for a month or two at a time. This was largely due to the guy she’s dating. He’s manipulative and controlling (tells her wheat to wear, gets ma...
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{ "description": "telling my student to consider a nose job and losing some weight", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 37 }
WIBTA if I told my student to consider a nose job and losing some weight..
I’m an acting coach and I have a student who’s 16 and very talented. I’ve put her up for quite a few jobs which she hasn’t booked. I’ve had feedback to say her look just wasn’t right. Now as most people will know this industry is quite shallow. Sure there’s jobs for not so good looking people but the better looking you...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my dad for eating my dinner", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting angry at my dad for eating my dinner?
This happened about a month ago and we are over it but still believe we are both in the right. So during the summer my parents go down to their beach house a lot with my dad coming back for a few days every couple of weeks. During his time back home he never cooks or makes anything beyond maybe a sandwich because my ...
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "not waiting on customer who took over an hour to get here and gave the order to someone else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not waiting on customer who took over an hour to get here and gave the order to someone else?
Okay so I was selling something on Facebook market place. I get them every month so I constantly sell them, well I was under 100 left today and this chick hits me up says where can I pick up, I give her the address she says on her way, about 30 minutes later I messaged her and asked if she was close. She read my messag...
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{ "description": "ending my relationship because gf uninvited me to a trip because there would be a lot of her high school and college friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I end my relationship because gf uninvited me to a trip because there would be a lot of her High school and college friends.
As Valentine's day gift my girlfriend told me that she would pay for the two to go to a trip with various activities. Later she told me that said trip was planned and organized by one of her college professor for his class, but attendance was optional. The trip is a little bit expensive but and I was telling her ho...
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{ "description": "not telling her I was unknowingly the other woman while they were on a break", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling her I was unknowingly the other woman while they were on a break?
I (a college student) recently met someone I have many mutual friends with, and I thought he was extremely attractive. We hooked up on two separate weekends, and we both said we really would like to get to know each other better, so it seemed like more than physical at least from my side. Later he tells me he didn’t m...
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{ "description": "not inviting my best friend to my party because I know he will get drunk and make himself an extra responsibility for me during the whole night", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting my best friend to my party because i know he will get drunk and make himself an extra responsibility for me during the whole night.
Every time i try to host something and I invite him he always gets drunk and ruins the night for me and sometimes for others too. And now I feel terrible for not inviting him.
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{ "description": "telling coworkers not to thank the president of the company because he didn't do anything", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling coworkers not to thank the president of the company because he didn't do anything
So I'm a contractor at a chemical plant in the South and our contact (CC) (the chemical plant guy that controls our contract) says that if we make it to xxx days without an injury he would pay for everyone to eat (cooking BBQ at work). So xxx day comes and a week or so later our CC says ok great job guys, next week Thu...
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{ "description": "playing my music fairly loudly in my car", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for playing my music fairly loudly in my car?
I really like music, and whenever I’m driving I tend to play it at a relatively loud volume. Loud enough to hear it from the sidewalk while I’m waiting at a red light and clearly make out the lyrics, but not loud enough to hurt anyone’s ears. The music ranges from alt rock to the occasional hardcore EDM, so nothing too...
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{ "description": "refusing sex with my husband because he has stank breath", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing sex with my husband because he has stank breath?
I know, I know the title sounds horrid, but I want you to hear me out first. TL:DR at bottom. So my loving husband has recently (I assume because of a new cavity) started having some really horrible breath. Typically I can deal with bad smells, but this is just horrid. This is been going on for over a month (dentist...
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{ "description": "pushing a guy into the pool", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for pushing a guy into the pool?
So I was at the pool over the summer with lots of my family cause we just wanted to chill. So everyone else was swimming or whatever, and I was waiting in line to jump off the diving board, and this guy was taking forever. He was being a chicken and wouldn’t jump off. I got really impatient and I went and pushed him of...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 7 }
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{ "description": "blocking my friend, who defended their best friend's actions despite them being in the wrong", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for blocking my friend, who defended their best friend’s actions despite them being in the wrong?
Obligatory I’m on mobile, so sorry for spelling and grammar mistakes So, a little preface for this story. In late September, I met this girl in a Discord server and I enjoyed talking to her. I’ll call her Nessie. Things were smooth until I had a really bad mental breakdown and threatened a lot of stuff. This is obvio...
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{ "description": "not continuing to talk to a girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not continuing to talk to a girl?
So, this happen a little while ago but I started thinking about it. My friend set me up with a girl. The girl and I started talking and eventually set up a movie date over the weekend. Our plans were really last minute and convoluted and she ended up texting me saying she had some things to do but she would try and mak...
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{ "description": "being mad that my friend is also friends with a girl that mistreats me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad that my (21F) friend (20F) is also friends with a girl (19F) that mistreats me?
So I’m friends with a girl (let’s call her Val) who is also friends with another girl I know, Marge. The thing is, there’s no love lost between me and Marge. We were good friends previously, up until she tried to steal my boyfriend, after which I returned the favor and did stuff to her and we both repeatedly talked s...
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{ "description": "calling animal protective services on my parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called animal protective services on my parents?
They basically live in a home that resembles the show hoarders. (Not as bad but the clutter and gross aspects of the house definitely lead me o believe they are hoarders, no one has been to the house in 10 years for example) The dog they have is extremely old (at least 12 years old). She’s missing an eye (has been for ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy Christmas gifts for my newborn nephew", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to buy Christmas gifts for my newborn nephew?
My big brother was always a party guy, having a lot of women but no real girlfriend. At 32, he finds the good one. I didn’t like her at all, but if he is happy, I’m happy. Christmas Eve 2015 was at my house, he brings his new girlfriend for the first time but didn’t bring any gift because his car broke on his way to bu...
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{ "description": "not letting my gf look at my phone", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting my gf look at my phone?
So, what started this is that a few years back I told her about a conversation I was having with a female friend. The conversation wasn’t anything sexual or flirty, and I brought it up on my own because I thought she would find some of the stuff I said funny. My gf flips out, calls my brother and his wife and asks who ...
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{ "description": "considering on closing out an electric bill that my parents put in my name and reporting them for identity fraud", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for considering on closing out an electric bill that my parents put in my name and reporting them for identity fraud?
In October after my parents almost got the electric shut off due to them not receiving a notice it was going to be shut off (their phones were inactive as they didn't pay the bill) they asked if they can give the electric company my phone number in case they needed to contact them, I'm aware they only call if your ele...
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{ "RIGHT": 19, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "following a volleyball player on Instagram next to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for following a volleyball player on Instagram next to my girlfriend?
Me (18F) and my girlfriend (19F) were watching our college teams men’s volleyball game, talking about which ones are the cutest (I’m bi, she’s gay). I followed one of them on Instagram and she saw it and wouldn’t even talk to me for the rest of the game, and walked ahead of me when we were going to our dorms. I tol...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "not shaving my beard/mustache off for a wedding", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I don’t shave my beard/mustache off for a wedding
WIBTA if I don’t shave my mustache/beard off to be a groomsman in a wedding? It’s for a good friend of mine but I just don’t want to shave it off. I’ve had it on and off to ten years and I don’t like the way I look without it.
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AITA for getting hit by a table leg
Today I was waiting in a hallway in front of an office together with some colleagues. We stood side by side on the wall, so we wouldn't block anyone passing through the hallway. Short time after, a worker had to carry a table through this hallway and told us to step aside. I thought there is enough space for this guy t...
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{ "description": "not giving money to the church", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving money to the church?
Last month I started to get $100 checks from a sexual assault case from years back. Anyway, when I got the check I already told myself I'm not going to spend it on myself. So I asked my grandparents if they had any ideas on how to give it away. The church was raising money for missions work next month so my grandmother...
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{ "description": "not ruining my now ex-BF's and my vacation to Paris together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not ruining my now ex-BF’s and my vacation to Paris together?
The relationship between my now ex-boyfriend (54M) and me (36M) was in a rocky situation for its last six months or so, until I finally pulled the plug and ended it in September of last year. We had had a very bad fight around March of last year, after which it seemed to me like it was possible that the relationship m...
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{ "description": "denying a person from joining a project at the last minute", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For denying a person from joining a project at the last minute?
This is the 15th week at my college and we have a group project that is due Wednesday or tomorrow and I got a text from one of the others in the group about allowing a guy to join the group and it was down to me for the deciding factor. This same guy has not been in class for the several weeks, not because of work or ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drink any alcohol, ever? even on my 21st birthday", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I don't want to drink any alcohol, ever? Even on my 21st birthday?
I haven't had any traumatic experiences with alcohol or anything, and this idea wasn't brainwashed into me by anyone. But I've just come to accept it as part of my personal philosophy and I don't want to give it up. Essentially, I'm almost 21 and have never had alcohol, ever (never even been to a party, that's the ki...
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{ "description": "wanting to date someone else", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to date someone else?
My first serious relationship ended just over a year ago because of distance and I am still friends with my ex (we still have the occasional little argument but never anything serious). Recently I’ve been wanting to ‘get back out there’ but have been quite reluctant due to the fact that I’ve been constantly thinking of...
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{ "description": "not wanting my moms things", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my moms things?
On mobile, apologies. (First post here) Important context: Me (13 F), my mother (57 F), my father (57 M) and my grandmother (77 F) don't clash well together. Me and dad (A) v.s my mother (T) and my grandmother (c). T all her married life has been a hoarder, but since I've been born it's gotten worse. She basically...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with a girl who doesn't reciprocate my feelings", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with a girl who doesn’t reciprocate my feelings?
So a couple of months ago I asked out this girl who I had feelings for and she declined. I was fine with it being left there, but I didn’t particularly want to remain friends with her because there will always be this underlining feeling of awkwardness around us, and I just didn’t want that. Now a couple of months late...
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{ "description": "breaking a girl's heart", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking a girl's heart?
Okay. Bit of a long one, so bear with me. Edited to be SFW. TL;DR at the bottom. I'm a native English speaker, and this is written VIA computer. I seriously apologize for mistakes, and would like to be corrected as it improves how I text/write. This all happened over Discord roughly a year ago. The reason I rem...
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{ "description": "not wanting kids", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting kids?
I'm a 28 old guy and been with my girlfriend for around 6 years. We're both pretty busy and spend a lot of time at work. I've been recently often criticized (family and friends) that I'm not doing the proper things in my life, mainly when it comes to starting my own family, getting married, getting my own place to live...
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{ "description": "making a girl cry at a week-long cottage trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a girl cry at a week-long cottage trip?
This isn’t too complicated a story, so I’ll keep it short. A few friends and I (men and women, ages 21-27) decided to spend reading week up at my parents’ cottage. It was basically going to be a week long party with plenty of drinking. I bought about $40 (CAD) worth of beer/cider which was about 10-12 cans altogether...
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{ "description": "ordering chow mein in my bfs favorite chinese restaurant", "pronormative_score": 79, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ordering chow mein in my BFs favorite chinese restaurant
Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) (half chinese, maybe relevant) were thinking of places to go for dinner, and he had been wanting to show me this chinese food place he always go to with his family. He was in between that or a fast food burger place, but since Ive heard him mention this place a few time I told him we sho...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be joked with about a very painful breakup", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Be Joked With About A Very Painful Breakup
(Sorry for being kinda sloppy with composition on this post, it's 10:00pm and I am pissed) (We're all in the 8th grade) EX: Ex Girlfriend FF: Former Friend NG: New Girlfriend (Not very relevant to the story, but still important nonetheless) ME: Me (duh) Prologue: A few months ago, EX broke up with me after being toget...
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{ "description": "everything that happened with my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITAH for everything that happened with my ex-girlfriend?
First, let me say that this is going to be a long one, so strap in. Acronyms- M= Girlfriend's mom (\~40) SD= Girlfriend's Stepdad (\~50) GF= My ex girlfriend (16) I am 17 and a boy. ​ I met GF working at a grocery store 8 months ago over the summer and we really hit it off. We instantly became prett...
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{ "description": "wanting to split the Bill on a first date", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For Wanting to Split the Bill on A First Date?
Met this girl on tinder I'm M22, she's F20 and we hit it off and decided to meet for dinner last night at a restaurant she picked. The dinner was fine and she was cute but she came off as really dumb and naive, just like you're basic Western white girl (Ontario mans will get this one). Basically typically uninformed wh...
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{ "description": "returning a milkshake and expecting a refund", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for returning a milkshake and expecting a refund?
I just ordered a milkshake, paid in cash, and when the cashier handed my change back, I felt her long fake nails brush my hand. In previous job, I saw so many horrible fungal infections that really long nails and long fake nails just gross me out. So after I sat down to wait for my order, I realised that she was ...
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{ "description": "double booking my evening", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for double booking my evening?
This just happened and I’m trying to gauge if I’m over reacting or not. This evening my SO’s parents planned to take us out to dinner for a belated birthday celebration for me. Last night, my friends let me know that they were going out to celebrate my close friend’s birthday the next night (tonight). I said that I’d ...
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{ "description": "telling some Contractor to fuck off and mind his own business", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling some Contractor to fuck off and mind his own business?
So ill try to keep this short, this just happened, my Dad bought a new drone a few weeks ago and its supposed to be able to fly up to 2 KM away but ive been having range issues, so multiple times this week ive been out with it, i"d fly it towards the field at the end of my street and see how far i could get before rang...
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{ "description": "sometimes wanting to play a single player game, and therefore turning down my friend from time to time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sometimes wanting to play a single player game, and therefore turning down my friend from time to time.
Basically, as the title says, I love video games, and was sort of a loner for a long time, so I got particularly in to single player games. In the past few years, I became way more social, and started playing games a lot with my friends, which I love doing. However, one friend asks me to play every time he and I are on...
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{ "description": "letting my girlfriend pay", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my girlfriend pay?
I’ve been dating a wonderful woman (36F) for about five months. We get along great, have amazing conversations, she’s incredible. Problem is, she’s rich. She works in fashion (we both live in NYC) and lives in this huge apartment and has a lot of money even though she doesn’t do much with it besides donate to charity...
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AITA for leaving?
So my (M23) girlfriend (F22) of 2 and a half years and I have been fighting a lot recently. We decided the best thing to do was break up, and that I would be moving out. That was 2 weeks, and today I got the rest of my stuff and left. Yesterday at around 8 at night, she got a call from her sister saying that her dad ...
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{ "description": "being slow when painting things", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being slow when painting things?
Alright, I paint miniatures for a hobby and some of them I posted to Reddit on other communities. I’ve been doing it for quite a long while and have gotten pretty good at it but I know that I can still get better. Sometimes I paint individual minis for friends for D&D or just because. In all honesty, I would norma...
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{ "description": "not caring about my ex's feelings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not caring about my ex's feelings?
Reposting since I forgot to use the AITA acronym. So I broke up with my ex about a month ago because she was super jealous and paranoid about everything. She has had some bad relationships in the past so it was SLIGHTLY understandable, but it just wasn't something I could take anymore so I broke it off. I am still fa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to let my wife take my car", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to let my wife take my car?
So my wife told me a year ago she wanted a divorce and that she needed time to get things in order to proceed with the divorce. So we still live together but she pays no bills. It's been a very rocky relationship between us over this time and isn't getting better. I dont drive her car even when we all go out as a fami...
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{ "description": "not working with my father in our business and for trying to do something on my own in life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not working with my father in our business and for trying to do something on my own in life?
My father is having a buisness related to Mechanical Engineering and i understand that he gas built it with lot if hard work but i want to do something on my own in life. The problem is that he says if i want to do anything that's against his wish so I should leave home and then do whatever I want to. Should i leave...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge against someone from my school for something he said a few years back on an excursion", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding a grudge against someone from my school for something he said a few years back on an excursion
As the title suggests, my entire grade was on an excursion. One of my friends(b) told me that another one of my friends(c) had to leave because they had diarrhoea but it turns out he was joking. So i saw (c) while looking around and asked him about it and for some reason he thought i was being rude. So the person i hav...
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{ "description": "not telling my husband about a miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not telling my husband about a miscarriage?
Throwaway for obvious reasons, also not sure about the formatting issues, but I am on mobile. Title kind of says it all. So I am very early into a pregnancy that I am miscarrying. I was recently starting to suspect I was pregnant, and going to discuss it with my husband. Later in the day, the bleeding began. I have ...
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{ "description": "not telling my friends I've been adopted by a rich uncle", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my friends I've been adopted by a rich uncle?
Warning: Long. There's been a shit-tonne of drama. Just had the most terrific fight with my mates because they believe (not entirely unfairly), that I treated them like shit. Background: I\[15M\] am an orphan. Recently I found out I have an uncle and a cousin sister. They seem like really cool people. They're also fil...
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