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{ "description": "getting offended at a friends joke", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting offended at a friends joke
This is so petty and dumb I just don't have anyone else to talk to. So I have this group message between some of my friends and friend's friends. My roommate who ive been friends with for about 8 years likes to make it a habit of collecting unflattering pics of me. Usually just pics of when I was drunk in college years...
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{ "description": "being mad the girl I have been talking to spent Valentine's day with another guy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad the girl I have been talking to spent Valentine's day with another guy
I (M20) am angry at the girl (F19) I've been talking to for a month spent Valentine's with another guy. We've been on a few dates, and things seemed to go pretty well. She seems to have really opened up to me, and has made it clear several times that she didn't have a boyfriend and her parents told her not to date in c...
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{ "description": "not forgiving a good friend for Hooking up with another friend while visiting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Not Forgiving a Good Friend for Hooking up with another Friend while Visiting
To save some people some reading here's a TLDR; Former Ex asked to be brought to a party while in town visiting and hooks up with one of my friends while he was drunk. Long Boring Story: We dated for a while but ended it as she moved out of town. Long story short we still talked a bit but nothing more than frie...
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{ "description": "being mad that my cousin hated a gift I bought for her kid", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being mad that my cousin hated a gift I bought for her kid?
So unbelievably pissed off right now. I really do hope that there is some part of this situation I am not seeing, and that I am the asshole, because as it stands I am ready to cut this branch of my family tree off and never speak to them again. My (female) cousin has 3 kids (actually she has 4 but she gave one of the...
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{ "description": "accidentally leading on my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidentally leading on my friend?
Sorry this is novel-length, I'm really bad at organizing my thoughts. So basically I (F21) have been pretty close friends with this guy (M26) for a couple years now. We hooked up a couple of times this February but I eventually told him that I wasn't in a place where I wanted to be sexual/romantic with anyone but that...
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{ "description": "giving minimal notice when quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I gave minimal notice when quitting my job?
I work in a mental health clinic as a sort of triage therapist - we do assessments for walk-in clients, get them set up with services, make referrals, do crisis plans, that sort of thing. Our team has about 12 people, of a max of 15 or so. I've been here 3 years and never seen it fully staffed. Over the last few month...
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AITA I dont like my autistic cousin
Background: I'm 26 years old and have just finished college. I moved out in fall of 2013 where this begins. About 5 years (late 2013-early2014) ago my family lost 3 members within 3 months. My grandpa, grandma, and aunt. I lived with my mother, grandpa and grandma and another aunt with a mental disability. During...
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{ "description": "making an in appropriate joke to my coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for making an in appropriate joke to my coworker?
We were having a team meeting and she was wearing a really revealing top. I said to her “it looks like you brought the puppies out tonight”as a joke. She looked at me and said it was extremely inappropriate to make that comment. She went on and said more things like “I didn’t come to work to get sexual remarks from you...
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{ "description": "making my mother cry", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my mother cry?
I don't really know how to write this so I'll just say what's on my mind. My parents are Christians and I don't really know if I believe in God right now. My mother has noticed and has tried to convince me in the last few days. Shouldn't really be a problem but she just won't leave me in peace. She will follow me and t...
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{ "description": "wanting more", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more?
im a mid 30's guy, married with two kids. Both my wife and I work hard, and we have a very comfortable life. Thanks to strategery and cunning, we have a good amount of money in our savings and investments. Lately ive decided im done saving so much and its time to spend money on things I want rather than just saving ...
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{ "description": "liking pictures on Instagram despite my ex getting really upset", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for liking pictures on Instagram despite my ex getting really upset
So basically I was with my ex for three years till I broke it off in October. We are both at seperate colleges. I broke up for three reasons. One was the distance, we were long distance and both of us were feeling emotionally worse off than when we started dating. Second was that I had found out a year into our relatio...
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{ "description": "wanting breaking up with him", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting breaking up with him?
Hey, So a quick summary: I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, it was wonderful at the start, then things became bad, he started to control me because of my past, accused me of actively cheating, calling me names for my past, being aggressive towards others. Then I wanted to break up and started flirting with a...
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{ "description": "glancing at my girlfriend to see her opinion on something", "pronormative_score": 132, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for glancing at my girlfriend to see her opinion on something
This evening I (21/M) was invited by my GF (of 11 months) family to the restaurant to enjoy some pizza and have a good time. At the end of the meal her big sister (mother figure in the family) asked me if I wanted to sleep at their house tonight. Not too sure about what to say I looked at my girlfriend to know if she ...
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{ "description": "adopting a dog without my husbands permission", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for adopting a dog without my husbands permission?
We had a hard year. My husband accidentally killed our beloved dog, my dad died, and we had a baby. Our house is a bit small and a bit tight, but I miss having a dog so badly. So does my husband, but he is so torn up about the accident with our dog last May, he swears he never wants another one. The animal shelter in...
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{ "description": "cancelling on a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling on a friend?
I have known my friend for around 6 years and I really love her. She's smart, sassy and funny. However, she can sometimes be more of a taker than a giver when it comes to support. In February, I was kicked out by a friend/landlord out of the blue. We'd had a fairly insignificant argument - as far I was concerned - but ...
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{ "description": "telling a colleague her dress is see-through", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a colleague her dress is see-through?
I didn't do it in public. I saw her in the pantry alone when I noticed. I didn't make any other comment other than that I can see her bra. Last thing in my defense... she was wearing a jacket of sorts (not exactly sure about clothing nomenclature) so I thought the situation was 1 of 2 things. 1. It was a fashion sta...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get to know my friends bf", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I don’t want to get to know my friends BF
Hey so I have this issue with my friend, let’s call her Grace. She’s great, super sweet and funny. We aren’t super close but we spend a lot of time with the same group of people. So here is the problem: I don’t really care much for her boyfriend, let’s call him Tom, because I don’t like how he treats people. It’s do...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated at my birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting frustrated at my birthday dinner?
Some context: ​ Last night I went to a dinner at a nice restaurant for my birthday with me, my girlfriend, and a friend of mine with their date. It was our second double date with them, and I love all of them to bits but on our first double date (which I organized and paid for) it essentially became a mini...
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AITA My boyfriend seems upset with me staying at another guy’s house but won’t admit it
So I (17f) invited my boyfriend (17m) to come see a musical with me in my hometown. His mom wouldn’t let him come, so not wanting to waste the extra ticket I brought for him, I invited one of my best friends since we were kids. For convenience sake let’s call him G. G (20m) said he could go ,and I was ecstatic as I had...
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{ "description": "mistakenly kicking a guy in the balls", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA For Mistakenly kicking a guy in the balls?
I was followed and mugged by a man a few months ago and it gave me a mild concussion and a huge host of anxiety issues that I'm still dealing with today. I am seeing someone for this but progress is slow and going through this in your 40's as a woman is terrible. Last Thursday I was walking home from the gym when I ...
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{ "description": "not giving my boyfriend a key to my apartment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for not giving my boyfriend a key to my apartment?
We have been together for 2 years now and I live in a one bedroom apartment. My boyfriend still lives at home. After about 6 months of dating I asked if he wanted a key to my place and he said no because he didn't wanna live there. And after that I basically moved in with him and his parents for a year because my boyfr...
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{ "description": "continuing my friendship with someone who is homophobic", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for continuing my friendship with someone who is homophobic?
So for context, I am a bisexual male living in Canada and my friend is a straight male from Nebraska. We often talk on Snapchat, Instagram, IMessage and Xbox Live so I have a pretty good relationship with him. He has a good knowledge of me being Bi, keep this in mind. However, overtime, he would often say stuff like ...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not spending time with my girlfriend
So I have a girlfriend who I love very much and she has the same feelings for me. The problem is that I have a very unnoticeable autism which makes me very shy, and my natural instincts is to just shy away from any physical contact. She is also very shy (not as much as me though) which makes this really hard for both o...
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{ "description": "cutting out \"friends\" from my life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out "friends" from my life?
2-3 years ago I made very good friends over the short amount of time we became very close like family. I was always there for them (visited if they were feeling bad, talking to them, just being there etc.) End of last year I was going through a very, very rough phase of my life. I told them about my situation and ask...
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{ "description": "making a daily tea for a (racist/sexist) colleague that's had a stroke", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a daily tea for a (racist/sexist) colleague that's had a stroke?
I'll try keep it short but theres a colleague where I work who's in his mid-50's, he had a stroke a few years back and lost a lot of the feeling down his left side. As a result he's on a crutch and his left hand is basically useless. Anyway, he's a tough bugger - a stubborn one and an "old school" kinda guy. When I m...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner's best friend to move out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my partner's best friend to move out?
My boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years (in communal/flatting style places), 6 months ago we finally got our own place together, just the 2 of us and it's been great. Anyway recently he had his best friend move in with us because he got kicked out of his own place and had nowhere else to go. I was un...
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{ "description": "being angry for my sister giving away something I got her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry for my sister giving away something I got her?
My sister broke her earbuds and I was letting her use my spare pair. I bought her a new pair so she didn't have to keep using mine. She gave them to my other sister, claiming she needed them more, then has the audacity to ask to use mine again. She says I'm being selfish and that she was just trying to do a nice thin...
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{ "description": "calling my sister a selfish brat", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for calling my sister a selfish brat?
Sister is 22, I'm 25. My sister graduated from college in the spring and my parents told her she would get a graduation trip, which basically means she gets to pick where the family trip would be. She picked a European country. Our schedules have conflicted a few times so the trip hasn't happened and it's not schedul...
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{ "description": "sharing private information an ex-friend shared with me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for sharing private information an ex-friend shared with me?
(yes this was pretty childish it happened a while ago) My friend was very depressed and often vented to me privately, telling me about self harm, and how she wanted to die. She was also obsessed with a boy (J) who was dating someone else. Everyone knew she was obsessed with J (including J). This girl began wanting ...
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{ "description": "telling on a 9 year old for watching 18+ rated movie", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling on a 9 year old for watching 18+ rated movie?
I've a nephew who stays home in the mornings as he has school in the afternoon. No one else is home during this time usually, as we had work. I happened to be home today as I took a sick leave for a bad headache. He wouldn't have known I was home till I came out. When I came out of my room and I saw him jump and chang...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend who regularly cheats off of me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I cut off a friend who regularly cheats off of me?
TL;DR at the end So me and another friend have an AP history class together. The class was supposed to be run by teacher A, but he had a medical emergency in December, so now we have a sub for the rest of the year. Teacher A was decently obese(hence the med emergency) and his tests were online-only, meaning that pretty...
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{ "description": "being glad that my BIL broke my phone", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I'm glad that my BIL broke my phone?
BIL is not a bad person by any means. He cares for my sister, he's a responsible adult, he's a good father to my neice and nephew, and he gets along well with the entire family. Most days I like him. His biggest flaw is his sense of humour. Off-colour paired with sarcasm so strong that we can never tell whether he is s...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend about a private conversation in a group chat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend about a private conversation in a group chat?
So it was my girlfriends birthday, and her friends planned a dinner at a pretty cheap restaurant, like $6-15 dollars per meal. We made a group chat that included my girlfriend but also another that was without her so we could disuse gifts etc. There were 8 people total who were gonna go, but 1 of them is extraordinari...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my ex and his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with my ex and his girlfriend?
My ex is upset that I want nothing to do with him or his new girlfriend. He keeps telling me that I’m overreacting and we were broken up when they got together. Ex and I broke up before the holidays after 3 years together. It was dysfunctional, but not abusive. We kept in light contact through texts over the holidays...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that people from my college are sexier", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend that people from my college are sexier?
I was browsing the internet and found one of those dumb fake articles called "Colleges with the sexiest and least sexy undergrads." My college was ranked first and his was ranked as one of the least sexy. I sent him the article and wrote "guess this settles it :P" He didn't answer, but when he came over, he yelled at ...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend quality time with my younger cousins without caring for our intellectually disabled cousins", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to spend quality time with my younger cousins without caring for our intellectually disabled cousins?
This has been eating me up inside for a few months now and it was only yesterday, after a family gathering, that I was finally able to articulate what's going on. My mum's side of the family has always been close. She's the oldest of 4 siblings, and has 2 sisters and a brother. Myself and my other cousin T are only a ...
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{ "description": "making the bride refund me for my bridesmaid dress after she kicked me out of the wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making the bride refund me for my bridesmaid dress after she kicked me out of the wedding?
The bride is my cousin. She is very selfish, spoiled, and childish. I moved in with my aunt and uncle (her mother and father) in order to attend school. Within that time, my cousin and I became very close. She even asked me to be the Maid of Honor in her wedding! (Which later I found out, she also asked the other 2 br...
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{ "description": "refusing to accompany my mother to a 3rd world country for her father's funeral", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to accompany my mother to a 3rd world country for her father’s funeral?
So a little bit of context. Me and my mother were born in England but her parents (my grandparents) were Pakistani immigrants. About 5 years ago, my grandfather sadly passed away and we held the funeral in the UK where he lived for the past 60 years and that was very hard on my mother who loved him a lot. There’s a M...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut out a \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut out a “friend”?
Alt Account. Firstly I am on mobile so I apologize for the formatting issues. Let me start this by explaining that I (14F) and the friend (Referred to as A, 14M) are pretty okay. I haven’t had any actual serious conversation about telling him to stop but have told him countless times to stop annoying me every day, e...
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{ "description": "talking about people behind their backs", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking about people behind their backs?
I just got into college a couple of months ago, and since I'm a dude myself I started hanging out with the dudes around. Before I knew it we were going out every day, hanging around and such. Problem is, they're massive assholes behind everyone's backs. They're constantly talking shit about every girl/teacher/literally...
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{ "description": "living at home with my parents who are strapped for cash and are asking me to get a second job (on top of my full time one) to help them pay down their bills/expenses", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? I live at home with my parents who are strapped for cash and are asking me to get a second job (on top of my full time one) to help them pay down their bills/expenses.
I just graduated and have been living at home with my parents for a little over a month. They want me to live at home for a year and pay no rent so I can pay off my high student loan balance. Recently a lot of things have been breaking (car, home AC unit, fridge) and it’s been taking a toll on my parents finances. My d...
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{ "description": "asking a lady to pull her pants up", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for asking a lady to pull her pants up?
I was at a library and i saw a lady sit right beside me. Her pants were really low, and i could see her buttcrack clear as day. So i decided to not be a pussy and told her if she could pull her pants up. She took off her earphones and i repeated, I'm not sure if she was disgusted, embarrassed or both, but she looked at...
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{ "description": "being annyoyed by my gf's inconvenient favours", "pronormative_score": 87, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being annyoyed by my gf's inconvenient favours
Hey so before i begin this i just wanna say I appreciate when my gf does anything for me even if its just poppin up at one of my lectures with a bottle of water - she's very kind and thinks about me a lot. However.... I've noticed she does this thing where she'll do you a 'favour' that ends up requiring you do to mor...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable around my fil after he sends porn to his adult son (my husband) and wanting to protect my future kids from the \"perv\"", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being uncomfortable around my FIL after he sends porn to his adult son (my husband) and wanting to protect my future kids from the “perv”
My FIL has always given me “that” feeling (the feeling like you never want to be alone with him, the queasy hair standing up feeling). He makes comments about women, demeans his wife and daughters. They’re for making babies and keeping the home 🙄 I tolerate it because hey he’s old and for now he’s my husbands problem ...
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{ "description": "sharing private information about a friend with another friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sharing private information about a friend with another friend?
Hi! Please excuse my grammar, english is not my native language. Also I know it might sound silly or obvious, but I do feel conflicted. For some context: Cisco (28M) and I (26F) met at university and have been good friends for about 5 years now. We did our first internship together and when we graduated, we both start...
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{ "description": "not being friends again with my ex-bestfriend until he blocks his ex-girlfriend who is also my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA-For not being friends again with my ex-bestfriend until he blocks his ex-girlfriend who is also my ex-girlfriend.
First, my best friend started dating my ex-girlfriend after they both promised not to date each other. I haven’t talked to him in about a month. I blocked my ex on everything after I found out. But they broke up a few days ago and he wants to be friends again. But I don’t want to be his friend 100% again until he block...
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{ "description": "not being at the hospital for my dad the moment of heart surgery", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being at the hospital for my dad the moment of heart surgery?
I don't really have a great relationship with my dad. Never had, and never will have. ​ A year back my father got a flesh eating bacteria (Bacterial Endocarditis), eating his Aorta. He had to spend a long time in the hospital and had two open heart surgeries, and now has a mechanical aorta. I was ...
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{ "description": "refusing to stop slurping my ramen", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to stop slurping my ramen?
Hey guys. I'm not usually a loud eater, so this honestly caught me off guard. I was with my group of close friends, and we get lunch together time to time. This time we went to a ramen place that we frequent to, we each ordered our own, and started eating. I begin enjoying my meal and then one of my friends gets quit...
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{ "description": "asking roommates to spilt the bill of household items", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I asked roommates to spilt the bill of household items
To start off I live in a house with 4 roommates. We split the bills evenly with me managing all of them and sending requests as needed. I set up a chore rotation to keep the house clean that 2 roommates mostly ignore, 1 of them barely uses the common spaces so its not a big deal. Only 2 of us have regularly bought ho...
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{ "description": "poking fun at my wife for getting off her diet", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 97 }
AITA for poking fun at my wife for getting off her diet?
My wife's been on this "detox" type of diet, she's trying to lose about 40 lbs in total and has lost maybe 10 ever since she started doing the detox. She is consistently getting on and off this diet, the most she lost was probably about 25 lbs and then she went back on it. When we first met, she was very thin. Now al...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she makes me feel like a map", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she makes me feel like a MAP (minor-attracted person)
She’s 15 but looks about half that (sidenote: I’m 16, not even a year older so I'm not an actual MAP). I want to be open with her, so I always tell her how I feel despite the fact that half the time she makes me feel like a child predator. I also constantly make jokes about her small hands, small size in general, and f...
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{ "description": "liking her text", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for liking her text?
I (33M) met a woman (29F) online. We had been texting back and forth (plus one phone call) for only a few days and finally made plans to meet in person. I confirmed the time that I was meeting my date by liking her text after she suggested a time that would work for her. While I was getting ready, she sent me texts as...
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AITA my friend is wondering
So today he was talking to a friend and his ex best friend started recording he and he hates being recorded especially since they were not friends anymore, so he put his arm around her throat and put a tiny bit of pressure and she gets up and threatens to curb stomp him and then kill him, and tells a bunch of people a...
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{ "description": "wanting more romance in my relationship", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more romance in my relationship?
So I am a sixteen year old girl from Denmark, I've been in a commited realationship with my boyfriend since i was eleven, since I am almost 17 that means we've been together for almost six years give or take. Our anniversary just rolled around and I wanna break up. See he didn't really do anything for me on our ani...
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{ "description": "not bagging my groceries", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not bagging my groceries?
My whole life I’ve always let the bagger or cashier bag my groceries. I just always assumed that was part of the service. When checking out with my girlfriend, she starts bagging her own bags and says I’m being an A for not helping. AITA here?
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{ "description": "following someone on instagram", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for following someone on instagram?
so I recently started going to college and there's this girl who I immediatly clicked with, let's call her Ashley. We talked alot in class and she then asked me for my social media. We then chatted for some time on snapchat and after a while we agreed to go on a date. The date went fine and we actually had alot of fun....
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{ "description": "not wanting to move to Pomona", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to move to Pomona?
TLDR at the bottom... My sister [18] has been going to a University out there and has been living in the dorms for almost the entire year but as soon as she starts her second year, due to the cost, she will be looking into apartments or housing outside of the University dorms. My parents are now looking into houses ou...
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{ "description": "moving out of my mothers house", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I move out of my mothers house?
This one is hard. Currently I'm living with my mother in a house her father bought for her. She is currently jobless due to her various syndromes that make it hard for her to work and is currently trying for disability. Currently I am the one of the two people in the house with a regular income, the other being her bo...
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{ "description": "refusing to see my dad even though it obviously upsets him", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to see my dad even though it obviously upsets him?
So my parents got a divorce around a year ago and, while my dad is supposed to see me a couple times a week, I'm 17 and I don't. I try to find excuses out of nothing just so I don't need to see him anymore. I haven't told him it's because I immensely dislike him as a person, but maybe I should? I'm hoping he'll get the...
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{ "description": "saying a kid who was autistic is autistic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying a kid who was autistic is autistic?
So this just happened to me I'm really surprised. Since it's a decently long conversation I'll just link the thing
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{ "description": "making my brother end his toxic relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my brother end his toxic relationship
So, here's the case: My (22F) brother (23 years old) has ADD, is overweight, does not care about his body hygiene and is socially awkward. So, he's not the type of guy, girls fall in love with. Still, he's my brother and i love him. So i was really happy when he told me, he got a girlfriend 4 years ago. His girlfrien...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my biological family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut ties with my biological family?
Throwaway because I will be discussing what's essentially my life story. ​ I’m 25 now. Growing up, my mother worked while my father stayed at home. Even though my father was at home, I cooked and cleaned for myself as long as I can remember. We lived on the country-side for a while where I thought our lev...
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{ "description": "disrupting the family group text", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Because I disrupted the family group text
I asked my extended family in our group text not to support Trump today. My siblings and I are the only non-white part of our extended family (that we actually see). I've held back politics from family for a really long time despite very strongly held beliefs because it's impolite and causes rifts. I know some of t...
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{ "description": "wanting to be number one for a change", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA wanting to be number one for a change?
AITA... just want to know if this is normal or I have some princess complex and am expecting too much. Myself and my partner have been together on 2 occasions... once 11years ago and we had our son and then separated. We then got back together 4 years ago and have a 2yr old girl. Our son is ADHD/ASD and am his registe...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my friend's success", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed at my friend's success?
So, my friend and I are in the same master's program. We both applied to PhD programs and she got into several while I've been rejected by about half of the schools I applied to. Granted, I might get into one, but I have a bad feeling that I won't. I've been stressing out because, even though I know I could work after ...
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{ "description": "calling people out who don't wash their hands after using the restroom", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for calling people out who don’t wash their hands after using the restroom?
I’ve done this twice in airports now. Just a simple “would it really *kill* you to wash your hands?” I literally see people come out of stalls after taking a gigantic dump— the kind that leaves remnants and skid marks— only to not wash their hands and proceed to touch everything in the vicinity. Able-bodied people who ...
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{ "description": "not wanting the best for some people in my life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting the best for some people in my life?
I'm not wishing hell on my enemies or anything extreme, but, even someone that just bug me, is it wrong to maybe, hope someone dishwasher overflows, or they stub their toe, or maybe their car breaks down?
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{ "description": "being upset with my husband for engaging with trolls on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my husband for engaging with trolls on Facebook?
My husbands favorite past time is getting into arguments on Facebook, most of them with very obvious trolls. Lately, it's been going a little too far and whoever he is arguing with will start posting his personal photos. I have body image insecurities, being only 90lbs, I'm trying to gain weight but it's a process due ...
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{ "description": "not spending time with my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not spending time with my mom?
So my mom has been in my life for maybe 10 of my 20 years? And that's being generous. For those 10 she was high or in jail for most of them. For the years she was there, my mom would steal my prescription medication just to get a quick high. About five years ago she got arrested for possession of marijuana. After she g...
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{ "description": "forgetting to text back my gf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for forgetting to text back my gf?
I've been with this girl for over a year now and i'm confident when I say that I love her. The issue is that just moments ago i forgot to text her. This is only an issue because we were on the phone together while she was playing video games (black ops3). I told her i had to go to the bathroom and she said "ok. OH HELL...
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{ "description": "being happy my best friend had a miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being happy my best friend had a miscarriage?
Sorry if this is long, I ramble a lot. I’ve known my best friend since we started high school and now we are halfway through college. We were both there for each other for EVERYTHING. Every milestone you could have in as a teenager into adulthood. I deeply care about her and I currently have uneasy feelings about her ...
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{ "description": "cutting off my friend who faked their suicide", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off my friend who faked their suicide?
So some backstory: I've known a group of friends for exactly ten years now. There was one friend in particular who we'll call D. D was very problematic and hated me in the early years but eventually we became close. I was one of the few friends D genuinely liked, as he manipulated everyone else. A few days ago, I rece...
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{ "description": "pursuing my friend even after she's said no", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 138 }
AITA For pursuing my friend even after she's said no?
(Throwaway because friends and family know my account.) A little backstory - I've known this girl for about two and a half years now. I'm 17 and she just turned 19. We meet via mutual friends and I've known that I liked her for a few months now. About three weeks ago I was completely honest and told her through text...
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{ "description": "canceling a commission", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for canceling a commission?
Hi there, this is my first reddit post so I'll try to be as descriptive as I can. So a few months back I had gone to an artist I really liked to ask them for a commission. They agreed and I started to talk to them about what I had wanted done. I tried to be as polite and friendly as I could as I one, really liked thei...
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{ "description": "grabbing my own wifes butt at a family bbq", "pronormative_score": 227, "contranormative_score": 44 }
AITA For grabbing my own wifes butt at a family BBQ?
Been married to my wife for five years. We are very comfortable around each other. I also love my wifes ass, and am still very attracted to her. It has sort of become an unspoken thing between us that if I see her cooking or standing with her back turned I'll playfully grab her ass, she will feign surprise and then gig...
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AITA: Roommate threw a party, someone brought a dog, I kick the dog and them out.
My roommate threw a party, and some guy brought his dog. 5 of us rent a house together, and animals are not allowed at all. He was invited, but never brought up the dog according to my roommate. Party goers were upset at me, even though we let the guy come back after he and his friends were done throwing a fit about it...
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{ "description": "being upset an old woman I didn't know touched my arm/shoulder", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset an old woman I didn't know touched my arm/shoulder?
Okay so awhile ago I made a post about the incident I'll describe below and besides getting down voted into oblivion a lot of people left comments that I was waking up deciding to be a victim and got called unreasonable and one comment that the mods deleted because it was so rude. So it's clear a lot of people didn't a...
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{ "description": "having major school drama circulate around me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For having major school drama circulate around me?
Ok, this is a little bit lengthy but I'll try to make it short. Alright, Here's what happened. So, I don't like this girl named Mercy(Not real name), she is very egotistical, rude, entitled , and bratty. She has a gaggle of followers who are basically clones of her. I don't like them either. So, the story starts wh...
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{ "description": "telling my wife to go to the back of the line", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 140 }
AITA for telling my wife to go to the back of the line?
My wife has a habit of doing this and I've told her in the past that it makes me uncomfortable so today I stood my ground. When we finish shopping at the grocery store, we will get in line and after a while she wanders off and starts picking up more stuff (mind you it's usually just one or two items, not a whole cart ...
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{ "description": "not letting my mom and sister visit me in my apartment", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my mom and sister visit me in my apartment?
I(21F) recently moved into an apartment paid for by my dad. I've realized that because my dad pays for it, it's not really completely mine. So if he wanted to come over I would let him(he never asks). My parents are divorced, so I don't feel like my mom has an equal right to do that. My mom called me to ask if she co...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship over my friend wanting sex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if i ended a friendship over my friend wanting sex?
Background info (pardon formatting. am on mobile): I'll refer to this individual as 'H'. H has s/o. H has been dating for a few years. Been friends for a tad longer than they've been together. Recently H seemed to be talking to other people always seemed loyal to s/o. I dated someone close to H, like very very clos...
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{ "description": "having a slip of the tongue and calling my girlfriend fucking retarded", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for having a slip of the tongue and calling my girlfriend fucking retarded?
My girlfriend and I have a very respectful relationship. We speak to each other very kindly, and always respect each others wishes. Just as a back story, I play a phone game that my girlfriend doesn't like (Think Farmville or Clash of Clans) and over the past few months she has asked me to not play this game around h...
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{ "description": "not being able to forgive my father after he cheated on my mom", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being able to forgive my father after he cheated on my mom?
It was around 4 years ago, I was 14 at the time (now I’m soon-to-be 18). My dad cheated on my mother with another woman, who also had two little kids (I have a younger brother). It was devastating for me, because we always had a special relationship, so I couldn’t accept it at first. He left home shortly after to live ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my brother's boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for sleeping with my brother’s boyfriend?
AITA for sleeping with my brother’s boyfriend? To make things clear, I’m a 17 year old girl (almost 18, senior in high school), and my brother is 18 and openly gay. His boyfriend is also 18, and I always assumed he was gay until now. They’re both freshmen in college. I’ve always been fairly close to my brother, and h...
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{ "description": "not going to my friend's birthday party cause of the dress code", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to my friend's birthday party cause of the dress code?
So my friend is having a birthday. Pretty good friend. Pretty much my only one after moving to a new town for college. We have been friends for about 4 years. Anyways, it's her birthday today and she is having a soirée. In the invite, it specifically says cocktail party semi-formal. Problem is that I really don't want...
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{ "description": "telling my sister her boyfriend can't come to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my sister her boyfriend can't come to my wedding?
Even though we aren't kids anymore, as my older sister, she still strikes the fear of God into me. Everyone keeps telling me that it's our wedding, so do what we want. But, as I'm sure most little brothers in this world will attest to, our choices could carry some heavy consequences. Anyway, I love my sister and want h...
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{ "description": "thinking it's weird my moms boyfriend is closer to age to me than hers", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I think it's weird my moms boyfriend is closer to age to me than hers
I'm a 17 year old Male and my moms boyfriend is 27. My mom is 38. Along with his multiple issues of anger, violence, not being able to function unless high, am I in the wrong to think it's weird that I'm almost adopting an older brother to some extent?
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{ "description": "snapping at my bf in front of his friends", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping at my bf in front of his friends? [UPDATE] (also, AITA for the new developments?)
Hi everyone. A few people asked for an update, and I found the time and energy to write one, so I thought I would make one, but **this is pretty long**. My original post can be found [\[\[HERE\]\]](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a1zy3p/aita_for_snapping_at_my_boyfriend_in_front_of/). TL;DR of that post...
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{ "description": "not telling my husband I accidentally killed his cat", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not telling my husband I accidentally killed his cat?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. ​ My husband has... or, had a cat which he adopted several years before we got together. We've since gotten a couple more, but he always considered that one to be his original fur-child. I loved her too, which is why it guts me to share what happened last week as I wa...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distancing myself from my best friend?
So I've been friends with this girl (we're both in our early 20s) since we were toddlers. We had our ups and downs in our friendship but always stayed by each other's side. There were times when I felt like I was her "side" friend - she had moments when she wouldn't want to hang out but that was mostly in middle school...
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{ "description": "quitting my Bowling Team", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Quitting My Bowling Team?
I didn’t like my job and so I joined a work bowling league to try to make some friends. I ended up switching companies shortly after starting the league and like my new job a lot. I’ve still been playing with my old work team, and there’s only 3 members per team including myself. I don’t work there anymore, I don’t f...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my brother due to him telling me he'll drive me to two different appointments and being late because he oversleeps", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting angry at my brother due to him telling me he'll drive me to two different appointments and being late because he oversleeps?
Im on my phone so excuse the formatting. So I don't have a car at the current moment and have been relying on my brother to give me rides here and there. I tell him the plans a few days in advance and make sure to remind him of the appointments the night before, as well. But now two different times, I've been late and ...
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{ "description": "giving a friend a choice on effort", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving a friend a choice on effort
Burner account cause friends know my main account Background, I'm currently a junior in high school, friend is a senior. We were real close friends for 3 years. This happened a couple of months ago, but a recent argument with someone else brought it up again and I've always been worried I was in the wrong. Now I have...
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{ "description": "emptying a tube of superglue into an old lady's tires", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for emptying a tube of superglue into an old lady's tires?
So this incident happened quite a while ago (around 5 years back) when I was in 6th grade and it was brought up recently when I told a really close friend of mine about the whole incident hoping to laugh over it, but he said it was an asshole move and that what I did was basically damage to property. So back then I us...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to look at apartments with me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to look at apartments with me?
It’s as stupid as it sounds, but I don’t know if I’m being an A or not here . I (37/F) have been with my SO (37/M) for a year. I’m currently house hunting. He and I have been unofficially living together and we’re both going to be moving into this place. He’s currently unemployed and has been struggling to find work. ...
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{ "description": "fake grabbing a spoon when I play \"spoons\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fake grabbing a spoon when I play “spoons”?
So I am pretty dang good at the card game “spoons” and one of my strategies is fake grabbing it so other people do and they lose. Everyone goes “dang Luke you jerk, that’s cheating” but the rules don’t say you can’t fake grab one. AITA for this?
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{ "description": "avoiding my in-laws house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I avoid my in-laws house?
My husband's great-grandmother just passed away, and he was very close to her. We live a couple hours away, but later this week we're driving up for the funeral services and staying for a night at a hotel. There's a wake and then a funeral the next day, and I know that in-between services, he's going to want to be at h...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she's not my usual type", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling a girl she's not my usual type
Been talking with a girl from tinder for about a week and a half. We've met up once, had an awkward first kiss, and have kept in medium contact over the holidays (around 2-3 texts a day). It's my first time on a dating app since my breakup a few months ago, and I've been having some decent success. However, I don't r...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have kids with someone with mental illnesses", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not wanting to have kids with someone with mental illnesses?
For the record, I'm currently single and have mental illnesses myself. My fear is that in the long term, if me and someone else with their own mental conditions were to have children together, I would be constantly on edge of both parents having a relapse at the same time, or at least severely heightening the risk of o...
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{ "description": "telling my adopted coworker they were a mistake", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my adopted coworker they were a mistake?
So I'm a student and work part time at the night shift at a very busy grocery store. A few coworkers and I like to show up half an hour early to work to play dominoes in the break room. A big part of us playing dominoes is the mind-game aspect of it. We like to confuse and insult other players to get them to lose their...
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