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tDLzrvO19XllrhgbGk8xgiQS0rjOjJnR | aq99zh | {
"description": "getting angry at my mother",
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} | AITA for getting angry at my mother? | A little context:
I am a 16 year old male.
I spent the majority of my Christmas holiday in Budapest, Hungary.
I was there with my mother and younger brother.
I only see my mother about twice a year as she lives in a different continent (my parents are divorced and I live with my father).
My mother has been a smoker ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
LbD0oajD3YyoocruXperSnWNsjjFa2F7 | a5b2y9 | {
"description": "not wanting to see my estranged dad",
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} | AITA for not wanting to see my estranged dad | My parents divorced when I was young. Went through the whole custody and visitation thing. Dad smoked weed around us (my siblings and I) when we were very small children (I was maybe 3 or 4) and would drink more than he should, was usually nice but could be verbally abusive. Called me one day and said “long time no fuc... | HISTORICAL | {
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Fl2mbZQ9Y3cKtWIugP6VOP0WnWTTYTfv | b3e37h | {
"description": "cancelling at the \"last minute\"",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for cancelling at the "last minute"? | My buddy (let's call him Joe) wanted to go away for a weekend for his 20th birthday last week. Him, I, and four other friends had agreed on this trip way in advance. However I had some stuff to deal with (school related and family related) so 7 days before we would have left, I told him I had to cancel. I was informed ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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kum0izR4xi3DFu8Mfo4mtgoopJzIP440 | afcpui | {
"description": "not telling my friend that someone he wasn't interested in had a crush on him when I was specifically told not to tell him",
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} | AITA for not telling my friend that someone he wasn’t interested in had a crush on him when I was specifically told not to tell him? | So I have this friend I will call M for convenience. Another friend told me that she knew someone who had a crush on M, but she would only tell me if I gave her my word not to tell anyone, especially not him. I said yes, because I was curious and didn’t think it would be a problem if I kept it a secret. So she told me ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
QJhBimRcK7U9D9qqmb99aHlYGWSgNRuE | b3tkn2 | {
"description": "calling my friend on her bs",
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} | WIBTA If I called my friend on her BS | K(26F) was always on the fringe of my college friend group. She's pretty socially awkward but she came as a package deal with S & was nice. She could've fit in, but her constant lying got in the way. Ex: We'd invite her to parties or bars & she'd pretend she was too hungover to go out. Sometimes she'd say she c... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
3EyB7srbTPfcYXxwrml2Rr9G7ChdaejV | akbl0u | {
"description": "going to Japan specifically after I had been told not to by my [hypocritical] club",
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} | WIBTA if I went to Japan specifically after I had been told not to by my [hypocritical] club | This story is a bit complicated.
To begin I'm 17 and an exchange student in Taiwan. While applying for the exchange process I selected my top countries those being; Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, and India. (In that order) the order is important because the club I applied through tried to give your top choic... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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dSbAOydSCBluGoPtLAiix8wAJv2lFoRh | b2i8xj | {
"description": "embarrassing a friend on his date because he didn't pay back the money he owed me",
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} | AITA for embarrassing a friend on his date because he didn’t pay back the money he owed me? | So I lent a friend of mine £500. He needed it to see him through til the end of the month and promised to repay me on payday.
Not a problem, I trusted the guy and knew he was good for it.
Payday comes and goes, no sign of the money. I sent him a message about it. He said “oh yeah, sorry I forgot, I’ll do that now”
... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
ek3XbNdP1OKcFY2RnuZhTM6DLqT2mAO9 | a6117w | {
"description": "not driving my sister in law home",
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} | AITA for not driving my sister in law home? | My sister-in-law (wife's sister) and her friend were out drinking, and invited my wife and I out to join them. The friend left, and my wife started insisting that we drive her sister home. Her sister lives on the other side of town, not close, and in the opposite direction of my home. I refused to give her a ride and... | HISTORICAL | {
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s84t6Rl4DTSjt7717xm2yRc6gCNvh1OP | amaspb | {
"description": "telling my friend that his religion is holding him back from actually living his life",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for telling my friend that his religion is holding him back from actually living his life | Ok. So from the title i'm gonna assume that i'm going to get ALOT of YTA's here but please bare with me.
So for context this happened maybe 10 years ago. late teens early 20s. Me and this friend (who ill call john) had been friends from school since we were around 15 years old. We had our group of friends and we were ... | HISTORICAL | {
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HpmJwhVtBuqTshTxgC14gnkflxFgI04D | a4s8n1 | {
"description": "not making art for my mom",
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} | AITA for not making art for my mom? | This is a bit of a two-part story, but both follow the same theme: it feels like my mom just expects art from me.
Story 1: the cow pictures
I spent about a month taking photos of cows and fully developing the film and prints myself. I was so proud and they came out beautifully. I took my project home to show my mom,... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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wVJm93zlxsZxHoMEfJ4rOCZ9LCw68vdA | b27rbq | {
"description": "ignoring my \"friend\" to study for an important test",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ignoring my “friend” to study for an important test? | So from the title I do sound like the asshole but let me explain
So my grandma (who I live with) has this friend who we will just call Steph and she has a grandson named
John. Since Steph owns a plumbing company we called her to ask for repairs (we paid for it in case anyone thinks we we EP’s / EK) and she said sure.... | HISTORICAL | {
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xtHMR88w8u1wHE4HOwzjUVESvs3tL0Kw | ahqwgv | {
"description": "feeling entitled to my Mom's money",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA For Feeling Entitled To My Mom's Money | A little backstory, I'm currently a college senior and I'm finishing my final year in school and I'll be graduating in December. When I was younger, may 6 or 7, my parents had a rough divorce that ended with my mom absolutely despising my father. According to my dad, my mother used $10K of my college fund to hire a law... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
wS8mSGmvlQvlnU8IU8Iu19evQVcAAKsH | a1bv3k | {
"description": "refusing to hang with an old friend until they apologize",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For refusing to hang with an old friend until they apologize? | Long post, beware. Will try a TLDR at the bottom.
First, some background, as this is kind of a long story. Bear with me please.
I [26M] used to be friends with "M" [23F] and was for some time. We even had a small fling which I cut off as I didn't want a relationship with her, and she wanted a relationship. Fast forw... | HISTORICAL | {
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53dgVzreZRlCEBj1b1GrKQrtLSx4YBbE | ax6ipw | null | AITA becouse i don't want to talk to this girl | Recently i started texting this girl and i thought she was pretty cool and she wasn't bad looking so we went out.
It was a cold day and she was late for like 40 minutes, i was already annoyed.
When she got to the place we agreed to meet,she looked completely different than on the pictures so i felt a little bit catfi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
1h5nq0pWNcEz22xNklMW5jLgwQNEuzbW | addhuw | {
"description": "not wanting to change my shifts",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For not wanting to change my shifts? | My work has 2 types of weekday shift - 7am to 3:30pm, and 10:30am to 7pm. There are also 2 weekend work from home shifts, 7:30am to 4pm.
When I started, I was allocated the earlier shift Mon to Thurs then also Sundays. Another girl who started the same time as me was allocated later shifts Monday to Fri.
Other girl w... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
bUzDHw30YQJUXe6yGFvHOSom1QycOWJq | b104j6 | {
"description": "resenting my Addict GF and telling her I have zero sympathy",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA For Resenting My Addict GF and telling her I have zero sympathy. | Basically I (27F) have been in a relationship with someone (30F) for well over two years.
We have had our struggles lately with the last year being an absolute nightmare. She’s very inconsistent, unpredictable, would ask for breaks randomly and then change her mind within a week for unspecified reasons. Recently she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
sPiyhWx421IqETnzylHl7LKpYDQbPLFS | ayq309 | {
"description": "texting my roommate to have the guys that sleepover to leave the same time as she does",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for texting my roommate to have the guys that sleepover to leave the same time as she does | My (21 F) room and my roommate’s (21 F) are connected with a single door separating us. So, we share the shower and bathroom (they’re in her room) . In order to go to the kitchen and the other side of the house, she needs to cross my room. Thus, no privacy whatsoever. However, she also has a back door in her room. Guy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 13,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
j28Ec0TmYohOCZfYltT8uqZ08KTE6d1U | as7lav | {
"description": "letting my friend meet with sugar daddies",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for letting my friend meet with sugar daddies | Sorry for formatting issues, I’m on mobile.
2 years ago my SO and I moved a couple states away. My [23F] best friend [22F] (let’s call her M) came to visit us. M is a free spirit, and loves meeting new people. She told me she wanted to sign up for an app, like tinder, that matches women with sugar daddies (SDs). I e... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
bMKtuwh4UWE4GFSMLL301zDMAWWSbt0j | a0oox2 | {
"description": "making my girlfriend choose between me and her guy best friend",
"pronormative_score": 26,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for making my girlfriend choose between me and her guy best friend? | My girlfriend \[20F\] and I \[21M\] are at an impasse over her guy best friend. For six months, my girlfriend received anonymous phone calls and text messages. The calls were from an anonymous woman who would say horribly personal things and threaten to kill me and my girlfriend. This went on for months and then she st... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 26,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 26,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
CLGf7WMSaYsbqovxl4pJZn3GE5IeMeZe | a76myi | {
"description": "not going to Christmas with the inlaws",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Aita for not going to Christmas with the inlaws | Tonight was Christmas festivities at my inlaws, our 6 year old woke up this morning with ear aches, headache, sore throat, cough, fever etc. Went to doctor got diagnosed with tonsillitis and ear infection. Got antibiotics and tylenol and my crazy running around 1 grader hasn't moved off the couch.
The hubs got up... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
SdQu5CbCujyQnkWBx4ywWc8TP8OyFdGu | a0shn6 | {
"description": "standing in someone's yard",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for standing in someone's yard? | So I'm a high school junior who has to ride the bus every morning with a bunch of middle schoolers, as my particular high school doesn't have it's own busses and just picks students up from middle schools. My bus stop is at a 4 way intersection where people tend to speed, so everyone getting picked up just stands in th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
mkxdTZESjJqeIyx8PWuNrdz84084iLRe | b1u8un | {
"description": "shouting at my mum after doing all her work",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for shouting at my mum after doing all her work | Ok, This Is A long one,
​
Im 14 years old and this week my mom broke her ankle, this left her in a big cast all over her leg, she can still walk but only with crutches. My Mum really like sto keep stuff in the house clean, like seriusly clean, she cleans when she doesn't have to etc... Because of her leg b... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
w5sw2HD5XX5IKPDAySyieS1YkLiGKHGu | b6o5q2 | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend her ex can't spend the night",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend her ex can’t spend the night? | My long distance girlfriend recently moved out from her ex-boyfriend/baby daddy’s apartment and into her own place. He regularly visits using the child as an excuse. He has never been this involved, even when they lived together. He drops in whenever he likes and walks into her home without knocking. She doesn’t ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
hOxNAqpifbi5uIkfcVGZBhs3SdLlo1KJ | ag1k0z | {
"description": "being upset at my mom for stealing food from Uber Eats",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for being upset at my mom for stealing food from Uber Eats? | Ok, so I want to start this post by stating two things: 1) I'm sorry if the title is wrong or confusing, english is not my first language and I had trouble making that sentence, if you could correct me I'd appreciate it. 2) I love my mom more than anything in this world, we've had some problems and we're going through ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
sae7uNq4VgzGIHl6SGOcVA1crza79QxL | ag8iqs | {
"description": "wanting to exercise",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to exercise? | Me and my fiance work night shift at a hospital from 7p-7a. We've been trying to better ourselves after work and trying to workout at home by watching Hasfit on YouTube (highly recommend them!) I've lost around 80 pounds and feel so good about myself. Well yesterday after work we both came home after a tough night and ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
SK4Y2bbxzDcW8vYmNmZ28PK8abTTrwL5 | b1jvue | {
"description": "snapping at another student",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for snapping at another student | We were doing student presentations in a language class, and they have guided questions. During a particularly slow presentation, while people were writing down answers, there would be a pause. During this pause there would be some mild talking which wasn’t very disruptive because the presentation was paused. However d... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
VgEDoXcK9gKMOfDinN9CKt99x12phj1V | b36s74 | {
"description": "gifting my son a large sum of money without doing the same for my step-kids",
"pronormative_score": 100,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I gift my son a large sum of money without doing the same for my step-kids? | My husband and I both came into our relationship with children. My child lives with us full time and I receive child support. My two step-kids live with their mother (one is in college now though) and my husband pays child support. We're all very geographically distant but everyone is involved to the extent they can be... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 70,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 30,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 100,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
RYi8AX13cRvV3Kt6w6vgDCFV4OZUPbT8 | a9k2sj | {
"description": "not staying at my girlfrienda mothers house over the new year",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I didnt stay at my girlfrienda mothers house over the new year? | My(27F) girlfriend's(F35) mother is extremely opinionated and I can only take so much of it. When they get together they bully others and me a little and tag team her mother's opinion so she's right. My girlfriend changes and becomes the mini-me of her mother.
She wants me to take 5 days off to be with her but won't ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
TQM1wcqnYA9oTYj9jgPnguPzFoLT0EmE | b1cp7e | {
"description": "having a casual relationship with an ex's housemate",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for having a casual relationship with an ex's housemate. | There's a long story involved, here it goes.
5 years ago, in college, I had a pretty serious crush on a classmate ( lets call her Alice ) , I got drunk at a party, asked her out ( over texts ), she turned me down. So I asked a different girl at the same party ( let's call her Jane ) out who said we should talk abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
5MYrnFdug29YDyTZoduuVsvHwhYgGKU4 | b7gv85 | {
"description": "not fixing problems she stopped acknowledging",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not fixing problems she stopped acknowledging? | My girlfriend and I (lets call her Jessica) had broken up initially about 8-months in after an arguement we had. After we got back together, Jessica said that I wasn't verbally expressive and emotionally available enough. I agreed that I should and would work on it and said that it was something that was difficult beca... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
Ds6uwN0P2SItbH9FvR7qeIDx9ZCrkFBT | aibire | {
"description": "trying to be change and be grateful for my wife's constant (obvious) advice giving",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for trying to be change and be grateful for my wife's constant (obvious) advice giving? | Wife constantly giving obvious advice suggestions, either from her own mind or from her super helpful parents, basically to the point of micromanaging our home.
Rather than getting annoyed and complaining as usual, I am trying to change my ways and be grateful, saying thanks, good advice, Now I am being accused to be... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
VPLYccgTGB2aHhZTcaX1iuxUWiAI3JAg | b6stp1 | {
"description": "not making my sister a burrito in the microwave",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not making my sister a burrito in the microwave? | So basically my sister asked me to do a favor for her and that was to make a burrito for her in the microwave. I would have gladly done it, if it weren’t for this. We have guests in the house. I don’t expect any of you guys to understand, but me and my sister used to go to a church, and we don’t anymore. It is very awk... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
7BrTIMd0JWWP7jBhhdTbqpytpoDrim2o | aqrqbz | {
"description": "leaving my boyfriend of a month because he's hunted as a hobby in the past",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | WIBTA if I left my boyfriend of a month because he's hunted as a hobby in the past? | My boyfriend and I met on Tinder a couple months ago, and have been seeing each other for about a month. Everything has been going great. We get along great, and he's great with my 16 month old daughter. While we've only been seeing each other for a month, I'd characterize things as "pretty serious", or at least headed... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
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"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | WRONG |
B2jqXfS3aHdHgJxiZT3nXmc3gGvKqTzt | aiudh3 | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to go to the grocery store by himself",
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to go to the grocery store by himself? | I'm a student and work part time. I often have homework after school and there are other things for me to do. He works less than 40 hours a week and doesn't go to school and refuses to go by himself. We decide on what we want beforehand so it's not like he doesn't have any ideas. When hes at home he sits and plays game... | HISTORICAL | {
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cJW4mBviPqLleWwZ226HTBhOwB9G613N | b0mw9a | {
"description": "stopping paying Parent plus Loan",
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} | WIBTA if I stopped paying Parent Plus Loan? | Buckle in folks, this is gonna be a long one. Throwaway for personal reasons.
Okay, so I have a massive student debt. About $110k total with about $65k in Parent Plus Loans in my mother’s name. I also have a baby on the way. Currently, I’m paying $600/mo toward the parent plus loan. I’ve asked my mother to reapply for... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rVWEzcSnrgs7XQCjx0A3PdWiBe964pZK | b3zr4b | {
"description": "asking delivery drivers to come to my door",
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} | AITA for asking delivery drivers to come to my door? | I used to deliver food for postmates just for a short amount of time so i can empathize with parking situations, busy streets etc.
I've noticed nowadays, a lot of drivers wont come up to my door, but instead call me and expect me to come out to grab my food. I would understand that to be the case if my street was dang... | HISTORICAL | {
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cK1K0ClapDZ9abrdm7p3Kyvn3E1kXQqg | a8zcop | {
"description": "convincing my friends to skip my friends dance performance",
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} | AITA for convincing my friends to skip my friends dance performance | So here’s some context.
I have a friend, let’s call him James.
James is a friend within our friend group of about 6 or so people. He’s on the dance team at our school and asked us briefly to go to his m part performance in a winter concert. In advance our friend group had planned an outing on that day. So when the tim... | HISTORICAL | {
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tojuzj5zt95qvxvTxXfgnXLgIumoH0kx | b9yuk7 | {
"description": "thinking that a face that unambiguously communicates disdain is not really better than using words to communicate disdain",
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} | AITA for thinking that a face that unambiguously communicates disdain is not really better than using words to communicate disdain? | I've been with my SO for three years, and a few months after we started dating, he started to tell me more and more often what bad taste I had in things, particularly in the clothing department. He shops at Nordstrom while I am quite comfortable shopping at Walmart, and, in the beginning, this was a nonissue. However, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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pEs67GGmz6lWMnLJpLeb257Hw0NLELGQ | 9y51z3 | {
"description": "being mad at that girl for not thanking me for my efforts",
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} | AITA for being mad at that girl for not thanking me for my efforts? | Ima explain the situation to you guys as quick as i can.
I work in a city about an hour from where i live so i have to get up at 4 am in the morning in order to show up at work at 7:15 am and get home at about 5:20 pm from tuesday to friday.
There's a bar in the town where my dad lives where all the people from my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1O8sgnSCFqZqjmvk4rQ64RWkrBB9oBI1 | ao2p60 | null | AITA of calling out my friend's questionable behaviour? | Ok so one night I couldn't sleep so I was just watching random shit on YouTube, I have a couple friends on snapchat and but one girl is what this story is about, so let's call her R.
So it's 12 AM and I'm thinking to myself, "damn I should get some sleep" so I check most of my apps to see if anything happened when I s... | HISTORICAL | {
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WvMDfhYHVah60QrLPlJhkOXk4In4JuGQ | ak88z3 | {
"description": "trying to cut my friend out",
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} | AITA for trying to cut my friend out? | First off sorry about Grammar
Second off I ,myself don't think I'm in the wrong,but others may have different opinions on it
My "friend" ,ill call them CF, and I met on the first day of school and we hit it off right away.
Fast forward a few weeks
CF and an another one of their friends are talking at CF locker and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Upqi2YAnDcxr7suqnqb6romUblXUaZsU | aet2z1 | {
"description": "not inviting a friend to play basketball with the rest of us",
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} | AITA for not inviting a friend to play basketball with the rest of us? | Ok so, one of my friendship groups includes 5 of us. 4 of us are into the NBA and basketball in general, and as a result we regularly play 2v2 scrimmages at a local court.
Now the other member of our group, let’s call him Todd, has no interest in basketball and therefore is understandably terrible at it. Also, Todd do... | HISTORICAL | {
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LiQkFXVJ7v6sUvioeTXP3SMb8QGFFDIK | b189jj | {
"description": "not loaning my grandfather",
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Backstory: my grandfather has a bit of a gambling problem. He has highs, where he buys us all expensive Christmas/birthday gifts (I got a new flatscreen from him one Christmas) and then he has lows where he's COMPLETELY wiped out, can't even make his minimum credit ... | HISTORICAL | {
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QeuD603vWCzBuCl6l6kZdUUzyWzuxqrI | accb62 | {
"description": "not liking the family dog",
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} | AITA for not liking the family dog? | So my wife and kids have wanted a dog for a very long time (wife longer than the kids) and I had always said no because I don’t really like dogs. My wife and I are both in our 30s and my kids are 9, 7, and 2. We’ve had the dog for almost 2 years now.
When I finally broke down and told them they could get a dog, I als... | HISTORICAL | {
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W9OX54k08rFq8Qrp5pkbPTkOWJ1rb0YO | b8qndq | {
"description": "dropping my gf off during a red light, not the spot she wanted",
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} | AITA for dropping my gf off during a red light, not the spot she wanted? | My gf has a broken ankle.
Because of this, I drive her into work everyday before I drive to my work, park the car on a busy city street, and help her out of the care so she can use her knee scooter/crutches. (as well as generally doing all sorts of other things for her as we live together- which I view as my respon... | HISTORICAL | {
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IpEyRrQ0dAZLnOX2BJ24VLC0dra9R4U2 | 9v1osi | {
"description": "talking to my friend about the fact that he likes to \"ruin peoples good time\"",
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} | WIBTA If I talked to my friend about the fact that he likes to "ruin peoples good time" | Sorry for the long post I am trying to include as much relevant information as I can.
Let's get a couple of statements out of the way.
1. I am a pretty blunt person, very type A, and am often considered the asshole.
2. I only care about what other people think of me to the extent that I use it as a self modifying ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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yR5cXmd0byAcuZXijz0KYhyPqB60ekAI | artvt5 | {
"description": "lying about my mental health",
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} | AITA for lying about my mental health? | A bit of background: I struggle with depression and anxiety. Sometimes I'm the happiest person in the world and others I can't make myself get out of bed for days at a time. I've had to medically withdraw from university before due to depression, and while I was gone I did some serious time with my therapist. Eventuall... | HISTORICAL | {
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bPY2GzgnOhLqflnXDbYj9k1eILSKF7dj | ap5jah | {
"description": "breaking things off with a guy with potential family and financial struggles",
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} | AITA for breaking things off with a guy with potential family and financial struggles? | I’ve (28F) been seeing this guy (29M) for about 3 months. Things were great for about the first month but slowly he starts to make excuses to not see me and all around starts to lack communication. He claims his mom is chronically ill, left his job and doesn’t have money, been busy etc etc.
We’ve had many conversatio... | HISTORICAL | {
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qoKuvXHA5XWkEBwjlpM1dLMSS2NjZV7G | atqiyn | {
"description": "being upset that my husband isn't calling me more",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for being upset that my husband isn't calling me more? | My husband and I were supposed to go on a vacation this week but on Monday, the day before we were going to leave, he got a call that his mother is in critical condition in the hospital. She lives in another state so he bought a plane ticket for the next day and we canceled our trip. I totally understood this and I sta... | HISTORICAL | {
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55BrmNq3WU9fIk94UP6nypn5SGNutVhZ | aye841 | {
"description": "neglecting my friend and being moderately racist",
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} | AITA For neglecting my friend and being moderately racist? | Okay, hear me out and form your opinions later, yes?
Okay, let's go.
So, I am the only American in a Turkish school and as such (These students are very patriotic.) people kind of belittle me and my country for no reason. I do not do the same, but I do sarcastically joke at the expense of some things that are r... | HISTORICAL | {
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4F4e1HEHZ8EQpJvlt4G1YjLi4VmVPrUp | b6n21q | {
"description": "wanting to kick out my bf, when he has nowhere else to go",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for wanting to kick out my bf (30), when he has nowhere else to go? | Weve been dating for 6 months, living together for 4. Since he moved in with me he lost his job and blew all his money on stupid shit. Meanwhile, ive been paying all of rent, groceries, necessities.
He sold some stuff of his so we could go to a nice dinner. Although it was nice, i wish it was used to help me. I have b... | HISTORICAL | {
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BQK9iGo3eYd8pq3CNlHsH6E7fcLQDDlS | b0d8e2 | {
"description": "using the 'n-word' in a college class discussion on the power and impact of words in minority cultures",
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} | AITA for using the ‘n-word’ in a college class discussion on the power and impact of words in minority cultures? | I’m a white gay male in the United States. I was in class at college, and we were discussing the power of words in cultures, particularly in minority cultures.
While we were all discussing the word ‘bitch’, a black female classmate voiced her frustration with “gay guys calling girls ‘bitch’, and because the guy is gay... | HISTORICAL | {
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rcPz44R7zKRjiLlD9gyGoRAixQDVzwOY | 9tawat | {
"description": "breaking up with gf",
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} | Aita for breaking up with gf | My gf and I have lived together for 8 months dating for over a year or so. things are good other then she just told me she gets cold sores.. (I thought it limited to mouth and gentials). She has from time to time gotten what I would describe as bad dry skin around her nose . Except this time it's a clear blister. I fee... | HISTORICAL | {
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lcUoiJoIpSRiiizlkkeqfVuDZeFPm3ew | ans3ys | null | AITA and not being "committed enough" to my work? | I work for a school district and commute about 35 minutes to work each day.
My area is in the midst of a snowy winter wonderland that has caused ice sheets over the roads and a ton of snow. Schools all over multiple counties closed on Monday and Tuesday, and they announced a delayed start for Wednesday. All the surro... | HISTORICAL | {
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GAtkpUAB95a6UsQnO10G2Kic93z2Ac5J | 9zaivt | {
"description": "not playing along with my daughter who identifies as a mythical creature",
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} | AITA for not playing along with my daughter who identifies as a mythical creature? | TLDR: My 15 year old daughter says she is a creature that she found by watching/reading Harry Potter. I've banned all Harry Potter related material and have canceled a planned family trip to Universal Studios . My daughter is having a meltdown in response but I'm not budging. Am I the asshole?
My family moves a lot du... | HISTORICAL | {
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fAWtPjTNwvdh6vKJGPxGPgB9tWtfBw9S | af0q5r | {
"description": "refusing to date someone with baggage",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | WIBTA if I refused to date someone with baggage? | First of all, I am not doing any sort of victim-blaming nor am I discounting the feelings and effects of people’s negative experiences. I am also not saying that people with baggage are unworthy of love or automatically bad relationship material.
To clarify, when I use the term “baggage” I mean a potent... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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c084C8GnfKi0CLySRwdemQk7GSogCzKT | a28q7k | {
"description": "not wanting to drive",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | aita for not wanting to drive. | so I suffer from anxiety and when I have panic attacks I can black out and slump to the ground.
because of this I've decided to not drive as I dont want to put people in harms way.
I can get nervous just being in a car so I know driving is a no.
everyone that has asked if I have my license gets mad I dont have it. my... | HISTORICAL | {
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SFFZsd81RT3whIKf3C75i3fCJNuFdOZ7 | a54w1g | null | AITA - Personal hygiene | AITA for constantly making sure my SO puts on antiperspirant in the morning?? I try to do it nicely, sometimes it may come across as mean if I get home and he's ponging. I'll literally point out to him that he smells really bad.
Almost every day I'm reminding him to put it on, and when he does he doesn't even spray it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
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rFgGPZq8pMvvGlJWJAg2CyTGMG08WcBO | ayfssr | null | AITA Work Gloves and communal microwave | People are pissed at me, I work for a company that rhymes with ibs. This February was extra cold my hands would not warm up so I would put my gloves in the micro to warm them up. Someone found out and told almost everyone now they're all mad except that it not unsanitary to do that. Am I a hole for doing this. I stop... | HISTORICAL | {
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hnffE7JgKCBT9Idz25tGs1dg1xz4J44R | ae2gpg | {
"description": "saying my mom is wrong",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for saying my mom is wrong, | This might seem strange as argument's are common especially amongst family. However most of our arguments are ended by them saying they are right because they are older and know more. The current argument is the ringworm on the bottom of my foot. On the abti-fungal cream and all sites I can find it says to use for two ... | HISTORICAL | {
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ucJ63RhZr1H3tTZEr63a1rcBsBAfR08K | 9x7fzh | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend of almost 3 years for nudes",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for asking my girlfriend of almost 3 years for nudes? | We are doing ling distance because she went to college with her sister while i stayed behind to work full time.
We call each other every night and i rarely ask her to send nudes, and i don't ever expect her to send them whenever i ask, but she like gets personally offended when i do ask.
She thinks i only like her fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 17
} | WRONG |
4Tr49oUuS9WVW58AYsAvxkYQ9UI5DNvK | awqnjm | {
"description": "blocking an acquaintance on Snapchat",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for blocking an acquaintance on Snapchat? | I have known this person since elementary school although I never considered us friends. After highschool we hung out a coupleof times with mutual friends but again I still never considered us close. He started inviting me to meet up for dinner or coffee frequently and I would make excuses until I felt guilty and went.... | HISTORICAL | {
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l2tAvUvegxSFwgkymJJIc7dfQzfmzE1W | b4ijt3 | {
"description": "using a chaning room with other people's stuff",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA Using a chaning room with other people's stuff | Am I the arsehole/asshole for using a changing room full of other people's property?
At my UK gym the ladies locker room is co-ed for boys, girls and ladies. I am a lady. That means you can't shower and dress and be naked in the area between showers and changing areas because mothers feel weird about naked women in fr... | HISTORICAL | {
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OBb6G6okCYj6S4b8tyfAlKFABiHBFrsl | 9wqwlk | {
"description": "ordering a $300 office chair",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA for ordering a $300 office chair? | My boss has been pushing for me to find a new chair for a month or so, because the one I have is falling apart/very ratty looking. Well I finally decided to go look for one on Friday & chose 3 options in differing price ranges, although he said money was no object.
The cheapest & (most uncomfortable one) w... | HISTORICAL | {
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l1Hf8w5RlD9pHP48TPwMSaXPDPTHeP1P | azuz6g | {
"description": "snapping at my mom",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for snapping at my mom | AITA for yelling at my mom? I’m not usually the type to disrespect my parents or elders or to confront anyone. My parents have been going on small vacations for the past 2-3 years every few months to go to bars in other states. I’m under the legal drinking age, however my brother is 23 so he has been allowed to drink f... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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HfewWO0qHm7zkcCzx3RQLDeG7c1kfPvv | b6t1ve | {
"description": "not going to my grandfathers funeral",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA for not going to my grandfathers funeral? | So here’s some context; All my life my grandpa has been somewhat of a dick, but I didn’t care. About half a year ago he was diagnosed with cancer and he’s been on medication since.
This week he was messaging his ex-wife when my grandma, whose the sweetest woman I know, wanted to see his messages, perfectly reasonabl... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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q4Emt0TjmJ5EkzDBM4ktWvjvijo5eJFV | aqdkht | {
"description": "not committing a girl because she has slept around a lot",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for not committing a girl because she has slept around a lot? | I (23M) have a fuckbuddy relationship with (22F). We've been seeing each other for 6 months or so.
Prior to her, I'd only slept with two other girls, both of which were committed relationships. This is the first time I've had something other than that. It's strictly sexual. My fuckbuddy on the other hand, says she ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 10,
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} | WRONG |
RrsZ9RpQTtJGXk3YCySZyXm9pMWqDwtI | b2zmfz | {
"description": "booking meeting rooms meant for studying in, even though I'm usually alone",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for booking meeting rooms meant for studying in, even though I'm usually alone | Posting from an alt account, sorry it's kind of long.
My school has study rooms in the libraries that I always book to study in. They're fairly large meeting rooms that can fit about 4 to 6 people comfortably, but because my friends and I are on vastly different schedules, I usually end up booking and studying alone i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 27
} | WRONG |
nJKdYy2RMQCaSQPlZzyyTTbWFoo342aT | av6mzh | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for the whole meal on a date with a girl I'm on my first date with",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not wanting to pay for the whole meal on a date with a girl I'm on my first date with? | Entirely hypothetical situation
Say that I, a male, am on a first date with a female, whom I recently met through a friend, dating app, or what have you, and we are going out to dinner.
WIBTA if I didn't pay for her portion of the meal?
I pay for my chicken tenders and grilled cheese, and she payed for her chicken t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
AiWrWc49zvY70z0ERevdZltVdVLYSH7p | acbyud | {
"description": "feeling insecure about my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For feeling insecure about my girlfriend? | So we are currently in a ldr, she[F18] lives in a city with one of her best friends who is a guy. When we first met she had him as her profile picture on insta, I[M18] eventually asked her to change it. I felt kinda bad about it but it was still pretty weird. This guy[M16] doesn't seem like a bad person, and ive spoke ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
jUTMS8qJIeVreblnnaUNce2RGCmMCKRT | aa1qpw | {
"description": "making things more complicated when loaning money",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for making things more complicated when loaning money? | So for background, I'm a 21F and my friend (we'll call her Kat) is a 20F. We're both in college, and she has a job, I have an internship.
I loaned Kat money in the amount of close to $1,400 so that she could buy her "necessities" for college: a new laptop and a new phone. Now, I only loaned it because she promised sh... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
IHVrl9mEoOurs3aWBT7qSeQs4NHUeBma | akp0so | {
"description": "wanting to end a relationship because of his depression",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to end a relationship because of his depression? | I've dated this guy in the past and he recently came back into my life. When he did, he was in a better place (he suffers from depression) and seemed to have improved himself a lot since we last were together (about a year). We're in two different states so we've been hesitant about jumping into a relationship, so we'v... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XklKuVRnLon6SPozWOJ2McYqsAU6k3vX | ac8f4m | {
"description": "being angry that my SO keeps telling me i´m autistic",
"pronormative_score": 31,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being angry that my SO keeps telling me I´m autistic | On multiple occasions, my SO will tell me that I´m autistic, that I need help, and that she is going to get me this help.
For background info, we both have people diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder in close family, and we have lived together for 2 years. I have been tested as an adolescent during the time my sib... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 31,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 31,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
t1W5qdbxeHPM26FAbo4bh9w1w3uXf5qU | avgfnb | {
"description": "not letting my friends bring weed on our vacation",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not letting my friends bring weed on our vacation? | Hello all, first time reddit poster so I apologize for any mistakes.
This spring I planned a trip with a group of friends and my SO to go to stay in a cabin for a few days. I was the one who searched for the cabin and initially paid in full the 350 dollars for the cabin. Due to this, my debit card is the one that wil... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
BOVCC7IYhNTGP46xdHLrQajRyzxUrAQd | ax1e5a | {
"description": "having a girl who loves me as just a fwb",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for having a girl who loves me as just a FWB | AITA I have had a girl who I have been seeing a Friends with benefits thing for over a year who said she loved me.
I know that sounds horrible but shes very childish and cant hold a conversation for more than a minute. I did tell her from the beginning that we would never date and I would never love her in that way... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 6,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
B2wteIeyNZbmsON05oCNwR5YTSwcCVjg | agq09p | {
"description": "not putting up with anyone's shit",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not putting up with anyone's shit? | Once upon a time, I dated a girl for 2 years and she was my first significant relationship. During this relationship she was mean, threw fits whenever she did not get her way, berated me, and on a few occasions got violent against me. She was a bad person I should of left so much sooner than I did, but I was young and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
NRohHsP2Ebk9CYbJ0zFCidutNElKYIUV | agaw0d | {
"description": "ghosting a good friend of mine after they ignored me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ghosting a good friend of mine after they ignored me? | So, backstory as this happened awhile ago but it still kinda bugs me to this day over whether it was the right thing or not.
I used to have this friend, let’s call her Vicky, and I met her through a mutual friend and we got along famously. We had great convos, always laughed and enjoyed ourselves and whatnot, to the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
yIr8dFw9jpRqKPpIGHCZnU82GzYh1LPZ | adt5bg | {
"description": "getting annoyed at my in laws constantly forcing me to figure out math problems during normal conversation",
"pronormative_score": 32,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for getting annoyed at my in laws constantly forcing me to figure out math problems during normal conversation? | Background is that I’m not a huge fan of mental math (would prefer reading and verbal conversation) and my in laws have this annoying habit of including weird hand signals and math equations during normal conversation. For instance, I recently asked my MIL how old she was so she asked me how old my mother was so I told... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 28,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 32,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
fDs4UdAIOeqdGxY7TLWb4bdxiqyqkDTS | ax81h1 | {
"description": "calling the sheriffs office on my neighbor for parking in front of my house",
"pronormative_score": 24,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | WIBTA for calling the sheriffs office on my neighbor for parking in front of my house? | WIBTA for calling the sheriffs office for my neighbor parking in front of my house?
We moved into our house in June. According to the HOA, and the police dept says people aren’t suppose to park in the street. The streets are narrow and school buses, and emergency vehicles can’t get by when people park in the street. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 24,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 24,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
yzePyfmJ6kDgTebMS0Kr1GQUdDUUg9eA | ahh4q8 | {
"description": "refusing to sleep in the same room as my fiancé",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for refusing to sleep in the same room as my fiancé? | We have been together for around 5 years. The past 3 years he has gained a little weight which is no big deal other than the fact he snores incredibly loud. His father has sleep apnea and I believe he does to. It sounds like a chainsaw cutting down trees that stops only for a few seconds and continues with vengeance. H... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
9cc6jm8D6PEYJytBGG33FbqqBHQERlna | ab2518 | {
"description": "not liking my parents",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not liking my parents? | Im 15, asian (korean), live in California and in highschool. The title is slightly misleading, and I dont exactly not like my parents, I dont like being around them. Forgive me for making this a messy post, but I dont know how to correctly format on Reddit. ill try to make this as nonbiased as possible
I dont like my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
CTtgxQ2fpHBMJLNGikW5qqpRbsTuzX2z | abhu9b | {
"description": "getting pissed when people talk to me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for getting pissed when people talk to me? | I have Schizoid Personality Disorder. I
am fine with tLking to people nondirectly like reddit but I get incredibly mad when people try to strike conversations with me and will not stop. The only people I ever even considered a friend and was close to close to is my new adult foster home provider and my therapist. Un... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 4,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
v9I5ldzd4gsbraQjLHK18mHYpGAthZ7s | awns8w | {
"description": "reminding my tattoo artist how much he charged me for my last two tattoos upon getting another",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | WIBTA if I remind my tattoo artist how much he charged me for my last two tattoos upon getting another? | I’m getting my third tattoo from the same artist tomorrow and wasn’t sure if this would be a rude thing to bring up.
I met with him for a consultation last week and he mentioned that my tattoo would be one to two hundred dollars. It’s going to be about the same size and detailing of my other two tattoos done by him. ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
3tk4ckjbYJjKfc5iCdazNcggoI8G6cv4 | ad0ef0 | {
"description": "not wanting my partner to go on a Disney World vacation without me",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my partner to go on a Disney World vacation without me. | My partner and I try to go away on holiday together but he has better leave benefits which has resulted in him being able to go on overseas holidays that I have not been able to get leave for.
It has been difficult at times to see him do new fun things without me and I have spoken to him about it many times. but I am ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
qlHLN18Lgc0G2s5O0FGc8sM6Eah71CiO | b7ftpb | {
"description": "taking a girl's laundry out of the washer",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for taking a girl's laundry out of the washer? | This is not as exciting as some of the other posts on here but am I the asshole for taking a girl's laundry out of the washer and putting it on top of the machine (which was clean) when all the other machines were taken? She started yelling at me and telling me to apologize and that I should have put the laundry on the... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
ajqwDzCly9JMttwT1dK6591O02x2FYRj | b5qu5g | {
"description": "not wanting to work (professionally) with people who've excluded me from their group",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for not wanting to work (professionally) with people who've excluded me from their group? | some background, im a newish (9 months now yikes) developer at a large company, a couple weeks after i started the company had a new hire picnic sort of event, and I went met some people they seemed chill. One member I met invited to a get together over the weekend, and it was pretty much a board game night, we all bro... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
E0RS4J9u13dMMp2FjbYvNo5svgKj6k2E | a6tley | {
"description": "thinking my boyfriend should tell me when he uses stuff",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for thinking my boyfriend should tell me when he uses stuff? | I know that headline wasn't terribly clear. What I'm trying to say is that he's constantly going in my pockets/purse/bags and taking things that I've hidden for a rainy day. Now, I feel like all our things are shared, so I am NOT upset that he is grabbing cash or smoking some of our "out of sight, out of mind" stash. I... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ePkVF4CsjTm03LQG2z979f31fFBBKa84 | ab1v93 | {
"description": "being defensive about my activity on social media",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being defensive about my activity on social media? | Long post. Sorry if it’s a rant. Obligatory “I’m on mobile.” This just happened so I’m really overwhelmed.
I just wanna start this off by saying I’ve had one of the worst weeks I’ve had in a long time. With severe health issues, family drama, and personal stuff, I have been on edge a lot. My friends know this, and th... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XRrtKLJuHDx01N3fphagO6nGiwr7KTXD | acwfxw | {
"description": "not wanting to change my weekend plans to see a movie because my girlfriend changed her plans last minute",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to change my weekend plans to see a movie because my girlfriend changed her plans last minute. | So the story is we were supposed to go see a movie (special theater, old run, so not normal movie schedule) earlier in the week but our schedules conflicted so we moved it back to Saturday.
Friday night we are on the phone to finalize meeting up and I say are we going to the movie tomorrow. She responds oh I forgot t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
sGPGtLs1pGYFoAxCYn7QGM6qtC0MCyzI | b9mjaz | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend that I wanted to run away",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my boyfriend that i wanted to run away | So since i was like 9 i've always wanted to basically start over my life go somewhere where no one knows me and i can have some alias and no one will know about the shit i've gone thru
now i've almost decided that i want to do this for 1-2 years after i graduate college
my bf hates this tho. we're both pretty insecur... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 2
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XPtwpjVOue51W2gEXp5pHkVvuUXwgm6E | b0ymk0 | {
"description": "wanting to talk about animal rights with my korean friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA For wanting to talk about animal rights with my Korean friend? | My friend and I were just on our way to breakfast, and I randomly asked her what animal rights were like in Korea. She then proceeded to tell me her grandad used to hunt to eat, survive. And I said, great, I completely get that. But what about nowadays? What do modern people think about hunting? And she got quite offen... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 7,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 3
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
Pb61McblTLLJqAZLP19fIlcr4yGi7FjX | b9ggbw | {
"description": "not inviting a friend to a holiday for lying",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I didn’t invite a friend to a holiday for lying? | Please bear with me, it’s quite long.
A bit of context: I’m in the second to last year of high school. My grandmother, the sweetest person alive, lives in a cottage cottage by the sea but she won’t be there for a couple of weeks in June-July because she’ll be visiting a friend. Since these dates coincide PERFECTLY wit... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
HdO3XcC6gapGBxgmOQfn3O1XpFEDudvK | ahy8bm | {
"description": "giving up and going home when I couldn't find my friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | Aita for giving up and going home when I couldn't find my friend? | We were five minutes away but his directions made it tough for me to find him ("by the stone bridge").
I texted him to ask for a location pin - he replied with a screenshot of apple maps showing him. WhatsApp makes it easy to open a location pin in Google maps so I asked for one and he refused (for privacy reasons he ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
2mcQfkRCFY1IdOM22RM9raHRL7HoXxYv | 9xi7iz | {
"description": "thinking cum rags belong in the trash",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 12
} | AITA for thinking cum rags belong in the trash? | So i sliced my thumb open preparing dinner- nothing serious, but i didnt want to get my hand wet washing dishes- so i asked my fiancee to help by washing the dishes while i took out the trash, recycling, and other kitchen related stuff.
The recycling was overflowing, so i took the trip outside to empty the inside bin... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 12,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 12
} | WRONG |
YzSN3suFAFHO5E8CEV0Tkn3JJ6yb5Zcz | admo4z | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my family gatherings",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to go to my family gatherings? | Please help me figure out if I'm the asshole in this situation. I sure feel like one, my friends tell me I'm not one, but I'm hoping for input from outside sources.
I wasn't able to make it to my family's house for Boxing Day because I had to work, so they decided to do a Christmas/birthday celebration this Sunday. Ev... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
et8yroDQg9hGgXvCNcSukz2Lgky5auiK | aqgnns | {
"description": "staying up all day Saturday and trying to sleep in Sunday",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for staying up all day Saturday and trying to sleep in Sunday? | There is some context to add.
I’m 22 years old, recovering drug addict, with over 250 days clean, but with a criminal record and I live with my parents.
My parents are strict, and one of their rules is when the suns down you sleep, when the suns up you’re up.
Last Saturday I stayed up all night playing video games (o... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 5,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
q0m7L0Vg4pzVT2EoIybHAzObA0C7Jo0u | avssbf | {
"description": "keeping my feelings a secret",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for keeping my feelings a secret? | Last February I discovered that my husband told me he was working late when in fact he was having drinks with an ex girlfriend. I was angry and hurt, and also began to question every other time he told me he was working late, or going out with the guys. Before this incident, I trusted him without question. He was ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
mNk6wlHyN7qh6FDVo3Bn51ztzpnr7Y5r | b0v42b | {
"description": "blowing off my niece after she said I smelled bad",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for blowing off my niece after she said I smelled bad? | I guess it’s more like, WIBTA. I come home from work and go into the living room to talk to my 17-year old niece who’s visiting from out of town (I’m 41, in case that matters). She immediately says, “Eww, you need a shower!”
Mind you, I take a shower every day. It’s true that I walked home from work, but it was onl... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
xGv6FMhOOLMkdTsV4bwggBmV76I5mHk4 | aq252g | {
"description": "being upset with my boyfriend's grandma",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset with my boyfriend's grandma? | Yesterday was mine and my boyfriend's 3 year anniversary and his grandma is mad and doesn't like me because I wasn't able to see him. A little background... I just started a respiratory program in school so I knew my schedule was gonna be busy and my parents are both live ins for their work so I also take care of both ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
A381NjlLAFD18w9ia1cY59SmI1MBplg8 | atzljq | {
"description": "not wanting to help my fiance anymore",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to help my fiance anymore? | TL:DR Fiance of 7 years has been seriously depressed for over half a year straight now, every time I try to help, talk or be close to him he says I am wrong in some way and things are my fault, and it is starting to really suck the life out of me so much that I am even thinking about breaking up.
​
My fian... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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