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TaU3CvN0m5ZHEUR4CDB3kU76KtOzjQwk | adkc7w | {
"description": "being too tall",
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} | AITA for being too tall? | I’m 6’6 and whilst this might not be crazy tall it still seems to be enough to warrant a situation where almost everywhere I go a stranger will approach me just to ask how tall I am. I can almost guarantee that every other week or so people that I have never met before will either make a passing comment about my height... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my friend's mom that the autographed picture she gave me is a fake",
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} | WIBTA if I told my friend's Mom that the autographed picture she gave me is a fake? | (TL;DR at bottom)
Weeks before my birthday, a friend asked who my favorite actor/actress was. I had a gut feeling she was going to do something amazing with whatever name I gave her; having them wishing me Happy Birthday on Twitter, for example. I had no idea that the gift from her Mom would be an autographed picture ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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TnMwIRXIr5ajTsafTApizmYrFBZSVPHB | 9zozv5 | {
"description": "using the warranty on a product that I broke by accident",
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} | AITA for using the warranty on a product that I broke by accident? | The title sounds pretty benign, but the way people reacted on reddit made it seem like I was doing something way wrong and I still don’t understand.
So what happened was I broke some computer parts in my PC when I was drunk - the motherboard and the GPU. I basically got some liquid on some components and they stopped ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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"description": "driving the speed limit",
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} | AITA for driving the speed limit? | This isn't a single conflict but rather a continuous thing. My commute to work is a 35 minute drive, and most of the drive takes place on a two lane (one each way) highway with a 55 mph speed limit. The road is not divided, and there are several long straight sections, so passing is fairly easy on this road. The road i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "thinking of ending things with my boyfriend who isn't as financially sound as I am",
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} | AITA because I [f24] am thinking of ending things with my boyfriend [m27] who isn't as financially sound as I am? | Have been thinking about this for a little while now, and it'll probably go down in a reddit garbage bag, but I need some opinions.
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I probably have had what I would consider for myself the toughest few years so far in my life. Debt was just one of the *minor* issues let's say. Lived in overdraft for abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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5XoYekeb76aYWqbDsrDfWakLdgZh7tmc | alocwf | {
"description": "not wanting to give my father last of my savings so he can spend it on my grandfather's care",
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} | AITA for not wanting to give my father last of my savings so he can spend it on my grandfather’s care | My grandfather was taken to hospital 3-4 months ago to the hospital because he was having a hard time breathing. He was moved to ICU same night and stayed there for 2&1/2 months and after New Years was sent home.
He came home with a breathing machine attached to his neck and a feeding tube in his stomach and has o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not getting a wedding gift",
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} | AITA for not getting a wedding gift??? | AITA.
One of my employees was getting married and she sent me an invitation. I had only been managing this particular location for a month, and I did not know her prior to transferring to the location. Instead of attending a strangers wedding, I sent her a card with a short hand written note congratulating the bri... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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zYng54OTv4mqID4L7tYI1f2i7XkQT6dd | aa00xa | {
"description": "leaving a restaurant without paying for my meal",
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} | AITA for leaving a restaurant without paying for my meal? | This happened about ten years ago, and is not something I've done before or since. Was also a fairly unique circumstance.
Service was normal and the food was fine. I had every intention of paying and of course tipping her at a normal rate.
Asked for my check at the end and she brought everyone elses but not mine. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
2KG2TsIF1N4ZpjkEozqDTBqx8DfCH01P | ar4bi5 | {
"description": "leaving this note about a low hanging branch over the sidewalk",
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} | AITA for leaving this note about a low hanging branch over the sidewalk? | Hi!
I’m his letting you know that you might want to get your tree by the sidewalk trimmed. A few kids have hit their heads on the low hanging branch while walking to the bus, and I’d hate for someone to get hurt or made about it.
Thanks,
(First name and last initial) | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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LMvh5ZIUBtQJM0ITYemUwcBso1JnU22Y | aa68z7 | {
"description": "not liking my sisters boyfriend's kids",
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} | AITA for not liking my sisters boyfriend's kids | She hasn't even been dating this guy for a year. She still lives at home with our Mom. Her boyfriend has two kids. I'll try not to rant about my sister and keep to the subject at hand.
We'll call her boyfriend Fred. Fred has two kids, somewhere between 6 and 10 years old. My sister, Sue, has been dating him for about ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
XHrJAcCZ9cdNlLiu2jZe5Io8IrpueyXI | 9vi2fh | {
"description": "overreacting and getting a kitten killed",
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} | AITA For overreacting and getting a kitten killed. | A friend invited me and 4 other people to his party. His mother and father rescue dogs and cats and foster them. After eating and watching a movie we played truth or dare. It was a girl who'll we will call Alissa who technically started it. It was her turn and she asked a friend. Let's call him Tom to take Disney (A 5... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
fIroue9CMePZD5bzpvykVFJyJihde5o1 | aso6r4 | {
"description": "not kissing my wife after she ate Durian",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not kissing my wife after she ate Durian? | So a few minutes ago my wife and I jumped into bed to sleep, and when she reached over for a kiss goodnight I declined. It wasn't a super rude no way, but I did try to play it off as a bit of a joke with "Oh no, no thank you. You ate durian! Haha." She got quite angry at me and won't speak to me after saying that I alw... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
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} | RIGHT |
awipxV4UC6WwbBet9cW7X22zfkbHPRyI | b569ht | {
"description": "going to a party instead of hanging out with my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for going to a party instead of hanging out with my girlfriend? | (18f and 18m) I posted about this previously before it happened. Yesterday, I had a plan to go hang out with some buddies at my friend’s gender reveal party for his kid. At the same time, my girlfriend was telling me that she was going to want me to hang out with her, even though I had already planned on going to the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
X9csQHaQSgiJjqlz6kLv7hJDf4nAWyHz | a7iwc8 | {
"description": "not wanting to celebrate my mother's birthday",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting to celebrate my mother's birthday? | Less than half an hour ago, my father, my mother, and I were sitting on the couch in the living room. My mother's birthday is coming up (on the 20th) and that seemed to be the reason of the following conflict.
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We were discussing the plans for her birthday so I told the ideas that I had come up with. My i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
hCswEHnRo3GZraxFXrsxOJDxFnQqH2bK | ba4fx1 | {
"description": "defending my girlfriend against a drunk neighbor",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for defending my girlfriend against a drunk neighbor ? | The title seems like it would be an easy answer. Apparently, it's not.
I love with my girlfriend. She's in the process of selling her house. A few months back, a family rented the house next door. They've been horrible. Very rude, loud, ton of people. He owns a construction company and always parks his big work truc... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
PwHbuZlz4bknt3o9zyWS97LaP4nWVcgF | 9u3p96 | {
"description": "accidentally falling asleep",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for accidentally falling asleep? | So last night my girlfriend was at my house, but needed to be home by 12:30am as she still lives at home and her dad usually wants her home at a specific time. Last night however, her dad was out playing poker, which he’ll usually play until about 3am.
So we just made cookies, were watching Netflix, it’s about 10:45 a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
dCgjcd0BqfMS0lkF0czRo4s0cJdaqNPJ | a9xacl | {
"description": "not wanting to be at home while in laws are being hosted",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to be at home while in laws are being hosted? | I have been with my husband for 4 years. He is from a different country and culture who speak English as a second language. I am very family oriented so have tried very hard to integrate as I got married by being as friendly and open as possible with my in laws who I see on average 4/5 times a year. His mum is adorable... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
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"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
HWR3EiMUmpoMZGk78mrYGePhpFw2zTLO | aahdov | null | WIBTA in this AIRBNB Review | Okay so, for starters I am someone who does not like to put other people down or hurt people's feelings. *Because of my deep insecurity and constant need for validation from others which brings me to this post*.
So I just finished staying at this gorgeous airbnb. I totally would have given it 5/5 stars and left like a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
C4LKGftyHkehjOaQdtADbaMw99RIxB0A | a1k4kt | {
"description": "telling family member (BIL of sister I don't really speak to) not to come back to work after he called out sick on his third day",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA For telling family member (BIL of sister I don’t really speak to) not to come back to work after he called out sick on his third day? |
Basically, I have a business and always hire seasonal help. I heard that my BIL was out of work. I don’t really speak to my sister because she’s really dysfunctional and was abusive in childhood. I have forgiven her, I just don’t want her in my life. Anyway, I heard from another family member that her husband was out... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 3,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
C0Z0V2AjZ7TwmDY6EFum6J3nXDp67Jl6 | b6xeok | {
"description": "lying about being a Navy seal",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 32
} | AITA for lying about being a Navy SEAL? | To preface: I’m not sure if this belongs in this sub but it’s a dilemma that I can’t stop obsessing over.
I’m currently active duty Navy serving with a small boat team out of Coronado. My job is basically to drive fast boats with big guns. The training pipeline I had to go through is very similar to the SEAL pipeline... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 31,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 32
} | WRONG |
wMvSHxNnZUjPMU2yhcc1PCHR0nt3oHTi | b4qg2u | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with an old friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with an old friend? | My old friend and I were only friends because we were both bullied. Ever since we have hung out (age 8) she has only ever said negative things about other people and never really talked about nice things or things we both like. She was angry at me a year ago because I wouldn’t make plans to meet with her.
I didn’t w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
zYbEIv9IR2zrBK6ALl4FRGjos4rkdddX | b43ip7 | {
"description": "silently fighting over the thermostat with my coworker",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for silently fighting over the thermostat with my coworker? | We work in a city which is known to have a cooler climate than the surrounding area, due to the topography, and it's been a bitter winter so I've been dressing in layers to stave off the cold while I'm out, but we have a big wall-mounted heater unit, so my innermost layer has been pretty much just comfy t-shirts. And r... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
YwYXwowLwbq9gBt6Q3GBDQ32o74pYiHz | b8tbe8 | {
"description": "not letting a former addict join my friends and I for game night",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for not letting a former addict join my friends and I for game night? | So my friends and I meet up once a week for game night to play various table top games. We were at another friend's house and my friend asked when we were meeting up this week, this other guy we know overheard us talking and joined in and exclaimed how much he's always wanted to play DnD and asked if he could join us. ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 9,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
prq3YuFYKomtk4VBgU2ea1P2w5ZqWc5U | axzjyt | null | AITA gf asks me to stop using steam due to controversial game coming out. | This morning my gf told me about this game on steam that's coming out that's about hurting women. Now I haven't done much looking into it but it sounds like a messed up game to me and the creator is trying to push the boundaries of what's okay to make and put on steam. So naturally my gf asked me to stop supporting a c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 97,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 28,
"INFO": 3
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 125,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
JDtUSPzaRMcdrHIjRG42cdHl8v0vfqgN | 9ywm9a | {
"description": "telling my dad to fuck off",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my dad to fuck off? | So I am a 17 yo boy, and as a lot of 17 year old boys, I've never really had any serious relationships, and I still am a virgin. Now up until a few months ago, this really bothered me, but everyone was telling me that it was okay. So I decided to step on the path of self improvement, and that's when everyone turned aro... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Ogt5SGPsyglwihZB2kpNDqbU2FaLoduL | 9ueh3g | {
"description": "cutting things off",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting things off? | Background: Met a girl off Tinder, and hit it off pretty well. She had some stuff going on involving being a unicorn for another couple and a weird situation with another guy resulting in police intervention, all of which happened before we dated but while we were initially talking. About 2 months into us dating she go... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
TWx78wrE3CvSXItI8iclWZleSI1FHsIU | b6phfz | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend due to her inability to have sex",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend due to her inability to have sex? | We've been together for almost 2 years. She's 23 and I'm 24 now. We had great compatibility in the sense that we could handle decision making and disagreements maturely while also being silly and adventurous together. Soulmate material, right? Unfortunately, throughout the 2 years, we never had penetrative sex.
In the... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 2
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
QehSmDiy3Zd0NiXcGButi7ZtuSrqZ8bc | aloh1r | {
"description": "refusing to borrow my brother money to help a friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For refusing to borrow my brother money to help a friend? | Earlier tonight I had gotten into a bit of a loud back and forth with my brother over lending his friend money. First I should start by saying I am already owed over $700 from him that I'm yet to see a dime of.
This friend of his had decided to fly to Pennsylvania to meet with someone she has been told cut out for mo... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
up0Jhz9RxT00J1ppw78W2cfehwqWltBP | b3ltwa | {
"description": "throwing \"organic waste\" (chicken bones, orange peels, etc.) out the window while I'm driving",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 41
} | AITA for throwing "organic waste" (chicken bones, orange peels, etc.) out the window while I'm driving? | Not sure if "organic waste" is the best way to put it, but it is the best I can come up with.
It was something that I was raised doing. My grandfather always told me that animals could eat it so it wasn't littering. Littering was more compared to throwing plastic or inedible waste, which all made sense to me. | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 41
} | WRONG |
4yRzfQihuGXgUClUjK8UOXVOtU2MLmqK | azk54o | {
"description": "not forgiving and forgetting",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not forgiving and forgetting? | After I turned 18 my 4 other siblings were put up for adoption. My mother has completely changed and has tried so hard for the last 3 years to get my siblings back. Demon Child (DC) has stopped her at almost every turn. I am the oldest and she is one of the middle children (number 3/5). She was 14 when they were taken ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
k63OdJprI2ifTk82QW2NZIuBSVjOLiKd | b29gwh | {
"description": "talking to his mother about an argument that we've been having",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 13
} | AITA for talking to his mother about an argument that we’ve been having? | I’ve been married for about two years now. It’s been amazing. I love him more than ever. I’m ready to start our family. I’ve talked to him about this and he’s been noncommittal about it for the most part. I know he wants kids too, but he just keeps putting it off. His go to excuse is that he’s not where he wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
QjwlRvBqVhb62eiYOY0bKs3rDUxdqQW4 | b0h8xs | {
"description": "not returning my drywallers scaffolding",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not returning my drywallers scaffolding? | Hired a drywall crew for a house I build for myself (i'm not a contractor, just built my own house). He was nice, i liked him and they did a good job.
After the job was "done" they left some scaffolding they were going to come back to get. A week or two after they were done, i noticed that they missed a few things... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
jeXaE7fTMDZnBJUX2PjSYqc0xG8Hbim7 | arvqss | {
"description": "breaking up with someone because of their best friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for breaking up with someone because of their best friend | Sorry for the bad format I’m on mobile all the names below are made up
A few weeks ago I asked out a girl let’s say Chloe and her best friend Lily was devastated. Apparently she had a massive crush on me and was obsessed with me and it was all she would talk about to her friends. She knew my number plate where I live... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
7Mjijt3XCKQeCm5iZwUJpI4o8OVQ2fEq | a9wuub | {
"description": "stopping being empathetic/sympathetic to a friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA because i stopped being empathetic/sympathetic to a friend? | So, I was friends with a former co-worker up until today, because apparently I bug her with trivial things, and "don't care that she has real problems going on".
So, I have a former co-worker (I'm a guy, she's a gal, yes, I'm the type of guy who doesn't mind female friends, no I'm not gay) who used to be quite mean... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not being excited for my sister-in-law's baby",
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In 2015, I started working in a family owned bakery. The owners were an older couple with a 28 year old son, A, that managed the place. The owners spend most of the year outside of the U.S. every year so A was the one running things. He was recently married to a sevente... | HISTORICAL | {
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s8zlrGVmMwWImpZHkKBM7vIKLLW5mgQy | 9t7qbb | {
"description": "changing the locks on a joint storage unit",
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} | WIBTA If I changed the locks on a joint storage unit? | So, in September a lady that I do small clerical type jobs for asked me for a favor. I normally help her organize her things, she’s is a MAJOR hoarder of paper and antique furniture. She asked me if I would put a storage unit in my name for 30 days (30 days only cost $1, after that the price is $240 per month). She had... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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XKYDa4BsmyoLFra5TAFSPCL1xWAkyv4T | b7crc5 | {
"description": "buying my sister an album in exchange for house work and now she wouldn't hold up her end",
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} | AITA I bought my sister an album in exchange for house work and now she wouldn’t hold up her end | About two weeks ago my sister came to me and asked me to buy her a new K-pop album. She usually comes for me for money because I have a job and our parents won’t give us any. I agreed and told her that she would have to do three weeks of dishes to pay me back $30. She also agreed to this.
One of the weeks inc... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZzsJ37d9VfosRKsX5bIvubvTLZraY1nL | a8qqhv | {
"description": "being in an poly relationship, but not allowing my girlfriends to have sex with other guys",
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} | AITA? I'm in an poly relationship, but dont allow my girlfriends to have sex with other guys. | I'm in a poly relationship. Im seriously dating two women. Who I would marry i would. We all live together. They are bu but dont have a relationship with each other they dont find each other attractive but are best friends. They both have flings off tinder with other girls 90% of the time they dont see the girl more th... | HISTORICAL | {
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tckW922XMsIfgFhXig1Lg00Jt7AkNJgJ | a8q58d | {
"description": "telling my mom she's not my mother",
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} | AITA for telling my mom she’s not my mother? | I currently attend college and have a job at an after school program. I also live with my mother and younger sister who works at a fast food restaurant.
My mother has made it clear time and time again that she will no longer help me with adult problems. Which is why I do not have health or car insurance at the moment.... | HISTORICAL | {
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aLU0X371pz5eYrx0ZQvs7eNYdQXYzNV2 | akrfxr | {
"description": "being frustrated with my manager",
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} | AITA for being frustrated with my manager? | When I was hired I told them I had a difficult schedule because I work another job and go to school full time. They said no problem they would work with me. So every week a manager texts or calls me and I tell them my availability for the week. I have never been on the official hard schedule. So suddenly things have ch... | HISTORICAL | {
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FkaWFslcsjk4wSxnerTE6HsYQmF1vDpj | b76ioe | {
"description": "giving a fake number",
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} | AITA for giving a fake number?? | I was at a party the other night with my family and as we were chatting, this random person came up to us wanting to talk. Okay, we think, we’ve had this happen already what’s this guy have to say. As he’s talking, I just think something’s... off. He only talks about his interest in D&D and how anti social of a per... | HISTORICAL | {
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V7qHiupUWsadnTFcon3qKES3tPc2zEbz | azh7y1 | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being mad at my boyfriend? | I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He's currently on spring break from college. All of his friends bailed on him except one. He was offered to stay with one of his friend's house in New York. The problem? His friend's a girl. He's never given me any reasons not to trust him. I don't trust... | HISTORICAL | {
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UQERCBSv8PVDvDktgcb8GmrE3dXbAp4v | ayy4bn | {
"description": "telling someone that using someone else to hurt me is wrong",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling someone that using someone else to hurt me is wrong? | So there is this coworker of mine that I asked out a while ago and she turned me down. I was fine really and I understand why she turned me down at the time. Eventually a sort of banter developed between us and it was kind of fun to be honest. Then she asked out one of my friends right in front of me which I just k... | HISTORICAL | {
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izs54aagsEpJ0Ygz5kRg2D7bU2EE6cQ6 | b9ii97 | {
"description": "telling a trusted friend another friend asked me for nudes",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA for telling a trusted friend another friend asked me for nudes? | I (f16) was asked for nudes from my close friend (m18) who I think of as a brother. He brought it up as a complete joke, and since we have joke flirted with each other in the past (of course he knows it is a joke, we've discussed an actual relationship in the past and he decided he did not want it, and I was in a commi... | HISTORICAL | {
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4BPfsAYhKAJ9YIys2CXd3MCkz6RZfD0E | asp0qf | {
"description": "trying a new game",
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So a few months ago I came to the group of friends that I play dungeons and dragons with and offered a new system to play. This new system is more number crunchy and than d&d so I offered to read the whole manual (close to 600 pages) ahead of character creation (referred to as CC) to get a bette... | HISTORICAL | {
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3P5tQEHUclKZZaWRWOMcfsZyShv3ZFas | ak9tp3 | {
"description": "not helping warning someone about a health issue",
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} | AITA? I can't help warning someone about a health issue. | AITA? I have a condition called Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Its not well understood by most doctors so typically people with this condition rely on each other to better understand it and its treatment. I've met a lot of people online with the condition via groups where we ask questions and exchange advice
There is one g... | HISTORICAL | {
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IE8FyeRC0KhUYwHmlGSxbxxPdzVu76ie | adxnor | {
"description": "falling out with a best friend who said I need more friends",
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} | AITA for falling out with a best friend who said I need more friends? | So, I'll start with some back story...
Me and the friend have known each other for about 3 years and are on the same uni course so we typically see each other quite a lot and became pretty close over the time. During this time we've obviously done quite a few things together outside of classes, like pretty much weekl... | HISTORICAL | {
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3f12UGLaLL8wNrwyrAbTXSuQ0ylD9yNn | acqi63 | {
"description": "now wanting to go to the movies with my girlfriend and her entire family",
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} | AITA For now wanting to go to the movies with my girlfriend and her entire family | For context my girlfriend and I are 15 at this point and had been dating for a couple months. All during our one together she would keep dropping hints about how she ants to grow old together and how serious she wanted to be. This freaked me the u k out at he time as I was just looking for a casual high school girlfrie... | HISTORICAL | {
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mwQUliRy0itPhASoLqZBdYI4WyCOyqIH | ao2ybz | {
"description": "being angry after my best friend cancelled on me for her boyfriends brother",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being angry after my best friend cancelled on me for her boyfriends brother. | Soo first post and on mobile but I really have to get some objective opinions on this.
So yesterday my best friend and I had planned to meet up. I have been going trough some personal shit and really needed support and was looking forward to seeing her. We planned this a week or so in advance. So about half an hour be... | HISTORICAL | {
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RDKdbe6LH2yYfQnw4tx4xJ7QPen76WrA | ayvhc2 | {
"description": "putting more value on my job than my fiance's",
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} | AITA for putting more value on my job than my fiance's? | Two years ago I made the decision to go to grad school in Richmond, VA to eventually get a better job in my field so that I could travel and not worry about needing a job so much, as well to be at the top of my profession. My longtime girlfriend decided to not move with me but instead stayed in NYC because she liked he... | HISTORICAL | {
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MmUao3X3xGJKflUhoRYQbKoaphX6mrYP | b477h3 | {
"description": "telling my female flatmates to stop talking about hot guys",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for telling my female flatmates to stop talking about hot guys? | I (19M) have been on a dry spell recently. And it's making me feel really low. My friends (both 19M) are trying to help me get laid but honestly I think my looks are just too bad. I'm clearly ugly and therefore I can't participate in the hookup culture.
So I was playing Xbox in my flat living room and my female flatma... | HISTORICAL | {
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zZuHURqJ9E9pElMzXVEYeT9i4YChrruX | b279yq | {
"description": "wanting to sleep",
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} | AITA for wanting to sleep? | I’ll try to keep this short. I work till 1 am every weekend. My partner usually works at 8am so I have to get up with our kids usually around 7-7:30. He was off this weekend and I let him sleep in Friday and Saturday. I just wanted to sleep in Sunday morning because the weekends wipe me out, I have to take care of our ... | HISTORICAL | {
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uQuZWp2B0JKyqT48YpXCgWpDNYkK8oIb | awowij | {
"description": "selfishly wanting more out of a relationship",
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} | AITA for selfishly wanting more out of a relationship? | So this girl and I are "FWB" according to her but really it's just a casual open relationship. We snuggle, hold hands, talk about deep stuff, and have fun hanging out outside of sex. We act like a couple, not two friends who also sleep together.
We go out about once a week because she says she doesn't have enough time... | HISTORICAL | {
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qGNcvReo7g9OtnQVkowtrF93jc4SL1ni | ba2z2n | {
"description": "telling my whole soap opera of a friend group to f**k off",
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} | AITA for telling my whole soap opera of a friend group to f**k off? | Long post and ill try to be as concise as possible while providing as much info.
so Jasmine [F21], Jack[M21], Jenny[F20] are part of my friend group there are others but Jack has been my best mate for 20 years.
jasmine called me in tears asking me if she can come over and talk about some stuff, naturally i said sure ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WCeMbfT1WA5xFkA7ARY7qXdJgNYvrfmr | a8r3mq | {
"description": "not wanting my family to press charges against the emts who accidentally killed my uncle with neglect",
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} | AITA for not wanting my family to press charges against the EMTs who accidentally killed my uncle with neglect? | tl;dr >!uncle died because he refused to go to the hospital and my family is suing. I don't agree but I keep being called an asshole now!<
To start, I'm not using a throwaway because my family doesn't know my reddit account and if they find it, they know my stance on this matter and it's their own damn fault if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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oiVb2Fg3uJ0nuTh9hnJMyJ3WOVEXscUs | aw6g42 | {
"description": "abruptly dropping a decent woman from my life",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for abruptly dropping a decent woman from my life | This happened a couple years ago but I still feel guilt about it. Maybe four years ago I dated a woman for 3 months. She was by far the most beautiful, intelligent and successful woman I'd ever been with. Also, the sex was insanely good. It was clear to me (and probably her) from the get go that I was way more into he... | HISTORICAL | {
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ODzQXUgSa553sjQgO3qVOm6Ee0TEyPVG | b9u3tv | {
"description": "not doing the housework while WFH",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for not doing the housework while WFH | So recently I have been WFH (working from home) due to feeling a bit under the weather, and not wanting to pass anything onto co-workers.
However, my girlfriend seems to think this is a perfect opportunity to do some housework, since i'm at home. But since i'm working, I do not have time to be cleaning up/washing up.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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DgQclVwpbq1wKRP6Ja5t80TD63BJQ6ee | azr2xk | {
"description": "abruptly ignoring someone Ive known for years",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for abruptly ignoring someone ive known for years? | So im a senior in highschool and I've known this guy since I was in like 7th grade and for the past few months I've been noticing more and more how much of a bully he is.
He calls this freshman (he doesn't know) names, shoves him around, and makes fun of him for dancing or mumbling in class. It's annoying. I've told ... | HISTORICAL | {
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maSKeyDxJN2omz1AtBPUNij57AdKdxqD | arq8na | {
"description": "valuing my sister's happiness over my mom's life",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for valuing my sister’s happiness over my mom’s life | Kind of a long story but I feel like the background is needed. Please bear with me...
My mom is an alcoholic / addict and has been for as long as I can remember (I’m 25F). But to be honest with you, idk how many people could live her life and not be.
She’s had a rough life. She was married to my dad, who is a literal... | HISTORICAL | {
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SVucBBRS8AgAo23XwJJbJufmIY8rQIap | ace843 | {
"description": "getting mad at my online friend over a video game",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my online friend over a video game? | This is my first time posting here, so bear with me.
I have my steam profile up on a website where you play the party game Mafia with other people online. One of my close friends on said website saw that I play a game that he also plays (terraria). He contacted me and thought it would be fun if we play together.
I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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lKN1QUtoUfh825ZOdPyx10eQilaQrRI4 | af4j22 | {
"description": "not wanting my wife to be a surrogate mother",
"pronormative_score": 83,
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} | AITA for not wanting my wife to be a surrogate mother? | I kinda feel like an asshole here but I want to know what you guys think. My wife's best friend is having infertility problems and none of the treatments are working. She asked my wife if she could be a surrogate out of the blue and after days of thinking about everything she decided that she's gonna help her friend. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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cHk3g2N92cJY3HZOqAPXFnDr2K2ZhEEj | 9uldjv | {
"description": "saying no to going to formal with someone",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for saying no to going to formal with someone? | This boy who doesn’t go to the same college as me asked me to his lacrosse formal which is this Saturday. He’s the roommate/teammate of my roommate's boyfriend and we’ve only met in person once. Since meeting, we would snapchat a little, but lately not frequently at all.
He mentioned the formal to me a couple week... | HISTORICAL | {
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LptI9qcuyGZqvGYh553g5Zw0DQCm6f9I | b25chj | {
"description": "snoring wife",
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} | Aita...snoring wife | For waking her up cause she snores so bad that she keeps me up. I have ear plugs in and still can't sleep due to her snoring. I woke her up and said babe you are snoring so bad. She got pissed off threw a pillow at me, said fuck it I'll sleep in other room. Will say I slept great for 3 hours afterwards. | HISTORICAL | {
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eVifsvlRiPIGmx2RrO6DBU8cSsLCbqgw | as25z1 | {
"description": "telling off my ex-girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For Telling Off my ex-girlfriend | This event took place around three years ago but it still to this day has made me question my character and thought I’d share for some emotional relief.
I was in a year long relationship with this girl who I met from a guitar class I took Highschool. She seemed super cool at first, we shared a ton of common interests... | HISTORICAL | {
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QWjMOiIhGQbHs1H9wmt4jmtjPM5d1qV6 | av9xgr | {
"description": "breaking off a toxic friendship",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For breaking off a toxic friendship? | Okay, so backstory. I was friends with this girl 3 years ago after we went overseas for college. We really bonded and I thought I had a friend.
So fast forward about a year or so and being friends with her litterally felt like I was a mirror. It was always "take pictures of me" "wow I'm so hot" "me, me, me". She woul... | HISTORICAL | {
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i1YRObIJ7y4cgI06xwJmSlNvgg4DsBl3 | atqj5w | {
"description": "getting pissed off at my wife's best friend for bragging about constant travel and materialism? my wife thinks I'm just jealous. who's right",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for getting pissed off at my wife’s best friend for bragging about constant travel and materialism? My wife thinks I’m just jealous. Who’s right? | My wife’s friend takes a holiday every other month. Caribbean, Mexico, Europe - all over. Big travel budget. When I hear them talk on the phone - it’s almost always about the next holiday, or a new purchase. And she will also include brand names when discussing purchases. Just annoys me to no end. It’s also contagious.... | HISTORICAL | {
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qFpKa72rPeoncA0ZOfnq1y1tuKgGSgs7 | 9ufvlz | {
"description": "being dissatisfied with my long distance girlfriend cutting contact with me for a month",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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Some background: my boyfriend (M30) and I (F25) have been together for 3 years. I'm in medical school and my boyfriend is in finance, so we both have pretty crazy schedules. Also, things have been tough lately sinc... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being for being unsure of my marriage and letting my fiance know about it pretty late",
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"description": "preferring my son does not grow up to be gay",
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Now today my sister and I somehow came across t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to go on a family holiday",
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I live in the UK. I have two children who will soon be two and four years old. Before my oldest starts school (this September) my wife and I were planning on taking the children to Florida for two weeks to Disney World, etc. This was to be timed so that we went at a quiet (ish) time of the year outside ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WIBTA If I Disobey In-Laws? | Long story short, I store my summer car at my In-Laws during the winter, in their backyard, and appreciate them allowing me to do so. Now this is the third year of winter storage.
Year one, no issues getting the car out when I felt it was right.
Year two (Last year), it became a heated argument because they felt I ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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6NFafFnpQmTimwVVFZkLQbQ6iMvuMIS3 | a3br20 | {
"description": "asking this guy why he ghosted me",
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} | WIBTA if I asked this guy why he ghosted me? | So I meet this guy. We hit it off really well, he seems really into me. We talk all day every day for over a month and things are getting intense. He tells me he isn’t seeing anyone else and doesn’t want to be seeing anyone else. Literally does a 180 after that. Pretty much he stops replying and seems to completely los... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "telling my friend that he is the most toxic person I know",
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} | AITA For telling my friend that he is the most toxic person I know | So about 6 years ago I met my friend, he moved to my town and started going to school with me, and he wasn’t very sociable and was shy. Same person as me so I quickly found common ground with him in video games. So one day we exchanged PlayStation names and started playing Minecraft for multiple years had a world whate... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making my boss who lost my iphone earpods to replace it with a brand new earpods",
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} | AITA for making my boss who lost my iphone earpods to replace it with a brand new earpods? | So here’s what happened. One time my boss asked me if she could borrow my earpods for work purposes and I made an excuse that I left mine at home, next day she saw me using it so I didn’t have any excuse and let her borrow it. Fast forward she came to me and told me she lost my earpods. Apparently, someone stole it whe... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "letting my parents know they ruined my night",
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} | AITA for letting my parents know they ruined my night? | If you ask them, yes, they’ve been screaming at me all night. TLDR at the bottom. I am a 20 year old female, my parents are letting me live rent free and started paying my car insurance because I am saving to move out this year.
My parents were out at the casino when I got home from work around 10. After eati... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "snapping at my fiancée",
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As a bit of background, my fiancée and I are both trans, and we're expecting a baby in 8 weeks.
My fiancée is bipolar, and unmedicated. She blames her insurance lapsing a while back a lot of the time, but refused to actually make an ap... | HISTORICAL | {
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915yyuYz0re9HZf6QquU2FQKcrLH4K6s | avyj8k | {
"description": "not paying my suspicious insurance",
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} | AITA for not paying my suspicious insurance? | AS A PREFACE: I know I just posted about my medical bill; this is completely unrelated, but sort of similar.
I'm gonna keep it short this time, cause I'm having a rough day.
My insurance company for my car stopped billing me during my coverage. I didn't notice until I got a huge bill on the mail *6 MONTHS LATER*, als... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to spend spring break away from my parents and with my boyfriend instead",
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Basically, through 2.5 years of college so far I have spent every break with my parents. This spring I would like to spend my 1-week spring break with my boyfriend. His birthday will be d... | HISTORICAL | {
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MTg3u1uphCv2jYekLAxjHXmwXv38Huof | avyauv | {
"description": "going on a roadtrip without my boyfriend",
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} | WIBTA to go on a roadtrip without my boyfriend? | So my 21st birthday is in a month, and it happens during spring break. It's my last year in college, so I wanted to do something to celebrate. I've been with my boyfriend for a little under 2 years now, and we were planning on going on our first road trip during this time. Our original plan was to go to Zion national p... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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UBm9fwHFPlTmG7zLSk4jOyBAzstsDObV | aymswv | {
"description": "being pissed both sides of my family never really invite me on vacation",
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} | AITA for being pissed both sides of my family never really invite me on vacation? | I am a 25/F. My parents have been divorced since I was two years old. I grew up with two families but never fit into either side of my family. I was always different. No one else was born from both my parents like I was. I’ve known both my step parents for 20 years.
My dads family is very wealthy and they constantly ... | HISTORICAL | {
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eltdseGGxQTHhpccqyjmthczmcUrMdpb | ad321w | {
"description": "changing my Microsoft password",
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} | AITA for changing my Microsoft password? | So a little bit of backstory: my step-brother lives at my dad's house, which I go to every other weekend. Him and I received an Xbox One (OG) back in 2014, and it's stayed at my dad's since then. He's been using my Xbox account to play with his friends since then, and I have only used my account here and there on my 36... | HISTORICAL | {
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gcCYO6FNyd2PLE1d1ppduafmMaz49z0L | axf7lh | {
"description": "cutting off friends",
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} | WIBTA for cutting off friends? | I am in a class that requires a mini group project and a main group project. At the beginning of the semester, my two friends and I agreed to be in a group for both. Groups could be max three people. So the mini project comes along and we all do an equal share of work. No issues. A week later my grandpa passes away and... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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GS1KDEKIwvyg4NP7wLmVIycoCl9KAuJ8 | amf9sp | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend to listen to Freebird when I broke up with her because it basically explained what I was going through",
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} | AITA for telling my girlfriend to listen to Freebird when I broke up with her because it basically explained what I was going through? | Don't really feel like getting into details, but she seemed pretty mad when I said it. | HISTORICAL | {
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rLwJ1gYb9fN0KuurpR853ytYySas8ZwG | azn8ev | {
"description": "not tipping",
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} | AITA for not tipping? | I recently went into a chain hair salon to get a haircut. So I check in online, head over, really nice lady cuts my hair, we talk a little about movies and plans and stuff, everything goes great. Great haircut, looks good, I have every intention of tipping 20%. At this particular establishment, haircuts are $15, so 20%... | HISTORICAL | {
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T2JtGPkVhoQZcHUDbc6hDpNprOQl3iDt | aglzhx | {
"description": "saying something",
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} | AITA for saying something? | I'll make try to make this short. I \[M50\] recently got transferred to a new unit (IT) within my uni. I was in academic system support, so I worked with a lot of sensitive egos, so I know when and where to use certain language and am very sensitive to workforce diversity. The workplace I work in now are a bunch of... | HISTORICAL | {
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ECFxzK7Md9Eg6PhMjFoSHZz0NqGp9hPY | b36g3j | {
"description": "kicking my brother out of our house",
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} | AITA for kicking my brother out of our house | Ob= older brother (not related)
M=mom
Mb=moms boyfriend
(Backstory) ob got out of jail after 1 year for a car crash and just recently got out and works at subway (this is important later on)
Ob at the time of writing this is 18 years old and started to live with us again in a small room in our house. When he got ... | HISTORICAL | {
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hJyiFL301oFW1iiFhnGKTdg9KZayF0LG | a5sp03 | {
"description": "dropping a friendship that was tainted by the other person's actions",
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} | AITA for dropping a friendship that was tainted by the other person’s actions. | So my best friend of 7 years started dating my ex-girlfriend after they both promised they would never date each other (I didn’t make them make this promise). During their relationship he never owned up to it and constantly lied about it. While she tried to guilt me and make me feel like a d-bag because I didn’t approv... | HISTORICAL | {
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bMXPwSXJTUfFYXpJ8Ouuyd6dFzqpicum | addn9l | {
"description": "not wanting to intervene the fights between my mom and my sister anymore",
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} | AITA for not wanting to intervene the fights between my mom and my sister anymore? | Context: I’m 17 and from a Mexican-American family with divorced parents, but live with my mom, younger sister (14). and older brother. Since my parents’ divorce though, I’ve felt the need to step up as a somewhat head of the house due to my older brother not caring about the happenings in our household, and my mother ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qfeWgtHTUwC7xxzaOZidHRlFXauUm7w5 | b0s1gf | {
"description": "being annoyed that my boyfriend doesn't want me to dye my hair",
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my boyfriend doesn’t want me to dye my hair? | I’ve always had wacky hair colours, I’ve done every colour of the rainbow, even half pink half purple. It’s how I like to express myself. I also used to have quite a few piercings in my ears and my septum and smiley done, I took these out at the beginning of the new year as I decided to do the whole ‘new year, new me’ ... | HISTORICAL | {
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DA8RxuAgMqZ4GlGNwWmkfq7i5DPo5622 | 9zza0a | {
"description": "making a coworker return a \"small\" amount of money she took without asking",
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} | AITA for making a coworker return a “small” amount of money she took without asking? | I have a female coworker named “Steph”. Steph and I have never really seemed to get along, but we work well together. We have clashed a few times over a myriad of issues, but we mostly make it through the day, and are both experienced in our field.
So anyway, one day an auditor came in for a surprise inspection, and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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RI4LQykWKdtRHBmLhYPxXs8DZ0c7FrFb | b5omiz | {
"description": "saying it would have been better if you let me know earlier for my bro's wedding",
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} | AITA for saying it would have been better if you let me know earlier for my bro's wedding? | So my little brother calls me 6 days before his wedding just to "tell" me about him having a wedding. He doesn't ask if I want to go, no invitation, nothing of the sort.
He says, "Hey I'm getting married next Sunday and I just want to give you the heads up"! I promptly congratulate him and because it was a last minute... | HISTORICAL | {
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8olBQ3bQfOzfOu5y74HuhWkAu49QGTNB | 9tc7a0 | {
"description": "cutting off a friend",
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} | AITA for cutting off a friend? | Bear with me, this is a long story. I should start this off by saying I am a young male who met a young female in college a few years ago, pretty standard.
We met at the very end of freshman year, and became fairly close friends, her and some of our friends went out a couple times to grab coffee and talk about life. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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xVDw0lkd359IfDEkZ0Lj50cNq3jXGAd6 | agjmrp | {
"description": "walking a dog without specific permission from the owner",
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} | AITA for walking a dog without specific permission from the owner? | OK, a bit of a long story. tl;dr at the bottom. FYI for clarity, the story involves 4 men (all gay) and a dog.
&#x200B;
So my best friend lives across the street and his boyfriend has a dog. My friend's boyfriend's dog are there at least 50% of the time, and I see all of them a lot. The dog is a puppy, cut... | HISTORICAL | {
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AjLtcyDRCD5yndzXKYl82He3l9BXFVYr | ao3xab | {
"description": "being unsure if I should even do anything for my gf on their birthday and valentines day",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For being unsure if I should even do anything for my GF on their birthday and valentines day? | I'm nervous posting on here and I hope this is the right place to post this. Hope I get it right. I'll try my best to give all the necessary information I can. I'm very self aware that I'm not perfect and I never claimed to be.
My GF (44) and I (44) have been dating for roughly 3.5 years. For about the first year, ye... | HISTORICAL | {
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0EnvrXBR3hyguV0g25Deca6ts8OnzF6H | b8irra | {
"description": "not letting my girlfriend have a tv in the kitchen",
"pronormative_score": 16,
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} | AITA for not letting my girlfriend have a tv in the kitchen | My girlfriend moved into my house at the beginning of the year, January. When she moved in, my house was moderately modified to accommodate her furniture as well as an entire replacement of kitchen ware, due to her religious dietary needs. Prior to her moving in, my house was meticulously renovated, designed, and deco... | HISTORICAL | {
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cVRaJTj8NuEaLk56BA9ubYnfUfeekN0g | ajaj4e | {
"description": "refusing to give up my window seat on a long flight to a mom who wanted to sit next to her husband and kid",
"pronormative_score": 87,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for refusing to give up my window seat on a long flight to a mom who wanted to sit next to her husband and kid? | Yes, I am an asshole.
I paid extra for my window seat and the lady who turned around was sitting in a middle seat.
If they wanted to sit together they should've checked in earlier, right?
What do you think? | HISTORICAL | {
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2TOAGeLaUSrZIxU8g1AXz9nKqBDf3eix | avll8e | {
"description": "not wanting to live with my girlfriend unless I actually have a room",
"pronormative_score": 24,
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} | AITA for not wanting to live with my girlfriend unless I actually have a room? | I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She's great.
We're currently living in a one bedroom place, but she'd like to get a bigger place with more people next semester to save money, and I think it's a great idea. It's a two bedroom two bathroom apartment in a nice area.
But here's the thing, her sister wants to li... | HISTORICAL | {
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yDmOD2hjEAf7xgxYcv9weAdHaxiN8YJw | aw0dk5 | {
"description": "not thinking my GF's problem was enough reason to stay home from class",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA not thinking my GF’s problem was enough reason to stay home from class | &#x200B;
My \[19M\] gf \[24F\] and I have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We've met up in person plenty of times, but its difficult due to the fact that I live in Kansas and she lives in Maine.
I love my girlfriend, but just like anyone, she has her insecurities. From recent events, I am n... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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