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{ "description": "charging my so for a cleaning service", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for charging my SO for a cleaning service?
Sorry for the formatting as I’m on mobile. Just a little background, my SO have been together for 7 years. We have two kids and not the largest apartment. We split bills based on income so I pay 65% and she pays 35%. But kids and chores have always been a 50/50 split. She has always been a bit messy and I lean pretty c...
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{ "description": "not wanting surrogate father around baby/mother", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting surrogate father around baby/mother?
This is going to be a crazy post and will make some of you a little confused so bear with me. I have a serious conundrum with my marriage and wife that I need help with. To start, I am unable to have children. An accident when I was a kid basically sterilized me and I cannot have babies of any type. My wife and I hav...
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{ "description": "telling my partners family about his substance abuse/addiction", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for telling my partners family about his substance abuse/addiction?
I found out recently that my partner of 2 years has been hiding his past use of drug addiction (Oxycontin). He is now prescribed Suboxone from a "clinic"... it is a walk in medical express urgent care type of facility. He doesn't see the same doctor regularly, whatever licensed professional is on duty. He just takes a...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend because her new boyfriend doesn't want her talking to other guys", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend because her new boyfriend doesn't want her talking to other guys?
Wall of text incoming. Backstory: I've been friends with this girl since 2012, and it's always been a platonic relationship. Last year, we stopped talking for a few months due to an argument we had regarding one thing or another. But around January our friendship went back to normal, but I noticed that she would usual...
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{ "description": "thinking we shouldn't have to pay for half of a daycare that we can't use", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking we shouldn’t have to pay for half of a daycare that we can’t use?
TLDR: Step son’s mother wanted to put him in a daycare that is 7 minutes from her and 80 minutes from us. DH told her he would pay for half if she chose a daycare that was more in between that we could actually utilize (and there is a suitable one almost halfway between us). She said no, she’d rather pay on her own and...
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{ "description": "doing the Good Samaritan thing poorly", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for doing the Good Samaritan thing poorly?
This happed a few days ago but I just discovered this sub. I was at a busy fast food restaurant known for its above-and-beyond customer service. In line in front of me was an elderly woman (EL). When it came to be her turn the woman working said she could take the next customer, but the EL could not or did not he...
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{ "description": "not sympathising with my mother suffering from dementia when going out to watch 'a Christmas Carol'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sympathising with my mother suffering from dementia when going out to watch 'A Christmas Carol'
Meet my mother (when I was A child) * She used to emotionally blackmail me as a child into loving the music she enjoyed. Forced my to 'love' playing the violin for 14 years, claiming it would make her mentally ill if I did not. She pretended to have anxiety issues when I listened to any but her approved music Mozart, ...
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AITA got yelled at for stepping in glass
I'm 17, living with my parents, stepped in some glass yesterday bc my dad dropped smth and didn't clean up properly. Not a big deal, I'd just prefer not having glass in my foot. So I tell dad today "Hey btw I stepped in some glass yesterday, maybe you can clean up more thoroughly next time you drop something?" And...
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{ "description": "potty training my child", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for potty training my child?
My son recently turned 3 years old and has been fighting diaper changes to the point that my husband and I have to chase him down and catch him and then it take one person to hold him in place while the other one changes the diaper. On my last day off (Tuesday) I got fed up with it so I decided that it was time to star...
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{ "description": "telling my son about my ex wife's infidelity", "pronormative_score": 358, "contranormative_score": 85 }
AITA for telling my son about my ex wife’s infidelity?
Ex and I divorced 8 years ago. We have two kids together. My son in 16, turning 17 very soon. My ex wife has always publicly said that the break up was mutual. Lately however I found out she had been telling both my kids that I left her and didn’t give her the chance to continue the relationship. My son was upse...
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{ "description": "changing my name legally? I hate my name", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I changed my name legally? I hate my name.
Before I begin, I shall use an **example name** as follows: **Brian Alex Sherman Felix Smith.** DISCLAIMER: ONCE AGAIN, THIS **ISN'T** MY REAL NAME. Simply put, I simply hated my name for four reasons. (1) My parents had always called me Felix, which as you noticed would be the fourth word of my name. So is my *give...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my friend of 10+ years over his vindictive actions when I was going through a rough patch", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting contact with my friend of 10+ years over his vindictive actions when I was going through a rough patch
On a throwaway for obvious reasons. I've been friends with J for 10+ years, one of my closest friends but part of a wider friendship group (If it's relevant we're late 20s - early 30s). Things haven't been easy in either of our lives recently. I was supportive of him when shit hit the fan in his life, although not t...
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{ "description": "waanting someones back up account", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for waanting someones back up account?
Heres the story. Recently i started talking to someone to get to know them. Things were fine we had become friends over the 3 months we spoke untill 2 weeks ago when she she started calling me pet names which i wasnt comfortable with, and she decided to snoop through my Twitter to find personal info. Although not h...
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{ "description": "asking my wife not to sleep with other women", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my wife not to sleep with other women
It's not quite what you're thinking. I'm (28M) married (27F) for four years. Good relationship, I trust her. Around a year ago, I went on a three day business trip. A friend of hers (very gay woman a bit younger than us) was in town, and I knew they were going to hang out. No big deal. When I got home for my trip, a...
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship with my mom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship with my mom?
My (f28) mother isnt a good mother in my view. She didnt raise me, teach me right from wrong or anything like that. She didnt parent me. She rarely went to pta meetings and as a child, she would leave me home alone so often that she received an anonymous letter from someone in our neighbourhood who was worried about me...
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{ "description": "blocking my best friend because she got jealous that I'm friends with her bf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blocking my best friend because she got jealous that I’m friends with her bf?
I’m gonna call my (former) best friend Mary, and her bf John. We’re all in our early twenties, but I’d been friends with Mary since high school. A bit over a year ago she and John started dating. She’s currently abroad in college, so they’re long distance. She told me it’d mean the world to her if the two most import...
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{ "description": "immediately reporting my neighbors for smoking in my new apartment", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for immediately reporting my neighbors for smoking in my new apartment?
My husband and I are in the process of moving into an upscale apartment complex, and because one of my biggest pain points with our old apartment complex is that we couldn't use our balcony due to smokers, one of our biggest selling points for the new apartment was that the entire facility is non-smoking. Today is our...
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{ "description": "leaving my drink unattended at a bar", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my drink unattended at a bar?
It seems like it’s bad practice. I don’t want bartenders having to keep an eye on it for me or anything. But I need to piss lol.
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{ "description": "kicking out a broke college student", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking out a broke college student?
My boyfriend’s sister came to visit us for spring break. His sister is great and we get along pretty well, so I was excited. She would be staying at our house for 9 days. She asked us to bring her girlfriend we had never met. We were a little apprehensive at first, because we didn’t know the girlfriend, but his sister ...
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{ "description": "using my Toxic \"friend\" for Rides to School", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Using My Toxic "Friend" For Rides To School??
~~pretty sure the answer is yes but lemme explain cause I want a genuine answer?????~~ ​ Okay so I'm in school, obviously. I have a decent amount off friends and semi-decent grades (my math and science are kinda sucky at the moment, but we'll get to that later). Most of my friends are decent people; They c...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my mom for spoiling my dog and not following the training routines", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my mom for spoiling my dog and not following the training routines?
Long time lurker but had to create a temporary account to post since others know the main one. Background: I live with my parents and I asked if I could have a dog and they said as long as I can afford him and his necessities and take care of him, they wouldn't mind. They emphasized the many facts that they will not h...
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{ "description": "telling someone I've known for less than a month that I do not want to be their friend even though I know they have varying mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling someone I've known for less than a month that I do not want to be their friend even though I know they have varying mental health issues?
Sorry for any spelling or grammar mistakes. I'm one-eyed typing this right now cause I am so tired. This one's long and convoluted, so buckle in: TL;DR: Told a mentally unstable girl that I want absolutely nothing to do with her despite knowing she is potentially suicidal. Just moved to a new town where I knew only a...
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{ "description": "trying to get a group of smokers to use an ash tray", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for trying to get a group of smokers to use an ash tray?
So i work at a grocery store in a strip mall complex, and i vape on my breaks. Im not allowed to do so on our property so i go behind the other buildings in the complex,  like the unofficial smoking area. Everyone else smokes cigarettes and since there is no ash tray they just thrown them on the ground. Ive been con...
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{ "description": "covering the router lights with some post-it notes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for covering the router lights with some post-it notes?
Soo I live with two roommates, we don’t usually talk too much and we mostly mind our business, I came two months ago and they told me that in my room I would have to sleep nearby a router with white led lights, which are extremely annoying when you try to sleep, I told them that the lights were a bit annoying but I cou...
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{ "description": "felling awkward or angry at my mother for being in a relatioship with my uncle", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for felling awkward or angry at my mother for being in a relatioship with my uncle?
Sorry if this is short but I need to relief myself. Well first of all let's have some context here I'm 15yo girl who is total shit My mom a great woman my uncle, not blood related but it still and uncle ​ This story just happened today, I went to a house that my uncle rent. There was a pool and everyth...
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{ "description": "not risking my job so you have a shot at a sale", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not risking my job so you have a shot at a sale?
Here's the text i sent him, after he has been reaching out to me, and only me to try to get a sale out of the company he was terminated from as well as continually not seeing that this is borderline solicitation (i should mention i (and he used to as well) work in Imports, not anything related to IT of any sort). "I'm...
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{ "description": "being upset I didn't get any birthday presents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I'm upset I didn't get any birthday presents?
I'm sorry if this isn't the correct place to post this, this is the best subreddit I could think of. As the title says, today is my 21st birthday and I didn't receive any birthday gifts. Is this just a normal part of being an adult? I got my boyfriend and roommates birthday gifts every year and I feel like I got some ...
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{ "description": "requesting that my roommates to wash their hands after using the bathroom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for requesting that my roommates to wash their hands after using the bathroom?
They are both in their early twenties. My room is directly next to the bathroom, so I have no choice but to be aware of their hand-washing habits, and neither of them EVER washes their hands after using the bathroom, whether urinating or defecating, and it really grosses me out. I put up a fairly subtle sign about hand...
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{ "description": "ending this friendship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ending this friendship?
I recently ended my closest childhood friendship because the friend got a girlfriend and completely changed the way he talked to everyone. he became an asshole to everyone except his gf. i ended things with him because he had no time to hang out with just me. he never wanted to listen to my problem he just wanted to ta...
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AITA: Best friend went on my dream vacation
For probably 10 years I've planned to go to Salem, Massachusetts as a celebration for getting my degree. If that time period seems long it is because I've gotten multiple degrees and have not been able to find a way to swing the price no matter how I try to save or rearrange the trip, New England is terribly expensive ...
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{ "description": "telling my dad I don't want him to bring \"my sister\" to my house ever again", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for telling my dad I don't want him to bring "my sister" to my house ever again
I'm on mobile so excuse the format Short back story. Around 20 years ago we found out that my dad had a daughter from previous relationship. Cool what ever I always wanted a sibling since I was an only child at the time. "My sister" I'll call her "E" totally flipped her shit at the thought she was my dad's daughter a...
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{ "description": "\"ghosting\" my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for "ghosting" my friend?
**TLDR;** My friend is upset that I'm applying for jobs in another country (to move with my boyfriend). She sent me a very petty message, and instead of replying, I blocked her from messaging me on FB. ​ **Some background:** My friend has always been very possessive of my time and attention. Generally not ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mother's 25+ phone calls and 28 text messages over a span of 30 minutes", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my mother's 25+ phone calls and 28 text messages over a span of 30 minutes?
Ok, so for some context; my mother and her family are AVID supporters of Trump and believe that Rush Limbaugh is right, and this is exactly what my mother has said, "99.99% of the time". I am not here to discuss politics, but that and the fact that I am a registered Democrat and have very different opinions and views f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive 1.5 hours in a snow storm to see my best friend, especially because this would be my 3rd time canceling plans in a row", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to drive 1.5 hours in a snow storm to see my best friend, especially because this would be my 3rd time canceling plans in a row?
I’ve canceled the last 2 times because of car troubles. she lives about 1.5 hours away so i don’t get to see her often considering we both work and have school. She’s mad because this is my 3rd time cancelling on her. I didn’t know the whether would be this intense, i’ve driven in bad weather but this is some other s...
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{ "description": "shaming a student in front of the school", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for shaming a student in front of the school?
This happened a few years ago but it drummed up a lot of controversy and I still sometimes look back and wonder if what I did was the right thing. So I used to run a 'Math Monday' program in my senior year of highschool. The concept was pretty simple- Every monday, I send a math problem to the school (there's a mailin...
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AITA My best friend got pregnant, and I don't want to be her friend anymore.
First, let me start this off by saying that this is a friend I've known for six years. ​ i know to some older Reddit users that doesn't sound like a long time, but im only 18. For me, six years is 1/3 of my life span. its the equivalent of being 60 and knowing some one 20 years. its a long time for me, esp...
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{ "description": "trying to stay away from my nephew as possible", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to stay away from my nephew as possible?
Hi, ​ I am sorry if this is not a regular am I the asshole thread. I personally suffer from anxiety and I contemplate at everything I do and how it is perceived as I never want to be an asshole to anyone. Also, this is a throw-away because I do not want the attention I guess on my main account. &#x200...
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{ "description": "privately hoping I'll be unable to breastfeed", "pronormative_score": 65, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for privately hoping I’ll be unable to breastfeed?
So I’m about 8 months pregnant before I got pregnant I was on Vyvanse for my ADHD and I absolutely loved it. Vyvanse has helped my life and mood tremendously. Vyvanse is a class 3 drug and I have not been able to take it while pregnant nor will I be able to take it while nursing. I was able to cope most of my life wi...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my so", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave my SO
So me 20m and my lady 19f have been dating for almost 3 years now, we've had issues up until this point but we talked things out and things got better.I eventually noticed she has this huge anxiety about those people who are close to her leaving her, while at the same time treating those people like crap,snapping at th...
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{ "description": "pretending to be this Guy's friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Pretending To Be This Guy's Friend (Long) (TLDR at the bottom)
So I have a "friend" that I have been friends with for 10 years now. I'm 18 as is he and we met in 2nd grade. We both graduated in June and he went to college a little over and hour away from where we're from. Me and my others friends started boxing a couple of months ago and we've been sparring on the weekends. So I...
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{ "description": "making my friend feel bad for not rooming with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my friend feel bad for not rooming with me
For most of this semester me and my friend were hoping to get an off campus apartment starting next year. We were looking into different options. We preferred to have a third roommate to save money but we can’t seem to find one so we thought a two bedroom apartment would work. We have been looking for apartments for a ...
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to resuse towels", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my husband to resuse towels?
We don't I have a lot of towels, maybe 8 to 10 total. I do most of the laundry and I don't want it to pile up more than it is or have to do it so frequently , so I ask my husband to please hang up his towel on the hook to dry so he can use it again just one more time before it's washed again. He usually leaves it on ...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my gf's parents for locking us out of the house", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at my(28) gf(22)'s parents for locking us out of the house
So a few months ago my gf and I traveled out to her parents town to be able to see her sister be baptized and for her to get family pictures. Anyways, through some very poorly and not concrete texts we had decided that I would stay out in their motor home as they had no room inside and that my girlfriend could sleep wi...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that I am not going on any more picnics with her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 72 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that I am not going on any more picnics with her?
For some reason, my girlfriend really loves picnics. Recently, now that the weather has gotten sunny, we've started going on picnics around three times a week. I'm honestly not that big of a fan of picnics because it seems like too much of a bother to pack a hamper and lug it all the way to a park and all that. The amo...
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{ "description": "wanting to work farther away from my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to work farther away from my girlfriend?
AITA? So my gf still lives in the town of our high school. she’s also a senior this year. i graduated when she was an junior, and moved to a more populated area. i still work at a walmart that i have been working for, for 2 years. This place is dreadful. i want to get a new job farther away because i absolutely hate th...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my ex-girlfriend?
First of all, english is not my native language, so sorry for my bad write. Six months ago i break up with my ex, the reason is that she invited me to a party that i could't go, because on the next day i would go on an track day with my friend (this is my unique hobby), so i let her go without me, no problem at this p...
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{ "description": "texting my hairdresser after ghosting her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for texting my hairdresser after ghosting her?
I told my hairdresser I wanted to dye my hair back in September, and she sent me some colors we could work with. I told her I would let her know after I had my job interview, but I never texted her back. Tuition was more than I had anticipated and the holidays reaped all my money away. I finally have the funds to go, b...
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{ "description": "giving a shit about my job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving a shit about my job?
​ Hey guys, I've had issues with employment the past year. Who knows why. Anyways, my friend helped me find a new job. I took a job that he didn't want, so he recommended me in his stead to the foreman of the job. Great. Yesterday, was the first time I'd been working for a while. I really pushed myself an...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my ex", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Breaking Up With My Ex?
Me (23F) and my ex boyfriend (23M) have been broken up for over 8 months now. We were dating for 3 years. Our relationship has been great until the ending when I started to not trust him anymore. I have listed a few of the reasons why below ​ \- He started talking to this girl at his work that started to like him. S...
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{ "description": "cursing out and reporting my dorm mate for making a meme", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cursing out and reporting my dorm mate for making a meme?
So, a little backstory- I’m currently a freshman in college and I have a particularly problematic dorm mate that we will call Q. Since September Q has harassed girls on our floor, cheated on his girlfriend in high school, said racist and sexist things, always brags about his money, and is just generally kind of an ass...
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{ "description": "eating leftovers without permission", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA For eating leftovers without permission.
A quick backstory leading into this: Over the weekend, my wife tells me that she needs me to reschedule my streaming on both Monday and Wednesday because she has a "team meeting" on both days from 8-11. (Stream time is 7-10) I figured okay, whatever, she wants me to occupy my stepson while she's not here. On Sunday, s...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf for saying \"it's rude to reject someone's flirting more than 5 times\"", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my gf for saying “it’s rude to reject someone’s flirting more than 5 times”
Some pretext, I’m 17 and I’ve been dating my gf for 3 months and recently one of her close guy friends (she’s been friends with him longer than I’ve been friends with her) just now started flirting with her. He’s called her his girlfriend “jokingly” and has consistently send her Goodmorning texts and FaceTimed her to d...
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{ "description": "not contacting a restaurant about a billing error after the worst eating experience of my life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contacting a restaurant about a billing error after the worst eating experience of my life?
Hi all, So I was in a new town for a job interview and decided to unwind the night before by going to a hookah bar/cafe. Suffice to say it was a nightmare, I had to reorder my hookah 3 times (walking up to the counter the last two times) because they never actually wrote down the ticket and the servers would just go ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to do something about her skin", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to do something about her skin?
Ive been with my girl for awhile (3+ years). Shes always had a little bit of a skin issue.. nothing crazy. But over the past 2 years, it went from okayish to bad and now its the worst I’ve seen it. The crazy part? She seems to not care. She washes her face, minimal make up, all the little things. But its getting worse ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my mom a $400 MacBook after she \"borrowed\" $100 from me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to give my mom a $400 MacBook after she “borrowed” $100 from me?
English not first language, mobile, all that jazz. So, I started working with my dad for a few days (6 to be exact) and was getting paid by the work day ($100/day), I was about to get my pay for the past 2 days of work when my mom asks me if I could get a $100 outdoor table set for the house since we just got a barbe...
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{ "description": "not acknowledging my cousin's pronoun preference for my child", "pronormative_score": 127, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not acknowledging my cousin's pronoun preference for my child
Hi everyone, so my wife and I just had a baby, who is a girl. We have given her a female name and occasionally dress her in pink clothes or a bow, but otherwise have been raising her with very little gendered anything. I'm not going to give her exact age but she's young enough that she has zero concept of gender whatso...
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{ "description": "ditching a dinner date for the second time with a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ditching a dinner date for the second time with a friend?
So a little bit of brief background to the circumstances around my current situation. Two years ago my husband and I moved to a new city for him to start his surgical residency program. I have seen firsthand how grueling and demanding of a schedule the residents have as I see it every day. I hardly see my husband half ...
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{ "description": "making a scene at Macdoanls", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a scene at Macdoanls?
So I order 2 mac chickens sandwiches (not meals) and asked for them to go, when my order finished they called my number and I took the bag, I checked the bag and there was only one. I went back to cashier and there was a long line, so I skip the line and I wait for her to finish the next person and I jump in to say my ...
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{ "description": "asking so reasoning behind giving money to homeless people", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking SO reasoning behind giving money to homeless people?
Ok so hear me out, I kind of know this is asshole-ish. So I very rarely give money to homeless people, maybe quarters when I have it. My SO on the other hand always gives money to every homeless person. I love how kind and generous he is as a person, but we both earn <20K per year, and between bills do not have too...
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{ "description": "defending someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for defending someone
So last night my friend was being extremely rude to me and my boyfriend saying that my boyfriend hated him. My boyfriend got upset and left the group chat. I then tell my friend "hey that was kinda shitty if you meant that. He's upset so please apologize for saying that." My friend refuses to apologize or even act like...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend at a bath house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for leaving my friend at a bath house
my friend and i were partying and went to a bath house. i did not know what it exactly entailed. i didn't know it was a place for gay men. i quickly realized it wasn't my thing and left. i totally respect my friends choices but it wasn't for me. he's pissed because i ditched him. do i owe him an apology?
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{ "description": "making my friend leave our hotel room for the night", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my friend leave our hotel room for the night?
Me and 2 friends are sharing one room (which is basically 2 beds for the three of us) during our short holidays. One of said friends enjoys hooking up with people through online dating apps, and while this doesn’t bother me (I even use those apps myself from time to time) it really irked me today. He’s been implying /...
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{ "description": "getting angry at a girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting angry at a girl?
Today I was playing League of Legends with some friends and this girl that I have recently met was dying *a lot*. She got very angry and started spewing hate, which was destroying the team's morale and making me extremely angry as well, although I was trying to only say things that were useful to the game. After app...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for having a fuck buddy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my mom for having a fuck buddy?
Context: my dad died a year ago from drinking, his liver shit out on him and had too many other problems to get a transplant. My mom has a serious drinking issue. Not that she drinks too much, but any small amount can get her fucked up. I believe this is a result of one of her meds. My mom is also 56. Anyway, we recen...
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{ "description": "getting Upset Over Dietary Pills", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Getting Upset Over Dietary Pills?
Background: My girlfriend of 2.5 years recently found out that she has a sensitivity to lactose. It's to the point where she can get too sick to fully function the day after a lactose-heavy meal. At first, she used to be really diligent about eating her lactose-relief pills before eating. For the past few weeks, she...
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{ "description": "not wanting boyfriend to support a misogynist and horrible person", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for not wanting boyfriend to support a misogynist and horrible person?
Hey all, this is my first post and I'll try to keep this as short as possible ​ I (21f) met my boyfriend (23m) 3 months ago. He's a really awesome and sweet guy. And he's heavily into music . Like really, really heavy into music. He has a lot of CDs and Vinyls. We were hanging out at his place and he was...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship whilst on holiday with them", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a friendship whilst on holiday with them?
This was last year, and all fake names. Done my best to present the whole truth, except the fake names. I broke up with my gf 2 months before exam period, and whilst she was angry at first, we were doing well fixing our friendship by the time exams rolled around. The day I finished my last school exam, my best frie...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend time with my best friend alone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to spend time with my best friend alone?
My best friend from high school is coming into town where I live. He lives an airplane ride away (within the US) and I have been trying to convince him to come visit for years. We haven't seen each other in 4 years and still talk occasionally (2-3 times per year tops). He recently started dating a girl who also...
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{ "description": "removing my late grandmother's jewelry box from my bedroom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I removed my late grandmother’s jewelry box from my bedroom?
I received this jewelry box in late 2015/early 2016, when my parents split up and I had to make a room at my dad’s house. He had moved into his late father’s house and there were a lot of my grandparents belongings there. One day I came home from school and my dad told me to look in my room for a surprise. On my dresse...
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{ "description": "having my bf over while house sitting", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for having my bf over while house sitting?
I was house sitting for a friend since Friday. I had my bf over on Saturday and didn’t think twice about it. I never discussed it with my friend who I was house sitting. I never thought it would be an issue. When my friend came back I mentioned that my bf really liked this coffee table she has. She acted a little ...
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{ "description": "taking credit in a partner project I did on my own", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for taking credit in a partner project I did on my own?
So my best friend got sick right after we were assigned a project to do together, and we had a week worth of time to do it. She was out of school for all that time, and I did my best. So the presentation rolls around and she comes back to school. She told me to say she provided me with the info for the project. Of co...
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{ "description": "not dating single dads", "pronormative_score": 245, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not dating single dads?
Hi everyone. I'm using a throw away account for obvious reasons and am typing this on mobile so please forgive any spelling errors, spellcheck has it out for me. I recently left a long term relationship and am out on the dating scene again. I've been using dating apps and online dating sites since I find I usually ha...
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{ "description": "not letting my cat die soon and yelling at my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not letting my cat die soon and yelling at my mom?
Lemme give you a short backstory; My brother found a cat and our parents let us keep her. Well, she was pregnant when we found her and gave birth to 4 healthy kittens. Our parents wouldn't let us keep all of them but we begged, they gave in but made us compromise that we can only keep two. one for me and one for my bro...
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{ "description": "putting my purse on the Bus/Train seat next to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for putting my purse on the Bus/Train seat next to me?
I'll put it on my lap if a large group of people get on or if people are walking past. And Ill never keep it on the seat if anyone is standing. Light hearted AITA i know. Seemed we had a lot of heavy stuff lately.
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{ "description": "breaking up with her over text", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: For breaking up with her over text?
So I've been dating this girl for a little while now, at the start everything was going amazing, we had so much in common. However, lately, she hasn't been responsive to any form of communication, and seemingly avoiding seeing eachother. The thing is, I want to end it face to face, but I can't seem to get a response to...
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{ "description": "disliking my birthday gift from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disliking my birthday gift from my best friend?
A few months ago, my friend bought this video game that he apparently LOVED. In the weeks leading up to my birthday, he said that he loved the game so much that he was planning to buy a copy of the game for me so he'll have sometime to play with. I was open to it, but I know my friend--he's the king of empty birthday...
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{ "description": "not being able to go to my grandmas funeral", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being able to go to my grandmas funeral?
At the start of February, my fathers mother, who we will call Joan, was 80 years old. She was horribly sick and My father forced me to go to her house to see her on the bed while she was on oxygen with my brother. Through out my 16 (17 in 6 days) years of living on this planet, I’ve never met this women since the firs...
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{ "description": "not letting someone go with me and my friends to see Avengers Endgame", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting someone go with me and my friends to see Avengers Endgame?
So theres this guy who we'll call Seth and he has always been really physical (its not sexual lol. Just shaking people and getting in people's personal space constantly) in every situation with everyone and people make sure to tell him to stop but he never does. Hes generally a okay person but along with the constant l...
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{ "description": "cancelling plans", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cancelling plans
I'm at university and I have a friend group of about 15 people in a large iMessage chat. In light of finals, one of them, let's call him Mike, suggested we go to a Mexican restaurant on Saturday night to cool off. Saturday morning, he puts in the chat, "like this message if you're coming to dinner". I like the message ...
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AITA if my preference is to not date people outside of my own race?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. Been seeing a few posts here and there about personal preferences in terms of dating. A girl was concerned about putting "only tall guys" on her dating profile, and another girl didn't wanna date guys with kids. Etc etc. I am a 24F. One of my personal preferences is to only date men i...
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{ "description": "wanting my commission piece finished", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my commission piece finished?
Okay, first time ever making a post so I apologize in advance for any errors. Basically, my close friend had financial difficulties and opened commissions to help her get by. I'm also struggling with money but I had a bit saved, so I asked for a slot and paid up front. It was only about £15 when converted, which was ...
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{ "description": "criticizing my girlfriend's excessive Instagram browsing when I myself browse Reddit the same amount", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for criticizing my girlfriend’s excessive Instagram browsing when I myself browse Reddit the same amount?
In my opinion, Instagram is more hazardous to mental health, and there is considerably more opportunity for learning on Reddit. I wouldn’t call either of us obsessed with our respective platforms, but I can’t help but wish she’d spend more of her internet time elsewhere. AITA?
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{ "description": "not wanting to join my family on Christmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to join my family on Christmas
Long time lurker, first time poster so the formatting may be all over the place. Context: I'm 22 and recently moved out of home. This is the first year I've expressed interest to my family that I may not be joining them on Christmas. They initially planned on celebrating across the country so I made my peace that I w...
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{ "description": "ending a 10-year friendship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I Ended a 10-year Friendship?
This girl and I have been best friends since 7th grade. Went to different colleges, but managed the distance via gaming, voice chats, and occasional visits. She was someone I could see myself being lifelong friends with, until recently. Her husband and I got off to a terrible start. She moved in with him early on and ...
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{ "description": "putting my honest vent on a classmate I know on a private forum", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for putting my honest vent on a classmate I know on a private forum?
Originally, I put my vents on the r/rant. Due to no response at all, I copied and paste my original rant to a private history forum. I really, really regretted on posting it. Most of the commentators accused me of being my misogynistic sexist even though I have never said anything that degraded the female sex in a way....
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am6ux9
{ "description": "getting upset the my SO takes jokes too far", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset the my SO takes jokes too far?
My girlfriend hates saying sorry, she believes she does everything for a reason. There is always the “sorry” you throw around but not when she does something wrong. Today as a joke she grabbed my phone to get my attention and be funny, fine. We do the whole chasing my phone thing for 5 minutes and then I ignore it and ...
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{ "description": "excluding my coworker from lunch break activities", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for excluding my coworker from lunch break activities?
Our company hired a coworker which is utterly unqualified, lied on their cv and does not grasps even the basic despite somehow possessing a bachelors degree. I utterly despise her for her work ethics since she ties down at least one person to 'support' her during the day. Despite her clear lack of skills / experience s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have kids when I think me and my girlfriend are not ready", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to have kids when I think me and my girlfriend are not ready?
My girlfriend of 2 years has put an ultimatum to me today after dropping major hints this year that she wants a baby; “Get me pregnant or I’m leaving you”. For context my girlfriend was pregnant last year, but WE decided that we weren’t ready so had an abortion. I was with her for every step of the way but she now use...
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{ "description": "being upset", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset?
When I OFFERED to pay for my boyfriend’s snacks from target for the movies and he said he felt guilty and stole the snacks instead? Like...AITA for being angry about that? Be completely honest, because I just don’t see how you feel guilty when someone OFFERS to pay but don’t feel guilty when you steal?? Like Idk I’m ha...
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9ueve1
{ "description": "being turned off by my straight boyfriend liking anal sex", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for being turned off by my straight boyfriend liking anal sex?
My boyfriend of 1.5 years just told me about a week ago that he has received anal from women in past relationships. I told him it’s not that odd and that think it’s fine that he has done that. However, i feel like this is a huge turnoff to me. We are a straight couple and this makes me second guess our whole sexual r...
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AITA for wanting my roommate to leave the room First post so bear with me if I'm missing something. I live in a very small dorm with a roommate who was very nice at first but I slowly noticed things that were downright disrespectful. She has a long distance bf who she's never met before and she is constantly arguing wi...
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{ "description": "not wanting contact anymore", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For not wanting contact anymore?
So I (21) met this guy (24) a while ago, we started dating, got along great. I should also probably mention that this was the first guy I ever dated. Things started getting weird when he invited me to his place. Before we got there he told me „my sister had a huge fight with her boyfriend and her and their kid will s...
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{ "description": "'going out' with my friends 'girlfriend'", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ‘going out’ with my friends ‘girlfriend’?
If you read the title you might be thinking: “of course, you are cheating.” And while i agree with that, this is a bit more complicated. So my friend is not dating this girl. They haven’t done anything together, they talk quite often but they say they are not in a relationship with each other. I have no idea if they h...
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{ "description": "being publicly upset that I was forced to do something I expressed I didn't want to do", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being publicly upset that i was forced to do something I expressed I didn't want to do?
Mobile - sorry for formatting This happened like a year ago. So I used to do highland dancing with my brother. I'd compete, do shows, etc. But after 2-3 years of dancing I started to hate it. My dance teacher didn't like me, I had no friends at the studio, and my younger brother was actually better than me, so I felt ...
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{ "description": "\"ruining\" my girlfriend's birthday", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for "ruining" my girlfriend's birthday?
Long post but please hear me out :( I have a chronic disease that often causes lots of pain. Yesterday was my girlfriend's birthday, and the past couple of days have been pretty bad to put it lightly. The day prior I took her out to eat, took her shopping, and then took her to her favorite little park that has a water...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my disabled friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help my disabled friend anymore?
Some background first: I have a disabled kid in my class who I'm friends with, but not close friends with. He can walk somewhat fine, but he's on crutches for the rest of his life and moves very, very slowly. He used to have somebody come to school with him and help him and make sure he's fine, but she recently left d...
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{ "description": "almost hitting a cyclist with my car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for almost hitting a cyclist with my car
I only ask here because she literally called me an asshole. Basically I was driving to work and I get off the exit and I have to make a right turn. The road has three lanes, the two on the left have stoplights (which we're red) and the right turn lane does not have a stop light but is a yield. I'm in the right lane wai...
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AITA because of my own mental illness?
Background: This fall, my mental health started deteriorating, as well as my relationship. I had severe anxiety, lost my job due to attendance while in the psych ward, and my boyfriend left me. Friends K and S were my former roommates at college. I had confided in them that I was suicidal, and I called them...
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{ "description": "bringing my own tea to a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for bringing my own tea to a restaurant?
My wife drinks tea for breakfast, and we always pay for cheap tea in a bag. Is it a dick move to just ask for hot water and put in her own tea?
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{ "description": "wanting to sleep at night while my wife takes care of our newborn", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for wanting to sleep at night while my wife takes care of our newborn?
My wife and I just had our second kid last week and I want to sleep at night while she takes care of the nightly feedings and diaper changing. My wife is on maternity leave and she had no complications with the birth and is not bed ridden or anything. Our oldest daughter gets dropped off at daycare and my wife takes c...
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