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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you deal with survivors guilt when you get jobs but not cohort/lab members (post PhD) Just wanted to hear your thoughts on how you manage survivors guilt when you get job offers in your PhD program and your lab mates/colleagues don’t. My comrade/lab mate applied to a bunch of jobs and got a couple of interviews (3 phone interviews [1 TT, 2 Post Docs] and 2 on campus, post doc interviews) and got no offers. Actually his post doc campus interviews were back to back. Last week, they emailed him that post doc #1 was a no. He looked torn and upset and I invited him out for dinner so he could blow off some steam but I felt so guilty (we are in the same lab and he knows I secured a post doc in March). I just sat there and let him rant and cry and be heart broken which made me feel so terrible and anxious for him (he also has a family that depend on him). Post doc #2 interview was for an internal departmental hire for our program. He got invited to interview and he really had his hopes up for this someone since he has a good rapport with the chair, has a good chunk of publications/research experience, and is one of the best grad students in our department). I heard from my supervisor this afternoon that the Chair already offered the post doc to someone else and the other candidate accepted it. They haven’t said anything yet to the other job candidates but I feel terrible for him. How could I continue to be supportive at this time? I was involved in his material preparation (helping him with his CV, cover letter, research/teaching statements, attending his job talk practices) and I know he is qualified to do all the jobs he applied. How should I proceed next time he tells me he didn’t get his last post doc opportunity? | 5f01717e08b372bad40d26f169f4d46ac1b023be6b00e0f5e8043bddad71e982 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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How do you handle reviewers? I'm not sure what it is, but I can't handle reviewers comments. They terrify me, and I just get extremely embarrassed and hurt. I know I shouldn't but it's hard to not take it personally. For example, just got a review back for a symposium submission. Accept pending revisions but it was one of the hardest things to read. Took me three days to send it to my colleagues, being totally ashamed. They responded how nice the review was and how great the comments were and were very happy with it. What! I dont understand how they can take it so well. How do you handle reviews? | 2621d39294cb8e0935bce4d01f4459a5d3c922ef4af621642a3d257d34bd62b0 | [
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My advisor intends to leave my program for another school-I’m still halfway through my PhD! What happens now? I overheard my Advisor talking with HR about leaving my program. I am halfway through my program, and I still am dependent on my advisor for the majority of our future projects - we’re even writing a grant right now! What happens if my advisor leaves? And how can I not have a panic attack about it? I’m in a molecular biology PhD program in the US at a tier 1 university. | 9a29a318432917184c980848847f97d80a6ea43f19e86b46a8c51dcf03636d8d | [
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What do I need to know and what should I be asking when I'm meeting with a potential graduate advisor coming up? I'll be taking a couple trips to two schools I am extremely interested in enrolling at for their Cognitive Psychology PhD program. I've contacted both faculty members I'm interested in working with and both are taking students--I have an appointment set up to meet with one and I'm interested in figuring out what information I need to know ahead of time about the graduate process that I may not already know, and what questions are reasonable to ask. The following are questions I've thought of asking: Mentoring style? Plans on retiring/taking sabatical soon? What traits did you wish you could bestow or do you appreciate in all of your current grad students? Any an all help and suggestions are great! I'm not looking for a way to game the system, I just want to know what (as the Bush administration put it) the "known unknowns" are. Much appreciated. | 708a2889848db0fd8d22943e6094ddb706e1cf630f60f7daf044c04251e688c9 | [
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Did I do something unethical while writing my master's thesis? This may sound like a silly question, but here goes. I completed my MS in Electrical Engineering in 2016. To get my MS, I had to do a research project and write a thesis. If I'm 100% honest, my project was...pretty embarrassing. It was something a high school student could have done. I basically made some slight modifications to an Android navigation app to see if I could reduce its power consumption. I didn't know much about Android or mobile app development, so I was learning on the fly. I just wanted to get the thesis done and get my MS ASAP, and fortunately, my thesis adviser could see that and was willing to give me a project to do. In order to collect data, I went through a few scripted routines of using the app while recording its power consumption using a separate app. It was, again, not very meaty. However, I was able to collect the data and make some conclusions. I eventually ended up getting my thesis accepted and getting my MS. However, there were a few occasions while using the app that it just...didn't work properly. The main issue seemed to be that the network was crapping out, so the app didn't download the necessary information properly. Whenever that happened, I would just start over. Is that...cheating? I want to be absolutely clear: I did not at all mean to do anything unethical. As far as I know, everything I did was legit and above board. But I, at the time, did not see anything wrong with aborting a test run because of network issues. I kept my adviser in the loop about pretty much everything I was doing for my project, but I didn't see it as necessary to tell him about this. So, did I inadvertently fudge the data for my thesis? | cc9f1d2d510b8d918bb681bb5b2f402fc425c6dbb0ee191b9ada50abd867c46b | [
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Did I do something unethical while writing my master's thesis? This may sound like a silly question, but here goes. I completed my MS in Electrical Engineering in 2016. To get my MS, I had to do a research project and write a thesis. If I'm 100% honest, my project was...pretty embarrassing. It was something a high school student could have done. I basically made some slight modifications to an Android navigation app to see if I could reduce its power consumption. I didn't know much about Android or mobile app development, so I was learning on the fly. I just wanted to get the thesis done and get my MS ASAP, and fortunately, my thesis adviser could see that and was willing to give me a project to do. In order to collect data, I went through a few scripted routines of using the app while recording its power consumption using a separate app. It was, again, not very meaty. However, I was able to collect the data and make some conclusions. I eventually ended up getting my thesis accepted and getting my MS. However, there were a few occasions while using the app that it just...didn't work properly. The main issue seemed to be that the network was crapping out, so the app didn't download the necessary information properly. Whenever that happened, I would just start over. Is that...cheating? I want to be absolutely clear: I did not at all mean to do anything unethical. As far as I know, everything I did was legit and above board. But I, at the time, did not see anything wrong with aborting a test run because of network issues. I kept my adviser in the loop about pretty much everything I was doing for my project, but I didn't see it as necessary to tell him about this. So, did I inadvertently fudge the data for my thesis? | cc9f1d2d510b8d918bb681bb5b2f402fc425c6dbb0ee191b9ada50abd867c46b | [
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how much does the topic of my master's thesis determine my future paths, be it a phd or the industry? (biochemistry, germany) i am currently facing the classic romantic dilemma regarding where i should do my masters thesis. on the one hand i've always wanted to get into gene therapy. the associated research group at my university however could only offer me a very fundamental and tedious project, relatively far from any application. on the other hand, i have an opportunity to do my masters thesis in pharmacology, where the project is pretty translational and tied to actual patients, plus i would get **paid** to do it. now i am constantly reminding myself that money cant be the deciding factor here, but ultimately i don't know what kind of an impact this choice will have on my future paths, whatever these may be. so if anyone could offer any insight or opinion to my situation, i would appreciate it very much | f28cdb90e07bf68177521ccc078513f6019122dca41d7c7bcdc24d0c49da9e9b | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do people in academia as a whole feel about the low pay compared to most other similarly skilled occupation? What are they doing for a better change? I keep on seeing threads on how academics are paid so little with very low lifetime earnings. Yet, academics bring in a lot of value to the contemporary generation of people and the next generation as well who keep on benefiting from their work to various degrees. From what I have read on Reddit and elsewhere I feel that academics are grossly underpaid which I feel is unfair. Especially given the years of education/training needed, the talent needed and the years of hard work at low pay etc. Other occupations would have paid much more at such a high skill and educational requirement level. What do academics feel about this low pay as a whole? Do they believe its unfair? If so what are they doing to change the system? | dcc527bd0cdbbcbe6f12262ef4a417d03035c74b0ebf8633446a8a2e88a836d7 | [
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How do I keep myself from falling into an infinite rabbit hole when trying to read a paper? I'm new to reading research papers in my field, and **I don't know how anyone does it.** When reading a paper, sometimes (actually, quite often) I come across something I don't quite understand. If I'm lucky, the author cites the source. Then I go check out the source. Uh oh, another roadblock. Rinse and repeat. The number of papers or textbooks I must read before comprehending anything in academia feels like an exponential battle. For every paper that I want to 'get', it feels like there are 2\~3 others that I need to go through first. Any tips? Does this get better with time? | d58213f789e7c7369aae20dfb7435e12d81e36fdf0175fc04def0b8d46534150 | [
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How do I keep myself from falling into an infinite rabbit hole when trying to read a paper? I'm new to reading research papers in my field, and **I don't know how anyone does it.** When reading a paper, sometimes (actually, quite often) I come across something I don't quite understand. If I'm lucky, the author cites the source. Then I go check out the source. Uh oh, another roadblock. Rinse and repeat. The number of papers or textbooks I must read before comprehending anything in academia feels like an exponential battle. For every paper that I want to 'get', it feels like there are 2\~3 others that I need to go through first. Any tips? Does this get better with time? | d58213f789e7c7369aae20dfb7435e12d81e36fdf0175fc04def0b8d46534150 | [
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How do you deal with the possibility that your project might not work out? Edit: The title should probably be "How do you emotionally deal with the possibility your project might not work out" I find research to be a roller-coaster of emotions. I'm in Computer Science, and I build systems and it's constantly a cycle of yes-it-works-this-is-so-cool, and oh-it's-a-bug-and-it-doesn't-work! Until it finally works, that is. I feel exhausted by this cycle, especially now that other parts of my life are causing additional fatigue. I feel worried that none of my projects will pan out ... which actually wouldn't be the end of the world---I've been toying with the idea of getting back into the industry, but I still worry! Even after doing a Ph.D. (I'm a postdoc), I feel exhausted by these emotional rollercoasters. In the industry, if you're working on something you are reasonably certain that it can be done. What remains is fixing the bugs and doing good design, writing good code, etc., etc. In academia, it feels like everything is uncertain! | a9401adc2c58ed691a6c21ff436fadf7c59080e28f810d2edf0d01ad8e5c1e87 | [
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Applying to neuro PhDs this fall- how do you/did you deal with alllll the depressing news about number of PhDs vs. academic jobs available? I'm definitely flexible about post-PhD plans - I would be open to industry positions as well. I just can't help but feel like my dreams are crushed a little every time I read an article like that. I've tried to talk myself out of doing a PhD but I can't -- I'm so excited for the stuff I'm going to research, but I'm also aware how hard being a PhD student can be. How do you/did you deal with it? Is there a way to be better prepared for a range of jobs during one's PhD? | ce5358ad96b7c17c4f9e9991d9ccf92d26edd3cb481d9b9756cced16e1c0f630 | [
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How do you respond compassionately to students who seem like they're not trying? **So, I just want to preface this by saying I don't mean "what do I do when students miss lectures in-person?" or anything like that. I know that there are numerous reasons (pandemic or not) that could make it hard for a student to come into class. I'm talking about students who have the resources but just don't use them, then ask for unspecific "help" with the course.** Specifically, here in Canada, we have an upcoming long-weekend because it's Thanksgiving. I am a teaching assistant for a course that has a test next Wednesday afternoon. Today (Friday afternoon), a student emailed me to ask if I could meet with them (via Zoom) urgently because they need "help before our first test". Office hours aren't part of my TA contract (I just grade assignments, tests, and run in-person tutorials. Another TA runs the tutorials online because of COVID), so I told the student that unfortunately I would be unable to meet. I sent them a list of resources that the department offers and suggested they reach out to the professor if they have specific questions. In their response, the student said that the professor didn't have scheduled office hours before the test and said they would try to "figure it out on \[their\] own". I felt badly, so I went to check Brightspace to see how they are doing in the course. But it turns out, this student has not watched the past 6 lectures (out of 9 total) or watched the past 2 online tutorials (out of 3 total). The student has definitely not been coming in person because they are an international student who is out of the country. I understand that Brightspace course progress data is not necessarily 100% accurate, but the set-up of the course is also in such a way that it's not possible that the student downloaded all the material at the beginning of the semester (the lectures get uploaded each week). They've only spent 4 hours of time on the webpage, when there are about 10 hours of lectures alone posted on the page - even if they watched them at 2x speed, it wouldn't be enough to get through the lectures, let alone the rest of the material. I can also see that the student has not downloaded the notes accompanying the tutorials or videos, so I really don't think they have even attempted to work through most of the course material. In my email response, I suggested that they make sure they've watched all the lecture videos and tutorials as preparation for the test and explore the avenues I mentioned in my initial reply. In my head, I was thinking "why would you ask me for unspecific help if you haven't even tried to stay on-top of the course?" Obviously, that's not a helpful or compassionate way to deal with students, but I find this type of thing (which seems to happen fairly often) super frustrating. **So, TL;DR - How do you support students who ask for help when they don't make use of available resources first? How do you respond compassionately? What is helpful for you and your students in this kind of situation?** | b9c246bb240edfaa3933b3afc0c4241aa1bcd6b3b916b7b2fada070b9c529d46 | [
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What are the weirdest/worst times people have walked in on conversations you have had in academia? For me, the worst experience has been when I had to talk about race. One of our sites had two options to select if you were white, another labeled their Hispanic/latino group as Laitinx. As we were figuring out how to fix the problems, one of the researchers describes how she labels people who solely select white as a race option to be "whites only." At that moment, I had a conservative grandmother who walked in who thinks that people in academia are brain washing people, and had to explain we were trying to figure out who was who in data, and not a bunch of racists brainwashing people. | 30bf93f6920f6550d0d6f31799378ed03231386cc5a3b22215f9db3d9c1e7613 | [
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How do you be an interesting conversationalist in conferences? I'm honestly quite ashamed for asking this because this is already my 6th time going to conference and I'm no longer a master student. But I feel like I'm always unable to keep up with the conversations during breaks. Every time I try to approach an interesting scholar whose work is in a similar (or even the same) field as my own, conversations only last for a few minutes before they decided to mingle in other circles or chat with other persons. I have always tried to make the conversation more about them and their researches and not my own, only occasionally sharing what I have and try to only chime in when I think it's relevant to their interest, or if they asked what I do. But more often than not when there's a few seconds of silence the it always ends up with them leaving. I only get along quite well with others if we share not only the field we're working on, but also sites where we do fieldwork/collect our data because the conversation tends to be about our informants, our fieldwork sites, etc. Would a more experienced scholar share their advice on this aspect? Or is this something that I need to work on in a more personal level, as I'm not a good conversationalist as well outside of academia. Thanks so much in advance. | a3b18f8fdce7cb0a881303f2945f922f04aa40603da786363352f10a9af21ba9 | [
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