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Academics of reddit, what are the dirty secrets of your disciplines ? I 'll start: Computational Biologist here. Everyone talks how -omics technologies is the biggest thing to happen in science. You know what, this data is so damn noisy especially in e.g. whole blood of patients, that are not applicable everywhere, like people like to claim. The studies published is probably a very small subset of what people have tried before reaching positive results.
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Academics of reddit, what are the dirty secrets of your disciplines ? I 'll start: Computational Biologist here. Everyone talks how -omics technologies is the biggest thing to happen in science. You know what, this data is so damn noisy especially in e.g. whole blood of patients, that are not applicable everywhere, like people like to claim. The studies published is probably a very small subset of what people have tried before reaching positive results.
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What type of skills does a PhD help you to acquire?
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What type of skills does a PhD help you to acquire?
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What type of skills does a PhD help you to acquire?
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Is it OK to ask your undergrad professors for a rec via email? I'm about 6 hours from my undergraduate university and am in need of 2 or 3 recs for a postbac program. These professors have given me recs before so I'm 99% sure they have the original saved and don't need to actually write it. Going in person is going to take 3 days out of my schedule and I can't really afford that. As I'm sure most of you know, catching professors via phone is pretty hard since their schedule is scattered. Most of them even prefer email. So would it be a bad idea to ask the via a well formulated email?
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Is it OK to ask your undergrad professors for a rec via email? I'm about 6 hours from my undergraduate university and am in need of 2 or 3 recs for a postbac program. These professors have given me recs before so I'm 99% sure they have the original saved and don't need to actually write it. Going in person is going to take 3 days out of my schedule and I can't really afford that. As I'm sure most of you know, catching professors via phone is pretty hard since their schedule is scattered. Most of them even prefer email. So would it be a bad idea to ask the via a well formulated email?
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Is it OK to ask your undergrad professors for a rec via email? I'm about 6 hours from my undergraduate university and am in need of 2 or 3 recs for a postbac program. These professors have given me recs before so I'm 99% sure they have the original saved and don't need to actually write it. Going in person is going to take 3 days out of my schedule and I can't really afford that. As I'm sure most of you know, catching professors via phone is pretty hard since their schedule is scattered. Most of them even prefer email. So would it be a bad idea to ask the via a well formulated email?
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Is it OK to ask your undergrad professors for a rec via email? I'm about 6 hours from my undergraduate university and am in need of 2 or 3 recs for a postbac program. These professors have given me recs before so I'm 99% sure they have the original saved and don't need to actually write it. Going in person is going to take 3 days out of my schedule and I can't really afford that. As I'm sure most of you know, catching professors via phone is pretty hard since their schedule is scattered. Most of them even prefer email. So would it be a bad idea to ask the via a well formulated email?
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Is it OK to ask your undergrad professors for a rec via email? I'm about 6 hours from my undergraduate university and am in need of 2 or 3 recs for a postbac program. These professors have given me recs before so I'm 99% sure they have the original saved and don't need to actually write it. Going in person is going to take 3 days out of my schedule and I can't really afford that. As I'm sure most of you know, catching professors via phone is pretty hard since their schedule is scattered. Most of them even prefer email. So would it be a bad idea to ask the via a well formulated email?
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Is it appropriate to ask a professor how he or she wants to be addressed? In some cases it is more obvious, but I am having an issue. I am being mentored while completing a special program at my school (which will eventually become a research project) with three faculty advisors. Two have me call them by their first names. The other mentor was my professor about a year ago. I always called her Dr. Smith in class. Now though my other two mentors keep referring to her in conversations by her first name (e.g. you should talk to Mary later today). She only really uses email informally and doesn't sign emails. Is it appropriate to ask "Hey, would you be comfortable if I call you Mary?"
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Is it appropriate to ask a professor how he or she wants to be addressed? In some cases it is more obvious, but I am having an issue. I am being mentored while completing a special program at my school (which will eventually become a research project) with three faculty advisors. Two have me call them by their first names. The other mentor was my professor about a year ago. I always called her Dr. Smith in class. Now though my other two mentors keep referring to her in conversations by her first name (e.g. you should talk to Mary later today). She only really uses email informally and doesn't sign emails. Is it appropriate to ask "Hey, would you be comfortable if I call you Mary?"
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Is it appropriate to ask a professor how he or she wants to be addressed? In some cases it is more obvious, but I am having an issue. I am being mentored while completing a special program at my school (which will eventually become a research project) with three faculty advisors. Two have me call them by their first names. The other mentor was my professor about a year ago. I always called her Dr. Smith in class. Now though my other two mentors keep referring to her in conversations by her first name (e.g. you should talk to Mary later today). She only really uses email informally and doesn't sign emails. Is it appropriate to ask "Hey, would you be comfortable if I call you Mary?"
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Is it appropriate to ask a professor how he or she wants to be addressed? In some cases it is more obvious, but I am having an issue. I am being mentored while completing a special program at my school (which will eventually become a research project) with three faculty advisors. Two have me call them by their first names. The other mentor was my professor about a year ago. I always called her Dr. Smith in class. Now though my other two mentors keep referring to her in conversations by her first name (e.g. you should talk to Mary later today). She only really uses email informally and doesn't sign emails. Is it appropriate to ask "Hey, would you be comfortable if I call you Mary?"
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Is it appropriate to ask for a letter of rec in this situation? Hello all, I’m a MA student and I will be applying to PhDs in the fall. This last quarter I took a remote course with a visiting professor who is a really big deal in our shared fields. Because she was visiting, it was only for the quarter and I won’t be able to take another class with her. That said, she gave me some of the most dazzling and rewarding praise on an essay I wrote for the class. She genuinely seemed impressed by my work and it warmed my heart!! Because the class was remote, and it’s the only one I will have with her, I’m worried that asking for a letter would be weird because we didn’t get to know each other super well. At the same time, her feedback was so positive and her international renown is so significant that a letter from her would be excellent. Is asking for a letter from this person appropriate? Thank you!
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Is it appropriate to ask for a letter of rec in this situation? Hello all, I’m a MA student and I will be applying to PhDs in the fall. This last quarter I took a remote course with a visiting professor who is a really big deal in our shared fields. Because she was visiting, it was only for the quarter and I won’t be able to take another class with her. That said, she gave me some of the most dazzling and rewarding praise on an essay I wrote for the class. She genuinely seemed impressed by my work and it warmed my heart!! Because the class was remote, and it’s the only one I will have with her, I’m worried that asking for a letter would be weird because we didn’t get to know each other super well. At the same time, her feedback was so positive and her international renown is so significant that a letter from her would be excellent. Is asking for a letter from this person appropriate? Thank you!
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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[ { "content": "Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Conference centers also usually have fedex or other places to print posters....", ...
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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[ { "content": "Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You should be able to go to the post office tomorrow and pick it up if tracking says...
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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[ { "content": "Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Print it on A4 papers ... Might have to redesign a little bit. But the poster is mor...
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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[ { "content": "Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I’ve also done a virtual presentation - post a sheet of paper where ppl can access p...
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?
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[ { "content": "Mail here is cancelled for several days due to weather, so I may not receive my poster in time for a poster presentation... What can I do in a pinch if I don't get it?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Some conferences have a poster printer on site for those who don’t like to travel wi...
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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Professor Refuses to Sign My Internship Papers. What should I do? Sorry, English is not my first language. Hi. Before anything, I am an undergraduate student who wants to become a professor myself. Due to COVID-19, not many internship positions were left and our university allowed students to be an intern by working with their professors. I agreed to do a mini-research with one of my professors. The research topic was about molecular biology for some reason and I'm an aerospace engineer. I had no place to refuse because of the coronavirus. The agreed working days were 20 and I spent more than 40 days on it. I made a very detailed report on it on Overleaf by using LaTeX. I explained every single detail. I sent the link but got no replies. I was getting impatient but I didn't want to disturb him. About a week later I decided to fill out an internship form that our university requires and send the form to him so that I can secretly check back on the report that I sent previously. In this form, you have to explain what you did that day and get the signature of a supervisor. It started so long ago that I couldn't remember what I did exactly and I did a sloppy job of filling out the form. That's my bad, I understand that. The reason why I did this is that I thought the form just as a formality and the true work I did was proven in my research report. Moreover, there is quite a lot of time until the form's deadline---two months as of now. My professor sent an angry email. He said that he would expect more from a university student and would not sign the form under any condition. He said to me that he was busy and I should never contact him again. I find this extreme and I'm not exaggerating his responses too. That's what he said verbatim. It turns out he never opened my research report according to Overleaf. I feel terrible and almost cried because I spent day and night on this project that had nothing to with my major for more than a month that was supposed to take 20 days. I practically wasted my summer. Should I contact the university or do you think that this is my mistake and I should learn something from it?
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What should I do about a letter of recommendation FOR a professor? I recently contacted a professor after two years out of contact to request a recommendation for graduate programs. He readily agreed but he later asked me if I was willing to "write a letter in support of his application to full professor". Of course I'm willing to help and fully support him, but I don't know how to go about writing such a letter. I don't know what a promotion committee would be looking for in that kind of letter and I don't know why my voice would have any weight in the decision (after all, I only have a bachelor's degree and have been away from academia for 2 years.) Any advice?
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What should I do about a letter of recommendation FOR a professor? I recently contacted a professor after two years out of contact to request a recommendation for graduate programs. He readily agreed but he later asked me if I was willing to "write a letter in support of his application to full professor". Of course I'm willing to help and fully support him, but I don't know how to go about writing such a letter. I don't know what a promotion committee would be looking for in that kind of letter and I don't know why my voice would have any weight in the decision (after all, I only have a bachelor's degree and have been away from academia for 2 years.) Any advice?
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What should I do about a letter of recommendation FOR a professor? I recently contacted a professor after two years out of contact to request a recommendation for graduate programs. He readily agreed but he later asked me if I was willing to "write a letter in support of his application to full professor". Of course I'm willing to help and fully support him, but I don't know how to go about writing such a letter. I don't know what a promotion committee would be looking for in that kind of letter and I don't know why my voice would have any weight in the decision (after all, I only have a bachelor's degree and have been away from academia for 2 years.) Any advice?
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My new Biological Anthropology professor is crazy. What should I do? I’m taking a lab class for Biological Anthropology this semester, and my new Professor for it has been a trip from day one. He introduced the class with a very jarring video stating “he will teach things different from how other teachers have taught and we need to get over the fact that we have different opinions”. Since then, here is a fun list of things he has done: • has spent the first two weeks on a tirade about how Darwinism is factually incorrect and unproven • blamed everything from politics to the job market and his bad standing in various institutions to “Neo-Darwinism”, and “politicization of science”. • claimed climate change is fake, and that it’s use is a political tool to science real academics like him • says cells choose how to evolve • went on a tirade about how evil religion is, blatantly smearing various religious figures and deities • claimed that magic mushrooms has been proven to be the origin of all major religions • actively talked down of other academics in anthropology to turn around and promote his books, all of which “contain the actual facts of the matter”. This all seems wild and unacceptable for a professional class, especially one that I am paying for, and I worry can actually be harmful for future bio-Anthro classes for me and my fellow students. What should I do? He is only one of two professors offering the lab course.
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[ { "content": "My new Biological Anthropology professor is crazy. What should I do? I’m taking a lab class for Biological Anthropology this semester, and my new Professor for it has been a trip from day one. He introduced the class with a very jarring video stating “he will teach things different from how other ...
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My new Biological Anthropology professor is crazy. What should I do? I’m taking a lab class for Biological Anthropology this semester, and my new Professor for it has been a trip from day one. He introduced the class with a very jarring video stating “he will teach things different from how other teachers have taught and we need to get over the fact that we have different opinions”. Since then, here is a fun list of things he has done: • has spent the first two weeks on a tirade about how Darwinism is factually incorrect and unproven • blamed everything from politics to the job market and his bad standing in various institutions to “Neo-Darwinism”, and “politicization of science”. • claimed climate change is fake, and that it’s use is a political tool to science real academics like him • says cells choose how to evolve • went on a tirade about how evil religion is, blatantly smearing various religious figures and deities • claimed that magic mushrooms has been proven to be the origin of all major religions • actively talked down of other academics in anthropology to turn around and promote his books, all of which “contain the actual facts of the matter”. This all seems wild and unacceptable for a professional class, especially one that I am paying for, and I worry can actually be harmful for future bio-Anthro classes for me and my fellow students. What should I do? He is only one of two professors offering the lab course.
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[ { "content": "My new Biological Anthropology professor is crazy. What should I do? I’m taking a lab class for Biological Anthropology this semester, and my new Professor for it has been a trip from day one. He introduced the class with a very jarring video stating “he will teach things different from how other ...
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Any tips on how to get recruiters/HR for companies to not discredit your work experience, and realize you just worked for the university and were not doing it for a course? I don't understand why this is such an issue. But every single time I speak to a recruiter/HR or anyone in an interview they discredit my work experience as "part of course work" I did not even go to the university I worked for. I have my job title next to the universities I worked for and even taught. I have in the description my job as well, but somehow still assume it was for school and discredit it. I even have my role Research Associate next to is and that I was a project manager, they should be able to read that and realize I was not a student, the teaching part should be a huge give away. It has been a reoccurring issue where I have to explain multiple times I was not a student, I have even had countless recruiters tell me my work experience "doesn't count" since it was for a university. Most of my work experience was research for an R1 university. How do you get around this BS? I just had an interview with the first research lab for my field that actually pays well, and I even had to explain it to them too. I have publications listed on my resume as well.
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Joint PHD/JD and PHD/MD students--What are your motivations and career prospects? I am currently considering the path of a dual degree in one of the two mention above. I have done some basic research into joint Neuroscience/ MD/ JD programs and am curious to see what others who are and have gone through the process think of it, their motivations, and their career prospects.
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[ { "content": "Joint PHD/JD and PHD/MD students--What are your motivations and career prospects? I am currently considering the path of a dual degree in one of the two mention above. I have done some basic research into joint Neuroscience/ MD/ JD programs and am curious to see what others who are and have gone t...
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is there any point to going to grad school if you have bad social anxiety? From what I've read, if you go to a phd program, your success depends on networking, 'selling' your research, having people who like you to do things for you, etc. Basically you have to be good at social things to do well, and it doesnt matter that much how good your research actually is. For me, I know for a fact that I would fail at all of those things. I've never had any friends before, and I get very anxious when I'm around other people and don't know how to make people like me. I can't 'sell' anything to anyone, I can't get people to network with me or like me. How important are these things, actually? Could I do well in a phd even if no one likes to talk to me or be around me?
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is there any point to going to grad school if you have bad social anxiety? From what I've read, if you go to a phd program, your success depends on networking, 'selling' your research, having people who like you to do things for you, etc. Basically you have to be good at social things to do well, and it doesnt matter that much how good your research actually is. For me, I know for a fact that I would fail at all of those things. I've never had any friends before, and I get very anxious when I'm around other people and don't know how to make people like me. I can't 'sell' anything to anyone, I can't get people to network with me or like me. How important are these things, actually? Could I do well in a phd even if no one likes to talk to me or be around me?
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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[ { "content": "How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too e...
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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How are universities planning to adjust grad student stipends if Trump's tax cut passes? My understanding is that under the tax cut, PhD students will be taxed for tuition as well. This would make grad school mostly unaffordable. Do any universities have plans for how they'd adjust, or is it too early?
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you make it work when your partner is in academia and you have a fairly specialized job? My boyfriend and I met in a physics class in undergraduate. Since then, I've gotten a masters in physics and in a month I am starting a job as a photonics engineer in the city where he is getting his PhD in physics. Things are going pretty smoothly -- I'm super excited about the job I got and the place I work is only a ten minute walk from his school! However, this is only a temporary situation. He's planning on doing the academic route, which means that after he graduates (in 2-3 years) he'll be spending up to 6 years doing post docs and then hopefully getting a job as a professor. We've talked about what this means for us. It means potentially doing more long distance, if he gets post docs in places where the job market isn't really there for me. Then he'll roll the dice with professor positions -- and if he doesn't get a good offer in a location that works for both of us it seems he'll just go into finance. Luckily a lot of the schools he'd be interested in usually have some jobs for me. Even though its a competitive process, I have faith he'll get a position and things will work out for us. He's a very hard worker and already at a top tier school. But I have no idea how to plan my own job shit. Does it look bad to move from job to job so I can come with him for different post docs? If he moves to somewhere like San Jose for a post doc then I would have no problem getting a job but I feel like it would reflect badly on me to have two or three gigs where I'm only there for 3 years or so. Ugh, I just want some perspective/advice from anyone who has been through the hell of being a career minded person in a romantic relationship with an academia person.
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How do you build a happy work and life in grad school and academia? Hi everyone! I am wrapping up my undergrad and super excited for graduate schools. I ha e offers from two competitive PhD programs in my field and I’m trying to imagine how I want to build my work-life for the next five years. For context: I’m 21, work 2 part time jobs and work in a research lab ~7-10 hours/week. I am double majoring with a minor. For me, I’ve had a lot of trouble making time for dating and ha going out with friends on weekdays. I love my research and I want to go directly into a PhD program to continue it. My two offers both require about 50-60 hours of work a week. I love my field and am willing to put in that amount of work every week, but I’m concerned about what habits I might build. I realize that I already have some unhealthy habits that probably will be even worse in grad school. For example, I tend to cut my friends off from my life and quit my workout routine when I’m overwhelmed with work. However, I want to date and have a family one day, and I don’t want to spend 5 years in grad school continuing unhealthy habits and ignoring my non-work life only to postpone the same goals trying to get tenure. What would you recommend to build a happy balance between work and life? What about dating in grad school? What sort of boundaries should I set with my advisors?
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How do you build a happy work and life in grad school and academia? Hi everyone! I am wrapping up my undergrad and super excited for graduate schools. I ha e offers from two competitive PhD programs in my field and I’m trying to imagine how I want to build my work-life for the next five years. For context: I’m 21, work 2 part time jobs and work in a research lab ~7-10 hours/week. I am double majoring with a minor. For me, I’ve had a lot of trouble making time for dating and ha going out with friends on weekdays. I love my research and I want to go directly into a PhD program to continue it. My two offers both require about 50-60 hours of work a week. I love my field and am willing to put in that amount of work every week, but I’m concerned about what habits I might build. I realize that I already have some unhealthy habits that probably will be even worse in grad school. For example, I tend to cut my friends off from my life and quit my workout routine when I’m overwhelmed with work. However, I want to date and have a family one day, and I don’t want to spend 5 years in grad school continuing unhealthy habits and ignoring my non-work life only to postpone the same goals trying to get tenure. What would you recommend to build a happy balance between work and life? What about dating in grad school? What sort of boundaries should I set with my advisors?
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How do you build a happy work and life in grad school and academia? Hi everyone! I am wrapping up my undergrad and super excited for graduate schools. I ha e offers from two competitive PhD programs in my field and I’m trying to imagine how I want to build my work-life for the next five years. For context: I’m 21, work 2 part time jobs and work in a research lab ~7-10 hours/week. I am double majoring with a minor. For me, I’ve had a lot of trouble making time for dating and ha going out with friends on weekdays. I love my research and I want to go directly into a PhD program to continue it. My two offers both require about 50-60 hours of work a week. I love my field and am willing to put in that amount of work every week, but I’m concerned about what habits I might build. I realize that I already have some unhealthy habits that probably will be even worse in grad school. For example, I tend to cut my friends off from my life and quit my workout routine when I’m overwhelmed with work. However, I want to date and have a family one day, and I don’t want to spend 5 years in grad school continuing unhealthy habits and ignoring my non-work life only to postpone the same goals trying to get tenure. What would you recommend to build a happy balance between work and life? What about dating in grad school? What sort of boundaries should I set with my advisors?
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How do you build a happy work and life in grad school and academia? Hi everyone! I am wrapping up my undergrad and super excited for graduate schools. I ha e offers from two competitive PhD programs in my field and I’m trying to imagine how I want to build my work-life for the next five years. For context: I’m 21, work 2 part time jobs and work in a research lab ~7-10 hours/week. I am double majoring with a minor. For me, I’ve had a lot of trouble making time for dating and ha going out with friends on weekdays. I love my research and I want to go directly into a PhD program to continue it. My two offers both require about 50-60 hours of work a week. I love my field and am willing to put in that amount of work every week, but I’m concerned about what habits I might build. I realize that I already have some unhealthy habits that probably will be even worse in grad school. For example, I tend to cut my friends off from my life and quit my workout routine when I’m overwhelmed with work. However, I want to date and have a family one day, and I don’t want to spend 5 years in grad school continuing unhealthy habits and ignoring my non-work life only to postpone the same goals trying to get tenure. What would you recommend to build a happy balance between work and life? What about dating in grad school? What sort of boundaries should I set with my advisors?
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How do you build a happy work and life in grad school and academia? Hi everyone! I am wrapping up my undergrad and super excited for graduate schools. I ha e offers from two competitive PhD programs in my field and I’m trying to imagine how I want to build my work-life for the next five years. For context: I’m 21, work 2 part time jobs and work in a research lab ~7-10 hours/week. I am double majoring with a minor. For me, I’ve had a lot of trouble making time for dating and ha going out with friends on weekdays. I love my research and I want to go directly into a PhD program to continue it. My two offers both require about 50-60 hours of work a week. I love my field and am willing to put in that amount of work every week, but I’m concerned about what habits I might build. I realize that I already have some unhealthy habits that probably will be even worse in grad school. For example, I tend to cut my friends off from my life and quit my workout routine when I’m overwhelmed with work. However, I want to date and have a family one day, and I don’t want to spend 5 years in grad school continuing unhealthy habits and ignoring my non-work life only to postpone the same goals trying to get tenure. What would you recommend to build a happy balance between work and life? What about dating in grad school? What sort of boundaries should I set with my advisors?
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Should I tell my PI that I'm allergic to mice? Hi! I'm a Ph.D. student who uses mice models. Recently I found that I had an adaptive allergy towards mice. Should I tell this to my PI? I'm worried in that case she might want to kick me out of the lab since I will probably not able to do in-vivo experiments anymore. Has anyone run into this situation before? Any suggestion will help. Thanks!
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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Collaborators that is not your PI, should I inform my PI? I am a first year PhD. Student going into second year in strategy and management at a top school. I had this cool idea I want to potentially pursue for my thesis when I asked my PI, he just assigned me work that he has funding for. Last week I shared my idea with another professor from a different school and he is very interested. This professor would like to work on it together, should I inform my PI and try to include him in the project? What is the proper etiquette here.
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[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
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Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.
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[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
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[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
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Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.
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[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
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Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.
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[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
[ { "content": "Should I tell a potential PhD advisor about my ADHD? I am applying for interdisciplinary research PhDs mostly in Europe. I would like to mention my ADHD but I am not sure how a prof would take it. Also if the answer is yes when would be the correct phase to tell them about it.", "role": "user"...
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