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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Update – [Virginia] – Neighbor threatened to sue because we purchased a bigger/better house for less than what he paid and “devalued” his home, has threatened the other new homeowners. His teenage son is a thief and the HOA is pissed at him. Original post here -http://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/2v6xv4/virginia_neighbor_has_threatened_suing_me_and/ …and the plot thickens with an out of control idiot teenage son, and the HOA being pretty pissed off. I know this is long, but trust me; it is well worth the read. Where to start…? The other weekend NoVa got snow. Where I live, we got A LOT of snow, over 10 inches! I only have a lowly shovel, a neighbor I have never met owns a brand new huge and powerful snow blower, and being the nice guy he is, he helped quite a few of us out in moving the mountains of snow that fell. I thanked him and told him I owe him a 6 pack of something delicious. After some polite “nawww man, you don’t have to do that” comments, he told me that if I were to pick something up, and he were not home, one could place a 6 pack in the latched decorative crate that is on his front porch, between the rocking chairs, and he would not object to finding a delicious treasure in there. He’s a nice guy. That following Monday (3 days later) I went to the grocery store and among my items was my nice neighbors 6 pack. I did as he said, put the beer in the crate on his porch, noticed his security camera and waved to his security camera. On Wednesday evening I saw Douchebag McGee as I was pulling into my driveway. Hindsight, I am fairly certain he was likely waiting for me to get home. As soon as I get out of my truck, he starts shouting from across the street that I will be going to jail for providing alcohol to minors. He goes on to say that he discovered his kid wandering the neighborhood wasted on late Monday night. I immediately put 2 and 2 together and realize that his son stole the beer from my nice neighbors front porch crate and drank it. I ignore him, and walk right over to my nice neighbor’s house and jokingly ask if he got my beers I left him. He says he did not and I tell him he may want to review the security camera footage for the last few days. He laughs and tells me that he already did that, and directs me to his garage where he shows me his kids damaged snow toys (sleds, discs, tubes). From what him and I can piece together, I placed the beer in his crate in the evening, Douchebag’s teenage son came onto his porch minutes after, stole the beer, kicked (and left a dent and crack) in the siding of the house, grabbed a sled and took off. We head into my nice neighbor’s house to watch/review the security camera footage and he shows me what he just described. Fast forward a few hours later, an obviously intoxicated teenager comes back with a broken sled and takes a disc and tube from the side of the house, and pees on the AC unit before leaving. About 20 minutes later he is back with his empty bottles, smashes a few of them in the gutter and puts the broken snow toys back on the side of the house. All this happened when the nice neighbor and family was not home. At this point I tell nice neighbor about Douchebag’s legal threats and he decides that we should speak about him at that next night’s (Wednesday) HOA meeting. I head home, ignoring Douchebag’s continuous yells from across the street. Wednesday night comes and nice neighbor and I get up and address our problems with Douchebag to the HOA. Nice neighbor starts by talking about the theft as well as the damage to his kid’s toys and siding. I get up and discuss the legal threats made, at the same time, the other 3 new neighbors get up and grumble that Douchebag had threatened them with a suit as well. One woman (a tiny waif of a woman mind you) said that he cornered her against her car when she got home a few weeks ago; she went on to say that he seemed pretty drunk too. At this point the HOA President, the Attorney for the HOA, and the Property Management Representative call for calm in the room (other neighbors were getting mad) and ask those of us who have been threatened by Douchebag to stick around, including nice neighbor. According to my wife, while I was traveling for work this Monday, cops showed up at nice neighbor’s house in the late afternoon, took a statement, and a flash drive of the video. Nice neighbor came over to my house and told my wife that the HOA told him to go ahead and call the cops to report property destruction and trespassing. The cops assured him that they are not interested in speaking with me, that they are “going after this little shit” because he is a problem at his high school and that they are not unfamiliar as to who he is. Again, according to my wife, the cops then head over to Douchebag’s house and after some yelling, Douche Jr. comes outside and they arrest him. My wife said they pulled out of his pockets what looked like a small bag of weed and a glass pipe. I got home late last night and received an email this morning from the HOA President addressed to me, nice neighbor, and the other 3 new homeowners. In it, it stated that they were made aware by the cops that they had arrested the teenager, and that the HOA attorney was looking into figuring out a way to stop the legal threats from Douchebag. We were assured that there is no legal precedence for suing someone because they purchased something for less than you did, but nonetheless, they are here to help if need be. 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Boss verbally approved me for relocation months ago, I moved and now suddenly upper management is mad and says I have until the end of the month to move back or they will terminate my position. My work is 100% remote. Hi! So quick background, been at this company for 2 years. Sales position. Have always been full remote, have never once had a face to face client meeting. I get bosses approval (verbally) to relocate cross country. Have been there for a month and work output has not declined at all (arguably improved). I have had meetings with my boss leading up to the move where he verbally approved my move and knew that it was happening. My boss's boss decides randomly to have a mandatory sales meeting (in-person) with 2 days notice, and I am unable to attend because I live across the country. Nothing is said to me. Fast forward 2 weeks to this morning, I have what I think is a regular one-on-one with my boss. However when I join the meeting, I see his boss also in the meeting. They begin by saying that I moved randomly without company approval and that I have until 9/30 to move back or they will terminate my position. There are no "Employee must be in office 2 days a week" requirements from HR, nor face to face meetings with clients. However my boss's boss says that it is a requirement of the job to be able to meet face to face with clients. I have been there 2+ years and neither I or any of my peers have ever once done this. Our clients do not even live in the same time zone at all either, so it is a massively irrelevant point. We also have many other people on the team who work fully remote from far away states, and I mention this and he says they are strategically placed for customer meetings. I know these people and they live in rural areas and have never once met with a client face to face, so it seems he is lying about a few things here. I eventually say "It seems like something else is going on here...." and my boss asks his boss "Can we tell him the other thing?" and my boss's boss goes on to deflect and says that even if I do decide to relocate back within 2 weeks, that my job could still be terminated. I ask why and he says my performance is not as good as some of my peers. ( a few weeks ago he told me I have the highest aptitude on my team, and that I can do things my peers cannot) I am not on a Performance Improvement Plan so not sure if I can get fired for cause there. Further, to make all of this worse, my boss is also now denying he gave me verbal confirmation, which he did many times. I can tell he is put in a weird spot and doesn't know how to proceed, but I feel thrown under the bus and need to look out for myself before him. In terms of proof that he did give me permission, the best I have is an email from a few months ago in which he says "Did you move already?" So nothing great there beyond word of mouth. ​ In terms of actual reasoning vs stated reasoning, I think something fishy is going on behind the scenes. It is clear that my boss's boss for some reason feels disrespected by my move. I'm not sure if they're laying people off and want to save resources on severance/unemployment so they are trying to terminate me with cause, or just looking for a reason to fire me at this point. During the meeting they kept taking notes of what I was saying and saying that they were gonna bring that to HR. ​ I have a personal cell phone call planned with my direct boss in a few hours where I am going to ask for transparency, but I want to make sure I am properly postured and do not say anything that could hurt my position. ​ In terms of next steps, I feel a little betrayed by the company and probably would prefer to take a severance package then to stay in tense circumstances where I know I am not wanted. How should I proceed? Can I request a hearing with HR where I present these counter arguments? ​ Thanks in advance. | bc31a9f594b6f208b5615e52d65f080425ec388888966eaf5b8eeefae9daabb6 | [
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[USA, FL] My job is telling me I have to be removed from my current position to a lower one with a pay reduction because they cannot accommodate me for my permanent medical restrictions from my congenital heart disorder I work in a Tier 3 leadership position with tenure at an Amazon facility. As of 2021 I have been experiencing medical issues related to my congenital heart condition. During early 2022, I experienced abnormal symptoms and have been following up with my primary physician and cardiologist who have cleared me to work with specific permanent restrictions of not lifting, carrying, or exerting 50lbs or more in any direction. I submitted my medical accommodation paperwork to the human resources team. After about a month of back and forth between the company’s HR disability & accommodation team and my physicians and I, they informed me that they cannot accommodate me for my current position. They stated that I would have to step down from my current Tier 3 position and continue my employment as a Tier 1 with a pay deduction to that of a Tier 1 associate. I am looking to see if there is anything I can do about this. | c02dda02b5754b31ca3456cc0a76358b2d501ac5daeff33169a2a96cdacb1632 | [
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My sister moved in with me 6 months ago, now it's about to be sold, she is threatening to call police/sue? Iowa My step-sister became homeless about 6 months ago. She had nowhere to go and I let her move in with me, but made it clear that I was trying to sell my house and would not provide housing for her after that point, she needed to be back on her feet. I found a buyer who will take possession 3 weeks from today. I informed her of this two weeks ago. Today when I asked her about when she plans to get her stuff out, she said technically she doesn't even have to leave. She says as long as there is no court order evicting her, me making her leave would be a "constructive eviction." She basically has decided she does not want to leave unless a judge says she absolutely must. I don't know if that is true, so I would appreciate any clarification. In addition: what now? If she doesn't have her stuff out in 3 weeks, can I just box it up and leave it in her front yard? (She does own a property and house, but it was condemned and she cannot legally live in it). Thanks. Edit: I can put it in a storage shed or something as well I suppose. But what happens if she doesn't get it out / take over paying for it? | 0e556a522ec5499a731a970fd4065417b262e9540f21e3f5e2787c1681e3b336 | [
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[NJ] Someone left a note under my windshield wiper that I damaged their bumper pulling into a parking space. That definitely never happened. How should I respond? This morning I drove to the train station and parked in a parking space without any incident. No weird noises, no impact, nothing. I turned off my engine and sat around for a few minutes catching up on Twitter, then caught my train. I went to work, and during the day, there was a snow squall that dropped maybe a bare 1/4" in the area. When I got back to my car, there was a note under the windshield, utterly untouched by any snow. It reads: "Hello you scraped (Badly) my bumper pulling into yor space, today at the %townnameredacted% train station parking lot. I *have pictures* (this is underlined in the original) Please, call me to resolve. ~~I will"~~ (this was indeed written and struck through) Below this is a phone number, the name on the paper, and 1/30/2019. I googled the phone number and it shows up as a landline, but the person whose name is on the paper did show up next to it in a Facebook posting. There is zero damage to my car. I've had fender-benders and minor paint scrapes before, and there is zero of anything that looks like I hit someone. Other than a paint chip the size of a quarter that's been on the front and center, off to the right, of the front bumper cover, there's absolutely nothing to indicate any kind of physical contact with anything else. My rims and tires are in fine shape without any scrapes more drastic than hitting a curb in the past. I have not called the number yet. My thoughts are that this is a mixup of some sort. How should I respond? My instinct is to use a Google Voice number that I don't use for anything other than throwaway stuff like Craigslist, job stuff, etc. It's not presently found on google and I can abandon it if I need to. I'd use a pseudonym, record the call, deny all knowledge of this, and ask her to either file a police report or open a claim with her insurance. My reason for the paranoia is that if she gets my real name, THAT is far less private. It smells like a scam, but at the bare minimum she has my license plate number, make, and model of my car. What's the best course of action here? | 3f0485da909cf176a507b1009ea59ec930646d123fcf867730f6247704915c7b | [
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[NJ] Someone left a note under my windshield wiper that I damaged their bumper pulling into a parking space. That definitely never happened. How should I respond? This morning I drove to the train station and parked in a parking space without any incident. No weird noises, no impact, nothing. I turned off my engine and sat around for a few minutes catching up on Twitter, then caught my train. I went to work, and during the day, there was a snow squall that dropped maybe a bare 1/4" in the area. When I got back to my car, there was a note under the windshield, utterly untouched by any snow. It reads: "Hello you scraped (Badly) my bumper pulling into yor space, today at the %townnameredacted% train station parking lot. I *have pictures* (this is underlined in the original) Please, call me to resolve. ~~I will"~~ (this was indeed written and struck through) Below this is a phone number, the name on the paper, and 1/30/2019. I googled the phone number and it shows up as a landline, but the person whose name is on the paper did show up next to it in a Facebook posting. There is zero damage to my car. I've had fender-benders and minor paint scrapes before, and there is zero of anything that looks like I hit someone. Other than a paint chip the size of a quarter that's been on the front and center, off to the right, of the front bumper cover, there's absolutely nothing to indicate any kind of physical contact with anything else. My rims and tires are in fine shape without any scrapes more drastic than hitting a curb in the past. I have not called the number yet. My thoughts are that this is a mixup of some sort. How should I respond? My instinct is to use a Google Voice number that I don't use for anything other than throwaway stuff like Craigslist, job stuff, etc. It's not presently found on google and I can abandon it if I need to. I'd use a pseudonym, record the call, deny all knowledge of this, and ask her to either file a police report or open a claim with her insurance. My reason for the paranoia is that if she gets my real name, THAT is far less private. It smells like a scam, but at the bare minimum she has my license plate number, make, and model of my car. What's the best course of action here? | 3f0485da909cf176a507b1009ea59ec930646d123fcf867730f6247704915c7b | [
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Update on my sister's crazy ex playing ding dong ditch CA, USA] [Old post here This literally happened a couple hours ago so emotions might be running high. I posted about a week or so ago that my sister's ex was ringing our doorbell and bothering us despite her having a restraining order. The cops have not been able to arrest him. He sporadically came to our house but not with any regularity. But he came this night and well, he finally went off the deep end. Order of events in numbered format: 1. Threw a hammer through the master bedroom window on the second floor. Didn't know it was a hammer until after the cops left. 2. Called the cops to come ASAP. 3. Proceeded to bang on our door and yell like a maniac, demanding I or my sister open the door. This lasted a good 10 minutes or so. We have video evidence of him at our front door via our Ring doorbell. 4. Took his car and rammed it into our patio fence and then into our garage door. Patio fence is still holding up but it's clear someone ran into it. The garage door was torn off. We don't have video footage of this since the Ring doorbell is on the other side of the house. 5. Once the garage door was torn off, he entered the garage and proceeded to bang on the door in the garage that would lead into the house. 6. Eventually leaves and the cops show up. We spend some time talking to the cops when the ex rolls up into the driveway. Immediately starts booking it when he sees the cop car. 7. The cops pursue but according to "policy" once the suspect starts running red lights and disobeying traffic rules they can't pursue farther because if the suspect were to crash into someone due to being chased by police, the police would be held liable. Which I understand the logic behind but it's very frustrating. And I think that's about the gist of it. Very unfortunate timing this happened today because the police force was extremely spread thin in the Bay Area today because of the shooting in Gilroy so they took quite a while to appear. So some questions I have lingering: 1. According to the cops, he has no warrant for his arrest yet. Is there anything we can do to get that done? 2. Obviously there's property damage that we have to address and I'm new to insurance shenanigans. I'm under the assumption that we take pictures of the damage, then call our home insurance to see if they cover it and if not, then tough beans we have to pay out of pocket. 3. Self-defense is always a tricky subject. If he breaks into the house, do I have the legal right to restrain him and even use deadly force if necessary? 4. The consensus among us is that even if we get him arrested, he might just be insane enough to come back when he's eventually arrested. When he is arrested, we are planning on using that time to buy time for us to sell the house and move. However, if we do move and he does proceed to damage the house when the new owners move in, would we be in any legal trouble? 5. Is there anything I could do that might help out in this situation? | 4bdb4df1bfc63e572e1b7a26a5be749f52ebe5fa70b3dbdb1025db01cdba6614 | [
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Update on my sister's crazy ex playing ding dong ditch CA, USA] [Old post here This literally happened a couple hours ago so emotions might be running high. I posted about a week or so ago that my sister's ex was ringing our doorbell and bothering us despite her having a restraining order. The cops have not been able to arrest him. He sporadically came to our house but not with any regularity. But he came this night and well, he finally went off the deep end. Order of events in numbered format: 1. Threw a hammer through the master bedroom window on the second floor. Didn't know it was a hammer until after the cops left. 2. Called the cops to come ASAP. 3. Proceeded to bang on our door and yell like a maniac, demanding I or my sister open the door. This lasted a good 10 minutes or so. We have video evidence of him at our front door via our Ring doorbell. 4. Took his car and rammed it into our patio fence and then into our garage door. Patio fence is still holding up but it's clear someone ran into it. The garage door was torn off. We don't have video footage of this since the Ring doorbell is on the other side of the house. 5. Once the garage door was torn off, he entered the garage and proceeded to bang on the door in the garage that would lead into the house. 6. Eventually leaves and the cops show up. We spend some time talking to the cops when the ex rolls up into the driveway. Immediately starts booking it when he sees the cop car. 7. The cops pursue but according to "policy" once the suspect starts running red lights and disobeying traffic rules they can't pursue farther because if the suspect were to crash into someone due to being chased by police, the police would be held liable. Which I understand the logic behind but it's very frustrating. And I think that's about the gist of it. Very unfortunate timing this happened today because the police force was extremely spread thin in the Bay Area today because of the shooting in Gilroy so they took quite a while to appear. So some questions I have lingering: 1. According to the cops, he has no warrant for his arrest yet. Is there anything we can do to get that done? 2. Obviously there's property damage that we have to address and I'm new to insurance shenanigans. I'm under the assumption that we take pictures of the damage, then call our home insurance to see if they cover it and if not, then tough beans we have to pay out of pocket. 3. Self-defense is always a tricky subject. If he breaks into the house, do I have the legal right to restrain him and even use deadly force if necessary? 4. The consensus among us is that even if we get him arrested, he might just be insane enough to come back when he's eventually arrested. When he is arrested, we are planning on using that time to buy time for us to sell the house and move. However, if we do move and he does proceed to damage the house when the new owners move in, would we be in any legal trouble? 5. Is there anything I could do that might help out in this situation? | 4bdb4df1bfc63e572e1b7a26a5be749f52ebe5fa70b3dbdb1025db01cdba6614 | [
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Update on my sister's crazy ex playing ding dong ditch CA, USA] [Old post here This literally happened a couple hours ago so emotions might be running high. I posted about a week or so ago that my sister's ex was ringing our doorbell and bothering us despite her having a restraining order. The cops have not been able to arrest him. He sporadically came to our house but not with any regularity. But he came this night and well, he finally went off the deep end. Order of events in numbered format: 1. Threw a hammer through the master bedroom window on the second floor. Didn't know it was a hammer until after the cops left. 2. Called the cops to come ASAP. 3. Proceeded to bang on our door and yell like a maniac, demanding I or my sister open the door. This lasted a good 10 minutes or so. We have video evidence of him at our front door via our Ring doorbell. 4. Took his car and rammed it into our patio fence and then into our garage door. Patio fence is still holding up but it's clear someone ran into it. The garage door was torn off. We don't have video footage of this since the Ring doorbell is on the other side of the house. 5. Once the garage door was torn off, he entered the garage and proceeded to bang on the door in the garage that would lead into the house. 6. Eventually leaves and the cops show up. We spend some time talking to the cops when the ex rolls up into the driveway. Immediately starts booking it when he sees the cop car. 7. The cops pursue but according to "policy" once the suspect starts running red lights and disobeying traffic rules they can't pursue farther because if the suspect were to crash into someone due to being chased by police, the police would be held liable. Which I understand the logic behind but it's very frustrating. And I think that's about the gist of it. Very unfortunate timing this happened today because the police force was extremely spread thin in the Bay Area today because of the shooting in Gilroy so they took quite a while to appear. So some questions I have lingering: 1. According to the cops, he has no warrant for his arrest yet. Is there anything we can do to get that done? 2. Obviously there's property damage that we have to address and I'm new to insurance shenanigans. I'm under the assumption that we take pictures of the damage, then call our home insurance to see if they cover it and if not, then tough beans we have to pay out of pocket. 3. Self-defense is always a tricky subject. If he breaks into the house, do I have the legal right to restrain him and even use deadly force if necessary? 4. The consensus among us is that even if we get him arrested, he might just be insane enough to come back when he's eventually arrested. When he is arrested, we are planning on using that time to buy time for us to sell the house and move. However, if we do move and he does proceed to damage the house when the new owners move in, would we be in any legal trouble? 5. Is there anything I could do that might help out in this situation? | 4bdb4df1bfc63e572e1b7a26a5be749f52ebe5fa70b3dbdb1025db01cdba6614 | [
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[AR] Neighbor’s kids rode their bikes through my freshly poured concrete. So I am new to this area, moved in late September. I have not met any of the neighbors, as I am trying to respect their safety with Covid, and honestly, I’m antisocial lol. There’s these kids (3-4 of them depending on the day) around the ages of 10/11 a few houses down who are always out riding bikes and doing kid stuff. They’ve ding dong ditched me a couple times, ride in my yard/driveway daily, and attempt to block my vehicle with their bikes coming to and from my home, I guess as a joke. These aren’t major issues for me, I just smile and wave as I am super easy going. Well, yesterday I had a very expensive plumbing job finished up with new concrete poured. Orange caution cones surrounding the repair and everything. Got home that evening and it looked great, was actually excited with how good they did. Woke up this morning to it not exactly ruined, but looks terrible. There’s bike tire tracks zig zagging all through it, it was done right at the point the concrete was almost finished drying so it’s not deep, just about a quarter inch of the surface is just destroyed. I do not have cameras, but I have a good idea who did it. I also know the parents of the culprits will not care. They enable the behavior by watching and laughing as their kids ride bikes towards moving vehicles. I’m honestly at a loss on this one, I was told not to approach the parent’s home in case they claim I am trespassing. I planned to approach them in a very civil and respectful manner, but it’s hard knowing they very likely will not care and could actually get me in trouble. I’m 22 years old, first time home owner, and grew up on a farm with no neighbors. This is all new to me, I’m considering just fixing it and crossing my fingers they don’t do it again. My fiancé is much less calm about it, she views this as crossing the line, I am also leaning towards this being over the top. My end goal: fix this at my expense but prevent them from doing it again. So...any advice Reddit? Do I call the non emergency line, document it, and hope for the best? | f93ebfcf99facc8b9e56a4d790537fac55b126545851334b7b0ea3b02c7d0d46 | [
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[AR] Neighbor’s kids rode their bikes through my freshly poured concrete. So I am new to this area, moved in late September. I have not met any of the neighbors, as I am trying to respect their safety with Covid, and honestly, I’m antisocial lol. There’s these kids (3-4 of them depending on the day) around the ages of 10/11 a few houses down who are always out riding bikes and doing kid stuff. They’ve ding dong ditched me a couple times, ride in my yard/driveway daily, and attempt to block my vehicle with their bikes coming to and from my home, I guess as a joke. These aren’t major issues for me, I just smile and wave as I am super easy going. Well, yesterday I had a very expensive plumbing job finished up with new concrete poured. Orange caution cones surrounding the repair and everything. Got home that evening and it looked great, was actually excited with how good they did. Woke up this morning to it not exactly ruined, but looks terrible. There’s bike tire tracks zig zagging all through it, it was done right at the point the concrete was almost finished drying so it’s not deep, just about a quarter inch of the surface is just destroyed. I do not have cameras, but I have a good idea who did it. I also know the parents of the culprits will not care. They enable the behavior by watching and laughing as their kids ride bikes towards moving vehicles. I’m honestly at a loss on this one, I was told not to approach the parent’s home in case they claim I am trespassing. I planned to approach them in a very civil and respectful manner, but it’s hard knowing they very likely will not care and could actually get me in trouble. I’m 22 years old, first time home owner, and grew up on a farm with no neighbors. This is all new to me, I’m considering just fixing it and crossing my fingers they don’t do it again. My fiancé is much less calm about it, she views this as crossing the line, I am also leaning towards this being over the top. My end goal: fix this at my expense but prevent them from doing it again. So...any advice Reddit? Do I call the non emergency line, document it, and hope for the best? | f93ebfcf99facc8b9e56a4d790537fac55b126545851334b7b0ea3b02c7d0d46 | [
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[AR] Neighbor’s kids rode their bikes through my freshly poured concrete. So I am new to this area, moved in late September. I have not met any of the neighbors, as I am trying to respect their safety with Covid, and honestly, I’m antisocial lol. There’s these kids (3-4 of them depending on the day) around the ages of 10/11 a few houses down who are always out riding bikes and doing kid stuff. They’ve ding dong ditched me a couple times, ride in my yard/driveway daily, and attempt to block my vehicle with their bikes coming to and from my home, I guess as a joke. These aren’t major issues for me, I just smile and wave as I am super easy going. Well, yesterday I had a very expensive plumbing job finished up with new concrete poured. Orange caution cones surrounding the repair and everything. Got home that evening and it looked great, was actually excited with how good they did. Woke up this morning to it not exactly ruined, but looks terrible. There’s bike tire tracks zig zagging all through it, it was done right at the point the concrete was almost finished drying so it’s not deep, just about a quarter inch of the surface is just destroyed. I do not have cameras, but I have a good idea who did it. I also know the parents of the culprits will not care. They enable the behavior by watching and laughing as their kids ride bikes towards moving vehicles. I’m honestly at a loss on this one, I was told not to approach the parent’s home in case they claim I am trespassing. I planned to approach them in a very civil and respectful manner, but it’s hard knowing they very likely will not care and could actually get me in trouble. I’m 22 years old, first time home owner, and grew up on a farm with no neighbors. This is all new to me, I’m considering just fixing it and crossing my fingers they don’t do it again. My fiancé is much less calm about it, she views this as crossing the line, I am also leaning towards this being over the top. My end goal: fix this at my expense but prevent them from doing it again. So...any advice Reddit? Do I call the non emergency line, document it, and hope for the best? | f93ebfcf99facc8b9e56a4d790537fac55b126545851334b7b0ea3b02c7d0d46 | [
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[AR] Neighbor’s kids rode their bikes through my freshly poured concrete. So I am new to this area, moved in late September. I have not met any of the neighbors, as I am trying to respect their safety with Covid, and honestly, I’m antisocial lol. There’s these kids (3-4 of them depending on the day) around the ages of 10/11 a few houses down who are always out riding bikes and doing kid stuff. They’ve ding dong ditched me a couple times, ride in my yard/driveway daily, and attempt to block my vehicle with their bikes coming to and from my home, I guess as a joke. These aren’t major issues for me, I just smile and wave as I am super easy going. Well, yesterday I had a very expensive plumbing job finished up with new concrete poured. Orange caution cones surrounding the repair and everything. Got home that evening and it looked great, was actually excited with how good they did. Woke up this morning to it not exactly ruined, but looks terrible. There’s bike tire tracks zig zagging all through it, it was done right at the point the concrete was almost finished drying so it’s not deep, just about a quarter inch of the surface is just destroyed. I do not have cameras, but I have a good idea who did it. I also know the parents of the culprits will not care. They enable the behavior by watching and laughing as their kids ride bikes towards moving vehicles. I’m honestly at a loss on this one, I was told not to approach the parent’s home in case they claim I am trespassing. I planned to approach them in a very civil and respectful manner, but it’s hard knowing they very likely will not care and could actually get me in trouble. I’m 22 years old, first time home owner, and grew up on a farm with no neighbors. This is all new to me, I’m considering just fixing it and crossing my fingers they don’t do it again. My fiancé is much less calm about it, she views this as crossing the line, I am also leaning towards this being over the top. My end goal: fix this at my expense but prevent them from doing it again. So...any advice Reddit? Do I call the non emergency line, document it, and hope for the best? | f93ebfcf99facc8b9e56a4d790537fac55b126545851334b7b0ea3b02c7d0d46 | [
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[AR] Neighbor’s kids rode their bikes through my freshly poured concrete. So I am new to this area, moved in late September. I have not met any of the neighbors, as I am trying to respect their safety with Covid, and honestly, I’m antisocial lol. There’s these kids (3-4 of them depending on the day) around the ages of 10/11 a few houses down who are always out riding bikes and doing kid stuff. They’ve ding dong ditched me a couple times, ride in my yard/driveway daily, and attempt to block my vehicle with their bikes coming to and from my home, I guess as a joke. These aren’t major issues for me, I just smile and wave as I am super easy going. Well, yesterday I had a very expensive plumbing job finished up with new concrete poured. Orange caution cones surrounding the repair and everything. Got home that evening and it looked great, was actually excited with how good they did. Woke up this morning to it not exactly ruined, but looks terrible. There’s bike tire tracks zig zagging all through it, it was done right at the point the concrete was almost finished drying so it’s not deep, just about a quarter inch of the surface is just destroyed. I do not have cameras, but I have a good idea who did it. I also know the parents of the culprits will not care. They enable the behavior by watching and laughing as their kids ride bikes towards moving vehicles. I’m honestly at a loss on this one, I was told not to approach the parent’s home in case they claim I am trespassing. I planned to approach them in a very civil and respectful manner, but it’s hard knowing they very likely will not care and could actually get me in trouble. I’m 22 years old, first time home owner, and grew up on a farm with no neighbors. This is all new to me, I’m considering just fixing it and crossing my fingers they don’t do it again. My fiancé is much less calm about it, she views this as crossing the line, I am also leaning towards this being over the top. My end goal: fix this at my expense but prevent them from doing it again. So...any advice Reddit? Do I call the non emergency line, document it, and hope for the best? | f93ebfcf99facc8b9e56a4d790537fac55b126545851334b7b0ea3b02c7d0d46 | [
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Need advice about a possible cat genocide, and I think my HOA has lost their damn minds. I live in a community where the HOA has always been very strict but usually I stay out of the drama and literally mail my vote in with a proxy vote. However, someone called me at home Sunday and I really don't know what to think.. They were very upset about a new manager they hired to simply keep sticks and leaves out of the pool between visits from the pool guy and keep the patio furniture clean and in good repair for 650 a month and free rent. They have nicknamed her Putin and somehow she has taken a lot more responsibility on than what was required. When I first moved here it was to escape the city and have animals around. There are ducks, turtles, and forest creatures and for 15 years these two elderly ladies have fed stray cats. One is terminally ill, it's literally her purpose. People that live here usually like animals because they are part of every day life including the occasional crocodile wandering about. We aren't talking a hoard of stray cats, there are precisely three. The manager, I'm told hates cats and all animals and has been harassing the ladies to take them to the shelter. They removed their flowers from the flower bed because she said "cats spread feline leukemia and covid" and removed all their mulch and won't permit the cats any more dishes. A camera was placed across the street and they were told to not feed stray cats. I can't find anything in the governing documents or in Florida law about stray cats. We only have a rule to not have pets over 25 pounds. The ladies were so upset and kept going on about how they would kill the cats. The lady they hired was annoyed with the ducks and turtles too. (The ducks fly into the pool sometimes and the kids sometimes sneak the occasional sticker to the back of the turtles and race them ) She has hung wire to prevent them from getting in the pool and a duck hung themselves causing a German tourist to get pretty traumatized. There are now rat traps everywhere presenting a safety hazard and we have no rat problems because of..... the cats. Like no one has ever reported to her one single rat. Our area of the lake is a nature preserve, shouldn't there be some kind of protection at least for the ducks, turtles and water creatures? I would be happy to adopt the cats, but I'm allergic. She has somehow taken a really easy job and complicated it but has swung half of the voters and I'm not sure how I can help, but I want to help. Can they legally do this? | 623509f6519a6804dce2d2e9681f2129191e17a749225d78b79f9dcb98e13ac9 | [
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Accidentally sold alcohol to a minor after being told not to card customers. Today was my first job at my local baseball stadium, I was a cashier at one of the food vendors. A vendor that sells a lot of alcohol. Within maybe 20 minutes of working, my boss pulled me aside and verbally berated me, telling me we don't have time to card every individual coming through, just use good judgemen. If I can't make good judgement, this isnt the job for me. Which immediately was a huge red flag, but I decided to work the rest of the day and not leave the team hanging, them already being short staffed. That and the job was 15 an hour plus tips. Low behold 3 customers later I accidentally sold alcohol to a minor. And within 5 minutes of selling, the very angry parents came up demanding to know why their 20 year old daughter was allowed to buy a White Claw. And the only thing I could do was throw my boss under the bus, cause he said, not to card people, because the process took too long or something stupid. Then my boss came out and flipped out on me, and made the whole situation seem like it was my fault, and that he never said anything like that. When one of my co workers started to stand up for me, my boss told her to shut up, or she was gonna be a part of this. My boss told the parents this will be dealt with, he then grabbed my by the back of tje neck like a dog, and yanked me into the back room, into his office, shoved me into the corner of his office, where I've now been waiting for 45 minutes for nothing to happen, with the door locked from the outside. I wad told there are serious consequences to my actions. So there are warnings all around the stadium about audio and video monitoring is occurring at all times, but I don't know if any of the altercation was recorded, if our conversation was recorded, or if my boss is out there intimidating my co workers into shutting their mouths. So how screwed am I right now. I know state laws are pretty strict on selling alcohol to minors, but I was literally told dont card or lose your job, then physically assaulted and now I'm being held against my will. And I have to pee so bad I'm thinking about pissing in his fake plant in the corner. I'll update the situation as time goes on. | 0caa16e0c6b5b749d5d8df80c74b2a9dfe51c27bd708c243d0ba27a8e03b7100 | [
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Accidentally sold alcohol to a minor after being told not to card customers. Today was my first job at my local baseball stadium, I was a cashier at one of the food vendors. A vendor that sells a lot of alcohol. Within maybe 20 minutes of working, my boss pulled me aside and verbally berated me, telling me we don't have time to card every individual coming through, just use good judgemen. If I can't make good judgement, this isnt the job for me. Which immediately was a huge red flag, but I decided to work the rest of the day and not leave the team hanging, them already being short staffed. That and the job was 15 an hour plus tips. Low behold 3 customers later I accidentally sold alcohol to a minor. And within 5 minutes of selling, the very angry parents came up demanding to know why their 20 year old daughter was allowed to buy a White Claw. And the only thing I could do was throw my boss under the bus, cause he said, not to card people, because the process took too long or something stupid. Then my boss came out and flipped out on me, and made the whole situation seem like it was my fault, and that he never said anything like that. When one of my co workers started to stand up for me, my boss told her to shut up, or she was gonna be a part of this. My boss told the parents this will be dealt with, he then grabbed my by the back of tje neck like a dog, and yanked me into the back room, into his office, shoved me into the corner of his office, where I've now been waiting for 45 minutes for nothing to happen, with the door locked from the outside. I wad told there are serious consequences to my actions. So there are warnings all around the stadium about audio and video monitoring is occurring at all times, but I don't know if any of the altercation was recorded, if our conversation was recorded, or if my boss is out there intimidating my co workers into shutting their mouths. So how screwed am I right now. I know state laws are pretty strict on selling alcohol to minors, but I was literally told dont card or lose your job, then physically assaulted and now I'm being held against my will. And I have to pee so bad I'm thinking about pissing in his fake plant in the corner. I'll update the situation as time goes on. | 0caa16e0c6b5b749d5d8df80c74b2a9dfe51c27bd708c243d0ba27a8e03b7100 | [
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Accidentally sold alcohol to a minor after being told not to card customers. Today was my first job at my local baseball stadium, I was a cashier at one of the food vendors. A vendor that sells a lot of alcohol. Within maybe 20 minutes of working, my boss pulled me aside and verbally berated me, telling me we don't have time to card every individual coming through, just use good judgemen. If I can't make good judgement, this isnt the job for me. Which immediately was a huge red flag, but I decided to work the rest of the day and not leave the team hanging, them already being short staffed. That and the job was 15 an hour plus tips. Low behold 3 customers later I accidentally sold alcohol to a minor. And within 5 minutes of selling, the very angry parents came up demanding to know why their 20 year old daughter was allowed to buy a White Claw. And the only thing I could do was throw my boss under the bus, cause he said, not to card people, because the process took too long or something stupid. Then my boss came out and flipped out on me, and made the whole situation seem like it was my fault, and that he never said anything like that. When one of my co workers started to stand up for me, my boss told her to shut up, or she was gonna be a part of this. My boss told the parents this will be dealt with, he then grabbed my by the back of tje neck like a dog, and yanked me into the back room, into his office, shoved me into the corner of his office, where I've now been waiting for 45 minutes for nothing to happen, with the door locked from the outside. I wad told there are serious consequences to my actions. So there are warnings all around the stadium about audio and video monitoring is occurring at all times, but I don't know if any of the altercation was recorded, if our conversation was recorded, or if my boss is out there intimidating my co workers into shutting their mouths. So how screwed am I right now. I know state laws are pretty strict on selling alcohol to minors, but I was literally told dont card or lose your job, then physically assaulted and now I'm being held against my will. And I have to pee so bad I'm thinking about pissing in his fake plant in the corner. I'll update the situation as time goes on. | 0caa16e0c6b5b749d5d8df80c74b2a9dfe51c27bd708c243d0ba27a8e03b7100 | [
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Accidentally sold alcohol to a minor after being told not to card customers. Today was my first job at my local baseball stadium, I was a cashier at one of the food vendors. A vendor that sells a lot of alcohol. Within maybe 20 minutes of working, my boss pulled me aside and verbally berated me, telling me we don't have time to card every individual coming through, just use good judgemen. If I can't make good judgement, this isnt the job for me. Which immediately was a huge red flag, but I decided to work the rest of the day and not leave the team hanging, them already being short staffed. That and the job was 15 an hour plus tips. Low behold 3 customers later I accidentally sold alcohol to a minor. And within 5 minutes of selling, the very angry parents came up demanding to know why their 20 year old daughter was allowed to buy a White Claw. And the only thing I could do was throw my boss under the bus, cause he said, not to card people, because the process took too long or something stupid. Then my boss came out and flipped out on me, and made the whole situation seem like it was my fault, and that he never said anything like that. When one of my co workers started to stand up for me, my boss told her to shut up, or she was gonna be a part of this. My boss told the parents this will be dealt with, he then grabbed my by the back of tje neck like a dog, and yanked me into the back room, into his office, shoved me into the corner of his office, where I've now been waiting for 45 minutes for nothing to happen, with the door locked from the outside. I wad told there are serious consequences to my actions. So there are warnings all around the stadium about audio and video monitoring is occurring at all times, but I don't know if any of the altercation was recorded, if our conversation was recorded, or if my boss is out there intimidating my co workers into shutting their mouths. So how screwed am I right now. I know state laws are pretty strict on selling alcohol to minors, but I was literally told dont card or lose your job, then physically assaulted and now I'm being held against my will. And I have to pee so bad I'm thinking about pissing in his fake plant in the corner. I'll update the situation as time goes on. | 0caa16e0c6b5b749d5d8df80c74b2a9dfe51c27bd708c243d0ba27a8e03b7100 | [
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(VA) Employer told unemployment commission I voluntarily left my job 3 months after being fired and I'm not sure what to do. Okay at the end of January my supervisor(who is the bosses nephew) took my W2 form and refused to return it after my sister dumped him. I threatened legal action and he begrudgingly gave it back and immediately after that I stopped being scheduled and my boss stopped answering my calls. About a week after that the douche texted me saying he was glad I was fired and he hopes my family becomes homeless as I was the only one working at the time. Now fast forward to today I received a letter for a fact finding interview because the boss said I left voluntarily but I had deleted the texts proving I was fired about a month ago(I thought I was done dealing with them and didn't want to read the other nasty things he said about me and my family). Im not sure what I can do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read this. | 675e078524e925e0f26904385e362453a7f16cf08906246e54cf7874896b4762 | [
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my signature has been forged on a document at work A couple of days ago I was injured at work, twice. I have an impact injury to my hand and also fell down a hole causing lacerations to my leg. Upon returning to work today after having one day off I reviewed our sign on/off sheets which we sign every day upon starting with our start time, temperature and blood alcohol level. We initial after our start time and to attest to our temp and bac and then at the end of the day we put in our finish time and Wether we have sustained an injury then initial again. I didn't sign out for time on the day I was injured and didn't fill out if I was injured or not or initial. When I looked at it today someone has booked me out at a false time, declared I wasn't injured and then forged my initial. What is my best course of action here? I have confronted my superintendent and the director of the company about this and we have a meeting scheduled for tomorrow morning. I work in construction in Australia. | fcdce79aec4e78a7eb2e52ad5390bfdc517fb47d08bf37e7632de212cd07e75f | [
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[Missouri] Grandpa passed away, but left no will. His girlfriend locked the doors and claims everything is hers since it's in her house. Help? My grandpa passed away a little while ago. He had a long-term girlfriend, but they never married for financial reasons. His girlfriend owns the house that they lived in before he passed, and from what his girlfriend says, he did not have a will. The girlfriend was friendly and cooperative while he was still alive, but as soon as he died she locked her doors and cut off contact with our family, stating that everything in the house was hers. She went as far as to tell her neighbors to "call the cops if you see anyone at the house who isn't hispanic", explaining that we were trying to steal from her. All of my grandpa's worldly possessions (minus his truck, which was titled and registered in only his name) are trapped inside her house. I'm afraid that she will sell off all of his possessions or distribute them among her family. There are many items that have sentimental value to us that we would like to keep in the family. Is there any legal action I could take to get back, if nothing more, a couple of things that we have memories of? | c081a60007b56aa3906a4273ef6d551ab250f09078ea16a5c1bdd9719875356f | [
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