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[Missouri] Grandpa passed away, but left no will. His girlfriend locked the doors and claims everything is hers since it's in her house. Help? My grandpa passed away a little while ago. He had a long-term girlfriend, but they never married for financial reasons. His girlfriend owns the house that they lived in before he passed, and from what his girlfriend says, he did not have a will. The girlfriend was friendly and cooperative while he was still alive, but as soon as he died she locked her doors and cut off contact with our family, stating that everything in the house was hers. She went as far as to tell her neighbors to "call the cops if you see anyone at the house who isn't hispanic", explaining that we were trying to steal from her. All of my grandpa's worldly possessions (minus his truck, which was titled and registered in only his name) are trapped inside her house. I'm afraid that she will sell off all of his possessions or distribute them among her family. There are many items that have sentimental value to us that we would like to keep in the family. Is there any legal action I could take to get back, if nothing more, a couple of things that we have memories of? | c081a60007b56aa3906a4273ef6d551ab250f09078ea16a5c1bdd9719875356f | [
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Step-dad “can’t find” moms will and rewrote one to give his daughters everything. Let me explain. My dad passed away when I was 8, it’s only my two brothers and I. My mom got sick with Covid and passed unexpectedly, like a lot of people. It was horrible for my brothers and I. Especially me because my mom has always been my best friend and we latched hard to her after my fathers death. Anyways, my step dad has 3 daughters. At the time my mom got sick, she was full time taking care of my step dads mother and sister and very depressed because of it. Once she passed, his daughter, her wife and my niece moved into the house. He kicked my older brother out (He did deserve it honestly because he has issues with alcohol these days). This house is a double wide with 4 bedrooms, at this point there’s 7 people in there. My little brother was really depressed and feeling pushed out since they were sleeping in the living room and he felt guilty for having his on room when they have a whole family. I am a single female that lives in a four bedroom house alone. I work really hard for what I have, so I made the decision to take him in and he lives with me now. The problem is, my step dad did something with my moms will. Both my brother and I physically saw the will, as we were both at the house living there, in her room, when she told us she finally had one made. The folder was on the dresser and I made the joke of wanting to look at it and she said, of course baby. I didn’t look at it and definitely didn’t want to think about her death. That was at least 8 years ago. Now my step dad acts like he doesn’t remember she had a will and like he couldn’t find it anywhere (it was in their safe which he said he couldn’t remember the code for but then all of a sudden he did remember her code and it wasnt in there he said) He had a will done and gave everything to his oldest daughter AND took out life insurance for them. My older brother got kicked out when he found out because he got drunk and said it wasnt fair and he knows why he did it. My mom was not wealthy, again a double wide but she did have things I know she wanted me to have and my brothers. A lot my step dad is feigning knowledge of. I filed to obtain her death certificate, hes changed all her email passwords and stuff so I can’t find it anywhere else, the will, that is. I finally got her death certificate in the mail (she passed in December) and there is no record of him having probated anything with the local court so I dont think his is legal. Do I get an attorney next? What is the next step? I know I had to get her death certificate first so I got that step done. TL;DR Moms will stolen by step dad after death (pretending it didn’t exist) and rewritten to give his daughters everything. Probate not filed so it can’t be legal. I have her death certificate, what is my next step? A lawyer to locate her will? | 82868ebb7cb6ede0746395a26189dfbbe5f43eb4a843162b5286305b4243f4e4 | [
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Step-dad “can’t find” moms will and rewrote one to give his daughters everything. Let me explain. My dad passed away when I was 8, it’s only my two brothers and I. My mom got sick with Covid and passed unexpectedly, like a lot of people. It was horrible for my brothers and I. Especially me because my mom has always been my best friend and we latched hard to her after my fathers death. Anyways, my step dad has 3 daughters. At the time my mom got sick, she was full time taking care of my step dads mother and sister and very depressed because of it. Once she passed, his daughter, her wife and my niece moved into the house. He kicked my older brother out (He did deserve it honestly because he has issues with alcohol these days). This house is a double wide with 4 bedrooms, at this point there’s 7 people in there. My little brother was really depressed and feeling pushed out since they were sleeping in the living room and he felt guilty for having his on room when they have a whole family. I am a single female that lives in a four bedroom house alone. I work really hard for what I have, so I made the decision to take him in and he lives with me now. The problem is, my step dad did something with my moms will. Both my brother and I physically saw the will, as we were both at the house living there, in her room, when she told us she finally had one made. The folder was on the dresser and I made the joke of wanting to look at it and she said, of course baby. I didn’t look at it and definitely didn’t want to think about her death. That was at least 8 years ago. Now my step dad acts like he doesn’t remember she had a will and like he couldn’t find it anywhere (it was in their safe which he said he couldn’t remember the code for but then all of a sudden he did remember her code and it wasnt in there he said) He had a will done and gave everything to his oldest daughter AND took out life insurance for them. My older brother got kicked out when he found out because he got drunk and said it wasnt fair and he knows why he did it. My mom was not wealthy, again a double wide but she did have things I know she wanted me to have and my brothers. A lot my step dad is feigning knowledge of. I filed to obtain her death certificate, hes changed all her email passwords and stuff so I can’t find it anywhere else, the will, that is. I finally got her death certificate in the mail (she passed in December) and there is no record of him having probated anything with the local court so I dont think his is legal. Do I get an attorney next? What is the next step? I know I had to get her death certificate first so I got that step done. TL;DR Moms will stolen by step dad after death (pretending it didn’t exist) and rewritten to give his daughters everything. Probate not filed so it can’t be legal. I have her death certificate, what is my next step? A lawyer to locate her will? | 82868ebb7cb6ede0746395a26189dfbbe5f43eb4a843162b5286305b4243f4e4 | [
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Mother in law is suing for visitation NY (Apparently it's good form to apologize when using mobile.) Today I was served with papers to go to family court so my MIL can have visitation with my children. A bit of backstory, my MIL is mentally unstable. She believes everyone is hacking her, me included. Shes extremely paranoid and tries to brainwash my kids, tells them I'm hacking her, that climate change is a hoax, Crystal's have healing power. (Admittedly the last 2 are no big deal, the first one is the huge deal.) The wife and her mother had a falling out over the accusing me of being hacked into her phone. My MIL expressed interest in seeing the kids, we told her if she wanted to see our children, she had to do so under our supervision. She then began gaslighting my wife by telling her me and my wife both have borderline personality disorder and told this to the entire family. Does my MIL have any right to take my children out of my supervision? Does she have a case? Should I get a lawyer? If I should get a lawyer, how can I get one if I'm broke? Any and all advice would be extremely helpful. | e76609c56ef118b4f9ec4df8d7388b65415f7fc68e8a6358867d9f418eaf4ddf | [
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Mother in-law says she’s suing for visitation Long story short my husband and I had not talked to my MIL in a year after she chose her boyfriend over attending our wedding. She learned through her ex husband that we were expecting about 6 months ago. She called my husband earlier this week and informed him she would be coming for the birth (first contact in about a year), he told her no. I’m due in 3 weeks and she contacted us again today telling us she would be suing for visitation rights to see her grandchild and would see this out to the end. We live in PA and she lives in GA. I’ve read the laws for both states regarding grandparent visitation and it doesn’t seem like she has any ground to stand on. My question is 2 parts- 1. Do we have any reason to be concerned? 2. Is there anything we should do proactively to protect our family? Thanks! | fd3d3969fec75a123ab2af5c2e79fffc797ff87096ef4554b7ef85b5d0445987 | [
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(Update) a fling from 7 months ago just told me she was pregnant Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/zuccqp/a_fling_from_7_months_ago_just_told_me_she_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Updating here because previous post was locked. I just had a consultation with an Oklahoma attorney specializing in child custody. It seems like I have a few options, but none of them are ideal. I also had a phone conversation with the mother, and I recorded it, and there are a lot of concerns I have after speaking with her. Starting with my phone call… the mother did not budge on her being pregnant. I did not believe her at first, but she never backed down it. She also never backed down on that I was the father, though she often evaded in any straight forward responses and I still have my doubts. She texted me an image of a sonogram. I reverse image searched the sonogram, and didn’t find any matches, though tbh I’m still new and unsure on how to do it accurately. I couldn’t tell if the sonogram was on thermal paper or cardboard paper, idk. The GA age of the baby that was marked on the sonogram matches up with when we last slept together. She is still denying me a prenatal paternity test. So I won’t know the truth until after the baby is born. She still wants to give the baby up for adoption. When I expressed my desire to raise the child myself, she became very combative… “you would take my baby away from me!?”… so I think if it comes down to a non adoption case scenario, she is going to fight me for custody. I think she’s mentally unwell, and was unstable before the pregnancy, and I am in a better place to raise a young one. There was also some concerning explosions that she had on the recorded phone call. But it doesn’t seem like Oklahoma sees her mental state as a way to relieve custody. About my consultation with the attorney, it seems Oklahoma is a state that heavily favors the mother in all aspects of custody. If I fought for custody, then she would likely have to have the baby for the first year due to nursing. I don’t think she would want to give up the baby after that. It seems like my best road forward to get custody for the child is to start providing a paper trail of my interest in her pregnancy. This would need to start with me serving her a request to a paternity test. This would also halt any adoption proceedings. My attorney made it clear that my rights as a father diminish exponentially after the baby is born so I need to act now if I want custody. However, since I live in a different state (Kentucky) custody battles would heavily favor the mother. My first question: would having a recorded verbal or written agreement to a paternity test after birth from her serve as a paper trail to show my interest in the child? It’s going to be $1500 to serve her, which isn’t the end of the world, but I don’t have a ton of money and need to start saving for a baby and future litigations. It’s going to be either $225/ hour or $300/hour to pursue future disputes after serving her. How many hours do you all foresee a case like this going if it gets messy? My second question: the attorney mentioned some disqualifying factors that may result in her losing custody of the child. But because Oklahoma favors the mom, it seemed like it would need to be extreme neglect or drug related charges to result in her losing custody. The mother still lives with her parents and they still don’t know about her pregnancy (even though she’s 7 months!?) she worries they will kick her out if they found out. Would homelessness be a disqualification? She would probably live with a friend if this happened so I doubt she’d be on the streets, but I’m just curious about how deep the disqualifications go. My third question: if the mother gave up the child for adoption without my signature and without my current intervention. The father was just a John Doe… well, how could I learn about the child in the future? If the child was safe and loved with adopted parents then I wouldn’t want to interfere but I would want to know about them and would want to have some kind of relationship even if it’s a distant one. Thanks, for everyone’s advice and messages. Let’s try not to get this post locked out this time :) | adafc5759601cef435fcd7d9a6d89c3ad04b1759678d01a0ab324a85c07a922b | [
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(Update) a fling from 7 months ago just told me she was pregnant Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/zuccqp/a_fling_from_7_months_ago_just_told_me_she_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Updating here because previous post was locked. I just had a consultation with an Oklahoma attorney specializing in child custody. It seems like I have a few options, but none of them are ideal. I also had a phone conversation with the mother, and I recorded it, and there are a lot of concerns I have after speaking with her. Starting with my phone call… the mother did not budge on her being pregnant. I did not believe her at first, but she never backed down it. She also never backed down on that I was the father, though she often evaded in any straight forward responses and I still have my doubts. She texted me an image of a sonogram. I reverse image searched the sonogram, and didn’t find any matches, though tbh I’m still new and unsure on how to do it accurately. I couldn’t tell if the sonogram was on thermal paper or cardboard paper, idk. The GA age of the baby that was marked on the sonogram matches up with when we last slept together. She is still denying me a prenatal paternity test. So I won’t know the truth until after the baby is born. She still wants to give the baby up for adoption. When I expressed my desire to raise the child myself, she became very combative… “you would take my baby away from me!?”… so I think if it comes down to a non adoption case scenario, she is going to fight me for custody. I think she’s mentally unwell, and was unstable before the pregnancy, and I am in a better place to raise a young one. There was also some concerning explosions that she had on the recorded phone call. But it doesn’t seem like Oklahoma sees her mental state as a way to relieve custody. About my consultation with the attorney, it seems Oklahoma is a state that heavily favors the mother in all aspects of custody. If I fought for custody, then she would likely have to have the baby for the first year due to nursing. I don’t think she would want to give up the baby after that. It seems like my best road forward to get custody for the child is to start providing a paper trail of my interest in her pregnancy. This would need to start with me serving her a request to a paternity test. This would also halt any adoption proceedings. My attorney made it clear that my rights as a father diminish exponentially after the baby is born so I need to act now if I want custody. However, since I live in a different state (Kentucky) custody battles would heavily favor the mother. My first question: would having a recorded verbal or written agreement to a paternity test after birth from her serve as a paper trail to show my interest in the child? It’s going to be $1500 to serve her, which isn’t the end of the world, but I don’t have a ton of money and need to start saving for a baby and future litigations. It’s going to be either $225/ hour or $300/hour to pursue future disputes after serving her. How many hours do you all foresee a case like this going if it gets messy? My second question: the attorney mentioned some disqualifying factors that may result in her losing custody of the child. But because Oklahoma favors the mom, it seemed like it would need to be extreme neglect or drug related charges to result in her losing custody. The mother still lives with her parents and they still don’t know about her pregnancy (even though she’s 7 months!?) she worries they will kick her out if they found out. Would homelessness be a disqualification? She would probably live with a friend if this happened so I doubt she’d be on the streets, but I’m just curious about how deep the disqualifications go. My third question: if the mother gave up the child for adoption without my signature and without my current intervention. The father was just a John Doe… well, how could I learn about the child in the future? If the child was safe and loved with adopted parents then I wouldn’t want to interfere but I would want to know about them and would want to have some kind of relationship even if it’s a distant one. Thanks, for everyone’s advice and messages. Let’s try not to get this post locked out this time :) | adafc5759601cef435fcd7d9a6d89c3ad04b1759678d01a0ab324a85c07a922b | [
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My cat was about to be taken from my own front yard by Animal Control, fled to a drain near by, got pulled out by the tail, taken to the shelter, and euthanized within the next few hours. Reasons for euthanizing include the fact that she didn't have a collar, and that she was missing an eye. However, we've recently had a vet checkup where the vet stated that the cat wasn't suffering / gave us proper medication to help her. Our vet also urged us not to euthanize at the time. | 84bb0364947870c7858bc95feab06b5e07df85e6d3f5aaa4e74bb9c364a76ae3 | [
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My dad passed a few months ago and his brothers are fighting for a chunk of his estate and belongings are they entitled to anything? My dad passed a few months ago and had left no will. He has been married to my mom for over 20 years. My dad's brother is enraged that he didn't receive anything after his death. It has come to our attention that he is going to try and fight to get any belongings and my dad's estate. Is there any way that he would be able to manage to do this successfully? | 94c745b67a038c63871b0a136d5fc992f274c96a8972f097c4c3f0630148e97d | [
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My 70 year old mother who has major dental anxiety went in to have a simple mold procedure done...(the kind I’ve had for whitening trays)...The Dentist came in to remove it ,usually just a simple removal and they pop out. Well....apparently the person who mixed this must have used permanent cement. The next hour consisted of a very upset dentist trying to remove this thing, popping her jaw in and out, my mother in a full panic attack crying from pain, her lip was cut in several places, and finally he ended up drilling the heck out of this thing to remove it. My distraught mother was given no explanation or apology,..and in shock pays the 700 dollar bill and leaves. She has to travel three hours to get to her provider because she has K.P. Needless to say, I’m livid. Not sure what to do but mistakes like this shouldn’t happen. Thank you | 35f8790adcecdc8380bb3caf5dd2eab27a54123cc6201de1cf3e366293f5a938 | [
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I'm a teenager. I might be dying. Is there any way I can make sure my little sister gets some of my stuff after I die? [Canada] Hi! I'm seventeen, and to make a long story short, I've been having some medical problems for a while. We don't know for sure, but things don't necessarily look *fantastic* right now. Tests will reveal more soon, and hopefully they'll reveal that I have something simple and treatable, but they might not. I've been thinking about what will happen in the event that they don't. I don't live with my biological family. In Canada, what happens to teenagers who can't live with their families is a bit different. When you're an older teenager, like me, instead of being in a foster home you get a small amount of money from the government to cover groceries, a bus pass, and the government will pay for you to rent a room somewhere. Currently, I live in a group home with a couple of other teenagers, although I'll hopefully be moving soon. The only family I've got is my little sister, who's just over a year younger than me. I don't live with her and she's not in the care of the government. If I do die, my younger sister would be devastated. Nothing I own is worth very much, and I don't really have any savings, but I think my sister would find some sentimental value in having some of my stuff (my favourite scarf, some of my favourite books, the plush animal I've had since I was like four, etc.) I don't know what would happen to the rest of my stuff after I die--if I had to guess, the people who run the group home (if I still live here when I die) will donate it to charity or something. Is there any way I could make sure my sister had any of my stuff that she wanted? | 56555ab8a50f6d9a99aa5106592b17f18fd5e70189e73ace165206d68b82084e | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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My mother has assaulted me in the past but we declined to press charges. She is now physically involving herself with my immunocompromised infant despite me asking her to be vaccinated first. What are my legal options? It’s a fairly long story, so bear with me. I’m going to just hit the major points * 5 months ago my mother assaulted me while drunk. The assault led to injuries that led to preterm delivery of my daughter at 26 weeks. We declined to press charges (yes I am dumb but hormones and stress and morphine and family pressure) * I told her the only way she would meet my severely immunocompromised newborn post-NICU release would be if she was vaccinated. She is a stalwart woo believer and refused * Despite me saying “well then no baby time for you” she will run into me while out and, without a word to me, pick up my infant out of her carrier and hold her. She is currently sick which is making me even more freaked out by this. I yell and she puts down my daughter and scurries off. I do not think she’s stalking me- neither of us drive and I still live in the neighborhood I grew up in, so we frequent the same places. What are my legal options to at least stop her from grabbing my baby in public? I don’t want to press charges for the assault but I 100% believe she is a danger to my infant. (State is NY) TL;DR- my mom can be violent and generally completely psycho. She assaulted me. We declined to press charges. I required her to be vaccinated to meet my daughter; she said no. If we run into each other out she will not say anything to me but will take my infant out of her carrier. What legal options do I have? | c767d7add498649820b45df4d7c8bbbfff54f612c549956e8111b439d7ad74e4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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Nevada- Friend (15f) is catfishing middle aged pedophiles, getting them to send $ to her paypal, and then reporting them as predators. Risk factors or legal repercussions? The title is pretty much self explanatory, but I'll give a little more context for those who are curious. Basically, me and my friend are 15 year old girls in the 10th grade and today (3/24) she told me she messages older men, in their 20s-50s, makes it clear she is a minor, sends them pictures of her (w/ her face in them), and tells them she will send them nudes (fully naked pics) if they send money to her PayPal account. Then, she quickly spends the money or transfers it out of her PP, and blocks them without sending them nudes. She takes their real name from their PayPal and submits their info to a cyber tipline for child sex predators. The reason she does this is because her family is heavily in debt, parents are abusive, has health problems, and she can't afford food always. She was also sexually abused as a child by an adult man, so she personally hates pedophiles. My friend makes it VERY CLEAR that she is underage because she only wants to scam bad people, and there is no way anyone could send money to her without having full knowledge that they are soliciting and purchasing child pornography. The men usually send her anywhere from $40-$100 although she has received more and less. She didn't tell me the exact number she has scammed, but she said it's 10+ and she has been doing this on and off since 13. Now for the actual question part. Is there any kind of trouble or danger she can get in by doing this? I know she is scamming these men, but they are willingly sending money to her w/o guarantee they get anything and I don't know if it is illegal or not that she isn't fulfilling her part of the bargain (which is *illegal* itself because child pornography is illegal, but note she isn't actually sending any pornographic images, the only ones they see are innocent ones of her face). Is there any way the pedophiles could get away with reporting her to the police without revealing that they were trying to buy child pornography and she's the one who gets screwed over? Are the tiplines actually effective enough to get them arrested? Also, I'm not sure if this is legal related so I don't expect this one to get answered, but is there any likelihood that these guys will find out where she is and she will be in danger? P.S. sorry if the flair is wrong, I'm not sure exactly what this falls under | 6ec1968f9274a5042abe87bf4dcc4bf720270fc7610f44306fff690d20ec36f4 | [
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House 200 to 300 sq ft smaller than appraisal seller's gave me. Can I be compensated after a year? Roseville, CA Last year, I bought a house being sold as 2300 sqft based on the appraisal given to me by the seller. I was wary about this because I saw that the house was listed as 1885 sq ft on one of the real estate websites, so I asked. The seller's realtor and my realtor assured me that an appraisal can't lie and that the house was actually 2300 sqft. I was also told that there was no reason to get my own appraisal from my mortgage lender, to save the money and not worry about it. Stupidly, I listened. Now (one year later), I'm redoing the floors, so the house was measured and I found out that the actual square footage is from 200 to 300 square feet less? Do I have any legal recourse? Can I be compensated? Or did I sign off my right to compensation by not getting my own appraisal? I appreciate any help I can get on this. Thanks | 83f19c9b2795b0f52981f09ee2365e0fa4c79cdefe34b1419d8be538b47d5210 | [
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