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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Neighbor cut down a tree in our yard: Tree Law and shitty MS Paint maps AL] Now that I have your attention, yeah, that's the gist of it. The neighbor went and cut down a tree in our yard. Now, at first look, it seems like it'd be in his yard. Except we've had the property surveyed, and it is (was) on our property. Hell, even part of his driveway is on our property. [My magnum opus. So, obviously we're going to need a lawyer, and they're going to have a field day with it. Is there anything in particular we'd need to document to make a strong case? I've already got pictures of the stump of the tree before he could grind it out, but what else might be necessary? I'm in Mobile, AL. | d9231aa4fa9ef371138dee7c57e0e4cf81a57cd76c45e024920375413ac95c52 | [
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Accused of sexually abusing my infant son by batshit MIL. Throwaway for obvious reasons. Bear with me. My insane Christian MIL hates me. I listen to Metallica and Megadeth, therefore I am the reincarnation of Lucifer. Yesterday I was changing our son's (6 months old) nappy, he had poop all over the place, because he's a baby. I cleaned around his anus and my MIL shreaked at the top of her lungs: "You just sexually abused your son! You fucking vile pig." Our son, obviously almost jumped off the changing table with shock and was in hysterics. MIL started slapping me around the back of the head, shoulders and back. Wife came in and almost had to carry MIL out of the room. I'm in a state of shock, I have to calm our son down and finish cleaning him. Can hear MIL and FIL raging in the background. Hear the front door slam. MIL now says she's calling CPS and has reported the "sexual abuse" of our son. What's my recourse here? When CPS show up, do I bar them from entering and explain the waste of time they're in for? Do I let them in? Do I hire a lawyer and look for a cease and desist? I'm worried about letting CPS in because people have told me that they will take a dim view of me (the father) being the one looking after him while my wife is working. Is there any truth to that? I'm fairly certain she will call CPS because she has called the police on me in the past for driving my wife's car. State is Wyoming. | 94604303522b60191fb32d16fff92cb6789afbd6241ef674d473529b47ea9c17 | [
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Accused of sexually abusing my infant son by batshit MIL. Throwaway for obvious reasons. Bear with me. My insane Christian MIL hates me. I listen to Metallica and Megadeth, therefore I am the reincarnation of Lucifer. Yesterday I was changing our son's (6 months old) nappy, he had poop all over the place, because he's a baby. I cleaned around his anus and my MIL shreaked at the top of her lungs: "You just sexually abused your son! You fucking vile pig." Our son, obviously almost jumped off the changing table with shock and was in hysterics. MIL started slapping me around the back of the head, shoulders and back. Wife came in and almost had to carry MIL out of the room. I'm in a state of shock, I have to calm our son down and finish cleaning him. Can hear MIL and FIL raging in the background. Hear the front door slam. MIL now says she's calling CPS and has reported the "sexual abuse" of our son. What's my recourse here? When CPS show up, do I bar them from entering and explain the waste of time they're in for? Do I let them in? Do I hire a lawyer and look for a cease and desist? I'm worried about letting CPS in because people have told me that they will take a dim view of me (the father) being the one looking after him while my wife is working. Is there any truth to that? I'm fairly certain she will call CPS because she has called the police on me in the past for driving my wife's car. State is Wyoming. | 94604303522b60191fb32d16fff92cb6789afbd6241ef674d473529b47ea9c17 | [
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Accused of sexually abusing my infant son by batshit MIL. Throwaway for obvious reasons. Bear with me. My insane Christian MIL hates me. I listen to Metallica and Megadeth, therefore I am the reincarnation of Lucifer. Yesterday I was changing our son's (6 months old) nappy, he had poop all over the place, because he's a baby. I cleaned around his anus and my MIL shreaked at the top of her lungs: "You just sexually abused your son! You fucking vile pig." Our son, obviously almost jumped off the changing table with shock and was in hysterics. MIL started slapping me around the back of the head, shoulders and back. Wife came in and almost had to carry MIL out of the room. I'm in a state of shock, I have to calm our son down and finish cleaning him. Can hear MIL and FIL raging in the background. Hear the front door slam. MIL now says she's calling CPS and has reported the "sexual abuse" of our son. What's my recourse here? When CPS show up, do I bar them from entering and explain the waste of time they're in for? Do I let them in? Do I hire a lawyer and look for a cease and desist? I'm worried about letting CPS in because people have told me that they will take a dim view of me (the father) being the one looking after him while my wife is working. Is there any truth to that? I'm fairly certain she will call CPS because she has called the police on me in the past for driving my wife's car. State is Wyoming. | 94604303522b60191fb32d16fff92cb6789afbd6241ef674d473529b47ea9c17 | [
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Accused of sexually abusing my infant son by batshit MIL. Throwaway for obvious reasons. Bear with me. My insane Christian MIL hates me. I listen to Metallica and Megadeth, therefore I am the reincarnation of Lucifer. Yesterday I was changing our son's (6 months old) nappy, he had poop all over the place, because he's a baby. I cleaned around his anus and my MIL shreaked at the top of her lungs: "You just sexually abused your son! You fucking vile pig." Our son, obviously almost jumped off the changing table with shock and was in hysterics. MIL started slapping me around the back of the head, shoulders and back. Wife came in and almost had to carry MIL out of the room. I'm in a state of shock, I have to calm our son down and finish cleaning him. Can hear MIL and FIL raging in the background. Hear the front door slam. MIL now says she's calling CPS and has reported the "sexual abuse" of our son. What's my recourse here? When CPS show up, do I bar them from entering and explain the waste of time they're in for? Do I let them in? Do I hire a lawyer and look for a cease and desist? I'm worried about letting CPS in because people have told me that they will take a dim view of me (the father) being the one looking after him while my wife is working. Is there any truth to that? I'm fairly certain she will call CPS because she has called the police on me in the past for driving my wife's car. State is Wyoming. | 94604303522b60191fb32d16fff92cb6789afbd6241ef674d473529b47ea9c17 | [
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Accused of sexually abusing my infant son by batshit MIL. Throwaway for obvious reasons. Bear with me. My insane Christian MIL hates me. I listen to Metallica and Megadeth, therefore I am the reincarnation of Lucifer. Yesterday I was changing our son's (6 months old) nappy, he had poop all over the place, because he's a baby. I cleaned around his anus and my MIL shreaked at the top of her lungs: "You just sexually abused your son! You fucking vile pig." Our son, obviously almost jumped off the changing table with shock and was in hysterics. MIL started slapping me around the back of the head, shoulders and back. Wife came in and almost had to carry MIL out of the room. I'm in a state of shock, I have to calm our son down and finish cleaning him. Can hear MIL and FIL raging in the background. Hear the front door slam. MIL now says she's calling CPS and has reported the "sexual abuse" of our son. What's my recourse here? When CPS show up, do I bar them from entering and explain the waste of time they're in for? Do I let them in? Do I hire a lawyer and look for a cease and desist? I'm worried about letting CPS in because people have told me that they will take a dim view of me (the father) being the one looking after him while my wife is working. Is there any truth to that? I'm fairly certain she will call CPS because she has called the police on me in the past for driving my wife's car. State is Wyoming. | 94604303522b60191fb32d16fff92cb6789afbd6241ef674d473529b47ea9c17 | [
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My teenage son is being sexually groomed Hello and thank you very much to everyone for your help. TLDR at the end. Our son is 14 years old and all parties live in Georgia. Two weeks ago, we discovered that a close family friend (40 years old) has been sexually grooming our son. We discovered this after getting some weird vibes from our last encounter and suddenly all the pieces clicked together in our mind. It became blatantly obvious after viewing the text message history between my son and this person. We immediately ceased all contact and called the police. We feel incredibly lucky that nothing physical had occurred yet. In the messages, my son and this person discuss pornography they've watched together - they created a shared account on a porn site. They watched the videos at the ex-family friend's house on their laptop. Additionally, the ex-friend would save videos that they wanted my son to watch alone. Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. This person is well known, very active in their church and community, plus has a child that they adopted through the local foster/CPS program. How long do cases like this carry on? When will that person be arrested? Is there any defense to allegations like this that are commonly used? How will they attempt to explain their actions? What can we do to help or ensure that charges will be pressed? All of us have begun therapy through the Children's Advocacy Center - us for guilt, our son for a myriad of reasons but mostly guilt and shame. We do not in any way blame or fault him and he is not, nor ever been, in trouble with the police. Thank you very, very much for any suggestions, advice, or information. As you can imagine, we are still stunned at this situation. TLDR; 14 yr old sexually groomed by 40 yr old, nothing physical, watched and shared pornography, gifts given - all corroborated in their text messages to each other. What laws have been (allegedly) broken and what are the penalties? What are the stages of a police investigation, DA already involved, and how should we expect this to proceed? What could their defense be to allegations of this nature? I will check this post later this evening to answer any questions and read all the replies. Thank you | 381ec337e3f490f5c750a0b22fed372c9eb3001eff1aedd942e80f2274758d49 | [
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Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. 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What laws have been (allegedly) broken and what are the penalties? What are the stages of a police investigation, DA already involved, and how should we expect this to proceed? What could their defense be to allegations of this nature? I will check this post later this evening to answer any questions and read all the replies. Thank you | 381ec337e3f490f5c750a0b22fed372c9eb3001eff1aedd942e80f2274758d49 | [
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Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. 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What laws have been (allegedly) broken and what are the penalties? What are the stages of a police investigation, DA already involved, and how should we expect this to proceed? What could their defense be to allegations of this nature? I will check this post later this evening to answer any questions and read all the replies. Thank you | 381ec337e3f490f5c750a0b22fed372c9eb3001eff1aedd942e80f2274758d49 | [
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My teenage son is being sexually groomed Hello and thank you very much to everyone for your help. TLDR at the end. Our son is 14 years old and all parties live in Georgia. Two weeks ago, we discovered that a close family friend (40 years old) has been sexually grooming our son. We discovered this after getting some weird vibes from our last encounter and suddenly all the pieces clicked together in our mind. It became blatantly obvious after viewing the text message history between my son and this person. We immediately ceased all contact and called the police. We feel incredibly lucky that nothing physical had occurred yet. In the messages, my son and this person discuss pornography they've watched together - they created a shared account on a porn site. They watched the videos at the ex-family friend's house on their laptop. Additionally, the ex-friend would save videos that they wanted my son to watch alone. Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. 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What laws have been (allegedly) broken and what are the penalties? What are the stages of a police investigation, DA already involved, and how should we expect this to proceed? What could their defense be to allegations of this nature? I will check this post later this evening to answer any questions and read all the replies. Thank you | 381ec337e3f490f5c750a0b22fed372c9eb3001eff1aedd942e80f2274758d49 | [
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My teenage son is being sexually groomed Hello and thank you very much to everyone for your help. TLDR at the end. Our son is 14 years old and all parties live in Georgia. Two weeks ago, we discovered that a close family friend (40 years old) has been sexually grooming our son. We discovered this after getting some weird vibes from our last encounter and suddenly all the pieces clicked together in our mind. It became blatantly obvious after viewing the text message history between my son and this person. We immediately ceased all contact and called the police. We feel incredibly lucky that nothing physical had occurred yet. In the messages, my son and this person discuss pornography they've watched together - they created a shared account on a porn site. They watched the videos at the ex-family friend's house on their laptop. Additionally, the ex-friend would save videos that they wanted my son to watch alone. Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. 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What laws have been (allegedly) broken and what are the penalties? What are the stages of a police investigation, DA already involved, and how should we expect this to proceed? What could their defense be to allegations of this nature? I will check this post later this evening to answer any questions and read all the replies. Thank you | 381ec337e3f490f5c750a0b22fed372c9eb3001eff1aedd942e80f2274758d49 | [
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Matching up the text messages against the date/time stamps on the porn account, they watched movies together many times and my son watched several alone. The detective said they may uncover more if/when they have access to the laptop. According to the calendar I keep, there are many documented visits to this person's house and the computer history may contain movies viewed outside of the account or deleted. There are several other very inappropriate text conversations - sending pictures back and forth of girls (clothed) and asking my son if he found them attractive, how this person had to hide from their spouse to masturbate, at times being "turned on" and frustrated, and other convos along those lines. My kid states in a couple of the replies that he is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. All of the above is in the messages between the two of them. There is no ambiguity or code words. In addition to the messages, there are also several gifts that were given under the guise that it was earned by working and helping out around their house. The gifts included the phone my son used for messages and viewing porn. All "gifts" have been turned over to the police. My son was hanging out with this person frequently. Their house was on his walk home from school, they were tutoring him, taking him with them to use their gym membership, or just letting him hang out. Please keep in mind, I am a stay at home parent - I knew where he was at all times and I absolutely trusted this person. This friendship went back to high school, our families hang out regularly, we live less than half a mile apart. I am completely blindsided by this - the anger and guilt are tremendous. Here's where we are now - we called the police around 2 weeks ago and after reading the messages, the responding officer immediately called in the calvary. Within 2 hours, his supervisor had shown up with a detective, CPS came and went, and all the evidence(?) on our side had been collected. Everybody was freaking awesome and amazingly kind. Since then we have met the detective twice at the Children's Advocacy Center to talk with my son. The detective told us that he is working closely with the DA and would probably interview the ex-family friend this week. I guess at some point the detective intends to have the friends laptop - he said something about using it to verify the story. The friend has no clue that we have reported this to the police - they think our son is grounded and has lost privileges. My (our) questions: What happens now? What should we expect next? What crimes could they be charged for and what are the penalties? I am under the assumption that this is the first time this person has ever been accused of this nature. 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My ex husband refused to allow my teenage son to eat until he weighed himself. Is there any way I can get my son off of visitation? Divorce happened in California where ex lives. Son and I live in Colorado. Son is currently on visitation with ex in California. My son has a history of anorexia and ex knows this. Son has been in treatment for a few months now and has made significant progress. Son texts me today telling me that ex made him weigh himself. Son refused because of his past and ex told him he wouldn't be allowed to eat until he weighed himself. Once again, ex has been kept well aware that son has been dealing with anorexia for a long time and that food is a sensitive topic. Surely there's some way I can get son out of ex's house? He will be there for another two weeks. I do not feel comfortable at all with son completing the visit. Not if this is how ex treats him. Do I have any options? | 8f8f1a564efa0b5fa0fc9e3d4da7c933044b974259ba5e824daf10c1e93939b1 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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California - Involved in accident caused by prank (very loud) train horn on another car. I'd like to fight the ticket I am guessing I am going to get, and likely future lawsuit. California Using a throwaway This happened yesterday Driving down a 3 lane road, I am in the middle lane, light a head of us abut 1/4 mile up turns red, everyone starts slowing down, but still moving ~30MPH, douchebag in a ridiculous lifted truck to the right of me as a "prank" honks his horn. Not any horn, but a fucking train horn. Scared the shit out of me Here is what happened: - Horn goes off, it caused me to swerve and slam into the back of the car in front of me in the next lane over - Another car was hit by the car I hit - We are all in agreement that we do not know if he hit the car first or if I pushed him into the car because he was equally scared and he slammed his brakes and left his lane when he heard the horn. - Shockingly enough, the truck stuck around - MS Paint diagram of the situation - https://i.imgur.com/G4NY5HC.png No tickets were handed out to those of us in the accident as the cops wanted to take their time concluding their investigation, but we were all told that tickets are coming. The guy in the truck did get a ticket for having using his train horn as that's illegal My main question here...Am I at fault here? What can I do to pin the cause of this on the guy in the truck with the super loud horn? Some quick googling says that his modification is be illegal (as evidenced by the ticket he received), but are his actions enough to make him at fault? | 03805c7d1279f3e8b861f57f44f5adab288b1de291e7e39ccb229c9e66e24547 | [
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Power company said they wanted to come top the trees in yard and then they cut them down to the stump instead without my permission. Essentially as the title states, the power company knocked on my door and asked to come top the trees along my fence line in my back yard. They stated that they'd be taking roughly three feet off of the top. This made sense to me, as there are also power lines that run along the back of my property. I oblige because I know that whatever damage that is done to the line in the future is my responsibility if it involves my trees. Fast-forward to tree topping day. I return home after work and go to look at the job that had been done. The company that they had contracted cut the trees down to stumps. Four of the five 50+ year old Degroot's Spire Arborvitae. Gone. These trees had been here before my Mother purchased the property 31 years ago. I'm not really sure where to go from here, but I've read some other posts on this forum and would like to know if it's even worth pursuing a lawsuit. Thanks for reading. State is Oregon. | 0af7d1704724b32d1aebe54a551af753d41432c2055bb2a2a95e401e4e1a1def | [
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Police keep coming to my house looking for someone who doesn’t live here. This has been going on for six years. The person they’re looking for is the previous owner of the home; I’ve owned the home for six years. I have told the officers on multiple occasions that he no longer lives here. The police usually come here between 2-4am looking for him. They bang on the door, ring the doorbell, and walk around my house shining flashlights in all my windows. This happens 2-3 times a year. The police have never showed up here with a warrant for his arrest, if that makes a difference. How can I get it on official record that this person no longer lives here? How can I stop the police from coming to my house looking for someone who hasn’t lived here for 6 years? I live in Texas. | b9f67da1a199c2bc49469a536d79fbf9ba3ce0a3fe094312e85c3295a60cec6b | [
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An animal control officer came to my apartment today to try and "collect" my dog for unpaid license fees, but I have a lifetime license for him. Denied his entry, and he said they would return if it's not paid, with a warrant as well as a sheriff. I need help! Minneapolis, MN. Hi everyone. This literally just happened a few little while ago and I've been kind of freaking out because I cannot lose my dog. He's my lifeline and with my life being so crazy in 2019 I'd probably have a mental breakdown if they took him away. This guy knocks on my door so I answer and he identifies himself and shows his ID. He basically says he is there to collect my dog, Theo, until my fees are paid. At first I'm just kind of confused, but then I explain very calmly I have no idea what he's talking about. I think it must be someone else he's talking about, but he confirms my name, address, and my dog's name as well so now I'm even more confused. Now I've also never received anything from them saying I owe anything until literally today. He calls his supervisor or whatever and apparently they had been sending the mail to my old address even though I moved 3 years ago. I had already updated all my information with them when I registered my current pup. Apparently I owed a fee on my old cat that was unpaid( I believe it was paid) which made my license for my dog invalidated. I could try and dispute it, but they still have to process it like normal until that happens which could be weeks. So now this guy still says that it doesn't matter and they have to take my dog or I have to pay today. He says that if it gets overturned later I can get a refund, but I would have to pay now otherwise they'll continue to try and collect my dog or return with a sheriff and warrant to come in to get him. Right now this is impossible due to my financial situation. It's literally the worse timing ever and this year is just a horrible cluster of crap so far. I've already lost my job in January, and my father had a heart attack as well. I've quickly burned through all the savings I had with bills/flights/car problems, and my new job just started on Tuesday. I won't get paid for several weeks so I have no idea how to get this taken care of. Basically I owe $320 that needs to be paid immediately and then disputed otherwise they will come take my dog. What can I do? Is there an expedited way to dispute this or prove I paid before? Thank you in advance! | db4381d31b75217c6709270435651434b9a8d81839a8ca5130ba311d5bbffb9d | [
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Landlord claims a homeless person broke-in after we vacated and is suing us for 10k of damage, has photos of a different house as evidence! There is a lot to unpack here but I’ll try to keep it short. Our landlord never returned our security deposit, any of it, and never provided an itemized list of deductions, which in Los Angeles, he is required to do so within 21 days after we move-out. Civil code 1950.5. 2 years goes by and I’m taking him to Small Claims court. Only after we file a case against him we learn this story about how a homeless person broke in after we left and caused $10k of damages, which he is counter-suing us for. We got a packet of his evidence including a list of damages and what they cost to repair, but no receipts, invoices, material/labor costs, anything. Just numbers. Also in his evidence packet are a series of grainy black and white photos showing a damaged apartment, but it’s a different house! Our oven is in a different place, so is the sink, the bathrooms are different and there’s a bunch of junk in the sidewalk that never belonged to us. We believe the junk belonged to the people living the back house, there are two separated houses on the same lot and he is showing photos of the back house. We have photos of our house from the day we moved out showing no damage. Despite these clearly being photos of the wrong house, he’s still claiming a homeless person broke into our house and caused damage, but there are no photos of any damage to our unit. The units are very similar though and the photos are poor quality and taken up close so it’s hard to prove every photo is from the back house. Even if this story of the homeless person were true, can any of the blame be placed on us? He’s claiming we didn’t properly lock up and didn’t give the keys back. We left the keys inside and locked all the doors and windows. We did this because we got no instructions of what to do with the keys and we don’t know where he lives, he only ever gave us a P.O. Box where we sent rent checks to. We also asked for a pre-move inspection where we could have went over these details, which he denied. I even emailed him saying we moved out and he replied that same day ‘ok great’ , again never mentioning anything about what to do with the keys. I’m afraid we’re going to spend all of our time in court debating the photos and damage but really shouldn’t it be his responsibility to secure the house after we told him we moved out? Thanks for any help on this | bee7d12d1597fc1454b27a4637f54ae30c2bb69b4a3ba0fdd7e5b0b40948da14 | [
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Landlord claims a homeless person broke-in after we vacated and is suing us for 10k of damage, has photos of a different house as evidence! There is a lot to unpack here but I’ll try to keep it short. Our landlord never returned our security deposit, any of it, and never provided an itemized list of deductions, which in Los Angeles, he is required to do so within 21 days after we move-out. Civil code 1950.5. 2 years goes by and I’m taking him to Small Claims court. Only after we file a case against him we learn this story about how a homeless person broke in after we left and caused $10k of damages, which he is counter-suing us for. We got a packet of his evidence including a list of damages and what they cost to repair, but no receipts, invoices, material/labor costs, anything. Just numbers. Also in his evidence packet are a series of grainy black and white photos showing a damaged apartment, but it’s a different house! Our oven is in a different place, so is the sink, the bathrooms are different and there’s a bunch of junk in the sidewalk that never belonged to us. We believe the junk belonged to the people living the back house, there are two separated houses on the same lot and he is showing photos of the back house. We have photos of our house from the day we moved out showing no damage. Despite these clearly being photos of the wrong house, he’s still claiming a homeless person broke into our house and caused damage, but there are no photos of any damage to our unit. The units are very similar though and the photos are poor quality and taken up close so it’s hard to prove every photo is from the back house. Even if this story of the homeless person were true, can any of the blame be placed on us? He’s claiming we didn’t properly lock up and didn’t give the keys back. We left the keys inside and locked all the doors and windows. We did this because we got no instructions of what to do with the keys and we don’t know where he lives, he only ever gave us a P.O. Box where we sent rent checks to. We also asked for a pre-move inspection where we could have went over these details, which he denied. I even emailed him saying we moved out and he replied that same day ‘ok great’ , again never mentioning anything about what to do with the keys. I’m afraid we’re going to spend all of our time in court debating the photos and damage but really shouldn’t it be his responsibility to secure the house after we told him we moved out? Thanks for any help on this | bee7d12d1597fc1454b27a4637f54ae30c2bb69b4a3ba0fdd7e5b0b40948da14 | [
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Landlord claims a homeless person broke-in after we vacated and is suing us for 10k of damage, has photos of a different house as evidence! There is a lot to unpack here but I’ll try to keep it short. Our landlord never returned our security deposit, any of it, and never provided an itemized list of deductions, which in Los Angeles, he is required to do so within 21 days after we move-out. Civil code 1950.5. 2 years goes by and I’m taking him to Small Claims court. Only after we file a case against him we learn this story about how a homeless person broke in after we left and caused $10k of damages, which he is counter-suing us for. We got a packet of his evidence including a list of damages and what they cost to repair, but no receipts, invoices, material/labor costs, anything. Just numbers. Also in his evidence packet are a series of grainy black and white photos showing a damaged apartment, but it’s a different house! Our oven is in a different place, so is the sink, the bathrooms are different and there’s a bunch of junk in the sidewalk that never belonged to us. We believe the junk belonged to the people living the back house, there are two separated houses on the same lot and he is showing photos of the back house. We have photos of our house from the day we moved out showing no damage. Despite these clearly being photos of the wrong house, he’s still claiming a homeless person broke into our house and caused damage, but there are no photos of any damage to our unit. The units are very similar though and the photos are poor quality and taken up close so it’s hard to prove every photo is from the back house. Even if this story of the homeless person were true, can any of the blame be placed on us? He’s claiming we didn’t properly lock up and didn’t give the keys back. We left the keys inside and locked all the doors and windows. We did this because we got no instructions of what to do with the keys and we don’t know where he lives, he only ever gave us a P.O. Box where we sent rent checks to. We also asked for a pre-move inspection where we could have went over these details, which he denied. I even emailed him saying we moved out and he replied that same day ‘ok great’ , again never mentioning anything about what to do with the keys. I’m afraid we’re going to spend all of our time in court debating the photos and damage but really shouldn’t it be his responsibility to secure the house after we told him we moved out? Thanks for any help on this | bee7d12d1597fc1454b27a4637f54ae30c2bb69b4a3ba0fdd7e5b0b40948da14 | [
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