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Psychiatrist admitted to stealing and selling my brothers antipsychotic medication the day we went for his appointment. So my younger brother got caught up with the wrong crowd developed a thought disorder a few years ago after experimenting with heavy drugs. Now he needs to get an antipsychotic administered via shot every month so that he doesn't have another episode. My brother hasn't had his shots since January if this year, but the pharmacy delivers his meds to this Psychiatrist's office every month, incase he goes to get it. Last week, my brother cane to me, and said he's realized that he really needs the meds and can't go on without them much longer (up until then, basically denied he needed anything, saying "I'm not crazy, you can't make me") but now begging for it essentially, claiming he's now experiencing suicidal thoughts. I called, made an appointment, told his doctor everything, today we get there, expecting 6 vials, only to be told he doesn't have any left. He admitted to selling them, as each shot is worth $2,600. I'm planning to get the insurance involved, and I want to sue this man. Do I have a case? | 5bd25d4974beccc669ba3298068db9899ba0583d1a49895590aaaf82037edd85 | [
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Psychiatrist admitted to stealing and selling my brothers antipsychotic medication the day we went for his appointment. So my younger brother got caught up with the wrong crowd developed a thought disorder a few years ago after experimenting with heavy drugs. Now he needs to get an antipsychotic administered via shot every month so that he doesn't have another episode. My brother hasn't had his shots since January if this year, but the pharmacy delivers his meds to this Psychiatrist's office every month, incase he goes to get it. Last week, my brother cane to me, and said he's realized that he really needs the meds and can't go on without them much longer (up until then, basically denied he needed anything, saying "I'm not crazy, you can't make me") but now begging for it essentially, claiming he's now experiencing suicidal thoughts. I called, made an appointment, told his doctor everything, today we get there, expecting 6 vials, only to be told he doesn't have any left. He admitted to selling them, as each shot is worth $2,600. I'm planning to get the insurance involved, and I want to sue this man. Do I have a case? | 5bd25d4974beccc669ba3298068db9899ba0583d1a49895590aaaf82037edd85 | [
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5 out of the 11 children of my grandmothers just froze her bank accounts/assets and have been stealing her mail. Backstory. My grandmother got COVID and was found collapsed in her home by my father. My grandma made my dad POA and the other siblings were pissed. (She’s okay now thank goodness) Well..They decided to help my grandma and clean up her place a bit(without permission) and what does someone find? Her will. They opened her mail, and find her will. They didn’t like what they found, and put boards over my grandmas door claiming my father (Whom has been driving her everywhere and taking care of her animals for 20 years) has been causing elder abuse. The police were contacted and found nothing. Now, 4 months later my grandma tried to get some milk and her card was decline. Almost $40,000 gone from her reach. One uncle is taking her mail from her mailbox. They have court Tuesday and I hope charges are pressed against the family that did this to her. My grandmother pays her bills. She tends to her huge garden unassisted, and she gets her groceries and does everything herself. If they were concerned they would visit her daily, they would have attempted to get her an in home nurse. But they didn’t. None of them really care about her, just her money. They’re trying to break her heart and have her die so they can get her will. It’s disgusting. What can I do for my grandma. What can they do to fight back, can they press charges on my uncles that did this to her? I’m so livid. My grandmother would give her last dime to help her family. They are greedy and cannot be allowed to do this. Please help. This is in US, IA. | a62a27335e3f7bf67611503f1c69207670dd1500aa560abafa59f937b83b1776 | [
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5 out of the 11 children of my grandmothers just froze her bank accounts/assets and have been stealing her mail. Backstory. My grandmother got COVID and was found collapsed in her home by my father. My grandma made my dad POA and the other siblings were pissed. (She’s okay now thank goodness) Well..They decided to help my grandma and clean up her place a bit(without permission) and what does someone find? Her will. They opened her mail, and find her will. They didn’t like what they found, and put boards over my grandmas door claiming my father (Whom has been driving her everywhere and taking care of her animals for 20 years) has been causing elder abuse. The police were contacted and found nothing. Now, 4 months later my grandma tried to get some milk and her card was decline. Almost $40,000 gone from her reach. One uncle is taking her mail from her mailbox. They have court Tuesday and I hope charges are pressed against the family that did this to her. My grandmother pays her bills. She tends to her huge garden unassisted, and she gets her groceries and does everything herself. If they were concerned they would visit her daily, they would have attempted to get her an in home nurse. But they didn’t. None of them really care about her, just her money. They’re trying to break her heart and have her die so they can get her will. It’s disgusting. What can I do for my grandma. What can they do to fight back, can they press charges on my uncles that did this to her? I’m so livid. My grandmother would give her last dime to help her family. They are greedy and cannot be allowed to do this. Please help. This is in US, IA. | a62a27335e3f7bf67611503f1c69207670dd1500aa560abafa59f937b83b1776 | [
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Mother stole grandmother’s identity and found out it was worse than she originally thought. This was the fourth victim my mother preyed on. What can be done? Back in June I reported my mother for taking advantage of my grandmother when I found out. She talked my grandmother into becoming power of attorney and moved my grandmother in after my grandfather passed. She opened loans, tried for a mortgage, opened credit cards, withdrew from my grandmother’s checking accounts, and more all without my grandmother’s knowledge. The credit cards and loans were never paid off and went to collections. The debt was around $9,000-10,000. I helped her file a report online with the FTC. I made copies and letters for her to mail to any business involved and to take to the police station. My grandmother refused to press charges, refused a restraining order against my mother for harassment despite everyone involved saying she should, and talked the aging agency that got involved into not pressing it any farther once they recovered only $3,000 of the money back. Debt collectors have been harassing her still despite having the identity theft report and are trying to scare her into paying those debts. I found out today due to a collector telling her to contact me and see if I’ll loan her money to pay them or they’ll take her to court and get the money anyway. I told her it’s a scare tactic and that I won’t give her money. She can’t afford much now that my mother ruined her so she offered to pay them smaller monthly payments and they refused. I told her she should of never said she would pay or accept the debt because she has the report to prove it was identity theft but she did so anyways. Her reason was that she already got my mother into enough trouble and she hopes that maybe my mother will forgive her(yes, I told her it should be the other way around). Since I reported it all back in June she’s found out the identity theft was a lot worse than she thought but still refuses to press charges as she feels she doesn’t have the heart to do so. My mother harasses her weekly and despite me blocking her on my grandmother’s phone when asked my grandmother turns around and unblocks her in hopes to build a relationship with her again. Debt collectors call every day, she found out there’s more accounts falsely opened, her savings is very low and she’s always stressed about how she’ll continue living off her fixed income. I’m at my wits end, I keep getting calls from her almost daily crying about this and I always suggest she press charges but she won’t. Im very vocal about how I feel my mother deserves to be charged as I had to file a report in September 2018, at the time of filing I had no clue it was my own mother that stole my identity. When I found out I chickened out of pressing charges as mine was less than $2,000 and the businesses all dropped the debt once they seen the report. I had no clue I wasn’t the first victim she did this too. I’m guessing there isn’t anything that can be done to end this because she won’t press charges herself? If something can be done who do I need to contact? Location: PA, USA | 71bfb36ab33072e06c84f92834b29367bf1777bda2d3931de35d7f6b96716c65 | [
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Mother stole grandmother’s identity and found out it was worse than she originally thought. This was the fourth victim my mother preyed on. What can be done? Back in June I reported my mother for taking advantage of my grandmother when I found out. She talked my grandmother into becoming power of attorney and moved my grandmother in after my grandfather passed. She opened loans, tried for a mortgage, opened credit cards, withdrew from my grandmother’s checking accounts, and more all without my grandmother’s knowledge. The credit cards and loans were never paid off and went to collections. The debt was around $9,000-10,000. I helped her file a report online with the FTC. I made copies and letters for her to mail to any business involved and to take to the police station. My grandmother refused to press charges, refused a restraining order against my mother for harassment despite everyone involved saying she should, and talked the aging agency that got involved into not pressing it any farther once they recovered only $3,000 of the money back. Debt collectors have been harassing her still despite having the identity theft report and are trying to scare her into paying those debts. I found out today due to a collector telling her to contact me and see if I’ll loan her money to pay them or they’ll take her to court and get the money anyway. I told her it’s a scare tactic and that I won’t give her money. She can’t afford much now that my mother ruined her so she offered to pay them smaller monthly payments and they refused. I told her she should of never said she would pay or accept the debt because she has the report to prove it was identity theft but she did so anyways. Her reason was that she already got my mother into enough trouble and she hopes that maybe my mother will forgive her(yes, I told her it should be the other way around). Since I reported it all back in June she’s found out the identity theft was a lot worse than she thought but still refuses to press charges as she feels she doesn’t have the heart to do so. My mother harasses her weekly and despite me blocking her on my grandmother’s phone when asked my grandmother turns around and unblocks her in hopes to build a relationship with her again. Debt collectors call every day, she found out there’s more accounts falsely opened, her savings is very low and she’s always stressed about how she’ll continue living off her fixed income. I’m at my wits end, I keep getting calls from her almost daily crying about this and I always suggest she press charges but she won’t. Im very vocal about how I feel my mother deserves to be charged as I had to file a report in September 2018, at the time of filing I had no clue it was my own mother that stole my identity. When I found out I chickened out of pressing charges as mine was less than $2,000 and the businesses all dropped the debt once they seen the report. I had no clue I wasn’t the first victim she did this too. I’m guessing there isn’t anything that can be done to end this because she won’t press charges herself? If something can be done who do I need to contact? Location: PA, USA | 71bfb36ab33072e06c84f92834b29367bf1777bda2d3931de35d7f6b96716c65 | [
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I'm a teacher in CA. A student used my facebook profile picture to create a fake instagram account and sent creepy messages to high school girls. He's fessed up to it and deleted the fake account. What can/should I do? The principal has suspended him and stipulated that he contact everyone and make it known that I had no part. I'm still uncomfortable. He's a 7th grader ~12-13 years old. | d38844671282080577e272302ede797aab2900dc5e073897400c11a6c9c5ec43 | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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(FL) Husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. My husbands ex-wife keeps claiming to live at our address. She puts on everything from magazine subscriptions to government documents. All her crap ends up here. She has **never** lived here. We mark all the mail return to sender. She changed her address to ours at the post office and according to a friend of ours(owns a car dealership, she test drive something) she even changed her drivers license. We live in a gated community so it's not like she can take the mail. What can we do to make this stop? | d60e0382418025dd8da5d040c9133fc6532c919a37a58aa20049469484bd096b | [
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My husband’s ex wife is asking for money for their adult children- past the age of child support. Hello! Just a quick question. I’m hoping someone can guide us to the right direction. My husband has an ex wife and 2 children who are 38 and 40. My husband paid child support and had a life insurance policy (in case he passed while they were on child support) up until they were done with college. So it has been almost 20 years since he has had to pay anything. Now his ex wife is threatening to sue my husband and is harassing him for the life insurance policy money. According to her it was a permanent policy and according to my husband it was only while he paid child support. How can I find out what the real divorce settlement was? What should I do? What is the quickest way to close this up and get her to leave us alone? We are in NJ if that makes a difference. | b02bb263c481174d9b24e91022c7012f274e6b419b6eaa1d361f311cd4ddf551 | [
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Ex-wife has stopped communicating with me and her parents for several days, we have joint legal custody of our children, she has threatened to leave with the country with the children in the past. It's Fathers day and still nothing. What are my options? My ex has physical custody but we're still working on getting permanent custody orders; we both want physical custody of the children as we live in different states. The temporary orders give her physical custody but we share legal custody. I get 3 calls a week (which I rarely get), and the children are to made available to me when I am in the state (California). She had a fight with her parents (with whom she lives) and said she was going to move out. This was on Thursday, we talked briefly on Friday morning because I was supposed to visit with our children, but she canceled last minute. Since then she has not answered any of my texts or calls, she is also not answering her parents calls. It's now Fathers day, I've texted her to see if I can see them today with no response. In the past she threatened to take the kids to Mexico, she has family there and I don't speak Spanish; also both of our children have their passports. I'm afraid she's going to take them and I might never see them again. What are my options? | 9352f656d954f751a6ec2fa96245d7b74b01cd4bc296f8653640f8a5711e1ec5 | [
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[USA] My ex wife is making false claims to our child's healthcare providers regarding my mental health and stability. These claims are being written into child's medical records. What can I do? My ex and I have been separated for nearly 5 years, we have an 8-year old daughter. We've had a contentious custody situation this entire time, but it's gotten worse ever since I motioned for a modification last year and succeeded in securing more control over my relationship with my child. I'd previously accepted a shit deal under the naive assumption that we'd be able to work things out amicably without a formal custody arrangement, and it resulted in a lot of very short visits with my daughter in the first few years of our separation. Eventually, my ex started denying time all together and that's when I was able to successfully move to modify the order. I abstain from alcohol as a personal choice, and at times over the last several years I've seen a couple of therapists to work through stressful circumstances. My ex is aware of this, and now claims that I have a history of substance abuse and mental illness, despite never running into any issues as a result of past alcohol use, nor being diagnosed with any mental illnesses at any time. The big problem -- and what my question boils down to -- is that I noticed a note in my daughter's medical records from a recent appointment. The NP at the practice (not my child's PCP) wrote a note stating that my child has been experiencing extreme anxiety due to my "sudden reappearance" in her life, that I am diagnosed bipolar, that I'm unmedicated, that I am "at times unstable," and essentially that our daughter is scared of me and is wetting the bed in response to the trauma of being "ripped away from her mother." I know that this note was a transcription of my ex's words to the NP, more or less. But none of these things are true. My daughter has repeatedly expressed to me how excited she is now that she gets to spend more time with me, and she has shown absolutely no discomfort throughout the overnights so far. I contacted my child's medical care provider about it, and pretty much all they said was that they don't like to get in the middle of these conflicts, which I totally understand. But am I within my right to ask them to strike that note from my daughter's records? If not, what other options do I have here? I'm aware that my ex could potentially be lining me up for a visit from CPS and I'm beyond prepared for it, but is there anything more proactive that I can do to get this all to stop somehow? My only thought is to attend every single appointment, but that's tough to manage with my work schedule. Any advice is greatly appreciated. \-- **TL;DR - Ex wife made false claims to child's healthcare provider that I have a diagnosed mental illness, that I'm unstable, and that my child is suffering from symptoms of trauma and distress now that she spends nights at my residence. None of it's true. What can I do?** | 859937d858ad0f70cd3cd8e7fc76edeae9553b9066862ebcc2ed79e76109973c | [
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[USA] My ex wife is making false claims to our child's healthcare providers regarding my mental health and stability. These claims are being written into child's medical records. What can I do? My ex and I have been separated for nearly 5 years, we have an 8-year old daughter. We've had a contentious custody situation this entire time, but it's gotten worse ever since I motioned for a modification last year and succeeded in securing more control over my relationship with my child. I'd previously accepted a shit deal under the naive assumption that we'd be able to work things out amicably without a formal custody arrangement, and it resulted in a lot of very short visits with my daughter in the first few years of our separation. Eventually, my ex started denying time all together and that's when I was able to successfully move to modify the order. I abstain from alcohol as a personal choice, and at times over the last several years I've seen a couple of therapists to work through stressful circumstances. My ex is aware of this, and now claims that I have a history of substance abuse and mental illness, despite never running into any issues as a result of past alcohol use, nor being diagnosed with any mental illnesses at any time. The big problem -- and what my question boils down to -- is that I noticed a note in my daughter's medical records from a recent appointment. The NP at the practice (not my child's PCP) wrote a note stating that my child has been experiencing extreme anxiety due to my "sudden reappearance" in her life, that I am diagnosed bipolar, that I'm unmedicated, that I am "at times unstable," and essentially that our daughter is scared of me and is wetting the bed in response to the trauma of being "ripped away from her mother." I know that this note was a transcription of my ex's words to the NP, more or less. But none of these things are true. My daughter has repeatedly expressed to me how excited she is now that she gets to spend more time with me, and she has shown absolutely no discomfort throughout the overnights so far. I contacted my child's medical care provider about it, and pretty much all they said was that they don't like to get in the middle of these conflicts, which I totally understand. But am I within my right to ask them to strike that note from my daughter's records? If not, what other options do I have here? I'm aware that my ex could potentially be lining me up for a visit from CPS and I'm beyond prepared for it, but is there anything more proactive that I can do to get this all to stop somehow? My only thought is to attend every single appointment, but that's tough to manage with my work schedule. Any advice is greatly appreciated. \-- **TL;DR - Ex wife made false claims to child's healthcare provider that I have a diagnosed mental illness, that I'm unstable, and that my child is suffering from symptoms of trauma and distress now that she spends nights at my residence. None of it's true. What can I do?** | 859937d858ad0f70cd3cd8e7fc76edeae9553b9066862ebcc2ed79e76109973c | [
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Neighbor trespassed into our backyard and cut down our tree… Can we do anything? Hi all, So my backyard is completely fenced in. We have a few small trees along the perimeter of our property. Apparently our neighbor (we share a backyard property border, so he is directly behind us) knocked on our door this morning, but since we didn’t answer, felt he was entitled to hop our fence with a chainsaw and cut down our tree. The tree was fully on our property, with some of the branches above the fence line and going onto his property. He then left the entire tree in our backyard and left. We came home and when confronting him, said he was doing us a favor but that he would help us “clean our yard up tomorrow”. Do we have any rights to legal action??? His sense of entitlement is just blowing my mind right now. Please advise! Thank you!! | 89bacbc57d3a95c8d65a9deae9514ffe40f409b672530c2480b967a33b6a567f | [
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Ontario - Landlord showed us a rental house, we signed lease for the house. On move-in day we arrive to find the main floor divided in half, the other half is now for lease as a commercial property. Landlords response is “sorry, we forgot to mention the commercial unit” As the title says, we signed a lease for a house after viewing the entire house with the landlord. The lease has a single address, no unit number, and makes no mention of another unit. When we arrived in the first of the month with our keys, a door with a deadbolt has been installed dividing the main floor in two, and a commercial lease sign has been out in the window. The landlord has apologized for their mistake, and offered a 50% discount on one months rent. They have cut off 1000sq ft of the house they showed us, and have been dismissive of our problem, saying they are sorry for the mistake, but it is what it is. I know the next step is a lawyer, but time and money are short, what can I realistically expect as an outcome? Is it worth the hassle and expense of pursuing? | 5aeef832453d3e35c3cdb6cb0d2e7d5064658d9ef565c15a421ea68309c51b48 | [
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USA-TN] An r/legaladvice wet dream: neighbor cut down two of my trees. What should I look for in a lawyer? I live in an older neighborhood in a small town an hour away from Nashville. The cost of living in Nashville has shot up, as well as property values, and some people have begun to move into our sleepy little town to get more out of their dollar. A new-ish neighbor is an aspiring country singer, lives in their own world, and seems to have a lot of money. [This crudely drawn map shows the proximity of our two houses. The Future-Johnny-Cash™ recently built a front porch that includes a fireplace, hanging lights, the whole shebang. Johnny's only source of Hurt is that I had two old oak trees that cast his deck in shade during the prime hours (the map isn't aligned properly). He asked me to cut them down before, even offering to pay, but I did not comply. When I returned from vacation last week, I came home to two tree stumps, mashed up grass, and a letter telling me to expect a venmo payment for $2000. I know that trees are well loved around here, but I don't think that this information is common knowledge to all lawyers. What should I bring up when I meet with a legal representative to explore my punitive retribution? | 850d26a96d6769a51325f15909d07087a744d839518e4476da8b688f73f60919 | [
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USA-TN] An r/legaladvice wet dream: neighbor cut down two of my trees. What should I look for in a lawyer? I live in an older neighborhood in a small town an hour away from Nashville. The cost of living in Nashville has shot up, as well as property values, and some people have begun to move into our sleepy little town to get more out of their dollar. A new-ish neighbor is an aspiring country singer, lives in their own world, and seems to have a lot of money. [This crudely drawn map shows the proximity of our two houses. The Future-Johnny-Cash™ recently built a front porch that includes a fireplace, hanging lights, the whole shebang. Johnny's only source of Hurt is that I had two old oak trees that cast his deck in shade during the prime hours (the map isn't aligned properly). He asked me to cut them down before, even offering to pay, but I did not comply. When I returned from vacation last week, I came home to two tree stumps, mashed up grass, and a letter telling me to expect a venmo payment for $2000. I know that trees are well loved around here, but I don't think that this information is common knowledge to all lawyers. What should I bring up when I meet with a legal representative to explore my punitive retribution? | 850d26a96d6769a51325f15909d07087a744d839518e4476da8b688f73f60919 | [
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USA-TN] An r/legaladvice wet dream: neighbor cut down two of my trees. What should I look for in a lawyer? I live in an older neighborhood in a small town an hour away from Nashville. The cost of living in Nashville has shot up, as well as property values, and some people have begun to move into our sleepy little town to get more out of their dollar. A new-ish neighbor is an aspiring country singer, lives in their own world, and seems to have a lot of money. [This crudely drawn map shows the proximity of our two houses. The Future-Johnny-Cash™ recently built a front porch that includes a fireplace, hanging lights, the whole shebang. Johnny's only source of Hurt is that I had two old oak trees that cast his deck in shade during the prime hours (the map isn't aligned properly). He asked me to cut them down before, even offering to pay, but I did not comply. When I returned from vacation last week, I came home to two tree stumps, mashed up grass, and a letter telling me to expect a venmo payment for $2000. I know that trees are well loved around here, but I don't think that this information is common knowledge to all lawyers. What should I bring up when I meet with a legal representative to explore my punitive retribution? | 850d26a96d6769a51325f15909d07087a744d839518e4476da8b688f73f60919 | [
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USA-TN] An r/legaladvice wet dream: neighbor cut down two of my trees. What should I look for in a lawyer? I live in an older neighborhood in a small town an hour away from Nashville. The cost of living in Nashville has shot up, as well as property values, and some people have begun to move into our sleepy little town to get more out of their dollar. A new-ish neighbor is an aspiring country singer, lives in their own world, and seems to have a lot of money. [This crudely drawn map shows the proximity of our two houses. The Future-Johnny-Cash™ recently built a front porch that includes a fireplace, hanging lights, the whole shebang. Johnny's only source of Hurt is that I had two old oak trees that cast his deck in shade during the prime hours (the map isn't aligned properly). He asked me to cut them down before, even offering to pay, but I did not comply. When I returned from vacation last week, I came home to two tree stumps, mashed up grass, and a letter telling me to expect a venmo payment for $2000. I know that trees are well loved around here, but I don't think that this information is common knowledge to all lawyers. What should I bring up when I meet with a legal representative to explore my punitive retribution? | 850d26a96d6769a51325f15909d07087a744d839518e4476da8b688f73f60919 | [
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Large trees fell in our backyard due to a windy night, broke through fences, and hit neighbors' property. We don't have insurance. We had a very gusty windy night, large enough that several powerlines are out in the neighborhood as a result. We had two trees that fell, the winds were powerful enough that it uprooted the whole tree and fell destroying the fence, a large shed, the roof of THREE neighbors. I believe this falls under the act of god since it was due to wind. Here the thing, we don't have insurance in our house as we aren't legally required to (dumb reason yes I know, but it was my fathers choice I didn't have control over) We have no reason to believe this tree was due to neglect as it was an act of god, however, our neighbors and their respective insurance companies may think otherwise. What should our steps be to protect ourselves? Who might be someone that we need to contact regarding assessing liability or damages? Are there tree lawyers? We haven't spoken with the neighbor yet, but will this afternoon. Who exactly is at fault and who pays for what? https://imgur.com/a/RmIYRCy | d943a17c3cdb753542f123cf41496725063b92d74638fc0bdf5c0739f0f4f3c8 | [
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