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A buyer on ebay is claiming I sent the wrong item and returned a empty box to me what can I do? I sold a item on ebay and sent it to the buyer, the buyer then claimed they received a completely different item and opened a return. I received a the outer box I used and inside was a empty box filled with polystyrene peanuts. I told ebay and they made me sign a declaration which I did. I find out today that they are still siding with the buyer despite me giving photographs showing the item I received. Is there anything I can do? I'm in the uk if it makes a difference. I've lost £400 and am now overdrawn at my bank so rent is a very real panic. | 5b27c0b028cb8b5d1323aa4d14bcb4413a4408f28c8a98d454afe86705a2f921 | [
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Parents wrongfully claim me as dependent, I do not live with them and they do not pay for my expenses. What should I do so I can still file as independent? I am (21/F) and have been living on my own for two years now. I work and go to school full time and my tuition is being paid for by financial aid and scholarships, which means my parents are not paying for my education. I decided to move out and away from my parents because living has home has become extremely toxic and my dad has a serious spending problem and is refusing to seek help or even considering on changing. (Let me add that he is already 60+ years old) When I was about to file my taxes, I realized that my dad has already claimed me as a dependent and claims that I am still “living at home”, even though I have not been living with him and he does NOT pay any of my bills/expenses. (I do not even sleep at my parent’s house because he has rented out the additional rooms to other people) He has claimed me last year as well, despite me living on my own but I decided to let it go and file as dependent because I knew he was not going to correct his taxes to change it to me being dependent. The reason I am wondering if there’s something that I can do this year is because I’m tired of always being so passive and allowing my dad to take advantage of me by trying to squeeze every penny out of me… I am wondering what my next steps are. Some people advised me to just file as independent anyway so I could get more tax reimbursement as opposed to if my parents claimed me as dependent. I have talked to my dad about it but he said that he HAS to claim me as dependent, (even though I no longer live with him), because that is the only way I would get financial aid. (Which I’m sure is a lie…) My dad is a compulsive liar and would rather help himself rather than others (even his own children) but I am wondering what I can do so I can file as independent without getting him in trouble with the IRS. I want to add that saving money is VERY foreign to him, so any penny he gets, he spends. Hence it was not surprising to me that he has already put a down payment on a new car... I know some people are saying that I should just file as independent and show the IRS proof that I am living on my own/paying my own expenses; however I do not know what would happen to my parents if IRS sends them a letter saying they have to refund some of the money they have reimbursed him earlier. Even though I am upset my dad has claimed me and is lying about having to claim me as dependent for “my benefit”, I know he would not have the money to pay back the IRS (and any additional fines he may receive) because as I mentioned earlier, he does not know how to save money and “you can’t teach old dogs new tricks” so before anyone says “he has to learn to save” or anything of that sort, I know he would not change. If anything, he would turn to my siblings, my mother, or me for the money to pay his penalty charges that the IRS might send him. What should I do so I can still file as independent without having to get my parents into having to pay a huge fine to IRS (for reasons listed above), or should I just forget about it and file as dependent? | 0c4f4e2aee94a934de350a7fb1604523b874adafec25a040e327b001e519da7f | [
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Parents wrongfully claim me as dependent, I do not live with them and they do not pay for my expenses. What should I do so I can still file as independent? I am (21/F) and have been living on my own for two years now. I work and go to school full time and my tuition is being paid for by financial aid and scholarships, which means my parents are not paying for my education. I decided to move out and away from my parents because living has home has become extremely toxic and my dad has a serious spending problem and is refusing to seek help or even considering on changing. (Let me add that he is already 60+ years old) When I was about to file my taxes, I realized that my dad has already claimed me as a dependent and claims that I am still “living at home”, even though I have not been living with him and he does NOT pay any of my bills/expenses. (I do not even sleep at my parent’s house because he has rented out the additional rooms to other people) He has claimed me last year as well, despite me living on my own but I decided to let it go and file as dependent because I knew he was not going to correct his taxes to change it to me being dependent. The reason I am wondering if there’s something that I can do this year is because I’m tired of always being so passive and allowing my dad to take advantage of me by trying to squeeze every penny out of me… I am wondering what my next steps are. Some people advised me to just file as independent anyway so I could get more tax reimbursement as opposed to if my parents claimed me as dependent. I have talked to my dad about it but he said that he HAS to claim me as dependent, (even though I no longer live with him), because that is the only way I would get financial aid. (Which I’m sure is a lie…) My dad is a compulsive liar and would rather help himself rather than others (even his own children) but I am wondering what I can do so I can file as independent without getting him in trouble with the IRS. I want to add that saving money is VERY foreign to him, so any penny he gets, he spends. Hence it was not surprising to me that he has already put a down payment on a new car... I know some people are saying that I should just file as independent and show the IRS proof that I am living on my own/paying my own expenses; however I do not know what would happen to my parents if IRS sends them a letter saying they have to refund some of the money they have reimbursed him earlier. Even though I am upset my dad has claimed me and is lying about having to claim me as dependent for “my benefit”, I know he would not have the money to pay back the IRS (and any additional fines he may receive) because as I mentioned earlier, he does not know how to save money and “you can’t teach old dogs new tricks” so before anyone says “he has to learn to save” or anything of that sort, I know he would not change. If anything, he would turn to my siblings, my mother, or me for the money to pay his penalty charges that the IRS might send him. What should I do so I can still file as independent without having to get my parents into having to pay a huge fine to IRS (for reasons listed above), or should I just forget about it and file as dependent? | 0c4f4e2aee94a934de350a7fb1604523b874adafec25a040e327b001e519da7f | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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New landlord hates privacy. Help I recently found myself needing a month to month lease for between six months to 14 months in Baltimore, which I was unfamiliar with. The apartment I found is a small efficiency in an older building. They agreed to a standard lease for the first six months, followed by month to month lease. I was to be the first tenant, when I toured it six weeks ago, workers were painting the rooms. The landlords son is living upstairs, and this is my landlords first time renting. The lease was obviously pulled from a form and seemed standard. There is a clause in the lease which states that I can't install curtains rods or hooks. This seemed standard as well, I had similar at my old apartment. I assumed there would be some sort of curtain provided, and this was in regards to additional curtains. I moved in Sunday, and found the landlord had not installed curtains at all. At this point, I assumed the issue with curtains was the potential to damage to the wall. So, I bought tension rods that require no hardware and used them to hang curtains. Monday afternoon I got a text from my landlord saying I needed to remove the curtains. The building is on a street corner with a fair amount of foot traffic. Between the four windows, you can see all of my apartment with the exception of the portion of the bathroom with the toilet and tub. Not only does this mean I have no privacy, but the neighborhood is slightly sketchy after dark. The nearby buildings have bars on their windows. Anyone passing by not only can see my possessions, but whether or not I am home. I expressed this to the landlord in my reply over text. He replied to reread my lease. I left them up overnight. I had orientation this morning and came back to find the curtains removed and no where in the apartment. I discovered this before entering the building, as two guys were outside one of my windows and looking in my apartment. They left when I entered the building. I messaged the landlord saying he didn't have the right to enter the apartment and asked for the curtains back. He again said to check my lease and then commented that I needed to finish unpacking as it looked messy in my apartment. I had to head to a work event so I couldn't follow through more, but I moved my electronics to one corner and used a bookshelf to block one of the windows so they weren't visible. While at the event, I got a text from the landlord with a picture of the blocked window, captioned "whatts this" What can I do to prevent my landlord from entering the apartment unannounced and to compel him to allow some form of curtain? Alternatively, how do I break my lease three days into it? This is too crazy for week one. | 1bf97bd5c91e92877d0d9a27c8e0ded5560b3319f1917b11f1501da153df4fd6 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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My father passed away a decade ago, told me he was leaving a trust to be given to me at 30/35/40. Stepmother said, “That’s not happening anymore.” (It was suggested in r/personalfinance that I post this here.) Throwaway for privacy. I’ll do my best to keep this short. My father died when I was 17. Stepmother kicked me out before I turned 18. I slept in my car while I figured out what to do—for a while I was in denial that all of it was happening. Finally told some family members and they took me in. Fast forward, I’m 30 now. I asked my stepmother about the trust, she told me that it wasn’t happening anymore. That I’d “get everything when she dies.” (She’s older, in her 70s.) My best friend, wife, and cousins are telling me to get a lawyer. I’m hesitant, however, because if she truly does have control and I piss her off then I might end up with zero. On the flip side, she has a history of treating me badly. What do I do? Is there any way to find out what's actually supposed to come my way? Does she really have that much control over when the trust is given to me? Edit: Location - New Jersey (her) and New York (me) | 1683bed9b1ac97056cbebea9707a1e65b3360088691df0eabeaa88715c759791 | [
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Is it legal to put a nanny cam in the bedroom? So, I work for a home healthcare company and one of my clients has a nanny cam installed in the living room. I was informed of this before I went. However, there was recently an e-mail sent out to myself and the other caregivers who have this client stating that basically we're not allowed to sleep during our shifts and a reminded that there are cameras through out the house so they'll know who it is and so on. That's all well and good, but my question is, is it legal for them to have a camera in a bedroom in the house? The night time caregivers are allowed to wear loungewear within reason so I've been changing in that room for six months. I feel incredibly uncomfortable with the whole situation. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, it's just that constantly being recorded gives me the jeebies. I live in Ohio if that's relevant. I know nanny cams are legal and they don't have to inform you, I'm just wondering if that applies for bedrooms or places where people would expect at least a basically level of privacy. | 1086cacbc1e6fd15aeda034db4bad60160cfbf6aac37b5ba28b60156f512d8ea | [
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Fiancé’s mother who has dementia was found in her bedroom with a housekeeper who had his pants down. (San Jose, CA) As the title says, her nursing home facility noticed she was missing from a group singing ever (which she never misses) so they went to look for her and found her on the bed and a housekeeper of the facility had his pants down. The arrested him and his mom says he has been hugging her and kissing her over the past year and she didn’t want it but obviously she has dementia and doesn’t think clearly so she didn’t tell anyone. I am shocked and we are at a loss of what to do. She says nothing happened but should we get a rape kit since her memory is faulty and she could be wrong? She is sleeping now and has sundowning syndrome, should she be woken up and taken? What charges are to be pressed? Against the facility? Just the man? I am shocked and disgusted and would love any guidance possible. Thank you. | ae076fed0e8c0b8724bfe4762b6913b6ef9ad73149685efd2a4ddd233d9a25a6 | [
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My ex is threatening me with legal action due to my kids not wanting to visit him whilst he’s with his partner Recently I had found out my ex has been cheating on me for the last 5 years and has hidden a child with this woman for the last 4 years. Due to this I obviously don’t want my kids to see this woman ever and my kids feel the same way. But now he’s threatening us with legal action and if the kids don’t want to see this woman then they’ll have to “suck it up” and basically pretend to like her. Considering they are both u16 can he physically force the children to visit whilst his partner is there. I want them to visit him but I also don’t want them anywhere near her but I know that I can’t legally enforce that nor can I influence the child’s decision but if they decide on their own can he still make them visit her? | 400e3676479b7077f8ea0c31772d708a1d214add1efffee636afa39c64821a7c | [
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My ex is threatening me with legal action due to my kids not wanting to visit him whilst he’s with his partner Recently I had found out my ex has been cheating on me for the last 5 years and has hidden a child with this woman for the last 4 years. Due to this I obviously don’t want my kids to see this woman ever and my kids feel the same way. But now he’s threatening us with legal action and if the kids don’t want to see this woman then they’ll have to “suck it up” and basically pretend to like her. Considering they are both u16 can he physically force the children to visit whilst his partner is there. I want them to visit him but I also don’t want them anywhere near her but I know that I can’t legally enforce that nor can I influence the child’s decision but if they decide on their own can he still make them visit her? | 400e3676479b7077f8ea0c31772d708a1d214add1efffee636afa39c64821a7c | [
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My workplace is refusing to document a work-related injury for my coworker. She was in tears yesterday, limping, and has a lump in her lower abdomen that was not there yesterday. She was told not to see a doctor because "they wouldn't be able to help" and they are not accommodating her in any way. This is happening in the state of Utah and feels like something that is highly illegal. This company is not unionized. Every TV screen around the workplace that cycles through company policy says "injuries should be reported in a timely manner" but management is refusing to document her injury (presumably because they don't want to pay for her medical bills or get OSHA involved?). Based on the fleshy lump on her lower abdomen, it's possible she has a hernia due to the heavy lifting the job requires. This is not the first time my workplace has refused to document an injury. It has actually happened to me before as well, when a heavy box full of metal fell on my head and nearly knocked me out. When I reported it to management I was told, "there's no point in documenting an injury unless you need to go to the hospital." I was a new hire at the time and just thought that my injury didn't meet some kind of 'requirement' that I didn't know about, so I didn't contest it, and I didn't receive medical care for it. I have photo evidence of the head injury and the full name of the manager that didn't document it. I have also heard multiple stories from other coworkers of management refusing to document their work-related injuries. This is a trend at my workplace. I told my coworker that I would testify in court against our employer in the event that she wanted to sue. Would multiple testimonies regarding the company's failure to document work-related injuries hold up in court at all? Is this a legal battle that we would be able to win without being unionized? | c0e4060ec0f306c16afa91579a831932e0d18eb2bcd7400fd56b55d958aec175 | [
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My workplace is refusing to document a work-related injury for my coworker. She was in tears yesterday, limping, and has a lump in her lower abdomen that was not there yesterday. She was told not to see a doctor because "they wouldn't be able to help" and they are not accommodating her in any way. This is happening in the state of Utah and feels like something that is highly illegal. This company is not unionized. Every TV screen around the workplace that cycles through company policy says "injuries should be reported in a timely manner" but management is refusing to document her injury (presumably because they don't want to pay for her medical bills or get OSHA involved?). Based on the fleshy lump on her lower abdomen, it's possible she has a hernia due to the heavy lifting the job requires. This is not the first time my workplace has refused to document an injury. It has actually happened to me before as well, when a heavy box full of metal fell on my head and nearly knocked me out. When I reported it to management I was told, "there's no point in documenting an injury unless you need to go to the hospital." I was a new hire at the time and just thought that my injury didn't meet some kind of 'requirement' that I didn't know about, so I didn't contest it, and I didn't receive medical care for it. I have photo evidence of the head injury and the full name of the manager that didn't document it. I have also heard multiple stories from other coworkers of management refusing to document their work-related injuries. This is a trend at my workplace. I told my coworker that I would testify in court against our employer in the event that she wanted to sue. Would multiple testimonies regarding the company's failure to document work-related injuries hold up in court at all? Is this a legal battle that we would be able to win without being unionized? | c0e4060ec0f306c16afa91579a831932e0d18eb2bcd7400fd56b55d958aec175 | [
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[CO]I am almost 16, living in foster care, and have a trust fund. I want to file for emancipation I am posting here because I don't know how to obtain the help of a lawyer, being a minor with no assets that I can access at the moment. I am living under foster care at the moment. I will turn sixteen in just two weeks, and I want to know how to file for emancipation. I believe I will have the means to support myself if I am emancipated, but I that puts me in a difficult situation because, as I understand, you have to be already supporting yourself to be emancipated. A trust fund was set up in my name when I was 11 as a result of a wrongful death settlement. At age 12 I was placed in the foster system as a result of my grandfather's death. That has enough money to pay for my living expenses and a college education until I can graduate... many times over. Although my foster parents are not abusive by any means, the aren't great either. There are many foster kids in the home and we are not close by any means. I was placed in this home when I was age 14 and have stayed since. We have many problems here and argue for the silliest reasons, like how much I eat or the noise I make when using the bathroom at night (which I can't help). I think I could do fine on my own, I know some basic cooking and cleaning because I was made to clean stuff all the time. Also it is my objective to enroll in online classes and graduate school early. I want to start college the earliest I can manage. I don't know how to exactly how to, my school counselor won't help and I believe it's difficult to do without my foster parent's consent, and it is very difficult to ask them for anything. Do I have a shot at that? And if so, how do I do this? | c08e8dbcde1a821826af2f8ed0fec24161683a91f72177b9aa55be33a30ed578 | [
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[MA] College won't give me disability accommodations but acknowledges that my disability enough of a problem that they want to send me to the hospital on a regular basis rather than accommodate me Hi reddit. Sorry if the title is a mess. Was advised to come here by one of the students at my school. I have epilepsy. My seizures are primarily set off my stress, non-stable sleep patterns, and flashing lights. The first two are the important ones here. They are not grand mal (the ones you see on TV). I am not the only epileptic student on my college campus, and the other one I know of received housing accommodations. I put in for housing accommodations, and received back notice (after others received their accommodations) that the letter my doctor wrote was not sufficient. I had my doctor rewrite it, but was told that the committee would not be able to review my case this semester (my final semester). This means that unless by some miracle of god the 54 people in the housing lottery before me decide that they do not want a single, I will not get one. However, on this note, despite not giving me these accommodations, the college is still acknowledging my disability - they want to send me to the hospital every time I have a seizure. On a good day, I have 0-2. On an average day, with a roommate, I have upwards of 7. Their policy, if you refuse to go to the hospital, is to refuse to let you continue to attend classes or return to campus. I live in the US. I'm a college student. ONE ambulance ride is to expensive for me, never mind multiple a week. I have literally no idea what to do. **Are they allowed to worsen my medical condition and then punish me financially for it like that? I'm going to have to drop out in my final semester if they enforce this.** | 2758d4d952e5d50ccab7edd2e29309b324ab8df98f34f1597c635a070c920c1e | [
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[MA] College won't give me disability accommodations but acknowledges that my disability enough of a problem that they want to send me to the hospital on a regular basis rather than accommodate me Hi reddit. Sorry if the title is a mess. Was advised to come here by one of the students at my school. I have epilepsy. My seizures are primarily set off my stress, non-stable sleep patterns, and flashing lights. The first two are the important ones here. They are not grand mal (the ones you see on TV). I am not the only epileptic student on my college campus, and the other one I know of received housing accommodations. I put in for housing accommodations, and received back notice (after others received their accommodations) that the letter my doctor wrote was not sufficient. I had my doctor rewrite it, but was told that the committee would not be able to review my case this semester (my final semester). This means that unless by some miracle of god the 54 people in the housing lottery before me decide that they do not want a single, I will not get one. However, on this note, despite not giving me these accommodations, the college is still acknowledging my disability - they want to send me to the hospital every time I have a seizure. On a good day, I have 0-2. On an average day, with a roommate, I have upwards of 7. Their policy, if you refuse to go to the hospital, is to refuse to let you continue to attend classes or return to campus. I live in the US. I'm a college student. ONE ambulance ride is to expensive for me, never mind multiple a week. I have literally no idea what to do. **Are they allowed to worsen my medical condition and then punish me financially for it like that? I'm going to have to drop out in my final semester if they enforce this.** | 2758d4d952e5d50ccab7edd2e29309b324ab8df98f34f1597c635a070c920c1e | [
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UPDATE: OH: I think I've gotten caught up in a situation involving lying to/in court and I don't know what to do Original post is here First, I'd like to thank everyone here (and /r/bestoflegaladvice) for your input, suggestions, and the harsh words that it turns out I needed last fall. A few people commented that I sounded young and that's pretty true. My brother & sister are much older than me and my parents had me later in life. Mom used to say I was her favorite surprise. :) So, yeah, I'm just getting started in college and don't have much real world experience which isn't an excuse for how I acted, but it is what it is and I'm trying to be better. I took a humanities class that covers aging this semester because of this whole situation with my grandparents and I learned so, so much. I really enjoyed it too. I'm thinking about changing my major so I can go into a field that helps protect the elderly like maybe social work. So, I told "our" lawyer back in November that I wanted nothing to do with the court case anymore and gave him a general outline of why I'd come to believe that my sister wasn't being totally honest. He filed stuff to show I was withdrawing my name from the case and then he "fired" my sister as a client. She dismissed (?? I think this is the right term) her case since she no longer had a lawyer and after some soul searching and a couple visits with a counselor at school I told her not to contact me again & blocked her. My brother was willing to forgive me for some reason. I'm grateful for it, but I was a real jackass until I posted here about my grandparents' situation. He keeps me in the loop which is how I know how the last almost 5 months have played out. My brother's attorney for the trust started getting emails from my sister's NEW lawyer (this would be the 3rd one she's used about her complaints over my grandparents' estate) later in the fall. She was claiming to Lawyer #3 that my brother was hiding bank accounts/money, that he was letting the trust's real estate properties go to junk and not taking care of them, that he didn't have insurance on the properties, he was letting people live there for free, and a bunch of other stuff that I could see was completely not true. She also started telling my grandparents these lies which upset them and and, being confused, they believed her for a bit and were just awful to my brother and me. Lawyer #3 was sending demanding emails to my brother's lawyer for him to show proof that the houses are in good shape, insured, not being misused, on and on and on. After a couple months of this, my brother's lawyer got an email directly from my sister where she listed demands such as my brother must let her take inventory of all my grandparents' possessions and take some keepsakes for herself, that any renters had to be evicted immediately, that he had to put all the real estate up for sale within 30 days, and other things that my brother's lawyer explained that he absolutely did not have to do - and if these things didn't happen within 30 days she would be forced to pursue further legal action. And she cc:ed her lawyer on this email. Well, my brother's lawyer got a call that same day from Lawyer #3 saying he had nothing to do with that email and wasn't consulted. That was the last we heard anything from Lawyer #3 and all was quiet for a few months. And that brings me to the current situation. My brother's lawyer recently forwarded him copies of emails with, drumroll please, my sister's NEW lawyer - Lawyer #4! This lawyer is from a firm that does local ads like "Got a DUI? Charged with a crime? We can help!" I don't know why they're taking on a probate situation but it looks like they are. And, really, it's the same stupid claims she made with Lawyer #3 and my brother's lawyer has already gone over with him exactly what he's supposed to be doing as the trustee so he knows he doesn't have to do any of the stuff she's saying. It's just... this is getting very hard on my brother. He's just so tired of it all. What I want to know is I guess not so much about what legal steps he should be taking, because his lawyer has that covered, but maybe some advice from you guys since you've been dealing with all types of people in court. Why is she doing this? I mean, she apparently wants to be the trustee but my brother's lawyer said that probate court would never give it to her since my brother has shown that he's managing everything exactly right. So why does she continue? Is there anything we can do to get her to stop? My brother's lawyer said he's seen people act like this for years - but he didn't have any advice on anything we could do to get her to back off since she isn't breaking any laws. I would appreciate any advice or suggestions anyone has. | 9116bee3f7cf5a8446de36fc33c9717f425a2f6fca5dd4aa0fa7f4a7e69ed402 | [
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Question about something that's happening at my work: My coworker wrote a book and it's being published. The boss is suing her saying it's his because he owns whatever she creates (NY) Location New York. My coworker and me are both cashiers and we work in a store. She didn't write any of the book at work because you can't have your phone or tablet or anything else with you when you are at the register. But our boss says he owns anything that she or anyone else who works here makes. Is this true or does it not count because she didn't write it while she was at work? I just would like to know thanks. (Sorry if this is hard to understand, english is not my mother language) | 4d0c1f71003454ae34e5edf56e28cd6758d71ca2ad50bc9938e167771a2563e9 | [
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