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Question about something that's happening at my work: My coworker wrote a book and it's being published. The boss is suing her saying it's his because he owns whatever she creates (NY) Location New York. My coworker and me are both cashiers and we work in a store. She didn't write any of the book at work because you can't have your phone or tablet or anything else with you when you are at the register. But our boss says he owns anything that she or anyone else who works here makes. Is this true or does it not count because she didn't write it while she was at work? I just would like to know thanks. (Sorry if this is hard to understand, english is not my mother language) | 4d0c1f71003454ae34e5edf56e28cd6758d71ca2ad50bc9938e167771a2563e9 | [
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In a bizarre case, HOA is fining me $500 because I called cops on HOA's friend, my neighbor, who was beating his wife. What to do? location : SF, CA. So, this neighbor of mine was beating his wife. Being a good Samaritan, I called 911 and reported them. cops arrived and arrested the neighbor. Somehow he got info that I had called cops on him. Now he's been very good friend with HOA president. He told him. Now, HOA president is pissed off on me. He fined me $500 for "disrupting public peace". I don't want to pay fine, because I think what I did was done in good intent and in welfare of fellow citizen. This fine is revenge fine . Tell me what to do? | f41584a51c410899fedc2d1a8ecc8b154169e25cd82a2a653e208af6ddca9142 | [
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The cops showed up at my house accusing me of posting on an app called "whisper" that I was suicidal. Not sure what really happened, but I had two cops show up and ask if I lived in this apartment, and I think they talked to everyone in the building. So they told me that they were doing a wellness check, I said cool, I'm fine. They kinda helped themselves into my apartment without saying anything. They had badges, etc so I'm assuming they weren't robbers or something. They told me they got a call that someone was posting on an app I've never actually heard of that they're suicidal. I told them I didn't know what it was. They then proceeded to ask to see my phone. I showed them, they looked through my apps and didn't find anything I guess. They then proceeded to ask if they could read my DMs and text messages, which I had to say no. There's some embarrassing stuff said, and didn't want them to know about the not so innocent texts with my boyfriend with explicit pictures. Yes, we're both adults. But I didn't think it was necessary. The cop began to get angry, and tell me that if I refuse to that "he will have to take me to the hospital". To which I said no, I don't even know what he's talking about and I have work in the morning. I refused to go. I asked them to get out of my apartment, and he was like "You better hope I don't have to come back here or else there will be trouble." So, what? I am one, not suicidal. I've never been suicidal. I am not deeply confused and worried I'll be thrown in the looney bin. However they then begin to knock on the apartment door next to me and nobody answers. I don't really know what to think of this. I'm afraid that they're going to come back and throw me in a mental institution after that, or that by refusing to let him look through my text messages I somehow did something illegal and they're going to try and charge me. I live in Maine. | 07da42857c1a0a2403a194f35deabd8533796bcfb6a18d4031fc8a142a06bf7f | [
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The cops showed up at my house accusing me of posting on an app called "whisper" that I was suicidal. Not sure what really happened, but I had two cops show up and ask if I lived in this apartment, and I think they talked to everyone in the building. So they told me that they were doing a wellness check, I said cool, I'm fine. They kinda helped themselves into my apartment without saying anything. They had badges, etc so I'm assuming they weren't robbers or something. They told me they got a call that someone was posting on an app I've never actually heard of that they're suicidal. I told them I didn't know what it was. They then proceeded to ask to see my phone. I showed them, they looked through my apps and didn't find anything I guess. They then proceeded to ask if they could read my DMs and text messages, which I had to say no. There's some embarrassing stuff said, and didn't want them to know about the not so innocent texts with my boyfriend with explicit pictures. Yes, we're both adults. But I didn't think it was necessary. The cop began to get angry, and tell me that if I refuse to that "he will have to take me to the hospital". To which I said no, I don't even know what he's talking about and I have work in the morning. I refused to go. I asked them to get out of my apartment, and he was like "You better hope I don't have to come back here or else there will be trouble." So, what? I am one, not suicidal. I've never been suicidal. I am not deeply confused and worried I'll be thrown in the looney bin. However they then begin to knock on the apartment door next to me and nobody answers. I don't really know what to think of this. I'm afraid that they're going to come back and throw me in a mental institution after that, or that by refusing to let him look through my text messages I somehow did something illegal and they're going to try and charge me. I live in Maine. | 07da42857c1a0a2403a194f35deabd8533796bcfb6a18d4031fc8a142a06bf7f | [
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[MA, US] [Tenants rights] My landlord has been doing construction on my apartment and has left my entire apartment in shambles every day for three days straight now. Do I have any legal leg to stand on? I am a tenant-at-will in the state of Massachusetts. My landlord has been doing construction work(window upgrades only, nothing that required immediate attention) Every day he has left the job site(my apartment) leaving all of his tools overnight and every bit of mess he makes. This includes saw dust from him cutting wood, and nails and wood chips from the windows he has taken out and replaced. Also, today he was messing with the outlet and blew more than half of the electrical outlets in the entire apartment. One whole bedroom(of the two we have) is completely without electricity. I have been brushing up on my rights as a tenant and I can't find much more than threatening to withhold payment of rent until they complete repairs to the electrical system. Are there any of you that are more aware of MA tenants rights may be able to guide me in the right direction? | 4c69b62c7e70f9c6c198d8cd21f1bf30a89c28689c1543ee713324b6c9174fc6 | [
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My fiancee [26F] and I [26F] have been planning to have a long engagement due to finances - would there be any benefit to being legally married ASAP in the event of a future ruling against gay marriage in the US? Title says most of it. We are currently located in Boston, MA but will likely move to Northern California within the next 25 years... I'm scared that if we wait to be married there will be negative repercussions. I guess I see us going to city hall and having a quick, cheap, and legal marriage (as recognized by the state and federal government). Then a few years from now we have the whole ceremony and big whooplah that we both want with the fancy dresses and expensive cake. I should say that neither of us have an issue with getting married today beyond the emotional impact of not signing the marriage documents on our wedding day. And our parents might pull their financial assistance for our wedding if they knew we were already married, but that's a bridge we will cross later. **Would there be some legal benefit to having a marriage that was recognized by the federal government (for however long) if the ruling in Obergfell is eventually overturned? Primary power of attorney, health insurance, taxes, etc.** | 335c3d64f94e2d244fca47ea94bd626459ff7413dcea116a41628315f3008d92 | [
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My fiancee [26F] and I [26F] have been planning to have a long engagement due to finances - would there be any benefit to being legally married ASAP in the event of a future ruling against gay marriage in the US? Title says most of it. We are currently located in Boston, MA but will likely move to Northern California within the next 25 years... I'm scared that if we wait to be married there will be negative repercussions. I guess I see us going to city hall and having a quick, cheap, and legal marriage (as recognized by the state and federal government). Then a few years from now we have the whole ceremony and big whooplah that we both want with the fancy dresses and expensive cake. I should say that neither of us have an issue with getting married today beyond the emotional impact of not signing the marriage documents on our wedding day. And our parents might pull their financial assistance for our wedding if they knew we were already married, but that's a bridge we will cross later. **Would there be some legal benefit to having a marriage that was recognized by the federal government (for however long) if the ruling in Obergfell is eventually overturned? Primary power of attorney, health insurance, taxes, etc.** | 335c3d64f94e2d244fca47ea94bd626459ff7413dcea116a41628315f3008d92 | [
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(Texas) My brother was robbed at work and he was sent a bill for the stuff that was stolen My brother works in a store. He was robbed one day when it was his turn to open. The robbery was at gunpoint and a cop was driving past and saw the robber leaving the store with her own eyes. The robber has been arrested. My brother has taken some days off to deal with what has happened to him. About $1500 worth of money and stuff was taken. The company that owns the the store sent him a bill for the $1500. He called head office to ask about it but no one would answer his question and two days later someone came to our apartment and gave him a letter threatening a lawsuit and job loss against him. Can they actually make him pay for the stolen stuff? They say it went missing on his watch and he has to pay for the loss. I don't think they can do this but I don't know about the law and just want to help my brother. | 5109baf14d0033edc88ca60c3c231bba6e6e6e6dd3c3fb82041990ccf399cbac | [
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(Portland, OR) I was doing yard-work and accidentally saw my neighbor's having sex, now they are threatening to sue me and spreading lies that I am a pervert I was using the weedwhacker around my yard and my neighbor's were having a sexual activity with their windows wide open. I avoided looking in their direction and continued my work. I went into my home and made myself a sandwich and helped my son with his homework. Twenty mins later there is a knocking on the door, real erratic. I tell my son to go upstairs and I have my phone in my hand ready to call 911 cause I thought maybe a druggie was at the front door (I live in a rough area). It was the wife from next door screaming at me and calling me a perv. She threatened to sue me. I said I didn't see anything and I did not try to look in her direction. She pushed me on the chest and screamed that she would sue me for being a pervert. When my wife got home, she was also accosted by this woman who claimed that I found her attractive (I don't) and that I was peeping (I was not; they left their windows and blinds open and made some noise). Mu wife was shocked and confused and came inside the house quickly. I explained the situation and she agreed with me that the wife next door is a crazy b-tch. The next morning, there was a hand written note with many misspellings and typos claiming that she was going to sue me and contact my employer and tell the neighbors I am a pervert. What recourse do I have and what legal measures can I take to protect myself? | 7ab91b00f0c4167f4c8e048475f8158dae613853d326d89f4e2cd5ecf3c20185 | [
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(Portland, OR) I was doing yard-work and accidentally saw my neighbor's having sex, now they are threatening to sue me and spreading lies that I am a pervert I was using the weedwhacker around my yard and my neighbor's were having a sexual activity with their windows wide open. I avoided looking in their direction and continued my work. I went into my home and made myself a sandwich and helped my son with his homework. Twenty mins later there is a knocking on the door, real erratic. I tell my son to go upstairs and I have my phone in my hand ready to call 911 cause I thought maybe a druggie was at the front door (I live in a rough area). It was the wife from next door screaming at me and calling me a perv. She threatened to sue me. I said I didn't see anything and I did not try to look in her direction. She pushed me on the chest and screamed that she would sue me for being a pervert. When my wife got home, she was also accosted by this woman who claimed that I found her attractive (I don't) and that I was peeping (I was not; they left their windows and blinds open and made some noise). Mu wife was shocked and confused and came inside the house quickly. I explained the situation and she agreed with me that the wife next door is a crazy b-tch. The next morning, there was a hand written note with many misspellings and typos claiming that she was going to sue me and contact my employer and tell the neighbors I am a pervert. What recourse do I have and what legal measures can I take to protect myself? | 7ab91b00f0c4167f4c8e048475f8158dae613853d326d89f4e2cd5ecf3c20185 | [
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I'm an Amazon delivery driver in London, Notting Hill. I was at a stop, left the keys in the van while doing the delivery and got robbed. My insurance doesn't want to cover the value of Amazon goods. Please HELP The value of Amazon goods is £5,500. My van, £5,600. ​ I know it was such a stupid thing to do and I should've never done it but it becomes a habit when you have 260 parcels to deliver in 8 hrs. Speed becomes the main focus and every second counts. I have definitely learnt my lesson ​ With my insurance, it clearly states in the contract that it will not cover the cost of the vehicle if theft happened while the keys are inside. I accept this bit but where it talks about the goods in transit, it gets confusing with all the jargon and wordplay. here's a copy pastea of the Goods section: Section 4- Goods in transit (freightliability) Special definitions CMR The Convention on the Contract for the International Carriage of Goods by Road as enacted into English law by the Carriage of **Goods by Road Act 1965.** ​ Costs and expenses 1. claimants’ costs and expenses which you become legally liable to pay 2. costs incurred with our written consent in defending any claim. ​ **Damage** **Physical loss, destruction or damage.** ​ Excluded goods 1. living creatures 2. money, securities for money, negotiable instruments, saving stamps, unused postage stamps and anything of a similar nature 3. fine arts, bullion, precious metal or stones or articles made of or containing precious metal or stones. ​ Full responsibility Any contract for carriage of goods (other than a contract which is subject to CMR) where you: 1. Do not use contract conditions and do not restrict your liability for loss or damage to common law or 2. use contract conditions but do not to wish to restrict our liability for loss or damage by application of their terms. ​ Other conditions Liability under any conditions of contract approved by us in writing prior to use. ​ Thief attractive goods 1. Alcoholic beverages, processed tobacco or tobacco products 2. clothing or footwear 3. non ferrous metals 4. domestic audio visual equipment or accessories 5. computer hardware or software 6. mobile phones or other portable communication devices 7. microchips, microprocessors, central processing units, system boards, memory boards, memory, sound or video cards or hi-tech components of a similar nature designed to be used in or in connection with computers or other electronic devices but not when they are fitted in such a device. ​ ​ \*\*\*\*Cover We will indemnify you in respect of all sums which you may become legally liable to pay as road carrier or bailee in respect of accidental damage to goods carried: 1. under the contract terms stated in the schedule. Limit of indemnity as stated in the schedule \*\*2. where liability is determined under common law due to a court of law setting aside the contract conditions that goods were carried under. Limit of indemnity £500,000 any one occurrence within the territorial limits. In addition to any limit of indemnity we will pay costs and expenses.\*\*\*\* ​ ​ Additional cover extensions applicable to Section 4 –Goods in transit (freight liability) Cross liabilities Where there is more than one insured person named in your schedule, each one will be covered as if they are the only insured person covered under this policy provided that nothing in this extension will increase our liability beyond the amount for which we would have been liable had this extension not applied. We will not provide indemnity where liability is owed by one party named on your schedule to another party named on your schedule. ​ ​ ​ It has a section about theft attractive goods but doesn't say anything anywhere in relation to it. It just points out what they are. Why? Under damage, it says physical loss. Shouldn't theft be a physical loss? ​ If you have any knowledge of the Goods By Road Act 1965 please fill me in if I'm covered | 1a23fe43250d7844579a38b62b6bd69b0826ca615c659893398c075345005e55 | [
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My(35M) mother(60sF) doesn't want me looking into my late grandfathers trust/will. Arizona Sorry for formatting. Crossposting to /relationships and /legaladvice. Warning long For background, my grandfather died in late 2012. In January of 2013 we found out my dad had cancer and he died in april of that year. A couple months later my sister also found out she had cancer and died in August. Needless to say, it was a bad year. Everyone knew, or thought they knew, where they stood as far as the wills go. My granddad had set up a trust so everything he had went to my dad. My dad had set his up to go to my mom. Cut and dry we all knew what the deal was and were cool with it until this January when my mom dropped a bombshell on us. It turns out that the quick succession of deaths meant that instead of my grandfathers possessions going to my mom, like we all thought, it would be split between my mom, my surviving sister and myself. When she told us that we were shocked and pretty confused. Once numbers were discussed I was happy but still trying to figure everything out. My sister on the other hand was pissed. She had been much more privy to the accounting information of the estate. She had seen the accounts early on and my moms financial adviser is her brother in law. She had discussed most of the early details with her for a long time until my sister had step back to deal with problems in her own life. Long and short of it is my sister had details that I didn't know. The numbers she told me where much different than what my mom had said. Not to get into details but it was the difference between buying a nice house to buying a used 2door economy sedan. My sister questioned my mom on this and it was reluctantly agreed that there would be full disclosure when the estate is settled next year(something about tax reasons). Since then it has mostly been forgotten by me until the other day. Before I get into that I need to explain a few things about my mother. Overall she is not a well person both mentally and physically. When I was growing up she was verbally and physically abusive to everyone in the family until I was big enough and fed up enough to hit her back. Since then the abuse has stopped and switched to a constant pity party. She allienates everyone around her and few people call her out on it. My dad would mostly ignore it and kiss her ass except 3 times when he had her committed for a short time(those are the ones I know of). She has even gone so far as to completely deny being abusive and had actually said to us that "I never hit you kids". When it comes to money she will burn through it like there will always be more to come. Shopping sprees were a regular thing for her even though they couldn't always afford it and sometimes had to borrow thousands from my sister. My dad knew this and set up his will so that she would be taken care of but not have full access to the money. My sister or I have to sign off on any major purchases before she can access the funds. But from what I understand that trust doesn't extend to my grandfathers estate and she has in fact used money from my grandfathers trust for her own personal need/wants. Basically I have every reason to believe that she cannot be trusted even though I would like to. Now back to the other night. I had called my mom to ask her something completely unrelated and she brought up some estate matters. Some of the things she was telling me didn't make a whole lot of sense and when she brought up the fact that the lawyers were dragging their feet I asked her who the lawyer was because some things didn't make sense. I figured that the lawyer could give me a lot better insight into what the hell was going on. After I asked some much more pointed questions she all of the sudden REALLY had to use the bathroom and pretty much hung up on me. The next morning she calls up very early to say that she doesn't appreciate being grilled about the estate and that she is sorry I didn't think she was doing a good enough job(it was pure sarcasm). Finally she said that she can't stop me from contacting the lawyer but that I should know that in the will there is a clause that says if I contest anything or question what she is saying, I am out of the will. I am still half asleep but I did have enough sense to just say "OK". This I knew was her trying to intimidate me but I don't think she knows me enough to know that I am not easily intimidated anymore. If someone does try to I will throw all my energy into doing exactly what they don't want me to do. A few hours later(at a reasonable hour) I called my sister and talked to her about it. Her take on it was that she doesn't trust my mother at all and she just wants it all to be over. She even asked me not to do anything to delay it any longer. When I asked why she told me that had hung over her like a black cloud until one day she just decided it was to damaging and she could not keep worrying about it. She wants this chapter in her life over with even if it means loosing a large amount of money that she really needs right now. She understands my position completely but doesn't have the mental energy to pursue it as well. That after noon I made an appointment with the estate lawyer. So now is the situation I need help with from /legaladvice. I have set up an appointment with the lawyer and want to prepare for that. What do I ask him? What don't I ask him? I know a few things but I could use more insight For the people from /relationships what the hell do I do about my mother. I know these steps could destroy what remains of our family. I know I only have one mother but she is honestly a toxic person. I don't want to have a relationship with a person who will screw me over for nothing. Talking to the lawyer is to help me understand if my suspicions are true. From there I don't know what to do TL:DR Mother doesnt want me to talk to estate lawyer. I think she is trying to hide her mistakes. | 9def26701a887d4957c58b81aee59d4ae2504f88a04ce8e4916a563284e5f733 | [
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My(35M) mother(60sF) doesn't want me looking into my late grandfathers trust/will. Arizona Sorry for formatting. Crossposting to /relationships and /legaladvice. Warning long For background, my grandfather died in late 2012. In January of 2013 we found out my dad had cancer and he died in april of that year. A couple months later my sister also found out she had cancer and died in August. Needless to say, it was a bad year. Everyone knew, or thought they knew, where they stood as far as the wills go. My granddad had set up a trust so everything he had went to my dad. My dad had set his up to go to my mom. Cut and dry we all knew what the deal was and were cool with it until this January when my mom dropped a bombshell on us. It turns out that the quick succession of deaths meant that instead of my grandfathers possessions going to my mom, like we all thought, it would be split between my mom, my surviving sister and myself. When she told us that we were shocked and pretty confused. Once numbers were discussed I was happy but still trying to figure everything out. My sister on the other hand was pissed. She had been much more privy to the accounting information of the estate. She had seen the accounts early on and my moms financial adviser is her brother in law. She had discussed most of the early details with her for a long time until my sister had step back to deal with problems in her own life. Long and short of it is my sister had details that I didn't know. The numbers she told me where much different than what my mom had said. Not to get into details but it was the difference between buying a nice house to buying a used 2door economy sedan. My sister questioned my mom on this and it was reluctantly agreed that there would be full disclosure when the estate is settled next year(something about tax reasons). Since then it has mostly been forgotten by me until the other day. Before I get into that I need to explain a few things about my mother. Overall she is not a well person both mentally and physically. When I was growing up she was verbally and physically abusive to everyone in the family until I was big enough and fed up enough to hit her back. Since then the abuse has stopped and switched to a constant pity party. She allienates everyone around her and few people call her out on it. My dad would mostly ignore it and kiss her ass except 3 times when he had her committed for a short time(those are the ones I know of). She has even gone so far as to completely deny being abusive and had actually said to us that "I never hit you kids". When it comes to money she will burn through it like there will always be more to come. Shopping sprees were a regular thing for her even though they couldn't always afford it and sometimes had to borrow thousands from my sister. My dad knew this and set up his will so that she would be taken care of but not have full access to the money. My sister or I have to sign off on any major purchases before she can access the funds. But from what I understand that trust doesn't extend to my grandfathers estate and she has in fact used money from my grandfathers trust for her own personal need/wants. Basically I have every reason to believe that she cannot be trusted even though I would like to. Now back to the other night. I had called my mom to ask her something completely unrelated and she brought up some estate matters. Some of the things she was telling me didn't make a whole lot of sense and when she brought up the fact that the lawyers were dragging their feet I asked her who the lawyer was because some things didn't make sense. I figured that the lawyer could give me a lot better insight into what the hell was going on. After I asked some much more pointed questions she all of the sudden REALLY had to use the bathroom and pretty much hung up on me. The next morning she calls up very early to say that she doesn't appreciate being grilled about the estate and that she is sorry I didn't think she was doing a good enough job(it was pure sarcasm). Finally she said that she can't stop me from contacting the lawyer but that I should know that in the will there is a clause that says if I contest anything or question what she is saying, I am out of the will. I am still half asleep but I did have enough sense to just say "OK". This I knew was her trying to intimidate me but I don't think she knows me enough to know that I am not easily intimidated anymore. If someone does try to I will throw all my energy into doing exactly what they don't want me to do. A few hours later(at a reasonable hour) I called my sister and talked to her about it. Her take on it was that she doesn't trust my mother at all and she just wants it all to be over. She even asked me not to do anything to delay it any longer. When I asked why she told me that had hung over her like a black cloud until one day she just decided it was to damaging and she could not keep worrying about it. She wants this chapter in her life over with even if it means loosing a large amount of money that she really needs right now. She understands my position completely but doesn't have the mental energy to pursue it as well. That after noon I made an appointment with the estate lawyer. So now is the situation I need help with from /legaladvice. I have set up an appointment with the lawyer and want to prepare for that. What do I ask him? What don't I ask him? I know a few things but I could use more insight For the people from /relationships what the hell do I do about my mother. I know these steps could destroy what remains of our family. I know I only have one mother but she is honestly a toxic person. I don't want to have a relationship with a person who will screw me over for nothing. Talking to the lawyer is to help me understand if my suspicions are true. From there I don't know what to do TL:DR Mother doesnt want me to talk to estate lawyer. I think she is trying to hide her mistakes. | 9def26701a887d4957c58b81aee59d4ae2504f88a04ce8e4916a563284e5f733 | [
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My phone has been stolen and I believe it has been sold to a pawn shop as I have been tracking the location. I also have selfies that the perpetrator took on my phone through a cloud backup. Am I entitled to get the phone back from the shop? Should I get the police involved? Might as well mention this is in Illinois, but I am currently out of town so I cannot physically track down the phone. I filed a police report at the airport from which I was leaving, yet they marked it as "lost" rather than stolen since I didn't yet have the tracking nor the selfie of the perp. I don't really want to buy a new phone for $1000 and might be willing to buy back my phone for a lower price (it's 2 years old) to keep the passwords, apps, notes, etc. from disappearing. | c7924afa6a72f6fa70946223f996c8317d46012ec971a7545206b78928b5dc2e | [
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[NM] I got a girl pregnant and she wanted to get an abortion but I didn't want that. She ended up not getting one but now she is not involved at all We weren't in a serious relationship when she got pregnant. She has never met our son. Even after the birth she had no desire to see him. We went to court to figure custody and support could be figured out and I have 100% full legal and physical custody. Her name is on the birth certificate but she has no custody and no right to visitation or to make things like medical or education decisions. She didn't want any of that. Every month she pays 125% of the court ordered child support. She says that if I ever marry someone who wants to adopt him she will agree but until then she'll pay support. It's been this way since our son was born. I'm raising our son all on my own. He is 18 months old now and he has never met her and I don't even have any photos of her even. I am burned out and hate being a single parent. I love my son but I resent him. My family tries to help when they can but I do it most of the time. I would never hurt or neglect him but I am exhausted all the time. I tried to go to court to give her split custody but because she wanted an abortion and I didn't and she made it clear she would never be involved after the birth, and because we went to court when he was 6 months old but because we already went after he was born and agreed on things and now she pays more support than is court ordered the judge said he can't force her to look after him. I haven't seen her in almost a year and the last I heard she has a tummy tuck and laser stretch marks treatment and is working at a gym. She also told her friends and family she is an egg donor and not a mother. She is a deadbeat mom and the court won't do anything and is forcing me to struggle as a single parent. Do I have any legal remedies here? | ff6637c1c3fece6551b06ca8087d9faff3673e4edbe6ac712528be976894cb44 | [
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[NM] I got a girl pregnant and she wanted to get an abortion but I didn't want that. She ended up not getting one but now she is not involved at all We weren't in a serious relationship when she got pregnant. She has never met our son. Even after the birth she had no desire to see him. We went to court to figure custody and support could be figured out and I have 100% full legal and physical custody. Her name is on the birth certificate but she has no custody and no right to visitation or to make things like medical or education decisions. She didn't want any of that. Every month she pays 125% of the court ordered child support. She says that if I ever marry someone who wants to adopt him she will agree but until then she'll pay support. It's been this way since our son was born. I'm raising our son all on my own. He is 18 months old now and he has never met her and I don't even have any photos of her even. I am burned out and hate being a single parent. I love my son but I resent him. My family tries to help when they can but I do it most of the time. I would never hurt or neglect him but I am exhausted all the time. I tried to go to court to give her split custody but because she wanted an abortion and I didn't and she made it clear she would never be involved after the birth, and because we went to court when he was 6 months old but because we already went after he was born and agreed on things and now she pays more support than is court ordered the judge said he can't force her to look after him. I haven't seen her in almost a year and the last I heard she has a tummy tuck and laser stretch marks treatment and is working at a gym. She also told her friends and family she is an egg donor and not a mother. She is a deadbeat mom and the court won't do anything and is forcing me to struggle as a single parent. Do I have any legal remedies here? | ff6637c1c3fece6551b06ca8087d9faff3673e4edbe6ac712528be976894cb44 | [
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[NM] I got a girl pregnant and she wanted to get an abortion but I didn't want that. She ended up not getting one but now she is not involved at all We weren't in a serious relationship when she got pregnant. She has never met our son. Even after the birth she had no desire to see him. We went to court to figure custody and support could be figured out and I have 100% full legal and physical custody. Her name is on the birth certificate but she has no custody and no right to visitation or to make things like medical or education decisions. She didn't want any of that. Every month she pays 125% of the court ordered child support. She says that if I ever marry someone who wants to adopt him she will agree but until then she'll pay support. It's been this way since our son was born. I'm raising our son all on my own. He is 18 months old now and he has never met her and I don't even have any photos of her even. I am burned out and hate being a single parent. I love my son but I resent him. My family tries to help when they can but I do it most of the time. I would never hurt or neglect him but I am exhausted all the time. I tried to go to court to give her split custody but because she wanted an abortion and I didn't and she made it clear she would never be involved after the birth, and because we went to court when he was 6 months old but because we already went after he was born and agreed on things and now she pays more support than is court ordered the judge said he can't force her to look after him. I haven't seen her in almost a year and the last I heard she has a tummy tuck and laser stretch marks treatment and is working at a gym. She also told her friends and family she is an egg donor and not a mother. She is a deadbeat mom and the court won't do anything and is forcing me to struggle as a single parent. Do I have any legal remedies here? | ff6637c1c3fece6551b06ca8087d9faff3673e4edbe6ac712528be976894cb44 | [
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