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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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Is it necessary to go to court for legal custody, or should I be fine? [NC] I have 2 daughter's (6 and 7) whose birthdays were in July and September, respectively. I have been in their lives since prenatal appointments. Their mother left me for another man in July 2020. Since she left, her communication with the girls has been very spotty (months in between), and I have been 100% the only provider for them, and they've been in my physical custody. We saw her in February of last year, and then didn't hear from her until May 12th of the same year. While she was visiting during that day, I was exhausted and passed out from work. When I woke up, she was gone, and had taken the kids. She took them to live in a motel room with her boyfriend (random man to my kids and myself) and his 3 sons, who I believe ages ranged from like 6-12 at the time. She had them from May 13th, until I found her and took them back on August 26th of the same year. During the time she was gone, she wouldn't let me speak to them, and I missed my youngest daughter's birthday for the first time. The 2 times I saw her during that time frame, she tried to blackmail me I to signing joint custody papers. When. I got my kids back, they told me that their mom and her boyfriend had been spewing venom to them about me, and that the boyfriend would hit them with a belt. When I confronted her via phone, she said "Don't you think I know that? Why do you think I let you have them?". October 11th of last year, she texted me saying "I have to go away for a while". I didn't hear from her again until January on this year, and she spoke to them on the phone for all of about 5 minutes (If I'm being generous). Since then, we haven't heard from her. No birthday calla, nothing. I keep tabs on her via social media, so I know she is alive and well, and has a car. Her not seeing my kids is 100% her decision. I originally filed for full custody during the period where she took my kids, but I didn't follow through once I got them back. I still don't want to follow through yet, because I feel like she'd try to contest it just to spite me, and I don't want to wake the sleeping bear. Is it vital for me to file for custody, or am I fine by letting her go even longer without contact, to ruin her chances in the event she tries anything? I don't talk to my kids about her, as I don't see the point, but they express to me that they don't even so much as want to talk to her on the phone. Even for their birthdays. I also don't plan on ever letting her around them unsupervised, so she can't take them again. What is it looking like for me? | 81f0996d3e37cb949be7a6a434b976582641b3b2f98009dd22f61dd3f70174e1 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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My mom is withholding my legal documents (birth certificate, SSN, tax forms) from me, her adult child. What can I do legally, without causing trouble in the community for myself? [UT] I’m 18 and I’m trying to move out of state away from my abusive household. I won’t go into detail but the problems are caused by my mom’s husband who she married when I was 9, and my mom who enables him. My mom knows I want to leave and absolutely will not let me. I’ve already been accepted with a scholarship out of state, but she’s trying to force me to stay in state. I have the money to cover book costs and leftover tuition for the first year and I’ll be working during college to cover payments. I’m also ready to take out loans if I need it, I just really need to get the fuck out of this place. But she won’t allow me access to my money. I’ve saved the money from working minimum wage since 15, as well as doing odd jobs around town like mowing lawns, dog sitting, and the likes. All legal. I spent very little of it as I was receiving it, and I have around 20k. My mom is the only one with the bank details and will not let me access my own money. It’s linked to her email and number so I can’t even change my login details. I don’t even have a card, just a savings account. The other thing - she will not grant me access to my birth certificate, social security number, tax forms, nothing. Before you ask I don’t have a drivers license or permit so I’m shit out of luck there. She does my taxes for me each year and specifically doesn’t let me see my SSN. She filled out my college applications and job applications with my personal info because “your SSN is none of your business”. I truly have no idea how to find it out. She keeps the papers in a lockbox that I couldn’t even begin to guess the code to, and I wouldn’t want her to find out I did that anyway. I always thought it was weird that she didn’t want me to see any of this stuff, but she’s always been controlling. What can I do? I can’t just order a birth certificate since I have no way to ID myself. I don’t want to make a court case out of it. My friends and I are trying to get out of our neighborhood as quietly as possible (tight-knit religious community, lots of abusive parents in the name of religion, abuse goes on directly in the church. Plus we’re mostly part of a community that a certain religion associated with Utah isn’t very fond of.) But anyway the last thing I want to do is sue my mom and her husband, or get into a legal battle that means I’ll have to stay here for longer. My mom’s husband especially is well loved and known within our community and it would bring me unwanted attention if I accused him and my mom of abuse/withholding my records. Is there, at all, an “under the table” legal way I can go about this? Or is my best option just trying to break into the lockbox or leave without them? Thanks in advance. And sorry if the text is a little scrambled, it was written in a hurry. | dfaf2c64ed39c24c7ab11594dc9465294850392ea52e018b4663d5c96e44d3d9 | [
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[NJ] Neighbors kid sat on my motorcycle without permission. Fell and broke his femur. Am I liable? I park my motorcycle in the parking lot in my designated spot for my complex. I only carry liability insurance on it. Welp. I hear a kid start screaming, go outside, and find a kid pinned under my motorcycle in the riding position. The forks were locked and there was a rear wheel lock on the bike as well. The kids friend tells me they were trying to take a picture on the motorcycle, the one on the bike kicked the kickstand up, and then lost his balance and the bike tipped over crushing his leg under the bike. (bike is a large cruiser) I quickly lifted the bike up and called 911. While waiting for the police I notice a screw driver on the floor and my ignition is completely bashed in. It looks like the kids were trying to start the bike to take for a joyride. The police came, an ambulance came, and the kids parents were no where to be found. Turns out he's 13 and live in my complex. The ambulance takes the kid away. The police took some notes, I explained to them what happened and the kids friend is hysterical crying. Police agree it looks like the kid was trying to take the bike given the damage to the ignition and the screwdriver. After everything was done I had my local insurance come out and look at the bike the next day and theres $1000+ of damage to the bike from the drop and attempted theft. Also, the father calls me the same day saying his son has a broken femur and he's going to sue me unless I pay the medical expenses because they don't have health insurance. I promptly tell him I don't want to communicate with him without an attorney and he comes to my unit and starts bashing my front door with a baseball bat screaming for me to come out. There are marks all over the door, I call the police, they come when the guys gone. They interview me, go to the guys unit, interview him and his wife who deny everything. Cops say they can't do anything because they didn't see it happen (what?!?!?). What the hell do I do here? My liability insurance isn't covering the damage done to my bike, I don't even know where to start with this kids injuries, and now I'm afraid of some guy smashing my face in. So....any advice? | e59cdd4f6b15aff0045ed059c81e2929b3a217b23d4994e08bb4f9ab68b51882 | [
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[NJ] Neighbors kid sat on my motorcycle without permission. Fell and broke his femur. Am I liable? I park my motorcycle in the parking lot in my designated spot for my complex. I only carry liability insurance on it. Welp. I hear a kid start screaming, go outside, and find a kid pinned under my motorcycle in the riding position. The forks were locked and there was a rear wheel lock on the bike as well. The kids friend tells me they were trying to take a picture on the motorcycle, the one on the bike kicked the kickstand up, and then lost his balance and the bike tipped over crushing his leg under the bike. (bike is a large cruiser) I quickly lifted the bike up and called 911. While waiting for the police I notice a screw driver on the floor and my ignition is completely bashed in. It looks like the kids were trying to start the bike to take for a joyride. The police came, an ambulance came, and the kids parents were no where to be found. Turns out he's 13 and live in my complex. The ambulance takes the kid away. The police took some notes, I explained to them what happened and the kids friend is hysterical crying. Police agree it looks like the kid was trying to take the bike given the damage to the ignition and the screwdriver. After everything was done I had my local insurance come out and look at the bike the next day and theres $1000+ of damage to the bike from the drop and attempted theft. Also, the father calls me the same day saying his son has a broken femur and he's going to sue me unless I pay the medical expenses because they don't have health insurance. I promptly tell him I don't want to communicate with him without an attorney and he comes to my unit and starts bashing my front door with a baseball bat screaming for me to come out. There are marks all over the door, I call the police, they come when the guys gone. They interview me, go to the guys unit, interview him and his wife who deny everything. Cops say they can't do anything because they didn't see it happen (what?!?!?). What the hell do I do here? My liability insurance isn't covering the damage done to my bike, I don't even know where to start with this kids injuries, and now I'm afraid of some guy smashing my face in. So....any advice? | e59cdd4f6b15aff0045ed059c81e2929b3a217b23d4994e08bb4f9ab68b51882 | [
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[CA] My car, with a valid placard, was towed from a handicap parking spot. What can I do? I am temporarily disabled, with a red handicap placard valid through the end of the year. I park in a handicap spot at my apartment complex with the placard properly displayed. Last night, the security team had my car towed, with the reason listed as “doesn/t have expiration date???” (punctuated as written.) I’m confident the placard is valid. I got it at AAA (shorter lines than the DMV), and I have the official paperwork. When I picked up my car, the towing company said the placard should have holes punched in it to indicate the expiration date. Mine does not, but the expiration date is clearly noted in the paperwork. Did AAA fuck up when they gave me the placard? The towing cost was expensive, and I will need to park my car in the future without getting towed. What can I do about this, and how can I prevent it from happening again? | 330a5b398093233662cf7821a8ec672ce1ee126f5509a197cf1187c7d08aa7b3 | [
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California - car towed from complex. Parking permit was valid and displayed in window. Recourse? California Car towed due to “expired permit” but permit was clearly displayed. I took a picture of the windshield with the permit displayed prior to parking and always do when I get a permit from the complex. Called the tow company and they said they towed my vehicle due to an “expired permit”, which is false. What steps do I need to take? Do I owe the tow yard? Ultimately, is the complex responsible? | 9a3d44609030cc20d921004142580fad569a21f98f4d70d697e222ad6cba3858 | [
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Purchased a used car and put down 5k with 4.59% financing. Get a call 3 days later asking for 2 more thousand down payment or financing will be raised to 5.09% All the contracts have already been signed with the original details. The car company is now saying the 5k down payment is "to low" and to either pay 2k more or get raised to 5.09 from 4.59 financing a month. Is this legal? Appreciate all the help, don't want to get screwed over by this car company. | 3710b1d2fd49e4d0dda7ab07787d68fbda57a448ee24169525383119f4db10de | [
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My parents gave me house down payment as gift money. House title has my dad, my wife, and my name on it. How do we make sure when the house is sold, my parents can keep the down money and my wife and I keep the sale profit (minus the down money). Only my wife and I make mortgage payments. We don't want to keep the down money and my parents don't want the sale profit from house value. Any legal action we can make so we can have a piece of mind about it. Thank you! | 4bc5427ec33e1828cdc615997b2b68b6477620ba354a9566e02495965f7838c0 | [
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Is it Legal for my Office to ask me to respond to emails while I'm at jury duty? So I was called into mandatory Jury Duty (New York City) and while there, I didn't check my work emails or Teams chat etc. I heard from the grapevine that my manager was "concerned" that I wasn't checking in. Is it legal for an employer to ask their employee to work while at Jury Duty? | ea8a8093e74a0941c1ef5b68d7c3e13dac6f5c86ba6d4f857a9ab960d30c2120 | [
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My friend thinks her ex-husband could be trying to sabotage her disability benefits (Alabama) My friend is on disability for an autoimmune disease. She has trouble with mobility and has a lot of pain. But sometimes she has good days where she might be able to go to a store or something, although she can’t carry heavy bags. If she does something like that, she’ll pay for it the next couple days. She just finalized her divorce last week. Her ex-husband has been acting unhinged through the whole process. For instance, she found out he just took out a life insurance policy on her without her permission, which made her scared for her safety. He’s a cop, so he has ways to get away with things. Yesterday she was at a store because she was having a good day pain-wise, and she caught someone following her and taking pictures. She thinks her ex-husband could be trying to sabotage her disability benefits by taking pics of her being out and about. She could have one good day a month and be incapacitated for the rest, but a pic of her out doing things could lead the SSA to think she’s not disabled. Is it possible to sabotage her disability in this way, like by sending them pictures? If so, is there anything she can do about it? Thanks for any help you can give. Edit: changed husband to ex-husband | ad889607f0ad12cdd8c92e9538dd823b0f9a7b6c0706ae8cf95b0646f25f5b54 | [
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