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A major car rental company is trying to hold me liable for a car that was stolen after it was returned. Pretty much what the title says: rented a car last week, returned it before the posted closing hours (they closed early that day so there was nobody to check me out. The fact that they closed early was not posted anywhere). Car locked, keys placed in the drop box. Easy peasy. Several days later I got a call from the company saying that I never returned the car and that I will be held liable, and that next steps will be given to me within 24 hours. I went back to the rental lot just to confirm with my own eyes that the car was gone (I knew this was a long shot but sheesh). I asked if I could see security footage because I followed all instructions given to me to return the car but was told that would require a subpoena and that they would be making a claim again my insurance for the full cost of the car. My partner was there and watched me return the car, as was my friend who came with me to return the car. There are two cameras on the side of the building that the car was parked on, which would easily catch me doing everything I was instructed to do in returning the car. How worried should I be? Should I get a lawyer? Will insurance clear this up? This company advertises that all of their cars are equipped with LoJack and it was stolen from their parking lot after the car was returned. Halp. | 388ae36acba142cabcf375d3e909f917eb429d47d0531533351b9d2170728c69 | [
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A major car rental company is trying to hold me liable for a car that was stolen after it was returned. Pretty much what the title says: rented a car last week, returned it before the posted closing hours (they closed early that day so there was nobody to check me out. The fact that they closed early was not posted anywhere). Car locked, keys placed in the drop box. Easy peasy. Several days later I got a call from the company saying that I never returned the car and that I will be held liable, and that next steps will be given to me within 24 hours. I went back to the rental lot just to confirm with my own eyes that the car was gone (I knew this was a long shot but sheesh). I asked if I could see security footage because I followed all instructions given to me to return the car but was told that would require a subpoena and that they would be making a claim again my insurance for the full cost of the car. My partner was there and watched me return the car, as was my friend who came with me to return the car. There are two cameras on the side of the building that the car was parked on, which would easily catch me doing everything I was instructed to do in returning the car. How worried should I be? Should I get a lawyer? Will insurance clear this up? This company advertises that all of their cars are equipped with LoJack and it was stolen from their parking lot after the car was returned. Halp. | 388ae36acba142cabcf375d3e909f917eb429d47d0531533351b9d2170728c69 | [
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A major car rental company is trying to hold me liable for a car that was stolen after it was returned. Pretty much what the title says: rented a car last week, returned it before the posted closing hours (they closed early that day so there was nobody to check me out. The fact that they closed early was not posted anywhere). Car locked, keys placed in the drop box. Easy peasy. Several days later I got a call from the company saying that I never returned the car and that I will be held liable, and that next steps will be given to me within 24 hours. I went back to the rental lot just to confirm with my own eyes that the car was gone (I knew this was a long shot but sheesh). I asked if I could see security footage because I followed all instructions given to me to return the car but was told that would require a subpoena and that they would be making a claim again my insurance for the full cost of the car. My partner was there and watched me return the car, as was my friend who came with me to return the car. There are two cameras on the side of the building that the car was parked on, which would easily catch me doing everything I was instructed to do in returning the car. How worried should I be? Should I get a lawyer? Will insurance clear this up? This company advertises that all of their cars are equipped with LoJack and it was stolen from their parking lot after the car was returned. Halp. | 388ae36acba142cabcf375d3e909f917eb429d47d0531533351b9d2170728c69 | [
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[NJ] Just got my first paycheck of July today at my minimum wage fast food job. The minimum wage has increased from 8.85 to 10. My pay rate has not increased and is still at 8.85. Was expecting a 1.15 dollar increase as the minimum wage of nj just increased to 10 dollars at the beginning of July. The pay rate on my check is 8.85 (old state minimum ). The beginning of the pay window is July 1st to July 14th so this is after the minimum wage has increased. Am I entitled to the new minimum wage and if so what actions should be taken to have my pay increased to minimum wage. | 612d41e64b62abaebecce1a51b0d3b4fb4aca1035d1a902eaf837662202fb1ba | [
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Employer requiring doctors note for every absence even though I have a disability that I have to call out for when it flares up, AZ I have a disability that can cause me to have to stay home. Employer is aware and pretty much has ignored my letting them know that I was starting to feel like it was going to flare (I can’t stop it, or prevent flare ups. I’ve tried for years). Now, after I had to call out, they are stating that I have to bring in a doctors note every time. Is this legal? Even if I provide proof of my disability and showed them it’s legit? | 681946510e7b301e31862c9ef21c4f2309aac1403a8fc83c4d268255ba987026 | [
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UPS picked up my return package from inside my house, gave me a receipt to confirm, then dragged it on the concrete - ripping it and getting wet mud all over it then changed their mind about taking it and left it outside. I had a scheduled UPS pick up today for a mattress. The mattress was wrapped and prepared. When UPS arrived he took a look at it and said "yeah i'm not sure this is gonna work" but took it anyways. He gave me a receipt to confirm the pick up and went about doing his job. The driver dragged the mattress out to the concrete which ripped the packaging and mattress up pretty bad - packaging that cost me well over $15. He continued to drag it then decided he might need something with wheels to carry this 150 lb object. He got the little carrier with wheels and took it and threw the package in the back of his truck. After seeing him complete his job, I close the door and call it a day. 15 minutes later he comes knocking on my door and says "it just aint gonna work" and leaves the package outside. I was shocked especially because he had given me a receipt confirming that this was over and done with. After that I drag the package back in and sat confused af over this. I even took a picture of him dragging and ripped the package in case I needed proof that he's at fault for a ripped mattress and not me. 30 minutes later the driver comes back knocking on my door demanding I give him the "paperwork" that he left earlier. I was very confused and told him he didn't leave any paperwork, but he insisted that he did and he barged into my living room looking for it after which I screamed that he gets tf out. He did. But, now I realize he's talking about the receipt. I have no idea what this means, what to do, or how to proceed or where to even post this. Any advice would be appreciated. | c8da2ae1265635db35054415d297f7088696b05982e5c6978bab82b76c2c2d92 | [
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[CA] Restaurant customer threatens chargeback over the $100 tip he left. Manager obliges and is now asking for the $100 to be given back from the waitstaff. California, Alameda County. Waiter at a restaurant that is no stranger to decent sized groups and dinner parties. A particular customer left a $100 tip on his receipt that was charged to his credit card along with the price of the dinner. The $100 is clearly legible on the receipt. Tips are cashed out at the end of each shift between waitstaff, bartenders, and bussers. Two weeks later the customer calls back and complains, saying he never left a $100 tip and threatens a chargeback for the entire bill. Restaurant manager informs him that it is clearly visible on the receipt but as a good will gesture offers to refund his $100. Manager then asks the staff that recieved a portion of the $100 tip to return the money. You fill out a form that says you're giving it back and it's deduced from the next time you're tips are cashed out. The forms are typically used when a tip amount is entered incorrectly by the staff, never seen it happen before when management offers a refund to the customer. Am I obligated to give the money back? Can I be fired if I refuse? | d8ce41c1c874df1e419e18d271ce756324bdf8d57e575d0c1fd0b93f826c2f18 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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[NY] Woman has come forward claiming her child is my half-brother to try to get a part of my fathers estate despite the fact it is impossible. What can I do make this woman go away or pay for this stunt? Using an alt because this is just ridiculous. So here's the situation. My father passed about 2 months ago from natural causes and left everything he owned to me and my sister. His estate is worth over 5 million with almost half of that in liquid assets. His estate is still being split up now (not because me and sis are fighting or anything. The two of us are just working together to see who wants what and figuring out what to do with the rest.) But that isn't the issue here. About a week ago a woman we'll call Stupid bitch (SB for short) contacted my fathers estate attorney claiming that she had a secret child with him and demanded he get a third of the estate. I have never met this woman or even knew she existed until then but apparently she is the daughter of someone my dad went to high-school with so it isn't out of the question at first. But here's the thing, my dad was diagnosed with testicular cancer 15 years ago and had both his testicles removed. So unless this kid is at least 14 then its impossible it's his. So entertaining the thought I met with SB and was surprised to find out this "secret child" is 9 years old and looks nothing like my father. During this meeting she demanded "her child's share" of my dads estate and wants 9 years of child support in cash. She claimed she would sue if he wasn't added into the will. My dad's estate lawyer said that if SB's kid passed a DNA test he would bust she refused. She claims she has a "secret letter" from my father acknowledging this kid as his own but refused to provide it. The meeting ended with my fathers estate lawyer telling her to pretty much get out until she's ready to do a DNA test and her claiming she would "see us in court." It's pretty obvious this is not my dad's kid but SB is still trying to take from us. My question is, what can I do to make her go away? What kind of legal action can I take to make her disappear from my life. If she does try to take action against me and my sister, what can I do to make sure this bitch gets what she deserves? | 39e0c1e328852edb9319fd4ccf48dcc039b604ee9634651315b91a1b96252de7 | [
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My father has passed and he willed everything to me. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is my fathers and she wants to sue the estate for 18 years of child support. (CA) My father passed a few weeks ago and left everything to me. He has no siblings, no living parents, and I was his only child. He and my mother had a rather nasty divorce when I was still a baby and he left her nothing. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is his and wants pretty much his entire estate for her child as both her child's share of the inheritance and a large lump-sum of money for her to count as the 18 years of child support she claims she should get. Right off the bat, I doubt the kid is his. My father never dated or was in a relationship after his divorce with my mom, and even then, he was cremated shortly after death so there is nothing to compare the kid's DNA to. I believe this woman waited intentionally as she was known to my father, and attended his funeral (it was open to the public), but never brought the claim when DNA could have been collected. I do still have my dad's ashes, can DNA be collected from that? Regardless, my LEGAL question is: If the child actually is my father's, can she sue for a lump-sum to cover 18 years of child support, or can she only recover what would be my half-siblings share of the estate? | 00515fa63bcb237ecb0a8ec3f271ff2989ae330c8d9b42a04a3c72ed895813c5 | [
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My father has passed and he willed everything to me. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is my fathers and she wants to sue the estate for 18 years of child support. (CA) My father passed a few weeks ago and left everything to me. He has no siblings, no living parents, and I was his only child. He and my mother had a rather nasty divorce when I was still a baby and he left her nothing. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is his and wants pretty much his entire estate for her child as both her child's share of the inheritance and a large lump-sum of money for her to count as the 18 years of child support she claims she should get. Right off the bat, I doubt the kid is his. My father never dated or was in a relationship after his divorce with my mom, and even then, he was cremated shortly after death so there is nothing to compare the kid's DNA to. I believe this woman waited intentionally as she was known to my father, and attended his funeral (it was open to the public), but never brought the claim when DNA could have been collected. I do still have my dad's ashes, can DNA be collected from that? Regardless, my LEGAL question is: If the child actually is my father's, can she sue for a lump-sum to cover 18 years of child support, or can she only recover what would be my half-siblings share of the estate? | 00515fa63bcb237ecb0a8ec3f271ff2989ae330c8d9b42a04a3c72ed895813c5 | [
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My father has passed and he willed everything to me. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is my fathers and she wants to sue the estate for 18 years of child support. (CA) My father passed a few weeks ago and left everything to me. He has no siblings, no living parents, and I was his only child. He and my mother had a rather nasty divorce when I was still a baby and he left her nothing. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is his and wants pretty much his entire estate for her child as both her child's share of the inheritance and a large lump-sum of money for her to count as the 18 years of child support she claims she should get. Right off the bat, I doubt the kid is his. My father never dated or was in a relationship after his divorce with my mom, and even then, he was cremated shortly after death so there is nothing to compare the kid's DNA to. I believe this woman waited intentionally as she was known to my father, and attended his funeral (it was open to the public), but never brought the claim when DNA could have been collected. I do still have my dad's ashes, can DNA be collected from that? Regardless, my LEGAL question is: If the child actually is my father's, can she sue for a lump-sum to cover 18 years of child support, or can she only recover what would be my half-siblings share of the estate? | 00515fa63bcb237ecb0a8ec3f271ff2989ae330c8d9b42a04a3c72ed895813c5 | [
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My father has passed and he willed everything to me. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is my fathers and she wants to sue the estate for 18 years of child support. (CA) My father passed a few weeks ago and left everything to me. He has no siblings, no living parents, and I was his only child. He and my mother had a rather nasty divorce when I was still a baby and he left her nothing. A woman has come forward claiming her three year old is his and wants pretty much his entire estate for her child as both her child's share of the inheritance and a large lump-sum of money for her to count as the 18 years of child support she claims she should get. Right off the bat, I doubt the kid is his. My father never dated or was in a relationship after his divorce with my mom, and even then, he was cremated shortly after death so there is nothing to compare the kid's DNA to. I believe this woman waited intentionally as she was known to my father, and attended his funeral (it was open to the public), but never brought the claim when DNA could have been collected. I do still have my dad's ashes, can DNA be collected from that? Regardless, my LEGAL question is: If the child actually is my father's, can she sue for a lump-sum to cover 18 years of child support, or can she only recover what would be my half-siblings share of the estate? | 00515fa63bcb237ecb0a8ec3f271ff2989ae330c8d9b42a04a3c72ed895813c5 | [
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A woman claims I’m the father of her child A woman who I had engaged in a consensual sexual relationship claims that a 6 month old child is mine. She is currently married and has 2 children with her husband and the third is in question. She disappeared completely from my life 15 months ago without a word and has recently resurfaced following her husband taking an in home paternity test. He is on the child’s birth certificate but has since left her (no further details provided to me) What obligation, if any, am I facing? She is threatening legal action and it’s thrown me for a loop. I’m at odds with this situation and want to be prepared for whatever may come. I thank you in advance for any and all advice | 2f4217abcba3baade3ade3b74ae7539be0c5420fe2a34d984478c39f480b99e9 | [
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CA | Sister’s mom wants to sue me for child support, claiming I play the role of her father. My sister is 10 and I’m 30. My dad has been absent from her life for years, we don’t know where he is. He wasn’t around for me either, used to disappear for a few years at a time and come back for a few months only to disappear again. I’m close with my sister, she usually spends one or two nights a week with me and my wife. I don’t give her mom money, but I help out by buying her things that she need. On Monday her mom called me telling me that we need to come to some sort of financial arrangement for child support since I have so far established myself as playing the role of the father in her life and therefore I need to pay child support. I laughed that off as it sounded absurd but apparently she is being serious. The role that I play I think is the role of older sibling (which I am!) with an absent father, that’s all. I was told by my sister that she has overheard their mother talking to her aunt that her lawyer is going to sue me. It could be the mom playing games, saying that for my sister to hear and then tell me to scare me into paying her money. She’s capable of being manipulative. Assuming she is being serious in her attempts to take legal action to get child support from me, what should I expect? And how do I prepare myself now? | 0dec0d128072e1ef5c9a9ccf50656c54922565faf75355e7cdd38463bcc3f6fd | [
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CA | Sister’s mom wants to sue me for child support, claiming I play the role of her father. My sister is 10 and I’m 30. My dad has been absent from her life for years, we don’t know where he is. He wasn’t around for me either, used to disappear for a few years at a time and come back for a few months only to disappear again. I’m close with my sister, she usually spends one or two nights a week with me and my wife. I don’t give her mom money, but I help out by buying her things that she need. On Monday her mom called me telling me that we need to come to some sort of financial arrangement for child support since I have so far established myself as playing the role of the father in her life and therefore I need to pay child support. I laughed that off as it sounded absurd but apparently she is being serious. The role that I play I think is the role of older sibling (which I am!) with an absent father, that’s all. I was told by my sister that she has overheard their mother talking to her aunt that her lawyer is going to sue me. It could be the mom playing games, saying that for my sister to hear and then tell me to scare me into paying her money. She’s capable of being manipulative. Assuming she is being serious in her attempts to take legal action to get child support from me, what should I expect? And how do I prepare myself now? | 0dec0d128072e1ef5c9a9ccf50656c54922565faf75355e7cdd38463bcc3f6fd | [
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CA | Sister’s mom wants to sue me for child support, claiming I play the role of her father. My sister is 10 and I’m 30. My dad has been absent from her life for years, we don’t know where he is. He wasn’t around for me either, used to disappear for a few years at a time and come back for a few months only to disappear again. I’m close with my sister, she usually spends one or two nights a week with me and my wife. I don’t give her mom money, but I help out by buying her things that she need. On Monday her mom called me telling me that we need to come to some sort of financial arrangement for child support since I have so far established myself as playing the role of the father in her life and therefore I need to pay child support. I laughed that off as it sounded absurd but apparently she is being serious. The role that I play I think is the role of older sibling (which I am!) with an absent father, that’s all. I was told by my sister that she has overheard their mother talking to her aunt that her lawyer is going to sue me. It could be the mom playing games, saying that for my sister to hear and then tell me to scare me into paying her money. She’s capable of being manipulative. Assuming she is being serious in her attempts to take legal action to get child support from me, what should I expect? And how do I prepare myself now? | 0dec0d128072e1ef5c9a9ccf50656c54922565faf75355e7cdd38463bcc3f6fd | [
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CA | Sister’s mom wants to sue me for child support, claiming I play the role of her father. My sister is 10 and I’m 30. My dad has been absent from her life for years, we don’t know where he is. He wasn’t around for me either, used to disappear for a few years at a time and come back for a few months only to disappear again. I’m close with my sister, she usually spends one or two nights a week with me and my wife. I don’t give her mom money, but I help out by buying her things that she need. On Monday her mom called me telling me that we need to come to some sort of financial arrangement for child support since I have so far established myself as playing the role of the father in her life and therefore I need to pay child support. I laughed that off as it sounded absurd but apparently she is being serious. The role that I play I think is the role of older sibling (which I am!) with an absent father, that’s all. I was told by my sister that she has overheard their mother talking to her aunt that her lawyer is going to sue me. It could be the mom playing games, saying that for my sister to hear and then tell me to scare me into paying her money. She’s capable of being manipulative. Assuming she is being serious in her attempts to take legal action to get child support from me, what should I expect? And how do I prepare myself now? | 0dec0d128072e1ef5c9a9ccf50656c54922565faf75355e7cdd38463bcc3f6fd | [
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CA | Sister’s mom wants to sue me for child support, claiming I play the role of her father. My sister is 10 and I’m 30. My dad has been absent from her life for years, we don’t know where he is. He wasn’t around for me either, used to disappear for a few years at a time and come back for a few months only to disappear again. I’m close with my sister, she usually spends one or two nights a week with me and my wife. I don’t give her mom money, but I help out by buying her things that she need. On Monday her mom called me telling me that we need to come to some sort of financial arrangement for child support since I have so far established myself as playing the role of the father in her life and therefore I need to pay child support. I laughed that off as it sounded absurd but apparently she is being serious. The role that I play I think is the role of older sibling (which I am!) with an absent father, that’s all. I was told by my sister that she has overheard their mother talking to her aunt that her lawyer is going to sue me. It could be the mom playing games, saying that for my sister to hear and then tell me to scare me into paying her money. She’s capable of being manipulative. Assuming she is being serious in her attempts to take legal action to get child support from me, what should I expect? And how do I prepare myself now? | 0dec0d128072e1ef5c9a9ccf50656c54922565faf75355e7cdd38463bcc3f6fd | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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(Texas) 35yo pregnant woman claims my 15yo son is the father. 1) is this an admission of statutory rape? 2) if true, what are my son's responsibilities towards the child? This pregnant woman came to me a couple of days ago to speak about my son. She says she's 5 months pregnant and my son is the father. I did not allow her to speak to my son though. She says the reason for her visit is that she wants my son to be on the birth certificate and carry the responsibilities of the father. My son admits to sleeping with this woman twice. However he says it's impossible for the child to be his because of timing. Now I'm the first person to admit that I do not have full confidence in my son - she could be telling the truth or she could be lying (I'm guessing we'll have to do paternity tests when the time comes). I will deal with my son. However assuming that what she says is true, is this an admission of statuary rape? This woman used to work for the my son's school (she has been fired for unrelated reasons). How can I go about pursuing this? And what becomes of my son's responsibilities as the father? I'm guessing if the paternity test comes back positive, he will be regarded as the father by law? Do we need to prepare for anything? | c6919cdab8275128d23b936c430172d7f6c5d1461c7efcfa437fc0c5c4815edc | [
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Most unreal and childish easement battle I could never have even imagined watching on TV. Reminds me of that one kid in class who told anytime they thought ratting a classmate out would get them special attention. Apple does not fall far from this tree. Our new neighbor owns property along main road that has been cut off straight thru middle to grant a deed with exlusive easements to come and go over three connecting strips of their property to access our landlocked property. While we knew of said easements we have used as our driveway since 2019, new neighbors have started litigation against us, stolen our property address sign (which was shown in the advertising pictures of their property as they purchased over a year after us, moved our disabled child's bus stop, threatned to have county take our trash bin and recycling bin, cursed at us, installed very bright blinding lights 3-5' facing each side of vehicle, when we are coming and going, and the list goes on. and on. We no longer have a clearly marked address and have not been able to get larger packages, food delivery, and I fear that even first responders in an emergency would not even think their was a home tucked back here. I am at a loss for words to explain how this effects my families peace and enjoyment we once felt with our little piece of America. It was a very proud day to love our home and know we would love it forever. I honestly just want a clear way of finding our house which helps gain a little peace back. Where the hell could we place our address sign that they could not legally remove or dismantle? We live in California. ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ I would wish even my enemies would not have to go thru this type of harassment and inflicted emotion pain these people have inflicted on my family. Any guidance would be well taken. | f87da9de08f2ef5aa1acc79199454b5c12ff3e256c456384112224c2826e57ab | [
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A classmate of my brother is trying to kill other classmates with peanut allergies by putting peanut butter in their food. (Connecticut) The kids are in fifth grade, and this girl obviously knows what she's doing. My brother has told his teacher buy nothing has come from it. What else can be done? | e7e3dd999ee6e7b74a16d3ead3c0d797457fe6a7d72fa3a8fcb4323e5befa4c8 | [
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(NYC) (Possibly NSFW) classmate's brother has a video of me masturbating and is blackmailing me with it. This classmate is also a distant cousin. Me and my classmate are both 16 while his brother is 17. I had to stay over at their house over the weekend to complete a project that I was working on with classmate. There was no way I could go for three days without relieving myself so I just watched porn and masturbated in their bathroom. When I walked out I saw classmate's brother recording with his phone. He has the audio of me masturbating and the video shows me walking out of the bathroom so anyone seeing the video can undeniably tell that it was me in there. I don't want that video to be seen by anyone or for him to show or send it to anyone so I told classmate's brother that I would tell authorities that he is in possession of child porn if he didn't delete the video. He said he would only delete the video if I disposed of all the Enanthate vials I have and that if I do make a report to authorities that he would tell them I have Enanthate and where I'm keeping it. It's impossible for me to rid of the Enanthate I have. However, I don't have any prescriptions for it and I've already been convicted of possessing them before so it would probably be a worse sentencing this time around. If he does report that I have Enanthate can anyone legally get a warrant and go through my stuff to find it? Is there anything else I can do to make sure that he deletes the video but I don't have to turn in anything that I have? | dd2552198492a3e58bb942d3f66f512a7d7ccaa7eb6a826aad25d766e53e95e8 | [
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(NYC) (Possibly NSFW) classmate's brother has a video of me masturbating and is blackmailing me with it. This classmate is also a distant cousin. Me and my classmate are both 16 while his brother is 17. I had to stay over at their house over the weekend to complete a project that I was working on with classmate. There was no way I could go for three days without relieving myself so I just watched porn and masturbated in their bathroom. When I walked out I saw classmate's brother recording with his phone. He has the audio of me masturbating and the video shows me walking out of the bathroom so anyone seeing the video can undeniably tell that it was me in there. I don't want that video to be seen by anyone or for him to show or send it to anyone so I told classmate's brother that I would tell authorities that he is in possession of child porn if he didn't delete the video. He said he would only delete the video if I disposed of all the Enanthate vials I have and that if I do make a report to authorities that he would tell them I have Enanthate and where I'm keeping it. It's impossible for me to rid of the Enanthate I have. However, I don't have any prescriptions for it and I've already been convicted of possessing them before so it would probably be a worse sentencing this time around. If he does report that I have Enanthate can anyone legally get a warrant and go through my stuff to find it? Is there anything else I can do to make sure that he deletes the video but I don't have to turn in anything that I have? | dd2552198492a3e58bb942d3f66f512a7d7ccaa7eb6a826aad25d766e53e95e8 | [
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Taking college course which requires using Azure platform, was told to enter debit card info "but service is totally free." Today several of my classmates and I were charged $75 dollars and had our home address revealed. (Georgia, US) This is my first post here and I am not sure if this is the appropriate sub, so please direct me to a better place if this doesn't belong here, Thanks! I am taking a web development course at my local university, and the proffesor required us to upload our work to the Azure web app platform. After the 3rd week or so the service prompted me (and everyone else, the instructor had to make an announcement that this was free but required us to enter payment information) to enter card info. I used the only card I have, my debit card, which I am now seeing was a mistake. Today I was charged $75 dollars for using the service, after investigating I found invoices on the platforms billing page, for myself and several other classmates, as well as the professor. The interesting part of that is the invoices have our home addresses on them, even the professor's. The charges have placed my bank account at a negative balance, and im sure an ensuing overdraft fee, and my internet bill will now be paid late, causing a probable fee there as well, could cost me around $60 dollars further. I am mad, but equally confused, I am worried I may have done something wrong during set up because we never really went over how this platform works, just how to get started and enter the payment details. I'm wondering if I can take any steps to recover my money, and how to address this with the professor or school. The charges occurred at midnight, the professor has posted a new assignment in the class today, but not mentioned the charges at all yet. Thanks in advance for any help! Sorry again if this is in the wrong place, poorly formatted or otherwise incorrect! | 76e49df79e376a21f7e447ac4461541d2fc2c8a4252fb64751ba1cab3b07a9da | [
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FOLLOW UP] Bought first home. Part of fence 6" over property line. Owner claiming $400k in damages. Hi - I [originally posted this on a throw-away account but forgot the password and I have updates **and more help needed. (Thanks for all of the initial advice!)** I posted back in December that we had received a suspicious letter claiming we owed an adjacent landowner $400,000 because part of the 5-year-old house we bought in September 2021 (or the fence, it wasn't clear) encroached on part of their property or the easement. We didn't do anything after received the first letter. From all the advice we took the following action: * I checked with the county (dept of construction and inspections) and there were no liens on the property and no record of any property line dispute. * Researched potential Real Estate lawyers This was my wife's and my first house, and we had only closed at the end of September, so we thought this was some weird shakedown. It just seemed bizarre that the adjacent owner thought there was a property line problem, but was not able to resolve it during about 5 years and several different (previous owners) when they had the chance to speak up during construction, or several owners. Fast forward to March 2022, and I have been served with a summons, in which we have 20 days to respond. Both the original developer/builder of the house and my wife and I are named as defendants. In the letter, the attorney for adjacent owner claims that they spoke with an attorney for a previous owner (several owners back - someone we don't know and have never met) who told them that my wife and I were aware of the boundary dispute before we purchased. We were not made aware of this until receiving the letter in January. The Developer/Builder sold to one owner, who then sold the house to a real estate company, who then sold to us directly. We are being sued in Superior Court. There will be a default judgement against us if we don't respond, so we will respond. The survey we used to purchase the property was done in 2018. Building permits from 2018 show the site was inspected during and after construction and the inspector commented on "Setback/Location - Location was set by survey and seems OK." The company suing us now claims there is a more recent survey that supports their position and that the original developer/builder has also agreed they built in the wrong place. We had never seen this survey until it was included as an exhibit in the Summons and notice we were being sued. We spoke with our real estate agent, who was sympathetic, but he said that the law firm that represents the real estate company would not be able to represent us (conflict of interest), but they wished us well. (Our agent does not work for the real estate company who had purchased the property and sold to us. He was representing us when we were looking.) The agent said they were unaware of any boundary disputes at the time the property was listed for sale and when we entered into a contract to purchase. * So next steps? Hire an attorney, obviously. Any direction on what type of attorney or law firm I should look for would be appreciated. I have no experience hiring an attorney. No idea where to start. * Should I send a copy of the lawsuit and "documentation" to the title insurance company? * Should I contact the original developer/builder? Should I wait until I hire an attorney and listen to their advice? This is terribly stressful and I am not sure what to do next. Thanks for any and all advice. | 3fb48c0d6789a442ca7a2b73ad5e62418a3da1a8853b99892f1a7b7df0bc3bc0 | [
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A friend of mine broke into my house, put her stuff at random places to make it look like she's been a tenant, cops arrive, finds her stuff all over the place and so of course they won't remove her. What do I do now? I have a friend who called me last night asking for a place to stay. I politely told her no. She's 25, I'm 19 and I should mention she's a narcissistic bitch. Today I was over at my cousin's place this morning and when I came home a couple of hours ago I found this bitch inside my house. No signs of a break in from the outside. I ask her how she got in and she tells me through the back window. I tell her I never gave you permission to come here and that she needs to leave immediately and she says "deal with it". I call the cops and tell them that there's a person who got inside my house without my permission and that I need an officer to come and remove her. A couple of minutes later they arrive and here's what happens. She tells them "I know my rights officers I've been a legal tenant in this house for two months now and you can't just remove me. I can go around show you my clothes in the wardrobe. My toothbrush and my conditioner in the bathroom and all of my other stuff." .. they take a walk with her and all of her fucking stuff is all over my house!! She fucking broke into my house, put her stuff all over so that the cops would think she's been a tenant. The next thing they tell me is that I have to serve her with an eviction notice and that they can't legally remove her since she's considered a tenant. I didn't even know what to tell them as I felt so dumbfounded and shocked I was set up like this. I was silent for a few seconds and so they try to explain how the law works to me but since I just keep looking at them in silence not believing myself they just proceed to leave. I'm so fucking pissed. I'm in California so I can't even record her confessing to what she's done. If I can do that under an exception I could easily do it because apparently she has no problem admitting to it when the cops aren't here. I'm not, however, going to do so if it will lead to more problems. I've also thought about calling 911 or the non-emergency line and telling the operator about the situation so that the call would be recorded and then make my "friend" confess about it. Can I do that? Me and the operator are aware of the call being recorded. I think it still would be unlawful. How do I get this bitch out without having to serve her eviction notice? Isn't that against the law what she did there? Isn't this fraud? I've thought about trying to prove that she's been living somewhere else before but I don't know what to do. This is fucked up. I'm really sorry about my language but I'm really feeling so angry and I'm trying to be calm as much as I can while she's in my fucking house using my stuff and I can't do shit about it. Thanks... | 52b39d32fe2acac0ab3cdf85d3059ef39831072b19177649a603fd5bb0eda872 | [
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A friend of mine broke into my house, put her stuff at random places to make it look like she's been a tenant, cops arrive, finds her stuff all over the place and so of course they won't remove her. What do I do now? I have a friend who called me last night asking for a place to stay. I politely told her no. She's 25, I'm 19 and I should mention she's a narcissistic bitch. Today I was over at my cousin's place this morning and when I came home a couple of hours ago I found this bitch inside my house. No signs of a break in from the outside. I ask her how she got in and she tells me through the back window. I tell her I never gave you permission to come here and that she needs to leave immediately and she says "deal with it". I call the cops and tell them that there's a person who got inside my house without my permission and that I need an officer to come and remove her. A couple of minutes later they arrive and here's what happens. She tells them "I know my rights officers I've been a legal tenant in this house for two months now and you can't just remove me. I can go around show you my clothes in the wardrobe. My toothbrush and my conditioner in the bathroom and all of my other stuff." .. they take a walk with her and all of her fucking stuff is all over my house!! She fucking broke into my house, put her stuff all over so that the cops would think she's been a tenant. The next thing they tell me is that I have to serve her with an eviction notice and that they can't legally remove her since she's considered a tenant. I didn't even know what to tell them as I felt so dumbfounded and shocked I was set up like this. I was silent for a few seconds and so they try to explain how the law works to me but since I just keep looking at them in silence not believing myself they just proceed to leave. I'm so fucking pissed. I'm in California so I can't even record her confessing to what she's done. If I can do that under an exception I could easily do it because apparently she has no problem admitting to it when the cops aren't here. I'm not, however, going to do so if it will lead to more problems. I've also thought about calling 911 or the non-emergency line and telling the operator about the situation so that the call would be recorded and then make my "friend" confess about it. Can I do that? Me and the operator are aware of the call being recorded. I think it still would be unlawful. How do I get this bitch out without having to serve her eviction notice? Isn't that against the law what she did there? Isn't this fraud? I've thought about trying to prove that she's been living somewhere else before but I don't know what to do. This is fucked up. I'm really sorry about my language but I'm really feeling so angry and I'm trying to be calm as much as I can while she's in my fucking house using my stuff and I can't do shit about it. Thanks... | 52b39d32fe2acac0ab3cdf85d3059ef39831072b19177649a603fd5bb0eda872 | [
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