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• Cultural pressure to marry and devaluation of singleness in Christianity |
• Church's emphasis on marriage and potential undervaluing of singleness |
• The church's view on singleness is often negative and sees it as a problem to be solved |
• Paul's text in 1 Corinthians 7 presents an alternative view of singleness as a positive choice |
• The context of the crisis mentioned by Paul in the text may be a famine or Christ's second coming |
• Remaining single allows for greater focus on God without distraction during times of crisis |
• Marriage is valued and ordained by God, but remaining single can be beneficial in certain circumstances |
• Both Jesus and Paul teach that not all are called to get married, and some are specifically called to remain single. |
• Marriage brings frivolous and genuine concerns that might impede devotion to God. |
• Singleness can also impede one's ability to focus on their relationship with God if spent trying to find a partner. |
• The challenge is to ask what is impeding ability to be fully devoted to God, regardless of marital status. |
• Marital status should have no bearing on devotion to Christ; being active in faith is more important than relationship status. |
• The church has a negative view of singleness as inferior to marriage. |
• This narrative needs to change for single people not to feel like they're missing something from God. |
• Single people can serve God and his kingdom in unique ways, and this should be celebrated by the church. |
• Loneliness is a significant challenge faced by single people that the church must address. |
• The church should provide a sense of family and community for its members, including singles. |
• Singleness can be beneficial to one's life and to Christ's body, but the church generally views marriage more positively. |
• The importance of prioritizing one's relationship with God over earthly relationships and circumstances |
• Marriage is not a universal calling from God, but being devoted to Him is essential for all believers |
• Singleness should be celebrated and supported in the church community |
• Do not let relational status distract from devotion to God; instead, let that devotion enhance all relationships |
• Be fully devoted to God, regardless of marital or economic status |
• Recognize God's lordship and follow Him above all else |
• Desiring to seek God first |
• Responding in song |
• Loving one another |
• Praying for a desire to be imprinted on hearts |
• Mention of Jesus (God's Son) and his name being used in prayer |
[0.00 --> 5.24] It's good to be here with you all today. |
[6.02 --> 10.06] We've been spending the last number of weeks in the book of Genesis, a lot of time in the |
[10.06 --> 11.84] book of Genesis lately, and that's been great. |
[12.30 --> 15.42] Pastor Bert Schlosser is leading us through a wonderful sermon series on Joseph. |
[16.20 --> 20.46] But today I'd like to pivot and just take a break from Genesis for a service, and we're |
[20.46 --> 22.00] going to look at the New Testament today. |
[23.04 --> 26.70] One of the discussion points that dominates the conversations that I get to have with |
[26.70 --> 30.74] young people in this church and in my job is relationships. |
[31.86 --> 37.76] Relationships with parents, relationships with siblings, relationships with friends, and |
[37.76 --> 40.24] believe it or not, relationships with spouses. |
[41.88 --> 46.02] Marriage undergirds a lot of those conversations. |
[47.08 --> 51.82] For many of us, especially adults, if not all of us adults, marriage is something that is |
[51.82 --> 53.34] on the forefront of our minds. |
[53.34 --> 56.96] Whether we are married and struggling in our marriage, or we're married and things |
[56.96 --> 62.50] are going great and we're growing in our relationship, or if we are single and wondering what God has |
[62.50 --> 65.70] in store for us and our marriage status. |
[67.04 --> 70.34] There's a lot of passages in the Bible about marriage. |
[71.54 --> 75.10] But what does the Bible say about being single? |
[76.38 --> 78.48] Our text today is going to speak to that. |
[78.48 --> 84.20] It comes from 1 Corinthians 7, verses 25 to 38, and we're going to read that in just a moment. |
[84.28 --> 87.72] So please, if you've got your Bibles with you, if you're watching online, open them up right now, |
[87.74 --> 89.80] and you can turn to 1 Corinthians 7 and read with me. |
[90.00 --> 94.14] I love this passage, not just because of the topic that it preaches on or it teaches us on, |
[94.44 --> 96.48] because I love the way that Paul writes. |
[96.88 --> 100.68] And you'll see as we read this passage, it almost sounds a little bit awkward to our Western minds. |
[100.72 --> 105.72] Like he's trying to, like, rephrase things over and over again, because he can't quite get what he wants to say out. |
[105.72 --> 113.66] But in light of that, I find this passage so important, and there's so much truth that our churches right now need to hear. |
[114.18 --> 117.30] And so please read this passage with me. |
[117.36 --> 120.04] 1 Corinthians 7, 28 to 38, says this. |
[121.46 --> 126.42] Now about virgins, which we will come to learn in a little bit, means the single person. |
[126.98 --> 133.94] Now about virgins, I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy. |
[133.94 --> 137.66] Because of the present crisis, we'll get back to that. |
[137.72 --> 142.56] Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is. |
[143.10 --> 145.98] Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released. |
[146.66 --> 150.26] Are you free from such commitment? Do not look for a wife. |
[150.58 --> 152.60] But if you do marry, you have not sinned. |
[152.72 --> 154.70] And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. |
[155.08 --> 158.26] But those who marry will face many troubles in this life. |
[158.26 --> 159.52] And I want to spare you of this. |
[160.10 --> 164.28] What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. |
[165.38 --> 168.68] From now on, those who have wives should live as if they do not. |
[168.78 --> 170.70] Those who mourn as if they did not. |
[170.98 --> 172.68] Those who are happy as if they were not. |
[172.94 --> 175.64] Those who buy something as if it were not theirs to keep. |
[175.92 --> 179.60] Those who use the things of this world as if not engrossed in them. |
[180.30 --> 184.26] For this world, in its present form, is passing away. |
[185.32 --> 186.48] Hold on to that as well. |
[186.48 --> 189.72] I would like to free you from concern. |
[190.82 --> 193.44] An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs. |
[193.68 --> 195.24] How he can please the Lord. |
[196.04 --> 199.04] But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world. |
[199.22 --> 200.60] How he can please his wife. |
[201.00 --> 203.02] And his interests are divided. |
[203.76 --> 205.74] Paul then uses the example again. |
[206.60 --> 210.22] An unmarried woman or a virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs. |
[210.34 --> 213.46] Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. |
[213.46 --> 217.50] But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world. |
[217.88 --> 219.44] How she can please her husband. |
[219.44 --> 222.40] I am saying this for your own good. |
[222.40 --> 224.12] Not to restrict you. |
[224.40 --> 231.14] But that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord. |
[232.88 --> 237.62] If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to. |
[237.78 --> 239.30] And if his passions are too strong. |
[239.40 --> 240.72] And he feels he ought to marry. |
[241.12 --> 242.30] He should do as he wants. |
[242.58 --> 243.76] He is not sinning. |
[244.00 --> 245.06] They should get married. |
[245.06 --> 248.74] But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind. |
[248.86 --> 250.24] Who is under no compulsion. |
[250.42 --> 252.08] But has control over his own will. |
[252.26 --> 254.64] And who has made up his mind not to marry the virgin. |
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