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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my [23 F] for 3 months now, She is engaged. POST: So this girl, let's call her Abby, has been a best friend of mine, things went differently and we fell in love. The problem is that she's engaged. Well to start off, this affair started when Abby's fiancée abu...	started dating engaged bestfriend for 3 months, don't know where to go from here, what will i get in the long run?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19/F] girlfriend cheated on me [19/M] and then broke up with me the next day, ending our relationship of just under a year. I'm still completely in love with her and we share a house together. POST: I got together with my girlfriend a few months after starting university last yea...	Girlfriend who I am completely in love with breaks up with me and wants me to move on, but we share a house together. How can I possibly get through this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Difficulty asking co-worker for number or date. POST: I don't normally experience much anxiety over asking girls for their number or asking for dates in most social sitations. However, I'm willing to admit that I'm having a little difficulty with asking a female co-worker for her number. A...	Interested in girl at office. Having trouble asking for number/date in a way that won't make things weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The father of my gf [M/70] is overprotective and my gf [F/16] is a prisoner in her own home. POST: My gf [F/16] doesnt know about reddit and has been asking me for advice for some time and I am not able to find a solution. So heres the story: My gf had a brother 10 years ago, he di...	Over protective father, gf is a prisoner in her own home. How can I help even though I can't see her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Harjkun[23M] with my close work friend [23F] I've worked with her for 10 months, need help on how to ask her out POST: This might be a different one to those you are used to. To start we both work for one of the biggest general goods store that operate out of major travel locations. ...	Work friend relationship. I have feelings for her, but am only going to get one shoot with ONE text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl I know got raped, she'll only confide in me, but I honestly don't know what the right things to do or say are POST: So a girl I've been hanging out with for the past couple months has gotten really depressed over the past week or two. I had no idea why until she told me last night t...	Girl I know got raped, she'll says she'll only confide in me about it, what are the best things I can say and so for her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Refinance Student Loans? POST: I'm 27 and have around $147K in student loans. The good news is, the education put me in a profession where I'm making around $150K per year. I'm currently on a 20 year repayment plan, but I'm hoping to pay it off in around 10 years. The interest rate...	Lots of student loan debt, refinance now at lower interest rate (~5%) or wait on legislature (~3.86%)?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: what is the earliest event you remember that affected your life POST: when i was in kindergarten there was a playground, me and a girl sat on a rocker, she on the one side im on the oher, we just sat there going up and down pretty normal childspeed, the rocker had blades in the middle, w...	i lost all my top and front teeth at a rocker when i was in the kindergarten and never used a rocker again<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roomate[15M] has been lying and stealing from me[24M] POST: my roommate Zach[25] has been stealing and lying... Just recently he has stolen and sold a tablet for presumably 40$. That tablet was a 700$ tablet that i was repairing for a client of mine(Note 10.1 2014 T-Mobile). He ...	friend stole from me and tried to lie about it, however I caught him in the lie and now think that i have to cut him from life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my Gf [26 F] less than a week, can a relationship work with problems in the bedroom? POST: I broke up with my past partner 3 years ago because my foreskin had become too tight to be able to penetrate comfortably. We did find ways round it but eventually, it wasn't for ...	Is it worth trying to make a meaningful relationship with someone even with problems in the bedroom? Or am I just fooling myself and potential partner?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my life is unsatisfactory. How do i leave everything and go to Europe for a month? POST: Reddit, i'm quite miserable with my life. And the thing is, it's not terrible. I have a girlfriend, lots of friends, a car, a crappy retail job, and i live in my parents nice ass house. I st...	i've done the same thing every week for a year now and it wont change until i change it. How do i drastically change my life and surrounding? aka go to Europe for a month to see the world.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M], happy with a great new relationship. Why Can't I stop thinking about my ex? POST: So I've recently moved in with my GF of 7 months and everything is going great. She is everything I always wanted and I feel like I'm living the dream. The only issue is I can't stop thinking...	My new GF is better than my ex in every way and I know I don't want her back, EVER. Why do I keep thinking about her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 22[m] joined the military in April while dating 20[f] POST: I am now getting ready to leave for bootcamp and we will begin a long distance relationship. We have been together about a year and a half. We both love each other, but I am finding it hard to have confidence that we w...	GF is ready to be engaged and married in the next 8mo's, I am having commitment issues and fear of married life while balancing the fact that I am about to start a new career in the military.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Tips on teaching a dog to use a Kong Wobbler? POST: I picked up a Kong Wobbler for my puppy today, not because he's a fast or gobbly eater, but because it's very cold here right now and he can't tolerate being outside for as long, so I wanted to have more enriching and fun things we can do to...	My puppy can't figure out how to use the Kong Wobbler (or isn't sufficiently motivated to do so). Any tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The other guy POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, and have known each other for a year (him (19) me female (20)) We just finished our first year of college. I know that I love him and that he loves me and I see us having a great future...	chose to end a risky friendship for the sake of my relationship. It's not worth it to me to leave someone I love for someone I like, but I still think about the other guy. I can't get past the guilt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 5 months, very jealous at other girls in my life POST: Since a few weeks ago my girlfriend and I are fighting nearly all the time. She thinks, in a very childish way, I place her on the same level with my friends. She gets, for example, upset ...	GF is very jealous because I treat female friends in a same friendly way like I treat her and I don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your best worst landlord story? POST: I had this one landlord who was impossible to get ahold of when things needed to be repaired. It would take months to get him to come to the house to do work. One of these times, we had a leak in our bathroom ceiling, coming from the upstair...	Moldy hole in our bathroom ceiling left for months, landlord would rather get drunk than fix it, leaving us with a moldy hole in our ceiling for months.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 m] was going to have sex with the girl [20 f] I'm dating, but I got sick and I'm afraid she'll lose interest POST: We have been getting pretty physical the last two weeks and we decided to go somewhere where we could be alone and have some privacy. But I had a throat infection,...	Was going to have sex with the girl I'm dating, got sick and I don't know how to cancel because I'm afraid she'll think I'm just flaking on her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend assumes I might only want him for his money... How do I set this record straight? POST: 22/f & 26/m Length: 6 Months Our relationship is fantastic, I've never cared about someone so much ever before. We both come from reasonably comfortable backgrounds, so I'm no st...	Boyfriend assumes I might only want him for his money, but I actually don't care, and want to set this record straight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: [Advice] Car Loan Gone Wrong POST: In 2011 I was nearing the end if my military contract. Instead of reenlisting I separated and joined the reserves so I could help my family. My grandfather who raised me has dementia and my older sister, who has three kids, was taking care of him....	Got a loan in my grandpas name for $28,000. Interest rate and late penalties are so high, even though I've paid $20,000 I still owe about $25,000. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [14 M] with my kinda friend [14 F] haven't even started hanging out, and honestly I'm just an inexperienced teen. POST: Hey everyone. This is not of utter importance and many other people in this subreddit and in the world have some worse and actually serious scenarios. But I've j...	Am I just a lover who is high off his hormones or is there anything here worth exploring? Damn being human is confusing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I have a really smelly roommate, not sure how to approach her about it. POST: As ridiculous as this may sound, my roommate definitely has some serious personal hygiene issues. Being a guy, I'm no stranger to living in less than cleanly living situations, especially when I was in college. M...	smelly roommate, refuses to do laundry, shes depressed, dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] told by [21F] that she has bf, but would have gone out with me if she'd met me earlier. What to do know? POST: Met a really nice girl but she tells me she already has boyfriend when I ask her out. She says that had she met me sooner or before she would have gone out with me...	met girl who says she has boyfriend, tells me if we'd met sooner she would have gone out with me and been perfect for each other. What am I supposed to do now? Should I pursue her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Potty training puppy while working from home POST: I've read a lot about potty training a puppy, and I've successfully potty trained a puppy in the past using crate training without too much trouble. However, I have a new puppy now (3 months old) and I work from home. This is great b...	potty training 3 mo. old puppy while working from home. Not sure the best way to put the pup on a potty schedule using crate training or other method<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Unplugged Ceremony? POST: For those unfamiliar with an unplugged wedding, or why to have one - I have scoured the internet looking for good ways to tell guests that I'm having an unplugged ceremony. While I certainly want the point to hit home and be noticed, I don't want them to...	Want an unplugged ceremony. Need wording that sounds good but not mushy, and is sufficiently not-rude so my mom won't hate it. Also, ideas on how to get my mom on board with this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my[23F] facebook then meet story, wtf POST: So, she adds me on facebook for a comment she likes. We like each other chat, 4 hours+ a day for 2 weeks. We send each other "nude pics" and things like that. We meet, it's even better than expected. We spend 2 hours kissing...	Woman adds me on facebook, keeps chatting with me for weeks then we meet. It's even better, we have intimate and intense relationship she suddenly tries to escape. Wtf do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone had experience with mono here? POST: Yes, I've seen a doctor already (3 times), gotten blood tests, and already got prescribed meds. I haven't received my tests back though. Two days ago my throat became inflamed. It is scary disgusting now. I went to the doctor more than ...	Scared I'm going to die, so if you have had mono, please just read what I wrote, or tell me about your symtoms.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22 F] recently told me she sees me as more than just a boyfriend, How do I [24 M] tell her I don't see her in the same way? POST: I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and she has just recently informed me that she sees me as "more than just a boyfriend" - I...	My girlfriend told me she sees me as more than a boyfriend, how do I tell her that I don't see her in the same way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: can you let someone change who they are to be with you, did i do the right thing? POST: we didn't expect our relationship to turn into what it did, despite each of us having our walls up, we absolutely head over heels fell in love. (M28, F25) it's been an effortless amazing great yea...	amazing boyfriend offered to convert and learn russian so we can have a future together, i feel guilty and terrible about what he wants to put himself through, i ended things, feel like it was a mistake.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: I'm desperate for help with my cat's constant meowing at night. POST: Here's a little background: Pure bread 13 y/o female Burmese Had her since I was 8 Vet check up about a month ago with completely clean bill of health (blood work included) besides fractured jaw which has since healed. He...	moving into apartment in a few months and want to reduce my cats night meowing so roommates/neighbors aren't bothered.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: SO and I disagree about dolls. What do you think? POST: My SO and I have an almost 5 month old baby boy. For Christmas this year, my SO's aunt sent our son two beautiful handmade knitted dolls, Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus. We love them, my son loves them(as far as I can tell, he likes to...	We have two handmade Christmas dolls, I want them to be saved as a Christmas tradition so that they stay special and don't get destroyed. SO want our son to have them all the time. What do you think?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16m] with exchange student [16f]. I am interested in her, but I don't know how to tell her. POST: There's a German exchange student at my school who I've only recently begun to notice and get interested in. I knew of her before, have talked with her before, etc., but for some rea...	Exchange student already has circle of friends, I feel like it's too late to get to know her, I don't know whether I should go for it and how I should proceed if I am to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: This is what happens when your stubbornness becomes your downfall POST: My grandfather and grandmother live in a small two-story home in Huntington, WV, by themselves. They do not get out much, with my grandfather being 80 and my grandmother being 70 with COPD, Dementia, and Schizophren...	My grandfather is so stubborn and lazy that he cannot and will not take care of his house or wife. We are attempting to force them to move to Georgia.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can my husband[32M] and I[22F] best explain to his brother[35M] why he can't find a girlfriend? POST: My brother in law can't find a girlfriend and he's starting to become really bitter about it. He goes on about how it's not fair that my husband is married and younger than him. ...	My BIL can't get a girlfriend and wants me to get him a mail order bride. He doesn't realize that the fact that he can't get a girl is his own fault.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [23/m] find out if she [22/f] wants an exclusive relationship? POST: I met a girl on Tinder and we hit it off immediately, we're both really into each other. Kissed on the first date, overnight dates the second and third, and a quick dinner for our 4th. In total I've been se...	Met a girl on Tinder that I've been seeing for two weeks, how do I find out what her intentions are without sounding overly imposing or like I want to define our relationship so early?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37 M] in nascent relationship with [37 F]; she's going blind, I don't know how to deal. POST: I met an amazing woman recently, we seemed to instantly click on every level. We took things a bit too fast; chatted for two weeks or so, had a great first date. A week later our second...	Have a great connection with an amazing woman I've just met. She well be blind in 5-10 years, I'm totally freaked out at the prospect and frankly feel like a horrible person because of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] broke up with my GF [18 F] of six months, it was such an awful time, I almost don't want to date anymore. Help? POST: So we were dating a pretty short time, and there was a lot of drama with me not being sure if I wanted to be in this with her. I wasn't sure of my feelings ...	Didn't love my gf, broke her heart, she thinks I'm heartless, scared to date because it might end up the same way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I [17m] ask my crush [18m] out, whose car I crashed into last week? POST: Two weeks ago I got in a car wreck with a girl that goes my high school. Everything was good, no one was hurt, but I started crushing on her pretty hard. We've talked several times since then, and re...	I hit a girls car last week, and hit it off, going to ask her out this week, don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (17M) and my girlfriend of 8 months (17F), I have a question about how tonight just went. POST: We go to the movies today and everything is fine. Everything is great, she's acting bubbly and lots of physical contact and eye contact, laughing during the movie (read: everything is f...	She didn't respond to an I love you text, is everything alright? We had a rough night, both of us were cold and tired but nothing happened between us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: I'm considering deep brain stimulation for treatment resistant depression. If anyone could weigh in on this big decision... <3 POST: I'm not really sure where to put this so I figured I'd stick it here. If the mods don't like it maybe they'll know where I can get some feedback. I'm thinki...	Could anyone please help me weigh the pros/cons of this treatment? My depression is really inhibiting my ability to approach this decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] am madly in love with my girlfriend [16F], but I think I may have to end the relationship POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, and I love her more than anything else in the world. Before I go on, I realize some of you might not see two teenager...	I love my girlfriend more than life itself, but since we can't spend enough time together, I think I should maybe break up with her. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [22m] need a little help with asking out a shy girl [22f] POST: A little context: I met this girl last semester at school by chance when we ended up in a project group together, I thought she was cute but beyond that I didn't really have a crush on her. We would chat a little bit b...	Not sure of the best way to ask out a girl who is quite shy, also light, casual date ideas are welcome!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] Don't Believe in No Sex Before Marriage. How do you feel about it? Why? POST: My belief isn't based on the fact that I'm a guy and just want sex. I'm just curious to see what people think about having sex before marriage. I understand that there are some hardcore beliefs on ...	Do you prefer to wait until marriage to have sex, or do you think you should "test-drive" the person, even if you are a religious type of person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] have started seeing this guy [19M] and he's everything I've ever wanted but I'm worried he'll be sick of me before we even go out again. POST: I met the guy in question while I was still in high school. We had the same group of friends but be was dating this girl who I wasn't...	really into this guy, don't know if he wants a relationship with me. If he does I'm afraid he'll dump me like his ex bc I'm boring. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Friend was locked out of apartment pantsless; who's at fault? POST: So I share an apartment with a friend, John, and we don't usually lock our door. We had another friend, David, over, and as he left, he told me he was locking the door. I acknowledged this, but didn't do anything. This m...	friend locked door, I didn't tell roommate, roommate walked around pantless for a bit, now he's pissed. Am I at fault?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I feel like I'll never forgive myself for ruining the most perfect relationship I could imagine POST: Me [M24] and my girlfriend [F24] were together for 4 years, and we were ridiculously happy. We lived together, had our future completely planned out, loved each other so much. I had...	I drunkenly cheated on my girlfriend and ruined the most perfect relationship I could imagine. Don't know how to move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [f29] emotionally cheating on my boyfriend[29] with my gay friend[31]? What's going on? POST: This is my first really long relationship, and it's a four year long one at that. While me and my boyfriend of course don't always see eye to eye, we generally have a relationship full ...	my friend has finally found a potential future partner and I feel like crap about it, and I feel guilty over feeling like crap about it. Am I emotionally cheating on my bf now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Morality in a post-religious existence POST: I was raised in a Roman Catholic family. At around age 12 or 13, I stopped being a true believer, but continued going to mass. About a year later I fully removed myself from the Church, as I began to doubt the idea of hell, free will, etc. I a...	I had a crazy public sexual experience that left me questioning my moral base. I now ask the good people of Reddit to advise me on morals in a post-religious existence.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How dysfunctional is normal dysfunctional family? And are dysfunctional families even normal? POST: By definition they shouldn't be, but it's always been the way I perceived them. I've never thought that my family was perfect, but I assumed that, like every other family, we had our probl...	I think my family is more dysfunctional than I thought because I spend a lot of time with other people's families which are more or less perfect. How much dysfunction in a family is normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 25(m) and 19(f) break up, now getting mixed signals. Advice needed. POST: Hey so my gf of 2 years broke up with a month ago over needing to be single for once in her life, family and friends pressuring the single life and due to me being interested and talking about real world issues...	Shes a sweet girl. Trying to make everyone else happy. But what does it sound like she's doing here? With the exception that she's just using me in some way. Thanks for your time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I broach this with my parents?(long) POST: I think I need to go get some professional psychiatric help. For as stupid as it sounds, I was inspired to do so by reading It's Kind of a Funny Story. I've been having bouts of depression throughout high school and recently they've got...	I think I need help but my parents are the "not my kid" type people, how do I talk to them about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Men of Reddit, I need car help! POST: Hey men of Reddit, or females. I'm an 18 year old girl looking for her first car (please refrain from Women Drivers No Survivors jokes). My parents are buying it and my budget can't reach beyond roughly 13,000 to shell out for said vehicle. Im a seni...	? I'm buying my first used car, and don't know shit about miles on the car. NEED HELP to deal with mother, who's buying the vehicle.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 F] boyfriend [26 M] broke up with me and now wants to get back together POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for 8 months. We were going through a rough patch the last two months (I was handling my grief badly and he stopped communicating/trying) ...	Boyfriend dumped me, apologized and asked to rekindle things a few days later, and now I'm struggling how to move forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting a group of kids to chant "weed" at church POST: This happened a few hours ago, this morning. So my church has two service times, early and late. I always attend the early service and help out in the 3rd-5th grade Sunday School during late service. I usually just sit by the ki...	Told a kid to combine the words "need" and "want" and ended up with an entire Sunday School classroom chanting "weed."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (32M) ex Fiance (27F) and I haven't spoken since we broke up on back on December 7th (were supposed to get hitched Oct 10th). I'm tempted to contact her just to see where her head is, is this a good idea? POST: A few days after we broke up I accepted a job offer to my dream job & ...	not spoken to ex 2 months since breakup, & am missing my ex despite her really stubborn personality. Have had multiple positive changes in my life since breakup, should I call ex or continue intentionally not speaking to her until she calls me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my bf [28 M] of 2.5 years. I am realizing hes not the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. POST: I 25 f live with my bf 28m. We are engaged but I am starting to realize that he is not the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our close-ness has been ...	Strained relationship with bf because I don't want to be with him and dont know how to tell him. Any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [20 F] am starting to have feelings for my guy friend [20 M] but I'm in a relationship. Am I terrible? POST: I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Last year, I started hanging out with a new group of friends. I met one guy that I'm still really good friends with today...	I'm in a relationship but starting to have feelings for a guy friend and I dont know how to get rid of them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf's (34f) kids are usually bad and very disrespectful, we are about to move in together and I (35m) am worried. POST: My gf and I have a really good relationship. It started off casual and now it has got to the point where we are planning on moving in together. She has 2 kids (7m...	I am worried my gf's kids will be so bad when we move in together that it will cause me and her to break up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone have experience with past rape victims or advice for the boyfriend of one? POST: Sorry for the wall of text, but I was pretty emotional when I wrote this. Edited it a bit to clarify. My girlfriend (whom I've been dating for just a short while now) has never really been open to ha...	Girlfriend of couple of months may have been raped or almost raped a few years ago and is totally turned off of doing anything physical and doesn't communicate at all, and I have no idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: OMG I have money now what do I do? POST: After a short marriage/ill family member/etc. it had been almost 5 years since I was able to pay a bill with my own money. I had 2 defaulted credit cards and several outstanding debts and a $3.5k student loan. Fast-forward: Living with my pa...	Will be debt free/making payments to raise my credit score and have reached my savings goal in 2 months. What next?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: 22/m/Cali wondering if it's actually a good idea to move east for a few years to earn money? If so, where? POST: As the title says, I'm 22M from northern California. I also have a background in customer service and information technology with linux and satellite networking focuses. Gradu...	Nothing tying me down here. Can't save money either. Should I move east? If so where? Open to all suggestions/advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [21 M] let a girl [19 F] know I just want to be friends? POST: Thank you for the help in advance. I've been hanging out, and talking to this girl on Facebook since the summer; I think we are just friends, but it's really unclear since we never established what are relations...	Should I tell my female friend, that I've known for years but started hanging out with last summer, I only have feelings for her as a friend the next time we meet or let things continue as is?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] have been in love with her [21F] for over two years and I finally have a chance but I need help. POST: Okay so I will try and keep this as brief as I can. I met this girl over two years ago when we were freshmen in college. I fell for her instantly and we had amazing chemist...	Been in love with a girl for two years and finally have a chance with her after her 4 year relationship ended. We kissed and now I need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Help] Should I keep my Labrador Retriever in the House or outside in a small garden? POST: I had this question in mind for a lot of time. He is pretty big now 6 years old :p. I want him in the house but my mother says it's better for him to be outside in our small backyard. Also she says he ...	Should I move my pet into the house? I play with him but after I go inside I feel he has nothing to do alone outside.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do you think would happen if everyone in the US suddenly had an "even" share of the US's wealth? POST: Using the the approximate wealth of the US found on [Wikipedia] which it's current, so I'll just figure about $50 Trillion... and the approximate population of the US found on [sam...	Everyone in the US has to start from scratch with exactly $160,256.41. What would happen in the next 10 years? What about 20?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] just had a nauseating realization about last relationship POST: I'm not totally sure this is the right place to post this, but it kind of falls under the category of relationships and I could definitely use some advice or commiseration. I just realized that I haven't kissed...	I'm trying to come to grips with the fact that the last person I kissed was my awful ex-boyfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28 F] friend's [31 F] awful relationship with her boyfriend [34 M] is ruining our friendship POST: I because friends with Marie [31 F] in the spring. We were each other's first close friend after moving to a new town. Over the summer she began seeing this guy Jon [34 M]. Jon is a...	Friend in a terrible relationship complains to me about her boyfriend instead of talking to him to either fix or end the relationship. How can I tell her I no longer want to hear about their drama while still maintaining our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Need some inside on her thinking. POST: in the start of my relationship with my current girlfriend(17, 18 Now) and me (16, 18 Now), she still had feeling for her ex-boyfriend which she broke it off with so she could be with me. now what i don't understand is that she still had feeli...	Ex-Bf was beating her up and controlling, she still had feelings for him after i helped her stop cutting, eat normal and start training<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Should I Leave job I hate for pretty much the same job at a different company POST: Hi guys...longtime lurker looking for some advice. I used to really like my job...especially the company. The perks were good (bonuses, lunch, travel etc).I get paid fairly well (I'm a lawyer working in sort ...	Hate current job, potentially have another offer for a lateral move at different company not sure if this would be a mistake for my career. Thoughts???<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19f] boyfriend [20M] doesn't know how to communicate how he feels POST: My boyfriend and I started seeing each other last September, and it's been kind of rocky until December. Since then we've been 100% together and are happy with one another. Essentially my boyfriend claims th...	Boyfriend isn't sure how to express his feelings, and I'd like to help him in any way I can.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the silliest thing you've been stopped by a cop/given a ticket for, Reddit? POST: This anecdote actually comes from one of my best friends. Let's call him Frobozz. So, Frobozz is leaving his neighborhood, like he does often, to head to work. You see, there's an intersection right ...	My buddy got a ticket for running a stop sign, even though the other road was completely torn out to be redone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my ex [22M] of 4 months after 3 years, send me a mean text out of the blue and i dont know how to handle it POST: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in De...	Serious ex after a few months sent a vague but rude text accusing me of something, after not talking for several months, but refuses to tell me why or answer my texts back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [28 F] and I [34 M] who is in a long distance relationship for a year is having intimacy issues but we get along on other things. Not sure how to progress. POST: *She is a divorced single mom with a toddler who's ex husband recently got remarried. I live in Southern Ca...	Long distance relationship to an awesome girl I met on tinder, lack of intimacy after one year is making me question moving forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you have a habit that you never had previously until something happened that caused it to be part of you? POST: I'll start... So back when I was in 9th grade, I had a biology teacher who told to the class about how we cannot break down cellulose. He then explained that since we canno...	Biology teacher taught my class that we cannot break down cellulose so now I end every meal with a salad (when available) because I think it helps clean my digestive tract.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Anyone care to give me some insight/experiances with the Finnish Lapphund? POST: I'm aware it's a rare breed which is why I've come here to ask for peoples experiances. My friend is set on it now, and is open to adopting one, but there aren't any right now. From my research their temperment...	My dog newbie friend is getting a Finnish Lapphund whenever the waiting list gets to him. What are your experiences and what should we know? [i'm not letting him train it alone]<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] ex boyfriend [23 M] of 3 years dumped me a month ago. I can't sleep. POST: My boyfriend dumped me ~a month ago out of the blue. I was completely blind sighted. I am feeling better than I was five weeks ago, but almost every night I have nightmares and vivid dreams about hi...	Ex boyfriend broke up with me and I haven't slept in a month. How can I sleep at night/get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My fiancé (M26) says he'll leave me (F26) if I get a dog POST: So my soon to be husband told me that he will never want any pets, especially not dogs. Well, I am a dog person. Incredibly much so. We talked about this when we first met, 4 years ago, and I was under the impressio...	Fiancè says no dogs ever, I love dogs and they give me the self-worth and happiness I need to be ok in life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My former employer [33F] may have/did cheat on her husband [30ish M] not sure what to do. POST: This is a bit of a long one so I apologize in advance for the wall of text. I work in a community that is pretty small so even though I have had several employers I don't burn bridges and...	should I tell someone I kind of know and like that his wife probably cheated on him. Doing so could jeopardize my standing in the business that I work in.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17M) recently found out that my best friend (17M) is borderline anti-semitic and it's straining our relationship. POST: Okay reddit, here I go: My best friend who I've known for 2 years at this point has recently been telling me how he thinks the world is run by jews, and makes s...	have a potentially anti-semite as my best friend, how do I get him to be more accepting or at least not get worse?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Need advice on transferring! Please help! POST: Hi, I'm currently a freshman starting second semester at University of the Pacific in Stockton. I'm majoring in mechanical engineering. Pacific isn't very well known for engineering at all, but it's a private school with lots of interaction b...	Expensive private school with relatively unknown engineering program but quality interaction between faculty/students OR cheaper UC with large class sizes and the ability to graduate under a "name brand"?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: M/26, F/25 Hoping for job and living advice x-post r/relationships POST: Hi Reddit, Going to x-post this to personal finance but I'm in need of some advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. She is the love of my life and we will likely be getting married soon (she'...	Two job offers, one at GF hometown, one in mine. Both good options. GF wants to move back home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30F] ended a friendship with someone [28F] of two years, and I'm not sure how to explain it to our mutual friends POST: I met R through a writing group, and for two years, we hung out regularly and had a good time. I knew she had depression, and tried to be there for her when she ...	Two year friendship ends with my friend claiming I emotionally abuse her, so she emails my boss with the intent of 'nothing good', and I cut ties. Friends don't seem to understand why, should I try to patch things up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19/M] Needing Advice Before I Get Friend-Zoned! POST: Hello, I recently started a new job (about 1 month ago now), and met this girl that I like. I haven't spoke to her 1-1 yet, only in groups during lunch breaks. We are into the same music, and she's quite attractive and I know sh...	Met a girl with similar interests at a new job, how long should I leave it before asking for any kind of date? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a warrant for unpaid AZ DUI fine and want to go to court but don't want to be arrested! Any experience with this? POST: I got a DUI last year (had one drink and wasn't drunk). I was assessed $1600 in fines with a minimum monthly pmt of $100. I tried explaining, at the suggestion o...	Have a warrant for arrest. Want to pay fines to lift warrant, but need job. Can't get job to pay fines with warrant on record. Will I be arrested if I go to court to meet with judge?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] have just learned my girlfriend [25 F] has a history of depression. What can I do to help her? POST: She confided in me the other night that she's been on sertraline since she was about 8 years old, about when her parents divorced. She has cut marks up and down her arms fro...	Dysfunctional family and being told she's dumb all her life has crippled her confidence and led her depression. How can I help make her more confident in herself and happier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22m] ex-girlfriend [20f] and I have been in contact recently. What do? POST: So my ex-girlfriend and I have been talking quite frequently the pass 2 days and it isn't like her at all. She isn't the type of girl who would text someone back and forth throughout the day but for some...	Ex-girlfriend is acting like she might wanna rekindle some old flames, don't know what to make of it. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Fart Sandwich POST: I was 12 years old when I enacted some professional revenge on my 15 year old brother and his fiend Mike. My brother was(is) incredibly smart, and his friends were all sarcastic know-it-alls that would pick on me at any opportunity. When my brother and I were alone...	Older brother and friend were bullying me and farting on me because I wouldn't get off the computer. I farted on their sandwiches.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] and boyfriend [20M] are having a hard time getting along anymore. POST: So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and seven months. The first year of being together was heaven, we got along amazingly and never had a single fight or disagreement. Everyone would tel...	Me and my boyfriend are having a hard time getting along because of our differences of opinions and I want to know if this is stupid and something we can get past or if it just means we should split up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17/M) need some advice POST: First, I apologize for any formatting/grammatical errors. I'm typing on my phone. Some background. I'm really shy, but this year I decided to try a little harder. I talked with one girl (16/F) let's call her S, for quite a while, but we had only beco...	I like one girl and she likes me. Another girl also likes me and now I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [23 F] together 6 months, we got into a huge fight - Help me understand. POST: "Sarah" is a great girl. I met her 7 months ago, studying with a friend. We instantly clicked and started dating shortafter. It's been pretty intense, we see eachother almost everyday,...	Jealousy, betrayal, Confusion. Trust is gone for her, can I get over things she said? Tune in for this weeks Drama at my place.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (28/M) think my coworker (28/m) is being unfairly treated by another employee (40-ish/F) POST: A bit of explanation. In my job I work with a small group of people, about 7 people. We have a coordinator, P, and she has an assistant, T. Recently T seems to have a vendetta again...	My manager's assistant seems to hate my coworker and finds excuses to talk bad about him. I don't know who to tell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] dating [21M] for two months, want to give first serious written gift POST: Me and my SO have been together for 2 months, but have yet to give each other a really serious gift. We're both english majors so we tend to have some really deep conversations. He's also an excellent...	Wanna give my SO first serious written gift. Both english majors, worried my writing is shit. Scroll up a bit for the written bit I want to gift.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roommate [M/23] is learning how to play bass and it's driving me [M/22] up a wall. Is there anything I can do? POST: My roommate decided to pick up the bass guitar in his free time. He's currently unemployed so his free time is all the time. Whenever I go to work, he's playing bas...	unemployed roommate plays bass in our shared apartment constantly, it's causing noise issues and I'm sick of it. Is there anything I can do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] and my gf [22 F] are going to talk about the future of our relationship after a huge fallout POST: We have been in an LTR for about 5 years now, living together for about 3. Just a few days ago, we got into a huge fight, things were said, and we "split up". We are supposed ...	LTR girlfriend (also my roommate) and I have a big fallout and are "split up". She doesn't think she wants to fix things, but is willing to hear me out about changing that, how should I do that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24/M) girlfriend (24) leaves house out of nowhere, everyday POST: So I don't know how to explain this. I met my girlfriend a year ago through a mutual friend, and we started dating right away. She moved in two weeks ago and I thought my life was completely beautiful. I love her ...	Moved in with girlfriend recently, realized that she leaves house out of nowhere, everyday, sometimes twice, telling that she goes to market, to run, or to walk. But she comes home without buying anything. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: My roommate and I hate each other. He has been "cyber bullying" me via instagram, verbally abusing me, and just threatened me with physical violence. Where do I go to fix this? We go to a 4 year university. POST: I have compiled a list of everything he has done and I am going to take it...	What do I say to the residential office? I want him to move out of this dorm room but I am afraid they will just give him a slap on the wrist because I don't have any concrete evidence besides the social media.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Advice about my very very non-outgoing boyfriend? POST: (We are both males and he's a senior in high school and I'm a junior in high school) Let me preface this by saying I truly do love my boyfriend. We had dated three months over the summer, and broke up because there was a ...	Essentially, I'm with a very shy and insecure boy right now. I do love him, care about him, and absolutely adore being with him, but it's just hard because our personalities are polar opposites. HELP!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] feel like i put more effort into our relationship, than my [18F] girlfriend, what to do? POST: We have been together for about 5 months now and it just feels like we aren't a couple, when we aren't together in person.. I really love her i know she loves me, but when we aren't...	it feels like i put more effort into our relationship, should i talk to her about it or just let it go as it is?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My fiancé [22F] and I [22M] ended our multi-year relationship a month ago. I'm concerned that I might be developing romantic feelings for a friend [22F] too quickly. POST: My fiancé (now ex-fiancé) and I recently mutually ended our relationship. We had been together for quite a few y...	– Ended relationship with fiancé, worried that new feelings for friend are a rebound reaction that could ruin my friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] like a lot a girl [27F] at work, do I break up with my girlfriend [26F] of 1 year? POST: So this girl at work is really cool, pretty, funny and full of life. Also I think she is very interested in me. We flirt a little, but nothing is clearly said. We exchange youtube music v...	Really nice girl at work is seducing me. Do I break up with my girlfriend, who is in love with me?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] have been with my [23 F] for 3 months now, She is engaged. POST: So this girl, let's call her Abby, has been a best friend of mine, things went differently and we fell in love. The problem is that she's engaged. Well to start off, this affair started when Abby's fiancée abu...	started dating engaged bestfriend for 3 months, don't know where to go from here, what will i get in the long run?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19/F] girlfriend cheated on me [19/M] and then broke up with me the next day, ending our relationship of just under a year. I'm still completely in love with her and we share a house together. POST: I got together with my girlfriend a few months after starting university last yea...	Girlfriend who I am completely in love with breaks up with me and wants me to move on, but we share a house together. How can I possibly get through this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Difficulty asking co-worker for number or date. POST: I don't normally experience much anxiety over asking girls for their number or asking for dates in most social sitations. However, I'm willing to admit that I'm having a little difficulty with asking a female co-worker for her number. A...	Interested in girl at office. Having trouble asking for number/date in a way that won't make things weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The father of my gf [M/70] is overprotective and my gf [F/16] is a prisoner in her own home. POST: My gf [F/16] doesnt know about reddit and has been asking me for advice for some time and I am not able to find a solution. So heres the story: My gf had a brother 10 years ago, he di...	Over protective father, gf is a prisoner in her own home. How can I help even though I can't see her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Harjkun[23M] with my close work friend [23F] I've worked with her for 10 months, need help on how to ask her out POST: This might be a different one to those you are used to. To start we both work for one of the biggest general goods store that operate out of major travel locations. ...	Work friend relationship. I have feelings for her, but am only going to get one shoot with ONE text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl I know got raped, she'll only confide in me, but I honestly don't know what the right things to do or say are POST: So a girl I've been hanging out with for the past couple months has gotten really depressed over the past week or two. I had no idea why until she told me last night t...	Girl I know got raped, she'll says she'll only confide in me about it, what are the best things I can say and so for her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Refinance Student Loans? POST: I'm 27 and have around $147K in student loans. The good news is, the education put me in a profession where I'm making around $150K per year. I'm currently on a 20 year repayment plan, but I'm hoping to pay it off in around 10 years. The interest rate...	Lots of student loan debt, refinance now at lower interest rate (~5%) or wait on legislature (~3.86%)?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: what is the earliest event you remember that affected your life POST: when i was in kindergarten there was a playground, me and a girl sat on a rocker, she on the one side im on the oher, we just sat there going up and down pretty normal childspeed, the rocker had blades in the middle, w...	i lost all my top and front teeth at a rocker when i was in the kindergarten and never used a rocker again<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roomate[15M] has been lying and stealing from me[24M] POST: my roommate Zach[25] has been stealing and lying... Just recently he has stolen and sold a tablet for presumably 40$. That tablet was a 700$ tablet that i was repairing for a client of mine(Note 10.1 2014 T-Mobile). He ...	friend stole from me and tried to lie about it, however I caught him in the lie and now think that i have to cut him from life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my Gf [26 F] less than a week, can a relationship work with problems in the bedroom? POST: I broke up with my past partner 3 years ago because my foreskin had become too tight to be able to penetrate comfortably. We did find ways round it but eventually, it wasn't for ...	Is it worth trying to make a meaningful relationship with someone even with problems in the bedroom? Or am I just fooling myself and potential partner?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my life is unsatisfactory. How do i leave everything and go to Europe for a month? POST: Reddit, i'm quite miserable with my life. And the thing is, it's not terrible. I have a girlfriend, lots of friends, a car, a crappy retail job, and i live in my parents nice ass house. I st...	i've done the same thing every week for a year now and it wont change until i change it. How do i drastically change my life and surrounding? aka go to Europe for a month to see the world.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M], happy with a great new relationship. Why Can't I stop thinking about my ex? POST: So I've recently moved in with my GF of 7 months and everything is going great. She is everything I always wanted and I feel like I'm living the dream. The only issue is I can't stop thinking...	My new GF is better than my ex in every way and I know I don't want her back, EVER. Why do I keep thinking about her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 22[m] joined the military in April while dating 20[f] POST: I am now getting ready to leave for bootcamp and we will begin a long distance relationship. We have been together about a year and a half. We both love each other, but I am finding it hard to have confidence that we w...	GF is ready to be engaged and married in the next 8mo's, I am having commitment issues and fear of married life while balancing the fact that I am about to start a new career in the military.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Tips on teaching a dog to use a Kong Wobbler? POST: I picked up a Kong Wobbler for my puppy today, not because he's a fast or gobbly eater, but because it's very cold here right now and he can't tolerate being outside for as long, so I wanted to have more enriching and fun things we can do to...	My puppy can't figure out how to use the Kong Wobbler (or isn't sufficiently motivated to do so). Any tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The other guy POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, and have known each other for a year (him (19) me female (20)) We just finished our first year of college. I know that I love him and that he loves me and I see us having a great future...	chose to end a risky friendship for the sake of my relationship. It's not worth it to me to leave someone I love for someone I like, but I still think about the other guy. I can't get past the guilt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 5 months, very jealous at other girls in my life POST: Since a few weeks ago my girlfriend and I are fighting nearly all the time. She thinks, in a very childish way, I place her on the same level with my friends. She gets, for example, upset ...	GF is very jealous because I treat female friends in a same friendly way like I treat her and I don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your best worst landlord story? POST: I had this one landlord who was impossible to get ahold of when things needed to be repaired. It would take months to get him to come to the house to do work. One of these times, we had a leak in our bathroom ceiling, coming from the upstair...	Moldy hole in our bathroom ceiling left for months, landlord would rather get drunk than fix it, leaving us with a moldy hole in our ceiling for months.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 m] was going to have sex with the girl [20 f] I'm dating, but I got sick and I'm afraid she'll lose interest POST: We have been getting pretty physical the last two weeks and we decided to go somewhere where we could be alone and have some privacy. But I had a throat infection,...	Was going to have sex with the girl I'm dating, got sick and I don't know how to cancel because I'm afraid she'll think I'm just flaking on her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend assumes I might only want him for his money... How do I set this record straight? POST: 22/f & 26/m Length: 6 Months Our relationship is fantastic, I've never cared about someone so much ever before. We both come from reasonably comfortable backgrounds, so I'm no st...	Boyfriend assumes I might only want him for his money, but I actually don't care, and want to set this record straight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: [Advice] Car Loan Gone Wrong POST: In 2011 I was nearing the end if my military contract. Instead of reenlisting I separated and joined the reserves so I could help my family. My grandfather who raised me has dementia and my older sister, who has three kids, was taking care of him....	Got a loan in my grandpas name for $28,000. Interest rate and late penalties are so high, even though I've paid $20,000 I still owe about $25,000. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [14 M] with my kinda friend [14 F] haven't even started hanging out, and honestly I'm just an inexperienced teen. POST: Hey everyone. This is not of utter importance and many other people in this subreddit and in the world have some worse and actually serious scenarios. But I've j...	Am I just a lover who is high off his hormones or is there anything here worth exploring? Damn being human is confusing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I have a really smelly roommate, not sure how to approach her about it. POST: As ridiculous as this may sound, my roommate definitely has some serious personal hygiene issues. Being a guy, I'm no stranger to living in less than cleanly living situations, especially when I was in college. M...	smelly roommate, refuses to do laundry, shes depressed, dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] told by [21F] that she has bf, but would have gone out with me if she'd met me earlier. What to do know? POST: Met a really nice girl but she tells me she already has boyfriend when I ask her out. She says that had she met me sooner or before she would have gone out with me...	met girl who says she has boyfriend, tells me if we'd met sooner she would have gone out with me and been perfect for each other. What am I supposed to do now? Should I pursue her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Potty training puppy while working from home POST: I've read a lot about potty training a puppy, and I've successfully potty trained a puppy in the past using crate training without too much trouble. However, I have a new puppy now (3 months old) and I work from home. This is great b...	potty training 3 mo. old puppy while working from home. Not sure the best way to put the pup on a potty schedule using crate training or other method<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Unplugged Ceremony? POST: For those unfamiliar with an unplugged wedding, or why to have one - I have scoured the internet looking for good ways to tell guests that I'm having an unplugged ceremony. While I certainly want the point to hit home and be noticed, I don't want them to...	Want an unplugged ceremony. Need wording that sounds good but not mushy, and is sufficiently not-rude so my mom won't hate it. Also, ideas on how to get my mom on board with this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my[23F] facebook then meet story, wtf POST: So, she adds me on facebook for a comment she likes. We like each other chat, 4 hours+ a day for 2 weeks. We send each other "nude pics" and things like that. We meet, it's even better than expected. We spend 2 hours kissing...	Woman adds me on facebook, keeps chatting with me for weeks then we meet. It's even better, we have intimate and intense relationship she suddenly tries to escape. Wtf do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone had experience with mono here? POST: Yes, I've seen a doctor already (3 times), gotten blood tests, and already got prescribed meds. I haven't received my tests back though. Two days ago my throat became inflamed. It is scary disgusting now. I went to the doctor more than ...	Scared I'm going to die, so if you have had mono, please just read what I wrote, or tell me about your symtoms.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22 F] recently told me she sees me as more than just a boyfriend, How do I [24 M] tell her I don't see her in the same way? POST: I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and she has just recently informed me that she sees me as "more than just a boyfriend" - I...	My girlfriend told me she sees me as more than a boyfriend, how do I tell her that I don't see her in the same way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: can you let someone change who they are to be with you, did i do the right thing? POST: we didn't expect our relationship to turn into what it did, despite each of us having our walls up, we absolutely head over heels fell in love. (M28, F25) it's been an effortless amazing great yea...	amazing boyfriend offered to convert and learn russian so we can have a future together, i feel guilty and terrible about what he wants to put himself through, i ended things, feel like it was a mistake.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: I'm desperate for help with my cat's constant meowing at night. POST: Here's a little background: Pure bread 13 y/o female Burmese Had her since I was 8 Vet check up about a month ago with completely clean bill of health (blood work included) besides fractured jaw which has since healed. He...	moving into apartment in a few months and want to reduce my cats night meowing so roommates/neighbors aren't bothered.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: SO and I disagree about dolls. What do you think? POST: My SO and I have an almost 5 month old baby boy. For Christmas this year, my SO's aunt sent our son two beautiful handmade knitted dolls, Santa Claus and Mrs. Claus. We love them, my son loves them(as far as I can tell, he likes to...	We have two handmade Christmas dolls, I want them to be saved as a Christmas tradition so that they stay special and don't get destroyed. SO want our son to have them all the time. What do you think?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16m] with exchange student [16f]. I am interested in her, but I don't know how to tell her. POST: There's a German exchange student at my school who I've only recently begun to notice and get interested in. I knew of her before, have talked with her before, etc., but for some rea...	Exchange student already has circle of friends, I feel like it's too late to get to know her, I don't know whether I should go for it and how I should proceed if I am to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: This is what happens when your stubbornness becomes your downfall POST: My grandfather and grandmother live in a small two-story home in Huntington, WV, by themselves. They do not get out much, with my grandfather being 80 and my grandmother being 70 with COPD, Dementia, and Schizophren...	My grandfather is so stubborn and lazy that he cannot and will not take care of his house or wife. We are attempting to force them to move to Georgia.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can my husband[32M] and I[22F] best explain to his brother[35M] why he can't find a girlfriend? POST: My brother in law can't find a girlfriend and he's starting to become really bitter about it. He goes on about how it's not fair that my husband is married and younger than him. ...	My BIL can't get a girlfriend and wants me to get him a mail order bride. He doesn't realize that the fact that he can't get a girl is his own fault.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [23/m] find out if she [22/f] wants an exclusive relationship? POST: I met a girl on Tinder and we hit it off immediately, we're both really into each other. Kissed on the first date, overnight dates the second and third, and a quick dinner for our 4th. In total I've been se...	Met a girl on Tinder that I've been seeing for two weeks, how do I find out what her intentions are without sounding overly imposing or like I want to define our relationship so early?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37 M] in nascent relationship with [37 F]; she's going blind, I don't know how to deal. POST: I met an amazing woman recently, we seemed to instantly click on every level. We took things a bit too fast; chatted for two weeks or so, had a great first date. A week later our second...	Have a great connection with an amazing woman I've just met. She well be blind in 5-10 years, I'm totally freaked out at the prospect and frankly feel like a horrible person because of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] broke up with my GF [18 F] of six months, it was such an awful time, I almost don't want to date anymore. Help? POST: So we were dating a pretty short time, and there was a lot of drama with me not being sure if I wanted to be in this with her. I wasn't sure of my feelings ...	Didn't love my gf, broke her heart, she thinks I'm heartless, scared to date because it might end up the same way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I [17m] ask my crush [18m] out, whose car I crashed into last week? POST: Two weeks ago I got in a car wreck with a girl that goes my high school. Everything was good, no one was hurt, but I started crushing on her pretty hard. We've talked several times since then, and re...	I hit a girls car last week, and hit it off, going to ask her out this week, don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (17M) and my girlfriend of 8 months (17F), I have a question about how tonight just went. POST: We go to the movies today and everything is fine. Everything is great, she's acting bubbly and lots of physical contact and eye contact, laughing during the movie (read: everything is f...	She didn't respond to an I love you text, is everything alright? We had a rough night, both of us were cold and tired but nothing happened between us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: I'm considering deep brain stimulation for treatment resistant depression. If anyone could weigh in on this big decision... <3 POST: I'm not really sure where to put this so I figured I'd stick it here. If the mods don't like it maybe they'll know where I can get some feedback. I'm thinki...	Could anyone please help me weigh the pros/cons of this treatment? My depression is really inhibiting my ability to approach this decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] am madly in love with my girlfriend [16F], but I think I may have to end the relationship POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, and I love her more than anything else in the world. Before I go on, I realize some of you might not see two teenager...	I love my girlfriend more than life itself, but since we can't spend enough time together, I think I should maybe break up with her. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [22m] need a little help with asking out a shy girl [22f] POST: A little context: I met this girl last semester at school by chance when we ended up in a project group together, I thought she was cute but beyond that I didn't really have a crush on her. We would chat a little bit b...	Not sure of the best way to ask out a girl who is quite shy, also light, casual date ideas are welcome!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] Don't Believe in No Sex Before Marriage. How do you feel about it? Why? POST: My belief isn't based on the fact that I'm a guy and just want sex. I'm just curious to see what people think about having sex before marriage. I understand that there are some hardcore beliefs on ...	Do you prefer to wait until marriage to have sex, or do you think you should "test-drive" the person, even if you are a religious type of person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] have started seeing this guy [19M] and he's everything I've ever wanted but I'm worried he'll be sick of me before we even go out again. POST: I met the guy in question while I was still in high school. We had the same group of friends but be was dating this girl who I wasn't...	really into this guy, don't know if he wants a relationship with me. If he does I'm afraid he'll dump me like his ex bc I'm boring. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Friend was locked out of apartment pantsless; who's at fault? POST: So I share an apartment with a friend, John, and we don't usually lock our door. We had another friend, David, over, and as he left, he told me he was locking the door. I acknowledged this, but didn't do anything. This m...	friend locked door, I didn't tell roommate, roommate walked around pantless for a bit, now he's pissed. Am I at fault?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I feel like I'll never forgive myself for ruining the most perfect relationship I could imagine POST: Me [M24] and my girlfriend [F24] were together for 4 years, and we were ridiculously happy. We lived together, had our future completely planned out, loved each other so much. I had...	I drunkenly cheated on my girlfriend and ruined the most perfect relationship I could imagine. Don't know how to move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [f29] emotionally cheating on my boyfriend[29] with my gay friend[31]? What's going on? POST: This is my first really long relationship, and it's a four year long one at that. While me and my boyfriend of course don't always see eye to eye, we generally have a relationship full ...	my friend has finally found a potential future partner and I feel like crap about it, and I feel guilty over feeling like crap about it. Am I emotionally cheating on my bf now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Morality in a post-religious existence POST: I was raised in a Roman Catholic family. At around age 12 or 13, I stopped being a true believer, but continued going to mass. About a year later I fully removed myself from the Church, as I began to doubt the idea of hell, free will, etc. I a...	I had a crazy public sexual experience that left me questioning my moral base. I now ask the good people of Reddit to advise me on morals in a post-religious existence.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How dysfunctional is normal dysfunctional family? And are dysfunctional families even normal? POST: By definition they shouldn't be, but it's always been the way I perceived them. I've never thought that my family was perfect, but I assumed that, like every other family, we had our probl...	I think my family is more dysfunctional than I thought because I spend a lot of time with other people's families which are more or less perfect. How much dysfunction in a family is normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 25(m) and 19(f) break up, now getting mixed signals. Advice needed. POST: Hey so my gf of 2 years broke up with a month ago over needing to be single for once in her life, family and friends pressuring the single life and due to me being interested and talking about real world issues...	Shes a sweet girl. Trying to make everyone else happy. But what does it sound like she's doing here? With the exception that she's just using me in some way. Thanks for your time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I broach this with my parents?(long) POST: I think I need to go get some professional psychiatric help. For as stupid as it sounds, I was inspired to do so by reading It's Kind of a Funny Story. I've been having bouts of depression throughout high school and recently they've got...	I think I need help but my parents are the "not my kid" type people, how do I talk to them about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Men of Reddit, I need car help! POST: Hey men of Reddit, or females. I'm an 18 year old girl looking for her first car (please refrain from Women Drivers No Survivors jokes). My parents are buying it and my budget can't reach beyond roughly 13,000 to shell out for said vehicle. Im a seni...	? I'm buying my first used car, and don't know shit about miles on the car. NEED HELP to deal with mother, who's buying the vehicle.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 F] boyfriend [26 M] broke up with me and now wants to get back together POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for 8 months. We were going through a rough patch the last two months (I was handling my grief badly and he stopped communicating/trying) ...	Boyfriend dumped me, apologized and asked to rekindle things a few days later, and now I'm struggling how to move forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting a group of kids to chant "weed" at church POST: This happened a few hours ago, this morning. So my church has two service times, early and late. I always attend the early service and help out in the 3rd-5th grade Sunday School during late service. I usually just sit by the ki...	Told a kid to combine the words "need" and "want" and ended up with an entire Sunday School classroom chanting "weed."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (32M) ex Fiance (27F) and I haven't spoken since we broke up on back on December 7th (were supposed to get hitched Oct 10th). I'm tempted to contact her just to see where her head is, is this a good idea? POST: A few days after we broke up I accepted a job offer to my dream job & ...	not spoken to ex 2 months since breakup, & am missing my ex despite her really stubborn personality. Have had multiple positive changes in my life since breakup, should I call ex or continue intentionally not speaking to her until she calls me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my bf [28 M] of 2.5 years. I am realizing hes not the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. POST: I 25 f live with my bf 28m. We are engaged but I am starting to realize that he is not the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our close-ness has been ...	Strained relationship with bf because I don't want to be with him and dont know how to tell him. Any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [20 F] am starting to have feelings for my guy friend [20 M] but I'm in a relationship. Am I terrible? POST: I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Last year, I started hanging out with a new group of friends. I met one guy that I'm still really good friends with today...	I'm in a relationship but starting to have feelings for a guy friend and I dont know how to get rid of them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf's (34f) kids are usually bad and very disrespectful, we are about to move in together and I (35m) am worried. POST: My gf and I have a really good relationship. It started off casual and now it has got to the point where we are planning on moving in together. She has 2 kids (7m...	I am worried my gf's kids will be so bad when we move in together that it will cause me and her to break up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone have experience with past rape victims or advice for the boyfriend of one? POST: Sorry for the wall of text, but I was pretty emotional when I wrote this. Edited it a bit to clarify. My girlfriend (whom I've been dating for just a short while now) has never really been open to ha...	Girlfriend of couple of months may have been raped or almost raped a few years ago and is totally turned off of doing anything physical and doesn't communicate at all, and I have no idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: OMG I have money now what do I do? POST: After a short marriage/ill family member/etc. it had been almost 5 years since I was able to pay a bill with my own money. I had 2 defaulted credit cards and several outstanding debts and a $3.5k student loan. Fast-forward: Living with my pa...	Will be debt free/making payments to raise my credit score and have reached my savings goal in 2 months. What next?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: 22/m/Cali wondering if it's actually a good idea to move east for a few years to earn money? If so, where? POST: As the title says, I'm 22M from northern California. I also have a background in customer service and information technology with linux and satellite networking focuses. Gradu...	Nothing tying me down here. Can't save money either. Should I move east? If so where? Open to all suggestions/advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [21 M] let a girl [19 F] know I just want to be friends? POST: Thank you for the help in advance. I've been hanging out, and talking to this girl on Facebook since the summer; I think we are just friends, but it's really unclear since we never established what are relations...	Should I tell my female friend, that I've known for years but started hanging out with last summer, I only have feelings for her as a friend the next time we meet or let things continue as is?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] have been in love with her [21F] for over two years and I finally have a chance but I need help. POST: Okay so I will try and keep this as brief as I can. I met this girl over two years ago when we were freshmen in college. I fell for her instantly and we had amazing chemist...	Been in love with a girl for two years and finally have a chance with her after her 4 year relationship ended. We kissed and now I need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Help] Should I keep my Labrador Retriever in the House or outside in a small garden? POST: I had this question in mind for a lot of time. He is pretty big now 6 years old :p. I want him in the house but my mother says it's better for him to be outside in our small backyard. Also she says he ...	Should I move my pet into the house? I play with him but after I go inside I feel he has nothing to do alone outside.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do you think would happen if everyone in the US suddenly had an "even" share of the US's wealth? POST: Using the the approximate wealth of the US found on [Wikipedia] which it's current, so I'll just figure about $50 Trillion... and the approximate population of the US found on [sam...	Everyone in the US has to start from scratch with exactly $160,256.41. What would happen in the next 10 years? What about 20?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] just had a nauseating realization about last relationship POST: I'm not totally sure this is the right place to post this, but it kind of falls under the category of relationships and I could definitely use some advice or commiseration. I just realized that I haven't kissed...	I'm trying to come to grips with the fact that the last person I kissed was my awful ex-boyfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28 F] friend's [31 F] awful relationship with her boyfriend [34 M] is ruining our friendship POST: I because friends with Marie [31 F] in the spring. We were each other's first close friend after moving to a new town. Over the summer she began seeing this guy Jon [34 M]. Jon is a...	Friend in a terrible relationship complains to me about her boyfriend instead of talking to him to either fix or end the relationship. How can I tell her I no longer want to hear about their drama while still maintaining our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Need some inside on her thinking. POST: in the start of my relationship with my current girlfriend(17, 18 Now) and me (16, 18 Now), she still had feeling for her ex-boyfriend which she broke it off with so she could be with me. now what i don't understand is that she still had feeli...	Ex-Bf was beating her up and controlling, she still had feelings for him after i helped her stop cutting, eat normal and start training<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Should I Leave job I hate for pretty much the same job at a different company POST: Hi guys...longtime lurker looking for some advice. I used to really like my job...especially the company. The perks were good (bonuses, lunch, travel etc).I get paid fairly well (I'm a lawyer working in sort ...	Hate current job, potentially have another offer for a lateral move at different company not sure if this would be a mistake for my career. Thoughts???<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19f] boyfriend [20M] doesn't know how to communicate how he feels POST: My boyfriend and I started seeing each other last September, and it's been kind of rocky until December. Since then we've been 100% together and are happy with one another. Essentially my boyfriend claims th...	Boyfriend isn't sure how to express his feelings, and I'd like to help him in any way I can.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the silliest thing you've been stopped by a cop/given a ticket for, Reddit? POST: This anecdote actually comes from one of my best friends. Let's call him Frobozz. So, Frobozz is leaving his neighborhood, like he does often, to head to work. You see, there's an intersection right ...	My buddy got a ticket for running a stop sign, even though the other road was completely torn out to be redone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my ex [22M] of 4 months after 3 years, send me a mean text out of the blue and i dont know how to handle it POST: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in De...	Serious ex after a few months sent a vague but rude text accusing me of something, after not talking for several months, but refuses to tell me why or answer my texts back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [28 F] and I [34 M] who is in a long distance relationship for a year is having intimacy issues but we get along on other things. Not sure how to progress. POST: *She is a divorced single mom with a toddler who's ex husband recently got remarried. I live in Southern Ca...	Long distance relationship to an awesome girl I met on tinder, lack of intimacy after one year is making me question moving forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you have a habit that you never had previously until something happened that caused it to be part of you? POST: I'll start... So back when I was in 9th grade, I had a biology teacher who told to the class about how we cannot break down cellulose. He then explained that since we canno...	Biology teacher taught my class that we cannot break down cellulose so now I end every meal with a salad (when available) because I think it helps clean my digestive tract.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Anyone care to give me some insight/experiances with the Finnish Lapphund? POST: I'm aware it's a rare breed which is why I've come here to ask for peoples experiances. My friend is set on it now, and is open to adopting one, but there aren't any right now. From my research their temperment...	My dog newbie friend is getting a Finnish Lapphund whenever the waiting list gets to him. What are your experiences and what should we know? [i'm not letting him train it alone]<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] ex boyfriend [23 M] of 3 years dumped me a month ago. I can't sleep. POST: My boyfriend dumped me ~a month ago out of the blue. I was completely blind sighted. I am feeling better than I was five weeks ago, but almost every night I have nightmares and vivid dreams about hi...	Ex boyfriend broke up with me and I haven't slept in a month. How can I sleep at night/get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My fiancé (M26) says he'll leave me (F26) if I get a dog POST: So my soon to be husband told me that he will never want any pets, especially not dogs. Well, I am a dog person. Incredibly much so. We talked about this when we first met, 4 years ago, and I was under the impressio...	Fiancè says no dogs ever, I love dogs and they give me the self-worth and happiness I need to be ok in life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My former employer [33F] may have/did cheat on her husband [30ish M] not sure what to do. POST: This is a bit of a long one so I apologize in advance for the wall of text. I work in a community that is pretty small so even though I have had several employers I don't burn bridges and...	should I tell someone I kind of know and like that his wife probably cheated on him. Doing so could jeopardize my standing in the business that I work in.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17M) recently found out that my best friend (17M) is borderline anti-semitic and it's straining our relationship. POST: Okay reddit, here I go: My best friend who I've known for 2 years at this point has recently been telling me how he thinks the world is run by jews, and makes s...	have a potentially anti-semite as my best friend, how do I get him to be more accepting or at least not get worse?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Need advice on transferring! Please help! POST: Hi, I'm currently a freshman starting second semester at University of the Pacific in Stockton. I'm majoring in mechanical engineering. Pacific isn't very well known for engineering at all, but it's a private school with lots of interaction b...	Expensive private school with relatively unknown engineering program but quality interaction between faculty/students OR cheaper UC with large class sizes and the ability to graduate under a "name brand"?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: M/26, F/25 Hoping for job and living advice x-post r/relationships POST: Hi Reddit, Going to x-post this to personal finance but I'm in need of some advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. She is the love of my life and we will likely be getting married soon (she'...	Two job offers, one at GF hometown, one in mine. Both good options. GF wants to move back home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30F] ended a friendship with someone [28F] of two years, and I'm not sure how to explain it to our mutual friends POST: I met R through a writing group, and for two years, we hung out regularly and had a good time. I knew she had depression, and tried to be there for her when she ...	Two year friendship ends with my friend claiming I emotionally abuse her, so she emails my boss with the intent of 'nothing good', and I cut ties. Friends don't seem to understand why, should I try to patch things up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19/M] Needing Advice Before I Get Friend-Zoned! POST: Hello, I recently started a new job (about 1 month ago now), and met this girl that I like. I haven't spoke to her 1-1 yet, only in groups during lunch breaks. We are into the same music, and she's quite attractive and I know sh...	Met a girl with similar interests at a new job, how long should I leave it before asking for any kind of date? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a warrant for unpaid AZ DUI fine and want to go to court but don't want to be arrested! Any experience with this? POST: I got a DUI last year (had one drink and wasn't drunk). I was assessed $1600 in fines with a minimum monthly pmt of $100. I tried explaining, at the suggestion o...	Have a warrant for arrest. Want to pay fines to lift warrant, but need job. Can't get job to pay fines with warrant on record. Will I be arrested if I go to court to meet with judge?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] have just learned my girlfriend [25 F] has a history of depression. What can I do to help her? POST: She confided in me the other night that she's been on sertraline since she was about 8 years old, about when her parents divorced. She has cut marks up and down her arms fro...	Dysfunctional family and being told she's dumb all her life has crippled her confidence and led her depression. How can I help make her more confident in herself and happier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22m] ex-girlfriend [20f] and I have been in contact recently. What do? POST: So my ex-girlfriend and I have been talking quite frequently the pass 2 days and it isn't like her at all. She isn't the type of girl who would text someone back and forth throughout the day but for some...	Ex-girlfriend is acting like she might wanna rekindle some old flames, don't know what to make of it. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Fart Sandwich POST: I was 12 years old when I enacted some professional revenge on my 15 year old brother and his fiend Mike. My brother was(is) incredibly smart, and his friends were all sarcastic know-it-alls that would pick on me at any opportunity. When my brother and I were alone...	Older brother and friend were bullying me and farting on me because I wouldn't get off the computer. I farted on their sandwiches.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] and boyfriend [20M] are having a hard time getting along anymore. POST: So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and seven months. The first year of being together was heaven, we got along amazingly and never had a single fight or disagreement. Everyone would tel...	Me and my boyfriend are having a hard time getting along because of our differences of opinions and I want to know if this is stupid and something we can get past or if it just means we should split up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17/M) need some advice POST: First, I apologize for any formatting/grammatical errors. I'm typing on my phone. Some background. I'm really shy, but this year I decided to try a little harder. I talked with one girl (16/F) let's call her S, for quite a while, but we had only beco...	I like one girl and she likes me. Another girl also likes me and now I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [23 F] together 6 months, we got into a huge fight - Help me understand. POST: "Sarah" is a great girl. I met her 7 months ago, studying with a friend. We instantly clicked and started dating shortafter. It's been pretty intense, we see eachother almost everyday,...	Jealousy, betrayal, Confusion. Trust is gone for her, can I get over things she said? Tune in for this weeks Drama at my place.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (28/M) think my coworker (28/m) is being unfairly treated by another employee (40-ish/F) POST: A bit of explanation. In my job I work with a small group of people, about 7 people. We have a coordinator, P, and she has an assistant, T. Recently T seems to have a vendetta again...	My manager's assistant seems to hate my coworker and finds excuses to talk bad about him. I don't know who to tell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] dating [21M] for two months, want to give first serious written gift POST: Me and my SO have been together for 2 months, but have yet to give each other a really serious gift. We're both english majors so we tend to have some really deep conversations. He's also an excellent...	Wanna give my SO first serious written gift. Both english majors, worried my writing is shit. Scroll up a bit for the written bit I want to gift.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roommate [M/23] is learning how to play bass and it's driving me [M/22] up a wall. Is there anything I can do? POST: My roommate decided to pick up the bass guitar in his free time. He's currently unemployed so his free time is all the time. Whenever I go to work, he's playing bas...	unemployed roommate plays bass in our shared apartment constantly, it's causing noise issues and I'm sick of it. Is there anything I can do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] and my gf [22 F] are going to talk about the future of our relationship after a huge fallout POST: We have been in an LTR for about 5 years now, living together for about 3. Just a few days ago, we got into a huge fight, things were said, and we "split up". We are supposed ...	LTR girlfriend (also my roommate) and I have a big fallout and are "split up". She doesn't think she wants to fix things, but is willing to hear me out about changing that, how should I do that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24/M) girlfriend (24) leaves house out of nowhere, everyday POST: So I don't know how to explain this. I met my girlfriend a year ago through a mutual friend, and we started dating right away. She moved in two weeks ago and I thought my life was completely beautiful. I love her ...	Moved in with girlfriend recently, realized that she leaves house out of nowhere, everyday, sometimes twice, telling that she goes to market, to run, or to walk. But she comes home without buying anything. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: My roommate and I hate each other. He has been "cyber bullying" me via instagram, verbally abusing me, and just threatened me with physical violence. Where do I go to fix this? We go to a 4 year university. POST: I have compiled a list of everything he has done and I am going to take it...	What do I say to the residential office? I want him to move out of this dorm room but I am afraid they will just give him a slap on the wrist because I don't have any concrete evidence besides the social media.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Advice about my very very non-outgoing boyfriend? POST: (We are both males and he's a senior in high school and I'm a junior in high school) Let me preface this by saying I truly do love my boyfriend. We had dated three months over the summer, and broke up because there was a ...	Essentially, I'm with a very shy and insecure boy right now. I do love him, care about him, and absolutely adore being with him, but it's just hard because our personalities are polar opposites. HELP!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] feel like i put more effort into our relationship, than my [18F] girlfriend, what to do? POST: We have been together for about 5 months now and it just feels like we aren't a couple, when we aren't together in person.. I really love her i know she loves me, but when we aren't...	it feels like i put more effort into our relationship, should i talk to her about it or just let it go as it is?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My fiancé [22F] and I [22M] ended our multi-year relationship a month ago. I'm concerned that I might be developing romantic feelings for a friend [22F] too quickly. POST: My fiancé (now ex-fiancé) and I recently mutually ended our relationship. We had been together for quite a few y...	– Ended relationship with fiancé, worried that new feelings for friend are a rebound reaction that could ruin my friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] like a lot a girl [27F] at work, do I break up with my girlfriend [26F] of 1 year? POST: So this girl at work is really cool, pretty, funny and full of life. Also I think she is very interested in me. We flirt a little, but nothing is clearly said. We exchange youtube music v...	Really nice girl at work is seducing me. Do I break up with my girlfriend, who is in love with me?<\|endoftext\|>