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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Haven't been single in a while.. Need some advice on how to go about some things. POST: So I recently broke up with my GF of 2.5 years and moved 4 hours away. I haven't been single though for 7 years now and I'm afraid my flirting skills have gone to shit. I'm 23 now and looking for...
Do you think it's lame to contact a girl I've seen IRL once on facebook? I don't have any other means to contact her. And what should I say? Trying not to be a huge creep. Thanks!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [22 M] 8 months, mother doesn't want to meet him. POST: I have kept my relationship of 8 months private until now, I told my mother that I would like for her to meet my boyfriend, she was upset that I had kept it a secret for so long and was lieing to her a...
mother is angry I kept my relationship a secret for so long and now is being spiteful and doesn't want to meet him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why is Paypal bullying Indiegogo campaigns? POST: I just recieved this email from this completed indiegogo campaign: "A brief update from BRIGHT. We have recently visited factories in Thailand with our German partner on technology and assembly. Things are looking good, but I am a bit fru...
they will stop you raising as much money as possible, and then refuse to give you it afterwards when you need it. Why are paypal trying to kill crowdsourcing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/M] am meeting up with a girl [20/F] from OKC this week, and I'm not sure what to talk to her about since we've been texting so much. POST: We started messaging each other a couple days ago, and have been texting throughout the entire day. With midterms this upcoming week, the e...
I've been texting a girl from OKC for a few days now, and I'm afraid I'll run out of things to talk to her about when we meet at the end of the week.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend just tried to convince me to get a purity ring right after having sex!?!? POST: Okay so this is the first time I've ever posted anything on here. I had another account for a couple months but the username was... well my name. I know dumb, but whatever. I am 22 and she is...
Girlfriend stops sex and tries to convince me to get a purity ring since sex doesn't feel good. I blame the birth control and alcohol. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone taken something of yours and sold/gave it away without your permission? POST: My family recently had a yard sale, which I put a fair bit of stuff into. Now, for the whole weekend, I was at my uncle's hunting cabin, nowhere near my house, which was about a 2 hour drive away. I ...
Step mom takes stuff from my room and sells it when I'm not there, while also screwing me out of the money I deserve.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23M) grandma (60?F) was MIA from my life for 18 years and now wants to be a major part of my life. POST: I need some advice because I don't know what to do. My dad's mom hasn't been there for me my entire life. She never came to any school activities or sporting events. At a youn...
My grandma wants to be back in my life now that she is sick and wants me to drop everything and come ask her how she's doing and I will not fake that I want to be there. Advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Mom [49 F] My Mom is trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend and trying to get me with a woman. POST: So I came out to my mom yesterday, and she was shocked and crying the whole time. I told her for the first time I was happy that I found out who I was and th...
Came out to my mom, wants me to break up with my boyfriend and start dating girls and having sex, even though I can't.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M24] have serious jealousy issues with my GF[F20]. I'm driving myself crazy. Help!! POST: Background: I was in a very serious relationship for about 3 years, but was being cheated on for about the last 2. It was extremely dysfunctional and abusive and I should never have stayed as...
I'm really jealous. My GF had sex with someone 2 weeks before dating me. I know it's stupid but it's getting to me and I can't stop thinking about it. Help please.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend doesn't call should I be worried or is it normal? POST: Ok I know girls are notorious for being crazy about phone calls but I just want to make sure on this one. Me (20f) and my boyfriend (23m) have been on and off for about a year after I met him in college. I am curre...
! when my boyfriend doesn't call when he's supposed to I end up thinking the worst every single time. Should I just learn how to calm down?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [31/f] need sisterly advice for dealing with younger half sister [19/f] POST: Backstory - My Dad left us (my mom and I) when I was a wee babe (I'm all good, my Mom is great) and later on had another daughter. We did not grow up together - I was actually not aware of her existe...
my sister got caught stealing my dad is pissed she is pissed (because he is pissed at her) and I don't know how to talk to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] with my parents [50s M/F]: I suffer from anxiety, and they keep telling me to "Knock it off" when I am acting stressed. Is it fair for them to expect this? POST: I have suffered with stress and anxiety for as long as I can remember, and my parents have ignored it since the ...
Struggle with anxiety, parents keep making it worse by telling me to just calm down or stop worrying about it. How should I respond? What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my crush [22 F] long distance but she doesn't respond sometimes. POST: Before you say she is not interested or I'm being a creep this is a different scenario. So I like this girl who lives in another state and when we talk we can talk for hours online. However I know ...
I like a busy girl but sometimes she will read the messages and not reply to that conversation so I have I start a new one. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey, pirates: What of the content creators? POST: To those who pirate content, whether it be games, music, movies, or books, how do you justify depriving the creator of revenue? I know many will say that they pirate because of DRM, or to stick it to the man, or because corporations/ the...
I was hoping to spur some discussion on how creators retain their rights and get their due in the internet era, and not just from large companies but from the anonymous pirate.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having a hard time getting into dating. Am I too used to being in a relationship? [23F] POST: So, I've basically been in long-term relationships since I was 14. I dated my high school sweetheart for 4 years. Dated a guy from the time I was 18 until I was 21. Then dated another guy fr...
I've been in serious relationships for so long that I'm having a hard time getting feelings for anyone else. Dating feels weird. Is this temporary?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (21m) stay friends with best friend (18f) after she decided she no longer has romantic or sexual feelings for me? POST: Howdy. Me and my best friend recently(last night) stopped having a fwb relationship. The whole time I wanted something more and she didn't and that was alw...
friend wanted to end fwb relationship. Not sure how to stop loving her and just be her friend. Need help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [22 M] of six months constantly compares me [22 F] to his ex [19 F] about how much better she is at loving him. Should I listen to him and put up with this and absorb his criticism? POST: Boyfriend loves hip hop. It's a very deep part of his culture and I don't quite und...
Boyfriend compared me to ex saying that she was better at being a girlfriend. Maybe he's right. But does it make it okay for him to bring her up? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if crush [17 M] is way out of my league [16 F] POST: Hello, I am a 16-year-old junior. So, I met my crush through an extracurricular program, and he happens to live within the same school system as I. Most of the time, guys like me because I am Asian and small, and they don'...
How do I get the confidence to get closer to a guy who's way out of my league? How do I make sure he's even interested in me? Thank you for reading!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Empty Words POST: I get annoyed when people post the standard lines for every event. A few times, my friends relatives passed away and people would write, SS <3 or Stay Strong, and this would happen like 15 times in a row. You'd think that after an experience like this you would take so...
Do you think SS or Happy B Day mean anything, or even any other iconic lines of text you see on the internet? Text means so much less to me than it used to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my unofficial girlfriend [24 F] of 1 year are smooth sailing but I'm going to be doing something that might break it all apart POST: Ok, me and April (obviously not her real name) have been seeing each other for a year and some months. Here's some background info: Apr...
I'm a selfish guy in an open relationship with a girl. I am trying to figure out if I lie to her or come clean with the truth (which will possibly end our relationship)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] keep finding pictures of naked girls saved on my boyfriends [20M] phone. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We never fight about anything ever and we have never had any real relationship hurting problems until now. A couple moths in to our relati...
Found pictures of naked girls on BF's phone for the 5th time last night after he had promised the past 4 times not to do that anymore. What should I do, if anything?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [35m] react & what to do when flat mate [27f] breaks promise and lets abusive separated husband [27m] in? [I am not in a relationship with flatmate] POST: Flatmate had left her husband after talking about it for about a year, and moved in with me to get away from (alleged) ...
Friend alleges rape and has evidence of theft & other abuses from husband, 6 months later she invites him into my (our) flat for a chat.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m20] drunkenly hooked up with a friend behind my person of interest [f20] POST: This will be short but here is the jist. I was drinking with some friends last night and got plastered. I was near passing out and a girl went down on me and I fingered her. My significant other couldn...
I got drunk and hooked up with a girl behind the person who I am talking to and regret every second of it but don't know what to do because I don't want to ruin my relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My ex wife's [25/F] daughter [6/F] is coming to visit, and I [27/M] don't know if I should see her POST: Background: I met a girl who had a daughter from a previous relationship back in 2010, and we started dating, which eventually turned into a marriage in 2012. We then got di...
Ex wife's daughter is visiting my parents after a year, should I visit her even though my current girlfriend does not want me to be in my ex wife's daughters life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/M] with my Professor [early-late 50sM], I scheduled a vacation 8 months in advance, turns out the week of my 5-day vacation is finals week. Help! POST: Hi Reddit, nice to see you again! So, I scheduled a vacation with my gf about 8 months in advance. We're going out of town f...
scheduled a vacation during finals week, I really really want to take the vacation and also pass my finals. How do I keep myself and my professor happy here?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Just walked 40 minutes from a "screw" buddies house POST: Yea, I need a bit of rant. Just walked home at 1am from someone who I was trying to create something with who looked at me and said we were just fucking. She then texts me on the walk home saying how she faked everything between us, ...
I don't just fuck woman, I try for something more, but half the time they're just whores anyway.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I was asked to hold onto some cash for a friend indefinitely. What is the smartest thing I can do with it? POST: A good friend of mine asked me to hold onto some money for him (~$2,000). He's an older guy, he just had a kid and I think he's freaking out a little. He told me that if...
A friend gave me money in case he dies and his family needs immediate cash. How should I put it to good use?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My best friend dated my ex girlfriend, advice? POST: Background story: So me and this girl dated, lets call her X, for 3 years throughout highschool and into my first 2 years of college. She went to college the year after I did and put stress on the relationship and all that kinda stuff. An...
My best friend hooked up my ex gf of 3 years about a month after she broke up with me, advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] Having Trouble Fully Committing to GF [20F] of 3 Years. POST: Hey Guys! So I've been dating the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life. Ever since we met, she makes my days a thousand times better. She is always there to support me in my craziest endeavors, and sh...
In a great LTR but afraid that my life has lost all of it's excitement. What should I do to be happy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by setting my whole body on fire. POST: So this actually happened to my great uncle quite a while ago, but it is a great story and I thought you guys would like it. So Frank was a dairy farmer, and every day he would go out at 4 in the morning to milk his cows. He had a milking machine ...
my great uncle set himself on fire and was severely burnt a week after getting life insurance. He then earnt a killing selling life insurance by telling his story.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Her name is Emily, and she may be my perfect match. POST: Preliminaries: I'm a 30 year old male living in a small town. She is a 27 year old living in a medium sized city. We have not known each other long, a month max. Recently, I have come upon a woman so stunningly beautiful t...
Girl is beautiful. She dated a friend of mine. I want to date her. Do I need his permission?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Please help me help my friend. POST: My friend B recently had surgery to remove his second brain tumor (the first one was when he was 5, he's now 25). Luckily it wasn't cancerous, but the tumor was wrapped around his optical nerves and damage was caused and now he's considered legally b...
friend recently legally blind b/c of a brain tumor, want to buy him a bigger tv so he can watch hockey.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Struggling to remove the urge to attempt intimacy with my mom's friend from my hormonal teenage brain... POST: For the sake of the below text, let's name my mom's female friend "Barb". I'm a 19 y/o guy. So pretty much, Barb has been friends with my mom since Barb's son and I started schoo...
Mom's friend is lonely and has been for a while. I feel like her situation would allow me to become intimate with her. Not sure if it's appropriate or even possible. Help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Met my SO [25M] online and "lied" about my [23 F] name... POST: I met my bf on an online dating site and said my name was "X", which is actually my middle name. I didn't want to use my first name "Y" on the internet for security reasons or whatever, plus I never really thought ...
Met bf on dating site. Told him my name was my middle name but in reality everyone calls me by my first one. Worried about him feeling like I lied to him about my name.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How did your parents find out you drank/drink underage? I'll start. POST: For starters, I never drink and drive. If I am going somewhere to drink I am either staying the night or getting a sober ride home. So, one night last summer I am out at a bonfire with a few of my friends and we ...
Had bad hot dogs and after throwing up in front of my parents my dad made a joke about me drinking that revealed it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: i [23 M] got caught by my GF [22 F], what the hell I do???? POST: Throwaway account for this So like around 2 hours ago (argument just died down) my GF came home and barged in on me and caught me in the act,..... and she flipped batshit crazy......... What did she catch me on that g...
got caught masturbating by GF and she went bat shit crazy mode. i am literally confused as hell and srsly wtf did i do wrong?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I feel like I should go back to school, but I'm not sure what I want to do with the rest of my life. Anyone want to help me out? POST: So a little bit of background, I've been out of high school for 4 years now. I went to school for a couple years (1 year community and 2 years art school) I...
I have 3 years of college under my belt, everyone tells me i should go back to school and get a degree but nothing seems to interest me. How do I get my life back on track?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [19M] of 11 months might need a break POST: I'm not talking about breaks where people temporarily break up and are allowed to see other people, but a break to give space to each other and figure out our thoughts. Our relationship has been a bit rocky and ...
Boyfriend feels confined with thoughts of us and recent days relationship has been a bit rocky. Ultimately decided that this was due to not getting enough space, suggested taking a break. Is it a good idea?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] want to support my bi-curious boyfriend [22m] of 8 months. POST: Using a throwaway because he is a lurker, but I don't know all the subreddits he frequents. My boyfriend (let's call him Oliver, yeah?) and I have been together for 8 months and are very happy together. Oliver...
My bofriend is bi-curious and inexperienced. How can I best encourage him to explore this part of his sexuality?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M23) girlfriend (F23) has gained alot of weight. Refuses to talk about it... POST: Been together for nearly 4 years now. She is gaining weight constantly. Its now at a point where im becoming resentful and losing interest sexually. I feel terrible to feel this way; especially whe...
girlfriend is gaining alot of weight. Mentioned it to her before. She refuses to lose it and always throws my previous concerns about it back in my face.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: US - Ohio - Problems With Neighbors POST: I'm having some issues with my neighbors causing disturbances on a somewhat daily basis through all hours of the night. As far as I can tell, there is a bad domestic situation between SOs and they argue, pretty heatedly, very often. This went o...
My section 8 housing neighbors are loudly arguing a lot and keeping me up at night; what actions can I take to make it stop?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a [30M] in an on-again off-again relationship of 2.5 years with a [29F]. We've remained friends throughout. Need advice. POST: So my now ex-girlfriend and I have been apart for the last 3+ months. We see each other with high frequency for exes, I suppose: 1-3 days a week. We've h...
I want a relationship again. Ex-gf needs time to decide, I'm pressuring her. We're good friends regardless.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, please help me figure out my tech career path. POST: Just before I dropped out of high school I got my MCSE(which has long since expired). After I dropped out and got a GED, I did some part time consulting, basic hardware/software support, networking, your basic man with a van ty...
I have no degrees, certifications or experience. Help me figure out how to turn my $5000 into a career in some tech field. I have solid hardware, and desktop software skills, and some networking and programming skills.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28F] SO of 4 years [30M] used my credit card without my consent POST: I gave him my card so he could go to the store to return a pair of shoes. He returned the shoes and gave me the receipt. We agreed that I am keeping that money on my card and using it for part of his portion of...
gave my boyfriend my credit card to return something and he also used it to make a $120 purchase without my consent but plans on paying me back. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [18F] is constantly afraid she's pregnant and it's really beginning to grate on my [19M] nerves. POST: Hey, guys. So my girlfriend of eight months, Sam, is beautiful and smart and usually one of the most rational people I know. That being said, when it comes to sex, sh...
My girlfriend lives in basically constant fear that she's pregnant. I love her, but I'm starting to get irritated.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (17F) best friend (17F) has become seemingly more distant and purposely does not include me in events with our friends POST: Some background info-- My best friend, lets call her Ali, and I have grown up together and became really close at around the age of 13. We look alike and ...
My best friend, who has always been dependent on me, is becoming increasingly more distant, hanging out with new people, and not including me in events with our friend group<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I put out a potential fire at McDonald's. What's a good deed you've done? POST: Went threw the drive in at McDonald's awhile back to get my regular Mocha Frappe. (I can not explain how much i love those things.) So I'm behind some dude waiting an i look at the flowers an all i see is the...
Saved a company from a potential fire because i love there frappes. ruined my brand new sandals in exchange<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26F] BF's [31M] room mate and best friend [33M] is in love with him. POST: I am in the early stages of a relationship with a 31 year old heterosexual male. He has shared an apartment with a 33 year old male for 2+ years They have lots of common interests and really have become ...
HELP, my bf's male room mate has declared he is in love with him. What do I/he/we do next?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Was emailing with my ex-girlfriend [22f] a sign she still thinks about me [25m]? Or was engaging a mistake? POST: Recently my ex-girlfriend emailed me since she wanted to know how I and my family was doing and "catch-up." Initially I let the email site for a few days and just replied...
Ex-girlfriend email me, wanted to know how I was doing. Trying to make sense of it. What does it mean?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you teach tolerance? POST: I (26M) have been with my girlfriend (23) for 7 months and she is great. Smart, beautiful and generally low maintenance. But there is something that has been bothering me more and more recently, she is very quick to judge and has a general "holier ...
How do I teach someone (my girlfriend in this case) to be less judgmental, more tolerant of others struggles, and more open minded?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is being observant creepy? POST: Kinda thought this to myself. I've noticed that I'm pretty observant of things without trying to allocate my time to observing people, it's just easy to remember small things for me. I ask if it's creepy because there's so much you can find out about a pe...
I unintentionally gather useless information about people and based on that information I know certain things without talking or asking them. Even people I don't know.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] girlfriend [21 F] of 9 months is EXTREMELY FORGETFUL and sometimes it hurts me. POST: My girlfriend is an amazing girl. She's smart, charming, cute, funny etc etc she basically ticks all the right boxes EXCEPT for one thing: She's extremely forgetful. We could be having a c...
girlfriend forgets personal details about me that I've already mentioned (sometimes several times) and it hurts me. I really like her but I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't have fun when I go out with my gf and her kid POST: I'm 28, she's 25, and he's 5. We've been an item for 6 months. I try to but it always seems kinda boring. We've gone to the arcades, disneyland, museum and it's all kinda boring. I think she feels I am getting the same joy ...
i dont have much fun when it's my gf and her kid but i have fun when it's just me and her. is that normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I feel like I never grew up. POST: For context, I'm 22 and male, in the USA. Growing up, i was very socially...uninvolved. I cared more about reading. Then in high school, I got into social crowds by being a 'class clown'. I never stopped though. I realize that I say things that are hurtful...
I never quit being a class clown, and now that I'm 22, it makes me an asshole. How do I change?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] and a longterm friend from school [22 F]: Could it be more? POST: It is kinda difficult to describe my situation and "problem" and english isn't my native language, so I apologize in advance for all those spelling and grammar mistakes. Bear with me. I know this girl since...
I know this girl since 7th grade. Only talked online on my initiative. I really started to like her over the years.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 M] with my neighbors [55F, 4M], noise issues. POST: My girlfriend and I moved into a GREAT apartment early this year. At the time, we were both working traditional 9-5 jobs while growing our jointly-owned business. Last month, we hit a point where our business is self-sust...
Upstairs neighbor has a very loud baby in her apartment 2-3 days every week. Complains about my dogs barking and the (pretty damn low) music from my stereo.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25m] girlfriend [27f] of 6 years is breaking up with me because she thinks I drink too much. POST: My girlfriends parents found a couple of bottles of alcohol in her room and started to get crazy on her. She started going to AA meetings and now she thinks that I drink too much. ...
Girlfriend started going to AA meetings and thinks I drink too much now even though I only drink on my days off when I'm relaxing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] realizes I have feelings for my friend [20 M] of 3 years, who has a girlfriend. POST: I've been friends with this guy for about 3 years. Freshman year of college he started getting feelings for me and I kind of put him in the friendzone. At the end of Sophomore year, last y...
Friendzoned guy, slept with him after 2 years and realized I really like him. He gets a girlfriend and we are still hooking up.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Saw her for a second, had a dream about her the next night POST: Me (19/Male) and my ex (18/Female) have had no contact for about a month now. I went to a play on Friday and I love going to plays at my college. Unfortunately, she's going to be involved because she's a major in Theatre-Art...
Had a dream of my girlfriend holding hands with a gay friend. She gave me crap for flirting with a lesbian but it was always okay for her to be close to this gay guy. Double Standards caused a lot of our fights.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (26f) friend (23f) asked me to be a bridesmaid. I accepted. Now, she is making demands More than a normal wedding would warrant. Am I terrines for wanting to back out? POST: Hi all! Sorry no flair. On mobile. To start out, my friendship with my friend (who shall be referre...
after agreeing to be a bridesmaid, bride makes unreasonable expectations I didn't agree to. Am I wrong to want to quit the wedding?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister[F/29] has expensive taste and spends a lot of money including some of mine [F/23]. I'm frugal and don't make much. How do I tell her without sounding inconsiderate or cheap? POST: Hi y'all, Just wanted to first say thank you for listening to my rant. This has been going on...
Sister has expensive taste and is used to spending money. I am frugal and don't make much. How to be accommodating to her while not coming off as cheap?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do to fix my work ethic? POST: I've always had trouble with doing my work. I would hate to put the blame directly on my parents, but when I was young, they truly showed no interest in me doing my school work, so I would skip my homeworks to the point of getting D's in a lot of...
I'm lazy as shit, and I can't do things even if I want to do them because my work ethic is so poor, how can I fix this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with boyfriend [25M] for almost three years. Lived together for 1.5 years. Help with what to discuss before marriage? POST: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other...
Boyfriend and I may be getting married sooner than planned, help us make sure we have talked through all the important stuff!!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28F] boyfriend [31M] won't buy me a bday present due to "expenses." POST: I am turning 29. All of my friends are out of town so I was hoping my BF might plan something special for my bday. Only problem is we are closing on a house soon so I know the only celebration I might get i...
Boyfriend won't buy be a birthday present due to his expenses but I've spent more money than he has. He keeps saying his expenses are for us but they are all his choices.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30F] with my neighbor [30ishF] 1 year, I gave her my phone number after she made a noise complaint and now she won't stop sending me passive aggressive messages. POST: I currently live in an old Victorian house that has been divided into 3 1-bedroom apartments. I live upstairs, a...
How do I tell my neighbor her passive aggressive texts have become too much? Am I the one who is actually being annoying?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My new GF has a few friends who are single or non-attached men. She sometimes hangs out with them alone, but I've recently told her "no way". Am I out of line? POST: I'm a 33 year old man, and started dating this new GF (28) almost a year ago. She's honestly the best GF I've ever had...
GF wants to hang out alone with single guy friends who flirt with her and drunk call her and I'm starting to tell her "no way".<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need to quit my job and I am scared to death what's going to happen. POST: A little background information: I was working at an art gallery when they prematurely decided to close their doors until further notice. They told me they would be open until ATLEAST the end of April s...
gallery closing months earlier than i was told. basically demoted to job I can't afford to take. don't know what to do<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [F23] answer my roommates [F23] questions about her Boyfriend [M22]? POST: Background My roommate and I- We have known each other for about 8 years or so, and we have gotten along fairly well... I wouldn't say she was my closest friend, because I tend to keep a distance with my ...
My roommate is in a relationship which does not seem to be headed anywhere, and keeps asking me questions about it. I am very confused about how to approach this subject.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f30) have not heard from boyfriend (m43) for three days - Does this sound ok to send? POST: I'm not sure what's going on with my bf - we've been together for 4 months; friends for nearly 3 years. We spoke over email three days ago - perfectly nice stuff about our day, etc. That da...
boyfriend hasn't communicated with me in three days - this is weird because we talk all the time. Should I send him one last message?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my ex [17 M]. Went out for 3 years, dumped me 2 weeks ago, he's gone off the deep end POST: This man shattered my heart a mere 2 weeks ago. Said he didn't love me anymore, though he did love me like. 3 days before dumping me. Anyways, we decided to stay "friends." I ac...
Ex boyfriend has been doing a lot of drugs/drinking a lot since we broke up. Is this a normal post-breakup phase of indulgence in freedom or what?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm (18/M) wondering if it was possible to talk to a girl(18/F) with nothing in common POST: I always find it difficult to start any sort of conversation with absolutely nothing in common with the other person. All my current friends have either games or work or school or clubs...
Is this the part where I should suck it up realize that unless something miraculous happens in the future that ties our paths together I'm not going to see her again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25] wife [24] is obsessed with trying to get our toddler daughter [22m] "discovered" on instagram to be a model. POST: I love my wife but she refuses to go back to work and all she does is spend all the money left over from the job I hate but work to support them on new outfits e...
Wife obsessed with getting daughter discovered on Instagram as a model, spends $1k+ a month on clothes for her, guilts me for not 'loving my daughter' when I try and call her out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my online friend [25F] Am I over complicating or overthinking everything? POST: About a year ago I met someone in a game I play, she was a pretty nice person and fun to hang out with so we became friends. Over the last few months I've grown closer to her, my computer br...
I always end up over complicating things with my friend, I don't know what or how I can fix myself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I get really depressed when I look at the girls that my boyfriend follows on Instagram (23f) POST: I guess this is more of a personal problem than anything else, but I'm embarrassed to talk to anyone in my real life about it. I went through my boyfriends "following" list on Instagram...
I've been very depressed ever since I looked at the girls my bf follows on Instagram. How can I deal with these negative feelings? Thank you.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Hurt my right foot yesterday sprinting in soccer cleats. Not sure what I did, how to heal it, or how to avoid it in the future. HELP! POST: At the end of rugby practice we were doing sprints and I somehow hurt the bones of my right foot (metatarsals). My cleats are a season old and in pret...
28M 5'11" 205lbs Hurt foot bones sprinting in soccer cleats, no swelling, but painful to walk on. Not sure how I hurt it or how to solve the problem.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Advice on traveling for 1-2 months in Mexico/Guatemala POST: Hello fellow travelers! Last June I studied in Puebla, Mexico and fell in love with the country. I've decided to go back for a bit longer this summer, probably mid-May to mid-July. I am looking for advice on: * places to visi...
21 year old female backpacking in Mexico May-July 2014. Where to go? What to do? How much to budget? General advice? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Today I [25 F] fucked up with my boyfriend [27 M] of 1 year. POST: I apologize in advance for the rant but bear with me (somebody gets shot in this story). My boyfriend "Greg" is the nicest person I've ever meet ever. We've dated awhile now and he wanted to know more about me... That...
How should I deal with my straight laced boyfriend inquiring into my past that he doesn't know is juvenile delinquency.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Everything was going great between me [21/F] and him [21/M] then flipped out of nowhere POST: I had been seeing this guy for a little over 3 months. We hit it off when we first met and started to spend a lot of time together as time went on. Sometimes we'd hang out 3-4 times a week,...
Seeing a guy for a few months, things were going great, out of nowhere said he wasn't ready for relationship. What do I know? Casual? Friends? Move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my [27 F] girlfriend. Dating 6 months. Called her ex's name and she is not speaking to me. POST: My girlfriend and I have been happily dating for 6 months. Since the beginning of this relationship I have always felt like it was different and had a strong feeling she co...
Gave girlfriend wrong name in story/ situation and she is upset. Hasn't spoken to me for almost 2 days.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 18M wanting to take charge of his life and wants to lose his virginity and not be a pussy. Help Me Please POST: Hello, I am a 18yr old male. From the title you can assume that I am a virgin. Yes, not just any virgin either, a mega one. I have never even kissed a girl in my teenage ye...
18yr old virgin needs to learn how to man up and take what he wants. Needs help. Give advice and personal scenarios.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Not sure what to do. [22M] POST: First off relevant background info. I'm recently divorced, and have a 8 month old son. Only ever had one real relationship. So onto it. So at my work I have been taking to this girl, nothing serious just water cooler banter. She's pretty cool,...
like a girl, feelings are most likely returned. she's pregnant, I have a kids already. Should I go for it, or stop it before it goes to far.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Friend just got a chihuahua and we need some help. POST: Several days ago my friend's family found a puppy on their front door. It was a tiny little chihuahua and they had no choice but to take it in. They've put posters around and kept it vague so they wouldn't have any unsavory encounters. ...
We need to get two dogs adjusted to each other. A new chihuahua puppy and a Maltese that has been living on his own for the last six years.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Right time for my (f20) boyfriend (m20) to meet my parents? POST: My boyfriend and I are both 20 and in college. We've been dating for around 3 and 1/2 months. After somewhat recently making things official, my mom is pushing to meet the guy that she has been hearing so much about. I...
My boyfriend asked me to meet his parents, and my parents are pressing me to bring him around to meet them too. I'm just nervous about doing it at the right time. Help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf (f26) went thru my old emails and didn't like what she found. (26m) POST: My gf and I have been together for 3 years since 2012. Some bad moments, but mostly good times. Any who, I left my email account open on my girlfriends laptop and forgot to log out. She went thru my old emai...
My girlfriend went through my email and found old drafts in the year 2010 writing lovey dovey stuff to my ex-gf with dirty pictures. I did not even meet my current girlfriend yet at the time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37M] with my [31 F] wife. My parents [mid 60s M/F] won't discuss past issues with us and it is destroying our relationship POST: They say it 'flies in the face of their beliefs and experiences' and that we should just let go of the past and move forward. We on the other hand need...
parents won't talk to me and my wife about some issues we have with our relationship even though it may mean the death of our relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What reoccurring dreams do you have? POST: After waking up from yet another long, detailed, reoccurring dream. I realized that I have quite a few dreams that I routinely have that occur almost exactly the same each time. My most recent one involved heading to some locations under order...
Carrying out orders only to set off alarms and forced to fake our death. Preparing to save the others and then I woke up.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'd (30M) like to help provide the perfect at home evening with great food, movies, and sex for my wife (31F) for Valentine's this weekend. Any advice or ideas would be greatly appreciated! POST: My wife and I have never been huge into the traditional version of Valentine's. Neither...
I'm trying to research ideas for what the perfect night in for my wife and myself might contain, any and all advice and ideas would be greatly appreciated!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Does anyone wanna help a guy beat the (cable) system? POST: So basically, I have a TiVo Premiere that accepts a CableCard M-Card. Time Warner Cable North Texas (Frisco-McKinney-Plano) won't just give me the thing to put it in. They want to charge me a service call and have a tech do it f...
Does anyone know the number to call to activate a Time Warner Cable CableCard? Particularly my region specific one, if such a thing exists.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21] with my coworker [23 M] of a month, overheard him talking to another coworker about how he has plans to cheat on his long-term girlfriend. Advice? POST: Hi there, rather remain genderless on here in case my coworker browses this sub. Yesterday at a company party, I overheard...
coworker was bragging about how he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend before she came back into town. Do I tell her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] 1 year, I don't know what to do anymore POST: So we have been together for a year now and I'm in a lot of confusion. She has a lot of self-confidence issues related to her body. She thinks she's fat and her breast are small (they are and I like th...
On one side she hates her body but she doesn't want to do anything about it and tells me to leave if I don't like her that way.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't think I love her anymore...? POST: To open up I'm a 18 M and my SO is 16 As the title suggests, I don't think I'm in love with my girlfriend anymore. First I'll start with background. We've been dating for almost a year now and we both lived in a small town, she's two ...
I don't relate to my girlfriend anymore and can't give her the attention she deserves. But I'm scared of hurting her as well as upsetting my family <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17/F] gave my number to a guy [18/M] who I'm not super close with and I'm afraid I did it so awkwardly I've messed things up beyond repair POST: This is an update to this post: where I talk about whether or not I should give my number to a guy who went on a couple dates with my c...
I gave a guy my number, unsure if he didn't see it or if he is really disinterested. Have to interact with him constantly for the next couple weeks, how do I act?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M26] have mixed feelings about meeting up with an ex-girlfriend[F25] of mine. POST: So, I had a girlfriend in high school. We initially met each other through a group of friends that met in the same place every morning. After a few years of knowing me she admitted she had feelings...
Is re-establishing contact with an ex-girlfriend of mine a good idea? Was not a bad break-up.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I'm Pregnant. Should We Get Married for Financial Reasons? POST: I am 23 years old and I live with my boyfriend (age 25) of 4 years. He goes to school part time and works full time and I'm an actively drilling member of the Louisiana National Guard. We live below the poverty line i...
Would it make more sense, financially (from a military and governmental standpoint), to get married before the baby is born, or after?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: SHE Just Isn't That Into You? POST: So the book "He's Just Not That Into You" is pretty popular. For those of you who haven't read it and can't figure it out from the title, it's basically a book telling women that men's actions aren't a mystery, that you'll know for sure whether a guy ...
A guy likes you or not. If he does, you'll know it. If not, he's just not that into you. Can the same thing be said of women?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] Started talking to [19/f] She has a boyfriend. POST: I have just recently started talking to this girl that I met from a cookout. Since friday I have been hanging out exclusively with her and no one else. We have been having really personal conversations and hanging out....
met a girl started hanging out, we get pretty touchy feely with each other but I feel conflicted because she has a long distance boyfriend.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the best way to diffuse my anger? I can't help but dwell on a recent incident I went through... POST: Ive been dwelling on an incident for almost two days now that happened on this past Friday, and it's caused me to space out, become so angry I begin shaking, and kept me from slee...
Had a road rage incident on my motorcycle, been dwelling on it overly, feel that I may need help on releasing/controlling my anger in a healthy manner. Turning to reddit for possible answers before I seek help<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[18M] girlfriend[17F] of two months, decided she was too busy and we "needed a break." POST: I had been dating this girl for almost three months. Things had been going pretty great. We were not constantly at each others side, but I made sure to see her any chance I got, not an extr...
Girlfriend decides we "need a break" because she is to busy and feels bad about it, even though she doesn't seem busy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking a shower and forgetting the room key POST: So, this TIFU is happening has we speak. This week, my boyfriend is out of town and letting me stay in his room at his fraternity. Since the Greek community is a sketchy area, I decided to lock the door while I slept. I slept great thr...
Locked myself out of the bedroom with only a towel on. Start work in 20 minutes and no one can help for multiple hours. Am hiding in laundry room.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Tips for an individual with limited Gym time? POST: Hey Loseit - this is the first time I've posted here. When I went to University I put on alot of weight. I was always chubby/broad but when I went to Uni I put on about 3-4 stone. I was 22 Stone at my heaviest. I started to diet just bef...
Nowhere near as much time on my hands as before - want to get the most out of the gym as I can in the time I have - which isn't alot.<|endoftext|>