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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25F] trying to be a wingman for my good friend [M39] and can't come up with ideas other than bars. Help?
POST: Almost two years ago I moved to a new city and making friends was really hard because I'm not a big fan of bar/club culture. I ended up stumbling upon an awesome group... | I have a good friend who needs help getting out of his comfort zone and trying to date ladies. I have no idea where to take him / where to start trying to meet women beyond bars/clubs. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [31F] need to make things right with my 34M BF of 13 Months. What can I do to make it right?
POST: I want to avoid the inevitable debate about the circumstances and go straight to the advice, so I will summarize with this: I recently made a huge mistake of lying to my boyfriend abo... | Because I lied, I need to express to my BF that I am committed and worthy of his trust. What can I do/say to right this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I 27/M cheated on my wife 28/F last night. I highly doubt she will find out unless I tell her. Should I tell her?
POST: I met a girl at a party like 3 days ago. We messaged each other and finally I came over to her place. We went out to eat, walked around for a bit, then came home. T... | I cheated on my wife, but she'll never find out, should I tell her anyway for the sake of honesty? Or take the secret to the grave? Anyone have a similar story?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [24 F] of 18 months, needs me to get over my selfishness otherwise she will end the relationship.
POST: Throughout the relationship I have done selfish things. For example, since I traveled for work pretty often I would stay at her apartment for the weekend and l... | My girlfriend, whom I love, has threatened to end the relationship because of my selfishness. I want to fix it - is therapy something I should consider?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my now ex [27 F] 4months, she ended it because she's afraid of commitment?
POST: 2 nights ago, I was broken up with via skype. We live about 3hrs away from each other, but that's never really been a major issue. She ended it because she claimed she had bad anxiety, and... | GF broke up with because she's scared, and doesn't feel she can reciprocate the feelings I have for her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am an [18F],and have been with my boyfriend [18M] for one year. I love him, but recently I've been feeling sexually attracted to other guys.
POST: Backstory: I moved from Canada to California for my senior year of high school. I had a pretty rough time switching gears for senior ye... | I have been with my boyfriend for a year, but have never felt sexually attracted to him. I now feel sexually attracted to one of my coworkers, and am very confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[22M] housemate[21F] has a problem with my girlfriend[24F] and doesn't want her in the house
POST: Some background to the issue first. Myself[22M], my housemate[21F], her boyfriend[23M] + another guy who's not really involved have been living together for about a year. Housemate an... | Housemate doesn't want my new girlfriend in the house because her (sort of ex) boyfriend had/has a thing for her<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Budgeting Epiphany
POST: I just realized why I'm always over-spending my budget.
A little background - I work in finance and have built a thorough budgeting sheet for my personal finances. Every month, I know exactly what I have coming in, what I've spent historically for that m... | Been relying on complicated budgeting practices and spreadsheets to control spending, when the problem was self control this whole time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28 M] Girlfriend[25f] has a much more active social life. It is starting to worry me.
POST: So I got together with this girl a little over a month ago and it is been going pretty amazing so far. She is still a student while I graduated in 2013 and have been working in another par... | Girlfriend of one month is a social butterfly with a huge social circle. I on the other hand have only little social contacts after moving back to my home city. Will she judge me for this? Will it create problems?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by flooding my work bathroom with poop water.
POST: I should have taken a shit before work, but for some reason I never have to go until I get to work. I didn't even have time to put down my belongings at my desk, I literally just went straight to the shitter and dropped a huge turd with... | Took a monster dump, clogged my work toilet and flooded bathroom with a coworker in the stall next to me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU - by not knowing what fisting meant.
POST: this happened years ago but hey i recently joined reddit. I was around 15 and new to America so I was quite unfamiliar with sexual references and American slangs. In my class we were actually discussing public transport problems relating to youn... | I put the image of a granny 'fisting' a guy on a train, in everyone;s mind by accident.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Please help. My parents marriage is in trouble. Should I go home and try to help or continue living at University?
POST: I'm 21 and currently at university living away from home. My parents marriage of over 20 years is in trouble and I don't know what to do. They've basically always had ... | Parents marriage breaking up, have the option to live at home to try and help or live away from home because of it's crappyness at the moment.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 23M with my girlfriend 22F of 5 years, having problem dealing with her actions during a break from the relationship
POST: Me and her have been dating from since we we're really young (mid teens) and we were each others first. We ended up taking a break over a year ago to have an o... | Girlfriend slept with 1 guy during one year break, i slept with many more. Her sleeping with someone who isnt me bothers me way more than it should. Help<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] have made a mistake that cost me my relationship [19 F]. How do I accept this and move on?
POST: I have made a mistake, I overreacted and ripped a happy birthday letter of a guy she used to see, that was hanging on her magnet wall right next to my happy birthday letter..
T... | I messed up (no, i did not cheat on her), which made my relationship to end. I am having a hard time dealing with this because It was my fault that it finished.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Fucking fuck fuck mice
POST: First off, don't hate mice. I HATE the fact they're in my damned place of residence and that it's 5 fucking 30 in the fucking morning and they're running around so fucking loud in my fucking bedroom that I can't fucking sleep. I hate not being able to put an... | We have mice galore, they shit in furniture, cupboards and scare the shit out of me when I hear/see them scurrying around. FUCK THIS WITH A RUBBER HOSE.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28/F] BF of 4 years [30 M] just changed his tune about kids/marriage after I got pregnant. Is this the end?
POST: I thought my BF and I were on track to get married and have kids. We've been together for 4 years and we've always talked about what our kids would be like, our paren... | BF of 4 years doesn't know about marriage or kids anymore now that I'm pregnant. Does that mean we have no future?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Young, with more money than I know how to spend. Should I open another 401k account?
POST: Hello all,
I am currently in my mid 20's and I have an annual income of roughly 65k. Since I live with my mother and have no plans to move out (cultural thing, I'll eventually take the house... | Make 65k/yr, could live off <10k. Is fidelity 401k worth it if I already have a work 401k that I'm maxing?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/M] So..I may still have feelings for my ex-best friend [22/F].
POST: Last summer I confessed my feelings to my best female friend of 5 years. The problem - she was in love with a guy from overseas who she had met during her study abroad semester. She said they were pretty s... | Lost contact with best friend after confessing my feelings for her. 1 year later she says she misses me and is asking how much longer are we not going to talk. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is something someone has recently done to absolutely infuriate you?
POST: Mainly started this post to vent. Hope it helps some other people too.
My brother, 30s, well educated, makes a shit ton of money. Rather selfish and ~~somewhat~~ insensitive.
Me, 20s, fulltime student wo... | (dont blame you): Brother doesn't think before he speaks and basically tells me because Im not a doctor or professional of some kind (yet) my work in the inner city means nothing. Prick<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Friend cheating on boyfriend, need advice.
POST: So last week my friend and I were out clubbing and she met a boy. He said she was the most beautiful girl he'd ever seen and got her number and what not. They arranged a date for this Friday. Problem is, she has a boyfriend that she curren... | friend going on date with new boy despite having a boyfriend that she lives with, her boyfriend is my friend, should I tell him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: 13 and can't get into a gym, and I eat school lunch? Help me?
POST: Hey everyone, I'm a 13 year old girl, and I have a little weight problem.
:( I am 147 pounds, and 5'3" inches tall. I want to lose weight so terribly bad! I have major issues though.
1.) I am not eligible for a gym members... | I am a thirteen year old girl of 147 pounds with growing stretch marks and low self esteem who is having trouble losing weight because of age and school lunch. I want to live a good healthy life, but I need a little advice..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Doctor vs Pilot
POST: My father comes from a rich family and is a very accomplished doctor and owns multiple clinics. He pulls in 7 figures annually and is very judgmental about "menial" jobs. Being financially secure and "free to live" is very big to him.
It's always been in my life traject... | My Dad thinks being a pilot is ~~menial~~ mediocre, and wants me to be a doctor like the rest of my family, but I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [28/M] been dating a guy recently [27/M] who recently disclosed to me that he is HIV+. I want to break it off for unrelated reasons. How should I go about this so he doesn't get the wrong message?
POST: I ended a pretty serious relationship about 2 months ago. It wasn't my first... | New guy I'm dating recently told me he is HIV+, I want to break it off because I'm not ready for anything serious, how can I do this without him thinking I'm rejecting him over his status? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Paying Rent at Home
POST: So I'm currently living with my mum and her girlfriend. We live in the UK in a three bedroom council rented property.
When I finished school, I was pestered into getting a job. My mum said I should so that I could go out and do new things before I start havin... | Are my parents making me pay rent because they don't like me, as another member of the household doesn't seem to be paying rent, or am I legally obliged to?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Long term or short term memory
POST: Assume you are 70 years old. You have led a fairly normal life. Assume that if you are married, plan to be married, or really want to be married that this has occurred in your lifetime. If that isn't a big deal for you then you assume you stayed mo... | Your old and have Alzheimer's. Have to pick short term memory to keep or long term memory, which one is it and why?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [20 M] and I [20 F] having been having a long distance relationship for 8 months, but it's starting to get difficult.
POST: Essentially, we're both on our year abroad from university. I am very in love with him and vice versa, but I am terrible at being on my own. I get ... | Long distance relationship means I get angry when he unintentionally ignores me because i'm worse at being on my own, but feel bad for making him always talk to me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My best friends sister
POST: So my best friend has a little sister who's only a year younger than me (I'm 21 she's 20 next week). This summer I've been back from college and she's been hanging out with our group of friends a lot more and we've gotten quite flirty. I was going t... | like my best mates little sister, how do I avoid pissing him off? How do I bring it up to her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm starting my "uberman" sleep schedule as of today. Give me things to do in my spare time.
POST: For those of you who aren't familiar with the sleep schedule, here's a short explanation:
Basically, I'll have one core sleeping session from 0100 to 0400 and then two 30 minute naps from... | I need things to do in my spare time, since I'll be having an additional 4 hours every 24 hour cycle.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] possibly having a'rebound' crush on a [16 F]
POST: So for the last year I've liked this girl (girl A) at college but girl A has always told me she doesn't like me in that way but continued to 'flirt' with me. I struggled for a year on this and it once got so worse I cut my ... | I have no idea what I'm doing but I like a new girl after liking another girl for a year and now scared the same thing will happen again.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [26M] New friends with this girl [21F] who likes me - I only like her as a friend currently, how long should I wait to see if I fall for her?
POST: I'm pretty sure this girl I have met likes me, because she keeps messaging me and complementing me. I don't currently have feelings for ... | Girl likes me, I don't feel the same way, how long should I wait to see how if that changes without leading her on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I (25/F) just a booty call to him (28/M)?
POST: I met this guy on Ok Cupid... our chemistry was phenomenal and it seemed like we had "everything" in common with one another.
About three weeks in to seeing each other regularly, I "freaked out" on him. He blew me off for the ... | Seeing a guy for about a month, can't figure out what we "are" or if I'm just a lay to him. :/<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20F] moved a thousand miles away from everything I know to be with [26M] who I now feel is letting me down. Am I being too harsh?
POST: I [20F] am a very driven motivated person in life and want to go far - my last relationship was a bust and the guy was very controlling/manipulativ... | boyfriend [26M] is thoughtful/loving/free spirited but also lazy/in alot of debt and not working to better himself. Should I [20F] leave or let him work it out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] will see a psychiatrist about this, but I thought I'd try here for advice on commitment.
POST: Commitment as in generally getting intimate/close to people I'm interested in.
I'm lucky enough to grab women's attention enough to be offered numbers and even asked out, but I als... | Commitment and intamacy issues stemming from PTSD, make it impossible for me to get close to the women I want, but not from getting close to women I can't have or aren't interested in.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: When is it okay for me to call him?
POST: I(25F) know this seems soon to be worrying, but username says all. I went out with this very sweet, seemingly very nice guy (28) on Sunday night. We had a great time and I have never really enjoyed dating some one as much as I did that night... | Are you allowed to call after a first date if you think the only reason why they haven't called is because they think you're uninterested?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I badly bruised my arms rocking out at a Tenacious D concert, but neither of my parents believe my explanation. What's your best "No one believed the truth" story?
POST: Long story short, I went to Tenacious D concert a few days ago. I've been dreaming of seeing them live for almost 10 y... | Got some nice bruises rocking my little heart out. Dad thinks I'm covering up being abused, Mom thinks I made a drunken ass of myself on stage at a concert and was man-handled by security.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Thinking of starting investing with Bank of America Merrill Lynch
POST: So I'm not a big financial person, I've actually am horrible with money. However, I'm big into tech and I've made some pretty good calls on the trends of tech companies in the market and thought it might be goo... | Looking for some reading material on how to utilize Bank of America Merrill Lynch since I am a noob when it comes to finances.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: In need of a "charity party game" as a replacement for the office Christmas party gift exchange game
POST: Every year our office does a gift exchange game at the staff Christmas party. Many of you probably know this game either from work (if you work at a small company) or family gatheri... | Does anyone know of any fun party games where a charity is the winner? (to replace a Christmas party gift exchange)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] messed up by talking to her again [16F]
POST: Oh god why would I put myself through this againn. To make a long story short, I met this girl a year ago in highschool and started talking to her. She became such a needy and talkative person to the point of annoyance, but for a ... | Met a 16 year old girl who annoyed me to death, cut off all contact with her for a year. Saw her again and started talking again but she's more annoying than ever.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone else been experiencing problems with their mail?
POST: For the last four months I have not received my own mail in my box in my apartment. With seemingly no rhyme or reason I have been receiving multiple units mail in my mail all at the same time, and so is everyone else. I ch... | Four months every single day the wrong mail is delivered to my apartment, my work and my parents house. But, Why?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16M] finding out that my brother [17M] is gay through friends, he has talked to our parents but not me. What do I do?
POST: A little over a month ago a friend of mine (she is unimportant to the rest of the story) said to me "You're brother asked out Dan today." I didn't really kn... | I've learned everything about my brother being gay and going on dates from friends, but he is yet to tell me even though he has told my parents. Looking for help on how/if I should approach him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Selling RESP in Canada
POST: Hey all. I got a job selling registered education savings plan in Ontario. I want to know if the plan is decent before I try to sell it to people.
Basic Background: RESP Is a plan where you put away money for your kid to go to college, the government c... | my plan has average return of 4.3% on low risk investment but charges 11.9 % upfront sales charge. Banks have no sales charge but u gotta pick account GIC or mutual fund. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [23 M] broke up with me [18 F] because he couldn't deal with distance. Need advice.
POST: Throwaway account due to intense activity on original one. Submitted this new post because the title of the old post was misleading.
Ex-BF went to the same college I am going to t... | 18 year old girl has strong feelings for 23 year old guy. 23 year old guy dumps girl because he can't deal with an LDR. Girl is heartbroken, and is seeking advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by promising my friend concert tickets
POST: This is my first post...like, ever.
A few months back my brother and I managed to get four tickets to a concert that were in his name. The idea was that he was going to take his friend with him, while I was going to take my gf.
Fast forward ... | Told a friend she'd get a ticket to see a band she REALLY loves, now I have to tell her she can't go the day before the concert.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By almost blowing up my house
POST: I guess like most TIFU, this actually happened a long time ago, when I was about 8 or 9. I was outside with my friend, (who we'll call Jeff), while my dad was grilling some hotdogs for us. He had been over at my house for a while, so we had pretty much... | Was throwing rocks at stickfigures, missed and hit a propane tank, that could have blown up my house.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Well this sucks. (Possible disc issue)
POST: I used to work at ups and ran 12 miles a day 6 days a week. I wasn't super fast, but damn I could run for what seemed like forever without problem. Then I moved back out to school couldn't handle running in town so I switched to swimming at the ... | hurt my back badly after getting back into running. Most likely a disc issue. Can't run let alone barely walk now. Fuck.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20/f] have been having issues with my ex [21/m] who won't leave me alone after finding out I'm dating someone else [21/m]
POST: My ex-boyfriend and I had a LDR of 2.5 hours for our whole relationship of 18 months. We have been broken up for a little over 8 months, breaking u... | ex-boyfriend is constantly calling and texting trying to "win me back" and won't take no for an answer, which is putting strain on my new relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need Advice: I believe my job overpaid me- what should I do?
POST: I just started a new job and was going through their training courses when the trainer had to abruptly go on a medical leave. There weren't any other trainers available to train our class. We were 3 days in and had anothe... | Got new job, went 2 weeks without pay for their problem, paycheck came today and was overpaid. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 F] married platonic friend [29 M] got handsy with me while drunk.
POST: I met my friend Don about a year ago at the local chapter of a club we both belong to and discovered we shared a ton of mutual interests. We're currently working on a project together for said club, and a ... | — My married friend of about a year got very drunk, tried to spoon me/scratch my back, but immediately stopped when I told him to and apologized. What's the best way to address this going forward?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22M] girlfriend [21 F] of 10 months keeps telling me she wants me to be with her forever.
POST: I love this girl and she loves me, that's the only reason I'm confused here and would like help.
For the past few weeks, she keeps telling me she wants me to promise her I will take c... | girlfriend wants me to promise I'll be with her forever (commit to her long term), but I don't know what i want in my life and she gets upset and makes me feel bad when I tell her that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs
TITLE: Pain and nausea 5 months after gallbladder removal, all tests come back normal. What to do next?
POST: My partner is a caucasian male, 34, 6'2", 200 lbs.
In March 2015, had gallbladder removed after a few months of vague pain, and 2 days of very concentrated RUQ abdominal pain.
Laparosc... | Doctors don't believe residual post-cholecystectomy pain and nausea is serious, can't find anything wrong with him. What do we do now?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Just found out my wife [24] is pregnant. How can I [29] tell her we should consider an abortion?
POST: We have a 1 1/2 years old daughter and we've been struggling a lot financially since I'm the only one who works while she goes to college.
She is graduating this next may and she h... | We have a daughter, we're not financially stable and my wife thinks being pregnant will impede getting a job for her. How can I approach her to consider an abortion?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Disabled, looking for help on finding a job in a rural area
POST: I'm trying to find a job, and as I mentioned in the title I am disabled (I can still walk, but doing so causes me a great deal of pain. I can only walk for a few minutes at a time). The area I live in is 90% physical labor jobs... | Disabled, want to help my family and find a job, all jobs in my area are not suitable to my knowledge or physical capabilities. Looking for help in maybe finding something I'm missing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 F] fiance [25 M] is going to jail in the morning
POST: I've been dating this guy over a year now and we recently got engaged. Back when we had just met and were just friends, we played truth or dare and he found out I had cancer. I found out that he had a pending legal case he... | My fiance is going to jail, I'm staying with him, but I'm at a total loss how to help him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] blocked ex [16F] on facebook. Was it stupid?
POST: Hey sorry if this is lame/childish.
We have been broken up for 9 months, and I have been with my new girlfriend for 3 1/2 months.
Anyways, my ex lives a few hours away, and talked to me every once in a while after we broke ... | blocked my ex on facebook after she contacted me twice after telling her not to, was it harsh? I probably shouldn't even care... she is my EX and we are only 17...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Kansas- sublet tenants refuse to contact me and refuse to remove belongings
POST: Dad and two daughters lived in my living room and extra bedroom. No documentation, but paid rent until March 2015. Supposed to be out by Monday, March 2. Still not out as of March 5, will not contact me. ... | Tenants not gone on time, no contract, stole from me, still have stuff here, won't contact me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: [21/M] A girl I've been hanging out with lately has a boyfriend and...
POST: Well ok, I've hung out with her just the two of us before. I'm always tempted to make a move with her but I know shes in a relationship. I'm cool with just being friends because she's pretty cool. The other... | Friends with girl, don't care if its platonic or not but I'm still attracted to her. Her boyfriend is threatened by me and I don't want to fuck up their relationship even though I think she could do better.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] am wondering about my [24M] cheating husband and if our marriage is over.
POST: Sorry in advanced, I am new to this whole Reddit thing. So here is the story:
I'll give a little background. My husband and I met over a year ago, over the internet. We clicked and I seemed to f... | Caught husband of few months chatting/sexting with other women throughout all of our relationship. Losing hope for marriage. "Once a cheater, always a cheater", any truth?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Here's why you should never buy mid grade gasoline.
POST: If you put mid grade gas/petrol in your car, pay close attention to the price and octane and do some quick math. [Here's a photo] of the pump near my house. We'll use it as an example.
It lists 87 octane for $1.899
It lists 89 octane ... | Mix your own mid grade gas by getting half a tank each of regular and premium and you'll save money and get higher octane at the same time (**YMMV...literally**)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (28M) girl I was dating (21F) doesn't know whether I should continue to pursue her
POST: Ok.
I have posted in the past. I was fucking irritating to a girl on Sunday (after an amazing Saturday). I was just depressing and constantly questioning whether she liked me. She didn't spea... | Have a second chance in something I thought I had messed up. My chances are lower than before, but it still exists. Should I give it a go or call it quits?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [21/m] could use a little insight in the mind of a woman.
POST: Yesterday I told a girlfriend of mine [22] that I like her very much and would like to see her as more as friends. She seemed surprised but also very flattered. She smiled all over but also told me that she has n... | Told a girl about my feelings, everything went rather neutral. I would like to know what you would do (not from my perspective, but from hers). <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: If I don't get a job in the next month, I can't afford my apartment. Is this something I should tell employers?
POST: Background - I'm a college graduate and perennial underachiever. I graduated about 3.5 years ago but have only worked about 2 years of that.
I'm applying for some jobs that ... | I've had problems in the past (depression, anxiety) and problems today (rent). Should I share these with employers?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my girlfriend [21 F] of six months, she lies unnecessarily about her past, and I can't handle the lies
POST: My girlfriend and I always commend each other on our honesty and open communication.
I am comfortable with her other experiences/past, everything. I love her,... | GF wants complete honesty from me, but I don't get that from her. She wants us to think long term but I can't get over the short term lies.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: School group project causing strain
POST: Some background first. I am married and have a question for reddit. I have been married to my wife for 7 years, we got married pretty young. I am 27, so is she. My wife has terrible self esteem issues and was anorexic when in high s... | Doing skit for group project. I am the husband, some random girl is wife. My wife is borderline hysterical about it and doesn't want me to do it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey AskReddit, some asshole locked his bike to mine last night. How far do I morally have to go before I consider this bike mine?
POST: So even though the other side of the pole was empty, and so was the one 15 feet away, this guy locked his bike to my frame yesterday. I waited 20 minu... | Jerk locked his bike to mine yesterday. I left a note, I left contact info, how long do I morally wait before I bust the lock and sell this idiot's bike?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] feel as if I'm emotionally abusing my boyfriend [21M] of one year and a half by constantly being angry
POST: Before I explain why I think I'm emotionally abusive, I want to say that I've stressed my concerns to him, but he doesn't agree or see a problem.
Most arguments in o... | I cannot stop myself from being angry at my SO even when I know I'm overreacting, is this abusive?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: M/22, Need help after drunken night
POST: Went to visit some friends for St. Patty's Day weekend. Ended up meeting one of their friends from school and thought she was really cute and a very nice girl. We were flirting a lot at the bars and towards the end of the night she wanted t... | Hooked up with a girl while drunk, not sure if she is into me or if it was just a one time hook up, need advice what to do from here.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I maintain a platonic relationship with my guy friend?
POST: We are both in high school, same age, 16, same grade.
I have know him since freshman year and now we are juniors. We have started texting a lot, although I just want to remain friends with him.
It feels like every ... | Great guy friend, my friends want me to get together with, advice on maintaining a platonic relationship and not giving off a dating vibe to other guys.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by leaving my microphone on (GOT S3E9/ASOS SPOILERS)
POST: This was literally 17 min ago.
So I was talking with my friend on Skype, who is on S3E3, and my brother is in the room reading A Storm of Swords and he just got to the Red Wedding. He tells me that he is very sad, and I respond t... | I spoiled on of the biggest moments in ASOIAF to my friend who really enjoys the show and is not there yet.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by calling a woman sir leading to the most awkward private museum experience of my job so far.
POST: So i work at a museum in my home town, we offer private tours and i am one of the guides that takes people around and gives in depth details about the exhibitions.
Today i was working th... | Called a woman Sir at my work, then had to take her on a one on one 1 hour tour, awkwardness ensued.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Met a guy [30]. I'm a girl [22]. We live 3,000 miles apart. Any point?
POST: So, hi. Advice needed.
I'm a woman in her 20s, and recently met a guy in his 30s and it was insane instant attraction. We met by chance, after both seeing eachother just a few days previous. A couple of minu... | 21 yo Girl meets 30 yo guy by chance, spends one night (non romantic) together with an insane connection, but live 3000 miles apart. Any point staying in touch?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18F] went to my sister's [23] workplace and ended up leaving with a job. I am supposed to start/train Saturday but I was offered/took the job on a hectic day and regret my decision. What do I do?
POST: The title says the cut and dry.
I am a nanny during the week Mon-Thurs. My si... | I went to my sister's workplace and ended up leaving with a job. I am supposed to start/train Saturday but I was offered/took the job on a hectic day and regret my decision. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [36/F] with my co-worker [32/F] of over a year, she just won't stop talking!
POST: First off, she's very nice and I do like her, but the non-stop talking is getting out of hand.
We work in a hospital in close proximity together. She talks ALL THE TIME (I timed her once: 38 minut... | Co-worker talks non-stop and is sometimes rude. What would be a nice way to tell her to just shut up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Need advice on my girlfriend/ex-girlfriend.
POST: We have been on and off for two years, She broke up with me (18F) and i understand why (18M with Aspergers). its been about 3 weeks. Two days after she broke up with me she said she wants to try and work things out, i was rather happy whe... | She breaks us up, wants me back. i find out a secret, i am very angry and hurt, i take it out on her, she takes a step back to work things out. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] have been having second thoughts about my Girlfriend [22 F] of two years
POST: I have been dating my girlfriend going on two years, and at a base level, it has been going great. We both share similar interests(music, rock climbing, hiking, camping), have a great sex life, an... | Communication barrier in our relationship, considering breaking up before my two month trip to California. Would breaking up with her before the trip be a good thing or just make me an asshole?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm currently paying an average of $130 to $220 a month for internet... any ideas Reddit?
POST: A small background. I live in in Puerto Rico, where I haven't had to good an experience with ISP's in general. My last ISP was only provided 512K download speed for $24 a month... and the se... | Cap on internet causes me to pay over $100 plus the monthly fee, must find way to regulate internet use that I don't usually partake off.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, did my house just get cased for a burglary?
POST: So it's 6:30 PM (California, and it's pretty dark), and I'm pulling into my driveway as I see someone walking from my front door. I assume it's the mailman or a delivery man or something, but he stops and waits for me to get out o... | ADT Salesman" solicits me for business, doesn't have any material to leave me, and asks questions about residents' availabilities "to talk business." <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: First solid experi[m]ent with chatroulete
POST: Wondered on, firstly tried the adult section. Lots of men, spanking the monkey, in fact after 30 mins, i decided to stop having not seen a girl. Or wanting to talk to throbbing members.
Went to normal mode vid chat. Found it very hard to talk t... | Went on chatroulete, nexted for 1.5 hours, talked to 2 asian girls, got 1 skype number thought bland conversation<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do you think the marriage equality fight is a distraction from real issues?
POST: As a queer person myself, I find the fight for marriage equality to be unwise.
The push for US marriage equality is not a systemic change, it is a systemic absorption of queerness; a mutational force, radi... | The people fighting for the US marriage equality fight are good people; it's just time for them to fight the true fight, a real systemic alteration.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: When you truly have the shittiest of shitty days, where do you go or what do you do to make yourself feel better?
POST: I had a terrible day on Monday. I had clients getting extremely upset with me because of my idiot boss. When I say "getting extremely upset" I mean coming into my fir... | Epic shitty day and to rectify it, I went home, curled up on the couch, medicated, crocheted and eventually fell asleep.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: SO confused?
POST: (First post on here) My SO other (22) and I (20) have been off and on for about five years. I love him all of my heart, he is my best friend, and I know he loves me as well just by his actions (at least I thought I did)
We've been through good times, and bad, like ... | SO of 5 years is confused and not sure if "loves" me and is living with me, not sure what to do about current situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: (Question) Do you pay back financial aid just like with loans?
POST: I've been going to a community college for a little over a year now, starting near the end of last September, while we should've started in August. Through this college experience, I was able to use 1 scholarship for $250... | Do I have to pay back my financial aid just like my loan, or is that more or less "my" money?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 M] condition precludes me from ever having any kind of romantic relationship. How do I better cope with this state of affairs?
POST: It seems as if I've always had terrible luck throughout my childhood and adolescence, but this incident has to be one of the worst occurrences i... | Acquired a permanent, incurable STD through non-sexual transmission. Becoming *extremely* depressed about my eventual prospects.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [21F] been dating a guy [26M] for a couple of months. I want to surprise him on our next date, but I don't know how he feels.
POST: *I posted a similar question earlier today, but got caught up in what the dress was (and so it was removed), this is focused more on the relationsh... | I've been dating a guy for a couple months and want to surprise him. But I have no idea if he's interested in anything beyond a casual dating relationship. Should I do it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is she interested? What should I do now?
POST: I unexpectedly ran into an old flame the other day(3 years since I've last seen her; we weren't in an official relationship but we liked each other and never got around to talking about what we were.); I've been meaning to get in touch w... | Hung out with an old flame and the evening went pretty well. The date ends, tells me to text her. I text her the next day about seeing her again; no reply. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [F/19] is sending me [M/21] extremely mixed messages.
POST: Ok so for starters, I'm pretty much a completely inexperienced guy. Virgin, no relationships, not even hand holding. Which is why I want to make sure I don't fuck this up.
I met a girl a few weeks back at a common event tha... | Girl seems to not want to go on dates but hasn't been clear about whether she's open to it or not.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend is getting jealous of my past, i am his first. Help please.
POST: Me [19] and my boyfriend [19] have been dating for over a year now. I am his first girlfriend. He is my 4th proper boyfriend. I have had much more experience than he has.
The problem is the fact i have ha... | Boyfriend gets insanely jealous of my past relationships and wants to be on even terms experience wise. He doesn't want to cheat on me but its causing alot of trouble.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] am the "other man" with a [30 M] who's married, has kids, and is a closeted bisexual.
POST: I came to know this guy over a year. He hadn't told me he was married until I found out.
He was raised fundamentalist Christian and is a combat veteran. He came clean to me and said... | I'm the "other" for the first time in a relationship that I thought was monogamous (between me and him) until I found out otherwise. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: What will happen here? (CA)
POST: This is in California. A pedestrian ran into my car, She ran across 3 lanes of traffic on an interstate that runs through town and she hit the side of my car.
I stopped my car, put on my hazards and tried to get her to stop. I yelled after her but sh... | Pedestrian ran across an interstate and hit the side of my car, I am found not at fault by the cops, what will this do to my driving record/insurance rate, and is a lawsuit a possibility?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I being childish or am I in the right in acting like this?
POST: I hate my mom.
I don't think it is irrational as I haven't always hated her, even after she did or said horrible things, I always tried to be understanding or assume I was being dramatic.
It has gotten to the point wh... | should I suck it up and be nicer to my mom and endure seeing her because she is my mom, or can I say fuck it and keep her out of my life as much as I want.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever experienced flu-like symptoms after working out real hard?
POST: Help me out here Reddit. I've been working out for about 3 years now (at least, that's how long I've been a member of my gym). But just within this past year, I've noticed that after a hard workout, I start ... | I get flu-like symptoms for two days after working out really hard, health forums think it's just the flu, I don't.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25m] girlfriend [26f] of almost two years just found out that she's pregnant but I'm not ready for this.
POST: My girlfriend of almost two years just found out that she is pregnant with my child. We had a long discussion about it; she really wants to keep and raise the baby. Its ... | My girlfriend is pregnant and she plans to keep the baby. I'm mainly stressed out about her, marriage, and being a good father. I'm losing it right now<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How do you stay positive after being rejected from so many jobs?
POST: I just received an email from a non-profit saying I was not chosen out of the final applicants for the position I interviewed. I am very bummed out because I was very optimistic about this interview out of all my six month... | I just got a rejection letter from a job after going through three interviews. I am bummed out and was wondering what you guys do to feel better?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Travelling to Vietnam/Cambodia this (Southern hemisphere) summer, but have a dilemma
POST: I'll be flying (probably solo) into Bangkok from Melbourne on December 1st, and back out on February 9th, which is exactly ten weeks apart. I plan to leisurely work my way overland across Cambodia, up... | I'm travelling Indochina this southern summer for 10 weeks, and I have the opportunity to fly to Dubai for free for a week in the middle of the trip. I'm unsure whether to take up the opportunity.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my fiance [25F], pretty much dead bedroom unless she initiates.
POST: Hello Reddit,
Little backstory. I have been with my fiancé for 6+ years and engaged for 5 months now. First year to year and half we couldn't keep our hands off each other. But then we started to de... | Feeling like I have a dead bedroom and it is starting to make me not feel attractive. Don't want to sound like I am only in relationship for her body.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20, F] broke up with my bf [21] and now feel horribly guilty
POST: I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I did this because I'd fallen out of love, because there were incompatible differences in our personalities, and because I wanted to explore other romantic po... | I recently broke up with my bf of 2 years. How do I deal with the guilt and sadness I'm feeling right now?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to use Instagram
POST: I recently got a new job, and on my first day I saw a really attractive guy in the office, and today I found him on Instagram using the work directory and by searching through a bunch of work people's followers for literally two hours.
Being the idiot th... | Found new coworker on Instagram, creeped the shit out of him, got caught. Also realized I might be slightly crazy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I was born in Asia but emigrated at a young age to a western country. The cultural differences of the two countries are enough for me to feel like I don't 100% 'belong' in either society.
POST: I am of purely central Asian descent and thus I blatantly look Asian. It is visually blatan... | Asian who grew up in a western society. Blatant that I'm not Caucasian but Asian's don't think I'm Asian so I don't feel 'right' anywhere.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (24F) ex-bf (24M) and I recently broke up due to distance.
POST: My (24F) ex-bf (24M) and I recently broke up due to distance. I lived in NH and he lives in seatlle We had been together a little under a year (always long distance) and I was accepted to a program across the countr... | my LDR ex and I broke up due to distance and now that we will be in the same area he wants nothing to do with me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] was matched with and was messages by a girl [23F] on OkCupid *and* Tinder, but I'm not hearing back after asking her to get coffee. Should I follow up?
POST: So a few months ago, I was talking with this girl on OkCupid and we were a pretty great match. However, I had stuff wi... | Girl messages me on OkCupid, then again on Tinder, I ask her out, she doesn't repond, wondering if I should follow up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (22/f) husband (23/m) is angry at me for talking to my best friend about our sex life over texts.
POST: My best friend and I talk constantly. She lives hours away, so we are always texting. Both of us are open books and not weirded out by anything, so we share everything from poop... | husband is mad I talk to best friend about sex, even though it's in a positive, light hearted way. Am I wrong or is he? Is there a compromise we can come to?<|endoftext|> |
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