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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my girlfriend [18F] of a couple of weeks - she keeps mentioning an ex-FWB. What do I do? POST: I've recently begun a new relationship with a girl I met about a month and a half ago. She's great, she asked me to be her boyfriend, and everything seems to be going very smo...	Girlfriend talks about how much she hates ex-FWB...is there something I should do/say? Does it make sense that it bothers me that she mentions him, even if when she does it's entirely negative?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Fixing Credit History Inquiries that pull up another person under your SSN? POST: Long story short, My family immigrated to the US at the same time, pretty much landing my sisters & i with sequential SSN's. This normally wouldn't matter, however, my oldest sister and i (she's 10 ye...	sister has basically my name, sequential SSNs, my credit inquiries pull up her credit history, she was supposed to deal with it, never did, now I want to fix it for good and don't know where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Happy Independence Day, and Fuck Maine POST: My mom and I are home alone for the Fourth of July. We had plans to meet up with my friend and his family, but she got sick from eating bad watermelon and started vomiting then went to sleep. I just cooked a frozen pizza, the only food left in the ...	My mom is sick and I'm cold, burned, hungry, and alone on a holiday because of watermelon and pizza. I reiterate, Fuck Maine.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: My exgf who left me after a period of me treating her bad when i was depressed messaging me saying she really misses our friendship POST: We broke up 8-9months ago now. I was distraught for a long time, made all the stupid first time deep love mistakes of begging/pleading. The whol...	I love this girl but friends is too hard for me, i don't know what to do and i can't avoid her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M] with my Wife [31 F] of 4 years, had a HUGE fight during a night of drinking. POST: We were out with a group of friends, and friends of friends (FOF) at a bar. Having fun talking, drinking, laughing, taking pictures. My wife snapped a picture of this guy TL;DR:	Wife was potentially flirtatious with a guy and freaked out when I questioned her about it. Really freaked out. Should I be worried? Or was I just out of line?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [MI] Former roommate and I owe our former leasing company over a thousand dollars and she's refusing to pay. (X-posted in relationships because I may be an idiot) POST: Long story short my former roommate, I'll call her Rhea, and I were both subleasers on the original lease. Things got...	Got fucked over by one of my former roommates and the other refuses to help pay the debt we owe and I can't sign another lease because of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) want to ask a girl (22/23F) in my choir out, when is the appropriate time to do that? POST: She's new in the choir and we have had two practice sessions since she started. We have also hung around after for a beer or two (which we always do with the choir) and have talked qui...	New girl in choir and I seem to have mutual attraction towards each other. Have been talking alot and had two practice sessions together. Should I ask her out? If so, when?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Found out that I've been getting ripped off by someone I thought was a friend, what can I do? POST: So here's the story: After 1st year living in residence, I decided to live with a guy, a classmate of his, and the roommate of the classmate. He and his classmate found the house and aske...	– Just found out that a person whom I thought was a friend has been ripping me off for rent for almost 12 months, and I'd like some advice on how to deal with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [21M] broke up with me [20F] and it feels like I'm never going to get over it. POST: About a month ago, the person I was completely in love with broke up with me. He's broken my heart and it's getting to the point when it feels like it's never going to fix. After he did,...	heart broken for the first time, slept with someone else whose calling it quits, feels like I'm never getting out of this little devastation-rut<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Request for Advice: I Fell for an Email Scam, Can I Stop the Junk Mail? POST: Hi Reddit, Thanks for reading my post. I have always been cautious about scams on the internet, and as a result I haven't received much junk mail (I get one junk message a month at the most). Recently I didn't ...	Is there a way to stop a deluge of junk mail that started after I submitted my email to one fraudulent website, so I can nip this in the bud?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 M] wife [26 F] is not sexy POST: My wife is a kind and beautiful person. She is physically attractive, very much so, but she is just not sexy, and it's kind of caused our sex life to take a hit, at least for me. She struggles with self image and is not very confident in herse...	Wife attempts to be sexy and fails, hilarity ensues and ruins moods. How can I help her confidence in the bedroom?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] unemployed ex-boyfriend [23M] owes me $500 and I don't know how to go about getting it back. POST: I broke up with my ex of nearly 3 years about 2 months ago. We had a great, comfortable relationship and were best friends, however I felt my love had turned platonic and I was...	ex boyfriend who recently cut off all contact with me still owes me $500 that I want back eventually, but I know he does not have the money right now. How do I go about reminding him/getting the money back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: 23(M) - What is the ideal way a man (stranger) would approach you/talk to you if he is interested in you? Both online and in person. Location could be helpful too. POST: I'm a 23 year old male who recently has tried (and failed) many times to meet someone who could potentially becom...	Single guy who has either really bad luck or is scaring girls away needs help on how to attract one for a serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Ex [26F] dated for 5 years, remained friends. How to ask out again? POST: Me and my ex split up after dating 5 years from high school. She said she needed time and space. At the time i got drunk and said some silly hurtful things, but a month or so after we started ...	Me [26 M] with my Ex [26F] dated for 5 years, remained friends. how to ask out again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/M] and my fiance [27/F] are on the verge of breaking up. POST: Hey everyone. First time posting here (had to create a throwaway for this). Looking for someone to share an impartial view on this situation with me. I dont live near my family so i dont feel like I have anyone i c...	relationship on the verge of ending. I dont feel like anything i try works and i cant bear the thought of losing her or my kids. Help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [38 F] with my husband [49 M] of 12 years, have become quite indifferent to one another. POST: I think our problems became about 3 years ago, with the birth of our daughter. Being quite clueless about the demands of a small child and not having any family support, we have really ...	My husband and I are both agree that we are largely living separate lives and feel quite indifferent to each other, what should we do next?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Both [27/f] When did you 'get your shit figured out'? POST: Been together for almost a year and a half. Me [27/f] always been pretty mature for my age, was talking to girlfriend [27/f] last night about why she hasn't been so engaging and talkative lately. Into the convo, she sa...	Redditors that have been a relationship and didn't 'have their shit figured out' so to speak, did you stay with the person? Did it work out? If you stayed together, are you happy now that time has passed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: What has worked for you in online dating? POST: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong. I'm not re...	Not sure what I need to do get online dating to "work." Interested in here the details of other people's success stories.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (20) says she's sad all the time because of how happy I (21F) make her and it doesn't seem healthy. POST: My girlfriend of about three weeks now used to make me really happy. It's a long distance relationship, and we skype all the time and it was great. But recently I'v...	My girlfriend's happiness seems to be dependent on me alone, and I don't even know if my feelings are truly romantic. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if I [20F] cheated on my boyfriend [21M]. POST: I'm a 20 year old woman in a relationship with a 21 year old man. We've been dating for 2 years now and have been in a very committed and happy relationship. We go to the same school and have been dating since fall semester of...	Don't know if 2 week encounter makes up cheating. Have had happy relationship since. Should I tell boyfriend details on what happened?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my ex [17 F] 2 months, Broke up because I wanted to focus on my education POST: So me and my ex girlfriend broke up a while ago. We dated for 2 months but i saw a gradual fall in my grades right after we started going out and I know its a shitty reason to call it off b...	Broke up 3 months ago because of my dumbass and now I dont know how to be normal around her. I miss her but I honestly just want to start talking again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by charging my phone...and blowing it up POST: Obligatory: this didn't happen today, but about 5 years ago. Backstory I was 13 years old, and I got my first job. I saved my first month of pay (like $100), and bought this new cell phone that I've been drooling over for months. ...	13 year old bought cell phone, made a charger from extension cord and old charger, cell phone fried along with 13 year old's hopes and dreams<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my crush [24 F], Crush tells me she is into women? POST: Fairly competent man here, just confused. I recently have been having great conversations and chemistry with a girl when she is not working. She tells me to come in when she is working, so I can chat and keep he...	If a woman tells you she has most recently only been into women, but aggressively flirts with you on multiple occasions, should you go for it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20,F] with my boyfriend [22,M] we have been together three years, but currently struggling with a lack of intimacy? POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years and there have been ups and downs. We are currently on a down. He was recently diagnosed with depressio...	boyfriend is on medication which have taken away his sex drive, and I don't know how much longer I can deal without the intimacy and attention?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship POST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's be...	Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/M] with my GF [20/F] of 6 years, we are in a giant sexual rut POST: Me and my GF have been going out for 6 years, living together for a year and a half. Everything about our relationship is amazing. We have the same mentality, the same kind of humour, taste in arts, everything...	My GF have trouble initiating sex, as she too anxious and nervous. We are trying to fix the issue and work for a common ground.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am being blackmailed POST: So I'm a college student and I was bored on a school night so I decided to get on chatroulette to try to do what every guy tries to do on there. In the process of that I stumbled on this "girl". She was pretty and all and she asked show for show. I said to ge...	Chatroulette, met girl, show dick, expecting boobs, instead get blackmailed and the guy will show it to all friends. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: May seem trivial, but should I question my faith in monogamy? POST: First I would like to say that I am a heterosexual female (26F) who is a very monogamous person by nature. While I'm in a relationship, if I see an attractive man I don't tend to have any sexual attraction for him wh...	I'm worried that my boyfriend's "natural" inclination to want to have sex with every hot girl he sees is causing me to question how realistic the expectation of monogamy is in our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] Interested in a girl (19/f) that also seems interested in me. POST: Hi Reddit, I hope that you can give me some advice :) I have met a girl that I have gotten interested in. We have known about each other for about a year now (notice the known about). We went to the sam...	I am interested in a girl, I guess she is interested in me a bit atleast. Horrible at breaking ice with girls, tips on how I can do that? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27M] want to move back home, which is 2.5 hours away. My girlfriend [25F] of 1.25yrs doesn't know and I'm not sure how to tell her. POST: I moved to a city 2.5 hours away a few years ago. I'm from a really small rural town back home. Moving to the city didn't work out as planned, ...	I want to move back home, from the city to a small town 2.5 hours away, and don't know how to tell my girlfriend without making her feel unwanted. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Too soon to have her [25f] picture as the wallpaper on my phone? POST: Bit of a silly question here, but I've been seeing a girl for just over 2 months now and we upgraded to boyfriend/girlfriend last week. Shortly after she sent me a pic of her in a dress. I was going away for a f...	Is it creepy or flattering for your boyfriend of just 2 months to have your picture as his phone's background? What if it was a picture you didn't particularly like, or of you wearing something you don't like to wear?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Looking for someone to help guide me in a potential relationship that I don't want to mess up. [20M] she's [20F]. [Dating] POST: I'm going to keep it short and sweet here. She's a girl I've known a very long time and have always wanted to date, but we never really had the chance to g...	I need advice on how to move forward in a relationship, but I feel like I need specific advice given the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] have a friend [23 M] of a year and a half, he is becoming depressed with his singleness. How can I help him to feel ok? POST: We've been extremely close since we met, and slept together for a while, on and off as we don't live in the same city, and are both expats in a non E...	Friend is having trouble with dating, and it's making him depressed. Advice on getting him out there, or just happier to let what happens happen would be appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] freaked out. Not sure if I'm [21 F] in the wrong? POST: I have been seeing this kid for about two months now. We are not dating but we talk daily, went out on dates, hung out weekly, I met his friends, etc. However, we were texting one day and I told him about a family emerge...	Seeing this guy for a few months. Mentioned a family situation to him that was going on. He got very upset about it saying it wasn't his problem. Didn't speak to me. Who is in the wrong here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] want a break from my GF [21F]. We are in the 7th year of our relationship. POST: This is literally all I can think about. All I have known is this person. I feel like I'm married. We are best of friends, but that feels like all it is. We live together and have for 2 years now...	Confused as to whether going on a break will be beneficial because I still love her.. But I feel like I might love her as a best friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] Christian girlfriend [20 F] can't make up her mind on sex POST: I've been dating a girl for roughly a year and it's the most blissful relationship I've ever been in. She's sweet, affectionate, and caring and I think it's not unrealistic that I see myself spending my life w...	Christian girlfriend is being on/off about losing our virginity to each other. What can I do to help her make up her mind and, if we end up waiting, how can I make the waiting easier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my bf [23M] of 4 years are wondering how to deal with being attracted to others. POST: Hi reddit community, So I've recently started to wonder if it's okay for your partner to feel attracted to other women even if you're in a long term serious relationship. I'm okay...	Want to know if it's okay to talk and hang out with someone you're attracted to (and at one point considered dating) even if you're in a long term serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors who've been in car crashes: How did you get back behind the wheel after the experience? POST: I was involved in a 5-car wreck this morning on my way to work. Luckily my sister (passenger) and I are both unharmed, though two of the other drivers were taken to the hospital. I bel...	Was in a huge wreck, but am afraid to get behind the wheel again. Looking for suggestions from others who've been in crashes.***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: She and I have a great rapport, but I'm not Albanian. POST: I work a late night shift as a manager. I used to have a few people, but I've had to fire everyone and it's down to just me and this one girl, the same age as me (21). We get along well, we're in the same position in ou...	I'm into an Albanian girl and the feeling seems mutual, but her parents don't want her dating a non-Albanian guy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reddit, tell me i'm an idiot. POST: I'm 21F, he's 24M. I found out that, for four months of our relationship, he was cheating on me with another girl-to the point of telling us both at the same time he loved us. He broke it off with her. I stayed, because I'm an idiot. A while late...	I'm having a hard time leaving someone who cheated. Some friends have advised me to stay. I want to hear if you all agree with me that if I stay, he will continue to cheat.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (20/m) don't know what to do with this girl I like. (21F) POST: This girl I really like awhile back told me she didn't want to date, we were just friends and i wasn't trying to let her know i like her, were both college student. but within the past month, she has started to act...	Girl I like seems to like me, and dropping hints that she likes me, but about a month ago told me she wasn't ready to date. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to Burger King after work POST: I descided to treat myself a snack on my way home from work, so I went to the drive-through and got a Sweet Chilli Chicken Wrap meal with a coke. The next thing I do is park in the area and descide to eat my fries since im starving. While im eati...	Soaked myself in coke and sweet-chilli chiken wrap contents during a right-turn while driving - and they had forgotten to put napkins in the meal-bag.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [21F] and I [26M] are on a "break" after about seven months together. Is this just a intro to the real breakup? POST: Mostly everything has been really great so far (we say I love you, very compatible, etc.). I won't sugar coat it. There have been some strains on our ...	Girlfriend and I are officially broken up for a legitimate reason. We are "actually" on a break. Unsure of what she actually wants.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] Have a chance to relocate to Europe with my company and an 85% pay raise (include COL increase) but my fiance [24F] won't be able to come until next December when she graduates from College. POST: My company has been expanding globally this year, and I have a chance to get on b...	Have a chance for 85% pay raise and live in Europe, Fiance can't come until 1 year from now. We'd have to postpone wedding for a 2nd time. What should we do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with FWB(?) [33M] 8 months, can't quite tell if we've become more than FWB, need help figuring it out. POST: Okay, so, I met this guy on OKCupid last September. We chatted for a couple of weeks before deciding to meet. We then slept together on the first meeting. It was grea...	FWB is both affectionate and attentive but I can't tell if it's because he likes me romantically or it's just his personality.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Separation Anxiety in Rescued Dog, Previous Owner was Hoarder POST: My girlfriend and I just rescued a dog that was an Owner Surrender due to dog hoarding (something like 9 dogs in one house) this weekend. He's super sweet, very quiet and loves being around us. However, since he spent 4 years...	Rescue dog spent 4 years in small house with 8 other dogs and now has a hard time being alone. Distraction toys not helpful. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: PLEASE HELP! Bad Verizon employee + Q's on iPhone POST: I just left the Verizon store... Came in with questions about how I would go about getting an iPhone 4s (I'm ready for an upgrade) and got some troubling information. 1) Woman told me I can't get an iPhone because I'm on an old Al...	Lady says cold iPhone screens shatter by touch, I can't even buy iPhone without $200 insurance plan (plus phone cost), and I can't even do it until I switch plans on March 2nd.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by watching the South Park movie POST: This happened years ago when I was in the 5th grade (I'm 26 now). In 5th grade at my school, you have one teacher for the whole day. This teacher teaches all the subjects. Everyone hated this particular teacher because she was this super mean elder...	told my 5th grade teacher to suck donkey balls, suspended for 2 days and placed in advanced class, did better in advanced class, got certificate for doing so well<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my girlfriend [26F] of 6 years, I'm considering changing career paths. POST: Hello everyone! I met my girlfriend about six years ago whilst I was enrolled into police training, yes I'm a cop. Our relationship has been great up until her father passed away about 3 years...	Was shot 6 months ago on the job but my relationship with my gf is rocky, I'm considering changing career fields.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] with my Close-Friend [15 F] Anything possibly to win her back? POST: So, my friend and I have been dating for about four weeks now and we were going strong. We are also somewhat close neighbors and have had some deep talks. We did the usual couple thing, I suppose, and we...	We are breaking up because I'm moving across town but I'll be able to drive soon. Any help? It was a pretty serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21m) have loved nothing but her (20f) for 5 years, but she needs me as a friend. How do I handle this in the best way to make her happy? POST: I originally typed up a very long explanation of the 5 years leading up to this, but I re-read it and realized it was pretty much a rant. ...	I'm in love with a friend who needs me as a friend. Is it better for her if I keep my feelings buried or ruin the friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29F] friend/coworker [30M] is boring but I don't want to make him feel bad for not wanting to hang out all the time. POST: Hi all, I have a coworker ("James") that I've become friends with over the past 10 months or so. He's a nice guy, but the problem is that he is... just a lit...	Boring friend/coworker wants to hang out with our group of friends but is a party pooper, what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Brother's Girlfriend [29M][37F] is pregnant with his child. She is still smoking with no intention of stopping. Do I [30M] owe it to this child to involve myself in this? Is it none of my damn business? POST: So I haven't known Jen (not her real name) for very long, nor has my bro...	Bro's new girlfriend is pregnant. Bro's new girlfriend smokes a pack a day. What should I do? Is it even my business?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17M] with girl I met on tinder [17F] am I moving to fast? Not sure how to proceed POST: So I matched with this girl on tinder, long story short we flirted & she gave me her Snapchat, we've been sexting almost every night and she said she's attracted to me, onto some issues.. We ...	been talking to girl 2 hours away every day for 2 weeks, I want to meet up, feel like she is hesitant, what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my college friend [19F] of one year is becoming EXTREMELY clingy and draining my social life. POST: My freshman year I met my friend "Erin" after we collaborated on a lot of projects together in school. We are both in the same major and there are only about 28 people in...	Want to distance myself from my clingy college friend, but I don't know how to do it without being a jerk.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 M/F] of 1 month, she is far more experienced than me sexually and it scares me, makes me anxious etc etc POST: So we have been dating a month now and sex came fairly fast in our relationship, I think week two? Anyways, I'm not here to state my stance ...	Girlfriend is far more experienced than me sexually and it makes me anxious and intimidated, how do I deal with it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I don't know what to say anymore. I try to tell you how to love me, then you say I'm overthinking. POST: So basically, I've been dating this guy for a few months now, and things have been slow. He has physical problems getting too intimate, and I respect that. He doesn't like t...	Every time I tell my boyfriend a concern or something I'd like to happen to show me he loves me, he acts like it's such a big deal, even though I do the same for him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Which company to choose for wealth management? POST: My dad, not from U.S., wants to send me some money to invest in my name as his piggy bank. We are not talking a huge amount of money for U.S. but something more significant for back home - a couple hundred thousand. I have neve...	need to invest moderate amount; have no experience or aptitude to learning finance; what are my options and how not get screwed over?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by staying up too late POST: This happened yesterday. I went to bed at around 1.30 AM, got my phone and tried to watch some YouTube videos on it to try to get some sleep since I generally have trouble sleeping and because school was about to start again the next day, that didn't help me ...	Heard my parents having sex because they thought I had been asleep. Got saved by the dog. Too late, though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU - by taking my straight friend to the gay club. POST: Let me start by saying this person (We can call him Ed) is absolutely accepting of gay people. Loves me and my boyfriend, is loyal to us, protective when people get rude..well last night..or tonight? Since technically I haven't slept ...	took my straight friend to a gay bar. He was obnoxious, spent half my night apologizing to various people for him being an idiot and an asshole.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my (semi long-distance) girlfriend [25 F] 1year in her city and she doesn't want to see me. Who is being selfish? POST: My gf and I live a couple hours apart. We visit each other most weekends, but this weekend she was out of town on a business trip. I ended up in her ...	gf didn't want me to see her when I was in her town even though we don't get to spend much time together<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by thinking I got rid of a cranefly. POST: Hey Reddit been lurking for a while, but now I have decided to post a fuckup that happened to me my junior year of highschool (I am a freshman in college now). So during one school morning, I wake up bright and early to get ready. I start my u...	thought I got rid of cranefly, did not get rid of cranefly, attacked by cranefly. Mom bangs on bathroom door thinking I had seizure<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] thinking about asking out my friend's sister [19F], not sure best way to approach this situation. POST: Throw away account and all that jazz. So I am thinking about asking my friend's sister on a date. I believe there is a mutual attraction between us. I haven't seen her i...	Not sure how approach asking my friends sister on a date and if its a bad idea since we are in the same casual group of good friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [17/M] and my girlfriend [16/F] have nothing to talk about. POST: My girlfriend, who I have been with for about 9 months now, has a very limited list of occupations. She doesn't play video games, she has limited music taste (she only listens to like 40-50 different songs), s...	me and my girlfriend have all but run out of conversation topics and I need ways to talk to her or things to talk to her about<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Fighting a Speeding Ticket: Do I Mention Radar Detector? POST: Massachusetts State Police: I got ticketed for going 55 in a 35 and my court date is coming up. I've been clean for my whole 8+ year driving career half of which I have had a radar detector that has saved my ass from gett...	My radar detector didn't go off when I got pulled over and the cop said he used radar to clock my speed. Should I say I used one?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Seeing the Grand Canyon... from the UK. Any suggestions welcome. POST: My mother has a lifelong dream of seeing the Grand Canyon. She's in her Seventies now and, if I'm brutally honest, getting a little bit frail. ~~And cantankerous.~~ I'd like to organise a trip wherein we manage to visit...	Is a fly-drive my only serious option for seeing the Grand Canyon as a UK visitor, given the above restrictions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I want to leave my girlfriend but she recently self-inflicted again, what should i do? POST: My girlfriend of a year and a half has a history of cutting and relapsed today. This time she burned herself with a lighter and tried to hide it from me. I asked her about the marks on ...	I want to leave my girlfriend who cuts herself but don't want her to end up killing her self-inflict more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] my boyfriend [26 M] of two months, are already having communication problems. POST: First of all, I have very little experience with relationships. My previous longest relationship was only 6 weeks. So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and I really like him. Thing...	Tried to be open with bf and it seemed to really offend him, and he shut down communication. Did I screw up? or is this just a bad sign of things to come?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife(33f) contradicted my parenting decision when my child(4m) was misbehaving. Is this as serious an issue as it feels to me? POST: (33m) I'm incredibly angry about her casual override of my decision. My 4-year old was not listening or cooperating in the store, and I told her "he...	my wife treats me like a child. We've had discussions & fights about it, she's not changing. Should we seek couple's therapy? Has it helped any couples in similar situations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21f) am seeing my longtime crush (21m) for the first time in months next weekend. Should I make a move? (x-post from /r/relationships) POST: Posted in /r/relationships and was told it belonged here. Here's my story: So basically my crush has been a close friend of mine for years....	I've had a crush on one of my close friends for years, am seeing him this weekend and want to know if I should finally make a move.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Helping mom find ways of falling back to sleep after getting up to nurse 6 month old in the middle of the night. POST: So to expand on the title we have a 6 month old whose been pretty up and down with the night feedings. Started waking once a night to feed, then twice, then once again, ...	How can I help mom fall back to sleep after getting up multiple times to nurse a baby in the middle of the night?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I need help getting a [19/F]'s attention. She is now very popular and busy, but I've[18/m] had strong feelings for her for years. POST: We were very close throughout high school as she came from Russia and I was a new student from outside the country. She is very sweet, is friendly w...	Rekindled old feelings and need to get attention of a girl who's near-impossible to get in contact with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [22 F] deal with shitty friends [22 F]? POST: Hi everybody! At the moment I'm living in my hometown, I do not plan on living here for long, 1 year tops. Here is my problem though, the friends I have here in this town fucking sucks sometimes. I've had great friends before...	Friends suck, I'm left feeling frustrated and agitated but I don't have any other friends at this time. How do I deal with this? Halp.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My boyfriend isn't a person in the eyes of Virginia, how does he get a job? POST: Long story short, his I.D. was taken away by ASAP (he got 2 underage possession of alcohol charges, the first was his fault, the second was not.) His mom lost his birth certificate and his social security c...	BF is homeless, no I.D., no birth certificate, no social security card, no car, no job. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Been out of work for three years and stuck with my CV/resume. POST: Three years ago I was in university and was one year off finishing my Masters in Linguistics. I got sick, ended up in and out of hospital for a year and spent the next year recovering. I've spent the last year looking for job...	Should I put my partial degree on a resume, how do I convince employers I'm fit to work, and what level jobs should I be applying for. Many thanks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 29[m] sarcastically responded to fundamentalist family's outrageously simple-minded Facebook post re abortion, causing conflict with parent 56m], been eating at me since. POST: They're anti-abortion activists and fundamentalist Christians. I'm an atheist, 10+ years now. We generally ...	sarcastically responded to fundamentalist family's outrageously simple-minded Facebook post, causing conflict with parent, been eating at me since.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By crossing the Canadian National Rail Police. POST: I live in a big town in Nova Scotia where there are train tracks running everywhere. There are two sets of tracks right by my house that are notorious for being crossed by trains during the morning and afternoon rush hours, one of ...	Today I Learned that the Canadian National Rail has it's own police force, with the same rights of arrest as the provincial and federal police, and hates your free-roaming guts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/F) need advice. How do you know when you're ready to start dating after a devastating breakup? POST: I hope I make sense. I was in a long term, very serious, 6 year relationship. It ended in November 2013, and I am still having issues. To numb the pain, I put myself on a dati...	For those who had LTRs, when did you know that it was ok to date again? Did you instantly go back out there to numb the pain, or did you wait a while?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By beating my girlfriend in my sleep. POST: This story actually happened about 10 years ago when I was in college still. I had been dating this girl for a year or two and she would regularly spend the night at my place to cut down on her commute. (she lives 30min from campus) Anyways, I...	Dreamed about Ninjas surrounding me and fighting them off. Woke up to girlfriend crying/screaming after punching her repeatedly in my sleep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] w/ disorders needs help friendzoning POST: I have quite a few mental disorders, bulimia, depression, anxiety and others. i self harm and this guy i talk to knows about all of them aside from the bulimia. He has recently developed something that causes him to have depress...	i have issues, so does he. don't want to hurt his feelings but need to make him stop talking to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: what to do about not hearing from this UMA CS REU program! :O POST: Hi reddit, I'm a computer science student and I'm very much interested in computer science research. At the end of this semester I'll be a 1 and a half into my schooling. So here is my issue: I applied to the CS REU ...	Applied to UMA CS REU, did not hear back by listed date on website, email last wednesday got no response, should I call them or not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Advice on What my Landlord Can Prevent Me From Doing With Regards to Smoking in, on, and Around the Property. POST: I don't need legal advice so much as I would simply like to know what my options are in the following situation: I live in Canada. I rent a basement apartment from ...	Can my landlord prevent me from smoking on public property next to my apartment after receiving a complaint about smoking on the rental property (outside). He said I was not allow to smoke in, on, or AROUND the property.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Good luck finding your two week old phone! POST: This petty revenge isn't mine but my Dad's. Today, Dad was told by Boss to wait for someone. Co-worker 1 and 2 decided to be asses and tell Boss that Dad wasn't helping them and Dad proceeds to get reprimanded by Boss. Later on, Dad...	Dad has a co-worker who complains about him to boss, Dad finds co-worker's brand new phone, dad turns off phone and leaves it in bathroom cabinet, co-worker hasn't found phone weeks later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] GF [21F] just told me that she cheated while drunk. I don't know what to do... POST: Just to preface, we've been dating for a year and its been an amazing year. She has always been extremely faithful and open and I know she never would want to do this. She was at a party ...	gf of a year had sex for a split second with another guy while blackout at a party, immediately confessed, now I don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Have any of your kids felt awful after coming home from spending the night in a smoker's house? POST: My daughter (I'll call her L) is 8 and she stayed the night at a friend's house last night. I knew L's friend's parents smoked... but holy shit. As soon as L walked in the door I wanted ...	I think my 8yo daughter is sick from too much exposure to cigarette smoke. What can I do to make her feel better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (27f) was completely blindsided by him (25m) when he broke up with me. POST: We have been together since March 2012. We did have a breakup back in May '13 but decided to try and work it out. I thought everything was going well. We were having a lot of fun together and I thoug...	Boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue. Says he's been unhappy for 6 months and the chemistry is gone. How can I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm positive I just fell into a fishing scheme now I feel like an idiot and need some advice. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. I recently moved out of my old apartment and wanted to sell old furniture so I used craigslist. I was in a rush to get the money so I had cash to fu...	I fell for a scam with money orders and wiring money and will soon owe the bank money and possibly face law problems. I'm lost buy still have one of the money orders on me and am looking for help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My[m23] ex[f23] of 6 months will be at the same new years party. How should I handle this? POST: A little more background. My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago. We were together for 4 1/2 years. It was a wonderful relationship until she went to study in Portugal for a year. After she...	Though I was over ex of 6 months. I was wrong. Very wrong. New years party is coming up. She will be there. Go or not go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother [34m] is upset with me [33m] because I will not help him move to a new home? POST: My brother asked me if I could help him move to a new home. He is 34, works as an engineer for a airplane parts manufacturer and is married to a 29yo accountant. I work in a high stress 60...	Brother is in his 30s, with good job and double income. Unreasonable to ask me to help him move?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [f15] suffer from anxiety and it makes it really hard for me to be myself around my boyfriend [m15] POST: I self-diagnosed myself with anxiety about two years ago, I know they say not to self-diagnose but I get nervous about the tiniest little things and it makes my heart beat real...	I have bad anxiety and it is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend, making me act different around him and get nervous whenever he's around<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21 M] My GF [21 F] just confessed to being in a relationship with an older guy who already had a GF. Need advice on how to proceed. POST: So, names and stuff. My GF's name is Rebecca. I don't know the other guys name or his GF's name and they don't really matter. Little bit about ...	My GF felt guilty over past relationship and may have admitted to cheating, possibly, and being a homewrecker (spelling?).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [m/18] can't stop thinking about a girl [f/16], but when she's around I get crazy nervous. POST: This is kind of an update to my post a few weeks ago. [Link]( Anyways, the girl went on vacation for a few weeks and I recently saw her last Sunday. For most of the day she was o...	Girl is always on my mind but I'm too scared to talk to her and mess up. Plus, I'm really horrible at reading signs from her. I don't know if she's interested.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My computer sounds like a lawnmower, please help! POST: My computer started to sound like this a while back, almost a year ago. So i simply took off all of the chords and pulled my monitor, keyboard, and mouse off my desk and filled the space with my laptop. This worked for a while but i...	the fan in my computer's power supply is off balance or something and sounds like a lawnmower, please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28F] husband [29M] of 3 years used to be abusive, isn't as bad now, but I don't like having sex with him anymore. POST: Background: met overseas, got involved in casual relationship, fell in love got married. Ignored signs of PTSD, alcohol abuse because of the butterflies etc... ...	Military couple, dabbled in open marriage, some abusive tendencies, I don't like sex with him anymore, and I kind of just don't even like him, but love him. What do I even do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Uhaul customer service agent "You can't just reverse the charges once something has been paid for". Where do you go from here when your can't get any help from customer service? Any ideas for me Reddit? POST: My credit card would not swipe correctly at the time of pick up. I asked the...	My card wouldn't swipe on the machine at pickup, my father in law who just had cancer surgery ends up running his. Three different uhaul employees have been asked to put the charge on the right card. Nope.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[22M] gf[20F] pretended like she cheated on me as a joke. POST: So I was hanging out with my gf last night and she said she cheated on me the night she went to the bar with her friends. We got in a fight before she went and the joke she told me was she "just kissed and danced with ...	gf told me she cheated on me, I believed her and she said she was joking. Wtf do I make of this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 23M with my girlfriend 22f of 5.5 years,i think its time to call it quits but I cant seem to do it. POST: the first four years of our relationship were simple, neither of us had many friends so we became very close very quickly. we almost never fought and we always had something g...	girlfriend hates my only true friend and wants me to cut contact, i want to end it with her but cant follow through<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M/24] want to break up with my SO [F/22] but am worried if I do, she won't pay me back the money I lent her. POST: So about a 8 months back, I lent my gf of 3 years some money to help her pay for the rest of her school and other stuff. At the time I was working at a job in another...	Gave girlfriend money we both assumed would be rent for when we lived together, changed my mind, now want to get out of relationship without having to give up money I gave her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] of 9 months, and having some religious differences. POST: I've been dating my GF for quite a few months now, She is supportive, caring, compassionate, and we seem to click on all cylinders when we are together. She caters to my schedule while I'm i...	Girlfriend and I have strict, cemented religious differences/beliefs. Wondering how it might affect our relationship and potential family<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, should I send this guy to jail? POST: Hi Reddit. I live in Oakland, CA. I like it here. But one month ago, I got mugged. They took my bag with phone/wallet/keys/awesome sunglasses. The good thing is, they weren't out to harm me so I'm okay. The other good thing is, my father ...	Broke my window and stole my phone. Should I drop the charges? Also, Android users should install Look Out now. <\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my girlfriend [18F] of a couple of weeks - she keeps mentioning an ex-FWB. What do I do? POST: I've recently begun a new relationship with a girl I met about a month and a half ago. She's great, she asked me to be her boyfriend, and everything seems to be going very smo...	Girlfriend talks about how much she hates ex-FWB...is there something I should do/say? Does it make sense that it bothers me that she mentions him, even if when she does it's entirely negative?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Fixing Credit History Inquiries that pull up another person under your SSN? POST: Long story short, My family immigrated to the US at the same time, pretty much landing my sisters & i with sequential SSN's. This normally wouldn't matter, however, my oldest sister and i (she's 10 ye...	sister has basically my name, sequential SSNs, my credit inquiries pull up her credit history, she was supposed to deal with it, never did, now I want to fix it for good and don't know where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Happy Independence Day, and Fuck Maine POST: My mom and I are home alone for the Fourth of July. We had plans to meet up with my friend and his family, but she got sick from eating bad watermelon and started vomiting then went to sleep. I just cooked a frozen pizza, the only food left in the ...	My mom is sick and I'm cold, burned, hungry, and alone on a holiday because of watermelon and pizza. I reiterate, Fuck Maine.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: My exgf who left me after a period of me treating her bad when i was depressed messaging me saying she really misses our friendship POST: We broke up 8-9months ago now. I was distraught for a long time, made all the stupid first time deep love mistakes of begging/pleading. The whol...	I love this girl but friends is too hard for me, i don't know what to do and i can't avoid her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M] with my Wife [31 F] of 4 years, had a HUGE fight during a night of drinking. POST: We were out with a group of friends, and friends of friends (FOF) at a bar. Having fun talking, drinking, laughing, taking pictures. My wife snapped a picture of this guy TL;DR:	Wife was potentially flirtatious with a guy and freaked out when I questioned her about it. Really freaked out. Should I be worried? Or was I just out of line?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [MI] Former roommate and I owe our former leasing company over a thousand dollars and she's refusing to pay. (X-posted in relationships because I may be an idiot) POST: Long story short my former roommate, I'll call her Rhea, and I were both subleasers on the original lease. Things got...	Got fucked over by one of my former roommates and the other refuses to help pay the debt we owe and I can't sign another lease because of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) want to ask a girl (22/23F) in my choir out, when is the appropriate time to do that? POST: She's new in the choir and we have had two practice sessions since she started. We have also hung around after for a beer or two (which we always do with the choir) and have talked qui...	New girl in choir and I seem to have mutual attraction towards each other. Have been talking alot and had two practice sessions together. Should I ask her out? If so, when?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Found out that I've been getting ripped off by someone I thought was a friend, what can I do? POST: So here's the story: After 1st year living in residence, I decided to live with a guy, a classmate of his, and the roommate of the classmate. He and his classmate found the house and aske...	– Just found out that a person whom I thought was a friend has been ripping me off for rent for almost 12 months, and I'd like some advice on how to deal with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [21M] broke up with me [20F] and it feels like I'm never going to get over it. POST: About a month ago, the person I was completely in love with broke up with me. He's broken my heart and it's getting to the point when it feels like it's never going to fix. After he did,...	heart broken for the first time, slept with someone else whose calling it quits, feels like I'm never getting out of this little devastation-rut<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Request for Advice: I Fell for an Email Scam, Can I Stop the Junk Mail? POST: Hi Reddit, Thanks for reading my post. I have always been cautious about scams on the internet, and as a result I haven't received much junk mail (I get one junk message a month at the most). Recently I didn't ...	Is there a way to stop a deluge of junk mail that started after I submitted my email to one fraudulent website, so I can nip this in the bud?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 M] wife [26 F] is not sexy POST: My wife is a kind and beautiful person. She is physically attractive, very much so, but she is just not sexy, and it's kind of caused our sex life to take a hit, at least for me. She struggles with self image and is not very confident in herse...	Wife attempts to be sexy and fails, hilarity ensues and ruins moods. How can I help her confidence in the bedroom?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] unemployed ex-boyfriend [23M] owes me $500 and I don't know how to go about getting it back. POST: I broke up with my ex of nearly 3 years about 2 months ago. We had a great, comfortable relationship and were best friends, however I felt my love had turned platonic and I was...	ex boyfriend who recently cut off all contact with me still owes me $500 that I want back eventually, but I know he does not have the money right now. How do I go about reminding him/getting the money back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: 23(M) - What is the ideal way a man (stranger) would approach you/talk to you if he is interested in you? Both online and in person. Location could be helpful too. POST: I'm a 23 year old male who recently has tried (and failed) many times to meet someone who could potentially becom...	Single guy who has either really bad luck or is scaring girls away needs help on how to attract one for a serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Ex [26F] dated for 5 years, remained friends. How to ask out again? POST: Me and my ex split up after dating 5 years from high school. She said she needed time and space. At the time i got drunk and said some silly hurtful things, but a month or so after we started ...	Me [26 M] with my Ex [26F] dated for 5 years, remained friends. how to ask out again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/M] and my fiance [27/F] are on the verge of breaking up. POST: Hey everyone. First time posting here (had to create a throwaway for this). Looking for someone to share an impartial view on this situation with me. I dont live near my family so i dont feel like I have anyone i c...	relationship on the verge of ending. I dont feel like anything i try works and i cant bear the thought of losing her or my kids. Help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [38 F] with my husband [49 M] of 12 years, have become quite indifferent to one another. POST: I think our problems became about 3 years ago, with the birth of our daughter. Being quite clueless about the demands of a small child and not having any family support, we have really ...	My husband and I are both agree that we are largely living separate lives and feel quite indifferent to each other, what should we do next?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Both [27/f] When did you 'get your shit figured out'? POST: Been together for almost a year and a half. Me [27/f] always been pretty mature for my age, was talking to girlfriend [27/f] last night about why she hasn't been so engaging and talkative lately. Into the convo, she sa...	Redditors that have been a relationship and didn't 'have their shit figured out' so to speak, did you stay with the person? Did it work out? If you stayed together, are you happy now that time has passed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: What has worked for you in online dating? POST: I've used three different online dating sites in two different countries over a combined period of 10 months. I have had probably a dozen so conversations, and exactly one meeting. Clearly, I must be doing something wrong. I'm not re...	Not sure what I need to do get online dating to "work." Interested in here the details of other people's success stories.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (20) says she's sad all the time because of how happy I (21F) make her and it doesn't seem healthy. POST: My girlfriend of about three weeks now used to make me really happy. It's a long distance relationship, and we skype all the time and it was great. But recently I'v...	My girlfriend's happiness seems to be dependent on me alone, and I don't even know if my feelings are truly romantic. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if I [20F] cheated on my boyfriend [21M]. POST: I'm a 20 year old woman in a relationship with a 21 year old man. We've been dating for 2 years now and have been in a very committed and happy relationship. We go to the same school and have been dating since fall semester of...	Don't know if 2 week encounter makes up cheating. Have had happy relationship since. Should I tell boyfriend details on what happened?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my ex [17 F] 2 months, Broke up because I wanted to focus on my education POST: So me and my ex girlfriend broke up a while ago. We dated for 2 months but i saw a gradual fall in my grades right after we started going out and I know its a shitty reason to call it off b...	Broke up 3 months ago because of my dumbass and now I dont know how to be normal around her. I miss her but I honestly just want to start talking again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by charging my phone...and blowing it up POST: Obligatory: this didn't happen today, but about 5 years ago. Backstory I was 13 years old, and I got my first job. I saved my first month of pay (like $100), and bought this new cell phone that I've been drooling over for months. ...	13 year old bought cell phone, made a charger from extension cord and old charger, cell phone fried along with 13 year old's hopes and dreams<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my crush [24 F], Crush tells me she is into women? POST: Fairly competent man here, just confused. I recently have been having great conversations and chemistry with a girl when she is not working. She tells me to come in when she is working, so I can chat and keep he...	If a woman tells you she has most recently only been into women, but aggressively flirts with you on multiple occasions, should you go for it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20,F] with my boyfriend [22,M] we have been together three years, but currently struggling with a lack of intimacy? POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years and there have been ups and downs. We are currently on a down. He was recently diagnosed with depressio...	boyfriend is on medication which have taken away his sex drive, and I don't know how much longer I can deal without the intimacy and attention?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 M] girlfriend [26 F] wants to try long distance relationship POST: I met my girlfriend in the summer of last year. We had an amazing year together, fell in love, and learned a lot about each other. I care about her more than I've experienced in any other relationship. She's be...	Met an amazing girl, she moved for work, wants to do long-distance, but I don't feel comfortable with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/M] with my GF [20/F] of 6 years, we are in a giant sexual rut POST: Me and my GF have been going out for 6 years, living together for a year and a half. Everything about our relationship is amazing. We have the same mentality, the same kind of humour, taste in arts, everything...	My GF have trouble initiating sex, as she too anxious and nervous. We are trying to fix the issue and work for a common ground.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am being blackmailed POST: So I'm a college student and I was bored on a school night so I decided to get on chatroulette to try to do what every guy tries to do on there. In the process of that I stumbled on this "girl". She was pretty and all and she asked show for show. I said to ge...	Chatroulette, met girl, show dick, expecting boobs, instead get blackmailed and the guy will show it to all friends. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: May seem trivial, but should I question my faith in monogamy? POST: First I would like to say that I am a heterosexual female (26F) who is a very monogamous person by nature. While I'm in a relationship, if I see an attractive man I don't tend to have any sexual attraction for him wh...	I'm worried that my boyfriend's "natural" inclination to want to have sex with every hot girl he sees is causing me to question how realistic the expectation of monogamy is in our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] Interested in a girl (19/f) that also seems interested in me. POST: Hi Reddit, I hope that you can give me some advice :) I have met a girl that I have gotten interested in. We have known about each other for about a year now (notice the known about). We went to the sam...	I am interested in a girl, I guess she is interested in me a bit atleast. Horrible at breaking ice with girls, tips on how I can do that? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27M] want to move back home, which is 2.5 hours away. My girlfriend [25F] of 1.25yrs doesn't know and I'm not sure how to tell her. POST: I moved to a city 2.5 hours away a few years ago. I'm from a really small rural town back home. Moving to the city didn't work out as planned, ...	I want to move back home, from the city to a small town 2.5 hours away, and don't know how to tell my girlfriend without making her feel unwanted. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Too soon to have her [25f] picture as the wallpaper on my phone? POST: Bit of a silly question here, but I've been seeing a girl for just over 2 months now and we upgraded to boyfriend/girlfriend last week. Shortly after she sent me a pic of her in a dress. I was going away for a f...	Is it creepy or flattering for your boyfriend of just 2 months to have your picture as his phone's background? What if it was a picture you didn't particularly like, or of you wearing something you don't like to wear?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Looking for someone to help guide me in a potential relationship that I don't want to mess up. [20M] she's [20F]. [Dating] POST: I'm going to keep it short and sweet here. She's a girl I've known a very long time and have always wanted to date, but we never really had the chance to g...	I need advice on how to move forward in a relationship, but I feel like I need specific advice given the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] have a friend [23 M] of a year and a half, he is becoming depressed with his singleness. How can I help him to feel ok? POST: We've been extremely close since we met, and slept together for a while, on and off as we don't live in the same city, and are both expats in a non E...	Friend is having trouble with dating, and it's making him depressed. Advice on getting him out there, or just happier to let what happens happen would be appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] freaked out. Not sure if I'm [21 F] in the wrong? POST: I have been seeing this kid for about two months now. We are not dating but we talk daily, went out on dates, hung out weekly, I met his friends, etc. However, we were texting one day and I told him about a family emerge...	Seeing this guy for a few months. Mentioned a family situation to him that was going on. He got very upset about it saying it wasn't his problem. Didn't speak to me. Who is in the wrong here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] want a break from my GF [21F]. We are in the 7th year of our relationship. POST: This is literally all I can think about. All I have known is this person. I feel like I'm married. We are best of friends, but that feels like all it is. We live together and have for 2 years now...	Confused as to whether going on a break will be beneficial because I still love her.. But I feel like I might love her as a best friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] Christian girlfriend [20 F] can't make up her mind on sex POST: I've been dating a girl for roughly a year and it's the most blissful relationship I've ever been in. She's sweet, affectionate, and caring and I think it's not unrealistic that I see myself spending my life w...	Christian girlfriend is being on/off about losing our virginity to each other. What can I do to help her make up her mind and, if we end up waiting, how can I make the waiting easier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my bf [23M] of 4 years are wondering how to deal with being attracted to others. POST: Hi reddit community, So I've recently started to wonder if it's okay for your partner to feel attracted to other women even if you're in a long term serious relationship. I'm okay...	Want to know if it's okay to talk and hang out with someone you're attracted to (and at one point considered dating) even if you're in a long term serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors who've been in car crashes: How did you get back behind the wheel after the experience? POST: I was involved in a 5-car wreck this morning on my way to work. Luckily my sister (passenger) and I are both unharmed, though two of the other drivers were taken to the hospital. I bel...	Was in a huge wreck, but am afraid to get behind the wheel again. Looking for suggestions from others who've been in crashes.***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: She and I have a great rapport, but I'm not Albanian. POST: I work a late night shift as a manager. I used to have a few people, but I've had to fire everyone and it's down to just me and this one girl, the same age as me (21). We get along well, we're in the same position in ou...	I'm into an Albanian girl and the feeling seems mutual, but her parents don't want her dating a non-Albanian guy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reddit, tell me i'm an idiot. POST: I'm 21F, he's 24M. I found out that, for four months of our relationship, he was cheating on me with another girl-to the point of telling us both at the same time he loved us. He broke it off with her. I stayed, because I'm an idiot. A while late...	I'm having a hard time leaving someone who cheated. Some friends have advised me to stay. I want to hear if you all agree with me that if I stay, he will continue to cheat.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (20/m) don't know what to do with this girl I like. (21F) POST: This girl I really like awhile back told me she didn't want to date, we were just friends and i wasn't trying to let her know i like her, were both college student. but within the past month, she has started to act...	Girl I like seems to like me, and dropping hints that she likes me, but about a month ago told me she wasn't ready to date. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to Burger King after work POST: I descided to treat myself a snack on my way home from work, so I went to the drive-through and got a Sweet Chilli Chicken Wrap meal with a coke. The next thing I do is park in the area and descide to eat my fries since im starving. While im eati...	Soaked myself in coke and sweet-chilli chiken wrap contents during a right-turn while driving - and they had forgotten to put napkins in the meal-bag.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [21F] and I [26M] are on a "break" after about seven months together. Is this just a intro to the real breakup? POST: Mostly everything has been really great so far (we say I love you, very compatible, etc.). I won't sugar coat it. There have been some strains on our ...	Girlfriend and I are officially broken up for a legitimate reason. We are "actually" on a break. Unsure of what she actually wants.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] Have a chance to relocate to Europe with my company and an 85% pay raise (include COL increase) but my fiance [24F] won't be able to come until next December when she graduates from College. POST: My company has been expanding globally this year, and I have a chance to get on b...	Have a chance for 85% pay raise and live in Europe, Fiance can't come until 1 year from now. We'd have to postpone wedding for a 2nd time. What should we do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with FWB(?) [33M] 8 months, can't quite tell if we've become more than FWB, need help figuring it out. POST: Okay, so, I met this guy on OKCupid last September. We chatted for a couple of weeks before deciding to meet. We then slept together on the first meeting. It was grea...	FWB is both affectionate and attentive but I can't tell if it's because he likes me romantically or it's just his personality.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Separation Anxiety in Rescued Dog, Previous Owner was Hoarder POST: My girlfriend and I just rescued a dog that was an Owner Surrender due to dog hoarding (something like 9 dogs in one house) this weekend. He's super sweet, very quiet and loves being around us. However, since he spent 4 years...	Rescue dog spent 4 years in small house with 8 other dogs and now has a hard time being alone. Distraction toys not helpful. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: PLEASE HELP! Bad Verizon employee + Q's on iPhone POST: I just left the Verizon store... Came in with questions about how I would go about getting an iPhone 4s (I'm ready for an upgrade) and got some troubling information. 1) Woman told me I can't get an iPhone because I'm on an old Al...	Lady says cold iPhone screens shatter by touch, I can't even buy iPhone without $200 insurance plan (plus phone cost), and I can't even do it until I switch plans on March 2nd.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by watching the South Park movie POST: This happened years ago when I was in the 5th grade (I'm 26 now). In 5th grade at my school, you have one teacher for the whole day. This teacher teaches all the subjects. Everyone hated this particular teacher because she was this super mean elder...	told my 5th grade teacher to suck donkey balls, suspended for 2 days and placed in advanced class, did better in advanced class, got certificate for doing so well<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28M] with my girlfriend [26F] of 6 years, I'm considering changing career paths. POST: Hello everyone! I met my girlfriend about six years ago whilst I was enrolled into police training, yes I'm a cop. Our relationship has been great up until her father passed away about 3 years...	Was shot 6 months ago on the job but my relationship with my gf is rocky, I'm considering changing career fields.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] with my Close-Friend [15 F] Anything possibly to win her back? POST: So, my friend and I have been dating for about four weeks now and we were going strong. We are also somewhat close neighbors and have had some deep talks. We did the usual couple thing, I suppose, and we...	We are breaking up because I'm moving across town but I'll be able to drive soon. Any help? It was a pretty serious relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21m) have loved nothing but her (20f) for 5 years, but she needs me as a friend. How do I handle this in the best way to make her happy? POST: I originally typed up a very long explanation of the 5 years leading up to this, but I re-read it and realized it was pretty much a rant. ...	I'm in love with a friend who needs me as a friend. Is it better for her if I keep my feelings buried or ruin the friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29F] friend/coworker [30M] is boring but I don't want to make him feel bad for not wanting to hang out all the time. POST: Hi all, I have a coworker ("James") that I've become friends with over the past 10 months or so. He's a nice guy, but the problem is that he is... just a lit...	Boring friend/coworker wants to hang out with our group of friends but is a party pooper, what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Brother's Girlfriend [29M][37F] is pregnant with his child. She is still smoking with no intention of stopping. Do I [30M] owe it to this child to involve myself in this? Is it none of my damn business? POST: So I haven't known Jen (not her real name) for very long, nor has my bro...	Bro's new girlfriend is pregnant. Bro's new girlfriend smokes a pack a day. What should I do? Is it even my business?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17M] with girl I met on tinder [17F] am I moving to fast? Not sure how to proceed POST: So I matched with this girl on tinder, long story short we flirted & she gave me her Snapchat, we've been sexting almost every night and she said she's attracted to me, onto some issues.. We ...	been talking to girl 2 hours away every day for 2 weeks, I want to meet up, feel like she is hesitant, what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my college friend [19F] of one year is becoming EXTREMELY clingy and draining my social life. POST: My freshman year I met my friend "Erin" after we collaborated on a lot of projects together in school. We are both in the same major and there are only about 28 people in...	Want to distance myself from my clingy college friend, but I don't know how to do it without being a jerk.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 M/F] of 1 month, she is far more experienced than me sexually and it scares me, makes me anxious etc etc POST: So we have been dating a month now and sex came fairly fast in our relationship, I think week two? Anyways, I'm not here to state my stance ...	Girlfriend is far more experienced than me sexually and it makes me anxious and intimidated, how do I deal with it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I don't know what to say anymore. I try to tell you how to love me, then you say I'm overthinking. POST: So basically, I've been dating this guy for a few months now, and things have been slow. He has physical problems getting too intimate, and I respect that. He doesn't like t...	Every time I tell my boyfriend a concern or something I'd like to happen to show me he loves me, he acts like it's such a big deal, even though I do the same for him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Which company to choose for wealth management? POST: My dad, not from U.S., wants to send me some money to invest in my name as his piggy bank. We are not talking a huge amount of money for U.S. but something more significant for back home - a couple hundred thousand. I have neve...	need to invest moderate amount; have no experience or aptitude to learning finance; what are my options and how not get screwed over?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by staying up too late POST: This happened yesterday. I went to bed at around 1.30 AM, got my phone and tried to watch some YouTube videos on it to try to get some sleep since I generally have trouble sleeping and because school was about to start again the next day, that didn't help me ...	Heard my parents having sex because they thought I had been asleep. Got saved by the dog. Too late, though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU - by taking my straight friend to the gay club. POST: Let me start by saying this person (We can call him Ed) is absolutely accepting of gay people. Loves me and my boyfriend, is loyal to us, protective when people get rude..well last night..or tonight? Since technically I haven't slept ...	took my straight friend to a gay bar. He was obnoxious, spent half my night apologizing to various people for him being an idiot and an asshole.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my (semi long-distance) girlfriend [25 F] 1year in her city and she doesn't want to see me. Who is being selfish? POST: My gf and I live a couple hours apart. We visit each other most weekends, but this weekend she was out of town on a business trip. I ended up in her ...	gf didn't want me to see her when I was in her town even though we don't get to spend much time together<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by thinking I got rid of a cranefly. POST: Hey Reddit been lurking for a while, but now I have decided to post a fuckup that happened to me my junior year of highschool (I am a freshman in college now). So during one school morning, I wake up bright and early to get ready. I start my u...	thought I got rid of cranefly, did not get rid of cranefly, attacked by cranefly. Mom bangs on bathroom door thinking I had seizure<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] thinking about asking out my friend's sister [19F], not sure best way to approach this situation. POST: Throw away account and all that jazz. So I am thinking about asking my friend's sister on a date. I believe there is a mutual attraction between us. I haven't seen her i...	Not sure how approach asking my friends sister on a date and if its a bad idea since we are in the same casual group of good friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [17/M] and my girlfriend [16/F] have nothing to talk about. POST: My girlfriend, who I have been with for about 9 months now, has a very limited list of occupations. She doesn't play video games, she has limited music taste (she only listens to like 40-50 different songs), s...	me and my girlfriend have all but run out of conversation topics and I need ways to talk to her or things to talk to her about<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Fighting a Speeding Ticket: Do I Mention Radar Detector? POST: Massachusetts State Police: I got ticketed for going 55 in a 35 and my court date is coming up. I've been clean for my whole 8+ year driving career half of which I have had a radar detector that has saved my ass from gett...	My radar detector didn't go off when I got pulled over and the cop said he used radar to clock my speed. Should I say I used one?*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Seeing the Grand Canyon... from the UK. Any suggestions welcome. POST: My mother has a lifelong dream of seeing the Grand Canyon. She's in her Seventies now and, if I'm brutally honest, getting a little bit frail. ~~And cantankerous.~~ I'd like to organise a trip wherein we manage to visit...	Is a fly-drive my only serious option for seeing the Grand Canyon as a UK visitor, given the above restrictions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I want to leave my girlfriend but she recently self-inflicted again, what should i do? POST: My girlfriend of a year and a half has a history of cutting and relapsed today. This time she burned herself with a lighter and tried to hide it from me. I asked her about the marks on ...	I want to leave my girlfriend who cuts herself but don't want her to end up killing her self-inflict more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] my boyfriend [26 M] of two months, are already having communication problems. POST: First of all, I have very little experience with relationships. My previous longest relationship was only 6 weeks. So I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and I really like him. Thing...	Tried to be open with bf and it seemed to really offend him, and he shut down communication. Did I screw up? or is this just a bad sign of things to come?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife(33f) contradicted my parenting decision when my child(4m) was misbehaving. Is this as serious an issue as it feels to me? POST: (33m) I'm incredibly angry about her casual override of my decision. My 4-year old was not listening or cooperating in the store, and I told her "he...	my wife treats me like a child. We've had discussions & fights about it, she's not changing. Should we seek couple's therapy? Has it helped any couples in similar situations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (21f) am seeing my longtime crush (21m) for the first time in months next weekend. Should I make a move? (x-post from /r/relationships) POST: Posted in /r/relationships and was told it belonged here. Here's my story: So basically my crush has been a close friend of mine for years....	I've had a crush on one of my close friends for years, am seeing him this weekend and want to know if I should finally make a move.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Helping mom find ways of falling back to sleep after getting up to nurse 6 month old in the middle of the night. POST: So to expand on the title we have a 6 month old whose been pretty up and down with the night feedings. Started waking once a night to feed, then twice, then once again, ...	How can I help mom fall back to sleep after getting up multiple times to nurse a baby in the middle of the night?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I need help getting a [19/F]'s attention. She is now very popular and busy, but I've[18/m] had strong feelings for her for years. POST: We were very close throughout high school as she came from Russia and I was a new student from outside the country. She is very sweet, is friendly w...	Rekindled old feelings and need to get attention of a girl who's near-impossible to get in contact with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [22 F] deal with shitty friends [22 F]? POST: Hi everybody! At the moment I'm living in my hometown, I do not plan on living here for long, 1 year tops. Here is my problem though, the friends I have here in this town fucking sucks sometimes. I've had great friends before...	Friends suck, I'm left feeling frustrated and agitated but I don't have any other friends at this time. How do I deal with this? Halp.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My boyfriend isn't a person in the eyes of Virginia, how does he get a job? POST: Long story short, his I.D. was taken away by ASAP (he got 2 underage possession of alcohol charges, the first was his fault, the second was not.) His mom lost his birth certificate and his social security c...	BF is homeless, no I.D., no birth certificate, no social security card, no car, no job. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Been out of work for three years and stuck with my CV/resume. POST: Three years ago I was in university and was one year off finishing my Masters in Linguistics. I got sick, ended up in and out of hospital for a year and spent the next year recovering. I've spent the last year looking for job...	Should I put my partial degree on a resume, how do I convince employers I'm fit to work, and what level jobs should I be applying for. Many thanks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 29[m] sarcastically responded to fundamentalist family's outrageously simple-minded Facebook post re abortion, causing conflict with parent 56m], been eating at me since. POST: They're anti-abortion activists and fundamentalist Christians. I'm an atheist, 10+ years now. We generally ...	sarcastically responded to fundamentalist family's outrageously simple-minded Facebook post, causing conflict with parent, been eating at me since.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By crossing the Canadian National Rail Police. POST: I live in a big town in Nova Scotia where there are train tracks running everywhere. There are two sets of tracks right by my house that are notorious for being crossed by trains during the morning and afternoon rush hours, one of ...	Today I Learned that the Canadian National Rail has it's own police force, with the same rights of arrest as the provincial and federal police, and hates your free-roaming guts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/F) need advice. How do you know when you're ready to start dating after a devastating breakup? POST: I hope I make sense. I was in a long term, very serious, 6 year relationship. It ended in November 2013, and I am still having issues. To numb the pain, I put myself on a dati...	For those who had LTRs, when did you know that it was ok to date again? Did you instantly go back out there to numb the pain, or did you wait a while?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By beating my girlfriend in my sleep. POST: This story actually happened about 10 years ago when I was in college still. I had been dating this girl for a year or two and she would regularly spend the night at my place to cut down on her commute. (she lives 30min from campus) Anyways, I...	Dreamed about Ninjas surrounding me and fighting them off. Woke up to girlfriend crying/screaming after punching her repeatedly in my sleep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] w/ disorders needs help friendzoning POST: I have quite a few mental disorders, bulimia, depression, anxiety and others. i self harm and this guy i talk to knows about all of them aside from the bulimia. He has recently developed something that causes him to have depress...	i have issues, so does he. don't want to hurt his feelings but need to make him stop talking to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: what to do about not hearing from this UMA CS REU program! :O POST: Hi reddit, I'm a computer science student and I'm very much interested in computer science research. At the end of this semester I'll be a 1 and a half into my schooling. So here is my issue: I applied to the CS REU ...	Applied to UMA CS REU, did not hear back by listed date on website, email last wednesday got no response, should I call them or not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Advice on What my Landlord Can Prevent Me From Doing With Regards to Smoking in, on, and Around the Property. POST: I don't need legal advice so much as I would simply like to know what my options are in the following situation: I live in Canada. I rent a basement apartment from ...	Can my landlord prevent me from smoking on public property next to my apartment after receiving a complaint about smoking on the rental property (outside). He said I was not allow to smoke in, on, or AROUND the property.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Good luck finding your two week old phone! POST: This petty revenge isn't mine but my Dad's. Today, Dad was told by Boss to wait for someone. Co-worker 1 and 2 decided to be asses and tell Boss that Dad wasn't helping them and Dad proceeds to get reprimanded by Boss. Later on, Dad...	Dad has a co-worker who complains about him to boss, Dad finds co-worker's brand new phone, dad turns off phone and leaves it in bathroom cabinet, co-worker hasn't found phone weeks later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] GF [21F] just told me that she cheated while drunk. I don't know what to do... POST: Just to preface, we've been dating for a year and its been an amazing year. She has always been extremely faithful and open and I know she never would want to do this. She was at a party ...	gf of a year had sex for a split second with another guy while blackout at a party, immediately confessed, now I don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Have any of your kids felt awful after coming home from spending the night in a smoker's house? POST: My daughter (I'll call her L) is 8 and she stayed the night at a friend's house last night. I knew L's friend's parents smoked... but holy shit. As soon as L walked in the door I wanted ...	I think my 8yo daughter is sick from too much exposure to cigarette smoke. What can I do to make her feel better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (27f) was completely blindsided by him (25m) when he broke up with me. POST: We have been together since March 2012. We did have a breakup back in May '13 but decided to try and work it out. I thought everything was going well. We were having a lot of fun together and I thoug...	Boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue. Says he's been unhappy for 6 months and the chemistry is gone. How can I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm positive I just fell into a fishing scheme now I feel like an idiot and need some advice. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. I recently moved out of my old apartment and wanted to sell old furniture so I used craigslist. I was in a rush to get the money so I had cash to fu...	I fell for a scam with money orders and wiring money and will soon owe the bank money and possibly face law problems. I'm lost buy still have one of the money orders on me and am looking for help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My[m23] ex[f23] of 6 months will be at the same new years party. How should I handle this? POST: A little more background. My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago. We were together for 4 1/2 years. It was a wonderful relationship until she went to study in Portugal for a year. After she...	Though I was over ex of 6 months. I was wrong. Very wrong. New years party is coming up. She will be there. Go or not go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother [34m] is upset with me [33m] because I will not help him move to a new home? POST: My brother asked me if I could help him move to a new home. He is 34, works as an engineer for a airplane parts manufacturer and is married to a 29yo accountant. I work in a high stress 60...	Brother is in his 30s, with good job and double income. Unreasonable to ask me to help him move?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [f15] suffer from anxiety and it makes it really hard for me to be myself around my boyfriend [m15] POST: I self-diagnosed myself with anxiety about two years ago, I know they say not to self-diagnose but I get nervous about the tiniest little things and it makes my heart beat real...	I have bad anxiety and it is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend, making me act different around him and get nervous whenever he's around<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21 M] My GF [21 F] just confessed to being in a relationship with an older guy who already had a GF. Need advice on how to proceed. POST: So, names and stuff. My GF's name is Rebecca. I don't know the other guys name or his GF's name and they don't really matter. Little bit about ...	My GF felt guilty over past relationship and may have admitted to cheating, possibly, and being a homewrecker (spelling?).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [m/18] can't stop thinking about a girl [f/16], but when she's around I get crazy nervous. POST: This is kind of an update to my post a few weeks ago. [Link]( Anyways, the girl went on vacation for a few weeks and I recently saw her last Sunday. For most of the day she was o...	Girl is always on my mind but I'm too scared to talk to her and mess up. Plus, I'm really horrible at reading signs from her. I don't know if she's interested.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My computer sounds like a lawnmower, please help! POST: My computer started to sound like this a while back, almost a year ago. So i simply took off all of the chords and pulled my monitor, keyboard, and mouse off my desk and filled the space with my laptop. This worked for a while but i...	the fan in my computer's power supply is off balance or something and sounds like a lawnmower, please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28F] husband [29M] of 3 years used to be abusive, isn't as bad now, but I don't like having sex with him anymore. POST: Background: met overseas, got involved in casual relationship, fell in love got married. Ignored signs of PTSD, alcohol abuse because of the butterflies etc... ...	Military couple, dabbled in open marriage, some abusive tendencies, I don't like sex with him anymore, and I kind of just don't even like him, but love him. What do I even do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Uhaul customer service agent "You can't just reverse the charges once something has been paid for". Where do you go from here when your can't get any help from customer service? Any ideas for me Reddit? POST: My credit card would not swipe correctly at the time of pick up. I asked the...	My card wouldn't swipe on the machine at pickup, my father in law who just had cancer surgery ends up running his. Three different uhaul employees have been asked to put the charge on the right card. Nope.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[22M] gf[20F] pretended like she cheated on me as a joke. POST: So I was hanging out with my gf last night and she said she cheated on me the night she went to the bar with her friends. We got in a fight before she went and the joke she told me was she "just kissed and danced with ...	gf told me she cheated on me, I believed her and she said she was joking. Wtf do I make of this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 23M with my girlfriend 22f of 5.5 years,i think its time to call it quits but I cant seem to do it. POST: the first four years of our relationship were simple, neither of us had many friends so we became very close very quickly. we almost never fought and we always had something g...	girlfriend hates my only true friend and wants me to cut contact, i want to end it with her but cant follow through<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M/24] want to break up with my SO [F/22] but am worried if I do, she won't pay me back the money I lent her. POST: So about a 8 months back, I lent my gf of 3 years some money to help her pay for the rest of her school and other stuff. At the time I was working at a job in another...	Gave girlfriend money we both assumed would be rent for when we lived together, changed my mind, now want to get out of relationship without having to give up money I gave her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] of 9 months, and having some religious differences. POST: I've been dating my GF for quite a few months now, She is supportive, caring, compassionate, and we seem to click on all cylinders when we are together. She caters to my schedule while I'm i...	Girlfriend and I have strict, cemented religious differences/beliefs. Wondering how it might affect our relationship and potential family<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, should I send this guy to jail? POST: Hi Reddit. I live in Oakland, CA. I like it here. But one month ago, I got mugged. They took my bag with phone/wallet/keys/awesome sunglasses. The good thing is, they weren't out to harm me so I'm okay. The other good thing is, my father ...	Broke my window and stole my phone. Should I drop the charges? Also, Android users should install Look Out now. <\|endoftext\|>