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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Question: do we all really have a 'natural set point' weight?
POST: I come from a family of skinny people. As teenager, i started to gain weight, and I spent most of my teenage years in with my weight between 133 -137 pounds (I'm 5'3"). I always wanted to get down into the 120s, and for ten... | Do we really have a 'natural set weight' that we struggle to get below (or above)? Is it possible to overcome?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [20 F] 11 months, is "I am not sure where this relationship is going" legitimate? Also, how do you possibly breakup with someone who likes you very much?
POST: Hey /r/ relationships, first off thank you to anyone who reads this and gives advice. I much appreciate... | Not sure of where my relationship is going, unsure of how to breakup with somebody who likes me very much. This is stressful.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What phrases/clichés etc. really make you want to hit the person who uses them?
POST: I'm sure other redditors have better ones but this really got me:
The other day I took my car into a local garage because the engine kept cutting out. I described the problem over the phone and the mec... | people who you've paid saying if I had a x-amount of money for every time <insert service you've just paid for>.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: how do I [23M] deal with my Girlfriend[20F] of 6 months, when she is getting flirted with and is oblivious to it?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been together a while now, and she moved in after 2 months. We get along amazingly, and definitely have a spark. She is the sort of girl... | Feel like my girlfriend is out of my league, she gets hit on a lot, not sure if I'm the issue or if i should do something about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I don't get why he said this?
POST: I've had a crush on this guy for about a year. We'll call him T. I met him two years ago through mutual friends and while I'm no longer friends with the people who introduced me to him, he and I still talk pretty often because we're in the same youth grou... | guy that I've liked for a long time made an awkward joke about him liking me/us hooking up, and I'm really confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28M) don't know what to do for my step-dad on Father's Day
POST: A little background: I grew up with my step-dad and my biological mom, who together had 2 other sons. My bio-dad was out of the picture for almost my entire life, minus my first 3 years and only precariously since 20... | Have a complicated relationship with my step-father and bio-dad, don't know what is appropriate for them on Father's Day.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my _Friend that is a girl__ [17 F] I don't understand why she won't leave this guy?
POST: Ok so I'm good friends with this girl and I've always wondered why she stays with this guy she's with. He's been rude to her (she told me, i'm not assuming), he told 1 of his frie... | Why do girls stay with their shitty boyfriends. Ones that either cheat or lie about cheating (you'd have to read the paragraph to understand) and ones that break up over text and get back together?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Having a mild crisis....help?
POST: I've never posted here before, but here goes. I'm 19 years old, my 20 year old girlfriend and I have been best friends for four years, and dated on and off for about two. It is not hyperbole for me to refer to her as my best friend, and as fa... | Long-term, committed relationship, I'm having depression issues, she seems to be distancing herself from me, any advice to help me calm down and not be a nervous wreck anymore?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend isn't comfortable around our mutual friends when we're together.
POST: I have been friends with A for a few years, in high school. Since we moved into our college dorms this past fall (freshman), me and her roommate have hit it off. We've been dating for almost 6 m... | my girlfriend won't be happy when we're all together with other friends, is fine when she's alone with them or alone with me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF(19) is really upset her ex has found a fuck buddy
POST: My GF(19) of three months found out today that her ex of 3 years now has a 'fuck buddy'. I met her when she was still going out with him but they were 'on a break' and she said she had been planning on leaving him for a wh... | Do I bring up to my girlfriend the rebound issue? Or do I just support her and see how it all pans out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: What are the landlords rights as to coming in the house at any time?
POST: My girlfriend [20, New York] wants to move out of her house because it is an abusive home physically and emotionally. Due to this she has been paying for herself since the age of 15. ( phone, school, food, cloth... | girlfriends mother is the landlord, what rights does she have to her apartment in regards of going inside, or banging on the door at 2:00 in the morning?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Selling(?) my Android app which I'm making as a part of my thesis. How much is it worth?
POST: Hello Reddit!
*Background story*
I was told to make something constructive for my thesis and I decided to help make the local public transport more organized. I'm developing an Android appl... | Developing a real-time app as a part of my thesis for the local public transport co. and I have no idea how much to ask for it If I ask anything.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: my partner [M23] left me [F24] and our baby [M1], I want him back but he's not ready. Do I let him grow up and experience life and say goodbye or just sit here and wait til he's ready?
POST: My partner [M23] and I [F24] were together for 6 years. To our surprise I fell pregnant. Once... | my partner left me and our baby, I want him back but he's not ready. Do I let him grow up and experience life and say goodbye or just sit here and wait til he's ready?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I haven't got much weight to lose but I'm finally stepping in the right direction
POST: I'll try to keep this as short as I can.
I struggled with an eating disorder from when I was about 12 to 15 or so. I used to fast, exercise compulsively but I never could make myself throw up. The lowe... | I struggled with an eating disorder for 3 years, then with a boyfriend who fattened me up. Now I'm on my way to being healthy again and couldn't be happier.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I really really need some help. Should I quit University and start my own business?
POST: So here's the deal. I'm in a super funk and I believe it's because I've wasted the past two and a half years at university and have nothing to show for it except a metric fuckton of general ... | I've wasted two and a half years at university and can't decide whether or not I want to continue college or drop out and start my own business.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I hate my major, but am afraid to change it. What should I do?
POST: I am in my Junior year of college. I changed majors this semester from Psychology to Medical Technology, and I am considering nursing.
I did this because I find the career prospects for a psychology major less than sat... | I am not interested in the subject I am in (Medical Technology), but I am afraid that I won't succeed in any of my areas of interest (Political Science, Music, Sociology, and history).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If you were a young adult, with 1 year to do/experience anything, before resuming education until age 40, what would you do with your year?
POST: I'm a biomedical & electrical engineering student doing a gap year before MD/PhD. I'm not sure what to do with myself. So far, I'm debating be... | I've always lived under a rock. I have one year on the outside before going back under the rock. Anything I should do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I AskRedditers for student loans nightmares/stories. Have any? This is why... <repost>
POST: So we are sending our daughter off to college this fall (medical field) with one caveat... No student loans.
Our family started years and years ago (can't actually remember when we started this... | Sacrificed dearly for daughter. Please tell her your experiences for her personal growth. Author of this request appreciative.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: I [M/20] am in a self-esteem rut due to my girlfriend [F/20]. What do I do? (X-post from r/dating_advice)
POST: Ladies of reddit, please help me out. I'm in a dire situation and am hoping for a female perspective on my issue.
Alright, so a bit of background. I've been in a relation... | my girlfriend 'claims' that I'm not 'well endowed' enough to satisfy her and despite me pleasing her she absolutely refuses to return the favor.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my ex [23 M] broke up 6 months ago, suddenly he says I owe money
POST: We were both invited to an event with mutual friends last night and I hadn't seen him or spoken to him in quite a while. Before the event he sent me a message saying he hoped we could both go withou... | My scary ex-boyfriend thinks I owe him money, I don't think I do. I'm willing to pay if it means he'll leave me alone, but I'm not sure whether it does.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm 24(M) she's 23(F) broke up with a girl because she was too possessive am I wrong in this situation?
POST: Hey Reddit, so I need a second opinion with my decision. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. The only problem was that even before we met she would rant on how... | Met a girl online, we hit it off and she became obsessive and was already complaining that I don't show her enough affection after just one date. Broke up with her but now I think I made a bad choice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I have a question about legal residences when applying for credit cards
POST: Looking for advice on what I need to put down as my legal residence when applying for a credit card. The issue I am running into is due to the fact that I do not live at my legal residence. I am a recent ... | my legal address is different from my actual residence due to (legal) tax purposes; which address do I use to apply for credit cards<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by shitting in a strangers bed
POST: This was actually years ago, whilst backpacking in India. I'd eaten some rather sketchy goat a few days prior and of course had the worst case of Delhi Belly one could have, regardless of the fact that I was actually in Jaisalmer, Rajastan when this o... | Was sick in India, shit in a strangers bed, made said bed and left - always imagine this fellow jumping into a nightmare pool of horrors.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Outside of soft or 'acceptable' drugs (THC/Alcohol/Cigs/etc), does reddit think it is possible to use hard drugs long term and maintain a stable and otherwise healthy life?
POST: Context: I am having a debate with a friend. I'm not going to bother posting our specific opinions, but one o... | Outside of legal and social concerns, long term, can a person maintain a stable, otherwise healthy life while using cocaine, meth, and/or heroin? Feel free to discuss other significant illegal or heavily controlled drugs of an addictive nature.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Jealous of "friends" who are actually getting help
POST: I've been dealing with mental health problems, namely depression and anxiety since I was 12-13 (I'm 19 now). I've had issues with eating disordered behavior and self harm for the past few years as well.
I've been seeing a therapis... | I'm an attention seeker who doesn't like seeking attention but wants to feel that my problems are valid and wants the people in my life to actually give a fuck<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24/M] GF [23/F] is way hotter than me. To the point where we get stared at in public cause it seems so unbelievable. It's making me feel insecure but I can't let her know that. Why don't I feel like I deserve her?
POST: My girlfriend is objectively gorgeous but I am kind of ugly.... | I'm ugly as fuck, she's hot as fuck. I should be feeling blessed but instead I'm just being insecure.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] met a girl [17 F] 3 weeks ago, I don't really know what to think.
POST: Hello everyone.
I'm a 17 year old male and I met this gorgeous, smart, really awesome girl three weeks ago.
We started talking and flirting and I started to feel attracted by her, maybe too much. I fe... | Met a really cool girl, I like her. I don't really know if she likes me, I don't know what to do and don't want to screw up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: What My Dog Taught Me About Weight Management
POST: Part of my impetus in getting started losing weight this year was my dog. He's an adorable little terrier mix, and the first dog I've ever raised from a puppy.
One of the things that vets warn you about is letting your dogs get overweight... | Your body is the indicator of how much you should be eating, and small changes really add up. Pay attention and take care of yourself.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What should I (m18) do about f18 who has a boyfriend?
POST: A little bit of backstory, my ex gf and I split up in mid-January and being the young hormonal optimistic male I am, I assumed getting back into the dating scheme would be easy. I started to talk to a girl that I had a crush... | I have a crush on a girl with a boyfriend. I like her and want to talk to her but don't want to risk any confrontation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: Tifu by going out to dinner with my girlfriends family.
POST: This occurred last night.
Went to dinner with my girlfriends family last night to Turtle Jacks Muskoka Grill. Famous for their "big wing sandwich"- a steroid laced sized chicken breast deep fried, tossed with your choice of wing s... | had chicken sandwich, couldn't use restaurant bathroom, shit inside a Tim Hortons so loud the employees were visually aghast when I left the washroom<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Mom's house robbed during night, got a video, can't open it for the life of me
POST: Hi Reddit, two days ago my mother had a visit from some burglars, they took a lot of valuable things including a macbook, 2k$, gold and even perfumes.
The funny thing is i have a video of the burglars b... | mom's house robbed, caught the bastards on video, video is in VVF format, nobody can open it, need to export in mp4 or avi<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] and my Girlfriend[24F] have been dating 8 months, I'm having lots of issues being monogamous and cheating and need serious help.
POST: Hey, um. This is really weird because i've never thought i needed help and honestly i've always needed help.
I have always been kind of a ... | I'm a chronic cheater and a compulsive liar and i want to stop being both of those things for the woman i love.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf (f23) just wet the bed and I (m23) couldnt care less. How do I make her feel better about it?
POST: It's all in the title. Dating 3 years, living together for 1.5. I woke up this morning to her laying on a towel and the smell of perfume. I asked her what was up because she was ... | GF randomly wet the bed, is super embarassed. How do I approach her when she gets home from work to assure her it's really not a big deal?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Price per day bicycle traveling questions!
POST: Hey there!
In a week I'll be going on a 12 day bicycle trip starting in Berlin. From Berlin I'll bike west towards Netherlands (more specifically Amsterdam or Rotterdam) and from there I'll go to Brussels. My way home would be from Brussels ... | How much would I need per day to survive a 12 day bike trip.. Non fancy eating and hostels for sleep? I'm a firsttime rider and I'll be going solo.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I, [25 M], just lost my virginity to the much more experienced girl [25 F] I'm dating. I'm not sure how I should feel about her anymore.
POST: I'm a late bloomer. I went through puberty when I was 18, kissed my first girl when I was 21. I never got that much attention from the oppo... | I was a virgin. She's been with 19 other guys. I don't know if I should continue to see her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Ladies, what do you think was going through my [25 M] girlfriend's[23F] mind when I was doing this?
POST: I guess I get a bit frisky and shameless when I'm drunk with my girlfriend. She and i went out with lots of our friends this friday to a bar for halloween, and she had on this s... | I was touching my girlfriend's butt and thighs while I was drunk with many friends sitting right by us in a car. I want to know my girl's thoughts when I did this, her tone sounded excited/shocked.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [23F] said something incredibly disturbing to me [25M] and I can't get past it
POST: Throwaway because we both use reddit.
Background: me and my girlfriend have been together a little under five years. We live in different cities but they're close enough that we see eachother ... | gf asked if I ever thought about how I could kill her. She said it was a joke, I'm worried it meant something more.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F26] dating [M31] discovered still dating his LT GF of [3 yrs]
POST: Guy approached me at starbucks..he proceeded to take me on a few dates. During that time I specifically asked him if he had a girlfriend or wife, he said he still lived with his ex but it was over and she was m... | Started to see and sleep with a guy whom lived with his "ex-gf" found out it seems like they are still dating and he has been using me to cheat on her. Want revenge<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22] with my girlfriend[21 F] 4 years, I'm her first/only serious relationship and she's getting concerned of me being her only one.
POST: Hi there Reddit.
Bit of background, I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We started going out when she was in high school, I am the on... | Girlfriend has only ever been with me. She loves me, but I know she's interested in seeing other people. What's the best approach for dealing with this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] with my girlfriend [24/ F] 2 years, She is in a really bad place and I don't want to be together
POST: I love my girlfriend but as of the past two months she has been really negative. She hates her dead end job and isn't that proactive about getting a new one but always moan... | girlfriend is sad which is bringing me down, don't want to make things even worse for her by breaking up but I feel i need to for me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] have no girlfriends, only guys. This is starting to bother me
POST: So I have a history of depression. I had a great group of girlfriends in my early years of high school and because of some bad decisions and mental issues, they all decided we were to no longer be friends.
I... | Over the years I have lost all of my female friends and now only have friendships with a group of guys and my boyfriend. I also lack motivation to make plans with these people due to my mental health/depression. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M 27] with my friend [F 22], it's a weird story. But I just wanna be a-little closer.
POST: We been cool for awhile, early on we got distant because she had a feeling I liked her. Later she came around and I admitted it was true. We been cool again since then. She's been comforta... | Have a friend. Whom I have feelings for, don't mind keeping it casual. I admitted my feeling to he and she's been comfortable around me since and recently invited me to lunch and coffee. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How do i approach a cute girl at my course center?
POST: Since a few weeks i'm visiting this education center to learn and broaden my expertise. In my Country this is usually part of social benefit to those who don't have a Job and want to learn something new over the course of a fe... | oman... pls halp, cute girl standing over there, how start a non-creepy, non-obvious, smalltalk without looking weird.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: SO[22M] and I[21F] have stopped doing things for/with just each other.
POST: He[22] and I[21] have been dating for four years and living together for one. We're both laid back and easy going and get along 99% of the time, so no problems there. But ever since we moved in together thin... | Boyfriend and I never do anything together anymore. Boyfriend topped it off by inviting his friend and friend's girlfriend to our anniversary dinner. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO and I feel like sex is dominating our relationship.
POST: My SO [19M] and I [18F] need to refocus our relationship.
I went to see my boyfriend today on his work break, and he said to me, "Remember how you said that you didn't want sex to be the main focus of our relationship?... | Boyfriend and I have been focusing our relationship on sex too much, we need to regain our emotionally connected relationship, while still keeping the same feeling of intimacy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO of 3yrs has withdrawn from relationship but insists she doesn't want to break up
POST: I've [M22] been with her [F22] for 3 yrs and for the past 3 months she has been unable to express more than the bare minimum of affection. We had many talks about it and after several of thos... | [f22] realized she used to feel dependent on [m22] after dating 3 yrs, needs space but doesn't want to break up<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I am a 17 year old who doesn't know where to go and what do to with my life. What should I do? Can you guys please help me? I feel so lost.
POST: Hi reddit, as the title states im completely lost on what i want to do in life. Growing up, I always said that i wanted to become a doctor but... | Please reddit, can you take some time to read my post? 17 year old having a career crisis desperately in need SERIOUS help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by smoking in my university halls, in Wales UK
POST: so, literally minutes ago I got caught smoking cigarettes in my university halls in Wales UK. Semi-FU more advice needed.
I had this gut feeling that I should wait to have my cigarette (which is normally smoked in my bathroom) but I i... | Anxiety ridden student (22F) smoked in my room and got caught, need help on how to deal with this entire situation<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: A friend who I slept with one night while drunk has just told me she's pregnant ---- HELP!
POST: The story goes like this. At university I had a crush on a girl. She was fun, cheeky, teased me all the time and I teased her, and I always thought that some day we'd hook up and we never did.
... | I got one of my friends pregnant and we both agree on termination, but I want to be supportive and not an asshole while making sure this happens.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] discovered something unsettling about my SO HELP [18 F]
POST: Recently I began talking to a girl who I hadn't known very well, she was really nice so I gave her a chance and agreed to give her my number and see where it went from there. Once I told a close friend of mine who... | My SO got suspended from here last school for giving oral to a guy three times on campus, how do i proceed with this relationship and how do I go about asking her about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my [25 M], close friend/roommate who apparently hates my guts
POST: Ok, so a bit of a weird situation here, anyway, the other day, my good friend and roommate of three years left his laptop open to his facebook messages. Curiosity got the better of me, and ended up stu... | Mandatory summary/question! Read something I shouldn't have, found out my roommate and good friend likes me a lot less than I previously thought. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Marrital Advice for a friend
POST: First this is a throw away account...
Basically I'm looking for advice on what to tell a male friend of mine (I'm a female) about his marital problems..
Heres the basic info:
-Hes been married for about 4 years
-2 kids together
-Hasn't had sex wi... | Friend's wife doesn't show any affection & hasn't shown it in over a year, friend is almost at his wits end with it and is afraid to lose kids if they get a divorce.. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [16f] I hate my Boyfriend's Bestfriend [17f]
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and he's 16 too. His bestfriend is a girl, and before we started dating I was kinda worried about their friendship because people have spread rumors that they've done sexual stuff toge... | my boyfriend's bestfriend tries flirting with him infront of me and does stuff to purposely make me jealous, i feel like she's trying to take him from me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21F) worried about my LDR with my boyfriend (21M).
POST: I'm on a throwaway just to make sure he doesn't ever see this since he is on reddit sometimes.
I love my boyfriend very much and I know that whatever he does is in our best interest. He's the only one currently working si... | S/O plans to get a second job, I'm worried about his health and our relationship in the future being severely impacted by it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by failing out of college before my senior year
POST: Well, I was told by my adviser today that is very likely I will not be able to graduate college, at least from the journalism school which I have worked my ass off in for almost four years. I have a 2.5 GPA and it should be at least ... | I thought I had dropped a class and took it again, but the computer didn't fully process it, so I ended up failing the class twice and now I'm about to not graduate. Cool.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my on/off gf [24 F] of 7 months, when and how is a good way to challenge a break.
POST: Met Aurea a year ago but then we were both with other people. we kept in contact through the break ups and attented the same parties. i started pursuing her romantically near the en... | we decided to go on a break in our relationships but we are still intimate when we see each other. i would like to stop the break without pushing her away. got any advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [19 F] am unsure what to do with my fwb [19 M]; we act more like we are in a relationship than fuck buddies, and I'd like to actualize that but don't know how.
POST: So I have been in a friends-with-benefits situation for the past couple of months with a really good friend of mine.... | Fwb is amazing, and acts like a boyfriend rather than fwb. I want to make that an actual thing, but have no idea how, or if its even a good idea. Help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22 M] am in a long distance relationship with my GF [23/F] for 4 months and it's getting tough. Should I move back?
POST: I'll try to keep it as short as I can, so I won't take you through the entire relationship background - just a brief overview.
I've actually known my gi... | In an amazing relationship with my GF of 10 months. Long distance for 4. It's very hard to be away from her and I don't know whether I should consider going back.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: [ALTERATIONS PSA] Mind the bustle!
POST: [I posted the other day about how sad/worried I was about alterations.] The seamstress is not bad at her job, by any means, but my dress has some complicated pickups at the bottom that aren't totally uniform. So it doesn't have a specific ... | How your gown is bustled is just as important as how it is with the train down. Pay attention to both during alterations!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 m] girlfriend [20 f] is suffering from depression and won't listen to my advice
POST: My girlfriend suffers from depression and anxiety. We've been dating for 10 months and she has been suffering this way since college started (we are both juniors). She hasn't been diagnosed r... | My girlfriend doesn't seem to listen to advice and it's starting to be a problem, what can I do to be more helpful?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Wanting to date ex-friends ex-gf but not sure how/when to ask
POST: Alright so I'll start with the basics
Me: 24 M
Ex-Friend: 24 M
Girl: 24 F
I've known both of them for roughly 6 years. They've dated for around 3 years. I had a crush on the girl earlier before they started datin... | I want to date my ex-friends GF but I dont know how long to wait before asking her and when I do ask her how to approach it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not drinking out of the carton
POST: I went to have a glass of Lactose free milk, I strongly considered for several minutes just drinking it right from the carton - being the bachelor living solo that I am, it seemed all too right.
But being that I am moving in with a roomie that als... | Had two chances to drink my beverage from a safe container and opted for the one that broke... I also wasn't even that thirsty<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 M with my GF 30 F of less than a year, I cannot stop thinking about other women
POST: I'm deployed to Afghanistan. I've been here for 11 months. This is my first deployment with the Army, but it's not my first long time away from a GF. I used to sail commercially; I've spent mo... | I just cannot stop thinking of other women. Even when spending time with my gf, I can't stop staring and thinking of other women.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28F] with my husband [29M] - bathroom towel habit that irks me
POST: This problem pales in comparison to many posted on this subreddit, but I'm not sure how to approach this in a way that would elicit change:
My husband (of 2+ years, been together over 9 years) cannot shower unl... | Husband's shower towels build up mildew - he never maintains them and keeps using them to wipe his eyes/face. Multiple attempts have been made to get him to take care of them - current attempts seen as nagging.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] having issues with [21 F] that are affecting my other friendships
POST: I recently moved back to my home town. I was looking forward to seeing my old friends from high school; most of whom I had kept in touch with.
However, since I moved home, they've stopped talking to m... | Girl hates me because petty drama (that she initiated) in high school and it forbidding my friends from spending time with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my roommate stole my credit card, blackmails me and takes advantage of the fact that I am foreign. What can I do?
POST: Ok, I am in the USA for an exchange program for 1 semester. I live in the dorms with a roommate that was assigned to me. First night I was here, the police come... | Roommate stole credit card and threatens to tell the police I smoke up, I am in the US on a visa.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Question about goals after being sick
POST: I'm going to preface this with; I'm kind of an idiot.
I'm training (or was training) for a half marathon in 9 weeks. This will be my first half and I am ridiculously excited. I was training for a month before I got sick and was able to run up t... | I'm an idiot who ruined my lungs and cant run for 2 weeks. Can I run a half marathon 7 weeks later?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by accidentally tweeting someone
POST: Alright well I was checking my twitter last night when I realized that there was a random tweet that I posted, but I never noticed..
There was an insanely heartfelt tweet from an extremely attractive girl to her boyfriend, and then there was m... | I accidentally tweeted a bunch of random spanish and gibberish at a girl, she saw it, then blocked me before I could say what happened..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a drunk voice note, my boyfriend (of 1 yr) told me he was previously married
POST: My bf (of almost 1 yr) lives in a different city and we only see each other every 3 months or so. He is 36 and I am 22 (f). He frequently sends me voice notes on his way home from a night out... Las... | boyfriend of almost a year tells me he was married before. Why has he kept it secret till now? I'm hurt and wonder if there is more he is hiding/will hide<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can a mother ensure she has her child returned to her from her father?
POST: A good friend of mine and his fiance need your help reddit:
My friend is in a relationship with a girl who has a beautiful three year old son; the child's father who is largely if not entirely out of the pi... | How can a mother make sure the father of her child brings her child back and doesn't attempt to just take the kid and use that against her for a child custody hearing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] 10 months, she(22F went three years deep on my facebook and now is questioning life
POST: **Backstory**
My girlfriend has never been in a real relationship before. When we met I had just gotten out of a 2 year + relationship. We met online and ins... | My girlfriend creeped three years deep on my facebook profile, saw that I called my long term ex the love of my life "LOML", a nickname my current girlfriend assumed she invented for us, and is now incredibly upset..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: When does it become too much? Me (18M) her(17F)
POST: Simply put, when does it become too much to try and come in contact with someone by means of texting or calling? I've been talking to a girl for a month or so now who has gone out with me a few times. We have kissed and made out b... | talking to girl for a month, I seem more interested in her than she in me for the most part, but sometimes not so much. Need advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Mixed Signals from Far Away
POST: So I'm (M20) in a somewhat casual (I don't know what it is. It's complicated.) relationship with a great girl (F20), but I've been away for the summer. We still talk a lot, but we never say anything about what we have so I'm a bit confused about what... | I've had a lot of good signs and a few bad signs concerning my casual relationship. After months apart, will it probably continue?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my __(ex) friend_ [40F] of 2-3 years- I recently found out she is a registered sex offender. I have stopped all contact with her. Did I overreact? Am I a jerkface?
POST: We met through a religious (Islam) group. She is a nice friend, and I was advising her on stuff wher... | Online friend is a registered sex offender b/c rape.! Did I make the right move by cutting her out of my life?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my SO [20 F] ending adruptly
POST: So I met this girl who I have a lot in common with and we think the exact same way. I originally thought there was no way she could like me, but she wanted me to go to a party with her. I ended up going and kissed her at the end of th... | Met a girl, we had a lot in common, claimed to like me and showed through her actions, but she ended things I think because I was getting to serious.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Mutually broke up with girlfriend of 2 years. Never felt so hurt, need advice.
POST: I'll try and keep this short: my now ex-gf and I dated for 2 years and a few months. We are 20 years old, and I go to college 1.5 hours away from her. We have had our difference and arguments, ... | My girlfriend and I mutually broke up, but we occasionally talk and hang out. We still love each other very much. Should I cut off all contact to get over her, and how can I get my mind off her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How to quit new management position before the full year is up
POST: I'm considering quitting my full-time job and finding something part-time instead while I focus on my part-time evening MBA program.
I took up a position as a production manager at a small company after relocating to Florid... | What's the best way to tell my boss that I changed my mind and want to go part-time while going to school? Should I just be honest about not feeling like a good fit after nearly a year?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [25 M] of 3 years, ultimatum time due to me being stressed and stressful.
POST: I'm going to keep this as short as possible. I've always been a very neurotic person (diagnosed with OCD at 16), I have little energy and get very stressed very easily. My boyf... | My boyfriend wants a break because I'm too consumed by anxiety and stress. I want to save us. How do I become better?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [19M] tell my friend [22M] that I'm going to date his ex [23F]
POST: So I'm in a bit of a bind. My friend got dumped by his ex about 5 months ago, and for about a month now me and her have been talking nonstop and last night some things happened and me and her a positive we ... | How do I break it to my friend that I'm dating his ex in the nicest and least hurtful way possible?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need Help Talking to Girl
POST: Hi, this is my first post on Reddit and I've had this question but no one to ask it to, so I came to r/Relationships.
So I was at school today with the girl I've liked for a while (I have her for two class periods). And the first period she asked me... | I'm a potato around the girl I like and she may or may not like me back, need help talking to her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] am not sexually attracted to my SO [21M] and am not sure where to go from here.
POST: A little background. I met my SO about 5 months ago and instantly hit it off although we remained friends until about a month ago. We met through a mutual friend (his best friend) and have b... | So my question is how do I let him know I'm not sexually attracted to him in a way that would make our friendship salvagable (if at all possible)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not feeling important in her life, thinking of splitting up... Me[25M], her[23F] duration over 1yr
POST: Good evening reddit,
Backstory: I am dating a girl that I work with (not directly but in the same company). We have been dating over a year and I know that I am in love with this... | I feel unimportant in her life, not sure if I should split up with her or if I am being a dick. Also I seem to love putting things in brackets!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [24/F] want to have FFM threesome for the first time w/ [27/m], worried about a couple things, need redditr's help.
POST: So I, [24/F] and my partner [27/m] have been dating for almost a year. I (like everyone else) have been burned by bad relationships in the past, but have... | Loving, fulfilling open relationship for 1 yr, want threesome for bf's bday, worried of the following:<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I Study Abroad, Even if My Girlfriend Would Break Up With Me?
POST: So here's the deal: I'm in college and am thinking about studying abroad. It seems like a great opportunity, the classes match up, and it won't cost a shit-ton of money. I've been talking with my advisors and seei... | I may want to study abroad, my girlfriend isn't too happy about it - she would probably break up with me, what do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF (24M) said he loves me more than his ex
POST: so ive been in a relationship with this guy for two months now. first few dates i saw his ex's photo in his wallet. it was the only photo in there. i thought maybe he just forgot to remove it all these years until recently i asked him ... | he said he is still forgetting abt his ex but he loves me more than he loves her. should i break up with him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ex-Girlfriend Troubles. Any help would be nice.
POST: So, I had a party tonight and somehow my ex-girlfriend (She broke up with me two months ago, 2 days after Valentine's. Absolutely crushed me.) found out. She frequently flirted with me and whatnot, but I resist because I'm just not fe... | I'm pretty sure ex-girlfriend still likes me, would probably like to go out again, I'm irate at her, I'm interested in another girl. Better details if you actually read everything.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with girl im interested [19 F] of a few weeks, playing hard to get?
POST: So I was in a relationship of about 2 years that ended recently, and after it was over I met a girl I thought was intereted in me and decided to ask her out. We ended up going on a date friday and hun... | Girl I like and I thought like me responded to dinner request with "as friends?" and im not sure how to respond.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: To Send or not to Send a love poem inspired to a past SO?
POST: We were in a relationship in mid 2010 that ended in July. I cut all contact. Come Nov '10 she fessed she was with someone else meanwhile to keep a clean record and wanted to be friends. I deleted from FB, and hit the gym... | Considering sending love poems written to ex, who don't want to see nor I assume wants to see me, but have never shared them with her before.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [20 F] apologize to my crush [M 23] about something that happened Saturday night, or is that too much?
POST: Ok, so I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. We have hooked up and flirt and text a few times a week but its definitely nothing official or anything... | Guy i've been talking to/hooking up with for 4 months offers me a ride home, I stupidly but unintentionally ignored him all night. Now *he's* ignoring *me*.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by misunderstanding a French question
POST: This was on a today many years ago. During highschool, I must have been around 15 or 16 years old, I went on a school exchange in France for two weeks.
I'm German, so naturally the first question I was asked on the school yard, after my host ... | German exchange student in France, got asked whether I like Hitler, understood Éclair (French pastry), answered "Yes very much, with chocolate", ended up being called Chocolate Hitler for two weeks by everyone at the school.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [NON-ROMANTIC] I'm [16 F] and I'm trying to cut ties from my ex-friend [16 M] who randomly went crazy after a few months of friendship.
POST: I'll call the crazy one Josh and the victim Harold. Me, Josh, and Harold were all friends until suddenly Josh decided that he hated Harold. He... | Friend Josh suddenly decided that he hated friend Harold. I want him to stop talking to me but I don't want him to be mad at me because I don't know what he'll do since he's kinda crazy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't want to mess things up...
POST: I [20F] have been dating this guy [24m] for 10 months. He is the first guy I have ever been with and I love him. I have bad anxiety and sometimes it becomes a problem. I get it in my head that something is wrong, when everything is fine.
Well... | I have bad anxiety. My boyfriend and I are stuck in a rut. It is driving my anxiety up the wall.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Someone stole my identity and used it to file, and cash, my tax refund. How can I get my revenge?
POST: Hey Reddit,
I just spent my whole day filing police reports, filling out forms, and calling credit companies. Needless to say, these things have gotten me nowhere. I called the IRS to... | Guy stole my tax refund by using my identity and his address. I want to find him by using my identity and the name of the city where he lives.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What questions do YOU want to have asked on a state-wide poll? Now is your chance.
POST: I work at Suffolk University's [Political Research Center] ([pic- Hi Reddit!] and leading up to the election in November we'll be fielding a series of political surveys in states with races too clos... | – We're fielding a series of surveys in toss up states from now until the election. We have room for a few more questions on our surveys and thought Reddit might have some ideas.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29M] and my best friend [29F]of 16 years and GF [25F] of 5 years. Not sure where to go from here.
POST: Not sure how to keep this one short but I'll try my best.
Basically, my GF and I have been together for 5 years. We met and it was great, moved in together, then we both stop... | I am in love with my best friend, and over my current gf. But don't want a gf at the moment!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (23f) listening to my soon to be ex-fiancé (34m) cheating on me at a club.
POST: Been stuck in this abusive relationship for the past 3 years only forgiving him for the many sorrys he's said to me.
Some background: we don't live together but we live with our own parents ( him wit... | Soon to be ex is cheating as I'm posting this. I'm done with this scrub, how do I proceed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Buying a new [Auto], giving current car to wife. Should I keep wife's old car?
POST: We are a single (stable) income family. Wife currently freelances but she is looking on-and-off for a 9-to-5. Both current cars are paid off. My wife's car is 9 years old, with about 140K miles ... | want to keep my wife's old, paid off car as an insurance policy if she gets a job with a long commute, and the cost of doing so would be less than a few hundred dollars a year.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] am in college and about to say goodbye to my girlfriend [19 F] for summer break. I'm ridiculously sad and having trouble coping
POST: Hey /r/relationships,
Throwaway here. So as the title states, my girlfriend and I are both freshmen in college and about to head home for su... | Been dating a girl in college for a bit over 6 months and I am madly in love with her. Need help coping with saying goodbye for summer break<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you know if you should leave?
POST: Hi Reddit,
I had to create a throwaway account, because too many of my friends are redditors and I was concerned they might see my account name.
I've been in a relationship for over 6 years; Basically since my girlfriend finished highschool an... | I'm in a very long-term relationship, noone has been unfaithful or done anything wrong, but I'm starting to have serious doubts, how do I know if it's time to end things?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I have a date in 15 minutes and haven't been on a date for like 3 months, how do I act again? What do I talk about? Got any quick suggestions to freshen up my mind?
POST: Edit: le results are in
The results are in: I biked to her house in the freezing cold, she opened the door and g... | Had a date, we strolled around a frozen lake, saw a falling star, saw a beautiful low orange yellow moon, went to her house, made out when I left.<|endoftext|> |
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