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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] I need confidence after a long break for a gorgeous admirer (18/f).
POST: I'll start this off by saying people consider me an attractive guy. I'm not sure why and don't see it, but because of this and my personality, a bunch of girls have been into me, and it always esc... | A gorgeous girl is into me and I'm messing up because I don't have the confidence to make moves. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [20/F] is losing alot of her friends since getting into a relationship with me [20/M], and it's really upsetting her.
POST: It's happened to me to, what with being at University and spending alot of my time with her. She has spent most of her time with me and, like myse... | SO losing alot of her friends, and they're having a go at her for being in a relationship and not being "bothered to socialise".<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't get life
POST: What's the point? I've made great connections with people before, most of which are now lost. Those that are not, will be, whether it's in a year or five. Because people change, settle down with their loved ones, and move on. I've fallen in love but it didn't work... | I don't see a point in living, all the beauties of life are just temporary and get replaced by sadness soon anyway.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I feel like Me[20M] and my gf[20F] talk way too much
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 3 months. We hang out 2-3 times a week but on days that we don't hang we literally text each other every moment of the day.
The thing is me and her both don't really ha... | me and my gf of 3 months text pretty much every moment of every single day that we don't hang out and im afraid this is unhealthy and will damage our relationship. how do we approach this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my best friend [22 F] of 10 years, I'm getting more and more irritated.
POST: Hi everyone,
I've known my best friend for nearly 10 years. I, for the most part, love spending time with her, minus some extremely irritating personality traits that I've chosen to ignore ... | Have avoided telling best friend that certain things she does annoy me, feel like she tries to control me through emotional overreactions.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [20/F] having realisations about my Dad [54/m] and trying to figure it all out
POST: My Dad has always been pre occupied with a bit of drinking and working. There's always been tension that my Mum spoils me (and my two sisters). There's been instances in the past when my Mum has ... | not very close with my dad/don't feel like he likes me. Tips and advice on approaching this sort of thing?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my coworker [27 F] couple of months, she's leaving soon but I want to get to know her better
POST: I've been trying to get to know a coworker of mine better (in a romantic way) for the past few weeks. Things have been going relatively well for the past few weeks. We we... | Been getting close to coworker for past few weeks, but she is leaving in two weeks. What to do next?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Would you leave someone after
POST: Have any of you ever had second thoughts about a girl/guy, after dating for about a 3weeks?
At little detail: she once told me that usually she only dates bigger guys(4yrs older, and a bigger body) and that he should not be shy about anythin... | Would you ever leave someone after dating for a few weeks, simply because you had second thoughts about them or because you didn't see him attractive anymore? Has that ever happened?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is she (f/30) trying to backstab me (f/24), or am I just reading too much into this?
POST: I feel like I could be horribly wrong about this but I'd like some outside perspective to help me understand what's happening.
My friend Joan and I met Bob when we both went out to a function ... | I feel like my friend wants to take attention off of other people and put it on herself. She didn't invite me to drink tomorrow but she invited a mutual friend I like. Is she trying to isolate me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: how long (if ever) did it take you to finally "mature"?
POST: ive always been pretty fucking immature, but for most of my life i used it to my advantage and played it off like im joking around all the time, i feel like I'm mentally ready to mature, but to be perfectly honest i still kind of... | i'm 21 years old, having trouble wrapping my mind around the concept of maturity. did it happen naturally f/or you or did you have to force it? and when did it happen? (if at all?)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF[24 F] 1 year, problems with sexual past.
POST: Hey there guys.
So GF and I started dating approximately a year ago. I wasn't ready for a commitment and that was on me, so we broke up. This was a full on break, I had no intention of rekindling it.
She moved ... | Broke up, got back together. Ex had a 4-some with strangers, tell me its possible to get over this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by causing a school-wide panic.
POST: Obligatory "this didn't happen today" announcement. This happened several years ago while I was in high school.
My freshmen year of HS, I had a science class in the very back of the school that was two connecting rooms-one for notes/lectures and the... | My fuck up took three and a half years to catch up with me, but when it did it leaked gas into my high school and caused a school wide panic and evacuation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (18f) am not exactly sure how to proceed with (19m). I thought our date when great, but getting a weird vibe the day after.
POST: So, I saw this amazingly good looking dude at the dunkin donuts by my place. We exchanged smiles but didn't get the chance to say anything. He walks out... | Went on a date last night, I feel like it went well. He seems distant today. I want to keep things going.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: I don't know what my career should be, I'd like your opinion, redditors.
POST: Hello reddit, I'm a British 21 year old male that goes by the name WarmAir when not in meatspace. I spent most of my teenage life believing that I wanted to help sick people and have lots of respect and be lo... | Reddit, how should a 21 year old with good enough grades to get into another degree course of his choice choose his future career now that he understands himself? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: First time 20[F] has just blown me off [20M]. Should i be worried?
POST: So some background: I met this girl about in February. Not a lot of contact till May when I asked her to dinner and she invited me to her room later on (nothing happened) in the week. Then I learned she had a bo... | girl is pissed off at me because I'm clueless. Is she over reacting or should I apologize? And do you think she still likes me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by drinking soda at home.
POST: so this FUCK UP happened last week when I was at home. Given that i'm usually careful with opening soda at home since i got carpet flooring. However last week I was having a bad day and decided maybe a coke would make it better.. and this is where the fuck... | Wanted soda, only to find warm soda and got it all over carpet, got mad and threw whole bottle on floor.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] I regret getting into a relationship with the girl (17/f) who's in love with me.
POST: I have never dated anyone before however I've always had girls "at my disposal" to some extent. Recently I'd met this girl on the train and almost every weekend we had seen each other,... | I was pressured into a relationship with a girl who loves me and I don't feel the same. How should I break this up without hurting her especially being only 2 weeks into the relationship<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(26/f) have been single for almost 5 years
POST: I am sure this might come off a bit ego centric. But I just need an outside point of view. Prior to me being single I was in a serious but abusive relationship for 1.5 yr, prior to that it in a relationship for 3 years in high school.... | Been single for 5 years. Dating life is kinda crappy. Everyone is getting married, engaged, serious relationships and babies. Feeling like there is something wrong with me. Is feeling all of this normal?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [32 F] convince my Boss [~45 F] of 2 years, to change my work schedule?
POST: I work at a credit union as a loan officer taking loan applications over the phone. In an office that has 17 employees total, I am one of six call center employees. Four of us share a room with cu... | I'm in grad school and need one last class that conflicts with my work schedule and my boss doesn't seem to want to work with me, what am I to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22/m] What to do regarding [20/f]? (x-post r/relationship_advice)
POST: X-post from r/relationship_advice. Not too sure where I should post so if it's not meant for here, remove it!
Just a heads up, I'm going to leave a few details out, such as exact locations etc.
So there's this... | Met this girl on exchange in my course and like her. Do I go over to her city for the summer (for her) or stay where I am?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my bf [25 M] of 4yrs, doesn't want me to leave (xpost r/depression)
POST: My boyfriend is frustrated that I want to see my family more often. He says I see them enough, we visit for lunch most Sundays, we shouldn't be taking steps backwards in our relationship.
I just ... | Bf is angry that I want to see my family more, says we have to be together and me sleeping over is taking steps backwards in our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21 F] found out that my boyfriend [21 M] has started selling drugs, not sure how to discuss
POST: He was selling when we met, but decided to stop after I told him I was not interested in being with someone who engaged in that sort of illegal behavior. We've been together for almost ... | Went through boyfriend's phone, found out he was selling drugs again, not sure how to bring this up because of the way I found out<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not bad enough to leave but enough problems to want to.
POST: I've [26M] been with someone [27F] for about 3 years. We had a very rocky start for many reasons but long story short I've done things to her that make her not want to trust me. Move forward two years after many changes to... | I don't know if I should keep trying to make my 3 year relationship work due to many problems caused primarily by trust issues. Please help I don't know anyone who could give me advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My brother stole my mothers identity. I put a fraud alert on the account. Now we get a text from my nephew that says "mom is taking me to California." I don't know what to do. The phone goes straight to voice mail.
POST: About 10 years ago my brother and his wife got into some serious mo... | I discovered my brother and his wife stole my moms identity. Now my nephew is missing. This all happened this afternoon.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The guy I like [21m] and I [20f] are the epitome of "opposites attract." But I'm wondering if opposites can continue past the attraction.
POST: I am a relatively introverted, nerdy girl. This guy that I met about two months ago is a "bro" type, almost comes across as a douche. In fac... | I am attracted to a guy who is very different from me. I am wondering if it stops at attraction or if a relationship can a relationship develop out of it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She Keeps Flirting But Rejects All My Advances?
POST: I [27m] met this girl[28] last year sometime, and we've always been super flirty with each other. We've made out on a handful of occasions early on, but nowadays not so much. We've slept in the same bed, but never actually hooke... | Met girl year ago, started with us making out, sort of fizzled with her rejecting my advances. She still flirts hard but rejects my advances. Why?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] one night stand with [18 F] not sure if she likes me or not.
POST: Dick move, but my closest friend was talking to a girl and i assumed it was going nowhere, so i decided to try and make a move whilst she was drunk at a party. She has a tendency to do this and has kissed an... | does a girl like me, after she found out i said she was easy to get and she screwed around with someone else?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My browser history includes websites I never visited at times I was not on my computer...I live alone...
POST: Is it possible for someone to hack my computer/phone and control my browsers? Also, I do not do drugs or drink heavily so it's unlikely I forgot about visiting them. Any advic... | Computer/phone browser histories include never-before-seen websites; how did this happen, how can I stop it? Thanks!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: MY [33 F] GF wants my [36 M] Facebook password, I refuse. Am I in the wrong?
POST: I'll keep this as short as possible. My gf has now asked for my facebook password twice. I have refused to give it to her. She is INCREDIBLY jealous and paranoid for no reason. I have gone as far as ju... | GF wants my facebook password, I refuse to give it to her although I have nothing to hide because of the principle.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I need some advice on how to approach a hacking incident.
POST: Hi LegalAdvice,
I am from Seattle, WA, USA
Earlier tonight, when I was on my computer, I looked at my email to see a message indicating that the cell phone number associated with my Authy (cell phone app that generates p... | Email hacked to steal bitcoins. Got hacker's [pinger.com] number. How do I use this to identify the hacker?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] am about to move into an apartment with a couple of friends 2x[20F] and we're starting to have problems. What can I do to make this easier for everyone?
POST: Our apartment lease is starting soon and for a few months I've been getting furniture, sublettors, etc. Lisa has been... | We're moving into an apartment and my roommate has done basically nothing to prepare for the move in. I'm worried that she won't take on apartment responsibilities.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My boyfriend does not care that..
POST:...Later this summer I will be marrying another man. My boyfriend and I have been dating for little over 6 months, and at the beginning of our relationship i told him that I was thinking about getting married to my best friend this summer to get mor... | I am getting married to my best friend, and my boyfriend does not care. Is he trusting, or just not that into our relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Stupid argument with my husband (35M). What is the best resolution?
POST: I am 29F. We have a 1 year old daughter who is a terrible sleeper. (Please do not recommend sleep strategies, we have read all the books and tried everything and none of it works for her.) The only way I can ge... | It's easier for me to put our impossible 1yo back to bed because I can nurse her so I have taken every overnight shift since she was born and my husband refused to sleep in bed with us because he needs his precious sleep.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I Need Help Picking a High School Class
POST: So I'm about to finish 9th grade, but I have been stuck deciding whether I want to take AP European History or Global Honors. I am a fairly good student, and I like history, but I have already chosen some pretty hard classes and I don't know if... | Do I go for the hard class with friends and a good teacher so I can look good when I apply to a military academy, or do I go for a class I know I can do well in?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I do not know what to do anymore. Stuck between a rock and a bottle. Please help me!
POST: This is my first post, and I'm sorry if this doesn't belong here, but it seemed more suited than r/datingadvice. So I've been seeing this girl for a little over a year now. She's 29 and I'm a 2... | Met a girl at a gay bar -Went out on Valentine's day -Said she has a boyfriend -Been going on dates for over a year now -Halp.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [22M] 5 years duration, Might be showing signs of dumping me suddenly, has anger issues, need advice
POST: Ok, so I've been dating this guy, (we'll call him Paul) for 5 years. I totally adore him, he is smart, funny, ridiculously attractive, and I don't think I've... | huge argument where BF called me a ton of hurtful names, haven't spoken for 2 days, not sure what to do/if i should reach out to him first<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Calorie Deficit but Plateauing Hardcore
POST: Hey all,
Back with a question again - a while ago, I asked how to get back on the wagon. Well, I got back on, but the wagon doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
I've been calorie counting for about a month again now, trying to be careful, trying... | Plateau for about 6 months, 1 month of active calorie-counting. Not sure what the problem is, whether I'm eating too much still or too little or what. Getting super frustrated again!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[25F] with my boyfriend [25 M] who I gave money and hasn't given it back even though I am at the point of being unable to buy food.
POST: We've been together two years. Long story short, we're both students and the job market is awful. Can't even get temp work at this point despite... | I am poor enough to have almost no money for food; lent boyfriend money, and he's using it in addition to relative's money to live the high life.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16f] cannot figure out why I apparently have become so boring in my relationship.
POST: It has come to my attention that my boyfriend [m18], of 1 year and 3months, thinks I have become boring and not much fun to be around. Is it because I can't always go to party's? Or because som... | Am I too boring in our relationship? Am I lazy? I think its my bc but I could have just always be boring....what can I do???? HELp!!!!!!!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wife(21) of 3 years says she wants to leave but also talks about staying with me (M/23). Help please?
POST: All of this is very confusing and a constant roller coaster for me. I have known her going on 7 years in total.
All of this stuff started when she told me about an emotional ... | ! Wife(F/21) of 3 years wants to leave after emotinal affairs and still talks about staying together at the same time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Police officers of reddit: Can you please give some insight into the mindset of officers at Occupy events, including Oakland?
POST: **I have a lot of questions, so please bear with me...**
1) I feel like there's a huge divide between the the protesters and the police officers, *yet they... | Police officers of reddit, if you could please explain the mindsets of your colleagues at these events, maybe we could bridge the gap in communication. Thanks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How do I safely sublet an apartment sight unseen?
POST: Hi ladies,
This summer I'm moving from Illinois to Austin. I was having some issues finding an apartment (i'm very picky, plus the nicer apartments need me to have a job in Austin) so I decided it'd be a better idea to snag on... | I want to get a summer sublease on craigslist sight unseen, do I need to worry about scammers and if so how?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M 19] flirted with another girl via Facebook message/text for a few days. I couldn't bare the feeling of doing this, told my SO of one and a half years [F19].
POST: My girlfriend and I are a match made in Heaven, high school sweethearts in college together. We've had ups and downs... | Flirted w/ another girl via Facebook/text. Couldn't bare guilt, told girlfriend immediately. Waiting to see what happens next.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: We're now FWB's 5 years later.
POST: Hey R_A long time no see!
I [22M] have recently gotten into odd situation with my ex [22F]. We had a year an half relationship back in high school that ended rather bad, a lot of lying and controlling issues on both our parts. We were young... | fwb with an ex after 5 years ,not sure if its leading to more than a fwb because of mixed signals. How should I talk to her about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I convince parents to let me [18M] go camping with girlfriend [19F] and some friends?
POST: This is going to really hard to convince them we aren't trying to have a giant orgy or drink/do drugs lol.
As a way to celebrate our high school graduation, a group of friends (male ... | How can I convince parents to let me going camping in my friend's backyard, supervised by his parents, and possibly share a tent with my girlfriend?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] and my [17 F] crush, need help!
POST: We're both seniors in high school and have a class together. Over the last few days we have talked a bit in class, and she complimented my shirt twice and we like each other's favorite band (she even said that we are "best friends" beca... | She has complimented my shirts multiple times, followed me back on instagram and has liked my selfies, and talks to me in person most everyday. Does she like me or is she just being friendly?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: A girl who isn't right for me.
POST: Meh, every time I try to post about this, I never know where to start.
Well, I guess I like this girl (a crush, I suppose). But the entire situation is stupid. There's no reason for me to like this girl. I mean, she's cute, interesting, and awesome,... | Unhealthy attachment to girl with whom I share a few very rare interests and nothing else. Relationship would never work for both personal and circumstantial reasons. Feeling bad about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Totally Unexpected Source of Motivation (and it's awesome for lots of other reasons too)
POST: So a few years back, I lost 50 pounds, then gained it back over time (for lots of reasons I won't get too deep into). But a couple months ago, I was still pretty horrified to hit my highest weight... | I lost my motivation, then found it again when I started donating blood. Realizing that my body is valuable and important for others in need makes me want to take care of it in a way that I don't for myself.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever had a serious injury and no one ever took it quite as seriously as they should?
POST: In my Junior year of HS I came down with a rather critical case of sciatica. At first any doctor I visited referred to my condition as a pulled leg muscle. Another 4 months down the road i... | I had sciatica, (nerve compression causing serious leg pain in the hamstring, quad, calf, and foot.) and people at school and work refused to show me any mercy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What activities can I [19 M] the boyfriend, do with my girlfriend [19 F] of 4 Years, big or small that I, a simple minded man, probably have not thought of?
POST: I work full time, Monday to Friday, so does she. We currently don't live together, but hopefully will be next year. I hav... | What activities can I, the boyfriend, do with my girlfriend big or small that I, a simple minded man, probably haven't thought of?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Stuck in Los Angeles with a big decision tomorrow
POST: I recently dated a coworker, it didn't work out. I respected her, even though she would say bad things about me and even curse at me in the hallway. She recently told my boss that she would sue the company for harassment because she... | version of the story. Does a woman really have an upper hand when it comes to harassment cases when there is no evidence to support her argument?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: should i tell my ex's new partner about her cheating?
POST: Me 27m. Long story short, she (25f) moved back to her home country for what was supposed to be 3 months. She broke up with me because I couldn't come visit as often b/c her stay ended up being longer and longer and longer. One of... | girlfriend moved back to homecountry for short period, cheated on me, broke up and blamed everything on me. Should I tell the guy and her parents?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my GF [15 M] need to solve a love triangle with a suicidal guy, don't want anyone to get hurt.
POST: A year ago my girlfriend was proposed to by a guy and they broke up due to other reasons but he is still very attached to her and we don't know what to do to change thi... | how do i get rid of a guy who wont get over this girl and is threatening with his life, without hurting him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Is moving right now a terrible idea? (UK)
POST: My partner (29M) and I (26F) have been living in the same rented house for over two years now. We've been good tenants, only had one incident with a storage heater (our mistake) which we're paying off each month to the letting agent. ... | Opportunity for nicer rented home as come up, want to break tenancy early but involves risk of being liable for rent if new tenant isn't found. Is it worth going for anyway?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23 m] Dating [24 f] met online, dating since Easter, had sex, now things are weird.
POST: So we started dating around Easter of this year and had been going on weekly, sometimes twice weekly dates since then. We started off texting infrequently but as the relationship got mor... | Dating girl since easter, things were getting somewhat serious, had sex, now we aren't talking that much... please help<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23m) am currently dating a girl (22f) that is about to leave for the summer. We both really enjoy each other's company but she has said she will hold too much guilt if I wait out the summer for her. What do I do?
POST: We have been dating for approximately two months and have deve... | Girlfriend of two months is leaving for the summer. She doesn't want me to wait and ruin my summer but I am 100% ready to do so.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] about my ex [25M] together for 5 years - Broken up a year, my trouble moving on
POST: I don't speak to my ex, don't check his profiles, don't think about what he's doing, and don't have anything to do with him at all. I just live my own life, focused on me. But I still miss ... | I moved on with my life, but I still miss my ex every day. Does anybody have a light at the end of the tunnel or will this feeling never fade?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (31/M) girlfriend (27/F) gave me a fancy watch for Christmas. Now she's upset with me because I told her it was ridiculous for her to spend so much and not to do things like that.
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend, Jenna, for a little over a year and a half. We're long distance... | GF tried to spoil me with an expensive watch and I told her to stop spending so much and that I never wanted such pricey things. She's now upset.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] am in recovery and jumped into a relationship with a girl in recovery[21F]. I want to end things, but I'm worried about her sobriety
POST: Hello,
So about a month ago, I got into a relationship with a girl in recovery. I went to treatment for drugs and alcohol, and have bee... | I got into a relationship and have come to realize I don't have feelings. Worried about her health if we break up<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my s/o [31f] duration, 3 years - I was told today she had added her ex on Facebook a few months ago and hid it from me. We have had issues involving her previously. Help.
POST: I need some advice on how to bring it up. She previously had her blocked then unblocked her ... | GF may be in contact with EX although we have agreed no contact due to past issues. I need help on how to bring it up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Opinions please, feeling bad for not wanting future SIL as a bridesmaid
POST: Hi weddit! I only have asked 4 girls to be in my wedding, my sister and 3 very close friends. FH wants 6 groomsmen. I'm 100% a-okay that it's uneven. Apparently I (after a couple bottles of wine) agreed t... | FH wants his sister to be a bridesmaid, I think only my "circle of trust" should be included. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] and my ex [24 F] dated for 1.5 years. We have had no contact for over a year. Something has been itching me recently to break the silence. Should I?
POST: We have had literally no contact for over a year now. I am far past indulging the memories of the time we shared togethe... | Does there come a time where it is appropriate to break the no contact rule? for those who have followed NC for greater than a year, and then opened communication, can you tell me about your experiences. Should I consider this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Why doesn't my [22/M] boyfriend want me [24/F] staying at his place?
POST: We have been dating for 3 years, and the past year of our relationship has been long distance because of my job. My work contract is about to end, and I plan to move to be closer to him. I have been app... | I am going to move to a new city to be with him. I want to stay with him until I find a job, but he wants me to get my own place right away. Why?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30 M] can't trust her [28 F] even thought she's done nothing wrong in the 4 months we've been dating.
POST: A bit of backstory: I've been in only 4 real long term relationships in my past. I've dated, had a couple flings, some casual relationships, but only 4 real in depth relatio... | Girlfriend hasn't done anything really wrong, but I still can't trust her because I've been continuously cheated on. How do I get the fuck over it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 F] with my BF [27 M] 4 years, unhappy where we live and want to move to my home country, but not sure if I want to leave him
POST: My BF and I have known each other for 5 years, been together 4 and lived together for 2.5 years now. We live in the UK where he is from, I came to... | Want to move back to my home country but unsure if I want to leave my BF, and if we can handle a ldr<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I having a mid-life crisis, or do I just hate my job?
POST: Sorry if this turns out to be a wall of text, but here goes;
I'm 39 years old (nearly 40) and for the last 7-8 years I've worked in the IT industry in varying aspects of support. Prior to that, I served in the military wher... | I used to work as a medic, now I'm an IT dude. This sucks, how viable is it to return to medical?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Unsure if the (27 M) guy I was dating sexually assaulted me (26 F).
POST: So I dated this guy for about three weeks, then he asked me to come along on a trip to California with him. Up until this trip, we'd gotten along great, and he seemed like a sweet, genuine guy (my friends now c... | Guy I was dating shoved himself down my throat after I'd made him promise not to. Don't know if it was sexual assault or he's just an asshole.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[21 M] SO [23 F] of 1.5yrs is acting like she's been keeping things from me
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and everything has been sweet (however not without the normal argument here and there), and she was soon meant to be travelling to another ... | Girlfriend's friend turned out to be her ex, he's stayed in her room and she was planning to go stay with him until i found out they'd been together. Is trusting her word stupid?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Intelligent people of Reddit, I ask you how badly would my coworker's leg be hurt if he let a Montreal metro hit it?
POST: Assuming he is standing no less than 30 feet from the beginning of the platform. He would stick one leg out, just enough so impact would be just below the knee.
Qu... | my coworker thinks getting his leg hit by the Montreal metro will not hurt him as he is indestructible.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: SO cheated on me. Now feeling insecure and unmotivated. Advice?
POST: So in May i started to lose weight mostly for myself but in part for my SO because I wanted him to find me more attractive and i knew that if i found myself more attractive my confidence would rub off.
I lost 21.5 pounds... | i lost 21.5 pounds then my SO cheated on me. now im emotional eating and feeling insecure. advise me please<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29/m] My girlfriend (28/f) is very successful and I'm not.
POST: My girlfriend makes a lot of money and I don't. Even though I like doing my job, it's nothing to write home about. She has a lot of time on her hands to meet new people, to go out and do things. She's very smart ... | I feel worthless and I wonder if my gf will want to stay with me if I'm regarded as such a loser.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] have been talking to this girl [19 F] for a few months. A few hours before we are supposed to go out she bails and says I'm not a good idea for her. Any perspective?
POST: I've been talking to this girl for a little bit. For a few months we exchange texts but nothing really... | Was dating this girl and things were going great and suddenly she just shuts me off. Just wanting some help with what I should do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF wants me and her to start hanging out with her Ex
POST: I'm a guy (30) who has been seeing my girlfriend (also 30) for about a year. She had been seeing her ex until about a month before she met me (dated him about 6 months). Early-on in our relationship she would talk about her p... | girlfriend wants to be friends with her ex and his friends, and wants to include me. Am I freaking out for no reason?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] think I emotionally abusive to my boyfriend [31M] of 3 years (x-post relationship_advice)
POST: My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship but this also applies to when we lived together. I love him and he is the sweetest person I have ever been with, but I someti... | I think I am emotionally abusive to my boyfriend because I feel trapped in our LD relationship. How do I change this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17/M] am pretty sure that an acquaintance's [17/M] girlfriend [17/F] is cheating on him. What should I do?
POST: For some context, I've known the guy (call him Brian) and his girlfriend (call her Katie) since elementary school. We were part of the same friend group back then, but ... | I found out that the girlfriend of an acquaintance of mine was cheating on him. I'm not close friends with either of them, but I think that he deserves to know. How should I proceed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: F(28) in relationship with M(27) need advice on him cheating on me and me feeling attracted to another man M(27).
POST: So I've found myself in a situation I have never wanted to find myself in. While I do love my husband - he admitted to cheating on me in the beginning of the... | My husband admitted to an affair he had a long time ago (5 years) and as soon as I started to feel like I had gotten over it I had a 'love at first sight' type encounter.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18, Male] need help breaking up with my girlfriend [18, Female].
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two and a half years. We are both going off to college later this year, and it is my opinion that breaking up sooner rather than later would benefit both of us. She is e... | I can't bear to devastate my girlfriend by breaking up with her, and don't know when to do it.*<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[17M] with my GF[15F] 2 months, we have been texting ALOT, I enjoy it and so does she. We were planning a big meet up soon.
POST: The texting part is including pictures and videos. I don't look for girls to date. I am not a player or anything is what I am saying. She came to me. I ... | GF of 2 months isn't sure if she wants me or her ex. I am a long relationship type of guy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I(M22) Dont know how to approach F(20)
POST: I go to this restaurant/bar with my dad every Friday, or whenever we want really. There is a waitress there who is very attractive. I know that waitresses and waiters are supposed to be nice and work for their tips and such. Though, she fl... | I have a huge crush on a waitress at a resturant/bar that my father and I frequent, who happens to be the owners niece. HELP!!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my BF [26 M] eight months, he is great except he is really mean to waitresses
POST: My BF is a dream bf in every way, he has a great job, is loving, loyal, handsome, and smart. However, he is a big jerk to waiters and waitresses. I thought it would be an isolated thing... | My BF is the perfect boyfriend and talks about marrying me, but he is horrible to servers and minimum wage workers, and doesn't respect when I tell him to not do it around me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I[26/M] have issues to explain to my girlfriend [27/F] that I'm right and she's wrong
POST: Hi Reddit,
Here is my situation. I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years and I'm pretty happy with our relationship. However she can be pretty stubborn (I'm not complaining,... | My girlfriend is much better than me at arguing but I really don't know how to reason her from time to time. How can I handle this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to let go of a best friend turned lover [M,19] who is still involved in my [M,20] life in active yet non-romantic ways?
POST: Okay. For the intimate details please see the last two posts I've made on this subreddit. Long story short, my best friend and I fell in love. I was all i... | How does one let go of someone who is still heavily actively involved in their lives? (in non-romantic ways)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I suspect my mom's cheating on my dad-- what now?
POST: I haven't confronted her about it yet, but earlier today I received a text:
it's not particularly incriminating, right? But I found three things odd:
1.) She never has called my dad "darling", on any occasion.
2.) My dad, when asked if... | received mom's wrong send calling someone darling and getting them smth that costs real $$$, had suspicions of her cheating before<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the best way to go about seeking psychological help?
POST: I'm a twenty-three year old male. I remember being "stare into space and cry" depressed as early as ten years old. I was eleven when I had what I can only assume was a major traumatic psychological event involving a multit... | I have a very blatant history of psychological problems and want to know how to properly find a psychologist rather than simply picking one at random out of a phone-book.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Roommates and dishes: can the sight of dishes really induce "anxiety"?
POST: So this might not carry the weight of a lot of posts here, but my roommates are the worst when it comes to messes. We've had an ongoing feud as to who should clean the dishes when the sink gets piled high with... | roommates and I have a cleanliness issue that bothers them way more than me, I take the blame and the guilt even though they contribute to the mess.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17/f] have stopped being intimate with my bf [20/m] of 2 months because he's Catholic and has to tell the priest at Confession (I'm an atheist)
POST: I've slept with several guys before him (I'm his second), but it was always a one-time thing and I usually never even saw or spoke ... | Bf is Catholic, I'm Atheist and I'm uncomfortable about him telling the priest we have sex at Confession<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: House training a cognitively delayed dog
POST: So.. I have a beagle who we believe is just turning 3 (he was a rescue). With lots of work and behavioral training, we've gotten his epilepsy and food aggression under control. However, there is still a major issue... he pees everywhere.... | I have a dog that is neurological problems that pees everywhere, regardless of being taken out and using urine deterants.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Daycare called CPS on us. Anyone else have experience with this?
POST: 2 weeks ago my infant came home with a tiny bruise on her arm. It was small and reddish and after some panicky googling, I concluded that maybe she got to sucking on her arm, or it possibly got pinched in the Velcro o... | daycare called cps over a small bruise on my infant. We don't know how it got there, could have been daycare. Have an open case so everyone can make sure we're not abusing her. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Still in love with ex gf. How to stop that?
POST: I went out with Jackie for about four years. I broke up with her about two months ago because things were long distance and that distance didn't seem likely to get fixed.
However, I think I'm still in love with Jackie. Perhaps ... | I'm still in love with my ex. How can I fall out of love quickly so I can fall in love again? Is dating a girl who just happens to looks like my ex a really bad idea?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Ended a six year relationship with the person I thought was the one for me, boy was I wrong.
POST: I woke up for work that morning to see her phone plugged into my desktop and the screen was on with a message from her sent right before we went to bed to this guy. I read through it a bit a... | Broke up with s/o of six years, due to non-stop cheating. No regret but not upset about it in the least.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Have not heard from my girlfriend for almost two weeks...
POST: So I have been dating this girl for about 3-4 months and we are both in highschool. Things were going pretty well, we were getting along great and going out fairly often but as soon as school ended for the year she... | I have not heard from my girlfriend in nearly two weeks apparently because of work, I really miss her and don't know what I should do about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [37M] have a friend [45M] who is unlucky in love and it's his own damned fault.
POST: I've been friends with "Doug" for 5 years or so, since I've lived in London. In that time, I've known Doug to have a few very short term relationships, all ended by the girlfriend, but for him to... | My friend is a 4 and he's failing at dating because he's trying for 9s. Is there a way to gently point this out to him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (26/f) doesn't want to invite fathers side of family to daughters 3rd Bday party.
POST: Hi,
I'm no longer with my daughters father. But we keep in touch and pretty much keep it strictly about our little girl.
Her 3rd birthday is coming up, were going to be having a party at Chuck... | Narcissistic family members on daughters fathers side of family. I don't want to invite them to party, but feel bad because they have kids.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm 23(m) and I've been talking to two different girls, both 21(f), but I'm not dating either of them so I didn't feel like there was anything wrong with it but...
POST: So I just met a girl at a party we will call her Kim. We hit it off. Chatted. Things were fun. I got her number an... | talking to two girls. They turn out to be friends. Now they are upset but I don't feel like I did anything wrong. Need opinions.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: After offering my 19 y.o. brother a place to live, he broke his promise to me twice.
POST: Well, my 19 y.o. brother is smoking weed. My parents are anti-drugs (including softdrugs) and kicked him out after being caught with drugs (the second time). After this, I decided to offer him the... | Took my brother in house with the promise he wouldn't keep drugs in the house. He ignored this promise twice. Do I need to (and how do I best) confront him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25M] am scared of falling asleep with my girlfriend [23F] of 2 months because I sometimes suck my thumb in my sleep
POST: I don't know how to not make this topic awkward, but ever since forever, I've had a habit of sucking my thumb. My parents said that they got worried because as... | I can't stop sucking my thumb when I fall asleep. Makes it impossible to sleep with my girlfriend because I don't want her to wake up and see it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (30/f) Boyfriend (27/m) is unsure of our future - Can we overcome this?
POST: My boyfriend (27/m) and I have been dating for just shy of 2 years and we do not currently live together. We get along great, have some similar interests and our values are the same. At around the 6 m... | Boyfriend of nearly 2 years doesn't know if he can see himself marrying me. Do I end it or stick by him while he figures this out over the next few weeks? Are we doomed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF and I know we are going to part ways after college graduation in 3 months. Should we stay together until then or split now?
POST: Me [22M], Girlfriend [23F]
We've been together for around 6 months and we have talked about our future. We've decided that we will no longer be togeth... | GF and I know we are going to part ways after college graduation in 3 months. Should we stay together until then or split now?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Unsure if I [21F] should leave safe relationship with [23M] or not, advice from older redditors appreciated!
POST: My boyfriend of one and a half years is a really wonderful guy. He's my first serious relationship, the rest were flings that fizzled after the honeymoon phase. He'd nev... | Will I regret leaving my safe, stable, and responsible boyfriend for someone more fun? Is safe and stable and kind of boring even what I should want to settle down with in the future?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help] GSD gets tired quickly
POST: My SO thinks my pup has been getting really tired, very quick. I think it's just from running.
Lestrade is a 1.5 year old German Shepherd/Malamute who had a THR in February. The surgeon told me I no longer had to restrict her movement in May.
She goes t... | my SO thinks my GSD has been more tired and panting more heavily than usual. Not sure if there could be something wrong.<|endoftext|> |
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