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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22f] have been with my boyfriend [24m] for 5 years. How to tell if it's fizzling out or just coming out of infatuation? POST: We have lived together for 3 of the 5 years and the first 4 were great. We had quite a bit in common because we both studied abroad in the same country and...
Anyway, I guess my question is, how do you know if the flame has gone out for good, or if it's just not burning as brightly anymore? How do you deal with the logistics of a break-up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Half Marathon Goal Thoughts? POST: I have 2 half marathons coming up in the next couple weeks (May 31 and June 7). They will be my second and third of the year. My first half of the year was April 12 which I ran a 1:54:29. Since then I've been running kinda a random schedule because I didn...
Recent runs have been a 7:25 min/mile. Recent half time 1:54:29. Upcoming half with goal to get 1:45. Achievable? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have to ask because I have been having some doubts. people of reddit who have died and come back to life, did you see anything resembling heaven or hell, God or the Devil, anything? POST: I grew up Muslim, and I never really had a problem with it. I would see things and think Oh how Go...
losing my faith in my religion, wondering what comes next. cant imagine anything but what has been described to me, looking for other people's takes, and experiences<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Before we started dating, my boyfriend (30/m) invited his old flame to visit from overseas. She will be here in 2 days and he just told me (27/f) POST: Together 6 months. This morning, my boyfriend and I were cuddling in bed and I asked him what he was thinking about. He revealed th...
my boyfriend invited an ex to visit for 10 days from overseas before we started dating. He told me 2 days before her arrival.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 20M slept with my 20F best friend and unsure of what I should do POST: Obvious throwaway and apologies for my poor writing style Im currently at university (20m) and grew very close to one of my flatmates(20f) we talked and hung out everyday for the whole of the year and were both i...
Slept with my best friend and I don't know if this is going to be a relationship or the end of a friendship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my mother [62 F], What would you do if your abusive mother says she's dying and wants to see you after years of cutting her out of your life? POST: I grew up with a single mother who abused me my whole life. She made me want to die. I did everything in my power to get ...
What would you do if your abusive mother says she's dying and wants to see you after years of cutting her out of your life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20m] have been dating a girl [20f] that I'm close fiends with for 2 months now. The timing just doesn't feel right after a long relationship with my ex [20f] but I do really like her. POST: So my ex (who we'll call Laura) and I dated from high school through first year of college ...
I'm dating a girl I've been friends with for a long time. Feel like I need time to recover after dating an ex. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [23 F] gets mad when I [23 M] tell her I'm hanging out with my friends POST: This is throwaway for obvious reasons. But we've been together for a year. And our relationship like any other has their ups and downs every now and then but for the past few months. My relationships ...
my girlfriend gets mad at me and gives me the cold shoulder when I mention I'm going out with my friends. Told her I was going to a birthday party after work and gave me cold shoulder.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] and [21 M] seem to both be into each other, however, we are both very shy. POST: So me and this guy met a few weeks back and we totally hit it off. We hungout together, shared common interests and overall enjoyed each others company. He said he was glad he met me and stated...
Me and this guy met, are into each other it seems, both shy, don't know how to make a move.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Surprise!! [long post, has tldr at bottom] POST: So, I'm new to this subreddit. I have a story that excites me along with making me nervous. Let's start with the man of my dreams [FH] and I decided we wanted to get married. Idea#1: traditional save, save, save. Big event, spend l...
FH has been married before doesn't want large wedding. We decided to invite people to an engagement party and surprise them with the wedding. Booze will be provided.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[21M] am trying to fix the lack of emotional intimacy with my gf[22F]. POST: Background: My gf and I have been together for 4 years in a somewhat LDR. We went to different colleges in states right next to each other so it wasn't that bad. There was a lot of up and downs and whenever...
Been with gf for 4 years, starting to feel like a shity bf, how do I fix it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by missing my flight by two days POST: Just venting right now. A couple of hours ago I opened my laptop at Starbucks to double check my itinerary. And I did a double take at the date. For like 5 months I could have sworn I was leaving for Morocco at 4 am on 12/15. But my flight was sched...
In March I bought $1000 ticket for vacation in morocco and just found out I missed the flight by two days<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: ExBF (male, 23) said some pretty unforgivable things. Am I right to never talk to him again? POST: I broke up with my ex-bf 2 months ago after we got into a huge fight. I ended our perfect 5-year relationship after we've lived together for 4 of those years. After we broke up, h...
My ex is jealous/ resents me, now I hate him. What should I do? I'm sad about how our perfect relationship ended. We never used to fight like this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] am interested in my friend [20 F] but there is another guy [18 M] I am afraid might get there before me. POST: First off I'm super beta. So I have a class with this girl S, its week 7 (out of 10) right now so we have known each other that long. We always talk after class or ...
Girl I am interested in might be getting closer to another guy. I'm beta as fuck, how do I get ahead?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 20M money and parents question. POST: Lately ive been feeling unhappy about going to work (parttime cashier) and going to school (full time 15 units) I'm always stressed out and always unhappy and my parents are noticing. I finally told my mom how unhappy i was with going to sc...
Am i wrong for asking my parents for gas money just to go to school? I know they won't care i just feel helpless and depressed that i have to rely on them more than I already do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: 2.5-year-old terrier mix loses his shit when motorcycles/scooters go by POST: My 2-1/2 yo. westie mix generally behaves very well out at the park. BUT! Our big issue: any time a loud bike/scooter passes close to us, he either (a) lunges very hard (if leashed), or, (b) chases it for a l...
Dog is otherwise well-behaved but freaks out when motorcycles go by; can't really change our situation and am wondering how to train the behavior away.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] 2 years, what to do after break-up POST: Hi, At the moment I'm sort of on a break with my girlfriend who lives in a different city, but I want to properly end things when I can next see her in a few weeks. Not really looking for advice on that fro...
Do I avoid my soon to be ex-girlfriend as much as possible over summer by making different plans to her so we can hang around with our shared friends at different times?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Yelling ALLAHUACKBAR to A Random Old Muslim POST: Well I did it... I fucked up. I knew one day I'd be the one on the other side typing a fuck up and I guess that's today. He's still in the stall next to me as I tap away. So me and my friends are Muslims with sikh humor (get it, not t...
Was in bathroom at place 'o prayer. Old man walked in wearing same socks as friend. Decide to be funny and scream praises of God to his face. Ended up as distraction from the devil.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Am I right in feeling this way? (21M) POST: My girlfriend (20F) and I have been dating for a year and two months. This mutual acquaintance through which we met has recently made the effort to become friends again after he apologized for his previous behavior probably a year ag...
my girlfriend has planned to go on a group trip with her roommate, all ours mutual acquaintance and his girlfriend and i have been excluded.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Your Help/Advice/Guidance Requested POST: Nessie is my 11 year old cairn terrier. She's exceptionally full of life, crazy and is basically my little sister. Ever since mid-November she's been having GI issues. Vomiting/diarrhea, you get the picture. It wasn't really regular or tied to anythi...
Every couple of days, Satan comes out of both ends of my dog, then retreats, then comes again. How do I exorcise this demon from my dog<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: A bit of advice POST: Our wedding is on Saturday. So far we've done everything ourselves - and I do mean everything. Invitations, decorations, favours, we were even planning on buying wholesale flowers and doing all that ourselves too until we found a florist who'll do it all at a...
bit of advice: Hiring a coordinator for the last week before the wedding seems like a fantastic idea. You should do it. I wish I had.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] How do I break up with my girlfriend [19/f] who was forcibly raped as a child without hurting her feelings? POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about five months and recently began having sex. I was crazy about her and waited a long ass time to have sex thinki...
Girlfriend was raped as a child. I don't have time to wait on her to get comfortable. How do I break up with her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I F(21)love the "chase" aspect of dating/relationships. I see this as being a problem in the future. POST: I can't really remember a period of my life when I wasn't "talking"/seeing a guy. I've never been guy crazy, but I've always seemed to have one in my life even when I'm not look...
I feel kind of trapped/uninterested once I receive the attention I want in a relationship. Want to kick these feelings to the curb, but not sure how to<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How do I forget about a best friend? POST: I have been friend-zoned. Deep. Very Deep. I am trying to accept this fact, but it is hard. Me and this girl (both sophomores, 15 y.o.) have been friends for years, and i have had a big crush on her for the past year. We text every night, pr...
I'm a sophomore, in love with my sophomore Best friend who obviously doesn't have any types of feelings for me. She likes a Junior on my soccer team, so i see her constantly. How do i forget about her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I wish I would never be asked out again... POST: I am a 21 year old asexual female that, before this year, had never had to deal with being asked out. I'm not a very attractive person (overweight and homely at best) so all I really had to do to avoid interest was wear baggy clothes, and...
How can I avoid being asked out in the future and can I salvage the friendships of the guys I've had to reject?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Alrighty, I just got out of a relationship and now I'm confused as to what a new girl is saying. POST: So, hey guys and gals! For reference: My now ex GF = **A**. My best friends ex/girl I am talking to = **B** INTRO: My GF of one and a half years just split and I was immediat...
Broke up with GF, immediately starting looking for new girl, gets close to getting new girl, now confused by statement.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend, [23 F] wants me, [25 M] to delete all of my exes from all social media. Is she being too controlling? POST: My girlfriend of 6 months recently said that she is uncomfortable with me still being friends with my exes on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc, although I neve...
Girlfriend wants me to remove ex girlfriends from social media accounts. Am I in the wrong for thinking that's a little much?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: UK company fails to deliver my package internationally to Singapore, lies about contacting the delivery company about missing package POST: So a UK based company that I ordered protein powder from fails to make sure the delivery company (parcelforce) gets my package to me in 4-5 days (...
company fails to ensure delivery on time, lies about contacting the deliverer and making an enquiry, claims refund cannot happen till this 'investigation' is completed, possibly to circumvent the distance regulation laws on refunding.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: My dog is displaying threatening behaviour towards my partner- help?! POST: My partner (26M) and I (25F) adopted a 2 1/2 year old Beagle X Fox Hound a bit over a month ago. We don't know anything about his previous owner, but he was quite jumpy at loud noises when we first got him, ver...
our rescue dog appears to be protective of me (especially when food is involved?) and his behaviour is escalating towards my partner.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Looking for some direction in regards to my financial future and education. POST: Hey there everybody, First off thanks in advance for any help/time anybody offers me and I apologize if this isn't the perfect place for this question, though I looked at the rules and looked around...
I want to start school to improve my financial future, What Majors/Career paths should I look into and would it be better to stick with my current career path to parlay my experience and history into a better job sooner.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19m] with my ex [17F] of 2 years, emailed me. don't know what to think of it. POST: my ex and i dated for roughly 2 years. i really loved her and i am sure she loved me. we were best friends aside from lovers. of course there were problems just like any relationship but being sil...
ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago haven't spoken since. today she emails me a song i used to sing her and nothing else. should i ask why she sent me it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Where to get financial help for college when my parents make too much money? POST: (This is probably going to be really long, so be prepared) I am a junior at a public university, and recently my parents have not been able to help me with any finances. I really am trying to be frugal, a...
My parents make a lot of money, but are hesitant and in too much dept to actually support me right now so I'm looking for other options.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [18F] grandmother [70sF] keeps giving me unwanted gifts. POST: My grandmother (my dad's mom) is always trying to do nice things for me. While I appreciate them, sometimes it seems like her intentions are misguided. For example, she once purchased some blue jeans for me and maile...
I told my grandma I appreciated but didn't want her to give me a very expensive ring, but she's sending it to me anyway.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Severe Chaffing(?) Problem - Please Help POST: Hi, I could really use your guys' help. I've been trying to get into running but have had a huge barrier. After running ~1 - 1.5 miles I get severe itching, painful almost rash like symptoms pretty much everywhere. I have no friends who are in...
I have a HUGE chaffing problem after only a mile, so I cover myself in BodyGlide, still sucks.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am in love with a girl [F, 21] halfway around the world and can't get over her. POST: I'm a normal college kid, in a fraternity, okay socially, but could do better with girls. About a year ago I met this girl in one of my classes, and slowly over the months we became great ...
girl I can't get over is halfway around the world until December, and I don't know what to do at this point.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I use $5,000 on getting rid of my loan, or buying a car? POST: Hello, It might be a stupid question with a straight forward answer. But I need your advice to keep my brain clear. Me and my girlfriend have been living together for 3 years now. 8 months ago we got a son. We ...
Family wants to be independant with a car, but is in $6,000 debt - should we use $5,000 on a downpayment on a car, or to get rid of our debt?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 M] recently cut all ties with my unrequited love[29 F] of five years, and I want to get back in touch. POST: I met a girl about five years ago, a little more now. She is absolutely amazing, she's got a great personality, likes all the obscure things that I like, she's different...
Met a wonderful girl, became friends, she didn't want anything more, I cut off all ties, now I want to know if I should get back in touch again.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] want to destroy my relationship with both my girlfriend [23/F] and best friend [23/F] by calling off my marriage and telling my best friend that I have loved her for years POST: It has been killing me for a long time. I love my girlfriend. I do. But it is just that I love m...
I love my fiance but I love my best friend of many years more...and I feel like I should tell them?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] need advice for how to deal with my new [17F] girlfriend. POST: Alright, to start this off I gotta mention I have terrible trust issues (partly because of cheating and partly due to people just being shitty), so the fact I've even made it this far is a milestone. I met this...
I meet a girl I like, and everything in the universe is making it impossible for her to even have a relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] and my gf [28F] 3 years. I want to travel long term, and not necessarily with her. POST: Hard to explain how I'm feeling. I love this girl, but I am not sure I am IN love with her. Over the past year or so, I have been feeling the passion in my life (in general) depleting, a...
Want to travel to re-invigorate life. Don't necessarily want to go with current gf, but terrified of breaking her heart and leaving her single @ 28 years old.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: He [24/m] broke up with me [24/f] out of the blue after making loads of promises POST: So last week I was left MASSIVELY in the lurch after my bf of 3 months (I'd met and talked to him online for 2 1/2 months prior so really 5 months) dumped me really out of the blue. Literall...
someone lead me on a merry dance really making me think we had a future and dumped me out of the blue before things "got serious". why would he do that?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you end a friendship? Me [F22] with friend [M20?] and bf [M27] POST: Friend and I have been friends for only a few months, not counting the summer where I was out of state with my boyfriend. The boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years, and I will be moving in ...
Platonic friend came on way too strong, don't want to disrespect my boyfriend so I'm breaking it off. What's the best way to do it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Loneliness is a Terrible Poverty (I feel lonely...) POST: So this may seem like one of those problems that doesn't really matter at all and it just seems like I am complaining about it or over thinking it, but it has been bothering me for a long time so here goes. I am depressed...I su...
In relationships and socialability, it just seems like I can't function, and I want nothing more than to be able to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37F] still affected by mental abuse of ex [49F] and it is spilling over into current relationship [36F] POST: I was with my ex partner for 12. We fought a lot but we also had good times. Although I wasn't physically attracted to her, I thought she was a good person. Looking back ...
issues brought up by my exes emotional abuse, finding hard to shake, fear i'm going to ruin current relationship with my fears,<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I (23f) have sex with him (26m)? POST: So we met about a month ago and hit it off right away. We've hung out at least twice/week since we met and haven't had sex, but we have done everything else. I wanted to develop a friendship and some respect before I gave it up. The...
seeing a guy for about a month, afraid to have sex with him because I'm not sure if he's playing me or not.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: boyfriend accused me of cheating, I think it ruined us POST: my (29F) boyfriend (33M) of 3 years accused me of cheating on him. I have never cheated on him, never lied to him, and have never done anything to make him think he cannot trust me. Our relationship, up to this point, had b...
Boyfriend accused me of cheating on him when I didnt, now our relationship is starting to suck. Dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am a 30 M dating a 28F and not sure how I feel physically about her. Thoughts? POST: Thank you in advance for your thoughts and opinions. I will first start out by saying I have had a few relationships (2 lasting 2yrs+) and have dated quite a bit in my adult life. So I feel I kn...
Dating a woman I do not find physically all that attractive(body). Have you had that experience, if so how did you overcome it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 F] with a love interest/friend [32/M], is it wrong to have most meetings planned in advanced? POST: So, I always describe myself as socially awkward and a very private person. I don't pick up on cues very well and prefer directness. I also prefer having outings planned out. An...
Is it okay that I prefer to have the majority of my social interactions planned out in advance, or am I too rigid?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [Alberta, Can] Me [31 M] with my ex [29 F] Shes moving and wants to take our daughter with her. [9 F] POST: My ex and I have been separated for about 7 years, and have verbal, split 50/50 custody of our daughter from day 1. No support payments made to either side. She got married about...
Ex is trying to move with our daughter, we share custody 50/50 and I'm just unsure of my rights and what happens if it goes to court. Thanks in advance!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F18] went drinking with crush(?) [M19] and friends. Some confusion surrounding what I can remember. POST: No throwaway cause amazingly I've woken up buzzed. (I plan on asking the guys I was with about this but I suspect they're hungover as shit right now.) So I'm completely a li...
Though I'm mostly a lesbian, got drunk with who I believe to be my first male crush. Next to nothing happened. What gives?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: First Time Arrest, Summons for Court, Options? POST: I'm originally from Kansas, went to St. Louis for a camping trip and meeting with a photographer for naturist/nude photos. Went okay until he brought up this story about how he was asked to photograph nude some place in Cali (where ...
Ran naked on an overpass on I-44 briefly and got arrested. Could've been a misdemeanor but now summoned to appear in court, What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] and my girlfriend [18 F] have been together for a year, but I don't love her anymore. How do I break up with her? POST: Hi guys. My gf and I have been together for a year now. She is two years younger than me and we met in college. I just graduated this year. And after that...
I don't love my girlfriend anymore, but I don't want to hurt her. Should I break up with her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I took pictures of a guy who stole a car and police need the pictures but they are corrupt. How can I fix them? POST: I was minding my own business browsing r/videos or something when a car slowly drives its way down our street and parks. Now I recently just bought a house that had been ...
I called in some suspicious activity and I took some pictures of what was going on. The police need the photos for a man hunt but they are corrupt. Ultimate pics or it didn't happen. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU when i received a package. POST: So the other day, I went to get the mail from my new Canada Post community mailbox. At the time, we only had the mailbox for a week or so. So I went down, opened my mail slot and took the mail, including a key for the package door. When you receive a pack...
I misplaced the key for a mailbox package door, my dad gets angry, and i receive the package the next day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: AZ - I pressed charges against my ex-boyfriend after he abused me. He failed to complete counseling, a warrant was issued, and subsequently quashed. This isn't justice - what can I do? POST: My ex-boyfriend physically abused me, which resulted in several severe contusions as well as a ...
My ex-boyfriend violated the terms of a plea deal by not completing DV counseling. His warrant was just quashed. How can I seek justice? I don't understand how he can get away with what he did.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] of three years has been feeling useless and worthlese and thinks that breaking up with me [22M] will fix that? [xpost /r/relationship_advice] POST: So I've been dating this girl. And she's amazing. The amount of support she provides me is just unreal and the thing...
Girlfriend has become less motivated and more useless over the course of three years while dating me, thinks breaking up will fix that. I think it could be clonal depression, but she's not listening.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: (NJ) Debt collectors just emptied my bank account. What can I do? POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons. So a while ago my mother and sister committed credit card fraud and took out several cards in my name and never made payments on them. I was attending college and not livi...
Family took out credits cards in my name and never paid them back. Debt collectors are taking their money. How do I fix my life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Argument between me (m, 21) and my girlfriend (18), am I justified being pissed off? POST: 1 year in. We work together. I went in there today about an hour and a half before she finished work to buy some things for Christmas. I hung around the centre to buy other things. Just before ...
My girlfriend greeted me with "I'm going" as she was walking away and got pissed off when I responded with "ok". Who fucked up here?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Employer refusing to pay for two days of my two weeks notice: Can they do this? POST: I gave two weeks' notice to my previous job (at a private daycare in CT) so that I could start another teaching job for the new school year. Because this was the last two weeks of the school year...
Last job refusing to pay me for days that other employees were paid for because I had given my two week's notice to quit. Is there anything I can do about this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: What is the best way to approach a prosecutor about arranging a plea deal? POST: Charge: Misdemeanor, Shoplifting < $200 State: Virginia To the point, I did it, though there were some extenuating circumstances. Not saying that any of this is a good reason, though it's where my mind ...
Trying to reduce shoplifting charges. Done everything I can think of to improve my chances and get my life back together. Not sure I can afford a lawyer. What are my best options?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my friend[21 F] duration, rejected 2 years ago confession now. POST: I tried to date her and she said at the time that she saw me too much of a brother(brother-zoned!) and that she rather keep it like that. Now two years ago I was a 300 pound guy. Two years passed, an...
My bestfriend told me she likes me after 2 years when I got rejected. Should I tell her I still like her as well, even though I am leaving the state for the next two years?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My longtime friend was a terrible boyfriend to his ex. We've fallen for each other but she says she can't be with me. Help? POST: My longtime friend was dumped by his girlfriend several months ago. He doesn't have many friends, mostly due to his hostile attitude and severe vide...
I want to be with a girl who dumped a shitty "friend" of mine. He might kill me if I do, so she says we can't date, even though we've fallen for each other.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with [22 F], feels like a game, trying to figure out what to do after last night. POST: Gotten continually mixed signals from this girl, finally decided to just not worry about casually pursuing her around late last week. Then all of a sudden we end up at the same music sho...
Mixed-signals girl gets flirty while having a good time at a show, I fail to reciprocate equally, awkwardness ensues.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: F(18) GF callled me predictable in bed, says it's not a bad thing should i (20) M be more creative? POST: So here goes, my gf of 2 years and i were talking about our sex, and she tells me, "for some reason it was different last night, you felt allot bigger than normal in that positio...
GF called me predictable , but i feel like i do mix it up , is she just being forgetful or should i be worried and reading some sex guides ?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25 F] boyfriend's [25 M] friends are in town for the holidays and he has said that he will be virtually unavailable to me, is this something I should just accept? POST: My boyfriend of 6 months has old friends in town because of the holidays. This is the once a year that he gets ...
long time friends of my boyfriend have come into town for a couple week, is it acceptable for me to have my already-little time with him reduced?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Lost the perfect girl for me because I lost almost all ambition in many aspects of my life... POST:...my university grades dropped, I stayed a hermit in my apartment, barely leaving except for the few times I went to class and work, also drinking to the point of blacking out every pa...
> girlfriend of almost 4 years broke up first thing this year, I want to do a crazy romantic gesture when I move back to her town in May, I need help with ideas :)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my Neighbor [60s? F] 1 week, She pounds on our wall when she hears any noise... even if it's coming from random people outside. POST: I just moved into an apartment with my boyfriend. His parents own the apartment/condo and he used to live here in college, moved out an...
Neighbor across the wall likes to blame any noise she hears on us and will pound on our wall and scream... even when we are sleeping. How do I get her to stop?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: 1st Year Fine Art Student. Is dropping out the right choice? POST: I am going to a very small fine arts college in my state. I am learning basics of sculpting, painting, drawing, and elements of art. Right now going to class is rarely exciting, more of a nuisance to attend. Shouldn't I be e...
Attending Fine Arts school, unsure if it is fit for a digital artist especially with the underwhelming work of the senior class.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my sisters [26F/26F] over watching my cheating dad who is sick POST: My dad is not a perfect one. He views my mom as like a maid. He has a lot of mistresses. But despite this, he is still my dad. I have 2 older twin sisters. Both of them married. One has a baby girl. T...
My sisters want me to give up my work to take care of my dad because I'm still single and don't have a lot of responsibilities. How do I approach this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: MMORPG Revenge - In due time POST: **Preface:** Over a year ago, I was in a semi-hardcore raiding guild in World of Warcraft. I wasn't the most well liked, but I did my best to be polite and kind to other guild members. **Plot:** One particular guildmate enjoyed picking on me and gi...
Guy was a dick to me and I kept him from getting his dumb (sentimentally valued) character name in a video game.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Think you have an embarrassing story? Try and top this one. POST: So I recently picked up the awesome hobby of longboarding. I have a job that I have to work 8 to 5 every Saturday and Sunday and all day I have been itching to finally take my board to a park that has some nice little hill...
Went longboarding, got cocky, board went in lake, tloft went in lake, shame walked back to my car. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ways to suppress feelings for my[26m] close friend[25f]? POST: I met a girl at a party last year. We talked for a bit, kissed, and agreed to meet at another party the next week. There, I tried to pick up where we left off, but she just went completely cold on me. I don't know what ha...
I have strong feelings for a girl I know, but I don't want to throw away a friend just because I can't keep my emotions under control. Any advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] was just told that our relationship might not be working out by my SO [23F] POST: I[24M] was told that there is no passion in our relationship anymore. For context my SO[23F] and I have been together almost 2 years. We were long distance for a significant amount of time at th...
I [24] was told by my GF [23] that there was no passion anymore in our relationship. Unsure what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24,M] with my Brother [30, M] trying to help him get out of an abusive relationship. POST: So, my Brother (let's call him Dave) is currently in a marriage with a VERY abusive girl (Ellie, for our purposes.) They've been married for about 7 months now, and in that time She's grow...
I want to get my brother out of an abusive relationship, but am not sure how. What can I do to help him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Suggest a strategy for using a 0% credit card to help pay down some other high-rate cards? POST: I'm trying to get my personal/family finances in order and I could use some suggestions. Most pressingly, I'm super focused on eliminating ~$11k in credit card dept (spread across 4 car...
Please suggest optimal strategies for using a credit card with 0% interest on balance transfers to pay off other high-interest cards?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (20M) broke up with me (19F) but wants to keep it open for reevaluation POST: My boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me two weeks ago. We were fighting about some pretty small things, but really getting under each other's skin. The break up was very sudden and not the re...
Is it unreasonable for me to ask my sort-of-ex to keep me updated on whether he's seeing other people so I'm not blindsided by the hope of getting back together?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Caught my LDR SO of 6 months cheating on me last night. POST: My girlfriend (19F) and me (17M) have been in a very good relationship until a few weeks ago and I found it was because she was cheating on me. This is my first relationship and my first serious relationship and I'm not su...
6 Month LDR cheated on me and I want to give her a second chance but I'm not sure if I should.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving eye drops in my back pocket POST: I fucked up super bad. So very very bad. I got some backstory to put the actual story into context. Oh and this happened about 7 hours ago. So my cousin came to my wrestling tournament Saturday and was going to spend the night, he had a vape ...
I got blazed on the way to my cousins and brought eye drops, they fell out of my pocket and insta suspicion from my dad. He's gonna drug test me. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25/m] broke with my boyfriend [21 M] of seven months, I'm devastated, and having a hard time moving on POST: I'll cut to the chase. It was a nasty, NASTY breakup. Words were said, things were broken, feelings were hurt. Anyway, I broke up with him because I caught him flirting, se...
Broke up with my boyfriend of seven months. I'm having difficulty coping and moving on. I NEED HELP PLEASE.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16/M] have a crush [16/F] and was turned down. But now, I'm not so sure... POST: To start off the girl in question (let's call her Amy) and I have known each other for quite a few years. But this past year, we started talking a lot more and quickly became very good friends. Most ...
Got friend-zoned but her actions when in around her recently are telling me exactly the opposite, don't know how to proceed w/o jeopardizing our friendship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/F] found out that my boyfriend [23/M] cheated on me through kik POST: Hi, I recently posted on this site earlier but found out some new information that changes things so I'd like to get some more opinions. I'm sorry if I'm clouding this site, this will be my last post, promise...
Bf cheated on me through kik and now I don't know how to act around him and whether I'm overreacting.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my roommate I think his girlfriend is faking it. POST: So yeah, happened a few hours ago. Our walls are mega thin, and you can literally hear someone typing through the walls. My flatmate had his girlfriend over, and she is very vocal when she is being "pleasured". Anyway I h...
flatmate's gf was loud, turns out it was during a blowjob, said I think she was faking, flatmate pissed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: In Texas, Doctor's office called Aetna and told me procedure was 100% covered with my plan. I still have their voicemail that says so. Later, I was billed $1,400. Help! POST: I waited months to be covered by insurance so I could finally get an IUD. I found an OBGYN (I live in Texas) wh...
Doctor's office told me procedure was 100% covered with my plan. I still have their voicemail that says so. Later, I was billed $1,400. Help!)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wanting to share deep literary ideas with others, but nobody to share them with. POST: Hello Reddit, Made an account to ask this, plus to keep for a long while too. I love literature and examining it, especially classics, and I love to share those ideas with others (currently in an Engl...
I can't share ideas about good books because everyone I know is a fucktard and I need advice. Also, post your stories of being alienated like this... for science of course<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by mowing the neighbors lawn POST: So today I went over to mow my neighbors lawn. I'm 16 and could really use the cash for gas money. So I get started mowing and everything is going as planned, as I was mowing underneath a tree I looked up and saw a in a nest in a tree that my neighbor t...
I mowed over a baby bird, washed away the bloody evidence, then had ice tea and peach cobbler as a gift for a job well done.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my WIFE [20 F] of 2 Years. She is being courted by an extremely wealthy man. We need money badly. Things are moving fast. HELP! POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons. My wife works at Hooters and recently met a old man (60) who is extremely high up in a certain ...
Multi-Millionaire seducing my wife offering to buy her apartment etc, should we play his game and take what we can or kindly refuse in fear of him finding out about me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] worried about a friend [18M]. POST: This is my first time posting to /r/relationships, so I'm sorry if this is a bit of a rough post, but I was hoping to find some help to a problem I am having with a friend. My friend has become rather obsessive over his crush. Beyond the ...
Friend is obsessed with a crush, but knows it will never happen. What can he do to try and get over it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [21M] just called and told me[22F] that he just found out he has an STD, and I am with someone new now POST: I ended a relationship with a guy I was seeing since high school, we stopped seeing each other because we didn't really get along very well. This was about 6 months ago....
Ex bf gave me chlamydia, new bf probably has it because of me and I don't know how to tell him<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [17/f] tired of my boyfriend's [16/m] friend [15/m] calling me a whore, and not accepting me as part of the friend group in general. What should I do? POST: My boyfriend told me that his best friend has repeatedly called me a whore, and said that I am not trustworthy. To ...
Boyfriend's friend calls me a whore and excludes me from the friend group. Boyfriend tries to disregard it but I am worried. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/f] my gay guy friend [20/m] is obsessed with his former friends-with-benefits guy [19/m] and it is driving me nuts... POST: So I'm part of this close group of friends that have hung out together for a few years and recently this gay guy friend (I'll call him C) joined our g...
It would be helpful if you read the whole thing. But basically a gay guy friend is obsessed with my other friend and I'm caught in the middle. Help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] confused as to what's going on between me and [19M] POST: I need some advice guys (literally. A guy's perspective is what I need) I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now and I've grown feelings for him. He knows this. Anyway notes version: We spoke literal...
guy I've been seeing for a month tells me he likes me and wants to work something out together but I'm beginning to feel lead on and like he's losing interest... but he won't tell me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] met [23M] on dating site, texting for about 2 months now first phone convo tonight. What are some things we can talk about or break the ice with? POST: I have not dated for awhile so I decided to give the online dating scene a spin. I met a guy that I find very attractive an...
First time talking on the phone with a guy I like. Haven't done this in forever and I'm nervous, what should I say??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do black teens find "sagging" their pants fashionable? Are belts too expensive? POST: I understand this is stereotypical, but I live in a fairly diverse neighborhood and I see black teenagers walking down the street quite often. More often than not, their pants are halfway down their...
I see black kids sagging their pants. Public perception sometimes stigmatizes these kids, but they don't take it upon themselves to put a belt on. What's the motivation behind this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: During my senior year of high school, my friends and I pulled a prank to only have the prank spoiled by another group doing the exact same thing, but differently. Reddit, what pranks have you pulled that were spoiled by someone else? POST: The last week of the school year in my high scho...
Pig prank gets spoiled by others doing exact same prank. They got the brunt of the punishment and we got away clean.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19 M] inability to get over my ex [19 F] of 9 months has been hindering me for the past 4+ years. POST: I dated the same girl at age 13 (for 2 months) and 15 (for 9 months), but over four years have passed and I still have hang ups from this.I had been in a relationship with anot...
Recent relationships (with great women) aren't satisfying. I don't feel as close to them, as I did when my emotional/hormonal younger self first dated a girl.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Transitioning from friendship to relationship. POST: Hey all! One of my best friends (19F) and I (19M) have known each other for about four years now. We are and have been very close for the majority of this time, and, over the past couple years, have had some romantic flings that u...
Going from a very close friendship to a full-fledged relationship with one of my best friends. Need tips on how to successfully make the transition.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I am struggling (21M) to stop feeling insecure about having graduated a virgin? POST: I'm obviously not as unattractive as I used to believe since I had my ex for 15 months and mostly screwed it up with a combination of insecurity and my mental health taking a downturn. She was reli...
I'm sure I've asked this question before except it was "would you cheat on/dump your boyfriend if he told you he was a virgin"...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am having a problem with my crush [21 F] because she is driving me crazy POST: Hi guys, I met that girl in college about 2 months ago and I fell in love with her, for the first time of my life. So 2 weeks later, after we talked a bit and we know we shares some interests, I ...
Crush is driving me crazy by her actions even (or especially) she knows about my feeling and I dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by doing a project POST: My teacher gave us this assignment and said we would have to take a test if we didn't do the assignment. So here I am writing this entire project, staying up until 2AM Monday and Tuesday. I finish it, and turn it in, only to see that nearly the entire class didn'...
I wasted an entire week working on a project that I have to present when I could have just aced a test instead<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How long should I [24F] wait before asking where I stand with my FWB [28M]? POST: We have been sleeping together every weekend and some weeknights for about 4 months, usually after a night out. I've met all his roommates and he's met mine, we get along very well and have established ...
I fell for the guy I was sleeping with. Told him. He said we would do more. We didn't. Now What?<|endoftext|>