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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my ex-GF [17 F], were in a 1+ year relationship - broke up around 2 months ago, have to see her every day at school with another guy and I can't move on POST: Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago after mutually agreeing that our relationship probably wouldn't last after ...	Me and my ex-gf broke up 2 months ago, 3 weeks later she got with a guy, I see them together every day and I feel immense overwhelming sadness every single day and it's ruining me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [26m] tell the girl I'm seeing that I'm moving across the country in two months? POST: I've been best friends with this girl since high school. I recently moved back home and she has been hinting that she's into me (we flirt a lot touch, cuddle, makes remarks about us being ...	Falling in love with my best friend but there's bagge from her previous relationship and I will be moving across the country in a couple months. Not sure whether to tell her and just stay friends or pursue her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] have a crush with a guy [19 M] for the last 8 months and he liked my picture on facebook! POST: I might be over analyzing everything, there's a guy in my school who I like a lot. Just in the moment I propose myself to forget about him, he appears somehow. He and I are fri...	Guy a like from school, knows that I like him, and he avoids me and Ignore me, but he liked a picture of my facebook, where I am with a friend, and where I am smiling very naturally.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I an asshole for wanting to dump someone because they can't get it up? POST: I'm a 22 year old female and I've been seeing this 26 year old guy for two months now. He has been an exceptionally sweet guy, except for a few things but no one is perfect! But, every time we have tried ...	boy and girl just started dating. Boy can't get it up. Is it okay to end things just because of that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Dr. told me I'm killing myself but I don't see it as motivation to change. POST: I briefly posted about this on r/depression. Long story short, I've got some hereditary issues that just came to light and the doctor told me that I need to start taking them seriously. I've got to commit...	Dr. said to shape up or I'd see an early grave but depression is keeping me from seeing that as a bad thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are women's REAL take on sexuality? POST: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be ...	I think prudish women are more a result of cultural habits, not biological. Just like insensitive men. Am I right or am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [19]M am getting majorly mixed messages from [20]F, need advice POST: I met this girl around a month ago, which was about a week after she had broken up with her boyfriend of 10 months (she was the dumper). Most of the time when we are together she gives strong signals that she is ...	Girl gives me signals shes interested constantly, says she isn't after that at the moment. How can I convince her to go with how I think she feels or is patience the way to go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I (24/f) talk to my very reluctant SO (23/m) about money? POST: My boyfriend and I very recently started living together. We've been together for 2.5 years. I just found out he's been hiding a $3K loan from me (on top of the $5K loan I already had to push him to pay off)...	My boyfriend refuses to talk about our finances. I think it's very important. How do I approach him about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [31M] brother-in-law [23M] wants to fuck my wife [29F]. POST: Sorry, I'm not sure if this is a good place to post this. I am 31M, my wife is 29F, my brother-in-law is 23M. I came home tonight from work to find my wife awake and needing to talk to me (she's usually asleep, I wo...	Brother-in-law wants to fuck my wife, she's disgusted and upset and is worried she's lost her relationship with him forever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [17F] "dated" a guy [18M] for a few weeks and changed my mind about him stupidly. Don't know what to do to reconcile. POST: So I'm a junior in high school. He's a senior. We've been friends this entire year and he's liked me from the beginning except for I was in a long term relation...	I wasn't sure if I was dating this guy, stupidly went to another guy because he was like my ex, and realized how stupid I was. Looking for ways of reconciliation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Should I be concerned? Low weight, short, and not as verbal as I was told he should be... POST: My son just turned 2 in June. He is a smart little booger and keeps us on our toes. I always thought he was perfect until I went to his 18 month check-up and was told he was too small and that...	2 year old is a tiny 23 lbs and doesn't talk as much as we were told he should. Any suggestions on how to try to catch him up?? Anyone else experience this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26/m] I think I'm getting cheated on again after ~8 months [23/f]. Should I just expect it at this point? POST: I've been cheated on a few times before. My first GF in high school cheated on me after a year. I had to break off a three year relationship with a girl when I was 22, aft...	Feeling like I should just expect to get cheated on at this point. Am I losing my mind or is this really the case?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over your best friend while staying best friends? POST: Basically I [21 M] have been friends with this girl [20 F] since high school, going into last year of uni now. Over the years it's gone from not having feelings, to having a crush (I always thought she was attractive...	In love with best friend. She's starting to see another guy. Is there any way possible to get over her and stay best friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[25M] am panicking right now because I'm about to lose the woman[33F] of my life POST: So, I've been with here for almost 7 years, we met when we both were student in america, she is Japanese and I'm from Belgium. We could overcome the long distance during all the time and we met a ...	I'm panicking over losing the woman I love and I feel like I only have a small chance if any to fix it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO[25M] and I[25F] have recently had several 3 ways with the same person[20F]. Will this ruin our relationship? POST: My SO[25M] and I[25F] have been together for four years, We are happy, have an already great sex life and share on odd sense of humour. We had always talked about...	My SO[25M] and I[25F] have had several MFF three ways with the same person[20F]. If this continues will it ruin our relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My gf wakes me up everytime on my day off when she works to make her coffee...this annoys me. Is that wrong? POST: I usually work night shifts but from time to time on my days off when ever my gf spends the night if she works she will wake me up early hell and ask me to make he...	my gf wakes me up on my off days when she works super early to make her coffee. This is annoying I love my sleep when I can get it. She gets mad when I express how I fell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My husband (39M) is a workaholic and neglecting me (33F). How to handle this? POST: I work a lot already: a professional full-time job plus an occasional part-time gig. I also do volunteer work, have a hobby outside the house, and go to work or social functions regularly with and wit...	my husband and I both work long hours and have fulfilling hobbies and enough alone time, but he feels restricted and I feel neglected.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit I need some help with getting my bosses to understand SOPA/PIPA. POST: I work for a fortune 500 company that is mainly internet based. I brought up the SOPA/PIPA acts to my boss who is pretty high up in the company and he didn't know what it was. I feel like my own understanding...	I need articles and information to relay to my boss so the fortune 500 company I work for can start to understand SOPA/PIPA and possibly join the fight against them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [17 M] starting to feel attracted to a [17 F] who I've become friends with in the last few months, but is worried my recently diagnosed depression/anxiety is going to get in the way. POST: Hello there, I'm searching for some advice and this looked like the place for it! So as th...	Depression might get in the way of a possible relationship with a girl I'm really attracted to, should I wait it out for an unknown amount of time until 'it gets better'or just try to ignore my low mood?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Any advice on eating throughout the day despite never being hungry?(details inside) POST: Hey there! New to posting here, though I've lurked for a while. I realize this title might lead to the wrogn thoughts, so I'll start by saying I just have a bad habit of not eating. I'm not doing it in...	I'm never hungry, don't get a lot of calories in due to this. Any way to teach myself to eat consistently? Alternatively, any better meal options to make the most of the rare times a day I do eat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by bringing the wrong presents to a party POST: This happened the other night at a dinner party at my girlfriend's friend's apartment. The Before Recently my girlfriend and I have been talking about getting back into shape (I had been playing Ultimate Frisbee for several years and ...	Brought unlabeled gifts to a dinner party, intended for my girlfriend and I, the hosts thought there were for them and opened the presents. I have now ruined Christmas.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend is getting to be clingy. POST: Hey Reddit. I'm 18M dating a 17F. My girlfriend and I were set up by a mutual friend of ours about a month ago. We both knew of each other and thought the other was attractive, but we were both too shy to do anything about it. Needless...	My girlfriend is really clingy, but I don't want to break up with her and make her think that I was using her. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Does post university dating (for people in their twenties to thirties) ever get easier? I feel like I'm the only one left. POST: Last weekend I turned 24, I got lucky and found work right out of graduation as an accounting clerk. I've been with the company for a year now and have begun taki...	24 years old. After graduating and finding work it seems like people my age don't exist. I've joined co ed clubs and dating sites. Everyone seems to already be in a relationship or live 1 - 2 hours away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Trust issues? Jealousy? Just longing? WTF is this!? POST: Heya reddit. Me (27M), her (23F).Back story is that I met this girl on OK Cupid and we have been officially dating for a little more than 2 months. For the most part everything is great. We talk about everything, share many co...	GF seems unsure or even worried about me when I go out, shit blew up when I told her I am moving in with a buddy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Student loans POST: I currently have 48k in student loans and I'm just starting my third year. My parents just got divorced. My mom isn't going to help at all and my dad can't help too much. We are probably on the borderline of middle/lower class (closer to middle) as we have enoug...	I have 48k in student loans and I am starting my third year. Is this too much or am I freaking out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] ex-boyfriend [24M] professed his love for me after not seeing him for 5 years. POST: Last night I received a message through Snap chat from my ex stating that even though he hasn't seen/talked to me for 4+ years, I am the love of his life and he loves me deeply. I don't have...	Obsessed ex-boyfriend from 5 years ago is supposedly in love and I don't know if I should let my boyfriend know.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (27f) best friend from middle school/high school (26f) reached out to my mom (60f) via social media to ask for a pretty significant loan. Not sure how to approach this. POST: My former best friend and I are still on good terms, however she stayed in our hometown and I moved away o...	Old friend asked my parents for money, never talked to me about it first. Parents said no, but I'm not sure if I should talk to her about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Should I [22M] give it one last shot with my new ex [22F] before moving on for good? POST: Heres some background info. We dated for just under a year. We ended because we both felt something was off and I addressed it. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore because after a co...	Broke up due to mutual issues but I want to try again. How do I go about doing it. (Reading the background info is important to understand the context. I made it as short as I could.)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [F/28] I'm pretty religious, but my boyfriend [M/29] isn't at all. Those who are religious with atheist SO's, how do you make it work? POST: I've been with my scientist boyfriend for about 6 months and everything is going great. We have interesting conversation and being that we have...	God is a big part of my life, but not so for my boyfriend. Is this a fundamental incompatibility, or is there hope for us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [26f] doesn't want to dance with me anytime I [26m] ask, but when I gave a friend permission to dance with her she went instantly when asked. POST: We have been together for over 6 years and every time we go to a club or place where there is dancing I want to dance, but...	My girlfriend is immediately to dances with my friend with my permission, but doesn't want to dance with me even later on that night.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30 M] have been dating a girl [31 F] for 8 months and now I feel pressure to... POST: We met in December. She came to the US on student visa which expired and she doesn't have a lot of options to stay in the country other than to get married. I was aware of her status when we sta...	A girl I'm dating is saying she loves me but now she wants to call it quits claiming she loves me and that I don't love her enough given her situation. Should I continue pursuing this relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [31 M] suck at communicating financial info to my wife [28 F]. POST: I work, my wife stays home watching out 4yo autistic child. We aren't well off financially, but things are starting to look up (her sister moved in, so the extra money from rent will help). Being that I don't make...	My wife gets mad/sad when I don't tell her we're broke, gets mad/sad when I do tell her we're broke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my SO [19M] of 1 year, 7 months, is threatening to break up if i dont break contact with a close friend of 4 years! Help! POST: So, for the last three months my boyfriend has been upset with me every time I mention or talk to this friend of mine (the friend is 22 M, let...	SO wants me to break contact with a close friend or is threatening to break up with me, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: a classic sit-com set up turns out to not be so funny irl. i feel like i'm going to have a panic attack, hopefully reddit can at least help me make a clear minded decision. POST: So, I'm in love with two women. This is probably not that unusual, and actually I am probably in love wi...	do i pick the ex i thought i was meant to be with, or the potential new relationship that may never go anywhere but is a symbol of the new.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Continuing degree without parental approval and its effects on my financial aid. POST: Hello Everyone, The long short of the personal side of this story is that me and my parents have always seldom seen eye to eye on certain matters and now they believe that for my own good I should retur...	Im continuing to go to college without my parents approval and I would like to understand how to prepare my financial aid for this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (22/M) in love? POST: Hey guys. Hoping I can get some much needed advice, So about a month, I (22/M) left my abusive ex girlfriend of 3.5 years. I just couldn't take it anymore and I didn't care for her as much as I used to. The night I left, I went to my friend's house and we ...	22/m just out of abusive relationship and has feelings for another girl, but I'm really confused. Do I love her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I need to decide if I should start a proper relationship with this girl I've been seeing. Can you guys give me some advice? POST: So, I'm 21 years old, senior in college, a few emotional issues have made it hard for me to hit it off with girls. I'm lucky; I'm attractive and I can be ...	great girl that I'm not going crazy for: short fun relationship, or keep playing the feild and looking for love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: Dietary limitations are making my meals boring, help? POST: Ok, so my darling husband has high blood pressure, high cholesterol, colitis, and diverticulosis. Because of these health issues we have to be super careful about what we eat. Our meals must be low fat, low cholesterol, and mediu...	Hubby's health issues limit our meals to low-fat, low-cholesterol, medium fiber, not spicy foods. Any recipe suggestions that fit in all of those categories?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most impressive thing you've accomplished while extremely drunk? I'll start. POST: So we've all heard stories of the dumb shit people do when they're hammered. Let's hear some of the things you've done that most would say is quite impressive for someone who is very drunk. I...	I navigated the streets of a foreign country I had only been in for about 36 hours, and found my way home using only my drunk intuition.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] hate my coworkers [20's m&f] POST: Hi guys so I've been at this job for about 9 months now and it's pretty nice. Flexibility with scheduling and it's a relaxed office enviornment. That being said I can't stand my coworkers. I'm a serious worker who understands that in an offi...	I hate my job because of my coworkers and don't know if I should wait to leave after department head gets replaced.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (46F) son (21M) installed a security gate at his house to keep me and my husband (47M) away from his house. POST: My son and I have always had a pretty good relationship, he has always been very responsible and smart until recently. He started his own business about a year ago and...	Caught our son throwing a party at his house, he now has installed a security gate and refuses to give us the passcode.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [18 F] 1.5 years, I'm staying at uni for a few weeks after the end of exams, she is going straight home and isn't happy POST: Me and my GF come from the same town, and go to universities which are a short train journey apart. This means that even when we are at u...	I want to stay at uni after exams for the events with all my friends, GF is heading straight home and is unhappy that we'll be apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Not sure if this is the correct subreddit, but I need help with two conflicting interviews. POST: So I've been looking for a job for about a month now, and a friend of mine had told me that his buddy is looking for sales associates for a vape shop in a mall. I got an interview, and did well....	I got a job offer, but I have an interview in a few days for a potential better job in the field I'm studying for. Don't know how to handle the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do II [23f] deak with recent lack of sex from husband of 1 year [25m] POST: These past 2 months or so my husband has not had a lol of sex with me. We used to do it about 3 or 4 times a week and now maybe once a week. He is depressed. So these last few weeks whenever I initiate s...	= husband barely fucks me anymore. I need to stop pressuring him. I feel like the ugliest piece of shit in the world. How can I let go of this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20/F) mom (40/F) doesn't allow me to see my boyfriend (21/M) because of his past with self harm. POST: Hey all, I was hoping I could get some opinions and advice on the current situation i'm in. I appreciate it in advance. A year ago I was able to get a job in retail. I'm now me...	my mom thinks my boyfriend is dangerous and a threat to me because he used to cut himself. Haven't been able to spend time with him in 2 months<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25F) keep self-sabotaging my relationship and I really nice help. How do you keep insecurities from ruining things? POST: As the title says, I need help. I know by 25 I should be more comfortable with myself but I keep finding myself in this dark place where my insecurities are sp...	insecurities keep causing fights with my s/o and I need advice or even past experiences/insight so I don't self-sabotage and lose a great relationship!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [UPDATES] I [23F] found out he [29M] has another child. POST: Just wanted to update you guys. Previous postings on finances & infidelity [here] and learning about lying about # of kiddos [here] and [here]( In short, I am a coward. Being without him scared the heck out of me and ever...	Although I didn't stick to my guns, the end-result was still the same. And I'm doing okay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M56] dad might be cheating on my [F56] mom. POST: My mom has cinfrinted him before and be gets mad and just ignore her for a period of time that is how he is. Mom says she doesn't feel loved. He start to get better to showing some affection towards her like he kissed her on the c...	My dad has been a little fishy about things and mom is driving herself crazy thinking my dad is having an affair or not loving her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice with what to do about a relationship that ended about 3 months ago POST: So my ex boyfriend [20M] of a year and a half broke up with me [22F] about 3 months ago. I frankly have very strong feelings for him and I am unable to let go. He says he loves me but doesn't want t...	Should I let go of my ex boyfriend if he doesn't want to be with me but wants me in his life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I may have already stolen something. Help? POST: Alright so a package arrived at my house a week and a half ago. It wasn't for me-- it was for some lady whose name I've never seen before. I wrote "return to sender" on it, and left it in my mailbox, but nothing happened for 10 days. Last...	came across an iPhone in the mail. All attempts to get it to its original owner have failed. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Break-up] (22 M) I'm having a lot of trouble getting over my Ex (21F) after 7 months apart. POST: After getting out of my first semi-serious relationship 7 months ago I still have strong feelings for my ex. We only dated for around 5 months. It ended because she couldn't reciprocate...	[22 M]My ex [21F] and I broke up 7 months ago after a 5 month relationship. I still have strong feelings for her and need advice on getting over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (F25)Hoping for feedback from others who have experienced this..newly occurring "erectile dysfunction" with my SO(M29) - moving forward and foreplay problems.. POST: I'm hoping to get some guidance from some of you who have perhaps experienced this. *Background: my SO and I hav...	SO having erection problems, resentment and lots of feelings, when it does happen its a rush not to loose it=0 foreplay= not very satisfactory for me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my girlfriend [23F] of two months, kinda feel like an outsider among some of our friends. POST: My girlfriend had a birthday recently, and to celebrate we got together with a small group of friends.Unfortunately, this situation left me feeling awkward and like something...	Feel like an outsider around friends that I used to hang out with more, looking for advice on telling girlfriend (who is a part of that group).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (Is he [M/24] ignoring me [F/19]? POST: I need some advice on the situation and some insight on what's going on in his mind I guess. Last Friday, I was texting him [M/24], he says somethings that rubbed me the wrong way, and I get mad. He texts me several times over the weeke...	Haven't talked to s/o in 9 days, was on vacation 5 out of those 9 days w/o phone signal. Come back and text him, reads texts no response.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] think i'm in a toxic relationship with my boyfriend. [23M] He's not the problem. POST: I have been in my current relationship for around 6 months now. He is nearly perfect to me. This is easily the best relationship I've ever been in, and somehow, it's not good enough. Let me...	I think I'm toxic for my boyfriend, and I'm going to ruin his life. Should I break up with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my stuff in my sister's bag. POST: My mother is a bit paranoid and insists that I escort my sister to the airport everytime she needs to fly out (we always take cabs because we live away from home and I don't own a car), despite her being in college already. I decide to take ...	I left my work stuff in my sister's suitcase, she forgets it's there and boards her flight after going to the bathroom. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (29f) SO (30m) moved in temporarily. He's moving out soon. How to re-define expectations for this change? POST: Here's the deal - My SO (30M) and I (29F) had been together a few months before he moved in with me (temporarily). Under normal circumstances we wouldn't have moved i...	SO moved in for 3 months, is moving out now as planned. I'm bummed out. How to re-define expectations for when we no longer live together?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by filling my car with gas before a date POST: Happened Yesterday - I was rushing to get ready to pick up the girl (2nd date) and as I turn the car on I see that I am running low on fuel. I go to the gas station and begin pumping gas, I use the lever thing that allows you to pump hands...	spilled gas on myself before a date, tried to mask it with cologne, thought it worked until date felt sick and told me to take her home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (F18) couldn't fall back asleep this morning and my boyfriend(m20) kept yelling at me so I left and now he's mad... POST: We've been together a year. We were in bed at his house, and I could not sleep at all this morning. I woke up around 5 to pee and could not fall back asleep. My...	I couldn't sleep this morning so I went back to my house early so my boyfriend could sleep, but now he's angry at me and isn't accepting any explanations*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Forced to transfer to another job location. Fight it or go? POST: I used to work @ location A. Started at this location and was promoted twice there over a 18 month period. I was forced to move to location B; a higher volume store, which I worked less hours but made more commission. (work i...	being told I must go to a store that I'll make less money at. The ONLY benefit I see is that it's extremely close to where I live, but everything else is a con.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] just broke up with my boyfriend [31 M] of 2.5 years. I don't know what to do now. POST: Sorry for the length. I just broke up with my boyfriend last night. I know it's not easy to get over someone, and especially right away, but I did it because I'm madly in love with him an...	I just broke up with the love of my life and I am tired of overanalyzing the situation. What do I do now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my gf [28 F], im getting married soon but things have got so awkward in the bedroom that i have a panic and lose my erection POST: So, ive got into a little trouble. this issue has been going on for 8 months or so and I will be getting married in 5 months months and me...	i have become scared of having sex with my fiance and get ED lots of the time when we try and have sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend [19 F] After almost 2 years, have decided to take a break but I'm about to crack. POST: I apologise in advance if this post isn't well structured. So last Tuesday night my girlfriend had "the talk" with me and wanted to break things off and not end thing...	Agreed to cut contact for a week, have 2 and a half days to go but I feel I am ready to talk to her now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did my boyfriend (23M) really not find his past FWB (24F) attractive? POST: Hi all. A couple days ago, my boyfriend & I got into a heated discussion regarding attraction & sex. I think that in order to have sex with someone, you have to be attracted to them, even just a little bit. M...	Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't find attractive? Or is my boyfriend's claim that he didn't find this girl attractive a lie?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M23] don't want to go over my gf's [F23] house because of her dogs. POST: I have been dating this girl for more than 5 years. This problem has only come up recently because we were away at college for the bulk of those five years. Her family has 2 white dogs. Whenever I go over, t...	I no longer desire to go over the gf's house because of her dogs' behavior and family's oblivion to the dog hair.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Clothes? [M] POST: Some time ago, I was weighing in at 215, 220 on a bad day, and had been that weight for some time. I was at a size 38, which fit comfortably most of the time, if I wasn't wearing jeans/shorts I'd wear gym shorts or sweat pants. Currently my goal for the end of school yea...	Lost weight, 80% clothes don't fit/won't fit soon. How do I get more clothes on a budget?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit help! The one that got away.....is BACK, and i need advice. POST: Story time kiddies, many many moons ago in a galaxy far far aww fuck that shit here goes. Quite some years ago i became head over heels for a girl, we had some great times at concerts one of which i crashed my truc...	Mad in love with a girl i could never tell, she got away and now she is back. What do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors with divorced parents, i need someone to talk to. POST: Without getting too much into the details, my parents have been in fights (really inconsistent and with varied room inbetween fights) with each other over the last two to three years, and i think they are reaching a point ...	Parents maybe getting a divorce, i'll live through it, my smaller siblings won't take it as well, what the fuck do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Recently orphaned. What is my best option in the UK for housing? POST: I am 17 years old. My mother died when I was 13 (cancer) and my father died last Sunday (clogged valve to the lungs). I am a female. My friend said with this, I might be considered a priority but I'm unsure. I do have...	Recently orphaned, considering education as a top priority. Would it be wiser to seek a counsil flat in the UK, or to move in with a friend in America?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Age old question- is one lie enough to end my relationship? POST: Here's my story. I met my current boyfriend almost 2 years ago. We started flirting and hanging out almost immediately. We met in a new country as we were teaching at the same school. He had left his ex girlfriend be...	) my bf lied about sleeping with ex before we started dating. He didn't cheat, but he lied and now I'm not sure if I can trust him at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst thing you've said to your parents that you didn't mean? I'll start... POST: I'll start... So my dad was trying to get custody of me from my mom, and so he took my mom to court. I went back to the judges chambers, and on my way there, I had to go though the courtroom. Wh...	Dad took mom to court to get custody of me, said harsh things about mom, didn't know she could hear it all, she could hear it all, saw her crying, made me feel awful. All worked out in end.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My(32F) boyfriend(26M) traded a small problem for a really big problem... POST: My boyfriend and I (going on 3 years) are starting to build our lives together. Neither of us came from good situations, so we're trying to make a better life for our selves. We needed a new vehicle. I ha...	My boyfriend sold our working vehicle, bought one that doesn't really work, and spent the rest of our money attempting to fix it. Halp!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] boyfriend's [20M] brother [30ishM] takes advantage of him now but my BF won't do anything about it. (More inside) POST: Bit of backstory: His brother has a wife and 3 children and we rent a basement apartment under their home. My boyfriend and I have some money troubles. H...	BFs brother takes money/items from him, doesn't pay back, Our money problems affecting relationship but he won't do anything about it. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are the worst lyrics you've ever heard in your life? POST: What lyrics; be it by pop star, rap group, Finnish Grind Core band, etc, that are so terrible they make your butt pucker in distaste? To me Anything by Brotha Lynch Hung takes the cake. *"He gonna feel it I'm bout to pe...	what lyrics suck shit hard. IMO Brotha Lynch Hung. Ex: "Spit a Nigga Nut."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] have been dating her [24F] for about two weeks. Things have been going really well, but my anxiety is through the roof. POST: We met through an online dating service about two weeks ago, and since then we've really hit it off. We've gone on five dates in two weeks. I feel rea...	Have been dating a lovely girl for about two weeks, but I'm feeling a lot of anxiety. How do I relax, calm down, and just enjoy myself and her company?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My [42F San Diego CA] Daughter [16F] doesn't want to return home after visiting Non-custodial father [42M] in Houston Texas POST: My daughter [16F] who decided that she doesn't want to come back after a visit to her dad. I am a sole custodial parent @ 98%. Her father wasn't much around...	Daughter doesn't want to return home after visiting Non-custodial father in Texas. Father is not helping to improve the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] am in recovery from an eating disorder. My friend [24M] has made some triggering comments without realizing it. Not sure what to do. POST: I've had an eating disorder for over a decade- not that it matters, but it's anorexia. I don't mean to sound flippant I'm not scary thin ...	recovering anorexic of over a decade. My friend makes triggering comments. Almost no one knows about my disorder. I don't know how to handle this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I a bad person? POST: Recently I started dating a girl that I was friends with in High School, she means a lot to me, but there was one huge problem with it. She dated my best friend for two years while we were in high school (she is one year behind us). When she moved away for co...	I am dating my best friend's ex girl friend, a year after they broke up, am I a bad person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Please help: My uncle [Late 30s, M] and his fiancee [Early 30s, F] are about to fall apart right before their wedding. Religious issue. POST: This isn't for me, but a relative of mine whom I'm very close to. (Context, everybody is asian here) My uncle has been picking up meditation a...	My uncle had an out of body experience while meditating, devout christian fiancee is terrified and issues an ultimatum. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I am kinda forced by an old lady to read a book that isn't interesting to me? POST: So I was at this dinner party with my parents and their friends, and, having nothing better to do as one of the few minors there, I continued reading the Hobbit. It was maybe a few chapters later that an old...	Old woman borrowed me a boring-ish book, I am forced to read it before a few days, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] New girlfriend(?) [23/f] is giving me mixed signals, but I may just be crazy. POST: Hey guys! I recently started dating this wonderful girl a couple weeks ago. From our first date we had some AMAZING chemistry, and when on dinner dates our food gets cold because we get s...	Girl flatters me with tons of compliments but dodges DTR. Doesn't seem to be on the same page as I am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Manager baited me into shouting match then fired me. Next day owner called me in and gave me my check and says he is keeping me on payroll for 6 months. POST: Manager baited me into an altercation with him. This is second time I have had a run in with him. Last time I had to sign a warn...	Fired by manager who baited me into shouting match. Next day owner of company calls me to pick up check and says he is keeping me on payroll for 6 months because he appreciated my hard work and dedication to his company.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] name was left off my mentors [25-29F] published journal article. POST: Starting in Spring 2014 I began working in a lab on our campus. I was working directly under a graduate student on her thesis. She was a brilliant mentor to have and I consider myself very lucky to have b...	Asked to work on graduate thesis project in return for co-author on published paper - paper is now published, I am not a co-author<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my friend [24 F], how can I explain to her why my girlfriend [24 F] doesn't want me to meet with her alone? POST: So I have this friend, let's call her Alice, I met her in my final year of high school and she's an uninteresting girl who doesn't have any friends. I don'...	how to make someone understand that my girlfriend's feelings are more important to me so I'm not meeting with her anymore?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [21 M] break up with girlfriend [21 F] POST: I've been in a relationship (mostly long distance for 2 years) and recently I found out my girlfriend has been lying to me for months. She has known how I was lied to in a previous relationship and yet she still did it. The lying...	Girlfriend lied to me, it's been hard breaking up with her after what we use to be. Don't know how to breakup with her since I can't seem to fully go through with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15/m] am at a loss with my [15/f] girlfriend POST: I'm on my mobile so please have patience, I don't really know where else to go so I think you guys can give me some advice. At the beginning of the school year this girl become rather close to me. We started going out, and ende...	Ex girlfriends parents hate me and don't trust her, I still love her and want to try to make things right but she's avoiding me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Does anyone know of alternatives to knee surgery for an injured dog? POST: I have a 12 year old golden retriever who has a number of leg issues. She has arthritis in her hip, sciatica, and unstable knees. A couple of days ago she seemed to blow out one of her knees and was stumbling all ove...	12 year old dog blew out her knee, vet suggestion seems to be to have her put down. I can accept this if this is best for the dog, but what other options are there?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most awkward thing that has happened to you while you were trying to do something nice for someone? POST: A couple of years ago I had a roommate whose girlfriend regularly stayed over. She had a small dog that she would often bring with her. I came home from work one day and n...	Took roommate's GF's dog for a walk to be nice. Dog projecdiarrheas in the middle of the sidewalk while i'm chatting with the owner of the house it happened in front of.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my Ex-girl(f)riend lying to (m)e about her pregnancy? POST: So we broke up a few months ago, and I got a message from her saying that she was late for her period. She has been wanting to get back together with me for a while, but just to be safe, I listened to her and believed her...	is this a stunt by her to get back with me and get my attention? Or did she not get an abortion at all? Or was her previous abortion really just unsuccessful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Thought a girl liked me, turns out she didn't, now she won't talk to me. Any advice? POST: So basically I met this chick during work and she started acting like she liked me. She'd always glance at me and smile when we saw each other, she'd come visit during work, text me until 2am, and cal...	I liked a girl, she acted like she liked me back, now she doesn't talk to me after I asked her out. Whut do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Creative type. Two advanced degrees. Need a new job. POST: First, I am working. I'm teaching English to (mostly) wealthy students from other countries who've come to the U.S. to go to the nearby university. But, I hate it. Well, I don't hate it. I love my students and my coworkers, but eac...	Creative type. Two advanced degrees. Need a new job. Are there any creative, teamwork-centered work environments that I'm just missing out on? Am I searching wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Should I be worried about my 3 years old niece behaviours? POST: I live with my sister and my 3 1/2 years old niece in my parents' house. My niece is a sweet kid. She is smart and social, and very stubborn. Sometimes I worry that she seems to be too sensitive. She has some behaviours th...	Niece plays by herself at kinder garden and poops on the floor. She doesn't know how to explain her reasons. Should I worry or is this normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Woodforest, where I bank, gave me the information to someone else's account when I called Customer Support. POST: After trying to log in to online banking several times over the course of about a week and continually getting the message "Your account has been disabled" I decided to call ...	Woodforest gave me some other dudes info and I have full access to his funds. Want to find out how to best press charges / dissolve the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Adopted by neighborhood cat, what do? POST: So one of my neighbors has a thing for rescuing cats, last count put the number of cats at about 7 but one of the cats has "left" home a number of months ago and according to the cat lady, it no longer goes to her house to eat because of all the oth...	Someone else's rescue cat isn't getting it's needs met and has been looking to me to feed it and give it attention.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My sister (21/f) converted for her boyfriend and now they are engaged. POST: My sister got engaged a few days ago and I am not happy for her at all. Her fiance is Baptist and my sister decided to "convert" for him a while back in their relationship. I say "convert" because I do...	older sister converted to be with her now fiance and no one in my family approves and/or is happy for her or likes the fiance. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (21/m) don't know if I should continue trying with (21/f) POST: So, I met this girl through friends a couple weeks ago. We went for dinner once and I paid then we went back to her place and watched a movie with her room mates afterwards. At the end I asked her out to a concer...	Met a girl, been on a few dates don't seem to get much time away from her friends. Won't be able to see her again for a couple weeks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Male [23] with girlfriend [20] together for 1 year, with 6 month break but are back again for 5 months. Found out she has been messaging other guys sexual things. Need advice. POST: Basically, the other night when she was showing me something on her Twitter she accidentally went to h...	found out my girlfriend has been messaging guys on Twitter about having sex, but they are from different states. I am having a hard time letting go and just confused as to why she would do that.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird for me [20M] to do cutesy romantic shit with a fuckbuddy [19F]? POST: Shouldn't need too much explanation, really. I'm a fuckbuddy with this girl because I don't desire the responsibility of a bf/gf relationship and can't see myself committing myself to one girl. But, a...	Is it weird or creepy to do cute stuff with someone you have no desire of having a real, formal relationship with?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Telling An Annoying Person who my friend likes POST: So I have this friend who is going out with a girl. Lets name them F for friend, G for girl and L for loser. Now, I told L who my friend likes because an Xbox live party was glitching and I didn't see him in it. I then expanded the ...	I told a loser who my friend liked and my crush will know I love her soon. I await to have my butt kicked by her bf.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20F] long distance with my [21M] boyfriend. Close to breaking up but staying together for now, question about how often we Skype? POST: We've been together for just over 9 months now, and 6 of those months have been long distance. We'll be permanently in the same town starting in A...	Boyfriend says we spend too much time talking, yet he is the one always asking me to get on Skype for hours every night. <\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my ex-GF [17 F], were in a 1+ year relationship - broke up around 2 months ago, have to see her every day at school with another guy and I can't move on POST: Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago after mutually agreeing that our relationship probably wouldn't last after ...	Me and my ex-gf broke up 2 months ago, 3 weeks later she got with a guy, I see them together every day and I feel immense overwhelming sadness every single day and it's ruining me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [26m] tell the girl I'm seeing that I'm moving across the country in two months? POST: I've been best friends with this girl since high school. I recently moved back home and she has been hinting that she's into me (we flirt a lot touch, cuddle, makes remarks about us being ...	Falling in love with my best friend but there's bagge from her previous relationship and I will be moving across the country in a couple months. Not sure whether to tell her and just stay friends or pursue her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] have a crush with a guy [19 M] for the last 8 months and he liked my picture on facebook! POST: I might be over analyzing everything, there's a guy in my school who I like a lot. Just in the moment I propose myself to forget about him, he appears somehow. He and I are fri...	Guy a like from school, knows that I like him, and he avoids me and Ignore me, but he liked a picture of my facebook, where I am with a friend, and where I am smiling very naturally.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I an asshole for wanting to dump someone because they can't get it up? POST: I'm a 22 year old female and I've been seeing this 26 year old guy for two months now. He has been an exceptionally sweet guy, except for a few things but no one is perfect! But, every time we have tried ...	boy and girl just started dating. Boy can't get it up. Is it okay to end things just because of that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Dr. told me I'm killing myself but I don't see it as motivation to change. POST: I briefly posted about this on r/depression. Long story short, I've got some hereditary issues that just came to light and the doctor told me that I need to start taking them seriously. I've got to commit...	Dr. said to shape up or I'd see an early grave but depression is keeping me from seeing that as a bad thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are women's REAL take on sexuality? POST: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be ...	I think prudish women are more a result of cultural habits, not biological. Just like insensitive men. Am I right or am I wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [19]M am getting majorly mixed messages from [20]F, need advice POST: I met this girl around a month ago, which was about a week after she had broken up with her boyfriend of 10 months (she was the dumper). Most of the time when we are together she gives strong signals that she is ...	Girl gives me signals shes interested constantly, says she isn't after that at the moment. How can I convince her to go with how I think she feels or is patience the way to go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I (24/f) talk to my very reluctant SO (23/m) about money? POST: My boyfriend and I very recently started living together. We've been together for 2.5 years. I just found out he's been hiding a $3K loan from me (on top of the $5K loan I already had to push him to pay off)...	My boyfriend refuses to talk about our finances. I think it's very important. How do I approach him about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [31M] brother-in-law [23M] wants to fuck my wife [29F]. POST: Sorry, I'm not sure if this is a good place to post this. I am 31M, my wife is 29F, my brother-in-law is 23M. I came home tonight from work to find my wife awake and needing to talk to me (she's usually asleep, I wo...	Brother-in-law wants to fuck my wife, she's disgusted and upset and is worried she's lost her relationship with him forever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [17F] "dated" a guy [18M] for a few weeks and changed my mind about him stupidly. Don't know what to do to reconcile. POST: So I'm a junior in high school. He's a senior. We've been friends this entire year and he's liked me from the beginning except for I was in a long term relation...	I wasn't sure if I was dating this guy, stupidly went to another guy because he was like my ex, and realized how stupid I was. Looking for ways of reconciliation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Should I be concerned? Low weight, short, and not as verbal as I was told he should be... POST: My son just turned 2 in June. He is a smart little booger and keeps us on our toes. I always thought he was perfect until I went to his 18 month check-up and was told he was too small and that...	2 year old is a tiny 23 lbs and doesn't talk as much as we were told he should. Any suggestions on how to try to catch him up?? Anyone else experience this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26/m] I think I'm getting cheated on again after ~8 months [23/f]. Should I just expect it at this point? POST: I've been cheated on a few times before. My first GF in high school cheated on me after a year. I had to break off a three year relationship with a girl when I was 22, aft...	Feeling like I should just expect to get cheated on at this point. Am I losing my mind or is this really the case?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over your best friend while staying best friends? POST: Basically I [21 M] have been friends with this girl [20 F] since high school, going into last year of uni now. Over the years it's gone from not having feelings, to having a crush (I always thought she was attractive...	In love with best friend. She's starting to see another guy. Is there any way possible to get over her and stay best friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[25M] am panicking right now because I'm about to lose the woman[33F] of my life POST: So, I've been with here for almost 7 years, we met when we both were student in america, she is Japanese and I'm from Belgium. We could overcome the long distance during all the time and we met a ...	I'm panicking over losing the woman I love and I feel like I only have a small chance if any to fix it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO[25M] and I[25F] have recently had several 3 ways with the same person[20F]. Will this ruin our relationship? POST: My SO[25M] and I[25F] have been together for four years, We are happy, have an already great sex life and share on odd sense of humour. We had always talked about...	My SO[25M] and I[25F] have had several MFF three ways with the same person[20F]. If this continues will it ruin our relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My gf wakes me up everytime on my day off when she works to make her coffee...this annoys me. Is that wrong? POST: I usually work night shifts but from time to time on my days off when ever my gf spends the night if she works she will wake me up early hell and ask me to make he...	my gf wakes me up on my off days when she works super early to make her coffee. This is annoying I love my sleep when I can get it. She gets mad when I express how I fell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My husband (39M) is a workaholic and neglecting me (33F). How to handle this? POST: I work a lot already: a professional full-time job plus an occasional part-time gig. I also do volunteer work, have a hobby outside the house, and go to work or social functions regularly with and wit...	my husband and I both work long hours and have fulfilling hobbies and enough alone time, but he feels restricted and I feel neglected.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit I need some help with getting my bosses to understand SOPA/PIPA. POST: I work for a fortune 500 company that is mainly internet based. I brought up the SOPA/PIPA acts to my boss who is pretty high up in the company and he didn't know what it was. I feel like my own understanding...	I need articles and information to relay to my boss so the fortune 500 company I work for can start to understand SOPA/PIPA and possibly join the fight against them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [17 M] starting to feel attracted to a [17 F] who I've become friends with in the last few months, but is worried my recently diagnosed depression/anxiety is going to get in the way. POST: Hello there, I'm searching for some advice and this looked like the place for it! So as th...	Depression might get in the way of a possible relationship with a girl I'm really attracted to, should I wait it out for an unknown amount of time until 'it gets better'or just try to ignore my low mood?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Any advice on eating throughout the day despite never being hungry?(details inside) POST: Hey there! New to posting here, though I've lurked for a while. I realize this title might lead to the wrogn thoughts, so I'll start by saying I just have a bad habit of not eating. I'm not doing it in...	I'm never hungry, don't get a lot of calories in due to this. Any way to teach myself to eat consistently? Alternatively, any better meal options to make the most of the rare times a day I do eat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by bringing the wrong presents to a party POST: This happened the other night at a dinner party at my girlfriend's friend's apartment. The Before Recently my girlfriend and I have been talking about getting back into shape (I had been playing Ultimate Frisbee for several years and ...	Brought unlabeled gifts to a dinner party, intended for my girlfriend and I, the hosts thought there were for them and opened the presents. I have now ruined Christmas.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend is getting to be clingy. POST: Hey Reddit. I'm 18M dating a 17F. My girlfriend and I were set up by a mutual friend of ours about a month ago. We both knew of each other and thought the other was attractive, but we were both too shy to do anything about it. Needless...	My girlfriend is really clingy, but I don't want to break up with her and make her think that I was using her. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Does post university dating (for people in their twenties to thirties) ever get easier? I feel like I'm the only one left. POST: Last weekend I turned 24, I got lucky and found work right out of graduation as an accounting clerk. I've been with the company for a year now and have begun taki...	24 years old. After graduating and finding work it seems like people my age don't exist. I've joined co ed clubs and dating sites. Everyone seems to already be in a relationship or live 1 - 2 hours away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Trust issues? Jealousy? Just longing? WTF is this!? POST: Heya reddit. Me (27M), her (23F).Back story is that I met this girl on OK Cupid and we have been officially dating for a little more than 2 months. For the most part everything is great. We talk about everything, share many co...	GF seems unsure or even worried about me when I go out, shit blew up when I told her I am moving in with a buddy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Student loans POST: I currently have 48k in student loans and I'm just starting my third year. My parents just got divorced. My mom isn't going to help at all and my dad can't help too much. We are probably on the borderline of middle/lower class (closer to middle) as we have enoug...	I have 48k in student loans and I am starting my third year. Is this too much or am I freaking out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] ex-boyfriend [24M] professed his love for me after not seeing him for 5 years. POST: Last night I received a message through Snap chat from my ex stating that even though he hasn't seen/talked to me for 4+ years, I am the love of his life and he loves me deeply. I don't have...	Obsessed ex-boyfriend from 5 years ago is supposedly in love and I don't know if I should let my boyfriend know.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (27f) best friend from middle school/high school (26f) reached out to my mom (60f) via social media to ask for a pretty significant loan. Not sure how to approach this. POST: My former best friend and I are still on good terms, however she stayed in our hometown and I moved away o...	Old friend asked my parents for money, never talked to me about it first. Parents said no, but I'm not sure if I should talk to her about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Should I [22M] give it one last shot with my new ex [22F] before moving on for good? POST: Heres some background info. We dated for just under a year. We ended because we both felt something was off and I addressed it. She said she doesnt feel the same anymore because after a co...	Broke up due to mutual issues but I want to try again. How do I go about doing it. (Reading the background info is important to understand the context. I made it as short as I could.)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [F/28] I'm pretty religious, but my boyfriend [M/29] isn't at all. Those who are religious with atheist SO's, how do you make it work? POST: I've been with my scientist boyfriend for about 6 months and everything is going great. We have interesting conversation and being that we have...	God is a big part of my life, but not so for my boyfriend. Is this a fundamental incompatibility, or is there hope for us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [26f] doesn't want to dance with me anytime I [26m] ask, but when I gave a friend permission to dance with her she went instantly when asked. POST: We have been together for over 6 years and every time we go to a club or place where there is dancing I want to dance, but...	My girlfriend is immediately to dances with my friend with my permission, but doesn't want to dance with me even later on that night.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30 M] have been dating a girl [31 F] for 8 months and now I feel pressure to... POST: We met in December. She came to the US on student visa which expired and she doesn't have a lot of options to stay in the country other than to get married. I was aware of her status when we sta...	A girl I'm dating is saying she loves me but now she wants to call it quits claiming she loves me and that I don't love her enough given her situation. Should I continue pursuing this relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [31 M] suck at communicating financial info to my wife [28 F]. POST: I work, my wife stays home watching out 4yo autistic child. We aren't well off financially, but things are starting to look up (her sister moved in, so the extra money from rent will help). Being that I don't make...	My wife gets mad/sad when I don't tell her we're broke, gets mad/sad when I do tell her we're broke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my SO [19M] of 1 year, 7 months, is threatening to break up if i dont break contact with a close friend of 4 years! Help! POST: So, for the last three months my boyfriend has been upset with me every time I mention or talk to this friend of mine (the friend is 22 M, let...	SO wants me to break contact with a close friend or is threatening to break up with me, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: a classic sit-com set up turns out to not be so funny irl. i feel like i'm going to have a panic attack, hopefully reddit can at least help me make a clear minded decision. POST: So, I'm in love with two women. This is probably not that unusual, and actually I am probably in love wi...	do i pick the ex i thought i was meant to be with, or the potential new relationship that may never go anywhere but is a symbol of the new.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Continuing degree without parental approval and its effects on my financial aid. POST: Hello Everyone, The long short of the personal side of this story is that me and my parents have always seldom seen eye to eye on certain matters and now they believe that for my own good I should retur...	Im continuing to go to college without my parents approval and I would like to understand how to prepare my financial aid for this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (22/M) in love? POST: Hey guys. Hoping I can get some much needed advice, So about a month, I (22/M) left my abusive ex girlfriend of 3.5 years. I just couldn't take it anymore and I didn't care for her as much as I used to. The night I left, I went to my friend's house and we ...	22/m just out of abusive relationship and has feelings for another girl, but I'm really confused. Do I love her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I need to decide if I should start a proper relationship with this girl I've been seeing. Can you guys give me some advice? POST: So, I'm 21 years old, senior in college, a few emotional issues have made it hard for me to hit it off with girls. I'm lucky; I'm attractive and I can be ...	great girl that I'm not going crazy for: short fun relationship, or keep playing the feild and looking for love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: Dietary limitations are making my meals boring, help? POST: Ok, so my darling husband has high blood pressure, high cholesterol, colitis, and diverticulosis. Because of these health issues we have to be super careful about what we eat. Our meals must be low fat, low cholesterol, and mediu...	Hubby's health issues limit our meals to low-fat, low-cholesterol, medium fiber, not spicy foods. Any recipe suggestions that fit in all of those categories?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most impressive thing you've accomplished while extremely drunk? I'll start. POST: So we've all heard stories of the dumb shit people do when they're hammered. Let's hear some of the things you've done that most would say is quite impressive for someone who is very drunk. I...	I navigated the streets of a foreign country I had only been in for about 36 hours, and found my way home using only my drunk intuition.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] hate my coworkers [20's m&f] POST: Hi guys so I've been at this job for about 9 months now and it's pretty nice. Flexibility with scheduling and it's a relaxed office enviornment. That being said I can't stand my coworkers. I'm a serious worker who understands that in an offi...	I hate my job because of my coworkers and don't know if I should wait to leave after department head gets replaced.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (46F) son (21M) installed a security gate at his house to keep me and my husband (47M) away from his house. POST: My son and I have always had a pretty good relationship, he has always been very responsible and smart until recently. He started his own business about a year ago and...	Caught our son throwing a party at his house, he now has installed a security gate and refuses to give us the passcode.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF [18 F] 1.5 years, I'm staying at uni for a few weeks after the end of exams, she is going straight home and isn't happy POST: Me and my GF come from the same town, and go to universities which are a short train journey apart. This means that even when we are at u...	I want to stay at uni after exams for the events with all my friends, GF is heading straight home and is unhappy that we'll be apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Not sure if this is the correct subreddit, but I need help with two conflicting interviews. POST: So I've been looking for a job for about a month now, and a friend of mine had told me that his buddy is looking for sales associates for a vape shop in a mall. I got an interview, and did well....	I got a job offer, but I have an interview in a few days for a potential better job in the field I'm studying for. Don't know how to handle the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do II [23f] deak with recent lack of sex from husband of 1 year [25m] POST: These past 2 months or so my husband has not had a lol of sex with me. We used to do it about 3 or 4 times a week and now maybe once a week. He is depressed. So these last few weeks whenever I initiate s...	= husband barely fucks me anymore. I need to stop pressuring him. I feel like the ugliest piece of shit in the world. How can I let go of this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20/F) mom (40/F) doesn't allow me to see my boyfriend (21/M) because of his past with self harm. POST: Hey all, I was hoping I could get some opinions and advice on the current situation i'm in. I appreciate it in advance. A year ago I was able to get a job in retail. I'm now me...	my mom thinks my boyfriend is dangerous and a threat to me because he used to cut himself. Haven't been able to spend time with him in 2 months<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25F) keep self-sabotaging my relationship and I really nice help. How do you keep insecurities from ruining things? POST: As the title says, I need help. I know by 25 I should be more comfortable with myself but I keep finding myself in this dark place where my insecurities are sp...	insecurities keep causing fights with my s/o and I need advice or even past experiences/insight so I don't self-sabotage and lose a great relationship!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [UPDATES] I [23F] found out he [29M] has another child. POST: Just wanted to update you guys. Previous postings on finances & infidelity [here] and learning about lying about # of kiddos [here] and [here]( In short, I am a coward. Being without him scared the heck out of me and ever...	Although I didn't stick to my guns, the end-result was still the same. And I'm doing okay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M56] dad might be cheating on my [F56] mom. POST: My mom has cinfrinted him before and be gets mad and just ignore her for a period of time that is how he is. Mom says she doesn't feel loved. He start to get better to showing some affection towards her like he kissed her on the c...	My dad has been a little fishy about things and mom is driving herself crazy thinking my dad is having an affair or not loving her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice with what to do about a relationship that ended about 3 months ago POST: So my ex boyfriend [20M] of a year and a half broke up with me [22F] about 3 months ago. I frankly have very strong feelings for him and I am unable to let go. He says he loves me but doesn't want t...	Should I let go of my ex boyfriend if he doesn't want to be with me but wants me in his life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I may have already stolen something. Help? POST: Alright so a package arrived at my house a week and a half ago. It wasn't for me-- it was for some lady whose name I've never seen before. I wrote "return to sender" on it, and left it in my mailbox, but nothing happened for 10 days. Last...	came across an iPhone in the mail. All attempts to get it to its original owner have failed. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Break-up] (22 M) I'm having a lot of trouble getting over my Ex (21F) after 7 months apart. POST: After getting out of my first semi-serious relationship 7 months ago I still have strong feelings for my ex. We only dated for around 5 months. It ended because she couldn't reciprocate...	[22 M]My ex [21F] and I broke up 7 months ago after a 5 month relationship. I still have strong feelings for her and need advice on getting over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (F25)Hoping for feedback from others who have experienced this..newly occurring "erectile dysfunction" with my SO(M29) - moving forward and foreplay problems.. POST: I'm hoping to get some guidance from some of you who have perhaps experienced this. *Background: my SO and I hav...	SO having erection problems, resentment and lots of feelings, when it does happen its a rush not to loose it=0 foreplay= not very satisfactory for me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my girlfriend [23F] of two months, kinda feel like an outsider among some of our friends. POST: My girlfriend had a birthday recently, and to celebrate we got together with a small group of friends.Unfortunately, this situation left me feeling awkward and like something...	Feel like an outsider around friends that I used to hang out with more, looking for advice on telling girlfriend (who is a part of that group).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (Is he [M/24] ignoring me [F/19]? POST: I need some advice on the situation and some insight on what's going on in his mind I guess. Last Friday, I was texting him [M/24], he says somethings that rubbed me the wrong way, and I get mad. He texts me several times over the weeke...	Haven't talked to s/o in 9 days, was on vacation 5 out of those 9 days w/o phone signal. Come back and text him, reads texts no response.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] think i'm in a toxic relationship with my boyfriend. [23M] He's not the problem. POST: I have been in my current relationship for around 6 months now. He is nearly perfect to me. This is easily the best relationship I've ever been in, and somehow, it's not good enough. Let me...	I think I'm toxic for my boyfriend, and I'm going to ruin his life. Should I break up with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my stuff in my sister's bag. POST: My mother is a bit paranoid and insists that I escort my sister to the airport everytime she needs to fly out (we always take cabs because we live away from home and I don't own a car), despite her being in college already. I decide to take ...	I left my work stuff in my sister's suitcase, she forgets it's there and boards her flight after going to the bathroom. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (29f) SO (30m) moved in temporarily. He's moving out soon. How to re-define expectations for this change? POST: Here's the deal - My SO (30M) and I (29F) had been together a few months before he moved in with me (temporarily). Under normal circumstances we wouldn't have moved i...	SO moved in for 3 months, is moving out now as planned. I'm bummed out. How to re-define expectations for when we no longer live together?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by filling my car with gas before a date POST: Happened Yesterday - I was rushing to get ready to pick up the girl (2nd date) and as I turn the car on I see that I am running low on fuel. I go to the gas station and begin pumping gas, I use the lever thing that allows you to pump hands...	spilled gas on myself before a date, tried to mask it with cologne, thought it worked until date felt sick and told me to take her home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (F18) couldn't fall back asleep this morning and my boyfriend(m20) kept yelling at me so I left and now he's mad... POST: We've been together a year. We were in bed at his house, and I could not sleep at all this morning. I woke up around 5 to pee and could not fall back asleep. My...	I couldn't sleep this morning so I went back to my house early so my boyfriend could sleep, but now he's angry at me and isn't accepting any explanations*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Forced to transfer to another job location. Fight it or go? POST: I used to work @ location A. Started at this location and was promoted twice there over a 18 month period. I was forced to move to location B; a higher volume store, which I worked less hours but made more commission. (work i...	being told I must go to a store that I'll make less money at. The ONLY benefit I see is that it's extremely close to where I live, but everything else is a con.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] just broke up with my boyfriend [31 M] of 2.5 years. I don't know what to do now. POST: Sorry for the length. I just broke up with my boyfriend last night. I know it's not easy to get over someone, and especially right away, but I did it because I'm madly in love with him an...	I just broke up with the love of my life and I am tired of overanalyzing the situation. What do I do now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my gf [28 F], im getting married soon but things have got so awkward in the bedroom that i have a panic and lose my erection POST: So, ive got into a little trouble. this issue has been going on for 8 months or so and I will be getting married in 5 months months and me...	i have become scared of having sex with my fiance and get ED lots of the time when we try and have sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend [19 F] After almost 2 years, have decided to take a break but I'm about to crack. POST: I apologise in advance if this post isn't well structured. So last Tuesday night my girlfriend had "the talk" with me and wanted to break things off and not end thing...	Agreed to cut contact for a week, have 2 and a half days to go but I feel I am ready to talk to her now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Did my boyfriend (23M) really not find his past FWB (24F) attractive? POST: Hi all. A couple days ago, my boyfriend & I got into a heated discussion regarding attraction & sex. I think that in order to have sex with someone, you have to be attracted to them, even just a little bit. M...	Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't find attractive? Or is my boyfriend's claim that he didn't find this girl attractive a lie?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M23] don't want to go over my gf's [F23] house because of her dogs. POST: I have been dating this girl for more than 5 years. This problem has only come up recently because we were away at college for the bulk of those five years. Her family has 2 white dogs. Whenever I go over, t...	I no longer desire to go over the gf's house because of her dogs' behavior and family's oblivion to the dog hair.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Clothes? [M] POST: Some time ago, I was weighing in at 215, 220 on a bad day, and had been that weight for some time. I was at a size 38, which fit comfortably most of the time, if I wasn't wearing jeans/shorts I'd wear gym shorts or sweat pants. Currently my goal for the end of school yea...	Lost weight, 80% clothes don't fit/won't fit soon. How do I get more clothes on a budget?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit help! The one that got away.....is BACK, and i need advice. POST: Story time kiddies, many many moons ago in a galaxy far far aww fuck that shit here goes. Quite some years ago i became head over heels for a girl, we had some great times at concerts one of which i crashed my truc...	Mad in love with a girl i could never tell, she got away and now she is back. What do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors with divorced parents, i need someone to talk to. POST: Without getting too much into the details, my parents have been in fights (really inconsistent and with varied room inbetween fights) with each other over the last two to three years, and i think they are reaching a point ...	Parents maybe getting a divorce, i'll live through it, my smaller siblings won't take it as well, what the fuck do i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Recently orphaned. What is my best option in the UK for housing? POST: I am 17 years old. My mother died when I was 13 (cancer) and my father died last Sunday (clogged valve to the lungs). I am a female. My friend said with this, I might be considered a priority but I'm unsure. I do have...	Recently orphaned, considering education as a top priority. Would it be wiser to seek a counsil flat in the UK, or to move in with a friend in America?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Age old question- is one lie enough to end my relationship? POST: Here's my story. I met my current boyfriend almost 2 years ago. We started flirting and hanging out almost immediately. We met in a new country as we were teaching at the same school. He had left his ex girlfriend be...	) my bf lied about sleeping with ex before we started dating. He didn't cheat, but he lied and now I'm not sure if I can trust him at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst thing you've said to your parents that you didn't mean? I'll start... POST: I'll start... So my dad was trying to get custody of me from my mom, and so he took my mom to court. I went back to the judges chambers, and on my way there, I had to go though the courtroom. Wh...	Dad took mom to court to get custody of me, said harsh things about mom, didn't know she could hear it all, she could hear it all, saw her crying, made me feel awful. All worked out in end.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My(32F) boyfriend(26M) traded a small problem for a really big problem... POST: My boyfriend and I (going on 3 years) are starting to build our lives together. Neither of us came from good situations, so we're trying to make a better life for our selves. We needed a new vehicle. I ha...	My boyfriend sold our working vehicle, bought one that doesn't really work, and spent the rest of our money attempting to fix it. Halp!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] boyfriend's [20M] brother [30ishM] takes advantage of him now but my BF won't do anything about it. (More inside) POST: Bit of backstory: His brother has a wife and 3 children and we rent a basement apartment under their home. My boyfriend and I have some money troubles. H...	BFs brother takes money/items from him, doesn't pay back, Our money problems affecting relationship but he won't do anything about it. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are the worst lyrics you've ever heard in your life? POST: What lyrics; be it by pop star, rap group, Finnish Grind Core band, etc, that are so terrible they make your butt pucker in distaste? To me Anything by Brotha Lynch Hung takes the cake. *"He gonna feel it I'm bout to pe...	what lyrics suck shit hard. IMO Brotha Lynch Hung. Ex: "Spit a Nigga Nut."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] have been dating her [24F] for about two weeks. Things have been going really well, but my anxiety is through the roof. POST: We met through an online dating service about two weeks ago, and since then we've really hit it off. We've gone on five dates in two weeks. I feel rea...	Have been dating a lovely girl for about two weeks, but I'm feeling a lot of anxiety. How do I relax, calm down, and just enjoy myself and her company?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My [42F San Diego CA] Daughter [16F] doesn't want to return home after visiting Non-custodial father [42M] in Houston Texas POST: My daughter [16F] who decided that she doesn't want to come back after a visit to her dad. I am a sole custodial parent @ 98%. Her father wasn't much around...	Daughter doesn't want to return home after visiting Non-custodial father in Texas. Father is not helping to improve the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] am in recovery from an eating disorder. My friend [24M] has made some triggering comments without realizing it. Not sure what to do. POST: I've had an eating disorder for over a decade- not that it matters, but it's anorexia. I don't mean to sound flippant I'm not scary thin ...	recovering anorexic of over a decade. My friend makes triggering comments. Almost no one knows about my disorder. I don't know how to handle this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I a bad person? POST: Recently I started dating a girl that I was friends with in High School, she means a lot to me, but there was one huge problem with it. She dated my best friend for two years while we were in high school (she is one year behind us). When she moved away for co...	I am dating my best friend's ex girl friend, a year after they broke up, am I a bad person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Please help: My uncle [Late 30s, M] and his fiancee [Early 30s, F] are about to fall apart right before their wedding. Religious issue. POST: This isn't for me, but a relative of mine whom I'm very close to. (Context, everybody is asian here) My uncle has been picking up meditation a...	My uncle had an out of body experience while meditating, devout christian fiancee is terrified and issues an ultimatum. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I am kinda forced by an old lady to read a book that isn't interesting to me? POST: So I was at this dinner party with my parents and their friends, and, having nothing better to do as one of the few minors there, I continued reading the Hobbit. It was maybe a few chapters later that an old...	Old woman borrowed me a boring-ish book, I am forced to read it before a few days, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] New girlfriend(?) [23/f] is giving me mixed signals, but I may just be crazy. POST: Hey guys! I recently started dating this wonderful girl a couple weeks ago. From our first date we had some AMAZING chemistry, and when on dinner dates our food gets cold because we get s...	Girl flatters me with tons of compliments but dodges DTR. Doesn't seem to be on the same page as I am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Manager baited me into shouting match then fired me. Next day owner called me in and gave me my check and says he is keeping me on payroll for 6 months. POST: Manager baited me into an altercation with him. This is second time I have had a run in with him. Last time I had to sign a warn...	Fired by manager who baited me into shouting match. Next day owner of company calls me to pick up check and says he is keeping me on payroll for 6 months because he appreciated my hard work and dedication to his company.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] name was left off my mentors [25-29F] published journal article. POST: Starting in Spring 2014 I began working in a lab on our campus. I was working directly under a graduate student on her thesis. She was a brilliant mentor to have and I consider myself very lucky to have b...	Asked to work on graduate thesis project in return for co-author on published paper - paper is now published, I am not a co-author<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my friend [24 F], how can I explain to her why my girlfriend [24 F] doesn't want me to meet with her alone? POST: So I have this friend, let's call her Alice, I met her in my final year of high school and she's an uninteresting girl who doesn't have any friends. I don'...	how to make someone understand that my girlfriend's feelings are more important to me so I'm not meeting with her anymore?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [21 M] break up with girlfriend [21 F] POST: I've been in a relationship (mostly long distance for 2 years) and recently I found out my girlfriend has been lying to me for months. She has known how I was lied to in a previous relationship and yet she still did it. The lying...	Girlfriend lied to me, it's been hard breaking up with her after what we use to be. Don't know how to breakup with her since I can't seem to fully go through with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15/m] am at a loss with my [15/f] girlfriend POST: I'm on my mobile so please have patience, I don't really know where else to go so I think you guys can give me some advice. At the beginning of the school year this girl become rather close to me. We started going out, and ende...	Ex girlfriends parents hate me and don't trust her, I still love her and want to try to make things right but she's avoiding me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Does anyone know of alternatives to knee surgery for an injured dog? POST: I have a 12 year old golden retriever who has a number of leg issues. She has arthritis in her hip, sciatica, and unstable knees. A couple of days ago she seemed to blow out one of her knees and was stumbling all ove...	12 year old dog blew out her knee, vet suggestion seems to be to have her put down. I can accept this if this is best for the dog, but what other options are there?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most awkward thing that has happened to you while you were trying to do something nice for someone? POST: A couple of years ago I had a roommate whose girlfriend regularly stayed over. She had a small dog that she would often bring with her. I came home from work one day and n...	Took roommate's GF's dog for a walk to be nice. Dog projecdiarrheas in the middle of the sidewalk while i'm chatting with the owner of the house it happened in front of.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my Ex-girl(f)riend lying to (m)e about her pregnancy? POST: So we broke up a few months ago, and I got a message from her saying that she was late for her period. She has been wanting to get back together with me for a while, but just to be safe, I listened to her and believed her...	is this a stunt by her to get back with me and get my attention? Or did she not get an abortion at all? Or was her previous abortion really just unsuccessful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Thought a girl liked me, turns out she didn't, now she won't talk to me. Any advice? POST: So basically I met this chick during work and she started acting like she liked me. She'd always glance at me and smile when we saw each other, she'd come visit during work, text me until 2am, and cal...	I liked a girl, she acted like she liked me back, now she doesn't talk to me after I asked her out. Whut do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Creative type. Two advanced degrees. Need a new job. POST: First, I am working. I'm teaching English to (mostly) wealthy students from other countries who've come to the U.S. to go to the nearby university. But, I hate it. Well, I don't hate it. I love my students and my coworkers, but eac...	Creative type. Two advanced degrees. Need a new job. Are there any creative, teamwork-centered work environments that I'm just missing out on? Am I searching wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Should I be worried about my 3 years old niece behaviours? POST: I live with my sister and my 3 1/2 years old niece in my parents' house. My niece is a sweet kid. She is smart and social, and very stubborn. Sometimes I worry that she seems to be too sensitive. She has some behaviours th...	Niece plays by herself at kinder garden and poops on the floor. She doesn't know how to explain her reasons. Should I worry or is this normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Woodforest, where I bank, gave me the information to someone else's account when I called Customer Support. POST: After trying to log in to online banking several times over the course of about a week and continually getting the message "Your account has been disabled" I decided to call ...	Woodforest gave me some other dudes info and I have full access to his funds. Want to find out how to best press charges / dissolve the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Adopted by neighborhood cat, what do? POST: So one of my neighbors has a thing for rescuing cats, last count put the number of cats at about 7 but one of the cats has "left" home a number of months ago and according to the cat lady, it no longer goes to her house to eat because of all the oth...	Someone else's rescue cat isn't getting it's needs met and has been looking to me to feed it and give it attention.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My sister (21/f) converted for her boyfriend and now they are engaged. POST: My sister got engaged a few days ago and I am not happy for her at all. Her fiance is Baptist and my sister decided to "convert" for him a while back in their relationship. I say "convert" because I do...	older sister converted to be with her now fiance and no one in my family approves and/or is happy for her or likes the fiance. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (21/m) don't know if I should continue trying with (21/f) POST: So, I met this girl through friends a couple weeks ago. We went for dinner once and I paid then we went back to her place and watched a movie with her room mates afterwards. At the end I asked her out to a concer...	Met a girl, been on a few dates don't seem to get much time away from her friends. Won't be able to see her again for a couple weeks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Male [23] with girlfriend [20] together for 1 year, with 6 month break but are back again for 5 months. Found out she has been messaging other guys sexual things. Need advice. POST: Basically, the other night when she was showing me something on her Twitter she accidentally went to h...	found out my girlfriend has been messaging guys on Twitter about having sex, but they are from different states. I am having a hard time letting go and just confused as to why she would do that.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird for me [20M] to do cutesy romantic shit with a fuckbuddy [19F]? POST: Shouldn't need too much explanation, really. I'm a fuckbuddy with this girl because I don't desire the responsibility of a bf/gf relationship and can't see myself committing myself to one girl. But, a...	Is it weird or creepy to do cute stuff with someone you have no desire of having a real, formal relationship with?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Telling An Annoying Person who my friend likes POST: So I have this friend who is going out with a girl. Lets name them F for friend, G for girl and L for loser. Now, I told L who my friend likes because an Xbox live party was glitching and I didn't see him in it. I then expanded the ...	I told a loser who my friend liked and my crush will know I love her soon. I await to have my butt kicked by her bf.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20F] long distance with my [21M] boyfriend. Close to breaking up but staying together for now, question about how often we Skype? POST: We've been together for just over 9 months now, and 6 of those months have been long distance. We'll be permanently in the same town starting in A...	Boyfriend says we spend too much time talking, yet he is the one always asking me to get on Skype for hours every night. <\|endoftext\|>