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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Electricians of Reddit... Please read!
POST: Hey! So here's my dilemma... I'm 20, I have been looking into becoming an electrician for a while, but was in no rush. Until my parents decided to inform me that they're moving across the country. I am SO lost, I don't know what to do on such... | Extremely desperate! I need some advice on becoming an electrician, or more specifically on how to find an apprenticeship. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My grandma (70's/F) is doing everything to kill herself short of actually killing herself.
POST: This all started a few years ago when my grandpa died. My grandma was obviously distraught, and went from smoking 1 pack a day to 3-4 packs a day, and she also went from eating normally t... | Grandma has almost stopped eating, almost stopped sleeping, stopped going to the doctor, and has given almost everything she has away. She's also trying to distance herself from the family. What do reddit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Lake County Illinois Drug DUI
POST: Friend got pulled over for having registration light out. They smelled weed, searched his car and found.5 grams of marijuana. They asked when the last time he smoked was and he said about 3 hours ago. He failed a sobriety test because he cant balance... | Drug DUI, possession of under 2.5 grams of marijuana, paraphernalia, and broken registration light ticket. How important/expensive will a lawyer be?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) having issues over porn, drugs, and control been together 3 and a half years.
POST: A month or two ago I came clean to my girlfriend that I didn't want to quit watching porn after a month of going without. She is not okay with it she gave me an ultimat... | girlfriend not okay with my porn use. I feel she is trying to control me and I want some freedom in my life.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I tell the girl I am seeing that she has a slight body odor problem?
POST: Last winter my roommate, let's call her Jess, and I started sleeping together. It was very casual. She had just broken up with her long time boyfriend and needed a warm bed every now and then. Which i pr... | girl i was seeing leaves for the summer and returns with a hygene problem (underarm odor and a somewhat off putting vaginal smell)...how do i tell her without putting a strain on the relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21/f) afraid to get close to anyone.
POST: So this is my first time posting and I'm not even sure this is the right subreddit so if anyone would be oh so kind to tell me where it would be best to post I would appreciate it. (:
Anyways I'm 21 years old and I've never been in a s... | May or may not have daddy issues and want to know how to get over fear of commitment and stop being attracted to older married men<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32F] can only bond with people over sadness
POST: I tend to attract broken birds. Sometimes my friends joke that you must have [x] mental illnesses to hang out with me. I myself suffer from depression, anxiety and borderline personality disorder. The latter manifests itself in tha... | I have a lot of bad feels and can only manage to form a connection with people who have/understand these feels and it's fucking up my attempts at dating.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What makes a person interesting?
POST: Is this quantifiable? There is no universal scale as far as I know. Wouldn't this be entirely subjective? For instance, I find a person interesting based on the way that they interact with the rest of the world - not on their repertoire of hobbies... | What do you think about hobbies and how important they are in contributing to the value of a relationship (romantic or not)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] ex-girlfriend [20F] will not block me.
POST: I [M24] broke up with my ex-girlfriend [F20] 5 months ago. I have an autoimmune disease and had a new job at the time. I became rundown and was not giving her enough attention. She told me she was upset, and we had a confusing con... | I broke up with ex but want her back. She doesn't want me, but ignore my request she block me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A friend [18f] and myself [18m] thought about dating about 2 weeks ago, and it kinda spiraled badly.
POST: OK, my friend [18f] and I [18m] have been friends for about 2 years, and were "dating" (never official) for about 9 months before she headed off the college. One day before cla... | girl says we need to date, I go to ask her out a few days later and she rejects me. Turns out she had met someone the day before and is now dating him. wat do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Guys - How do you want a girl to tell you it's her "time of the month?"
POST: I realize this isn't a huge issue for couples, but I always have this dilemma with a more casual setting. Situation would hypothetically be; got introduced a short while ago and have only hung out once or twice... | It's Shark Week so I can't "marinate the nether rod in the squish mitten." Unless you're into that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear veterans of reddit, should I call my brother today?
POST: I've always been torn about this. My older brother joined the reserves for college money and became an inactive reservist after a dispute with the military. Shortly after the war started, he was called back into service.
He ... | My brother is a vet of Iraq and has moved on, should I call him to tell him know how proud I am or just let him move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'[m] 18 and my 17 year old [f]wb said we should try being in a relationship today. Help.
POST: So I've known this girl for almost two years, and last year we hooked up at a party.
I started getting to know her better, and began to like her.
Then, like two weeks ago we hooked up aga... | FWB says we have nothing in common, says she doesnt want to date and break up. Then says we should try being in a relationship. Will it work? What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Please help! My new boss is engaged to the man who took my virginity when I was 16. It gets worse...
POST: **When I was sixteen** I fell in love with a 22 year old man in a neighboring city. He said I was his girlfriend, and I ran away from home a few times to see him. I was a wreck when I ... | Cocaine-addicted ex who took my virginity at 16 is engaged to my new boss, I don't know how to deal with situations that might come up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with girls that don't put out as often as I'd like.
POST: I'm 26 (m) and fairly actively both physically and sexually. My sex drive literally drives me bonkers and makes it difficult to find woman who can actually keep up.
What usually happens is I'll meet a girl I... | I've been seeing a girl that doesn't put out as much as I'd like and have been sleeping with other girls to fill the gap. Worried she might react badly, even though we aren't in any kind of relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [16M] hooked up with a girl [16F] and even though our feelings are mutual, she "doesnt date". Please help me.
POST: A few weeks ago I was at a party and really hit it off with a mutual friend, who i'll call Sam. Sam and I ended up hooking up that night and both had a great time.
... | Hooked up with girl, been flirty sense then, asked for my number and wants to hang out, but doesn't date. Where do I go from here?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22 F) was the "other woman" with a 28 M for 5 months, he's married, I know his wife. I broke things off but am guilt wrecked. Help.
POST: To pre face this, I had known that he had been unfaithful to his wife before and it is something of a running joke in our circle that he flirt... | Had an affair with a married guy in my friends group. Broke things off, and now I'm trying to deal with the guilt. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19M) SO's (17F) father is forcing me to speak to him after he found out we are having sex
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year and a half. Her mother recently was told by an unknown person that we have been having sex. Her mother was not very upset, and ... | Girlfriends father found out were having sex. Doesn't allow me to see her until I talk to him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [16M] crush [17F] told me she'd rather to be friends but is ignoring me
POST: She was my crush pretty much since like December of last year. Beginning of summer this year I finally got the courage to go talk to her and we went on 2 dates this summer. The dates actually went super ... | Went on 2 dates with my crush, a month later she says she'd rather us to be friends, I can't get over it and I'm extremely sad.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My husband [36] walked out on me [33] on Monday after 13 years and I don't know what to do.
POST: We've been together for 13 years and married for almost eight. We have a son [10] and a daughter [6], and we were planning another. My husband has this week off and on Monday morning he ... | I've been acting crazy for a long time without knowing, driving my husband away. How do I save our marriage?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Could I [f22] be overthinking the way that the guy [m27] I'm potentially dating communicates?
POST: I've been talking to this guy I really like. He lives a ways away and he works a lot so we don't get to see eachother a lot, but when I do see him things are great. However, when we ta... | I'm acting like a scatterbrained dummy and I am having trouble interpreting the communication of this guy I like! Help?!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] had brief relationship dating with [20 F] we split, but she showed up unexpectedly at my work and made out with my after 10 days no contact
POST: Dated a girl for about 2 weeks, it went right from first date (make out after walking her home) to hanging out with mutual frien... | Dated girl briefly but intensely, break up, she starts dating casually, comes to my work and makes out with me and tells me she's confused about how she feels about me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I can only work under a pressure
POST: I've spent days or even months on figuring out why I can't motivate myself to do anything and I understood what's the cause. I realized that I work extremly efficient when I'm under a pressure of a deadline. If I know something is (not) going to happen... | I can work highly efficient under high pressure, but I can't finish anything if it's not immediate. How do I cope with that?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] just quit a job (that was the second job I was holding) today that I had only been working a week at and that paid decently (over $12 an hour) because I was unhappy there, and my SO [25M] is upset with me.
POST: I have been working a job for a few months now that I absolutey ... | Quit better paying second job because I was unhappy. SO gets mad b/c of rash decision and loss of better pay. Really just need advice on how to handle this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Worried my dog might have rabies
POST: She was fine this morning, but a little while ago she started barking at nothing, and she was ignoring me even though she's usually one to come running the minute you call her name. She ran outside, and I followed her and that's when I saw she was foami... | I've never been so happy to look like a total dumbass. It looks like the dog is going to be okay!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20M] Seeing this girl who says she is unhappy, but can't quite put a reason as to why..
POST: This girl I've been seeing for about a month has recently begun to get upset. Through our mutual friends very childish problems have come up that have put her on edge.
We will still talk a... | Girl im seeing likes me and recently has been saying shes not happy without giving much detail into why. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Facebook friending people from years past...when is it okay/useful/good to do? A specific situation in text.
POST: I was looking through photos of my high school friend (she got married this weekend),and I happened to notice this guy was there who I crushed on for like 3 years in high sc... | Saw a picture of a guy friend that I had a falling out with years ago. Is it a good idea to reforge bridges or just leave them burned?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (F/23) feel cheated on by my husband(24) of a year. Advice, please? I'm not sure what to do.
POST: My husband and I were together for four years before getting married, most everything has gone just fine.
However, he would talk to his ex-girlfriend a lot and it would make me... | Husband of a year, texts his ex-girlfriend after me asking him not to and catching him multiple times. Now what?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Asked my SO if they had slept with anyone while we were apart. Kind of regret finding out otherwise.
POST: I'm 28 and she's 26, been together for 3 years with a 5 month. We got back together and things have been nice, but kind of tense as of late because of re-location issues on her ... | I feel like my relationship won't be the same after I found out my SO slept with other people while we were a part.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my sister [28F] she is making questionable life choices and I'm worried about my Niece [4F]
POST: My sister has a 4 year old daughter with her partner [22M] who she has been with for 5 or so years.
For a while (about 3/4 months) she hasn't been getting on with her part... | My sister has got back into drugs, has been sleeping around and seems to be having a crisis in general. I need suggestions and advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by walking in on a woman in a porta-potty
POST: So today there was the first annual 5k at the college I graduated from. It's my old college, so I'm going to support it, and I've been getting in shape so I decided to kill two birds with one stone. I get finished running and there is basic... | Walked in on a woman in a porta potty and couldn't tell if the woman wanted to cry or kill me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Promoting harmony with a new roommate [24,m]
POST: So I just moved in with some folks and we've been living together for about a week. I've known all except one of them for a long time and we're all good friends. The other person is pretty great and we all share a ton of common inte... | Living together a week with a new roommate; things are 85% okay; would having a conversation about what I wrote about be too soon?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26M] with my GF [23F] - How to avoid the "Grass is Always Greener" mentality
POST: Hello everyone,
I am in a wonderful relationship. My GF and I are pretty much a perfect match for each other. We complement each other extremely well, she treats me like a king, I treat her like ... | In a great relationship, WANT to stay with her, but lack of dating experience makes me curious about other people. Want to understand how to handle and clear those feelings so I can make the most of the relationship i'm in.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: [Serious] How do Japanese Universities view American degrees?
POST: I'm a bit of a planner, and I like to plan things way ahead of time. I'm currently studying for a degree in Biomedical Engineering Technology, and I want to get a Master's when I'm done. After doing a bit of research, I'... | Title question, and anyone have any insight into studying abroad as an American to Japan? I have no idea what I'm doing. halp.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If your child was born with 4 fully functional arms, would you have them amputated?
POST: This is something I've given a lot of thought to. In most of the world, it is generally accepted to automatically amputate extra appendages. I can see the benefits to this, in the sense that the c... | if your child was born with 4 working arms, would you turn him into a superhero or amputate them like a horrible parent?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20/F] feel like I never can control my emotions correctly when it comes to the dating scene, tips?
POST: Backstory why I'm writing this: My friend (the guy I like) told me he was going to a dance tonight (his text acted like it was something that he wasn't planning on going to) an... | I can't handle the dating scene without physically or emotionally fucking myself up, I want to try and fix that. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I think I may have been screwed out of holiday pay, not sure if there's anything I can do...
POST: Hey Reddit,
I'm currently contracted to a company that is contracted by another company for work (contract-ception I suppose). My probation period was supposed to end this past Tuesday, but ins... | The person who controls my contract lied and made up reasons to not hire me on before the holidays in order to avoid having to pay me time and a half. Is there anything I can do or should I just deal with it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Best Friend [30 F] with aguy [30 M] 8 months, After searching about him I found out the guy has a past
POST: I am in a dilemma, my best friend has been seeing this guy she met online for about 8 months now. She seems to be getting serious with this guy. After our last conversation, s... | Best Friend's boy friend has a criminal past- DUI and in an accident killed his fiancee. Need to find a way to break this news to my friend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit. What are some encounters you've had with law enforcement?
POST: This is in response to a few stories I read in [this thread] which I found very interesting. Here's mine.
A about a week ago, my apartment was busted into. I live in Chicago, Pilsen (which is a southside, Mexica... | someone broke into my apartment. Cops return my shit within 3 hours. I waste my time and lose my knife at court a week later.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's something you learned the hard way?
POST: For me, it's when writing an essay, never give an opinion that conflicts with the marker's. First semester of university, I was young and naive, I knew my teacher was a hardcore Socialist (For any Aussies, he's a regular writer of GLW). Re... | Wrote a paper that conflicted with the ideas of the marker. GPA in the class dropped from a distinction average to barely passing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 19(M) In a 1 year relationship with my girlfriend 19(f) Can't seem to deal with her past, she has slept with a lot more partners than me and has also had a threesome with another 2 guys.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for a year now and was close friends with her for about half a... | I'm consider breaking up with a girl i love because of her past, before i even knew her she slept with many guys and i can't seem to deal with it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/F] My boyfriend [22/M] has crippling anxiety in the bedroom.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, and we've lived together for three. This is an issue we've been grappling with for some time.
My boyfriend is a very nervous, anxious person. This prev... | My boyfriend is so crippled by anxiety that he cannot bring himself to get me off, yet he can put aside his worries long enough to be on the receiving end.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21m) have been exclusive with a girl (19f) for several months, yet she doesn't want a relationship.
POST: So we met back in September. Things got physical pretty quick and after awhile she told me she wasn't going to see anyone else before I even questioned her about it. So we've ... | girl likes to be with me but doesn't want to be in relationship officially yet, I feel like it's because she wants to be able to move on without conflict<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27] found out my [32] year old boyfriend kissed someone else.
POST: We have been together for 2 years, and he felt like somebody who was not only my best friend, but also someone I could see myself spending my life with. We had shared a completely happy and healthy relationship up... | Im a woman whose boyfriend kissed someone else, lied about it, then gave a full confession and apology. Will I be able to trust him again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] am not happy in my relationship with my [19F] even though she's perfect for me.
POST: My 19 year old girlfriend and I (19 male) have been together for over a year. A few weeks ago I realized something (this is going to sound dumb but hear me out) there isn't anything wrong wi... | My girlfriend and I don't fight, get along great, but even though I know I should be happy, I don't feel as motivated anymore.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] with my ex[26 F] wanting to grab lunch and the disagreement thereafter.
POST: My ex and I broke up several months ago rather amicably, we agreed that the way we fought and handled disagreements was not healthy and that the best case scenario was to part ways as friends.
Thi... | Ex wants to hang out before getting lunch, I just want to meet at the restaurant. She got mad about this, cancelled plans and is trying to engage me in an argument. Am I right for ignoring her messages?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having the worst day ever.
POST: So my day started out normal but went down the shitter, severely. (No, there is no actual shit in the story.)
So let's start the day. In the morning I wake up and shower, the only problem is that we're out of liquid body wash so I have to use the bar ... | Worst day ever starts with soap, has a little accident in the middle, and ends with me missing a birthday and hurling.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21F] crushing on best friend [28M], he might feel the same way, not sure if I should talk to him about it
POST: I've been hanging out with a close friend of mine--who I've known for about three years now--for the past four months almost every day. His ex-girlfriend broke up with... | Crushing on best friend of three years, he may or may not be crushing on me, and we're very far apart. Is it worth talking to him about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I have almost no drive to do school work/go out/etc. How can I get myself motivated or push myself to work harder?
POST: I'm a college freshmen, and I guess because I "breezed" through high school, always doing well, but never doing any work, I became overly cocky with my skills.... | I have no drive/motivation to work harder in school, and it's slowly leading me to believe I've ruined my future. I need to find a way to motivate myself.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why are you hitting on your cashier? Stop that.
POST: I work in a grocery store and at least once a day I get guys who come through the line, make inappropriate comments, and then get pissed when I don't respond. Multiple freaking times a day. Why do they do that? I'm at work. I'm trying... | Why do guys think it's okay to make creepy comments to cashiers, and why do they get pissed when I don't want to play their little game when I don't even fucking know them?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [23F] move a crush/flirting relationship forward with someone [35M] slightly out of bounds?
POST: I need help navigating what to do: I'm really into a man 12 years older than me. I'm a 23 yr old woman, he is a 35 yr old man. We work together - he is one of my mangers. Its my... | I have a crush on an older guy who I work with. I need your advice on if/ how I should move this crush/flirting situation forward. Where can this go?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My SO and I love each other very much, but he wants to experience other stuff, please help me Reddit
POST: We are almost the same age (I'm 11 months older) and we think alike in a lot of aspects, but since we're relatively young (we're 19 and 20) he thinks he should experience... | SO and I are a young couple, we love each other very much but he wants to experiment, though he already expressed his unwillingness to end the relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my friend [19 F] 2 months, how to tactfully let people know we're not dating?
POST: So my workplace has had an intern (Elena) working with us for the summer. She's from Europe and her supervisor is my closest friend in the office. Last month, her supervisor asked me if... | How do I tactfully tell people a girl that may have a crush on me we're not dating and we're just good friends?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My girlfriend doesn't trust one of my closest friends. Should i cut ties or continue being friends?
POST: Some back story, i've been dating my girlfriend for the past 6 months. We've been friends for 4 years and decided to try out a relationship. She moved away so it is in fact a long di... | My girlfriend doesn't trust my very good friend, and i'm starting to understand why. Not sure whether or not i need to cut ties or continue being friends.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend [40 F] of two years gives me [30 F] odd examples of our friendship.
POST: I met Lin two years ago through work and consider her a fairly close friend. Lin has a very reserved and "slow to warm" demeanor, especially at work (where she is very successful), but can also be ver... | My friend gives me really mundane examples of our friendship, and it makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong as a friend or completely misreading our friendship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Can't bring myself [22/M] to breakup with my boyfriend [20/M] of 8 months.
POST: * Dating 8 months after meeting online.
* We lived close when we first met, but I have since moved about 2 hours away. We only travel to see each other via train. We see each other approx. 4 days out of ... | Need advice for what to say and how to handing my psuedo-long distance boyfriend who devolves into histrionics at the slightest hint of a breakup.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (28/M) dad is an alcoholic and I want to talk about his health and how it is affecting my family.
POST: my dad gets drunk just about every other night. i didnt have a good relationship with him and didnt talk much when i was still living at home but now that ive been moved out for... | dad is an alcoholic. he drinks and drives, keeps to himself, and doesnt really spend time with his family. how should i go about talking about it with him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my Fllipina fiancé [30 F] and her Father [6? M]. He wants to use the Meeting of the Family event to silence gossip, we do not.
POST: I'm writing this on behalf of both me and my fiancé. I'm a European guy and my fiancé is a Filipina from a decently well off family. The... | Fiancés father wants to use The Meeting of the Family event to quench gossip after we did not allow him to use our wedding for it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: International wedding and reception - hire an interpreter?
POST: I plan on asking our wedding planner, but wanted to get some real-life examples, advice, help, tips, etc. from weddit first! FH is from Japan and I'm from the U.S. We both speak each other's language, but both sides o... | Two families don't speak each other's language!! FH suggested an interpreter to sit with the parents and I'm warming up to the idea. Thoughts, advice, etc?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do I have a responsibility as a bridesmaid to attend the bachelorette party? Both 25F
POST: I am going to be a bridesmaid for a good friend of 2.5 years. I moved away for grad school, so if I were to go, I'd probably have to spend at least $200 on a plane ticket or drive 8 hours for ... | Am a bridesmaid living long distance. Would have to fly for both the bachelorette party and the wedding, is it ok to not go?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with man of interest [32M] for month, then ghosted when he didn't get job
POST: Guy and I had a great month dating and everything was very mutual. During our time together he was doing multiple rounds of interviews for 2 jobs and felt really good about his odds. Then on the ... | How long can he stay in his cave after a career let down, and I am expected to wait after such a short time together?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[29M] with my girlfriend [27F] of 8 months, and she isn't interested in sex any more!
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. Our relationship is great in just about every way. Our sex life was amazing up until about 3 or 4 weeks ago. She just isn't interested in... | Girlfriend has lost her sex drive and it's making me crazy. I love her and don't want things to end. Looking for your thoughts and advice. Thanks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: GF smokes (trying to quit), I don't.....
POST: So when I was starting to get interested in seeing this girl she said she was stopping smoking and would quit and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I am not alergic to it I don't think but I have a very sensitive nose and the smel... | My GF has all but given up trying to quit 6 months into our relationship. Now I'm hooked on her but disgusted by the smoking.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25M] just broke up with my bipolar girlfriend [23F] and feel like a jerk
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years, and it's been amazing - no fights, no quarrels, very compatible. At the beginning, she let me know that she was bipolar and taking medicine for it, and... | Had to leave my bipolar girlfriend, feel like an asshole for it, don't know how to figure out when enough's enough<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I(22/F) not let my SO's(22/M) behavior affect my self confidence?
POST: We have been going out for 9 months and have had a wonderful relationship. He makes me laugh, he's there for me, we can talk for hours, and I can see myself with him a long ways down the road.
But the one... | my boyfriend has a different preference for body types than mine when he is on the internet. I want to know how to be more confident in myself so I can let this stop affecting our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Am I over thinking the situation?
POST: My friend and I would talk every once in a while, I'd say once a week is about the average (through texting). A couple of weeks ago we chatted through text and everything was fine. A couple of days later I texted her "hi" and she read my text (we ... | Friend I've known for a year hasn't responded back to both my texts over the past two weeks and I feel like I'm just overreacting or over-thinking she doesn't want to be my friend..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Life Advice
POST: My (21 F) fiancé (22 M) and I want to move to Austin Texas from Vancouver, WA. However, we are having a hard time deciding when. I want to finish up my Associates and I just need to get past this next quarter, then I just need to take 20 credits I can do online and I w... | I need advice/thoughts on when is a good time to move vs rushing things. How is our life going? I just don't want him to feel stuck.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Planning on breaking up, should I help her move out?
POST: I'm (22M) planning on breaking up with my (22F) girlfriend of 6 years. But she lives with me and my sibling in a condo that my parents own so she would have to be the one to leave. Her mom lives only a 5 minute drive a... | she lives with me in a place my parents own and can't really afford to pay to move, I have a truck though, should I help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19/F] drove my now ex-boyfriend [21/M] away by "suffocating" him too much. Help?
POST: My ex and I were together for over a year. He's in the Army, so it's been very long distance for a very long time. We had been SO happy. We were planning our engagement, marriage, and had everyt... | I got overly insecure one day, and drove my soulmate away. What can I do to get him to come back?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] falling hard for [24 F] who is leaving in a couple months.
POST: I'm falling for this girl I met two weeks ago. We have started dating. I've never been in love and few of my relationships have lasted past a month. I can't get this one out of my mind.
She seems very into... | I'm worried the girl is going to panic and dump me before we get a chance to figure out what we are to each other.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit I need car crash Insurance advice
POST: Just your usual throwaway asking a question on behalf of a friend. Not I/they are not looking for any moral judgement just some advice/answers.
My friend got in a car accident, rear ending another car, doing no damage to that car or the peo... | Friend lied to insurance saying got hit in a hit and run in a parking lot..will the insurance company go as far as to check the cameras in the parking lot?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A question to all the professional programmers
POST: I am a second year computer science major at Boston College and I am unsure what I need to learn to get a job in any programming field. I feel like by the time I graduate I won't have half the experience I need to grab a job in a field... | What's a good language to know for any generic job? Do you learn on the job, or should you have a lot of experience when applying? What's an example of a lower-level computer science job?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My [f24] friend [m25] depends so heavily on me and I cant bear it any more. Am I being selfish?
POST: Hi. Throwaway just because.
I've been friends with this guy for about 5 years or so. We became close when he helped me through a pretty traumatic time. We live a few hours ap... | friend relies on me for constant validation and support and makes me feel guilty for having a life. Not sure I can bear much more. Am I selfish? What can I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20 M] Approached Me And Later Denies Knowing Me [20 F] Am I Going Crazy?
POST: This cute guy who I've had classes with approached me a while back - he talked to me a bit, then got shy and ran away.we then proceeded to friend each other on FB. Few days later, I decided to shoot him ... | This guy who I've had a class with before was in my class this semester, and approached me, but then denied knowing me, turns out he's not even in the class! Kind of weirded out/confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Just because I don't drink or smoke does not make me straight edge. Srsly.
POST: It's LOL worthy every time someone accuses me of that. I don't drink. I've tried it, been drunk a few times, but I just don't care for it. I'm not going to waste my money on something that I don't give two sh... | Maaaan, I don't need your social lubrication or your reality dampeners. I've got my imagination and the haze of half-sleep for that. Derp.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 19 M with 19 F friend who I barely missed my chance with and now need advice.
POST: Okay first a little background on my story, Have had a couple bad relationships before where one was only using me to get to my brother, the other one, I got way too deep for what it was and ended up ... | Found a girl that I haven't felt something like this in a while, missed my chance to ask her out and now am wondering what is acceptable in our friendship for me to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by going to the bathroom in 3 am
POST: So this happened 2-3 days ago. I go to the bathroom in 3 AM to take the leak.
Now everything is cool and all but there's one problem in my bathroom - when you put the toilet seat up sometimes it falls down, though this happens rarely so i don't pa... | Tried to catch falling toilet seat, fell and hit my head,my hand ends up in toilet water full of my piss<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: [29F] What is best college savings vehicle for my baby in California? 529, home equity, etc.? How much would ideally be saved?
POST: I have a one year old and want to start saving early. I was looking at a 529 but I read that I cannot take any tax deductions for a 529 in California... | How should I start a college savings account for my baby in California? How much should I save before she turns 18?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Keeps bringing up the same issue!
POST: First of all I hope this is the right sub to drop this in but I'm sure I will get some advice anyways.
We are 30/m and 40/f and have become very close friends over the course of the last 6-9months. She is currently going through a divorce whic... | She thinks I am trying to force a relationship, I want her to understand that I am her best friend and want her to work out her life.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Today my (23f) gf decided we should take a break. Does it always signal the end? More info in comments (xpost-self)
POST: Our sex life used to be great. Then it started slowing down because she had been sick.a little over a week ago she tells me that she doesn't want to have sex anym... | gf wants to put god first and give up sex. I agreed to try. She says having a bf is too much temptation and said we should take a break while she figures herself out<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17M) am happy with my girlfriend (17F), yet concerned about my inexperience with relationships.
POST: Let me preface all of this by saying that I am NOT interested in breaking up with my girlfriend, so please respect that and don't offer that advice.
Onto the problem: I've been w... | I am happy with my relationship, but concerned that my lack of experience and "grass is always greener" thought process may affect it in the long-term.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (M24) with highly stressed gf (20)
POST: So we are in a long distance but serious relationship. She is studying foe her finals and projects and is really insistent in needing addional space. This is normal around midterms and finals and I usually just back off ad she says until... | girlfriend stressed out and concerned normal behavior of letting her just focus on school may fall short of what she needs. Any advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: PF, maximizing savings?
POST: Hi, Personal Finance!
I'd like to think I'm fairly smart when it comes to finance. I have worked at banks in sales (selling people debt), and have been very good about not going into debt myself, keeping my c/c balance low (in fact, I'm debt free ATM, ... | Have little expenses ATM, have some upcoming expenses in the next year.... how should I maximize my savings/what percentage should I save? Is it ok to minimize expenses to a ridiculous amount in order to save up? Thanks!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Guy [22m] hits on my GF[23f] ALL the time... BUT he's autistic... what to do?
POST: My GF is a 23f. I'm a 24m. We've been going out for almost three months.
My GF works at a retail place as a cashier. One of the guys she works with has an insane crush on her. She has told me many th... | Autistic guy hits on my girlfriend all the time, and it's getting a little annoying. Can I say something?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I just walked out of my first concert, ever.
POST: I went to a neon indian concert last night and I was pretty psyched to go, being that I've never seen any of my favorite artists live. I'm 21, Indian, and from the West Indies. I'm 5'8 and 138lbs. While I was wanting to go for weeks, I took... | Went to a concert. Got scared because it was out of my usual comfort zone and left 3 mins after I walked in...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I've never kissed a girl and I feel like a failure
POST: So I was watching South Park tonight and it was the episode where Butter's gets bullied for never having kissed a girl even though he was already 9. Then I realized that the same applies to me, even though I'm 15, and it feels lik... | I've never kissed a girl and I can't figure out what I've done wrong, can anyone give me suggestions? Sorry for the massive wall of text, have a [panda for your troubles](<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A good friend of mine is distancing herself... I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm desperate...
POST: Hello /r/relationships. I'm a 20 year old college student and I'm a male.
About a year ago I met a beatiful girl in my college, we started talking and quickly get along with each other. She is ... | I have grew attached to a friendship with a girl and now she doesn't want to talk to me. I don't know why.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Feel like husband (Mid 20s) can't be bothered to go out of his way for me (Also mid 20s). Am I expecting too much?
POST: Husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 3 of those. Earlier this year my parents found out my only other sibling is addicted to hard drugs. Detai... | Husband won't go on a 3-4 day trip for X-mas with me and my parents who are dealing with the first holiday season with my addict sibling out of the picture, feeling resentful about it. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [18f] living with my controlling aunt [45f] and I have a 7:00 curfew. I want out.
POST: I come from the typical strict religious family so I understandably want to move out. I live with my aunt who pays for me and my dads rent. (Moms not in the picture as of late.)
My reasons ar... | My aunts crazy af and my only solution is moving out but I'm afraid I'll regret it. How do I approach this situation?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Tools for photo consolidation on a PC?
POST: Reddit, I humbly ask you the following: Is there any tool that is geared toward finding photos in multiple directories and consolidating them into one?
Years of sloppy importing by my family members and carefree backup (we have 5 or 6 backups... | if you know of any tools to consolidate images, please recommend them. Any general tips on doing so are also welcome.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How should I approach a girl that I used to like?
POST: First of all, I am a 16 year old male.
I asked a girl out about six months ago, during school. I haven't seen her over the summer, and we have rarely talked since I asked her out. Obviously, she said no when I asked her out, bu... | A girl who I thought liked me stopped talking to me after I asked her out. Are there any signs I should look out for, or tips I should try to get her back as a friend?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [NC] No custody order in place-- Do I have to let him see the children?
POST: Had a hearing today to renew my no contact order with my ex. Even with sufficient evidence, the order, which included my ex having visitation every other weekend with the kids, was not renewed. Prior to an ... | no custody order in effect as of today, concerned over chilldrens safety, will i get in trouble if i keep the kids and deny what would be normal visitation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My dad (44/m) called me (16/f) fat in the middle of Costco... Not sure how to handle this.
POST: So today, I went out on errands with my parents.
Everything was going fine, I had gotten a new book, we were planning to go to a movie, and had decided to go to Costco to kill time. At ... | My father decided it would be perfectly okay to call his teenage daughter fat in the middle of Costco. Not sure what to do or think.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [19 M/F] talk to someone else [17 F] about a previous breakup
POST: About 3-4 months ago my girlfriend of 3+ years and I broke up. My life has been an emotional mess since then. Including me calling her crying and even more recently, she started calling me and begging for me... | I'm still a mess after a breakup. Can I talk to female friends about my problems without using them to fill my emotional void?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Girl telling me things on our second date, probably over thinking things as usual, still want advice
POST: Friday I went out to lunch with a girl(20f) I'm(21m) interested in. Somehow during the conversation the topic of friend zone came up. She preceded to tell me she wants to be up... | girl said she doesn't want to get serious with me until we've known each other for 6 months. And said she would love an authentic Korean dress.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28F] with my BF [26 M], has mentioned giving me an heirloom ring when he proposes. Am I being unappreciative if I don't like/want it?
POST: Let me start off by saying that money is not an issue, me and my boyfriend are very financially stable and do very well for ourselves.
Bas... | Boyfriend keeps mentioning proposing to me with his grandmas heirloom ring. Ring is ugly and it means more to me for him to pick one out for me. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M16] am not sure how to react to F[just turned 14] showing interest to me
POST: Hey, i am a 16 year old guy from Switzerland.
On silvester me and a friend met two of his friends [f].
We spent most of the evening together as a group of 10, said goodbye and in figured that was it.... | im 16 and a barely 14 year old girl likes me and will probably message me soon, i only have little experience with women, not sure what to do or how to reply<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Recommendation for a birthday gift for my Mom who we didn't expect to make it to 60 years old.
POST: Here's a bit of background.
::Also, here's a picture of my Mom and I during the Groom & Mother of the Groom dance when I got married on June 18th, 2011::
In 2006 my mom was hospitalized... | My mom has an incurable terminal disease that she has been fighting since 2006, what do I get her for her 60th birthday as a milestone.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my ex-boyfriend [39 M] of 7 months: how do you move on from a breakup when there wasn't really anything wrong?
POST: We've been friends for about a year and a half, became close fairly quickly, and started dating about 6 months into knowing each other. 4 months later h... | I'm having a hard time moving on from a really good but somewhat short (7 mo.) relationship that ended under the circumstances of long-distance. What advice can you offer?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25/M) want to become engage with my girlfriend (24/F) but crossing some roadblocks
POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years.
I am ready to buy a ring and be engaged after she's been hinting it for a while now. She is Fujianese and I am Cantonese.
In her Fujianese... | Girlfriend wants to get engage, pressuring me to ask money from parents to pay for wedding/ house which my parents do not have. About to give her ultimatum<|endoftext|> |
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