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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [19m] wrong to lie by omission about my past? POST: So jumping into this quickly I have a decent history of anti-social behavior that ranges from minor to pretty severe. This girl[20F] I have been talking to for some time now while got upset when she found out about some of th...	Lie about my history of anti-social behavior so that friends/relationships don't think I'm a terrible person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19F] My overbearing mother has issues with me sleeping at my bf's [18M] POST: I hope this is the right place for this. I go to college about a mile away from my boyfriend, who goes to a nearby college. I live in the dorms on my campus and he lives in his own apartment nearby. I usu...	Mother won't allow me to spend the night at bf's apartment, want to show her it's not a big deal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [16] broke up with me two weeks ago, and now I'm [17m] getting mixed signals from her best friend [16f]. POST: Ok, long story. Please don't disregard just because I'm in high school. So, back in August of 2011, I had a a conflict between these two girls. I told the bes...	My ex-girlfriend's best friend and I might have feelings for each other and I don't know what to do about it, might be overreacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU I Went Out Of My Way To Waste Time And Money. POST: This just happened, and I had to compose myself before I could draft up this post. I work for a distributor that prides itself on our level of customer service. I received a message from a customer. They gave us the wrong address to ...	If I had actually taken the easy way out, it would have been better in all facets of the issue. Ugh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I cheated, but I'm hellbent on getting his trust back. Is there anything I can do to save the relationship? POST: I'm 16, he's 17. we've been dating for over 9 months My boyfriend and I happen to be a couple of pretty mature beings. Last night however, I was extremely immature. All ...	kissed another guy at a party, boyfriend is in hysterics and so am I. Is there something more I can do to make the situation better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A start up company wants me to send work in for evaluation. POST: Hey Reddit. I have been trying to find a job for awhile in the gaming industry and living in NY is tough for this need. I finally got a nibble and i went in for an interview. Towards the end i was asked to send one of my p...	Company wants my project to evaluate my coding skills when i showed some of it already. Is this a scam or should i move forward with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help me [19m] understand how she's [18f] feeling.. POST: Hey /r/relationship_advice. My and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years. Everything is great, we love each other and we get along amazing. No problems within our relationship except one thing that happened aroun...	Girlfriend had miscarriage, always tells me she doesn't want a kid right now or soon, gets upset sometimes thinking about the kid. How can I understand?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: New Relationship, Need Help With Where its Heading POST: Hi r/relationships, I've came out from lurking to make an account specifically for this issue. I've (20M) recently met a great girl (20 as well), and we've seemed to hit things off. Our personalities click, as far as I can te...	Met a new girl, kissed her after learning we have feelings for each other, now dating, but am hesitant to move things forward due to only having 3 months before moving 8 hours across the country. Would like thoughts/advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] confused about [18 F] POST: So, i was out on a night out and found myself talking to this girl who has recently came out of a 4 year relationship. We hit it off and i got her number. I then went on a walk with her and watched a film, it was a really good day. But just after...	What should i do? Carry on trying to speak to her or just give her time and hope for the best. I could see a good future with us 2.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] 5 months; has negativity/throws temper tantrums POST: My girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher. She is also getting her Master's degree in teaching. I am getting burned out, because a.) Sometimes she can be negative and b.) She throws temper tantrum...	Girlfriend can have a short temper, and I'm not exactly sure what to do other than break-up or suggesting therapy, which she probably would not do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 M] am crushing on a [18 F] working in a store across from me. How to react? POST: Hey r/relationships! I've been working at this store for about a month and have recently met this beautiful lady working across from my store. I guess I've developed quite a crush on her because I...	Crushing on a girl working across from me, wondering whether this could be the "real deal" or just a crush that will pass by.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Family issues... what should I do? POST: I wanted to put a story here, but I have so many thoughts swirling around in my head that I can't put across properly. I have a straightforward personality. I speak what I think, and sometimes I aggravate people, because I don't like lying. Altho...	People, even family, hate me. I can't talk to anyone - I have no mouth, and I must scream. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20-F] with my boyfriend [22-M] of 9 months. My White boyfriend is in a Black Power gang. POST: Today, my boyfriend openly admitted to me that he is involved as an informant for a gang that is based on the principles of Black Power. I always knew he was strongly Anti-Fascist(got ...	Boyfriend is a non-violent informant for a Black Power gang he joined in prison when he was 18. Should I stay or should I go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (f) and my coworker (f), she lost a baby, and it went unacknowledged by the office POST: My coworker (35ish) of 6 years was 9 months pregnant, and she lost the baby. I (31) only found out through Facebook, and sent her and her family my condolences. When she came back after a fe...	Trying not to make coworkers' grief all about me, but I want to offer her condolences, or at least normal interaction.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I just got threatened and robbed by my own uncle -I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE POST: Facts: My uncle is 58, I just turned 29. My dad is the eldest son and this uncle is 2 years behind him. I am the younger of 2 children of my parents. This uncle is what you would call a black sheep I suppose....	My uncle has been taking from me and bullying me for over a year. I don't want to tell my dad because he's old and I think he would want to fight over this. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] confused about my ambiversion POST: I've been thinking about where I fit on the spectrum of extroversion and introversion. Whilst I've always enjoyed time alone I also quite like going out with friends and it can energise me sometimes. So I did some research and found out ...	Me - ambivert (middle of extrovert-introvert spectrum). Don't identify enough with either for good social life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU Betting Against The Toronto Blue Jays POST: My friend and I are baseball fanatics and occasionally have a friendly bet when a game that peaks our interest comes around. Being a Athletics fan while my friend a Blue Jays fan, we decided that last night's game would be one of those nights. ...	Oh yeah, I also have to wear them backwards to bed too. I hope to God my girlfriend doesn't find out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm a lesbian and I think I love my best guy friend. POST: I've liked girls for forever so this really caught me off guard. Sure, I can recognize when a male is attractive, but this is so much more. I feel like him and I are on the same page about everything. He's the smartest person I ...	liked girls my whole life, fell for a boy, got scared and insecure about being with a guy, broke up with him, still care for him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (20/F) havent met (24/m)bf's mom.... POST: Hello there! So, Im 20. Been dating this guy(24) for 10-11 months now. He's amazing, ILYs have been said and we are planning our first backpacking trip together! Now... I recently moved back into my parents house, and he has been liv...	Havent met bf's mom, its been 10 months, he promised before one year I would meet her, but so far nothing.....Do I ask again, or just let it happen... <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most nonsensical reason one of your friends played the "victim" in a break up for? POST: Hey Askreddit, I have a best friend, let's call him Jack and I've known his girlfriend (now ex) since elementary, let's call her Jill. Anyways I was going through my Facebook and noticed J...	Buddy broke up with his girl and sacrificed his happiness because the distance wasn't making her happy, and he knew, at this point, that he should let her move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need help with employee/boss relationship(not romantic) POST: I[23f] have been working for my boss[55f] as an admin assistant for around 7 months. She is the COO of a small business and I help her with a lot of things. Out relationship is generally really good. However. She has thi...	Boss thinks she tells me things that she did not. Do I tell her repeatedly that she did not tell me that info? That sounds bitchy. How should I handle it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to Find Lost/ Possibly Stolen Phone? POST: Sorry if this is the incorrect subreddit. I'm still new at posting, and also not really sure where else I could put this. My boyfriend went to a pawn shop to pick up an item of his that was stolen and brought there and then came straight to...	boyfriend lost phone. Tried installing Plan B app from comp to his cell to find said phone since phone is still on, but boyfriend didn't/doesn't know gmail account info.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend(19F) has a problem with my(21m) looks POST: She has been my girlfriend for around 4 months now and she is definitely the most amazing girl I have met in my life. We get along perfectly, we can hang out all the time and we are comfortable being ourselves around each othe...	My girlfriend is mad at me because she thinks, that I think, I am better looking than her, and it's true(superficially), but doesn't matter to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do hospital rankings matter for quality of care? POST: My grandfather is in the hospital with a gastrointestinal problem. Doctors at Hospital A opened him up and closed him back up without being able to fix the problem. Now his recovery from that surgery, to say nothing of the original p...	I am trying to best manage my grandfather's medical care and it could be a life/death situation. I am not sure what to expect from hospitals. Will he be better taken care of at a nationally-ranked hospital?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I (F19) tell my roommate and best friend (F19), to stop getting awful tattoos, or would it do more harm than good? POST: I've been extremely close friends with my roommate for 5 years now, and since we turned 18 she's been getting tattoos on a regular basis- 6 or 7 in the past...	My best friend is going through some shit, and I think getting (unintentionally) bad tattoos are part of how she's coping. What is my responsibility here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I just found out a friend is a supermodel. POST: Background: We were chatting one day and she let slip that she modeled as a summer job. Amazed, I asked her if I'll find anything on Google if I googled her. She told me it's creepy and begged me not to. Today, I was bored and googled her. (I'...	A very ordinary looking friend of mine turns out to be a model with solid cred. She looks amazing in pictures thanks to make up and photoshop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] I can't explain issues to my boyfriend (23/m) without upsetting him more POST: I'm sure a lot of people have this same problem, but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend what is bothering me without him assuming that I'm blaming him for all our relationship problems. It ...	How do I express what I think is a problem with out causing a problem? Also, how to go about issues in a way that I'm not always giving in and apologizing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my (ex)Girlfriend [18 F] broke up today after telling her what we need to work on... POST: After having the first real sit down with my Girlfriend of 10 months, I told her what I personally thought we needed to work on and how come September and I start my new job and ...	Don't know If I impulse broke up with my GF, feel like shit and don't know what I want to do with myself even though that's why I left her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M36] don't want to set up my wife's friend [F31] with any of my friends. POST: My wife, Jill, has a friend I'll call Chrissy. Chrissy is on the prowl for a boyfriend. Chrissy asks Jill if I've got any eligible friends, which I do. I don't want to set my friends up with Chrissy. ...	My wife's friend is an unattractive person inside and out and I need a nice way of telling my wife that I don't want to set her up with my friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Today, I [f/18] got in an official relationship with my SO [m/17] and it's my first real relationship EVER POST: I'm not a weird girl, or particularly unappealing in any way. In fact I'm pretty confident in my looks and personality, it just so happens that I've never gone far enough ...	! I'm entering my first relationship ever. What are some do's and don'ts for me to know in order to not fuck this up due to inexperience and naive choices?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, have you ever found out your friends sucked, and if so, how? POST: A few of my friends and I were planning to go to a concert of a band I love. My boyfriend, John, who I've been dating about a year and a half, is also a long-time fan, and I was trying to make plans with my other ...	I got kicked out of a group planning to go to a concert (to a band I introduced everyone to) because I wouldn't tell my boyfriend he couldn't come.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Could use some advice on a classic problem (x-post from r/seduction) POST: I used to work with a girl I had a thing for, but she was with a long-time boyfriend, so, naturally, I didn't do or say anything about it. About a year ago, I left that job and have only talked to her a few times ...	going to be seeing an old crush (who, a couple months ago, broke off an engagement to her long-time boyfriend) after almost a year. Is asking her out the first night I see her in bad taste?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Help] Dog lost appetite? Not eating much today POST: My dog is a 7 year old rescue we have had for 3 weeks. He came to us slightly under weight, he was only at the shelter for a month. They had been feeding him science diet. When he came to us, I started mixing in some Avoderm canned stew a...	Been transitioning his food for the past 3 days. Last night he didnt eat his bedtime treat and didnt finish his food today. Still active and running around though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do I need to do to succeed in life? POST: I'm a 22 year old male, ever since i graduated High School i had to work full time to support my foster family, they have just decided to up and leave to a new state, forcing me to move in with my girlfriend and her family to survive. I wor...	Young guy looking for nuggets of advice about work, schooling, moving out for the first time, good majors, and how to find out who you want to be in life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] and the boyfriend [23] can never be alone. POST: Circumstances: we've been moving very slowly. Haven't had sex yet because he's inexperienced and wants to be cautious about moving in that direction because he felt like it can be a distraction from getting to know eachother. ...	BF's roommates won't let be alone with BF. Don't want to be that girl that makes waves among a BF's friends but it's bothering me like crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [26F] lost her friend tragically in high school. Today is that friend's birthday. How can I [27M] help her mourn? POST: Hey all, First time posting here. My wife lost her best friend tragically in a car accident in high school. Though it's been nearly 10 years, she still mou...	Wife lost best friend in high school. She's not the type to talk about feelings. I want to help her cope but am usually lost and feel helpless to do so.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (19) going to a formal with another guy and decided to tell me(21) via text message the day of. POST: Basically I've been seeing this girl for about three months now. Although we never said we were exclusive, it was highly inferred and this is pretty out of norm for her. She has...	Girl who I'm dating(?) decided to tell me that she was going to a fraternity formal with some other guy the day of, over text message after being distant for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] Is there any hope for me? [20 F] POST: Previous post: Hello. I am still reeling from the breakup mentioned from the previous post. I have gotten over my apathy, and most days I live in a numbing blur. I am a bit ashamed to admit this, but I have used some unhealthy measure...	I am an asexual university student with vaginismus, and every man I've met wants sex in a relationship. (Something I can't give)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] am not sure if I'm the right guy for "Beca" [21 F] after knowing her for a while POST: I have a close group of friends of 4 years, one of which is "Clara" [21F]. Through Clara, she would occasionally bring her other close group of friends whom she knew earlier on, one of wh...	I have been travelling with a group of friends and I think I like a friend's friend, but I'm not sure if I am the right guy for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Going to fail an exam tomorrow, what would you do? POST: So I've been studying for hours, and due other classwork I just haven't had enough time as I needed to do a passable job on my exam tomorrow morning. Stressed out and being extremely desperate, I'm seriously thinking about missing...	I'm thinking of missing an exam and going to the doctors for " tension headaches" in order to get a doctors note so I can get a few extra days of studying in. Would this plan work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and my _gf__ [22 F] of over 2years recently broke up and Not sure where she is staying, should I ask? POST: I have contemplating writing something here in regards to our relationship and how we broke up, but simply put, she did not give me much closure and I am not entirely...	Girlfriend of 2 years moves out and doesn't tell me where she is living. I want to know if it's appropriate for me to ask despite trying no contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] struggling with possible feelings for a close friend [19 F] POST: This is my second year in college and my first year being single in college. I experienced a breakup at the beginning of the year. Around the same time, my friend (called Noel for clarity) was going through t...	Grew close to a friend of mine, started developing feelings. I need to know if telling her how I feel won't cause too much of what we have to disappear.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I (23M) go camping with my best friend or to my gf's (25F) dad's retirement party? POST: A couple months ago, my girlfriend (of 2+ years), our friends, and I had planned a big camping trip. Last month, she found out that her dad's retirement party for the Navy (held on the USS...	my girlfriend's dad's Navy retirement party is the same weekend I'd already planned a camping trip with my best friend. He's coming in from Chicago with his girlfriend. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] fell for her[21F] again. POST: hey this will be quite a long story but please read it out as I couldn't believe this happened again. I will be as brief as possible. Okay it all started when i was in year 8 (7 years ago), when i started to have this small crush on this girl ...	Had a school crush 7 years ago in another country. Rejected me, devastated and heartbroken. Moved to Australia and moved on. Now she moved to the same place as me. Fell for her again. In deep trouble.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf and I seem to have the stereotypical roles reversed when it comes to "talking about it." POST: Me: male, 19 Her: female, 18 Relationship of about 15 months I always hear women complain that men don't talk enough, that they won't open up, that they don't seem to want support....	My girlfriend doesn't like to talk with me about her problems or mine, and I wish the opposite. Our stereotypes (silent male, talkative female) appear to have been reversed (silent female, talkative male).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my ex[23F] together 2 years still have strong feelings for each other POST: I'll try to keep this as short as possible, it may end up a wall of text. Met a great girl a few years ago, we slowly became close friends and eventually started dating. Dates for a period of a ...	Ex and I still very close, can't tell if she's wanting me to fight for her or if I should move on<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My drinking has ruined my relationship and I've lost my better half. When will this awful pain stop? POST: I love drinking. Too much. I can't stop once I start and I lie, do stupid, hurtful things to my boyfriend. I cannot believe he has put up with me for so long. I can't believe it has ...	realized my drinking is atrocious, trying to get better but am completely crushed about losing my boyfriend. Wondering how long the pain lasts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If you're not having kids, who will take care of you when you are old? POST: I am not planning on having children any time soon, if at all in my lifetime. I've got a great-grandmother who's over 100 and won't die. I've got a grandmother in relatively poor health. And a grandfather in ...	Who exactly is going to take care of us when we get old if we don't have kids and are not wealthy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) got cheated on by my gf (20F) and can't seem to function properly POST: I'm bad at writing so sorry for mistakes. My gf and I started dating a year and 10 months ago before that we were friends for 2 months. We moved in together 6 months into our relationship and had been l...	My gf cheated on me and we broke up but we live together. I can't seem to put it in my head that she cheated and hate her... I keep picturing myself with her in life and keep thinking about her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm having an anxiety attack over work. What do YOU do to muster the courage to go to work when there's an important meeting? POST: Basically, I've been sitting here making myself sick with anxiety because of this upcoming meeting today. A few weeks ago I finally broke down and t...	I'm a chickenshit because my manager has been bullying me, and I don't want to go to work. Considering quitting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Breaking up and getting back together? Does this ever work? POST: Me (21M) and my (now) ex girlfriend (22F) of 5ish months broke up around 2 weeks ago but continued to hang out and sleep together (no sex, just sleeping) for a while afterwards. Just recently has this stopped. At the risk ...	Decent chance me and my ex might get back together after she's had some time to herself. Wondering if this has ever worked out for anyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27M] friend [27M] really annoying when he does something he thinks is cool POST: He was always the type of person that would not do anything, hard to convince to come along. Now he went to a hipster beach resort last month full of well off people who pretend to be poor and that's...	Friend annoying after going somewhere nice and tries to make everyone that doesn't share his views like they're not living their lives even though he never really does anything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] found my boyfriend [26M] emailing himself nudes of his ex POST: I have been my boyfriend for coming up to a year now, and we share a room in my mums house together, living together. We are pretty steady going and have a holiday booked for America together in April. However I ...	Found my boyfriend emailing pictures of his ex in her underwear to herself. Feel sick, paranoid and betrayed. Not sure what to do next. Help please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hey reddit, I'm a bit shy on the situation but I would like your take. POST: I feel as though it seems improbable but the fact of the matter is that I think I fell in love when I was 14 to a girl. I'm 17 now and I can't seem to get her off my mind even today. I think that maybe the f...	I think I fell in love, I yearn for the feeling, and I'm looking for solutions from you guys.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22 F] recently broke up with my boyfriend [31 M] after nearly 3 years. Feeling super down, encouragement etc would be appreciated POST: I know it was the right thing to do, I didn't feel about him the same way he felt about me. But it's horrible, for our entire relationship I've go...	Lost boyfriend and our group of friends to him, feel very alone and very sad. Experience/advice would be greatly appreciated<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was almost charged for animal cruelty. What is the most ridiculous or inexplicable "crime" you have been, or almost been convicted of? POST: The story behind this: I was attending a small community college that was on a bad side of town and surrounded by a lot of homes. Right next to ...	I was almost charged for animal cruelty for a dog somehow chaining itself to my car. Animal Control saved my ass.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by fixing my iphone. POST: So last year my friend gave me his old iphone 4s as i still had a 3gs for the fourth year. Cut to the summer and my battery was draining quickly, so i downloaded battery life to view and it only had less then 3% maximum capacity. I went on using the phone by u...	I replaced the battery on an old iphone which had a loose connector, which lead to it breaking the phone and me losing a lot of important data and waking up 4 hours late for orientation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Meeting my [27F] ex's [27M] new girlfriend [23?F] POST: Me and my ex dated for 3 years, and broke up a year ago. We lived together, and it was serious, but we broke up because we have fundamental incompatibility issues. The breakup was amicable and we are still friendly, occasionally...	Ex's new girlfriend is probably coming to a party hosted by my friends, what can I do to make her feel welcome?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me (21M) with my girlfriend (21F) - LDR for 3.5 years, we've never fought before POST: Some background first: I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 1/2 years. We started dating right before we both left for university about 7 hours apart. Although long distance hasn'...	Never had a fight with long distance girlfriend, wondering if that means anything worrisome. Also wondering about the transition from being long distance to finally moving in together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (27 M) I dont know what to do with my fellings about her (23 F) POST: I don't know were to begin, I met her in a friend party like a month ago, we really hit that night, and we went out two nights after in a date, everything was fine, that night in our first date she told me sh...	I like this girl who have a son, is a High class Prostitute and pregnant from a previous boyfriend, and i don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need help regarding homesickness in my boyfriend POST: I hope this is the correct sub to post in. It isn't putting a huge strain on my relationship, but it is bringing my boyfriend down and I'd like to give him a hand! So my partner and I have been dating roughly 2.5 years (me - 2...	Partner from a small town moved across the country with me and is brought down a lot by missing home. I want to help him feel better, but don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, is it wrong to leave a freelance job I started yesterday? POST: I'm a freelance Key Grip/Grip in the film industry. Story: About two weeks ago I got a call from this Gaffer to Key a low-budget feature. I pretty much immediately said yes because this Gaffer is a guy who I want to...	Started a freelance indie job yesterday which I'm not really interested in. And the union has been calling me daily with bigger and better work. Should I stick with the indie job or leave for the union work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [40F] was raised in chaos and abuse. Now that my life is calm, I've turned to abusing myself. Advice? POST: Hi Reddit, long time lurker, first time poster. Background: I was raised pretty badly. Lots of abuse, violence, alcohol and drug use. Left home for a failure of a first marr...	My childhood abuse made me a fighter, but once I stopped having to fight for safety, I turned against myself and it's starting to worry my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (M25) doesn't want me (F25) to visit him in the hospital because he said, "It's embarrassing." POST: Hi. My boyfriend (M25) of eight months is going to be in the hospital for the next few days because of a surgery he just had and he has asked me (F25) not to visit him. I ...	I'm hurt that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go see him after surgery but he's allowing a female friend of his to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I[22f] put a guy friend[23m] in the friendzone and now I want to yank him back out. POST: I met this guy, A, about a year ago through a common interest. At the time, I had a boyfriend of 4-ish months; I'll call him B. We are all 22-23 years old. B is very laid back and not ...	I have feelings for a guy that I friendzoned because I had a boyfriend. Now that I'm single, is it wrong to wonder if I still have a chance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] feel like my best friend [21 F] is only my friend when it's convenient for her. Like when I'm just across the hall. POST: I met my best friend move-in day freshman year of college. She lived in the room next door to me. We both are from the same home state and live about 20-...	My best friend and I are solid during the school year, but she doesn't seem interested in hanging out when we're separated by more than a hallway.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 F] girlfriend broke up with me [27 M], we were been together for 5 months. Everything were fine, until... POST: My girlfriend [26/F] for 5 months broke up with me [27/M] 3 days ago. I'm feeling lost, miserable...in hell. We had no fights, a very good relationship. I did not s...	GF break, i'm totally miserable. Great time vanished in few days. Thinking that the whole situation is very strange. How can i handle this and move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it possible my boyfriend (42M) is still lying to me? Dating for a year. POST: I have been having internal issues with my boyfriend - things I've been trying to figure out for myself (you can see my other thread on this). When we first started dating, he lied to me about talking ...	BF changed his password on his phone so I couldn't access it while he left it with me. Should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] will be breaking up with my [28m] of two and a half years tomorrow. I have no idea how to go about it or what to expect. POST: I have been with my bf a long time and before him, had only kissed one other guy. He was my first everything basically. I need to break it off as it...	I've never been in a relationship but my current one. Don't know how to break up or stand my ground or what to expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18F] was into me [18M] earlier, but I screwed up and she's terrible at communicating POST: Caroline and I met the first week of school and we immediately hit it off - I danced with her at the first dance but chickened out and didn't pursue things right away because I wasn't u...	Girl liked me but I didn't want to be in a relationship; now I like her, but what to do? What did I do wrong (if anything :/)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaning my chair against a wall POST: Obviously this didn't happen today. This happened about a week ago. So I'm sitting in science class with my friend. We like to talk about nerdy things. We were talking about the End of the Line TF2 short movie. Meanwhile I'm leaning back so far i...	Leaned to far back in a chair, friend wiggled the leg and I hit the floor in the middle of class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] gf [22F] of 5 years wants to break up POST: LDR relationship right out of highschool. We get along great when things are going good, but she has a lot of emotional self-esteem problems (as do I, honestly). She constantly blames herself for everything and things that she's no...	gf of 5 years has low self esteem, and that's gotten in the way of our relationship. After kissing another guy and listening to her friends against me, she now wants to break up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27m] ex [24m] (6 month relationship) wants to know all my darkest'secrets' before we can're-try our relationship'. I don't want to. POST: Ever since we broke up (due to me not considering moving to his city -- which by the way, is in another country), he has insisted that, in-ord...	Ex wants me to disclose every detail of my past relationships but I'd rather not. How do I address this without being too harsh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I might get kicked out of my apartment...Sorry to bother you, reddit, but I really need advice :\ POST: Hey all. So I am subleasing my place from a friend for only a month and a half. I paid her a set fee that she guaranteed to me was fine and I thought that would be the end of that......	I might get kicked out of the apartment I'm subleasing from my friend because she did the rent payment under the table and won't pay the $200 subleasing fee that's specifically on her contract.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21F] with my boyfriend [20M] of over a year. We have one major issue in our relationship, and I need help resolving it. POST: Okay so we've been together for a little over a year, and we love each other a lot. The only problem is that he likes to drink, and I'm unlucky enough to h...	My boyfriend of a year likes to drink, but the smell of it gives me migraines. I'm not sure how to proceed with the relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: My dog is a douche bag. I'm worried for it's own life. Please help POST: I have a Chihuahua and Wiener dog mix that has a huge mistrust of strangers. I understand its in their genes, and I can deal with it barking at people that come over, because he only does it up until he gets a goo...	Dog freaks out around kids and charges as if he'll bite, but never does. I'm worried he'll freak out on the wrong kid, or actually bite one and get animal control called on him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So the university I graduated from 3 years ago just called and asked if I can donate to one of their funds... Do I donate? POST: Brief background: I graduated college with a bachelor's in History, couldn't find a job with it (of course), and eventually found my way into a job in web d...	I'm poor. My alma mater isn't. They want my money for campus events, etc. Do I selflessly donate or do I hold on to every dollar that I need?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my Boyfriend[27 M] of 3.5 yrs, I dont listen or communicate and i need to learn how POST: So my BF and i live together, and have for 3 years. Every other aspect of our relationship is great, except for my thoughtfulness( i think thats the right word?) This morning we h...	boyfriend says hes doesnt want to deal with my non-caring attutude towards him anymore. I dont mean to act or make him feel this way. what can i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: People do this every day, but I have no idea what I'm doing. [22,F] POST: I can feel that my 6 year relationship is coming to a close. The worst part is, we get along fine - but lately it's more like we're roommates and I can feel that we just don't support each other in the wa...	How do people do this? How do they know it's the right choice? How do people end relationships while in leases? How do I have that conversation? Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: She's with another guy but i can't stop thinking about her. POST: moved from r/relationship_tips We've (M24/F22) been in the same degree program for almost 3 years now and shes my best female friend. She got together with another guy before i got my chance/ had the confidence to ask ...	Should i confess my feelings to my best female friend despite her being in a relationship or should i keep my mouth shut to at least be friends with her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Credit Card/ Bank Question POST: Throwaway account. I got a call last night at around 8:30 from a person claiming to be a representative from my bank. She asked if I had received the new credit card that they had sent a notification about a few months ago. I recently moved out of my pare...	Someone called me claiming to be from my bank. They said they were sending me a new card because I'm a great customer. Am I going to be a victim of credit card fraud?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone try online dating before? And is it worth it? POST: Hello Reddit! So I am a 24F and I have been single for a while, recently moved to a new city, busy with work, and it is looking like a good way for me to meet new people and go on dates is to join an online dating website and do ...	Online dating works, gotta have some patience with the process, but I found someone who could be my best friend and lover.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Repost from r/askscience: A question about Downs Syndrome risk in subsequent pregnancies. POST: I posted this over at r/askscience and got nothing. Any parents/ pediatritians/ otw interested parties over here in r/parenting? Some friends were recently told by their pediatrician that th...	is it possible to have a high GENETIC risk of downs syndrome (i.e., not heightened risk due to advanced maternal age)? Are my friends worried about nothing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] boyfriend teases me [21F] but won't be intimate POST: So, this might be a bit of an odd question, but I'll give it a shot. BF and I have been dating for 3 years, and we're both about to graduate from the same college. We haven't had PIV sex yet because we don't want to ris...	Boyfriend gropes me and teases me but won't engage in anything further. Claims he's attracted to me but it's hard to believe at times<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Here I Go! POST: Hello /r/loseit! Here I am, putting myself out there on the internet declaring that I am going to finally start getting my weight under control. It actually feels quite good to type this up. Which is why I figure quite a few people make these introductory posts. I am a ...	Yet another guy who is wanting to get into shape for his health and his future, and it making this post so he feels more responsible about loosing his weight!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I need some help with my girlfriend... POST: (crosspost from r/sex) My girlfriend and I (male) have been dating seriously for four and a half years now-we're both young 20's-and we're both attending different colleges, far apart. We have a great long distance relationship and truly ...	The girlfriend won't send me dirty pictures, but I believe that it's because she has a horrible self image. What can I do to help her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22M] with my good friend's ex girlfriend [22F] have gotten closer, but I don't know if there's a happy ending here. POST: Situation needs some context. Throwaway because why not. Finishing my undergrad degree in a university this month. A little more a year and a half ago a good fri...	Can't make sense of what's going on between me and my friend's ex girlfriend, need some perspective/3rd party input!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Researching LASIK & PRK eye surgery. Reading BAD things about LASIK long term side effects. Any advice? POST: I was really excited to plan LASIK surgery for next year but a friend just told me about reports by former FDA officials on long term side effects stemming from LASIK surgery, wh...	Does anyone have any information or experience related to this topic which may help my decision? Any information you may provide is greatly appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: My [25F] boyfriend [23M] didn't get me a birthday present... POST: Original post can be found [here]( So I ended up confronting my BF about why he didn't get me a birthday card or anything like that. He told me he had planned a birthday present for me and then messed it up, ...	Starting to feel like I'm not really a priority for my BF and I'm resenting him for it. Not sure if I should try to save the relationship or if it's pointless to try to change him...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [20F] contact my old best friend [20F] of 7 years? POST: I could really use some advice on this issue. To begin with, me and my old best friend were very close through the primary school years but she moved out of town when were 13. I reconnected with her on Facebook when...	Really want to contact my old best friend on fb but I'm afraid of being rejected because it's been years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/f] Should I move in with my boyfriend [32/m] POST: I'm having this dilemma and the people I'd normally ask advice to are biased on the matter (they don't like him because he made a bad impression the first time they met and it's hard trying to give him another chance). Also...	Need to find a new place to live. Boyfriend says we should find a place together, since I'm always at his place anyways. Should I do it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] broke up a long time ago with my other [26F] a several months relationship, and it's very hard for me to go on, keep going on, forget her, leave her be POST: im an usual depressed guy that had many problems, which at the beginning of my relationship seemed to fade away. but...	my point is that i started this post because after a joke of a relationship that i had, i really cared about this superficial girl, and sometimes i get really melancholic with what if, whenever i encounter her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) boyfriend of 3 years (23M) didn't do anything for my birthday. POST: We decided to take a break the day before my birthday because we were having some conflicting ideas about the future. On my birthday we didn't speak all day, he brought over a bag of gifts that night becaus...	SO and I took a break the day before my birthday, got back together less than a week later, and he never did anything for my birthday. Pretty peeved. Am I being irrational?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/f] and my tinder buddy [22/m] is turning into a nightmare. Advice? POST: Note: this is a repost from a post I made in letsnotmeet, sorry if you have read this before. We first started out with a simple Netflix and chill. I've only met this guy twice and we both mutually a...	tinder buddy turned stalker who is now online stalking sister. Won't leave me alone and I barely know him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [21 M] just told me [20 F] that he's seriously planning on moving to China after graduation... POST: And I'm not sure how to handle it. He and I have known each other since April 2014, and casually dated for two months, were then separated over the summer but in contact, and r...	SO is trying to move to China for a year. I support him, but it makes me incredibly sad thinking about him leaving. Without stopping him from following his plan, how do I help myself through this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm pretty sure I have borderline personality disorder, how can I approach my parents? POST: Long story short, my mum has had depression, (3 serious bouts) since I was little. I basically am always on edge. I keep everything to myself because I don't want to rock the boat. I've suspected...	I think I have bpd but can't talk to parents as I'm scared mums depression will come back because of me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex [23F] is is in a relationship with the guy [25M] she cheated on me [22M] with. POST: I recently made a visit to the town (where my ex goes to school) to see a friend. When I was looking for a parking spot, I saw her walking hand in hand with the guy with whom she cheated on me a m...	Saw ex with guy she cheated with a month ago; she saw me too. She admitted they're now dating. Need any kind of support /r/relationships is willing to give.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] dating 3 years, worried she wants to leave me. POST: Hey everyone, this is my first post and and hoping to find another perspective on my situation. As mentioned in the title, I have been with my girlfriend now for close to 3 years now. We have be...	Been in a happy relationship for the last 3 years but recently have hit some bumps and feel like it will end if something isn't done, what can I do to keep our relationship strong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Feeling kind of insecure without close, meaningful friendships. What can I do? POST: Okay, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I'm using a throwaway because my SO knows my main account. Currently I'm (F 21) visiting my boyfriend's (M 21) family after about a year of us being...	Feeling like I'm lacking a vital part of an enjoyable life without close friends. Insecure because of it, and don't want to ruin me and my SO's relationship by not having as much confidence without close, meaningful friendships<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF[23 M] of four months, how to transition into a long distance relationship POST: In a week from now I will be moving about an hour and a half to two hours drive away from my boyfriend of four months. We are both be starting at our new colleges two weeks from now. H...	In a week from now I will be moving about an hour and a half to two hours drive away from my boyfriend of four months. How do I transition into a long distance relationship?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [19m] wrong to lie by omission about my past? POST: So jumping into this quickly I have a decent history of anti-social behavior that ranges from minor to pretty severe. This girl[20F] I have been talking to for some time now while got upset when she found out about some of th...	Lie about my history of anti-social behavior so that friends/relationships don't think I'm a terrible person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19F] My overbearing mother has issues with me sleeping at my bf's [18M] POST: I hope this is the right place for this. I go to college about a mile away from my boyfriend, who goes to a nearby college. I live in the dorms on my campus and he lives in his own apartment nearby. I usu...	Mother won't allow me to spend the night at bf's apartment, want to show her it's not a big deal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [16] broke up with me two weeks ago, and now I'm [17m] getting mixed signals from her best friend [16f]. POST: Ok, long story. Please don't disregard just because I'm in high school. So, back in August of 2011, I had a a conflict between these two girls. I told the bes...	My ex-girlfriend's best friend and I might have feelings for each other and I don't know what to do about it, might be overreacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU I Went Out Of My Way To Waste Time And Money. POST: This just happened, and I had to compose myself before I could draft up this post. I work for a distributor that prides itself on our level of customer service. I received a message from a customer. They gave us the wrong address to ...	If I had actually taken the easy way out, it would have been better in all facets of the issue. Ugh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I cheated, but I'm hellbent on getting his trust back. Is there anything I can do to save the relationship? POST: I'm 16, he's 17. we've been dating for over 9 months My boyfriend and I happen to be a couple of pretty mature beings. Last night however, I was extremely immature. All ...	kissed another guy at a party, boyfriend is in hysterics and so am I. Is there something more I can do to make the situation better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: A start up company wants me to send work in for evaluation. POST: Hey Reddit. I have been trying to find a job for awhile in the gaming industry and living in NY is tough for this need. I finally got a nibble and i went in for an interview. Towards the end i was asked to send one of my p...	Company wants my project to evaluate my coding skills when i showed some of it already. Is this a scam or should i move forward with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help me [19m] understand how she's [18f] feeling.. POST: Hey /r/relationship_advice. My and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years. Everything is great, we love each other and we get along amazing. No problems within our relationship except one thing that happened aroun...	Girlfriend had miscarriage, always tells me she doesn't want a kid right now or soon, gets upset sometimes thinking about the kid. How can I understand?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: New Relationship, Need Help With Where its Heading POST: Hi r/relationships, I've came out from lurking to make an account specifically for this issue. I've (20M) recently met a great girl (20 as well), and we've seemed to hit things off. Our personalities click, as far as I can te...	Met a new girl, kissed her after learning we have feelings for each other, now dating, but am hesitant to move things forward due to only having 3 months before moving 8 hours across the country. Would like thoughts/advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] confused about [18 F] POST: So, i was out on a night out and found myself talking to this girl who has recently came out of a 4 year relationship. We hit it off and i got her number. I then went on a walk with her and watched a film, it was a really good day. But just after...	What should i do? Carry on trying to speak to her or just give her time and hope for the best. I could see a good future with us 2.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] 5 months; has negativity/throws temper tantrums POST: My girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher. She is also getting her Master's degree in teaching. I am getting burned out, because a.) Sometimes she can be negative and b.) She throws temper tantrum...	Girlfriend can have a short temper, and I'm not exactly sure what to do other than break-up or suggesting therapy, which she probably would not do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 M] am crushing on a [18 F] working in a store across from me. How to react? POST: Hey r/relationships! I've been working at this store for about a month and have recently met this beautiful lady working across from my store. I guess I've developed quite a crush on her because I...	Crushing on a girl working across from me, wondering whether this could be the "real deal" or just a crush that will pass by.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Family issues... what should I do? POST: I wanted to put a story here, but I have so many thoughts swirling around in my head that I can't put across properly. I have a straightforward personality. I speak what I think, and sometimes I aggravate people, because I don't like lying. Altho...	People, even family, hate me. I can't talk to anyone - I have no mouth, and I must scream. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20-F] with my boyfriend [22-M] of 9 months. My White boyfriend is in a Black Power gang. POST: Today, my boyfriend openly admitted to me that he is involved as an informant for a gang that is based on the principles of Black Power. I always knew he was strongly Anti-Fascist(got ...	Boyfriend is a non-violent informant for a Black Power gang he joined in prison when he was 18. Should I stay or should I go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (f) and my coworker (f), she lost a baby, and it went unacknowledged by the office POST: My coworker (35ish) of 6 years was 9 months pregnant, and she lost the baby. I (31) only found out through Facebook, and sent her and her family my condolences. When she came back after a fe...	Trying not to make coworkers' grief all about me, but I want to offer her condolences, or at least normal interaction.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I just got threatened and robbed by my own uncle -I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE POST: Facts: My uncle is 58, I just turned 29. My dad is the eldest son and this uncle is 2 years behind him. I am the younger of 2 children of my parents. This uncle is what you would call a black sheep I suppose....	My uncle has been taking from me and bullying me for over a year. I don't want to tell my dad because he's old and I think he would want to fight over this. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] confused about my ambiversion POST: I've been thinking about where I fit on the spectrum of extroversion and introversion. Whilst I've always enjoyed time alone I also quite like going out with friends and it can energise me sometimes. So I did some research and found out ...	Me - ambivert (middle of extrovert-introvert spectrum). Don't identify enough with either for good social life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU Betting Against The Toronto Blue Jays POST: My friend and I are baseball fanatics and occasionally have a friendly bet when a game that peaks our interest comes around. Being a Athletics fan while my friend a Blue Jays fan, we decided that last night's game would be one of those nights. ...	Oh yeah, I also have to wear them backwards to bed too. I hope to God my girlfriend doesn't find out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm a lesbian and I think I love my best guy friend. POST: I've liked girls for forever so this really caught me off guard. Sure, I can recognize when a male is attractive, but this is so much more. I feel like him and I are on the same page about everything. He's the smartest person I ...	liked girls my whole life, fell for a boy, got scared and insecure about being with a guy, broke up with him, still care for him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (20/F) havent met (24/m)bf's mom.... POST: Hello there! So, Im 20. Been dating this guy(24) for 10-11 months now. He's amazing, ILYs have been said and we are planning our first backpacking trip together! Now... I recently moved back into my parents house, and he has been liv...	Havent met bf's mom, its been 10 months, he promised before one year I would meet her, but so far nothing.....Do I ask again, or just let it happen... <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most nonsensical reason one of your friends played the "victim" in a break up for? POST: Hey Askreddit, I have a best friend, let's call him Jack and I've known his girlfriend (now ex) since elementary, let's call her Jill. Anyways I was going through my Facebook and noticed J...	Buddy broke up with his girl and sacrificed his happiness because the distance wasn't making her happy, and he knew, at this point, that he should let her move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need help with employee/boss relationship(not romantic) POST: I[23f] have been working for my boss[55f] as an admin assistant for around 7 months. She is the COO of a small business and I help her with a lot of things. Out relationship is generally really good. However. She has thi...	Boss thinks she tells me things that she did not. Do I tell her repeatedly that she did not tell me that info? That sounds bitchy. How should I handle it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to Find Lost/ Possibly Stolen Phone? POST: Sorry if this is the incorrect subreddit. I'm still new at posting, and also not really sure where else I could put this. My boyfriend went to a pawn shop to pick up an item of his that was stolen and brought there and then came straight to...	boyfriend lost phone. Tried installing Plan B app from comp to his cell to find said phone since phone is still on, but boyfriend didn't/doesn't know gmail account info.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend(19F) has a problem with my(21m) looks POST: She has been my girlfriend for around 4 months now and she is definitely the most amazing girl I have met in my life. We get along perfectly, we can hang out all the time and we are comfortable being ourselves around each othe...	My girlfriend is mad at me because she thinks, that I think, I am better looking than her, and it's true(superficially), but doesn't matter to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do hospital rankings matter for quality of care? POST: My grandfather is in the hospital with a gastrointestinal problem. Doctors at Hospital A opened him up and closed him back up without being able to fix the problem. Now his recovery from that surgery, to say nothing of the original p...	I am trying to best manage my grandfather's medical care and it could be a life/death situation. I am not sure what to expect from hospitals. Will he be better taken care of at a nationally-ranked hospital?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I (F19) tell my roommate and best friend (F19), to stop getting awful tattoos, or would it do more harm than good? POST: I've been extremely close friends with my roommate for 5 years now, and since we turned 18 she's been getting tattoos on a regular basis- 6 or 7 in the past...	My best friend is going through some shit, and I think getting (unintentionally) bad tattoos are part of how she's coping. What is my responsibility here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I just found out a friend is a supermodel. POST: Background: We were chatting one day and she let slip that she modeled as a summer job. Amazed, I asked her if I'll find anything on Google if I googled her. She told me it's creepy and begged me not to. Today, I was bored and googled her. (I'...	A very ordinary looking friend of mine turns out to be a model with solid cred. She looks amazing in pictures thanks to make up and photoshop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] I can't explain issues to my boyfriend (23/m) without upsetting him more POST: I'm sure a lot of people have this same problem, but I don't know how to tell my boyfriend what is bothering me without him assuming that I'm blaming him for all our relationship problems. It ...	How do I express what I think is a problem with out causing a problem? Also, how to go about issues in a way that I'm not always giving in and apologizing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my (ex)Girlfriend [18 F] broke up today after telling her what we need to work on... POST: After having the first real sit down with my Girlfriend of 10 months, I told her what I personally thought we needed to work on and how come September and I start my new job and ...	Don't know If I impulse broke up with my GF, feel like shit and don't know what I want to do with myself even though that's why I left her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M36] don't want to set up my wife's friend [F31] with any of my friends. POST: My wife, Jill, has a friend I'll call Chrissy. Chrissy is on the prowl for a boyfriend. Chrissy asks Jill if I've got any eligible friends, which I do. I don't want to set my friends up with Chrissy. ...	My wife's friend is an unattractive person inside and out and I need a nice way of telling my wife that I don't want to set her up with my friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Today, I [f/18] got in an official relationship with my SO [m/17] and it's my first real relationship EVER POST: I'm not a weird girl, or particularly unappealing in any way. In fact I'm pretty confident in my looks and personality, it just so happens that I've never gone far enough ...	! I'm entering my first relationship ever. What are some do's and don'ts for me to know in order to not fuck this up due to inexperience and naive choices?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, have you ever found out your friends sucked, and if so, how? POST: A few of my friends and I were planning to go to a concert of a band I love. My boyfriend, John, who I've been dating about a year and a half, is also a long-time fan, and I was trying to make plans with my other ...	I got kicked out of a group planning to go to a concert (to a band I introduced everyone to) because I wouldn't tell my boyfriend he couldn't come.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Could use some advice on a classic problem (x-post from r/seduction) POST: I used to work with a girl I had a thing for, but she was with a long-time boyfriend, so, naturally, I didn't do or say anything about it. About a year ago, I left that job and have only talked to her a few times ...	going to be seeing an old crush (who, a couple months ago, broke off an engagement to her long-time boyfriend) after almost a year. Is asking her out the first night I see her in bad taste?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [Help] Dog lost appetite? Not eating much today POST: My dog is a 7 year old rescue we have had for 3 weeks. He came to us slightly under weight, he was only at the shelter for a month. They had been feeding him science diet. When he came to us, I started mixing in some Avoderm canned stew a...	Been transitioning his food for the past 3 days. Last night he didnt eat his bedtime treat and didnt finish his food today. Still active and running around though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do I need to do to succeed in life? POST: I'm a 22 year old male, ever since i graduated High School i had to work full time to support my foster family, they have just decided to up and leave to a new state, forcing me to move in with my girlfriend and her family to survive. I wor...	Young guy looking for nuggets of advice about work, schooling, moving out for the first time, good majors, and how to find out who you want to be in life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] and the boyfriend [23] can never be alone. POST: Circumstances: we've been moving very slowly. Haven't had sex yet because he's inexperienced and wants to be cautious about moving in that direction because he felt like it can be a distraction from getting to know eachother. ...	BF's roommates won't let be alone with BF. Don't want to be that girl that makes waves among a BF's friends but it's bothering me like crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [26F] lost her friend tragically in high school. Today is that friend's birthday. How can I [27M] help her mourn? POST: Hey all, First time posting here. My wife lost her best friend tragically in a car accident in high school. Though it's been nearly 10 years, she still mou...	Wife lost best friend in high school. She's not the type to talk about feelings. I want to help her cope but am usually lost and feel helpless to do so.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (19) going to a formal with another guy and decided to tell me(21) via text message the day of. POST: Basically I've been seeing this girl for about three months now. Although we never said we were exclusive, it was highly inferred and this is pretty out of norm for her. She has...	Girl who I'm dating(?) decided to tell me that she was going to a fraternity formal with some other guy the day of, over text message after being distant for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] Is there any hope for me? [20 F] POST: Previous post: Hello. I am still reeling from the breakup mentioned from the previous post. I have gotten over my apathy, and most days I live in a numbing blur. I am a bit ashamed to admit this, but I have used some unhealthy measure...	I am an asexual university student with vaginismus, and every man I've met wants sex in a relationship. (Something I can't give)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] am not sure if I'm the right guy for "Beca" [21 F] after knowing her for a while POST: I have a close group of friends of 4 years, one of which is "Clara" [21F]. Through Clara, she would occasionally bring her other close group of friends whom she knew earlier on, one of wh...	I have been travelling with a group of friends and I think I like a friend's friend, but I'm not sure if I am the right guy for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Going to fail an exam tomorrow, what would you do? POST: So I've been studying for hours, and due other classwork I just haven't had enough time as I needed to do a passable job on my exam tomorrow morning. Stressed out and being extremely desperate, I'm seriously thinking about missing...	I'm thinking of missing an exam and going to the doctors for " tension headaches" in order to get a doctors note so I can get a few extra days of studying in. Would this plan work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and my _gf__ [22 F] of over 2years recently broke up and Not sure where she is staying, should I ask? POST: I have contemplating writing something here in regards to our relationship and how we broke up, but simply put, she did not give me much closure and I am not entirely...	Girlfriend of 2 years moves out and doesn't tell me where she is living. I want to know if it's appropriate for me to ask despite trying no contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] struggling with possible feelings for a close friend [19 F] POST: This is my second year in college and my first year being single in college. I experienced a breakup at the beginning of the year. Around the same time, my friend (called Noel for clarity) was going through t...	Grew close to a friend of mine, started developing feelings. I need to know if telling her how I feel won't cause too much of what we have to disappear.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I (23M) go camping with my best friend or to my gf's (25F) dad's retirement party? POST: A couple months ago, my girlfriend (of 2+ years), our friends, and I had planned a big camping trip. Last month, she found out that her dad's retirement party for the Navy (held on the USS...	my girlfriend's dad's Navy retirement party is the same weekend I'd already planned a camping trip with my best friend. He's coming in from Chicago with his girlfriend. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] fell for her[21F] again. POST: hey this will be quite a long story but please read it out as I couldn't believe this happened again. I will be as brief as possible. Okay it all started when i was in year 8 (7 years ago), when i started to have this small crush on this girl ...	Had a school crush 7 years ago in another country. Rejected me, devastated and heartbroken. Moved to Australia and moved on. Now she moved to the same place as me. Fell for her again. In deep trouble.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf and I seem to have the stereotypical roles reversed when it comes to "talking about it." POST: Me: male, 19 Her: female, 18 Relationship of about 15 months I always hear women complain that men don't talk enough, that they won't open up, that they don't seem to want support....	My girlfriend doesn't like to talk with me about her problems or mine, and I wish the opposite. Our stereotypes (silent male, talkative female) appear to have been reversed (silent female, talkative male).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my ex[23F] together 2 years still have strong feelings for each other POST: I'll try to keep this as short as possible, it may end up a wall of text. Met a great girl a few years ago, we slowly became close friends and eventually started dating. Dates for a period of a ...	Ex and I still very close, can't tell if she's wanting me to fight for her or if I should move on<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My drinking has ruined my relationship and I've lost my better half. When will this awful pain stop? POST: I love drinking. Too much. I can't stop once I start and I lie, do stupid, hurtful things to my boyfriend. I cannot believe he has put up with me for so long. I can't believe it has ...	realized my drinking is atrocious, trying to get better but am completely crushed about losing my boyfriend. Wondering how long the pain lasts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If you're not having kids, who will take care of you when you are old? POST: I am not planning on having children any time soon, if at all in my lifetime. I've got a great-grandmother who's over 100 and won't die. I've got a grandmother in relatively poor health. And a grandfather in ...	Who exactly is going to take care of us when we get old if we don't have kids and are not wealthy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) got cheated on by my gf (20F) and can't seem to function properly POST: I'm bad at writing so sorry for mistakes. My gf and I started dating a year and 10 months ago before that we were friends for 2 months. We moved in together 6 months into our relationship and had been l...	My gf cheated on me and we broke up but we live together. I can't seem to put it in my head that she cheated and hate her... I keep picturing myself with her in life and keep thinking about her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm having an anxiety attack over work. What do YOU do to muster the courage to go to work when there's an important meeting? POST: Basically, I've been sitting here making myself sick with anxiety because of this upcoming meeting today. A few weeks ago I finally broke down and t...	I'm a chickenshit because my manager has been bullying me, and I don't want to go to work. Considering quitting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Breaking up and getting back together? Does this ever work? POST: Me (21M) and my (now) ex girlfriend (22F) of 5ish months broke up around 2 weeks ago but continued to hang out and sleep together (no sex, just sleeping) for a while afterwards. Just recently has this stopped. At the risk ...	Decent chance me and my ex might get back together after she's had some time to herself. Wondering if this has ever worked out for anyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27M] friend [27M] really annoying when he does something he thinks is cool POST: He was always the type of person that would not do anything, hard to convince to come along. Now he went to a hipster beach resort last month full of well off people who pretend to be poor and that's...	Friend annoying after going somewhere nice and tries to make everyone that doesn't share his views like they're not living their lives even though he never really does anything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] found my boyfriend [26M] emailing himself nudes of his ex POST: I have been my boyfriend for coming up to a year now, and we share a room in my mums house together, living together. We are pretty steady going and have a holiday booked for America together in April. However I ...	Found my boyfriend emailing pictures of his ex in her underwear to herself. Feel sick, paranoid and betrayed. Not sure what to do next. Help please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hey reddit, I'm a bit shy on the situation but I would like your take. POST: I feel as though it seems improbable but the fact of the matter is that I think I fell in love when I was 14 to a girl. I'm 17 now and I can't seem to get her off my mind even today. I think that maybe the f...	I think I fell in love, I yearn for the feeling, and I'm looking for solutions from you guys.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22 F] recently broke up with my boyfriend [31 M] after nearly 3 years. Feeling super down, encouragement etc would be appreciated POST: I know it was the right thing to do, I didn't feel about him the same way he felt about me. But it's horrible, for our entire relationship I've go...	Lost boyfriend and our group of friends to him, feel very alone and very sad. Experience/advice would be greatly appreciated<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was almost charged for animal cruelty. What is the most ridiculous or inexplicable "crime" you have been, or almost been convicted of? POST: The story behind this: I was attending a small community college that was on a bad side of town and surrounded by a lot of homes. Right next to ...	I was almost charged for animal cruelty for a dog somehow chaining itself to my car. Animal Control saved my ass.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by fixing my iphone. POST: So last year my friend gave me his old iphone 4s as i still had a 3gs for the fourth year. Cut to the summer and my battery was draining quickly, so i downloaded battery life to view and it only had less then 3% maximum capacity. I went on using the phone by u...	I replaced the battery on an old iphone which had a loose connector, which lead to it breaking the phone and me losing a lot of important data and waking up 4 hours late for orientation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Meeting my [27F] ex's [27M] new girlfriend [23?F] POST: Me and my ex dated for 3 years, and broke up a year ago. We lived together, and it was serious, but we broke up because we have fundamental incompatibility issues. The breakup was amicable and we are still friendly, occasionally...	Ex's new girlfriend is probably coming to a party hosted by my friends, what can I do to make her feel welcome?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me (21M) with my girlfriend (21F) - LDR for 3.5 years, we've never fought before POST: Some background first: I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 1/2 years. We started dating right before we both left for university about 7 hours apart. Although long distance hasn'...	Never had a fight with long distance girlfriend, wondering if that means anything worrisome. Also wondering about the transition from being long distance to finally moving in together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (27 M) I dont know what to do with my fellings about her (23 F) POST: I don't know were to begin, I met her in a friend party like a month ago, we really hit that night, and we went out two nights after in a date, everything was fine, that night in our first date she told me sh...	I like this girl who have a son, is a High class Prostitute and pregnant from a previous boyfriend, and i don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need help regarding homesickness in my boyfriend POST: I hope this is the correct sub to post in. It isn't putting a huge strain on my relationship, but it is bringing my boyfriend down and I'd like to give him a hand! So my partner and I have been dating roughly 2.5 years (me - 2...	Partner from a small town moved across the country with me and is brought down a lot by missing home. I want to help him feel better, but don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, is it wrong to leave a freelance job I started yesterday? POST: I'm a freelance Key Grip/Grip in the film industry. Story: About two weeks ago I got a call from this Gaffer to Key a low-budget feature. I pretty much immediately said yes because this Gaffer is a guy who I want to...	Started a freelance indie job yesterday which I'm not really interested in. And the union has been calling me daily with bigger and better work. Should I stick with the indie job or leave for the union work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [40F] was raised in chaos and abuse. Now that my life is calm, I've turned to abusing myself. Advice? POST: Hi Reddit, long time lurker, first time poster. Background: I was raised pretty badly. Lots of abuse, violence, alcohol and drug use. Left home for a failure of a first marr...	My childhood abuse made me a fighter, but once I stopped having to fight for safety, I turned against myself and it's starting to worry my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (M25) doesn't want me (F25) to visit him in the hospital because he said, "It's embarrassing." POST: Hi. My boyfriend (M25) of eight months is going to be in the hospital for the next few days because of a surgery he just had and he has asked me (F25) not to visit him. I ...	I'm hurt that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go see him after surgery but he's allowing a female friend of his to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I[22f] put a guy friend[23m] in the friendzone and now I want to yank him back out. POST: I met this guy, A, about a year ago through a common interest. At the time, I had a boyfriend of 4-ish months; I'll call him B. We are all 22-23 years old. B is very laid back and not ...	I have feelings for a guy that I friendzoned because I had a boyfriend. Now that I'm single, is it wrong to wonder if I still have a chance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] feel like my best friend [21 F] is only my friend when it's convenient for her. Like when I'm just across the hall. POST: I met my best friend move-in day freshman year of college. She lived in the room next door to me. We both are from the same home state and live about 20-...	My best friend and I are solid during the school year, but she doesn't seem interested in hanging out when we're separated by more than a hallway.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 F] girlfriend broke up with me [27 M], we were been together for 5 months. Everything were fine, until... POST: My girlfriend [26/F] for 5 months broke up with me [27/M] 3 days ago. I'm feeling lost, miserable...in hell. We had no fights, a very good relationship. I did not s...	GF break, i'm totally miserable. Great time vanished in few days. Thinking that the whole situation is very strange. How can i handle this and move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it possible my boyfriend (42M) is still lying to me? Dating for a year. POST: I have been having internal issues with my boyfriend - things I've been trying to figure out for myself (you can see my other thread on this). When we first started dating, he lied to me about talking ...	BF changed his password on his phone so I couldn't access it while he left it with me. Should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] will be breaking up with my [28m] of two and a half years tomorrow. I have no idea how to go about it or what to expect. POST: I have been with my bf a long time and before him, had only kissed one other guy. He was my first everything basically. I need to break it off as it...	I've never been in a relationship but my current one. Don't know how to break up or stand my ground or what to expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18F] was into me [18M] earlier, but I screwed up and she's terrible at communicating POST: Caroline and I met the first week of school and we immediately hit it off - I danced with her at the first dance but chickened out and didn't pursue things right away because I wasn't u...	Girl liked me but I didn't want to be in a relationship; now I like her, but what to do? What did I do wrong (if anything :/)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaning my chair against a wall POST: Obviously this didn't happen today. This happened about a week ago. So I'm sitting in science class with my friend. We like to talk about nerdy things. We were talking about the End of the Line TF2 short movie. Meanwhile I'm leaning back so far i...	Leaned to far back in a chair, friend wiggled the leg and I hit the floor in the middle of class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] gf [22F] of 5 years wants to break up POST: LDR relationship right out of highschool. We get along great when things are going good, but she has a lot of emotional self-esteem problems (as do I, honestly). She constantly blames herself for everything and things that she's no...	gf of 5 years has low self esteem, and that's gotten in the way of our relationship. After kissing another guy and listening to her friends against me, she now wants to break up<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27m] ex [24m] (6 month relationship) wants to know all my darkest'secrets' before we can're-try our relationship'. I don't want to. POST: Ever since we broke up (due to me not considering moving to his city -- which by the way, is in another country), he has insisted that, in-ord...	Ex wants me to disclose every detail of my past relationships but I'd rather not. How do I address this without being too harsh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I might get kicked out of my apartment...Sorry to bother you, reddit, but I really need advice :\ POST: Hey all. So I am subleasing my place from a friend for only a month and a half. I paid her a set fee that she guaranteed to me was fine and I thought that would be the end of that......	I might get kicked out of the apartment I'm subleasing from my friend because she did the rent payment under the table and won't pay the $200 subleasing fee that's specifically on her contract.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21F] with my boyfriend [20M] of over a year. We have one major issue in our relationship, and I need help resolving it. POST: Okay so we've been together for a little over a year, and we love each other a lot. The only problem is that he likes to drink, and I'm unlucky enough to h...	My boyfriend of a year likes to drink, but the smell of it gives me migraines. I'm not sure how to proceed with the relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: My dog is a douche bag. I'm worried for it's own life. Please help POST: I have a Chihuahua and Wiener dog mix that has a huge mistrust of strangers. I understand its in their genes, and I can deal with it barking at people that come over, because he only does it up until he gets a goo...	Dog freaks out around kids and charges as if he'll bite, but never does. I'm worried he'll freak out on the wrong kid, or actually bite one and get animal control called on him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So the university I graduated from 3 years ago just called and asked if I can donate to one of their funds... Do I donate? POST: Brief background: I graduated college with a bachelor's in History, couldn't find a job with it (of course), and eventually found my way into a job in web d...	I'm poor. My alma mater isn't. They want my money for campus events, etc. Do I selflessly donate or do I hold on to every dollar that I need?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my Boyfriend[27 M] of 3.5 yrs, I dont listen or communicate and i need to learn how POST: So my BF and i live together, and have for 3 years. Every other aspect of our relationship is great, except for my thoughtfulness( i think thats the right word?) This morning we h...	boyfriend says hes doesnt want to deal with my non-caring attutude towards him anymore. I dont mean to act or make him feel this way. what can i do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: People do this every day, but I have no idea what I'm doing. [22,F] POST: I can feel that my 6 year relationship is coming to a close. The worst part is, we get along fine - but lately it's more like we're roommates and I can feel that we just don't support each other in the wa...	How do people do this? How do they know it's the right choice? How do people end relationships while in leases? How do I have that conversation? Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: She's with another guy but i can't stop thinking about her. POST: moved from r/relationship_tips We've (M24/F22) been in the same degree program for almost 3 years now and shes my best female friend. She got together with another guy before i got my chance/ had the confidence to ask ...	Should i confess my feelings to my best female friend despite her being in a relationship or should i keep my mouth shut to at least be friends with her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Credit Card/ Bank Question POST: Throwaway account. I got a call last night at around 8:30 from a person claiming to be a representative from my bank. She asked if I had received the new credit card that they had sent a notification about a few months ago. I recently moved out of my pare...	Someone called me claiming to be from my bank. They said they were sending me a new card because I'm a great customer. Am I going to be a victim of credit card fraud?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone try online dating before? And is it worth it? POST: Hello Reddit! So I am a 24F and I have been single for a while, recently moved to a new city, busy with work, and it is looking like a good way for me to meet new people and go on dates is to join an online dating website and do ...	Online dating works, gotta have some patience with the process, but I found someone who could be my best friend and lover.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Repost from r/askscience: A question about Downs Syndrome risk in subsequent pregnancies. POST: I posted this over at r/askscience and got nothing. Any parents/ pediatritians/ otw interested parties over here in r/parenting? Some friends were recently told by their pediatrician that th...	is it possible to have a high GENETIC risk of downs syndrome (i.e., not heightened risk due to advanced maternal age)? Are my friends worried about nothing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] boyfriend teases me [21F] but won't be intimate POST: So, this might be a bit of an odd question, but I'll give it a shot. BF and I have been dating for 3 years, and we're both about to graduate from the same college. We haven't had PIV sex yet because we don't want to ris...	Boyfriend gropes me and teases me but won't engage in anything further. Claims he's attracted to me but it's hard to believe at times<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Here I Go! POST: Hello /r/loseit! Here I am, putting myself out there on the internet declaring that I am going to finally start getting my weight under control. It actually feels quite good to type this up. Which is why I figure quite a few people make these introductory posts. I am a ...	Yet another guy who is wanting to get into shape for his health and his future, and it making this post so he feels more responsible about loosing his weight!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I need some help with my girlfriend... POST: (crosspost from r/sex) My girlfriend and I (male) have been dating seriously for four and a half years now-we're both young 20's-and we're both attending different colleges, far apart. We have a great long distance relationship and truly ...	The girlfriend won't send me dirty pictures, but I believe that it's because she has a horrible self image. What can I do to help her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22M] with my good friend's ex girlfriend [22F] have gotten closer, but I don't know if there's a happy ending here. POST: Situation needs some context. Throwaway because why not. Finishing my undergrad degree in a university this month. A little more a year and a half ago a good fri...	Can't make sense of what's going on between me and my friend's ex girlfriend, need some perspective/3rd party input!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Researching LASIK & PRK eye surgery. Reading BAD things about LASIK long term side effects. Any advice? POST: I was really excited to plan LASIK surgery for next year but a friend just told me about reports by former FDA officials on long term side effects stemming from LASIK surgery, wh...	Does anyone have any information or experience related to this topic which may help my decision? Any information you may provide is greatly appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: My [25F] boyfriend [23M] didn't get me a birthday present... POST: Original post can be found [here]( So I ended up confronting my BF about why he didn't get me a birthday card or anything like that. He told me he had planned a birthday present for me and then messed it up, ...	Starting to feel like I'm not really a priority for my BF and I'm resenting him for it. Not sure if I should try to save the relationship or if it's pointless to try to change him...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [20F] contact my old best friend [20F] of 7 years? POST: I could really use some advice on this issue. To begin with, me and my old best friend were very close through the primary school years but she moved out of town when were 13. I reconnected with her on Facebook when...	Really want to contact my old best friend on fb but I'm afraid of being rejected because it's been years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/f] Should I move in with my boyfriend [32/m] POST: I'm having this dilemma and the people I'd normally ask advice to are biased on the matter (they don't like him because he made a bad impression the first time they met and it's hard trying to give him another chance). Also...	Need to find a new place to live. Boyfriend says we should find a place together, since I'm always at his place anyways. Should I do it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] broke up a long time ago with my other [26F] a several months relationship, and it's very hard for me to go on, keep going on, forget her, leave her be POST: im an usual depressed guy that had many problems, which at the beginning of my relationship seemed to fade away. but...	my point is that i started this post because after a joke of a relationship that i had, i really cared about this superficial girl, and sometimes i get really melancholic with what if, whenever i encounter her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) boyfriend of 3 years (23M) didn't do anything for my birthday. POST: We decided to take a break the day before my birthday because we were having some conflicting ideas about the future. On my birthday we didn't speak all day, he brought over a bag of gifts that night becaus...	SO and I took a break the day before my birthday, got back together less than a week later, and he never did anything for my birthday. Pretty peeved. Am I being irrational?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/f] and my tinder buddy [22/m] is turning into a nightmare. Advice? POST: Note: this is a repost from a post I made in letsnotmeet, sorry if you have read this before. We first started out with a simple Netflix and chill. I've only met this guy twice and we both mutually a...	tinder buddy turned stalker who is now online stalking sister. Won't leave me alone and I barely know him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [21 M] just told me [20 F] that he's seriously planning on moving to China after graduation... POST: And I'm not sure how to handle it. He and I have known each other since April 2014, and casually dated for two months, were then separated over the summer but in contact, and r...	SO is trying to move to China for a year. I support him, but it makes me incredibly sad thinking about him leaving. Without stopping him from following his plan, how do I help myself through this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm pretty sure I have borderline personality disorder, how can I approach my parents? POST: Long story short, my mum has had depression, (3 serious bouts) since I was little. I basically am always on edge. I keep everything to myself because I don't want to rock the boat. I've suspected...	I think I have bpd but can't talk to parents as I'm scared mums depression will come back because of me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex [23F] is is in a relationship with the guy [25M] she cheated on me [22M] with. POST: I recently made a visit to the town (where my ex goes to school) to see a friend. When I was looking for a parking spot, I saw her walking hand in hand with the guy with whom she cheated on me a m...	Saw ex with guy she cheated with a month ago; she saw me too. She admitted they're now dating. Need any kind of support /r/relationships is willing to give.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] dating 3 years, worried she wants to leave me. POST: Hey everyone, this is my first post and and hoping to find another perspective on my situation. As mentioned in the title, I have been with my girlfriend now for close to 3 years now. We have be...	Been in a happy relationship for the last 3 years but recently have hit some bumps and feel like it will end if something isn't done, what can I do to keep our relationship strong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Feeling kind of insecure without close, meaningful friendships. What can I do? POST: Okay, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I'm using a throwaway because my SO knows my main account. Currently I'm (F 21) visiting my boyfriend's (M 21) family after about a year of us being...	Feeling like I'm lacking a vital part of an enjoyable life without close friends. Insecure because of it, and don't want to ruin me and my SO's relationship by not having as much confidence without close, meaningful friendships<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF[23 M] of four months, how to transition into a long distance relationship POST: In a week from now I will be moving about an hour and a half to two hours drive away from my boyfriend of four months. We are both be starting at our new colleges two weeks from now. H...	In a week from now I will be moving about an hour and a half to two hours drive away from my boyfriend of four months. How do I transition into a long distance relationship?<\|endoftext\|>