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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [29 M] I hurt someone's feelings and am overwhelmed with guilt.
POST: I went out for drinks on Friday with someone that I work with. She is 28/F. We went back to my place afterward. I was very clear before we had sex that I was not interested in a relationship. We did anyway.
Last ... | I hooked up with someone from the office and now her feelings are hurt. I feel horrible, and am not sure what, if anything, to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by setting my alarm clock
POST: This was just a few minutes ago. I was setting my alarm clock because I get up earlier on the weekends. Now, normally I check to make sure my beagle is not in my bedroom before setting my alarm clock, he's not. I need to make sure because one day a few yea... | My dog panicked when I set the alarm and now there is a sizable dent the size of my dog's face near my bedroom door<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: me, [19f] can;t seem to get over insane relationship with ex bf [19m]. any advice welcome
POST: I have been dating this guy back in highschool for 2 years. To sum everything up, we were soulmates. We were getting on extremely well, etc, it seemed like a real bound. Then, he strated to cha... | before going nuts, a guy was just my soulmate. he is not anymore and i am devastated. what do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex [16 M] and I [16 F] broke up for a little over a month, still not over each other
POST: My ex-boyfriend, "Peter", and I were together since we were in 13. Our relationship was always under the radar even among our friends so we could spend time alone together and so that our pa... | Broke up a little over a month ago, still share mutual feelings with ex, can't be together thus causing a lot of emotional pain.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: He seems friendly online but stand-offish in person.
POST: I'm a 26 year old female and am quite attracted to a guy I work with (he's early 30s). He can be quite quiet though we've been talking more recently. We have some common interests and I have felt a bit of a spark when talking... | struck up conversation with a colleague via IM and Facebook and he seemed receptive but now seems a little stand-offish in person. Not interested?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What should I do to become friends with my [21 F] ex-girlfriend [26 F] duration of 2 years?
POST: My ex-girlfriend (26 F) and I had been struggling with our relationship for at least four months now. We had been dating for two years. Yesterday she broke up with me over me feeling ups... | Ex-girlfriend broke up with me and I have no intention of trying to get back with her, but I'd like to remain friends. What should I do in the mean time to make that happen?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: discovered [29f] that my boyfriend [29m] isn't over his ex (from approx. 4 years ago).
POST: hey r/relationships. i [29f] don't post here often, but really need some advice. i was browsing reddit randomly (i'm admittedly not a regular user) and came across a post that was actually wr... | my [29f] live-in BF [29m] of 3yrs is still stuck on his ex, regretting choices he made 4 years ago, thus challenging the legitimacy of our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: While driving, I often consider the trust I have that approaching vehicles won't cross the center line, and vice versa. What other constructs of society do we rely on, and possibly take for granted?
POST: It occurs to me often that there is very little keeping drivers from fatal accident... | in which ways do we trust strangers not to put our lives in danger/kill us where it would otherwise be simple for them to do so?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [21F] being too sensitive about my boyfriend's [21M] attitude?
POST: My BF and I have been together for about six months, and neither of us have many 'group' hobbies. He mostly games, writes, and watches movies with his mates, and I like reading, going to the gym, and other trad... | BF is unambitious, bored, and kind of boring. It feels like my fault. Communication didn't help. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My boss may be a cheat, and my group may be losing funding. What should I do?
POST: So I am an undergraduate researcher at my university. I won't give away my university or area of study, also using a throwaway. I'll just say I am on the west coast and work in a lab. If my description is... | Recently found out my research group is in trouble with funding, and my boss was involved in possibly stealing research/denying authorships on a paper. What can I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: New cat, need advice (x-post from /r/cats).
POST: So, I adopted a cat three weeks ago and I need some training advice.
In the beginning, he was pretty laid back and we only had one bathroom incident on the first day, so we weren't too worried since it was probably nerves. However, for t... | the cat I got three weeks ago has recently started shitting and pissing all over the house and being territorial towards my pet turtle. Need advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Wanting to start a weight loss journey without triggering an eating disorder relapse
POST: Hi all!
I'm a lurker to this sub as well as /r/fitness and /r/c25k for a while now, and I am also about 10-11 months into recovery from six years of anorexia/bulimia. I'm a 21 year old college studen... | I used to have an eating disorder, now I've overcome it and am looking for ways to safely and happily lose weight without relapsing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I optimize my year old "normal" laptop for gaming?
POST: Hey, reddit. So I have a VAIO laptop with an intel premium 1.87ghz processor, 4gigs of ram, and 1751mb of virtual memory. The game I want to play is Starcraft 2 and I do, at the very minimum settings but it still lags( I get... | I have a crappy laptop and game booster and am looking to run SC2 on lowest settings lag-free. Help me please!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Very pregnant (32F) and just found a ton of awful shit in my husband's (38M) past. What do?
POST: Where to start. We've been married 6 years together 11.
Looking through emails and Facebook messages he's in the past flirted with a couple of old acquaintances. Gotten dirty pictures ... | husband of 6 years cruising craigslist for men. Is there any hope with counseling? Also I'm 8 months pregnant yay.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my boyfriend [29 M] year & a half, missing condoms
POST: To keep this brief, my boyfriend and I were getting ready to do the deed a couple of weeks ago, but before we started I went to grab a condom. When looking through them, I noticed four (of the seven we had) were m... | condoms went missing and I feel weird about believing my boyfriend when he says he doesn't know where they went because I'm a terrible girlfriend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 20F, boyfriend wants to videotape
POST: So, me and my boyfriend (he's 22) have been together for 7 months. We are going to be long distance for about a month and a half. He wants to videotape us having sex, and I don't want to. He says he wants the videos so that he can have stuff to... | Boyfriend wants sex tapes, I don't want to do them, and I want to know if i'm being irrational.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I fucked up and now a friend hates me
POST: I never wanted to hurt him. I never thought it'd go this way.
I accidentally got matched online with my friend's ex-gf without me knowing it was her. Then she made me promise to never tell him. We ended up casually chatting, though I felt gu... | I fucked up, hurting my friend. My friend won't allow me to explain and I think he's being manipulated.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[18M] am confused with how to text with my friend[17F].
POST: So to start off, this girl and I have really hit it off. We've known eachother for years but this is the first time we've ever talked about being romantically interested in eachother. However, my last relationship ended b... | I want to know how to handle a situation where a text convo gets boring, do I make up a fake excuse to leave the convo for a bit or how do I handle it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Planning to try and get off of disability and reenter the workforce (in the US). What are some steps I should take in order to make it work?
POST: Hey, everyone! I'm currently disabled but I want to try to reenter the workforce and see if I can maintain employment. I'm going to take it s... | What are your suggestions on how I should go about doing this? Is there a certain job I should look for? Thank you.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, my car got broken into can you help me?
POST: Long story short, my car got broken into. They stole my laptop bag and my gym bag. Luckily I have renters insurance, but I have to get receipts, etc to prove that I actually had this stuff. One thing I'm lost on is my gym bag. I c... | I got my bag stolen - it was black with "check out the hook while my DJ revolves it" on the back. Can you help find a price for it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Bad time to say I'm not interested???....need advice
POST: 26/F So I went on a few dates with a guy and came to the realization that I'm just not feeling the connection and it probably won't go anywhere (I actually made another post about this already). We were supposed to hang out t... | was going to tell a guy today that I wasn't interested in seeing him anymore but he just quit smoking and now I'm wondering if this is a bad time for that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do I do? College student falling behind
POST: Hey askreddit,
The beginning of my semester went really well. The first two weeks that is.
I had to do some work for my family and had to miss the third week. After that I was just really stressed about missing so much class and my sc... | Haven't been to classes for 3 of the 5 weeks. What do I do to go back in, what do I tell my professors?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm a sophomore in college, and I'm being bullied. What should I do?
POST: First let me start off with the story.
This girl and I, we'll call her Nancy, were really good friends freshman year. We were both a part of the same club, we lived in the same community, and we just enjoyed eac... | There is a guy who wants to beat me up, even though I've told him that I don't like his girl, and I'm concerned<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] duration, short-description
POST: Me and my now ex-girlfriend were dating for a while then she started talking to her ex again so we ended up breaking up. I have reason to believe based on conversations with mutual friends it is because she misses ... | Is refraining to sleep with my former girlfriend a good reason for her to feel like she isn't as "into me" as she feels like she should be.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] losing interest in [18 F] GF
POST: We have been dating for almost a year this Late October. We have had our up and downs but I do love her. We might be young but we have talked about a future together. Lately I have felt off, she does go to college 3 hours away but even when... | losing interest in gf of 1 year. Disagree a lot, and tired of her complaining 7 days a week about everything. I want it to work cause we love each other but it's hard not getting annoyed with her<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [21F] of a long distance relationship, may get fired from her job and I don't know how to help her.
POST: A little background on this, my GF has been working a work at home job for a few years. It's a call center type of job, where people call her, she ans... | My GF may lose her job, the long-distance doesn't allow me to help her, and I'm still finishing school. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28M] broke up with GF [22F] 1YR, thinking of breaking no contact, advice?
POST: Original:
Hi All,
First of all, been 6 weeks now since she broke up with me, I felt better around week 3 or 4 and now I have plummeted again.
She was my first love, I keep dreaming about her and r... | thinking of breaking no contact to send her a letter saying I miss her and want her back, good or bad idea?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: 1 week before i go to college, dad says he's not going to pay for it anymore
POST: We've been fighting for years, he'll always be a jerk but recently I thought we were legitimately making progress. He gave me an entry level job at a semi-big business that he owns to work for during this sum... | my dad gives me a week's notice to tell me that he won't pay for my school anymore and basically says "too bad" when i tell him there's not a way for me to get a loan to cover it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My boyfriend's (25 M) mother doesn't like me (25 F).
POST: I'll start this off by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together a total of 9 months now. In the beginning, his mother seemed to really like me. We would hang out when my boyfriend wasn't around and talk and jus... | Used to be friendly with boyfriend's mom. She started talking about me behind my back so I've avoided her. Now we have to be at a birthday party together. Help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [f22] just really needs someone to talk to.
POST: Hey so me and my boyfriend of two years have been on the rocks lately and tonight he planned this really big surprise for me to get us back to good but I didn't know it was happening and I had a bunch of other stuff to get done tonigh... | [f22] dating [m25] for 2 years. On the rocks lately and I just put the nail in the coffin. Any advice on making it better?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: HELP REDDIT. I want my cousins will spend xmas in an orphanage, unnecessarily.
POST: The title should say I don't want them to be there sorry!!!!
I'll give you the basic facts.
I have two nieces in Turkey. They are both Turkish nationals, their mother is dead and their father cannot rais... | my cousins who are 7 and 10 will spend another christmas in Turkey because my government won't give them a visa even though they are fully adopted.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Is it worth it to get an MBA?
POST: I got a BA in Economics/Administrative Studies last year and for the past year I have been doing accounting for a family friend making $11.50/hr. I hate my job. I have no debt at the moment and I need to further myself.
I cannot live off of this... | 23 years old w/ BA in Econ. Shitty job with no growth. No networking has been done... what do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17F], just started dating a guy [20M], really want to move forward but we have an expiration date.
POST: I recently moved to a new city for the fall as part of a year abroad. Meeting people has been hard since most people my age are in college right now, so out of half-boredom, h... | Started dating a guy, real spark, crazy about each other, I'm only living here temporarily. Is it fair to try to advance the relationship? If so, what do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my friends [26 M,F] of a year, I got their hopes up in regards to Uni but it didn't work out
POST: My friends both work in dead end retail jobs (no judgement, there just isn't any room for career progression there), and have recently applied to University. I'm at Unive... | Friends applied for Uni b/c of my encouragement, they didn't get in. I want to help, and I feel guilty.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23/F] am foreseeing the end to my long-term relationship with my boyfriend [24].
POST: For those of you who have experienced a breakup after a long-term relationship, how did it happen? How did it go? How did you feel after it happened? How are you now?
I have been dating my bo... | I'm strongly considering breaking up with my boyfriend of 7 years and am anxious and looking to hear from someone who has dealt with a similar experience.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 1 year: tips for a long distance relationship
POST: I decided to go out-of-state for my undergrad due to the degree I thought I wanted. I met my boyfriend a few months in and we've been together since. He's wonderful and everything I've ever want... | I will be transferring schools in a month and he's staying to finish school. We'll be apart for a year for sure and possible three, at most. Any advice on how to make it easier and keep our relationship strong?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Trying to buy a new car. $5k in saving. 635-ish credit score. No debt. One credit card. 100k income.
POST: Hello,
Created a throwaway for this. My wife and I are trying to buy a new car.
**Some back story:** My spouse and I moved to Georgia a year ago, we've been li... | Good income. Average credit score, short credit history. Savings growing. Can't figure out why I can't get a good APR. Help!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Half-marathon training assistance needed
POST: Hi running,
I have found myself in a bit of a predicament, and I need advice and help. Months ago I signed up for a half marathon to be ran May 3. I'd never done one before but I've been running for soccer training for years and figured I c... | I have 8-9 weeks to go from being able to run 2-3 miles to 13.1. Can I, and how?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [f,22] leading my co-worker [m,25] on intentionally?
POST: I recently started working a retail job at which I am the only girl. The guys who work there are nice and a lot of fun, and I get along well with everybody because we have similar interests. I just graduated from college... | I have a boyfriend, but asked my new co-worker to go ice skating. Trying to figure out if I am leading him on without meaning to.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description
POST: If you look through my last few posts on this throwaway account, you would see a desperate guy trying WAY too hard to get a girlfriend.
So it's time to change. Rather than desperately searching for a soul-mate, I've... | Basically, I should take my time to enjoy being single, because it won't be for long. Any ideas/tips?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it wrong for me [23M] to continue dating my SO[22F] of 8 months, when I know that I'm going to break up with her?
POST: We've been dating for the past 8 months and for the most part it's been pretty nice. It's been semi long distance as she attend college out of state while I atte... | I know that I am going to end up breaking up with my SO, but I'd like to enjoy the rest of the summer with her. Is that wrong?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my bf [22 M] are serious but he is taking longer to quit smoking
POST: My bf and I are close to approaching our first year together and its gotten very serious. He's a great match for me except for one problem: he's taking wayyyy longer than he promised to quit smoking... | How can I help my bf quit smoking? We talk about our future together (a big deal now that we're leaving home, finishing college, etc.) but I don't see it happening unless he's healthier.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, a friend of ours in the 501st is going through some serious and very expensive medical procedures, and is at risk of losing his Job, I want to set up a donation...how can I go about this?
POST: He's really a good friend of the local 501st squad (Squad 7) here in north Florida, hi... | Friend of the 501st is giving up on hope after undergoing heart surgery and is needing to get another soon, and they cannot afford what they need. I need help to help them!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should my friend date my ex
POST: Me(17 female) broke up with my ex (17)two months agos we were going out for nearly 11 months he was my first and i broke up with him as i didn't feel he felt the same way.
5 days after i broke up with him, he told me he liked one of my friends megan... | me and my ex broke up and a good friends who knew how upset i were about it and knows a lot about pur sex life is now going on a date with him two months after, what should i do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by posting several personal details on craigslist
POST: I put an ad on Craigslist under "All Community" - "childcare" offering babysitting services. I said that I was a Stay At Home Mom and mentioned my town, the cross street that I live by, that I live close to a school, my phone number... | I posted some details about where I live and my phone number on a babysitting ad for craigslist and a creep called me asking weird questions and wanted to give me a "sex survey"<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21M] get angry, frustrated, upset, whenever something reminds me of my ex.
POST: She cheated on me and broke up with me, while for months pretending she "Maybe" wanted to get back with me. When I found out she was actually with the guy she cheated on me with she was still saying I... | Ex broke down my walls, cheated and lied to me, strung me along. Now I get angry about anything to do with our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: HAE ever tried to do a good deed for selfish reasons, and then received praise for your selflessness?
POST: I'll start. This past week a boys volleyball player at my high school passed away. I knew that the girls volleyball team would be in attendance of the funeral, and seeing the oppor... | I convinced my team to go to a funeral so I could be close to a girl, only to receive praise for my selflessness.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my future is in your hands.
POST: I'm turning 21 in a couple months and have no real direction in life. I have taken 2 years of university with nothing really peaking my interest and I now come to you.
What is an amazing career choice that makes lots of money and isn't very diff... | I need to choose a career that makes a good amount of money and isn't too physically strenuous. Any good ideas?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] broke up with my ex-girlfriend [21 F] after 3 years cause I wasn't happy with my personal development in college
POST: So I started dating this girl in freshmen year and she was incredible and really good for me. We got along great and got really comfortable with each other... | Broke up with long term girlfriend to focus more on myself but cant stop thinking about her; not sure what to do now<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20/m] girlfriend [24/m] of 6 months absolutely refuses to talk about porn she watches, it's eating me away
POST: So I've been dating this girl for about 6 months now, we have a great relationship and are overall very happy together. We have a great sex life, we have sex almost ev... | Girlfriend won't talk to me about her porn habits at all. Feel distanced by it and wish I could simply have a conversation about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being a dumbass drunk American abroad
POST: Spring break 2010 - I'm studying abroad in Florence and go to Barcelona / Valenica for 10 days with my best friend. Pretty fucking awesome. Fast forward to an incredibly wasted night where my friend had already gone back to the hostel. I'm w... | wasted stupid American spent 100+euros to have an unattractive street urchin almost give me a handjob.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling my biased mom about Ahmed Mohamed.
POST: So today I got the whole school talking about Ahmed, and came home satisfied of my accomplishments. I thought it would be OK to tell my parents about it.
As, we sat to eat dinner outside, I told my mom the story, about this poo... | Basically my mom thinks that Irving did the right thing, and Ahmed did it intentionally. That was not the answer I was expecting.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: HELP: Bridesmaid Mix & Match Dresses and their bouquets
POST: Hi wedditors--
I AM LOSING MY MIND.
I opted for mix and match bridesmaid dresses. [I first settled on this combination.] However, I am worried that I won't be able to get a bouquet that will look right.
The dresses ... | Having second thoughts about my mix and match dress choices, especially now that I'm looking at flowers. Wedding is Kate Spade-themed evening event in a garden at a historic site. Need opinions/advice/thoughts!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: M37, just split with the love of my life (F29) because I can't get her to drink less
POST: We've had our problems, but I've never cared so much for a person. I don't want to be without her, but she's hurting my life. She drinks every day, and our only social activities are those that invo... | She drinks too much. I love her, but I had to break it off because I couldn't get her to change. Is there any hope? Anything I can do in this situation?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [22 F] of 1 year, got into a huge fight about her past, how do I show her I'm over it and I am sorry.
POST: Me and my gf of 1 year got into a fight about her past and I said some very hurtful things to her and it made her feel like a piece of shit. Basically i am... | Said some very mean things to girlfriend about her past. What can I say or do to show her I am sorry.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my Wife[28F] duration, After Baby Intimacy issues
POST: Throwaway for this question which is much more personal than I'm usually willing to put on the internet, sorry for the wall of text, I started writing and kind've just kept going.
My wife and I had a baby about th... | We had a baby, waited a while and now we want to have sex, but my wife can't get into it because she can't feel sexy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advice for my first ever date.
POST: Throwaway account.
I'm a 22y/o male who was until recently, very "forever alone". I was too unconfident and scared of rejection to ask a girl out, had mostly male friends... Basically typical reddit user stereotype.
Earlier this year, I mad... | Was antisocial loner, broke out of mold and asked girl on date. Never been on a date before and looking for advice, thanks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18F] boyfriend [M19] of almost two years just blindsided me with a breakup right before exams
POST: Title pretty much says it all. I had no idea we were having problems, haven't seen him the past couple days cuz he's been stressing out so I've been telling him how much I miss him... | boyfriend broke up(??) with me right before exams, I think his mom said something and I don't know how to cope or try to get him back. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [18F] How do I go about dating other people...(more inside)
POST: I went on a date with a great guy I met on OkCupid, we'll call him Jim. I really liked talking to him but meeting him really locked it down for me, and I realized "Hey, I really like this guy!" But because I'm not real... | How do I get myself to slowly let go of the guy I really, really like and enjoy being around, so that I can comfortably go on dates with other guys?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/F] had an abortion with [28 M] and I don't know where we stand now
POST: I (very) recently had an abortion with a guy that I knew for a little over a month. We never talked about what we were looking for or where we were heading.
But I am now even more confused as too where ... | Had an abortion with a guy I knew for a month, and I don't know where we stand now. How should I bring this up or should I even?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Positive self-talk and motivation.
POST: I've always struggled with self image, body image, negative self talk, etc. I'm sure many of you have too. I've had two break-through positive self-talk moments in the past couple of weeks and I wanted to share, and see what you guys do to encourage ... | I made it through tough physical and emotional barriers with positive self talk! How do you all motivate yourselves in a positive way?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20M) friend (20F) sends things that make me a little uncomfortable.
POST: My friend sends me rings, heart, and other emoji's of that sort and calls me bae. I never cared much but last week a reevaluated how I feel about her and now I'm just confused. She also calls me bae for som... | friend sends emojis that make me kind of uncomfortable and acts weird sometimes like none of my other female friends do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Help me, please?
POST: okay, so basically my parents have gotten to the point of me not being able to tolerate them any longer. I don't have control over any aspect of my life. I have a curfew of 7 pm on weekends, 4 pm on school nights, no going to girls houses ever no matter what my int... | mum and stepdad are total cunts to me in way of thinking ill be growing up to be a fuck up just like pa, what do I do to escape their attitude and ways of thinking?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Entering a Long-distance thing with a friend. Let's do this!
POST: Wow. You're amazing. I'd rather work through a long distance relationship with you and continue to get to know you on a personal level than go on dates with men who are in my city. You and I are only four hours away from... | seeing a friend of mine who I've known for a few years and it's an interesting way that we met but he's amazing and I'm happy were going to try. It's long distance but I have faith.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Successful people of reddit: How did you motivate yourself/focus to accomplish long term goals?
POST: Throwaway account. I have made some personal improvements in my life the past year. I lost a decent amount of weight, improved my social skills, etc. but all of these achievements were t... | I need to stop living for the now, and focus on the future. Suggestions on how to do this would be appreciated.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] two years, how to deal with different commitment levels.
POST: I am a senior in college set to graduate in a month but she still has 2 years of school left. I am ready to start settling down and having a serious relationship and every time we have ... | Girlfriend and I are at different commitment levels in the relationship, should I be worried or am I making this a bigger deal than it is?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I now understand why people start hooking
POST: I was living with my ex boyfriend up until about 6 months ago. He was cheating, we were on and off for two years, and he got really violent towards the end. I'm a young single mother, and I received my ex husbands tax return for all t... | I'm broke and need to figure out how to pay everything. If I didn't have self respect I would start hooking. That's only kind of a joke.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, does anybody ever think that /politics can be moderated better?
POST: I was unsubscribed to politics because at first I didn't want to be angered by the bias that would run rampant in a particular subreddit. Well, I wasn't logged on one day, and you know the story. Posts were upv... | I feel that /politics is biased and may push people the wrong way without educating anybody with all the facts to let them form their own opinion.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A question for the physicists re: the universe & life
POST: I was watching this:
And around the 18-minute mark, it got to discussing the cosmological constant and the impossibly tight circumstances that allow us to arise and exist. As I understand it, it steps out of this problem by po... | Why do the conditions that lead to our existence seem so mathematically impossible when we know they exist? If they were different, wouldn't something different probably exist?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Need tips on how to ask shy housemate out without affecting our housemate relationship?
POST: Hi everyone,
I [23/M] need tips on how to ask my shy housemate [24/F] out without affecting our housemate relationship?
She is incredibly shy and only opens up to a few people. She i... | I think I am falling in love with my shy housemate but don't know how to find out if it is safe to ask her out without making things awkward.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend wants to be a firefighter. I want to be supportive but I'm more worried than anything.
POST: My boyfriend approached me about him wanting to join a local volunteer fire department.
We've been together about 10 months and am planning on marriage.
I love him and want to... | Is it wrong of me to be upset because I feel like I wasn't a factor in my boyfriends decision to join the fire department?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [26 F] stopped singing after my boyfriend [27 M] laughed at me
POST: This seems like a stupid problem but it's been bothering me for the last two months despite my attempts to work things out. My boyfriend of three years and I like singing aloud to songs together whenever we're... | Ever since my boyfriend laughed at how I confidently made a mistake while singing, I haven't felt comfortable doing one of my favorite activities.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear Reddit. What is one thing that pisses you off about your government?
POST: Today I seen some lady use her EBT card for food which contained a shit load of unhealthy food, and she had a balance of almost $2000.00 left... Who in the hell needs $2000.00 for food a MONTH? That is more t... | Government in US gives crazy amount of money for food to people who don't work, but people who do, struggle and starve. Just isn't right.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25/F] with my boyfriend [29M] together short of 2 years just broke up again. I feel like I can't...
POST: I don't know what to do. I feel helpless and hopeless and scared. This wasn't supposed to end like this. When people promise things...Why don't they mean them? Why is it so e... | I broke up with my live-in bf and the above is a rant of sorts. I'm feeling a lot of pain, disappointment and I don't know how to deal with a relationship gone wrong again...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A late bloomer [30M] having first world problems with a fwb [23F] of 3 months
POST: I [30M] met this exchange student [23F] 2-3 months ago. We became friends and soon turned it into some sort of intense casual dating / fwb thing. We were spending a lot of time together, almost like a... | A FWB doesn't want a relationship and I'm not sure if I should cancel some planned cool adventures with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not being able to pee in front of someone, and cost myself a career in the military
POST: (Throwaway because I've never told anyone this)
This actually happened about a year but fuck it. Anyway got myself in extreme shape to go to special operations training in the US Air Force. I wo... | I could do naked calisthenics, have someone look up my buttonhole, but I can't pee with someone watching me so I couldn't join the military.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [30/M] I'm worried I will end up cheating
POST: -I [30/m] am currently in a serious and very happy relationship with a female who is about my age. We are not yet engaged but actively and openly talking about engagement and our future together. I love her and hope to be her hu... | I used to be a womanizing d-bag. I love my girlfriend but I find myself automatically flirting with anything with breasts.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I love her so much... but I'm unsure if I'm still IN love with her. Help?
POST: Me: 26F, Gf: 27F, Relationship: 1.5 years
On paper, she's the perfect match for me. She's sweet, kind, giving, sooo thoughtful, funny, loyal, dedicated, honest, trustworthy. I trust her with everyt... | I'm in a relationship with someone great and I love her very, very much .... but I don't think I'm IN love with her anymore and I don't know why.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Im [17M] very insecure of asking her [16F] out(Parents and School pressure of getting a gf)
POST: But first, let me talk about myslef for a bit. Till 15 i had been kinda of a social outcast. Stayed in home and played videogames online with my friends.Got bullied in school and e... | Very insecure of asking her out. Maybe im too desperate to get a gf. Maybe its my parents pressure that is pushing me. Im afraid of how to realtionship is going to be taken in our school. Im confused<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[19M] might have created a misunderstanding with a girl[19F] I like.
POST: I've been having issue with a girl that I like, last week I had to deal with a friend being sad because they lost a beloved family member. It meant multiple calls at nigh and sometimes midnight trains to thei... | Been Stressed due to a friends grief, was upset a girl cancelled plans for out date. Now she's mad.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22F) and ex (22M) together 3.5 years. Apart 6 months, we exchanged hurtful words to each other and now my confidence is shaken.
POST: So I had a conversation about a week ago with my ex (22M) and since then I can't get his words out of my head.
Basically we were just talking ab... | got into a disagreement with ex which led to him saying everything he could and knew would shake my confidence and make me feel like shit.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I know a dirty little secret. What do I do? My Close Family Member[30'sF] is cheating on her husband [30'sM].
POST: I don't want to reveal myself. too many family redditors. details have been changed.
They have been married over 5 years and there are kid(s).
My close family membe... | I know a dirty little secret. What do I do? My Close Family Member[30'sF] is cheating on her husband [30'sM].<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Hitting the wall.
POST: Hey everyone,
So since May of 2015 I've been on a weight loss journey, going from 275 lbs to 187. It's been one of the most difficult and also most rewarding and satisfying years of my entire life. My goal weight changed a lot. I wanted to get down to 225, then under... | What did you do when you felt like you hit a wall nearing the end of your weight loss? What was your mindset when you switched to maintenance? Did anyone else stop short of what their initial goal was?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18M] want to take it a step further with my friend [18F]
POST: My first time posting, so don't be hard on me
I met this girl about a month ago and I really liked her, which is very strange for me. I find most people (including both genders) of my age very uninteresting. We starte... | I have a friend with whom I'd like to be more than friends (although we've seen so few times I can't say that I love her). I know that I need to let her know but I don't know how<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU waiting to tell my crush i liked her
POST: Throwaway because i have friends who Reddit and wanna keep this to myself
So basically this wasn't today it was Halloween night and im at a friends house with a group of friends and one of those friends ive had a crush on for around a year.
This... | Waited a year to finally tell my crush i liked her, she felt the same way but tells me she is moving really soon<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/books
TITLE: Best books to read after a personal loss?
POST: Hey, bookit. My best friend just suffered a miscarriage. She was four months into the pregnancy and is obviously pretty devastated. We live 9 hours apart, and I'm not able to go visit her, so I want to send her a care package, to help her griev... | Best friend had a miscarriage. Please recommend books that are either happy or light and easy to get into. Anything that we can enjoy together and will help her to take her mind off of the loss.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23 M] seeing a girl [19 F] and it's going to be her first time. Can I get some advice on how to handle it and make it a good experience for her?
POST: We've been dating about a month and a half. Things are going really well and it's apparent we both like each other.
I spent the... | Got pretty close with a girl. She wants me to take her virginity. How do I make it a good and pleasant experience for her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to ask my [22F] FWB [28M] to not have sex with other people.
POST: Okay, so I know the answer is ultimately to "just tell him," but I was hoping other people would guide me on how to handle the situation.
FWB is the best way to describe the situation, but I don't think it's real... | FWB is hard to read. How do I ask him not to fuck other girls even though I don't want him to be my boyfriend?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend/crush [16 F] Any advice on the whole hand holding business? Funny stories or things I should know?
POST: Is there any advice you can give me in terms of hand holding. Sounds really pathetic but probably hard to know when its suitable or when it is not.
Anyth... | Any advice on holding hands? How to initiate holding hands? Signs she wants to/doesnt want to hold hands? etc.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I've been posting here for advice frequently, but I finally got a job interview for tomorrow as well as a call back for another resume submission in an entirely different field. Can I get some point of views?
POST: Sorry for the long title and frequent posts. I really like to hear what people... | Finally got some response from a company for an unofficial interview this Friday and an official interview tomorrow from another company. What should I do in the event I get two job offers?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My wife [32 F] wants to have a child, I [31 M] don't
POST: I'm 31 year old man and I'm having a trouble in my marriage. My wife ( she's 32) wants a child, I don't. We are married for 5 years.
We discussed this subject many times before our marriage. I told her I never want to have ... | Actually I'm kind of upset about it. Why did she marry me while she knew our desires are not the same? What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I[26/F] get my boyfriend[29/M] interested in sex with me again?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months and now we haven't had sex in 2 weeks. We were online friends for about a year, and 2 months ago we finally met. In the beginning everything was great... | My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months. He's not interested in sex with me...How can I do to make him want me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Ex with depression [24F] wants to try dating me [24M] again after 2 months of being alone/away. Anyone deal with a depressed SO before?
POST: My ex broke up with me because of her clinical depression. The whole time I was trying to help her, even after we broke up. At first she said ... | Ex broke up with me to work on her depression, now she wants to try dating again in a month's time when we're both in the same city. I don't know what to do for that month.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 F] girlfriend doesn't think I [19M] want her anymore.
POST: Well we've been dating for over a year now and there has been some problems with out relationship for the last two months. My girlfriend is concerned that I don't want her or want to be in the relationship.
She's wr... | my girlfriend needs to know that I want her just as much as I always did, and I don't know how to show It.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [20M] cheated on my gf [20F] of 3 years numerous times. Please help
POST: As in the title, I am the cheater. I have cheated on my girlfriend on numerous occasions, making out with others or sleeping with them. She's discovered my past cheating and has been willing to look past i... | Cheated on gf of 3 years many times. I feel guilty and I don't know how to approach her. I'm looking to end it to save her from myself. Where do I start<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 2 months was sexually abused by her ex before we dated and doesn't want to even kiss or hug me.
POST: When I started dating her, she was pretty cool and she still is. Then, one day she told me she didn't want to make out and do dirty things beca... | Girlfriend was sexually abused and doesn't want to kiss or even hug. I didn't know that at the beginning off the relationship. What should I do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm going to cut contact with my extended family.
POST: I found them myself when I was 13, now 4 years ago, through facebook. They're all from my fathers side.
I never had contact with them up until I was 13 because my father vehemently dislikes his parents and my mothers contact with ... | all my effort and love for a family I never had as a child is one-sided and I want to forget about them.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my GF [25 F], I know I have to break up with my GF...
POST: So I have been dating this girl recently (since Jan.) but we've been hooking up since october. A little backstory here, I was reluctant to start and actual relationship because I had just gotten out of and was... | Me and my GF are not on the same page romantically speaking, I'm more into the friendship than the relationship, and I have to end it for the sake of both of us.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit- What is the guiltiest fap you have ever had? [NSFW]
POST: In other words, what Fap made you feel the guiltiest/awkwardest after wards?
I'll start, one time I was on vacation in California and I hadn't fapped in over 3 1/2 weeks. My mind was filled by all these weird desires. My h... | I unknowingly came on the heads of a 20 something year old couple from my hotel balcony. All because I was being stupid while fapping.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by stealing my winter formal date's phone and telling someone else they liked them
POST: So I was hanging out with my winter formal date (we'll call her jan), not doing much. At one point she left for a while and her phone was still sitting there, so being a bored and goofy guy, I text h... | i texted my guy friend from my gal friends phone saying she liked him as a benevolent joke and now they hate me.<|endoftext|> |
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