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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24 F) had sex with a date (26 M) after talking for over a month. How do I have the "what are we" convo, move forward, or figure out what this exactly is..? POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. Hey all- I recently moved to a new country, and ended up chatting with a...
Met a great guy, not quite sure if it's a possible relationship he wants, or if it's just a hook up. How should I handle this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How can I get around myself? [22 Male] POST: Background: I've always put every other aspect of my life in front of my love life, possibly as an excuse. Recently I've landed a great job, I'm going to college for free, and in a club, I'm working out 4 days a week, with yoga involved....
People describe me as sociable and personable, but I lack proper one-on-one skills with the opposite sex when it comes down to it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Me (24 m) contemplating about one of my friend (24 f) POST: I'll try to be brief, so I won't steal too much of your time. I have a female friend from high-school, we were always good friends. I had a crush on her for a while back then, but I didn't told her, because I was afraid of...
an old crush of mine might be single, we are in a good friendship, undecided if I should take the next step<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Our issues have been resolved but perhaps the damage is done. Any advice? (23F/M) POST: My ex and I, both 23, were together for a year and a half. During that period we came close to breaking up several times, but always made it work and continued forward stronger and more in love th...
Family was causing a lot of stress for me and damaging my amazing relationship. I finally decided to do something about the situation and my ex recognizes that was our main issue, but is it too late?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (M, 29) while out with a mate (M, 29) bumped into his ex/someone I'm also close friends with (F, 27). How should I have handled this situation? POST: So I was out with a friend going to get lunch when another close friend of mine (also his ex) called out to me when she saw me. The...
While out with a friend bumped into another close friend who was also his ex. Situation got awkward, and apparently it was me that did it. What can I do differently?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by almost using "Beggars can't be choosers" with a real-life beggar, because I bought the beggar dinner and then he bitched about not getting salsa POST: Ok, so my mom always said "Beggars can't be choosers" -- I almost employed that annoying ass phrase to a real beggar. I stopped in th...
Bought a beggar dinner; he bitched because I didn't grab his salsa; I told him to get it himself; I feel like a douche for not buying his dinner correctly, and for what he said to me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Issue with my room mates cat. POST: Question for everyone out there. My room mate has a cat that is quite anti social but I can decently handle. Problem lies in the fact that the cat likes to jump up behind our large flat screen tv to get into the window. The tv stand is solid wood but h...
Room mate doesn't respect our wishes to keep cat out of window for fear of knocking the tv off the tv stand. Need suggestions on how to deter it. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the coolest thing you've found in the trash? Here's mine. POST: It's too dang big to mount or put anywhere right now, so it's just leaning against the wall collecting dust. I didn't feel like lugging in a game system or DVD player to hook up to show that it works, but inde...
Found a plasma TV at the dump, brought it home thinking it wouldn't work. Worked, but got screen burn-in after about 30 minutes. Fixed it in the picture settings. Win.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Losing all sense of purpose after difficult breakup [26F] with my ex and then reverting to a former FWB need some advice/clarity/perspective POST: Hi Reddit, I'll try to keep this post clear and concise without a huge wall of text (adding in fake names to keep things simple). Sam an...
Girl feels sad about the heartbreak of losing a guy - and then goes back to hooking up with a former FWB that she had feelings for and even online dating but sucks at it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: My dog ate some bad things. Advice? POST: Gus is a 12.4 lb, 3/4 Dachshund (height of mini, length of standard). I adopted him 6 months ago from a lady who was going to sell him off to a breeder for an awful puppy store so they could make their thousands off of my best friend. Anyway.. He's n...
My 12lb dog ate half a maxi pad, then two days later ate 2 slices of uncooked bacon. Cottony constipation to possible diarrhea. Best plan of action?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Any advice for the friendzoned? POST: I've known a guy for about six years, and though I never believed in love at first sight before, I was struck by it since the first words between us. He's a little older than me and we're very close, so he may consider me more of a younger sister...
I really like a guy, but I'm pretty friendzoned and he has a girlfriend no one likes. Any advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need to find a charity to donate paper products to near Redding, CA (details inside) POST: I have inherited a sizable amount of paper products from my wife's grandmother(old stationary business). I am trying to clear out a shop for doing mechanical work and it is filled with cases of s...
I have tons of school stationary and want to know the name of a charity near Redding, CA that would be willing to take it and distribute it to needy school children.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my Girlfriend [19F] of 3 months, are going to be in a long distance relationship for a while(4 months). Suggestions? POST: Recently I started seeing a girl she's everything I want in a girlfriend and I'd known her on a more professional level for about 6 months before w...
Girlfriend travelling for long period of time 4 months, advice to help the time go faster and strengthen our relationship? She'll be back for 1 week shortly and then gone again for 3 months.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24M] with my new girl (25F) I recently met just got out of an abusive relationship... POST: I've written about this girl before, but I'm asking a different question this time. This girl who I have recently met and I want to pursue something with, she has just recently gotten out...
Girl I just met just got out of an abusive relationship - what kind of behaviour should I expect from her? And how do I help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21F] considering breaking up with my boyfriend [25M] of over a year...is this a valid reason? POST: Hi, so I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and things have been great. The only real issue is that we're very long distance, I met him while studying abroad in E...
I feel too young to be settling down, my boyfriend knows he wants to get married in the next few years. I'm freaking out and am considering breaking up. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] have a crush on another female [20s?F] and I don't know her sexuality, but I want to know of how to approach it. POST: No throwaway cus fuck it. I'm attending a four day training session for my job starting next week. I started talking to this girl and found myself instantl...
I am a bisexual female, have a crush on a girl, not sure of age or sexuality. Will not see her after four day training is up. How to ask to keep in contact and not be creepy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can anyone tell me why this link was taken down from TIL? It seems a bit biased and shady to me.... POST: So the other day I was scrolling the front page and I saw a link to a story about George W. Bush defending a possibly homosexual peer from ridicule back in the 60's. Now I took speci...
I saw a story about GWB in TIL that I liked and it got taken town and I can't figure out why other than shitty Mod bias<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: I hope you enjoy your coffee. POST: So, I was in summer school. My teacher had a tendency of picking on me and telling me things. One morning my teacher decided to comment on me being in summer school and said, "I can understand why you're here, you are so slow and don't know anythi...
Teacher called me dumb, put food coloring in her coffe, fucked her cup up. Ruined her clothes and phone.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Breakup imminent, i don't want to lose her, but i don't see another option. POST: Hi reddit, i am a 22 year old male and my GF is also 22, we've been together for about 6 months. The situation is that she is concerned that, because of my views on having kids and marriage (i don't wa...
GF doesn't see the relationship going anywhere because i don't want kids or marriage for a good while yet, i think neither of us are ready for it in any way.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it natural to have quick/brief self-sabotaging thoughts in a relationship? Me [25M] and her 23[F] for 3 months. POST: This is going to sound really stupid, but given this is both of our first relationships, we are both new at navigating through what a relationship is supposed to b...
Started with brief thoughts that have become louder about doing something that would significantly damage our relationship. Not sure if I'm self-sabotaging.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 20 (m) with 21 (f) who lived with me for a week after our first date.. now doesn't have time for me POST: Me a 20 year old male at university and her a 21 female at the same university. She had been dating one of my team mates at the beginning of the school year, this is how we first...
Girl lives with me for 7 days after the first date, moves back home for the summer and seams like she doesn't want to see me. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom[F37] is holding airplane tickets for my trip down south over my[M18] head. Pressure is stressing me out due to fear of failure. Advice/support? POST: Hi everyone, I'm normally a lurker and this is a throwaway because I have friends and family who reddit. Background informatio...
Constant reminders of the consequences of not living up to my mom's expectations are causing me to stress out about losing a flight very dear to me. Need support and or advice in case I'm not able to go.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] spent a week out of town for work. worked with a [29 F]. She was amazing and I don't know how to proceed. Help! POST: I spent a week out of town for work and one of the people I worked with was a 29 F. We worked together for 2 days (I know way to short of a time) but I wa...
Worked with a woman for 2 days who blew me away. Want to build up a relationship but don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: The n word... POST: [Traditional]: Last night this girl bet me I could not memorize the lyrics to H.Y.F.R. by drake in 24 hours. Well, she was wrong but the problem is that I am white apparently. A black guy came up to me and said he was offended by me saying the n word and I didn't kno...
sung rap lyrics, got told I was offensive. Got told I was offensive, got yelled at. But my Asian friend did not. Idk.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Wife has no interest in sex at all. How do I handle? POST: I'm 32 and wife is 31. We're married for 11 years and have a 4 year old son. We both work full time jobs. Our relationship is emotionally strong, but ever since my son was born, her libido is non-existent. We have sex, m...
Wife has no sex drive, I'm going nuts. Going to confront her tonight, how do I not fuck this up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M], feeling down after a series of different things happening, hoping some older folks can shed some light on if things might get better POST: Hey all. This already sounds silly in my head but I'm feeling really down right now so it would be nice to get a little pick me up from...
Life sucks now in terms of friendships and stuff. Feel like I'm wasting my year abroad. Feels like I'm going in circles in life. Anyone been through the same and can say it gets better?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I crazy? Or am I invisible? POST: I know I haven't always been very out-going, but when I got to college, I really blossomed. I started to talk to people, joke around, go to mixers, etc. I know a lot of people, but it seems like I'm rather...forgettable. "Out of sight, out of mind" ap...
I'm pretty much ignored, people don't remember I'm alive if I'm not around. Is this my fault?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 21 [M] and 21 [F]. I want to be able to get over my ex POST: I thought the relationship meant something to both of us, but now she's moved onto another guy less than 2 months after we decided that the long distance would be too much. We recently met up and started to official d...
Long distance relationship recently ended (different countries, would probably meet each other again in 3-4 years), known each other for a long time and now she's got a new bf less than 2 months after we stopped contact.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm dating my Buddies' younger sister. POST: Not sure what details to include or if this is even the right spot for this, but yeah her it goes. Okay so I'm 27 and she's 21. I don't think that even really matters, but they might. So I've known these guys forever and I'm good friends w...
I am dating my friends' sister (who is six years younger than me if that matters)and I don't know what the best way to tell her brother, my buddy for like the past 18 years.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/m] Confused by ex girlfriend (17/f) sending mixed messages. POST: About 4 weeks ago my girlfriend of 2 years told me that we should take a break from seeing each other for a while. We did not talk for three weeks but when I came home for spring break last weekend I sent he...
Ex-girlfriend was very affectionate when seeing each other a month after the break up, but after talking for a few days seems much less interested.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [48F] dislike the way my boyfriend [50M] talks about his kids [16M and 19F] POST: I've been dating this guy (Greg) for a ~5 months now, and, all in all, things have been a blast. He's really sweet, funny & energetic and we have a lot in common, both interest-wise and in term of wor...
Have a new boyfriend, who seems to be great, except that he seems to massively favor one child over the other. Don't know if I should be concerned about this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife (35) wants a third kid, and I (36) in no way want one. How do we resolve this? POST: My wife and I have been married years, and dating almost that long before hand. We have 2 kids, who are awesome. But exhausting. And expensive. But, mostly exhausting. My wife really wants a ...
My wife wants a third, and I would rather spend 2 years being kicked in the nuts. How do we resolve this so both of us are happy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girlfriend [24] caught me [28] masturbating in the bathroom. POST: We had just gotten back from the gym and after she got out of the shower, I hopped in. I usually use the toilet and do my business before I hop in the shower and I like to have privacy by locking the door. I g...
gf caught me masturbating in the bathroom by unlocking the door. Not sure how I should go about explaining it to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (19 M) ask out this girl (18? F) from my class without being too awkward? (Details inside) POST: Its in my art class, I'm a sophomore in college and she's a freshman. She's super duper cute, to put it plainly. She sits next to me, and is in my in-class work group. But ...
I want to ask this girl in my art class out, and attempt to get her phone number. I'm very awkward and don't know how to get her alone to ask, or how to organically bring that up. Help!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do i(26m) handle neighbors below me complaining about me washing day and night? POST: Hi, I live on the second floor of an apartment complex there are two other apartments on my floor as well. For some reason the people directly below me have twice in one day complained about me ...
neighbor below me thinks I own a washer and dryer and that I wash all night and day. I don't own one at all.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23 F]. My boyfriend of 2 years [27 M] is asocial, pessimistic, introverted, depressive and obsesses over money. He's everything I'm not. POST: We have been together two years this October. I love him with all of my heart and our relationship is working better than any I've been in b...
My boyfriend of two years is my polar opposite, and we find it hard to see eye to eye. Desperately need some tips and tools on how to improve our relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I could really use some sage advice on dealing with a college finance office. POST: I am a wounded vet. I have two purple hearts and I am proud to have served my country. I walk with a cane and about 75% of the time I cannot drive due to my TBI. I am in the process of moving and the new ...
College forcing me to pay tuition in order to access benefits, instead of putting a stop tuition note in my registration file.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/F] with my boyfriend [29 M] of 3 months dumped me via text out of the blue and isn't communicating with me at all.. POST: So I met him on an online dating site. Things were going great, we never fought once in our relationship. I even met his whole family and went to his siste...
My bf dumped me via text saying he lost his spark and doesn't want anything to do with me and made an online dating profile the next day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I trust him again? POST: My boyfriend and I are in our early 20's. We've been dating for 2 months now. A month ago I found out he had been sexting and being generally flirtatious with a girl he had just met. At that point I did not break up with him. A few days ago I ...
My boyfriend cheated on me (via sexting) and lied to me about other things. Now I'm super paranoid about everything but I want to make it work. How do I begin trusting him again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it fair to hold someone accountable for their reaction to a situation that happened in error? POST: It's oddly phrased, but here's an example. Say your child's teacher called you. He said that your daughter hasn't turned in a homework assignment all semester and she's regularly been...
It appears gengengis both understood my question and was able to get it across better than I, so I suggest reading [his story.](<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: As a guy, what if anything would be an appropriate way to help a female stranger who is so drunk as to be borderline unconscious? POST: 26 M So a few nights ago I was out with some friends when we see this girl walk out of a bar (not sure of her age, seemed around college-age). It ...
Was out late from friends, see female stranger super drunk, want to know what would be the appropriate way to help her/handle the situation in the future<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my BF [29 M] doesn't respond to me all day sometimes POST: This has become a slight recurring problem that it's starting to bother me a lot. There will be days where I will chat with him over iMessage or Skype and he won't respond. Then I'll call him for some reason,...
BF doesn't text or call back for a day sometimes. How do I phrase it to make it seem not accusatory? I've let him get away with this behavior before so it might seem like it's coming out of nowhere.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: [Help] Question about medical bills that aren't my responsibility. POST: Okay, so here is the situation as I understand it, as I am asking for a friend of mine. My friend decided it was time to buy a new motorcycle, and while looking at bikes he decided to have his credit pulled ...
Friend was injured on duty with the Army Reserve, and now his credit is tanked because the Army hasn't paid the bill yet.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Efficient Retirement Planning POST: Hi Fellow PFer's, To start I'm a college graduate with little to no debt (25 yr/old male) and I make good money starting to save with a new company I started at a year ago. Just unlocked the ability to have a 401k. I have a question that has g...
Which retirement option pays out best dollar for dollar for a 25 year old who plans to start pulling it out when I'm 70: Roth IRA or 401k. Thanks<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Being called a liar by some girls at my small college. Help? POST: We're all F(19 or 20). We've been friends for about a year. I made a mistake when talking to a friend about a dress I'm renting for a party, and confused the 2k one for a less expensive one and mixed up the designers...
Two friends are calling me liars for things that I am not lying about, it is getting around our small college and I don't want this reputation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by knocking out all the power in the neighborhood. POST: I'm not much of a story teller, so I'll just tell you what happened. Sooo, I'm a truck driver and I was hauling gravel today. We are unloading on a road that they are rebuilding in an older area of my city. I was told to go unload...
brought down what I thought was a power line with my truck, thought I was going to die. Turned it to just be a phone line, but still took out the power to the area.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] Getting Friendzoned for the first time and it sucks POST: We've been friend for the last year; we hung out in the same group of friends and pretty much see each other every other week. I notice since the beginning he was interested, but I ignored it because I didn't want to...
Okay I feel stupid at this point, did I misread everything? Please help me to move on and keep the friendship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] found out that my dad[51M] is cheating on my mother [49F] and has always cheated, even before marriage, mom doesn't have a clue. POST: I found out that my dad was at a certain place with another woman out of coincidence. He didn't see me at anytime. I was with my GF when I ...
Dad has been cheating on mom for all their relationship. I've already talked to my dad about it, what to do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M 20] am going to break up with my gf [19]. But this is the first time Im doing this and need some advice. POST: I have been dating this girl for almost two years now. But I think it's time for a break up. We haven't fought or anything, but I just no longer feel those emotions for...
I am trying to break up with my gf of 2 years but this is my first time initiating a break up. How do I do it and what can I expect? This was also a good relationship without any abusive troubles.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [25F] stop myself from going crazy over my boyfriend [25M] of five years not proposing? POST: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over five years now. We have lived together for four years. We have a dog together that we both adore. He always talks about our future in...
I want to get married, my boyfriend wants to wait another 5 years, how do I stop myself from losing my mind in the mean time?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Blew possible chance with a really cute girl, weird to ask my friend who she was or let it go? (22m/f) POST: There was a party the other night. I had a few beers and went around giving people stickers from an old sheet of Christmas stickers-- giving everyone titles and swearing them...
Girl seemed in to me and I just left. Weird to ask my friend who she was and about contacting her or should I just forget it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it a good idea to move in with my [22f] bf [23m]? Advise from people who have done the same would be good! POST: Ok so I've been with my bf for almost three years. I currently live with my parents and in the next few months my parents will be moving 2+ hours away. I won't be movin...
parents moving far away and bf offered for me to live with him in his family's home. Good idea or nah? Any advise welcome. Thank you!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting drunk and punching my Haemophilic friend POST: This pretty bad fuck up happened last night. My friend, during half term, decided to have a party at his house and I, was invited. The party was really good, and I had the *Brilliant* idea of saying we should play the Ring of Fir...
Got drunk from a drinking game and punched my Haemophilic friend, now he's in hospital from a bruise. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (28f) with my bf of 6mths (30m) found blonde hair on his Privates. Is he cheating? POST: Just started seeing this guy. We don't live in the same area, long distance dating. He calls, texts messages all the time and I do too and I care about him a lot. He's heavy on the trust thing...
Dating guy, long distance, found hair on his dick that is blonde luxurious and isn't mine. Is he cheating?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I over reacting if I get mad if my girlfriend from a long distance is asked if she's still a Virgin? POST: Alright so my girlfriend [18] goes to this sailing race. She recently acquainted a guy that was pretty lonely over there. She didn't really talk to him or anything. When sh...
guy ask my girlfriend if she's a Virgin. She answers yes and I'm irratated that she even answered it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (f18) Dad (m51) is having a baby with his wife (f38) and I'm really struggling. POST: Basically my dad and I have always been really close (bonded over music and our generally laid back personality). Last year I found out that he and his wife were trying to have a baby; now, she...
My dad is having a baby and, while I want him to be happy, it is completely breaking my heart. Is there anyway to make it hurt less?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Apartment Complex is Swindling its Residents, Is it Within the Residents' Rights to Write Letters to Each Tenant? POST: Ok here's the story, We live in a college town and live in student apartments. We have happily lived in our apartment for a couple years now without a single issue wit...
Apartment complex is screwing over its residents - residents (myself and roomates) want to write a letter and post it on every resident's door. Are there possible ramifications or legal empowerment that the apartment complex has over us?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [17,m] am not sure if I want to stay in this relationship with my girlfriend (16,f) POST: Well, I [17/m] am in a almost two year relationship with my girlfriend (16,f) but I came to a point where I'm not sure if I want this anymore. It started around two months ago when we hu...
I'm [17,m] not sure if breaking up with my girlfriend (16,f) is the right choice or not. (Relationship of nearly 2 years)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my crush [20 M] is giving me mixed signals. What do I do, reddit? POST: So, a friend of mine that I've known since coming to college last semester has started acting really strange towards me. I don't mean to play the whole he said/she said thing, but the mutual friend...
Guy I have a big crush on will sometimes act like he's interested and sometimes he won't, don't know how to feel about the mixed signals.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22/F] and I [22/M] are trying to start college this year..... POST: My girlfriend and I recently started talking about trying to get back into school, we both graduated together and started working instead of going back to school. Now, we have recently started to discu...
Girlfriend and I want to start college, Girlfriend does not want to attend the same college, Should I be bothered by that?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Is Location a Factor in a Lawsuit (MI/CO) POST: Someone owes me a substantial amount of money and has agreed to pay the full amount. My problem is that I am moving out to Colorado from Michigan in the coming months. I really don't trust him to pay me once I move and have given filing s...
Guy owes me money. Can I file suit in CO where I am moving or do I need to file in MI where dispute took place?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Mom [52] called me [20 F] a whore after finding out I got a hotel room with a guy POST: So first of let me start by saying that my mother has grown to be a devoted Catholic with age, and your typical Mexican mother. I on the otherhand am not particularly religious, and really liberal...
Conservative Catholic mother found out I practically paid for a hotel room to have sex with my long distance boyfriend whom she didnt know existed, called me a whore. Where do I go from here to fix my relationship with my boyfriend and her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Long distance relationship advice? POST: I [21M] met a girl [20] at a college political conference in Washington DC back in early March. We hit it off pretty much from the get-go and we hooked up on and off throughout the weekend. We talked and we liked each other and found that we h...
met a girl on trip that i fell for and we live very far away, want to know how i should continue the situation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: My pup is dramatically losing weight after switching food, is this a normal experience? POST: Before you suggest to take her to the vet, we have a vet appointment over the weekend, I just wanted to know if anyone has experienced this before and if I should be worried or if anyone has suggesti...
Dog lost approx 12lbs within a month of switching to new dog food. She has become lazy and tired. Seeing vet this weekend for advice/ a check up. Just curious if this is slightly normal or something to that extent.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 M] have a crush on a girl [15 F] who I see in school, but do not talk too much to. POST: I have known this girl for quite a while (3 years in fact) but never got to know her very well because of our age and grade difference. I knew her two older brothers who I am good friends w...
I have known my crush for a while; I feel as though it would be awkward if I were to ask her on a date after not talking to her for a year.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [27F] with my spouse [34M] of seven years are unsure about children in MY late 30's or early 40's. Do you think that having children that late in life if your husband is 7 years older than you is a bad idea? POST: We have not had children yet and I am feeling pressured and rushed...
My husband seems to be against the idea of having kids that late in his life, but I have so many things I want to do and finish. Is there a bright side to this? Can there be a compromised reached between us?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hit a small bump in my LDR. What sexy, fun things can you suggest to my boyfriend to do over our webcam chats? POST: I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 4 years. We're both 22. Although we have great sexual chemistry when together, sometimes the time between our visits is drawn out, and I ...
The only thing missing in my LDR is sexy variety in what my boyfriend does over the webcam. What do you do specifically to turn on your SO through pictures and video? Any suggestions?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (M/ 21) having trouble regarding what to do with my GF (20) POST: Since the beginning of our current 6 month relationship, she has made me to look like the bad person in our relationships. That I do this wrong, I do that wrong. It got to the point where I "screwed" up so much, sh...
GF broke up with me because I was a bad bf apparently, slept with someone else the same day and following day of our breakup. Idk what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: In a bit of a dilemma... About a girl (As per usual) POST: Okay, so basically, I'm just finishing school, and through the last 5 years of it, I've had an on and off crush on this one girl. I mean, I dated other people, but only because I was sure she didn't feel the same way.. Mostly. Bu...
My friend and I like the same girl, he doesn't know it and I agreed to help him but it's harder than I thought.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20]cannot trust my girlfriend[21] of over a year. Ive grown to hate my own relationship, POST: So basically since I dont want to give a wall of text so I might be vauge, and if you need clarification feel free to ask (I will try to respond as timely as possible). SOOO me and my gf...
Gf lied about talking to ex, gave me an std, hurt me, and now that its over (Im pretty sure) I still cant get over the past.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by ruining a long-time friendship by accident POST: This happened last month and I still can't get over it.Me and my friend are close to each other for nearly 30 years(Im 34 and he is 35 right now).We lived in the same apartment and we went to same schools, even university.We were living...
I hit my long-time friend's child with a car by accident, he started to don't let me even see his child and eventually he moved from here and now I can't even communicate.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to light a cigarette POST: I was at a party out at a friend's house. Decent sized event; bonfire, beer pong, barbecue, heavy drinking; the type of thing I'd typically avoid like the plague but a buddy of mine and his girlfriend really want to go so I do. I only knew the frien...
I lit my face on fire trying to light a cigarette in a campfire and put it out in a kiddy pool.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29/M] feel neglected/needy since moving in with my girlfriend [28/F] of 4 years POST: My girlfriend and I moved in together earlier this year and since then I feel like I've become really needy/insecure, but also like I'm not an important priority in her life. She has a job she l...
I've started feeling insecure and unimportant to my girlfriend and I don't know how to talk about it without sounding whiny/needy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a GF who simply will not trust me whatever I do... how can I change this? POST: My GF and I have been together for 6 years and every time I work late or want to just go out with my buddies she flips out. I feel totally smothered by her demanding questions every time I do anything ...
I want my GF to know that I'm never gonna give her up, let her down, run around and desert her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M/] started dating [18/F]. Find out her mom is the Vice Dean of my department at my university. How important is it to be wary for myself? POST: About a month ago I started dating a new girl. Two dates in or so I discover that her mother is the Vice Dean of the College of Scie...
Started dating a girl. Her mother has a position of power in my education that could affect my future. Not sure how to approach this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by giving my # to a guy on Grindr POST: Ok, so this happened like half an hour ago. Basically, would never date a man, but I like to have a little fun now and then. Thus, Grindr. I messaged this guy and he messaged me back--all seemed well and he asked for my number so we could text inst...
gave my number to a grown child and he'said trying to possibly screw my reputation or at the very least inconvenience me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [21 F] keep up NC with my ex [22 M]? POST: We dated for over a year, but because of school and work (and many other situational complications), had been on and off for the last few months. I formally ended things a week ago when he told me that he still thought of me as bein...
Trying NC (no contact) and I'm going crazy. I'm spending New Years alone and need tips and distractions on how to avoid calling or texting him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Helping a family member with PTSD POST: My brother-in-law is suffering from PTSD. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but it is quite clear that he is. He is in the military and has served multiple times in Iraq and Afghanistan. He and my sister have a big family and this is greatly affec...
What is the USA military's stance on soldiers with PTSD? Will seeking treatment mean the end of the military career?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: One of my best friends is making me feel guilty POST: Long story short. One of my best friend's aunt owns a beach house in our area. My friend thought it would be a great idea for her and her bf, me and my bf, and her friend and her bf (these last two I don't know) to go there ...
Friend is offering to pay for the bf and I to spend Valentines day weekend with her and 2 people we don't know. I simply do not feel comfortable and she will take it personally if I tell her that.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [M/18], I recently started talking to a girl [F/18] who is way out of my league and I am unsure if she actually wants to talk to me. POST: I'll start by saying that many people introduce me to new acquaintances as "the nicest guy in the world." I guess even "nice guys" have their...
I don't have an abundance of self confidence, which is why I'm paranoid that this girl doesn't really want to be friends.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why did the hospital give my BF morphine after he was emitted for dehydration? POST: My boyfriend (a fellow Redditor) and I were suppose to see each other today for the first time in a couple of weeks because of our college's winter break. He was on his way home after work and had to pul...
bf in hospital after dehydration from vomiting, said he had bad chest pains, now the hospital has him on morphine. Why? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17M] with my Girlfriend [16F] of 3 months, having trouble handling her depression. POST: My girlfriend and I are both in high school and have been dating for 3 months now. Everything has been fine up until recently when her issues, problems, depression. Have become too heavy for ...
Girlfriend is depressed, had to break up with her because I don't know how to deal with it. Still don't know if I have feelings for her, need some advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19 m] got broken up with by girlfriend of a month [21 f] for saying some shit two weeks ago that I don't remember. How do I not let this happen again? POST: I recently got out of a relationship with a girl. She broke up with me over something I said about two weeks ago. I had tota...
I said some stupid shit. She did not like said shit. Breaks up with me two weeks later over shit I said. How do I not let this happen again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with a girl [21 F]. Not sure what is going on. POST: After lurking on here for ages, it's the first time I've felt the need to post. Yay! So, I met this girl on OkCupid and we've been talking for a few weeks on both OKC and via text. We finally met in RL yesterday, and I h...
Went on a date with a girl, thought we hit it off, but she suddenly seems distant. Where to go from here?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Please help my figure out one of the most difficult choices I've ever had (Long Post) POST: So Reddit I have come here for advice on a matter that I need the entire community to help. The story goes like this, I recently moved a year ago away from my home of 12 years due to issue...
Every guy has one girl that he can never get over and now i have the Chance to tell mine how Much I care about her but she will be Moving in a year forever.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Advice between bestfriends please. POST: So the other night around 2am, Im (23/m) sleeping and I get a phone call from my bestfriend (22/f) but I don't pick up because I'm unaware its her until I hear her voicemail she leaves me. She sounds very upset, drunk and she's crying. S...
bestfriend calls me clearly upset while she's drunk driving, Starts acting stubborn and then keeps driving, I call police on her in hopes they get to her before she hurts herself, she says I was wrong for that.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Love my boyfriend, not sure how much I like our relationship. POST: I (F22) love my guy(M20), we work so well together on almost every level. Our relationship started off really well, we saw each other about 4 times a week and slept over at each others houses almost every time we hun...
only see him once a week for 3-5 hours. Having a hard time dealing with this perhaps because we used to spend a lot of time together, or because of societal/media depictions of what a relationship should be like.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend[22 M] - we're a monogamous couple that isn't "commited" I.e. We both know we're not going to end up married, and are ok with that POST: i guess I just want to know if this is normal/healthy. We communicate well, have a great friendship and very active sex...
we're not quite single, but we're open to mingle(not cheat). Is it ok to have a not-serious relationship? Can I love someone knowing it won't last forever?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[26F] finally unfriended my ex [30m] a month after NC and trying to remind myself why it's the right decision. POST: Well...after the longest month of my life, I finally unfriended him. In a way I'm relieved. I don't have to overanalyze the fact he still has his "in a relationship"...
Unfriended ex one month after post breakup in a fit of anger. Am desperate to feel the benefits in remembering it's the right decision.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Doing Freelance Work as a Minor on a Content Mill Site (NJ, USA) POST: I am a minor (15 - going to be 16 in less than a month) who aspires to jumpstart a career in freelance writing. I've done some work, but seeing as I'm a minor and I can't register for many of the content mills that ...
I was approached to do freelance work on a content mill site that requires users to be 18 or capable of entering legally binding contracts. I am a minor, so would it be illegal to work on one of these sites?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I make stupid jokes at the wrong time and my(Im 20m) Gf(19f) of 2 years is finding it hard to deal with POST: my gf laughs at my jokes, even at my puns, but occasionally I don't sense that the situation is serious and I say a stupid joke and It leads to us fighting. It can also repre...
my(20m) long distance relationship with my gf(19f) is hard because I'm bad at picking up on seriousness and I make stupid jokes<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Ex upset about hooking up. POST: Hey r/breakups, I have a bit of an issue. I originally posted this in relationships but they told me to come here. I'm a homosexual male, and I was in a long term (9 month) relationship which ended roughly 3 weeks ago. I'm 19 years old, in college in a ma...
I dumped my long term boyfriend, and I hooked up with a different boy 13 days later. Ex found out and is upset, how should I go about handling the situation?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 20 M realizing feelings for friend F 19. POST: Hello, I've been on a few dates with this girl on and off for about 6 months now. She's a great girl with emotional issues similar to my own and on our most recent night out we did an experiment to see if we could invoke feelings of love...
Realized I actually have feelings for someone and don't know how to handle it. I have Fallout Boys angsty shit on repeat, please help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: The worst kind of crush is a work crush. POST: Forewarning, this is going to be another "there's this boy at work.." post, but here goes. There's this boy (man? I kind of feel like I'm at that age where I should just call them men) at work, and try as I might, I just can't stop thinkin...
I am a 24 year old girl who consistently acts like a 15 year old with her first big crush because I have it RULL bad for my co-worker.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: How far do I take "this is what I've made us for dinner and if you don't want it then you can go hungry"? POST: My 3y9m son would rather go hungry than try something new and is starting to lose weight because of it. Luckily he has got a bit of extra weight as he was a big baby/toddler, b...
My son would rather be hungry than try something new. How long do I let this go on before letting him eat? I've been doing it strictly since before Christmas and he's losing weight!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: R.I.P Blacky. Best friend of 16 years. POST: My cat was drooling and didn't eat as much as usual, we brought her to the vet and got looked at. She went for dentistry today and i was waiting for her to come home. She wasn't able to come home cause the vet found out that she had bone cancer tha...
Love your cat. Go fucking hug her/him right fucking now and if you think anything is wrong, take them to vet asap.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my housemate of 6 months [25ishF], she has some pretty disordered eating and no one is sure how to deal POST: So I've been living with my current housemates for around 6 months, we're all postgrads in the UK, there's 4 of us total, we're all 23-29. we've pretty much onl...
housemate i've only known for a few months seems to be falling back into anorexic behaviour. we've all noticed. what do we do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24f] am so angry with him [36m] right now. POST: My boyfriend of two years is pretty sure he has a hernia, and has thought this for over three weeks. This is what finally convinced him to enroll in his work's health insurance and now we're waiting on the insurance card. He went t...
Boyfriend is being whiny and very lazy about going to the doctor and he's in pain. I'm very irritated.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother's ex girlfriend [22F] wants me [20M] to sleep at her house. POST: So my brother's ex broke up with him 2 years ago because he cheated on her. Twice. Since then se always wants to get coffee and I always avoid it. I work at night and told her after she asked 10 minutes ag...
Brother cheated on ex twice. They broke up two years ago. She wants me to sleep at her place during this morning, to grab lunch later. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [19/F] doesn't say she has a boyfriend to guys, I [20/M] don't really know how to respond. POST: Edit: I don't think I quite put it right, it isn't like she says she's single. It's more that she doens't want guys to know, she doesn't want to bring it up. Sorry for my English, ...
Girlfriend has guys phone number, admits that she doesn't tell boys that she has an SO, thinks i'm overthinking this all and tells me to stop talking about it.<|endoftext|>