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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [29 M] short-term temporary roommate [31F] is pooping on my kitchen spoon.
POST: To first clarify, I have 2 other roommates [28M] & [33M]. A couple weeks ago, all 3 of us agreed to allow [33M]'s friend [31F](not GF) stay with us while he went on vacation to Italy. Apparently [31... | Found a shit covered spoon in my bathroom garbage. I believe it's from my temporary roommate who moves out in a week. Not sure if/how to confront her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my 17 [F] and other 17 [F], two months, caught between two girls
POST: A little backstory: I was a relatively fat kid not too long ago (17 M). I worked out, ate right, and lost about 40 pounds. This made me feel awesome and helped my confidence skyrocket (I never had a... | Hot girl rejects me, I get skinny and get a new [f]riend, hot girl wants me back, I say yes, am confused/did I fuck up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] with my GF [22F] of 3 years, got a small part in an upcoming TV show. I'm totally not cool with it because because of the nudity and simulated sex.
POST: So I've been seeing this girl for 3 years now. She does part time acting, and has mostly been doing small roles in theate... | GF got a small scene in a TV show, have to be completly naked and pretend sex, I'm unhappy with it, worried about my friends and family seeing her like that. Confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29/m] looking to get back together with ex [24/f] who also wants to. Advice needed for dealing with friend's lack of support.
POST: We dated for two years, loved together, broke up and I moved out. I started dating someone else and have been for about 3 months until a couple o... | my friends don't like me ex, she seems much better and I want them to give her another shot. Advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25F) boyfriend (25M) hurt his back, won't see a doctor, and is taking it out on me.
POST: My boyfriend is a active guy. Bike riding, skate boarding, motorcycle riding, has a job with lots of manual labor involved etc.
A couple weeks ago he started complaining about his back hurt... | BF hurt his back, has turned into a grumpy ass and won't see a doctor. How do I encourage him to take this seriously and not pretend it will go away when it's been weeks of him in pain?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Trying to get SO interesting in exercising with me for health, fun, motivation, and companionship, but she just won't have it. Any suggestions?
POST: A gym membership is just right out. We went riding bikes a few times which she enjoyed, but that's really more of a pleasant thing to do in t... | Girlfriend keeps promising to work out with me, but keeps baking out. What do, r/loseit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] am being driven insane by my sister [15 F] becuase of her disregard for others exsistance.
POST: I live with my mother. My sister comes to visit under a court order. When she is here, she is practically unbearable.
She spends her time playing Xbox, screaming profanity, and... | I live with mom. Sister visits under court order. She is a messy, loud person. I have a problem with that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by calling my boss is fat
POST: TIFU AT WORK
I work in a grocery store and I was serving my boss. She said that she was in a hurry because she seen a delivery truck arriving. Incase your wondering she wanted to get into her car before the truck blocked the exit. (the car park is tiny)
... | my boss was in a hurry and was digging for money in her bag, I said that I haven't seen her move so fast and she got offended.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why are Red Delicious and Granny Smith the most popular apples even though they suck?
POST: I tried doing research but I couldn't find very much. Does anyone know the economic reason?
This is what I found:
Summary: When farms began merging and selling for a national market, in the earl... | Red Delicious and Granny Smith suck. They were branded and sold nationally early on because they were shiny and looked perfect. Did they stick or was there some better economic reason?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Had (20m) a date that went well but she (19F) just stopped responding afterwards?
POST: We went on a tinder date that I felt was pretty good, it lasted around 4 hours (not sure what that means or how well it bodes?). There was barely any silence as we just talked for most of it.
I m... | Went on a good tinder date, she said she wanted to go on another but is now radio silent, whats the course of action for this ?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (29/M) is pissed because I (20/F) asked him not to text an ex around me after he lied about seeing her.
POST: We've been together for about a year and a half. Several months ago, he made plans behind my back to see his ex. I could tell he was hiding something from me and... | I asked my boyfriend not to text his ex around me after he lied about seeing her, now he's pissed and won't talk to me. Is this fair?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [23/m] and am in love with my fuck buddy turned best friend [22/f]. Anyone been in a similar situation?
POST: So I'm not sure how common this is, but I could use some advice. I met a girl over a year ago through mutual friends and we quickly became physical with each other.... | I've fallen for my former fuck buddy turned best friend, and she doesn't feel the same. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you trick or makes kids eat food they don't like?
POST: My parents are in an emergency and my mom has been hospitalized in another state leaving me with my little brother who is very difficult to feed. Usually, if he doesn't like something, he will purposefully take a long time to... | Only person caring for little brother and he won't eat food necessary to survival. Would be very very grateful for suggestions that worked with other difficult children.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Controlling SO practically stalks me. Please help!!
POST: My SO(30/m) and I(24/f) have been together for almost a year and a half. At first things were wonderful like they always are in a new relationship, but as time has gone by he has become more and more controlling. He doesn't li... | My SO is controlling and confrontational to the point of being a live in stalker. I love him but need to do what's best for my son and I. Please help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18 F] Girlfriend wants me [18 M] to cut off contact with a friend
POST: Hello, I am with my girlfriend for one month now. We are in a long distance relationship.
Since i told her about a female friend with whom i had phone sex (before i got to know my girlfriend) she wants me t... | My gf wants me to cut off contact with a female friend. Is there a way to get her to at least accept me having this friend?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20M) think I indirectly damaged my relationship with girlfriend (19F)
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months now. We both believe we are the one for each other and love each other very much. I wouldn't trade anything for her. However, I think I unwillingly damaged ... | Kept a secret from my girlfriend but I don't feel it is my obligation to tell her. Should I tell her or no?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: [Scared shitless] STDs: Care to share facts/anecdotes about being asymptomatic for months and getting tested positive?
POST: Backstory: Female here. Got ridiculously drunk 4 months ago and had sex with a guy I didn't know. Started out being protected but suddenly (I guess I was too drunk... | Had unprotected sex for a couple minutes, asymptomatic and haven't gotten tested. Boyfriend unexpectedly visiting in 12 days.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [22 F] gently break the news to my best friend [23/F] that the reason she has zero luck with guys is because she talks too much?
POST: My best friend Lily is an amazing person. She's blonde, super fit, incredibly caring, loyal, honest, and silly. She constantly volunteers, ... | My best friend talks SO much that any guy who shows interest quickly changes his mind. How can I tell her about the problem? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not sure if my [m25] gf [f30] of three months is sleeping with other guys :-(
POST: Hi,
I met my current gf [30] on a dating site last October - things were going great (we get on like a house on fire, sex was good) - up until Christmas. We're from different countries (Ireland / Uk)... | Didn't talk to GF for few weeks - suspect she's slept with someone else in those few weeks - don't know how to confront her<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my boyfriend [22M] 1 year +, How to bring up the fact that I think He's losing interest.
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year, but the last month and a bit I feel like he's been more distant than usual.
He's really introverted, so I'm used to h... | How should I bring up concerns about my boyfriend's interest in our relationship with out sounding paranoid or like I'm unhappy?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Saying "I love you" in an on-again, off-again relationship (20f, 23m)
POST: My boyfriend (23m) and I (20f) first began dating a year and a half ago. We quickly fell for each other and I was the first to say "I love you" about 3 months into the relationship. He said it back right away... | Nervous about saying "I love you" again with an on-again, off-again boyfriend now that we've rekindled our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17M) found out my gf(17F) is smoking 2 cigarettes a day and I hate it
POST: Me and my gf have been happily dating for a year. I'm about to graduate HS in may and she is a junior. A few months ago I caught her dipping and she wouldn't quit. She finally did after a month of support.... | Gf is smoking after I told her it was over if I saw it again. I don't know if she will quit. Am i being to harsh?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Why so many people (on reddit also) brag about using adblock when it should be socially condemned?
POST: I'm especially talking to everyone using adblock:
You are so "anty-sopa" "anty-censorship" and your arguments are about that google, youtube, facebook etc. wouldn't be able to exist in ... | Why are you so hypocritical when on one side you are anty-sopa, and on the other you take the only revenue of most sites?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25F] Scared of Marriage. Wtf is wrong with me?
POST: SO [24M] and I have been together for 9 years. He recently proposed to me, and I said no.
I have never wanted to get married, and although I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I don't want the social and cultural implica... | I want to live my life with my SO, but don't want to be married. How do I make myself want to do this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My crush [F14] told me that she liked me [M14] but I am still in a relationship with my girlfriend [F13] who i have been dating for 4 months. Should I break up with my girlfriend to be with my crush?
POST: My Crush texted me saying that "I really like you but I know you will never fe... | My crush told me that she liked me but I have a girlfriend. should I break up with my girlfriend to be with my crush?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs
TITLE: Extremely irritated lips/mouth?
POST: I am a 17 year old female, 5'5" tall and weigh 135 pounds. I'm very active and do sports and lift weights all year round.
So I've had eczema and pretty sensitive skin for as long as I can remember. It began to clear up and I've had virtually no proble... | My lips are ridiculously dry, peeling, and irritated. I have had eczema all my life and think it's related, but nothing I do helps.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] breaking up with [19 F] girlfriend of two and a half weeks. Rushed relationship gone wrong.
POST: So i met this girl at the folkhighschool (norwegian thing), i was interested in her from early in the year, but we never really got to know each other.
And so, three days befo... | My relationship was rushed, and offical before I was able to figure out if she was the right one for me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Well......
POST: I am that guy. That one that whenever something bad happens, someone hurts your feelings, someone belittles you, someone mistreats you in any way. I am that guy you turn to make your self feel better. Whenever things are going good you don't want to say a damn word t... | just mostly ranting what is on my mind. I feel a girl I like is using me to make her self feel better while leading me on, while I debate on whether to move on or continue the pursuit.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22F] Dad's [50M] new wife and family [50-80M/F] keep calling me daughter/niece. How do I get it to stop?
POST: My parents got divorced when I was 15. My dad and I had a pretty rough time of it as I was growing up and I haven't lived with him since my junior year of high school. W... | Dad's new wife and family calls me her daughter, even though I've only known her for 3 or so years. How do I get it to stop?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: (Logan, UT) Our new property manager is threatening to block any devices that aren't used solely for Work/School in our apartment.
POST: Our contract says, "Basic cable, utilities, and Internet are included in the rent." Our old landlord had wifi for each apartment. It wasn't the best ... | New wifi is very slow. The landlord says that only devices for school or work are allowed now. We didn't pay for a place off campus to do homework. We paid for a home while we go to school.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [F18] proposed to steady bf [m22] of two years. He said he'd think about it. Help?!
POST: We've expressed for the longest time that we want to be a constant in each others lives. Recently we've been planning how we'd stay close while I'm in the military (to make money so that w... | Long time bf basically just gave our relationship an expiration date. How can I help myself and him last past it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Older dog with food aggression.
POST: Gunner (6 year old lab) is a really good calm dog most of the time. Except when its time for him to eat.
Rewind about 2 years, when I moved into my parents place until I finished college he had never showed any signs of food aggression. We moved ... | Older dog acquired a food aggression about two years ago, along with a hate of other dogs. Need help breaking him of all bad habits.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28/M) feel the need to share my insecurities with my girlfriends when I grow close to them. It always ruins the relationship. But, as a guy, who else can I share this stuff with?
POST: I was reading the [Girls, what turns you away from guys?] askreddit post yesterday, and realized... | Stay emotionally closed, end up with unfulfilling long-term relationship. Open up emotionally, end up with no relationship. How can I have it all?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Friend [24 F] getting married to her [24 M] fiance after dating for about 7 years has decided to stop having sex until the wedding night to make it special without discussing with him first. Is that normal/healthy?
POST: My friend [24 F] is getting married and has decided in all of h... | My friend stopped sleeping with her future husband to make the wedding night special, but they didn't agree to do it (she did). Is it normal or even healthy for the relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my friend [25 M] I feel like I screwed up our friendship...
POST: This guy, we'll call him James, was a senior my freshman year of high school. Just recently we became back in to contact with each other about a year ago since I transferred to a college an hour and a hal... | Opened up to a guy I thought liked me back, but he rejected me. Trying to figure out what went wrong.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21/F] with my boyfriend [23M] Dating for one year and 3 months currently with a no contact order
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and a few months now. He can be very sweet however he gets mad easily. A few days ago me and my boyfriend got into a argument... | with the no contact order in place should I still think he still wants to be together with me? And am I doing the right thing by not contacting him? What else should I do? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [18 M] and no females my age like me.
POST: I'm graduating from high school and never had a girlfriend. Not even a cheesy middle school relationship type of thing. There's only been two girls I've ever really liked, one of which I know from school and another that goes to the same ... | I live in a toxic community, no girls like me. Friends think I'm funny and cool to hang around, but they thought I always angry and serious before they got to know me. Getting depressed real fast.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: One ER Visit, 11k in Costs, Insured by Employer, But No One Noted My Info, Now 11k In Debt
POST: Back in 2013, I was in a car accident. An ambulance ride and hospital trip later, there was a bill totaling $13,000. I remember giving the EMTs and nurse my information (ID, updated add... | 11k balance for an ER stay, now passed timely processing for health insurance company, they don't want to pay, the bill is with the department of revenue<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M]would like to take my friend [20/F] on an all expenses paid vacation but am worried it might come off the wrong way.
POST: The title pretty much says it. The destination would be Vegas for just under a week to go to a music festival during the summer.
We went to the same fest... | I want to take a friend/semi-casual date to vegas for a music festival with all expenses paid.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by breaking an eagle statue at a flea market
POST: So it's been several years back when i was in my early teens (I'm now 23) when my mom, younger sister and I were wasting time at this big outdoor flea market. There was this stand when you first walked in just full of junk, or what other... | I broke a ceramic eagle at a flea market and the booth owners ripped her off and made her pay 20 dollars for it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: College loans for living needs/ Trust rules and help
POST: First i'd like to apologize because i know this place is mostly for people having actual financial trouble but it's all that i can think of to go for help.
Basically I start at a private college for chemistry in less than ... | Need to take out loans for rent and other extra things during college, Have a trust to pay them off immediately. Need to make sure how to actually do that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my BF [28M] Three Years, I'm starting to fantasize about cheating on him.
POST: We've been together for three years now. Obviously I've fantasized about other men, but my partner has never been part of the equation. But now the fantasies have twisted into being in my ow... | I'd never do it, but lately I fantasize about cheating on my now very absent BF. Anyone else have cheating-specific fantasies?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M31] Caught wife[F33] attempting drunken email cheating invitation... trust shattered
POST: So...Married 2 years, together 6, no kids... wife and I have had some issues in the bedroom past few months (probably due to my drop in libido... i'm not without blame here). Overall I've ne... | wife hasn't cheated yet, just shattered trust by drunken emailing and old ex who she hasn't had contact with for years--need advice<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I[17/m] stop taking everything my girlfriend [15/f] says seriously?
POST: I'm extremely sensitive and emotional and analyze every little thing she says and does. She sometimes makes little jokes that after a while of thinking and analyzing makes me get all upset and depr... | I overreact to everything my gf does that can be construed to be negative and become depressed. How do I stop?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having an anxiety attack
POST: So I have been recently been dealing with anxiety issues, gets really bad sometimes. But my wife has been 100% supportive. Today I got to about a 5 or 6 out of ten and needed to bail on work about 15 minutes early. Decided to treat myself to a redbox gam... | Had anixity attack, put hearing aides on elevated speaker, sil dog ate them thn puked on our carpet.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] have mixed feelings about my gf [23F] of a couple months. But this is my first real relationship. I dont know if what Im experiencing is normal.
POST: I just don't feel happy.
She has been incredibly affectionate to me throughout the whole thing. Sensitive to my insecuritie... | Girlfriend is affectionate to me, but I cant seem to enjoy or appreciate it. I feel too awkward in this relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Refinance - any room for negotiation on rate, given a quote, followed by a lower quote after finding a slightly lower credit score?
POST: So - I pulled my credit over the summer and it was in the mid 700s. That was for buying (leasing) a new car.
Knowing I had that mid-700s score,... | first quote was great, but the quote after the credit pull was not as competitive, should I eat it and have a double pull going to another lender, or just get over it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23F] boyfriend [24M] of 3 years might break up with me bc we don't have enough sex
POST: He says he loves me, and he's always been the perfect boyfriend. I love him more than anything, but I admit that with working full time, going to school full time, and applying to pharmacy sc... | Did I make him fall out of love with me? Do we need to just call it quits? Can you get someone to fall back in love with you?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Im 20, being charged under penal code 261.5b for javing sex with a 16yo when I was 19.
POST: EDIT: im located in OC, california.
TL;DR: | Girl lied about me raping her, but I'm still being charged for statutory raoe, want to know how likely it is to avoid jail time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [18 F] almost 2 years, don't know if this behavior is acceptable
POST: Okay I'm going to try and only tell the essential information. I'm 19 years old, have been dating this girl 18 years old for almost 2 years.
For some time now this has been happening. She go... | Girlfriend shows unfair behaviors in my opinion, not sure if its her, me, or both of us. But I'm pretty sure she might abuse how forgiving I am.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20/m] Do not know If I should Make a Move on my Study Buddy (21/f).
POST: This is a long post but I am trying to provide enough background so you know the exact position I am in.
To start this off relationships are not my area of expertise. I am 20 years old and never had k... | Met a girl in class at college. Hang out all the time but do not know if she sees me the same way.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Do I dedicate myself to something I'm passionate about, or to something that could make a difference?
POST: Bit of background - I'm 15 years old and in my freshman year of high school. I've been told repeatedly that this is the year when I need to decide what I'm doing with my life.
Right ... | Should I pursue medicine and become a doctor, but not fulfill my passion in music - or should I pursue music and not make a huge difference in the world?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to go to the bathroom
POST: Since someone posted a tifu in China, it made me think of this. This didn't happen today, but over the summer when I took a trip to China.
So China has, what I call, "squatty potties," basically a hole in the ground where you pee and poop. I live i... | went to use a toilet stall that was locked, and got hit very hard multiple times by some 70-80 year old lady yelling at me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's your best story about when you held back your anger and it actually made things work out better?
POST: Rewind back to Thursday night. My girlfriend is at her house, and I ride past in the passenger seat of my friends car. (I live a few houses down from her) I see that she's outsid... | G/F's ex was harassing her. Made him leave fairly politely instead of fighting him. Worked out perfectly.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [20 M] be a caring/sweet boyfriend to my girlfriend [20 F] of 10 months without being a doormat/being too available?
POST: I would like to start be saying the relationship is really great. We have a lot of good memories together. But I am getting worried that I'm becoming al... | I do things to help my girlfriend out a lot and have too much free time. What is the line between being too available/being a doormat vs a caring/sweet boyfriend?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can someone do a good photoshop for me?
POST: X-posted from favors, no one answered =(
V-day is coming up, and being jobless, I'm trying to make a really good gift. I'm trying to make a scrap book, and I want to start it off with our first vacation pictures
Request, could anybody with g... | Can someone photoshop dueling Fantasia Mickey and Harry potter with the wand magic meeting in middle to spell "Love" with enough space to fit two photos in between.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by leaving on my refrigerator's filtered water
POST: This happened a few weeks ago.
So I was preparing for my week long trip to Hawaii. Nothing outta the ordinary here. Yet. I decided to get some fresh cold water before I left so I went over to my refrigerator and turned on the filte... | Flooded my house with the refrigerator water filter, ruined the food, and got in really hot water (heh heh).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is this legal, and if not what can I do to stop it?
POST: I did a Google search on my name, as I do each month because I like to know what potential employers will be able to find out about me on the internet. I keep all of my social media profiles completely private. Today among the top... | Jerk.com is making my name an photograph available without my permission and is doing this in a way that I feel is defamatory to my character. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Need details about Insured Retirement Plans (IRP) and what my other options are
POST: I've been offered to set up an IRP through one of my friends who works for a company called Greatway. They charge a 3.5% annual management fee but give you back 1.5% of that as part of a "bonus"... | Is an IRP with management fee of 2% worth signing up for or is there a better option to make passive income through investments?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I fit in more at my office? or how can I learn to enjoy working with people I dislike?
POST: I've been working at this office for about 5 months and it's my first real job out of college. The office is a cliquey place and unfortunately, there is only one clique and the people excl... | New job sucks, people suck, need to find a way to not hate working here for the next few months. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by calling a co-worker's church a cult
POST: I am pretty vocally non-religious, which is odd for the area of the world in which I live. All the 'oh sweetie, you'll come to Jesus' comments are now met with irreverance and joking about cults and the FSM.
This particular church gave all th... | Was loudly joking about a cult-esqe area church that did a nice thing, hacked off a cubemate who knows I'm atheist<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being polite at work...
POST: So this happened today while I was at work. I work at a commuinty center in my city and all in all its a pretty chill job. We have a swimming pool, fitness center, basketball courts. The works. Anyways so today I get assigned to work in the fitness center... | clearing the fitness center while chatting with a handicaple person, told him to drive safe, he told me to fuck off.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Relationship vs career, plus age difference issues [28 M] with my girlfriend [18 F], 6 months
POST: After many years of being forever alone, I fell into a relationship with an amazing girl last year who is ten years younger than me. It works because she is very mature and sensible fo... | Bad career prospects in current town. Girlfriend cannot leave town, I feel like I should for my career but think my relationship is more important.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not covering my mouth
POST: So I've been sick for the past few weeks with some kind of sinus thing, that dripped into my lungs, thus giving my this nasty cough. I was leaving a class earlier and had to cough, but I figured my cold had to be clearing up, so I didn't bother coughing int... | Coughed without covering my mouth, slung about a small handful of salty slimy lung butter on some guy's back<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm a [19/m] guy with 0 experience with women and I have some questions about approaching and dating
POST: Hello everybody!
I'm a [19/m] with no experience whatsoever with women that means: never had a girlfriend, never kissed, never flirted and I've never had female friends(o... | No experience with women, no idea on where to date, how to approach when a girl is a with her group of friends and how flirt.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Can I breakup with my BF of 2 months over the phone?
POST: 21F 25M
he'll seriously cry and beg and plead with me to change my mind/tell him how to change while i won't be phased by the break up at all...so i feel like it will be less hurtful for him to receive the news over the phone than... | BF (of 2 months) madly in love, i'm not. want to dump him ASAP, not sure how.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl (F24) I like doesn't like me (F25) back. She wants me to set her up with my best friend. Help me out?
POST: This is the second girl that this has happened with but that doesn't make this any easier so I've come to you for advice.
I've been friends with this girl for about a... | This girl (F24) I (F25) really like wants my best friend. I think my good looking guy friends are what's keeping me from getting a girlfriend. I just need some advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 20 year old M/F relationship lasting 1 yr 4 months... Please help! Is my relationship in trouble?
POST: Both my boyfriend and I (female) are 20 years old and we have been together for a year and 4 months. During the school year last year I spent every night at his place and we had se... | Boyfriend and I use to have lots of quality time and sex everyday last year, but now he's working so hard with school that he's too tired for anything. How do I cope?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help] Need advice; Keep dog or take him back to shelter?
POST: Hi all, let me start out by saying that this is in no way an easy decision, hence why I came here for some advice.
To understand everything fully, you'll need what seems like more than enough background information. I'm in coll... | we were lied to about adopted dog's age, dog is actually a puppy who isn't house-trained or leash trained and he tries to attack the cats and tried to attack me. Moral dilemma of keeping him or returning him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (M/24) have been dating a this girl (F/23) for four months and her schedule is starting to offend me.
POST: I apologize for the title ahead of time. I didn't know how to explain the issue in a short, non-vague way.
We both have very different levels of energy. I'm typically... | Girlfriend goes to bed very early when I'm staying the night with her, but stays out/awake incredibly late when I don't. Feeling offended.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27/M] just found out my girlfriend [34/F] of 7 months is actually a doctor who lied about being a nurse. Is this cause for concern?
POST: We met online a while back and the relationship has been ideal so far. Not without a few small arguments, but there are no real negatives and I... | Girlfriend lied about being a wealthy doctor until she trusted me. I still love her and I don't have a problem with this at all, just wondering if it is a red flag.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I just want friends, that's all
POST: I've lost all of my friends. Mostly by my own fault or choice honestly. After high school I chose to get a job, get my finances straight, and go to school. Most of the time I was working full time and going to school full time. Sometimes even workin... | I pushed away my friends by solidifying my life after high school. Now life is solid but I don't have any real friends to share my days off, texting time, or anything else with.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I have type II Bipolar disorder. When is it appropriate to bring this up? (22M)
POST: I am in treatment, I take my medication, I have a psychiatrist and a therapist, and my condition is largely under control. I haven't had an episode for over a year, although it is true that in my pa... | How far into the dating process or a potential relationship should I disclose my mental health issues? I don't want to ruin my chances with dates who I like, but also don't like the idea of withholding important information.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/m] Been talking to a girl (26/f) a good six months or so, however, out of nowhere, she stopped texting back. What should I do, if anything? Should I just let it go and get on with my life.
POST: So I'd been talking to this girl a lot over my time in college, and we were doi... | Met girl, grew together while away, grew apart while close. NOt responding to texts. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 F] feel like I've been an ass to my fwb [24 M].
POST: I'm not really sure if this is the right place to post, but I need a little help, and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this particular issue.
I've been sleeping with this guy for about 2-3 months, and at first t... | Have been a bit of an asshole to fwb, want to somehow make amends (and generally, be a better fwb).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (18F) leave him (19M) alone?
POST: I met this guy while we worked at two different conventions together. After the second one we started talking a lot and got to know each other rather well. We live three hours apart and last week I decided that I wanted to meet up again. (A... | met a guy who lives three hours away, talked a lot and ended up meeting over the weekend. It worked out great however now he doesn't act interested although he says he is.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (22F) friend with benefits (23M) made out with another girl and hid this from me. He said it is none of my business because we aren't dating.
POST: He is my ex-boyfriend but we have been having casual sex for over a year.
He NEVER told me about this. I found out when I joined hi... | FWB made out with a girl at a party, had no intentions of telling me until I found out by mistake. He said because we aren't dating what he does is none of my business.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32/F] crush on [41M] co worker...not sure if I should ask him out?
POST: For the past year, I have had a small crush on a co-worker who just happens to be a manager of one of my teams at work. He's single, asks me to go with him to get drinks after work(which he pays for after I ... | crush on a manager at work who is single and possibly shows interest but I can't tell. Tell him how I feel or let it go?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [29 M] just found out my girlfriend [27 F] of 2 years, has been having "phone sex" with someone on snapchat.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been having a bit of a rough patch. Some arguments, diminished sex, constantly short with one another. And its because of one thing: moving ... | Found out my GF has been sending sexy Snaps to a former conquest, thinks she's getting a ring within the next year.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19/F] I have recently started getting into shape and now my boyfriend [26/M] is showing disinterest and making negative comments about my body.
POST: Normally I'd post with a throwaway but I really don't feel like it.
Anyways, my boyfriend and I have been dating a little more than... | Getting into shape but my boyfriend is being a negative nancy and making me feel insecure about it. What's the easiest way to discuss this without compromising our relationship? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Don't know how to help my [F23] SO [M24] deal with his depression/anxiety about job hunting.
POST: My SO and I have been together for a year and 7 months. We both graduated with the same degree this May and I moved in August for my job. My SO is still job hunting and is really strugg... | My SO is experiencing intense depress/anxiety over the upcoming job fairs. He shuts down whenever I try to help or talk about it. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Divorced a year, my ex-wife is getting daughter for the week of Christmas to spend with her and her boyfriend (who my daughter shouldn't be around)
POST: I was divorced a year ago, been separated for three. It was brutal; she cheated on me with three different men, start abusing presc... | Ex-wife lives with scumbag who she legally shouldn't be with, and is now getting common daughter for christmas.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he [27/M] changing his mind after 4 weeks dating about a relationship with me [21/F]?
POST: Hello fellow redditors,
I've met this guy about a month ago and since then we went on about 6 dates. On the first date he told me, that he is not looking for a relationship or commitment. ... | I want to confront him about his behaviour, but I don't want to seem to clingy or interested in a relationship. Also, how likely do you think is it, that he changes his mind about not wanting a relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [35F] need help caring about my job after workplace bullying. Please help.
POST: Two years ago I loved my job, took a ton of pride in my performance, and derived a lot of my self-worth from my abilities.
A new employee came in and immediately began criticizing my work and undermi... | New employee at job undermined my performance and relationships by spreading mistruths. Now that she has been let go, I'm struggling with getting back to normal.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] trying to help my girlfriend [21F] who complains about her weight and then indulges heavily right after that
POST: Hi. My girlfriend has recently looked at herself in the mirror, with shame in her eyes and tells me not to look, tells me that she thinks she's getting fat. I t... | Girlfriend thinks she's getting fat, while indulging heavily on unhealthy snacks. What can I say or do to help the situation?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24 f) dated a guy (35 m) for 3 months, he doesn't know how he feels.
POST: He pursued me first, and seemed to want to start something real (telling me that he's falling for me, asking me what I look for in a relationship, etc.). We saw each other almost every day for the past 3 mo... | dated for 3 months, the guy says he doesn't know how he feels about me and feels rather "numb". Was breaking up with him a good idea, or do some people just take longer time to get there?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] need advice getting over my ex-boyfriend [18 M] cheating on me with my first ex [17 M]
POST: So i've only ever had two boyfriends since i'm out newly, and my first ex who we'll just call Jacob I was okay with when we split after two months. About a month ago, I started datin... | My boyfriend cheated on me with my ex who is also his old ex and I broke up with him. I need help taking my mind off of the whole situation and cheering myself back up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25f) boyfriend (25m) of 2yrs called me a bitch for saying I'd expose his friend's (20sm) illicit online behaviour
POST: My boyfriend told me his friend was being inappropriate with girls online, and my boyfriend was "troll-guilting him about it" with things I'd say. These include... | boyfriend of 2 years called me a bitch for saying I'd tell his friend's gf about his friend flirting extensively with a girl online<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (22F) S/O (29M) of 2 years is pressuring me to get an abortion I do not entirely want.
POST: Found out I was pregnant a week ago. He was supportive at first, now he's distant, cruel and discussions on the topic are closer to attacks than conversations. His behavior as of late was ... | Boyfriend started out supportive, now pressuring me to get an abortion. I'm still conflicted and increasingly upset. Any help would be appreciated.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I being unfair?
POST: So this is the story :
I paid 700$ for my laptop and I use it everyday and go on it most of the time. I let my sister go on it most of the time whenever she needs it. I also let her take it to school on some important days where she really needs it, no problem. ... | Agreed to let my sister take my laptop 2x a week if she owed me 7mins in dish washing. She says no, family is family I shouldn't owe you anything.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35 M] with my Wife [32 F] 10 years, feelings for her best friend
POST: Been married for 8 years, knew wife for 2 before that. We met while working together at a dead-end job. I now have a successful career, wife jumps around dead-end jobs.
The first two years of marriage was ... | In a sexless/empty marriage, I have feeling for my wife's best friend who my wife barely tolerates. Is her friend off limits when our marriage ends?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Puppy Brag/Feeding Question
POST: Hello, /r/Dogs! I have been an avid reader for some time now, and love this little community! I am owned by two fabulous mini Aussies, a 5-year-old red merle named Chewbacca (who has been my best friend since he was 8 weeks old) and a 4-year-old "blue merle" ... | How much should I be feeding a 12ish week old Sheltie puppy who is a little on the lean side?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21M] girlfriend [19F] of one year wants to have babies before I do. I'm concerned about how this will affect our relationship. Advice?
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for a year now, and we have talked very seriously about the possibility of getting married one day, including ... | My girlfriend wants to have babies before I do, and I'm concerned it will affect our relationship. I'm looking for insights and advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 26 [F] with my 30 [M] husband of 3 years have conflict about him playing guitar while I am talking to him
POST: My husband plays guitar; he's amazing at it and he gets really into it. When he's playing he's so focused on it that he tunes everything else out (this is from my perspecti... | The combination of my husband's poor conversation skills and often playing guitar while I'm talking to him make me feel I'm not being listened to or respected.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] had the Depo-Provera shot and now I'm an awful person. How can I make sure my relationships survive this?
POST: I was on the pill and had no problems on it but found it difficult to remember to take it every day. When I mentioned this to my doctor (about an month ago) he reco... | I had the Depo-Provera shot and now I'm a miserable bitch. How can I make this easier on everyone around me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Bad landlord potentially putting us in danger...
POST: Hi there. I live in a house in San Francisco that has 3 total tenants in it. There is a bottom floor, a middle floor, and a top floor house all with separate addresses. I and 4 other people live on the top floor. We recently got new nei... | my neighbors started allowing Airbnb guests in a house that we share without consulting us and i am concerned for our safety and my landlord is a real lazy piece of shit about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Have I ruined my chances? Did I even have a chance to begin with?
POST: I'm 24/m, using a reddit account different from my usual one to ensure I remain anonymous. Over the past few months I've become very close with a friend of mine who's 21/f, who I find very attractive. I'm a ver... | Spent an evening with a girl I'm attracted to and have a good raport with, asked her to kiss me and she said no, saddened and confused.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I called out a scammer, can they get me back?
POST: Hey,
I've been looking for an apartment in another country for a couple months now. I found a listing that looked great - almost too great. I exchanged emails with the owner and while their english was a bit poor, it's another country... | I caught a rental scammer and sent back a catty email calling him out. He has my email and some details on where I'm a student and where I'll be working in his country, could this be a problem?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] my 6.5yr old all of a sudden is nasty to most other dogs
POST: He's been socialized (a lot) since the day after he got his final shots way back when he was around 6 months old. When he turned 4 or so, he was more into playing fetch than playing with other dogs at the park. He still wou... | 6.5yr old dog has been cool with other dogs, now has a lil bro and been bitten by two other dogs and has stopped playing nice since 2nd attack<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my [24 F] of 5 years, share an apartment and cat together but just broke up.
POST: My girlfriend and I broke up last night, and it was kind of a mess. It was somewhat mutual and I truly harbor no bad feelings against her. We grew apart, she needs to work through some p... | I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years, how do we un-cohabitate? (It's a sad breakup, but neither of us are angry)<|endoftext|> |
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