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[ { "role": "user", "content": "it won’t digest.. it won’t even go well.. like it won’t even be going free" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I'm going home" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Rest small naw.. this one that you just finish eating..,but I hope you enjoyed the meal?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "it has erased my hunger" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "the issue is that when you are used to.. when you are used to average stew" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "it’s because…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "not that I can cook o.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no o… I observed so many things pertaining to what you have said. It’s because you can cook. You can cook delicious meal and that’s why you noticed the fault that the food is faulty. That’s where you picked out what made the food faulty. You get it?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The day.. actually her food is tasty.. any time I eat outside.. that’s why I don’t like to eat outside because it \tdoesn’t equal. So the day I noticed it .. the day I will actually..ok.. before I’d go to school.. before I came to school" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "she cooked for your pastor’s son during his wedding" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "not like she cooked the whole food.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok.. the official food for" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "she even gave me from that one.. before I was eating from the general food. But when she gave me that on.. where was I all this while? This food is very delicious… ah..so mummy can cook like this? And because we are at home, we are not appreciating it" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "so what’s your best favorite food that you can prepare, your favorite…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t think I can cook that much. I don’t cook that much.. but the one I enjoy preparing is stew." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "stew…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Before, it used to be beans.. like if I am making my beans, I take my time …but now it’s stew.. I just enjoy cooking stew.. when I mean stew.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "that’s very nice.. at least.. I know.. looking at you with the things that you have said, I know that you can cook for Africa.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you say make we dey talk about money naw I no just.. nnaa eeh… you too dey talk..." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Money na wetin i need now o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Nna eh.. I no too sabi connection o.. the only thing wey dey there be say make we just dey pray, person wey ride benz, if you no ride \tbenz today naww, tomorrow you go still ride benz naww. you reason am naww." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "the thing be say no time… time no dey again. Reason am naww. how many years you don stay this nonsense school? Person still dey suffer" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "the connection that you are even.. the connection that you are even talking about is still the money itself. Because when you have money, you have connection, do you get it? So what you will be talking about is how to make the money not even the connection because the connection is not the problem. Once you have the connection. Once you get the money, you have the money, you know you have the money. You make good use of the money, you get it? It’s just as if.. make I just put am like say guy you get like 50m for account now, you know say no be this things you go dey talk again" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ah no be.. ah ah.. if you get 50m…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "so na the thing be that o." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "if that kind money dey my account, I go seat down here with you?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok.. you sure say no be this thing na because say God never wan give you money…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no na… ah.. you ma sef reason am. Without woman man no go survive o" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "but sometimes I’m just imagining it.. the type of girls that we are seeing today, I’m just imagining when God say that he that findeth \ta wife, findeth a good thing. and you in the world know that women are not a good thing" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I tell you.. I tell you ..you know what’s up nwanne" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "no be say…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "sha.. everything na prayer" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "if I see, if I even see girl wey I sure say her parents get money.. wetin you want.. wetin you think say I dey wait for?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ah.. the thing be say they scarce.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "They dey hide am say wetin happen?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ah.. make boys no too come naww. You know those kind people, to get boyfriend no dey hard them. As they just do their finger like this… kpam… all the guys wey dey go gather. They go just dey use eye dey take eye look select one wey dem want. No be like guys naww, your papa get money now, you go still dey pursue girl, you go still dey pursue girl.. you pursue this one, you pursue this one… dem go still dey chop you on top. But girls get sense. Guy.. he get the kind mind wey girls get, like the kind mind wey be say dem papa go get \tmoney, they go still dey manage their life. if dem get.. dem go must wan dey with one boyfriend.. like this dem go dey spend money on top \tthe guy. Na why I say if I just meet this kind girl, I don blow o. I don blow be that I no get problem again.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "when they will be praying in tongue, God any man at all. Any man of your choice." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "it was then.. it’s no longer now. A lady can stay comfortable on her..." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok ok let me burst your brain now. Do you know that there is no girl on this earth, no matter how rich you are, without a man you are not comfortable." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you will have that feeling as a human being. let me tell you, it’s just a feeling thing. You are going to have that feeling, it’s a normal thing. It happens- even now.. even as a single girl, at times you would be saying I wish I have a boyfriend. You don’t understand? \tI am just telling you that it’s just with time. If you just have that feeling, it goes.. it is not a temporal kind of situation" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok.. get this now… ok wait.. now let me ask you now, as you are now, you have a comfortable car, you have a comfortable house, you are ok. you eat anything you want…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "if I know that a man will give me headache in the morning… guy, I no dey do. Do you know what I will do? Unto he is a cheat, I will just go to one particular club, I’d look for one fine bobo, get his attention, he will now take me to any one room, I’d tell him don’t use anything.. after that day, nna I’m gone. He will not see my face.. before you know it, I’d be pregnant and have my kid in my house. \tI’d train the person, the person will tell me mother, aunty..ai.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "it’s not.. I don’t agree with you" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Where are you taking me to?.. E say let’s be going first naw. so immediately I noticed that we are going to like eeh.. cos I was really a bit scared and I was trying to be careful. So we now went to the bar. That’s where we stayed o throughout. I said thank God cos had It been .. had it been…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "no naw" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "guy I was saying has it been…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "no naww" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "and from that day sef…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I cannot introduce you to such people naww." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "so I got comfortable" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok you.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "so I made it easier for him" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "he called me that day to come, but I called you, you didn’t pick up. I called you like two times" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I think my phone was on silence" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "no .. he" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "he told me that you were going to come. It was even you we were wating for…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you no get any sharp babe wey…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I no dey talk to any of them o. eeh.. as I be like this, I just dey on my own o. I dey on a low. Na im Anonnymous dey look me \tdey tell me say, these days you just dey on a low. I say no be to dey on a low na im better. You want make I dey …" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah..Anonnymous?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "since first year.. we are not friends again.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "wetin play?<" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "how many friends you don see Anonymous change through out our first year till now…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "wetin happen.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I been get problem, that time with my bank issue for police, person wey be my friend, she no even come visit me. She no even \tsay whats’sup..nothing.. she just.. so, I mark am bad. \tOmo, guy anybody wey no dey with you when you no.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok naw.. the thing just.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "hia..omo what I concluded in my heart was.. anybody who is not with you during very difficult time is not a friend. Cut off that person. That was what I did. Simple. I had a very \tserious police issue in my first year o with my bank account. My first guy, the guy put me \tfor trouble o." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But is she all that rude?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you don go close to am? Go close to am make you know naw." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "so she can give somebody attitude, like …" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no be my kind of person" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "just tell me more about her..just.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "wetin you won know about her? You won toast her?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "so she might be rude with his boyfriend like that or what?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "she is rude with which boyfriend? I don’t know o.. you can’t compare.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "E just get.. e get too many things wey I been don hear about her which.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Anonymous.. who be Anonymous.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I for say. you know say na all those guys dey know gist gist about people for class. I no dey know.. me I no get time, I no won even know. I no won know at all.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ighota.. it’s still the same love, it’s still the same four letter words. You get it. So love is love. Since ome go yandinko \to si no o love. He should also do it \tfor you. Because he loves the girl. He love.. he once love the girl now he loves you very well more than her. You get it? So that’s guys for you. That’s guys for you. Everybody have actually experienced.. many experience.. many… if I start my own eeh,.. you will even run away At a time I was like mtcheew.. guy how far naww.. no date any girl again" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I swear..cos.. I believe in first things first.. first things first.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "nnaeeh.. anything fit play o. anything fit play" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "like wetin" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "no o.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "why im no dey go the poor girl's house. Why im go my own. Im come my house naww" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "... no o .. I don’t like going to girl’s house. For me personally, I don’t know for other guys" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "sincerely, he has problem." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "if anybody joins, I know how far. So that’s just it, that’s just it.. that’s just it, baby.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "na waa o." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "But don’t adjust, because I feel that whenever conflict happens between two people, that’s when you get to know their real character." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Sure. That was what I told you initially." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "It’s very very high." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Now, babe, babe, there is this thing I want to tell you. Emmm… I know. Hmm… I know you are balanced. You are very very balanced, financially and otherwise. Now, I don’t want you, I don’t want you to be showing him that you are ok, like you are ok" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I swear, this idea. It came to me. I don’t know why it came to me o." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "That’s how it just rang into my mind now. And when I like.. when.. when.. when I like you, I tell you things, you get it. Don’t show him that financially, that you are ok. Don’t show him that you can do this, you can do that. No. But be on a neutral" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "When you see that there is no other options again; that is when you can come in. <TS> <P> you get it? ()" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "that you can do things" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you can do things," }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "it’s true" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you can even stay with him, once you have given him that impression, you will see that, once you start staying with him, some sometimes, he will tell you, ah.. he doesn’t have soap again to bath. Like, he doesn’t have cream" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "True" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Let him do the puzzle. If actually he truly loves you and knows where his.. because he has told me so many things, you get it.. I know.. I won’t praise you o.. but let him, himself find out where your weak points are ()" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Not always, because when he.., he now forms it as habit" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah.. yeah.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because there is something I used to tell people, if I should call you on phone, babe how are you?where are you? You tell me, can you come to my house? My problem is not telling me no that you cannot come, my problem is giving me reasons why you shouldn’t want to come. Not you just telling me that you, you don’t want to, that you are not coming, hanging up the call. No… give me the reasons why you shouldn’t come. If I am ok with the reasons that you gave to me, I’d tell you that I am on, that I’m comfortable with the reasons, you get it. So don’t… whenever you are with him, don’t actually show up that you can do this, you can, you know.. especially in monetary aspect.. so that he won’t take advantage of you. I won’t like in a situation where he will now take advantage of you. Maybe you and him will go out after eating, you’d pay for everything. It’s not , it’s not…()" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Please.. I gave that.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You can do it.. not you cannot try it" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Adjust" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "But don’t adjust, because I feel that whenever conflict happens between two people, that’s when you get to know their real character." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Yeah.. ehen.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "It’s very very high." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know oo.. but…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I swear, this idea. It came to me. I don’t know why it came to me o." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Level. You get it?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Yes" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Because, if.. if.. a guy know, when you meet a guy, and he sees that there are some stuff…and you he sees that.. and you start giving him the impression that you can" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "that you can do things" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah, be doing. Yeah, you get it?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "it’s true" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "He might even call you, just.. Hallo, please, I need money, can you send me, can you make transfer… no no no no … you get it? Because I have actually stayed with, I have actually dated so many girls and I know their character and their weak points and never you for now, for now, never you allow him to know where your weak points are. Never tell him your weak point" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "True" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "That he don’t know how he will thank me for you... so let me not go into matters, issues, but please, I’m just begging you, don’t let him, don’t feel too big or that you have this or you have that. You can afford that, you can afford this, whenever you are with him. Even though you have, yeah, keep it up to you. When there is need for you to do it, you can still do it. But don’t do it when he didn’t ask of it. Not that you shouldn’t be surprising him, but it should be at an extent, you know?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "yeah" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "He will be looking up to you to be doing those things and whenever you don’t do it, you will know, he will now know that there is lapses again. There will start be lapses. Even though you can do it, yes, but put it up to him that it’s duty to do it, then when he now gives you the reason why he shouldn’t do it. Even if, even when he tells you that he cannot do it, he should give you reasons why he shouldn’t, he couldn’t do it. You get it?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "yeah.. yeah.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you get it? No… its .. Don’t tell me you can’t try that rubbish.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Please.. I gave that.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Nna eeh… I no reason am that yesterday at all, I swear" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Eeeh. No wahala" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Scared?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ehen naw.." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I was even scared about the chat, you know… like.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you are thinking it was him?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "The girl he was with naw." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok..erm..Anonymous, that should be… is it Anonymous?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "No. He didn’t tell me anything. Just that I went to his house and I saw.. he like texted her that day I sent you a message. So he called her Anonymous, the girl answered, yes. So the way he said Anonymous,.. I was now like ah ah. This is the same girl you really complained very bad about. She really fucked up big time, Because I don hear her her fuck up.. like her fuck ups plenty. You understand. Knowing fully well that, ok you are in love with this person, you shouldn’t be treating him that way. You get it. And the guy don like try, Like he don spend enough on her. And still yet. But I still don’t like, get the chemistry o." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because, even the girl in particular once insulted the mum in the presence.. I was there. You know, the girl in particular insulted him, insulted the mum very well, like.. mtceew…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I have asked him. It’s just that he said, yes, he accepts that he has nothing to do with her. But.. just that yes. He really got used to her. You understand" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Because I knew very well that he has left the girl for a very long ago and he .. for so many times I have gone out with him, he doesn’t like you talking about the girl. Ok. so but I don’t know. This one that you are telling me that he called her on phone." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Eerh. He told me about that." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Ok he told you all these things. Have you seen it? I don’t know. He changed sim because of her. When you told me that.. I felt that maybe he got with contact with the girl again. That is just it. So are you afraid or what? Tell me or what?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I said I am not scared , I just really want to be sure of whatever I am getting myself into and don’t know. The way is just about marriage and all." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "You say what?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know. It is getting serious. So I don’t know. Like at least whatever I want to do, I just want God to be part of it. You understand. I just really want God to do the final say. I don’t want to just do things outside God’s plan. You understand. So I’m just.. if he is mine, fine, he should be mine. But if he is not, I don’t know what the future holds. Like, I can’t say. Nobody knows what tomorrow would be and all. Although we are still getting to know each other, I know. And I don’t know…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you know, sometimes,.. hmm… the only thing I have to tell you about him is just that.. I’m not here to praise him, nobody is perfect, but at least, I want you, number one to get used to him very well., give him, test him several times. Give him test. Try him so many times. And you yourself know the type of person you want in your life. I don’t know for you, you get it. I knows the type of person I want. Him too knows the type of person he wants. Ok. if actually you can give him… just try him maybe two or three times. Number one, just try making him, imagine, making him angry to see how angered he can be and to know his mood whenever he is angry. You get it? Because sometimes you might stay with him and he might be pretending… you know, not giving you his real behaviour." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you haven’t heard of toothpick in this department or why not?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I don’t know. Maybe I’m just the type that… many people don’t know me. I don’t know much people. And much people don’t know me" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you don’t know why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "but do you know me before?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah.. but I know your face. Like I don’t know your name. but I know that I have been seeing your face of late." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I love the name and you look like a Anonymous. You look like a Anonymous. So where are you from?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "What part?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "why?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I want to know naw" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok.. I’m from Anonymous" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "is it inside Anonymous?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "we have a common boundary" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "and I pass it when I’m coming to school" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "and you look like a queen" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "thank you" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "ok. yeah. Do you come for basic acting skills?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no. it’s in first year too." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "do you stay off camp? Do you stay off camp?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "no.. I don’t stay off camp. I stay in the hostel" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t even.. I don’t like. .. I don’t visit girls hostel often." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "I see" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you know, since you came, I have been keeping quite" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "eh…" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "you want to buy what?" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "pen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I’d be waiting for you" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you haven’t heard of toothpick in this department or why not?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "I don’t know why…" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "you don’t know why?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "but you don’t just know me" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "yeah.. but I know your face. Like I don’t know your name. but I know that I have been seeing your face of late." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Anonymous" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Anonymous, Anonymous..." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Enugu State." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Enugu State? What part?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Anonymous" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Anonymous, that’s very fine. I’m from Enugu State also" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "why?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok.. I’m from Anonymous" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yeah I know it" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "we have a common boundary" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "it depends.." } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "and you look like a queen" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "PPO..no it’s in first year" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "ok. yeah. Do you come for basic acting skills?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Dramography" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "Dramography. Ok you did dance drama in .." }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "yes" } ]
[ { "role": "user", "content": "do you stay off camp? Do you stay off camp?" }, { "role": "assistant", "content": "Anonymous" } ]