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Healing-Heart | 2024-05-16 18:37:49 | 1,715,884,669 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ctk5qc | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ctk5qc/question_about_a_cold_approachrequest_for_contact/ | 1 | Long story short, I am new to dating at 43 at end of my marriage of 6 years. I don't have much experience with dating and there is a lot of good and bad information out there. I haven't really dove into the dating scene other than trying tinder, and FB dating for a few weeks but didn't like it - it seemed women are inu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Question about a cold approach/request for contact info at your place of work | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ctk5qc/question_about_a_cold_approachrequest_for_contact/ |
moonfaceee | 2022-11-27 02:58:59 | 1,669,517,939 | null | null | 0 | z5ppsu | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z5ppsu/theyre_still_using_dating_apps/ | 0 | Copy and pasted because I assume yall have some advice for me too I joined an international dating app and ended up chatting to a guy from the other side of the world. We've been chatting for over 2 months and have video called each other 5-6 times for approx two hours each time. He says he likes me and we have plans t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | They're still using dating apps 🤔 | null | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z5ppsu/theyre_still_using_dating_apps/ |
flowerpow11 | 2022-01-26 08:09:28 | 1,643,184,568 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sd0xn5 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sd0xn5/am_i_being_picky_or_what/ | 4 | So I’ve found that with trying to date on Hinge there has been something wrong with every guys I’ve talked to. Either we plan a date and he ghosts me or he doesn’t seem to get my jokes or he makes a sexual comment about my body or we just don’t click and seems to only want a hookup. All of those things I’ve mentioned I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being picky or what | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sd0xn5/am_i_being_picky_or_what/ |
overratedredundance | 2022-02-15 03:05:20 | 1,644,894,320 | null | null | 0 | sssrqm | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sssrqm/whats_yalls_best_conversation_starters/ | 4 | For some reason I always end up matching with the really dry guys and I have to try and carry the conversation but it's hard when I'm the only one putting in the effort. So I'm reaching out to y'all in a desperate attempt to find a way to make interesting conversations with dry men. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's y'alls best conversation starters? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sssrqm/whats_yalls_best_conversation_starters/ |
PinkDove2020 | 2020-12-05 04:56:04 | 1,607,144,164 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k71f6k | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k71f6k/should_i_go_to_his_place_on_the_second_date/ | 12 | I met a guy from Tinder last week. We went out to eat and had a good kiss after. Since we are in a pandemic, everything is closed. He invited me to his place this weekend but I don’t feel comfortable with that. But everything is closed so what the heck can we do???????? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I go to his place on the second date? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k71f6k/should_i_go_to_his_place_on_the_second_date/ |
MysticCherryBlossom | 2021-09-17 17:50:42 | 1,631,901,042 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | pq52vo | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pq52vo/am_i_really_asking_too_much/ | 1 | I think I know the answer, but just for confirmation on what I already know to be true. I am a single woman who recently moved to a huge city by herself. Never really lived alone, and I don't have any family or friends here. I jumped on a dating app a couple of weeks before arriving in order to meet people and get a se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I really asking too much? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pq52vo/am_i_really_asking_too_much/ |
ItsBrittanyYall | 2023-03-02 14:54:45 | 1,677,768,885 | null | null | 0 | 11g4pps | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11g4pps/would_you_date_an_automotive_mechanic/ | 0 | If so, why would you? And if not, why not? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you date an Automotive Mechanic? | null | 0.27 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11g4pps/would_you_date_an_automotive_mechanic/ |
Mossmaster | 2019-09-15 22:28:51 | 1,568,586,531 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | d4rotm | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d4rotm/how_can_i_respectfully_seek_a_partner_with_ptsd/ | 1 | I suffer from these conditions, and finding someone who shares the daily struggles and understands seems logical and healthy in my situation. I would feel inadequate with a "normie", and I understand how my symptoms would generally be found unnattractive to well-adjusted citizens. On the other hand, I find females who ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I respectfully seek a partner with PTSD / social anxiety / mental illness? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d4rotm/how_can_i_respectfully_seek_a_partner_with_ptsd/ |
Cry0pe | 2022-05-20 18:25:56 | 1,653,071,156 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | uu4el3 | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uu4el3/can_we_let_the_20_of_men_get_80_of_women_thing_die/ | 0 | Yes, it's true. It's true for sex, dating, OLD, EVERYTHING. It's the Pareto principle, an economic principle that states that 80% of the consequences come from 20% of causes. It is true for pretty much everything, land ownership, wealth distribution, food consumption, productivity, everything. The deck is no more stack... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can we let the 20% of men get 80% of women thing die? | null | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uu4el3/can_we_let_the_20_of_men_get_80_of_women_thing_die/ |
Sinagiirl | 2024-07-18 12:38:54 | 1,721,306,334 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e6aeef | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e6aeef/feel_so_hopeless_when_it_comes_to_meeting_my/ | 8 | I think Im giving up on dating …. Dating apps suck ! I feel hopeless when it comes to finding my person anymore … I go to work come home , go for hikes , things like that . I don’t really like going out , I feel like a night out is not a place where im going to find my person anyways .. I’ve literally just given up .. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feel so hopeless when it comes to meeting my person | 8 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e6aeef/feel_so_hopeless_when_it_comes_to_meeting_my/ |
braveball270 | 2021-03-28 02:34:28 | 1,616,898,868 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mesomc | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mesomc/does_cold_approaching_girls_actually_work_like_in/ | 1 | Of late, I've been watching a lot of AngryPicnic videos (e.g. ). My question is, has anyone actually tried a similar approach, and does this work ? I'm considering cold approaching a few girls on campus in a similar way, as I truly believe dating apps suck. Cheers! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does cold approaching girls actually work (like in Youtube Channels such as AngryPicnic)? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mesomc/does_cold_approaching_girls_actually_work_like_in/ |
[deleted] | 2022-01-01 01:09:30 | 1,640,999,370 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | rt7z9i | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rt7z9i/am_i_wrong_for_trying_to_date_15_months_after_a/ | 2 | I recently went through my first relationship and breakup. After 2 years she broke up with me and it was tough the first week but, I used the pain to motivate myself to be productive and work on achieving my career dreams. The last 3 months were essentially a long-distance relationship while living in the same city. We... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I Wrong for Trying to Date 1.5 Months After A Breakup? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rt7z9i/am_i_wrong_for_trying_to_date_15_months_after_a/ |
ttgirl520 | 2024-02-29 13:12:40 | 1,709,212,360 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b3001g | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b3001g/should_i_let_him_go_or_give_him_one_more_try/ | 1 | I(33F) met this Dutch guy(30M) on a dating app last August. We're both looking for something serious(AKA 'the one') Last October, we dated twice and clicked instantly. After that, I left his country. We decided to delete our dating apps and date each other exclusively(not a relationship) 2 months ago. Fast forward to n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I let him go, or give him one more try :'(? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b3001g/should_i_let_him_go_or_give_him_one_more_try/ |
lostgirlthrowawayact | 2017-09-25 04:35:26 | 1,506,314,126 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 72a8jn | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/72a8jn/lost_again/ | 6 | Sorry, if this is the wrong place to post this, and sorry to anyone who reads this cringy, sad, pity party that I'm about to write... I'm about to turn 26, and I've never felt more depressed. I've always been ridiculously introverted and awkward, I've always had very few friends, and most of them were toxic, I've never... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Lost, again | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/72a8jn/lost_again/ |
restrik | 2012-11-05 13:18:26 | 1,352,121,506 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12nyro | null | null | 38 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/12nyro/27m_am_i_a_catch_aka_how_to_find_interesting/ | 5 | First... Back story/a bit about me. I'm a geek, straight up geek, but not a "neckbeard". I've got a good job at a large, well known, tech company, make a decent bit of money, I've owned my own house and (non-beater) car since I was 23. I'm 6'1 and yeah...I do have a bit of a belly weighing in currently at 220...and I k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27M. Am I a "catch" aka how to find interesting worth-while women not in the bar/club scene | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12nyro/27m_am_i_a_catch_aka_how_to_find_interesting/ |
BlinkerFive0 | 2022-08-28 15:48:57 | 1,661,701,737 | null | null | 0 | wzymyj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wzymyj/i_have_a_great_idea/ | 0 | Bag and Barrel dates Could be the next best thing in this post Covid Era Rather than cold texts, forced phone calls, and weird video chats...Bag and Barrel dates You simply put a paper bag on your head to keep your identity secret until the big reveal , and then wear a rain barrel to conceal your body as well This way.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I have a great idea | null | 0.13 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wzymyj/i_have_a_great_idea/ |
sleepwithmythoughts | 2021-08-27 00:07:31 | 1,630,022,851 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | pcbvtf | true | Question | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pcbvtf/unvaccinated_people/ | 2 | This is not meant to be a political post whatsoever. I’m just curious, if you’re fully vaccinated, would you kiss an unvaccinated person? Talking to a guy from a dating app and can’t decide what to do if it gets that far. I’m fully vaccinated but have health issues so I’m still really afraid of covid. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Unvaccinated people | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pcbvtf/unvaccinated_people/ |
OkMention2960 | 2024-01-17 06:19:00 | 1,705,472,340 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 198pv5w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/198pv5w/swiped_right_on_a_coworker/ | 2 | Title pretty much says it all. I've recently gotten back on dating apps. I was pleasantly surprised to see a cute coworker show up in my feed and impulsively swiped right. They haven't picked me, yet, but I know that could be for any reason. Thankfully, they're not a super close coworker. They just work on the same flo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Swiped Right on a Coworker | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/198pv5w/swiped_right_on_a_coworker/ |
rtaisoaa | 2016-02-11 01:10:38 | 1,455,153,038 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 45678s | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/45678s/reconnecting_through_tinder_unsure_when_to_take/ | 3 | I've recently reconnected with a 20-something (I think!) former coworker of mine through Tinder. Most importantly, I don't work there anymore so "Crapping where [I] eat" isn't an issue anymore. He messaged me but I'd like to ask him out, if nothing more than to catch up over a drink but I'm nervous. His schedule and my... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reconnecting through Tinder, unsure when to take the next step? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/45678s/reconnecting_through_tinder_unsure_when_to_take/ |
packethandler | 2021-11-12 17:55:14 | 1,636,739,714 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qsgsiz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qsgsiz/best_way_to_date_a_girl_for_a_ltr_in_a_new_city/ | 1 | What is the best way to date girls for a possible Long Term Relationship in a new place/city? I will list some options with pros and cons, please give your opinions. I’m in Toronto, btw. 1. Cold Approach -Pros: many options -Cons: might be creepy for many girls, short convos lead to almost always ghosting, difficult du... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best way to date a girl for a LTR in a new city? (M29) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qsgsiz/best_way_to_date_a_girl_for_a_ltr_in_a_new_city/ |
fvckspeak | 2023-03-09 18:21:58 | 1,678,386,118 | null | null | 0 | 11mzifj | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11mzifj/need_an_update_from_the_op_that_lied_to_his_wife/ | 1 | are you going through divorce proceedings or what? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | need an update from the OP that lied to his wife about his height | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11mzifj/need_an_update_from_the_op_that_lied_to_his_wife/ |
Psychological-Ice-59 | 2022-05-16 02:54:14 | 1,652,669,654 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | uqm0zx | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uqm0zx/how_to_stop_falling_for_people_quickly/ | 1 | Hey guys, recently I’ve found that I’ve been blindly falling for people. I haven’t had bad experiences yet, but I’m worried that I’m not skeptical enough. Recently, My university crush liked me on hinge and we have been chatting very frequently. We are both professionals now and I’d love for things to workout. But, I d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to stop falling for people quickly | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uqm0zx/how_to_stop_falling_for_people_quickly/ |
picapica-Serpentes | 2023-10-31 00:56:49 | 1,698,713,809 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17k8uyw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17k8uyw/should_i_ask_if_she_got_my_text/ | 1 | I've been chatting with a girl on a dating app for a about two weeks now and she asked to transition to text. She texted me continuing our conversation, and I continued back, but it's been over 30 hours now and she hasn't gotten back to it. We're both on Android and it sent as a "text" bubble instead of a "message" (gr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask if she got my text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17k8uyw/should_i_ask_if_she_got_my_text/ |
bigbbypddingsnatchr | 2022-12-10 22:55:59 | 1,670,712,959 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | zi6cey | true | Seeking Advice | 190 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zi6cey/what_are_you_looking_for/ | 59 | I do not understand this question. Men ask me all the time on dating sites. Does this imply they are just looking for casual and weeding out people who are looking for serious? I am looking for something more serious. What are good ways to answer this question honestly without scaring people away? It seems when I answe... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | "What are you looking for?" | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zi6cey/what_are_you_looking_for/ |
PotentialFriend8 | 2021-12-19 19:56:40 | 1,639,943,800 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | rk4c53 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rk4c53/should_i_tell_her_the_text_conversation_is_all/ | 2 | Been texting this girl I matched with on hinge all week. Haven’t met yet cause she’s visiting family. Right from the beginning I noticed there wasn’t any true dialogue. I’d ask all the questions and she won’t ask me any until I just give her like a sentence with which you can’t really say much to. And she’d ask me what... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell her the text conversation is all about her or just let this one go | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rk4c53/should_i_tell_her_the_text_conversation_is_all/ |
Narrow_Letterhead804 | 2022-09-25 20:28:57 | 1,664,137,737 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | xny4l5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xny4l5/casual_hook_up_advise_please/ | 1 | I like him more than I expected to but I know he’s not looking for anything more. I was new to online dating and he was one of the first guys I matched with. We were both just looking for a hook up, he made it clear that he was not wanting anything serious. I would go to his place and it was just about sex. The thing I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Casual Hook Up Advise Please! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xny4l5/casual_hook_up_advise_please/ |
evilabed24 | 2022-09-10 12:43:20 | 1,662,813,800 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | xaohee | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xaohee/m30_not_a_hugely_experienced_dater_never_got_to/ | 2 | All have escalated in physical contact, made of almost like teenagers at the end of our 3rd date last night. Haven't heard from her today, did txt last night and I'm probably just over thinking it. Are there any rules for 4th dates? I'm moving very soon, is inviting her over for dinner scream too much "let's fuck"? Bec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M30, not a hugely experienced dater (never got to the point of wanting to introduce someone to family and friends), have been on 3 great dates with F31 (met on OLD). | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xaohee/m30_not_a_hugely_experienced_dater_never_got_to/ |
anonymousparrot3 | 2023-12-10 21:21:34 | 1,702,243,294 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18fdqkk | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18fdqkk/unsure_of_my_response_to_her/ | 3 | Messaging a woman on bumble and we seem to be having a good back and forth conversation. She has a kid and I’ve never dated someone with children, but I’m fine with that. She brought up the question but I’m unsure with my response because looking back on it, I feel like I’ve made it sound like “no guy is going to want ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure of my response to her | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fdqkk/unsure_of_my_response_to_her/ |
beyikes | 2021-06-05 00:07:18 | 1,622,851,638 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nsj4qw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nsj4qw/should_i_run/ | 1 | I (28F) “met” someone new (37M) on a dating app about 7 weeks ago, went on our first date 5 weeks ago. He’s older than me, recently divorced, and I just got out of a long term relationship myself 4 months ago. We hit it off immediately; our connection was and is completely undeniable. We both learned a lot in our last ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I run? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nsj4qw/should_i_run/ |
Leosandwhices | 2022-03-10 22:27:22 | 1,646,951,242 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | tbar1h | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tbar1h/what_does_this_even_mean/ | 1 | Hello I am a 22 year old pansexual female. So when I'm interested in someone on online dating usually after we talk for a bit I ask them what they are looking for just to make sure we are compatible. I've had many people respond with something along the lines of "I would like to get to know you first, if it leads to so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does this even mean? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tbar1h/what_does_this_even_mean/ |
jifyyfy | 2017-06-19 11:03:23 | 1,497,870,203 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6i5p1g | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6i5p1g/should_i_ask_her_out_again/ | 1 | Met a girl on tinder and got her number and moved the chat to texting after a couple of days. I asked her out and she said she'd love to however next weekened would be better so i said no problem that works for me too. The thing is, we rarely talk (maybe takes a couple of days to get a response) but she acknowledged sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should i ask her out again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6i5p1g/should_i_ask_her_out_again/ |
RemovingUncle21 | 2016-02-20 19:50:03 | 1,455,997,803 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 46rn5e | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/46rn5e/i_though_the_date_went_well_she_didnt/ | 1 | I [24M] met a nice girl [22F] on Tinder last week, though I don't hold much stock in Tinder. I got her number and we texted all week, and we seemed to get a long very well. So We decided to meet for drinks on Friday, it just so happened to be my birthday too. I haven't been on a date like this in a while so I was nervo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I though the date went well, she didn't. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/46rn5e/i_though_the_date_went_well_she_didnt/ |
Lucysherman514 | 2023-08-14 04:01:28 | 1,691,985,688 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15qjolc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15qjolc/did_you_meet_your_long_term_partner_on_a_dating/ | 1 | I’ve been thinking: if dating apps are for-profit (which most are), then they’re designed to first, get you to pay for the features on the app, and then second, keep you paying for those features as long as possible. And therefore, stay single. So…do people in 2023 meet their long term partners on an app? And if so whi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did you meet your long term partner on a dating app? And which one? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15qjolc/did_you_meet_your_long_term_partner_on_a_dating/ |
Extension_Mastodon_2 | 2022-06-22 21:42:30 | 1,655,934,150 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vigb6f | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vigb6f/dating_app_rotation/ | 1 | Does anyone have any advice on what dating apps to rotate through? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating App Rotation | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vigb6f/dating_app_rotation/ |
RandomAmericanGirl | 2016-11-27 02:48:57 | 1,480,214,937 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5f36yh | null | null | 25 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5f36yh/divorced_and_dating/ | 9 | I'm new to online dating and this dating world is all very new to me. I was with my ex for 14 years, we divorced this year. I'm 34 now. Maybe it's being naive but I don't understand how people can be so cruel when dating. This summer I met someone and we were together for over three months. Not a serious relationship b... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Divorced and Dating | 9 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5f36yh/divorced_and_dating/ |
Pretzel_of_Truth | 2023-09-15 00:08:14 | 1,694,736,494 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16iya6g | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16iya6g/how_to_be_more_approachable_as_a_guy_in_college/ | 1 | I’m a pretty late bloomer (24m) and have only seriously entertained the idea of relationships since earlier this year and looking through / reading all the advice on Reddit and other sites leads me to believe that the dating scene is a complete dumpster fire which has made me really picky with the kinds of people I’m o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to be more approachable as a guy in college just getting into the scene? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16iya6g/how_to_be_more_approachable_as_a_guy_in_college/ |
Waterproofbooks | 2023-01-28 18:19:02 | 1,674,929,942 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10nlmgj | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10nlmgj/new_to_online_dating_and_need_some_advice/ | 1 | So I just got out of a 7 year relationship a few months ago, and decided to try dating apps, but so far it has NOT been going well. I was looking for some general advice about: 1. What dating app seems to get the best results? 2. What are some red flags to look for…as an example, I had this guy ask for my after just a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to online dating and need some advice | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10nlmgj/new_to_online_dating_and_need_some_advice/ |
mentholcigs | 2023-07-20 16:38:53 | 1,689,871,133 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 154w1ij | false | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/154w1ij/he_isnt_able_to_romantically_bond_with_me_because/ | 1 | So we've been talking for a while now and it really seemed to get serious. I even began trusting him even tho I've got an emotional trauma about that from my ex. And suddenly be realised that since I'm on a dating app I could have had sex without romantic feelings being involved and that he can't bond with someone who ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He isn't able to romantically bond with me because I had one night stands before him. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/154w1ij/he_isnt_able_to_romantically_bond_with_me_because/ |
TheLurker007 | 2024-06-02 16:46:06 | 1,717,346,766 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d6hi6o | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d6hi6o/when_is_it_ok_to_ask_what_are_you_looking_for_and/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to this guy 34M for 3 weeks and we are planning our second date next week. Is it too soon to ask the above questions. I don’t want to scare away the guy but at the same time I don’t want to waste my time if he doesn’t see any potential. I also get maybe it is a bit too early to see if there is any pot... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When is it ok to ask “what are you looking for?” and “can you see a potential with us?” | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d6hi6o/when_is_it_ok_to_ask_what_are_you_looking_for_and/ |
Step-It | 2023-10-21 00:10:28 | 1,697,847,028 | 0 | null | 0 | 17cpj6x | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17cpj6x/would_you_do_anything_else_here/ | 1 | A woman gave me her number on Hinge without me asking for it. I thought that was a good sign. We spoke for two days, the conversation seemed to flow well, I tried to set up a date. She kind of danced around the subject of getting together a little bit (focusing on the venue, not really addressing my question of when sh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would You Do Anything Else Here? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17cpj6x/would_you_do_anything_else_here/ |
ZiiBones | 2021-06-02 05:52:02 | 1,622,613,122 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | nqeomj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nqeomj/cant_keep_crushs_attentionat_all/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to a guy I found on Hinge. I seriously like him 😍 just from the moments where we did talk plus knowing other info about him like his interests. He’s never seen me which is why he’s still bothering with me...since I’m ugly. He seems like a busy/active guy who is always doing something sporty which I l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Cant Keep Crush’s Attention...At All | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nqeomj/cant_keep_crushs_attentionat_all/ |
l008com | 2024-07-11 20:56:58 | 1,720,731,418 | 0 | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1e0zhyq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e0zhyq/online_dating_in_massachusetts/ | 2 | Ladies of the greater Boston area, what dating app or apps do you use? I use many of the common ones and I'm literally running out of people. The people I'm being shown are further and further away. New Hampshire, Rhode Island, Connecticut . Even New Jersey lately. Meanwhile I'm over here right in the Boston suburbs, a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating in Massachusetts | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e0zhyq/online_dating_in_massachusetts/ |
Quickbike3 | 2022-03-06 08:07:20 | 1,646,554,040 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | t7u5zb | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t7u5zb/ghosted/ | 1 | Marched with a woman online way back in early December. She liked my photo on hinge and itiated the chat. We exchanged introductions, the she disappeared for like 3 weeks. No big deal I thought, obviously most matches dont work out. But then she reappeared 3 weeks later and asked me out for drinks, and I agreed. She ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t7u5zb/ghosted/ |
Ealeo-Solice | 2022-03-29 06:13:43 | 1,648,534,423 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | tqtal7 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tqtal7/crush_is_very_confusing/ | 2 | Long Background (for more detail, check out my last post if you want): Me: M22 Her: F21 (I’m pretty sure, clearly don’t know her well enough yet — I know she’s a year below me in school). Had never really talked prior to this school year. All previous encounters were awkward. At a few campus events this year though, sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Crush is very confusing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tqtal7/crush_is_very_confusing/ |
vakarianns | 2019-07-13 03:34:00 | 1,562,988,840 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cckpib | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cckpib/am_i_overthinking_or_just_uninterested/ | 1 | I (22F) went on a date a few nights ago with a boy (22M) I met on a dating app. We talked for about two weeks before meeting, and I was excited to see him. We have a lot in common, and he is very much my “type”. The date went well, and we ended up talking for hours. He was funny, smart, and cuter in person. The date en... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overthinking, or just uninterested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cckpib/am_i_overthinking_or_just_uninterested/ |
yoiwantin | 2019-09-10 01:06:41 | 1,568,077,601 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | d20bdx | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d20bdx/im_extremely_confused_where_im_at_with_this_girl/ | 2 | I'll try to keep this short and sweet \- We met on bumble at first \- Seen eachother 3 times now, made out each time \- we talk nearly all the time over text \- none of us have used the L word but we have made it clear that we really really like eachother \- seriously, I get pictures of her dog every 20 mins and detail... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm extremely confused where I'm at with this girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d20bdx/im_extremely_confused_where_im_at_with_this_girl/ |
Azertyuiop9090 | 2022-04-27 20:49:55 | 1,651,092,595 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | uddixq | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uddixq/girl_wanting_to_take_it_slow/ | 3 | I [m28] came out of 5 year relationship 6 months ago and the girl [F28] I met through bumble has been single for 3 years. In the past 25 days we have been on 6 dates so far. (She asked me out on the first date) All dates so far went perfect! We can talk non stop, we flirt, no awkward moments whatsoever. There is seriou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl wanting to take it slow | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uddixq/girl_wanting_to_take_it_slow/ |
West_Bumblebee_3095 | 2023-10-09 03:32:52 | 1,696,822,372 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 173i40z | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/173i40z/28f_needs_dating_advice/ | 1 | I’m a 28 year old woman and I have never been in a relationship before. I didn’t date for a long time because I was dealing with some serious mental health issues and low self esteem. I also struggled with suicidal thoughts often. My parents were worried that I was going to fall prey to an abuser because my self esteem... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28F Needs Dating Advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/173i40z/28f_needs_dating_advice/ |
Wonderment55 | 2022-07-14 14:35:06 | 1,657,809,306 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | vyxd79 | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/vyxd79/just_for_chuckles_required_old_signage/ | 29 | I think all OLD is garbage. OLD is panning for gold in a sewer. Signage outside OLD should read - Abandon Hope All Ye Who Enter Here. You'll find the same signage at the entrance to Hell. haha | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Just for Chuckles - Required OLD Signage | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/vyxd79/just_for_chuckles_required_old_signage/ |
UnusualJello | 2019-07-15 03:55:37 | 1,563,162,937 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | cdcl2f | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cdcl2f/i28f_have_been_seeing_a_great_guy_37_for_a_little/ | 2 | I met a guy on bumble. I am a painfully shy person and really had to force myself to meet a stranger. The date went surprisingly well. We talked everyday nonstop and even talked on the phone every now and then. We went out about 5 more times always had a great time and always texted in between. Thursday we were talking... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(28F) have been seeing a great guy (37) for a little bit now and think I am getting ghosted out of the blue? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cdcl2f/i28f_have_been_seeing_a_great_guy_37_for_a_little/ |
Outside-Marsupial630 | 2024-09-17 01:07:40 | 1,726,535,260 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1filpus | true | Question ❓ | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1filpus/dating_a_stuttering_person/ | 7 | Hi there as the title says, I am a person who has stuttered from a very young age. This year, I made a profile on Tinder, looking to date and meet people. Many times, after the first date, they ghosted me completely, while other women didnt. Important: I always made it clear before the date that I stuttered, even thoug... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating a stuttering person | 7 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1filpus/dating_a_stuttering_person/ |
secret_leaves | 2020-10-31 18:27:38 | 1,604,168,858 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | jlnf8k | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jlnf8k/abroad_alone/ | 1 | Since I've been using dating apps with very poor results, and I'm abroad and alone, with non-solid social connections, how would you try to find a date in a situation like this? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Abroad alone | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jlnf8k/abroad_alone/ |
positivly_negitive | 2023-08-10 17:47:09 | 1,691,689,629 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 15nj6ps | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15nj6ps/how_do_i_meet_people/ | 1 | I'm a (22M) I'm having trouble meeting people, dating sites and apps cost too much for me and I don't have people in my life that can help me meet others. Everything is online dating that doesn't lead anywhere for me. I'm not bad looking and I've been told that I have a great personality but I'm still pretty lonely. I'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I meet people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15nj6ps/how_do_i_meet_people/ |
Prestigious-Girl | 2024-08-09 11:54:38 | 1,723,204,478 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1enxqsp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1enxqsp/how_to_date_as_a_romantic_in_a_hookup_culture_27f/ | 0 | I'm a 27F (European) who's never been in a relationship and, embarrassingly, is still a virgin. I get plenty of attention from men, even really attractive ones that most people would swoon over. But I'm a strong opponent of hookup culture. I’m just not interested in sleeping with someone I’ve only met three times. Unfo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to date as a romantic in a hookup culture? (27F) | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1enxqsp/how_to_date_as_a_romantic_in_a_hookup_culture_27f/ |
Ok_throwaway6 | 2024-06-04 20:01:26 | 1,717,531,286 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d86kt0 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d86kt0/which_are_the_best_dating_apps_for_specific/ | 1 | Is there any app where you can filter things like facial hair and weight? I just really like bigger men with beards and it's hard trawling through the apps. I know I shouldn't just be going by physical appearance but that is just my preference | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which are the best dating apps for specific physical traits such as beards and weight? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d86kt0/which_are_the_best_dating_apps_for_specific/ |
Zandalor1 | 2024-05-23 22:24:05 | 1,716,503,045 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cz5ik4 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cz5ik4/sexvz_entry_code/ | 1 | 09062fb8844f | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | sexVZ Entry Code | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cz5ik4/sexvz_entry_code/ |
uprightcerebralyacht | 2019-03-23 15:04:29 | 1,553,353,469 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | b4k483 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b4k483/joining_eharmony_advice/ | 4 | The other day I decided to join eHarmony. Mostly due to the fact that my father found his wife (not my mother) on there and he's the most miserable man I know. And if he can do it then there is hope for me. So far none of my messages have been read and no one has initiated first contact. I'm looking for advice on what ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Joining eHarmony. Advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b4k483/joining_eharmony_advice/ |
Sayko232 | 2021-05-02 13:02:48 | 1,619,960,568 | null | null | 0 | n35z6x | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n35z6x/is_online_dating_viable_for_short_men/ | 31 | Hey guys, I'm 19M and a very short guy (5'3) in the UK. I've had a couple dating apps over a week and not really properly set up. Height has become a very important trait today, I feel like I'd be purely wasting my time on dating apps. What do you think? Any advice on the matter? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is online dating viable for short men? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n35z6x/is_online_dating_viable_for_short_men/ |
princeton_cuppa | 2015-10-08 15:40:10 | 1,444,318,810 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 3nzfc4 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/3nzfc4/what_are_some_good_dating_websites_out_there_for/ | 6 | not casuals or short terms etc but some place online where participants are more serious. And yes, offline the meetup.com and local farmer markets are good but I am talking online. I saw some sites like eharmony or zoosk but both are not free and rather charge a lot. Which is fine if they yield results .. well do they ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some good dating websites out there For serious long term relationships/marriage? | 6 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3nzfc4/what_are_some_good_dating_websites_out_there_for/ |
al95eng | 2019-07-29 14:41:51 | 1,564,411,311 | null | null | 0 | cjc4tx | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cjc4tx/should_i_take_a_break/ | 8 | I've been on a bunch of apps/sites since April, when I finally decided to jump into the whole dating thing (very late). I had a grand total of two dates. The first one didn't go anywhere, we mutually decided to break it off. The second one I thought was a good date, like we had potential, but I felt she was purposely t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I take a break? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cjc4tx/should_i_take_a_break/ |
Sad-as-hell | 2021-07-16 23:52:21 | 1,626,479,541 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | olt4rw | true | null | 100 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/olt4rw/how_to_chill_and_slow_down_while_dating_in_my_30s/ | 206 | I'm a 33 y.o. female. I've been online dating, and have been getting attached with a lot of the guys I communicate with. I start thinking about them all day, and the thought of them chatting with other girls really bothers me (Which it shouldn't, especially since its initial and I chat with multiple guys). I've met a f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to chill and slow down while dating in my 30's | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/olt4rw/how_to_chill_and_slow_down_while_dating_in_my_30s/ |
iamaceluno | 2021-09-14 05:26:35 | 1,631,597,195 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | pnwm12 | true | Question | 87 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pnwm12/why_do_people_say_height_doesnt_matter_for_guys/ | 6 | I’ve had many people tell me that height doesn’t matter but I think that isn’t true. I’m a short guy (5’5) and I’ve found it near impossible for women to even take me seriously. People tell me personality matters the most but I have seen girls put up tape at 6 feet on their dorm room doors to prevent any guy below 6 fe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do people say height doesn’t matter for guys? | null | 0.59 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pnwm12/why_do_people_say_height_doesnt_matter_for_guys/ |
Low_Presentation_500 | 2024-06-03 17:40:35 | 1,717,436,435 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d7afa8 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d7afa8/two_great_dates_but_not_interested_afterwards/ | 1 | Need some advice here because I am really confused. Met this guy on Hinge and went on a first date. We had a good time and booked a second, longer date for the following week. Went on the second date (which lasted 5+ hours) and it ended with him saying he would invite me over but his place was so messy, but what about ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Two great dates but not interested afterwards? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d7afa8/two_great_dates_but_not_interested_afterwards/ |
ladyparanoia | 2021-02-19 05:15:06 | 1,613,711,706 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | ln7l9r | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ln7l9r/how_to_get_back_into_dating_after_6_long_years/ | 3 | Hello I (24F) want to get back into the dating game and look for something serious but I'm not sure how to do it exactly, especially with COVID meeting people is harder than ever. I've tried Bumble, tinder and Okcupid but I've had no luck there, mostly conversations that go nowhere or lean towards a one night thing. I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get back into dating after 6 long years | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ln7l9r/how_to_get_back_into_dating_after_6_long_years/ |
awhitej29 | 2021-03-24 01:42:26 | 1,616,550,146 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | mbuhfk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mbuhfk/when_to_ask_someone_out_over_online_dating/ | 1 | So I (20M) use tinder and bumble--admittedly to little avail--but I've recently matched with a girl that I think I'd like to meet in person. She goes to my uni so getting to each other isn't much work, and we're constantly tested for COVID so I'm not concerned about being in close quarters with a stranger in that regar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to ask someone out over online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mbuhfk/when_to_ask_someone_out_over_online_dating/ |
itsamiraa | 2024-02-09 10:50:46 | 1,707,475,846 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1amlhie | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1amlhie/how_do_i_go_about_this/ | 1 | Im 20F and he’s a 21M [Backstory] Meet on Tinder about a year ago, only have been texting since now even though we live about 40 mins away from each other. We have been on and off but usually either one of us will text the other to see how we’re doing and whatnot. Recently he had told me this “I still care for you, eve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How Do I Go About This ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1amlhie/how_do_i_go_about_this/ |
trinnybaxter | 2024-09-17 21:07:24 | 1,726,607,244 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fjawld | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fjawld/boomerang/ | 1 | 33F in HCOL big city, dating on Hinge and bumble for the last 1.5 years. Last year I met a guy that I immediately thought was special. We really clicked and we were into each other and had four amazing dates. All of a sudden, he pulled back and started the slow ghost. I kept following up for an until he said that he wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Boomerang 🪃 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjawld/boomerang/ |
Slightly-Evil-Man | 2023-09-10 01:37:52 | 1,694,309,872 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16en99q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16en99q/question/ | 1 | As much as I hate to do it, I'll probably have to redownload the dating apps at some point. I tried to just do the organic approach, but the few I did meet were never single. I know approaching women at the gym is frowned upon, so my question is how do I attract women that are also into fitness? I don't wanna offend an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Question | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16en99q/question/ |
moid-hater | 2024-07-29 02:29:24 | 1,722,220,164 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1eeoj9m | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eeoj9m/i_blank_when_men_compliment_me/ | 1 | This has happened twice within the last week. Objectively, I (25F) know that I’m conventionally attractive and fit, but it’s become clear to me that I’m still insecure in some ways. There are these two really attractive men at my gym who I have little crushes on, but I never said anything to them because I didn’t want ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I blank when men compliment me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eeoj9m/i_blank_when_men_compliment_me/ |
dartveter | 2017-10-13 20:52:19 | 1,507,927,939 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 767oca | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/767oca/i_feel_like_im_doing_everything_right_but_the/ | 1 | Hey everyone i'm a 19 y/o guy who's been actively looking to have a relationship for quite some time now (6months to be exact) I feel like i'm doing work, that I should get some game but there's little to no results, I'm not sure what's wrong. Okay the following things that i'm going to say, I don't really want to say,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like i'm doing everything right, but the results shows me i'm doing something wrong... [19M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/767oca/i_feel_like_im_doing_everything_right_but_the/ |
Arrabella4 | 2021-05-14 14:41:41 | 1,621,003,301 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | nca7xu | true | null | 126 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/nca7xu/lying_about_your_age/ | 54 | Is this a dealbreaker for you ? I ask b/c I’ve just joined OLD again....Lord help me...... and I see guys who say they are 50 and they clearly are 10+ years older. I know what I look like, and I know roughly what a man my age should look like. Also, if we meet, do you really think I can’t tell? Really? Thoughts? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Lying about your age | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/nca7xu/lying_about_your_age/ |
TheMannWhoLaughs | 2021-06-20 05:00:56 | 1,624,165,256 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o3y16a | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o3y16a/where_to_meet_or_how/ | 3 | Imma 23 yr old male I don’t like going out as much I’m more so home body, but I’m on tinder and even when I match with girls they don’t text me and i have to text first but even then they act like there not interested | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where to meet or how? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o3y16a/where_to_meet_or_how/ |
Skzone5 | 2019-04-28 04:14:15 | 1,556,424,855 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | bi7gxc | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bi7gxc/what_to_wear_on_a_1st_date_and_expect_on_a_1st/ | 7 | The title basically says it all. I am a female in my late 20's, never had a boyfriend, never kissed a guy before and never, ever have been on a date before. I have been thinking for a while that if I have not the chance to meet a guy yet, maybe I should sign up for an online, dating app. My dilemma with online apps is ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to wear on a 1st date and expect on a 1st date from an online, dating app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bi7gxc/what_to_wear_on_a_1st_date_and_expect_on_a_1st/ |
turtlegala | 2019-08-26 17:39:36 | 1,566,841,176 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cvrc7q | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cvrc7q/hidden_pictures_in_online_dating/ | 1 | We’ve all seen those online dating profiles with hidden/no pictures. If the write up is interesting at least, I’ll give them a shot but within a couple messages, I always ask for a picture, because why waste time if I’m not attracted. What’s the kindest way to end a conversation after receiving a picture that doesn’t i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hidden pictures in online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cvrc7q/hidden_pictures_in_online_dating/ |
Better_Fox8923 | 2021-02-12 10:32:47 | 1,613,125,967 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | li8hs6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/li8hs6/need_help_datingrelationship_with_someone_i_have/ | 2 | So quick backstory, my ex and I have been together for 5 years since 2015 and have been on and off the past 2 years. In the end of September of 2020 she decided to start dating again using apps. I did not panic because I would in return do the same and knew this would be my best shot in getting her back. She started se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | NEED HELP! dating/relationship with someone I have been on and off again with for 6 years. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/li8hs6/need_help_datingrelationship_with_someone_i_have/ |
Tartan-3078 | 2022-10-09 04:20:15 | 1,665,289,215 | null | null | 0 | xzcbi1 | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xzcbi1/is_dating_from_reddit_a_thing/ | 4 | I have put myself out there for online chat etc. always interested to get to know new people and if something more should happen then great, but I see a lot of specific requests for hookups and meets etc. does that actually have much success? I assume it’s more a location thing? (Curious newbie Redditor, just being cur... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is dating from Reddit a thing? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xzcbi1/is_dating_from_reddit_a_thing/ |
crochetinglibrarian | 2021-08-27 21:04:29 | 1,630,098,269 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pcw3aw | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pcw3aw/looking_better_than_pics/ | 44 | I went on a date recently and the guy told me that I actually look better than my pics and that my profile pics are basically shitty (he has professionally taken pics on his profile so maybe he thinks everyone should have them). I mean I guess it was cool that he thought I was pretty in the end but this got me thinking... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Looking better than pics? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pcw3aw/looking_better_than_pics/ |
risingflute78 | 2021-02-11 20:17:48 | 1,613,074,668 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lhtn7v | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lhtn7v/i_have_a_hard_time_with_cold_approach/ | 1 | M/23. I saw a girl at Subway today, she was sitting with probably her aunt or mother. It was just them and the store people. To tell you, she looked awesome! We did make an eye contact twice. I just don't know how to do cold approach without coming off as a creep. Same thing happened the last time I was at the thrift s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have a hard time with cold approach. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lhtn7v/i_have_a_hard_time_with_cold_approach/ |
completebIiss | 2023-08-31 05:31:19 | 1,693,459,879 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16624l7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16624l7/what_is_everyones_criteria_for_deciding_whether/ | 1 | I (22F) went on a 4.5h date with a guy from Hinge and he’s really sweet and gentlemanly and treated me really well. But he kind of felt like a robot asking interview questions at times, like he studied my resume and was striving to ask questions about me—it didn’t feel that organic. And the conversation itself was hone... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is everyone’s criteria for deciding whether you want a second date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16624l7/what_is_everyones_criteria_for_deciding_whether/ |
UnBec | 2023-10-30 20:30:44 | 1,698,697,844 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17k2vwb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17k2vwb/could_he_have_friendzoned_me/ | 1 | I (36F) met a guy (37M) on a dating app over the summer. Over the last few months, we’ve only hung out in person a handful of times, due to illness/travel/work etc. We’ve both seemed to enjoy our time spent together, and we text nearly every day. We’ve been to each others’ homes. However, there has been no physical int... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Could he have friend-zoned me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17k2vwb/could_he_have_friendzoned_me/ |
still-not-sure | 2023-07-15 08:24:24 | 1,689,409,464 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 150699t | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/150699t/should_i_ask_out_a_guy_i_previously_rejected/ | 1 | So to keeps things short I met this guy on a dating app, we went on 3 dates but after that I didn't feel like I was interested any longer so i sent him a message to let him know. This was about 2 days ago if it makes a difference. I've realised since then that I was hasty in my decision and would like to see him again.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask out a guy I previously rejected? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/150699t/should_i_ask_out_a_guy_i_previously_rejected/ |
duhhitsmeeee | 2024-04-19 19:11:50 | 1,713,553,910 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1c856vh | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c856vh/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | I am an MBA student and I haven't dated for almost 5 years so decided to use Bumble for dating.....I matched with a guy, we went on a date and he was quite nice and gentlemen The boy is really very handsome, smart and good-looking but I am an average looking girl and also with dark complexion, when we match and started... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do??? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c856vh/what_should_i_do/ |
find_rick | 2020-02-29 21:51:30 | 1,583,013,090 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fbjqh9 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fbjqh9/what_can_i_do/ | 2 | Last December I (24M) met this awesome girl through tinder, I’ll call her Dee Dee (23F). We hit it off really well, she asked me out and we went out for dinner and movies. We went on a second date again and things seemed like they were going on the right track, only for her to get distant in the last couple weeks and s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What can I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fbjqh9/what_can_i_do/ |
StaticNocturne | 2022-11-26 10:34:51 | 1,669,458,891 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | z54h5w | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z54h5w/do_most_women_still_prefer_to_meet_guys_through/ | 0 | Even for guys with good photos and conversational skills dating apps are brutally difficult... so are public events and bars... having mutual friends is the closest thing to a cheat-code in that it seems to help a guy jump to the front of the queue, plus there's an illusion of safety and security there and the bar seem... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do most women still prefer to meet guys through mutual friends the 'old fashioned way'? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z54h5w/do_most_women_still_prefer_to_meet_guys_through/ |
RCFLA | 2024-06-26 20:44:49 | 1,719,434,689 | 0 | ['matches', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1dp91sj | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dp91sj/facebook_dating_no_longer_showing_active_status/ | 1 | My Facebook dating was showing active in the last two hours for matches for the past month, and now it’s not showing active status for anyone. Did they get rid of it? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Facebook dating no longer showing active status? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dp91sj/facebook_dating_no_longer_showing_active_status/ |
bhargavateja | 2021-04-19 18:05:16 | 1,618,855,516 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | mu6kf5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mu6kf5/starting_to_date/ | 2 | So, I'm (27, M) an ambivert, I don't know why but I kind of didn't bother to start dating or tried to get laid till now. I created dating profiles in tinder and bumble recently. Of course the match rate is pretty low. Can someone help me figure this shit out? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting to date | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mu6kf5/starting_to_date/ |
DropAny4118 | 2023-11-13 08:09:31 | 1,699,862,971 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17u606f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17u606f/how_to_gain_enough_confidence_to_approach_women/ | 1 | I was shy during highschool so never asked any girls out or had any girls who i was friends with during that time. My first kiss/ losing my virginity was after i turned 18. She added me on facebook and wanted to hook up. Same with the second girl once i was 19. When i turned 20 i got tinder and managed to sleep with a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to gain enough confidence to approach women to talk? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17u606f/how_to_gain_enough_confidence_to_approach_women/ |
lexiebeef | 2022-12-29 18:51:40 | 1,672,339,900 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | zyd052 | true | Success Story 🎉 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zyd052/im_spending_nye_with_the_guy_i_recently_started/ | 50 | Im so happy and need to share this with someone, and I love seeing success stories in here, so I thought I would share mine! A month ago, after a situation where I chased a guy who ghosted me in a terrible way, I (22f) matched with a guy on tinder. The weird thing is that we had met each other a couple of years ago in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im spending NYE with the guy I recently started dating | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zyd052/im_spending_nye_with_the_guy_i_recently_started/ |
FNM0 | 2017-02-23 01:05:53 | 1,487,811,953 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 5vmxzs | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5vmxzs/dating_for_the_first_time_in_10_years_everything/ | 2 | The basics - I'm 36 years old and have been in a long term relationship for the past 10 years. Prior to that, I didn't date a ton and it was always friends of friends or people I met in school. Now as an adult and in an area where I don't know a lot of people, I'm trying online dating and finding it difficult. The firs... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating for the first time in 10+ years. Everything is different. Could use some advice. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5vmxzs/dating_for_the_first_time_in_10_years_everything/ |
doubtfirematch | 2017-08-28 19:24:35 | 1,503,948,275 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 6wlq31 | false | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/6wlq31/the_mrs_doubtfire_effect/ | 39 | Disclaimer: I haven't used online dating for the past 7 years since I've been married to my wife for the past 5 years. I don't have the slightest clue if it's still the same, but here's what helped me. I call it the "Mrs. Doubtfire" effect. I'm sure we've all seen the Robin Williams(RIP) classic movie, Mrs. Doubtfire. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The "Mrs. Doubtfire" Effect | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6wlq31/the_mrs_doubtfire_effect/ |
jayphilly610 | 2018-07-08 13:46:57 | 1,531,057,617 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 8x1j9r | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8x1j9r/time_to_move_on/ | 9 | I was speaking to this girl off Hinge and things were going pretty good. We had agreed to meet up for a date. Unfortunately, she was a teacher so she was kinda busy until the school year was over. We decided to wait to schedule but then our conversation kinda faded. We went three weeks without talking and she actually ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Time to Move On? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8x1j9r/time_to_move_on/ |
GiveUsSomeMoney | 2022-03-27 04:13:27 | 1,648,354,407 | null | null | 0 | tpc80v | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tpc80v/matched_with_a_guy_a_few_hours_ago_after_a_couple/ | 4 | He lives 2 hours away and wants to drive to see me asap. I offered to meet him halfway and he said “there is no halfway” What? It’s just weird because someone else from Chicago said the same thing. He wants to send me pictures and text. Is this normal for online dating or is this a little rushed? Edit- Thank you all fo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matched with a guy a few hours ago and after a couple texts, he is pretty insistent and wants to meet asap. | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tpc80v/matched_with_a_guy_a_few_hours_ago_after_a_couple/ |
kwik-e-mart-forever | 2020-01-20 22:48:31 | 1,579,560,511 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | erl60y | true | Question | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/erl60y/fellow_bros_how_long_do_you_usually_wait_for_the/ | 1 | Both of you matched on one of the OLD apps, and you made your first move. How long do you guys wait for her to respond before moving onto the next match? I know there are more guys swiping than girls online, but my rule is 24 hours unless she gives a brief but legit reason for the delay. Anything after that… Sorry, nex... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Fellow Bros: How long do you usually wait for the girl to respond to your first text? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/erl60y/fellow_bros_how_long_do_you_usually_wait_for_the/ |
Butterfly_Pea1201 | 2024-09-29 17:39:14 | 1,727,631,554 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fs9z61 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fs9z61/fwb_gone_wrong/ | 1 | I (36f) met a 26(m) and we started a FWB with exclusivity for STD safety. Despite the age gap, we had a great friendship and incredible sex. He didn’t want a relationship, which I accepted since I didn't see him as my type. Over time, we developed feelings, but he said my age was a reason he wouldn’t date me, and we ar... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Fwb gone wrong | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fs9z61/fwb_gone_wrong/ |
SybilleAussieLover | 2019-05-12 02:55:11 | 1,557,629,711 | null | ['dating sites', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | bnkffc | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bnkffc/finding_cis_guys_for_longterm_dating_as_a_trans/ | 3 | So, I’m MtF, living in the Netherlands. I’m 23 and a student in the law field. I have been on hormones for close to 4 years. No plans for any surgeries. This makes dating a bit more difficult as I feel the need to disclose my medical history in my dating bio, so that one knows what he gets into with a woman like myself... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finding cis guys for lonerm dating as a trans woman, how? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bnkffc/finding_cis_guys_for_longterm_dating_as_a_trans/ |
thunderkoka | 2023-10-20 00:39:25 | 1,697,762,365 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17bydlm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17bydlm/casually_seeing_two_men_do_i_tell_them_about_each/ | 1 | Travel is my (F23) life right now, which has made things a bit more complicated. The story is, I was working abroad and met a guy (M24) on Hinge. We hit it off and were friends with benefits for a few months, both of us agreeing we travel and it’s better to keep it casual. Though he eventually admitted to having feelin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Casually seeing two men — do I tell them about each other? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17bydlm/casually_seeing_two_men_do_i_tell_them_about_each/ |
saben012 | 2018-03-29 23:32:18 | 1,522,366,338 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 885z4n | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/885z4n/suggestions_on_how_to_find_girls/ | 2 | I don’t think I get it. I must be missing something. Mid thirties. Getting a date or relationship seems to happen so easily for everybody around me. Practically by osmosis. I’m really at a loss with what to do in my situation. Work which takes up the majority of time is filled with people in relationships already or no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Suggestions on how to find girls. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/885z4n/suggestions_on_how_to_find_girls/ |
Fantastic_Area9689 | 2024-06-05 18:25:20 | 1,717,611,920 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d8x01r | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d8x01r/i_m39_want_a_hot_woman_in_her_twenties_and/ | 1 | As a 39 year old man, I've been single for the last appr. two years now. I'm pretty decent looking and work for my own firm. My last relationship was with a very intelligent woman, who was over 10 years younger than me. My longest relationship has been 4 years. I think it is partially dating apps that have made me to p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M39) want a hot woman in her twenties, and willing to give her sexual freedom | 1 | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d8x01r/i_m39_want_a_hot_woman_in_her_twenties_and/ |
confuckled | 2020-03-11 02:13:57 | 1,583,892,837 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fgpqwu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fgpqwu/how_should_i_23f_make_the_first_move/ | 2 | I’ve been texting a guy I met on a dating app for a few weeks now. He has two jobs so we’ve only hung out a couple times, each time we had a lot of fun. I feel like I’m always the one reaching out first, and we’ve been texting almost every day. I personally prefer talking in-person, but I make do with what I have. We h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I (23F) make the first move? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fgpqwu/how_should_i_23f_make_the_first_move/ |
mellybelly119 | 2020-04-19 21:34:25 | 1,587,332,065 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | g4fxaa | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g4fxaa/why_do_i_have_more_luck_with_guys_who_i_see_more/ | 7 | I know the title might sound stupid but youre thinking of a simple answer. But hear me out Im a attractive girl, ive had my fair share of pursuers. But I realized the guys who actually want to date me are usually the ones who i have class with, is a coworker, and etc. And then the guys who i meet briefly and go on a da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do i have more luck with guys who i see more on a daily basis versus guys i barely met | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g4fxaa/why_do_i_have_more_luck_with_guys_who_i_see_more/ |
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