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Demimonde34 | 2023-07-03 18:06:08 | 1,688,407,568 | 0 | null | 0 | 14pq9nv | false | null | 57 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14pq9nv/how_long_have_you_been_on_the_site_for/ | 15 | I don't understand why this question causes me to be blocked. I answer honestly: "A couple years off and on, often taking a couple month breaks." I haven't been lucky with online dating. One solid relationship that failed for reasons not related to the site, and then a few flings that never got anywhere. I honestly don... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "How long have you been on the site for?" | 15 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14pq9nv/how_long_have_you_been_on_the_site_for/ |
angel_in_black | 2018-09-25 22:32:13 | 1,537,914,733 | null | ['matched', 'dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9iwssp | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9iwssp/how_am_i_supposed_to_move_on_from_someone_like_her/ | 7 | Hi. I'm a 28 male, average height, i work out so i'm pretty fit, and while i'll never reach model status, I don't think many would instantly call me "unattractive" by any means. Be that as it may, I've never really been a popular guy, not too many friends over the years. And definitely not a hit with the ladies. Then o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How am I supposed to move on from someone like her? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9iwssp/how_am_i_supposed_to_move_on_from_someone_like_her/ |
redheadcali4 | 2019-04-17 04:04:20 | 1,555,473,860 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | be3fi9 | true | Venting | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/be3fi9/i_am_starting_to_wonder_if_anyone_wants_to_date/ | 31 | When on these wonderful OLD sites men seem so nice, very respectful, say they want someone in their lives. Then we talk for a few days they either want to meet immediately or get sexual. I can meet usually within a week, but one stopped talking to me because he wanted to meet within 2 days. I told him I couldn't but co... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I am starting to wonder if anyone wants to date anymore. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/be3fi9/i_am_starting_to_wonder_if_anyone_wants_to_date/ |
Dannyrage83 | 2020-03-18 11:11:08 | 1,584,529,868 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | fknuu9 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 126 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fknuu9/tinder_date_did_a_runner_after_dinner/ | 302 | I've been out of the game for about a year now, just enjoying living on my own and not thinking twice about having a partner. However about a month ago I decided out was time to put myself back out there and signed up for Tinder. I got a couple of matches immediately and the chat didn't really go anywhere, but after ab... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder date did a runner after dinner | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fknuu9/tinder_date_did_a_runner_after_dinner/ |
psguy27 | 2022-08-18 16:28:52 | 1,660,840,132 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wrnysb | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wrnysb/where_to_meet_new_people/ | 1 | So after a month of calling it quits with my last girlfriend im ready to get myself out there again. Im a 30 M, but I dont want to use dating apps (don't trust them and have had bad experiences) I need real world solutions to my issue. Is the bar really a good place to go to meet someone via it be hook up or not? I hea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | where to meet new people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wrnysb/where_to_meet_new_people/ |
RichHomieLon | 2018-04-02 15:53:07 | 1,522,684,387 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 890cff | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/890cff/choosing_between_two_women_when_i_return_to_the/ | 1 | I’m a 21M college junior currently on the verge of completing my study abroad semester in Europe. I’m pretty much not going to get any action here this semester, but I’m actually quite comfortable with that. This is because I have not one, but two potential — and I emphasize the word “potential” — girlfriends back home... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Choosing between two women when I return to the US in the summer? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/890cff/choosing_between_two_women_when_i_return_to_the/ |
fakecolin | 2024-06-04 20:38:00 | 1,717,533,480 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d87hms | true | Casual Conversation | 214 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1d87hms/online_dating_as_a_person_who_hates_camping/ | 121 | I swear I'm not boring. I feel like EVERY online dating profile professes to live outdoorsy stuff and traveling all the time. What are the chances I'm going to find someone if I hate these popular activities? How do I spin this on my dating profile so that it makes sense and isn't a turn off? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Online dating as a person who hates camping, nature, traveling, and concerts. | 121 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1d87hms/online_dating_as_a_person_who_hates_camping/ |
BCboy98 | 2018-01-20 22:06:29 | 1,516,485,989 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 7rthvu | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7rthvu/should_i_try_again_after_four_months_or_drop_it/ | 3 | I matched with this girl at the start of the fall term (mid September). | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I try again after four months or drop it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7rthvu/should_i_try_again_after_four_months_or_drop_it/ |
Snow776 | 2020-11-24 13:44:55 | 1,606,225,495 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | k0586q | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k0586q/traversing_the_tinderbumble_stratosphere/ | 3 | (M31) I've been on Bumble, Hinge and Tinder about 4 months now. I'm aware this may be relatively short compared to some people but i thought i would jot down some of my takeaways from this strange and complicated area of the internet. Ghosting Happens, a lot... Ive had around 70 matches between my 3 accounts, not massi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Traversing the Tinder/Bumble stratosphere | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k0586q/traversing_the_tinderbumble_stratosphere/ |
CocoZombie | 2023-11-12 12:04:34 | 1,699,790,674 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17tiw37 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17tiw37/will_i_ever_find_someone/ | 2 | Sorry this will be long and tbh im just rambling. I'm 32 years old now and my ex and I split up about 7 months ago. I loved him so much and we were compatible but unfortunately I still needed mental work to do and he broke up with me. Today, it just feels like there isn't anyone. I truly do not want to do dating apps. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Will I ever find someone? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17tiw37/will_i_ever_find_someone/ |
Slow_Difference8276 | 2023-10-10 14:47:32 | 1,696,949,252 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 174n268 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/174n268/ghosted_after_a_first_date/ | 1 | I went on a first date with a guy I met off of hinge this past Saturday. We texted back and forth for the week before and we’re seemingly having a good time and getting along pretty well. I thought the date went well besides me being extremely awkward and slipping in a few sarcastic comments every now and then. At the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after a first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/174n268/ghosted_after_a_first_date/ |
lovethyself1 | 2020-11-29 16:59:33 | 1,606,669,173 | null | null | 0 | k3crlu | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/k3crlu/idealism_vs_realism/ | 15 | Hello, I am meeting lots of guys in OLD, but they have such a hard time communicating on the app. And when I ask questions, like what are you like or looking for, I get this idealistic diatribe on soul mates and cuddling and being carried to the bedroom and staring into eyes etc.. And there is no real communication abo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Idealism vs realism | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/k3crlu/idealism_vs_realism/ |
thelegendof2015 | 2023-07-27 19:38:24 | 1,690,486,704 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15bb82f | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15bb82f/dating_is_hard/ | 1 | So I've been using tinder and the only experiences I've had are women just buttering me up and asking for money. I find it hard to meet new people. I mean there's a few customers at work I would like to get to know better, but I feel it's disrespectful and unprofessional for me as a manager to pursue flirting and tryin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating is hard | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15bb82f/dating_is_hard/ |
Legal_Possibility_73 | 2024-02-28 19:18:36 | 1,709,147,916 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b2enzz | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b2enzz/dating_advice/ | 1 | I met this guy on dating app. He quickly got me off the app asking for a contact and we hit it off. Texted for two weeks (consistent Elaborate) And then set up a date on a weekend. We both live in different cities with extremely busy lives. Prior to this date we had a FT and spoke for hours and seemed like we liked eac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating advice | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b2enzz/dating_advice/ |
DreadPirateMuffin | 2022-11-17 18:19:19 | 1,668,709,159 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | yxxcm9 | true | Question | 219 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/yxxcm9/is_no_tvmoviesrestaurants_a_deal_breaker/ | 26 | Hypothetical scenario: If you had an Online dating match that is attractive, age appropriate, and good on paper (career/financial stability, independent, has own hobbies/friends) would it be a deal breaker if the person told you they don’t watch TV/Movies/streaming/podcasts because they don’t enjoy them? This would mea... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is no tv/movies/restaurants a deal breaker? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/yxxcm9/is_no_tvmoviesrestaurants_a_deal_breaker/ |
Single_Equal_3614 | 2023-07-05 12:33:59 | 1,688,560,439 | 0 | null | 0 | 14r9ekb | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14r9ekb/how_should_i_go_forward_i_wanna_see_where_this/ | 1 | I met this guy a few days ago, we slept together and had a really nice time talking with each other. Then we met again yesterday. He has opened up about a lot of personal stuff over messages and shown me that he is open at least. I’m not gonna be able to see him again the next two weeks since he is traveling a bit and ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How should I go forward? I wanna see where this can go | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14r9ekb/how_should_i_go_forward_i_wanna_see_where_this/ |
NoWoodpecker3035 | 2023-12-21 19:29:45 | 1,703,186,985 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18nv3q8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18nv3q8/i_cant_get_past_12_dates_but_im_looking_for/ | 1 | Hey I’m just looking for some advice I’ve felt like I am super ready to date and have been putting myself out there. I am on dating apps and have just overall been looking for a relationship. I just can’t seem to get past one or two dates. When it gets to the point where I am discussing with the guy what we’re looking ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can’t get past 1-2 dates but I’m looking for something long term | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18nv3q8/i_cant_get_past_12_dates_but_im_looking_for/ |
Immediate-Abrocoma93 | 2024-08-04 04:31:12 | 1,722,745,872 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ejmu3m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ejmu3m/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | I (24F) went on a first date with this guy (29M) I met from a dating app. It was a great date, we had good conversations and it was fun.. we did end up making out and exchanging numbers. So we plan for our second date and he seemed pretty excited and all. On the day of, he tells me he has a family emergency and has to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what should I do?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ejmu3m/what_should_i_do/ |
Blindybop | 2021-12-12 01:56:00 | 1,639,274,160 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | reeb8j | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 58 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/reeb8j/i_cant_do_it_anymore_rant/ | 105 | Back in September, I \[29F\] met someone \[39M\] I was really excited about through online dating which hasn't happened in years. He said that he felt the same way; he's never really excited about people he meets, but couldn't stop thinking about me. He said we had the best first date of his life. We had a lot of fun t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can't do it anymore [rant] | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/reeb8j/i_cant_do_it_anymore_rant/ |
Environmental_Post21 | 2023-08-17 02:59:10 | 1,692,241,150 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15tat95 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15tat95/need_to_vent_tinder_first_date/ | 1 | I’m (26F) and I met up with a guy (24M) for a first date tonight. He is completely different than what I usually go for but I really like him. He was wicked nice- brought me flowers, opened doors, the conversation flowed and we got along great. My only issues were that in the course of a 2 hour date, I noticed that he ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need to vent. Tinder first date. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15tat95/need_to_vent_tinder_first_date/ |
ellemae93 | 2023-09-19 00:23:57 | 1,695,083,037 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | 16mc6vy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16mc6vy/whats_actually_up_with_everyone_being_so_scared/ | 1 | Maybe it’s just my bad luck, but lately I’ve (F29) struck out with yet another string of guys who approach, then communicate that they’re “not ready for a relationship”. Guy 1 I met at an art market he was vending over a year ago, we’ve been casual mutuals online but only really started talking over a month ago. We go ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s actually up with everyone being so scared of intimacy/commitment? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16mc6vy/whats_actually_up_with_everyone_being_so_scared/ |
KingNoodleWalrus | 2022-04-19 06:43:47 | 1,650,350,627 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | u6yq6z | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/u6yq6z/advice_on_initiating/ | 14 | I'm sure this is a common question on here, but are there any tips on initiating conversations with people you find attractive? I always feel like initiating a conversation out of the blue will come off as annoying or creepy unless I have some sort of perfect line or opener ready. Trouble is, I can never figure out any... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on initiating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u6yq6z/advice_on_initiating/ |
oldrbbw4studnmd | 2024-06-05 12:00:06 | 1,717,588,806 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1d8o5i7 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d8o5i7/ssbbw_fairmont_wv_here_55_yrs_old/ | 2 | IT IS ALWAYS A BUCH OF B.S. ON THESE SITES SELDOM DO YOU FIND ANYONE CLOSE ENOUGH TO YOU WHOM IS REAL | dating | t5_2qhb1 | SSBBW FAIRMONT WV HERE 55 YRS OLD | 2 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d8o5i7/ssbbw_fairmont_wv_here_55_yrs_old/ |
fivefifty5 | 2014-04-13 18:25:17 | 1,397,413,517 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 22xtba | null | null | 23 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/22xtba/would_you_feel_led_on_if_you_contacted_me_via/ | 4 | I frequently get messages from women I can't do anything with for whatever reason or am simply not interested in. They are still sometimes interesting people and they would make good friends if that was a possibility. I will just talk to them for a few days until one of us loses interest. Does it count as leading them ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Would you feel led on if you contacted me via online dating and I continued to talk while not considering doing anything with you? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/22xtba/would_you_feel_led_on_if_you_contacted_me_via/ |
thecreamghost23 | 2023-06-08 10:32:14 | 1,686,220,334 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1445kk4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 267 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1445kk4/what_do_you_do_at_a_hookup/ | 516 | I (21m) matched with a girl (23f) on bumble and she wants to hook up. I'm definitely down because, well, she's one of the hottest girls I've ever seen, but for the same reason, I'm very nervous. I've only ever had sex with one person and that was only 7 months ago. I'm a very awkward person and don't want to embarrass ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do you do at a hookup? | 516 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1445kk4/what_do_you_do_at_a_hookup/ |
SaiyWolf | 2022-07-09 04:59:04 | 1,657,342,744 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | vuu1y0 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vuu1y0/which_is_best_dating_app_in_europe_also_advice_on/ | 0 | M23 here Is it Tinder or Bumble or something else? I have the EU Blue card and I'm in IT. So I don't like noisy clubs so I was wondering what are the good ways I'll be moving to different EU countries as well so advice for that? Like in short term dating with fun... How I'll have to deal with my feelings Like I know I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which is best dating app in Europe? Also advice on short term dating | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vuu1y0/which_is_best_dating_app_in_europe_also_advice_on/ |
Resident_Sky6626 | 2024-04-22 05:58:38 | 1,713,765,518 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ca3aoy | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ca3aoy/what_to_say_when_an_online_dating_app_match_says/ | 2 | I (18M) matched with a 24F lady and she is stunning. It’s on Hinge, where they can see I sent them a like and then decide if they want to reply or not. She replied with “bruh u 18”. What are some cheeky responses I could give? Thanks! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to say when an online dating app match says you’re too young? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ca3aoy/what_to_say_when_an_online_dating_app_match_says/ |
Ok_Respect_7778 | 2023-07-28 11:02:37 | 1,690,542,157 | 0 | null | 0 | 15bu9wf | false | null | 64 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15bu9wf/dealing_with_ghosting/ | 1 | I realized he was ghosting me so I sent him a rejection text telling him I was no longer interested. I wanted it to see like I rejected him instead of him just ghosting me. Do you think he would even care? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dealing with ghosting. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15bu9wf/dealing_with_ghosting/ |
Maleficent_Pizza1803 | 2024-07-18 00:12:01 | 1,721,261,521 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e5xphk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e5xphk/i_want_a_girlfriend_and_a_longterm_partner_but_i/ | 1 | 32M I have been in long-term relationships before the last one was 3 years. That ended 4 years ago since I have struggled to find a partner. I have been told often that I am attractive so I am at least confident I am not ugly. I work out, and I am fit; I have hobbies unfortunately there aren't a lot of women at the thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want a girlfriend and a long-term partner. But I am exhausted. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e5xphk/i_want_a_girlfriend_and_a_longterm_partner_but_i/ |
Fun_Medicine_580 | 2024-02-10 01:40:12 | 1,707,529,212 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1an4pmk | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1an4pmk/attractive_vs_handsome/ | 1 | Hey, Quick question So I was having some talks with someone on a dating app and well it was like you are handsome blah blah blah So we decided to meet not necessarily for sex but just to hang out and then on the conversation I was told you are attractive. What's the difference between handsome and attractive. Did I let... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Attractive vs Handsome | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1an4pmk/attractive_vs_handsome/ |
Hiker2190 | 2024-05-17 01:28:12 | 1,715,909,292 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1ctteyx | true | Question ❓ | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ctteyx/im_56m_and_dont_want_to_date_grandmas/ | 1 | As the title suggests, I’m 56m, recently separated, divorce will be done soon (very amicable divorce for a 25 year marriage). While I was on OKCupid, I kept matching with women my age or a bit older who have fully embraced the grandmother personage. I have no problem with women like that - I have some friends that fit ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m 56m and don’t want to date grandmas | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ctteyx/im_56m_and_dont_want_to_date_grandmas/ |
Samwisethebrave86 | 2023-07-19 05:58:24 | 1,689,746,304 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 153mbef | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/153mbef/the_ethical_and_practical_considerations_of/ | 1 | Hello all. I (M36) recently hired an employee (F late 20’s) for an entry level position in our office (She is overqualified for it but wanted fewer/flexible hours while going back to college). I felt something towards her even in the interview, but at the time I just thought it was her professional demeanor. Fast forwa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The Ethical and Practical Considerations of Dating an Employee | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/153mbef/the_ethical_and_practical_considerations_of/ |
darkhorse2k | 2019-04-22 07:41:15 | 1,555,918,875 | null | null | 0 | bfzbwn | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bfzbwn/dating_is_no_different_to_job_interviewing/ | 25 | Effectively you are trying to get people to buy into you. With dating, women. With jobs, people in general. Where with both, effectively it is a numbers game. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating is no different to job interviewing | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bfzbwn/dating_is_no_different_to_job_interviewing/ |
CPfreedom | 2023-04-03 18:08:46 | 1,680,545,326 | 0 | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 12ask69 | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12ask69/do_you_exchange_phone_numbers_right_away_old/ | 4 | Okay, so all the apps say "talk here before giving your number" etc, etc, yet I am encountering more and more men that if I don't pony up my phone number right away they just unmatch or stop replying. I am 46F, I have been doing this a long time since AIM and craigslist. Most people are just collecting potentials to hi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you exchange phone numbers right away OLD? | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12ask69/do_you_exchange_phone_numbers_right_away_old/ |
morethanconquerors24 | 2021-10-12 00:28:22 | 1,633,998,502 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | q69to7 | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q69to7/facebook_dating/ | 1 | Hey has anyone tried facebook dating? I feel the odds of finding someone to talk to is extremely slim. I feel you can like over 100 profiles and be very lucky if you get a like back. I feel the odds of finding someone on Facebook dating is like the odds of winning 1 billion dollars | dating | t5_2qhb1 | facebook dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q69to7/facebook_dating/ |
kairos48 | 2012-11-01 16:04:48 | 1,351,785,888 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 12go31 | null | null | 43 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/12go31/how_can_i_find_a_woman_who_will_sail_around_the/ | 19 | I'm a fairly good looking guy, nearing fifty, articulate, funny when I want to be, debt free, retired businessman, with a well appointed yacht and I can't find an American woman who has any interest in the adventure of a lifetime. I don't expect someone to just move aboard a ship with a strange man. I want to spend a f... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How can I find a woman who will sail around the world with me? The usual dating sites haven't worked. It sems that most women want the normal home, dog, man that works, two cars, bbq, etc. kind of life. | 19 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/12go31/how_can_i_find_a_woman_who_will_sail_around_the/ |
HopelessDummy | 2019-02-10 01:19:03 | 1,549,761,543 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | aoz59j | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aoz59j/cant_move_on_from_this_girl/ | 1 | We're both 20. Back in late October we matched on tinder, we had quite a bit in common, but nothing came of the conversation. Late November I realized she seemed pretty cool and maybe I had missed my shot, slid into her DMs on Instagram. We've talked ever since. We went skiing once together mid-December. Second ski "da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't move on from this girl. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aoz59j/cant_move_on_from_this_girl/ |
sodastack4 | 2022-09-23 20:17:26 | 1,663,964,246 | null | null | 0 | xm81a6 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xm81a6/dilema/ | 5 | ok so ive wanted to make an account for a while now i just didnt know how to approach it. in my mind i have two options on how i could present myself. i could go for a profile where i put up an attractive but generic picture of myself with some witty bio i made up that doesnt really say a whole lot about me, or alterna... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | dilema | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xm81a6/dilema/ |
Dsg1695 | 2023-03-15 01:01:21 | 1,678,842,081 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11rh2h2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11rh2h2/do_women_typically_experience_this_with_dating/ | 0 | I just don’t understand how I fail to attract a man that I want. I know I’m 28 but am 100% certain that I’ll end up alone. I know I’m not beautiful but should be able to attract a decent man. I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years with no success, here’s my luck: 1) the attractive guys are just flighty/want sex... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do women typically experience this with dating? | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11rh2h2/do_women_typically_experience_this_with_dating/ |
tatted_whiteboy | 2024-05-22 06:57:26 | 1,716,361,046 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cxu262 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cxu262/i28m_have_no_energy_to_date/ | 1 | I'm 6 months out of a 5 month relationship. I work alot. I'm always tired. I get 15-20 matches a day but only 1-2 attractive women. I don't have energy to put into someone I've never met in real life. They flake half the time. I flake the other half of the time. When I was younger it was so simple. Go out with friends ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(28m) have no energy to date | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxu262/i28m_have_no_energy_to_date/ |
VanTheGrr8 | 2024-04-28 05:58:05 | 1,714,283,885 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cez89o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cez89o/online_alternatives/ | 4 | Any alternatives to dating apps? Such as speed dating apps (virtual) or.. apps like dating apps but not lol. For reference I'm a 46 yr old single parent | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online alternatives | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cez89o/online_alternatives/ |
MrJPtheAssassin | 2017-07-25 00:12:54 | 1,500,941,574 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 6pcjmg | null | null | 27 | null | /r/dating/comments/6pcjmg/28_and_never_been_on_a_date/ | 5 | Hi I'm a 28 y/o male and I'm new on this subreddit. Well I just wanted to let some things off my chest. I never been on a date, never kiss anyone, and of course still a virgin. Couple times a year I get really depress and down on myself. I'm really a nice guy but I be honest I'm not sure where to go to meet single wome... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 28 and never been on a date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6pcjmg/28_and_never_been_on_a_date/ |
No_Peanut_3289 | 2023-12-04 23:23:44 | 1,701,732,224 | 0 | null | 0 | 18axiqe | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18axiqe/dont_expect_this_or_that/ | 13 | I have noticed in the previous few years of OLD when I match with a girl and I ask for her number or snapchat I get the “don’t expect any dirty pictures, I am not like that” or when I ask about a date I get “don’t expect sex, i am not a whore” So how do you guys handle when they say these things? To me it’s more of a t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | “Don’t expect this or that” | 13 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18axiqe/dont_expect_this_or_that/ |
BurzumSpetsnaz | 2019-09-09 20:51:43 | 1,568,062,303 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | d1wwgh | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d1wwgh/i_really_want_to_get_a_girlfriend_before_this/ | 7 | I'm 25 m. Currently attending college and working. I've had minimal success here and there, but I've never had an actual relationship, never kissed anyone, never even held hands with anyone. I kind of want that to end, don't want to be 26 with the same lack of experience and I'll be done my degree this year as well so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I really want to get a girlfriend before this year ends | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d1wwgh/i_really_want_to_get_a_girlfriend_before_this/ |
tilleyc | 2019-02-26 17:46:29 | 1,551,203,189 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | av28wk | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/av28wk/best_way_to_disclose_inexperience/ | 8 | So, I (32M) had a really ignominious end to a date with someone I had met from online dating. The long and short was that she found out that I had never been in a relationship and that I was still a virgin. (The most I've really ever done was make out.) . This wound up being a dealbreaker for her, and she called things... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Best Way to Disclose Inexperience? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/av28wk/best_way_to_disclose_inexperience/ |
Wildjay7931 | 2023-08-17 03:11:08 | 1,692,241,868 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15tb331 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15tb331/not_sure_what_im_looking_for/ | 1 | So I (27m) have been single for almost six years now. Purposefuly mostly while I made progress in my life and figured out my paths. But, for about a year now, I've felt comfortable and ready to start looking around again. Honestly felt like what I needed. I've been on a few dates and stuff, flirted, and stuff, but have... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what I'm looking for... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15tb331/not_sure_what_im_looking_for/ |
[deleted] | 2015-07-18 23:01:39 | 1,437,260,499 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3ds5zj | null | null | 14 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3ds5zj/any_ladies_ever_been_stood_up_i_have_and_now_i/ | 35 | Met a guy on tinder and we've been talking back and forth then we set a date up to meet and he canceled on me at the last minute. I'm just really upset and i don't know what to do. I THOUGHT he was interested in me but it turns out that he had other plans that day and he just "forgot" about them... and through his text... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Any ladies ever been stood up? I have and now I feel like shit and want to rant about it | 35 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3ds5zj/any_ladies_ever_been_stood_up_i_have_and_now_i/ |
luxurycomedyoohyeah | 2022-04-14 05:33:23 | 1,649,914,403 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | u3a3yx | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/u3a3yx/is_it_really_a_numbers_game_w_old/ | 6 | I’ve been here for a little while and I keep seeing posts about OLD stats, and how you have to go on a LOT of dates to have any chance at success. I signed up for fb dating for the first time last summer. Met one person I went for a walk with, no chemistry. Matched with one more guy then got cold feet and decided not t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is it really a numbers game w OLD? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/u3a3yx/is_it_really_a_numbers_game_w_old/ |
theillusiveman1 | 2018-06-02 04:14:18 | 1,527,912,858 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 8ny5fk | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8ny5fk/what_exactly_does_no_chemistryconnection_mean/ | 1 | I'm a mid to late 20's guy and actually just now have recently started dating. I've gone on a few dates with different women from online dating apps and I think my profile and pics are good as I am getting dates and matches from them, and can clearly see that they are interested while we're messaging. However, it seems... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What exactly does "no chemistry/connection" mean?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ny5fk/what_exactly_does_no_chemistryconnection_mean/ |
Moha_Loser-King97 | 2024-03-24 00:58:36 | 1,711,241,916 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bm882e | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bm882e/do_you_look_for_serious_relationships_using/ | 1 | Do you use dating apps? And what kind of relationships you look for using it? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you look for serious relationships using dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bm882e/do_you_look_for_serious_relationships_using/ |
successisnotanoption | 2023-12-04 18:32:00 | 1,701,714,720 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 18aqozc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18aqozc/howwhere_to_meet_alternative_women/ | 1 | Basically, I have low af self-esteem and it's difficult for me to meet women. I've tried to maximize myself physically...I run 3x a week, I groom, I have and skin regimes, I dress \really well(\literally the only reason women approach me, although only at bars) I'm 6'3...but my face sucks. Bc of that I'm usually pretty... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How/where to meet alternative women? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18aqozc/howwhere_to_meet_alternative_women/ |
Independent-Maize422 | 2024-02-20 12:27:48 | 1,708,432,068 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1avgh1a | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1avgh1a/men_and_women_dating_differences/ | 45 | Do men keep their opens open for longer than women? I (30F) have been dating (30M) for 2 months and I am catching feelings. I’ve been single for a long time so this is very exciting for me and I am keen to move forward. He has only been single less than a year. His previous relationship was 4 years and has had numerous... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Men and women dating differences? | 44 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1avgh1a/men_and_women_dating_differences/ |
fufu1260 | 2024-08-31 16:59:50 | 1,725,123,590 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1f5rzum | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f5rzum/do_cheaters_tell_others_theyve_been_cheated_on/ | 1 | So I has this old friend who got a gf a while back and when they met they hit off really well. And then sometimes she truama dumped on him telling him she was living in an abusive household with her brother (who apparently was trying to marry her but didn’t care when she had a bf and would forcefullly starve her during... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do cheaters tell others they’ve been cheated on all the time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f5rzum/do_cheaters_tell_others_theyve_been_cheated_on/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-14 12:33:44 | 1,402,749,224 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 284l7f | null | null | 0 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/284l7f/struggling_with_tonights_shenanigans_looking_for/ | 2 | TLDR: I went on a date with a guy from Tinder a couple days ago. He seemed cool. Tonight I was heavily inebriated, invited him over to watch a movie, he was sober. He made a move and I'm uncomfortable with the results. Looking for some insight to which of my emotions are valid and which aren't. A couple days ago I went... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Struggling with tonight's shenanigans. Looking for insight. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/284l7f/struggling_with_tonights_shenanigans_looking_for/ |
throwawayh8dating | 2023-03-04 15:21:55 | 1,677,943,315 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 11i1q2a | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11i1q2a/how_to_keep_track_of_datesmatches/ | 0 | As a woman, I have gotten a lot likes/matches over the years and due to various reasons, almost all these matches don’t become anything. A lot of guys will then unmatch me but I find it difficult to remember who I matched with and why we didn’t continue. I used to keep a spreadsheet YEARS ago but it got time consuming ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to keep track of dates/matches | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11i1q2a/how_to_keep_track_of_datesmatches/ |
TA_ilovechinchillas | 2023-06-08 06:30:56 | 1,686,205,856 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1441g4d | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1441g4d/how_to_deal_with_men_always_inviting_themselves/ | 6 | Hi everyone, so I’m on dating apps like Tinder and Hinge, etc. Any time I make plans with guys, whether that be a genuine date, to just hook up, whatever, they always invite themselves to my place. I always meet the person in a common public area for our first date, so I’m generally comfortable going to someone’s house... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with men always inviting themselves back to my place? | 6 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1441g4d/how_to_deal_with_men_always_inviting_themselves/ |
Skyline952 | 2023-12-28 01:13:41 | 1,703,726,021 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18sh1a7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18sh1a7/what_to_do_on_a_first_date_when_youre_broke/ | 3 | I'm going on a first date with this girl tomorrow and she doesn't know what we're doing. Idk either but I'm thinking I should probably surprise her Thing is, I'm so broke its not even funny. I have just about enough money to keep the lights on until my next pay check. I know its probably not the best time to be dating ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do on a first date when you're broke? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18sh1a7/what_to_do_on_a_first_date_when_youre_broke/ |
Retrojazzer17 | 2022-06-17 21:17:01 | 1,655,500,621 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | veqc17 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/veqc17/what_are_some_good_openers_that_arent_heyy/ | 3 | I (21M) struggle to start up conversations and create interest. How do I get to know someone or start a conversation without saying “Heyy” to “How are you”? Edit: This mostly applies to online dating but in person advice I’ll gladly take as well. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are some good openers that aren’t “Heyy” | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/veqc17/what_are_some_good_openers_that_arent_heyy/ |
Will-Barnes | 2021-02-24 19:07:36 | 1,614,193,656 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lrkpkg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lrkpkg/need_advice_on_starting_a_sort_of_long_distance/ | 2 | I (18M) matched with someone (18F) on Tinder, and we've been messaging back and forth for the past few weeks and I'm really interested in her. We have a lot of similar interests and hobbies, she seems pretty cool, and she's attractive. Only problem is, she's Canadian. And I'm American. Now, that wouldn't normally be a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on starting a (sort of) long distance thing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lrkpkg/need_advice_on_starting_a_sort_of_long_distance/ |
AllthatJazzinGA | 2023-05-23 22:47:47 | 1,684,882,067 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 13q3hbg | true | null | 174 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13q3hbg/trying_to_process_a_weird_breakup/ | 226 | So I'm 42F and have been divorced for a little over 12 years. Dating has been difficult since. I've done a lot of work on myself & healing from toxic relationships. I work remotely & live in the burbs so OLD is really my only option. A few months ago I met a man (who turned 49 today) and we hit it off. We communicated ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Trying to process a weird breakup | 226 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13q3hbg/trying_to_process_a_weird_breakup/ |
Charming_Anxiety | 2020-07-01 02:44:23 | 1,593,571,463 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hj1v1s | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hj1v1s/not_feeling_like_dating_during_pandemic_why_am_i/ | 1 | Soo This post is directed towards though who usually are actively dating and/or enjoy dating and use apps. i noticed the dating app companies are saying that dating app chats are rising and the lenh of time and messaging between people are rising, so it looks like it is more common to enjoy or spend time on these apps ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not feeling like dating during pandemic? Why am I isolating more during an isolation period? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hj1v1s/not_feeling_like_dating_during_pandemic_why_am_i/ |
Ok-Prize576 | 2023-08-20 22:35:16 | 1,692,570,916 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15wp9r6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15wp9r6/how_to_get_more_matches_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | My looks are average and Being an introvert I can't approach people. Plus everywhere you go guys are looked at like they are enemies. So far I have 0 matches on bumble. What should I do | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get more matches on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15wp9r6/how_to_get_more_matches_on_dating_apps/ |
[deleted] | 2023-03-03 16:24:40 | 1,677,860,680 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11h4vcu | true | null | 128 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/11h4vcu/dating_app_prompts_are_boring_a_creative_writing/ | 79 | So we all know the bios and prompts on online apps are incredibly boring. I thought it might be fun, just as an experiment, to post three true things about yourself that you think are unusual or noteworthy. Don't try to sell yourself to another person or use this as an opportunity to get deep (though feel free if you w... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating App Prompts are Boring (a creative writing exercise) | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/11h4vcu/dating_app_prompts_are_boring_a_creative_writing/ |
MFRobots | 2020-09-30 10:48:17 | 1,601,462,897 | null | null | 0 | j2jv3e | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j2jv3e/tats_on_women_less_is_more/ | 0 | I don't mind tats on women, but whatever happened to the days where women kept tats a bit more....smaller, obscure, etc. Like a small tat on the ankle or wrist or shoulder. Now, esp. when you go to swimming areas, you see women with tats sprawled out all over their body and I think, "Such a shame, that's like putting b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tats on women, less is more | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j2jv3e/tats_on_women_less_is_more/ |
Ill-Trick-5411 | 2022-09-08 16:45:01 | 1,662,655,501 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | x95cyt | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x95cyt/bumble/ | 0 | as a girl, what are you saying as your opener that has worked for you. and as a guy, what kind of opening messages do you like receiving? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | bumble | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x95cyt/bumble/ |
jewell54 | 2017-09-05 12:21:27 | 1,504,614,087 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 6y7ly5 | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6y7ly5/why_did_he_stand_me_up/ | 1 | This guy I was briefly talking to online who wanted to see me stood me up at the theater. He's the one that was trying to meet me but kept being inconsistent like waiting to text me last minute to make plans and when we did make plans to go to a bar his phone and ID get stolen apparently. So he uses his iPad at home to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did he stand me up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6y7ly5/why_did_he_stand_me_up/ |
throwawaygirl120 | 2019-03-02 21:49:50 | 1,551,563,390 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | awmtyh | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/awmtyh/i_20f_am_very_new_to_dating_and_am_looking_for/ | 4 | Hello I am a very inexperienced 20 (almost 21) year old and just a few months ago, I decided to delve into the world of dating apps. When I say inexperienced, I mean I have never had a boyfriend and haven’t even had my first kiss. Within the last two months, I have gone on 3 dates with 3 different guys. I really liked ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I (20F) am very new to dating and am looking for advice or tips! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/awmtyh/i_20f_am_very_new_to_dating_and_am_looking_for/ |
kzerotheman | 2024-01-01 04:19:30 | 1,704,082,770 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18vot7p | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18vot7p/starting_to_feel_left_out/ | 1 | In my late 20s and realizing how my time as a dude to meet a girl is running out. I don't know if im overthinking it but damn man, the thoughts of loneliness is creeping up to me and I realize covid really messed up my chances of going back to college and socializing. Online dating apps isn't where it's at, it's not no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Starting to feel left out | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18vot7p/starting_to_feel_left_out/ |
PastafariJerklasagna | 2022-06-15 16:41:06 | 1,655,311,266 | null | ['pof', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | vcyrjz | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vcyrjz/im_looking_for_a_girlfriend_but_dont_know_where/ | 1 | I finally am ready to get a new girlfriend. I'm moving to a city outside of Denver next week, I havent looked online yet I downloaded coffee meets bagel was thinking of using it. I used pof before with minor success and a huge headache lol. I just turned 30 I'm white tall skinny lol maybe there will be a girl at my new... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm looking for a girlfriend but don't know where to look! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vcyrjz/im_looking_for_a_girlfriend_but_dont_know_where/ |
crazymannie | 2024-09-24 15:06:54 | 1,727,190,414 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1foerb1 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1foerb1/need_help_with_dating/ | 2 | Hey so basically I am 22 and can’t get a partner. I am a race car driver and have good hygiene ( I am not going to lie) . So first it started happening because I didn’t have anyone to talk to because it’s always just me by myself apart from my club but that is a group of men and we don’t go out. So then I moved to dati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help with dating. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1foerb1/need_help_with_dating/ |
PolishMountain | 2022-02-16 13:25:29 | 1,645,017,929 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | stvuks | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/stvuks/a_guy_accused_me_of_having_asd_on_a_date/ | 15 | I went on a date with a guy I had met on Tinder last week. He seemed kind enough over text, and just wanted to grab a drink at a place about halfway between us. Everything was seemingly fine until the topic of mental health came up, and after discussing that I have some depression, anxiety, and ADHD problems, he said s... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | A guy accused me of having ASD on a date | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/stvuks/a_guy_accused_me_of_having_asd_on_a_date/ |
Dense-Neighborhood99 | 2023-01-05 23:34:05 | 1,672,961,645 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 104e0ys | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/104e0ys/new_to_dating/ | 1 | I have recently come out of a LTR (6months ago)and feel I just suck at dating. I have never done online dating and just feel like I don't know the 'rules'. I have been seeing someone for a few months and I said I wanted something casual but I feel I am developing feelings. I was hurt in my last relationship so I am so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New to Dating | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/104e0ys/new_to_dating/ |
Difficult_Skill_4741 | 2023-12-12 02:45:00 | 1,702,349,100 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18gbm2x | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18gbm2x/should_i_ask_a_guy_if_he_is_looking_for_a/ | 2 | Hey! I've been texting this guy that I met on Hinge for about a month now. We had our first date a few days ago and it was a lot of fun. We are both in college and now leaving for winter break and won't be able to see each other. He has been drier with his texting after the date, and I'm not sure where his intentions l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask a guy if he is looking for a relationship after the first date? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18gbm2x/should_i_ask_a_guy_if_he_is_looking_for_a/ |
disfggt | 2019-08-09 02:49:53 | 1,565,318,993 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cnw8ih | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cnw8ih/another_almost/ | 2 | This is probably my favourite sub to vent on about trying to navigate my love life, so please bare with me. I have never been one to date multiple people at a time. When I think about it, it makes my skin crawl. I don't have the capacity to entertain many at once. I can't really say I've tried, that requires getting mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Another almost | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cnw8ih/another_almost/ |
iluvpinkandwine | 2023-08-09 17:30:32 | 1,691,602,232 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15mlrgs | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15mlrgs/im_in_love_and_i_dont_care_who_knows_it/ | 1 | I (27 F) have been with my boyfriend (28) for 8 months. We have been inseparable since we met. We have a very healthy relationship (which is new to me). For some context, I have never been the type who moved fast in relationships. I am usually very skeptical and cautious in the beginning stages but this time is differe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m in love and I don’t care who knows it | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15mlrgs/im_in_love_and_i_dont_care_who_knows_it/ |
Brilliant_Range_2570 | 2024-04-04 22:48:45 | 1,712,270,925 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bw1kgg | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bw1kgg/should_i_give_up_on_dating/ | 1 | I'm a 29-year-old male, and a few years ago, I had to move back to my parents' house due to some unwise financial decisions. I have failed in almost everything I've ever tried in life, and I recently decided to pursue video editing as a career path, but I'm uncertain about it, given my track record. However, I've come ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I give up on dating? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bw1kgg/should_i_give_up_on_dating/ |
throwuhwai4 | 2024-04-07 18:15:47 | 1,712,513,747 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1byb4c1 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1byb4c1/i_f25_and_my_hinge_date_m26_went_out_last_night/ | 1 | Last night I went on a first date and it went really well! We had been texting every day for a week before meeting so there’s been a connection and build up. We ended up hanging out for 5 hours (time flies and we were clicking) and we made out in my car afterwards. He texted me promptly after we parted that he wants to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I F25 and my hinge date M26 went out last night on a first date and it went really well. He made it clear his interest in me. Is it too soon to ask to hang out again today (Sunday)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1byb4c1/i_f25_and_my_hinge_date_m26_went_out_last_night/ |
Cryptographer3 | 2022-12-11 19:18:52 | 1,670,786,332 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zj4rjt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zj4rjt/getting_the_nixes_of_signals/ | 3 | (M28) Met this girl off of a dating app. First date was great went back to her place she would not allow me to have sex intercourse with her but I got oral and fingered her. Second date I got to meet her bestfriend and the guy she is dating. Third date we go back to her place hooked up and had sex (kinda) she wanted me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting the nixes of signals | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zj4rjt/getting_the_nixes_of_signals/ |
deindustrialize | 2019-08-06 02:55:16 | 1,565,060,116 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cml06o | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cml06o/the_line_between_unreasonable/ | 6 | Hi everyone, Cis, straight 30F here. Some background: I've been using various dating apps off and on for 3 years with "meh" results. I've probably been on dates with 20ish people, and many don't go over 2 dates, usually because I'm not interested in pursuing it further. I am ultimately interested in a relationship, fin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | The line between un/reasonable | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cml06o/the_line_between_unreasonable/ |
Mindless-Reward6600 | 2023-09-06 03:38:12 | 1,693,971,492 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16b9jzu | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16b9jzu/just_a_thought/ | 1 | Does anybody else see a lot more suffering on both sides, in relation to disconnection, loneliness, and inability to relate ? I'm 47 y/o male, 7-8 easy on looks and fitness. Accomplished , life experienced, adventurous, outgoing, and introspective . I won't even pursue online dating much . If you're not in top ten perc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just a thought . | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16b9jzu/just_a_thought/ |
rawdogonlycrew | 2022-04-30 02:51:21 | 1,651,287,081 | null | null | 0 | uf1ynq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uf1ynq/pictures_with_sloots_yes_or_no/ | 0 | 28M. I don't have pictures with other people except exes/sbs. Are these good or bad for dating apps like hinge? I hear both sides likes "no girls will be liek y r u here?" or "yes, girls will see others girls like u. preselection brah" | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | pictures with sloots? yes or no | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uf1ynq/pictures_with_sloots_yes_or_no/ |
Ploikblah | 2020-09-02 14:21:32 | 1,599,056,492 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | il7olk | true | I Need Advice | 388 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/il7olk/what_are_some_common_reasons_a_confident_average/ | 88 | 23 virgin guy here, never managed to meet a girl who was interested in dating. I have tried every free dating site but never got a match or reply. Been clubbing and to bars many times but never met a woman who was interested in talking. When I was in college I joined hobby clubs because I saw that advice been given so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some common reasons a confident, average looking guy is unable to get a date or a hookup? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/il7olk/what_are_some_common_reasons_a_confident_average/ |
foghornleghorn5 | 2019-05-03 06:42:47 | 1,556,865,767 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | bk5dh3 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bk5dh3/okcupid_messaging_women_who_didnt_like_you/ | 2 | Is there any point in messaging women who didn't give you a "like" on OkCupid? I feel like that's what I need to do, but it seems counterintuitive given the new rules. If a woman wanted to be contacted she would have liked me. That said, women are inundated with messages, so the maybe thatat whole assumption doesn't ho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | OkCupid Messaging women who didn't "like" you. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bk5dh3/okcupid_messaging_women_who_didnt_like_you/ |
[deleted] | 2021-11-21 02:18:56 | 1,637,461,136 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qykrlv | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 136 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qykrlv/dating_absolutely_does_not_get_easier_as_you_age/ | 278 | I just need to get this off my chest. I wish I didn't leave it so late, should have taken this more seriously when I was younger. There has been so many dam times I wished I had met certain people when they were younger... I'm early 30s guy who gets somewhere between 2 to 3 matches a week, not great but not terrible. D... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating absolutely does not get easier as you age | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qykrlv/dating_absolutely_does_not_get_easier_as_you_age/ |
realitysnarker | 2024-01-09 23:40:44 | 1,704,843,644 | 0 | null | 0 | 192tgt0 | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/192tgt0/hinge/ | 9 | Recently joined hinge (after being on here and people saying they have had the best luck on there). Is it worth the free version? I’m really over paying for this crap. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hinge | 9 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/192tgt0/hinge/ |
Froggy_frog7454 | 2024-08-15 21:56:50 | 1,723,759,010 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1et7qkw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1et7qkw/help_me_relieve_my_dating_trust_issues/ | 1 | Help me relieve my dating trust issues I (24F) did not want to start a relationship rn because of various factors, such as having to do a lot of work on finishing my medical degree right now, wanting to go live in a place on my own for a while and most importantly, because I’m a person who has a hard time disconnecting... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help me relieve my dating trust issues | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1et7qkw/help_me_relieve_my_dating_trust_issues/ |
chink0shabr3 | 2024-09-18 02:21:14 | 1,726,626,074 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fji36r | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fji36r/need_some_advice_sweet_and_cheerful_girlfriend/ | 1 | I'm a 25M and met a girl on a dating app three months ago. Although we’re from the same city, she’s currently studying abroad. While I was also talking to other girls at the time who were in my city, I felt a strong connection with her, so we eventually decided to enter into a relationship. Since then, we’ve been talki... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need some advice. Sweet and cheerful girlfriend 24F, out of the blue asks to take things slow. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fji36r/need_some_advice_sweet_and_cheerful_girlfriend/ |
StriderKeni | 2022-12-29 09:51:41 | 1,672,307,501 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | zy1j6o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zy1j6o/how_common_is_it_to_have_a_first_date_in_someones/ | 1 | I matched with someone on Bumble, and after talking for a few days, she said she wanted to drink wine and cook together tomorrow at my place. It sounds like a perfect date, but I am unsure what to expect. Usually, my first dates are going for a walk, coffee, dinner, etc., but I have never brought someone to my place wi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How common is it to have a first date in someone's apartment? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zy1j6o/how_common_is_it_to_have_a_first_date_in_someones/ |
bmax20x | 2020-09-01 14:09:57 | 1,598,969,397 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ikkxok | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ikkxok/cant_tell_if_shes_interested_or_not/ | 2 | So I (25m) recently started dating again. I’ve been talking to this girl (25f) matched with on tinder who works at a coffee shop I go to frequently, so we both recognized each other. I always thought she was really pretty and seemed cool so I told her and said I would love to take her out to dinner. She said that would... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can’t tell if she’s interested or not | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ikkxok/cant_tell_if_shes_interested_or_not/ |
Vaeldicurun | 2023-05-12 21:03:28 | 1,683,925,408 | 0 | null | 0 | 13fx183 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13fx183/profile_advice/ | 0 | I (42f) suck at writing about myself. Also I feel I need to be up front that I have kids, so how do I not look like Im just shopping for a stand in baby daddy? What can I add to what I've already come up with? I wanna keep it short and sweet but not too cheesy or weird. "I'm an odd sort, kinda nerdy. Not really a count... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Profile advice | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13fx183/profile_advice/ |
andresjara83 | 2018-10-12 03:38:18 | 1,539,315,498 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 9ngw7j | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ngw7j/dating_russian_and_ukrainian_girls/ | 0 | I want to share on my experience of dating Ukrainian and Russian girls for anyone interested in finding a beautiful, sweet and educated girl to form a family or simply having a serious relationship. I always liked Slavic girls because their astonishing beauty and cute accent, however; I never imagined they were so many... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Russian and Ukrainian Girls | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ngw7j/dating_russian_and_ukrainian_girls/ |
BearBlaq | 2022-08-22 20:57:34 | 1,661,201,854 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wv4ync | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wv4ync/am_i_doing_this_right/ | 1 | 25 year old male, just starting dating(or at least attempting to) these last 2 years roughly. I’ve only been out with a woman a handful of times and only got past a 2nd and 3rd date with one. I learned a lot in the bit of time we talked, but I wasn’t sure how progress a relationship since I’d never been in one. She end... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing this right | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wv4ync/am_i_doing_this_right/ |
AltCoinPimp | 2021-07-26 07:51:11 | 1,627,285,871 | null | null | 0 | oru40m | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oru40m/ladies_have_you_ever_brought_a_friend_along_on_a/ | 12 | \A planned one-on-one date.\ Its happened to me twice: once from a Nurse I met, and another was someone I met from POF. The Nurse literally when she was 5 mins away from the bar, "Oh i have my friend with me, do you mind?" I ended up recognizing her friend from Fire Academy, which caught my date off gaurd and conversed... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies Have you ever brought a friend along on a first date? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oru40m/ladies_have_you_ever_brought_a_friend_along_on_a/ |
Counterclockwise9 | 2018-01-07 13:00:52 | 1,515,330,052 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7oqfs0 | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7oqfs0/first_tinder_date_thats_been_a_success/ | 2 | Went on a date with a girl I’ve been talking too for a while last night and it went great. It’s only my 6 tinder date so far and most have been a big let down but this one was actually great. She’s funny, clever, sexy and very interesting. Looking to ask her out again, how long should I wait before I ask ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First tinder date that’s been a success | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7oqfs0/first_tinder_date_thats_been_a_success/ |
tarak8isgr8 | 2022-12-12 22:50:08 | 1,670,885,408 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zkeehq | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zkeehq/no_im_not_being_dramatic_by_being_cautious/ | 37 | So I'm back on dating apps which is, yanno, hell. and I'm a single woman living alone in a large city, on top of that I moved here with my ex over a year ago and after we broke up I haven't had much of a support system locally. Because of all this I don't put my name on my dating profiles but rather a variation of my m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | No, I'm not being dramatic by being cautious | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zkeehq/no_im_not_being_dramatic_by_being_cautious/ |
idfk1234 | 2017-07-16 04:28:10 | 1,500,179,290 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6nkf03 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6nkf03/confused_about_my_tinder_match/ | 1 | Hey guys, i matched this girl on Tinder last week (shes 19), i messaged her, got her snapchat and we were talking and somewhat bantering. Honestly, from her bio she seems really slutty, but i didnt treat her that way (didnt send dick pics or ask her "wyd" after midnight). Im not even sure how much of her bio was actual... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused about my Tinder match | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6nkf03/confused_about_my_tinder_match/ |
maxiepad15 | 2024-06-21 14:00:16 | 1,718,978,416 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1dl4p23 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1dl4p23/what_is_the_meaning_of_this_saying_in_your/ | 1 | DON'T PISS OF OLD PEOPLE THE OLDER WE GET THE LESS "LIFE IN PRISON" IS A DETERRENT | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What is the meaning of this saying in your opinion. Thanks | 1 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1dl4p23/what_is_the_meaning_of_this_saying_in_your/ |
TacoPhone937 | 2023-04-03 00:17:21 | 1,680,481,041 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 12a3ft4 | true | Seeking Advice | 139 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/12a3ft4/the_sexy_talk_conundrum/ | 63 | Go gentle…I’ve been back to OLD for whopping two weeks after a solid mental health break. I’m very comfortable with my sexuality and being in my own skin suit. I love sex. It’s healthy and important in a relationship. It’s important to know a potential partners view on it. I have relationship status desired : basically... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | The Sexy Talk Conundrum | 63 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/12a3ft4/the_sexy_talk_conundrum/ |
squirrelsridewheels | 2023-03-13 18:02:24 | 1,678,730,544 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11qgpb0 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/11qgpb0/what_dating_apps_have_the_best_reputation/ | 0 | What dating apps do you know have the best reputation? For example, Tinder is known as the dirty hook up app by many, even so much so that “Family guy” did an entire scene about it? What are some apps that have reputation for not being grimy? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What dating apps have the best reputation? | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/11qgpb0/what_dating_apps_have_the_best_reputation/ |
certainlyaliar | 2024-04-15 18:46:16 | 1,713,206,776 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c4u0ao | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c4u0ao/getting_drinks_as_a_first_date/ | 1 | I (29m) just got out of a 4 year relationship and joined Hinge. I've gotten a couple matches and plan to go out for drinks with a match on Friday. I prefer to sit at the bar when getting drinks because I think its less pressure and easier to talk. However, I feel like Friday night would be a busy night and I'm worried ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting drinks as a first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c4u0ao/getting_drinks_as_a_first_date/ |
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