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civicmapper | 2023-10-06 17:28:48 | 1,696,613,328 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 171ie06 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/171ie06/been_single_for_over_3_years_really_struggling/ | 1 | So I'm a 20 year old guy and the last time and only time i was actually in a relationship was 17. I've done stuff since but like not an actual girlfriend. I've tried Tinder, Hinge. I briefly bought tinder gold or whatever it is and got a fair few matches but without it i maybe get one or two every couple of months. Hin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Been single for over 3 years. Really struggling with the dating scene | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/171ie06/been_single_for_over_3_years_really_struggling/ |
Borscht32 | 2023-08-29 09:44:19 | 1,693,302,259 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 164dw9q | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/164dw9q/when_do_you_guys_stop_trying/ | 1 | So there's this girl I met on tinder, out of a lot of matches she's the only one who replies, we've been talking on snapchat for about 3 weeks and everytime I propose to go out she says yes but then can't and een if it's her idea she eventually can't its been 4 times. When do you guys stop trying? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | When do you guys stop trying? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/164dw9q/when_do_you_guys_stop_trying/ |
DrewRedBeard | 2021-01-22 16:47:49 | 1,611,334,069 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | l2rlwg | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l2rlwg/is_it_bad_if_i_m25_messagesnapchat_her_f22_often/ | 5 | I matched with someone on hinge a few weeks ago and we’ve been texting/snapchatting pretty frequently. Last weekend we had a video chat for nearly 3hrs (bc she was nervous to meet in person bc covid). My question is, I’m the one initiating the communication bc I really enjoy talking with her. I want to keep talking wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it bad if I [M25] message/Snapchat her [F22] often? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l2rlwg/is_it_bad_if_i_m25_messagesnapchat_her_f22_often/ |
NuclearNereid | 2023-04-30 12:24:07 | 1,682,857,447 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 133nt22 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 182 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/133nt22/guy_tells_me_he_loves_me_on_first_date_red_flag/ | 85 | Here is some context: Wednesday: Matched with a guy on a dating app. We had really good conversations and talked on the phone/video chatted probably an accumulative 3 hours that day. Conversations ranged from favorite colors to past relationships to sexual likes. Thursday: Talked on the phone another 3 hours-ish. Frida... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy tells me he loves me on first date. Red flag? | 85 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/133nt22/guy_tells_me_he_loves_me_on_first_date_red_flag/ |
bigbillyschili | 2024-07-07 22:06:58 | 1,720,390,018 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1dxsdk7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dxsdk7/any_suggestions/ | 1 | I matched with a girl last week and we are going out this coming Wednesday. I feel like we’ve been texting too much/talking and as the days get closer we don’t message much any more. We maybe send like 4 messages total now a day. This has happened to me before in the past where we just lose interest because we over tex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any suggestions | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dxsdk7/any_suggestions/ |
haleyhop | 2014-11-29 04:55:32 | 1,417,236,932 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 2nqdk9 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/2nqdk9/cant_get_over_a_crush/ | 4 | Over the summer, I [20F] met a guy [25M]. We had an amazing connection – we didn't date at all, only talked and flirted, but we were both totally smitten (for lack of a better word) by each other (or at least he told me that he liked me a lot/showed a lot of interest, and I feel like his feelings for me matched the one... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can't get over a crush | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2nqdk9/cant_get_over_a_crush/ |
SkyrinN00B | 2021-02-01 04:42:55 | 1,612,154,575 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | l9v03l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l9v03l/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 3 | (22M) I've had self confidence issues since before highschool. Never dated all though highschool because I never tried to and figured I wasn't good enough. Went to a small college with very few women(we're talking like 12% in my major). Over that four years I made like one or two attempts at flirting with girls I liked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm not sure what to do... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l9v03l/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
Such_Fly_7562 | 2024-03-08 14:24:58 | 1,709,907,898 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b9p64s | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b9p64s/trouble_dating/ | 1 | I have been single for the past 10 years, I had couple dates here and there, but just an handful of them and didn’t end up like I wanted to ( either because I felt I could find somebody more compatible or I was heartbroken), I overall think of myself as a decent person, I’m a little shy around people and need time to o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trouble dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b9p64s/trouble_dating/ |
JusaJokester | 2016-05-20 18:36:55 | 1,463,769,415 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4k9osg | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/4k9osg/so_after_years_of_trying_to_date_im_still_single/ | 1 | Well as the title says I'm single heh. Anyway I always tried to date girls but no matter what they would like me for one minute then the next not so much. I mean even in middle school when you had that one crush and then when she started liking you back you think "man know the start of something nice" Then the rosy sce... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So after years of trying to date I'm still single lol | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4k9osg/so_after_years_of_trying_to_date_im_still_single/ |
TimeToSeattleDown | 2023-08-06 18:59:00 | 1,691,348,340 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 15jxh5f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15jxh5f/i_moved_to_a_new_city_and_cant_seem_to/ | 1 | I moved to a new city earlier this year. The experience has been overwhelming to say the least. Given the time available to me, I've tried to at least get on some dating apps, so that I'm not completely dropping this off. I've been trying to find friends through Bumble and Tinder, and more dating stuff through Hinge, C... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I moved to a new city and can't seem to successfully fit dating in my life. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15jxh5f/i_moved_to_a_new_city_and_cant_seem_to/ |
MysticMountain2020 | 2019-06-27 06:38:25 | 1,561,617,505 | null | null | 0 | c624ds | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c624ds/question_for_women_looking_for_meaningful/ | 3 | I'm (36M) curious if you ever find "meaningful connections" or some degree of an actual relationship ( Mono or Poly). I only ever seem to just hook up. This post isnt really about me but more curious if relationships do form from OLD? Thanx 💙 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question for Women looking for meaningful connections with OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c624ds/question_for_women_looking_for_meaningful/ |
C0lumbo | 2023-03-01 22:52:19 | 1,677,711,139 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 11fkwdp | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/11fkwdp/dating_profile_text_style/ | 5 | I'm planning to get started on dating apps sometime soon, and I've been reading advice and looking at examples for profile text. There seems to be an established tone which I see recommended everywhere (e.g. most examples or , templates like 'job title by day hobby list by night', or modified movie quotes, or 'this t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating profile text style | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/11fkwdp/dating_profile_text_style/ |
straightonesxx | 2016-10-13 19:37:57 | 1,476,387,477 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 57c6zl | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/57c6zl/his_spelling_is_killing_me_am_i_overreacting/ | 1 | Matched with this guy on Tinder, he's 33 and in academia(assistant professor in business). Well initially his spelling was normal (he'd even use "big words" haha) with some spelling errors but i didn't care it was fine and he even said his spelling sucks BUT oh lord for almost the last 2 days now his spelling took a HU... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | His spelling is killing me, am i overreacting | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/57c6zl/his_spelling_is_killing_me_am_i_overreacting/ |
jasminemonstera | 2021-08-29 15:11:26 | 1,630,249,886 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | pdx0hf | true | null | 87 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pdx0hf/asking_the_guy_out/ | 37 | I matched with a guy on Bumble and we got along but things didn’t really go anywhere and we never ended up meeting. I have him on Instagram and we always like each others pictures and have a chat here and there in our messages. It’s one of those things. I find that I’m always facing this conflict of wanting not to seem... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Asking the guy out | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pdx0hf/asking_the_guy_out/ |
[deleted] | 2013-04-03 19:45:15 | 1,365,018,315 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1blx1a | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1blx1a/i_f22_have_gone_on_two_dates_and_have_plans_for_a/ | 3 | So I decided to give the whole online dating thing a try because I'm pretty awful at meeting new people, work with mostly women and I know most of the guys in my major and am not interested in any of them. I've gone out with this guy two times now and we both seemed to have a great time and we have plans to go out agai... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [f/22] have gone on two dates and have plans for a 3rd with [m/23] and it's been going great so far but I think I'm gonna have to be the first one to make a move and I don't know how or when to do that. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1blx1a/i_f22_have_gone_on_two_dates_and_have_plans_for_a/ |
Flimsy_Avocado_1561 | 2023-11-05 15:34:09 | 1,699,198,449 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17oeffq | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17oeffq/dating_someone_who_isnt_attracted_to_your_body/ | 50 | So I'm in a really weird place with my body right now. I've lost a lot of weight and now I have loose, saggy fat. I'm also in a really weird middle stage where I'm not average sized yet but I'm also not the ssbbw I was. My dating history has always been with guys who liked fat girls, and LIKED my fat body, my belly esp... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating someone who isn't attracted to your body? | 50 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17oeffq/dating_someone_who_isnt_attracted_to_your_body/ |
Givememylacroixback | 2019-11-05 04:43:19 | 1,572,928,999 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | drub7g | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/drub7g/mixed_signals_what_the_heck/ | 1 | Help. I've been seeing this guy for three months, we met on bumble. He says he is interested in me but has trouble showing it. He recognizes and apologises for it. He barely texts and it's almost impossible to make plans with him. When I try to get to know him he dodges ALL of my questions but when we hang out he is ex... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Mixed signals, what the heck?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/drub7g/mixed_signals_what_the_heck/ |
Process-Bubbly | 2021-01-28 08:44:48 | 1,611,823,488 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | l6s0y7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l6s0y7/m20_looking_for_lifedating_advice/ | 1 | Ever since I was born, I have had difficulty with my confidence. I believe the reason that I was born without fingers and walk in very disabled way. My mother hinted that I was going to be alone my whole life, and nobody would want to be with me because of my disabilities. so, when I was 17, I started partying in hope ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M20 looking for life/dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l6s0y7/m20_looking_for_lifedating_advice/ |
karielass | 2020-04-15 20:36:13 | 1,586,982,973 | null | ['swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | g2074v | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g2074v/i_fell_in_love_with_a_person_i_never_met/ | 1 | Is it possible to fall in love with someone you only met in Bumble and never had a chance to personally meet? Someone you only talked with for a little while? I am 21F and he is 25, I didn’t like him at first because he called me boring. I was so cautious everytime I exchanged messages with him, he always got in my ner... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I fell in love with a person I never met. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g2074v/i_fell_in_love_with_a_person_i_never_met/ |
Resident_Office1579 | 2023-01-04 10:11:20 | 1,672,827,080 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 102zwqg | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/102zwqg/am_i_trying_to_hard_or_is_this_guy_just_dtf/ | 2 | I 26 F matched with 31 M on a dating app. He was really cute and we hit it off really well. He messaged me first on the dating app. We messaged all night and eventually exchanged numbers the same night and began texting over the next few days, even using voice memo. We added each other on IG as well. Unfortunately beca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I trying to hard or is this guy just DTF??? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/102zwqg/am_i_trying_to_hard_or_is_this_guy_just_dtf/ |
mashed-potato-- | 2020-04-19 05:00:11 | 1,587,272,411 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g41xar | true | null | 100 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/g41xar/why_some_men_compliments_so_much_and/ | 0 | I am a girl and that happens a lot on tinder, guys keep telling me how beautiful they find me and I'm like alright mate of course you find me attractive otherwise you wouldn't have swiped right. This happens also on first dates. Guys say "you're so beautiful" or whatever compliment related to my appearance. Why? What d... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why (some) men compliments so much and straightforwardly women? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/g41xar/why_some_men_compliments_so_much_and/ |
rinbk201 | 2023-11-30 12:29:52 | 1,701,347,392 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 187hfd9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/187hfd9/so_over_dating_apps/ | 21 | It's getting harder and harder to find decent guys to date. Tinder is just flooded with people that are super young for me, or only looking for hook ups. I just want to find a nice sweet guy that wants to actually date. Even if a guys profile says looking for long term, he just wants a hook up. I'm getting over these t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So over dating apps | 21 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/187hfd9/so_over_dating_apps/ |
Most-Extent-4661 | 2024-01-17 03:22:08 | 1,705,461,728 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 198ml9x | true | Success Story 🎉 | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/198ml9x/as_valentines_day_nears_women_scramble_to_lower/ | 1 | Every year I'm February, single women are reminded of the fact that they have thousands upon thousands of men to choose from on dating apps. "I normally tell myself they aren't good enough for me" , says Brianna of Red.dit. "But this Valentines day I'm gonna lower my height standards for men. Instead of choosing men th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | As Valentines Day nears, women scramble to lower their standards for men | 1 | 0.35 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/198ml9x/as_valentines_day_nears_women_scramble_to_lower/ |
PalpitationIcy5246 | 2023-11-04 21:26:34 | 1,699,133,194 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17nvysz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17nvysz/is_it_normal_to_not_text_before_meeting_up_on_the/ | 1 | So I have had bad experiences with girls in the past and I'm going out with mentally sane women now and its very different than what I'm used to. I matched with a girl on hinge and we made plans for next week. We confirmed the plans and texted for a little and then she left me on seen when she woke up today. Do I wait ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal to not text before meeting up on the first date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17nvysz/is_it_normal_to_not_text_before_meeting_up_on_the/ |
PhoneOwn | 2022-12-25 06:20:59 | 1,671,949,259 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zus96z | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zus96z/is_modern_dating_over_with/ | 4 | Before I start this post I’m a 26M, African American 5’9 dude. I’ve never really had problems getting with woman throughout my life but at this point, but now dating just doesn’t do it for me anymore. Since a youngin, i have always been a nice person.I I’ll always get the “oh there’s no way you don’t have a girlfriend ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | IS MODERN DATING OVER WITH? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zus96z/is_modern_dating_over_with/ |
bubzu | 2021-05-02 04:25:04 | 1,619,929,504 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | n2yzjl | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n2yzjl/do_you_think_it_counts_as_ghosting_if_you_never/ | 1 | Just looking for other peoples' opinions. I always thought "ghosting" specifically referred to someone you were fairly serious with, but I feel like I'm seeing people use it when referring to someone they matched with on a dating app but never dated, or for people they went on 1 or 2 dates casual dates with, then got l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you think it counts as "ghosting" if you never met up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n2yzjl/do_you_think_it_counts_as_ghosting_if_you_never/ |
confidentrose | 2022-09-25 03:41:40 | 1,664,077,300 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | xncir0 | true | Success Story 🎉 | 91 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xncir0/i_was_ready_to_give_up_on_dating_until_today/ | 499 | Got out of a decade long relationship a few months ago but the relationship truthfully ended last January. I had been on some dates that were awful, no chemistry, no stimulating conversation. Had an awful situationship that left me feeling heartbroken. I was truly ready to stop dating for good. Had talked to this guy I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I was ready to give up on dating until today | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xncir0/i_was_ready_to_give_up_on_dating_until_today/ |
Icy_Dish_8207 | 2024-08-12 23:57:18 | 1,723,507,038 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eqtfdm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eqtfdm/how_do_i_f25_get_my_groove_back/ | 4 | I got broken up with about 6 months ago because he “wanted to experience dating other people”. I have struggled everyday for the past 6 months. I’ve tried to talk to guys and have downloaded dating apps but as far as meeting up, I just am too insecure and just have a lack of confidence. I get nervous and am super awkwa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I (F25) get my groove back? | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eqtfdm/how_do_i_f25_get_my_groove_back/ |
LeeLooDalasMultipas | 2019-09-05 00:18:19 | 1,567,642,699 | null | null | 0 | czt8sn | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/czt8sn/is_there_a_dating_app_that_filters_fb_friends/ | 1 | I never tried dating apps because I am afraid I am gonna bump into family members or work colleagues. I guess you can all imagine the embarrassment there. So I was wondering if any of the existing dating apps has a feature that filters Facebook friends/ phone contacts? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is there a dating app that filters FB friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/czt8sn/is_there_a_dating_app_that_filters_fb_friends/ |
DarkShadowGirl | 2024-09-22 06:37:25 | 1,726,987,045 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1fmmz4r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fmmz4r/got_a_guys_number_at_a_mtg_prerelease_should_i/ | 1 | So I went to a MTG prerelease last night and the last person I was matched up with was a pretty cute guy. I am on the lookout to start dating and I was kinda forward with him and started asking if he did these often and stuff, told him about a league event next Thursday and said he should go... I asked if he came with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got a guy's number at a MTG prerelease... Should I text him? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmmz4r/got_a_guys_number_at_a_mtg_prerelease_should_i/ |
IsaacRaschke | 2018-08-08 12:52:47 | 1,533,732,767 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 95lq76 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/95lq76/what_can_i_do_about_being_ignored_on_dating_sites/ | 1 | This is my only way to not be lonely, I can't even get casual sex :( I'm a guy and meeting in real life is too hard for me because my social skills aren't great on top of not belonging where I am AT ALL (I'm like no one here).. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What can I do about being ignored on dating sites except for one who talked but moved on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/95lq76/what_can_i_do_about_being_ignored_on_dating_sites/ |
HopeINFUSION | 2022-08-05 07:06:19 | 1,659,683,179 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wgon99 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wgon99/do_you_ever_ghost_people/ | 2 | Do you ever ghost people on dating apps or in general? And if so why do you do this? Do you think the act of ghosting can be servicing someone in the long run? Is it just too awkward, tiring and unnecessary to have to always explain yourself if it’s too early on? How early is too early to ghost people? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you ever ghost people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wgon99/do_you_ever_ghost_people/ |
forget4 | 2019-06-08 21:21:05 | 1,560,028,865 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | bycq77 | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bycq77/do_i_m24_give_up_on_dating_because_of_my_mindset/ | 7 | Ive never been in a relationship or had sex. Ive gone on dates over the years and just had bad experiences being lead on and used for attention. Almost had a relationship and sex recently but I basically caused it to end since I just kept having doubts about being with that girl despite her having a great personality. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I [M/24] give up on dating because of my mindset? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bycq77/do_i_m24_give_up_on_dating_because_of_my_mindset/ |
FoxyRoxyBoo | 2018-11-08 06:53:45 | 1,541,660,025 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9v7to7 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9v7to7/my_bf_leaves_me_on_read_often_i_feel_immature_for/ | 1 | My bf and I have been dating for almost a year now. We have had our ups and downs like any relationship. When we first started talking (we met on tinder... not looking for hookups) we would text and snap 24/7 I mean of course occasionally taking time to reply back and everything but he would never NOT reply. Now, it’s ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My bf leaves me on read often... I feel immature for getting upset over it, but he’s the only person I want to talk to | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9v7to7/my_bf_leaves_me_on_read_often_i_feel_immature_for/ |
ShinglesMadeMeDoIt | 2024-05-30 05:44:08 | 1,717,047,848 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d3wuqj | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1d3wuqj/a_romcom_or_bust/ | 1 | I need you to stop what you are doing and tell me to stop what I am doing I’m (43F) have known him (36M) for almost 10 years. Our daughters have been friends since kindergarten. Back then, we were both married and I knew his wife but we were never friends. I divorced 9 years ago and he divorced 3 years ago. Our daughte... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A rom-com or bust | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1d3wuqj/a_romcom_or_bust/ |
m2yawna | 2019-10-19 21:35:53 | 1,571,520,953 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | dka35d | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dka35d/why_am_i_getting_matches/ | 1 | Why in the world am I getting matches if I'm a psl 4 on attraction. My bio has nothing good going for it. Just filled out what they asked me like if I'm single or not, yet I'm getting matches somehow wtf. And the girls on this app say I look decent. I honestly dont understand attraction and shit honestly | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why am I getting matches? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dka35d/why_am_i_getting_matches/ |
Yellownightdreams | 2023-11-28 10:40:36 | 1,701,168,036 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 185t6me | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/185t6me/delusional_or_glow_up/ | 1 | So the last couple months i've noticed i've been getting more "discreet" attention from people. I've never been extremely attractive and i'm pretty chubby with a double chin i absolutely despise, so i've gotten used to being the wingman or standing on the side lines while my friends are being flirted with but my hair h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Delusional or glow up? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/185t6me/delusional_or_glow_up/ |
AmanWithNoLand | 2023-06-25 00:16:26 | 1,687,652,186 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14i7uyz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14i7uyz/26m_losing_hope_on_finding_a_girlfriend/ | 1 | I broke up with my girlfriend in January after 2 years. Been on dating apps for 6 months, going to clubs and bars and not a single girl is interested in me. I gained 15kg during my past relationships so I am kinda overweight now idk if it's relevant I am also 183cm tall. It just feels really heavy to be undesirable by ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 26m losing hope on finding a girlfriend | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14i7uyz/26m_losing_hope_on_finding_a_girlfriend/ |
ksspp | 2019-04-29 16:49:30 | 1,556,556,570 | null | ['online dating', 'dating platform'] | 0 | birqmp | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/birqmp/f23_confused_as_to_why_i_got_ghosted/ | 4 | About a week ago, I started talking to a guy [27] on an online dating platform. We met up a few days later and the date went really great He texted me right after and said he had a good time and wanted to meet up on the weekend if I was interested. I told him I was and we continued to text. Fast forward to Friday I mes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [f/23] Confused as to why I got ghosted | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/birqmp/f23_confused_as_to_why_i_got_ghosted/ |
RedditAcccount2798 | 2024-03-07 22:53:10 | 1,709,851,990 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b9833p | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9833p/i_dodged_a_bullet/ | 1 | Ok a couple months ago I matched with a decent looking girl that seemed like a nice girl but once I got to know her true colors shown. Her personality was toxic, she was a spoiled brat that just wanted a sugar daddy. Her shitty attitude and personality was pissing me off so I told her I lied about her being pretty and ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I dodged a bullet | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9833p/i_dodged_a_bullet/ |
katkoot_ | 2024-09-02 01:46:42 | 1,725,241,602 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f6v2k0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f6v2k0/im_inexperienced_he_isnthow_to_tell_if_he/ | 1 | I (25f) have been dating this guy (28m) for 2.5 months now and I’m really starting to fall for him. The problem is this is the first time I ever felt this way about a guy and I’m terrified. I’m inexperienced when it comes to dating while he’s admitted to being a bit of a fuckboy in the past. I can tell bc he knows exac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m inexperienced, he isn’t…how to tell if he actually likes me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f6v2k0/im_inexperienced_he_isnthow_to_tell_if_he/ |
n3x7life | 2020-05-17 04:12:28 | 1,589,688,748 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | gl8zi8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gl8zi8/so_i_created_a_flowchart_to_streamline_my_online/ | 5 | I've been in the online dating scene now since December last year and overall I'd say I've had just slightly more bad experiences than good ones. I'm not really one to beat myself up or get disheartened easily despite the annoying nature of online dating (i.e girls using old photos from 2016 when they looked much diffe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So I created a flowchart to streamline my online dating life | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gl8zi8/so_i_created_a_flowchart_to_streamline_my_online/ |
MyShoulderHurtsAlot | 2020-07-25 17:18:18 | 1,595,697,498 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | hxqcyf | true | Venting | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hxqcyf/i_got_ghosted_after_a_great_date_and_im_not_sure/ | 8 | Hello r/ dating! I just had a bad experience and I'm looking to vent and get someone else's opinion of the situation that just happened to me. I (31M) had a video date with her (27F) last night, it seemingly went great, and now I've been completely blocked. I had recently started getting back into online dating and got... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I got Ghosted after a great date and I'm not sure why | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hxqcyf/i_got_ghosted_after_a_great_date_and_im_not_sure/ |
_Copper_ | 2023-07-25 17:52:39 | 1,690,307,559 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 159fo6c | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/159fo6c/not_sure_if_hes_into_me/ | 1 | Hello, I (m/31) recently ended a relationship a couple months back. I felt I was ready to head back into the dating world, or at least look around for potential options. As I headed out on a two-week vacation to Europe, I received a like from this guy on Hinge (m/27). We started texting while I was in Paris and it turn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not sure if he's into me... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/159fo6c/not_sure_if_hes_into_me/ |
Scared_Sherbert_4459 | 2023-07-03 10:26:31 | 1,688,379,991 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14pf7hu | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14pf7hu/how_long_is_too_long_to_vet_someone/ | 3 | Just had a guy tell me I’d be looking at up to 6 months for him to vet me and see if he wants to be with me. I’m new to dating and he’s a little bit older so I don’t know if this is normal but I think it’s ridiculous. I don’t think it takes this long to know if you want to become official with someone (unless everythin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long is too long to “vet” someone? | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14pf7hu/how_long_is_too_long_to_vet_someone/ |
Ok-Refrigerator5251 | 2024-08-01 07:16:27 | 1,722,496,587 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1ehagzc | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ehagzc/god_im_lonely_where_do_i_find_a_partner/ | 7 | I was in a four year relationship that wasn’t healthy for both parts. My partner let’s call her A, was emotionally controlling and very demanding in her wants and needs. To satisfy A’s lack of trust (unbiased) I’d have to be on the phone with her any time I wasn’t with her in the moment. I had no semblance of self. It ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | God im lonely, where do I find a partner? | 7 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ehagzc/god_im_lonely_where_do_i_find_a_partner/ |
Lodreus503 | 2018-11-04 13:35:56 | 1,541,338,556 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 9u3d59 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9u3d59/what_would_you_consider_this_situation/ | 1 | Not too sure on the title but Im currently interested in two girls I met on Hinge. I went out on a date with the first girl which didn't go so well as I mentioned this girl before on a different thread. Anyway, she was bit socially out of it but regardless her personality wanted me to see her again. We planned to see a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What would you consider this situation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9u3d59/what_would_you_consider_this_situation/ |
Calicat05 | 2018-05-17 18:12:14 | 1,526,580,734 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 8k6evv | false | null | 105 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8k6evv/online_dating_apps_that_dont_require_liking_or/ | 56 | I just want to look at profiles. I don't want to have to say yes or no to someone just to be able to see the next person. So far I've tried bumble, okcupid, and tinder. They aren't really my style. I don't have a lot of places locally to meet people in real life, so I figured I would try online. I've only been on for a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Online Dating apps that don't require liking or disliking someone to see the next person? | 56 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8k6evv/online_dating_apps_that_dont_require_liking_or/ |
Itbuff24 | 2023-04-18 01:24:04 | 1,681,781,044 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 12q522y | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12q522y/trying_to_get_over_a_breakup/ | 1 | I 28m , met my ex 35f on facebook dating and we dated for almost 2 months and were starting to make plans for our wedding in the future when all of a sudden she breaks up with me after I had left her house so what are some ways I can stop thinking about her and move on | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to get over a breakup | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12q522y/trying_to_get_over_a_breakup/ |
bootyholeminer | 2018-07-24 12:43:53 | 1,532,436,233 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 91h1wj | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/91h1wj/is_she_bad_news_will_my_dick_get_bitten_off/ | 0 | I matched with a chubby girl on tinder, I was talking to her for a day and I lost interest and got sidetracked with shit to do during the day. Today she messages me about 12 times over the day without me replying at all and was being really desperate. - Hey how was your day? - Hey get up to much today - Okay then have ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she bad news? will my dick get bitten off? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/91h1wj/is_she_bad_news_will_my_dick_get_bitten_off/ |
bravarado7 | 2019-04-20 19:05:04 | 1,555,787,104 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bffsvp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bffsvp/confusion_after_first_date/ | 1 | Need suggestions on the below scenario that I find myself in. Details with numbers below: First in-person meet-up after texting for \2 weeks Date lasted for \3.5 hours. Conversation went really well - flirting, teasing, strong-eye contact from her end as well. When we got the cheque, she literally grabbed it from my ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confusion after first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bffsvp/confusion_after_first_date/ |
Prada_Curl | 2023-11-16 08:57:43 | 1,700,125,063 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 17widln | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17widln/how_to_get_people_not_focus_on_looks/ | 1 | I’m a 22F, it’s so annoying that majority of the men that I talk to only talk about my looks. I’m not trying to sound conceited or asking for attention but i’m actually frustrated. They only compliment me on my looks or talk about how good we will look together, but not get to know me. It hurts so much when a man never... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get people not focus on looks? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17widln/how_to_get_people_not_focus_on_looks/ |
filippo333 | 2024-09-29 22:28:44 | 1,727,648,924 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1fsgk9q | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fsgk9q/are_my_expectations_too_high/ | 1 | For context, I am 30M and have never dated anyone before. I've been on dating apps on and off for years, I've had quite a few people like me, some even reach out to me and vice versa (with no success). I have this habit of not engaging with matches unless I find them somewhat attractive and also their profile must have... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are my expectations too high? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fsgk9q/are_my_expectations_too_high/ |
Substantial_Bus4022 | 2024-07-09 12:53:51 | 1,720,529,631 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1dz1o30 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dz1o30/how_do_you_deal_with_rejection_fatigue/ | 3 | So I want to start this topic by giving a bit of a context. I used to have a sense of morality while dating which didnt bear any flexibility. I thought loyalty, communication, sincerety, empathy, and all other core values should be part of dating and if they are absent then its their shortcoming. I would like to believ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you deal with rejection fatigue? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dz1o30/how_do_you_deal_with_rejection_fatigue/ |
flexylol | 2021-04-05 19:33:03 | 1,617,651,183 | null | null | 0 | mksu3d | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mksu3d/quick_question_about_badoo_liking_and_faving/ | 1 | When I like/fav/crush a non-premium user, do they SEE my likes or do they only get the usual blurry images, and a notification "someone liked you, pay to find out who". I bought credit (but no premium), and I can MSG. Differently spoken, I fear UNLESS I msg the girl, she would not even see my like and would never know ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Quick question about Badoo (liking and faving non-premium users) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mksu3d/quick_question_about_badoo_liking_and_faving/ |
tcm814 | 2016-07-31 23:41:01 | 1,470,008,461 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4vjowr | null | null | 28 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4vjowr/how_do_i_keep_from_getting_discouraged_in_the/ | 26 | So here it is. I'm 28 and divorced. I was married at 20 years old and have been single for about a year and a half now. It took me almost a full year to decide to even start dating again. Back in January I started and have had three relationships that each lasted about a month. They all ended because I wasn't really in... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I keep from getting discouraged in the whole dating scene? | 26 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4vjowr/how_do_i_keep_from_getting_discouraged_in_the/ |
jess_asks | 2019-09-30 04:54:55 | 1,569,819,295 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | db6nzs | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/db6nzs/27f_never_had_a_boyfriend_a_problem_in_the_dating/ | 4 | Hello reddit, there is this thing that has been bugging me for a while and I signed up for reddit just to get some advice. I am turning 27 soon and I never had a boyfriend. I didn't feel ready when I was younger (around 21-24), and then university got so stressful and I had to battle massive workloads at university and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27F never had a boyfriend - a problem in the dating world? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/db6nzs/27f_never_had_a_boyfriend_a_problem_in_the_dating/ |
Jask1991 | 2022-07-18 11:55:29 | 1,658,145,329 | null | ['swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | w1xh1k | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w1xh1k/dating_apps/ | 1 | I don't understand this dating apps you have swiped right then you expect the girl to say hi and when the girl do then guys they don't know how to continue the conversation like what??? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w1xh1k/dating_apps/ |
silvi28 | 2024-06-21 19:41:28 | 1,718,998,888 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dlcpj4 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dlcpj4/dating_app_guy/ | 1 | So I (24F) met a guy on a popular dating app and we just clicked. I like that he can hold conversations and seems genuinely interested to know things about me. Now the problem is that he is in a manager in his company and since my brother also holds the same position in another company I know how much work they actuall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app guy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dlcpj4/dating_app_guy/ |
[deleted] | 2020-08-09 03:31:47 | 1,596,943,907 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | i6cmk7 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i6cmk7/is_it_possible_to_feel_something_for_someone/ | 10 | It’s been over 2 years since i actually had feelings for a girl but I’m finding myself with these reminiscent feelings for this girl i met on tinder. We plan to meet the first time on Wednesday, but have talked every day since. She’s not my type either. Im a clean cut, vain kinda guy. No tattoos, no piercings. I say va... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it possible to feel something for someone you’ve only been talking to for 2 weeks? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i6cmk7/is_it_possible_to_feel_something_for_someone/ |
crudetorrent | 2019-11-23 10:02:39 | 1,574,503,359 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e0fzcf | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e0fzcf/i_dont_know_how_to_deal_with_this/ | 2 | I'm (M25) sorry if this post might be hard to understand. But god damnit it hurts and feels good at the same time. I met this (F26) on tinder, we clicked so hard. We skipped all the small talk and went right to deep stuff. We've met a few times, been intimate a few times and we both have the exactly right feelings for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know how to deal with this. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e0fzcf/i_dont_know_how_to_deal_with_this/ |
TheLoneLogan | 2024-04-04 01:41:46 | 1,712,194,906 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1bvax0i | true | Question ❓ | 52 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bvax0i/why_are_so_many_against_long_distance/ | 1 | Never posted here, but it seems to be the place to ask. Why are so many against long distance relationships? So many I've talked to complain about how thier potential partners live a long distance, or they don't want to see anyone beyond a certain range. Many of the online dating services I've used have forced me into ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why are so many against long distance? | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bvax0i/why_are_so_many_against_long_distance/ |
WomanInIT | 2020-02-24 21:07:15 | 1,582,578,435 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | f8y6ix | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f8y6ix/do_i_f33_travel_to_him_m33/ | 3 | Is it too much to expect the guy to travel to me for our first date? We live an hour apart, matched online a year and a half ago, he calls me “babe,” and we message on multiple platforms multiple times a day. We started off mostly sexting (earmuffs) but have transitioned to deeper conversation. Yet, he gave me his addr... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do I (F33) travel to HIM (M33)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f8y6ix/do_i_f33_travel_to_him_m33/ |
Revolutionary-Cap967 | 2021-11-24 22:07:10 | 1,637,791,630 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | r1giql | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r1giql/if_youve_been_the_ghoster_in_a_relationship_why/ | 1 | And I’m not talking ghosting on OLD, or ghosting for safety reasons. I’m talking if you been in an exclusive relationship and you didn’t verbalize the end but instead ghosted. Why did you do it like that? What did you feel and what pushed you to that point? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you’ve been the ghoster in a relationship, why did you choose to end it like that? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r1giql/if_youve_been_the_ghoster_in_a_relationship_why/ |
lgbuzzsaw | 2021-07-27 01:06:08 | 1,627,347,968 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | oscn14 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oscn14/struggling_to_approach_people_irl/ | 3 | As with many people, I don't have much luck with dating apps. I find it hard, too, to meet women IRL as many of the people I meet through work or through hobbies are other men (and I am straight). Tonight, though, I may have had an opportunity to meet a single woman, perhaps close to my age, but I felt I should not hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to approach people IRL | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oscn14/struggling_to_approach_people_irl/ |
Ice-Kagen | 2021-06-14 21:54:58 | 1,623,707,698 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nzy3zn | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nzy3zn/how_can_i22m_get_used_to_the_fact_that_gay_male/ | 1 | It seems like most guys just want to hook-up. Open relationships also seem to be a fairly common practice among gay men and many are surprised when I tell them I'm not open to have sex with someone I'm not dating. 99% of guys I've talked to on dating apps were only interested in having one night stands and didn't even ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I(22M) get used to the fact that gay male dating is all about sex? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nzy3zn/how_can_i22m_get_used_to_the_fact_that_gay_male/ |
throwawayexperi | 2023-08-21 13:49:18 | 1,692,625,758 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15x88ia | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15x88ia/should_i_32f_initiate_conversation_with_hinge/ | 1 | So I’m speaking to a guy on Hinge and we usually have good conversations through texting and voice messages. We’ve been talking for about a week. I initiated once before, so it’s not like I’m not open and I don’t think a man should be the only one messaging. I also messaged first as he was in my likes so I matched & to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I [32F] initiate conversation with Hinge match [31M]? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15x88ia/should_i_32f_initiate_conversation_with_hinge/ |
qhx2023 | 2023-09-28 02:27:36 | 1,695,868,056 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16u3xhl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16u3xhl/situationship_territory/ | 1 | I 28M have have been dating a 27F for just over a month now. The first two dates were very introductory with us just grabbing coffee, food and eventually drinks. On the second date, I walked her to her apartment building and kissed her goodnight. For the 3rd date, she wanted to come over and watch her favorite tv show ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Situationship Territory? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16u3xhl/situationship_territory/ |
Tuna-no-crust98 | 2023-07-17 18:15:22 | 1,689,617,722 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1529i0i | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1529i0i/how_do_i_do_this/ | 1 | Hi I'm 25m. I've never been on a date ect, basically zero experience with women. I've tried dating apps with no results and the few people I've asked out have rejected me which is ok, its not their fault. People always tell me to try to approach women in public but I don't know what to. I've always been terrified to, m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do i do this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1529i0i/how_do_i_do_this/ |
Monkey6781 | 2016-01-10 23:40:08 | 1,452,469,208 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 40dxf0 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/40dxf0/attracted_to_him/ | 2 | There's a guy I went to high school with(he's a year older) that I met through a good friend. I've always known of him, but now I see him more frequently. He's friends with my friend N's brother. As far as I knew he'd always had a girlfriend, until I came across him on okcupid. Immediately thought he was super cute and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Attracted to him | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/40dxf0/attracted_to_him/ |
[deleted] | 2011-12-01 19:19:08 | 1,322,767,148 | 4 | ['okcupid'] | null | mwgep | null | null | 5 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mwgep/do_you_think_its_alright_to_ask_someone_out_when/ | 0 | I used to work retail alone as a, not super attractive though I'm really unaware of how people perceive me, night shift employee in a college town near an art school. I'm pierced and tattooed so I got several, "baby can I git yo numbah?" type pick up attempts at least once a week which put me in an awkward position. I'... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Do you think it's alright to ask someone out when you met through their work-place? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mwgep/do_you_think_its_alright_to_ask_someone_out_when/ |
HariSeldonGhost | 2022-06-14 15:27:33 | 1,655,220,453 | null | ['online dating', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | vc61c0 | true | I Need Advice | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vc61c0/im_an_online_dating_creep/ | 0 | I'm 26, a virgin, and have mental health problems. ... I'm also an online dating creep. Need help. I've been awful to lots of women online and need to change. I feel like garbage and know I need to get off these sites permanently. Here is a selection of messages of I have sent women on the dating website Plenty of Fish... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm an Online Dating Creep | null | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vc61c0/im_an_online_dating_creep/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-10 16:32:29 | 1,628,613,149 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | p1sthj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p1sthj/how_long_does_it_take_to_get_matches_on_tinder/ | 3 | I am a 28 year old bisexual male. So far I mainly have used tinder to match with men and have had success with it. I usually recieve a few likes within the first few minutes of creating my account. Within a few days I have dozens of matches and over 99+ likes. However, when I try to switch over to only match with women... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long does it take to get matches on tinder? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p1sthj/how_long_does_it_take_to_get_matches_on_tinder/ |
TheLivesOfFlies | 2019-04-15 04:45:25 | 1,555,303,525 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | bdc3f0 | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bdc3f0/online_dating_is_like_a_game_of_madden_with_a/ | 2 | Sure, its hard, and you have a lot of false starts, but lets be honest, you aren't gonna go out in real life, cause you don't want the pain, so if you ever want to win a football game, this is your only option. Lads, Ladies, for the love of Christ, more than a sentence per response, please? And if you aren't clicking w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating is like a game of madden with a broken controller | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bdc3f0/online_dating_is_like_a_game_of_madden_with_a/ |
leomff | 2024-05-21 19:00:34 | 1,716,318,034 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cxfr97 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cxfr97/awkward_first_meet_up_what_do_i_dooo/ | 1 | i (22) met this guy (22) on bumble and we met up after texting back and forth for a week. he came over (i know this is not a good first date; i am disabled and have a hard time going out and he was cool with it) to just hang out and we were talking while listening to music for the first 15-30 minutes, and then it just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | awkward first meet up? what do i dooo | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxfr97/awkward_first_meet_up_what_do_i_dooo/ |
crystalistwo | 2013-06-19 13:31:21 | 1,371,648,681 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1gnjh0 | null | null | 262 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1gnjh0/what_in_the_world_does_i_like_a_guy_who_doesnt/ | 151 | I've come across this a few times and I'm baffled. Perhaps it's on dating sites, perhaps it's in forums... Rarely this phrase is mentioned, "I want/like a guy who doesn't put up with my shit." Wouldn't that be, technically, breaking up with them? Isn't this just code for "I create drama."? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What in the world does, "I like a guy who doesn't put up with my shit." mean? | 151 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1gnjh0/what_in_the_world_does_i_like_a_guy_who_doesnt/ |
[deleted] | 2019-11-07 21:51:56 | 1,573,163,516 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | dt4zkd | true | Casual Conversation | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/dt4zkd/list_of_reasons_i_need_a_girlfriend/ | 27 | I \[51m\] had the urge to rejoin an OLD site I've used before the other day. I put a list together of all the reasons I need a girlfriend at this point in my life. Here's the entire list: \- Free dog sitting Don't get me wrong. There's lots of reasons I'd like a girlfriend, and I have interest in dating for certain. Th... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | List of reasons I "need" a girlfriend | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/dt4zkd/list_of_reasons_i_need_a_girlfriend/ |
dedragonhow | 2022-08-27 04:59:38 | 1,661,576,378 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wyu2iq | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/wyu2iq/one_tinder_date_and_now_two_dogs_later/ | 52 | Had one date with this guy over two months ago. It was not terrible. He occasionally and randomly texts me but hasn’t asked me out again. Whatever. He’s a Wildland Firefighter. Kinda hot, right (pun intended)? He’s been called up to a fire in OR and asked me to keep his dogs. One of them is totally blind. What could I ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | One Tinder date and now, two dogs later. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/wyu2iq/one_tinder_date_and_now_two_dogs_later/ |
TheRuffledPigeon | 2023-04-22 17:10:23 | 1,682,183,423 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12vch3h | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12vch3h/getting_frustrated_with_me/ | 1 | Just venting I guess. Sorry if it is disorganized. Been out of a serious relationship for almost 2 years at this point after getting cold feet at the brink of an engagement. Been really trying to put alot off focus in just trying to enjoy myself and improving what I perceive to admirable traits in other people that I w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting Frustrated with Me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12vch3h/getting_frustrated_with_me/ |
OrangeinDorne | 2020-06-18 11:54:14 | 1,592,481,254 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hbd6pi | true | null | 361 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hbd6pi/opinion_mainstream_dating_apps_need_to_ask_about/ | 688 | It doesn’t need to be visible to anyone but I was discussing this with a friend and I hear from a lot of people that relationships fall apart after an initial spurt due to sex drives or preferences being wildly incompatible. My theory is the “classier” apps want to avoid being a hook up haven, which I get but they ask ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Opinion: mainstream dating apps need to ask about sexual preferences/sex drive in their basic questions | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hbd6pi/opinion_mainstream_dating_apps_need_to_ask_about/ |
jpburner67 | 2024-07-19 01:33:27 | 1,721,352,807 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1e6rwj9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e6rwj9/i_think_its_time_to_detach/ | 5 | I M33 matched with F30 over a month ago. I thought things were going great we still snap everyday, share common internets she even told me some personal things that you wouldn’t just tell anyone. The only hang up is there is a 4 hr drive between us. In a heartbeat I would meet up with her even drive the full 4hrs but t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think it’s time to detach | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e6rwj9/i_think_its_time_to_detach/ |
Ok-Natural8204 | 2024-01-07 17:46:49 | 1,704,649,609 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 190xq80 | true | Question ❓ | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/190xq80/do_dating_apps_actually_work/ | 2 | I’m just curious as I’m trying to get on the dating scene. going to bars with my friends doesn’t really lead to anything meaningful(m25). I know I’m in the age range where hookups culture is prevalent but I’m getting to the space mentally where I want more than meaningless sex. I’ve just never dated so I’m at a loss as... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do dating apps actually work? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/190xq80/do_dating_apps_actually_work/ |
SuddenPromise2400 | 2024-06-06 21:45:12 | 1,717,710,312 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1d9u2ug | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d9u2ug/should_i_reach_out_to_the_girl_i_recently_cut_it/ | 1 | About 2 months ago I (24m) matched with a girl (25f) on a dating app. We went on a couple dates and I thought we were really clicking. On the third date I had found out her ex of about 2 years, and her had broke up about 2 weeks before our first date. (She made it clear to me that she wanted to start a relationship and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out to the girl I recently cut it off with? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9u2ug/should_i_reach_out_to_the_girl_i_recently_cut_it/ |
anthonyjustice21 | 2020-11-16 01:32:44 | 1,605,490,364 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | juxx88 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/juxx88/how_should_i_go_about_asking_her_out/ | 3 | So this girl and I have been seeing each other more and more and she’s made it known to me she’d like to see where things go. I’ve been to her house and she’s cooked for me, we’ve watched movies and even shared a kiss. Today, she posted on her Instagram “I just want to get dressed up and go out on a date”. I’d have to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I go about asking her out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/juxx88/how_should_i_go_about_asking_her_out/ |
Fatmn | 2019-06-01 02:58:55 | 1,559,357,935 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | bvgbax | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bvgbax/i_dont_want_to_hurt_her/ | 1 | Tl:dr: Met a woman and really like her we went out and connected but I don't know if I can be in a relationship right now and I'm going to tell her but I don't want to hurt her either. Ok so I met a woman while OLD and we hit it off pretty well. I was out of town for work at the time so we made plans to meet up when I ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I don't want to hurt her | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bvgbax/i_dont_want_to_hurt_her/ |
DollahBills420 | 2024-03-30 21:27:35 | 1,711,834,055 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1brsv02 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1brsv02/dating_in_the_city/ | 1 | Hey all, I am a 24F living in the New England area and I wanted to know, how am I supposed to find people to date? I work full time but everyone at work is committed/ married. Dating apps are a no for me; it's not entirely safe and people aren't looking for long-term relationships on it. Bars/ clubs have people looking... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating in the city | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1brsv02/dating_in_the_city/ |
CapableBread9480 | 2023-11-20 20:36:25 | 1,700,512,585 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17zy9zq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17zy9zq/i_had_an_awkward_situation_happen_with_the_person/ | 1 | We have been seeing eachother for 5 months, and the past two weeks, we didn’t talk at all. Radio silence. I didn’t reach out to him because he is busy from his work and I thought i would just be a distraction. However, we are not exclusive Well two days ago, I decided to reach out to him, and we met up yesterday to go ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I had an awkward situation happen with the person I’m dating casually | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17zy9zq/i_had_an_awkward_situation_happen_with_the_person/ |
intersexy911 | 2022-07-10 16:48:53 | 1,657,471,733 | null | null | 0 | vvvkld | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/vvvkld/tips_for_people_who_date_women/ | 0 | Edited: Please read the TLDR. This isn't about "how to talk to women" or something like that. It's about how to get a real woman to like you when you both know she is swimming in an ocean of fakers. Online dating. How to get a girl to like you under these unique conditions. Do you treat her like a spambot? Or do you tr... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tips for people who date women | null | 0.35 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/vvvkld/tips_for_people_who_date_women/ |
Kittykatttlove | 2024-05-25 20:07:25 | 1,716,667,645 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d0kd9y | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d0kd9y/im_confused_on_whats_happening_with_a_guy_i_met/ | 2 | So I had a date with a guy m(20) from a dating app and we hit it off a lot. We were talking about similar things of what we like and want in a relationship and we will talk for hours and hours till 4am and when the day for the date came we meet up at my place. We had dinner and talked. Kinda awkward because of the nerv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m confused on what’s happening with a guy I met | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d0kd9y/im_confused_on_whats_happening_with_a_guy_i_met/ |
Dodgemychallenger | 2021-08-02 03:23:01 | 1,627,874,581 | null | null | 0 | ow6h4u | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ow6h4u/i_wish_they_would_tell_you_that_they_werent/ | 16 | I went out with this guy on Friday night for ice cream and I had a great time. Thought we were really connecting and had plenty in common. Later that night he initiated cuddling and making out in his car, which lasted about an hour. We were chilling in his car until like 330am. I told him that we should meet again next... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I wish they would tell you that they weren’t interested in you right after your first date instead of letting you wonder. | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ow6h4u/i_wish_they_would_tell_you_that_they_werent/ |
One-Acanthisitta886 | 2023-06-25 15:55:41 | 1,687,708,541 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | 14ipold | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14ipold/why_cant_i_find_a_partner/ | 1 | Hey I'm a 21 yr old Male, 6'0 ft, athletic body type, and straight never been in a relationship, I'm independent opening my own business and working at the same time, Over the course of about 3 years I have struggled beyond my ends to find a partner. I've tried various online dating platforms, went to bars and nightclu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why can't I find a partner? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14ipold/why_cant_i_find_a_partner/ |
underTheWorld-1 | 2023-08-12 12:16:08 | 1,691,842,568 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 15p33ug | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15p33ug/what_should_be_my_next_step/ | 1 | M23 here. I met a girl F22 through my office colleague(M22) (she was his friend). We hanged out twice with the same group. I feel she likes me but there hasn't been many clear signs from her. I like her a little bit as well aon, can be a nice chemistry. These might be a sign or might not be idk, yall judge. We usually ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should be my next step? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15p33ug/what_should_be_my_next_step/ |
Total_Selection_2577 | 2024-03-29 22:38:28 | 1,711,751,908 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1br1nmw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1br1nmw/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_give_a_gift_to_someone/ | 1 | I’ve (20F) been seeing this guy (22M) I met on hinge. We’ve been talking about a month and have been on 2 dates. I really like him and this is the first guy in a long time that has made me feel this way. He’s super sweet and kind, and I just wanna show him how much I like him and have enjoyed getting to know him. Easte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How soon is too soon to give a gift to someone you’re seeing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1br1nmw/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_give_a_gift_to_someone/ |
medic117 | 2020-03-07 00:17:14 | 1,583,540,234 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | femz7t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/femz7t/i_28m_have_a_first_date_with_a_girl_26f_in_a_week/ | 1 | We met on a popular smartphone dating app and texted a bit over a day or two before planning to meet over a drink next week. We haven’t met yet and haven’t texted too much but is it too personal to ask her how her day went yet? Got out of a year relationship about 5-6 months ago and was never good at texting to begin w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [28M] have a first date with a girl [26F] in a week | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/femz7t/i_28m_have_a_first_date_with_a_girl_26f_in_a_week/ |
antons83 | 2019-01-04 22:49:07 | 1,546,642,147 | null | null | 0 | acnpsv | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/acnpsv/if_you_dont_want_to_show_your_face_and_body_what/ | 7 | Small rant with screenshot at the bottom. 35/M. Recently found a great woman online, but this happened a a few days prior to that. For those that aren't familiar with Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB). You get a daily list women to like or not like. You go through and check out their pic and profile, and decide. My instagram is... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you don't want to show your face and body, what are you doing online? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/acnpsv/if_you_dont_want_to_show_your_face_and_body_what/ |
PatchesLovesTape | 2019-11-29 15:23:28 | 1,575,041,008 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e3g233 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e3g233/i_m28_have_never_been_in_serious_relationship_im/ | 7 | I’ve had various things keep me from dating much for most of my life. Mostly low confidence and anxiety disorders plus I’d been pretty overweight until the last few months and I was very career focused through most of my 20s. The few relationships I have had have just sort of happened without putting myself out there t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M28) have never been in serious relationship. I’m ready now but how do I tell/approach women without sounding like a child? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e3g233/i_m28_have_never_been_in_serious_relationship_im/ |
AloneDimension1 | 2023-10-09 15:46:43 | 1,696,866,403 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 173v3y2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/173v3y2/i_20f_cant_tell_if_shes_20f_ghosting_sending/ | 1 | I matched with this girl on Hinge a couple weeks ago and we hit it off really well She expressed numerous times and often how excited she was for our first date. I (20F) went on a date with this girl on Friday (20F) and we both agreed we had fun and wanted to go on another one when we're both free. We talked for a bit ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (20F) can’t tell if she’s (20F) ghosting, sending mixed signals, or just a bad texter | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/173v3y2/i_20f_cant_tell_if_shes_20f_ghosting_sending/ |
Unliraeldi | 2024-08-02 07:05:46 | 1,722,582,346 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1ei3ndr | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ei3ndr/why_is_it_so_hard/ | 0 | Why is it so hard to find quality matches? I feel like it's becoming increasingly difficult to meet quality people to date in my area, and it seems like the pool of potential candidates is shrinking. As a 30F, I often encounter a few different scenarios: 1.Recently Single- Many people I meet have been out of long-term ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it so hard ? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ei3ndr/why_is_it_so_hard/ |
china-dating | 2019-02-17 17:01:05 | 1,550,422,865 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | armelm | true | Vent/Rant | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/armelm/rant_why_even_use_tinder_if_youre_not_looking_for/ | 0 | Just spent 4 hours on 3rd date with a girl discussing how we both feel and clearing the air. She basically told me she likes me but can't dedicate her time to having me as a boyfriend right now because of her career, she's also still hurt from her fiancé that she caught cheating on 6 months ago. I'm glad that we had a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Rant: Why even use Tinder if you're not looking for anything? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/armelm/rant_why_even_use_tinder_if_youre_not_looking_for/ |
Gecko_bean_jr | 2022-09-04 15:06:39 | 1,662,303,999 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | x5p6hq | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x5p6hq/i_am_stuck/ | 0 | Hello all! I \[28M\] am currently in a conundrum, and would like a little advice what to do about it. In short, I suck at dating. I'm decent at establishing new friendships, but I've successfully hit a new roadblock. Mostly in I don't know how to meet new people. Sure, there's bars and clubs, but neither of those are m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am Stuck | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x5p6hq/i_am_stuck/ |
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