author stringlengths 3 20 | created stringdate 2010-01-01 00:17:25 2024-09-30 23:32:35 | created_utc float64 1.26B 1.73B | downs float64 0 395 ⌀ | extraction_keywords stringlengths 7 166 ⌀ | gilded float64 0 7 ⌀ | id stringlengths 5 7 | is_crosspostable bool 2
classes | link_flair_text stringclasses 146
values | num_comments int64 0 4.73k | num_crossposts float64 0 109 ⌀ | permalink stringlengths 28 88 | score int64 0 46k | selftext stringlengths 1 38.4k ⌀ | subreddit stringclasses 9
values | subreddit_id stringclasses 9
values | title stringlengths 1 301 | ups float64 0 8.29k ⌀ | upvote_ratio float64 0 1 ⌀ | url stringlengths 27 119 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
1manontherun52 | 2018-02-27 18:53:43 | 1,519,757,623 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 80ozth | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/80ozth/snap_chat_filters/ | 1 | I mean WTF? Maybe girls who are 8 to 20 yes. I’ve recently got myself on to the dating sites and I only chat to girls in my age range (im 36) and it seems that every 3rd girl has a dog ears, bunny rabbit ears, puppy dog eyes or noses? I can just about tolerate random stars on someone’s head, but really? Guys are lookin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Snap chat filters? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/80ozth/snap_chat_filters/ |
Only_Technician_379 | 2024-03-25 14:21:46 | 1,711,376,506 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bnew7h | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bnew7h/is_there_something_i_can_do_better/ | 1 | I'm a 27M who has been single for 6 years and is honestly over the dating app bs. I just want to meet someone and have a good connection and maybe meet my person who I will marry... idk please give your advice | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there something i can do better.. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bnew7h/is_there_something_i_can_do_better/ |
[deleted] | 2014-05-28 13:56:09 | 1,401,285,369 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 26p1fw | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/26p1fw/18m_i_am_going_on_a_date_with_a_18f_i_met_over/ | 4 | Hey guys well started talking to this girl and have been for about 3 weeks only just asked her because of exams and everything that's happened atm which she was cool with. It seems to be hitting off pretty well we skype a bit which always lasts into the early hours of the morning, laughing and talking about anything an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (18M) I am going on a date with a 18F I met over tinder (online dating thing). Overcoming nervousness of appearance? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/26p1fw/18m_i_am_going_on_a_date_with_a_18f_i_met_over/ |
askj219 | 2022-08-19 08:01:34 | 1,660,896,094 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | ws862x | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ws862x/pulled_back_after_4_dates_but_had_just_said_he/ | 2 | I (22/F) went on 4 great dates with someone (26/M) I met on Hinge. We’d text nearly daily, but more so in a one or two text a day check-in. Kissed after each date (gradually getting more passionate), easy conversation. He initiated dates 1-3 but I was always very enthusiastic—he just didn’t give me a chance/time to be ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Pulled back after 4 dates, but had just said he really likes me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ws862x/pulled_back_after_4_dates_but_had_just_said_he/ |
aceRocknut | 2013-07-24 04:00:01 | 1,374,638,401 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'pof'] | 0 | 1ixnh8 | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ixnh8/gotta_start_dating_again_where_do_you_find_the/ | 0 | I have tried pof and match but I cant find the tattooed and pierced type. I know there are girls who fit the suicide girl description out there, just cant find them on any dating sites. maybe Im missing something but that girl with the dolphin tattoo who is planning another soon isn't going to cut it anymore. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | gotta start dating again, where do you find the suicide girl type? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ixnh8/gotta_start_dating_again_where_do_you_find_the/ |
Perlzzy | 2019-01-07 06:07:07 | 1,546,841,227 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | adeskb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/adeskb/is_he_not_interested_anymore/ | 3 | I (F29) Matched with a guy (38) a few days ago and we hit it off really well. He was smart, funny, and a great conversationalist. By the end of our text conversation he asked my availability to meet up. He didn’t respond to my availability text for another 24 hours. He said the days/times didn’t work for him and asked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he not interested anymore? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/adeskb/is_he_not_interested_anymore/ |
LostInSales | 2019-12-29 15:35:38 | 1,577,633,738 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | eh77n7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eh77n7/i_25m_caught_feels_for_my_fwb_25f_told_her_id_be/ | 4 | Some quick background. -Matched on tinder -Said she was looking to actually date, not just hookup which turned out to be true, we didn’t hookup until 4th date -Went on a few dates but she had some sort of breakdown and decided she wasn’t in a good place to date (family related stuff plus going through end stages of div... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25M) caught feels for my FWB (25F). Told her I'd be interested to date more seriously, is here response genuine or is she stringing me along? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eh77n7/i_25m_caught_feels_for_my_fwb_25f_told_her_id_be/ |
cathode_irradiated | 2016-02-07 08:12:47 | 1,454,832,767 | 0 | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 44kpvb | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/44kpvb/really_struggling_to_stay_positive_about_finding/ | 14 | Hey everyone. I'm 25/m and doing my undergrad at university. I'm really struggling to stay positive about dating. I've been trying to find a partner for the last five and a half years and have had no luck. I don't mean no luck with finding a long term partner, I mean no luck at all - nothing's ever progressed past a hu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Really struggling to stay positive about finding a partner. | 14 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/44kpvb/really_struggling_to_stay_positive_about_finding/ |
BombusPolaris | 2020-04-10 02:46:14 | 1,586,486,774 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fy6mou | true | null | 178 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fy6mou/has_anyone_ever_felt_like_theyre_just_stuck_in/ | 325 | I’ve (32F) typically always had a serious boyfriend. My last boyfriend and I broke up just about a year and a half ago, and honestly I can’t quite put a finger on why....except that I think he realized we weren’t compatible before I did. I also think we had extremely different communication styles. Since then, I’ve tri... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Has anyone ever felt like they’re just stuck in the waiting room? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fy6mou/has_anyone_ever_felt_like_theyre_just_stuck_in/ |
Nayshhh | 2017-09-29 00:40:40 | 1,506,645,640 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 734dqz | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/734dqz/should_i_message_this_girl_again/ | 1 | I met this girl about 6 weeks ago on tinder. Shes an au pair and only in the country for 8 months. We hit off straight away, got her snapchat, snapped eachother all day everyday. Met her twice, first one went on a date and second time she asked me out to go clubbing with her and her friends. Both time went well, we got... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should i message this girl again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/734dqz/should_i_message_this_girl_again/ |
beegesound | 2024-07-20 21:09:19 | 1,721,509,759 | 0 | null | 0 | 1e85pgf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1e85pgf/unmatched_after_steamy_first_date/ | 2 | 35 M feeling quite deflated right now. Went on a first date with a girl off Hinge last night. Date lasted four hours across two different venues. She complimented my appearance at start, there was strong eye contact, smiling, I offered my arm to her between venues but she took my hand. I put my arm over her at second v... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Unmatched After Steamy First Date | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e85pgf/unmatched_after_steamy_first_date/ |
VoidOfEndlessDark | 2023-09-19 20:41:21 | 1,695,156,081 | 0 | null | 0 | 16n1spa | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16n1spa/new_to_dating_online_and_have_some_questions/ | 1 | Hey everyone sorry if this is against the norm for context I’m a mid 20s male that uses Facebook Dating. 1. I guess my first question is what’s considered a normal response? Like in past relationships my exes demanded that I respond as soon as they message me. If I didn’t they’d start getting upset saying I didn’t care... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | New to dating online and have some questions. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16n1spa/new_to_dating_online_and_have_some_questions/ |
winlessplayer | 2019-05-11 00:12:58 | 1,557,533,578 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | bn5szf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bn5szf/how_aware_is_everybody_of_the_prerelationship/ | 1 | Like you know, a woman wants to be treated like she matters like she is someone, not just a number, not just a good probable shag, someone you spend life with. She probably wants her partner to treat her good, and maybe consider her as a part of his life. Surely if she learns that the guy is using the same lines, the s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How "aware" is everybody of the "pre-relationship monogamous" aspect of dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bn5szf/how_aware_is_everybody_of_the_prerelationship/ |
PharmerJoeFx | 2022-03-23 23:34:18 | 1,648,078,458 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | tllgxk | true | null | 57 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/tllgxk/swipe_left_swipe_right_swipe/ | 18 | Remember those days before OLD was a thing? If you were serious about finding a suitable partner you actually had to leave the house. You had to shower, shave, dress nice, comb your hair, pluck that one stray nose or eyebrow hair, look in the mirror and wink at yourself 🤣. There were organized dances, your Aunt Sally ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Swipe Left, Swipe Right, Swipe..... | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/tllgxk/swipe_left_swipe_right_swipe/ |
Infinite-Room7096 | 2022-10-02 18:46:51 | 1,664,736,411 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | xtwfj2 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xtwfj2/is_it_shallow_to_only_date_someone_in_the_same/ | 6 | I’ve matched on tinder for the first time and while we have the same interests shows we like to watch, the similarities ends there. I’m in my last year of college and I want to get out of this town asap. I didn’t realize before I went on the date that this was his hometown and he was not in college, not even community ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it shallow to only date someone in the same college as you? | null | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xtwfj2/is_it_shallow_to_only_date_someone_in_the_same/ |
TarzanGurl26 | 2024-05-31 12:24:00 | 1,717,158,240 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d4uc12 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d4uc12/single_trying_to_find_a_bf/ | 5 | I 26F am trying to find a boyfriend (I’m a date to marry person not short term). I’ve been single for about 3 years now. Had crushes and talking phases but nothing that turned into a boyfriend these past 3 years. I’m a pretty social person but I find guys don’t really approach women and I don’t like dating apps. Any ad... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Single trying to find a bf | 5 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d4uc12/single_trying_to_find_a_bf/ |
SharpBeyond8 | 2022-10-20 21:26:50 | 1,666,301,210 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | y9ahtj | true | null | 149 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/y9ahtj/wants_kids_in_her_profile/ | 0 | I'm 40/M and even when I set a wide age range on the apps, the bulk of my matches are in the 38-42 year old range. Many of them have the option 'want kids' selected. I've dated a decent amount but never had an LTR and while I'm open to kids, I'd like to have a bit of a 'honeymoon period' when I finally start dating s... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | "Wants kids" in her profile | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/y9ahtj/wants_kids_in_her_profile/ |
Silly-Ad9002 | 2024-09-22 16:45:45 | 1,727,023,545 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 1fmxo3z | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fmxo3z/how_many_matches_do_you_get_from_old/ | 2 | Just started my account and wondering what it can be like | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How many matches do you get from OLD? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fmxo3z/how_many_matches_do_you_get_from_old/ |
doonerbl | 2023-06-29 18:18:49 | 1,688,062,729 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14mc9c8 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14mc9c8/online_dating_advice/ | 3 | So I live in Central Illinois and the pickings are pretty slim. I’ve got a graduate degree and am by any measure pretty active, so two of my key requirements are 1) be somewhat intellectual curious and 2) do things. These seem to be insurmountable barriers. I idly set up a match account and, with expectations low, put ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Online dating advice | 3 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14mc9c8/online_dating_advice/ |
HieiYouki | 2019-04-19 09:28:05 | 1,555,666,085 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | bex6xv | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bex6xv/want_to_vent_my_23m_last_date_with_a_girl_22f/ | 326 | So actually I'm not mad at all, I found it all kinda funny but I still want to write about it. Edit: Regarding the purpose of this post, is simply for me to write about my experience and talk about it with someone. I'm not trying to shame her, although I realize this post MAY put her in a bad light, but it's anonymous ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Want to vent my (23M) last date with a girl (22F) from tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bex6xv/want_to_vent_my_23m_last_date_with_a_girl_22f/ |
beetle_birch22 | 2024-05-30 22:15:21 | 1,717,107,321 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d4fwqw | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d4fwqw/should_i_try_dating_apps_at_18/ | 1 | So I've never been in a relationship. I always felt like something was wrong with me cause I never dated anyone in high school, not because I didn't want to, I just never really felt that type of way with anyone at my school. I do understand that most high school relationships don't last which has brought me some closu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I try dating apps at 18? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d4fwqw/should_i_try_dating_apps_at_18/ |
itreallyismyfriend | 2014-03-17 14:21:55 | 1,395,066,115 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 20mp17 | null | null | 15 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/20mp17/online_dating_and_herpes/ | 9 | My friend is very hesitant to join okcupid because she has herpes and will only stick to herpes dating sites. However, I find it hard to believe that the okcupid crowd is 100% clean and she shouldn't limit herself, she isn't a leper! lots of people have it. so my question is, has anyone figured out a way to be comforta... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Online Dating and Herpes? | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/20mp17/online_dating_and_herpes/ |
Nabriales | 2023-04-05 15:42:58 | 1,680,709,378 | 0 | null | 0 | 12cof52 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12cof52/is_this_a_red_flag_or_am_i_just_an_ahole_for/ | 2 | ok so I'm a guy and the person I'm talking about is a girl. We matched and within a few days she wanted to exchange phone numbers so we did. After texting for about a week, she said she considers this to be exclusive already. We chatted on the phone, we exchanged social media and her profile looks pretty normal, no nud... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this a red flag or am I just an a-hole for thinking so? | 2 | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12cof52/is_this_a_red_flag_or_am_i_just_an_ahole_for/ |
Lawrence0fALabia | 2024-02-11 16:47:44 | 1,707,670,064 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1aocd14 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aocd14/moral_obligations_as_it_relates_to_dating/ | 3 | Hello all, I’ve (39M) recently ventured back out into the dating world after taking a long break. It’s been pretty good so far. I decided to pay for Hinge premium because I want to filter women who don’t have/ want kids. I’ve had some great conversations and getting some really quality matches. In the last three days I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Moral obligations as it relates to dating multiple women with no exclusivity | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aocd14/moral_obligations_as_it_relates_to_dating/ |
nimo032 | 2024-08-27 17:22:13 | 1,724,779,333 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f2mq4y | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f2mq4y/just_venting_a_32yearold_virgin_man_in_spain/ | 1 | Hey everyone, I wanted to share my situation, not to seek solutions, but simply to express myself and hopefully feel a bit better by getting this off my chest. I'm a 32-year-old virgin man living in Spain. For the past 12 years, I've dedicated my life to work and study, focusing on my career and academic goals. I recen... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just Venting: A 32-Year-Old Virgin man in Spain Reflects on Life and Relationships | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f2mq4y/just_venting_a_32yearold_virgin_man_in_spain/ |
tablemanners21 | 2021-05-06 19:47:25 | 1,620,330,445 | null | null | 0 | n6ftr4 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n6ftr4/i_prefer_hinge_over_bumble_these_days/ | 42 | Bumble recently(ish) updated the app so that you can’t undo your left swipe, and I HATE that! What used to be a convenient feature is now something you have to pay for and I just find that ridiculous. Also, having been on bumble for 3 years, the 24-hour expiration has become extremely annoying. I feel like Hinge genera... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I prefer Hinge over Bumble these days | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n6ftr4/i_prefer_hinge_over_bumble_these_days/ |
RainbowSyth80 | 2023-05-20 14:05:28 | 1,684,591,528 | 0 | null | 0 | 13mtpcw | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13mtpcw/end_the_first_date/ | 0 | Hi all, As a backstory, i've been chatting to this chick on Hinge, got her number and spoke to her over the phone 2 weeks ago for two hours. Went well but it was difficult to arrange a first date so I decided to unmatch her and wished her all the best because I thought she wasn't serious enough. She responded that she ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | End the First Date? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13mtpcw/end_the_first_date/ |
NewBang | 2024-06-20 05:24:02 | 1,718,861,042 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dk3yqm | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dk3yqm/girls_talking_about_previous_experiences_dates/ | 44 | Does this stuff bother you? I can’t lie if I said it doesn’t bother me. Like I’m at an age where most girls have had past experiences. As do I. But like, if I’m seeing a girl, I wouldn’t bring it up unless it came up naturally. I’ve been seeing this girl for a bit now. And I really like her. But on the first few dates ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girls talking about previous experiences (dates, relationships, sex, etc.) | 44 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dk3yqm/girls_talking_about_previous_experiences_dates/ |
MosesProffitt | 2015-01-27 10:05:10 | 1,422,353,110 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2ttskd | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ttskd/benefit_of_online_dating/ | 1 | People are using more interest not only to communicate with their loved ones or doing research but also to find ideal date. Many people are open to idea of online dating so. It is no surprise that men and women both are hooked on this latest dating craze. So why do people love online dating when their can date personal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | BENEFIT OF ONLINE DATING | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ttskd/benefit_of_online_dating/ |
veetown | 2018-12-20 02:25:19 | 1,545,272,719 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a7tdom | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/a7tdom/how_did_you_meet_your_significant_other/ | 3 | I’m 30. I’ve had one relationship that was a complete anomaly due to the extreme circumstances (he found he had cancer after our second date - big bonding moment haha). I don’t have much luck with dating. I’ve had nice dates. But I find things either fizzle out after about 3 dates, at least on their side, they seem to ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How did you meet your significant other? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/a7tdom/how_did_you_meet_your_significant_other/ |
NibblesMcGiblet | 2024-09-21 02:25:28 | 1,726,885,528 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1flswj5 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1flswj5/i_just_have_to_vent_to_someone_and_i_dont_really/ | 0 | I was best friends with my boyfriend (well, now ex I guess) for ten years before we finally got together. It was hard to convince him to give us a shot because we have an age gap (I'm older) and I've been married before and have kids (adult now). He always said his family would never accept me due to devout religious b... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I just have to vent to someone and I don't really have friends to talk to. Best friend of 18 years, bf of 7, broke up to find someone (else) to marry...??? | 0 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1flswj5/i_just_have_to_vent_to_someone_and_i_dont_really/ |
JefuMusic | 2020-12-31 16:51:12 | 1,609,433,472 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | kntfgf | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kntfgf/what_is_wrong_with_women_on_tinder/ | 0 | Hey, Clickbaited you I’ve been using dating apps on and off for the past few months (bumble, tinder, and hinge). I’m 18 and 5’10, I have a full time job and actually have a life. I would say I’m probably a 6 or 7 out of 10 and I’m very fashionable, fashion design is my hobby I am very easy to talk to and love conversin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is wrong with women on tinder?! | null | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kntfgf/what_is_wrong_with_women_on_tinder/ |
Nineteenfoxes | 2014-03-04 23:34:36 | 1,393,976,076 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1zkr3c | null | null | 8 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1zkr3c/tinder_experiences/ | 9 | Been thinking about getting Tinder, but slightly nervous about it. What are your experiences with Tinder from male perspectives and female perspectives? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Tinder Experiences | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1zkr3c/tinder_experiences/ |
lec0701 | 2024-02-15 16:50:18 | 1,708,015,818 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1arjy7f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1arjy7f/turning_30_and_still_never_been_in_a_relationship/ | 1 | So I'm turning 30 this year and I've reached the point in my life where I do feel like I am ready to commit to a relationship. I have wanted relationships in the past but I definitely wasn't ready for one. At this age I feel like if I were to meet someone and it lead to marriage and children I would feel comfortable an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Turning 30 and still never been in a relationship. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1arjy7f/turning_30_and_still_never_been_in_a_relationship/ |
[deleted] | 2015-04-19 19:07:30 | 1,429,470,450 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 335ho7 | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/335ho7/girl_i_matched_with_on_tinder_seems_interested/ | 3 | So I matched with this girl on Tinder and we started messaging right away. I asked if she wanted to get coffee and she responded with "Sounds nice. But I'm not really interested in hooking up with people through Tinder." I told her I'm not into the hookup culture and I was just wanted to meet her, and she said "Okay!" ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I matched with on Tinder seems interested, but is giving me mixed signals. I need advice. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/335ho7/girl_i_matched_with_on_tinder_seems_interested/ |
OpalCortland | 2024-03-10 19:26:15 | 1,710,098,775 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bbim5v | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bbim5v/is_it_cultural_or_something_casual/ | 1 | Hey DOF gang! I’m traveling from TX to Tokyo, and I went on Bumble after being off OLD for a while. I wrote on my profile that I’m only here a few days and am seeking dates for a drink or to go dancing. I put “something casual,” under what I am seeking. 53 F. I look good and my photos are fun and not “too sexy.” I have... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is it cultural, or “something casual”? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bbim5v/is_it_cultural_or_something_casual/ |
dontmindme2340 | 2023-12-13 19:27:25 | 1,702,495,645 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18how8q | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18how8q/is_a_super_boost_worth_the_money_on_hinge/ | 1 | I made a new account a few months ago and it seems like I get way less likes than my old profile for some reason. I feel like I never get likes from anyone I’m interested or compatible with. Is a super boost worth the money? I’ve paid for bumble premium before and would say it wasn’t really since I just sifted through ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is a super boost worth the money on hinge? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18how8q/is_a_super_boost_worth_the_money_on_hinge/ |
platinum_collective | 2018-07-23 15:02:10 | 1,532,358,130 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 917sk1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/917sk1/help_me_address_this_situation/ | 1 | Here's a rundown of the background on this story. I've known this guy for about a year now and he has been my spin instructor. That's his side job, our full time jobs are actually both academic and we don't work in the same field, but have similar interests. He's a poor communicator and texter even when we were just fr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me address this situation. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/917sk1/help_me_address_this_situation/ |
[deleted] | 2010-09-15 18:14:51 | 1,284,574,491 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | deans | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/deans/how_the_heck_does_one_date_i_only_know_married/ | 11 | Apologies if this is the wrong place to post this. I need advice... This is obviously a throwaway account; what I have to admit is kind of embarrassing (at least to me). I'm 26. I've had a grand total of one relationship, when I was 18/19, that lasted for about seven months. Since I broke up with that person, I've basi... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How the heck does one "date"? I only know married people. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/deans/how_the_heck_does_one_date_i_only_know_married/ |
itsathrowawaydudee | 2022-01-29 16:17:52 | 1,643,473,072 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | sfleus | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sfleus/alright_someone_help_this_neurodivergent_mofo/ | 1 | Alright ladies and gentleman. It's your boy here. Mister I got stuck in isolation after losing 2 best friends for dating related issues then stalked by my last ex. Needless to say it ain't been an easy few years. I got ADHD ASF, mildly depressed and I'm borderline cynical. But here is my introverted ass getting lonely ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Alright someone help this neurodivergent mofo learn how to talk to people on dating apps. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sfleus/alright_someone_help_this_neurodivergent_mofo/ |
JaredsDarkPast | 2021-07-06 02:46:40 | 1,625,539,600 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | oem4fo | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/oem4fo/trying_to_make_an_impression_over_text/ | 20 | Hey everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster on this forum. I’ve been single for quite a while and just recently had an ex bartender from a place I go to every now and then message me asking if I’d be interested in a friend of hers. I asked what her name was and then said I would be interested so she gave me her n... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Trying to make an impression over text | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/oem4fo/trying_to_make_an_impression_over_text/ |
justanotherempath | 2023-10-25 19:44:54 | 1,698,263,094 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17gd93q | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17gd93q/i_dont_want_to_be_tied_down/ | 1 | Hi everyone! I was in a long term relationship, well long-term for me. 1.2 years that ended in June. I don't do casual hookup's. This relationship was my second person that I had sexual relations with. I am 25 keep in mind. We broke up, I slept with someone at a bar and realized I cannot do hook up culture as it makes ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | "I don't want to be tied down." | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17gd93q/i_dont_want_to_be_tied_down/ |
blueyez_81 | 2019-01-14 21:35:36 | 1,547,501,736 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ag0phz | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ag0phz/trying_to_keep_my_chill/ | 5 | Matched with a guy online and after about 5 days of light back and forth decided to have lunch yesterday. It went really well. He was very attractive, held a conversation, and was a gentlemen. We had lunch and then went for coffee after (his idea). The first date was 5 hours of chatting We made plans for next Friday an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Trying to keep my chill..:: | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ag0phz/trying_to_keep_my_chill/ |
Spirited-Strike-8396 | 2023-08-05 19:56:41 | 1,691,265,401 | 0 | null | 0 | 15j51lc | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15j51lc/mature/ | 1 | I’m a 62 year old reasonably attractive and not overweight female. I’m well educated and in the medical profession. I’m an RN. I’ve been off and on eharmony for 3 years with no luck. Met some interesting people but no relationships . What am I doing wrong? Any pointers? I’m getting discouraged. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Mature | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15j51lc/mature/ |
abcdefg123455678 | 2024-08-10 21:04:37 | 1,723,323,877 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ep3cha | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ep3cha/is_it_worth_contacting_her_again_or_shall_i_just/ | 1 | So i had been suffering from psoriasis when i decided to download hinge where i got chatting with this female doctor, we hit off and she was eager to meet, i eventually told her i had psoriasis and she wasn't bothered at all by this. However i dont think she knew the about Psychological toll having such a conditon inev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it worth contacting her again or shall i just move on. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ep3cha/is_it_worth_contacting_her_again_or_shall_i_just/ |
ViolentChevy | 2020-12-31 08:35:41 | 1,609,403,741 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | knmdwd | true | I Need Advice | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/knmdwd/what_should_i_do_should_i_contact_her_boyfriend/ | 11 | Back ground info: I met a girl on bumble exchanged numbers and gone out on multiple dates everything seemed great. She said to me that she’s looking for a serious relationship Anyway the girl I’ve been going out I’ve found out that she has a boyfriend and they have been dating for over 3 years. I found out that she has... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do, should I contact her boyfriend | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/knmdwd/what_should_i_do_should_i_contact_her_boyfriend/ |
squirrel8296 | 2022-05-12 00:09:10 | 1,652,314,150 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | unnt6l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/unnt6l/how_to_meet_other_gay_men/ | 1 | I (gay 25 M) have tried online dating and it hasn’t worked. I’m also not a huge bar/club goer. Any other ways to meet other gay men? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet other gay men? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/unnt6l/how_to_meet_other_gay_men/ |
SicSemperTyrannis123 | 2018-02-16 07:33:59 | 1,518,766,439 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 7xx7gs | false | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7xx7gs/so_yesterday_i_posted_about_asking_a_girl_out_i/ | 10 | Sorry for posting two days in a row about the same girl basically but I’m new to this, I have hella social anxiety in social settings. I’m scared I don’t talk a lot and I’m insecure because I have a speech impediment. I’m scared of being boring. I kinda wanna tell her it’s my first time and I’m nervous but should I avo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So yesterday I posted about asking a girl out I met on bumble. She said yes but now how can I be less nervous on this date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7xx7gs/so_yesterday_i_posted_about_asking_a_girl_out_i/ |
AdMoney6965 | 2023-09-21 15:50:17 | 1,695,311,417 | 0 | null | 0 | 16ojeb7 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16ojeb7/he_came_back_but_confused_me_more/ | 1 | Related to where I went on a couple of dates with a guy who went MIA for 2 months. He recently randomly messaged me asking about how I'm doing. We chat for a while in a friendly manner pulling each others' legs and I tell him I'm out with my friends. He just says have fun and well, disappears. He didn't even ask me out... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | He came back but confused me more | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16ojeb7/he_came_back_but_confused_me_more/ |
Soupdude27 | 2020-05-16 16:07:20 | 1,589,645,240 | null | null | 0 | gkx4rd | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gkx4rd/i_faked_being_rich_on_bumble/ | 0 | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zpe8u-ctHRQandt=220s The results were surprising. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I Faked Being Rich on Bumble | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gkx4rd/i_faked_being_rich_on_bumble/ |
totheseatothesea | 2022-11-30 22:03:11 | 1,669,845,791 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | z94t69 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/z94t69/should_i_reach_out_to_her/ | 1 | Hi everyone I [m/31] was going out with a girl [f/28] for about a month and i feel like we hit it off after matching on hinge. We have similar personalities and the same interests, which i feel is quite rare for me because i dont pursue very 'mainstream' hobbies. My only issue was that I broke up with my ex about 2 mon... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should i reach out to her? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/z94t69/should_i_reach_out_to_her/ |
anon1102 | 2011-08-17 14:33:33 | 1,313,591,613 | 7 | ['okcupid'] | null | jlmc4 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/jlmc4/i_feel_pressured_to_have_sex_in_totally/ | 3 | When I do feel like having sex, it's not a problem. And I do feel like having sex relatively frequently. But it varies with my menstrual cycle, energy levels, etc. When my boyfriend wants to have sex and I don't, I feel compelled to act like I'm more into it than I am. Or if I get bored during sex I try to mimic the wa... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I feel pressured to have sex in totally non-pressuring situations. | 10 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/jlmc4/i_feel_pressured_to_have_sex_in_totally/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-24 01:28:23 | 1,406,165,303 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 2bjxwh | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/2bjxwh/good_dating_websites_for_nerds/ | 0 | I know this is kind of a random request, but every time use POF or Match I just end up with the wrong time of girls. Since I spend most of my time on the internet I might as well find a girl who shares the same past time as well. Thank you! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Good dating websites for "nerds"? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2bjxwh/good_dating_websites_for_nerds/ |
hrpt-f100 | 2023-09-16 13:31:04 | 1,694,871,064 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16k7nx9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16k7nx9/my_34m_gf_37f_still_talks_to_men_she_met_on_a/ | 1 | Like the title says, my gf of 9 months is talking to 2-3 guys she went on dates with when she was on hinge. She talks to them exclusively on snapchat and it's every day. When we first started dating i caught her sending one of them a sexy pic of her in a towel and called her out on it. She profusy apologized and said i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My (34m) GF (37f) still talks to men she met on a dating app. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16k7nx9/my_34m_gf_37f_still_talks_to_men_she_met_on_a/ |
boredandconfused80 | 2020-11-28 15:48:36 | 1,606,578,516 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | k2puaj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k2puaj/first_time_postingwhat_does_this_mean/ | 0 | So I met a guy on a dating site. We talked for a while and he finally told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship. So we decided to be just friends. So fast forward about a month and he tells me that I shouldn’t count myself out of potentially having a relationship with him. But then a couple days later he tells me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First time posting...what does this mean? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k2puaj/first_time_postingwhat_does_this_mean/ |
felicitydesign | 2024-07-13 20:08:59 | 1,720,901,339 | 0 | ['swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1e2jj4s | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e2jj4s/advice_for_reconnecting_with_someone/ | 1 | I saw a guy on bumble who I know IRL. I saw him in my likes so I know he swiped right on me. But I swiped left because I thought it would be awkward to message him and now I’m kind of regretting it. We’re Facebook friends but we haven’t talked in years, would it be weird to message him on there? Or would it be better t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for reconnecting with someone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2jj4s/advice_for_reconnecting_with_someone/ |
soentwinedsofree | 2017-07-01 19:45:05 | 1,498,938,305 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 6kp0uu | null | null | 64 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6kp0uu/where_exactly_do_you_guys_go_what_do_you_do_on_a/ | 16 | I asked my colleagues this question for fun a while back and had a variety of replies. This would apply to both people you already know or first time meeting the person from OLD though I suspect the answer will differ accordingly. These were their replies: - Go for a walk and just talk - Drinks (as in the alcoholic var... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Where exactly do you guys go/ what do you do on a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6kp0uu/where_exactly_do_you_guys_go_what_do_you_do_on_a/ |
Naive_Minimum_9884 | 2024-08-04 08:56:06 | 1,722,761,766 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1ejquf3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ejquf3/might_have_a_date_for_the_first_time_in_10yrs/ | 3 | Long story short, I was in a relationship (Only one in my life) that lasted around 9yrs. We broke up and these last 4yrs I have had my ups and downs in life. Arrest,Alcohol poisining, rehab, staying clean for 1 1/2, lost 25lbs, now inherited my parents house, etc. So I matched with someone on a dating app. Not sure if ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Might have a date for the first time in 10+yrs Need advise. | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ejquf3/might_have_a_date_for_the_first_time_in_10yrs/ |
blackflowerx3 | 2024-03-18 18:53:38 | 1,710,788,018 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bhykuq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bhykuq/flirting_but_it_goes_nowhere/ | 1 | I'm sure something like this has been posted before, but I'd like to share my situation and get advice. I've (30 F) been single since last spring and have dated a bit (mostly from online dates), haven't found anything long-term again, but would like to. There's a couple of guys (mid 30s) I've met in person (through a s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Flirting, but it goes nowhere | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bhykuq/flirting_but_it_goes_nowhere/ |
Lunas_87 | 2023-01-23 10:29:51 | 1,674,469,791 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 10j9epx | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10j9epx/ive_always_had_a_negative_opinion_about_online/ | 1 | What the title says. I have dated previously though I’m finding I am becoming more socially distant- I often find it difficult to relate to people nowadays. I don’t think I have controversial beliefs compared to other college students or anything but I think I’ve become much more cynical over time. I’m still flirted wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’ve always had a negative opinion about online dating despite never giving it a try even though I think it could help me. Can anyone relate to this? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10j9epx/ive_always_had_a_negative_opinion_about_online/ |
Status_Assistant_905 | 2023-03-05 09:29:06 | 1,678,008,546 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 11isv5s | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11isv5s/hi_im_a_m20_i_never_really_dated_anyone_before_i/ | 0 | I find it quite difficult to just wait for someone to come into my life just out of nowhere. And as i never dated anyone before i’m confused how to start. I dislike the idea of using online dating somehow i want it to be natural but idk,any take on this and advice please? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hi, i’m a m(20), i never really dated anyone before. I never really try looking for one. Besides using online dating app, i dont know where to start looking for one | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11isv5s/hi_im_a_m20_i_never_really_dated_anyone_before_i/ |
eipic | 2022-08-18 22:31:42 | 1,660,861,902 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | wrwxdb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wrwxdb/do_i_m22_tell_her_f21_how_i_feel_over_text_or/ | 2 | So I matched with this girl on Tinder at the end of January, we talked for a good bit and eventually met at the end of April, got food, went back to mine and watched some movies. I moved to America at the end of May and she knew that, and I told her “Of course I met my dream girl right before I move!” We talked on and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I (M22) tell her (F21) how I feel over text or wait until we meet in person? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wrwxdb/do_i_m22_tell_her_f21_how_i_feel_over_text_or/ |
SupaDufus | 2024-01-25 20:32:29 | 1,706,214,749 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 19fj2gr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19fj2gr/wheres_an_appropriate_place_to_hit_on_women_and/ | 1 | So I 25M for various reasons didn't learn to make friends until I was 21(I had some friends never by my own iniative). I was extremely socially awkward due to spending most of my teen years raising a child(brother) so I never really learned to actively socialise. This also transferred to my interactions with women, so ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where's an appropriate place to hit on women? And how do you hold a conversation? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19fj2gr/wheres_an_appropriate_place_to_hit_on_women_and/ |
TheKingOfTutTutSound | 2023-08-04 19:42:56 | 1,691,178,176 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15i9pcm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15i9pcm/am_i_not_meant_for_a_relationship/ | 1 | Not looking for emotional support with this post, i just want some honest objective thoughts on whats going on in my head, whether or not its warrented or if im just overthinking things. I'm a 25m single guy and ive been off and on dating for the last 7 years. My longest relationship was 2.5 years with my first girlfri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am i not meant for a relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15i9pcm/am_i_not_meant_for_a_relationship/ |
Proper-Visit9522 | 2023-11-12 23:12:27 | 1,699,830,747 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17twmzl | true | Question ❓ | 51 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17twmzl/is_it_normal_to_be_turned_off_when_someone_doesnt/ | 1 | I was asked out on a date by a bumble date, where he chose the place and where we went, we ended up going to a coffee shop, it was really cheap only $4 each for 1 hot chocolate, I figured since his the one that chose place, and asked me out he’d pay for mine, but he ends up saying separate when asked, so I had to go ba... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal to be turned off when someone doesn’t pay on the 1st date? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17twmzl/is_it_normal_to_be_turned_off_when_someone_doesnt/ |
724_dood | 2024-04-28 02:36:59 | 1,714,271,819 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cevuh7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cevuh7/dating_is_changing_me_as_a_person/ | 7 | I have had so many bad dating experiences in the last 10 years and I could honestly write a book about it. I am honestly starting to resent women and not want to approach them or talk on dating apps. I don’t have fear of rejection but fear of a woman ripping my heart out for the 100th time. Most of the girls I have dat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating is changing me as a person | 7 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cevuh7/dating_is_changing_me_as_a_person/ |
Spiritual-Educator-7 | 2021-03-20 08:14:11 | 1,616,228,051 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | m92mey | true | Seeking Advice | 63 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/m92mey/when_the_background_check_throws_up_a_yellow_flag/ | 15 | Met someone via OLD, have an in person date scheduled soon. He freely gave me his last name so I could look him up online to see if there was anything nefarious. Well, I ran a background check and there is an unarmed burglary charge that was dismissed 10 years ago. I verified it’s real via the county court site. It’s h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | When the background check throws up a yellow flag | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/m92mey/when_the_background_check_throws_up_a_yellow_flag/ |
candacewall25 | 2019-01-04 05:42:38 | 1,546,580,558 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | acf1uh | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/acf1uh/dating_confusion/ | 1 | A quick rundown of my dating life for the last 2 years (I am a 28 yr old female) Guy 1 (Fall-Winter2016-17); Had a 6 month fling/dating. Had insane chemistry. 8 yr age difference. Fell in love with him, everyone said we were perfect for each other. When we had the relationship talk he said he loved me but could not hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Confusion | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/acf1uh/dating_confusion/ |
the_entertainer1 | 2020-06-09 07:17:44 | 1,591,687,064 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | gzi5se | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gzi5se/5th_date_dinner_at_his_place/ | 1 | I've been on 4 dates with a guy I met through Hinge (he's 32, I'm 31, F). We had a great day of lunch and wine-tasting on the weekend, and he ended up coming into my place when he dropped me home and we made out for a while on the sofa. Later that night he asked if I wanted to go over to his place for dinner one night ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 5th date dinner at his place | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gzi5se/5th_date_dinner_at_his_place/ |
Danish_Traveler | 2018-09-07 08:28:27 | 1,536,308,907 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 9ds9yt | true | Question | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9ds9yt/how_many_perfect_matches_are_out_there/ | 7 | I just need some encouragement. I scared a guy away by going too fast and we really clicked well... well, before that happened lol. And I haven't had that kind of experience in... well ages now. So I was just wondering - how many ''perfect matches'' are there for you? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How many ''perfect matches'' are out there? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9ds9yt/how_many_perfect_matches_are_out_there/ |
Aliceozwalker | 2022-06-26 16:04:40 | 1,656,259,480 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vl7yz6 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vl7yz6/should_i_28f_tell_my_date_33m_that_im_a_virgin/ | 2 | Hello everyone, I'm just looking for thoughts about my current situation. Even though I'm 28, I've never had a romantic partner and am a virgin. I have a full-time job, take care of my health, am a huge saver, etc. There honestly are no major "red flags". However, back when I was in high school my crush committed suici... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (28F) tell my date (33M) that I'm a virgin since he invited me to his house? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vl7yz6/should_i_28f_tell_my_date_33m_that_im_a_virgin/ |
TiredEnthusiast | 2024-01-19 01:56:20 | 1,705,629,380 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | 19a7i8a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19a7i8a/matched_with_a_guy_across_the_country_but_i_like/ | 1 | About a month ago I signed up for FB dating after getting sick of seeing the same people on the usual apps in my area. I’m in my mid 30s, never married, no kids, but have been more career minded than interested in dating until quite recently. I’m not sure how the FB dating algorithm works, I thought I would just see lo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with a guy across the country but I like his profile and maybe want to pursue getting to know him anyway? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19a7i8a/matched_with_a_guy_across_the_country_but_i_like/ |
sappy-cappy | 2024-05-27 03:39:48 | 1,716,781,188 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1d1ikji | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d1ikji/recently_walked_away_from_a_35_year_relationship/ | 2 | i (25f) met my ex (32m) and when i was in college. i was 21 finishing college when we matched on tinder, started dating when i was 22, he was 29 at the time. when our relationship started things were great. he was extremely compassionate and lovely and a joy to be around. when we hit the one year mark in our relationsh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | recently walked away from a 3.5 year relationship | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d1ikji/recently_walked_away_from_a_35_year_relationship/ |
ratsinapersonsuit | 2023-04-14 08:13:47 | 1,681,460,027 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 12lpca7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12lpca7/how_to_do_i_flirt/ | 6 | I apologize if my wording is a little bit off, I'm trying my best to articulate a problem I've never had to describe before. I'm 25 and I haven't been in what I'd call a "relationship". I've had some romantic interactions with men but they have been initiated by friends (ie: they introduced us, we both voiced at least ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to do I flirt? | 6 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12lpca7/how_to_do_i_flirt/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-24 00:23:38 | 1,608,769,418 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | kj4uxk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kj4uxk/is_online_worth_trying/ | 1 | I've been single for 5years. I've tried asking out some of the girls from work, but they all were already seeing someone. I thought about trying online dating but not really sure about it. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is online worth trying? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kj4uxk/is_online_worth_trying/ |
Term1984 | 2020-08-24 20:00:17 | 1,598,299,217 | null | null | 0 | ifwjs1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ifwjs1/well_thats_depressing/ | 9 | Gotta love when they add you on snap and ask what you look like, you show them and then they instantly block you. Fuck those types of people | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Well that's depressing | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ifwjs1/well_thats_depressing/ |
skippy5953 | 2018-11-29 08:34:12 | 1,543,480,452 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | a1flho | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a1flho/night_shift_worker_needs_help_meeting_people/ | 1 | Hey everyone, so I've got myself into a predicament, I work 12 hours shifts at night, (6:45pm-7:15am) and I've been single for four years and it never really bothered me untill lately. I'm having a hard time meeting new people, bars suck. online dating is a joke I rarely get matched, I'm an average looking guy with a d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Night shift worker needs help meeting people | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a1flho/night_shift_worker_needs_help_meeting_people/ |
meh_shesalright | 2021-05-17 23:12:32 | 1,621,293,152 | null | null | 0 | neut4s | true | null | 73 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/neut4s/whats_my_age_again/ | 38 | Men who lie about their age, what do you expect to happen when you meet in person? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s my age again? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/neut4s/whats_my_age_again/ |
Dsg1116 | 2018-12-26 16:26:41 | 1,545,841,601 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | a9pwfq | true | null | 82 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a9pwfq/how_are_some_people_able_to_find_a_partner/ | 39 | I’m. So. Fed. Up. Of people that are able to move onto new relationships and find partners without trouble. While people like myself are literally ALWAYS single. It hurts my self esteem and it has really changed my personality. I’ve lost over 80 lbs and I really hoped it would’ve changed my dating situation. Nope. I st... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How are some people able to find a partner without ease while others are always single? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a9pwfq/how_are_some_people_able_to_find_a_partner/ |
Fun_Resource7033 | 2023-07-15 22:29:54 | 1,689,460,194 | 0 | null | 0 | 150p2cy | false | null | 60 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/150p2cy/do_22post_college29_year_old_women_have_crazy/ | 1 | I’m 24 almost 25 I’ve been on lots of dates in last 8 months Only girls who who wanted to see me again or were into me physically were either 18-21/22 (still a student) or 30-35 Most dates I’ve been on were 23-28 and absolutely all of them …, literally 100% of them ghosted or rejected me after a date Even tho they were... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do 22(post college)-29 year old women have crazy high standards and want a man who’s 10/10 every way | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/150p2cy/do_22post_college29_year_old_women_have_crazy/ |
Boomer98k | 2019-06-04 15:23:37 | 1,559,661,817 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bwpykc | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bwpykc/post_date_anxiety/ | 1 | Hey (m24) I went on a date last Saturday with a girl that I met on tinder and we went for sushi and ice cream then saw a movie together. I pulled the ol movie theater move and we cuddled in the recliner chairs. After she dropped me off and I said hey do you think we could get together again and she said ya I'd like tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Post date anxiety | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bwpykc/post_date_anxiety/ |
mynameizham | 2023-07-12 05:59:51 | 1,689,141,591 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14xfm8x | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14xfm8x/feeling_depressed_jaded_and_just_over_it_i_dont/ | 1 | Hi all, Apologies if this post gets pretty long. So, I am a 25 year old guy. I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship. I keep in decent shape, am extremely conscious about hygiene and clothing and how it compliments my body, and am confident in my appearance. I started therapy back in December and have also b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling depressed, jaded and just over it. I don’t know what to do anymore. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14xfm8x/feeling_depressed_jaded_and_just_over_it_i_dont/ |
HaileyQuinnzel | 2023-08-26 15:20:24 | 1,693,063,224 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 161xzl8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/161xzl8/guys_dont_approach_me_and_dont_want_to_look/ | 1 | 24F here— Guys don’t approach me & I’m having a hard time knowing why. I worked at a restaraunt, and no guy ever approached me. Well, one tried to hook up with me when we were drunk, but I felt like he was lying about finding me attractive just to get laid. Especially cause the days following, he acted like he was alwa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys Don’t Approach Me and Don’t Want to Look Desperate | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/161xzl8/guys_dont_approach_me_and_dont_want_to_look/ |
[deleted] | 2023-05-29 09:28:24 | 1,685,352,504 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13upwxq | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13upwxq/is_this_what_i_think_it_is/ | 3 | Also posted this in another sub but figured no harm in putting it here as well. This may sound really obvious, but I just want some unbiased opinions from you lovely people to see what the likelihood of me potentially making a fool of myself is. In January, I (23m) matched on tinder with an ex of mine (23f). When I say... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this what I think it is? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13upwxq/is_this_what_i_think_it_is/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-25 14:44:14 | 1,627,224,254 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | orctmu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/orctmu/how_to_get_into_the_game/ | 0 | After enough listening to friends progress in the game of relationships and love. So I’m (20M) looking to parley with this game and I have very little idea how to get into it. I’ve remarked online dating though it has not progressed well as conversation over text is not good for me and my personality doesn’t mix well w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get into the game? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/orctmu/how_to_get_into_the_game/ |
Free_Sherbert10 | 2024-05-03 03:39:02 | 1,714,707,542 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ciz20n | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ciz20n/how_to_start_dating_as_an_older_virgin_22m/ | 1 | I spent most of college ignoring dating and partying. Sophomore year I had a few girls come over from tinder but I was too nervous and couldn’t get it up and it took me a long time to be able to land a date through tinder. I got a date for maybe every 8 or so marches. I had a girl come over one time and then come over ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to start dating as an older virgin [22M] | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ciz20n/how_to_start_dating_as_an_older_virgin_22m/ |
tiny-daggers | 2019-01-14 19:55:26 | 1,547,495,726 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | afzmqh | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/afzmqh/chubby_girls_cant_be_loved/ | 2 | So, from the title I guess you can see my dilemma. I’m a 22 year old woman, with some extra junk in the trunk. At 1.70m I look pretty proportional and I have a pretty cute face... but I’ve still had such a hard time finding anyone that wants to date me. I’ve fallen in love, and tried pursuing those feelings but to no a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Chubby girls can’t be loved? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/afzmqh/chubby_girls_cant_be_loved/ |
[deleted] | 2014-01-03 01:57:39 | 1,388,714,259 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 1u9zpd | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1u9zpd/how_to_tell_a_woman_on_matchcom_that_im_not/ | 1 | I started a conversation with a woman on match before she posted a picture. I sent her a short message, then she sent back a rather lenghty reply. We're a good match on paper, but upon seeing the photos, I'm not at all attracted to her. I need help with words to tell her, with compassion, that I'm not interested. No ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to tell a woman on match.com that I'm not interested. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1u9zpd/how_to_tell_a_woman_on_matchcom_that_im_not/ |
salbbegi | 2021-10-21 15:50:25 | 1,634,831,425 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qcutfu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qcutfu/i_had_my_first_date_and_kiss_through_old_but_im/ | 1 | Ive had my ups and downs since starting OLD 3-4 months ago. But this guy who I had talked the longest to about a month, with video calls and watch parties in between asked me out last friday for a movie I really wanted to watch. I was nervous (23F) first date and all and I knew he (25M) was too bc on the car ride to th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I had my first date and kiss through OLD but I’m having doubts | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qcutfu/i_had_my_first_date_and_kiss_through_old_but_im/ |
rosesandhoneyyyyyyyy | 2018-03-31 03:18:07 | 1,522,466,287 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | 88g0eu | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/88g0eu/need_opinions_on_a_new_online_dating_app_concept/ | 1 | Online dating exists for reasons, but we are all familiar with its flaws. My main problem is the concept of writing an autobiography to attract a match which can lead to disappointment. See I think about when humans can be at their most authentic and find it's when random groups form. In jobs, classes, neighborhoods, e... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Need opinions on a new online dating app concept | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/88g0eu/need_opinions_on_a_new_online_dating_app_concept/ |
Curlyyaz | 2021-01-28 05:48:36 | 1,611,812,916 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | l6pd1p | true | Venting | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l6pd1p/ghosted/ | 73 | Well, after talking for about a week and a half through FaceTime and text and flaking on two dates I got ghosted. Honestly, it was bound to happen I guess. I’m not going to lie and call me sensitive but my heart kind of hurts, my feelings are kind of hurt too. I don’t know I guess even though it was a short period of t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted. | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l6pd1p/ghosted/ |
alyce_in_wonderland | 2021-08-22 21:33:32 | 1,629,668,012 | null | null | 0 | p9lh21 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/p9lh21/how_to_meet_someone_in_person_for_the_first_time/ | 3 | So i met this guy on match and things are going amazingly. We have really hit it off and have been talking everyday for a month and hanging out over Kast at least once a week. We live about six hours away from each other and have decided we want to meet in person and see how it goes because we both feel like this could... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to meet someone in person for the first time after online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/p9lh21/how_to_meet_someone_in_person_for_the_first_time/ |
leahyogini | 2021-10-04 01:45:02 | 1,633,311,902 | null | null | 0 | q0vpmh | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q0vpmh/which_old_app_is_the_best_to_go_premium/ | 4 | If you were going to upgrade on one app, which would you say reaps the most benefit. I’m on tinder, bumble and hinge for free at the moment. Met someone from Tinder and dated for a month and that didn’t work out. Getting back to the apps but thinking maybe I need to go premium to get more decent matches. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Which OLD app is the best to go premium? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q0vpmh/which_old_app_is_the_best_to_go_premium/ |
superkam41 | 2022-04-19 19:50:38 | 1,650,397,838 | null | null | 0 | u7dtk0 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u7dtk0/does_the_average_cis_woman_care_if_a_guy_is_trans/ | 5 | It's my biggest anxiety with dating.. should I put that I am trans in my profile? I'm tall at 6'4 and post top surgery so the only thing my being trans indicates is that I do not have a dick.. well I do but I keep it in a box in my room.. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does the average cis woman care if a guy is trans? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u7dtk0/does_the_average_cis_woman_care_if_a_guy_is_trans/ |
HauntedSinkMummy | 2019-07-20 18:43:04 | 1,563,648,184 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cfp9ca | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cfp9ca/shy_and_terrible_at_continuing_convos/ | 1 | Im 19f and i havent dated a whole lot, partly bc i wasnt allowed to and partly bc im really shy. So im trying to try online dating since i work alot and im talking to this really cool and nice guy that i have alot in common with but i feel like i keep making the conversation boring and annoying him? I just dont know ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shy and terrible at continuing convos? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cfp9ca/shy_and_terrible_at_continuing_convos/ |
CasualMrClean | 2024-05-31 15:55:50 | 1,717,170,950 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d4yyw0 | true | null | 95 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d4yyw0/ladies_how_many_likes_are_you_sorting_through/ | 16 | I’m trying to figure how long of a line I’m waiting on. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies, how many likes are you sorting through? | 16 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d4yyw0/ladies_how_many_likes_are_you_sorting_through/ |
Bkri84 | 2020-01-06 03:28:43 | 1,578,281,323 | null | ['swiped', 'swiping'] | 0 | eko3bs | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/eko3bs/please_try_to_help_35m/ | 3 | Edit: I hope this is a step In the right I Direction. Not perfect but better I hope. Let me know When I posted this I not only got great ideas, but someone who swiped left read the post and told me when she chose to do so. Thanks https://intowin90.tumblr.com/post/190113267471 As stated I am a 35 year old male. Single d... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Please try to help. 35m | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/eko3bs/please_try_to_help_35m/ |
kaybobi | 2020-04-30 19:05:38 | 1,588,273,538 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gb1zvn | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gb1zvn/22f_going_on_23_and_never_had_a_bf_any_advice_to/ | 1 | Ok I'm an introvert, shy, socially arkward and pretty damn fugly. My family (not trolling btw) thinks I'm lesbian, and like a couple of weeks ago my sister asked me if I was trans, literally. They think there's something wrong with me since my older siblings have dated tons of people. During the lock down I have starte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22F going on 23 and never had a bf? Any advice to lose my single virginity. 😅 | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gb1zvn/22f_going_on_23_and_never_had_a_bf_any_advice_to/ |
fullygripping | 2023-10-07 20:06:51 | 1,696,709,211 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | 172fiw7 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/172fiw7/do_men_swipe_right_on_everyone/ | 1 | I'm new to the whole dating app thing. I'm in my 30s and have been divorced for a while. Got married before I needed to use apps 😬 I have a few kids and I feel like I'm getting way more "matches" than expected. Are men out here swiping on everyone? Do they actually look at bios (Do they know I have kids)? Or just my p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do men swipe right on everyone? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/172fiw7/do_men_swipe_right_on_everyone/ |
squishedpancake98 | 2021-02-22 20:42:12 | 1,614,026,532 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | lpzae5 | true | Venting | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lpzae5/why_cant_i_ever_get_ahead_23m/ | 1 | I'm a 23M, I'm not spectacular, though I'm told apparently I am, but I can't see it. I play in a band, I try to keep healthy, and I'm constantly trying to improve negative aspects of myself to the best of my ability. This weekend however just destroyed me. For context, I'm not really a dating person, I'm either in a re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why can't I ever get ahead (23M) | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lpzae5/why_cant_i_ever_get_ahead_23m/ |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.