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JustinTrudeauBurner
2023-09-05 20:55:43
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/16azw7q/american_dating_in_europe/
1
In the US I get maybe 2-4 likes per week. Which usually fizzle out in the talking phase. Ever since arriving in Europe, I’ve been getting 5+ matches per day. And the best part? The women actually reply and the convos never die. And they’re super down to meet up. Go date overseas gents, its a fuckin cheat code
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
American dating in Europe
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16azw7q/american_dating_in_europe/
Diligent_Force_8215
2024-07-14 20:13:40
1,720,988,020
0
['matched', 'dating apps', 'dating site', 'hinge']
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1e3bo7d
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3bo7d/paranoia_and_dating_apps/
1
Hey so, I (19m) recently matched with a woman (42f) on hinge, right? And we talk for a while, and she's a very intelligent, well spoken person and we enjoy each others company. Mostly it's just friends with a slight possibility of something casual. Well, she follows me on Instagram now, and because my last name is in m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Paranoia and Dating Apps
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3bo7d/paranoia_and_dating_apps/
LordHeebrial
2018-08-03 04:34:54
1,533,270,894
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null
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946kuj
true
null
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0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/946kuj/is_match_worth_the_price/
8
I'm up in a decent sized town in Minnesota, Im wondering if Match is honestly worth using if I have to pay for it. Any advice?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is Match worth the price?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/946kuj/is_match_worth_the_price/
Theedie
2020-10-06 09:14:18
1,601,975,658
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
j61wh9
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/j61wh9/how_do_i_put_myself_out_there/
10
I (M26) have been single now for 5 years, both of my previous relationships came from friends/work colleagues so it was ‘easy’ for those to happen. I’ve never actually been out on a date with a stranger and I have no idea how to put myself out there. I’ve used tinder/bumble etc but struggle to make any real connection....
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I put myself out there?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j61wh9/how_do_i_put_myself_out_there/
bate-masterr
2023-11-06 20:04:02
1,699,301,042
0
['dating apps']
0
17pbmg8
true
I Need Advice 😩
78
0
/r/dating/comments/17pbmg8/how_do_men_even_get_dates/
1
Seriously, I'm 30, and no matter what I do, I cannot get a single date. I guess I'm kinda ugly, but I'm tall, I dress really well, I groom, I'm not destitute, and I have pretty humble standards...I can't get a single match or like on dating apps, and I'm too anxious to approach IRL...is it over in this era?
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do men even get dates??
1
0.53
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17pbmg8/how_do_men_even_get_dates/
bravobravobravo21
2021-10-11 15:01:14
1,633,964,474
null
['tinder']
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q5xr6h
true
null
528
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/q5xr6h/whats_the_worst_date_situationship_or/
543
I was casual with a guy until most recently. We reconnected in March after not seeing each other since 2019. I went to go visit family and while I was gone, he got married to another girl and a month later, they had a baby. I had no idea there was another girl and I had recently seen him on tinder. I’ve been to his apa...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What’s the worst date, situationship or relationship you’ve ever had?
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/q5xr6h/whats_the_worst_date_situationship_or/
lara533
2020-08-25 19:01:15
1,598,382,075
null
['dating app']
0
iginmx
true
null
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0
/r/dating_advice/comments/iginmx/first_weird_date/
1
I recently met a german guy on a dating app. We're both 25 years old. After few days of talking, we decided to meet. He was just so adorable and cute and we spent a really great evening. He even invited me to dinner. Afterwards, we wanted to go for a walk but it was too rainy and cloudy so he invited me to his appartme...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First weird date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iginmx/first_weird_date/
Different_Material11
2023-12-09 08:08:51
1,702,109,331
0
['dating apps']
0
18e8sry
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/18e8sry/why_i_cant_find_a_woman/
1
I’m on dating apps and I match and start conversations I tend to lose interest because I want to meet in person and hate just text back and forth
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why I can’t find a woman
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18e8sry/why_i_cant_find_a_woman/
[deleted]
2015-04-27 20:36:19
1,430,166,979
0
['dating app']
0
342lx9
null
null
3
null
/r/dating/comments/342lx9/whose_turn_to_make_next_move_after_2_dates/
1
I've had 2 dates with a guy [m25] that I really like [f24]. We met on a dating app for people with mutual friends. I find him very attractive, we went to the same college and have a TON of friends in common, not to mention lots of similar interests and aspirations. Basically, everything is "clicking". He asked me to ge...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Whose turn to make next move after 2 dates?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/342lx9/whose_turn_to_make_next_move_after_2_dates/
IntrovJK
2022-10-13 14:51:19
1,665,672,679
null
null
0
y30pn2
true
null
11
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/y30pn2/is_it_still_worth_asking_out_or_better_to_move_on/
6
Six weeks ago I matched with a really pretty girl my age (29) and then we constantly chatted for the next few days and agreed to meet up on a date 2 weeks later after she came back from holidays. It was a dinner date (I know coffee/drinks are better options for first dates but I couldn’t find a relatively quiet spot in...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is it still worth asking out or better to move on?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y30pn2/is_it_still_worth_asking_out_or_better_to_move_on/
valioilav
2020-06-27 14:37:34
1,593,268,654
null
['online dating']
0
hgum8w
true
I Need Advice
99
0
/r/dating/comments/hgum8w/im_an_interesting_guy_but_no_girl_has_ever_shown/
22
I have a lot of interests in very different kinds of fields (both logical/mathematical and artistical). I personally really enjoy having such a vast span of interests and I would find it attractive in somebody else. Unfortunately most girls don't seem to agree with that at all. I've never received any female attention ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm an interesting guy, but no girl has ever shown interested in me. Losing hope.
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hgum8w/im_an_interesting_guy_but_no_girl_has_ever_shown/
MudNo1285
2023-10-09 18:49:11
1,696,877,351
0
['dating apps']
0
173zn4u
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/173zn4u/advice_for_madrid_dating/
1
Hello folks and the experts of the realm of dating So, I wanted to take your advice and maybe some tricks to find dates in Madrid. Heres the thing- I am in Madrid for 2 weeks and really wanna go on a date with a Spanish/Latin girl. Judge me or whatever, it’s just one of the things on my (bucket) list I find them really...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice for Madrid dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/173zn4u/advice_for_madrid_dating/
emroy444
2023-10-27 04:51:08
1,698,382,268
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
17hftsq
true
null
1
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/17hftsq/first_date_he_didnt_ask_any_questions/
1
Matched with a guy on Bumble. We had good banter while messaging. He asked to meet for a coffee. During our meet, I got the impression he was physically attracted to me, but uninterested in me as a person. Conversation flowed, but it was mostly me asking questions, me giving feedback to what he said, etc. He never aske...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
First date, he didn’t ask any questions
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17hftsq/first_date_he_didnt_ask_any_questions/
Even_Independent1037
2022-04-25 22:51:42
1,650,927,102
null
['tinder']
0
ubxucq
true
Support Needed
15
0
/r/dating/comments/ubxucq/sexkiss_on_the_first_date/
1
I [24F] am tired that is so normal to have sex or at least kiss on the first date. Yesterday I had a date and it was superfun but it always end up “do you want to go to my place?”. And I say this because I’m used to it, everyone do it and after the experience I’m just tired of having something physical with someone tha...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Sex/kiss on the first date
null
0.55
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ubxucq/sexkiss_on_the_first_date/
kokorikos206
2020-06-07 20:05:54
1,591,560,354
null
['dating app', 'bumble']
0
gyjcpr
true
I Need Advice
0
0
/r/dating/comments/gyjcpr/how_do_you_progress_dating_during_covid19/
5
(33M) I'm having some trouble adjusting to the new dating reality of covid19 and would love to hear everyone else's opinion This is how dating worked for me up to now: 1. (dating app) Text til you get her number -- move to whatsapp 2. Normally at this point you'd set up a first date somewhere. Either something quick li...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do you progress dating during covid19
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gyjcpr/how_do_you_progress_dating_during_covid19/
Greedy_Potential_464
2022-09-11 08:06:32
1,662,883,592
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
xbctk1
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xbctk1/idk_what_to_do/
1
I’m 22(M) and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’ve used ever dating app I can think of, I’ve asked multiple girls face to face out and they’ve all said no. On the dating apps, I’ve tried being particular on who I “swipe right” on and I’ve swiped on everyone, including girls I didn’t find attractive. I’ve gotten matches, m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Idk what to do
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xbctk1/idk_what_to_do/
PizzaBowls_Bad
2022-10-10 20:57:16
1,665,435,436
null
['swiping']
0
y0pumv
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/y0pumv/should_i_be_concerned_that_she_tells_me_that_she/
0
I’m not sure what to make of this but here goes. I 25M met a woman online 28F about two weeks ago. We’ve been trying to FaceTime but she’s had to postpone a few times due to some health issues. We talk and flirt pretty often over text which is all really good, but just yesterday she told me about some creep she was tal...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I be concerned that she tells me that she is still swiping?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y0pumv/should_i_be_concerned_that_she_tells_me_that_she/
Jonna3876
2019-04-27 18:38:49
1,556,390,329
null
['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
bi24lr
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bi24lr/21_m_norway_already_lost_when_it_comes_to_dating/
1
Yeah, depressing title, I know. Idk how long this is going to go on for, but I guess I'll just throw my story out there and why I wrote the title the way I wrote it. I guess I'll just start from the beginning. Back in middle school (8th-10th grade in Norway) I had my fair share of crushes going through those years, as ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
21, M (Norway). Already lost when it comes to dating, and my confidence and heart is pretty much broken.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bi24lr/21_m_norway_already_lost_when_it_comes_to_dating/
Ginekolog93
2024-02-27 10:53:24
1,709,031,204
0
null
0
1b192zf
true
null
82
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b192zf/is_being_a_tall_guy_really_that_advantageous_in/
1
Im a tall guy who's 192cm( 6'3) with a slightly above average face and from my experience in online dating girls give less than 2 shits about a guys height as long as hes a little taller than them and i think they actually prefer shorter guys. Alot of times i get messaged by girls who are really tall themselves but the...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is being a tall guy really that advantageous in online dating?
1
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b192zf/is_being_a_tall_guy_really_that_advantageous_in/
No-Cap-4470
2022-04-13 02:16:01
1,649,816,161
null
['online dating']
0
u2fn7g
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u2fn7g/how_to_date_as_a_social_recluse/
0
Hi, I am a M25 year old virgin that has never been in a relationship. I have yet to try dating. I will try to describe my current situation to give you a better overall picture. Regarding mental disorders, I have not been diagnosed yet but I am certain that I have autism spectrum disorder (trouble socializing since chi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to date as a social recluse?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u2fn7g/how_to_date_as_a_social_recluse/
chillyfeets
2021-12-09 07:31:24
1,639,035,084
null
['dating sites']
0
rcck3x
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/rcck3x/29f_demisexual_introverted_only_had_relationships/
1
So after two attempts of FWB, I’ve realised I can’t do it without developing feelings and shooting myself in the foot. This also means one night stands are not a thing, I need to have something established before jumping into bed. So I believe I’m Demi - but once that connection is there my libido has no ceiling. I’m c...
dating
t5_2qhb1
29F, demisexual, introverted, only had relationships with friends. How do I do this?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rcck3x/29f_demisexual_introverted_only_had_relationships/
MercurysNova
2022-09-16 17:27:45
1,663,349,265
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'dating sites']
0
xfxhhk
true
null
9
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xfxhhk/married_men_on_dating_sites/
42
I just popped back onto a dating app last week. And in my area, there are about 25% I see that say single, but state married really low in their profile. Or, as I just discovered, don't say it at all until a few days into chatting then tell the girl. They are looking for a "unicorn" (in my case not a unicorn but you'll...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Married Men on Dating Sites
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xfxhhk/married_men_on_dating_sites/
SHatcheroo
2024-03-26 04:08:45
1,711,426,125
0
['swiped', 'OLD', 'bumble']
0
1bnyq4d
true
null
79
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1bnyq4d/bumble_by_the_numbers/
79
Here’s some data for you metrics nerds like me. I’ve (F) been on Bumble for a few years, seasoned (jaded? haha) OLD user. Signed up for the paying Premium service about 6 months ago, so I can see “likes”, etc. I’ve also bought and used up 3 Compliments packages at @$44/ea for a total of 45 hand-written, thoughtful comm...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Bumble by the numbers
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1bnyq4d/bumble_by_the_numbers/
stoned-alone00
2022-10-03 23:28:58
1,664,839,738
null
['hinge']
0
xuyweu
true
null
136
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xuyweu/havent_had_sex_with_guy_im_dating/
262
I (22f) have been seeing a guy (23m) I met on Hinge for about three weeks now. We have went on a total of six dates but we have not yet slept together. We tried once, but he couldn't get aroused. He told me that it was because he hadn't had sex in six months and he was nervous. Fair enough. That was on our fourth date,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
haven't had sex with guy im dating
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xuyweu/havent_had_sex_with_guy_im_dating/
TheIncredibleMrFish
2024-02-10 00:52:04
1,707,526,324
0
['tinder']
0
1an3q1j
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1an3q1j/should_i_put_casual_on_tinder_even_though_a/
1
So for a while I've been actively looking for a date on tinder, and my profile has reflected that. I don't feel it's going too well and I'm considering to change my strategy. I noticed while I lived in a different city, preparing to move that I saw alot more "action" by being upfront about not looking for a relationshi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I put "casual" on Tinder even though a relationship is the "end game"?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1an3q1j/should_i_put_casual_on_tinder_even_though_a/
RefrigeratorMotor778
2023-09-10 10:38:43
1,694,342,323
0
['swipe', 'bumble']
0
16ex25d
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16ex25d/suggestions_on_matching_on_bumble_with_facebook/
1
Ok, gonna keep it simple. A very attractive and unique woman I’m friends with and occasionally interact with on Facebook is a potential match on Bumble. I’m certainly going to swipe right, but I was thinking being direct with like “well, if it isn’t the girl from Facebook I have a crush on”. Or is that too much?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Suggestions on matching on Bumble with Facebook friend I’ve never met in person
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ex25d/suggestions_on_matching_on_bumble_with_facebook/
NYCWriterOfAllThings
2020-06-13 18:53:29
1,592,074,409
null
null
0
h8da8c
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/h8da8c/journalist_hopeful_for_interview_subjects_for_a/
0
Good day, My name is Michael Stahl \\] and I'm writing a story for MEL Magazine \\]. The story focuses on people who have engaged in virtual sex, like "Zoom sex," and then went on to have sex with that same person, "in real life." Did it measure up? Was it better or worse? If you have a story like that I'd love to hear...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Journalist hopeful for interview subjects for a story about virtual sex and in-real-life sex
null
0.2
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/h8da8c/journalist_hopeful_for_interview_subjects_for_a/
Cristian888
2017-08-15 22:41:40
1,502,836,900
null
['matches']
0
6txt4q
false
null
2
0
/r/dating/comments/6txt4q/i_need_tips_on_how_to_be_better_at_speed_dating_i/
1
I'm 28/m and usually go to events in So Cal. I've gone to like 6 events and have only gotten 3 matches, and of those 3, they didn't respond to any of my emails afterwards, which means they regretted picking me. I always feel like I do well, I ask cool questions outside of career related stuff and always make everyone l...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I need tips on how to be better at speed dating. I almost never get any matches
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6txt4q/i_need_tips_on_how_to_be_better_at_speed_dating_i/
Feisty-Experience-45
2024-09-17 19:49:37
1,726,602,577
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1fj8wda
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fj8wda/should_i_text_my_tinder_match_again_because_i_had/
1
So I matched this guy on tinder and we texted each other all throughout Sunday. Not a word yesterday or today. Didn’t really think about it because of life. Plus I don’t know how to start a conversation because of social anxiety. Now my problem is that I had a dream about him last night so I thought about him all day. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I text my tinder match again because I had a dream about him?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fj8wda/should_i_text_my_tinder_match_again_because_i_had/
OrdinarilyNerdy1478
2024-04-13 07:28:23
1,712,993,303
0
null
0
1c2wa3v
true
null
35
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c2wa3v/intimidated_by_super_athletic_guys/
19
Am I the only one slightly intimidated by super athletic profiles? I mean, the guy can be super attractive, but I would be too scared to match with him because I feel he'd be way out of my league. I mean, I work out regularly myself, but I hardly have an athletic figure. I don't know, maybe I just sound like a doucheba...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Intimidated by super athletic guys
19
0.74
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c2wa3v/intimidated_by_super_athletic_guys/
MisterLyn
2019-01-01 21:17:02
1,546,377,422
null
['online dating']
0
abm3h9
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/abm3h9/every_match_i_got_keeps_asking_me_to_go_through_a/
0
The reason I ask this is because it asks for my credit card info, which seems like a red flag to me. They say it's to see if I'm fake. Idk if it's a scam or not. I'm new to the online dating stuff
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Every match I got keeps asking me to go through a verified profile site. Is it a scam?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/abm3h9/every_match_i_got_keeps_asking_me_to_go_through_a/
WMFJ
2017-09-30 20:06:38
1,506,801,998
null
['swipe']
0
73h5uy
false
null
238
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/73h5uy/whats_some_petty_ass_stuff_youll_left_swipe_on/
10
I'll left swipe on bad eyebrows, blond hair and women decked out in the local sports team(s) gear (unless the rest of their profile is outstanding, of course. I'm not a monster). This decreases my dating pool around here SIGNIFICANTLY. lol
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What's some petty ass stuff you'll left swipe on?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/73h5uy/whats_some_petty_ass_stuff_youll_left_swipe_on/
nocturnal_confidant
2022-01-24 13:10:26
1,643,029,826
null
['OLD']
0
sblvns
true
Question
229
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/sblvns/are_any_men_hesitant_to_date_childless_women_35/
101
I'm late 30s F with no kids. About to get back to OLD after end of 5 year relationship. I'm a bit concerned that with a narrow fertility window and no children it might be assumed I'm in a big hurry to have kids, and thus put pressure on a future partner. I just wonder if men are wary of women in this age bracket for t...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Are any men hesitant to date childless women 35 - 45 years?
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sblvns/are_any_men_hesitant_to_date_childless_women_35/
DarkandHandsome987
2021-05-25 22:05:16
1,621,980,316
null
['online dating']
0
nl1aly
true
Seeking Advice
44
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/nl1aly/need_advice_ex_33f_is_staying_with_me_33m_for_a/
0
She is flying in to visit friends and is staying with me for a week. She and I are getting older and both hear a bio clock ticking. We broke up three years ago when our relationship became toxic she left for a job halfway across the country for 50% less and in a career she hates. I really have no idea why she took the ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Need advice: Ex (33F) is staying with me (33M) for a week. She and I want a child?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/nl1aly/need_advice_ex_33f_is_staying_with_me_33m_for_a/
E_le_m
2020-11-05 23:41:53
1,604,619,713
null
['online dating']
0
jotwse
true
Question
9
0
/r/dating/comments/jotwse/how_do_i_get_back_into_dating_during_covid/
6
Hi all. So, this is a question and a vent at the same time. I (M22) got out of a 2 and a half year relationship about a month ago. While it seems like I haven't had enough time to grief, I was already grieving the relationship before it ended. She was a good person, we had a great time together. But the relationship it...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I get back into dating, during Covid?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jotwse/how_do_i_get_back_into_dating_during_covid/
maxattaxmbg
2019-05-29 00:23:14
1,559,089,394
null
['bumble']
0
bu7ss2
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bu7ss2/am_i_being_shallow/
2
I met this girl on bumble and we were chatting for quite a bit. We ending up really liking each other, so I invited her to my place for breakfast and maybe lunch and to watch a movie. After days of anticipation, she finally comes over and she looks nothing like her photos. Her face was the same as her photos but she wa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I being shallow?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bu7ss2/am_i_being_shallow/
Black-Chocobo
2018-03-13 18:14:20
1,520,964,860
null
['dating app', 'dating sites']
0
846cqb
false
null
26
0
/r/AskWomen/comments/846cqb/what_are_your_thoughts_on_putting_nobody_reads/
0
I've come across a lot of profiles on dating sites that say "nobody reads this anyway" in their bio text. What are your thoughts? Do you do this? If so, why?
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
What are your thoughts on putting, "Nobody reads these anyway", or something along those lines in a dating app profile?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/846cqb/what_are_your_thoughts_on_putting_nobody_reads/
Separate-Relative311
2023-12-05 23:43:37
1,701,819,817
0
['matched']
0
18bq4u8
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18bq4u8/should_i_try_to_fix_things_or_should_i_wait_until/
1
So my girl (F23) and me (M22) have been dating for 8 months we had are like 2 month honeymoon stage which I expected but she’s a whole different person now and it’s nothing new her family tells me all the time that this is how she is she wants me to cut all my friends off while she’s aloud to go out with hers whenever ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I try to fix things or should I wait until she leaves
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18bq4u8/should_i_try_to_fix_things_or_should_i_wait_until/
Dude_Man_528
2023-09-09 12:23:11
1,694,262,191
0
['matches', 'matched', 'online dating']
0
16e4f5i
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16e4f5i/only_matching_with_content_creators/
1
I've been trying online dating for about 2 months now, and I've actually gotten a fair few matches which was a pleasant surprise. The problem I'm having is that, without fail, every single girl I've matched with has been an 18+ content creator of sorts. I've been trying to treat them as regular matches because that doe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Only matching with "content creators"
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16e4f5i/only_matching_with_content_creators/
Electronic-Ad-6602
2024-06-21 15:11:36
1,718,982,696
0
['bumble']
0
1dl6cg4
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dl6cg4/m29_f27_friendzone_or_should_i_be_patient/
1
TL;DR: Asked a classmate out after building rapport; she enjoyed the date but isn’t ready to date due to a recent breakup. We still hang out in class and with mutual friends, and she shows signs of caring about me. Saw her on Bumble a month later. Torn between staying friends or trying to re-engage for a 1:1 hangout. H...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
M29, F27 - Friend-zone or should I be patient?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dl6cg4/m29_f27_friendzone_or_should_i_be_patient/
StpeepBchfl
2023-11-23 03:43:38
1,700,711,018
0
['tinder']
0
181s39v
true
I Need Advice 😩
23
0
/r/dating/comments/181s39v/im_in_quite_a_predicament/
1
I recently got divorced and started casually dating online . I met a beautiful Ukrainian woman on tinder . We would go on dates and eventually hooked up . After we hooked up a few times she dropped a bomb on me . She’s married , but it’s an “arranged marriage “. He’s older then her and brought her and her mom to this c...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’m in quite a predicament
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/181s39v/im_in_quite_a_predicament/
SparkedThoughts
2021-12-21 17:38:41
1,640,108,321
null
['dating app']
0
rljt6y
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rljt6y/i_19f_got_stood_up_by_24m_last_night/
0
We’d been talking everyday for a couple weeks after matching with him on a dating app. Things were going really great, he asked for my number, we accepted each other on social media, and I even found out that he lives about 5-6 miles from me. I had just moved here about a month ago, so I was pretty pumped about that. W...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I, 19(F) got stood up by 24(M) last night.
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rljt6y/i_19f_got_stood_up_by_24m_last_night/
ThrowRAaway8154
2020-02-07 02:33:11
1,581,042,791
null
['tinder']
0
f03s85
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f03s85/whats_my_next_move/
1
Met this girl on tinder and we got on pretty well. Asked her out for coffee and she agreed, however a few days before the date I had to reschedule because of work. We were supposed to meet up today but when I got to the place, she wasn't there. I waited about 15 mins, she still didn't show, so I texted her, " (place) a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What's my next move?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f03s85/whats_my_next_move/
Spare_Television_268
2024-01-02 01:49:12
1,704,160,152
0
['dating apps']
0
18wd89m
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18wd89m/how_to_date_despite_absolutely_hating_flirting/
1
Hi, I’m 18F and VERY new to dating. With very little dating experience (thanks to wildly intense socially anxiety as a teen), I unfortunately turned to dating apps and dated one guy for a few weeks before it ended somewhat sourly for me. Now I’m talking to a second guy I’ve met on there, but as a new year’s resolution ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to date despite absolutely HATING flirting?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18wd89m/how_to_date_despite_absolutely_hating_flirting/
rileyluvsventi
2024-07-11 14:34:21
1,720,708,461
0
null
0
1e0qffg
true
null
30
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e0qffg/good_first_date_ideas_for_someone_who_is/
12
29F currently lacking in funds and i don't want to make the guy pay for everything so i'm trying to find ideas of fun first dates i can have that won't cost either of us anything? what suggestions do you guys have? besides the park lol.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Good first date ideas for someone who is currently broke?
12
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e0qffg/good_first_date_ideas_for_someone_who_is/
EvilBacon_
2020-03-18 21:30:17
1,584,567,017
null
['online dating']
0
fkxlqv
true
Venting
9
0
/r/dating/comments/fkxlqv/23mwhy_do_girls_ghost_so_much_on_online_dating/
1
Do they have so many men to choose from they can be picky or am i just being sexist and guys ghost as much as girls? Like just trying my best here, talked to a girl their for 5 days asked her out for coffee and she said "rain check on it" then ghosted me 2 days later. Messaged her again today to see how things were and...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[23M]Why do girls ghost so much on online dating?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fkxlqv/23mwhy_do_girls_ghost_so_much_on_online_dating/
newhappylife
2020-08-22 02:10:05
1,598,062,205
null
['dating site']
0
iea9ju
true
null
18
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/iea9ju/scared_to_get_started_with_anyone/
11
How do I meet someone and have any type of relationship when I have work and teenage kids, (and now with covid) and other responsibilities starting back up: kid school, kid activities, kids care, kid feeding, endless time commitments. Been divorced from a 20 year terrible marriage for 8 years- ex husband lost all legal...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Scared to get started with anyone
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/iea9ju/scared_to_get_started_with_anyone/
Suspicious-Machine33
2024-01-22 05:28:23
1,705,901,303
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
19coau1
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/19coau1/please_help/
1
Please help 22M texting 20F on Instagram. Matched on hinge. She agreed to date and sounded very keen. Once I gave her a place & time she left me on read! Been left on read for 2 days. Should I double text and if so what do I say?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please help!
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19coau1/please_help/
BattMarr
2023-08-06 01:56:46
1,691,287,006
0
['matches', 'online dating']
0
15jdaro
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15jdaro/how_can_i_make_a_good_looking_online_dating/
1
I have no idea how to organize a dating profile. I’ve used a couple different apps in the past for a few months and never got any matches. I think a big part of it is that I’m just fuck ugly but I think another big part was the actual content of the profile. Body type, race, hair color, cosmetic things like that don’t ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I make a good looking online dating profile? (21M)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15jdaro/how_can_i_make_a_good_looking_online_dating/
LonelyDadbod4U
2023-10-02 02:41:11
1,696,214,471
0
['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
16xkyvh
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16xkyvh/3_am_tinder_swipe_mistake_on_live_in_lodger/
1
My worst nightmare just happened. I’m tired 😴 and I just accidentally swiped right on my female lodgers tinder profile. Age gap 15 years also. Frustrated with dating apps and catfishes lately so I just deleted the app in panic mode. Sent an email apologising but still panicking she will now misunderstand and move out....
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
3 Am Tinder swipe mistake on live in lodger.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16xkyvh/3_am_tinder_swipe_mistake_on_live_in_lodger/
maximp
2019-08-06 22:38:15
1,565,131,095
null
['online dating']
0
cmxb1m
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/cmxb1m/dating_a_shy_woman/
2
I’m texting a 38F that I met online (I’m 45M). We are planning to have our first date in a science museum. What are some strategies to avoid awkwardness with someone shy? She mentioned twice now that she is new in online dating and can come across as shy around stranger. For me, based on past experience, it will take s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating a shy woman?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cmxb1m/dating_a_shy_woman/
[deleted]
2012-02-08 06:48:27
1,328,683,707
0
['okcupid']
null
pfy8u
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/pfy8u/holy_shit_i_just_bagged_a_date_with_a_normal_help/
1
I'm 25, Male. I do alright in terms of dating, long term and short (though I'm by no means the type to go for one night stands). However, I've always either met my girlfriends and dates through friends and such, or else online (OkCupid mostly). I have to say that the great majority of OkCupid dates turn out... interest...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Holy shit, I just "Bagged a [date with a] Normal". Help!
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pfy8u/holy_shit_i_just_bagged_a_date_with_a_normal_help/
pd336819
2019-08-03 14:23:38
1,564,842,218
null
['dating apps']
0
cljah1
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cljah1/hate_dating_apps_but_too/
6
[M 27] I’ve been single for about 5 years at this point. The one girlfriend I had in college lasted for a year or two afterward, but after we broke up I’ve been absolutely hopeless. I have really bad social anxiety, and even the medication I’m on for my general anxiety and depression doesn’t seem to do much for it. So,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hate dating apps but too introverted/anxious/clueless to try and meet people IRL
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cljah1/hate_dating_apps_but_too/
2cheekie
2024-04-15 22:06:44
1,713,218,804
0
['dating apps']
0
1c4z4cn
true
null
163
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c4z4cn/my_now_ex_had_screenshots_of_lolicon_anime_porn/
162
i found my ex had lolicon screenshots in his phone. I confronted him after and we're broken up. Should i report him? He is a teacher. Middle school teacher. I dont know if he's looked up porn of real children but he constantly locks himself in the bathroom to jerk off (almost daily). I also found chat apps and dating a...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
My now ex had screenshots of lolicon (anime porn of young children). What should i do?
162
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c4z4cn/my_now_ex_had_screenshots_of_lolicon_anime_porn/
Automatic_Public3677
2023-10-11 06:03:15
1,697,004,195
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
17571sk
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17571sk/confused_about_someones_intentions_after_the/
1
I, 24F recently went on a date with someone I matched with on Hinge, 25M. The first date was pretty chill, we just went to get drinks and hung out and talked. We ended up making out and I felt an overwhelming sexual attraction and so did he. I almost slept with him but I felt like it was too soon + rushed. We’ve been t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Confused about someone’s intentions after the first date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17571sk/confused_about_someones_intentions_after_the/
PersonalityNew2280
2023-09-18 05:28:34
1,695,014,914
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
16lmsc2
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16lmsc2/help_please/
1
Greetings to all, I need your advice and would like to know. So I have been talking to one lady, American and 37 here in the UK. Matched her on a dating app 6 wks ago and we have met only once because her sister came for like 3 wks from the states. Anyways whenever we chat we communicate well and it's a laughs and all....
dating
t5_2qhb1
Help please
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16lmsc2/help_please/
jphree
2020-09-12 20:48:03
1,599,943,683
null
null
0
irkgzr
true
null
7
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/irkgzr/has_learning_about_attachment_theory_helped_you/
6
Recently learned about Attachment theory after recent breakup. My mind and heart were blown the fuck open. Curious if y’all know what I’m talking about.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Has learning about attachment theory helped you in relationships?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/irkgzr/has_learning_about_attachment_theory_helped_you/
nyyaos
2019-12-08 02:56:11
1,575,773,771
null
['online dating']
0
e7o5ah
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e7o5ah/im_all_sorts_of_messed_up_and_i_really_need_help/
1
I've been contemplating this post for a long time, I guess the basics really are a cry for help. I'm a 29 YO male. I'm average looking, on the skinny side, and suffer from some pretty bad depression and anxiety. I've been single for 9 years now, and I've only ever long-term dated one girl, who tremendously broke my hea...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm all sorts of messed up and I really need help. I don't know where to start. [29M]
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e7o5ah/im_all_sorts_of_messed_up_and_i_really_need_help/
TheLoneLogan
2023-09-25 08:25:06
1,695,630,306
0
null
0
16rmb78
true
null
1
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/16rmb78/distance_already_showing_issues/
1
I'm never a fan of the dating services that limit you by area, its ONLINE dating, distance shouldn't be an issue. But despite that I can understand it, some want to be able to easily meet each other. I decided on a whim to attempt online dating for a third time, this time more laid-back and less serious. If it works ou...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Distance already showing issues.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16rmb78/distance_already_showing_issues/
Honest_Vegetable_743
2022-11-20 18:59:20
1,668,970,760
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
z0c4uj
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/z0c4uj/matching_with_people_im_not_attracted_to/
0
For context: I (23f) have never been in a relationship but I am a romantic and I like men who are really kind and thoughtful, plus my love language is words of affirmation. My dating app of choice is hinge and I seem to be having an issue with picking who to match with. I get likes from guys that look really genuine an...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Matching with people I’m not attracted to
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z0c4uj/matching_with_people_im_not_attracted_to/
ohgoshdarngollyme
2024-04-10 19:29:01
1,712,777,341
0
['hinge']
0
1c0u6s6
true
null
71
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0u6s6/girl_told_me_she_had_to_convince_herself_to_go/
345
So I 25M went out with a woman 23F after we met on Hinge. Things were great and we had similar personalities. On the second date though I realized that we weren’t a good fit. She proceeded to ask if I wanted to go out again. After a phone call I explained how we likely weren’t a good fit and I wished her the best. I th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl told me she had to convince herself to go out with me even though I rejected her
345
0.94
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0u6s6/girl_told_me_she_had_to_convince_herself_to_go/
throwaway385209520
2020-07-12 16:59:36
1,594,573,176
null
['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
hpxq8l
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hpxq8l/got_caught_in_a_threes_company_situation_messed/
1
Sorry for the wall of text, but this is a doozy. Names are fake. A couple of months ago, I \[25m\] matched with Linda \[24f\]- we hit it off, had a video date, and have been texting since that time (she doesn't like talking on the phone). I feel like there was legitimate long-term potential between us, but i kept playi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Got caught in a three's company situation, messed it all up, and feel like I need to fix it
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hpxq8l/got_caught_in_a_threes_company_situation_messed/
Fit_Lie2933
2024-07-28 15:06:08
1,722,179,168
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
1ee9ix6
true
Question ❓
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1ee9ix6/will_there_be_a_collapse_in_online_dating_soon/
3
For guys it's pretty much playing a raffle that's rigged for all the contestants to lose like that episode of the X Files with that organ raffle scam where the outcome was predetermined (perhaps an exaggeration but not far off). Given the statistical data that most guys are wasting their time combined with the commodif...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Will there be a collapse in online dating soon?
3
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ee9ix6/will_there_be_a_collapse_in_online_dating_soon/
bananaaple
2024-01-06 10:25:12
1,704,536,712
0
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
18zx4qj
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/18zx4qj/how_to_stop_going_out_with_strangers/
1
hey i just want to have some advice how to stop myself wanting to be or going out with guys that ive just met like hours ago? ive installed apps like bumble and tinder and i did go out with guys several times in just a span of 3 months. its like giving me fun and relaxation with going out with somebody and share or tal...
dating
t5_2qhb1
how to stop going out with strangers
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18zx4qj/how_to_stop_going_out_with_strangers/
Torandax
2017-03-13 14:01:33
1,489,413,693
null
['tinder']
0
5z54gk
null
null
52
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5z54gk/woke_up_to_a_text_from_dude_who_stood_me_up/
26
Yup. He texted me during the night and left this: Sorry it was a struggle yesterday and I couldn't stay awake . Now I can't sleep! If this was the case the right thing to do would have been when he saw my message at 6:12 was to say that he overslept and would be right there. He lives 3 minutes from the restaurant. Back...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Woke up to a text from dude who stood me up yesterday
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5z54gk/woke_up_to_a_text_from_dude_who_stood_me_up/
bluenova088
2024-01-10 04:56:55
1,704,862,615
0
['dating apps']
0
19302x7
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/19302x7/dating_in_canada/
1
Hello everyone. I live in eastern canada , 31 brown male. I recently got into he dating scene but until now it has been terrible. I had tried all the dating apps, tried going to social places but no success whatsoever lol. Most girls I met either came as couples or in a girls group (didnt see any single girls but ig th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating in Canada
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19302x7/dating_in_canada/
cinge67
2022-10-20 18:55:55
1,666,292,155
null
['OLD']
0
y96naw
true
null
134
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/y96naw/old_profile_photos_of_motorcycles_boats_and_cars/
32
I (F55) find it curious that so many men on OLD post photos of motorcycles, boats, and cars. Not photos with him on the motorcycle or in the boat or car, just photos of the motorcycle, boat, or car — like they are advertising it to sell. I’d be interested in hearing the thought process behind that. Why do some men thin...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
OLD profile photos of motorcycles, boats, and cars — why?
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/y96naw/old_profile_photos_of_motorcycles_boats_and_cars/
JumpMasterJay
2020-02-10 00:03:32
1,581,293,012
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
f1ho1r
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f1ho1r/women_do_you_find_it_offensive_if_a_man_tries_to/
3
I have gotten nowhere with apps and everyone on here says to talk to women IRL. I did that for years in bars and clubs and found most women seemed to react like they are either inconvenienced or insulted by the notion of me talking to them. I'm a pretty friendly guy but I don't look like a movie star. I'm not trying to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Women: Do you find it offensive if a man tries to talk to you in a bar or nightclub?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f1ho1r/women_do_you_find_it_offensive_if_a_man_tries_to/
MaizeEnvironmental32
2024-08-19 20:56:44
1,724,101,004
0
['online dating']
0
1ewcxxq
true
Support Needed 🫂
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1ewcxxq/how_can_i_find_someone_when_i_dont_like_leaving/
1
I don't do much other than go to work and stay at home. I don't go anywhere where I would be meeting new people, online dating seems just as scary as trying to meet new people in person. I struggle with social anxiety and I can't see myself going places and approaching stranger and making dating profiles where I feel l...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How can I find someone when I don't like leaving my apartment or meeting new people
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ewcxxq/how_can_i_find_someone_when_i_dont_like_leaving/
Julz513
2020-01-20 02:13:34
1,579,486,414
null
['dating site']
0
er6dn2
true
null
9
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/er6dn2/confusedin_a_casual_sex_situationshipwhen_i_dont/
2
I'm having sex with this guy I met on a dating site. He's 33 and I'm 41. He initiated the conversation to begin and I've tried to keep it even. When I don't text as much, he gets upset. When I then try to text more, he gets distant. Most recently, he actually asked why I don't text him during the day (he's at work!) or...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Confused...In a casual sex situationship...When I don't text a lot, he gets upset, but when I then try to text more, he gets distant and unavailable. I can't figure out what to think.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/er6dn2/confusedin_a_casual_sex_situationshipwhen_i_dont/
hueabi
2023-12-21 02:15:49
1,703,124,949
0
['dating app']
0
18nbtoj
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
18
0
/r/dating/comments/18nbtoj/i_hate_the_dating_culture_now/
2
As a 25F, I used to use dating app, as guys in my country mostly doesn't suit me (just my thoughts, ig). Well, it's sad to know that most of the guys nowadays, even the 30+ or 40+ men loves to do the situationship things. Is it really hard to tell your intentions at first? To determine what you look for in a relationsh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I HATE THE DATING CULTURE NOW
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18nbtoj/i_hate_the_dating_culture_now/
satanssanta1
2020-03-12 20:34:54
1,584,045,294
null
['tinder']
0
fhn3fp
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fhn3fp/what_do_you_do_when_you_get_a_phone_number/
1
Might sound like a stupid question. What am I supposed to say after getting a number from someone (on tinder)? Say hi there, follow up on the tinder conversation or anything else?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What do you do when you get a phone number?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fhn3fp/what_do_you_do_when_you_get_a_phone_number/
Mrmanandu
2019-12-15 09:33:39
1,576,402,419
null
['swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
eax2nr
true
Tinder/Online Dating
4
0
/r/dating/comments/eax2nr/how_can_tinder_possibly_work/
3
I feel that I've swiped right more times than there are people in my city. At this stage the app must be either creating fake accounts for me to swipe, or showing me people who've already rejected me.
dating
t5_2qhb1
How can tinder possibly work?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eax2nr/how_can_tinder_possibly_work/
No_Lecture_6625
2021-01-15 05:14:18
1,610,687,658
null
['tinder']
0
kxnpxr
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kxnpxr/did_i_make_a_mistake/
2
Ok, so last year I met a girl on Tinder. We began following each other on Instagram. Thereafter, she began watching all of my stories, and quite frequently she replied to them. We had great chemistry (I believe), so after a while I told her that I kind of liked her. She said that it was fine but that we didn’t really k...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I make a mistake?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kxnpxr/did_i_make_a_mistake/
Sad_Philosophy_3431
2024-04-28 16:58:27
1,714,323,507
0
['online dating', 'bumble']
0
1cfb4mn
true
I Need Advice 😩
13
0
/r/dating/comments/1cfb4mn/can_i_online_date/
4
I am 30 and I never really used online dating. I have always been an in person guy. Though I moved 9 hrs from everyone I know and I quit work to go back to school. The profiles I see all have these amazing photos, of people who go on trips and are interesting. Honestly I don't take many photos and I don't go a ton of p...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Can I online date?
3
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cfb4mn/can_i_online_date/
42_Lifes_Answer4579
2021-03-14 22:35:10
1,615,761,310
null
['dating apps']
0
m565ap
true
null
2
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m565ap/i_guess_posting_a_meme_that_references_sex_means/
28
I must say this is new to me, but since when does posting a funny meme about sex mean that I want you to send me sexual messages? I have heard this happening in straight dating apps, where men immediately send rude sexual messages right off the bat, but since I'm a lesbian I haven't dealt with this. The anonymity of re...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I guess posting a meme that references sex means I want men to send me crude messages
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m565ap/i_guess_posting_a_meme_that_references_sex_means/
Jpepemur
2019-09-25 05:05:03
1,569,387,903
null
['swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
d8yocx
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/d8yocx/met_on_tinder_what_pace_should_i_go_at/
1
So I [20M] was recently on Tinder and saw that a girl [20F] that attends my college had swiped on me (I have Tinder Gold). This girl looked familiar which I later found out that we been in a class together. I decided to go ahead and swipe right and we started texting. We’ve been texting for a few days now and we’ve met...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met on Tinder, what pace should I go at?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d8yocx/met_on_tinder_what_pace_should_i_go_at/
teamarxx
2023-01-15 04:20:58
1,673,756,458
null
null
0
10cac03
true
null
45
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/10cac03/is_it_just_me_or_does_no_one_else_get_hinge/
10
Okay so I’m 31F and I’ve been on both Hinge and Bumble. On Bumble I have over hundreds matches (fyi this is mostly from the Bay Area so it’s a larger pool) but when I use hinge in my area I have 1-5 matches. I don’t get it. Am I the only one? I saw a TikTok of a gal who said she experienced the same thing. I’m not sayi...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is it just me or does no one else get hinge matches?
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10cac03/is_it_just_me_or_does_no_one_else_get_hinge/
CPTr3
2020-04-28 18:01:54
1,588,096,914
null
['online dating', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
g9s4sp
true
Question
9
0
/r/dating/comments/g9s4sp/obviously_its_all_based_on_perspective_but_online/
1
It seems like some online dating site are geared towards people in there 20s. Is there and age where most people online start to consider you old and therefore filter you out of their age range?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Obviously it’s all based on perspective, but online dating specifically Tinder and Bumble are geared towards a younger crowd. Is there a certain age range that’s considered “old” or “getting old” in the online dating world?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g9s4sp/obviously_its_all_based_on_perspective_but_online/
Five_FingerDeathKick
2023-02-15 00:27:10
1,676,420,830
null
['tinder']
0
112kqup
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
29
0
/r/dating/comments/112kqup/tinder_is_expensive_and_im_not_in_any_girls_league/
7
I’m an 18yr old Albertan Country boy and for me finding a girlfriend is tough, I’m not ugly and I’m not toxic but for some reason I’m always picked last idk what it is or what it’s not but I’m starting to question myself.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tinder is expensive and I’m not in any girls league
null
0.74
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/112kqup/tinder_is_expensive_and_im_not_in_any_girls_league/
ace-eijun
2019-07-22 22:32:49
1,563,834,769
null
['dating app']
0
cgk46c
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cgk46c/developed_feelings_for_a_guy_i_havent_met_yet/
2
I (22f) started talking to this guy (22m) from a dating app about 2 weeks ago. We've been talking on the phone and texting and I've been enjoying his company quite a bit. So much so that I look forward to our conversations and I tend to think about him through out the day. I've been talking to other people as well, but...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Developed feelings for a guy I haven't met yet
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cgk46c/developed_feelings_for_a_guy_i_havent_met_yet/
justjamie11
2021-06-30 00:04:31
1,625,011,471
null
['dating app']
0
oakxxj
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/oakxxj/how_long_do_you_usually_message_with_someone_on_a/
5
I (20F if it matters) have been chatting with a few people on a dating app and most people message back and forth with me for a good while before mentioning meeting up, but today this guy asked me to meet up after barely even a day of talking, and we haven’t really even talked about anything of substance yet. I’m just ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How long do you usually message with someone on a dating app before meeting in person?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oakxxj/how_long_do_you_usually_message_with_someone_on_a/
ActualHumanBeen
2023-12-20 08:05:05
1,703,059,505
0
['bumble']
0
18mpgcn
true
null
68
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18mpgcn/had_sex_10_times_in_one_night_then_she_went/
1
lol a bit dramatic for a title. had 3 dates with this girl i met from bumble. she put she was looking for "not sure yet" whereas i put relationship. she seemed down to earth and i thought she genuinely liked me. first date was fun and ended in sex a few times and i slept over. 2nd date was really just me going to her p...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
had sex 10 times in one night then she went silent after and didnt respond to my text ... why?
1
0.42
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18mpgcn/had_sex_10_times_in_one_night_then_she_went/
Madam_Rare
2020-11-08 17:20:12
1,604,856,012
null
['OLD', 'hinge']
0
jqfflp
true
null
47
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jqfflp/its_just_pubes_whats_the_big_deal/
1
I suppose everyone is entitled to their own desires/dislikes, but I’ve recently encountered so much fetishism in the OLD world. Not everyone is advertising it on the front page though, so I match with people, we talk and eventually they start laying out their kinks. I also know it’s up to me to decide if these things a...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
It’s just pubes, what’s the big deal?
null
0.53
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jqfflp/its_just_pubes_whats_the_big_deal/
Rare-Philosophy-9928
2024-04-11 03:15:07
1,712,805,307
0
['dating app']
0
1c14s9c
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c14s9c/my_ex_came_back_should_i_respond/
1
TLDR: my high school sweetheart wrote a deep letter and wants to meet. Susie was the love of my life. We met in high school (I was a senior 18, s We were best friends who did everything together. We were attached at the hip. She was the sweetest person until she was sexually abused by a family member and ended up in fo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My ex came back Should I respond?!?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c14s9c/my_ex_came_back_should_i_respond/
Enigmatology
2018-02-13 08:18:43
1,518,509,923
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
7x80bs
false
null
31
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7x80bs/heres_why_men_want_more_than_just_hey_whats_up/
0
Why do so many straight men despise reading a simple “hello” from women on dating apps? Here's an explanation. When a man reads “hello” or, worse, “hey ;) what’s up” from a girl on a dating app, he infers several things. Firstly, he thinks, “This grimy debutante takes me for granted and assumes I will respond to her in...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Here's why men want more than just "hey ;) what's up" messages
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7x80bs/heres_why_men_want_more_than_just_hey_whats_up/
shortbeard21
2022-01-05 17:48:56
1,641,404,936
null
['online dating', 'facebook dating']
0
rwsl2e
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/rwsl2e/not_sure_what_to_do_with_this_girl_i_like_on/
1
M(34) I recently joined a Facebook dating group for Christians. I have commented back and forth with one girl in particular. I posted what's your favorite dad joke in the group. She commented that mine was pretty funny. We then started commeting back and forth on each other's post. We both agreed on a post about women ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Not sure what to do with this girl I like on Facebook dating group
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rwsl2e/not_sure_what_to_do_with_this_girl_i_like_on/
fuzzyslipperss
2022-09-18 15:32:42
1,663,515,162
null
['tinder']
0
xhjqqo
true
I Need Advice 😩
11
0
/r/dating/comments/xhjqqo/ghosted_by_hookup/
0
i (20f) hooked up with a guy i met on tinder who goes to my university before going home for the summer. it was a little bit awkward due to my lack of experience at the time (he still seemed to really enjoy it and so did i) but we mentioned meeting again in the fall. i reached out to him again recently to hookup again ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
ghosted by hookup
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xhjqqo/ghosted_by_hookup/
Vegetable_Molasses75
2024-01-30 20:44:12
1,706,647,452
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
1aeytoi
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1aeytoi/should_i_see_him_again/
1
So I live in country X. And when I was in country Y for business purposes, I created bumble account. I matched with a German guy, but it was my last day, I was literally at the airport. But I travel to country Y often, and there was already a planned trip one month ahead. So we kept talking a bit, and at first it was j...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I see him again?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aeytoi/should_i_see_him_again/
MboloYaBaKali
2024-03-22 19:30:27
1,711,135,827
0
['matches', 'OLD']
0
1bl7u94
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bl7u94/how_exactly_am_i_supposed_to_connect_with_a_woman/
19
So I until 3 weeks ago, I was one of the guys in my circle that rejected OLD in favour of in person interaction. I was never really successful while "touching grass" but given that I often got dissed on my looks, I figured my fortunes on OLD would be far, far worse. I've moved to a new city and figured that since I'm s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How Exactly Am I Supposed to Connect With a Woman?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bl7u94/how_exactly_am_i_supposed_to_connect_with_a_woman/
rockhardcatdick
2024-06-25 05:11:22
1,719,292,282
0
['hinge']
0
1dny62r
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1dny62r/had_a_date_today/
2
Not much to say, just getting my frustration off my chest. So, I had my first date today in months (second date this year). Thus, I was pretty excited. I met her on Hinge and we seemed quite similar: Goofy, older college students (above 30s), and generally a fun personality. So, I was really looking forward to it. Not ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Had a Date Today
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dny62r/had_a_date_today/
ankson
2019-12-14 18:38:27
1,576,348,707
null
['bumble']
0
eanf9g
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/eanf9g/21f_is_he_just_being_nice/
1
hi you guys i’m confused as to if this guy likes me. he’s said i’m attractive and we have decent conversation. met on bumble when we were both home for thanksgiving break. ive asked why he thinks he’s not in something right now and he said he doesn’t really try. so i told him if he doesn’t see this going anywhere unmat...
dating
t5_2qhb1
(21F) is he just being nice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eanf9g/21f_is_he_just_being_nice/
kupa9112
2018-08-23 04:49:15
1,534,999,755
null
['tinder']
0
99kgbe
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/99kgbe/dating_a_girl_from_tinder_guidelines/
1
So I just had my 2nd date with a tinder girl who goes to my university. She seems really cool and into me and we vibe. I, however, initiated the first 2 dates. Should I wait to text her until she tries to make plans again?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating a girl from Tinder: Guidelines?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/99kgbe/dating_a_girl_from_tinder_guidelines/
heoluoi
2024-07-14 11:27:53
1,720,956,473
0
['dating app']
0
1e301te
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e301te/will_you_continue_dating_a_man_that_lie_to_you/
0
I have been exclusively dating a man for 2 month now. He is gentleman, sweet and nice. The type that open the door for you, walk outside when walking along, etc. Some of my concerns were: - when we went out on dating, i mostly the one who initiate to pay (we went on 2 date/weeks and he had only initiated to pay twice. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
will you continue dating a man that lie to you?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e301te/will_you_continue_dating_a_man_that_lie_to_you/
Rach1943
2024-01-18 15:43:08
1,705,592,588
0
['dating apps']
0
199t0w1
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/199t0w1/do_women_that_would_like_to_meet_men_in_real_life/
1
Apparently there are two groups of women out there (roughly speaking...) 1) women who don't want to be approached/flirted ANYWHERE, period, even if its a bar / co-ed event / hobby 2) women who are sick of dating apps, and would like to meet men in real life - and are generally open to many avenues whether it is going o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do women that would like to meet men in real life need to give clearer signals?
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199t0w1/do_women_that_would_like_to_meet_men_in_real_life/
JBHRob
2018-02-22 12:09:48
1,519,301,388
null
['swiping']
0
7zefr4
false
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7zefr4/would_you_allow_your_browsing_history_and_app/
1
Using internet history, cookies, geotagging and app usage - would you let an application find you the perfect match? Forget about swiping right 30 times a day, you’d be able to sit back and let the wonderful world of technology find your next (and last) first date.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Would you allow your browsing history and app usage to find your next lover?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7zefr4/would_you_allow_your_browsing_history_and_app/
throwaway617615613
2016-10-22 14:17:47
1,477,145,867
0
['dating apps']
0
58tb88
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/58tb88/im_in_trouble_31m_crazy_for_35f_xpost/
3
Hey all. I (31M) have never posted on Reddit before. I apologize in advance for the lenh of this post but thank you all for taking the time to read it. I have been on a dating tear the last few months thanks to dating apps. They've all been really fun and (at the very least) all ended in a kiss. I have been mostly a 1 ...
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t5_2s4kl
I'm in trouble... [31/M] crazy for [35/F] (x/post relationship_advice)
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/58tb88/im_in_trouble_31m_crazy_for_35f_xpost/
ProfessorDangerous10
2023-06-14 19:07:09
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Support Needed 🫂
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/r/dating/comments/149g6rz/raya_referral_help_a_gal_out/
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Hey everyone, hope you are all doing well. Long story short, I’m recently single and decided giving dating apps a go. I’ve heard great reviews for Raya and currently trying to get approved. Got two of my friends who used to have accounts but they’re no longer single so can’t really help me out here. Long shot, anyone w...
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t5_2qhb1
Raya referral - help a gal out
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/149g6rz/raya_referral_help_a_gal_out/
NotSureIfIWanna20
2024-09-08 21:41:35
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/r/AskMen/comments/1fc94g2/men_who_had_side_chicks_how_and_why_how_did_you/
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I have a girlfriend I deeply love whom I've been with a little over 4 years. I would consider myself a pretty attractive above avarage dude and I get a lot of attention from women, at one point me and my girlfriend decided to make me a Tinder to promote my artistic Instagram. This was 1.5 years ago. A girl, let's calle...
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Men who had side chicks, How and why? How did you overcome it?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fc94g2/men_who_had_side_chicks_how_and_why_how_did_you/
jimmyatetheworld223
2019-01-21 02:58:42
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/r/dating/comments/ai5nax/advice_for_a_single_guy/
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Hi all I don’t generally tend to come to reddit for these things. But I feel that it can’t hurt to hear some outside opinions I’m feeling kind of stuck as of late in the dating world and I’m not sure what to do. I’ve been single for going on 6 years now after a long term relationship that had lasted quite a long time. ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Advice for a single guy?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ai5nax/advice_for_a_single_guy/