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Rich-Study5520 | 2023-12-30 12:05:27 | 1,703,937,927 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18ue8e1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ue8e1/someone_from_my_past_invited_me_for_date/ | 2 | I (f32) dated this guy (38) briefly but it turned out it was all about sex. Which hurt me a little after we slept and he wouldnt contact me. He ignored me after when I've met him with his daughter. Year later he apologised when he reach out to me and added me on facebook. And since every now and then we'd talk on messe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Someone from my past invited me for date | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ue8e1/someone_from_my_past_invited_me_for_date/ |
sprownie_ | 2024-08-17 08:59:44 | 1,723,885,184 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1eudb7d | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eudb7d/where_to_find_dates/ | 2 | Hello I F21 am looking to know where to find suitable partners, everyone says hobbies and such however I will not lie my hobbies mainly include solo activities and my city kinda sucks for most community activities. I also don't smoke amd im not very 420 friendly (the smell makes me feel like im suffocating) so I'm alre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to find dates? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eudb7d/where_to_find_dates/ |
Nervous_Form_8931 | 2024-05-03 17:15:28 | 1,714,756,528 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cje1lq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cje1lq/hinge_first_time_hooking_up_and_a_little_nervous/ | 4 | 33M in NYC and Im new to OLD and Hinge is my first app. Ive only been on it for 2 months and have met with 11 women, many just first dates, some went to second and third. Its both exhausting and expensive. I decided to stop using the app after April, so I went all out and swiped on both long term and casual looking pro... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hinge - first time hooking up and a little nervous | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cje1lq/hinge_first_time_hooking_up_and_a_little_nervous/ |
continuingtofuckup | 2023-09-06 12:00:48 | 1,694,001,648 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16bid7u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16bid7u/my_30f_bf_34m_got_an_email_from_bumble_about/ | 1 | We've been together for going on 2 years we had an issue earlier this year with cheating. We decided to stay together, but every now and then I check his phone cuz I get insecure if he's going to cheat again He has emails from bumble about community guidline changes and another one about updated terms and conditions. D... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My 30f Bf 34m got an email from bumble about community guideline changes | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16bid7u/my_30f_bf_34m_got_an_email_from_bumble_about/ |
[deleted] | 2014-04-07 09:01:29 | 1,396,861,289 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 22eusr | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/22eusr/after_a_month_of_txting_going_on_a_first_date_on/ | 1 | We met on tinder, He travels a lot for work and showed up on my tinder radar. I live in a small town and he usually stays in the city. I was always too busy with school and work to meet up. We've been txting for over a month now and he's finally coming back and he decided to stay in the same town I live so we could fin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After a month of txting, going on a first date on wednesday.. what should I expect? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/22eusr/after_a_month_of_txting_going_on_a_first_date_on/ |
reluctantdonkey | 2023-11-19 19:33:42 | 1,700,422,422 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 17z4wf9 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17z4wf9/nice_swerve_facebook_dating/ | 1 | Has anyone else noticed that on Facebook Dating, if the person gives you their number and you add them as a contact, adds their last name as a two-heart emoji thingy? Noticed it with someone else I added, was showing a friend and she was like "Oh, cute that you added him with that little heart thing after his name..." ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Nice swerve, Facebook Dating | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17z4wf9/nice_swerve_facebook_dating/ |
silvie13 | 2021-08-06 02:40:51 | 1,628,217,651 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | oyxszh | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/oyxszh/what_are_the_best_ways_a_women_can_approachaskout/ | 78 | It is likely that this question has been asked here before and I missed it. About me, feel free to skip. I have been in a couple of very long term relationships most of my life, so I am new to asking men out. I’ve done the online dating thing, and have met some great and interesting people, but I’m just not feeling it ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are the best ways a women can approach/ask-out a man she is interested in, in the physical world (not through digital means)? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/oyxszh/what_are_the_best_ways_a_women_can_approachaskout/ |
V_Lao | 2018-12-25 19:31:51 | 1,545,766,311 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a9hkif | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a9hkif/is_christmas_the_worst_time_of_the_year_for/ | 2 | Allow me to specify: I meant pulling girls First year spending Christmas away from family, I’m in zone 1 London and the streets are literally empty today. Same thing with tinder really | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Christmas the worst time of the year for dating (London) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a9hkif/is_christmas_the_worst_time_of_the_year_for/ |
tossaway_111 | 2021-12-05 03:10:57 | 1,638,673,857 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | r964bg | true | Question | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r964bg/why_is_that_so_hard_for_others_to_accept_that/ | 5 | I (43M), have never gotten any interest from women. Never gotten so much as a smile, never been flirted with, nothing. By the time I was 15 I knew it was going to be an uphill battle and by 18 that no things were not going to get better and they never did. This is where strangers on the internet will bring up confidenc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is that so hard for others to accept that some people are just plain unattractive? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r964bg/why_is_that_so_hard_for_others_to_accept_that/ |
CommeDeuxGouttesDeau | 2020-04-30 06:53:55 | 1,588,229,635 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | gaqr4f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gaqr4f/what_to_expect_for_first_date_in_a_few_weeks_with/ | 2 | Been talking to girl from Hinge for a few weeks after matching. As our town starts opening businesses back up and opening parks and limiting the social distancing, we made plans to meet up for a "picnic" in the park here in a few weeks gauging how things go... I've never had a SO or gotten past a coffee date that ends ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to expect for first date in a few weeks with a girl I've hit it off really well with during quarantine? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gaqr4f/what_to_expect_for_first_date_in_a_few_weeks_with/ |
phoenixhere4303 | 2019-12-11 06:09:00 | 1,576,044,540 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | e9385z | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e9385z/what_should_i_do_next/ | 1 | Thank you for reading this, I welcome all input even of just to affirm what I already know. Edit: I'm (m) 36, and she's probably mid-late 20s. I'm not great at this stuff... well let me rephrase: for a semi-normal, semi-successful, decent/good person I don't have a ton of recent experience in dating. I go on a handful ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do next? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e9385z/what_should_i_do_next/ |
tmps1993 | 2023-07-06 13:27:33 | 1,688,650,053 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14s97y6 | false | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14s97y6/do_90s_babies_even_want_to_date/ | 2 | Been on dating apps off and on for years. Most of the women I've matched with have just wanted to fuck. It was fun at first, but now I want a deeper connection. I want courtship. I want to grab a coffee with a nice woman and have engaging conversation. I want it to develop into something where I have that true life par... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do 90s babies even want to date??? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14s97y6/do_90s_babies_even_want_to_date/ |
strikingserpent | 2021-09-09 12:05:07 | 1,631,189,107 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pkwgsb | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pkwgsb/i_need_advice/ | 0 | How do you meet people when you have crippling social anxiety. I have dating apps but no luck there. Not unattractive just can't take decent pictures. It's killing me | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need advice | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pkwgsb/i_need_advice/ |
CertifiedWildman | 2017-10-30 14:18:26 | 1,509,373,106 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 79nzp1 | false | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/79nzp1/dating_is_like_fishing/ | 113 | Something my dad told me when I was was a sophomore in high school. He told me that dating is like fishing with one type of bait. He told me that there’s plenty of fish in the see, and each one likes to eat different stuff. And you can make the try to imitate other bait as much as you want to attract a certain fish, mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating is like fishing | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/79nzp1/dating_is_like_fishing/ |
Nadigan | 2016-02-07 04:37:03 | 1,454,819,823 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 44k14o | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/44k14o/got_dumped_not_sure_why/ | 1 | I'm 33 male Indian I'm sure everyone says the race isn't important but it is based on my experience. So after dropping my self out of dating I started back in match.com and met this girl in Jan and we clicked right away after texting back and forth. She is an actor and dog groomer. She was doing a play so she was quiet... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got dumped not sure why | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/44k14o/got_dumped_not_sure_why/ |
Ok-Theory1132 | 2021-07-29 18:44:27 | 1,627,584,267 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ou3k1f | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ou3k1f/do_i_stick_around_or_create_distance/ | 12 | I've been dating this guy for a month now and things were going really well until yesterday. We have great conversation about religion, our previous relationships, mental health and our beliefs about the world. The sex is pretty damn good and feels kinda magical. I've been showing him around town (he just moved to my c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I stick around or create distance? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ou3k1f/do_i_stick_around_or_create_distance/ |
StaticNocturne | 2023-10-20 17:53:30 | 1,697,824,410 | 0 | null | 0 | 17ch807 | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17ch807/is_facebook_dating_worth_a_crack/ | 1 | Like most of us I’ve been turned bitter and twisted by these wretched apps and barely bother checking them anymore, however before I pull the plug on online dating I figured I might give Facebook dating a shot. Has anyone had any success with it? I can’t help but feel like it will attract a slight older but nuttier cro... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is Facebook dating worth a crack? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17ch807/is_facebook_dating_worth_a_crack/ |
kale-70 | 2023-10-22 00:53:39 | 1,697,936,019 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17dh8mr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17dh8mr/has_anyone_signed_up_for_scimatch_just_read/ | 1 | In today's fast-paced world, the classic tale of bumping into 'the one' at a coffee shop is getting rare. Now, a single selfie on the dating app SciMatch is all it takes to open the doors to potential romantic sparks. This newcomer on the dating app scene is shaking things up by tossing out the tedious task of crafting... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Has anyone signed up for SciMatch? Just read article on Fox News. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17dh8mr/has_anyone_signed_up_for_scimatch_just_read/ |
voidfloater_ | 2021-06-02 03:36:01 | 1,622,604,961 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | nqcemr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nqcemr/approach/ | 2 | Hi, I'm M22 and I've got some serious social problems. I've gotten to a point now where not only do I not know what to say to girls in general as far as a public approach goes in general, due to just like a general fear of embarrassment; but I found that I now have an irrational fear of taking the risk of a potential m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Approach | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nqcemr/approach/ |
JoshKosh55 | 2021-09-11 01:39:05 | 1,631,324,345 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ply5ga | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ply5ga/difficulty_meeting_women/ | 1 | I’m 23, an engineer who just got his dream job, nice car, in really good physical shape, and everything’s just going really well in general. I’ve been working on my mindset, my style, just everything and making great progress. I’m just having a hard time meeting new women and dating. Maybe I’m in a rut or something but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Difficulty meeting women | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ply5ga/difficulty_meeting_women/ |
[deleted] | 2020-03-02 05:15:36 | 1,583,126,136 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | fc762x | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 24 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fc762x/tinderonline_dating/ | 6 | Tomorrow is the day My last relationship ended 2 years ago. I’m a 30 year old guy. I’m ready to get back out there I’ve been ready lol but just haven’t done anything about it. I was thinking of starting with Tinder and Bumble, these will actually be the very first apps I ever have, not just dating apps. My last relatio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder/Online Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fc762x/tinderonline_dating/ |
Sweet-March3513 | 2024-06-15 22:41:28 | 1,718,491,288 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dgtjpj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dgtjpj/i_screw_up_every_talking_stage/ | 1 | I’m atreactive enough to get matches on dating apps or go on a date. But my anxiety ruins any talking stage I have with a girl and frankly I’m just ready to give up. I get nervous and it’s obvious and I respond fast to people because I feel compelled to. When I don’t respond fast enough then girls don’t like it. Idk ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I screw up every talking stage | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgtjpj/i_screw_up_every_talking_stage/ |
masshole4life23 | 2016-07-08 23:57:30 | 1,468,022,250 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 4rxqn9 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating/comments/4rxqn9/after_how_much_time_is_it_acceptable_to_ask_a/ | 2 | I met an exceptional woman on match.com a couple of weeks ago, we chatted a bit back and forth and decided to meet up for some casual drinks at a chain restaurant in town. The date went incredibly well and I am seeing this woman again 4 days after our first date. My brother is getting married at the end of August. If t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | After how much time is it acceptable to ask a date to join you at your brother's wedding? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4rxqn9/after_how_much_time_is_it_acceptable_to_ask_a/ |
iamam0nstr | 2022-05-03 06:18:56 | 1,651,558,736 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | uh9s0e | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uh9s0e/someone_i_thought_was_sincere_on_pof_for_almost_a/ | 1 | and stole almost 1000 dollars from my cashapp.. still not sure how but anyways... what can I do to get some payback? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Someone I thought was sincere on POF for almost a year, got me good... they had my keys logged... | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uh9s0e/someone_i_thought_was_sincere_on_pof_for_almost_a/ |
MapleButterBoi | 2021-07-11 09:12:15 | 1,625,994,735 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | oi17vj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oi17vj/im_in_my_own_way_vent/ | 2 | Idk what the hell is wrong with me. I cant seem to get into the dating game. Everytime I try, I make an excuse...oh I have to focus on school...oh I just started a new job. I'm always waiting for that moment but the moment never comes. I have been single for a decade now. My last relationship was with someone who was e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm in my own way. (Vent) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oi17vj/im_in_my_own_way_vent/ |
FakeAssWriter | 2022-07-18 08:00:10 | 1,658,131,210 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | w1tqj3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w1tqj3/online_dating_feels_really_really_forced_should_i/ | 10 | Getting matches is pretty fun, having women flirt with you is awesome. I just can't help but feel like it's all forced. I'm not attracted to them the way I should be, it just feels like I'm acting out a role, rather thsn genuinely interested. I want to date, I want to fall in love. I just feel like I'm forcing everythi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating feels really really forced. Should I stop entirely? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w1tqj3/online_dating_feels_really_really_forced_should_i/ |
sicklikeanimals | 2020-04-15 17:35:03 | 1,586,972,103 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | g1wm13 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g1wm13/texting_a_new_guy_during_quarantine/ | 2 | Alright guys. I’m an active Hinge user in NYC. Before quarantine started, I’d matched with this SUPER cute guy. We were supposed to go out, and then surprise—I got COVID and had to cancel. I admit I was bad at responding because I was incredibly sick. Our messaging stopped, then I deleted the app because I figured I wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting a new guy during quarantine | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g1wm13/texting_a_new_guy_during_quarantine/ |
chipy4848 | 2024-02-03 21:47:45 | 1,706,996,865 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ai75t1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ai75t1/26_years_old_where_do_i_meet_people_these_days/ | 1 | I’m on dating apps but I don’t have much success on them cause I’m a horrible texter. I do well when I do get the chance to go out with someone in person but I have no idea where to meet people other than dating apps these days. I work alone all day, I train at a wrestling school which only has one women and it would m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 26 years old, where do I meet people these days?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ai75t1/26_years_old_where_do_i_meet_people_these_days/ |
TAAC_001 | 2020-01-14 18:22:12 | 1,579,026,132 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | eop3nc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eop3nc/first_date_after_meeting_online/ | 1 | Hello everyone, first post here and I'm looking for some advice. But first a little background: I (M20) matched up with a girl (F19) on a dating app back in November last year, and we've been chatting constantly since, sometimes with 3-5 day breaks in between. We both go to the same university, we had some common topic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date after meeting online | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eop3nc/first_date_after_meeting_online/ |
General-Ad3922 | 2024-05-13 21:18:09 | 1,715,635,089 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1crar5y | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1crar5y/decent_looking_yet_barely_any_matches_help_pls/ | 1 | Hi there, 29M here using the apps after a breakup. The apps are driving me a bit crazy. I don't have anything alarming in my profile, no fish pics, no drunk pics or with other girls, no red flags. Just a nice smiling portrait of me, a pic of me with a camera, skiing, and travelling. My job is good, I speak a few langua... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Decent looking yet barely any matches - HELP PLS | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1crar5y/decent_looking_yet_barely_any_matches_help_pls/ |
Dsg1695 | 2023-06-10 01:52:07 | 1,686,361,927 | 0 | null | 0 | 145ndqn | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/145ndqn/28f_no_real_relationship_experience_is_it_really/ | 0 | The last time I dated someone was when I was 23 and that was only for a few months. It felt like settling & wanted to be with someone that was more in line with what I’m looking for. And I’m not asking for much. Decent/cute looks, tall, smart, good job, funny etc. I’ve only used dating apps, getting matches have never ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 28F & no real relationship experience, is it really a matter of not being able to find the right person? | 0 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/145ndqn/28f_no_real_relationship_experience_is_it_really/ |
cutewitoutthee | 2020-07-31 03:30:03 | 1,596,166,203 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | i10d64 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i10d64/i_abled_bodied_24f_have_a_date_next_week_with_a/ | 4 | So a little background: We matched on 2 different dating apps. Got into conversation and clicked real quick. We went to the same college. Are both in similar career fields. And our personalities seem to really mesh. The conversation has been effortless and pretty nonstop. Plus he’s adorable/attractive, and I think he f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (abled bodied 24F) have a date next week (with a not abled bodied 28M) and would like advice/tips/opinions from anyone with personal or secondhand experience with disabilities | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i10d64/i_abled_bodied_24f_have_a_date_next_week_with_a/ |
MAMFinc | 2023-04-04 09:51:31 | 1,680,601,891 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 12be1sq | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12be1sq/so_old_is_finally_dead_now_that_it_has_become/ | 0 | On the way to work I heard an article on NPR how the Democrats used Hinge to connect with voters ahead of the state Supreme Court decisions. Is this the nail in the coffin that kills OLD? On top of bits, lack of matches and everything else…. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So OLD is finally dead now that it has become political? | 0 | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12be1sq/so_old_is_finally_dead_now_that_it_has_become/ |
[deleted] | 2023-05-04 00:10:13 | 1,683,159,013 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 13745o9 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13745o9/about_to_start_dating_someone_from_high_school/ | 3 | I met someone on bumble from who I went to high school with and we recently have decided to go on a date soon. I’m nervous because I don’t want us to relive our high school years when we date.Any advice for me? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | About to start dating someone from high school | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13745o9/about_to_start_dating_someone_from_high_school/ |
StonedSpaceCowboy | 2021-07-11 21:39:33 | 1,626,039,573 | null | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | oid7ta | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oid7ta/am_i_wrong/ | 2 | Matched with someone on a dating site. Said hi to each other. First real things she ask is if I want to hang out and cuddle? I replied that's kind of weird, and that was the end of the conversation. Am I wrong to think it's weird to cuddle with someone you don't know? Was that some kind of code? Are all other people ju... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I wrong. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oid7ta/am_i_wrong/ |
etoileli8 | 2024-05-27 11:07:36 | 1,716,808,056 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1d1p1ik | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d1p1ik/just_started_dating_a_guy_but_i_regret_it_help/ | 1 | I went on a dating app and he sent me a like so I matched his profile, we started talking he keeps sending me texts, and then he insisted on watching a movie together I said okay let's do the weekend, but then he started insisting again on moving to another app so that we can call each other, we did, we had 10 hours of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just started dating a guy but I regret it, help? (Also kinda venting) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d1p1ik/just_started_dating_a_guy_but_i_regret_it_help/ |
puppylovrr2016 | 2022-08-26 00:13:18 | 1,661,472,798 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wxtyxi | true | null | 207 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wxtyxi/am_i_doomed_to_the_single_life_forever/ | 122 | I (27F, Boston) have been single for 5 and a half years minus a some 2-3 month flings and bad dates courtesy of the major dating apps. 🥲 I have a great job, my own place, a very sweet dog, and amazing friends. I really want someone to share my life with, get married, have kids but the fact that I’ve been single most o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doomed to the single life forever? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wxtyxi/am_i_doomed_to_the_single_life_forever/ |
Additional_Fuel_1460 | 2023-07-29 14:14:54 | 1,690,640,094 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15ctdcb | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15ctdcb/should_i_f27_get_sterilized_because_men_arent/ | 1 | I''m a software engineer, have hobbies etc. However I've never been in a relationship and most men are not into me, I'm like a ghost to them. I've tried Tinder, Hinge, the college bar scene etc and it just does not work for me. Men have a lot of contempt for me for some reason, and I think its because I'm ugly to them ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I (F27) get sterilized because men aren't into me and I'll never have a family? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15ctdcb/should_i_f27_get_sterilized_because_men_arent/ |
elon_fusk | 2023-10-06 21:57:36 | 1,696,629,456 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 171p0s2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/171p0s2/how_to_get_dates_as_a_short_average_looking_guy/ | 1 | To all the short guys out there, whats your height and what works the best for you in getting dates? I'm 5'6, brown guy and not getting any luck on dating apps, clubs/bars and cold approaching. Don't have many close friends as I recently relocated to west an year ago. Don't know what to do. Would like to know what spec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get dates as a short average looking guy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/171p0s2/how_to_get_dates_as_a_short_average_looking_guy/ |
Old_Orange2334 | 2023-05-08 11:27:56 | 1,683,545,276 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 13bm7ku | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13bm7ku/am_i_tripping_or_is_dating_just_extremely_hard/ | 0 | Hii, Im (24F) and this is my first reddit post so I am a little scared to post but eh. Anyways I have been single for the past 4 years and counting, my ex cheated on me with multiple women and almost gave me STIs so I do admit I had a lot of issues to work through before I started dating again. Of course it wasn't an e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I tripping or is dating just extremely hard nowadays? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13bm7ku/am_i_tripping_or_is_dating_just_extremely_hard/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-18 18:37:21 | 1,605,724,641 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | jwlga6 | true | Venting | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jwlga6/feels_like_everyone_just_wants_to_be_chased/ | 8 | Everytime I get a match on tinder/bumble/hinge, it seems like everyone is just waiting for me to make the first move. I'm fairly good looking (23M, 6ft dark complexion)and I don't think the matches I'm getting are necessarily "out of my league" but they are attractive girls. Nobody seems to say anything to me unless I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feels like everyone just wants to be chased | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jwlga6/feels_like_everyone_just_wants_to_be_chased/ |
Funseas | 2022-01-29 16:56:20 | 1,643,475,380 | null | null | 0 | sfm8l8 | true | null | 225 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sfm8l8/if_obesity_is_a_dealbreaker_for_you_are_you_ok_if/ | 102 | I’ve noticed a lot of people (mostly men) say on Reddit and profiles that obesity is a dealbreaker. Profiles I’ve seen range from no fat chicks to hints about how important healthy eating and fitness are. It seems both obesity and finances are equally superficial and “simple” to change. Eat less, exercise more. Earn mo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If obesity is a dealbreaker for you, are you ok if financial stability is a dealbreaker for her/him? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sfm8l8/if_obesity_is_a_dealbreaker_for_you_are_you_ok_if/ |
Redditandweepedit | 2022-07-14 02:06:44 | 1,657,764,404 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | vykddo | true | null | 135 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/vykddo/am_i_a_walking_red_flag/ | 52 | Am I a bag of red flags? Just turned 40F in April, been divorced 6 years and haven’t dated in 2 and only one semi serious relationship really between divorce and now). Have one kid that I am primary caregiver for (she is with me 95% of the time). I’m debating rejoining dating sites, but I’ve been off all of them since ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Am I a walking red flag? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vykddo/am_i_a_walking_red_flag/ |
EnvironmentSea7433 | 2023-12-26 03:44:40 | 1,703,562,280 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 18qyvcp | true | null | 73 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/18qyvcp/how_many_women_pay_for_old_sites_or_apps/ | 4 | I really don't mean to offend anyone with the question. I just can't shake the feeling that as a woman, I should not be, "chasing," which includes paying for OLDating. I'm hoping that I'm off base with that thought process, but curious about how many women do pay to be on an OLD site or app? And what is everyone's thou... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | How Many Women Pay for OLD Sites or Apps? | 4 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/18qyvcp/how_many_women_pay_for_old_sites_or_apps/ |
Valenaster | 2021-02-28 18:16:18 | 1,614,536,178 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lumh4k | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lumh4k/new_beginnings_where_to_start/ | 1 | Hello, this might come across as unusual but I (31, M4F, Mexico) have never had that much of an interest in dating, tried a couple of times with apps and irl without much success, but now I think the time might be right for me to actually look for a likeminded SO, yeah, I know my timing is awful with this pandemic goin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New beginnings, where to start? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lumh4k/new_beginnings_where_to_start/ |
omarcomin89 | 2016-02-29 03:10:52 | 1,456,715,452 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 488151 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/488151/suggestions_to_keep_interest_until_first_date/ | 2 | Have been texting with someone from OKCupid every day(for about a week) who is moving to my city in 3 weeks. Obviously we haven't met, and I want to make sure there's a good balance between interest over the next three weeks and not exhausting things between now and then. Thanks for any help. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Suggestions to keep interest until first date | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/488151/suggestions_to_keep_interest_until_first_date/ |
tiny-dweller | 2024-05-29 07:52:30 | 1,716,969,150 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d36qp1 | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d36qp1/guy_gave_me_his_number_now_is_acting_weird_about/ | 1 | I was getting my car worked on and this young mechanic guy gave me his personal number on the back of his card. I asked for one since I wanted to leave a positive review. We look to be around the same age (30s) and even though he's not typically my type, I thought what the hell, I've been single for a while, I'm not on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy gave me his number, now is acting weird about it. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d36qp1/guy_gave_me_his_number_now_is_acting_weird_about/ |
approachpattern | 2020-10-27 19:20:34 | 1,603,826,434 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | jj7tqm | true | null | 75 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jj7tqm/the_issue_that_theres_no_compromise_on/ | 34 | I really don't like kids, but most women I've dated want kids. How should I deal with this issue? I tried okcupid and said I don't want kids. I messaged women who listed not wanting kids, and there was zero interest. I do better on apps that don't let users specify if they want kids, but then I run into the "Do you wan... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | The issue that there's no compromise on | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jj7tqm/the_issue_that_theres_no_compromise_on/ |
No_Communication746 | 2024-01-06 23:21:28 | 1,704,583,288 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 190dbo1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/190dbo1/no_chemistry_between_us/ | 1 | What does " We have no chemistry between us mean?" This was the reason given by a guy who recently broke up with me and I've been trying not to take it hurtfully. This was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 months. He's 33 M, Black. I'm 26F, Asian. He was emotionally unavailable and very manipulative. He... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No chemistry between us | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/190dbo1/no_chemistry_between_us/ |
suhhhnn | 2021-02-22 04:15:17 | 1,613,967,317 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lpetoj | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lpetoj/19f_just_had_my_first_tinder_date/ | 1 | And I’m screaming inside because I was awkward but we surprisingly talked a lot and he was so nice omg. I’m just really shy. Anyways, anyone have tips to be less shy and more outgoing? This person was really chill but I’m afraid I’ll act awkward again, he also admitted that he was really nervous....what to do? Also I’v... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 19f- just had my first tinder date | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lpetoj/19f_just_had_my_first_tinder_date/ |
ImaginaryAI | 2014-12-09 18:58:09 | 1,418,151,489 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2os466 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2os466/that_limbo_period_after_dating_someone_is_the/ | 1 | I got EXTREMELY lucky dating this really pretty girl and ended up dating for two weeks before she chose someone else. (She was dating multiple guys, which sucks because we made out a lot too, yuck) Now i'm not having any luck. Not landing any dates. I've got a couple numbers off tinder but i'm not that interested in th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | That "limbo" period after dating someone is the worst | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2os466/that_limbo_period_after_dating_someone_is_the/ |
Plus-Government-7992 | 2024-02-14 16:30:44 | 1,707,928,244 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1aqr1gy | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aqr1gy/first_second_date_ever/ | 1 | i (21m) have never entered the relationship / dating game till the last couple months (parents / family constrictions). but recently i’ve gotten into it. i had my first date a couple months ago and i’ve had three more since, but those first three ended up w/ hookup cause we met on tinder and it was sexual to begin with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | first second date ever | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aqr1gy/first_second_date_ever/ |
36AllOut | 2021-01-21 07:35:06 | 1,611,214,506 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | l1to5a | true | null | 179 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l1to5a/can_i_please_get_some_honest_feedback_from_women/ | 67 | Hi. I was wondering if I would be able to get any feedback from women about my two dating profiles as I don't ever get any matches on either apps for a long time and I feel like I put effort in to show my personality and represent who I am so it's kinda disheartening. I know it's the pandemic and all but it didn't real... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Can I please get some honest feedback from women about my profile? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l1to5a/can_i_please_get_some_honest_feedback_from_women/ |
ThePenTester88 | 2022-05-11 05:01:38 | 1,652,245,298 | null | null | 0 | un1ycs | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/un1ycs/rejected_a_woman_and_she_went_ape/ | 13 | Well... rejected may not be quite the best word, or right one but it was more of a half rejection? I was talking to a woman (who lived 3 hours away... that's another story) for 3 weeks and the first week we hit it off fast. Texting daily, and most of the day, got along great, etc... and then she dissapears for like 4 d... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Rejected a woman and she went ape | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/un1ycs/rejected_a_woman_and_she_went_ape/ |
thebroathlete | 2016-02-16 06:35:10 | 1,455,604,510 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 4618zb | null | null | 122 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4618zb/guys_who_missed_out_on_the_dating_and_sex_in/ | 30 | For the guys in here that lost their virginity late, finished high school and/or college as virgins, and the guys who got in on the game late (after 21?), how did it affect you and how are you doing today in regards to women? Might as well share my story. I missed out on all of the sex, dating, and love during my high ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Guys who missed out on the dating and sex in their youth and school days, how did it affect you and how are you doing today? | 30 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4618zb/guys_who_missed_out_on_the_dating_and_sex_in/ |
glitter_debicki | 2024-02-02 03:03:49 | 1,706,843,029 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1agtlnz | true | Question ❓ | 61 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1agtlnz/was_he_just_after_sex/ | 57 | I went on a great first date with a guy: dinner, drinks and dessert and made out and then he said he would like to see me again but then we were texting and he go weird and starting making jokes about sex positions and then he said "because we both dont want a relationship, lets do more than kiss next time?" and i then... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was he just after sex? | 57 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1agtlnz/was_he_just_after_sex/ |
[deleted] | 2014-02-18 11:44:10 | 1,392,723,850 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1y8gg0 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/1y8gg0/is_this_a_rude_message_to_send_given_the/ | 2 | I (26/M) started talking to this girl (24/F) through OKCupid back in January. For the last 6 weeks we have been sending very lenhy messages, around 3-5 paragraphs, back and forth. Starting through okcupid and eventually adding each other on facebook. While they aren't always the most interesting topics, they are always... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this a rude message to send given the circumstances? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1y8gg0/is_this_a_rude_message_to_send_given_the/ |
recklesspizza | 2020-01-13 21:59:48 | 1,578,952,788 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eob55p | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eob55p/back_to_square_one/ | 2 | I started seeing a woman a few months ago off of tinder and we connected really well. We were looking for the same things in a long term relationship and shared similar interests / values. Over the course of several months, we both developed feelings for each other and expressed that we both really liked one another. U... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Back to square one | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eob55p/back_to_square_one/ |
vrogo_ | 2024-09-04 01:40:08 | 1,725,414,008 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f8ha9j | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f8ha9j/dating_rant/ | 2 | Straight to the point: I'm a 25-year-old straight male from Toronto. I work out regularly and am in good shape—not the influencer type, just a regular guy who’s fit and muscular. I’d say I look average, maybe even bad, but I’ve never asked people to rate me. I’m on and off dating apps, get a few matches, but nothing re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating rant | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f8ha9j/dating_rant/ |
darkhorse2k | 2019-06-13 13:04:38 | 1,560,431,078 | null | null | 0 | c05kk0 | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c05kk0/myth_real_life_dating_is_easier_than_old/ | 16 | Guy perspective: Seen a lot of threads on here, where somebody is complaining about OLD and is told that OLD is the problem. The reality is, OLD is NOT the problem, dating is generally hard. Either way, you are effectively trying to get somebody to buy into your brand. I 100% gaurentee that these same women rejecting y... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Myth: Real life dating is easier than OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c05kk0/myth_real_life_dating_is_easier_than_old/ |
No_Shoulder856 | 2023-10-16 07:09:44 | 1,697,440,184 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 179040b | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/179040b/should_i_still_reach_out/ | 1 | Should I text him even after all this? I met this guy on a dating app a couple days ago and we hit off so well. We were getting along really well and made plans to go on a movie n dinner date. The morning of, I get messages from some girl who was apparently his ex and she was trynna get back with him and messaging arou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I still reach out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/179040b/should_i_still_reach_out/ |
Accurate-Award-4404 | 2021-07-12 02:19:35 | 1,626,056,375 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | oihzcm | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oihzcm/is_he_playing_games/ | 1 | Met this guy online and we hit it off pretty quickly. Great conversation, lots in common, settled on a coffee date a few days after we matched. Coffee date went great and we continued texting after. We agreed to meet up for a second date (I asked), but he cancelled the morning of because of weather. Again, we continued... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he playing games? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oihzcm/is_he_playing_games/ |
Sethiall_dat | 2023-02-01 18:09:26 | 1,675,274,966 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 10r1i85 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10r1i85/is_this_normal_for_dating_these_days/ | 2 | I'm looking for some input on a trend that I've noticed in my dating life. I (30M) have been working in my mental health for quite a while and as a result I've been out of the dating scene for close to 7 years now. I'm at a point where I've got myself together and I'm ready to see what's out there. Finding matches hasn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this normal for dating these days? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10r1i85/is_this_normal_for_dating_these_days/ |
JoyfulDeath | 2017-11-28 18:27:55 | 1,511,893,675 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | 7g68fi | false | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7g68fi/whats_with_people_old_feeling_the_need_to_mention/ | 5 | Lately, I have been seeing women say something like how they like to spend time with family, love their family, or something similar to that. It has got to the point where I start to left swipe on them because it is starting to feel like something is just really off. I mean I do have a family, but I don't feel the need... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's with people OLD feeling the need to mention their family? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7g68fi/whats_with_people_old_feeling_the_need_to_mention/ |
Warm_Carpet6905 | 2022-04-03 21:07:37 | 1,649,020,057 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tvjzqz | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tvjzqz/can_we_be_friends_after_one_date/ | 1 | I (32F) met a guy OLD and we had one date that went well. However, he’s looking for casual and I’m looking for serious. I’m glad we found that out ASAP. Our conversation was great and intellectually stimulating. I’m a friendly person in general but don’t meet many people I click with like that. I’ve been out growing my... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can we be friends after one date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tvjzqz/can_we_be_friends_after_one_date/ |
Upset_Glove6856 | 2022-01-30 04:24:22 | 1,643,516,662 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | sg0o8p | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sg0o8p/guy_from_dating_app_wanted_me_to_send_him_nudes/ | 0 | So I (19F) matched with a cute guy (23M) and we were texting earlier today. Things got kinda hot and he asked if I could send a picture of my face. I told him that I would snapchat him later from the shower and said that I’m sure he would like that. He texted me when I was close to hopping in and said, hey you taking a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy from dating app wanted me to send him nudes, then apologized for it | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sg0o8p/guy_from_dating_app_wanted_me_to_send_him_nudes/ |
mattmurdocks | 2022-11-02 21:41:15 | 1,667,425,275 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | ykigc7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ykigc7/trying_to_decenter_romance_from_my_22f_life_but/ | 0 | I am looking for some advice but I don't really know where else to go. I am trying to realize that I don't need to be persued/in a relationship to enjoy my life but my best friend, who is one of the very few people i talk to on a regular basis outside of school and work, is making it very hard. For context (sorry if th... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Trying to de-center romance from my (22f) life, but friend (22f) is making it hard | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ykigc7/trying_to_decenter_romance_from_my_22f_life_but/ |
Alenon12 | 2023-07-05 19:23:30 | 1,688,585,010 | 0 | null | 0 | 14rkl8j | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14rkl8j/facebook_dating_gone_anyone_figure_out_ways_to/ | 1 | Let me preface by saying all the links on google to fix the FB app disappearing ive tried (the try one of these 8 things blah blah). I can only assume maybe i was banned, though it makes no sense as i've never done anything wrong and there's no reports in the support inbox. Disappeared over a year ago and I've never un... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Facebook dating gone, anyone figure out ways to fix/appeal why this happens? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14rkl8j/facebook_dating_gone_anyone_figure_out_ways_to/ |
Heathen_H | 2024-03-25 13:01:26 | 1,711,371,686 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bnd2v2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bnd2v2/im_not_sure_what_further_to_do/ | 4 | Hi, male (40 almost 41) so I have been single since my divorce in 2021. Admittedly, it did take some time to get over what happened. Since trying to get back out dating I feel lost and outdated. I'm trying to be as open and clear about this as possible. I've been trying to get advice and help for several years now I po... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I'm not sure what further to do. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bnd2v2/im_not_sure_what_further_to_do/ |
Maya_Urban | 2019-02-23 17:25:12 | 1,550,942,712 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | atxqfs | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/atxqfs/is_this_too_much_to_ask_of_a_fwb/ | 7 | Matched with a guy several weeks ago, we both agreed we're just hooking up. Since day one this guy has never been on time. If we're meeting at my place, he's at least 45min late; if meeting at his, he's never ready when I show up. Maybe it's because I'm used to punctual people, but this annoys me quite a bit. I put up ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this too much to ask of a FWB? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/atxqfs/is_this_too_much_to_ask_of_a_fwb/ |
ShafordoDrForgone | 2021-07-07 14:19:05 | 1,625,667,545 | null | null | 0 | ofjtcv | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ofjtcv/paying_it_forward/ | 0 | Have you ever let your feelings about your previous OLD experience affect how you treat the next person? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Paying it forward | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ofjtcv/paying_it_forward/ |
brous475 | 2022-05-13 02:42:28 | 1,652,409,748 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | uohtws | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uohtws/too_many_red_flags/ | 1 | 33M here, recently got back into OLD and not much has changed. I've blamed myself for my lack of success, I've blamed OLD and dating as a whole, I've blamed any and everything in my almost 10 years of being single. But I always come back to believing I have too many red flags, so some confirmation/advice would be great... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too many red flags? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uohtws/too_many_red_flags/ |
Kingjames23X6 | 2024-05-06 01:14:01 | 1,714,958,041 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cl6tik | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cl6tik/so_frustrating/ | 1 | Everytime I find someone IRL it goes good in the beginning and then they turn out ghetto demanding money etc etc idk if it’s b/c of where I live or something just how it is here but it’s really annoying so I just go on tinder once in a while just for fun you know ? I just wish I could find a submissive woman (not even ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So frustrating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cl6tik/so_frustrating/ |
squad-W | 2024-03-25 19:56:55 | 1,711,396,615 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bnn7x1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bnn7x1/wherehow_to_meet_girls_without_a_friend_group/ | 2 | I have a small group of friends and theres no girl that Im interested in atm. Im thinking about downloading tinder? Any of you managed to get into a serious relationship while using it? Any other tips are much appreciated. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | where/how to meet girls without a friend group? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bnn7x1/wherehow_to_meet_girls_without_a_friend_group/ |
benden010 | 2022-06-19 20:48:20 | 1,655,671,700 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | vg4as0 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/vg4as0/34m_in_need_of_some_postdivorce_dating_advice/ | 48 | Hello, I'm not sure if this belongs more in here, or in r/Divorce, but I am really struggling to know if I am ready to date again from an outsiders perspective or honestly how to rationalize certain things in my head. As a leader into this, I have been officially divorced for 2 months but separated living apart for 7 m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 34(M) in need of some post-divorce dating advice | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/vg4as0/34m_in_need_of_some_postdivorce_dating_advice/ |
Due-Werewolf2956 | 2024-03-22 13:18:06 | 1,711,113,486 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bkz0xt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bkz0xt/a_really_complicated_situation_between_me_22m_and/ | 1 | Hi there, I'm in an extremely dire situation, and even though I know there is no definitive solution, I still want to share it and hear opinions. I lived through so much stuff and went through an insane amount of emotions but I'm going to summarize for everybody's sake. (It still ended up being long lol, I'll write dow... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A really complicated situation between me (22M) and a "friend" (24F) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkz0xt/a_really_complicated_situation_between_me_22m_and/ |
mematic_in | 2024-07-09 18:50:49 | 1,720,551,049 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dza94b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dza94b/is_2_months_a_very_long_time_for_a_talking_stage/ | 2 | For context, I matched with this girl on Hinge right before I had to travel somewhere for two months. I haven’t met her yet, just have been texting for like a week. I’m not sure how to proceed given that I won’t be able to meet her for 2 months. Also, is there any texting advice that would help me out? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is 2 months a very long time for a talking stage? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dza94b/is_2_months_a_very_long_time_for_a_talking_stage/ |
Single_Bee_4751 | 2022-01-07 02:28:59 | 1,641,522,539 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rxw5it | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rxw5it/hookups/ | 0 | Hey everyone! I'm trying reddit to get help for the first time. I recently moved to Chicago from Germany. I know we are in middle of a pandemic. However I never had issues finding FWB or women to hookup in Germany. Since I moved here, I barely had sex. I only met 3 women since September. I don't see any problems with m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | hookups | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rxw5it/hookups/ |
Gibberish94 | 2017-06-12 01:14:12 | 1,497,230,052 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 6gp4zo | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6gp4zo/his_way_of_saying_he_not_emotionally_ready/ | 2 | Meet a guy it's of OkCupid, can went in a date and causally talk. Recently he been MIA for the last month or so. Today he message me apologizing on why he been so distance. He been under a lot of stress lately and it was staring to get overwhelming, I told him I completely understand and everyone have their moments. I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | His way of saying he not emotionally ready? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6gp4zo/his_way_of_saying_he_not_emotionally_ready/ |
NWO_IV_LIFE | 2018-07-09 19:16:40 | 1,531,163,800 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 8xf2rq | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8xf2rq/over_analyzing/ | 3 | So I (M 33) and divorced, have been using Bumble for about 4 months now, it's great. Last Friday I went out with a girl, same age and it went pretty well and felt comfortable around each other. We ended up at her place and I got to say it was amazing. She texted me the next morning about how much fun the night was and ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Over analyzing? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8xf2rq/over_analyzing/ |
TheLuckySwipe | 2022-06-25 15:06:49 | 1,656,169,609 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vkh04w | true | Giving Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vkh04w/just_a_quick_psa_since_i_see_so_many_angry/ | 0 | No matter what stage of "dating" you're at. Quite literally, you could be in a relationship, a MARRIAGE, hooking up, just matched on the app, talking for a day, talking for a week, an hour a year: ALWAYS assume that person could fall out of love and interest for you. At any stage of your interaction with them. The reas... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just a quick PSA since I see so many angry threads: HAVE ZERO EXPECTATIONS OF PEOPLE.... | null | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vkh04w/just_a_quick_psa_since_i_see_so_many_angry/ |
digitaljam_ontoast | 2021-03-26 10:00:33 | 1,616,752,833 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | mdl9s7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mdl9s7/wait_for_text_or_move_on/ | 2 | What should be my next move? I(30F) was exchanging mutually long messages with someone(30M) from an online dating site for a few months. He mentions his ex quite a bit and said it is the distance during a pandemic that ended it. Later, he said this is the longest he has gone without seeing her. I asked if this means th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wait for Text or Move On? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mdl9s7/wait_for_text_or_move_on/ |
m-k-s- | 2022-09-25 06:34:59 | 1,664,087,699 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | xnfosa | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xnfosa/do_we_talk_too_much/ | 2 | I (20f) met this guy (22) almost two weeks back on Tuesday on Bumble and we went on a nice date on Saturday a week ago now after he asked me on it. Also, he texted me right after the date saying he wants to see me again. Unfortunately, he caught covid so we had to put a hold on that. Still, we have been texting each ot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do we talk too much? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xnfosa/do_we_talk_too_much/ |
heart_of_blue | 2016-09-01 20:58:08 | 1,472,763,488 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 50pidq | null | null | 26 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/50pidq/what_have_your_experiences_been_with_apps_like/ | 22 | And if you've used both, do you prefer one over the other? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What have your experiences been with apps like Tinder and Bumble? | 22 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/50pidq/what_have_your_experiences_been_with_apps_like/ |
Murdog891 | 2021-06-06 19:17:14 | 1,623,007,034 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | ntt86m | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ntt86m/had_my_first_no_show_date/ | 13 | Well, it was bound to happen. I met a girl though online dating app. We had a time a place to meet up for brunch. Ended up being a complete no show. I mean, I've had people cancel on me before, which is no problem cause they let me know. But this was first time being a complete no show, and never informed she won't be ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Had my first no show date | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ntt86m/had_my_first_no_show_date/ |
juiceb0x22 | 2011-12-31 01:12:10 | 1,325,293,930 | 2 | ['online dating', 'plentyoffish', 'okcupid'] | null | nwy70 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/nwy70/young_gay_adult_here_how_on_earth_do_i_meet_other/ | 13 | I'm 19. I'm gay. I'm not into dating people solely for sex. I like to have intelligent conversations and "connect". I've tried joining LGBT groups locally, meetups and so forth. But I've never found anyone I'm interested in. Online dating has also been an epic fail. 90% of the time, even if I specify on my profile I'm ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Young gay adult here. How on earth do I meet other gay people my age that are not solely interested in sex? | 15 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nwy70/young_gay_adult_here_how_on_earth_do_i_meet_other/ |
ExpensiveNinja | 2022-07-11 01:47:40 | 1,657,504,060 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vw6tt7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vw6tt7/any_suggestions_on_a_camera_for_a_solo_photoshoot/ | 0 | I'm looking to get back into online dating and realized that I don't have many updated pics within the last 8 years. Most of my pics don't display my style or how I look today, so I'm looking to go out on my own with a tripod and finding cool places to take some photos. Looking for suggestions on: A camera ($500 at mos... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any suggestions on a camera for a solo photoshoot? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vw6tt7/any_suggestions_on_a_camera_for_a_solo_photoshoot/ |
ste_ph | 2018-06-18 16:15:22 | 1,529,338,522 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 8s0rdq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8s0rdq/20_m_met_a_bumble_girl_19_f_that_i_really_liked/ | 1 | A couple months ago I met a girl form bumble that I could instantly tell I liked. Our first date went extremely well - I had a better connection with her than I had ever had on a first date. We arranged a second date and kissed goodbye. I could see the blush on the side of her face as she walked away. On our second dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (20 M) Met a bumble girl (19 F) that I really liked. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8s0rdq/20_m_met_a_bumble_girl_19_f_that_i_really_liked/ |
avaragejoe95 | 2022-07-27 17:27:01 | 1,658,942,821 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | w9ko8m | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w9ko8m/does_anyone_find_dating_is_hard_nowadays/ | 1 | I think with dating apps and social media, dating had become harder because there are too many options. There are guys who have no attention and there are guys like me who get overwhelmed, I get matches, I forget to reply and it’s just a complete mess when it comes to picking someone to date when there are so many opti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does anyone find dating is hard nowadays | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w9ko8m/does_anyone_find_dating_is_hard_nowadays/ |
WavecrestRd | 2023-03-09 14:02:58 | 1,678,370,578 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | 11mszum | true | null | 95 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/11mszum/fitting_into_another_persons_life/ | 64 | I've seen some comments in the past month or so from people who feel frustrated that potential partners are only looking for someone to fit perfectly into their lives. It is deemed or feels inflexible...or maybe that means they want someone with no baggage or someone who only wants a lot of sex – or doesn't want sex. M... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Fitting into another persons life. | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/11mszum/fitting_into_another_persons_life/ |
TheGhostOfCamus | 2024-08-14 21:49:27 | 1,723,672,167 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1esds68 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1esds68/i_feel_frustrated_and_clueless/ | 1 | Let’s call this girl: Lauren Hi Yall, I 25M made a strange choice but it felt like the risk was worth it at the time. So, I asked a girl I work with for a date and she said “No, right now isn’t a good time”. She also told me earlier in the conversation that she didn’t have a boyfriend. I try forgetting about it but obv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel frustrated and clueless! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1esds68/i_feel_frustrated_and_clueless/ |
like-a-sloth | 2024-04-17 18:29:55 | 1,713,378,595 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1c6hbxc | true | Question | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1c6hbxc/quote_the_best_first_message_that_youve_received/ | 5 | I'm interested to see specific quote to know how other women are introducing themselves. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Quote the best first message that you've received from women on OLD. | 4 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1c6hbxc/quote_the_best_first_message_that_youve_received/ |
junebug2100 | 2019-12-18 14:56:16 | 1,576,680,976 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | ecdnqc | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecdnqc/fake_profiles/ | 0 | Lately the only people to carry a conversation with me on OLD have turned out to be fake accounts. I have been using Hinge. Are some apps more prone to fake/catfish scams? FYI, I did a reverse image scan on one and came up as an actor, one I was pretty sure was an actor and one flipped out when I went to leave the conv... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Fake Profiles? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecdnqc/fake_profiles/ |
WittyPianist1038 | 2024-07-25 20:47:01 | 1,721,940,421 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ec5k0y | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ec5k0y/how_do_i_keep_them_interested/ | 0 | Hia, I'm a single man in his mid 20''s, I'm not Adonis on earth but I'm a decent looking human I like to think and as such I do get a few matches on dating apps. I havnt been able to actualize many of them and I think I know the reason why. I'm painfuly awkward with strangers especially when I have hopes about getting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep them interested | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ec5k0y/how_do_i_keep_them_interested/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-02 05:28:38 | 1,317,533,318 | 0 | ['plentyoffish', 'okcupid'] | null | ky4v2 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/ky4v2/nailed_my_first_date_in_years_and_clueless_on/ | 3 | Okay, so here's the story of moi... About to turn 31 year old male. Never been very successful with women. Haven't had a lot of relationships. Longest ones actually only lasted a little over a month. This is when I was younger, around 22-24. Lived out west, had all my successes there, then moved back to the east coast ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Nailed my first date in years... And clueless on where to go next. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ky4v2/nailed_my_first_date_in_years_and_clueless_on/ |
tmbgenjoyer | 2023-12-16 03:05:45 | 1,702,695,945 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18jhnz3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18jhnz3/how_to_make_sure_youre_not_annoying_them/ | 1 | Met someone I really click with on a dating app a few weeks ago and were texting every day up until this week because they're busy with finals and we havent been talking as frequently, I don't wanna annoy them or come off as clingy but i really enjoy talking to them and sometimes they'll send me a how are you or good m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to make sure you're not annoying them | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18jhnz3/how_to_make_sure_youre_not_annoying_them/ |
Jacob_obo | 2017-04-05 04:16:57 | 1,491,365,817 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 63jd95 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/63jd95/help_me_figure_this_girl_out/ | 1 | I met a beautiful girl on tinder (don't judge). I asked her out to coffee and she said yes. Right before we were supposed to meet she postponed and suggested just meeting at her place instead. This was surprising to me since her bio said she wasn't looking for hookups but I went with it. I went to her place and we talk... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me figure this girl out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63jd95/help_me_figure_this_girl_out/ |
aguywithtattoos | 2020-04-08 10:33:17 | 1,586,341,997 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | fx46io | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fx46io/i23m_am_having_trouble_with_flirting_and_dating/ | 2 | Hi, I’m(23M) having trouble with flirting with women in person and on dating apps. A few things about me. I have roughly 20% of my body tattooed, beard, facial piercings and have my ears stretched past an inch and a half so my dating options aren’t exactly as broad as most. Other than that I’m told I’m relatively good ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(23M) am having trouble with flirting and dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fx46io/i23m_am_having_trouble_with_flirting_and_dating/ |
Exotic_Broccoli9327 | 2023-11-30 06:48:17 | 1,701,326,897 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 187c93o | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/187c93o/should_i_propose_when_we_meet_for_the_first_time/ | 1 | Hi everybody So recently I have found success in on online dating. I'm from California and I met a girl from New York. After about 2 months of chatting we've started get fairly serious about being together. Due to funds and some personal family issues with her, we have scheduled a trip to New York for myself in Februar... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I propose when we meet for the first time or should I wait til the second time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/187c93o/should_i_propose_when_we_meet_for_the_first_time/ |
throwaway37472737367 | 2020-05-04 15:50:55 | 1,588,607,455 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | gde1ir | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gde1ir/help_with_this_girl/ | 1 | So we matched two days ago but didn't really have time to talk. Last night we did and we had a great text conversation I think we vibed really well. She's pretty religious and I'm trying to find god still but she says that's okay but we did talk about God and some of our life goals last night but everything just felt s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help with this girl? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gde1ir/help_with_this_girl/ |
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