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[deleted] | 2015-02-25 23:00:56 | 1,424,905,256 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2x61fh | null | null | 6 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2x61fh/best_way_to_start_a_conversation_with_someone/ | 6 | Like online dating sites. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Best way to start a conversation with someone online? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2x61fh/best_way_to_start_a_conversation_with_someone/ |
Level-Annual2945 | 2023-08-26 01:59:20 | 1,693,015,160 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 161i52d | true | Seeking Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/161i52d/finding_age_appropriate_is_tough/ | 1 | So, I’m a mid-50s divorced dad (three teen boys, 50% of the time.) I actually look quite a bit younger than my age and I’m in much better physical shape than most men in my age group. (I do group fitness classes with people half my age daily.) My problem is this: I live in a big city (Chicago) and rarely even see many ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Finding Age Appropriate is Tough | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/161i52d/finding_age_appropriate_is_tough/ |
slamzam190 | 2024-02-28 16:39:55 | 1,709,138,395 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b2ai6d | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b2ai6d/is_he_into_me/ | 1 | Met a guy off a dating app and never got around to meet him last October (2023). He messages out of the blue in Feb (2024), we had a low key first date. Got coffee..the date was on a Sunday afternoon. He scheduled a second date for the following Friday. Second date was super fun, went out drinking and ended up back at ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he into me? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b2ai6d/is_he_into_me/ |
User9140 | 2021-07-02 04:40:11 | 1,625,200,811 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | oc2x3v | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oc2x3v/cant_seem_to_get_matches_on_bumblehinged/ | 3 | Between the two I can count the number of matches I've gotten on one hand (not even conversations, just matches). I'm using all the same pictures from my Tinder, which has over 130 matches. Maybe I shouldn't be complaining about that but I'm looking for something long term, which isn't really what Tinder is for, and th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't seem to get matches on bumble/hinged | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oc2x3v/cant_seem_to_get_matches_on_bumblehinged/ |
Was_his_gurl | 2022-11-21 03:51:17 | 1,669,002,677 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | z0omtt | true | null | 10 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z0omtt/try_again/ | 0 | Almost 3 years ago I (35f)separated from my husband and joined POF 6 months later. I met a guy talked for a few weeks then met up for our first date. Everything went great, I really liked him, the feeling seemed mutual, as we spoke afterwards. My H found out and caused a huge incident called the guy and I was forced to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Try again? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z0omtt/try_again/ |
Chance_Marionberry_6 | 2024-09-30 10:28:52 | 1,727,692,132 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1fssapy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fssapy/how_to_deal_with_failure_on_dating_apps_and_its/ | 1 | I’m a 28-year-old Indian guy, and after moving out of my country at 22, I’ve lived in Germany and now France. I’m finishing my PhD soon and planning to move to a new country for a postdoc, but I’m getting really anxious about my social and dating life post-university. Until now, making friends and having meaningful rel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with failure on dating apps and its impact on a relationships? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fssapy/how_to_deal_with_failure_on_dating_apps_and_its/ |
HistoricalOreos | 2022-04-11 03:57:16 | 1,649,649,436 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | u0yurj | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u0yurj/was_i_being_too_harsh_on_this_girl/ | 0 | On Saturday, I matched with this girl on a dating app. We texted all day, super long messages and were so intrigued by eachother. Shes 30, im 24. Not to mention im divorced and have a 2 year old son which she was completely okay with. We talked on the phone too. Super genuine girl with a good head on her shoulders. Any... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I being too harsh on this girl? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u0yurj/was_i_being_too_harsh_on_this_girl/ |
relationshipn00bz | 2016-04-24 14:34:40 | 1,461,508,480 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4g8d0i | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4g8d0i/dating_multiple_guyshow_do_you_do_it/ | 1 | I've never really dated in my 26 years of living. I've been in a long-term relationship out of high school, but that has since ended and I've been single for well over a year. This year kind of changed that when I met this guy two months ago. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but we hit it off and--against my better... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating multiple guys--how do you do it? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4g8d0i/dating_multiple_guyshow_do_you_do_it/ |
MarketLittle625 | 2021-03-19 11:00:51 | 1,616,151,651 | null | null | 0 | m8erhb | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m8erhb/when_to_give_up_on_a_match/ | 2 | So I'm a guy but when should I get the hint the connection isn't mutual or they're not interested? I don't like to pester or double text so if someone doesn't respond after like 48 hours or so I just assume they aren't interested. I get it people have lives and stuff but going from chatting constantly to radio silence ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When to give up on a match? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m8erhb/when_to_give_up_on_a_match/ |
bbbabs | 2011-07-24 04:15:03 | 1,311,480,903 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | iy5lw | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/iy5lw/girls_how_do_you_react_when_your_date_has_an/ | 14 | Not sure if this is the right place to post. [21M] I'm pretty new to dating, but I've had a few reasonably successful dates after joining OKCupid. So far, I've had some really awkward moments when I'll get a conspicuous erection, after some casual physical contact (accidently brushing against her butt on a dancefloor o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls, how do you react when your date has an obvious erection? | 14 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iy5lw/girls_how_do_you_react_when_your_date_has_an/ |
FuelSuccessful4291 | 2023-08-19 15:28:41 | 1,692,458,921 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15vj78f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15vj78f/should_i_keep_pursuing_a_guy_if_im_still_unsure/ | 1 | I’ve been on 2 dates with a guy I met from a dating app. He’s cute, funny, incredibly nice/sweet and we actually seem to have a lot in common. Idk what’s wrong with me but I don’t feel much of a romantic interest like it just feels friendly. He’s somewhat different than the usual type I go for being that he’s kinda ner... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I keep pursuing a guy if I’m still unsure if I want a relationship with him yet? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15vj78f/should_i_keep_pursuing_a_guy_if_im_still_unsure/ |
FriendOfTheDevil281 | 2023-11-04 22:53:04 | 1,699,138,384 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17nxvly | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17nxvly/dating_app_for_homebodies/ | 1 | I'm a 45 year old anti-social male, introverted, happiest at home. I seek a female of the same mentality, but how to find other homebodies??? We need our own dating app maybe? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating app for homebodies | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17nxvly/dating_app_for_homebodies/ |
yashgulave | 2021-11-21 19:24:17 | 1,637,522,657 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qz2ay5 | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qz2ay5/which_dating_app_should_i_use/ | 0 | Hey guys! 🙋♂️ I'm a 19 year old male from India. I have never had a relationship before and I am considering downloading a dating app for casual relationships. What app do you recommend because I have heard that some apps have a reputation for being for more casual relationships than other. Any suggestions are welcom... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which dating app should I use? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qz2ay5/which_dating_app_should_i_use/ |
nisu_srk | 2022-04-26 17:32:36 | 1,650,994,356 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | uchz86 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uchz86/do_i_go_out_with_a_tinder_match_if_im_traveling/ | 1 | I (late 20s) matched with someone on tinder(also late 20s) last night and had a few banter-y messages and she has shown interest in going for drinks. I’m vacationing out of the country for a month, so I’m obviously not going to get into anything serious in the next couple weeks. Generally, I date with an open mind (hoo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I go out with a tinder match if I’m traveling for a month in a couple of weeks? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uchz86/do_i_go_out_with_a_tinder_match_if_im_traveling/ |
vanves | 2020-07-10 19:34:29 | 1,594,409,669 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | hovjrt | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hovjrt/suggestions_for_my_nb_16_first_date_with_this/ | 0 | Hey everyone, so I registered on Tinder recently and have had a few matches here and there. Now you're probably asking how I got on there at 16; as I am in my second year of college because of skipping a few grades, and that the people I meet in my studying environment are all "adults" anyways, I figured I would go one... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Suggestions for my [NB, 16] first date with this Tinder match [M, 19]? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hovjrt/suggestions_for_my_nb_16_first_date_with_this/ |
Ok-Quiet5461 | 2023-10-07 02:02:12 | 1,696,644,132 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 171ugn8 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/171ugn8/i_imagine_that_im_loved/ | 1 | I feel sad for posting this but I have no one to talk to, and I've really lost it. I feel like I'm living in such an isolated dystopian world where I hardly meet anyone real. I've managed to stay out of relationships because my last one was over 3 years with an alcoholic that threw me in jail so he could have a party. ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I imagine that I'm loved. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/171ugn8/i_imagine_that_im_loved/ |
New_Feedback_8564 | 2023-10-25 12:26:29 | 1,698,236,789 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17g3k8u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17g3k8u/24m_never_had_any_interest_from_women/ | 1 | Hi folks. Just looking for some tips I’m a 24m in London, I’ve bought my own place, got a good job, have group hobbies and I look about average at 5ft11. I haven’t had any relationships yet, and although I’m just living my life, doing hobbies like going to my local rowing club, I’ve never noticed any signs of interest ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24M - never had any interest from women | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17g3k8u/24m_never_had_any_interest_from_women/ |
Ecstatic-Bug1441 | 2022-09-26 20:31:19 | 1,664,224,279 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | xouw0t | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xouw0t/is_it_me/ | 2 | Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice, so here‘s the story. Me (f,44) have been in a very toxic relationship for 5 years. After it ended I paused dating for 3 years just minding my own business, healing and focusing on my job, friends and family. Then my best friend motivated me to try OLD, which I did, with everyth... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is it me? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xouw0t/is_it_me/ |
JadedAbbreviations52 | 2023-04-09 18:52:54 | 1,681,066,374 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 12gs13g | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12gs13g/i_texted_a_girl_i_have_been_dating_shortly_but_a/ | 0 | So i dated this girl from tinder, i saw her once, alright no big deal if it is not what she wanted but we kissed and i had a quite good feeling about it. Then we could not see each other because she had to go back to france for holidays, i went on holidays too. I texted her not too much just casually asking how it went... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I texted a girl i have been dating shortly, but a guy responds instead with a voice chat | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12gs13g/i_texted_a_girl_i_have_been_dating_shortly_but_a/ |
BettieBloo | 2022-01-01 00:58:53 | 1,640,998,733 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | rt7s45 | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/rt7s45/reconnecting_or_nothonest_opinions_please/ | 23 | I posted a few months back about a random encounter in a book shop with a man who recognised me from OLD. Anyway we had some fabulous experiences together over the next couple of months and then he broke it off citing my lack of availability (he's retired, I'm still working full-time). I was really gutted, didn't see i... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Re-connecting or not...honest opinions please | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/rt7s45/reconnecting_or_nothonest_opinions_please/ |
DontFindThisAcct | 2020-01-14 20:36:20 | 1,579,034,180 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | eor1r3 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eor1r3/my_best_friend_17f_is_dating_a_23_year_old_man/ | 0 | About half a year ago when she was 16 my best friend started dating a 22 year old she met online (not on a dating app, just on the internet because she was looking for friends.) She is in college currently and they go to the same school because she was looking for people who planned to attend/attended the same school a... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My Best Friend (17F) is Dating a 23 Year Old Man | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eor1r3/my_best_friend_17f_is_dating_a_23_year_old_man/ |
Aproncollector | 2022-06-15 02:15:16 | 1,655,259,316 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vcjqel | true | I Need Advice | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vcjqel/where_is_everyone_meeting_each_other/ | 30 | The idea of downloading a set of dating apps and keeping up with them sounds terrible. I also know that I can’t expect someone to show up on my front door like an Amazon package. Maybe it’s time to just go very old school and live life and let it happen naturally? If I see someone attractive, I can casually start a con... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where is everyone meeting each other? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vcjqel/where_is_everyone_meeting_each_other/ |
mishi09 | 2024-07-08 21:14:47 | 1,720,473,287 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dykcvs | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dykcvs/getting_ghosted_after_agreeing_to_meet_up/ | 8 | Long story short: I asked this girl to grab a cup of coffee on Bumble. She agreed and asked me when we should meet up. I asked her if she is free over the weekend. Said weekend came and went and I never got a reply. I sent her a follow-up message if our agreement still stands 10 days after she agreed to meet up. Still ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting ghosted after agreeing to meet up | 8 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dykcvs/getting_ghosted_after_agreeing_to_meet_up/ |
Cultural-Mammoth6759 | 2024-01-19 20:55:56 | 1,705,697,756 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19atiu1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19atiu1/what_do_i_respond_to_this/ | 3 | It was the first text off of a dating app. I think it’s funny but idk how to respond. Like I want to do something lighthearted and funny back but idk what. Any ideas? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I respond to this “😉” | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19atiu1/what_do_i_respond_to_this/ |
Ok_Trip_9791 | 2022-01-24 15:52:04 | 1,643,039,524 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | sbp7rw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sbp7rw/is_this_situation_a_waste_of_time/ | 1 | I’m a 24f that’s been talking to/seeing a 27m for almost 4 months now. The first two months, we saw each other every weekend and really hit it off, but then he quit his job after his company informed him they couldn’t house him anymore (he worked in a National park that had very limited housing opportunities outside of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this situation a waste of time? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sbp7rw/is_this_situation_a_waste_of_time/ |
OtherwisePoet6215 | 2024-03-21 18:26:56 | 1,711,045,616 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bkdku2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bkdku2/so_bumble_likes/ | 1 | Just a quick question, how long does it take for bumble to refresh your likes in the free version? Is it 24 hours or once a week? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So…. bumble likes | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkdku2/so_bumble_likes/ |
Sea_Refrigerator4649 | 2024-08-22 04:18:54 | 1,724,300,334 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eyabtv | true | null | 365 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1eyabtv/im_so_tired_of_dating_apps_but_i_genuinely_dont/ | 229 | Hi, hopefully this is the right sub, because I wanted to get men’s input. What can I do to put myself more out there to find a man in the wild? I’m being for genuine, I want a relationship. I’m a 27 year old girl. I go out maybe once a month now, I golf 3-4x a week, I go to the gym, and I’m genuinely exhausted by datin... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | I’m so tired of dating apps but I genuinely don’t know what else to do. How can I meet guys irl? | 229 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1eyabtv/im_so_tired_of_dating_apps_but_i_genuinely_dont/ |
wolfs-nacht | 2021-06-19 14:01:53 | 1,624,111,313 | null | null | 0 | o3gqcg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/o3gqcg/anyone_remebering_9chat/ | 1 | My best online dating experience was on an app that wasn't even made to be an dating app. 9chat was the board/messaging app of 9gag. Very interesting people and super easy to get in touch and flirt with women. It's a shame it doesn't exist anymore. Anyone also remembering this app and can name a similar app? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone remebering 9chat? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/o3gqcg/anyone_remebering_9chat/ |
Valuebrandtherapy25 | 2024-09-15 22:29:26 | 1,726,439,366 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1fhp3on | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fhp3on/modern_daring_for_a_man_in_his_30s/ | 0 | So recently I have decided to put myself out there again after a year of working on myself mentally and emotionally. Where I live there's no night life. Nothing to do for a person in their 30s outside of driving an hour away. I thought "let's give some apps a shot" 6 profiles later and 4 matches later: getting ghosted ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Modern daring for a man in his 30s... | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fhp3on/modern_daring_for_a_man_in_his_30s/ |
ColdSparkles | 2023-11-12 21:07:15 | 1,699,823,235 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17tts2y | true | null | 240 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17tts2y/how_to_deal_with_continuous_rejection_due_to_my/ | 120 | I’m 5’3” and a lot of girls reject me for that. It’s seriously destroying me. On dating apps some girls don’t notice it written on my profile, and when they find out they either straight up reject me, say they prefer taller but they MIGHT give me a chance or settle for me if I’m extra good. That doesn’t feel good at al... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with continuous rejection due to my height? | 120 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17tts2y/how_to_deal_with_continuous_rejection_due_to_my/ |
ThrowRAccountx | 2023-06-01 19:05:57 | 1,685,646,357 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13xq9xy | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13xq9xy/tips_on_making_friends/ | 2 | Hi So I’m 28F living in Dubai. Been single for like 3 years now and I feel like it’s time for me to start dating again Any tips on how to make friends with opposite gender ofc. Tired of dating apps 😭 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tips on making friends | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13xq9xy/tips_on_making_friends/ |
theduckmanq | 2020-06-08 20:56:05 | 1,591,649,765 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | gz7x9o | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gz7x9o/what_are_the_best_places_to_meet_similarly/ | 0 | I'm an early 20s guy, I'm pretty inexperienced dating and a virgin. I have always wanted my first relationship to be with someone similar and relatable so I want her to be a virgin and preferably not to had anything too serious in the past. Now my social life is far from active but I decided to make a Tinder and Bumble... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are the best places to meet similarly inexperienced or conservative people? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gz7x9o/what_are_the_best_places_to_meet_similarly/ |
Raijin370zed | 2023-09-21 02:51:00 | 1,695,264,660 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16o4hi9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16o4hi9/did_i_do_anything_wrong/ | 1 | Kind of a long post but basically wondering why I’m all the sudden being ghosted. A date I just had Monday night with a really cute girl that’s ghosting me right now and leaving me on delivered I’m pretty sure, I think she’s inexperienced, innocent, and scared because she told me she brought self defense and she also t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I do anything wrong.? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16o4hi9/did_i_do_anything_wrong/ |
rawdogonlycrew | 2023-02-04 15:18:09 | 1,675,523,889 | null | null | 0 | 10tis9b | true | null | 143 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10tis9b/is_dating_for_average_men_hard_as_hell/ | 0 | It sure feels that way. I get no Tinder matches with thin girls. I see avferage/ugly girls talking about all the dates they're going on and I feel left out. I don't think these girls are better than me in any way. Doesn't make sense :/ | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is dating for average men hard as hell? | null | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10tis9b/is_dating_for_average_men_hard_as_hell/ |
tmj623 | 2021-03-12 01:34:30 | 1,615,512,870 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | m36bb8 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m36bb8/next_move_very_frustrated/ | 2 | Hey, hope y'all are all having a great week. So here is my situation: I am a 24 y/o male, just moved to Jacksonville, FL for a sweet job as a nurse which I am loving so far. In college, I was kind of a player, and I got plenty of action. I'm 5'6 but I am very fit and very good-looking (been told by many women/men of al... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Next move? Very frustrated :( | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m36bb8/next_move_very_frustrated/ |
Holiday_Area7340 | 2023-04-15 19:49:21 | 1,681,588,161 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12ng9zj | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12ng9zj/ghosted_and_very_confused/ | 1 | I met a guy in February, we had a couple of dates that went really well. We had a great connection, lots of chemistry and hot make out sessions. He was great, we continued texting the all through March everyday, but due to both of us going on holiday we did not managed to schedule any date. At the end of the month I go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted and very confused | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12ng9zj/ghosted_and_very_confused/ |
weekendroadtrips | 2018-08-10 08:39:38 | 1,533,890,378 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 9657c8 | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/9657c8/what_dating_apps_are_people_using_now/ | 57 | OkCupid seems like it's dying and Tinder is just a bunch of blank profiles with Snapchat filter pics on them. Are there any good dating apps anymore or I'm a stuck with Tinder? I heard about SweetRing but never used it. Has anyone tried it? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What dating apps are people using now? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/9657c8/what_dating_apps_are_people_using_now/ |
LordAtticusOG | 2021-10-26 13:07:35 | 1,635,253,655 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qg60up | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/qg60up/need_a_little_help_plz_and_ty/ | 40 | 40M, live in the 4th largest city. Literally haven’t dated in over 5 years. After some pretty bad experiences I just decided to stop looking and focus on my son, my business, and my home. Well, I’m ready to give it another shot. My problem, I have ZERO clue where to even start now a days. Can I please get some feedback... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Need a little help, plz and ty | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/qg60up/need_a_little_help_plz_and_ty/ |
JuniorsEyes90 | 2021-08-31 14:39:07 | 1,630,420,747 | null | null | 0 | pf76bl | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/pf76bl/do_you_ever_feel_guilty_for_getting_ghosted_and/ | 41 | Maybe guilty isn’t the right word but do you ever question yourself after a point of frequent ghosting and rejection and wonder “what’s wrong with me?”. I’ve had some dates where we just don’t click and that happens, but when you meet a few people that have lots of common interests and it still doesn’t work out then yo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do you ever feel “guilty” for getting ghosted and rejected frequently? | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pf76bl/do_you_ever_feel_guilty_for_getting_ghosted_and/ |
SpuekyBlue | 2022-12-30 07:21:04 | 1,672,384,864 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | zyu6am | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zyu6am/of_course_theyre_roommates/ | 0 | I've been on Hinge for about a year and a half now. Not even a single offer for a date. Then a few days ago, I finally got two in the span of two days. I was very attracted to both of them and I accepted both of the offers. We chatted, I exchanged Instas with one, and we are currently working on planning the dates them... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Of course they're roommates... | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zyu6am/of_course_theyre_roommates/ |
ap426 | 2018-01-23 19:05:55 | 1,516,734,355 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7sgsck | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7sgsck/time_to_move_on/ | 1 | So we get talking on Tinder for around 3 weeks. She's busy with revision . I'm busy with work. I come home around 11pm. So our messages are more or less a day apart. Our messages are pretty long. So one day I drop her a message a week before one of her assessments. I get no reply. She looked like she was interested. Or... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Time to move on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7sgsck/time_to_move_on/ |
jcruz451 | 2021-02-13 14:24:39 | 1,613,226,279 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lj1foi | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lj1foi/checking_her_schedule/ | 1 | I met a girl on a dating app about a month ago. We exchanged Snapchats and started talking everyday. Just recently I asked her out and she said yes. I asked her when she was free and she said she had to check her schedule since she said she was busy this week and has other stuff going on. She stated that she doesn’t ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Checking her schedule? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lj1foi/checking_her_schedule/ |
takecarepleasee | 2024-05-25 06:46:27 | 1,716,619,587 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1d060rs | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d060rs/most_women_use_dating_apps_as_a_jokegame/ | 1 | After using dating apps like bumble and tinder and getting scarce matches but enough to know how it works I figured the majority of women there just use the app out of boredom and to know which girl In the friend group can get more likes or just validation. I happened to work at a restaurant and there were these three ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Most women use dating apps as a joke/game | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d060rs/most_women_use_dating_apps_as_a_jokegame/ |
Hopeful-Club8666 | 2023-09-07 01:36:19 | 1,694,050,579 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16c2ork | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16c2ork/based_on_this_scenerio_should_i_inquire_if_he_is/ | 1 | We met on Hinge on August 7th; he started the conversation utilizing one of my prompts. We chatted on and off and then exchanged numbers on August 12th. He then told me to let him know when I would be in his area as I was about a 3-hour drive away due to work, so I told him I would be visiting during Labour Day weekend... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Based on this scenerio; Should I inquire if he is seeking a relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16c2ork/based_on_this_scenerio_should_i_inquire_if_he_is/ |
Odd_Tear_3593 | 2024-05-27 20:38:43 | 1,716,842,323 | 0 | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1d21odq | true | Question | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1d21odq/bad_timing/ | 8 | I (F45) went on three amazing dates with a guy (48) who is unfortunately very recently separated (8 month after 20 years marriage). He’s now traveling for work for a week and says he’d like to see me again after he’s back - although no specific plans were made. On his Hinge he said: “Figuring out my dating goals. Open ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Bad timing? | 8 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1d21odq/bad_timing/ |
boraw567 | 2024-09-04 00:05:24 | 1,725,408,324 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1f8f8xk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f8f8xk/please_help_how_should_i_proceed_with_this_girl/ | 1 | I want to preface this post by sharing that I deal with a lot of social anxiety especially when it comes to dating. Anyway, yesterday I matched with a gorgeous girl on bumble and she messaged me saying that she recognized me from work. I had never seen her before but apparently she works at my job. So we start chatting... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Please Help! How should I proceed with this girl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f8f8xk/please_help_how_should_i_proceed_with_this_girl/ |
WillTheGreenPill | 2022-12-31 19:34:44 | 1,672,515,284 | null | null | 0 | 1001s2p | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1001s2p/online_dating_appssite_a_modern_myth/ | 5 | So Im single for the first time in 8 years. I used to go on different sites like MeetMe and tinder, back then it felt like I could find someone random to talk to in seconds. Now I tried what they have out there(bumble, MeetMe, tinder, and more) and you have to pay for everything. There's no chatting, and as a man, they... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | online dating apps/site? a modern myth? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1001s2p/online_dating_appssite_a_modern_myth/ |
robertg88 | 2012-07-13 22:30:31 | 1,342,218,631 | 3 | ['match.com'] | null | witv7 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/witv7/m_23_i_accidentally_messaged_a_f_19_too_many/ | 1 | Okay, she initiated contact with me on match.com. I responded and after some message tag I asked her out to meet for coffee and it went really well, I think, I've only been on 2 dates in my life and the other one was much much worse. With this girl we had a lot in common with our interests and childhood. We were both r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M 23 I accidentally messaged a F 19 too many times (i think) damage control? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/witv7/m_23_i_accidentally_messaged_a_f_19_too_many/ |
queerflowers | 2021-03-01 05:13:03 | 1,614,575,583 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | lv0rup | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lv0rup/livestream_dating/ | 1 | I just got out of a relationship with a person two weeks ago. Nothing serious it was only a few months but it did make me miss having someone romantic in my life. So my roommate who is extremely extroverted showed me a livestream dating app, and convinced me to try it. Which was like 2 minute speed dating, with other p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Livestream dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lv0rup/livestream_dating/ |
TheMagyar | 2013-10-04 04:25:44 | 1,380,860,744 | 0 | ['online dating', 'match.com'] | 0 | 1npdyd | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1npdyd/troubles_online_dating_anybody_have_advice/ | 6 | First off, I'm 24/m in my first teaching job in a new area. I workout daily, and would consider myself very fit and well educated, but always trying to improve. I'd say I'm an average looking guy. Back home I believe I had a bad reputation, so all of the women I would meet somehow knew of me. My reputation goes back to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Troubles online dating; anybody have advice? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1npdyd/troubles_online_dating_anybody_have_advice/ |
BaBaBlackshepp | 2021-06-03 06:10:43 | 1,622,700,643 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nr6f6a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nr6f6a/i_cant_decide_if_i_am_actually_enjoying_someones/ | 1 | So for some context, I'm 22M, and I live in India. And I’m currently being set up by my parents to meet people. Which is pretty normal here. And something about me is that, I’m like the shy and quiet class and thus I have not had any relationships before, or even been close friends with anyone (let alone a girl). So fa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't decide if I am actually enjoying someone's company or not. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nr6f6a/i_cant_decide_if_i_am_actually_enjoying_someones/ |
7L7XMu | 2019-01-02 05:04:00 | 1,546,405,440 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | abq4dl | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/abq4dl/do_i_need_game_m34/ | 2 | TL/DR: I feel attractive however I suck at flirting. Should I / can I change that? Most people would agree that I've got a lot going for me: Good job. Interesting, lots of freedom and a top 2% salary for Europe. Also a side business as a landlord. Intellectually curious and always engaged with some topic. Decent loo... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do I need game (m/34)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/abq4dl/do_i_need_game_m34/ |
PapiMelaza | 2024-02-01 14:45:53 | 1,706,798,753 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1agcmxc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1agcmxc/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I feel weird making this post, but i'm kinda frustrated and don't know what to do anymore. So i'm a 26-year-old man, i work as an engineer and have a pretty good social life, but haven't had much luck dating. The longest i've ever "dated" someone was for a month. I wouldn't consider myself super attractive either so i'... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What am i doing wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1agcmxc/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ |
meh-dood | 2023-08-28 08:12:44 | 1,693,210,364 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 163g3bm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/163g3bm/where_do_you_findmeet_people_to_date/ | 1 | I'm 23 F and I got out of a relationship around 8 months ago and want to get back into dating again after spending some time by myself. I tried dating apps and my experiences with them weren't the best, especially because I don't feel comfortable with hookups and it takes awhile for me to get comfortable enough to be s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do you find/meet people to date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/163g3bm/where_do_you_findmeet_people_to_date/ |
Lemthur_Drye | 2016-02-01 18:31:02 | 1,454,351,462 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 43ptux | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/43ptux/feel_like_im_stuck/ | 1 | Should preface, this is some teenager bullshit. I'm a guy (17) trying to date a girl (16). I know this girl really well, and she trusts me more than she trusts her parents, her friends, or anybody in the world. I'm her best friend and she commonly says that I'm "Such a great guy" or every now and then get "You're the p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feel Like I'm Stuck | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/43ptux/feel_like_im_stuck/ |
BV_G2001 | 2022-08-22 05:00:12 | 1,661,144,412 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wukfra | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wukfra/should_i_give_him_another_chance/ | 1 | I (20sF) met a guy (20sM) through OLD. We had planned to go out and he “lost track of time” and didn’t even text me till hours after we were supposed to go out. Originally I was fine this was a first date so I didn’t know him enough to be too upset. When he texted me hours later he apologized, said he lost track of tim... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I give him another chance | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wukfra/should_i_give_him_another_chance/ |
Admirable-Jelly1010 | 2024-02-04 15:17:50 | 1,707,059,870 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1aiq5cb | false | Question ❓ | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aiq5cb/why_men_seem_genuinely_interested_but_dont_want/ | 1 | I have had an issue with men recently on dating apps. The conversation are always very good, engaging, fun, we set up a date and all good, but then they start to cancel, say they can’t make it, propose another time but never follow through or cancel again and be like oh I will be free next week without real timing., Af... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why men seem genuinely interested but don't want to meet up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aiq5cb/why_men_seem_genuinely_interested_but_dont_want/ |
[deleted] | 2020-07-10 19:33:52 | 1,594,409,632 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hovjc1 | true | I Need Advice | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hovjc1/i_20f_recently_hooked_up_with_a_55_year_old_woman/ | 1 | So as the title states, I met an older lady on a dating app and we hooked up this past week. After spending the day with her I noticed that it was not just sexual attraction and that I felt really connected with her and afterwards I had serious feelings for her. It seemed like she did as well. We have continued to text... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (20F) recently hooked up with a 55 year old woman. I think I really like her and want to date her. My parents are totally against me being a lesbian. What do I do? | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hovjc1/i_20f_recently_hooked_up_with_a_55_year_old_woman/ |
MagikWoman | 2023-07-26 05:39:24 | 1,690,349,964 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 159wrtd | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/159wrtd/why_do_men_need_to_be_neglected_in_order_to_be/ | 1 | Why do men need to be neglected in order to remain interested? So this is a recent thought/question I’ve had due to my recent dating experiences. I have been speaking to multiple men on dating apps recently that I’ve gone on a date with and found that at first they seem more interested in me, than I am in them. We go o... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Why do men need to be neglected in order to be attracted to woman? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/159wrtd/why_do_men_need_to_be_neglected_in_order_to_be/ |
ItalicsGuy | 2020-02-02 04:39:53 | 1,580,618,393 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | exj2hf | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/exj2hf/girl_is_very_enthusiastic_about_going_on_a_date/ | 1 | I met this girl on a dating app, we have a ton in common and have been communicating via text and Snapchat and she is always very enthusiastic. I am colloquial and complimenting but I try to be “cool” while still being friendly and a little flirty. She replies to my story most of the time with heart eyes and compliment... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl is very enthusiastic about going on a date until we actually start planning (reposted bc I forgot flair) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/exj2hf/girl_is_very_enthusiastic_about_going_on_a_date/ |
throwaway0632684 | 2024-07-10 02:00:09 | 1,720,576,809 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dzk3sn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dzk3sn/ghosted_hurt_and_want_my_things_back/ | 1 | So I (25m) was in touch with this girl (22f) I met off tinder a few months ago. Initially whenever I texted her, she would often take too long to respond, and after flaking on our first date for a second time, I stopped pursuing her. A few weeks later, she messaged me out of the blue, apologizing for her inattentivenes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted, hurt, and want my things back | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dzk3sn/ghosted_hurt_and_want_my_things_back/ |
Qwaz1337 | 2024-08-29 22:13:07 | 1,724,969,587 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1f4f39o | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f4f39o/first_you_up_text_what_does_it_mean/ | 1 | I’m pretty sure I know what I mean, but it’s the first you up text I’ve received, how do I proceed? I’ve been talking to this girl for about 2 months but then we haven’t actually talked for about a month, then she sends me this text… we haven’t met at all and we matched on a dating app | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First “you up” text, what does it mean…? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4f39o/first_you_up_text_what_does_it_mean/ |
Stubborn_Toenail | 2022-10-22 20:36:44 | 1,666,471,004 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | yaxy68 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yaxy68/so_weve_matched_why_is_no_one_starting_the/ | 0 | I downloaded tinder last night and I personally would say I’m quite selective on who I swipe right on. I have around about 20 matches - however only two guys have actually said hi to me. Aside from those two, no other guy has started the conversation. Yes I know I’m fully capable of starting one, but I just prefer them... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So we’ve matched - why is no one starting the conversation. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yaxy68/so_weve_matched_why_is_no_one_starting_the/ |
cmann321 | 2023-12-31 09:51:45 | 1,704,016,305 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18v4jpr | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18v4jpr/is_this_a_red_flag_for_women/ | 10 | This could be all in my head, and I am guessing social media probably plays a part in why I think like this. If you met a guy on a dating app who is in his very late 20s and still lived with his parents, or if it was your friend speaking to a guy in that situation, would you say its a no go. For context, I have a good ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is this a RED FLAG for women? | 10 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18v4jpr/is_this_a_red_flag_for_women/ |
nhta_164 | 2023-09-07 18:57:47 | 1,694,113,067 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16cn1ar | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16cn1ar/cuddle_on_the_first_day/ | 1 | I've been talking to this guys on Tinder for around week, we haven't met yet. He seems nice and we have many good conversations. Yesterday he told me about his ideal first date and mentioned that if the date goes well back to watch some sort of movie and cuddle. I honestly think it’s a bit too intimate to do some sort ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Cuddle on the first day? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16cn1ar/cuddle_on_the_first_day/ |
miksuc | 2019-01-18 01:28:07 | 1,547,774,887 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ah55r4 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ah55r4/ending_a_tinder_relationship_that_wont_end/ | 1 | How’s everyone doing, I need some advice really badly. I matched with a girl on tinder and we talked for about 2 weeks but never met. I told her we needed to stop talking because I realized we would never have time to date or anything like that because we were both extremely busy and she lived an hour away. She got mad... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ending a tinder relationship that won’t end | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ah55r4/ending_a_tinder_relationship_that_wont_end/ |
aaaBebaaa | 2021-03-05 05:32:41 | 1,614,922,361 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | ly50ki | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ly50ki/im_starting_to_like_my_bumble_match_but_im_not/ | 1 | I [29/F] have matched with someone [30/M] in Bumble last January and we really clicked. We are texting each other everyday and even had a few petty fights before we eventually had our first date in Feb. When we first met, it's like we already know each other for a long time. No awkwardness and we even kissed and hugged... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm starting to like my Bumble match but I'm not sure abt his feelings for me | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ly50ki/im_starting_to_like_my_bumble_match_but_im_not/ |
depressedkittyfr | 2022-05-25 23:42:33 | 1,653,522,153 | null | ['dating platform', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | uxucnh | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uxucnh/decided_to_give_another_chance_in_finding_love/ | 2 | Don’t know where else to rant about this So now that I finally got a “real” job and an apartment of my own all the pestering from family and friends started. Where is your “partner/ husband “ questions are unavoidable and my mom is already hunting prospective grooms for me even after I have explicitly told her not to.... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Decided to give another chance in finding love and I HATE it | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uxucnh/decided_to_give_another_chance_in_finding_love/ |
medicalboy98 | 2020-03-23 01:30:00 | 1,584,927,000 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fnbgp0 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fnbgp0/m21_writing_first_time/ | 4 | I (21m) want to start dating for the very first time.So i would like to start,with some casual.but dating apps sucks. So is there anyone who can try to give me an experience? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M21, Writing first time! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fnbgp0/m21_writing_first_time/ |
leasarfati | 2018-11-09 21:38:44 | 1,541,799,524 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 9vok5h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9vok5h/saw_someone_i_know_on_hinge/ | 0 | I somewhat work with him. I work in a hospital and he is a student at the hospital. So I see him almost every day, but he is not a coworker. Lately I’ve been thinking he’s kind of cute, and we have small talk here and there. I just saw him on Hinge, and I’m wonering if I should “like him” and include some sort of messa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Saw someone I know on Hinge | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9vok5h/saw_someone_i_know_on_hinge/ |
FlyingThruEarth | 2022-08-11 20:42:01 | 1,660,250,521 | null | null | 0 | wm1p73 | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wm1p73/has_followingup_ever_worked_for_you_havent_heard/ | 8 | I matched with this girl (haven't met her in real life yet). We've been having pretty good conversation for the past week. We even exchanged our contact information. In my last texts to her, I asked her a question but I haven't heard from her since. It's been 3 days already. Wondering if I should send her a follow-up t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has following-up ever worked for you? Haven't heard from a girl in a few days. Should I do it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wm1p73/has_followingup_ever_worked_for_you_havent_heard/ |
Inside_Wish_1038 | 2024-01-30 21:49:18 | 1,706,651,358 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1af0fke | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1af0fke/struggling_to_move_on_after_being_faked_out_what/ | 3 | Hi folks, Me (36F) and a guy (32m) were dating for about 8 weeks and it felt so natural, calm and enjoyable. Background: We waited before we were intimate, both agreed we wanted to get to know each other. We spent consecutive days and nights together and had phone convos when we weren't able to see each other. We were ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to move on after being faked out. What helped you? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1af0fke/struggling_to_move_on_after_being_faked_out_what/ |
Spiritual_Egg8610 | 2023-03-02 01:48:09 | 1,677,721,689 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11fp7sc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11fp7sc/a_shy_but_mysterious_girl/ | 0 | I am a 25 (male) and I have found this girl I met on Bumble. She is absolutely gorgeous and we have been on 2 dates in total. She said she likes me and thinks I am attractive. She is a single mother and says she will always make time for me. However, I am being left on read constantly. I wont hear a response from her f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A Shy but Mysterious Girl | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11fp7sc/a_shy_but_mysterious_girl/ |
extra_cheese_pizza | 2024-01-28 20:40:53 | 1,706,474,453 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1adchkd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1adchkd/advice/ | 1 | I'll try and keep it short... met a girl on a dating app about 9 days ago. things have progressed quickly since then.. from texting to facetiming most nights for at least 2 hours (and sometimes having facetime run while we sleep "next to one another"). lots of sexual tension leading up to us hanging out. we've hung out... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adchkd/advice/ |
ThrowRA364688 | 2023-07-21 07:08:02 | 1,689,923,282 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | 155gckw | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/155gckw/would_it_be_too_much_to_ask_a_guy_to_shave/ | 1 | I have a thing against beards. Never liked them. Then I had an abusive ex that grew a really gross one and I hated it. It felt gross whenever it touched me (like unhygienic spiders crawling on your skin). I never want to experience that again. Normally I left swipe anyone with facial hair. But I right swiped one guy be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would it be too much to ask a guy to shave? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/155gckw/would_it_be_too_much_to_ask_a_guy_to_shave/ |
ohnearohbearohbear | 2024-04-13 02:28:55 | 1,712,975,335 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipes', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c2r8p8 | true | Question ❓ | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c2r8p8/i_like_to_say_that_im_fat_in_dating_app_bios_is/ | 3 | I am fat. I have no full body photos and I don't really go to big events with friends where it would be normal for someone to take a full body photo of me. My face is chubby but I want to make sure anyone who swipes on me knows I'm fat. I mean what's the point of matching with a guy who only likes skinny women when I'm... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I like to say that I'm fat in dating app bios, is that weird? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c2r8p8/i_like_to_say_that_im_fat_in_dating_app_bios_is/ |
AFatiguedFey | 2021-07-05 20:47:44 | 1,625,518,064 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | oefzza | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oefzza/never_dated_24f/ | 8 | So I’ve never dated anyone before. Signed up on some dating apps but I feel like I’ll just delete them like I always do. I wish I had the option to not have the guys in my town show up (1. My job puts me in a community and I’m trying to avoid any social work ethical dilemmas. 2. I don’t like the guys in my city at leas... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never dated (24F) | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oefzza/never_dated_24f/ |
ValentineVision2020 | 2023-04-04 19:19:19 | 1,680,635,959 | 0 | null | 0 | 12btdwd | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12btdwd/my_old_rule_of_thumb/ | 13 | Spoil me with your consistency Always remain the same you and you won't have to worry about a different me. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My OLD Rule of Thumb | 13 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12btdwd/my_old_rule_of_thumb/ |
Thiago_Von_Duck | 2024-03-28 11:57:50 | 1,711,627,070 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1bpts7i | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bpts7i/how_often_you_get_hit_on/ | 3 | I am researching a theory suggesting that women who are considered moderately attractive may not receive as much attention as those deemed highly attractive, potentially due to fear or assumptions about potential rejection. I kindly request women to share their experiences regarding how frequently they are approached i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How often you get "hit" on | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bpts7i/how_often_you_get_hit_on/ |
MojiYogi | 2023-09-14 10:29:17 | 1,694,687,357 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16ietsi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16ietsi/are_things_moving_too_fast_or_am_i_self_sabotaging/ | 1 | I (26F) met a guy (30M) about threeish weeks ago on a dating app (we will call him Jake). This was after ending a semi serious 8 month relationship with a guy who just wasn't it. Didn't treat me the best overall, lives with his parents and was very immature. Jake and I went on one date. Things were great. He seemed sup... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are things moving too fast or am I self sabotaging? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ietsi/are_things_moving_too_fast_or_am_i_self_sabotaging/ |
insecuresis | 2024-06-22 07:50:42 | 1,719,042,642 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dlqh39 | true | null | 177 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dlqh39/i_feel_robbed_of_being_perceived_as_a_genuinely/ | 821 | growing up guys thought i was ugly. when i was in middle school, guys would just call me ugly. it hasn't left my head 10 years later. as a young female adult i've not dealt with this which i argue is great. generally i don't get tons on male attention. i don't get catcalled, i don't get hit on by strangers, i don't rea... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | i feel robbed of being perceived as a genuinely beautiful woman | 821 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dlqh39/i_feel_robbed_of_being_perceived_as_a_genuinely/ |
BeenComingForAwhile | 2021-09-23 05:29:54 | 1,632,374,994 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ptofp8 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ptofp8/i_ghosted_someone_and_i_hate_myself_for_it/ | 2 | I'm getting divorced, we're in the early stages of that. I stupidly joined a bunch of the dating apps looking for basically anything. I ended up talking with someone quite a bit for a couple weeks before we went for coffee for a first date. Things went well, but then completely unrelated to the person, the next couple ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I ghosted someone and I hate myself for it | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ptofp8/i_ghosted_someone_and_i_hate_myself_for_it/ |
Ya_boi_cringeface | 2023-08-22 01:18:13 | 1,692,667,093 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15xqlyk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15xqlyk/i_want_to_date_but_i_dont_have_much_luck/ | 1 | I 20M enjoy going out with people, I miss sex, I miss being in a relationship, but it's so hard for me to progress past just meeting someone. My ex was my only gf and before her I didn't really have much luck finding women. It's just hard to even ask a woman out. I find myself getting too attached to one person and bei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to date, but I don't have much luck | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15xqlyk/i_want_to_date_but_i_dont_have_much_luck/ |
jewfro667 | 2016-10-12 22:36:52 | 1,476,311,812 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 576zhf | null | null | 24 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/576zhf/how_many_of_you_are_considered_attractive_yet/ | 5 | I was discussing this with friends today and we all basically agree that we do better in person despite being called attractive. It just confuses me how difficult it is to get a response online despite being checked out a ton in person. What are your experiences with that? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How many of you are considered attractive yet have no success in online dating? | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/576zhf/how_many_of_you_are_considered_attractive_yet/ |
spaceshuttleelon20 | 2022-02-11 11:04:04 | 1,644,577,444 | null | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | spwws2 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/spwws2/not_interested_or_just_no_game/ | 3 | Matches with a guy on a dating app, and we’re both gym bunnies so for our first day he got me a day pass at his gym and we trained together, was good. Then he asked me out that weekend and we went for lunch. Again, good. The text convo died a bit and I hate ‘overstaying my welcome’ so I don’t reply when there’s natural... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not interested or just no game? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/spwws2/not_interested_or_just_no_game/ |
WowIactuallyknowyou | 2018-01-27 06:40:39 | 1,517,035,239 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7tb58o | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7tb58o/any_tinder_advice/ | 3 | New to this, and I’m just really awkward and not really sure how to go beyond innocent chatting, does anyone have advice? I feel like a lot of people I match with just stop talking after maybe 15 min Also anyone willing to help with bio would be great, but obv I cant expect that. I’m 18M for context | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any tinder advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7tb58o/any_tinder_advice/ |
AppearanceAccording6 | 2021-06-01 19:15:11 | 1,622,574,911 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | nq20ns | true | Giving Advice | 37 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nq20ns/cold_approach_is_the_best_way_to_meet_women_and/ | 0 | I see a lot of posts on here from guys asking if they can approach women in public. A lot of people say that this method doesn't work and you'll come off creepy. And honestly, I get what they're saying, but I disagree. Cold approaching has literally changed my life, even in ways beyond dating. All of the women I've gon... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cold Approach is the best way to meet women (and one of the best things to do as a man). So why is it discouraged so much? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nq20ns/cold_approach_is_the_best_way_to_meet_women_and/ |
Important-Thing-6436 | 2023-05-28 18:43:20 | 1,685,299,400 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13u7sfo | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13u7sfo/dating_advice/ | 1 | This summer I rly want to get into a relationship but every time I think a situationship is going somewhere I find out they are not looking for anything serious. Makes me feel like i’m good enough for sex but not to date. I also have no idea where to meet guys other then clubs and dating apps but all the guys i’ve met ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dating advice | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13u7sfo/dating_advice/ |
bdastunty | 2019-07-05 13:24:32 | 1,562,333,072 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c9fx3l | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c9fx3l/dating_someone_with_a_completely_different/ | 2 | I met this girl through Tinder, and we have gone out twice, once for coffee, then lunch. Conversation has flowed very easily. I work 8am-5pm and she works in the service industry as a waitress. Her schedule is 11am-3pm, then 5pm-11pm (or later) and she only has Sunday's off. I am normally in bed by 11 on week days... I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating someone with a completely different schedule... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c9fx3l/dating_someone_with_a_completely_different/ |
sensation1777 | 2019-10-11 20:03:26 | 1,570,824,206 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dgkgw6 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dgkgw6/got_matched_with_my_high_school_crush_on_tinder/ | 62 | So I've had a mad crush on this girl for a while now. Pretty sure she knew I liked her but i don't think she messed around with boys or relationships in high school. We graduated last year and recently she matched with me on tinder. I got her snapchat and started with some mellow conversation. I invited her to party, s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got matched with my high school crush on tinder. Looking for tips. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dgkgw6/got_matched_with_my_high_school_crush_on_tinder/ |
Symba13 | 2018-11-01 15:04:04 | 1,541,084,644 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9ta7bu | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9ta7bu/advice_on_how_to_proceed_and_dating_in_general/ | 3 | Somewhat long post, sorry. I [24m] started talking to this girl [22f] I met off a dating app recently. We eventually switched to texting and soon set up a date. We met by the river and walked around and talked before we got something to eat. We're both nerds and like pretty much like the same things. Afterwards we went... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on how to proceed and dating in general | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9ta7bu/advice_on_how_to_proceed_and_dating_in_general/ |
Lunasole_ | 2023-09-18 17:36:39 | 1,695,058,599 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16m1vfb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16m1vfb/should_i_ask_him_on_the_second_date/ | 1 | On Friday, I went on a first date with a guy that I matched with on Tinder. We get along quite well and we have a lot of things in common, and I do like his personality from what I’ve seen. We have been talking for two+ weeks. He was very quick to ask for the first date, and even suggested other places that we can go t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I ask him on the second date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16m1vfb/should_i_ask_him_on_the_second_date/ |
datenewbie123 | 2017-09-01 00:05:07 | 1,504,224,307 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'bumble', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 6xavx7 | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6xavx7/20f_never_been_in_a_relationship_and_wanting_to/ | 3 | Hi there. I don’t know how exactly to go about this, but I need advice that is direct and un-sugar coated. This is difficult for me to say, but I really want to make a change in my life. I am a 20 year old girl who has never been in a relationship – never been kissed, dated, etc. I and others believe that I am kind, in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20F] Never been in a relationship and wanting to: without being in a casual one. (long) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6xavx7/20f_never_been_in_a_relationship_and_wanting_to/ |
OkSite8988 | 2024-08-07 16:55:58 | 1,723,049,758 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1emh1j5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1emh1j5/im_confused/ | 1 | Lately. i started interacting with girls which im not very used to do,(not to the point of being akward or someth, but i jus talk to girls i already know, or ones within my circle) by complimating on stories or looking for some on reddit and discord shitty servers, but there was this one girl that kinda matched my vibe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im confused | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1emh1j5/im_confused/ |
LadyTK | 2018-08-08 22:30:54 | 1,533,767,454 | null | null | 0 | 95qs0d | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/95qs0d/not_interested_how_do_you_guys_prefer_someone/ | 3 | So I’m getting a ton of messages and some are from people I’m not compatible with or attracted to. Which is best to respond to their message? Do you guys just leave it unread or tell them nicely no? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Not interested. How do you guys prefer someone respond? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/95qs0d/not_interested_how_do_you_guys_prefer_someone/ |
JayVlad | 2018-09-21 05:52:50 | 1,537,509,170 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 9hmmw4 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9hmmw4/20m_dating_is_starting_to_get_frustrating_and/ | 3 | I've tried been single for over 7 months now and am still "new" to the dating world. It seems like dating apps especially are FILLED with people who want to meet up but then never follow through or just lose interest right before the meet up happens, at least this is what I've experienced in the last months. I've tried... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20m] Dating is starting to get frustrating and starting to hurt my confidence levels. Any tips to help me out? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9hmmw4/20m_dating_is_starting_to_get_frustrating_and/ |
velvetlouves | 2021-11-28 13:08:15 | 1,638,104,895 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | r43ycb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r43ycb/does_this_guy_im_talking_to_still_interested_in_me/ | 2 | I’m a 21 year old female and he’s a 23 year old male. I met this guy from hinge a few week ago and we generally had a good connection. We decided to meet after I finished college where he picked me up in his car and we just talked about random stuff. He looked very interested in me and he found me funny. Right now, aft... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does this guy I’m talking to still interested in me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r43ycb/does_this_guy_im_talking_to_still_interested_in_me/ |
virtual-shmoney006 | 2021-09-15 20:00:14 | 1,631,736,014 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | poxpi6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/poxpi6/how_do_i_know_if_he_still_likes_me/ | 1 | I went on 3 dates with this guy who I met on Hinge. Before we went on our first date, we spoke for a month. By spoke, he nearly dmed me and texted me everyday for a month on his own terms. Would text me calling me angel, good morning texts, ask me how I was...etc. We fucked the second + third date. through the dates he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I know If he still likes me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/poxpi6/how_do_i_know_if_he_still_likes_me/ |
buny21 | 2022-12-29 02:43:43 | 1,672,281,823 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zxtd58 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zxtd58/he_ended_it_left_me_on_all_social_media/ | 1 | Back story: I posted once before about him in Sep. Let's call him "erik"(36m) and I'm (38f). In sep he had stated he was 90% out 10% in. After 3/4 weeks of basically him putting us on a "break" which we didn't see each other. After I got advice from my post near the end of that time I was trying to figure out if it was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He ended it. Left me on all social media | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zxtd58/he_ended_it_left_me_on_all_social_media/ |
Pigeonheart21 | 2021-07-22 22:15:10 | 1,626,992,110 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | opohax | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/opohax/why_cant_men_understand_that_no_means_no/ | 41 | I’ve (24F) been talking to this guy (26M) I matched with on a dating app and relationship dealbreakers came up. I told him that I’ve made the personal/religious decision to wait to have sex until marriage. He said that he respected that and asked if I were open to other things such as BJs. I told him that I wasn’t comf... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Why can’t men understand that no means no? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/opohax/why_cant_men_understand_that_no_means_no/ |
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