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carneironando | 2019-02-22 15:08:22 | 1,550,848,102 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | atin78 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/atin78/i_dont_know_how_to_start_a_conversation_with_her/ | 4 | So, let's start from the beginning, about a month ago I was on vacation and it was my last day and I just wanted to grab a drink with someone and have fun, so I got a little desperate and started liking everybody on tinder, which I think messed my tinder algorithm up, cause I've been home for a month now and can't seem... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know how to start a conversation with her | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/atin78/i_dont_know_how_to_start_a_conversation_with_her/ |
MsDunnyJ | 2018-02-07 16:43:43 | 1,518,021,823 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 7vxe70 | false | null | 103 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7vxe70/odd_request_for_a_first_dateoutingand_im_not_sure/ | 51 | I just re-entered the dating scene. Online dating is new and a bit overwhelming for me. I also have strict rules when it comes to meeting someone for the first time. All dates will be in a public setting, I will not meet you at your house or a hotel, you’re not coming to my place, and you will not meet my child. Last n... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Odd request for a first date/outing....and I’m not sure if I should go to the authorities | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7vxe70/odd_request_for_a_first_dateoutingand_im_not_sure/ |
ElectricRing | 2024-07-24 05:46:18 | 1,721,799,978 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 1eatsw1 | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1eatsw1/running_out_of_matches/ | 0 | I live in a major city, 2 million population in the metro area. I’m 49, I don’t pay for the apps, and I have my distance set to 15 miles which incorporates the majority of the metro area. My age range is set to 30-53 (the low side is a bit low realistically but we will get to why.) I won’t do smokers, I don’t want more... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Running out of matches? | 0 | 0.23 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1eatsw1/running_out_of_matches/ |
Imsorryofficer | 2020-12-12 00:46:15 | 1,607,733,975 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | kbf9k0 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kbf9k0/where_to_find_a_date/ | 3 | I (m19) am trying to figure out where I can find dates. I have been single for a little under a year and I am comfortable to go out and meet new people. I work 50+ hours a week so I don't have a lot of time to go out and meet people. Tinder frankly isn't working, I match with a few people and every time I try to start ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to find a date | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kbf9k0/where_to_find_a_date/ |
oldermendating | 2016-12-08 06:44:45 | 1,481,179,485 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 5h5i8o | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5h5i8o/older_men_dating_younger_women/ | 0 | oldermanyoungwomanIt’s funny how, as children, we’re told that it’s what’s inside that counts; to treat others the way we want to be treated; not to judge others; and that it’s important to have role models. It’s also interesting how these refrains go out the window when we encounter someone who doesn’t quite ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | older men dating younger women | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5h5i8o/older_men_dating_younger_women/ |
Sea-Gur7375 | 2024-06-24 04:13:28 | 1,719,202,408 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dn4spy | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dn4spy/i_have_no_experience_with_talking_with_women_nor/ | 3 | I am kinda introverted and quiet, no girl has ever been intrrested in me and I am scared of approaching first. Nowadays I only leave my room daily to go to my university (where 90% of the students are male) and to go to the gym. Thinking on trying online dating but I am really scared cuz I have no experience in dating ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have no experience with talking with women nor with relationships. What should I do to improve it? [M18] | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dn4spy/i_have_no_experience_with_talking_with_women_nor/ |
0ld3rman | 2023-03-08 01:15:22 | 1,678,238,122 | null | null | 0 | 11lhu3t | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11lhu3t/is_cuddle_dating_a_legitimate_dating_site/ | 0 | The pictures of the women seem to be too profession, let alone that the women are all really attractive. Anyone have any experience with it? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is cuddle dating a legitimate dating site? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11lhu3t/is_cuddle_dating_a_legitimate_dating_site/ |
krisafc97 | 2024-01-19 18:08:40 | 1,705,687,720 | 0 | null | 0 | 19aphqe | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/19aphqe/ex_broke_up_with_me_last_month_getting_no_matches/ | 1 | Before i got into a relationship i was getting matched semi regularly and unsure what to do next | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | ex broke up with me last month getting no matches 26m UK | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/19aphqe/ex_broke_up_with_me_last_month_getting_no_matches/ |
brandonhetfieldsixx | 2020-11-29 09:10:26 | 1,606,641,026 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | k36g4v | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k36g4v/m22_should_i_change/ | 1 | Hi so my name Is Brandon. I’m 22 and I have never been in a relationship or even had a first kiss. Now the reason for this, is that I’ve always wanted to wait for my first girlfriend. I’ve had chances before to have sex and all that good stuff, but like I said, I wanted to wait. Well now I’ve been starting to rethink s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [m22] Should I change? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k36g4v/m22_should_i_change/ |
Twisteesmt | 2021-08-02 19:52:23 | 1,627,933,943 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | owmdp8 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/owmdp8/dating_28m_long_term_relationships_still_exist/ | 2 | If this is not valid I'll remove this post. So am 28 living in Scotland. Half Maltese half Italian. I know I look good even if I ain't blonde. In these 7 months that I been here I did have plenty of dates mainly from tinder and a couple of bumble. Some ended with a hot fiery session some were bad. I've been looking for... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating 28M, long term relationships still exist ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/owmdp8/dating_28m_long_term_relationships_still_exist/ |
Aj1286 | 2018-09-25 05:58:34 | 1,537,855,114 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 9ipmkz | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ipmkz/do_you_always_have_to_have_the_butterflies/ | 5 | I'm hoping you guys could give me some advice. I am 31F who became very cynical and wary of people after my breakup. Not sure if that fact is important here but I'll add it. I have been on two dates with a guy I met on bumble. He's nice, educated, cute, and seems to have his shit together. I find myself being my awkwar... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you always have to have the butterflies? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ipmkz/do_you_always_have_to_have_the_butterflies/ |
Paris95_ | 2024-09-08 19:40:07 | 1,725,824,407 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fc6amn | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1fc6amn/men_who_are_looking_for_serious_relationship_how/ | 2 | I always had relationships which evolved from friends woth benefits, but now I met a guy on a dating app who is looking for serious relationship. We went on our first date which was great. Drinks and a loooong walk for more than 4 hours. No touching, no mention of anything sexual. We started talking about second date a... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who are looking for serious relationship, how many dates before you become intimate? | 2 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fc6amn/men_who_are_looking_for_serious_relationship_how/ |
iatlo7762 | 2020-06-30 20:52:38 | 1,593,550,358 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hiw1le | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hiw1le/how_long_do_you_wait_before_moving_to_text_from/ | 1 | I'm (43F) fairly new to online dating and panicked warnings to BE CAREFUL! ring in my ears about giving out personal contact info. So I'm curious.... how long does it take you to move to exchanging numbers? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you wait before moving to text from an online dating connection? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hiw1le/how_long_do_you_wait_before_moving_to_text_from/ |
hotspriest | 2024-09-23 01:50:54 | 1,727,056,254 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fn9iyk | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fn9iyk/should_i_be_worried_that_he_keeps_changing_his/ | 0 | okay i don’t mean to sound crazy or anything but ive been seeing my fwb for about 5 months now and in the past month i have been checking out his profile here and there and he keeps changing things (mostly pictures) and not even to new stuff, they’re old pictures we have a great time together and i know he genuinely en... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | should i be worried that he keeps changing his hinge profile? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fn9iyk/should_i_be_worried_that_he_keeps_changing_his/ |
choronglee220322 | 2023-09-18 00:43:24 | 1,694,997,804 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16lh6w6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16lh6w6/pacing_during_early_relationships/ | 1 | I’ve (22 F) been on a couple dates with a guy(25 M) from Bumble and I’m completely smitten by him! he remembers the small details of our conversations and is so gentle with me. I really like him so much but I’m not sure when to tell him about my feelings, without scaring him off/jumping the gun, since it’s been less th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Pacing during early relationships?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16lh6w6/pacing_during_early_relationships/ |
Whomootou | 2022-06-05 00:33:28 | 1,654,389,208 | null | ['dating sites', 'pof'] | 0 | v51yhe | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/v51yhe/dating_sites/ | 3 | Curious, what dating sites are people over 50 using? I hate Match and POF. Any suggestions? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Dating Sites | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/v51yhe/dating_sites/ |
SendMeYourPlantPics | 2022-07-02 10:11:44 | 1,656,756,704 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | vpokr9 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vpokr9/how_do_you_interpret_looking_for_longterm_but/ | 0 | While these sound very similar, I wonder whether "Looking for long-term but open to short" sounds like "I'm happy with anything as long as we bang". In my case, I'm interested in a relationship and not in hookups. I'd put that I'm looking for a long-term relationship, but I may be moving soon and would be open to a sho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you interpret "Looking for long-term but open to short" versus "Long-term relationship" on a dating app? What does "short-term relationship" mean to you? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vpokr9/how_do_you_interpret_looking_for_longterm_but/ |
22101995 | 2020-10-26 19:18:01 | 1,603,739,881 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jil3hq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jil3hq/how_to_ask_smoothly_what_they_are_looking_for/ | 2 | Just got a situation where Im a bit confused. We (25F/M) connect so much irl, but then he ignores my messages on social media yet asks me to hang out often (the first day when we met he warned me he would take ages to answer and not to take it personal). He didn’t answer me for a week and now wants to meet up. I found ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to ask smoothly what they are looking for? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jil3hq/how_to_ask_smoothly_what_they_are_looking_for/ |
soyouha | 2015-08-31 21:48:27 | 1,441,057,707 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3j4zsg | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3j4zsg/m25_f22_2_weeks_between_first_and_second_date_how/ | 3 | I went on a Tinder date last week, and really clicked with the girl - we went for dinner and drinks, spent about 4 hours together, made out a little, and I walked her home. She's gone home to visit her family for a couple of weeks, so I won't get the chance to see her again for another week. We've been texting pretty m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M25, F22] 2 weeks between first and second date - how much texting is too much? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3j4zsg/m25_f22_2_weeks_between_first_and_second_date_how/ |
ThrowawayBay2 | 2015-08-28 21:37:27 | 1,440,797,847 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3iryyh | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3iryyh/online_dating_question_would_you_rather_i_tell/ | 4 | On one hand, responses can illicit persistence, which isn't welcome if I don't think we're a match. You can't convince me otherwise. But on the other hand, I don't want to leave a guy wondering why I'm not answering. It's not that you're horrible, you're just not right for me. Which would you rather, silence or flat ou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating question: Would you rather I tell you why I'm not interested in you, or just not respond to your message? | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3iryyh/online_dating_question_would_you_rather_i_tell/ |
freshmayo_ | 2024-08-03 18:38:19 | 1,722,710,299 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ejalwn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ejalwn/texting_stage_advice_needed/ | 1 | So I (25F) met this guy (27M) on a dating app. We’ve been texting for a month or so. I like him but he’s an extremely dry texter. Doesn’t come up with lots of questions or good ones. Sometimes he talks about how stressed or busy he is at work and I don’t know if that’s him signaling unavailability or not. I’m not sure ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | texting stage advice needed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ejalwn/texting_stage_advice_needed/ |
Dame_Ivy | 2024-07-21 16:15:19 | 1,721,578,519 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e8pxks | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e8pxks/tips_on_how_to_recognize_a_bad_match_before/ | 0 | When you (think) find the guy with whom you 'click', your brain goes into pink mode and until its to late, you dont realize that he might not be the best guy. I'm a magnet for manipulators, booty calls, ghosters. Only one guy with whom I was dumped me for a normal reason. (I reminded him to much of his ex, who I never ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips on how to recognize a bad match before getting serious? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e8pxks/tips_on_how_to_recognize_a_bad_match_before/ |
Throwaway13507 | 2015-07-22 12:29:22 | 1,437,568,162 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 3e6vx5 | null | null | 25 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3e6vx5/im_moving_in_with_my_girlfriend_in_2_months_and/ | 14 | I began talking to her in October last year through a dating app (three guesses which one?). Our situation is somewhat complicated so I'll try and explain it in the simplest way I can. For the purpose of this, lets name my girlfriend Juliet. Juliet is from a place called Town A (I'm not very creative), and I am from To... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm moving in with my girlfriend in 2 months, and I'm terrified | 14 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3e6vx5/im_moving_in_with_my_girlfriend_in_2_months_and/ |
Ok_Concentrate4886 | 2024-08-15 16:47:51 | 1,723,740,471 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1et023p | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1et023p/talked_to_a_guy_for_a_month_we_went_on_one_date/ | 4 | I've been talking to this guy I met through Facebook dating for a month, he convinced me to have intercourse with him for my health and we did then he ghosted me and now I don't know if I'm pregnant for he decided to do unprotected intercourse | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talked to a guy for a month, we went on one date and he ghosted me afterwards | 4 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1et023p/talked_to_a_guy_for_a_month_we_went_on_one_date/ |
cowboy_robot6 | 2021-05-07 04:28:59 | 1,620,361,739 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | n6qadj | true | Question | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n6qadj/is_tinder_worth_getting/ | 0 | Is tinder worth getting or should I just stick with the few avalible options I mabye have at Probly being rejected ? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is tinder worth getting ? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n6qadj/is_tinder_worth_getting/ |
ho-no-mo | 2021-11-29 22:28:48 | 1,638,224,928 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | r57gw1 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r57gw1/should_i_keep_chasing_or_let_it_go/ | 2 | First time dating a woman after a LTR breakup so I'm kind of out of the game here. I'm 23M and she's 21F. Met her on Hinge. We went to get boba and ice cream and had a pretty good conversation and we're pretty similar, we also went to something she was performing in before that. She also said it went pretty well and we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I keep chasing or let it go? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r57gw1/should_i_keep_chasing_or_let_it_go/ |
Excellent-Abrocoma53 | 2023-08-26 19:27:06 | 1,693,078,026 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16247ae | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16247ae/do_i_ask_an_exhookup_how_is_his_sick_mum_doing/ | 1 | So, this is a bit of a weird situation and IDK exactly how to behave. Last November, I (24F) had a couple of hookups and one month of non-stop texting with this guy (27M) I met on a dating app. We were both very adamant about not wanting a serious relationship at the time, especially not wanting exclusivity, but also v... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I ask an ex-hookup how is his sick mum doing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16247ae/do_i_ask_an_exhookup_how_is_his_sick_mum_doing/ |
MaychuChroma | 2022-03-21 23:25:28 | 1,647,905,128 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | tjp3dm | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tjp3dm/i_honestly_dont_know_where_to_go_from_here/ | 1 | I (24/NB) have been attempting to talk to people online as many do. I feel stuck in a loop however. I’ve tried every dating site under the sun it seems and nothing seems to work. Of course the debate comes up if I paid for a subscription or not and to answer that question, I do not pay for that. It’s honestly so scummy... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I honestly don’t know where to go from here. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tjp3dm/i_honestly_dont_know_where_to_go_from_here/ |
chmcndle | 2023-08-09 01:58:20 | 1,691,546,300 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15m1lrs | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15m1lrs/asked_me_to_be_his_gf_and_dumped_me_a_week_later/ | 1 | I (24F) met a guy (26M) on tinder and we started talking and hanging out. He was attractive, the sex was good, and he was nice. However I knew our personalities didn’t mesh all that well. The fourth time we hung out he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said it was too soon which he didn’t seem to mind very much. We had ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asked me to be his gf and “dumped” me a week later | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15m1lrs/asked_me_to_be_his_gf_and_dumped_me_a_week_later/ |
zph0eniz | 2020-03-25 02:56:15 | 1,585,104,975 | null | null | 0 | foivw0 | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/foivw0/anyone_else_often_want_to_start_online_dating_but/ | 38 | as much as i want to start meeting others again, often find i dont really go on dating app or try. at first, it was just to take time to recover from breakup and get thru some big life changes. but now find the thought of improving profiles, like making a legit good one takes so much work. especially as a guy, it seems... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | anyone else often want to start online dating, but keep putting it off or half ass it briefly? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/foivw0/anyone_else_often_want_to_start_online_dating_but/ |
maxi_1602_ | 2023-02-13 12:09:52 | 1,676,290,192 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1116qqh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1116qqh/how_to_understand_if_someone_is_in_your_league/ | 1 | Maybe it seems a weird question but I think at the end we people tend to look for something we are comfortable with and we try to look for people in our range. I'm trying to use dating apps and how can I vet people in the way to understand if they are in my league? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to understand if someone is in your league? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1116qqh/how_to_understand_if_someone_is_in_your_league/ |
Throwaway124636 | 2019-12-09 10:01:47 | 1,575,885,707 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e881su | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e881su/am_i_being_played_with/ | 4 | So I met this girl on tinder and we set plans on hooking up on Saturday. Friday comes we talk on snap to get to know each other more, I guess because of that convo we had she wanted to come over on Friday. I already made plans to study all day so I had to tell her no( in reality my room was just too much of a mess for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being played with? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e881su/am_i_being_played_with/ |
Titanium_Tigerz_ | 2021-03-09 17:17:24 | 1,615,310,244 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | m1b8a0 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m1b8a0/starting_dating_again/ | 1 | I have went on a couple dates (like literally three) each with a different person within the last two years, but I am just so awkward and quiet and I think that is a turn off cause they never text or call again. How do I get better at this? Also all 3 dates were via tinder | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Starting dating again | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m1b8a0/starting_dating_again/ |
IlluminationRock | 2016-12-14 22:55:23 | 1,481,756,123 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5idtx7 | null | null | 45 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5idtx7/romanticsexual_frustration_is_killing_me/ | 35 | 26/M. I've been single for so long. I know that I'm young and that this kind of thinking is totally irrational, but its beginning to feel like I'm trapped, like time is running out. I feel so frustrated that when I see women I perceive as being even moderately attractive I'm overcome with a certain angst or frustration... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Romantic/Sexual frustration is killing me. | 35 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5idtx7/romanticsexual_frustration_is_killing_me/ |
SlowitdownBroitdown | 2024-03-17 18:24:11 | 1,710,699,851 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bh4jql | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bh4jql/u_ever_been_in_a_phase_where_your_environment/ | 2 | My hand is pretty forced here. I used to feast off dating apps and they are declining. But in my city, Madison. They are completely dead. Done. At least for now. I been wanting to move off the apps... but my wingman is now in a relationship... Well now all my friends are in a relationship. So my network is completely c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | U Ever Been In a Phase Where Your Environment Completely Shuts You Off From Dating World? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bh4jql/u_ever_been_in_a_phase_where_your_environment/ |
HeavyTa | 2024-04-03 02:58:43 | 1,712,113,123 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1buhyzn | true | Question ❓ | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1buhyzn/is_online_dating_worth_a_shot/ | 1 | I'm a 20(M), I genuinely don't know what to think about this I've been considering it simply because I'm a introvert but some days I feel very sociable plus it's gotten even harder to really try and find someone ever since I started work and have become a soccer coach for kids, I have really no free time and I just don... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is online dating worth a shot? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1buhyzn/is_online_dating_worth_a_shot/ |
HungarianXSenpai1 | 2023-02-11 20:55:10 | 1,676,148,910 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 10zxoz5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10zxoz5/the_ideal_online_dating_profile_for_a_man/ | 2 | Hey everyone, Hope the weekend is going well. Could use some advice. I've been working on me. Some backstory, I was in a relationship for 13 years (I'm 32,M). and well, I've been single for about 10 months now. I've created a couple of online dating profiles, But I have to be honest, maybe I'm investing too much into i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The ideal online dating profile for a man? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10zxoz5/the_ideal_online_dating_profile_for_a_man/ |
spraypraythrowaway | 2018-12-08 01:08:04 | 1,544,231,284 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | a466se | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a466se/looking_for_someone_to_review_my_dating_app/ | 1 | Edit: thanks for the feedback, everyone. I’m definitely going to make some of the changes suggested. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looking for someone to review my dating app profiles | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a466se/looking_for_someone_to_review_my_dating_app/ |
BeginningSure7296 | 2021-06-15 05:40:09 | 1,623,735,609 | null | ['badoo'] | 0 | o06urb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o06urb/whole_story_is_in_text/ | 1 | So, hello, I have met a very attractive girl on Badoo and she lives just 5-10 km away from me. She likes to walk and ride a bike, which is same hobby as me. I suggested that we can go for a walk but she told me that we do not know each other well and that she is scared from it being embarassing and we will have nothing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Whole story is in text | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o06urb/whole_story_is_in_text/ |
EnlightenedOctopus | 2020-05-30 19:11:56 | 1,590,865,916 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | gtjva9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gtjva9/im_obsessed_with_a_girl_i_havent_met/ | 0 | Hi, (this not a really relevant introduction) I'm Arthur a 21 year French boy studying IT. My ex broke up with me about a year ago. And since then I've tried lots of dating apps with not much success (I didn't feel I shared anything with the few girls I matched). I don't think I'm particularly unattractive but well Tin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm obsessed with a girl I haven't met | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gtjva9/im_obsessed_with_a_girl_i_havent_met/ |
ConnectWithYoga | 2024-08-15 01:12:13 | 1,723,684,333 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1esid7t | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1esid7t/introvert_unsuccessful_in_dating/ | 1 | I am 32M and an introvert typically not a person who likes to mingle with people much. But on the other side I too have dating needs which just don’t get fulfilled because I don’t have any connection. I tried my best to connect with people but never succeeded in it. All these dating apps are just waste of time and mone... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Introvert - Unsuccessful in dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1esid7t/introvert_unsuccessful_in_dating/ |
RockOx290 | 2022-01-21 21:03:50 | 1,642,799,030 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s9kwer | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s9kwer/need_advice_bad_almost_30m_and_never_dated/ | 3 | Alright this is gonna be a long one. In my rant I’ll start by describing myself and the questions I have. I just turned 28 and left an almost 10 year relationship back in about May. It wasn’t a terribly bad break up, still wasn’t good. Currently her and I are on no speaking terms just because there’s too much between u... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice bad! Almost 30M and never dated. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s9kwer/need_advice_bad_almost_30m_and_never_dated/ |
vitamin-cheese | 2019-08-21 23:48:58 | 1,566,431,338 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | ctp7sd | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ctp7sd/i_want_to_date_but_dont_want_to_meet_anybody/ | 9 | I’m 27 and I want to start dating. I can’t really say I’ve ever been on a real date. In the past I used to just meet woman while I was out and at parties and classes and things like that, just through natural chance of meeting, I would never really approach and hit on anyone, but I was also very stubborn . I haven’t ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to date but don’t want to meet anybody? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ctp7sd/i_want_to_date_but_dont_want_to_meet_anybody/ |
ads5531 | 2024-03-08 01:06:18 | 1,709,859,978 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b9atfv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9atfv/help_needed/ | 2 | I need a female perspective to help me with my profile please. Preferably someone in thr age range of 26-40 I would really appreciate it ladies | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help needed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9atfv/help_needed/ |
FriedWanderer | 2022-03-31 00:18:13 | 1,648,685,893 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | tsn7qa | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tsn7qa/so_i_got_her_snapnumber_whats_next/ | 1 | Every time I meet a girl through online dating we chat great on the app and then when it goes to social media or numbers it just dies out I don’t really know how to progress things from there or progress things during conversation. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So I got her snap/number what’s next? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tsn7qa/so_i_got_her_snapnumber_whats_next/ |
[deleted] | 2014-09-01 01:18:48 | 1,409,534,328 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2f4p85 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2f4p85/why_am_i_constantly_plagued_with_self_doubt_when/ | 11 | I was in a 6 year LTR, we were happy for long periods but she cheated on me twice, and the second time I decided enough was enough and broke it off for good, despite her trying to get us back together. Before said relationship, I had only been with a few different women and they lasted a very short time (a few months e... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why am I constantly plagued with self doubt when it comes to relationships? | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2f4p85/why_am_i_constantly_plagued_with_self_doubt_when/ |
Mamabeardan | 2018-07-19 02:21:05 | 1,531,966,865 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 901swx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/901swx/scared_no_one_will_date_me_because_i_have_a_child/ | 5 | I just got out of a 2 year long relationship a few months ago and am starting to dip my toes into the dating scene. I set up a few online dating accounts and haven’t had much luck with getting dates. This is making me very discouraged and I wonder if I’m undatable because I’m a package deal. To give some insight- my so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Scared no one will date me because I have a child (25F) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/901swx/scared_no_one_will_date_me_because_i_have_a_child/ |
FruitcakeAndCats | 2023-06-25 14:52:35 | 1,687,704,755 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14io7pg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14io7pg/i_thought_that_i_was_too_old_for_this_nonsense/ | 2 | Note I posted a much longer version of this on the Dating Over Forty subreddit. Lots of people asked for a TL;DR version, which I produced, but which was then deleted by the moderators, which in the circumstances seems very hostile, so I thought that it would be helpful to post somewhere that will hopefully be more wel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I thought that I was too old for this nonsense | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14io7pg/i_thought_that_i_was_too_old_for_this_nonsense/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-05 22:15:44 | 1,604,614,544 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | josdwx | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/josdwx/m_25_having_trouble_finding_a_date/ | 1 | While a lot of people have established relationship problems, I have problems starting one. I guess I burned out from a lot of bad experiences with women but I am also an introvert so I think a lot but I don't really talk much. Honestly, with this pandemic and working from home, I don't have much of a life. I sold my x... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M (25) Having trouble finding a date. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/josdwx/m_25_having_trouble_finding_a_date/ |
Sea-Contribution9498 | 2024-01-25 04:54:29 | 1,706,158,469 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 19f1d66 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19f1d66/calling_a_spade_a_spade/ | 2 | I (26f) happened to have a hard time finding love. I had an very impromptu Tinder fling for New Year’s Eve. Matched with an older gentleman (38m). Wanted clean fun, did our short exchange on who we are and what we are looking for. We ended up going out to lunch near his place. It was nice he gave me good vibes not on s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Calling a Spade a Spade ♠️ | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19f1d66/calling_a_spade_a_spade/ |
friedfish95 | 2023-08-17 19:40:34 | 1,692,301,234 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15txfk5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15txfk5/is_it_better_to_accept_a_ghosting_or_get_closure/ | 1 | I have some doubts about silently accepting being ghosted. My situation is some texting with a girl off Hinge before she moved here with an offer to get coffee. No plans ever made officially, but I always got replies, etc. I know the signs. I've always initiated, and have left the ball in her court to answer wheen she'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it better to accept a ghosting or get closure? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15txfk5/is_it_better_to_accept_a_ghosting_or_get_closure/ |
Content-Consequence4 | 2023-11-07 21:59:09 | 1,699,394,349 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17q5rdf | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17q5rdf/feel_like_im_going_to_be_single_forever/ | 1 | I was recently ghosted and lied to for months by a girl who claimed to love me, and could see a future with me, and now I'm back on dating app. Iit's been 2 weeks no matches at All except by possible bots cause I'm not paying for premiums. I don't go to clubs or bars just not my thing, and If I do see a girl I'm attrac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feel like I'm going to be single forever | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17q5rdf/feel_like_im_going_to_be_single_forever/ |
Panthrard | 2024-07-22 19:36:20 | 1,721,676,980 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e9n7g7 | true | Seeking Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1e9n7g7/potential_for_marriage_kids_near_40/ | 0 | Apologize I know this is Dating Over 40, but figured this sub might be more insightful than Dating Over 30 because I'm 40 and she is closer to 40 than 30. 40m & 38f Met a lady right after New Years and really connected with her . We've been seeing each other since January & exclusive since February. We started going on... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Potential For Marriage & Kids Near 40 | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e9n7g7/potential_for_marriage_kids_near_40/ |
sllr143 | 2021-12-05 07:32:52 | 1,638,689,572 | null | null | 0 | r9ag5n | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r9ag5n/date_3_update/ | 6 | I know most of y’all don’t care, but I was asked to update about the guy I’ve been dating after my last date (see post history). Tonight we went to dinner and to a comedy club (he paid for everything again and refused my offer to pay for anything). It was awesome and I finally got my kiss (shoutout to the two who said ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Date 3 Update | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r9ag5n/date_3_update/ |
amsterdam_BTS | 2017-07-06 01:05:49 | 1,499,303,149 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 6lidjg | null | null | 42 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6lidjg/so_this_old_stuff_is_kinda_fun/ | 13 | Given the in the air nature of my long distance love interest and that the urging of close friends, I made an OKC profile. Like, three days ago. Typically I wallow in misery for months or years after a relationship ends or goes fuzzy, but I decided that's never made me happy, so might as well throw a line out and see w... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So this OLD stuff is ... kinda fun? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6lidjg/so_this_old_stuff_is_kinda_fun/ |
Comfortable_Rip5421 | 2023-09-04 22:41:20 | 1,693,867,280 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16a6kd2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16a6kd2/dating_a_girl_but_has_a_flaky_behavior/ | 1 | I[M,27] met this girl[27] on a dating app a month ago. We have met 4 times until now. 1st at a restaurant and the 3 times at her place. So on the 2nd date she canceled cause some relatives of her were gonna visit her and she hasn't mentioned about the dating to her family. So, she reschedules the date and we meet and h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a girl but has a flaky behavior. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16a6kd2/dating_a_girl_but_has_a_flaky_behavior/ |
freebird2019 | 2023-04-15 03:34:48 | 1,681,529,688 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 12mojeg | true | null | 257 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/12mojeg/im_giving_up/ | 44 | I have tried several dating sites. I’m a 57 year old woman, slim, professional, attractive. I cannot find any men my age to date. The men reaching out to me are either twenty-something looking for a good time, or men my age or older who are completely not suitable for me. I’m not sure why a man with tattoos covering 90... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | I’m giving up. | 44 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/12mojeg/im_giving_up/ |
selfskeptic03 | 2018-07-17 00:58:41 | 1,531,789,121 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8zgo35 | true | I Need Advice | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8zgo35/i_cant_get_a_date_am_i_doing_something_wrong/ | 3 | Quick and dirty background, semi vague just for anonymity. I'm in my early twenties, I'm very physically active, Drink very rarely if it all, don't smoke, have a decent job, working towards a degree in tech or a fitness related field. Drive a late 90's car just to save money. Work at a decent company with opportunity t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can't get a date, Am i doing something wrong? (X-post from r/dating_advice the more advice the merrier) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8zgo35/i_cant_get_a_date_am_i_doing_something_wrong/ |
taover30draw | 2017-07-25 18:31:42 | 1,501,007,502 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6pi5fw | null | null | 21 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/6pi5fw/guys_who_are_online_dating_how_do_i_make_the/ | 0 | I (a lady) have been talking with a guy for three days now. We currently talk about TV shows and stuff like that. How do I make it more interesting and less boring? How do I get to know him better without being too pushy? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Guys who are online dating, how do I make the conversation interesting and not forced? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6pi5fw/guys_who_are_online_dating_how_do_i_make_the/ |
Upstairs-Pizza-3015 | 2024-09-24 00:47:49 | 1,727,138,869 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fo06dn | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fo06dn/do_you_ever_feel_like_dating_apps_do_you_dirty/ | 1 | I feel as if I am pretty good looking. I have a good body, good face. I am right about average height or right below. All of the women I’ve been in relationships with have been objectively attractive women. But I haven’t dated in 5 years. And now I almost never match with an attractive woman. Is height really the facto... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you ever feel like dating apps do you dirty? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fo06dn/do_you_ever_feel_like_dating_apps_do_you_dirty/ |
IlluminationRock | 2016-11-21 17:21:09 | 1,479,748,869 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5e57ly | null | Venting | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/5e57ly/im_really_struggling/ | 4 | 26/M here. I just can't seem to catch a break. I've recently deleted Tinder, but I spent a good 6 months using the app. Went on a LOT of dates. Most of the women I met I wasn't terribly interested in, but there were a few. Maybe 3-5 girls who I felt a genuine attraction to. Each and every one of them rejected me when I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm really struggling. | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5e57ly/im_really_struggling/ |
Possible-Bet3981 | 2023-11-22 16:52:34 | 1,700,671,954 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 181druy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/181druy/i_cant_get_matches/ | 1 | I (26f) can’t get any matches, and on the odd occasion I do they don’t talk to me. I’m around 5’3, blonde, around 6/10, have a good job, am slim, and live in London. I don’t know why I’m struggling so much to get any interest from men as it wasn’t historically like this in my early 20s. I currently have my filters to a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can’t get matches | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/181druy/i_cant_get_matches/ |
totreefor | 2020-12-27 20:12:42 | 1,609,099,962 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | klaipc | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/klaipc/why_do_some_men_ghost_women_and_dont_say_no/ | 1 | In summer I (25F) met this guy (26M) on Tinder. We went out once. The date went alright, however at the time I was healing after abusive relationship, so it was hard for me to let ppl close. He knew about it. We never gotten to a second date, because I took a pause in dating. Now and then he kept commenting on my IG st... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do some men ghost women and don't say "no" directly? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/klaipc/why_do_some_men_ghost_women_and_dont_say_no/ |
Shallnotbenamed21 | 2022-10-19 01:44:54 | 1,666,143,894 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | y7pdy5 | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y7pdy5/should_you_unmatch_your_ex_now_that_you_broken_up/ | 13 | Met my ex on a dating app. We had conversations there. Should I unmatch now? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should you unmatch your ex now that you broken up? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y7pdy5/should_you_unmatch_your_ex_now_that_you_broken_up/ |
Cool_Ad_21 | 2023-07-22 21:48:23 | 1,690,062,503 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 156wc2m | false | Long Distance ✈️ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/156wc2m/how_and_where_can_i_get_to_know_girls_from/ | 1 | Hey, 26M here, im going to move to canada in more or less 2 years, and i'd love to make friends from canada/us, people who i can hang out, try getting a girlfriend? any apps? dating sites? gaming friends? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How and where can i get to know girls from canada/us? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/156wc2m/how_and_where_can_i_get_to_know_girls_from/ |
KaivaUwU | 2024-01-29 05:24:01 | 1,706,505,841 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1adnlu3 | false | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1adnlu3/would_you_use_a_couple_photo_as_a_profile_picture/ | 1 | A photo of you and your brother, or you and your sister, or you and your mother.... standing really close, like a couple.... as a profile picture on your social media page?? Or a couple-y photo of you and your platonic best friend? Would you do that? Like personally I consider the profile picture to be something you ei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you use a couple photo as a profile picture on social media, with... someone OTHER than your lover? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1adnlu3/would_you_use_a_couple_photo_as_a_profile_picture/ |
Blademan662 | 2020-05-13 05:49:22 | 1,589,348,962 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | git04j | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/git04j/need_some_advice/ | 3 | So I (22M) got matched with a girl (20F) on tinder during quarantine. We had a lot of good conversations, and I genuinely felt a connection as we were talking. However, the problem is that I always message her first and even though she says that she enjoys talking with me, she never messages first. And our conversation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/git04j/need_some_advice/ |
zozo_top | 2013-08-11 12:51:27 | 1,376,225,487 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1k53un | null | null | 23 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1k53un/my_f24_boyfriend_m33_is_a_converted_bad_boyhes/ | 3 | Before my current bf (let's call him C) I'd had very little relationship experience. Lots of men pursued me, dated me for a few dates, etc but I never really felt much chemistry or connection with the so it didn't last long. My longest relationship was about 6 months, was my first "serious" commitment, the boy I lost m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My (F24) boyfriend (M33) is a converted 'bad boy'...he's done all the right things in our relationship but I can't let go of his past...need some advice from you ladies! | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1k53un/my_f24_boyfriend_m33_is_a_converted_bad_boyhes/ |
Goth_nightmare | 2023-05-10 06:03:17 | 1,683,698,597 | 0 | null | 0 | 13dhwal | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13dhwal/dating_with_sh_scars/ | 3 | I know that I am not alone in this and that SH scars are more commonly seen these days, but has anyone else struggled with going on dates with healed scars? I’ve been clean for over 7 years but obviously have visible scarring and I feel that I am super conscious of them on dates and what my date thinks of them. Obvious... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating with SH scars | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13dhwal/dating_with_sh_scars/ |
Defenesized | 2024-01-06 03:26:17 | 1,704,511,577 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18zq7l7 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18zq7l7/where_do_i_find_people_looking_to_date_what_am_i/ | 1 | Hi I'm a 29yo M and I have high-functioning autism and ADHD. I'm just looking for advice on how to navigate dating because everything I've tried hasn't worked. I tried every dating app there is since 2013 and have had collectively one date and maybe around ten or so matches that actually get a response from the initial... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do I find people looking to date/ what am I doing wrong?(Autistic) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18zq7l7/where_do_i_find_people_looking_to_date_what_am_i/ |
TheStylishFemdom9808 | 2022-02-09 01:07:03 | 1,644,368,823 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | so0e7o | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/so0e7o/ive_been_trying_to_date_for_so_long_and_nothing/ | 4 | I’ve never had much luck with relationships in my life tbh. I’ve had multiple “things” with guys, but it’s never gotten to be serious. Most guys I’ve been with have played me and I’ve gained a lot of baggage I feel like unfortunately from this happening. It’s hard for me to trust someone and I’m terrified that when the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’ve been trying to date for so long and nothing seems to stick for me. I feel like I’m so lost at this point | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/so0e7o/ive_been_trying_to_date_for_so_long_and_nothing/ |
JamieAtlas | 2023-01-03 21:01:32 | 1,672,779,692 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 102jb33 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/102jb33/confusing_definition/ | 1 | Hey guys, I'm an older guy (49) dating a younger lady (35) and after a 4 weeks of dating and sleeping together a few times she said she didn't want to be "one of many" and I said "so you only want to sleep with each other", to which she agreed. Fast forward 2 weeks later and she mentions offhand to me she went on a dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | confusing definition | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/102jb33/confusing_definition/ |
rebelsinferno | 2020-03-23 03:33:39 | 1,584,934,419 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fnd7np | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fnd7np/question_is_it_weird_trying_to_reconnect_with_a/ | 3 | So i matched with this girl on Tinder almost 2 years ago. We enjoyed our talks, but when we went out, nothing happened, and a few days laters we began drifting apart. Now, every time I log on social networks I see her profile as a suggestion. Does this mean anything? Should I try and reconnect or leave it be? I know th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [Question] Is it weird trying to reconnect with a former Tinder match? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fnd7np/question_is_it_weird_trying_to_reconnect_with_a/ |
liloiloveyou | 2019-08-01 03:14:16 | 1,564,629,256 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ckirjh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ckirjh/boycotting_exs/ | 1 | Why do guys stay away from dating sites after a bad breakup | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Boycotting ex's?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ckirjh/boycotting_exs/ |
Phuongmai77 | 2024-08-24 00:26:38 | 1,724,459,198 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ezscj8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ezscj8/i_am_going_through_a_divorce_i_was_in_an_abusive/ | 1 | It was an emotional and physical abuse relationship and I found out he was cheated on me last July. I was in so much pain but also in the back of my head, I felt like we should have divorced earlier. A week later, I downloaded dating app and talked with a guy. We only text but I really enjoyed our conversation. But I s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am going through a divorce, I was in an abusive relationship. If I talk with someone now, does it count as a rebound? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ezscj8/i_am_going_through_a_divorce_i_was_in_an_abusive/ |
rodys123 | 2019-12-03 08:42:01 | 1,575,362,521 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | e5ea5h | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e5ea5h/should_i_stop_texting_this_guy_is_it_a_waste_of/ | 3 | So I’ve been texting for a few weeks with a colleague I don’t know very well. But I am interested in him, and judging by the fact we matched on a dating app I think he is interested in me as well. I don’t really like texting so after a couple of days I texted him if he wanted to go for a drink sometime. He said that he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I stop texting this guy? Is it a waste of my/our time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e5ea5h/should_i_stop_texting_this_guy_is_it_a_waste_of/ |
plantsfortherapy | 2021-08-18 18:28:10 | 1,629,311,290 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | p6x3uv | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p6x3uv/hinge_profile_feedback/ | 17 | Hey datingoverthirty I’d love some feedback on my profile if anyone is willing. Thanks https://imgur.com/a/rsoAy2z Edit: updates after feedback. Thanks everyone https://imgur.com/a/UdZYr6Z | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Hinge Profile feedback. | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p6x3uv/hinge_profile_feedback/ |
baelaef | 2019-01-24 06:34:25 | 1,548,311,665 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | aj9pcc | true | Vent/Rant | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aj9pcc/i_f23_dont_want_to_date_men_anymore_basically_a/ | 2 | After constant disappointment from men my entire life, I really don't want to deal with men anymore. But of course, sexuality ain't a choice and even though I'm pansexual that doesn't mean I can't stop my dumbass from acting like a lovesick fool when some dude acts attractive and hits on me. And then they'll give me th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [f/23] don't want to date men anymore (basically a rant but also need advice) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aj9pcc/i_f23_dont_want_to_date_men_anymore_basically_a/ |
alsciarra | 2024-06-06 00:18:32 | 1,717,633,112 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d954zr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d954zr/went_from_non_stop_showered_with_complements_to/ | 1 | Hi all, Before I start I understand it's completely fair and ok and normal for anyone to change their mind about not feeling it at any point. I'm not placing blame on him, just want to get some clarity on the situation for myself to feel a sense of closure without talking to him. I matched with a guy two Fridays ago. H... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went from non stop, showered with complements to him saying it’s not a connection | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d954zr/went_from_non_stop_showered_with_complements_to/ |
d27afae18b1d4 | 2019-06-24 22:18:59 | 1,561,414,739 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | c4wz6q | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c4wz6q/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_im_going_on_dates/ | 5 | I'm 27M, never dated anyone before. Now been on two dates with a really interesting woman I met on Hinge. But, I haven't managed to hold her hand or kiss or or treat her any differently really than I would a friend. She's indicated that she wants to have a third date, and I know I should really do something more this t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For the first time in my life I'm going on dates and I feel like a dog that catches a rabbit and then doesn't know what to do with it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c4wz6q/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_im_going_on_dates/ |
ZephyrBrightmoon | 2023-01-09 09:43:53 | 1,673,257,433 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 107acz6 | true | Seeking Advice | 102 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/107acz6/what_kind_of_old_profile_to_write_to_find_a_gamer/ | 1 | Do these kind of men use OLD (OnLine Dating apps) or have a lot of them decided that most women don't want "man child losers" so have given up? I honestly don't care how old a guy is as long as he's 30+ as I doubt younger dudes want to date a lady past her 40s seriously for potential marriage. XD Younger guys are more ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What kind of OLD profile to write to find a gamer geek anime fan guy over 40? | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/107acz6/what_kind_of_old_profile_to_write_to_find_a_gamer/ |
yellow_pterodactyl | 2020-01-17 11:37:46 | 1,579,261,066 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | epz9bt | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 67 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/epz9bt/do_not_followfriend_request_someone_you_find_on_a/ | 137 | I do not have my last name, or social media on my dating apps because I do not know you, so I don’t want you to find me if we haven’t matched. I am not interested in followers. I do not need likes. It’s a dating etiquette that maybe isn’t as a ‘big deal’ to some, but it should JUST be the default if I have no trace of ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do not follow/friend request someone you find on a dating app. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/epz9bt/do_not_followfriend_request_someone_you_find_on_a/ |
swordsandstuff | 2021-08-25 11:19:02 | 1,629,890,342 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | pb95xu | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pb95xu/too_intimidated_by_beauty/ | 0 | For context, I (36M) am reasonably attractive but pretty awkward socially, which I definitely have a few reservations about. Swiping through Tinder, feeling desperate, so thought I'd broaden the net a bit and swipe right on some of those glamorous girls that are too lazy/boring/unmotivated to write a profile... aaaaand... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Too intimidated by beauty | null | 0.26 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pb95xu/too_intimidated_by_beauty/ |
-Tommyboy- | 2016-06-08 00:20:20 | 1,465,345,220 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4n29gz | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4n29gz/meeting_a_girl_for_the_second_time/ | 1 | Ok, so I have chatted just a little bit with this girl met on Tinder lately. First time we met was at this party at her school-dorm where I went to because a childhood friend of mine whom she also know went to the same school as her. He therefore suggested that I joined the party which I did. I ended up in her apartmen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting a girl for the second time | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4n29gz/meeting_a_girl_for_the_second_time/ |
Joseias_BR | 2021-06-04 13:49:36 | 1,622,814,576 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ns5km5 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ns5km5/i_believe_i_am_hurting_myself_with_too_high/ | 0 | This is more of a rant.... I (19M) don't have really high standarts for women. I have a nieche. Women out of this nieche have 0% chance with me. For myself tho..... I feel I must always keep improving, pumping iron, working on personality, doing things, dressing well. It is quite sad actually, I always feel uncapable, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I believe I am hurting myself with too high standarts for myself. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ns5km5/i_believe_i_am_hurting_myself_with_too_high/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-13 00:40:29 | 1,405,212,029 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 2ajt5b | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ajt5b/i_have_aspergers_can_anyone_help/ | 7 | Heya. I am a 23 year old male foreveralone hugless, kissless, virgin. As it turns out, every year that goes past like this is significantly more miserable than the last. The problem is that I has aspergers syndrome (a form of autism) and have a lot of difficulty doing... well... anything in public. I want a meaningful ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have aspergers, can anyone help? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ajt5b/i_have_aspergers_can_anyone_help/ |
nessa_from_ns | 2022-02-11 13:43:37 | 1,644,587,017 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | spzqsh | true | null | 91 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/spzqsh/dating_with_kids/ | 0 | This is going to sound awful, but here goes I'm a single 42 y/o f trying to get into OLD. I never really had to do this before. At first I was avoiding men with kids, I do have a son myself but I wasn't really looking to be a step parent to anyone else. I know this seems selfish Recently I decided to open up my bubble ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating with kids! | null | 0.39 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/spzqsh/dating_with_kids/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-21 19:28:50 | 1,405,970,930 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2bbmv1 | null | null | 21 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/2bbmv1/those_of_you_that_use_online_dating_how_often_do/ | 9 | Also, if you had to hazard a guess, what percentage of your incoming messages would you say it is? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Those of you that use online dating, how often do you get vulgar messages? | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/2bbmv1/those_of_you_that_use_online_dating_how_often_do/ |
Left_Bed_9379 | 2021-09-23 02:42:40 | 1,632,364,960 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ptlu23 | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ptlu23/32m_is_it_okay_if_i_am_completely_honest_in_a/ | 9 | So far no successful matches. I wanted to know from a different perspective if being brutally honest by mentioning my weaknesses would look good in my dating profile (ex: never having a gf, living in a room for rent, making less than 30K a year). | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (32M) Is it okay if I am completely honest in a dating profile? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ptlu23/32m_is_it_okay_if_i_am_completely_honest_in_a/ |
Curamia | 2024-05-04 00:03:35 | 1,714,781,015 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cjn1fn | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cjn1fn/how_to_find_an_intelligent_and_high_eq_date/ | 1 | Hey all, I am a 38y old F, with a good job, intellectually curious, looking for a lonerm relationship, divorced. Is there any dating app in the US to find professionals, in the mid 30s to 40s, which made up their life, people you can have great conversations with, is sensitive, emotionally intelligent? Not stopping to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find an intelligent and high EQ date? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cjn1fn/how_to_find_an_intelligent_and_high_eq_date/ |
throwRA2719292 | 2023-04-19 15:26:28 | 1,681,917,988 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 12rxlnj | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12rxlnj/how_do_i_tell_a_girl_that_drugs_are_my_dealbreaker/ | 1 | I’m 26M. I’ve recently broken up with a girl because she was doing drugs when she went to events and honestly I just wasn’t comfortable with it. Since then, I’ve noticed how many people do them. Im not joking, of the last 50 people I matched with on hinge, 99% of them do either coke or ketamine when they go out. It’s f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I tell a girl that drugs are my dealbreaker | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12rxlnj/how_do_i_tell_a_girl_that_drugs_are_my_dealbreaker/ |
helpmeffs191919 | 2020-11-04 21:35:59 | 1,604,525,759 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | jo5jl1 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jo5jl1/i_m19_met_a_girl_f19_through_tinder_and_now_shes/ | 1 | Hear me out it wasn’t a typical first date or anything... Skip This (until ‘to the case’) if you don’t want to go in-depth: So, i matched through tinder with this girl i found very cute. We hit it off pretty quickly and we added each other on snap. She asked me what i was looking for, and i told her i take it as it is,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M19) met a girl (F19) through Tinder, and now she’s being very distant...? [TL;DR] at bottom | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jo5jl1/i_m19_met_a_girl_f19_through_tinder_and_now_shes/ |
margottt93 | 2022-03-31 21:58:46 | 1,648,763,926 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ttavzk | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ttavzk/i_have_been_on_500_dates_and_i_still_havent_met/ | 3 | I (28F) really long for relationship, I see people around me getting married, having kids and I really dont want anything else so much as to finally find a partner. I had two longer term relationships - 3 years and 1 year but in both cases I kind of chose a person based on their qualities not because I would be madly i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have been on 500 dates and I still haven't met the one. What am I doing wrong? | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ttavzk/i_have_been_on_500_dates_and_i_still_havent_met/ |
Palmetto89 | 2021-03-21 11:42:42 | 1,616,326,962 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | m9uxup | true | Question | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m9uxup/anyone_here_found_that_their_dating_prospects/ | 7 | I moved back home to Charleston, SC in 2015 after a death in my family and something that I’ve noticed since moving back all those years ago is that my dating life isn’t as exciting as when I lived in Chicago previously. I’m glad to be back in my hometown where I’m close to my family and it’s a beautiful place to live ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone here found that their dating prospects improved when they moved to a larger city or even just visited a larger city? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m9uxup/anyone_here_found_that_their_dating_prospects/ |
ihavesixmagikarps | 2019-02-25 14:32:33 | 1,551,105,153 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | aulul3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/aulul3/ever_went_through_some_time_where_you_had_dates/ | 17 | I'm starting to think there's something really wrong with me. To put in context, I'm 26M and some issued caused by bullying and overweight led me to never have been in a relationship. I'm now in a stable job and feel good with myself so I decided to put myself out there, mostly with online dating since my friends say t... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Ever went through some time where you had dates but never clicked with anyone? How did that end? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/aulul3/ever_went_through_some_time_where_you_had_dates/ |
Appropriate_Tea9048 | 2023-01-02 22:26:01 | 1,672,698,361 | null | null | 0 | 101pr8a | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/101pr8a/why_are_some_people_unable_to_hold_a_conversation/ | 17 | I’m talking about within the first few messages. I don’t understand why it’s so hard. You know almost nothing about the person, so you have endless options for topics to talk about. I feel like I do a good job at keeping the conversation going or getting it started I usually match with guys who put in the same amount o... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why are some people unable to hold a conversation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/101pr8a/why_are_some_people_unable_to_hold_a_conversation/ |
UniqueVariety1558 | 2023-07-15 06:07:58 | 1,689,401,278 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1503s7n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1503s7n/honestly_dont_know_what_to_do_anymore/ | 2 | I've tried dating apps in person dates and have gotten no luck on even getting one date or match not sure if it's due to appearance or anything like that I'm a genuine guy who cares but have been shut down way to many times and honestly have never said anything about it and I don't know what to do anymore so I'm on her... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Honestly don't know what to do anymore | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1503s7n/honestly_dont_know_what_to_do_anymore/ |
Appropriate-Toe-7763 | 2024-02-13 17:49:32 | 1,707,846,572 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1apzmvz | false | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1apzmvz/how_hard_is_it_to_change_the_mind_of_an_onlyfans/ | 1 | I matched with one on Tinder and I know she’s only sees me as another subscriber but she’s really pretty. I know it sounds hopeless but I’m genuinely curious of what one would have to do to persuade them to see you as a potential dating partner, can you only date them if you know them in real life or do you need 10/10 ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How hard is it to change the mind of an OnlyFans girl | 1 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1apzmvz/how_hard_is_it_to_change_the_mind_of_an_onlyfans/ |
GuessIFuckedIt | 2014-12-01 18:59:40 | 1,417,460,380 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2nyqsa | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2nyqsa/i_m24_went_on_a_great_date_with_f21_she_wanted_to/ | 20 | A few weeks back I met a girl on Tinder and we hit it off and chatted a bit. Got to the point where she asked me out on a date. Went on this date and it was great, ended up staying out for 6 hours (far longer than we intended to) drinking, saw some local live music and grabbed some food. She was just my type and she li... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (m/24) went on a great date with (f/21), she wanted to go out again - but now has fallen out of touch. How did I fuck up? | 20 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2nyqsa/i_m24_went_on_a_great_date_with_f21_she_wanted_to/ |
AMBULO__ | 2023-06-29 20:07:24 | 1,688,069,244 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14mf0hn | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14mf0hn/heartbreak_and_unexpected_breakup_need_advice_and/ | 3 | Hey Reddit, I recently experienced a sudden and unexpected breakup that has left me feeling broken and confused. I met an amazing guy (27M) on Hinge, and we hit it off right away. We talked extensively during his three-week vacation, even having long phone calls. It felt like we aligned on everything, which was both th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Heartbreak and Unexpected Breakup: Need Advice and Support | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14mf0hn/heartbreak_and_unexpected_breakup_need_advice_and/ |
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