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MerryMike2022 | 2023-05-22 20:57:44 | 1,684,789,064 | 0 | null | 0 | 13p32w9 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13p32w9/looking_for_matches/ | 0 | I am British and when I use Badoo, I would be swiping abroad at times! Where would you recommend me to swipe next time when I choose a location abroad? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Looking for matches | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13p32w9/looking_for_matches/ |
Sonamdrukpa | 2018-05-22 06:39:22 | 1,526,971,162 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 8l7y28 | false | null | 89 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8l7y28/should_i_be_hitting_on_people_in_inappropriate/ | 5 | My whole life, I've been given an ever-expanding list of places where it's inappropriate to pick up women: don't hit on your co-workers, never cat-call, please don't ask your waitress or bartender for their number, etc. etc. But then I see threads like and all these women are coming out the woodwork talking about how ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Should I be hitting on people in inappropriate places? | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8l7y28/should_i_be_hitting_on_people_in_inappropriate/ |
Multiverse-of-Tree | 2023-10-23 22:53:18 | 1,698,101,598 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17exnr6 | true | null | 80 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/17exnr6/im_ready_for_conflicting_advice/ | 1 | So, just starting new thread to gather ideas on how to navigate the advice I’ve been given. The two bits of advice I (55f) always hear are conflicting. The first is to approach a guy, reach out, let him know I’m interested, and that he’ll love it. Lets call this the Flirt. The second is to stop looking and it will happ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | I’m ready for conflicting advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/17exnr6/im_ready_for_conflicting_advice/ |
[deleted] | 2014-05-02 12:02:39 | 1,399,032,159 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 24jaa3 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/24jaa3/is_it_me_or_a_case_of_bad_luck/ | 2 | Hey there my first time posting here but I would like some input/Advice on this and I hope its the right place to ask. So over the past 15 months I've lived a single life after being thrown away by an ex which that took a toll on me. Now I'm normally shy/quiet so I haven't actually had much luck meeting people out in t... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Is it me, Or a case of bad luck ? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/24jaa3/is_it_me_or_a_case_of_bad_luck/ |
impatientdrummer | 2022-06-06 12:47:27 | 1,654,519,647 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | v62qug | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v62qug/dating_when_youre_still_hung_up_on_someone/ | 1 | A couple of months ago I (F 33) met a guy on Hinge, with whom I hit it off very well. It was rare magic, exciting, and loving right off the bat. It was the type of connection you experience only with a few people in your dating life. After about two months, it didn't work out because of my health issue and his anxiety ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating When You're Still Hung Up on Someone | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v62qug/dating_when_youre_still_hung_up_on_someone/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-11 19:09:45 | 1,607,713,785 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | kb936i | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kb936i/i_like_this_girl_a_lot_but_am_i_overthinking_this/ | 3 | Am I overthinking this Long story short, met this girl name Taylor on Bumble back in October we talked for a few weeks and got her number, went on three dates one last Sunday which was brunch. She stayed the night with me on the second date cause she was drunk and slept on the coach. Sometime between the second and thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I like this girl a lot, but am I overthinking this | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kb936i/i_like_this_girl_a_lot_but_am_i_overthinking_this/ |
AdditionalAd9801 | 2023-01-11 23:34:39 | 1,673,480,079 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 109jo39 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/109jo39/no_hinge_matches_since_2023/ | 1 | I was getting around 2 matches per week on Hinge since November 2022. All of a Sudden since the New Year i haven't had a match. Does Hinge slow down at a certain point? Do i have to keep at it. Advice is needed. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No Hinge matches since 2023 | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/109jo39/no_hinge_matches_since_2023/ |
ilbalilla | 2022-07-22 10:31:18 | 1,658,485,878 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | w5793k | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w5793k/why_did_she_suddenly_lose_interest_after/ | 1 | Alright so hear me out, I’m a 27 year old guy and I have been talking to this girl for about 3 months. We are about 2 hours away but I always tried to work with the distance and she did too apparently We honestly could not have matched anymore perfectly, she was into the same things like me, the same hobbies, we liked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did she suddenly lose interest after everything was going so well? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w5793k/why_did_she_suddenly_lose_interest_after/ |
TheAmmunition | 2019-12-17 16:04:53 | 1,576,598,693 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ebxp2z | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ebxp2z/im_24m_trying_to_set_up_another_date_with_a_girl/ | 1 | A few disclaimers, I'm new to online dating. If she responds to this date invite, it'll only be our second date, we had a really good first one. Met a girl online, we had lunch. Talked for a long time and it went really well. She had to go back to school to finish the semester. We haven't texted much between our first ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm (24M) Trying to set up another date with a girl (23F), but she hasn't responded in 24 hours. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ebxp2z/im_24m_trying_to_set_up_another_date_with_a_girl/ |
Tilthelastpetalfall | 2022-08-15 20:39:53 | 1,660,595,993 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | wpa9vk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wpa9vk/how_do_you_meet_potential_dates/ | 0 | I hate online dating but I'm a 34 year old single mum. How else do I meet people? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How do you meet potential dates? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wpa9vk/how_do_you_meet_potential_dates/ |
NoCarpenter6969 | 2024-04-16 02:34:26 | 1,713,234,866 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c552ww | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c552ww/how_to_move_forward_from_a_situationship_when_its/ | 1 | So I 24M had a situationship going on with this women who was visiting for a couple months in my city (she lives across the world). She moved away 2 months ago. I struggled with self-esteem, and all that for so long. I always fantasized about having a girlfriend for years and this girl checked all the boxes. Literally ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to move forward from a situationship when it's all I ever had? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c552ww/how_to_move_forward_from_a_situationship_when_its/ |
Impossible-Might-597 | 2024-04-06 08:12:11 | 1,712,391,131 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bx6cfn | true | Long Distance ✈️ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bx6cfn/struggling_to_date_on_my_country_because_no_one/ | 1 | I am struggling to date because despite having plenty of people to match with on dating apps, I cannot find them attractive. I am trying to force myself to find white men attractive but I feel like I’d be wasting their time and mine. I myself am which and not racist, it comes down to the fact I just do not want sex wit... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to date on my country because no one is my type. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bx6cfn/struggling_to_date_on_my_country_because_no_one/ |
Iloepizza | 2020-10-29 05:50:45 | 1,603,950,645 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jk4mir | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jk4mir/is_this_a_sign_hes_a_player/ | 2 | 22f Hello, I met a guy on tinder a couple of weeks ago, I'm looking for a relationship not hookups. He asked what my instagram is and I gave it to him. He followed me on instagram, and we've been talking. However, I did get curious on who he's following, I feel you can tell a bit on how a person is through who their fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this a sign he's a player? | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jk4mir/is_this_a_sign_hes_a_player/ |
Pacific9 | 2018-12-31 06:31:40 | 1,546,237,900 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ab4ln8 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ab4ln8/is_it_common_for_people_to_lose_interest_as_fast/ | 11 | I've noticed that conversations that start off fast and enthusiastic are also the ones that fizzle out as suddenly as they started. A bit of context... Close to the start of the holidays, I matched with a woman who, from the start, was very flirty and chatty to me. We were unable to meet soon enough because she was goi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is it common for people to lose interest as fast as it started? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ab4ln8/is_it_common_for_people_to_lose_interest_as_fast/ |
Carpediem33389 | 2022-01-26 11:19:58 | 1,643,195,998 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | sd3pps | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sd3pps/has_anyone_met_a_guy_like_this_why_do_they_do_this/ | 0 | Had a meetup with a guy from OLD. He was not super responsive to messages(like days to respond) but asked me out so I was like sure-he had everything I wanted on paper just had not met him pretty much as soon as we sat down he pulled out his phone-mid conversation He tells me he is studying another degree-even though I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Has anyone met a guy like this why do they do this? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sd3pps/has_anyone_met_a_guy_like_this_why_do_they_do_this/ |
Obi-loss-keunknownbi | 2023-11-07 11:00:00 | 1,699,354,800 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17prrkt | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17prrkt/is_this_a_second_chance_or_what_m23_seeing_f22/ | 292 | This is my first post here, so I'll try to be as clean as possible. This is honesty so scary to do, but I need whatever advice I can get So, tomorrow night I have this "date" with a female friend of mine I've known for a few months. We are planning to watch movies, drink wine, eat ramen and I even owe her a back massag... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this a second chance or what? M23 "seeing" F22 | 292 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17prrkt/is_this_a_second_chance_or_what_m23_seeing_f22/ |
ItsMerrick | 2023-09-06 01:29:33 | 1,693,963,773 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 16b6t4v | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16b6t4v/i_give_up/ | 1 | I'm 28 and have been cheated on multiple times my trust is at an all time low. I cant do this anymore I have been cheated on let down stood up had people cancel on me last min to meet up it's just tiring. I've been used for money favours etc I know not everyone is the same but I haven't had one previous experience. My ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I give up | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16b6t4v/i_give_up/ |
woohoojuju | 2023-08-07 23:47:14 | 1,691,452,034 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15l19b4 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15l19b4/dating_refresher_how_to_date_multiple_ppl/ | 1 | Hi All, how do you go about dating multiple people? Normally my (26F) last few relationships stemmed from someone showing interest & us focusing on exclusive dating before entering a relationship. Im on Hinge now & have had 4 dates with a guy (30M) across the last 2 months (busy guy, no texting in between) & we both fe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Refresher: how to date multiple ppl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15l19b4/dating_refresher_how_to_date_multiple_ppl/ |
[deleted] | 2017-05-09 00:01:53 | 1,494,288,113 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6a1y94 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6a1y94/ive_wasted_my_entire_youth_how_do_i_start_26_m/ | 3 | It wasn't intentional, but I'm still a virgin, have never had a relationship. I had a slew of deaths in my family, had a major illness and moved around a lot during my younger years. I shelled up, and became really angry/cynical. Didn't push myself out of my comfort zone. Turned 26 a month ago. Never felt more down on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've wasted my entire youth, how do I start? (26 M) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6a1y94/ive_wasted_my_entire_youth_how_do_i_start_26_m/ |
CrtrLe | 2023-12-29 04:48:20 | 1,703,825,300 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18temr8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18temr8/dating_app_advice/ | 2 | I’ve gotten on a couple dating apps recently (tinder & hinge) and I keep having the same thing happen. I’d say I’m a decently attractive guy and get a decent amount of matches. I’ll converse with people for a bit then ask if they’re interested in coffee or a drink. Most of the time they say yes, and then when I follow ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app advice | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18temr8/dating_app_advice/ |
SnooDrawings48 | 2024-09-14 18:54:54 | 1,726,340,094 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fgt498 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fgt498/i_am_so_lonely_that_i_am_starting_to_be_desperate/ | 1 | Hey guys! It will be very weird question but I am very insecure and private about my feelings and it seems I can talk to anyone else. Soon I will be 30, never been in relationship, never had sex. My body is buzzying and my mind even more crazy when I pass every year without any romantic interaction. I tried tinder, dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am so lonely, that I am starting to be desperate and be with however is single?! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fgt498/i_am_so_lonely_that_i_am_starting_to_be_desperate/ |
bluefish9981 | 2023-07-13 06:47:10 | 1,689,230,830 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14yd80p | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14yd80p/im_not_sure_what_to_do_anymore/ | 1 | I just found out a girl I was crushing on a while has a boyfriend, wihc threw me off because I honestly thought she was into me. We had playful conversations and we even played some video games together, and we had a secret little code we would do before very round. Idk maybe she has a flirtatious personality or maybe ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm not sure what to do anymore | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14yd80p/im_not_sure_what_to_do_anymore/ |
MyThrowaway1059 | 2021-04-19 13:53:20 | 1,618,840,400 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mu12pe | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mu12pe/how_shall_i_21m_talk_to_a_potential_partner/ | 1 | Hi all, I just wanted some advice in regards to how I act as a person, I’m using a throwaway account as a lot of IRL friends know my actual account... First of all I’ll give some background on myself. I’m a 21 year old guy, I’ve never had a serious relationship, however I’ve had a few relationships that’ve lasted a wee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How shall I (21M) talk to a potential partner | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mu12pe/how_shall_i_21m_talk_to_a_potential_partner/ |
chiefofpy | 2018-06-18 16:14:05 | 1,529,338,445 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8s0r03 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8s0r03/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | On Tinder, I was talking to a girl for some time during the weekend. From the Tinder conversation, I suggested we should meet up and grab a drink sometime. She agrees and said that she would also want to explore around my city as well. Then, I got her number and texted to check to see what's up. We exchange a few texts... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8s0r03/what_should_i_do/ |
uphic | 2024-02-20 22:09:22 | 1,708,466,962 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1avugs3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1avugs3/bumble_is_awfulhelp/ | 1 | So I started Bumble about three weeks ago and have encountered so many fake profiles. I am surprised and disheartened, because I was under the assumption that Bumble was the "good site." Are there any other dating sites worth trying for women looking for relationships and not just hookups (tinder)? TIA ) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bumble is awful....help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1avugs3/bumble_is_awfulhelp/ |
dustinb2259 | 2023-03-31 23:59:39 | 1,680,307,179 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 1284k87 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1284k87/how/ | 0 | 30m How do you guys find people these days been single for last five years with literally zero luck no matches on any apps no one irl seems Interested I'm just so lost when comes to finding someone | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1284k87/how/ |
Traditional-Money581 | 2022-04-05 19:39:01 | 1,649,187,541 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | tx35da | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tx35da/what_are_good_pictures_to_use_on_tinder_how/ | 2 | I feel tinder matches are very slow for me. Maybe only a couple per month. I’ve been on tinder for 6 months but still haven’t gotten a single date out of it. I feel I also have an issue with messages too since every girl I have messaged just ghosted me and never responded. I’m 18 btw and in college at a big university.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are good pictures to use on Tinder? How should I take good pictures and where? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tx35da/what_are_good_pictures_to_use_on_tinder_how/ |
hexen220 | 2016-09-09 11:16:26 | 1,473,419,786 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 51wv90 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/51wv90/i_get_ghosted_100_of_the_time/ | 2 | ive been online dating for a long time and the online portion of my game is solid as fuck, but when we meet up in person no matter how far we go i get ghosted after the dust settles. Im not an awkward person before you bring it up | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | i get ghosted 100% of the time | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/51wv90/i_get_ghosted_100_of_the_time/ |
melolokaybye | 2024-09-12 15:13:14 | 1,726,153,994 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ff4z3r | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ff4z3r/am_i_insane_or_is_the_man_sketchy/ | 1 | Okay, so here's the deal. I met this guy on Hinge, and for the first couple of days, things were going great. We were texting constantly, flirting, and even had a FaceTime chat where we connected pretty well. He said a lot of nice things—how much he loved the vibe, how much he liked me, all that typical "I like where t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | am i insane or is the man sketchy??? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ff4z3r/am_i_insane_or_is_the_man_sketchy/ |
jrise25 | 2021-10-17 23:12:59 | 1,634,512,379 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | qaa2wg | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qaa2wg/i_messaged_her_on_eharmony_she_saw_my_message/ | 2 | I sent this lady a icebreaker yesterday, she answered back. I sent her a message just something generic, asking how was her weekend so far. No response but she was checking out my profile again today. Should I message her again and point out something from her profile? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I messaged her on eharmony, she saw my message, should I try messaging her again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qaa2wg/i_messaged_her_on_eharmony_she_saw_my_message/ |
Shurae | 2023-10-11 14:07:57 | 1,697,033,277 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 175evhw | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/175evhw/how_come_im_more_confident_when_i_date_or_hit_on/ | 1 | Via online dating or also in bars. I'm 30 and when I chat online with women older then me I feel much more comfortable. I don't know why. I become a real sweet talker and just talk about all kinds of stuff with women. When I do that with women 6 years or so younger than me I tend to overthink, cringe at some of my resp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How come im more confident when I date or hit on women that are older than me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/175evhw/how_come_im_more_confident_when_i_date_or_hit_on/ |
Dancingwater123 | 2020-10-12 22:30:56 | 1,602,541,856 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ja13tv | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ja13tv/usually_pretty_okbut_having_trouble_finding_peace/ | 2 | I’m usually ok, but the longer time marches on, I really feel like a fish out of water when I’m alone. I broke up with a guy a month ago and it’s really starting to creep up on me that I’m about to be 30 very soon, and I’m completely single. I’ve dated so many guys especially since first trying online dating 6 years ag... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Usually pretty ok...but having trouble finding peace | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ja13tv/usually_pretty_okbut_having_trouble_finding_peace/ |
throwaway1230981302 | 2021-06-09 16:07:38 | 1,623,254,858 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nvzhsg | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nvzhsg/guy_is_driving_an_hour_for_our_first_date_and_its/ | 3 | I (f23) joined some dating apps recently and started talking to this one guy (m25) and he seems nice and now we've been texting for a week and he wants to drive to see me this weekend. I'm very down to meet him but I feel so weird about him driving that long to meet me? I know that a lot of this is my own insecurities ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy is driving an hour for our first date and it's a lot of pressure | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nvzhsg/guy_is_driving_an_hour_for_our_first_date_and_its/ |
Glittering-Ginger | 2023-10-30 21:42:46 | 1,698,702,166 | 0 | null | 0 | 17k4jus | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17k4jus/badoo_question_for_men/ | 1 | If you don't have a paid version and you match with a girl, can you message her first or is it blocked? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Badoo question for men | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17k4jus/badoo_question_for_men/ |
kittenbleu | 2022-06-13 20:42:29 | 1,655,152,949 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | vblwhl | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vblwhl/what_do_men_and_women_genuinely_look_for_on/ | 0 | I just keep encountering guys on Hinge (and when I used bumble), who just want a vibe or see where things go. Of course, I have learned not to entertain them - I state I'm interested in a committed relationship instead, and wish them well. You can't change what anyone wants let alone with the way men are socialized. So... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do men and women genuinely look for on dating apps? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vblwhl/what_do_men_and_women_genuinely_look_for_on/ |
TallExtension9312 | 2022-02-01 20:19:30 | 1,643,746,770 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | si4hnd | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/si4hnd/men_of_reddit_whats_your_liking_to_liked_ratio_is/ | 1 | Mine is really low and I was wondering if it's universal | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of reddit, what's your liking to liked ratio is on dating apps? | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/si4hnd/men_of_reddit_whats_your_liking_to_liked_ratio_is/ |
No_Cartographer_45 | 2023-11-13 09:51:47 | 1,699,869,107 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17u7b78 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17u7b78/got_dumped_because_of_a_bad_first_kiss/ | 1 | Before I explain further, I have never generally been a bad kisser. My ex was completely into. A few seconds of kissing and she would be completely hypnotized. Fast forwarding to the future. Met a girl on Tinder. Went on a date with her, it went really well (her words, not mine). She leaned over to kiss me. It was fine... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got dumped because of a bad first kiss | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17u7b78/got_dumped_because_of_a_bad_first_kiss/ |
Sheeplyred | 2020-04-02 06:08:08 | 1,585,807,688 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | fth3yo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fth3yo/have_i_not_put_in_enough_effort_in_my_own_dating/ | 6 | [26 M] I’ve never dated before and very inexperienced with the opposite sex in that field. I can talk to girls normally have a social life and hobbies. I’m overweight however not enough for others I know to completely write me off as ugly or “undateable”. I’m just an average person. As with the question, I’ve been havi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have I not put in enough effort in my own dating life? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fth3yo/have_i_not_put_in_enough_effort_in_my_own_dating/ |
ExpirationCountdown | 2019-03-14 01:18:11 | 1,552,526,291 | null | null | 0 | b0u6qf | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/b0u6qf/sites_where_interests_are_priority/ | 4 | Which dating sites allow you to search for people based on their interests? A woman sharing my interests is the most important thing to me, most of these sites only allow me to search by things like height and weight. If it matters, I'm in Japan currently. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Sites where interests are priority? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b0u6qf/sites_where_interests_are_priority/ |
Silent-Change110 | 2024-02-29 05:36:00 | 1,709,184,960 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1b2sqkg | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b2sqkg/i_accidently_ghosted_a_guy_and_then_he_unmatched/ | 0 | I want to reconnect with a guy from a dating app who I accidentally ghosted then he unmatched me. I matched a guy on bumble, he is a lawyer in my building I am a legal assistant, but we work on different floors. On bumble i said hello, only vaguely recognizing him. When he told me his job I realized we must work togeth... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I accidently ghosted a guy and then he unmatched me but I want him back | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b2sqkg/i_accidently_ghosted_a_guy_and_then_he_unmatched/ |
Thelaughingcroc | 2023-08-29 23:43:09 | 1,693,352,589 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 164yhzh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/164yhzh/how_do_you_mold_yourself_into_what_women_would/ | 1 | I have realized, looking on these subs, that dating for younger men like me is getting more and more difficult, mostly because I’m not really sure who “i” am yet as a individual (I’m also kinda short lol). What traits should I try to mold myself to please the majority of women looking so I actually stand a chance? What... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you mold yourself into what women would ideally date(m22) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/164yhzh/how_do_you_mold_yourself_into_what_women_would/ |
akshaymj2020 | 2021-12-01 10:09:57 | 1,638,353,397 | null | null | 0 | r6bizf | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r6bizf/feelbait/ | 0 | If you feel you need someone to share your feelings but got no one to share? Check this site: If you find this beneficial, please share it with others. It's a community that we're forming. To establish a thriving community, we need more people to use it. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Feelbait | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r6bizf/feelbait/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-07 20:32:09 | 1,318,019,529 | 3 | ['dating sites'] | null | l4hqz | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/l4hqz/been_single_for_far_too_long_little_help/ | 3 | Well I'm male, 26 and I've been single for 3 years. Last person I went out with wasnt exactly a perfect relationship either. I'll give you a run down of the last few years so you know where i'm up to. Went out with a girl for about 2 years but we broke up. Kinda badly, she found someone else. Invited him to her birthda... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Been single for far too long, little help? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l4hqz/been_single_for_far_too_long_little_help/ |
Pasha1997 | 2018-01-27 17:16:18 | 1,517,073,378 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 7tdzmy | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7tdzmy/cant_find_anyone_i_connect_with/ | 4 | I just can't find anyone I like and who likes me back. I was wondering if there is any free dating sites / apps that don't require your photo and allow you to simply list interest and chat. I mainly worry that if I come across someone I would actually like but I don't feel attracted to them I wouldn't give them a chanc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't find anyone I connect with. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7tdzmy/cant_find_anyone_i_connect_with/ |
ts427 | 2018-06-30 01:35:00 | 1,530,322,500 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 8uygjs | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8uygjs/like_many_other_men_perplexed/ | 1 | I met this girl at my work a few months back and she actually initiated interest first. I am a very confident person so no it's not that I get nervous around women it was more the case of me thinking, "I'm at work, keep it professional". I thought it would be worth mentioning that she chased me at first. We started tal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Like many other men... perplexed | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8uygjs/like_many_other_men_perplexed/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-08 12:31:10 | 1,607,430,670 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | k93db3 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k93db3/how_do_you_date_when_you_live_in_a_place_where/ | 1 | Where I live I am a minority. So growing up, while I was interested in the dating aspect, I never had the chance to explore and meet someone. I have been trying to use dating apps, but of course the people I talk to are very far away. Often in other countries. Of course, hopefully once I will be more stable with my lif... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you date when you live in a place where you're ethnically a minority? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k93db3/how_do_you_date_when_you_live_in_a_place_where/ |
NinjaUnicorn_17 | 2018-11-28 13:51:26 | 1,543,413,086 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a16dg6 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/a16dg6/how_does_one_write_an_online_dating_profile/ | 1 | It feels like bragging about myself, but also figuring out what to show to the world and what weirdness I need to hide :/ | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How does one write an online dating profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/a16dg6/how_does_one_write_an_online_dating_profile/ |
WinterJoke2 | 2020-02-26 21:31:58 | 1,582,752,718 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | fa0oct | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fa0oct/why_do_girls_always_make_the_worst_excuses_when/ | 0 | I met up with this girl from Hinge for a first date last week. I thought it was great. We seemed to have similar interests, and she seemed really social and talkative (this detail is important later). I've been trying to text her a bit since, and she even initiated the conversation once, but lately her response time ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do girls always make the worst excuses when trying to tell you they don't want to see you anymore? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fa0oct/why_do_girls_always_make_the_worst_excuses_when/ |
Pretend-Term-1639 | 2024-07-24 17:59:22 | 1,721,843,962 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eb810p | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eb810p/my_mom_is_1_year_a_widow_and_is_online_dating/ | 22 | I am married and have never dated online. My mom is trying to online date. I am concerned because her parameters are the entire US, and she is advertising that she has money and has my 10 year old niece living with her a majority of the time. The men she is finding are closer to my age, never been married in their 50's... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My mom is 1 year a widow and is online dating... | 22 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eb810p/my_mom_is_1_year_a_widow_and_is_online_dating/ |
SourSweetUmami | 2023-12-30 15:26:45 | 1,703,950,005 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18ui0r9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ui0r9/she_said_she_can_go_on_a_date_with_me_but_itll/ | 1 | Hi guys, I went on a first date with this one girl at a boba place and we chatted for an hour or two. It was a decent date. So I asked her out again and she said she’s busy for the next two weeks and would love to go afterwards. I’m not sure if she is actually interested in this 2nd date, or if she’s not wanting to go ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She said she can go on a date with me but it’ll have to be after TWO WEEKS? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ui0r9/she_said_she_can_go_on_a_date_with_me_but_itll/ |
faithinstrangers92 | 2022-01-02 05:49:04 | 1,641,102,544 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ru2xx1 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ru2xx1/can_you_relate_to_this_vicious_cycle/ | 41 | You're feeling worthless and low after having no luck in the dating world... so you drop it and reconnect with hobbies and interests and friends and work, and you learn to appreciate the beautiful experience of walking around a park by oneself, of watching movies alone, of reading a compelling book, listening to good m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can you relate to this vicious cycle? | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ru2xx1/can_you_relate_to_this_vicious_cycle/ |
WesternIndustry5560 | 2023-07-16 22:32:03 | 1,689,546,723 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 151js34 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/151js34/finding_a_boyfriend_searching_or_waiting_it_out/ | 1 | I am a 23F and haven’t been in a serious relationship. I work from home and moved to a new town so don’t really know anyone or know how to meet people. Relationships is the one area of my life that is struggling, friendships too. I had some short terms boyfriends in college but nothing serious. I focused on my career s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding a boyfriend: searching or waiting it out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/151js34/finding_a_boyfriend_searching_or_waiting_it_out/ |
TruckerMark | 2022-03-20 03:18:49 | 1,647,746,329 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | tic00p | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tic00p/any_experiences_with_matchmaking_services_is_it/ | 0 | Basically title. I'm 26M, hopeless for dating. I've been on the big dating apps for the last 3 years with only 4 first dates that went nowhere. I'm successful, well off, fit. I don't think I'm super attractive facewise, but I won't write myself off as ugly either. Is a matchmaking service worth trying out? I've followe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any experiences with matchmaking services? Is it worth it? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tic00p/any_experiences_with_matchmaking_services_is_it/ |
CassieB_the2nd | 2023-08-19 07:40:34 | 1,692,430,834 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15v9m4r | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15v9m4r/dating_fatigue_how_do_you_combat/ | 1 | I'll (F/30) be honest I haven't been on a "good" date all of summer. Every dating app date I've been on has totally flamed out. Profiles that seem rlly engaging, conversation over text that seems witty... and in real life nada. I can actually pinpoint the moment when they start to make that pivot of a date being some k... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Fatigue? How do you combat? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15v9m4r/dating_fatigue_how_do_you_combat/ |
Terrible-Wishbone-69 | 2024-02-18 21:25:24 | 1,708,291,524 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1au5bw9 | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1au5bw9/single_men_in_your_40s_how_much_luck_did_you_have/ | 66 | I tried many in my 30s without much luck before I gave up... considering revisiting, but not too sure it'd be much different for a 40s average divorced man. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Single men in your 40s, how much luck did you have with the dating apps? | 64 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1au5bw9/single_men_in_your_40s_how_much_luck_did_you_have/ |
JazzBe123 | 2021-05-07 21:47:22 | 1,620,424,042 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | n79wu6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n79wu6/first_date_cancelled/ | 1 | Long post, so my apologies. Ok so I(23F) matched with a guy(26) last Sunday on Tinder. He asked me to dinner and we scheduled a date for tonight at 7. We talked a few days this week over Snapchat. He would snap me pretty early, just normal stuff. This morning, it was radio silence on his end. I messaged him around noon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date cancelled | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n79wu6/first_date_cancelled/ |
Different-Cover4819 | 2021-03-11 13:26:44 | 1,615,469,204 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | m2q0xb | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/m2q0xb/do_you_see_more_than_one_person_at_the_same_time/ | 24 | I'm on tinder, and you know, you don't know what the turn out would be, so I strike up a couple conversations at the same time. Because some of them won't answer, some will go 'what is demisexual?' (cause why google) or 'do you have children/want children/here are my children' (before we even said two words)... Anyway,... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you see more than one person at the same time? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/m2q0xb/do_you_see_more_than_one_person_at_the_same_time/ |
PruthviPrakash | 2024-04-01 21:11:32 | 1,712,005,892 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1btfvew | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1btfvew/im_struggling_with_dating_as_an_ethnic_minority/ | 1 | FYI- You can check out my profile to see what I look like before you start reading. Hey everyone, I just need to get something off my chest. I’m a 23-year-old guy, ethnically Indian, but my life has been a bit of a whirlwind. Born in the Bahamas, raised in Ireland, and moved to the UK at 16. I was once on the path to b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m Struggling with Dating as an Ethnic Minority. How do l fix this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1btfvew/im_struggling_with_dating_as_an_ethnic_minority/ |
Tacotol | 2019-11-25 05:02:06 | 1,574,658,126 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | e1b3vh | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e1b3vh/update_i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date/ | 368 | OG POST: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dmcdxx/i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date_that_i/?utm_medium It's been a bit over a month since our first date. Before that first date I had been going through a rut. I was craving emotional connection yet I couldn't find anyone I wanted to connect with. It w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | UPDATE: I [M21] finally went on a wholesome date that I genuinely enjoyed. I'm so happy. (One Month Later) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e1b3vh/update_i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date/ |
Ahappylisa | 2021-05-10 06:27:47 | 1,620,628,067 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | n8xox6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n8xox6/never_run_across_this_before/ | 2 | I am an avid paddle boarder. My friend and I have 2 very unique paddle boards. Every time we take them out we have people ask us about them and frequently want to try them out. We are always happy to oblige. A few weeks ago I got a “ like” on a dating site . I checked out his photos and there was a picture of him , at ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Never run across this before! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n8xox6/never_run_across_this_before/ |
NotTheAverageMo | 2019-02-11 22:07:19 | 1,549,922,839 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | aplp3g | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aplp3g/he_did_something_really_dumb_and_i_reacted_poorly/ | 18 | Just want to say thanks for all of the honest responses. It is unanimous, 100% of the responses called bullshit on him and it’s exactly what I needed to hear. I needed the confirmation, so thank you! And, that about sums it up. I met a great guy online and we have been talking for a couple weeks. We went on our first d... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | He did something really dumb and I reacted poorly. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aplp3g/he_did_something_really_dumb_and_i_reacted_poorly/ |
RedditAcccount2798 | 2024-03-07 22:55:43 | 1,709,852,143 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b985cz | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b985cz/does_match_really_work/ | 2 | I had over 15 matches on the on the app so I’m curious if they were real matches? I didn’t want to pay for the ridiculous subscription so I deleted my account. When I first joined, got zero matches but once I improved my profile I started getting matches. Does this app really work? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does match really work? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b985cz/does_match_really_work/ |
sweetpea8888 | 2020-03-01 19:59:37 | 1,583,092,777 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | fbzmrg | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fbzmrg/am_i_just_being_paranoid_texting_is_totally/ | 2 | Does anyone notice texting style changes when you go from one medium to the next? For example: on Kik versus on Bumble with the same person Kik always has we double spaces, no punctuation, words misspelled? Not really fully thought out messages. Bumble always perfect grammar. Full sentences. Full thoughts. I am totally... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Am I just being paranoid? Texting is totally different in other mediums. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fbzmrg/am_i_just_being_paranoid_texting_is_totally/ |
throwawayaccount6008 | 2024-07-31 03:45:34 | 1,722,397,534 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1egdipw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1egdipw/how_do_i_even_meet_people_anymore/ | 1 | Mind you I'm a 26/M I have been single for a long time since my breakup of 9 years... been going out to public places to meet people multiple times for weeks. Like today i went to the dog park with my cute puppy and nobody was there during prime hours same thing the next day and the next day and even on the weekends an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do i even meet people anymore? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1egdipw/how_do_i_even_meet_people_anymore/ |
Friendly-Draw3158 | 2022-12-10 21:45:24 | 1,670,708,724 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zi4ka6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zi4ka6/help_me_out_here/ | 1 | Hey all I'm 28 with a couple of kids. I've been seeing a younger guy for a couple years and I guess it's just run it's course. We met at the casino before he left for college. I've tried talking to older guys but I am just really attracted to younger ones 😂 22-25 seems to be the sweet spot. Maybe because they're serio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me out here😅🤦🏻♀️ | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zi4ka6/help_me_out_here/ |
sbelle425 | 2017-02-19 13:59:03 | 1,487,512,743 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5uyc96 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5uyc96/too_good_to_be_tinder/ | 5 | So I matched up with this guy on tinder around New Years. He's 24m and I'm 28f. I don't usually go for younger guys but it just happened. He was in south Florida for the holidays visiting family and left a day or two after we started talking. We really hit it off and would talk several times a day either via text or ov... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too good to be tinder?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5uyc96/too_good_to_be_tinder/ |
Drakob | 2012-09-13 19:34:28 | 1,347,564,868 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | zu5y0 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/zu5y0/need_help_from_herem23_f27/ | 1 | I'm a 23 year old guy, in England. A bit earlier in the year, I tried an online dating service, and met a fantastic 27 year old woman (In America). We were chatting a hell of a lot a while ago, sent each other pictures (dirty, and non dirty), and had a very fun Skype conversation where she made it rather abundantly cle... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help from here...[M23 / F27] | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zu5y0/need_help_from_herem23_f27/ |
ARSLAN_Dz | 2024-08-15 03:44:23 | 1,723,693,463 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eslh1m | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eslh1m/always_late_when_she_replies/ | 2 | I met her on last week, I was able to get her Instagram, and she always replies 24h after, today she replied to my last message after 4 days of wait, she said she was sorry because she is not really online these days. Any thoughts on this? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Always late when she replies | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eslh1m/always_late_when_she_replies/ |
Last-Caterpillar9757 | 2024-01-07 23:30:41 | 1,704,670,241 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 19164w5 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/19164w5/how_to_find_the_passion_with_old/ | 5 | I’ve had two dates so far after getting on the apps. Both were with very nice women. Conversations were real good. They weren’t unattractive. How do you get from dating with nice conversation to feeling a passion for someone? Feeling not feeling a spark. Do I keep on dating them and see if it happens? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to find the passion with OLD? | 5 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/19164w5/how_to_find_the_passion_with_old/ |
Top-Initial-2026 | 2024-06-16 19:09:52 | 1,718,564,992 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dhesw2 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dhesw2/have_you_been_blocked_by_guys/ | 1 | So I have talked to two guys and moved from hinge to insta, flirting happened! But then suddenly I realised they aren’t looking for anything serious, so i told them politely that I’m not interested in them and looking for something serious and longer term at this point of time. As a result of this, I got blocked by the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have you been blocked by guys? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dhesw2/have_you_been_blocked_by_guys/ |
WeAllDeseeveToDie | 2022-11-27 03:48:57 | 1,669,520,937 | null | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | z5qqn3 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z5qqn3/how_to_decline_date_after_accepting/ | 6 | I meet a guy on a dating site and we matched and messaged for a while. But we never seemed to be online at the same time sobhe asked if we could text and we exchanged numbers. I'm awful about responding and told him so but we've been texting and he asked me out. I said sure as he seems nice and all but now he's literal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how to decline date after accepting? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z5qqn3/how_to_decline_date_after_accepting/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-04 12:01:34 | 1,604,491,294 | null | null | 0 | jnvi3q | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jnvi3q/bad_advice_and_past_mistakes_coming_back_to_haunt/ | 0 | My commitment issues when I was younger are coming back to haunt me I’ll try and make this short, I (m 26) have met a lot of girls over the last 7 or so years. Whether that’s via OLD or IRL it doesn’t matter, I formed good relationships with many of these girls and could have had relationships with them. However, when ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bad advice and past mistakes coming back to haunt me. Any advice appreciated :// | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jnvi3q/bad_advice_and_past_mistakes_coming_back_to_haunt/ |
iwearnoglasses | 2021-04-19 12:24:54 | 1,618,835,094 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | mtzgeu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mtzgeu/im_exhausted_from_dating_and_tinderconversations/ | 1 | Hello, I have a question about my current dating situation: Brief background: I'm 26, female and have only had short (1-4 months) relationships, so I have little experience. However, I have quite a lot of experience with dating and meeting people, mainly through apps like Tinder, Bumble, etc. I'm on those apps every no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm exhausted from Dating and Tinder-Conversations. I'm thinking about a Dating-Detox. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mtzgeu/im_exhausted_from_dating_and_tinderconversations/ |
ugino65 | 2023-11-26 22:50:29 | 1,701,039,029 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 184neqi | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/184neqi/i_cant_find_any_girl/ | 1 | I [26 m] started to get in the dating world last year with dating apps, after waisting 5 months (0 matches), I decided to cancel my profiles and go with the old fashioned IRL. One of the most popular advices I hear is: "go to bars and social events", I'm trying that, but I don't have any luck, not because I get rejecte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't find any girl | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/184neqi/i_cant_find_any_girl/ |
TBaillie92 | 2024-03-23 19:30:26 | 1,711,222,226 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bm0ml7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bm0ml7/am_i_overthinking/ | 1 | I (31M) have been seeing someone (27F) recently. We matched on Hinge and things started out with great lenhy conversations about ourselves. Fastforward to first date for coffee and, after we stayed until the place closed, she asked about continuing the date and we basically sat in my car and talked for 2 hours. 2nd dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overthinking? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bm0ml7/am_i_overthinking/ |
emttrvn | 2019-04-07 06:55:04 | 1,554,620,104 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | badrzt | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/badrzt/soooo_how_does_online_dating_work/ | 1 | So you get the app, try to match with someone, and then what’s next? Also, what if they’re from afar but you feel a connection? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Soooo how does online dating work? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/badrzt/soooo_how_does_online_dating_work/ |
Longjumping-Arm515 | 2023-06-02 22:03:22 | 1,685,743,402 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 13yqyho | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13yqyho/just_wondering_if_ive_messed_up_by_leaving_the/ | 8 | Last week I \[29M\] matched with someone \[29F\] who I find attractive (duh!). Unlike most interactions I've had so far, she was surprisingly responsive (quick and enthusiastic replies) and we had some back and forth. In the process, she mentioned that the location listed on her profile was wrong and she actually lived... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just wondering if I've messed up by leaving the ball in her court | 8 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13yqyho/just_wondering_if_ive_messed_up_by_leaving_the/ |
Victoriaalice20 | 2017-06-22 19:25:40 | 1,498,159,540 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6ivtph | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6ivtph/worktinder_drama/ | 1 | I've known this guy at work for about 6 months now. He's quite quiet so at first I initiated majority of our conversations but as we've gotten to know each other he now is the one to approach me most of the time. We had messaged a few times outside of work but very casually. So the other day the another guy at work com... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Work/tinder drama.. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6ivtph/worktinder_drama/ |
Adventurous_Money495 | 2023-08-09 03:34:51 | 1,691,552,091 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15m3ov8 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15m3ov8/how_do_you_keep_the_conversation_going/ | 1 | I tried online dating and it didn't turn out great. I met a lot of women online and our conversations usually doesn't last long. I keep getting ghosted or seen. There's this one woman I am really attracted to and I tried to keep the conversation going. However, there were instances that she will just seen my messages o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you keep the conversation going? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15m3ov8/how_do_you_keep_the_conversation_going/ |
No_Seaworthiness2327 | 2024-05-26 02:03:22 | 1,716,689,002 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d0r5q7 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d0r5q7/just_spoke_to_a_female_friend_whos_also_on_dating/ | 3 | 32y/o male, newish to the Baltimore area. I just texted a friend (40F) this evening to ask her how her date that she went on turned out. She started gushing about how awesome of a guy he is-the fact that he owns a few planes, is an engineer, a pilot and in studying for med school. At this point, alarm bells are ringing... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just spoke to a female friend who’s also on dating apps in the area, and realized just how screwed I am. | 3 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d0r5q7/just_spoke_to_a_female_friend_whos_also_on_dating/ |
ThinMethod8606 | 2023-08-17 05:32:21 | 1,692,250,341 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 15te18k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15te18k/does_this_guy_have_feelings_for_me_or_is_he_tryna/ | 1 | So im very bad at social cues and how dating works. During the 2020 Covid lockdown, I (22) matched with a (23) guy from the same country but from the neighbouring province. Anyways we start texting, which then leads to us calling. We ended calling each other almost every evening that summer getting to know each other (... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does this guy have feelings for me or is he tryna smash? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15te18k/does_this_guy_have_feelings_for_me_or_is_he_tryna/ |
Bkri84 | 2021-07-15 18:17:02 | 1,626,373,022 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | okyl1t | true | null | 140 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/okyl1t/please_translate_this_for_me/ | 50 | 37M here looking though OLD profiles and keep coming across women that have "not looking for a hookup also not looking for anything long-term or serious" I really don't understand what this means. Maybe its me and not understand current dating terms. For you out there that use this line, what are you looking for? Thank... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Please translate this for me | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/okyl1t/please_translate_this_for_me/ |
throwawayhelpme5555 | 2023-07-30 03:03:44 | 1,690,686,224 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15dajvf | false | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15dajvf/guys_i_think_i_just_got_a_date/ | 1 | So like I've been on dating apps for a minute. I'm happy to say I've recovered from my breakup earlier this year and have made progress that makes me very proud of myself. I met this girl recently on a dating app and we've really been hitting it off. And, um, we have a date! I like. Ohmygod. I'm like, nervous? But exci... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | GUYS I THINK I JUST GOT A DATE | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15dajvf/guys_i_think_i_just_got_a_date/ |
Pompous_Rhino | 2024-03-19 17:54:06 | 1,710,870,846 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1biqjiy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1biqjiy/dating_apps_for_dance_partner/ | 1 | Hello! Sorry, not sure if this belongs here but I'm wondering what people think about trying to find a partner for a Latin dance class on a dating app. I'm asking this here because I haven't used dating apps for like almost 10 years now (I'm 29 now). I am generally not into the idea of dating apps, but have been lurkin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps for dance partner? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1biqjiy/dating_apps_for_dance_partner/ |
Fuckwsu08 | 2023-11-28 10:33:22 | 1,701,167,602 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 185t2m1 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/185t2m1/given_up_on_dating_women/ | 3 | Hey everyone I’m a 23 year old guy that’s basically gave up on dating at this point. I had my first kiss at 19 after years of trying to get a girlfriend and try to find love and all that but it was just with a girl that ended up using me for a joke to tell her friends and I found out I was apart of a bet to see how fas... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Given up on dating women | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/185t2m1/given_up_on_dating_women/ |
Throwawaytanzanite73 | 2022-07-20 12:19:16 | 1,658,319,556 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | w3kx4o | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/w3kx4o/impossible_situations/ | 1 | I am not in a position to date at the moment as I have just recently left an abusive relationship. Prior to meeting my ex, I was talking to a lovely guy that I met on OLD. We got on well despite him living 2 hrs away from me. We were chatting for at least 4 months but never met in real life. We had lots in common, shar... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Impossible situations? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/w3kx4o/impossible_situations/ |
Itgirlynakoeh | 2024-02-25 20:47:05 | 1,708,894,025 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1azyggq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1azyggq/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | For context, I matched with this guy on hinge back in September. We talked for about a week and then went out on a bowling date. I thought it went good but after the date, he checked up on me at the end of the night and I didn’t hear from him for the next 3 days. Feeling kinda hurt I proceeded to block him and ended up... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1azyggq/what_should_i_do/ |
Opposite_Standard437 | 2024-01-11 00:11:40 | 1,704,931,900 | 0 | null | 0 | 193nmxp | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/193nmxp/first_time_dating_someone_online_any_tips/ | 2 | Hmm? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | First time dating someone online: any tips? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/193nmxp/first_time_dating_someone_online_any_tips/ |
Dokonani | 2024-09-10 09:31:32 | 1,725,960,692 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fddrx5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fddrx5/not_sure_what_to_do_about_my_one_night_stand/ | 2 | Two months ago I had this one night stand. He visited my city with a friend for a trip (he’s from other country), we matched on Tinder, I invited him to my place with an intention of having just some casual hookup. The mutual attraction was palpable from the moment he entered my apartment. We were to watch something, s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what to do about my one night stand | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fddrx5/not_sure_what_to_do_about_my_one_night_stand/ |
realityTVluv | 2021-04-07 12:51:17 | 1,617,799,877 | null | null | 0 | mm1cn3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mm1cn3/kids_in_profile_picturesis_it_endearing_or_creepy/ | 2 | Or even with pictures with the ex cropped out. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Kids in profile pictures....Is it endearing or creepy?? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mm1cn3/kids_in_profile_picturesis_it_endearing_or_creepy/ |
pika1004 | 2024-06-19 01:57:54 | 1,718,762,274 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dj7shk | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dj7shk/how_to_spot_a_cheater_on_dating_apps/ | 10 | What's your telltale signs to spot a potential cheater on the dating app? Either based on profile, texting style and in real life behaviour. Dont wanna get involve with someone else's man. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to spot a cheater on dating apps | 10 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dj7shk/how_to_spot_a_cheater_on_dating_apps/ |
anony112358 | 2018-11-09 22:55:47 | 1,541,804,147 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 9vp6zx | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9vp6zx/performance_anxiety/ | 3 | I [22M] met a girl [22F] through some mutual friends and then we matched online. Went on a date a couple of days ago, and it went fantastically, we agreed to set up another. Then we ran into each other at a school event later that night, we talked a bit, went back to her place, and started making out, but when we tried... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Performance anxiety | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9vp6zx/performance_anxiety/ |
IME315 | 2024-05-14 18:34:59 | 1,715,711,699 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1crzi2y | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1crzi2y/i_am_not_sure_if_she_is_treating_me_just_as_a/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I (28M) am very new to dating as I don't have much dating / relationship experience in my life before. So I apologize if I am not making sense here and any opinion here is greatly appreciated I met this girl (31F) through hinge back in March this year, and we have been texting quite a lot. After chatting f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am not sure if she is treating me just as a friend after our first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1crzi2y/i_am_not_sure_if_she_is_treating_me_just_as_a/ |
LibrarianTall7545 | 2020-06-04 00:49:34 | 1,591,231,774 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gw6rrp | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gw6rrp/what_good_can_come_from_this/ | 2 | (Both in our early 20's ) we met on tinder and both just got out of relationships, when we first hung out we had a great connection. We both admit we're not ready for a relationship, but what is the probability of something good coming from this? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What good can come from this | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gw6rrp/what_good_can_come_from_this/ |
Civil_Panic4228 | 2024-03-25 19:28:09 | 1,711,394,889 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bnmh9n | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bnmh9n/i_23_f_like_this_guy_29_m_at_the_bar_and_i_think/ | 1 | So a couple of weekends ago I saw this guy (let’s call him Mark) at the local bar in the town I live in, he was super attractive and we kept making eye contact. I smiled at him a couple of times but he didn’t come over. I talked to one of his friends who said he would introduce us, but Mark was too busy talking to a fr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (23 F) Like this guy (29 M) At the bar and I think he likes me back but thinks I’m too young? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bnmh9n/i_23_f_like_this_guy_29_m_at_the_bar_and_i_think/ |
HopelessDummy | 2019-01-12 03:28:39 | 1,547,263,719 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | af3h0o | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/af3h0o/she_doesnt_want_anything_serious_but_still/ | 1 | So yesterday I finally had a serious conversation with a girl I've been talking too for 7 weeks. Basically asked her where we stand, did she want something more, something serious, or not. She said she appreciated me a lot yet didn't feel ready for a serious relationship yet. For a variety of reasons (long distance, st... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She doesn't want anything serious but still messages me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/af3h0o/she_doesnt_want_anything_serious_but_still/ |
TitusTesla117 | 2024-05-18 14:57:35 | 1,716,044,255 | 0 | ['swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1cuz4yi | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cuz4yi/would_you_date_someone_if_they_told_you_they_had/ | 1 | This question came up for me when I saw this one profile on Bumble while swiping. The woman said in her bio she had ALS and appeared to be in mid-to-late stage of the disease based on her photos. I don’t think a serious relationship would be realistic for me personally. Maybe seeing them casually, but nothing beyond th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you date someone if they told you they had ALS (or similar illness that is 100% terminal within a year or so) either before or during the first date? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cuz4yi/would_you_date_someone_if_they_told_you_they_had/ |
Reasonable-Cookie-88 | 2023-09-03 17:11:07 | 1,693,761,067 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1692do0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1692do0/dating_while_atheist/ | 1 | I’m an attractive and intelligent 28F. I want to get married and have kids. I have trouble keeping friends because I realize a lot of women my age just want to party and hookup. I just want to live a chill life and settle down, but this makes dating really difficult. I lean on dating apps because my friends mostly only... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating while Atheist | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1692do0/dating_while_atheist/ |
allforgiven | 2022-09-17 00:34:06 | 1,663,374,846 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | xg7ti6 | true | null | 104 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xg7ti6/is_there_no_hope_for_a_guy_that_is_not_funny/ | 35 | I am a 60M new to OLD after a 28 year marriage and am quite surprised to find on Bumble that a high % of women in their 50,'s maybe 50 to 60% state they want a guy or give bonus points to a guy that is funny and that can make them laugh. I am all for having a good time and like to laugh myself but I am an analytical th... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is there no hope for a guy that is not funny? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xg7ti6/is_there_no_hope_for_a_guy_that_is_not_funny/ |
Frythecorn | 2024-07-27 14:17:57 | 1,722,089,877 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1edhey2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1edhey2/did_i_overreact_or_was_i_justified_need_some/ | 1 | Hey everyone, I need some perspective on a situation that’s been bothering me. About a year ago, a girl I was dating ghosted me. Recently, she reached out to apologize, explaining she had anxiety at the time. I assumed she was reaching out to possibly rekindle things since she mentioned that she always thought I looked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I Overreact or Was I Justified? Need Some Perspective | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1edhey2/did_i_overreact_or_was_i_justified_need_some/ |
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