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unmatchedfailure | When I was 17 I was diagnosed with ADHD and was then put on Adderall but the side effect of aggression really pushed me away. I'm 21 now finally trying to get this shit solved. I expressed to my doctor that I didn't want to go back onto it due to the aggressive behavior, Ive been on methylphenidate, and Vyvanse. But neither even touched my symptoms at low or higher doses, and the methylphenidate had no affect on me whatsoever. So my question is what other meds can I bring up to my doctor? I'm considering going back to Adderall because he mentioned that the aggressive behavior is more common in the teenage bracket. | 2021-12-13T04:34:27.000Z | rf77pu | 1 | 2 | ADHD | Med help? struggling finding what helps with me. | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf77pu/med_help_struggling_finding_what_helps_with_me/ |
neoskyline | I take my Vyvanse at 5:30ish everyday because I go to work at 6pm. I usually have a water and electrolyte packet about 2 hours before since my job is demanding physically, and I don't want to get ultra dehydrated. One thing I struggle with is what to eat before work that won't have vitamin C/be acidic and also have lots of protein. I'm slow af so I usually don't get within the 2 hour window lol. I'm trying to lose weight also, so something healthy. Also comment what you eat even if they have those things in it, I'm just curious. | 2021-12-13T04:31:58.000Z | rf763s | 3 | 5 | ADHD | What do you eat for breakfast/lunch? | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf763s/what_do_you_eat_for_breakfastlunch/ |
Bee_Ad2836 | I was recently diagnosed with ADHD and a mood disorder. I broke down after my diagnosis because it explained so much of what I’m going through.
I was watching some videos on YouTube about taking Straterra, and I wanted some insight on what I should expect?
I’ve never been the smartest, I struggled with concentrating and absorbing info all of my life and I’m hopeful that the meds will help me concentrate. However, I saw videos saying that it might dull my personality / lose my charm / make me not excited for anything. What is the extent of this? I work in sales and tbh I say it a lot that my strongest assets are my charm and ability to build relationships. I’m worried that the meds might affect it.
Also, what are the other side effects that I should expect? | 2021-12-13T04:30:34.000Z | rf756x | 2 | 1 | ADHD | Side effects of Straterra? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf756x/side_effects_of_straterra/ |
DeLopez0925 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T04:26:11.000Z | rf7298 | 8 | 7 | ADHD | I told my parents that I was sexually molested as a child by my brother and I feel guilty about it | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf7298/i_told_my_parents_that_i_was_sexually_molested_as/ |
darkwxves | [removed] | 2021-12-13T04:14:10.000Z | rf6u5x | 6 | 5 | ADHD | I need some support . . . . | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6u5x/i_need_some_support/ |
Electrical-Month-598 | Is it normal to feel an energy crash after the adderall wears off? I tried looking this up ( yea I know it’s a mistake) and it was all talking about the crash that happens when you stop taking adderall completely. But I feel it when I feel the effects starting to go down. I know I’m probs overthinking it and def gaslighting myself but people keep saying the effects of adderall can last for a while and I feel it for a few hours or so at it’s peak and I feel like I’m going crazy thinking that it’s affecting me so quickly…
Idk if that made sense I just can’t shut my brain up | 2021-12-13T04:12:26.000Z | rf6t1f | 3 | 2 | ADHD | Adderall Effects | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6t1f/adderall_effects/ |
GenPronouncedJen | I'm in a bit of a pickle at work. It takes me twice or three times as long to get anything done at work as it should. I used to get around this by just working extra time and not adding it to my timesheet. But now I have so much going on in the rest of my life I just don't have time to do that anymore. If I put down the hours that I was actually productive I won't have enough money to eat. But if I keep claiming all of the hours I'm at work I'm costing the project I'm working on (which I believe in), the organisation (which I am loyal to) and eventually someone will notice how unproductive I've been and it might cost me the job. How do you stay productive and focussed at work? I really need help! | 2021-12-13T04:11:47.000Z | rf6sld | 8 | 6 | ADHD | How do you stay focussed at work the whole time you are there? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6sld/how_do_you_stay_focussed_at_work_the_whole_time/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T04:09:22.000Z | rf6qvs | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Does anyone have time management tips? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6qvs/does_anyone_have_time_management_tips/ |
nolakhsa | i have shit that i actually want to do but i cannot stop scrolling through tiktok. i have actual things that i actively want to participate in. video games or art or going for a run. but i cannot move a muscle in my body. it pisses me off so much. i end up going to bed feeling disgusting and miserable but i just can't get up. | 2021-12-13T04:08:29.000Z | rf6q91 | 15 | 109 | ADHD | fuck dopamine chasing days | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6q91/fuck_dopamine_chasing_days/ |
SnoozeTurtle | Every single day is a struggle in some way because of the way my brain works and I am exhausted. I have been medicated and diagnosed for what seems like a long time now. Medication is helpful with the symptoms of ADHD which are most bothersome to the people in my life - I am less impulsive, more focused, and take better care of myself. Medication helps but does not fix everything.
I feel like I can't fully control myself. I don't have the agency to fully follow plans that I make for myself and something always goes wrong. ADHD is in the drivers seat of my life and it is terrifying.
People always talk about how ADHD is a disorder - "you are not your ADHD" - is the line always given.
I am my ADHD.
There is no fundamental being that makes up "me" which is truly separate from my ADHD.
People are often able to separate themselves from their depression or anxiety - paint it as a separate being that damages their lives. An enemy which can be defeated.
ADHD has been there my whole life - it has entangled my entire life in a web of lies about my ability to perform, my ability to be productive, my ability to love and be loved, and my ability to be of value.
People think that when I need to move or I stop listening to them - I don't care. People think that when I stare at my computer for hours trying to get something started on the task I am desperate to get done - I am lazy. People think that when I do things on impulse - I am unreliable. People think that when I make careless mistakes - I am stupid. People think that when I am upset because they have left me out - I am a bother.
All of these things are just as much me as they are my ADHD because I do them. I do things which make people lose trust in me. I am messy and lazy and unproductive.
ADHD is truly a disorder of action and inaction - a disorder of choices.
It is a stolen sense of freedom and agency over my being.
My spontaneity and excitement - comes at the cost of planned tasks and events. My creativity and curiosity - comes at the cost of being structured and reliable.
I am sick of being out of control in my own life. I want to be boring. I want to be able to follow my schedule and not have so many energy spikes and dips and big feelings that ruin it all. I just wanna be in control of how I spend my time.
I feel like I'm losing my fucking life to this shitty disorder that is in the driver seat.
Worst of all is that everything looks fine from the outside, but the house is on fire. | 2021-12-13T04:03:23.000Z | rf6mru | 2 | 12 | ADHD | ADHD is Exasperatingly Difficult and Overwhelming | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6mru/adhd_is_exasperatingly_difficult_and_overwhelming/ |
Faultylogic83 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T03:51:16.000Z | rf6eka | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Increased caffeine consumption on methylphenidate | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf6eka/increased_caffeine_consumption_on_methylphenidate/ |
Individual-Bid6446 | Does anyone else just make random noises out of nowhere, or even as like a response?
My sister and I do, but she makes more like grunty aggressive noises that can be passed off, but I make really high pitched and "cat like" (my dads words, not mine) noises pretty often. And, in my brain they are valid and complete responses and/or sounds to fill space. | 2021-12-13T03:38:24.000Z | rf65vn | 5 | 4 | ADHD | Random noises | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf65vn/random_noises/ |
logodeskrillexenblan |
It's like I can't understand myself, like I'm a puzzle. My normal self feels numb, unable to think. Social awkwardness(sorry if the grammar is incorrect), worthlessness, unrespected...
When I'm on my meds I feel like the world is mine, I'm always motivated to do something, talkative. You see, for some reason I become really eloquent on my meds, and I fucking love it. I'm always learning something new, questioning myself, understanding myself, I analyse my past mistakes, I help people, I listen, I'm fascinated by the world around me, every lesson in class is super enjoyable. People listen to me, they fucking listen to me, I get complimented, I'm loved, finally I'm loved.
But hey, I'm sober now, this is gone, I'm nothing again, until tomorrow, this biological error with conscience will be me. Now I feel like nobody loves me, now I don't enjoy anything other than masturbating and smoking. Life is shit, like always has been, misery is inherent to me and meds are the only things that are able to drag me out, I hate ADHD so much | 2021-12-13T03:37:24.000Z | rf657d | 6 | 6 | ADHD | I hate my normal self | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf657d/i_hate_my_normal_self/ |
rocknroll-tragedy | Alright, so, fun story: unmedicated ADHD in my 3rd year of college.
This semester of school was great, because all three of my classes were interesting! I got two As and one B! I'm so happy about it.
Next semester, however... I'm worried. I have not one, but *two* writing intensive courses (humanities and literature), as well as a boring ass speech class and Calculus 2.
On top of this, I'm going to be living 7+ hours away from my family for the first time and switching between two houses (one on weekdays, one on weekends).
I've no clue how to manage this. I'm scared that I'll fail, which I cannot afford to do, because I need these classes to graduate. Help? | 2021-12-13T03:37:17.000Z | rf654k | 7 | 2 | ADHD | How do I ... school | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf654k/how_do_i_school/ |
JensengTea | This will be a long one - **TLDR: I have an intense fear of growing up. Do you relate? Any advice?**
It's taken me a long time to realize I have a crippling fear of growing up. I got diagnosed with ADHD in my third year of college and, while it helped in some ways, it crushed me in others. I finally had a reason for why I was the way I was... why I had so much trouble with things other people seemed to find easy. But, I also realized that it was also the reason why I was *terrified* of independence. If I can barely live with ADHD as I am, how am I supposed to do it as an independent adult?! I'm 22 now. I live in my parents house with no job. I'm watching all my friends grow up and becoming functional adults. While I crave independence, I'm also too scared to go and get it. Any passions I used to have are slowly fading away. I have existential crises every other day. My ADHD makes doing *anything* difficult. The imposter syndrome is constantly telling me that I'm just a lazy, useless nobody and that will never change.
I know some people will suggest therapy. I probably should try it, but therapy scares me to. It's really difficult to admit that I'm actually just a little kid scared of everything. I'm scared of rejection (from jobs, people, society). I'm scared of change. I'm scared of not reaching my goals. I'm scared of not having any goals. But, most of all, I'm petrified of having to be an adult and having to deal with all of this by myself. | 2021-12-13T03:36:33.000Z | rf64nw | 16 | 18 | ADHD | ADHD and a fear of growing up | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf64nw/adhd_and_a_fear_of_growing_up/ |
Suitable-Emotion365 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T03:27:42.000Z | rf5yfc | 2 | 1 | ADHD | Feeling like everything is my fault | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5yfc/feeling_like_everything_is_my_fault/ |
BjornBoogson | Hey Reddit. I am undiagnosed, but I’ve done my thorough research and am comfortable saying that I have adhd, autism, qbpd, and cptsd. I have a really difficult time finding hobbies and things i can absorb into so im not alone with my mind all the time (which is a death sentence). I usually fixate on something and after about 2 or 3 months im completely done with it and incapable of continuing out of sheer boredom. My question is, what are some hobbies that you guys do that really keeps your attention? It can be as general or niche as you want, I want to hear everything y’all have to recommend. Thank you! | 2021-12-13T03:24:18.000Z | rf5w55 | 0 | 1 | ADHD | Good hobbies for adhders | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5w55/good_hobbies_for_adhders/ |
LeadBeater69 | So I got a 8-4 job from home, it is good because the task are different so I don't get bored. But the problem is that I'm unable to manage myself, waking up is hell, and I constantly get distracted. My performance fluctuates a lot, sometimes being great and others mediocre, and I know this is a red flag, because it means I'm unreliable. Before covid I was doing great because I had my manager cheking on me, but now, I'm suposed to be my own manager. Do you have any tips? | 2021-12-13T03:22:01.000Z | rf5ulu | 13 | 2 | ADHD | Working from home issues | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5ulu/working_from_home_issues/ |
Disastrous_Writer_26 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T03:16:55.000Z | rf5r4i | 1 | 1 | ADHD | ADHD: Survivable without modern comforts? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5r4i/adhd_survivable_without_modern_comforts/ |
east-blue-samurai | [removed] | 2021-12-13T03:14:54.000Z | rf5pp0 | 0 | 1 | ADHD | It can be frustrating always being seen for what you are incapable of and rarely what you have actually accomplished... | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5pp0/it_can_be_frustrating_always_being_seen_for_what/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T03:14:28.000Z | rf5pdh | 20 | 2 | ADHD | Struggling with low intelligence | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5pdh/struggling_with_low_intelligence/ |
charlesliu4 | Should I write it down? I don’t think so. This is a very important task, with pretty severe consequences if I don’t get it done. Not only that, but once I make it a priority, it will take a significant amount of time and effort to accomplish. So with this being said, I don’t think I need to write this down. I’d be extremely surprised if I forgot something this important. So yeah, without a doubt, this is something I’ll remember.
It was indeed something I do not remember. | 2021-12-13T03:14:08.000Z | rf5p4k | 2 | 8 | ADHD | Last night as I was going to bed, I remembered a large task that needs to be done. | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5p4k/last_night_as_i_was_going_to_bed_i_remembered_a/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T03:10:46.000Z | rf5mt3 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | The difference you can expect from changing Adderall to Vyvanse | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5mt3/the_difference_you_can_expect_from_changing/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T03:07:51.000Z | rf5kpm | 1 | 6 | ADHD | Scared I’m Going To Fail Out of College | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5kpm/scared_im_going_to_fail_out_of_college/ |
Aquariumobsessed | Hey there! I’m 24 year old woman with ADHD and am a newbie to the group and thought with how large it is, maybe you guys could help me. I’ve been an android user for a long time but recently switched to Apple because of my personal life. I struggle a lot with executive dysfunction, and the Google play store had a fantastic time management app blocker that really helped me with things like going to bed at a reasonable hour and not being late to work because the executive dysfunction locked me onto my phone. Unfortunately this app is not available for Apple. I’ve downloaded and tried 6 different apps from the Apple Store and none have been what I need. I’ve also tried the focus settings within the screen time settings and those haven’t been what I needed either.
I need an app (free or paid. I don’t mind paying if it means better success in my daily life) where I can create profiles of certain apps being blocked at certain times everyday without having to turn them on every time. With my old app, I could select every individual app, put them into a folder, and say block those apps from 5:45am-6:30am and again from 10:15pm-11:00pm with the morning block happening Monday through Friday and the night block happening Sunday through Thursday. I could also tell the app to give me 5 more minutes so that I could wrap up whatever I was doing. The app then wouldn’t allow the blocked app to open if I tried and if I did, would give me a screen with a customizable message (“go to work!” and “go to sleep!” were the ones I used). But I could easily change the times or which apps were blocked. So what is your favorite App blocker, and why? Can it do what I need? How much was it if it’s a paid for app?
Thanks in advance for your time! | 2021-12-13T03:06:34.000Z | rf5jtp | 12 | 6 | ADHD | Apple App Blocker | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5jtp/apple_app_blocker/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T03:01:31.000Z | rf5g6y | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Scared I’m Going To Fail Out of College | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5g6y/scared_im_going_to_fail_out_of_college/ |
wizking6996 | FIRST OFF any advice or questions help even if it doesn't contain any career path. I really don't get to talk to successful people especially ones who think to the dynamics I do.
It's really hard for me to settle down with one thing, I CONSTANTLY go through phases in which I'll fully submerse myself into a subject or hobby and when I learn enough to settle my curiosity I may get depressingly bored with it, its really hard for me to do the same thing repeatedly everyday for months, or years, right now I'm going through a fighting phase where i want to take kickboxing classes; I've been through the car phase, drug phase, skateboarding phase, cooking, music, construction, fishing, driving, video games, and many more, sometimes I feel hopeless about going back to school or finding a good job, I live in the Appalachia area of the US so there's not a lot of opportunity unless you know how to find it or know somebody, I don't know how to really find it nor do I really know any 'successful' people (person which can make a decent house and or a good car payment and not on gov't assistance while taking care of a family) I just feel and have felt for years I really have to potential to thrive but i cant ever find the opportunity or class I want to pursue. I got a lot of anxiety but it has gotten a lot better over the last year when I found who I am a lot more and other things. | 2021-12-13T03:00:47.000Z | rf5fml | 5 | 1 | ADHD | I have really bad ADHD, in my early twenties, and can't find a career, any advice? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5fml/i_have_really_bad_adhd_in_my_early_twenties_and/ |
throwaway1331441 | Title. I’m a 19 year old college sophomore. For a while now, I’ve been struggling with adhd, anxiety, and depression, and I’ve been thinking about getting a companion animal to help. I grew up with my two beagles at home, and I think I underestimated how much of an impact they had. I also got gerbils early this semester and missed them after I brought them home (I gave them to my brother because another pet of his died). So I think an animal could really help as a companion.
I’ve been thinking about getting a cat as an esa, but I’m aware of the many objections to college students getting cats. Fortunately the costs aren’t an issue for me, and my parents are on board, but I’m aware of the others. I will be moving between home and school (2 hr drive each way), and it would have to live in a dorm for one semester max. Thankfully, there are pet friendly apartments near school. I’m aware a cat is a long term commitment, but honestly I’m looking for more of a long-term companion. What do? | 2021-12-13T02:59:33.000Z | rf5ekt | 5 | 1 | ADHD | Is it a bad idea to get a cat in college? | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5ekt/is_it_a_bad_idea_to_get_a_cat_in_college/ |
SqueekySourpatch | So I’ve been a stay at home parent the majority of five years with a few jobs here or there but they never last because I get bored or overwhelmed. I am looking to go back to work to help out with upcoming things and if all goes well I’d like my partner to eventually stay home instead.
What are your jobs or jobs you’ve enjoyed in the past?
I love to cook and bake but I got bored of packing the same cookies and cupcakes day after day in a bakery. I’ve also been a children’s party host which I loved but unfortunately had to leave because I moved not to mention it was mostly teens working there which was weird for me. I was a lawyer’s assistant for a awhile which I also loved but was layed off.
Also I have combination adhd and I am planning to go to school but even an entry level job would work for while I’m in school. | 2021-12-13T02:59:05.000Z | rf5e94 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Working/finding a job | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5e94/workingfinding_a_job/ |
Fluid-Assignment-952 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:58:43.000Z | rf5e05 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | What should adhd medication do? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5e05/what_should_adhd_medication_do/ |
secret_dinosaur | TW: mention of sh and suicidal thoughts
I (17F) have been in therapy for the past four years. I have been seeing my current psychologist for just over a year. I realised I might have ADHD about 2 years ago now.
I have previously had bad experiences with therapists, which is part of what is making this so difficult for me. I first started therapy through my school after I told a teacher I was experiencing what I thought was depression. The school counsellor made me feel like I was over exaggerating, which reinforced my own invalidation of my feelings. I actually went downhill while still talking to this first counsellor and I started self-harming. I haven’t ever told anyone how bad it got.
I think I am scared that my current therapist will tell me that I’m wrong, or that I don’t have ADHD. I know I shouldn’t want to have a disorder, and I honestly don’t want ADHD. My issue is that I’m pretty sure I do have it, and I want to be getting the right help to be able to manage my symptoms.
Do I try and broach the subject with my current therapist?? I do have the means to see an external GP to get a referral for a psychologist/psychiatrist for diagnosis that way, so should I just do that instead??
The issue there is that I don’t have access to my parent’s medicare card and I’m pretty sure I would have to pay out of pocket for both which is quite expensive. To make it more difficult, this is time-sensitive, as many medications where I live are significantly cheaper with a diagnosis before 18. | 2021-12-13T02:58:22.000Z | rf5dsp | 6 | 3 | ADHD | I’m scared to ask my psychologist about an ADHD diagnosis | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5dsp/im_scared_to_ask_my_psychologist_about_an_adhd/ |
luna1-618 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:57:40.000Z | rf5dbe | 0 | 1 | ADHD | Speedify: chrome extension that lets you change the speed of whatever you're watching online | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5dbe/speedify_chrome_extension_that_lets_you_change/ |
steviamami | hey everyone!
i’m really considering medicating, yet i need some advice. i have struggled with pretty bad anxiety for most of my life, and i’m wondering if taking medication such as adderall/vyvanse would worsen it by a lot, as they are stimulants. even drinking coffee puts me on the verge of a panic attack lol :( would taking anti-anxiety medication counteract those possible side effects? what is your experience?
thanks so much! | 2021-12-13T02:55:28.000Z | rf5btb | 4 | 1 | ADHD | medication and potential anxiety issues? | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5btb/medication_and_potential_anxiety_issues/ |
luna1-618 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:54:53.000Z | rf5bdw | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Sppedify:chrome extension that lets you change the speed of whatever you're watching | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf5bdw/sppedifychrome_extension_that_lets_you_change_the/ |
SquareFairBear | Ever since I’ve gotten a home gym I’ve found it really difficult to maintain accountability with my training. It’s such a repetitive process with slow gains. I also hate eating, so that doesn’t help.
I haven’t got any friends who would come and train with me, so I don’t know I can turn to external accountability.
I usually have 2-3 weeks of consistent training, and then it turns to nothing. I lose my gains, rinse and repeat.
I would love some advice. Thanks! | 2021-12-13T02:43:19.000Z | rf53iq | 2 | 5 | ADHD | Any advice for staying consistent with gym? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf53iq/any_advice_for_staying_consistent_with_gym/ |
Gray_houses | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:41:44.000Z | rf52f3 | 3 | 1 | ADHD | Any good mild stims that you take ? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf52f3/any_good_mild_stims_that_you_take/ |
Gray_houses | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:39:34.000Z | rf50xi | 1 | 1 | ADHD | What are some good mild stimulants that you use ? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf50xi/what_are_some_good_mild_stimulants_that_you_use/ |
SqueekySourpatch | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:37:08.000Z | rf4zal | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Working/getting a job with adhd | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4zal/workinggetting_a_job_with_adhd/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T02:35:52.000Z | rf4ygg | 3 | 1 | ADHD | Vyvanse/Ambien - SEVERE depression | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4ygg/vyvanseambien_severe_depression/ |
Lonesomeghostie | Does anyone else seem to have this issue? I’m going fairly crazy over it and can’t understand what I’m doing wrong.
I seem to just piss off customers at work. My voice can be high pitched, and I struggle to keep it in the Disney princess tone I use for work. I’ve had interactions with customers where they seem to just get upset out of nowhere even if the conversation is totally innocuous. I’ve worked on this for a year, moderating my tone, keeping my voice even, but even just saying “I’m sorry, we’re closed” in a regular tone I use every day with my friends ant family caused a customer to say “fuck you!” At me. Another customer came in and started asking about cancelling her account. I told her yes, but she would have to pay the balance. She got so so angry. I apologized multiple times, and she still threw money ar me and called me a bitch, and that was with my work tone on. My boss and family have overheard both interactions and told me I was perfectly nice but I seem to be the only one I the company to get this kind of customer. I’m starting to develop a stammer and avoid talking to th customers because I literally have no idea what to do or how to fix my tone. Does anyone else here seem to struggle with their tone and how it is perceived? My tone to me and my boss for all these interactions has been fine by clearly to customers it’s offensive and I’ve become almost obsessed with blaming myself because it’s only me getting this. I read that for people with ADHD which I have, we can come across as rude without really trying but I’m interested to know if it seems to be true or your experiences or if you did have this issue, how you overcame it.
Thank you! | 2021-12-13T02:29:58.000Z | rf4u76 | 10 | 1 | ADHD | ADHD and Tone? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4u76/adhd_and_tone/ |
WolfAdorable | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:28:00.000Z | rf4ssw | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Work place burnout | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4ssw/work_place_burnout/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:27:22.000Z | rf4sci | 3 | 0 | ADHD | Should I get tested for ADHD? | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4sci/should_i_get_tested_for_adhd/ |
alovelystar | Hello...
Recently diagnosed. Recently given meds.
My doc has started me on 10mg of Adderal twice a day.
I've noticed, from the first time taking it, that it makes me feel.....low.
I just feel depressed. Almost literally: in a physically lower position, having been pushed or forced down. My mood feels forced down.
I decided to not take the second dose one day, and after coming back to normal I felt better. I honestly think it's the Adderall doing this and not the 'come down.' I feel like this when it's *active* in my system.
Has anyone else responded this way? I have done a lot of googling, and there's no mention of a side effect being 'mood flattening.' I just feel...morose, or nothing. When strangers talk to me, I don't respond. I just stare at them and walk away. This has happened three times. Usually, I'm super chatty and affable. On Adderall, I'm just like "........................meh...."
I don't smile when I enter a room. I don't like small talk (I mean, I've never *liked* small talk, but I can't fake it on Adderall.)
One idea I have is it is forcing me to more focused, one thought a time, and the truth is I'm pretty bummed out and in pain. When I'm hyper and my brain is going full speed, I feel creative and am able to cheer myself up.
Thoughts? | 2021-12-13T02:19:38.000Z | rf4mzf | 4 | 2 | ADHD | Adderall + Depression | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4mzf/adderall_depression/ |
CricketsAreGolden | I either don't go to bed, or can't fall a asleep because my mind races. Makes everything worse. Seems like a self-reinforcing loop, the less I sleep, the less I regulate myself. It's always been a huge problem for me, and I could never explain to people how I felt like I couldn't control it. But at the same time felt like I should be able to control it, so I'm just a slob.
The advice is always "you need a set a rule, set an alarm and go to bed and no phone, non-negotiable". Always annoyed me, why don't I do it if it's so simple? Why haven't I gotten out of it after all these years? And I perpetually hate myself for not "just doing it" and making my life even harder. Writing this at 3am and I have work tomorrow. Yesterday I went to bed at 6 in the morning. I'm an adult man with a job and I procrastinate my basic human needs. I once again tell myself I'll go to bed at 11 tomorrow because I'm upset with myself now, but I'll forget it tomorrow until it's too late. I'm on a wait list to get checked for adhd. So sick of not "just doing things" to the point of giving myself more health issues. | 2021-12-13T02:16:27.000Z | rf4ksk | 2 | 4 | ADHD | This month I've slept on average 4h a night | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4ksk/this_month_ive_slept_on_average_4h_a_night/ |
matthew-godwinnn | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:16:21.000Z | rf4kqj | 1 | 1 | ADHD | what’s a funny private story name to do with adhd ? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4kqj/whats_a_funny_private_story_name_to_do_with_adhd/ |
SomeSonance | A while ago, I researched ADHD symptoms and realized that all of my struggles that I've had unnamed and unexplained in my life could have a reason and that I wasn't alone in my struggles. I went to get diagnosed but I wasn't diagnosed because I'm quote unquote a "gifted child" and am too smart to have ADHD.
I've been wanting a second opinion for awhile and decided to talk to my parents tonight about getting a second opinion and explaining why I think I have ADHD. I made a little presentation because I wanted to organize my thoughts and I get emotional very easily. I managed to make it through, and then my mom starts placing doubt saying that since she thought she had ADHD but meds didn't work and she's a special Ed teacher who's worked with people with ADHD then I don't have it, and my dad thinks I'm just self diagnosing too hard. I tried to explain my issues, but they just said I just have a "creative mind".
I'm so upset. I'm tired of being seen as a creative little kid who's mind just wanders a bit sometimes. I'm an 18 year old woman who is exhausted from trying to deal with these things alone for years and just wants some validation that I'm not just lazy or insane. I wish they'd just trust me because I know myself better than they do. | 2021-12-13T02:15:21.000Z | rf4k1n | 5 | 4 | ADHD | My parents don't believe I have ADHD | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4k1n/my_parents_dont_believe_i_have_adhd/ |
StrangerIsDead | I played my friends piano like four weeks ago and ever since I’ve been constantly thinking about touching those keys again! I can’t just buy a piano, because GOD knows how much those cost. It being the Christmas season doesn’t help at all either, with tons piano pieces I end up itching to play. And all the video game/movie soundtracks (mostly Minecraft)? I’m getting off track. It’s whatever, I’m sure this will fizzle out eventually. | 2021-12-13T02:09:37.000Z | rf4fzo | 6 | 1 | ADHD | PIANO. (an obsession i can’t fulfill) | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4fzo/piano_an_obsession_i_cant_fulfill/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T02:03:16.000Z | rf4bdu | 1 | 1 | ADHD | PIANO. (an obsession i can’t fulfill) | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4bdu/piano_an_obsession_i_cant_fulfill/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:57:49.000Z | rf4755 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Psychiatrists in my Country refuse to acknowledge ADHD as a diagnosis and banning stimulant medication from neighbouring countries, treating it on the same level as street amphetamines | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf4755/psychiatrists_in_my_country_refuse_to_acknowledge/ |
lovebunny25698 | I came to the realisation yesterday that I’ve always allowed toxic behaviours in relationships to continue and I overlook it because I can’t figure out the reasons fuelling the behaviour so I ignore it.
I recently got out of a 4 year relationship because my ex was unbelievably selfish and I couldn’t handle it anymore. I cut off my two sisters last year because they were extremely abusive and toxic towards me. Reading that you’d think I had no issue cutting off toxic people but the thing is like a lot of people with ADHD I think in a black&white way so I do what makes the most sense. So if they’re connected to why I’m always sad and no matter how much I communicate my feelings to them they don’t stop, then the most logical sense is to cut them off, no?
The thing is I allowed both situations to go on longer than it should have as they always had excuses for their behaviour, they’d gaslight me, manipulate me and twist the narrative and weaponise my ADHD against me by describing the dynamic in the relationships as “this is normal, everyone’s like this” and they were all aware that my ADHD causes me to view certain social behaviour differently to a neurotypical so I’d naturally believe my perspective was ‘wrong’.
But the thing is even now while typing this I still can’t understand the reasons behind their behaviour? I would always communicate how they wanted me to by being clear and direct and they would say that they understood and would sometimes even cry but then repeat the same behaviour? I don’t understand.
Any time they told me something I did or was doing upset them I’d change it instantly because it doesn’t make sense to upset someone you care about after they’ve already told you the issue.
I feel like it’s difficult to trust my own judgement right now as I’ve realised I’ve been in so many situations where people have treated me badly but by the time I realise, the damage has been done. It’s like a never ending cycle of manipulation and gaslighting and my ADHD causes me to either forget or makes it difficult to interpret the situation properly. | 2021-12-13T01:57:24.000Z | rf46tm | 5 | 5 | ADHD | My ADHD makes interpreting toxic behaviours difficult | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf46tm/my_adhd_makes_interpreting_toxic_behaviours/ |
No_Replacement_6937 | How do you usually deal with breakups?
My relationship ended 2 weeks ago and sometimes the pain is so much that it becomes unbearable
There is something to help with the rumination? I've tried a lot of things, but none worked
And there is a way to calm down when this torments you so much that you just want it to end? | 2021-12-13T01:46:08.000Z | rf3yz6 | 3 | 5 | ADHD | Dealing with breakups | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3yz6/dealing_with_breakups/ |
littleredrob | Weird behavuors
Every time I try watching tv I struggle to pay attention bc I feel an intense urge to eat tons of food very very fast and shovel it down my throat like a pig- trying to get all the flavors and I eat like I was starved for 6000 years. I also obsess over my phone and get very addicted to the internet and stuff too
Why can’t I just sit still and watch a tv show
I always need to be pulled in and it’s very unhealthy even w friends I need like exciting convos
Maybe feel better bc rn it’s like a gut feeling of I guess emptiness but I internally need something and want to scream idk if I want something . I want to be calm but can’t | 2021-12-13T01:45:17.000Z | rf3yed | 3 | 15 | ADHD | I hate that I can’t just watch a tv show ugh | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3yed/i_hate_that_i_cant_just_watch_a_tv_show_ugh/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T01:43:28.000Z | rf3x5j | 2 | 2 | ADHD | The need for personal adhd coaching, accountability and Artificial Intelligence - Read/Discuss. Go! | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3x5j/the_need_for_personal_adhd_coaching/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T01:41:55.000Z | rf3w4e | 3 | 0 | ADHD | Uh oh. Undiagnosed and having no reaction to Adderall | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3w4e/uh_oh_undiagnosed_and_having_no_reaction_to/ |
LegendaryChink | Or someone to crack the whip, so to speak. I've only been medicated for a few months, and have been seeing my therapist, but I'm still frustrated at my mucked-up moments. I'm really starting to think that it would be beneficial in more than one way for me to have a partner who knows what they're doing. They could remind me of tasks that I need to do and help prioritize them, clearly and explicitly explain multi-stepped concepts and problems, or even simply motivate me to get off my ass.
Of course, I'll be pulling my own weight in a relationship, too. I don't want to lean on them like a crutch. But still, I can't help but feel like I'm the one in the wrong here for wishing a partner like that. People have been telling me I need to be my best self in a relationship, or at least try to become a better person. Yet how do they expect people like us to be like that without someone to bring out our potential? Just my two cents. | 2021-12-13T01:41:18.000Z | rf3vpm | 30 | 23 | ADHD | Is it selfish to want an organized and capable partner? | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3vpm/is_it_selfish_to_want_an_organized_and_capable/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T01:40:22.000Z | rf3v25 | 7 | 2 | ADHD | Differing between 'normal' behaviour and inattentive adhd behaviour | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3v25/differing_between_normal_behaviour_and/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T01:39:54.000Z | rf3upu | 3 | 2 | ADHD | I'm about to go try college again | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3upu/im_about_to_go_try_college_again/ |
MeringueWhich9353 | I am 24 and diagnosed about 6 months ago. I am just recently realizeing how bad my ADHD really is, and always thought my symptoms were due to depression or just my personality. I also have bipolar disorder,and for that reason am not able to be prescribed any medication for ADHD because there is a high likelihood of mania. I am looking for ways to naturally be able to regulate my dopamine, and gain at least some of the focus that meds like Adderall give. At least enough to be functional and be able to accomplish reasonable goals. Any advice or tips that have worked for you? | 2021-12-13T01:38:00.000Z | rf3tet | 3 | 1 | ADHD | Recently diagnosed, need advice | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3tet/recently_diagnosed_need_advice/ |
Fit_General41 | I’ve been taking ADHD medication for a while. Ever since I was diagnosed with it. It truly does help my ADHD and make me more productive. I’m getting tired of needing it and relying on it to make me productive or to just stay on basic tasks. I’m tired of not ever being hungry And my brain being so tired after work that I don’t want to do anything else after work and never have the drive to do anything or exercise.
Any advice on how to just deal with my ADHD and be productive without taking medication? It’s hard after taking it so long but I just don’t want to deal with it and having to rely on it to be productive at work. Has anyone ever felt like this and tried to deal with ADHD on their own without medication? | 2021-12-13T01:37:41.000Z | rf3t7m | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Advice on ADHD | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3t7m/advice_on_adhd/ |
stockishot | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:36:31.000Z | rf3sdu | 0 | 1 | ADHD | Stuck on a Rollercoaster | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3sdu/stuck_on_a_rollercoaster/ |
AffableAgnostic | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:35:18.000Z | rf3rj0 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | University health plan ‘insulting,’ says student with ADHD | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3rj0/university_health_plan_insulting_says_student/ |
OzAnonn | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:32:44.000Z | rf3pna | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Guanfacine dose titration | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3pna/guanfacine_dose_titration/ |
tacos4eva |
Getting a therapist in 2022. Assuming they won’t necessarily be experienced in how to best help adults diagnosed with ADHD to identify and work through their trauma. I want to go in prepared. I had a therapist for 3 years who weekly heard me describe clear indicators of ADHD. I like them and don’t feel any resentment, but I want to be prepared when I get a new therapist. Thanks y’all, hope everyone experiences a peaceful Sunday evening | 2021-12-13T01:31:10.000Z | rf3oie | 1 | 2 | ADHD | ISO Resource: “so you’re adult diagnosed. This is how trauma frequently presents, here are strategies to identify, unpack and move forward through your own” | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3oie/iso_resource_so_youre_adult_diagnosed_this_is_how/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:28:31.000Z | rf3ml1 | 2 | 1 | ADHD | How do you feel about motion-activated lights? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3ml1/how_do_you_feel_about_motionactivated_lights/ |
emross0 | i don't think i've ever gotten started on an assignment more than a week ahead. this big one is due in three months but i got started a bit!
i also studied for a test, i think i might not have to rely on cheating with this one even if it's a tough one
i also finished a speech for tomorrow just now, though i thought i was gonna wing it
and finally i got started on some more assignments due next week.
it's not much, it's just that i don't usually do any of this :) | 2021-12-13T01:27:30.000Z | rf3lwo | 2 | 8 | ADHD | it doesn't matter but i finished my speech assignment! and got started on some others! | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3lwo/it_doesnt_matter_but_i_finished_my_speech/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:24:22.000Z | rf3jrp | 1 | 1 | ADHD | How do you feel about motion-activated lights? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3jrp/how_do_you_feel_about_motionactivated_lights/ |
livinlikemarge | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:23:49.000Z | rf3jds | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Graveyard shift and meds | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3jds/graveyard_shift_and_meds/ |
Trippinaphant | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:23:15.000Z | rf3iyz | 2 | 1 | ADHD | How to find the right medication? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3iyz/how_to_find_the_right_medication/ |
fakewomans | i was supposed to do an essay today but i have not started on it and ive been working since 9:00am its 8:19 pm now, i wasted 11 whole hours just scrolling on reddit and i feel really awful and embarrassed. i really need to get this done before 11:00pm but i just can not seem to start it. do you guys have any tips on how to grind this? | 2021-12-13T01:21:13.000Z | rf3hj0 | 4 | 3 | ADHD | very embarrassed and upset with myself | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3hj0/very_embarrassed_and_upset_with_myself/ |
Not_enough_pancakes | Like whenever I'm just doing my own thing and someone turns on the light or opens a window, I feel like I just got punched in the face. Or whenever I turn on a screen that isn't at the lowest brightness level, I just fucking die.
This has actually led me to serious medical problems like my eyes hurting all the time or literal depression and other things caused for lack of vitamin D. | 2021-12-13T01:15:16.000Z | rf3d7p | 41 | 44 | ADHD | Is it common and how do y'all cope with being painfully hypersensitive to light? | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3d7p/is_it_common_and_how_do_yall_cope_with_being/ |
secretlookincount | Of course this obvious, but if I just had a little bit more dopamine going through my brain while I did homework I feel like it’d take me so much less time to complete and it’d be so much easier to actually make myself do. I’m failing almost all of my classes not because I’m stupid but rather that I just CANNOT make myself do homework. Do you guys have any tips on keeping the adhd monster in my brain at least partially content while I do my work???? | 2021-12-13T01:13:10.000Z | rf3bnp | 9 | 7 | ADHD | How can I feel stimulated while doing boring homework? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3bnp/how_can_i_feel_stimulated_while_doing_boring/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:12:28.000Z | rf3b5q | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Is anyone else painfully hypersensitive to light? And how do you cope with it? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3b5q/is_anyone_else_painfully_hypersensitive_to_light/ |
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beware_the_sluagh | I've read every ADHD tip. But having to trick myself into doing my housework, my job, my hobbies is wearing me down and doesn't even work most of the time anyway.
I just don't know how long I can keep going when its so mentally painful to get anything done. Even the everyday stuff. Let alone being able to achieve something I want. I'm also extremely bored to the point that I think I might actually go mad. I'm nearly 40 and the idea of doing this for another 40 years feels like torture.
I've brought up the idea of ADHD with some people a few times in my life, first when I was about 11. They all said that I don't have enough problems to have it. I don't think I explained myself well though, but don't know if I have the courage to try again and the ability to make a good point about what I'm experiencing. Its so vague. I think its unlikely I would ever be able to get diagnosed with ADHD anyway as there are no adult ADHD specialists where I am. So I don't think I would be able to get medication. (That's assuming they even diagnosed me anyway.)
What I'm wondering is if there is truly any way to make everything easier, without medication. Or should I just quit my job, sell all the shit I bought for my hobbies, and watch TV until I die? | 2021-12-13T01:09:33.000Z | rf392x | 3 | 2 | ADHD | Does it get easier? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf392x/does_it_get_easier/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:07:27.000Z | rf37k0 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | ISO Resource “So you’re adult diagnosed; this is how trauma frequently presents, here are strategies to unpack it” does this exist? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf37k0/iso_resource_so_youre_adult_diagnosed_this_is_how/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:05:01.000Z | rf35sw | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Is anyone else painfully hypersensitive to light? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf35sw/is_anyone_else_painfully_hypersensitive_to_light/ |
[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T01:02:59.000Z | rf34b5 | 0 | 1 | ADHD | The monthly dance over meds with my doctor is killing me | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf34b5/the_monthly_dance_over_meds_with_my_doctor_is/ |
UtterUndertaker | I currently have 3 essays at least a month overdue. Idk what to do, I now dread writing them. If I don't turn them in, they're gonna kick me out of the uni. Should I just let that happen? I'm unable to make myself write any at this point. I also have loads of other homework piled up. But I spend the day scrolling here instead. Idk what to do and feel like shite cause my other ADHD classmates are managing to get by somehow. Is there even anything that might redeem me at this point? | 2021-12-13T01:02:48.000Z | rf3461 | 4 | 2 | ADHD | How did you deal with essay writing? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf3461/how_did_you_deal_with_essay_writing/ |
SilentEffective5062 | Hey guys, soo I was diagnosed with adhd last week after quite a live of struggling.
The problems really began at age 14, simultaneously I stopped doing sports.
So my doctor told me the most important thing right now is that I do every single day sport.
For the last 5 days I made sport for about 30 minutes every day and I felt a bit more concentrated not massive but a bit.
My question do some of you guys got the same tip and did it help?
I'm starting my medication soon aswell | 2021-12-13T01:01:31.000Z | rf338k | 2 | 1 | ADHD | Doing sport as therapy | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf338k/doing_sport_as_therapy/ |
slitenmeis | Especially when you're severely under stimulated?
I'd describe it as being painful almost. It makes me feel desperate. I often end up compulsively engaging with a bad coping mechanism.
I'm trying to make the people I'm close to understand why I can get so upset when I'm bored. It is so difficult to make them understand since "painful" is too vague.
How would you describe it? How do you experience being bored and restless? Analogies are welcome! | 2021-12-13T00:59:54.000Z | rf31ss | 12 | 38 | ADHD | How does restlessness and boredom feel to you? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf31ss/how_does_restlessness_and_boredom_feel_to_you/ |
Ruinyou3 | I have this vision of who I’m supposed to be. What I’m supposed to do.
But for some reason I have this force or whatever stopping me from literally moving towards it.
Like someone is saying “here’s gold and you can definitely have it but you only if you get out of this invesible box that you are in which takes away your strength and ability to do anything. Good luck!” | 2021-12-13T00:58:20.000Z | rf30pm | 62 | 383 | ADHD | Do you feel like something is stopping you? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf30pm/do_you_feel_like_something_is_stopping_you/ |
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[deleted] | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:57:02.000Z | rf2zsc | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Doing sport as therapy | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2zsc/doing_sport_as_therapy/ |
chrindle | Because I see a lot of similarities in them. Someone with ADHD can almost be in a hypomanic state while hyperfixating on something. While also crashing right when that activity is over for whatever reason. They also have all of the same regulation/ups and downs as someone with bipolar because of fixations and regulation issues. The only thing would be that moods usually last full days with bipolar while ADHD I assume for most people including me is way more erratic, so for the example I'm using rapid cycling bipolar 2 to match the time-frames as best I can.
They both also have attention issues | 2021-12-13T00:54:06.000Z | rf2xsu | 2 | 7 | ADHD | What is the medical difference between emotional regulation issues found in ADHD (agitation, anger, sadness, anxiety, possibly over happiness when hyperfixating?) And rapid cycling bipolar 2? What are the telltale signs of one over the other? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2xsu/what_is_the_medical_difference_between_emotional/ |
DrewMac380 | It does not matter what it is, I am always late. If I do somehow make it on time it's usually right on the dot and I most likely was rushing/worried I wouldn't make it on time.
I arrive to work 5-10 mins late, hanging out with friends, getting ready for events, etc. I am so slow at getting ready. There's no dull moment when it comes to "will I arrive on time today". My friends all joke that they expect me to show up late no matter the occasion. I want to change this bad habit of mine!
What strategies have you used to go from being late always to on time/early (The kind of on time and early where you aren't stressing if you'll make it on time)? | 2021-12-13T00:53:53.000Z | rf2xmi | 66 | 146 | ADHD | I Am Late To Everything | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2xmi/i_am_late_to_everything/ |
remifi | I'm not in my home town so my doc sends my prescription to a pharmacy where I'm at. Her systems were down and she said she call me back the next day. I had to call after days of not hearing back from her. The receptionist people told me they would get her to send the prescription. She did and my pharmacy called me days later saying they don't buy the meds?!
Wtf why didn't my doctor verify that they don't carry it? Im trying to study but it's so difficult and I have my final in 2 days. I need my medication ugh
It's so annoying, you truly realize how terrible your adhd is once you go off meds. And this is literally the WORST time for this shit to happen. It also doesn't help that my menstrual cycle is right around the corner, which makes my adhd 10× worse. Fml
sorry had to get this off my chest. | 2021-12-13T00:52:14.000Z | rf2wje | 4 | 4 | ADHD | My doctor didn't verify my pharmacy didn't have my prescription, so now I suffer and might fail my class and stay a whole nother SEMESTER to graduate for one class. | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2wje/my_doctor_didnt_verify_my_pharmacy_didnt_have_my/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T00:52:02.000Z | rf2wes | 1 | 1 | ADHD | I guess the one thing that eases my stress with ADD, is that there is always tomorrow | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2wes/i_guess_the_one_thing_that_eases_my_stress_with/ |
DisgruntledFlamingo | What gives you that serotonin boost? Looking for ideas for something to look forward to. I don’t find much joy in my life at the moment and would love to hear what makes you happy :).
For context, here’s what I’ve tried but have quit due to discontinued interest:
- creative writing
- karate
- running
- calligraphy
- cartooning
- learning Spanish (through DuoLingo)
- dance
- aerobics
- horseback riding
- violin
- swimming
- gardening
Thanks so much for your feedback. Would be awesome to also know how long you’ve been doing this, how frequently you do it and what you like about it. | 2021-12-13T00:51:56.000Z | rf2wbw | 868 | 762 | ADHD | What hobby has kept your interest over time? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2wbw/what_hobby_has_kept_your_interest_over_time/ |
Glittering_Comfortt | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:51:06.000Z | rf2vqq | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Capitalism is ruining my chances of getting better | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2vqq/capitalism_is_ruining_my_chances_of_getting_better/ |
YourMawPuntsCooncil | Hey guys does anybody else get that really annoying thing where they hyperfixate on someone for like a solid two months like can’t stop talking about them, thinking about them and putting effort into them, then all of a sudden one day you wake up and you’re bored of them, like really cannot be bothered and no longer want a relationship with them.
This has happened to me almost everytime i’ve had a relationship (except one but that was psychological pretty abusive) and i really hate that feeling that i’ll never get to find the one because i become bored of everyone i try to date.
Any advice or people just relating or telling me i’m overreacting would help massively, also good to note i’m completely unmedicated and untreated. Thank god for the NHS’ mental health services am i right? | 2021-12-13T00:48:28.000Z | rf2tz4 | 7 | 12 | ADHD | ADHD and hyperfixation ruining relationships | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2tz4/adhd_and_hyperfixation_ruining_relationships/ |
Weary-Act-3639 | i was on 18mg of concerta for a while, and after figuring out it was doing absolutely nothing (no positive or negative symptoms), my psychiatrist upped me to 27mg. I took the first one today, and it felt. Very Bad! I also have anxiety and take clonidine, and it felt like it completely zapped the clonidine from my system. Dizzy, body feeling heavy, even worse concentration and memory, tight chest, and anxiety symptoms everywhere. It’s kinda coming down now, which feels at least a little less tight, but still not great, and a little shaky. I don’t want to take it again tomorrow, lol, I have finals, and I’d rather deal with adhd than whatever the concerta did to me today. has anyone else had this experience when increasing your dose and did it go away with time/make you realize maybe it was too much? | 2021-12-13T00:47:08.000Z | rf2t4c | 5 | 6 | ADHD | higher dose of concerta actually felt like something, but that something was Bad | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2t4c/higher_dose_of_concerta_actually_felt_like/ |
foox69 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:43:32.000Z | rf2qnw | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Getting my dopamine | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2qnw/getting_my_dopamine/ |
chrindle | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:40:55.000Z | rf2ozm | 1 | 1 | ADHD | ADHD emotional regulation issues or rapid cycling bipolar 2? Does anyone have examples or knowledge on how one could begin to tell the difference between the two? Thanks! | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2ozm/adhd_emotional_regulation_issues_or_rapid_cycling/ |
arabsteve | Hey, this is my first question here- what's your experience/understanding of ADHD and daily chores? I've been medicated for a few months and recently added 20mg SR Rubifen on top of my 2 IR Rubifen tablets I take. Since then I've been consistently doing stuff like vacuuming, cleaning the dishes, laundry, cleaning my car, closet- self care routines, able to shop for groceries and fill my car with oli etc. I've always suffered with what people used to call no motivation or interest in life and I'm wondering if this is the meds at work and what would happen when going off meds- such as for a weekend for example.
PS- meds do help with my study but the day to day stuff is what I'm most happy about and some people have suggested to not take meds in university holidays and don't seem to believe me when I say that I can't do the "normal" stuff without them and this is making me think maybe it's a placebo- it doesn't help when your dad is doctor who doesn't think my adhd is real. | 2021-12-13T00:40:31.000Z | rf2oqz | 2 | 4 | ADHD | ADHD and chores. | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2oqz/adhd_and_chores/ |
DisgruntledFlamingo | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:37:30.000Z | rf2moq | 1 | 1 | ADHD | What hobby has kept your interest over time? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2moq/what_hobby_has_kept_your_interest_over_time/ |
foox69 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:35:00.000Z | rf2l0o | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Getting Dopamine | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2l0o/getting_dopamine/ |
invadergir09 | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:28:23.000Z | rf2gem | 1 | 1 | ADHD | Anyone else know how to gather your thoughts and make them into words and speak those words rather saying 1 word every 30 seconds? | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2gem/anyone_else_know_how_to_gather_your_thoughts_and/ |
shahchachacha | [removed] | 2021-12-13T00:24:26.000Z | rf2dt8 | 1 | 1 | ADHD | If You Have a Headache, Take a Tylenol | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2dt8/if_you_have_a_headache_take_a_tylenol/ |
apricotlion | I hear about people falling asleep at a party or during a movie, is this possible for people with ADHD? I have never accidentally fallen asleep, without exception I "go to sleep", which is very deliberate and requires lying in the perfect sleep conditions for about an hour. If there's anything happening in my environment I find it impossible to tune it out. | 2021-12-13T00:21:52.000Z | rf2c0w | 10 | 7 | ADHD | Have you ever fallen asleep accidentally? | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2c0w/have_you_ever_fallen_asleep_accidentally/ |
[deleted] | [deleted] | 2021-12-13T00:20:08.000Z | rf2asc | 1 | 2 | ADHD | Bad experience with cerebral, looking for recommendations for other similar services | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD/comments/rf2asc/bad_experience_with_cerebral_looking_for/ |
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